WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Date Night Veto

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey and you found the Second

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<v Speaker 1>I think what blew me away is, you know, oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>people will leave out things that they did wrong on

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<v Speaker 1>their date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this woman omitted what she did simply because

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't register to her as something bad. No shame, right,

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<v Speaker 1>she should have so much shame, like, she should have

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<v Speaker 1>all of the shame should be on her. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>understand here in a second. Let's get some comments. So,

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<v Speaker 1>alexis I know a lot of people were heated yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>or laughing? I guess over the awkward Tuesday phone call.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw Ashlee wise okay commented lacked for thirty seconds

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<v Speaker 3>straight at Jeffrey's men don't lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Also he lied that hit close to hope for her. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and there it is all right. Keep your comments coming, like, subscribe, follow,

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 4>Second Date Up Date. Are there rules for when you

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<v Speaker 4>want to veto a date that you don't love?

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<v Speaker 5>Like in the planning stages or were already on it

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<v Speaker 5>in the plane in the planning stages, like, Okay, you're

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<v Speaker 5>looking forward to hanging out with this person, but you

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<v Speaker 5>just aren't thrilled about the activity that they came up with, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there a limit to how many vetos you get

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<v Speaker 4>to be? Like, oh you want to do this? No,

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<v Speaker 4>no is a number that you have you can't go

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<v Speaker 4>over I think you can't.

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<v Speaker 6>Go over one.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you get one veto and then you start

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<v Speaker 1>to look picky And.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you need to say veto in a fancy accent

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<v Speaker 4>so it sounds less harsh when you're turning them down? Veto?

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<v Speaker 4>I only asked because one of our listeners, Brittany, exercised

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<v Speaker 4>her right to veto, and now she's ended up here

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<v Speaker 4>with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, Brittany, did you use the wrong accent when you veto?

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<v Speaker 6>I wish I could do a cool accent.

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<v Speaker 4>On your email, it says you went out with a

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<v Speaker 4>guy named Josh and you had to turn down an

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<v Speaker 4>idea too. So tell us about Josh. How'd you meet him?

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<v Speaker 6>We met through friend of a friend, So, okay, I

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<v Speaker 6>was already really close to one of his guy friends.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and so how did the planning of this date

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<v Speaker 4>god like run us through that?

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<v Speaker 6>So we were in between texting and it was really

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<v Speaker 6>sweet of him to bring up like minigalf, but I

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<v Speaker 6>just wasn't feeling it, and then he brought up bowling. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>I honestly wasn't feeling that.

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<v Speaker 4>So wait, are you like?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like if you vetoed that, you then have

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<v Speaker 1>to offer a suggestion yourself. Were you just saying no?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay? So I was just saying no, and I okay,

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<v Speaker 6>real quick, I will admit I was being kind of

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<v Speaker 6>a princess.

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<v Speaker 4>You weren't just saying no, you were saying ew no.

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<v Speaker 1>She used that little barf emoji.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Gross, it wasn't that bad.

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you finally decide on something to do?

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>We ended up just he was like, why didn't just

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<v Speaker 6>come over to my place? It's a big community, like

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<v Speaker 6>we can go for a walk, like around the neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 6>And to be honest, that sounded more like I had

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<v Speaker 6>a stressful work week, like I'm about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So, I mean after feeling high maintenance, now you see

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<v Speaker 1>low maintenance. That's all you need.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't even think about that, but you're so right.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, without knowing there is. Okay, so you agreed

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<v Speaker 4>to a walk around his neighborhood, and how did that go?

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<v Speaker 6>It was actually really good. We got along, we had

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<v Speaker 6>a lot of things in common. We ended up going

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<v Speaker 6>back to his place and it was good and bad.

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<v Speaker 4>His place was bad.

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<v Speaker 6>No, no, no, no no no. His place was nice actually,

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<v Speaker 6>like it was modern and clean.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you're saying the vibe was good and bad.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, thank you, because I.

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<v Speaker 4>Could see you also walking through and being like veto

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<v Speaker 4>that painting, veto that backsplash. Yeah, that is a fair actually, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So when you're hanging out with him at his place,

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<v Speaker 4>what happens?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's the good?

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<v Speaker 6>The good was the banter? Like again, we just kind

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<v Speaker 6>of hit it off really well. Nice the bad part

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<v Speaker 6>that Okay, So we put on you the Netflix show.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, isn't that the Stalker show?

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<v Speaker 6>This?

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<v Speaker 1>Then it's supposed to be with Penn badgerly, but only

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<v Speaker 1>it's darker aft the first season it gets Okay, So.

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<v Speaker 6>It was just on in the background, like we were talking,

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<v Speaker 6>watching and he was sitting all the way on the

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<v Speaker 6>other side of the couchlake. Oh no, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>If it was the fact that he was shy or what.

