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Speaker 1: My dad's family refuses to respect my boundaries and now

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Speaker 1: they've stolen my family heirloom, not the family jewel, So

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Speaker 1: ghost account to avoid being found out. Please delete this

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Speaker 1: if it's in the wrong sub I female forty eight

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Speaker 1: have a very dysfunctional paternal family. My dad left us

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Speaker 1: for his mistress, who in turn made a career out

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Speaker 1: of suing him for child support. By the way, this

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Speaker 1: comes from otherwise bred seven two six' eight on the

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Speaker 1: r Slash okay storytime sub read it so that was

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Speaker 1: the very first TIME i heard someone my dad call

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Speaker 1: someone a gold. Digger their relationship caused a lot of

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Speaker 1: pain in my. Family my grandmother got sick of their loud.

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Speaker 1: Fighting grandma ended up upgrading her security system after dad's

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Speaker 1: mistress raised her hand at her during an. Argument my

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Speaker 1: dad neglected me for years because she kind of forbade

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Speaker 1: him from seeing, me and my half siblings grew up very,

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Speaker 1: insecure unable to maintain healthy. Relationship dad created a harsh

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Speaker 1: climate for a sibling. RELATIONSHIP i started visiting them WHEN

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Speaker 1: i was a. Preteen my grandma ended up Raising jake

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Speaker 1: And tracy, siblings And dad caused fights between me and

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Speaker 1: my sister told me she was the one he was proud.

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Speaker 2: Of papa plays. Favorites Oh, god.

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Speaker 1: He made me the constant butt of their, jokes and

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Speaker 1: they siblings were oftentimes gifted my.

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Speaker 2: Property, wait what gifted my? Property?

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Speaker 3: Oh peas?

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Speaker 2: Property oh gifted my property is a weird way to

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Speaker 2: describe being stolen.

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Speaker 1: From oh and let's not forget how he forgot to

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Speaker 1: get me A christmas. Present but they did get gifts

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Speaker 1: On christmas. Morning dad constantly took from me to give

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Speaker 1: To tracy And, jake especially AFTER i got some gigs

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Speaker 1: as a, teenager so he would force me to pay

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Speaker 1: for their movie tickets and. Food his trick was to

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Speaker 1: be extra, nice get, there and then DEMAND i pay for.

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Speaker 1: Them IF i denied his, request he would scold and shame,

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Speaker 1: me or call me, names or give me the silent.

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Speaker 1: TREATMENT i was fifteen or, SIXTEEN i stopped going to

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Speaker 1: the movies or anywhere with, them so he moved on

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Speaker 1: to force me to Give tracy my.

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Speaker 3: Dad i'm, jacket or would raid my luggage WHILE.

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Speaker 1: I was in the shower and decide That tracy should

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Speaker 1: have some of my stuff to be.

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Speaker 2: Fair Oh, tracy this is so.

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Speaker 1: Bad, Ough tracy grew up feeling ugly because her mom

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Speaker 1: kept telling, herself, wow oh my. God dad's way of

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Speaker 1: making her feel better was to humiliate me in front

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Speaker 1: of anyone who called me. Pretty people do this even

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Speaker 1: out of. Politeness dad would, say pretty but, dumb excuse,

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Speaker 1: me this isn't your, dad.

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Speaker 4: Who's head is?

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Speaker 1: This this is a, madman little dirty, boy and immediately

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Speaker 1: disclose which school SUBJECTS i sucked, at or would simply

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Speaker 1: bring up How tracy played the flute and was so,

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Speaker 1: smart and she is. Smart to be, fair it's her

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Speaker 1: personality that kills. EVERYTHING i just own my dad WHEN

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Speaker 1: i was twenty, one seems like he deserves. It he

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Speaker 1: convinced me to fly over and visit. Him dad talked

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Speaker 1: about spending time, together mending our fractured, relationship in writing

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Speaker 1: a new page in our. RELATIONSHIP i was open to,

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Speaker 1: that SO i would go to Spend christmas with. Him

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Speaker 1: we talked for weeks until he suddenly disclosed his actual.

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Speaker 3: Plans, no his.

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Speaker 1: Actual plans were for me to babysit one of his many.

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Speaker 3: Kids no.

