Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey and you found the Second
Speaker 1: Date Podcast. We've got a new podcast for you today.
Speaker 1: I think what blew me away is, you know, oftentimes
Speaker 1: people will leave out things that they did wrong on
Speaker 1: their date.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think this woman omitted what she did simply because
Speaker 1: it didn't register to her as something bad. No shame, right,
Speaker 1: she should have so much shame, like, she should have
Speaker 1: all of the shame should be on her. You're gonna
Speaker 1: understand here in a second. Let's get some comments. So,
Speaker 1: alexis I know a lot of people were heated yesterday
Speaker 1: or laughing? I guess over the awkward Tuesday phone call.
Speaker 3: I saw Ashlee wise okay commented lacked for thirty seconds
Speaker 3: straight at Jeffrey's men don't lie.
Speaker 1: Also he lied that hit close to hope for her. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and there it is all right. Keep your comments coming, like, subscribe, follow,
Speaker 1: do the thing, hey, and give us a rating too,
Speaker 1: that'd be right. Well, unless it's bad then you didn't
Speaker 1: hear that. Let's get this new podcast started. It's a
Speaker 1: Second Date Update.
Speaker 4: Second Date Up Date. Are there rules for when you
Speaker 4: want to veto a date that you don't love?
Speaker 5: Like in the planning stages or were already on it
Speaker 5: in the plane in the planning stages, like, Okay, you're
Speaker 5: looking forward to hanging out with this person, but you
Speaker 5: just aren't thrilled about the activity that they came up with, Like.
Speaker 4: Is there a limit to how many vetos you get
Speaker 4: to be? Like, oh you want to do this? No,
Speaker 4: no is a number that you have you can't go
Speaker 4: over I think you can't.
Speaker 6: Go over one.
Speaker 1: I think you get one veto and then you start
Speaker 1: to look picky And.
Speaker 4: Do you need to say veto in a fancy accent
Speaker 4: so it sounds less harsh when you're turning them down? Veto?
Speaker 4: I only asked because one of our listeners, Brittany, exercised
Speaker 4: her right to veto, and now she's ended up here
Speaker 4: with us.
Speaker 1: Oh, Brittany, did you use the wrong accent when you veto?
Speaker 6: I wish I could do a cool accent.
Speaker 4: On your email, it says you went out with a
Speaker 4: guy named Josh and you had to turn down an
Speaker 4: idea too. So tell us about Josh. How'd you meet him?
Speaker 6: We met through friend of a friend, So, okay, I
Speaker 6: was already really close to one of his guy friends.
Speaker 4: Okay, and so how did the planning of this date
Speaker 4: god like run us through that?
Speaker 6: So we were in between texting and it was really
Speaker 6: sweet of him to bring up like minigalf, but I
Speaker 6: just wasn't feeling it, and then he brought up bowling. Oh,
Speaker 6: I honestly wasn't feeling that.
Speaker 4: So wait, are you like?
Speaker 1: I feel like if you vetoed that, you then have
Speaker 1: to offer a suggestion yourself. Were you just saying no?
Speaker 6: Okay? So I was just saying no, and I okay,
Speaker 6: real quick, I will admit I was being kind of
Speaker 6: a princess.
Speaker 4: You weren't just saying no, you were saying ew no.
Speaker 1: She used that little barf emoji.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Gross, it wasn't that bad.
Speaker 6: It wasn't that bad.
Speaker 1: So did you finally decide on something to do?
Speaker 2: Well?
Speaker 6: We ended up just he was like, why didn't just
Speaker 6: come over to my place? It's a big community, like
Speaker 6: we can go for a walk, like around the neighborhood.
Speaker 6: And to be honest, that sounded more like I had
Speaker 6: a stressful work week, like I'm about it.
Speaker 1: So, I mean after feeling high maintenance, now you see
Speaker 1: low maintenance. That's all you need.
Speaker 6: I didn't even think about that, but you're so right.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, without knowing there is. Okay, so you agreed
Speaker 4: to a walk around his neighborhood, and how did that go?
Speaker 6: It was actually really good. We got along, we had
Speaker 6: a lot of things in common. We ended up going
Speaker 6: back to his place and it was good and bad.
Speaker 4: His place was bad.
Speaker 6: No, no, no, no no no. His place was nice actually,
Speaker 6: like it was modern and clean.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're saying the vibe was good and bad.
Speaker 6: Yes, thank you, because I.
Speaker 4: Could see you also walking through and being like veto
Speaker 4: that painting, veto that backsplash. Yeah, that is a fair actually, okay.
Speaker 4: So when you're hanging out with him at his place,
Speaker 4: what happens?
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the good?
Speaker 6: The good was the banter? Like again, we just kind
Speaker 6: of hit it off really well. Nice the bad part
Speaker 6: that Okay, So we put on you the Netflix show.
Speaker 1: Wait, isn't that the Stalker show?
Speaker 6: This?
Speaker 1: Then it's supposed to be with Penn badgerly, but only
Speaker 1: it's darker aft the first season it gets Okay, So.
Speaker 6: It was just on in the background, like we were talking,
Speaker 6: watching and he was sitting all the way on the
Speaker 6: other side of the couchlake. Oh no, I don't know.
Speaker 6: If it was the fact that he was shy or what.
Speaker 6: But it did kind of throw me off, like it
Speaker 6: wasn't the greatest vibe if you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You're yelling across the living room while a show is playing.
Speaker 4: You probably to yell anyway to be heard over a
Speaker 4: Netflix show playing in the background.
Speaker 6: Interesting.
Speaker 4: So, so how did you guys end it?
Speaker 6: Well, it was getting dark and I, honestly, I just
Speaker 6: kind of like I was getting tired, so I just
Speaker 6: told him I had to go. No kiss. We did hug, okay,
Speaker 6: but when I got to my car, I realized I
Speaker 6: only brought my sunglasses, like I didn't bring my real glasses,
Speaker 6: So I like, I can't drive, Like I definitely can't
Speaker 6: drive without my glasses. And so I ended up texting
Speaker 6: him like, hey, this is the situation. And he ended
Speaker 6: up telling me that I could stay the night.
Speaker 4: Oh wow.
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't he say I'll drive you home. That's interesting.
Speaker 4: Obviously, between the two choices stay the night or I'll
Speaker 4: take you home, the guy is gonna pick Yeah, sure
Speaker 4: you can have a sleepover.
Speaker 7: I don't.
Speaker 4: Why are you so against the sleepover?
Speaker 1: I thought, I'm just surprised because he's a guy that
Speaker 1: sat on the opposite room from her. It sounded like
Speaker 1: he wasn't chance into it. He's like, okay, so I'm
Speaker 1: sure you're getting mixed signals. Then right when he asks you,
Speaker 1: did you stay the night? I did?
Speaker 6: And I ended up yes I did. Yeah, it's nothing.
Speaker 6: I just ended up staying the night.
Speaker 1: It was well, like, did you sleep on the couch
Speaker 1: at the friends?
Speaker 4: Again, that's a good question.
Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 4: Show was so perverted. We want all the details.
Speaker 1: They happened, though, she's flustered.
Speaker 4: Something not major, but something's happened.
Speaker 1: Here's the question. What was it like? The next morning?
Speaker 4: There go brugh, no comment.
Speaker 1: All right, I don't know if that's good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so what's happened? I'm assuming the next day
Speaker 4: you got back your car, you drove home, and then
Speaker 4: what's happened since then?
Speaker 6: That's where we're at. Absolutely nothing.
Speaker 4: He's not responding to you at all at all. Well,
Speaker 4: now when we call him, some of the details about
Speaker 4: what happened that night might need to come out if
Speaker 4: they explain why he's not calling you back. Hopefully you're okay,
Speaker 4: we need that.
