WEBVTT - "I SNITCHED ON SOMEONE" 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:03.040 Let's talk to Chris. 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:04.280 Hello is this mister? 0:00:05.280 --> 0:00:07.760 Yeah? What's going on? Chris? 0:00:07.800 --> 0:00:09.920 Not much this uff. 0:00:10.160 --> 0:00:14.040 I called in because I recently reported my local vape 0:00:14.040 --> 0:00:19.000 shop for selling weed products and I'm not allowed to 0:00:19.040 --> 0:00:22.000 do that in Florida, and uh I feel guilty about it. 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:27.480 Okay, So why did you report this shop for selling weed? 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:38.560 I just so there's this thing called crime stoppers and 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:41.720 they like offer a cash reward, you know, for that 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:47.839 kind of thing. And yeah, and it was just it 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:50.640 was like a really like like of the whim moment 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:56.440 kind of decision, okay, and was just hasn't left my consciousness. 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:59.440 It didn't say like that there is a range. 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:00.320 I don't remember. 0:01:00.720 --> 0:01:03.720 It was like fifty tore like like a few grands. 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:07.759 It just depends on like the arrestmate and all that 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:08.640 and like the charges. 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:13.520 Okay, So all right, so you reported the vape shop 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:16.120 for song weed and you say that it is weighing 0:01:16.200 --> 0:01:22.000 on your conscious. Yes, okay, tell me tell me about 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:24.280 the way in which it is weighing on your conscious 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:25.560 Would have been your thoughts about this? 0:01:28.360 --> 0:01:28.640 Well? 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:33.800 It I just you know, because like eventually I want 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:36.480 to own a vape shop, and I would just feel 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:39.680 bad if someone did that to me, Okay, And so 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:41.520 it's weighing on me like that, Like I feel bad 0:01:41.560 --> 0:01:43.880 if they were you know, down the line Krmer got 0:01:43.920 --> 0:01:46.360 me and I don't know. And these people they team 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:48.160 like nice people. Every time I go in there, they're 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:51.520 nice and everything and and and like I still go 0:01:51.680 --> 0:01:53.640 in there because they have like the cheapest prices in town. 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:55.640 So like every time I go in there, I'm just 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:59.400 like damn, Like you know, I'd never reported you guys. 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:05.760 Mm hmm. I mean, like like, let's go deeper into 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:10.160 why you feel like you did it. Okay. So so 0:02:11.720 --> 0:02:17.519 you said it was a spur of the moment decision. Yeah, okay, 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:19.920 walk walk walk me through it here. What what were 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:22.000 the emotions, what were the thoughts at the time, What 0:02:22.040 --> 0:02:23.200 were the feelings at the time. 0:02:26.720 --> 0:02:30.000 My family is kind of like financially tight, and I 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:32.480 just I as a person, I mentally go through these 0:02:32.520 --> 0:02:35.360 periods of like, oh, I need to start a business 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.040 and I need to make this money or I need 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:38.360 to go do this, and you know, I need to 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:42.800 get money this way, and and I don't I know, 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:46.080 I knew that they sell these these products there. I 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:47.440 see him in the shelf. I mean, they don't try 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:49.240 and hide it or anything. They're sitting right there, you know, 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:53.280 on the glass counter. And I was like, well, you know, 0:02:54.880 --> 0:02:58.480 this is an actual crime and this, this wouldn't be 0:02:58.919 --> 0:03:01.000 illegal for me to do. This isn't like I'm stealing 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:06.280 anyone's property. You know, I'm reporting a crime. And I 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:08.280 think just in the moment, it was like, yeah, you know, 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:10.080 I'm I'll you know, i'll be greedy, you know, report 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:13.000 them for the money. And but since then, I just 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:16.519 I just I just been thinking about it, like daily. 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.320 Okay, well, so I know you've been thinking about it, 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:22.520 but I really want to focus on the on the 0:03:22.560 --> 0:03:24.320 on the why. So you're telling me that it was 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:28.080 uh are you saying that there was a motive, It 0:03:28.120 --> 0:03:30.960 was a decision motivated purely by the cash reward. 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:35.280 Yeah, yeah, okay, not. 