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Speaker 1: Whill my stepmom took care of her own. KID i

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Speaker 1: asked About jake And tracy and his answer was that

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Speaker 1: they have high quality. Lives they deserve to have fun

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Speaker 1: During christmas.

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Speaker 2: Break you sound like really high quality.

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Speaker 1: People, also if you're trying to get someone to mind your,

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Speaker 1: kids don't say that their life, sucks, like, oh you

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Speaker 1: don't have anything better to, do so, obviously shed take

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Speaker 1: care of my. Kids, yeah you freaking.

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Speaker 2: Loser why don't you take care of my cool, kid

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Speaker 2: which is the closest you'll ever come to feeling.

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Speaker 1: COOL i canceled our plans and ghosted him for ten. Years,

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Speaker 1: OH i let him back in WHEN i was in

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Speaker 1: my early, thirties same, crap three or four months of,

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Speaker 1: bliss and then he and my siblings start with the,

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Speaker 1: jokes their habit of putting me, down and the complete

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Speaker 1: detachment from my. SISTER i stayed away until a year

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Speaker 1: ago they turned, up AND i kept all communication to a,

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Speaker 1: minimum maybe one phone call every three months and applying

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Speaker 1: to text messages. Only my sister announced her wedding and invited.

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Speaker 1: Me to be, fair she always invited me to her her.

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Speaker 1: STUFF i did not invite them to any events in

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Speaker 1: the past twenty five. Years i'm, nice that's. Solidarity, YEAH

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Speaker 1: i never attended any of her. Events but this time

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Speaker 1: communication was flowing, nicely AND i truly thought we were building.

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Speaker 3: Something you thought, Wrong.

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Speaker 2: YEAH i think you. Might you might have thought.

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Speaker 1: WRONG i accepted her, invitation but left my husband and

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Speaker 1: kids out of. It long story, SHORT i took three

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Speaker 1: days off so THAT i could. Attend, Also i'm a

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Speaker 1: handy craft junkie And i'm famous in my inner circle

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Speaker 1: only loll for making bridal stuff for my. FRIENDS i

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Speaker 1: also collaborated in the making of my wedding, tiara actual,

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Speaker 1: metal thick bra leaves with engraving and real. Stones the

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Speaker 1: piece was made from my family heirlooms from my maternal,

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Speaker 1: family SO i find it. Special my sister asked me

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Speaker 1: IF i could help her with the wedding head. PIECE

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Speaker 1: i didn't think too long about it and arrived with my.

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Speaker 1: KID i thought it would take one and a half

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Speaker 1: days of work and in, return she would have a

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Speaker 1: GIFT i made for. HER i would not charge for the,

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Speaker 1: materials just gifted to. Her she insisted THAT i bring

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Speaker 1: my wedding, tiara which she only saw in my wedding.

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Speaker 1: Pictures she said it was for inspiration because she had

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Speaker 1: been trying to make her, own but it wasn't working.

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Speaker 1: Out my sister LOVES diy because it allows her to

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Speaker 1: crap on everyone else who buys ready made. Stuff tracy

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Speaker 1: INSISTED i bring my, veil BUT i said no to.

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Speaker 1: That we all stayed at the same hotel slash venue

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Speaker 1: boundaries began busting. Immediately dad asked IF i could let

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Speaker 1: her and some family members stay in my hotel, room

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Speaker 1: WHICH i paid. For, HELLO i indebted to keep my

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Speaker 1: room with a jacuzzi all to myself BECAUSE i don't

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Speaker 1: have that at. Home what kind of crap is? That

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Speaker 1: but he tried to pressure. ME i said, NO i,

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Speaker 1: mean what would you Expect your dad tries to pressure, you,

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Speaker 1: know everything that you want to want to.

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Speaker 2: Do dad's not a good source of. Persuasion, no, wait

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Speaker 2: what's the? Word uh? Uh? Pressure Peer pressure's negative peer.

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Speaker 1: PRESSURE i ended up making completely New, tiara painted, it

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Speaker 1: and had it ready as soon as. Possible it was

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Speaker 1: a flower crown with non floor. DETAILS i also ended

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Speaker 1: up creating a string of beads to add to her

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Speaker 1: bouquet free of. Charge So op is basically doing all

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Speaker 1: this extra stuff for her. SISTER i got a random

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Speaker 1: request THAT i kept. