Speaker 1: Let's talk to Chris.
Speaker 2: Hello is this mister?
Speaker 1: Yeah? What's going on? Chris?
Speaker 3: Not much this uff.
Speaker 4: I called in because I recently reported my local vape
Speaker 4: shop for selling weed products and I'm not allowed to
Speaker 4: do that in Florida, and uh I feel guilty about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, So why did you report this shop for selling weed?
Speaker 4: I just so there's this thing called crime stoppers and
Speaker 4: they like offer a cash reward, you know, for that
Speaker 4: kind of thing. And yeah, and it was just it
Speaker 4: was like a really like like of the whim moment
Speaker 4: kind of decision, okay, and was just hasn't left my consciousness.
Speaker 4: It didn't say like that there is a range.
Speaker 3: I don't remember.
Speaker 4: It was like fifty tore like like a few grands.
Speaker 4: It just depends on like the arrestmate and all that
Speaker 4: and like the charges.
Speaker 1: Okay, So all right, so you reported the vape shop
Speaker 1: for song weed and you say that it is weighing
Speaker 1: on your conscious. Yes, okay, tell me tell me about
Speaker 1: the way in which it is weighing on your conscious
Speaker 1: Would have been your thoughts about this?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 4: It I just you know, because like eventually I want
Speaker 4: to own a vape shop, and I would just feel
Speaker 4: bad if someone did that to me, Okay, And so
Speaker 4: it's weighing on me like that, Like I feel bad
Speaker 4: if they were you know, down the line Krmer got
Speaker 4: me and I don't know. And these people they team
Speaker 4: like nice people. Every time I go in there, they're
Speaker 4: nice and everything and and and like I still go
Speaker 4: in there because they have like the cheapest prices in town.
Speaker 4: So like every time I go in there, I'm just
Speaker 4: like damn, Like you know, I'd never reported you guys.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. I mean, like like, let's go deeper into
Speaker 1: why you feel like you did it. Okay. So so
Speaker 1: you said it was a spur of the moment decision. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: walk walk walk me through it here. What what were
Speaker 1: the emotions, what were the thoughts at the time, What
Speaker 1: were the feelings at the time.
Speaker 4: My family is kind of like financially tight, and I
Speaker 4: just I as a person, I mentally go through these
Speaker 4: periods of like, oh, I need to start a business
Speaker 4: and I need to make this money or I need
Speaker 4: to go do this, and you know, I need to
Speaker 4: get money this way, and and I don't I know,
Speaker 4: I knew that they sell these these products there. I
Speaker 4: see him in the shelf. I mean, they don't try
Speaker 4: and hide it or anything. They're sitting right there, you know,
Speaker 4: on the glass counter. And I was like, well, you know,
Speaker 4: this is an actual crime and this, this wouldn't be
Speaker 4: illegal for me to do. This isn't like I'm stealing
Speaker 4: anyone's property. You know, I'm reporting a crime. And I
Speaker 4: think just in the moment, it was like, yeah, you know,
Speaker 4: I'm I'll you know, i'll be greedy, you know, report
Speaker 4: them for the money. And but since then, I just
Speaker 4: I just I just been thinking about it, like daily.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, so I know you've been thinking about it,
Speaker 1: but I really want to focus on the on the
Speaker 1: on the why. So you're telling me that it was
Speaker 1: uh are you saying that there was a motive, It
Speaker 1: was a decision motivated purely by the cash reward.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, okay, not.
Speaker 1: Out of any sense of justice or maybe you were
Speaker 1: bored or anything like that. No, No, okay, did you
Speaker 1: get the cash reward?
Speaker 4: Uh no, No, I haven't got a cash reward. I
Speaker 4: haven't got I haven't received any update. It's been probably
Speaker 4: about two weeks since I reported them.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. It says here that you
Speaker 1: tipped them off anonymously. Yes, how would you get a
Speaker 1: reward if you tipped them off anonymously?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: That that that's kind of my question. And I read
Speaker 4: on the website and from from from from what I received,
Speaker 4: they'll like they'll get back to me because I have
Speaker 4: like a little case number I D on their crime
Speaker 4: Stoppers website, and they'll message me through there and then
Speaker 4: they'll like have a check to pilot at a bank
Speaker 4: somewhere and I'll be the only ones with the numbers
Speaker 4: to get the check or whatever like that.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So what were you planning on doing with
Speaker 1: the money? Would you have gotten the reward?
Speaker 4: Uh, well, we don't have a car for our family. Actually,
Speaker 4: the only car that we had left broke down after
Speaker 4: the reward, and I myself don't have a car. I'm
Speaker 4: you know, I'm borrowing my dad's try uck. So I
Speaker 4: would have put that. I would have put that towards
Speaker 4: paying off the rest of the car that just broke down.
Speaker 4: But now that they broke down, I'm just going to
Speaker 4: put it towards getting into a different vehicle. I mean,
Speaker 4: if I even get it. But I mean I could
Speaker 4: just get fifty dollars, So I mean damn, you know
Speaker 4: if I get fifty dollars, it's like, well, I mean,
Speaker 4: you know, I don't.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's just I just feel bad either way.
Speaker 1: Okay, So do you feel like there is anything that
Speaker 1: you could do moving forward to rectify the situation and
Speaker 1: clear your conscious?
Speaker 4: Not not that I can think of, really, you know,
Speaker 4: because I've already made the tip. You know, it's already,
Speaker 4: it's ready in their database.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 4: I don't know. I can't go in and just say
Speaker 4: oopsie daisies.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, so yes, I mean that is true. You
Speaker 1: did make the tip, it is in their database, and
Speaker 1: you know you cannot undo that. But cosmically, moving forward,
Speaker 1: as you navigate through the universe, what do you think
Speaker 1: you could do? You know, knowing you cannot change the past,
Speaker 1: but that the future is a big ball of mouldible clay,
Speaker 1: what do you feel like you could do?
Speaker 4: I could definitely not make decisions like that without fully
Speaker 4: taking them through, especially not make decisions based off of greed,
Speaker 4: because I feel like that's what I feel most guilty
Speaker 4: about is it was a very self is decision, like
Speaker 4: based off of I mean, the decision solely off of
Speaker 4: the cash reward, you know, but like you know, you
Speaker 4: asked if I did it based off of justice, I
Speaker 4: feel I wouldn't. Fee is bad. But I guess because
Speaker 4: I did it just because of the cash reward is
Speaker 4: why I feel mm hmm. That's why I wait for
Speaker 4: heavy on me.
Speaker 1: Is this a pattern? Have you done things that you
Speaker 1: believe our greedy in the past? Uh?
Speaker 4: No, No, not not really. I'm generally, you know, very giving.
Speaker 4: This is this is a very an out of character thing. Yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't know, it is. It's a very very strange mhm.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm still thinking about the future. I'm
Speaker 1: still thinking about Okay, you're telling me what you cannot do.
Speaker 1: You're telling me, Okay, I've learned a lesson. I'm going
Speaker 1: to think a little bit more about the intentions behind
Speaker 1: my actions, and then I think those are good things
Speaker 1: to do, and then those are good things to do. Okay.
Speaker 1: So I mean, overall, would you say that you learned
Speaker 1: something from this experience that will positively dictate your actions
Speaker 1: moving forward?
Speaker 4: I think so. I don't think I I learned something,
Speaker 4: but I think I think what I already knew was
Speaker 4: this kind of cemented even even further, you know, like
Speaker 4: just don't don't make decisions based off of personal gain,
Speaker 4: you know, because I've always known that, I wouldn't say
Speaker 4: I've necessarily learned it. But now I feel like every
Speaker 4: time I make a decision, that's gonna pop in my
Speaker 4: head like why am I making this?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 4: And my kind of my kind of deal mm hmmmm.
Speaker 1: So you want to open up your own.
Speaker 4: Vabe shop, right, yeah, eventually?
Speaker 1: Are you gonna sell weed out of it?
Speaker 4: If it's legal? I'm I'm not. I'm not gonna I'm
Speaker 4: not gonna to break the law or anything like that
Speaker 4: like that, Like you know, you can sell like the
Speaker 4: Delta eight products and the the A J C or
Speaker 4: whatever here, but but yeah, but I'm not gonna plan
Speaker 4: on breaking the law.
Speaker 1: Are you sure that that weed that that vape shop
Speaker 1: wasn't selling Delta eight?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm positive there was a sticker. There is an
Speaker 4: edible and and you can you can clearly tell, like
Speaker 4: there's a sticker that has some like I think it
Speaker 4: was th O or a JAC one of the like
Speaker 4: one of the legal ones, but it was over the
Speaker 4: California symbol for like actual weed. And then like they're
Speaker 4: vage products they sell, they say like Delta nine on them,
Speaker 4: like the eighty three percent Delton nine or whatever, and
Speaker 4: they can't have over point zero three.
Speaker 1: Well, well, listen, Chris, you know, look, you cannot undo
Speaker 1: your tip. Well, you cannot change the past. But it
Speaker 1: sounds as though, uh, after reflecting on this, you you
Speaker 1: intend to uh act a little bit more intentional in
Speaker 1: the future. And uh that's really all you can do.
Speaker 1: So I hope that you attempt to clear your conscious
Speaker 1: by really diving into this this epiphany that you have
Speaker 1: had moving forward.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that sounds good. You mean, like as far
Speaker 4: as like like like whye, like like how it all happened?
Speaker 1: Well, no, as far as you're saying that you want
Speaker 1: to act less out of greed and more out of
Speaker 1: other things.
Speaker 4: Oh right, I think.
Speaker 1: Else you want to say to the people of the
Speaker 1: computer before we go.
Speaker 4: Chris, My my wife's listening in the next room. So
Speaker 4: I just want to take shout out to you. I
Speaker 4: love you and and thank you very much for your time.
Speaker 1: Have a good rest of the day, Chris, you as well.
Speaker 3: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Damn.
Speaker 1: I wish you would have named the vape shop so
Speaker 1: I could go there and buy some weed. That was
Speaker 1: an arc. This is what the show is about about arcs,
Speaker 1: kind of. I mean, it's about being a get go
Speaker 1: and talking to people on the phone. But there was
Speaker 1: an arc. Okay. This guy Chris, you know, he is
Speaker 1: down on his luck. Okay, he's trying to get some
Speaker 1: money for his family to do whatever thing. Who cares,
Speaker 1: whatever he is, he's doing his things. And he had
Speaker 1: this gut reaction to, oh, money, let me call up
Speaker 1: the police and report the vape shop. It was his
Speaker 1: gut reaction, okay, and he went with his gut. He
Speaker 1: and five seconds after doing that, he realized that his gut,
Speaker 1: his instinct, his default, was not properly guiding him in
Speaker 1: the direction that he wanted to go as a human being.
Speaker 1: And his arc is learning to slow down and look
Speaker 1: at a bigger picture and be a little bit more
Speaker 1: intentional and go, oh fuck, my default, my gut was
Speaker 1: telling me to follow my greed, and it took me
Speaker 1: a mistake to figure that out. And now moving forward,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be more intentional about my motivations behind
Speaker 1: my actions. And that is his arc. And he had
Speaker 1: to fuck up and be a little bit of an
Speaker 1: arc to get there, but he's young, he's making mistakes
Speaker 1: as we all are, and will hopefully follow the results
Speaker 1: of that epiphany. Hello you pop, And I actually got
Speaker 1: on what's up? Who is this?
Speaker 3: This is jet?
Speaker 1: Jet? Jet Jet Jet? What's what's up? Jet? Tell me?
Speaker 1: What's going on with you?
Speaker 2: It's really odd lyle. I'm not gonna lie to you.
Speaker 2: So I'm I'm I'm a senior in high school, right,
Speaker 2: just just to set the stage. The mood got it,
Speaker 2: And we have a couple of new teachers and I'm
Speaker 2: I like just turned eighteen this year. We have a
Speaker 2: couple of new teachers who are younger women, right, and
Speaker 2: one of them was erected for we're doing certain illicit
Speaker 2: activities with a student m and now my name is
Speaker 2: brought into it, so they think that I was the
Speaker 2: one that that did it, but I I wasn't. And
Speaker 2: now the college that I'm trying to get into is
Speaker 2: hearing about that, and then they're like, Okay, we don't
Speaker 2: know if we can expect you or like accept you,
Speaker 2: and I don't know what to do about it.
Speaker 1: So why why is your name being brought into the conversation?
Speaker 1: What I mean, what reason or suspicion. Do people have
Speaker 1: to bring you into this situation.
Speaker 2: Because I used I'm I'm very horrible at math lyle.
Speaker 2: So I used to go with one of the teachers
Speaker 2: that was like in the in the rumor. I used
Speaker 2: to go hang out after in her room after school
Speaker 2: and she would help you with matt because I've always
Speaker 2: I've always sucked at it, and it was nothing like
Speaker 2: explicit like that like I'm engaged like no, but now
Speaker 2: since I was close to that piece, yes, sir, I
Speaker 2: am engaged at eighteen.
Speaker 1: Well but so jet okay, so let me ask you this. Okay,
Speaker 1: So who is is there somebody there that is conducting
Speaker 1: an investigation of some kind.
Speaker 2: I'm not very sure of yet. I really have no idea.
Speaker 2: I just know my college is now getting into it,
Speaker 2: and it's like, okay, we don't know if we can
Speaker 2: accept you. And I know, I don't know if she's
Speaker 2: being like prosecutor prosecuted or if the people like the students'
Speaker 2: parents that she slept with parents want to press charges
Speaker 2: or not.
Speaker 1: So but when you two, I mean, how is your
Speaker 1: college finding out? Like I guess what I mean is, Okay,
Speaker 1: you didn't do this, and you are trying to let
Speaker 1: it be known that you were not involved in this activity,
Speaker 1: and at what agency? What part is it? Are people
Speaker 1: writing press stories like how is your college even finding
Speaker 1: out about it?
Speaker 2: I don't think it was a press story, but I
Speaker 2: think whenever my college started looking I don't think it's
Speaker 2: been leaked yet or anything like that, but I think
Speaker 2: whenever my college started looking into me as like a recipient,
Speaker 2: they found out, because I mean, I'm gonna get I
Speaker 2: guess that they asked the school or something. I really
Speaker 2: don't know how I found out, That's just what I'm guessing.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, so who at the school that is in
Speaker 1: charge of doing this investigation have you gone to and
Speaker 1: explained that you were not involved in.
Speaker 2: This' I've went to the I've went to the like
Speaker 2: the principal. I have to go to this private school,
Speaker 2: so I went to the headmaster and I've told them that,
Speaker 2: and that like we don't know if you did or not.
Speaker 2: That is a completely different rumor. And I'm like, okay, well,
Speaker 2: this is this is now interfering with my colleges, like
Speaker 2: I don't I don't want this to mess up my college.
Speaker 2: And they're like, well, we don't know about that? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: yeah I did. And they were like, we don't know
Speaker 2: anything about that. We've had a lot of colleges coming
Speaker 2: in asking about different students and asking about this situation.
Speaker 2: So and they basically didn't give me a shit.
Speaker 1: What is the college that you're trying to get into,
Speaker 1: Georgia State, Georgia State? Did you did Georgia State contact
Speaker 1: you directly? Or I mean, how did you even find
Speaker 1: out that Georgia State knows about this?
Speaker 2: I am supposed to go to college at Georgia State
Speaker 2: for a scholarship, a football scholarship, So they contacted my coach.
Speaker 2: My coach talked to me about it, and then whenever
Speaker 2: I was working up like a contract for this, they
Speaker 2: were like, there is something that we need to talk
Speaker 2: to you about and then mentioned all the rumors.
Speaker 1: M h okay, So the college did talk to you
Speaker 1: about those rumors?
Speaker 2: They did, but they haven't. They've they've said that it
Speaker 2: might impact me getting accepted there because they don't like
Speaker 2: I guess they don't want it to look back.
Speaker 1: But did you tell what did what did they tell
Speaker 1: you when you told them that you had nothing to
Speaker 1: do with this situation?
Speaker 2: They were like, well, we don't know if that's necessarily
Speaker 2: true or not, because a lot of a lot of
Speaker 2: students who have like said they didn't ended up like
Speaker 2: being a part of it. But now it's like, okay,
Speaker 2: they don't believe me or not.
Speaker 6: M m.
Speaker 1: Man jet, I'm sorry to hear that. Man, You're you're
Speaker 1: getting involved in this mess that that you know you
Speaker 1: really have, you know, don't deserve to get involved in
Speaker 1: it all. Is there any I mean, dude, are there
Speaker 1: any adults, Not that you're not in adults, but uh,
Speaker 1: you know, people at the school, representatives, guidance, counselors, other
Speaker 1: anyone that can help you in this situation because you
Speaker 1: sound like you're doing this on your own, and you
Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing this on your own. You should be
Speaker 1: working with a lawyer or whatever people there.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm too broke to afford a lawyer. Law,
Speaker 2: but I've asked. I've asked, like my we have we
Speaker 2: have like a social worker that comes to our school
Speaker 2: every so often, and I've asked her and she's like, okay,
Speaker 2: we'll get this. Well, well we'll get an immediate investigation
Speaker 2: on that. That was like three weeks ago, and I
Speaker 2: haven't heard.
Speaker 1: Did you follow up with her?
Speaker 2: I tried to and I never got a call back.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, this is so bizarre to me because
Speaker 1: this college is not going off of any kind of
Speaker 1: official investigation being taken place like there has been.
Speaker 7: No.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: That's that's the whole thing. Le I don't know if
Speaker 2: there's an investigation or not. They might that I don't
Speaker 2: know about, but as far as I know, they're.
Speaker 1: Not fucking bizarre, man, fucking bizarre?
Speaker 3: What I mean?
Speaker 1: I mean every I mean, dude, Well, here's the thing, okay,
Speaker 1: I mean, you've told me, right, You've told me over
Speaker 1: the over this call of like what three or four
Speaker 1: separate people in the school. You've told me about, a
Speaker 1: social worker, you're told me about a coach, a headmaster,
Speaker 1: and and none of them have tried to help you
Speaker 1: with this.
Speaker 3: My coach has.
Speaker 2: Been trying to. He's been like batching for me or
Speaker 2: vouching for me every chance he gets, but there's only
Speaker 2: so much he can do.
Speaker 1: Muh. Have you talked to your parents about this?
Speaker 3: No? I have not, not yet.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's something I should probably do.
Speaker 1: I think you should try to get their help. I
Speaker 1: mean listen, I have absolutely no idea what you should
Speaker 1: do in the situation, because I'm I feel as well.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's annoying because this is something that
Speaker 1: it warnts an official investigation of some kind for you
Speaker 1: to explain, and not for a college to fucking hear
Speaker 1: A that's so, that's so fucking dumb.