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:38.320 Out of any sense of justice or maybe you were 0:03:38.400 --> 0:03:47.400 bored or anything like that. No, No, okay, did you 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:48.480 get the cash reward? 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:53.080 Uh no, No, I haven't got a cash reward. I 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:57.400 haven't got I haven't received any update. It's been probably 0:03:57.440 --> 0:03:59.560 about two weeks since I reported them. 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:03.160 Let me ask you this. It says here that you 0:04:03.240 --> 0:04:08.960 tipped them off anonymously. Yes, how would you get a 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:10.960 reward if you tipped them off anonymously? 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:12.920 Yeah? 0:04:13.080 --> 0:04:15.560 That that that's kind of my question. And I read 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:19.880 on the website and from from from from what I received, 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:23.359 they'll like they'll get back to me because I have 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.880 like a little case number I D on their crime 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:29.480 Stoppers website, and they'll message me through there and then 0:04:29.640 --> 0:04:32.920 they'll like have a check to pilot at a bank 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:35.400 somewhere and I'll be the only ones with the numbers 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:37.200 to get the check or whatever like that. 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:42.880 Oh okay, So what were you planning on doing with 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:45.400 the money? Would you have gotten the reward? 0:04:47.720 --> 0:04:53.960 Uh, well, we don't have a car for our family. Actually, 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:56.279 the only car that we had left broke down after 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:58.840 the reward, and I myself don't have a car. I'm 0:04:58.880 --> 0:05:01.280 you know, I'm borrowing my dad's try uck. So I 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:03.840 would have put that. I would have put that towards 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:06.320 paying off the rest of the car that just broke down. 0:05:06.920 --> 0:05:08.560 But now that they broke down, I'm just going to 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:12.840 put it towards getting into a different vehicle. I mean, 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:14.680 if I even get it. But I mean I could 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:16.479 just get fifty dollars, So I mean damn, you know 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:19.280 if I get fifty dollars, it's like, well, I mean, 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:23.120 you know, I don't. 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:26.440 I don't know. 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:29.039 It's just I just feel bad either way. 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:33.680 Okay, So do you feel like there is anything that 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:38.599 you could do moving forward to rectify the situation and 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:44.159 clear your conscious? 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:52.000 Not not that I can think of, really, you know, 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:54.239 because I've already made the tip. You know, it's already, 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:55.440 it's ready in their database. 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:56.719 I don't. 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:58.520 I don't know. I can't go in and just say 0:05:58.839 --> 0:05:59.719 oopsie daisies. 0:06:00.680 --> 0:06:03.000 Okay, well, so yes, I mean that is true. You 0:06:03.000 --> 0:06:06.279 did make the tip, it is in their database, and 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:13.599 you know you cannot undo that. But cosmically, moving forward, 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.880 as you navigate through the universe, what do you think 0:06:16.920 --> 0:06:21.479 you could do? You know, knowing you cannot change the past, 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:27.119 but that the future is a big ball of mouldible clay, 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:28.560 what do you feel like you could do? 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:39.080 I could definitely not make decisions like that without fully 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:45.599 taking them through, especially not make decisions based off of greed, 0:06:46.160 --> 0:06:47.920 because I feel like that's what I feel most guilty 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:52.039 about is it was a very self is decision, like 0:06:52.120 --> 0:06:55.719 based off of I mean, the decision solely off of 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:57.600 the cash reward, you know, but like you know, you 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.200 asked if I did it based off of justice, I 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:02.000 feel I wouldn't. Fee is bad. But I guess because 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.039 I did it just because of the cash reward is 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:06.800 why I feel mm hmm. That's why I wait for 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:07.359 heavy on me. 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:13.240 Is this a pattern? Have you done things that you 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:18.080 believe our greedy in the past? Uh? 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:21.640 No, No, not not really. I'm generally, you know, very giving. 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:29.080 This is this is a very an out of character thing. Yeah, 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:34.640 I don't know, it is. It's a very very strange mhm. 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:38.200 I mean, I'm I'm still thinking about the future. I'm 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:40.800 still thinking about Okay, you're telling me what you cannot do. 0:07:40.960 --> 0:07:43.440 You're telling me, Okay, I've learned a lesson. I'm going 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:48.400 to think a little bit more about the intentions behind 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:52.560 my actions, and then I think those are good things 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:55.040 to do, and then those are good things to do. Okay. 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:57.600 So I mean, overall, would you say that you learned 0:07:57.680 --> 0:08:02.160 something from this experience that will positively dictate your actions 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:02.880 moving forward? 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:09.160 I think so. I don't think I I learned something, 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:13.080 but I think I think what I already knew was 0:08:13.120 --> 0:08:17.160 this kind of cemented even even further, you know, like 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:22.000 just don't don't make decisions based off of personal gain, 0:08:22.120 --> 0:08:25.680 you know, because I've always known that, I wouldn't say 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:29.040 I've necessarily learned it. But now I feel like every 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:32.599 time I make a decision, that's gonna pop in my 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:33.920 head like why am I making this? 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:34.240 You know? 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:41.160 And my kind of my kind of deal mm hmmmm. 0:08:42.160 --> 0:08:43.400 So you want to open up your own. 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:47.080 Vabe shop, right, yeah, eventually? 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:49.280 Are you gonna sell weed out of it? 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:54.880 If it's legal? I'm I'm not. I'm not gonna I'm 0:08:54.880 --> 0:08:57.080 not gonna to break the law or anything like that 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.680 like that, Like you know, you can sell like the 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:02.559 Delta eight products and the the A J C or 0:09:02.600 --> 0:09:07.120 whatever here, but but yeah, but I'm not gonna plan 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:08.000 on breaking the law. 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:10.360 Are you sure that that weed that that vape shop 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:11.480 wasn't selling Delta eight? 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:14.400 Yeah? 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:19.160 Yeah, I'm positive there was a sticker. There is an 0:09:19.280 --> 0:09:21.880 edible and and you can you can clearly tell, like 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.720 there's a sticker that has some like I think it 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:27.200 was th O or a JAC one of the like 0:09:27.200 --> 0:09:29.400 one of the legal ones, but it was over the 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:34.400 California symbol for like actual weed. And then like they're 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:37.280 vage products they sell, they say like Delta nine on them, 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:40.160 like the eighty three percent Delton nine or whatever, and 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.160 they can't have over point zero three. 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:47.640 Well, well, listen, Chris, you know, look, you cannot undo 0:09:47.679 --> 0:09:50.839 your tip. Well, you cannot change the past. But it 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:56.000 sounds as though, uh, after reflecting on this, you you 0:09:56.080 --> 0:10:00.240 intend to uh act a little bit more intentional in 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:03.160 the future. And uh that's really all you can do. 0:10:03.280 --> 0:10:07.760 So I hope that you attempt to clear your conscious 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:14.760 by really diving into this this epiphany that you have 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:16.360 had moving forward. 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:24.839 Yeah, yeah, that sounds good. You mean, like as far 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:31.240 as like like like whye, like like how it all happened? 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.439 Well, no, as far as you're saying that you want 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:36.160 to act less out of greed and more out of 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:37.160 other things. 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:40.280 Oh right, I think. 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:41.120 Else you want to say to the people of the 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:42.120 computer before we go. 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:46.880 Chris, My my wife's listening in the next room. So 0:10:46.920 --> 0:10:49.880 I just want to take shout out to you. I 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:53.040 love you and and thank you very much for your time. 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:57.280 Have a good rest of the day, Chris, you as well. 0:10:57.320 --> 0:10:57.640 Thank you. 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:02.800 Damn. 