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<v Speaker 6>But it did kind of throw me off, like it

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<v Speaker 6>wasn't the greatest vibe if you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>You're yelling across the living room while a show is playing.

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<v Speaker 4>You probably to yell anyway to be heard over a

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<v Speaker 4>Netflix show playing in the background.

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<v Speaker 6>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>So, so how did you guys end it?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, it was getting dark and I, honestly, I just

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<v Speaker 6>kind of like I was getting tired, so I just

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<v Speaker 6>told him I had to go. No kiss. We did hug, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>but when I got to my car, I realized I

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<v Speaker 6>only brought my sunglasses, like I didn't bring my real glasses,

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<v Speaker 6>So I like, I can't drive, Like I definitely can't

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<v Speaker 6>drive without my glasses. And so I ended up texting

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<v Speaker 6>him like, hey, this is the situation. And he ended

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<v Speaker 6>up telling me that I could stay the night.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't he say I'll drive you home. That's interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>Obviously, between the two choices stay the night or I'll

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<v Speaker 4>take you home, the guy is gonna pick Yeah, sure

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<v Speaker 4>you can have a sleepover.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>Why are you so against the sleepover?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, I'm just surprised because he's a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>sat on the opposite room from her. It sounded like

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't chance into it. He's like, okay, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure you're getting mixed signals. Then right when he asks you,

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<v Speaker 1>did you stay the night? I did?

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<v Speaker 6>And I ended up yes I did. Yeah, it's nothing.

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<v Speaker 6>I just ended up staying the night.

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<v Speaker 1>It was well, like, did you sleep on the couch

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<v Speaker 1>at the friends?

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<v Speaker 4>Again, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 4>Show was so perverted. We want all the details.

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<v Speaker 1>They happened, though, she's flustered.

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<v Speaker 4>Something not major, but something's happened.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the question. What was it like? The next morning?

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<v Speaker 4>There go brugh, no comment.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I don't know if that's good.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, so what's happened? I'm assuming the next day

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<v Speaker 4>you got back your car, you drove home, and then

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<v Speaker 4>what's happened since then?

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<v Speaker 6>That's where we're at. Absolutely nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>He's not responding to you at all at all. Well,

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<v Speaker 4>now when we call him, some of the details about

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<v Speaker 4>what happened that night might need to come out if

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<v Speaker 4>they explain why he's not calling you back. Hopefully you're okay,

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<v Speaker 4>we need that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the whole world, Okay, be prepared.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's try and get some more details out of Josh

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<v Speaker 4>when we come back and call him, try and get

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<v Speaker 4>you your second date update right after this. All right,

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<v Speaker 4>thank you? All right, hold on second date update. It's

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<v Speaker 4>the classic first date line young people love to use. Oh,

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<v Speaker 4>I forgot my driving glasses? Can I spend the night

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<v Speaker 4>of your place?

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<v Speaker 8>Who worked on me all throughout college and driving glove

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<v Speaker 8>and scar god so many But now, to be fair,

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<v Speaker 8>our listener, Brittany didn't ask to spend the night over

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<v Speaker 8>at Josh's house.

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<v Speaker 4>He offered to let her stay.

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<v Speaker 1>Which means he wanted to because there's so many other

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<v Speaker 1>solutions to figure in this problem.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll just call you but something. Ever since then, Brittany

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<v Speaker 4>hasn't seen any effort by Josh for him to arrange

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<v Speaker 4>a second meet up with her, which is kind of

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<v Speaker 4>odd because she says there was there was a connection there,

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<v Speaker 4>There was a chemist street, especially when they were bantering

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<v Speaker 4>with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, except for the moment on the couch, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>long moment. Yeah, on the couch where they're sitting on

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<v Speaker 1>the opposite ends.

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<v Speaker 4>He just sat in a weird spot and maybe got

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<v Speaker 4>stuck there, wasn't sure. How to move over. We're not

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<v Speaker 4>really sure. That's why we need to ask him.

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<v Speaker 1>And I forgot Brittany. You said your friends set you up.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you heard anything from them?

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<v Speaker 6>Nothing. I've tried to reach out to them too, And

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<v Speaker 6>she just keeps saying that she's busy. And then the

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<v Speaker 6>other guy's like, yeah, we're super busy right now, like

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<v Speaker 6>we get back to you.

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<v Speaker 4>That sounds like they're covering for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, wheah, weird. I wonder if they didn't know, like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's I don't know what, who knows.

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<v Speaker 4>We get up a million questions. It's best to just

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<v Speaker 4>call Josh and ask. So I'm gonna dial his number

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<v Speaker 4>right now and we'll see if he picks up.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go, well, hey, we're looking to talk with Josh.

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<v Speaker 9>This is he.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey Josh. We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and

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<v Speaker 4>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Joh, good morning, heyy So hope it's okay if we

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<v Speaker 7>ask you some questions about your dating life, because we're

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<v Speaker 7>doing a segment called second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 9>On the radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're very specific questions only about one person.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, a person you went out with recently named Brittany.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh yeah, okay, okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I guess we'll move into the questions.

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<v Speaker 4>So we know a little bit about when you and

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<v Speaker 4>Brittany hung out. Like, here's a little bit of the

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<v Speaker 4>background to catch you up. Because Brittany was on the

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<v Speaker 4>show and she told us that she came over to

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<v Speaker 4>your neighborhood. You guys walked around overall. We weren't sure

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<v Speaker 4>if the date was like great or just average, But

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<v Speaker 4>she did say that she spent the night. We just

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<v Speaker 4>we were not one hundred percent sure what that means.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and she's interested in you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So could you maybe let us in on what's

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<v Speaker 4>been going on in your head?

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<v Speaker 9>Sure? I mean, I don't know how much she's told

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<v Speaker 9>you about.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's mostly everything I just recapped for you right there,

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<v Speaker 4>right generic, just general. Did you have a good night?

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<v Speaker 6>It was different?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, okay, it could be different in a good way.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Alexis, would you be complimented if a

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<v Speaker 1>guy says your day? Even the pause for ten seconds

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<v Speaker 1>before he answered, he was like, it was yeah, did

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<v Speaker 1>she do something weird or wrong?

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<v Speaker 9>So I don't know if I mean this is gonna

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<v Speaker 9>look great.

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<v Speaker 1>For her, it's not going to look great for her.

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<v Speaker 9>You said it's not going to look great for her,

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<v Speaker 9>But I mean, if you really want to know where

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<v Speaker 9>it took.

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<v Speaker 4>A left turn for me, we really want to know.

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<v Speaker 4>But more importantly, she really wants to know, and she's

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<v Speaker 4>agreed to hear whatever the reason is. The risks.

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<v Speaker 1>We out outright warned her that she may hear something

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<v Speaker 1>that's not super flattering.

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<v Speaker 4>She was pumped about it.

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<v Speaker 1>She wasn't, but she's okay.

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<v Speaker 9>With oh, so okay. So we were just watching Netflix

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<v Speaker 9>and during the middle she pulls out her phone, which

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<v Speaker 9>you know is fine, but then she asked me to

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<v Speaker 9>come over and look over, and she's basically stowing me

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<v Speaker 9>pictures of her co workers and how fat and ugly

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<v Speaker 9>they were. We commentating one by one and you know,

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<v Speaker 9>to her cudit and she wasn't wrong about all of them, but.

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<v Speaker 1>In her photo galloy being like, look how ugly this

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<v Speaker 1>person is.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 9>I was wondering what is going on right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Was it a joke that maybe she's funny?

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<v Speaker 9>It seems like she had no one to talk to,

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<v Speaker 9>know what to gossip with that works, So I guess

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<v Speaker 9>this is her way of releasing that information.

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<v Speaker 1>Gossip, that's just me. She said she wanted to do

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<v Speaker 1>something chill because she had a bad week at work.

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<v Speaker 1>Told us that that she had a bad week at

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<v Speaker 1>work and so she's just venting by and it was

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<v Speaker 1>all about people's appearances.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, mostly, but also I think it was just she

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<v Speaker 9>was also talking about their performance at work.

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<v Speaker 1>Yikes.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, would almost be sympathetic if she was telling you

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<v Speaker 7>the stories this girl was mean to me or this

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<v Speaker 7>thing happened, So not just going look at this bad person.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, to have a photo gallery of them at the ready.

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<v Speaker 4>I am so impressed with her that she's that organized

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<v Speaker 4>to be able to bust it out.

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<v Speaker 9>And there was a girl picture and it wasn't a

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<v Speaker 9>good photo at all.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, easy to go's collection of people.

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<v Speaker 4>The way you're describing it to us earlier, you felt

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<v Speaker 4>like that was a bad thing for you. That was

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<v Speaker 4>a red flag.

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<v Speaker 9>Again, I jokingly say it was kind of funny and random,

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<v Speaker 9>but at the same time, this was not.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, but it's the same thing to you if

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<v Speaker 4>you were that put off by it. Then she told

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<v Speaker 4>us that you asked her to spend the night, and

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<v Speaker 4>something may have happened between you two, because it's more

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a guy, so it was a selfless act of you.

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<v Speaker 4>You want to make her feel better? Gotcha?

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<v Speaker 9>Question?

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<v Speaker 4>What a sweet sweet man?