Speaker 1: Okay, the whole world, Okay, be prepared.
Speaker 4: Let's try and get some more details out of Josh
Speaker 4: when we come back and call him, try and get
Speaker 4: you your second date update right after this. All right,
Speaker 4: thank you? All right, hold on second date update. It's
Speaker 4: the classic first date line young people love to use. Oh,
Speaker 4: I forgot my driving glasses? Can I spend the night
Speaker 4: of your place?
Speaker 8: Who worked on me all throughout college and driving glove
Speaker 8: and scar god so many But now, to be fair,
Speaker 8: our listener, Brittany didn't ask to spend the night over
Speaker 8: at Josh's house.
Speaker 4: He offered to let her stay.
Speaker 1: Which means he wanted to because there's so many other
Speaker 1: solutions to figure in this problem.
Speaker 4: I'll just call you but something. Ever since then, Brittany
Speaker 4: hasn't seen any effort by Josh for him to arrange
Speaker 4: a second meet up with her, which is kind of
Speaker 4: odd because she says there was there was a connection there,
Speaker 4: There was a chemist street, especially when they were bantering
Speaker 4: with each other.
Speaker 1: Yeah, except for the moment on the couch, that's the
Speaker 1: long moment. Yeah, on the couch where they're sitting on
Speaker 1: the opposite ends.
Speaker 4: He just sat in a weird spot and maybe got
Speaker 4: stuck there, wasn't sure. How to move over. We're not
Speaker 4: really sure. That's why we need to ask him.
Speaker 1: And I forgot Brittany. You said your friends set you up.
Speaker 1: Have you heard anything from them?
Speaker 6: Nothing. I've tried to reach out to them too, And
Speaker 6: she just keeps saying that she's busy. And then the
Speaker 6: other guy's like, yeah, we're super busy right now, like
Speaker 6: we get back to you.
Speaker 4: That sounds like they're covering for him.
Speaker 1: Yes, wheah, weird. I wonder if they didn't know, like
Speaker 1: maybe he's I don't know what, who knows.
Speaker 4: We get up a million questions. It's best to just
Speaker 4: call Josh and ask. So I'm gonna dial his number
Speaker 4: right now and we'll see if he picks up.
Speaker 2: Here we go, well, hey, we're looking to talk with Josh.
Speaker 9: This is he.
Speaker 4: Hey Josh. We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and
Speaker 4: in the morning.
Speaker 7: Joh, good morning, heyy So hope it's okay if we
Speaker 7: ask you some questions about your dating life, because we're
Speaker 7: doing a segment called second Date Update.
Speaker 9: On the radio.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're very specific questions only about one person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, a person you went out with recently named Brittany.
Speaker 9: Oh yeah, okay, okay, Okay.
Speaker 1: Okay, I guess we'll move into the questions.
Speaker 4: So we know a little bit about when you and
Speaker 4: Brittany hung out. Like, here's a little bit of the
Speaker 4: background to catch you up. Because Brittany was on the
Speaker 4: show and she told us that she came over to
Speaker 4: your neighborhood. You guys walked around overall. We weren't sure
Speaker 4: if the date was like great or just average, But
Speaker 4: she did say that she spent the night. We just
Speaker 4: we were not one hundred percent sure what that means.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's interested in you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So could you maybe let us in on what's
Speaker 4: been going on in your head?
Speaker 9: Sure? I mean, I don't know how much she's told
Speaker 9: you about.
Speaker 4: Well, it's mostly everything I just recapped for you right there,
Speaker 4: right generic, just general. Did you have a good night?
Speaker 6: It was different?
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, it could be different in a good way.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Alexis, would you be complimented if a
Speaker 1: guy says your day? Even the pause for ten seconds
Speaker 1: before he answered, he was like, it was yeah, did
Speaker 1: she do something weird or wrong?
Speaker 9: So I don't know if I mean this is gonna
Speaker 9: look great.
Speaker 1: For her, it's not going to look great for her.
Speaker 9: You said it's not going to look great for her,
Speaker 9: But I mean, if you really want to know where
Speaker 9: it took.
Speaker 4: A left turn for me, we really want to know.
Speaker 4: But more importantly, she really wants to know, and she's
Speaker 4: agreed to hear whatever the reason is. The risks.
Speaker 1: We out outright warned her that she may hear something
Speaker 1: that's not super flattering.
Speaker 4: She was pumped about it.
Speaker 1: She wasn't, but she's okay.
Speaker 9: With oh, so okay. So we were just watching Netflix
Speaker 9: and during the middle she pulls out her phone, which
Speaker 9: you know is fine, but then she asked me to
Speaker 9: come over and look over, and she's basically stowing me
Speaker 9: pictures of her co workers and how fat and ugly
Speaker 9: they were. We commentating one by one and you know,
Speaker 9: to her cudit and she wasn't wrong about all of them, but.
Speaker 1: In her photo galloy being like, look how ugly this
Speaker 1: person is.
Speaker 4: Oh my god.
Speaker 9: I was wondering what is going on right now?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Was it a joke that maybe she's funny?
Speaker 9: It seems like she had no one to talk to,
Speaker 9: know what to gossip with that works, So I guess
Speaker 9: this is her way of releasing that information.
Speaker 1: Gossip, that's just me. She said she wanted to do
Speaker 1: something chill because she had a bad week at work.
Speaker 1: Told us that that she had a bad week at
Speaker 1: work and so she's just venting by and it was
Speaker 1: all about people's appearances.
Speaker 9: Yeah, mostly, but also I think it was just she
Speaker 9: was also talking about their performance at work.
Speaker 1: Yikes.
Speaker 7: Okay, would almost be sympathetic if she was telling you
Speaker 7: the stories this girl was mean to me or this
Speaker 7: thing happened, So not just going look at this bad person.
Speaker 1: Yeah, to have a photo gallery of them at the ready.
Speaker 4: I am so impressed with her that she's that organized
Speaker 4: to be able to bust it out.
Speaker 9: And there was a girl picture and it wasn't a
Speaker 9: good photo at all.
Speaker 7: Okay, easy to go's collection of people.
Speaker 4: The way you're describing it to us earlier, you felt
Speaker 4: like that was a bad thing for you. That was
Speaker 4: a red flag.
Speaker 9: Again, I jokingly say it was kind of funny and random,
Speaker 9: but at the same time, this was not.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, but it's the same thing to you if
Speaker 4: you were that put off by it. Then she told
Speaker 4: us that you asked her to spend the night, and
Speaker 4: something may have happened between you two, because it's more
Speaker 4: I'm a guy, so it was a selfless act of you.
Speaker 4: You want to make her feel better? Gotcha?
Speaker 9: Question?
Speaker 4: What a sweet sweet man?
Speaker 1: Aren't you?
Speaker 4: Thank you? I mean, she's the worst. She probably felt
Speaker 4: better afterwards and like she was enjoyed to work with
Speaker 4: the rest. And you don't have to believe me on
Speaker 4: that one day, because Brittany is on the other line
Speaker 4: of this phone call right now wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, real quick, I do. I want to talk
Speaker 6: about that in the room.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Oh wow, Okay. You know, Brittany, you never brought that
Speaker 4: up when we talked to you about your date before.
Speaker 1: Honestly, it's worrisome because it means that you found it normal.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it is absolutely normal. I mean, isn't it better
Speaker 6: to talk about them behind their back than in front
Speaker 6: of their face?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 9: And also you went way beyond that. I mean, you
Speaker 9: were just being so negative and critical of everyone, and
Speaker 9: I guess.
Speaker 6: I'm honestly you need to shut your trap because I'm
Speaker 6: so sick of your judgy judge, judge, the.
Speaker 8: One who judges.
Speaker 4: She sounds stressed out again. Invite her over.
Speaker 1: She needs to play another round of hot or not
Speaker 1: with the copper scared what's about us? Oh yeah, she's
Speaker 1: going to be dropping into my d book.
Speaker 4: You do say a lot of unsavory things out people
Speaker 4: that work here in private, you know.
Speaker 1: Commented on.
Speaker 6: It's normal. It's a normal thing. And if you create
Speaker 6: an environment for people to be able to do that,
Speaker 6: then people are going to do that.
Speaker 3: So it's their fault that they aren't to your standard
Speaker 3: of appearance Brooks words, I mean to be honest, Yes,
Speaker 3: it is their fault. Oh wow, that is so shallow, Brittany,
Speaker 3: and excuse.
Speaker 6: Me, you're the sallow one brook like everybody else saying
Speaker 6: that you talk all the time.
Speaker 4: Jeff, is joke. I mean, I'm definitely smiling. I'll say that.
Speaker 6: I regret asking you to help me out with this book.
Speaker 6: I just I knew you weren't going to be truthful
Speaker 6: about it. I need to.
Speaker 4: Regret ugly right then.
Speaker 1: I don't know why that would have felt better to me.
Speaker 4: Okay, Brooke, I would really appreciate if you stayed out
Speaker 4: of the second date and brought everybody down with your negativity.
Speaker 4: We need to focus on helping this couple reconcile and
Speaker 4: get together for another date. Because Josh, we would offer
Speaker 4: to send you out one more time and we would
Speaker 4: pay for it unless it ended up being back at
Speaker 4: your place.
Speaker 6: Again, I'm not interested. This wasn't the way I thought
Speaker 6: things were going to be wrapped up, and I'm not interested.
Speaker 6: I'm actually not even interested in this show anymore.
Speaker 4: So look what you did.
Speaker 9: I know you seem quite interested thing the night.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't need to go all the way back to.
Speaker 1: That wasn't the burn you thought it was.
Speaker 9: I mean, look, I tried, I tried.
Speaker 1: I think she's always going to be meaner than you,
Speaker 1: so I would just stop. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well, Brittany, hey, thanks again for being on with us
Speaker 4: and giving it a shot.
Speaker 6: Yeah, thanks for nothing. You can go through us.
Speaker 4: Oh well, thank you. I think I'm going to go
Speaker 4: do that the wellness room here, I'm going to go
Speaker 4: in there and think about all my fat ugly co works.
Speaker 4: Just have a great time at the party. Come on
Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning. Well back from the break room,
Speaker 4: I had a lot of time to mull things over.
Speaker 4: It just happened.
Speaker 1: You take listeners so literally sometimes, jeff I think that
Speaker 1: was more of a figurative screw you.
Speaker 4: I thought you had a good suggestion for yourself. But
Speaker 4: I think we all agree that bad mouthing your coworkers
Speaker 4: is something you just don't do until date number three,
Speaker 4: or until you're in a serious relationship with that person.
Speaker 1: At the very least, have you honestly ever pulled out
Speaker 1: a picture of someone and talked about how ugly they were.
Speaker 7: Not like, look at this fool, So no surprise, their
Speaker 7: moral compasses didn't align.
Speaker 1: One and one didn't.
Speaker 4: He was agreeing with her on some of the comments.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 2: You know what.
Speaker 4: It didn't work out, But maybe she'll appear again on
Speaker 4: our show during a blind lovies.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, sure, she'd be perfect for that. She sounds
Speaker 1: like looks don't matter to her, so she'd love to
Speaker 1: meet someone that she'd never seen before.
Speaker 4: Sounds like she's better for am I the jerk. Yeah,
Speaker 4: there's somebody and a segment out there for everybody. We
Speaker 4: can probably find your segment if you go on to
Speaker 4: our podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 4: And if you ever need help in your dating life,
Speaker 4: email the show. We can call that person who's not
Speaker 4: calling you back.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,