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:04.560 I wish you would have named the vape shop so 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:08.360 I could go there and buy some weed. That was 0:11:08.400 --> 0:11:11.480 an arc. This is what the show is about about arcs, 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:14.439 kind of. I mean, it's about being a get go 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:15.679 and talking to people on the phone. But there was 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:23.680 an arc. Okay. This guy Chris, you know, he is 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:27.600 down on his luck. Okay, he's trying to get some 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:30.760 money for his family to do whatever thing. Who cares, 0:11:30.800 --> 0:11:33.920 whatever he is, he's doing his things. And he had 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:43.880 this gut reaction to, oh, money, let me call up 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:46.679 the police and report the vape shop. It was his 0:11:46.720 --> 0:11:49.160 gut reaction, okay, and he went with his gut. He 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:58.679 and five seconds after doing that, he realized that his gut, 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:06.000 his instinct, his default, was not properly guiding him in 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:09.280 the direction that he wanted to go as a human being. 0:12:11.080 --> 0:12:15.959 And his arc is learning to slow down and look 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:17.920 at a bigger picture and be a little bit more 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:26.280 intentional and go, oh fuck, my default, my gut was 0:12:26.320 --> 0:12:31.040 telling me to follow my greed, and it took me 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:37.719 a mistake to figure that out. And now moving forward, 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:41.600 I'm going to be more intentional about my motivations behind 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:46.640 my actions. And that is his arc. And he had 0:12:46.679 --> 0:12:49.880 to fuck up and be a little bit of an 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:56.280 arc to get there, but he's young, he's making mistakes 0:12:56.320 --> 0:13:04.520 as we all are, and will hopefully follow the results 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:09.600 of that epiphany. Hello you pop, And I actually got 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:14.600 on what's up? Who is this? 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:16.360 This is jet? 0:13:17.480 --> 0:13:23.240 Jet? Jet Jet Jet? What's what's up? Jet? Tell me? 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:24.960 What's going on with you? 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:32.720 It's really odd lyle. I'm not gonna lie to you. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:39.439 So I'm I'm I'm a senior in high school, right, 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.959 just just to set the stage. The mood got it, 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:47.320 And we have a couple of new teachers and I'm 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:50.120 I like just turned eighteen this year. We have a 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:54.680 couple of new teachers who are younger women, right, and 0:13:56.200 --> 0:14:02.959 one of them was erected for we're doing certain illicit 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:09.880 activities with a student m and now my name is 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.520 brought into it, so they think that I was the 0:14:12.559 --> 0:14:17.640 one that that did it, but I I wasn't. And 0:14:17.679 --> 0:14:19.640 now the college that I'm trying to get into is 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:24.000 hearing about that, and then they're like, Okay, we don't 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:28.120 know if we can expect you or like accept you, 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:30.480 and I don't know what to do about it. 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:36.479 So why why is your name being brought into the conversation? 0:14:36.680 --> 0:14:41.400 What I mean, what reason or suspicion. Do people have 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.840 to bring you into this situation. 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:50.360 Because I used I'm I'm very horrible at math lyle. 0:14:50.560 --> 0:14:53.960 So I used to go with one of the teachers 0:14:54.000 --> 0:14:58.320 that was like in the in the rumor. I used 0:14:58.320 --> 0:15:00.520 to go hang out after in her room after school 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:02.440 and she would help you with matt because I've always 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:04.840 I've always sucked at it, and it was nothing like 0:15:05.080 --> 0:15:10.440 explicit like that like I'm engaged like no, but now 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:13.560 since I was close to that piece, yes, sir, I 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:15.400 am engaged at eighteen. 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:20.240 Well but so jet okay, so let me ask you this. Okay, 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:24.080 So who is is there somebody there that is conducting 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:28.680 an investigation of some kind. 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:31.520 I'm not very sure of yet. I really have no idea. 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:34.360 I just know my college is now getting into it, 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:36.200 and it's like, okay, we don't know if we can 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:38.600 accept you. And I know, I don't know if she's 0:15:38.640 --> 0:15:42.280 being like prosecutor prosecuted or if the people like the students' 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:45.520 parents that she slept with parents want to press charges 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:45.760 or not. 