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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey and you found the Second

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Speaker 1: Date Podcast. We've got a new podcast for you today.

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Speaker 1: I think what blew me away is, you know, oftentimes

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Speaker 1: people will leave out things that they did wrong on

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Speaker 1: their date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think this woman omitted what she did simply because

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Speaker 1: it didn't register to her as something bad. No shame, right,

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Speaker 1: she should have so much shame, like, she should have

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Speaker 1: all of the shame should be on her. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: understand here in a second. Let's get some comments. So,

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Speaker 1: alexis I know a lot of people were heated yesterday

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Speaker 1: or laughing? I guess over the awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: I saw Ashlee wise okay commented lacked for thirty seconds

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Speaker 3: straight at Jeffrey's men don't lie.

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Speaker 1: Also he lied that hit close to hope for her. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and there it is all right. Keep your comments coming, like, subscribe, follow,

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Speaker 1: do the thing, hey, and give us a rating too,

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Speaker 1: that'd be right. Well, unless it's bad then you didn't

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Speaker 1: hear that. Let's get this new podcast started. It's a

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update.

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Speaker 4: Second Date Up Date. Are there rules for when you

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Speaker 4: want to veto a date that you don't love?

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Speaker 5: Like in the planning stages or were already on it

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Speaker 5: in the plane in the planning stages, like, Okay, you're

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Speaker 5: looking forward to hanging out with this person, but you

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Speaker 5: just aren't thrilled about the activity that they came up with, Like.

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Speaker 4: Is there a limit to how many vetos you get

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Speaker 4: to be? Like, oh you want to do this? No,

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Speaker 4: no is a number that you have you can't go

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Speaker 4: over I think you can't.

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Speaker 6: Go over one.

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Speaker 1: I think you get one veto and then you start

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Speaker 1: to look picky And.

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Speaker 4: Do you need to say veto in a fancy accent

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Speaker 4: so it sounds less harsh when you're turning them down? Veto?

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Speaker 4: I only asked because one of our listeners, Brittany, exercised

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Speaker 4: her right to veto, and now she's ended up here

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Speaker 4: with us.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Brittany, did you use the wrong accent when you veto?

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Speaker 6: I wish I could do a cool accent.

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Speaker 4: On your email, it says you went out with a

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Speaker 4: guy named Josh and you had to turn down an

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Speaker 4: idea too. So tell us about Josh. How'd you meet him?

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Speaker 6: We met through friend of a friend, So, okay, I

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Speaker 6: was already really close to one of his guy friends.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and so how did the planning of this date

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Speaker 4: god like run us through that?

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Speaker 6: So we were in between texting and it was really

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Speaker 6: sweet of him to bring up like minigalf, but I

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Speaker 6: just wasn't feeling it, and then he brought up bowling. Oh,

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Speaker 6: I honestly wasn't feeling that.

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Speaker 4: So wait, are you like?

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Speaker 1: I feel like if you vetoed that, you then have

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Speaker 1: to offer a suggestion yourself. Were you just saying no?

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Speaker 6: Okay? So I was just saying no, and I okay,

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Speaker 6: real quick, I will admit I was being kind of

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Speaker 4: You weren't just saying no, you were saying ew no.

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Speaker 1: She used that little barf emoji.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Gross, it wasn't that bad.

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Speaker 6: It wasn't that bad.

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Speaker 1: So did you finally decide on something to do?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 6: We ended up just he was like, why didn't just

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Speaker 6: come over to my place? It's a big community, like

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Speaker 6: we can go for a walk, like around the neighborhood.

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Speaker 6: And to be honest, that sounded more like I had

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Speaker 6: a stressful work week, like I'm about it.

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Speaker 1: So, I mean after feeling high maintenance, now you see

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Speaker 1: low maintenance. That's all you need.

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Speaker 6: I didn't even think about that, but you're so right.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, without knowing there is. Okay, so you agreed

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Speaker 4: to a walk around his neighborhood, and how did that go?

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Speaker 6: It was actually really good. We got along, we had

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Speaker 6: back to his place and it was good and bad.

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Speaker 4: His place was bad.

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Speaker 6: No, no, no, no no no. His place was nice actually,

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Speaker 6: like it was modern and clean.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're saying the vibe was good and bad.

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Speaker 6: Yes, thank you, because I.

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Speaker 4: Could see you also walking through and being like veto

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Speaker 4: that painting, veto that backsplash. Yeah, that is a fair actually, okay.