Speaker 2: I agree with you.
Speaker 1: So a college. So the college heard the rumor from
Speaker 1: your coach, and now the admissions. How does that even
Speaker 1: fucking work? When does a college even do that? Does
Speaker 1: none of that even make any sense to me? Maybe
Speaker 1: I'm dumb and I'm out of touch with like the
Speaker 1: college to high school relations, but that doesn't make any
Speaker 1: fucking sense to me that they would have heard about this.
Speaker 2: I really, I don't know.
Speaker 5: I just know they found out about it somehow, And
Speaker 5: they've had meetings with my coach about me before, and
Speaker 5: they've had meetings with me about like with my coach
Speaker 5: there about it before. So I'm guessing that they asked
Speaker 5: what the situation of the school was, how like I
Speaker 5: was doing in school, like social wise, all that shit,
Speaker 5: to know if I'm gonna be good at their.
Speaker 2: College or something like that. And I guess that came up.
Speaker 2: I really don't know, Jak. I'm I'm I'm in the
Speaker 2: blind spot as much as you m.
Speaker 1: Jet. I think you should talk to your parents about this.
Speaker 1: I think you should follow up with that fucking social
Speaker 1: worker who hasn't done anything. I think you should, at
Speaker 1: the very least get a consult I don't know how
Speaker 1: much it costs, and I don't know if you can
Speaker 1: find somebody who's willing to at least give you a
Speaker 1: free consultation. But I would talk to a lawyer, and
Speaker 1: that that is really all I've got for you. I'm
Speaker 1: sorry that you're in this situation. This is totally stupid.
Speaker 2: Damn. I do appreciate it though, while a lot thank you.
Speaker 2: This is like my fourth trying time trying to get
Speaker 2: in here on this too.
Speaker 1: Is there any other aspect of this situation or are
Speaker 1: just anything in general that you want to talk about
Speaker 1: before we go or say to the people of the computer.
Speaker 2: Mean, uh, I don't know, No, I'm scared just gonna
Speaker 2: affect my relationship. That's another thing.
Speaker 1: What with your fiance?
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, because I mean my fiance, I love her
Speaker 2: at death. Shout out to my fiance if she watching
Speaker 2: the stream. But she she's got a lot, she's got
Speaker 2: a bunch of anxiety problems, and like if she hears
Speaker 2: a rumor like that or some shit like that, then
Speaker 2: she'll immediately think it's true just because of like past trauma.
Speaker 1: Okay, is there any foundation of trust between you two?
Speaker 2: I trust her, she doesn't trust me.
Speaker 1: Do you see a problem with that?
Speaker 8: I do?
Speaker 2: But now now, fuck, I can't believe I'm saying it's
Speaker 2: on your stream first, but now now it's like, I
Speaker 2: feel like I'm in too deep.
Speaker 1: You're not in too deep at all. You're eighteen years old,
Speaker 1: You're you're very much in the shadow.
Speaker 2: But but I'm I'm.
Speaker 1: In Okay, Jet, how are you feeling in life in general?
Speaker 1: Let's let's talk about this for a second.
Speaker 3: I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't really know how I I I everything's been
Speaker 2: pissing me off lately. I'm exhausted. I don't know what
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do once I graduate.
Speaker 1: Bro, what are you trying to go to college for?
Speaker 2: I want to. I want to go there and get
Speaker 2: into computer engineering and then maybe try and get like
Speaker 2: a sports scholarship there or something.
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm mm hmm.
Speaker 1: Is Georgia State. That's the place that you were going
Speaker 1: to try to go to. Yeah, is that your only
Speaker 1: option or were there other places that you wanted to
Speaker 1: go to?
Speaker 2: That was the only one And that was the one
Speaker 2: I wanted to go to too, so it worked out.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmmm, why are you getting engaged? And and I'm
Speaker 1: not here at a tell me what you should have
Speaker 1: shouldn't do, but I'm curious as to just just why
Speaker 1: you're doing what you're doing.
Speaker 2: This girl came into my life at a really really
Speaker 2: fucked up time, Like where I was, I was going
Speaker 2: through the ships, and we she she had went through
Speaker 2: the ships the same as I. We both hated life
Speaker 2: for a long as time, and we just kind of
Speaker 2: connected like it was like some Hotel Transylvania shit like
Speaker 2: like it was like some zing type ship and we
Speaker 2: had the same interest and I was a positive impact
Speaker 2: on her for a while. She was a positive impact
Speaker 2: on me for a while. We've been dating like three
Speaker 2: years now. I really should have waited for the engagement,
Speaker 2: but we were at a City More concert and it
Speaker 2: was just a perfect time and she wanted it and
Speaker 2: so did I at the time.
Speaker 3: I don't know, it's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, What are you feeling right now When you say damn?
Speaker 2: I mean now that I say it out loud, it's
Speaker 2: like I've rushed into so much shit without being like
Speaker 2: I don't, like, without even being one hundred percent sure
Speaker 2: of it whatsoever. Like I completely acted on impulse, but
Speaker 2: now I feel like I'm in too deep, so I
Speaker 2: can't like fix it.
Speaker 1: Why do you feel like you're in too deep?
Speaker 2: This girl has like developed her entire life around me,
Speaker 2: like like it's if she doesn't talk to me. It's
Speaker 2: very very unhealthy obsession. And she makes me super fucking happy,
Speaker 2: and I'm the happiest man in the world when I'm
Speaker 2: around her, Like I feel like I'm walking on air.
Speaker 2: But I'm scared, Like like I went on vacation with
Speaker 2: my family a couple months back, and I didn't talk
Speaker 2: to her that much because I was hanging out with
Speaker 2: my family and she had like mental breakdown after mental breakdown,
Speaker 2: and I didn't know how to deal with it. So
Speaker 2: I'm sitting here trying to say I'm sorry, but I
Speaker 2: have nothing to be sorry about.
Speaker 1: Has it been like that for the whole three years
Speaker 1: that you guys have been together.
Speaker 2: No, it only started like this year.
Speaker 1: Did it start when you guys got engaged?
Speaker 2: Yeah, damn.
Speaker 1: Tell me about her? What else does she have going
Speaker 1: on in her life?
Speaker 2: She graduated high school, is trying to move out of
Speaker 2: her parents' house.
Speaker 3: We live.
Speaker 2: We lived into different states, so she has to come
Speaker 2: up here. Sometimes. She's trying to go to college for
Speaker 2: cosmetology in Florida, and I'm trying to go to college
Speaker 2: in Georgia. So it's like, Okay, No, no student like
Speaker 2: or no person likes having like a significant other at
Speaker 2: a different college.
Speaker 1: Of course, of course. Oh man, I huh, jentlemen. I
Speaker 1: don't like telling people what to do because I don't
Speaker 1: think that there is a one size fits all path
Speaker 1: to happiness in life. But I think that you should
Speaker 1: not be scared. I get why you're scared. I get
Speaker 1: why you feel like you're in too deep. But a person,
Speaker 1: even if they are quote obsessed with you, they cannot
Speaker 1: possess you, and you, as a person of your own agency,
Speaker 1: have the right at any given time, and right now
Speaker 1: is a great time for you to do what I'm
Speaker 1: about to say, because you're eighteen, and you're graduating from
Speaker 1: high school, and you're entering a new era of your life.
Speaker 1: You have the agency at any given time. Nobody can
Speaker 1: ever take this away from you. You have the agency
Speaker 1: at any given time to reevaluate your life, to evaluate
Speaker 1: what is important to you and to potentially change courses,
Speaker 1: and to act intentionally towards what you believe is best
Speaker 1: for you and guides you towards what you think is
Speaker 1: important to you in your life. And nobody can possess
Speaker 1: you or take your ability to do that away from you.
Speaker 1: So you are not in too deep. You can make
Speaker 1: your own decisions about what to do with your life.
Speaker 2: I mean, I know, I know I want to do
Speaker 2: it or not I want to do it. A part
Speaker 2: of me wants to do it, and I know that
Speaker 2: I probably need to do it for my own mental
Speaker 2: health and for her mental health. But it's.
Speaker 6: Now.
Speaker 2: It's like if I regret it after it's done and
Speaker 2: then I can't get it back.
Speaker 1: Then you move your jet. You said your name was
Speaker 1: yeah Jet. If you what if you you're afraid of
Speaker 1: regretting it, yeah Jet? You just you just move forward, man,
Speaker 1: you just gotta move forward. I mean, who you know what?
Speaker 1: Maybe you do this and maybe you regret it, but
Speaker 1: then maybe a year later because you did this, you
Speaker 1: end up in a different spot that leads to this
Speaker 1: different opportunity, and then you go, holy shit, if I
Speaker 1: didn't do that thing that I thought I regret it
Speaker 1: at the one time, then I wouldn't be in this situation.
Speaker 1: Maybe you don't do it and then you do regret it.
Speaker 1: So you just really have no fucking idea. You really
Speaker 1: have no fucking idea.
Speaker 8: You can only ever make You could only ever make
Speaker 8: informed guesses with the information that you have access to
Speaker 8: at the time, and that's the best you can do.
Speaker 1: And if you do that, it's pretty great. And then
Speaker 1: other than that, you have no idea and you just
Speaker 1: have to roll with whatever the outcome is of the
Speaker 1: decision you made with the information you had at the time,
Speaker 1: and just keep rolling with that. Do with what I
Speaker 1: told do what you will with what I'm telling you
Speaker 1: on this call. Man, it's not I'm not here to
Speaker 1: tell you what to do with your life, but I
Speaker 1: do want you to know that you are not tramped,
Speaker 1: that no person has the right to make you feel
Speaker 1: like you are, and that you should, you know, carefully
Speaker 1: evaluate your decisions and not the you know, a slave
Speaker 1: to them necessarily because you're over here, like, oh am
Speaker 1: I going to regret it? You don't fucking know. You
Speaker 1: could stay and regret it. You could leave and regret it.
Speaker 1: You could do some third thing and regret that. You
Speaker 1: could stay. It could be great, You could leave, it
Speaker 1: could be You just have no fucking idea. You're just
Speaker 1: doing what you can with the information you have at
Speaker 1: the time, and then whatever that outcome is, you just
Speaker 1: move forward and you roll with that, and then you
Speaker 1: move forward from that new outcome. You're riding your timeline.
Speaker 1: Does any of that make sense?
Speaker 2: That was a lot, but yeah, it does make sense.
Speaker 1: Okay. How do you feel, Jets.
Speaker 2: Discombobulated?
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sorry to hear that all this shit is
Speaker 1: going on with you, Jet. You seem like a nice guy,
Speaker 1: and you know, I do hope the best for you.
Speaker 2: I'm just here, Greg, I'm just I'm happy to finally
Speaker 2: get in here. You've been trying to ship since August.
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the
Speaker 1: people that can pewter before we go?
Speaker 7: Uh?
Speaker 2: Bit bitching about not getting in fast enough. You'll get here,
Speaker 2: bro stout out to my homie GEK.
Speaker 1: Good luck, Jet, I'll talk to you soon.
Speaker 2: Thank you, gek. You have a great night.
Speaker 3: Bro.
Speaker 1: I'm so conflicted with this podcast because I don't I
Speaker 1: really it's really not my place to tell people what
Speaker 1: to do with their lives, but goddamn do I want
Speaker 1: to sometimes really badly. I really I try not to
Speaker 1: because I don't think it's my place, but fuck god
Speaker 1: damn it, sometimes I really really want to tell people
Speaker 1: what to do. I try not to. Jet Jet Jet
Speaker 1: Jet Jet. Well, No, I met what I said. I said.
Speaker 1: I think I did say what I needed to say
Speaker 1: to Jet, and I don't regret it. I'm glad I
Speaker 1: did it that way. Instead of telling him he needs
Speaker 1: to break off his engagements, I met. I met what
Speaker 1: I said. I said, to fucking evaluate what's going on
Speaker 1: with you, and don't be afraid of the outcome of
Speaker 1: that evaluation. But but have the evaluation. Don't let anyone
Speaker 1: feel like they're possessing you. Thanks for calling Jet. What's
Speaker 1: going on?
Speaker 5: Man?
Speaker 3: Yeah? So basically, I I've got a bit of an
Speaker 3: issue that I was hoping I could speak to the
Speaker 3: getto about.
Speaker 1: Yeah, which, first of all, where are you are you
Speaker 1: in a car?
Speaker 3: No? No?
Speaker 2: Hold on?
Speaker 3: Is that better?
Speaker 1: It's not a question of better or worse. I was
Speaker 1: just asked skiing if you were in a car.
Speaker 3: No, I was on the roof of a small chicken hut.
Speaker 1: Okay, let's go into that real quick. You were on
Speaker 1: the roof of a small chicken hut. Right, what are
Speaker 1: you doing on the roof of a small chicken hut?
Speaker 3: But it's dark out where I am, and I just
Speaker 3: enjoy gazing at the stars, and the chicken hut usually
Speaker 3: provides the best the best of you.
Speaker 1: You know what. That didn't answer sort of the underlying
Speaker 1: curiosity behind the question, but it was a legitimate answer. Right,
Speaker 1: it's just your Uh, what's your what's your thing? What's
Speaker 1: your thing?
Speaker 3: Man?
Speaker 1: What's going on? You have a thing?
Speaker 3: Well, I uh, it's a bit embarrassing. I'm sexually attracted
Speaker 3: to various food items.
Speaker 1: You are sexually attracted to various food items. What is
Speaker 1: it about a food item that would make it attractive
Speaker 1: to you?
Speaker 3: Well, first of all, it's mainly spaghetti with the butter sauce.
Speaker 3: I can't get enough of it. And I think for
Speaker 3: the spaghetti, it's more of the way, you know how
Speaker 3: spaghetti starts off hard and then get soft in the water. Yeah,
Speaker 3: definitely has something to do with that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so your attraction to this food, are you is
Speaker 1: the sexual attraction happening when you are cooking the food,
Speaker 1: when you're eating the food, when you are are you
Speaker 1: having sex with the food? What exactly are you doing
Speaker 1: when you are finding yourself aroused by the food? How
Speaker 1: are you interacting with the food?
Speaker 3: Well? It definitely, it definitely you know gets me going
Speaker 3: when I when I prepare the food, but once it's prepared,
Speaker 3: I I do tend to have sexual intercourse with it.
Speaker 1: Okay, and tell me why this is a problem for you.
Speaker 3: Well, you know, I guess it's not that much of
Speaker 3: a problem, but it's I don't know anybody else who
Speaker 3: is sexually attracted to food, so it has to be
Speaker 3: some sort of problem, I guess.
Speaker 1: Well, so, so you're saying that it's a problem because
Speaker 1: not a lot of other people you know do it
Speaker 1: and it is not a conventional thing. Yeah, okay, Yeah, Well, look,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I don't think that
Speaker 1: that is a good definition of a problem. I think
Speaker 1: a problem for you would be sothing that is interfering
Speaker 1: with you being able to live life in a positive way.
Speaker 1: In the way in which you want. And so I
Speaker 1: ask you, is there anything sort of any negative consequences
Speaker 1: that this sexual food addiction we could call it, is
Speaker 1: having on the rest of your life?
Speaker 3: Well? I do get dirty looks at restaurants.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you have sex with the food in public
Speaker 1: at restaurants?
Speaker 3: Well yeah, but not, you know, in front of people usually.
Speaker 1: Okay, you have sex with food at restaurants, but not
Speaker 1: in front of.
Speaker 3: People, right, Like, I try to be discreet?
Speaker 1: What do you do when you try to be describe?
Speaker 1: How does one how does how does one? How does
Speaker 1: one have sex with the plate of spaghetti discreetly?
Speaker 3: Well? Usually i'll, you know, go on over to the
Speaker 3: bathroom or various other places that might be out of
Speaker 3: line of line of sight to the patrons.
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, so you will take a plateff spaghetti
Speaker 1: into the bathroom out of the line of sight. But
Speaker 1: if you're out of the line of sight, then how
Speaker 1: do you get dirty looks?
Speaker 3: Wait?
Speaker 1: Wait, what's your name? What's your name? What's your name?
Speaker 3: Brian?
Speaker 1: Brian, you're not making this whole thing up, are you.
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: Brian, you didn't call in, Brian, you didn't call in
Speaker 1: with a with a completely fake thing that you're making
Speaker 1: up as you go. Are you no, because I'm gonna because, Brian, Brian, Brian,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you something. If you are, that's okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be upset with you. Yes, it's fake, Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's fake.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So so tell me what did you want to get
Speaker 1: out of out of coming up with this fake problem?
Speaker 3: I don't know. I I guess maybe to be less lonely,
Speaker 3: to be okay, you know, you know, as someone people
Speaker 3: want to maybe listen to.
Speaker 1: Okay, So you called in because and you called in
Speaker 1: with a fake thing because you thought it would make
Speaker 1: you more interesting. Yeah, okay, why do you Why do
Speaker 1: you think that your real life is not interesting?
Speaker 3: Well, it's definitely not as interesting as it could be.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's not as interesting as it could be. Tell
Speaker 1: me what would make it more interesting?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's what I'm being honest. I mean, oh, probably
Speaker 3: a pony.
Speaker 1: Probably a pony?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 1: Holy shit? Have you called before?
Speaker 3: Now?
Speaker 1: Somebody else said the exact same thing when I asked
Speaker 1: him that exact question.
Speaker 4: Really, yeah, yeah, I said that, Brian.
Speaker 1: Why do you have a chicken hut?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 2: Sir?
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't. I don't. I don't have
Speaker 3: any chickens. It's just kind of always been there with
Speaker 3: the property.
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's a chicken hut, but it doesn't have
Speaker 1: any chickens, right, Brian. What time is it where you are?
Speaker 3: The nine to fourteen pm?
Speaker 7: Okay, you should go to sleep, Okay on the chicken hut. Yeah,
Speaker 7: on the chicken hut or in the chicken.
Speaker 1: Hut, Brandon. So I think that's want to say to
Speaker 1: the people of the computer before we go.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry I wasted your time.
Speaker 1: And one day I will find the strength to forgive you.
Speaker 1: But that day is not today, Brian. It could be tomorrow,
Speaker 1: all right, I forgive you. It was today. It's fine.
Speaker 1: You know. I opened these lines with no expectations, and
Speaker 1: therefore how can I get upset If I have no expectations.
Speaker 1: That's the that's the key to life. To expect nothing,
Speaker 1: and you will never get upset. But then you'll never
Speaker 1: have anything to look forward to either. It's a catch
Speaker 1: twenty two.