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<v Speaker 1>Aren't you?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you? I mean, she's the worst. She probably felt

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<v Speaker 4>better afterwards and like she was enjoyed to work with

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<v Speaker 4>the rest. And you don't have to believe me on

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<v Speaker 4>that one day, because Brittany is on the other line

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<v Speaker 4>of this phone call right now wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, real quick, I do. I want to talk

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<v Speaker 6>about that in the room.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, Okay. You know, Brittany, you never brought that

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<v Speaker 4>up when we talked to you about your date before.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, it's worrisome because it means that you found it normal.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it is absolutely normal. I mean, isn't it better

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<v Speaker 6>to talk about them behind their back than in front

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<v Speaker 6>of their face?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 9>And also you went way beyond that. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 9>were just being so negative and critical of everyone, and

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<v Speaker 9>I guess.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm honestly you need to shut your trap because I'm

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<v Speaker 6>so sick of your judgy judge, judge, the.

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<v Speaker 8>One who judges.

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<v Speaker 4>She sounds stressed out again. Invite her over.

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<v Speaker 1>She needs to play another round of hot or not

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<v Speaker 1>with the copper scared what's about us? Oh yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 1>going to be dropping into my d book.

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<v Speaker 4>You do say a lot of unsavory things out people

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<v Speaker 4>that work here in private, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Commented on.

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<v Speaker 6>It's normal. It's a normal thing. And if you create

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<v Speaker 6>an environment for people to be able to do that,

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<v Speaker 6>then people are going to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's their fault that they aren't to your standard

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<v Speaker 3>of appearance Brooks words, I mean to be honest, Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>it is their fault. Oh wow, that is so shallow, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 3>and excuse.

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<v Speaker 6>Me, you're the sallow one brook like everybody else saying

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<v Speaker 6>that you talk all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>Jeff, is joke. I mean, I'm definitely smiling. I'll say that.

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<v Speaker 6>I regret asking you to help me out with this book.

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<v Speaker 6>I just I knew you weren't going to be truthful

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<v Speaker 6>about it. I need to.

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<v Speaker 4>Regret ugly right then.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why that would have felt better to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Brooke, I would really appreciate if you stayed out

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<v Speaker 4>of the second date and brought everybody down with your negativity.

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<v Speaker 4>We need to focus on helping this couple reconcile and

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<v Speaker 4>get together for another date. Because Josh, we would offer

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<v Speaker 4>to send you out one more time and we would

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<v Speaker 4>pay for it unless it ended up being back at

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<v Speaker 4>your place.

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<v Speaker 6>Again, I'm not interested. This wasn't the way I thought

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<v Speaker 6>things were going to be wrapped up, and I'm not interested.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm actually not even interested in this show anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>So look what you did.

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<v Speaker 9>I know you seem quite interested thing the night.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you don't need to go all the way back to.

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<v Speaker 1>That wasn't the burn you thought it was.

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, look, I tried, I tried.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's always going to be meaner than you,

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<v Speaker 1>so I would just stop. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, Brittany, hey, thanks again for being on with us

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<v Speaker 4>and giving it a shot.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, thanks for nothing. You can go through us.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh well, thank you. I think I'm going to go

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<v Speaker 4>do that the wellness room here, I'm going to go

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<v Speaker 4>in there and think about all my fat ugly co works.

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<v Speaker 4>Just have a great time at the party. Come on

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<v Speaker 4>Jeffrey in the morning. Well back from the break room,

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<v Speaker 4>I had a lot of time to mull things over.

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<v Speaker 4>It just happened.

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<v Speaker 1>You take listeners so literally sometimes, jeff I think that

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<v Speaker 1>was more of a figurative screw you.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you had a good suggestion for yourself. But

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<v Speaker 4>I think we all agree that bad mouthing your coworkers

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<v Speaker 4>is something you just don't do until date number three,

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<v Speaker 4>or until you're in a serious relationship with that person.

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<v Speaker 1>At the very least, have you honestly ever pulled out

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of someone and talked about how ugly they were.

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<v Speaker 7>Not like, look at this fool, So no surprise, their

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<v Speaker 7>moral compasses didn't align.

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<v Speaker 1>One and one didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>He was agreeing with her on some of the comments.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what.

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<v Speaker 4>It didn't work out, But maybe she'll appear again on

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<v Speaker 4>our show during a blind lovies.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, sure, she'd be perfect for that. She sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like looks don't matter to her, so she'd love to

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<v Speaker 1>meet someone that she'd never seen before.

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<v Speaker 4>Sounds like she's better for am I the jerk. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>there's somebody and a segment out there for everybody. We

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<v Speaker 4>can probably find your segment if you go on to

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<v Speaker 4>our podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you ever need help in your dating life,

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<v Speaker 4>email the show. We can call that person who's not

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<v Speaker 4>calling you back.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,