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Speaker 4: So when you're hanging out with him at his place,

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Speaker 4: what happens?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the good?

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Speaker 6: The good was the banter? Like again, we just kind

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Speaker 6: of hit it off really well. Nice the bad part

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Speaker 6: that Okay, So we put on you the Netflix show.

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Speaker 1: Wait, isn't that the Stalker show?

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Speaker 6: This?

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Speaker 1: Then it's supposed to be with Penn badgerly, but only

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Speaker 1: it's darker aft the first season it gets Okay, So.

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Speaker 6: It was just on in the background, like we were talking,

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Speaker 6: other side of the couchlake. Oh no, I don't know.

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Speaker 6: If it was the fact that he was shy or what.

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Speaker 6: But it did kind of throw me off, like it

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Speaker 6: wasn't the greatest vibe if you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: You're yelling across the living room while a show is playing.

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Speaker 4: You probably to yell anyway to be heard over a

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Speaker 4: Netflix show playing in the background.

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Speaker 6: Interesting.

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Speaker 4: So, so how did you guys end it?

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Speaker 6: Well, it was getting dark and I, honestly, I just

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Speaker 6: told him I had to go. No kiss. We did hug, okay,

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Speaker 6: but when I got to my car, I realized I

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Speaker 6: only brought my sunglasses, like I didn't bring my real glasses,

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Speaker 6: So I like, I can't drive, Like I definitely can't

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Speaker 6: drive without my glasses. And so I ended up texting

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Speaker 6: him like, hey, this is the situation. And he ended

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Speaker 6: up telling me that I could stay the night.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow.

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Speaker 1: Why wouldn't he say I'll drive you home. That's interesting.

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Speaker 4: Obviously, between the two choices stay the night or I'll

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Speaker 4: take you home, the guy is gonna pick Yeah, sure

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Speaker 4: you can have a sleepover.

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Speaker 4: Why are you so against the sleepover?

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Speaker 1: I thought, I'm just surprised because he's a guy that

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Speaker 1: sat on the opposite room from her. It sounded like

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Speaker 1: he wasn't chance into it. He's like, okay, so I'm

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Speaker 1: sure you're getting mixed signals. Then right when he asks you,

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Speaker 1: did you stay the night? I did?

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Speaker 6: And I ended up yes I did. Yeah, it's nothing.

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Speaker 6: I just ended up staying the night.

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Speaker 1: It was well, like, did you sleep on the couch

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Speaker 1: at the friends?

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Speaker 4: Again, that's a good question.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 4: Show was so perverted. We want all the details.

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Speaker 1: They happened, though, she's flustered.

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Speaker 4: Something not major, but something's happened.

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Speaker 1: Here's the question. What was it like? The next morning?

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Speaker 4: There go brugh, no comment.

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Speaker 1: All right, I don't know if that's good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so what's happened? I'm assuming the next day

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Speaker 4: you got back your car, you drove home, and then

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Speaker 4: what's happened since then?

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Speaker 6: That's where we're at. Absolutely nothing.

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Speaker 4: He's not responding to you at all at all. Well,

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Speaker 4: now when we call him, some of the details about

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Speaker 4: what happened that night might need to come out if

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Speaker 4: they explain why he's not calling you back. Hopefully you're okay,

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Speaker 4: we need that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the whole world, Okay, be prepared.

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Speaker 4: Let's try and get some more details out of Josh

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Speaker 4: when we come back and call him, try and get

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Speaker 4: you your second date update right after this. All right,

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Speaker 4: thank you? All right, hold on second date update. It's

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Speaker 4: the classic first date line young people love to use. Oh,

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Speaker 4: I forgot my driving glasses? Can I spend the night

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Speaker 4: of your place?

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Speaker 8: Who worked on me all throughout college and driving glove

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Speaker 8: and scar god so many But now, to be fair,

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Speaker 8: our listener, Brittany didn't ask to spend the night over

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Speaker 8: at Josh's house.

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Speaker 4: He offered to let her stay.

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Speaker 1: Which means he wanted to because there's so many other

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Speaker 1: solutions to figure in this problem.

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Speaker 4: I'll just call you but something. Ever since then, Brittany

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Speaker 4: hasn't seen any effort by Josh for him to arrange

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Speaker 4: a second meet up with her, which is kind of

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Speaker 4: odd because she says there was there was a connection there,

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Speaker 4: There was a chemist street, especially when they were bantering

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Speaker 1: Yeah, except for the moment on the couch, that's the

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Speaker 1: long moment. Yeah, on the couch where they're sitting on

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Speaker 1: the opposite ends.

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Speaker 4: He just sat in a weird spot and maybe got

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Speaker 4: stuck there, wasn't sure. How to move over. We're not

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Speaker 1: And I forgot Brittany. You said your friends set you up.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard anything from them?

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Speaker 6: Nothing. I've tried to reach out to them too, And

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Speaker 6: she just keeps saying that she's busy. And then the

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Speaker 6: other guy's like, yeah, we're super busy right now, like

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Speaker 6: we get back to you.

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Speaker 4: That sounds like they're covering for him.

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Speaker 1: Yes, wheah, weird. I wonder if they didn't know, like

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Speaker 1: maybe he's I don't know what, who knows.

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Speaker 4: We get up a million questions. It's best to just

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Speaker 4: right now and we'll see if he picks up.

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Speaker 2: Here we go, well, hey, we're looking to talk with Josh.

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Speaker 9: This is he.

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Speaker 4: Hey Josh. We're a radio show. We're called Brooke and

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Speaker 4: in the morning.

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Speaker 7: Joh, good morning, heyy So hope it's okay if we

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Speaker 7: ask you some questions about your dating life, because we're

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Speaker 7: doing a segment called second Date Update.

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Speaker 9: On the radio.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're very specific questions only about one person.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a person you went out with recently named Brittany.

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Speaker 9: Oh yeah, okay, okay, Okay.

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Speaker 4: So we know a little bit about when you and

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Speaker 4: Brittany hung out. Like, here's a little bit of the

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Speaker 4: background to catch you up. Because Brittany was on the

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Speaker 4: show and she told us that she came over to

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Speaker 4: your neighborhood. You guys walked around overall. We weren't sure

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Speaker 4: if the date was like great or just average, But

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Speaker 4: she did say that she spent the night. We just

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Speaker 4: we were not one hundred percent sure what that means.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she's interested in you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So could you maybe let us in on what's

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Speaker 4: been going on in your head?

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Speaker 9: Sure? I mean, I don't know how much she's told

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Speaker 9: you about.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's mostly everything I just recapped for you right there,

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Speaker 4: right generic, just general. Did you have a good night?

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Speaker 6: It was different?

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay, it could be different in a good way.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Alexis, would you be complimented if a

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Speaker 1: guy says your day? Even the pause for ten seconds

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Speaker 1: before he answered, he was like, it was yeah, did

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Speaker 1: she do something weird or wrong?

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Speaker 9: So I don't know if I mean this is gonna

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Speaker 4: You want to make her feel better? Gotcha?

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Speaker 4: What a sweet sweet man?

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Speaker 4: Thank you? I mean, she's the worst. She probably felt

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, real quick, I do. I want to talk

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, Okay. You know, Brittany, you never brought that

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Speaker 1: She needs to play another round of hot or not

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Speaker 4: You do say a lot of unsavory things out people

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Speaker 6: It's normal. It's a normal thing. And if you create

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Speaker 3: So it's their fault that they aren't to your standard

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Speaker 6: Me, you're the sallow one brook like everybody else saying

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Speaker 4: Jeff, is joke. I mean, I'm definitely smiling. I'll say that.

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Speaker 6: I regret asking you to help me out with this book.

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Speaker 4: Regret ugly right then.

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Speaker 6: Again, I'm not interested. This wasn't the way I thought

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Speaker 4: So look what you did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't need to go all the way back to.

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Speaker 1: I think she's always going to be meaner than you,

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Speaker 4: Well, Brittany, hey, thanks again for being on with us

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Speaker 6: Yeah, thanks for nothing. You can go through us.

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Speaker 4: Oh well, thank you. I think I'm going to go

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Speaker 4: Just have a great time at the party. Come on

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey in the morning. Well back from the break room,

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Speaker 4: I had a lot of time to mull things over.

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Speaker 4: It just happened.

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Speaker 1: You take listeners so literally sometimes, jeff I think that

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Speaker 7: Not like, look at this fool, So no surprise, their

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 4: It didn't work out, But maybe she'll appear again on

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, sure, she'd be perfect for that. She sounds

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Speaker 4: Sounds like she's better for am I the jerk. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: there's somebody and a segment out there for everybody. We

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Speaker 4: our podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: And if you ever need help in your dating life,

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,