Speaker 6: Hello Hi, oh hi, wile, Wow, this is very surprising.
Speaker 1: Why why is it you called a phone number and
Speaker 1: somebody picked up. I feel like that's that happens to
Speaker 1: most people all the time. Lots of people make phone
Speaker 1: calls and have a person pick up on the other end.
Speaker 6: That's true. You you got me there.
Speaker 1: What's going on, Angie? How's how's it hanging?
Speaker 6: Oh, it's hanging. I called over. I wanted to talk
Speaker 6: about one friend, but while I was waiting, I decided
Speaker 6: I'd rather talk about another friend and another problem I'm
Speaker 6: having with them.
Speaker 1: Okay, who is this friend and what's the problem you're
Speaker 1: having with them?
Speaker 6: So it's this guy I've been talking to for a
Speaker 6: few months. Sorry, I'm like nervous.
Speaker 1: No, don't worry. We're we're just hanging out here. We're
Speaker 1: vibing it up in the gecko and the gecko world.
Speaker 6: Okay. Anyways, this guy and I we share a lot
Speaker 6: of stuff in commons. We like the same music and stuff.
Speaker 6: So we're hanging out for quite a while, and eventually
Speaker 6: our relationship turned pretty sexual, pretty explicit, and we started
Speaker 6: like cooking up regularly. It was awesome, Like he knows
Speaker 6: what he's doing. That's not my concerns. My concern is
Speaker 6: that over the time I've known him, he's become like
Speaker 6: I feel like I might've hyped him up too much
Speaker 6: because now he's like really cocky and he talks about
Speaker 6: how any girl that he meets he'll like be able
Speaker 6: to get into their pants basically, And I would joke
Speaker 6: around with him and say like, oh, okay, do you
Speaker 6: have like this rotation going on? You have like a harem?
Speaker 6: Now I call it a harem all the time, and
Speaker 6: he hates it. But it's just I am getting Lately,
Speaker 6: I've been distancing myself from him just because he's just
Speaker 6: become like so involved in getting all these other girls
Speaker 6: and like hooking up with them and stuff. And the
Speaker 6: worst thing is he'll brag about it. And I did
Speaker 6: tell him I was starting to develop feelings for him,
Speaker 6: and I knew from the get go he wasn't like
Speaker 6: emotionally available. But I feel kind of shitty distancing myself
Speaker 6: from him because I'm kind of up to something similar.
Speaker 6: Like I muss around with a bunch of dudes. I'm
Speaker 6: not a bunch. I shouldn't say that.
Speaker 2: I have a few.
Speaker 1: Guys I'll see, sure, yeah, okay.
Speaker 6: But but he's just it's gotten to the point where
Speaker 6: I just don't want to really be his friend. But
Speaker 6: we have a really good connection and I feel like
Speaker 6: I'm being a shitty person.
Speaker 1: Okay, So so you're talking to multiple people, he's talking
Speaker 1: to multiple people. You both know that each other are
Speaker 1: talking to multiple people, and you both are okay with it.
Speaker 6: That's another thing whenever I talk about out, like oh,
Speaker 6: I went to go see so and so, and he'll
Speaker 6: ask for details to He'll want to know if we
Speaker 6: were like if we hooked up or anything, and I'll
Speaker 6: tell him and he'll see him a little like put
Speaker 6: off by it.
Speaker 1: But see, see that's the thing, like, look, if you're
Speaker 1: seeing a bunch of dudes and he's seeing a bunch
Speaker 1: of girls, and you both are freely talking about it
Speaker 1: like you know that. That's That's one thing I think
Speaker 1: when if you're seeing a bunch of other people and
Speaker 1: then one of the people you're seeing is seeing other
Speaker 1: people and that makes you upset, that's got to be unfair.
Speaker 6: That's yeah, that's very true.
Speaker 1: But also it kind of sounds to me like that's
Speaker 1: happening on and again I'm just speculating, so you tell
Speaker 1: me if I say anything that doesn't sound accurate. But
Speaker 1: it sounds to me like that's happening on both sides.
Speaker 1: Because he's talking about these girls that he's, you know, seeing,
Speaker 1: and it's making you a little upset. And you're talking
Speaker 1: about the guys that you're seeing and it's making him
Speaker 1: a little upset. And so you both sound like you
Speaker 1: are harboring these feelings for each other. Right.
Speaker 6: Oh, I've talked to him about that. I've told him,
Speaker 6: I told him that I had feelings for him. But
Speaker 6: he's very he's a super hippie, like in every sense
Speaker 6: of the word.
Speaker 8: Like he is all.
Speaker 6: About free love. But what'un too, I discovered as he's
Speaker 6: not really I went call it free love. It's more
Speaker 6: just like free sex. Like, okay, anyone can have this, dick.
Speaker 1: So I mean, well, tell me why, why do you
Speaker 1: feel like a shitty person? What is making you feel
Speaker 1: like a shitty person?
Speaker 6: Well, because I, like I mentioned, I'm kind of to
Speaker 6: the same stuff. I'm really busy with school, I'm really
Speaker 6: busy with work, So I don't really pursue like these
Speaker 6: monogamous relationships because I know I wouldn't have the time
Speaker 6: or the energy to put into that. Sure, but like
Speaker 6: I'll still I feel like to have fun every now
Speaker 6: and then. Okay, I feel like I'm being safe about that.
Speaker 4: But I don't know.
Speaker 6: I feel like, if anything, it's just how he's handling
Speaker 6: having multiple partners, Like I just don't like hearing about it.
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I don't, you know, in terms of you
Speaker 1: feel like a shitty person because you want to just
Speaker 1: kind of sleep around and have fun, you know, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think that makes you a shitty person. I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean it sounds as though you are doing that
Speaker 1: with other people who also are not looking for monogamous
Speaker 1: relationships and are sleeping around having fun, and it sounds
Speaker 1: like you, you and those people are are you know,
Speaker 1: being honest with each other about that, And so I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think that there is necessarily a shitty person
Speaker 1: or a bad person in this situation, you know, because
Speaker 1: you both are you know, doing your thing.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 6: As long as it's laid out, you know, everyone understands
Speaker 6: like this is like our encounters, this is what that is.
Speaker 6: We're not doing anything romantic, but he kind of I
Speaker 6: don't know, he's giving me all these weird signs that
Speaker 6: he might want to pursue something romantic with me, but
Speaker 6: he's also aware that I'm very busy, so he needs
Speaker 6: other people to entertain him while I'm gone.
Speaker 1: Well, let me ask you this, are you do you
Speaker 1: desire to pursue something more serious with this guy?
Speaker 6: I want to say yes, but since he's been acting
Speaker 6: this way, it's just such a turn off.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmmm. You know, listen, I think here's the thing is.
Speaker 1: I think things like this can you know, you can
Speaker 1: feel one way about it at one point in time,
Speaker 1: feel a different way, change your mind this that and
Speaker 1: the other thing, and that changing of the mind, and
Speaker 1: that you know, desire to leave or desire to want
Speaker 1: more doesn't necessarily have to be like a product of
Speaker 1: you or anyone being a shitty person. I think it's
Speaker 1: more just a product of desires changing and feelings changing
Speaker 1: as things evolve, and that can just be that without
Speaker 1: any sort of malice attributed in any direction. Right, So,
Speaker 1: you know, if you're engaged in something with this guy
Speaker 1: and you just decide, you know, this worked for me
Speaker 1: at one point and it no longer, does you know?
Speaker 1: I don't think you should feel shitty about making that decision.
Speaker 6: Okay, No, I okay, you're right.
Speaker 1: I mean, you don't have to just tell me I'm right.
Speaker 1: What do you what do you think about.
Speaker 6: All that, So I agree. One there's like you mentioned,
Speaker 6: I might have enjoyab what we're doing at the beginning,
Speaker 6: but things have changed and I've just been a different
Speaker 6: side of him than I might not be that I
Speaker 6: am not very attracted to and that's okay. I don't
Speaker 6: wish any harm on him, obviously, well hopefully that's obvious.
Speaker 6: But I feel better about this situation already.
Speaker 1: Good. Yeah, I think. I guess I'm just and I
Speaker 1: kind of talked about it a little bit. I guess
Speaker 1: I'm just very curious as to why you're feeling bad
Speaker 1: about yourself. You know, it's okay for you to shift
Speaker 1: your feelings about a situation and decide to distance yourself
Speaker 1: from it if that's how you feel as though you
Speaker 1: you want to act.
Speaker 6: Right, should I? Why do I feel shitty? I just
Speaker 6: I don't. I grew up in a very religious household,
Speaker 6: so just the concept of being like so free and
Speaker 6: so open with my sexuality has been like, there's always
Speaker 6: that shame attached to it. So part of me thinks, Okay,
Speaker 6: why did you give all of this to this person
Speaker 6: when in the end you're just going to walk away?
Speaker 1: You know, I think there is a lot of like
Speaker 1: I mean, religiously and societal wise, I think there's a
Speaker 1: lot of shame associated with like sleeping around and stuff.
Speaker 1: But it's it's I mean, at least in my opinion,
Speaker 1: like baseless. I mean, fuck, you know, as long as
Speaker 1: you're as long as everyone you're sleeping with is kind
Speaker 1: of on the same page. Like why why does that matter?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 6: I think I just, like I said, it's just that
Speaker 6: shame like growing up with and thinking, Okay, what I'm
Speaker 6: doing that's pretty wrong is my parents would not like this,
Speaker 6: and like when something goes south, thinking Okay, they were right,
Speaker 6: Like I shouldn't have been doing this to begin with.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. Let's if we threw away
Speaker 1: your parents, we threw away society, and we looked into
Speaker 1: your own brain and your own views on what is
Speaker 1: right and what is wrong. What do we think?
Speaker 6: I think, Well, we're all humans, we all have these urges.
Speaker 6: There's nothing wrong with expressing that in a healthy, responsible way,
Speaker 6: and I don't see anything wrong with it.
Speaker 1: Okay, so I'll continue to let me interrupt you.
Speaker 6: Oh well, yeah, that's basically I've always I don't see
Speaker 6: anything wrong with someone having multiple partners. Or going out
Speaker 6: and doing what they want to do as long as
Speaker 6: it's responsible and it's safe.
Speaker 1: Well, you know, Angie, I mean I hope you. I
Speaker 1: know that there's sort of in the back of your
Speaker 1: mind the puppet masters of society and your parents that
Speaker 1: are imposing their own morality upon you. And I guess
Speaker 1: if if I can leave you with anything in this call,
Speaker 1: is that I hope that you have the confidence and
Speaker 1: courage to, you know, make your own actions according to
Speaker 1: your own beliefs about how you think you should be
Speaker 1: living and not you know, your parents or anyone else's.
Speaker 6: Yes, that's what I try and do. You know, sometimes
Speaker 6: you get well, I get into my head and things
Speaker 6: go south. I'm like, Okay, this was my fall. I
Speaker 6: shouldn't have been doing this, that or the other.
Speaker 1: No, I mean, I think it's your I mean, you're
Speaker 1: in a situation it's just not working for you anymore.
Speaker 1: And it's okay to move on from something that's not
Speaker 1: working for you anymore. It doesn't have to you know,
Speaker 1: end explosively or with a bad person. You know, it
Speaker 1: can just be as simple as as this worked for
Speaker 1: me and no longer does.
Speaker 6: So I'm moving on, right, I know you didn't mean this,
Speaker 6: but I originally called over a problem I was having
Speaker 6: with another friend, and in a way you did answer,
Speaker 6: or you did help me with that other friend relationship too.
Speaker 6: You're just very well spoken, good so I appreciate you.
Speaker 1: Is there anything else want to say to the people
Speaker 1: of the computer before we go? Angie?
Speaker 6: Oh, be yourself. Keep trying to call in because I
Speaker 6: honestly thought I wasn't gonna get a chance to talk
Speaker 6: to Lyle. And here I am, and we did it.
Speaker 6: Be happy.
Speaker 1: Yes, we spoke to other human beings, made beautiful. Thank
Speaker 1: you for calling Angel. I'll talk to you, maybe never again,
Speaker 1: but possibly in another universe.
Speaker 6: I'll be looking for you. Thank you, Lyle, thank you, Angie, bye.
Speaker 1: And.
Speaker 6: Thank you.
Speaker 7: Every Ken goes through on his eye.
Speaker 1: He's teaching you to about your life, but he's not
Speaker 1: really an expert.