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:52.040 So but when you two, I mean, how is your 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:56.040 college finding out? Like I guess what I mean is, Okay, 0:15:56.080 --> 0:15:59.240 you didn't do this, and you are trying to let 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:03.200 it be known that you were not involved in this activity, 0:16:03.720 --> 0:16:06.160 and at what agency? What part is it? Are people 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:09.680 writing press stories like how is your college even finding 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:10.280 out about it? 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:13.720 I don't think it was a press story, but I 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:16.880 think whenever my college started looking I don't think it's 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.880 been leaked yet or anything like that, but I think 0:16:19.880 --> 0:16:23.200 whenever my college started looking into me as like a recipient, 0:16:23.240 --> 0:16:26.000 they found out, because I mean, I'm gonna get I 0:16:26.040 --> 0:16:28.040 guess that they asked the school or something. I really 0:16:28.080 --> 0:16:30.120 don't know how I found out, That's just what I'm guessing. 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:34.800 Okay, well, so who at the school that is in 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:40.840 charge of doing this investigation have you gone to and 0:16:40.920 --> 0:16:43.760 explained that you were not involved in. 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:48.800 This' I've went to the I've went to the like 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:50.960 the principal. I have to go to this private school, 0:16:51.040 --> 0:16:54.160 so I went to the headmaster and I've told them that, 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:56.680 and that like we don't know if you did or not. 0:16:56.880 --> 0:17:00.280 That is a completely different rumor. And I'm like, okay, well, 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:03.440 this is this is now interfering with my colleges, like 0:17:03.480 --> 0:17:05.480 I don't I don't want this to mess up my college. 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.200 And they're like, well, we don't know about that? Yeah, yeah, 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:11.800 yeah I did. And they were like, we don't know 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:14.680 anything about that. We've had a lot of colleges coming 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:17.840 in asking about different students and asking about this situation. 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:21.200 So and they basically didn't give me a shit. 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:24.680 What is the college that you're trying to get into, 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:31.960 Georgia State, Georgia State? Did you did Georgia State contact 0:17:32.000 --> 0:17:34.200 you directly? Or I mean, how did you even find 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:35.760 out that Georgia State knows about this? 0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:42.040 I am supposed to go to college at Georgia State 0:17:42.119 --> 0:17:45.720 for a scholarship, a football scholarship, So they contacted my coach. 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:47.879 My coach talked to me about it, and then whenever 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:51.000 I was working up like a contract for this, they 0:17:51.000 --> 0:17:52.800 were like, there is something that we need to talk 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:55.760 to you about and then mentioned all the rumors. 0:17:56.240 --> 0:17:59.000 M h okay, So the college did talk to you 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:00.720 about those rumors? 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:04.960 They did, but they haven't. They've they've said that it 0:18:05.080 --> 0:18:07.399 might impact me getting accepted there because they don't like 0:18:07.440 --> 0:18:08.720 I guess they don't want it to look back. 0:18:10.359 --> 0:18:12.440 But did you tell what did what did they tell 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:13.919 you when you told them that you had nothing to 0:18:13.920 --> 0:18:14.760 do with this situation? 0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:18.879 They were like, well, we don't know if that's necessarily 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:20.359 true or not, because a lot of a lot of 0:18:20.400 --> 0:18:22.760 students who have like said they didn't ended up like 0:18:23.560 --> 0:18:29.679 being a part of it. But now it's like, okay, 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:30.959 they don't believe me or not. 0:18:31.720 --> 0:18:33.119 M m. 0:18:36.480 --> 0:18:38.359 Man jet, I'm sorry to hear that. Man, You're you're 0:18:38.359 --> 0:18:40.679 getting involved in this mess that that you know you 0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:43.760 really have, you know, don't deserve to get involved in 0:18:43.800 --> 0:18:54.360 it all. Is there any I mean, dude, are there 0:18:54.400 --> 0:18:58.439 any adults, Not that you're not in adults, but uh, 0:18:58.880 --> 0:19:04.800 you know, people at the school, representatives, guidance, counselors, other 0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:09.320 anyone that can help you in this situation because you 0:19:09.359 --> 0:19:11.040 sound like you're doing this on your own, and you 0:19:11.080 --> 0:19:12.680 shouldn't be doing this on your own. You should be 0:19:12.760 --> 0:19:16.720 working with a lawyer or whatever people there. 0:19:16.920 --> 0:19:20.880 You know, I'm too broke to afford a lawyer. Law, 0:19:21.480 --> 0:19:25.800 but I've asked. I've asked, like my we have we 0:19:25.880 --> 0:19:27.800 have like a social worker that comes to our school 0:19:27.800 --> 0:19:30.439 every so often, and I've asked her and she's like, okay, 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:33.600 we'll get this. Well, well we'll get an immediate investigation 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:37.040 on that. That was like three weeks ago, and I 0:19:37.080 --> 0:19:37.439 haven't heard. 0:19:38.400 --> 0:19:39.760 Did you follow up with her? 0:19:40.920 --> 0:19:42.720 I tried to and I never got a call back. 0:19:44.840 --> 0:19:47.160 Yeah. I mean, this is so bizarre to me because 0:19:47.200 --> 0:19:50.320 this college is not going off of any kind of 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:53.720 official investigation being taken place like there has been. 0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:54.040 No. 0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:54.760 I don't know. 0:19:54.920 --> 0:19:57.320 That's that's the whole thing. Le I don't know if 0:19:57.320 --> 0:20:00.760 there's an investigation or not. They might that I don't 0:20:00.760 --> 0:20:04.040 know about, but as far as I know, they're. 0:20:03.800 --> 0:20:07.640 Not fucking bizarre, man, fucking bizarre? 0:20:09.200 --> 0:20:10.199 What I mean? 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:12.160 I mean every I mean, dude, Well, here's the thing, okay, 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:14.080 I mean, you've told me, right, You've told me over 0:20:14.119 --> 0:20:17.240 the over this call of like what three or four 0:20:17.400 --> 0:20:19.399 separate people in the school. You've told me about, a 0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:21.879 social worker, you're told me about a coach, a headmaster, 0:20:22.359 --> 0:20:25.560 and and none of them have tried to help you 0:20:25.600 --> 0:20:25.879 with this. 0:20:27.520 --> 0:20:28.280 My coach has. 0:20:28.200 --> 0:20:31.199 Been trying to. He's been like batching for me or 0:20:31.400 --> 0:20:33.440 vouching for me every chance he gets, but there's only 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:34.360 so much he can do. 0:20:35.920 --> 0:20:40.399 Muh. Have you talked to your parents about this? 0:20:42.560 --> 0:20:44.119 No? I have not, not yet. 0:20:44.920 --> 0:20:47.280 Okay, that's something I should probably do. 0:20:47.720 --> 0:20:49.119 I think you should try to get their help. I 0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:51.320 mean listen, I have absolutely no idea what you should 0:20:51.320 --> 0:20:54.560 do in the situation, because I'm I feel as well. 0:20:54.600 --> 0:20:58.440 I mean, it's it's annoying because this is something that 0:20:59.160 --> 0:21:05.160 it warnts an official investigation of some kind for you 0:21:05.240 --> 0:21:10.119 to explain, and not for a college to fucking hear 0:21:10.440 --> 0:21:12.879 A that's so, that's so fucking dumb. 0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:17.119 I agree with you. 0:21:22.440 --> 0:21:25.400 So a college. So the college heard the rumor from 0:21:25.440 --> 0:21:29.040 your coach, and now the admissions. How does that even 0:21:29.080 --> 0:21:33.240 fucking work? When does a college even do that? Does 0:21:33.280 --> 0:21:34.960 none of that even make any sense to me? Maybe 0:21:34.960 --> 0:21:37.240 I'm dumb and I'm out of touch with like the 0:21:37.280 --> 0:21:40.880 college to high school relations, but that doesn't make any 0:21:40.880 --> 0:21:42.679 fucking sense to me that they would have heard about this. 0:21:44.880 --> 0:21:46.560 I really, I don't know. 0:21:46.640 --> 0:21:48.679 I just know they found out about it somehow, And 0:21:48.680 --> 0:21:51.720 they've had meetings with my coach about me before, and 0:21:51.760 --> 0:21:54.040 they've had meetings with me about like with my coach 0:21:54.160 --> 0:21:58.080 there about it before. So I'm guessing that they asked 0:21:58.080 --> 0:22:00.679 what the situation of the school was, how like I 0:22:00.800 --> 0:22:03.359 was doing in school, like social wise, all that shit, 0:22:03.480 --> 0:22:05.080 to know if I'm gonna be good at their. 0:22:04.960 --> 0:22:09.760 College or something like that. And I guess that came up. 0:22:09.800 --> 0:22:13.879 I really don't know, Jak. I'm I'm I'm in the 0:22:13.920 --> 0:22:16.040 blind spot as much as you m. 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:19.320 Jet. I think you should talk to your parents about this. 0:22:19.520 --> 0:22:24.600 I think you should follow up with that fucking social 0:22:24.640 --> 0:22:30.639 worker who hasn't done anything. I think you should, at 0:22:30.640 --> 0:22:32.679 the very least get a consult I don't know how 0:22:32.720 --> 0:22:34.120 much it costs, and I don't know if you can 0:22:34.160 --> 0:22:36.480 find somebody who's willing to at least give you a 0:22:36.480 --> 0:22:41.320 free consultation. But I would talk to a lawyer, and 0:22:41.359 --> 0:22:43.239 that that is really all I've got for you. I'm 0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:45.600 sorry that you're in this situation. This is totally stupid. 0:22:48.680 --> 0:22:55.159 Damn. I do appreciate it though, while a lot thank you. 0:22:55.280 --> 0:22:57.520 This is like my fourth trying time trying to get 0:22:57.520 --> 0:22:58.440 in here on this too. 0:22:59.720 --> 0:23:02.199 Is there any other aspect of this situation or are 0:23:02.320 --> 0:23:04.120 just anything in general that you want to talk about 0:23:04.160 --> 0:23:07.160 before we go or say to the people of the computer. 0:23:07.160 --> 0:23:15.440 Mean, uh, I don't know, No, I'm scared just gonna 0:23:15.440 --> 0:23:17.920 affect my relationship. That's another thing. 0:23:18.560 --> 0:23:19.640 What with your fiance? 0:23:21.320 --> 0:23:24.800 Yeah, like, because I mean my fiance, I love her 0:23:24.800 --> 0:23:26.840 at death. Shout out to my fiance if she watching 0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:31.400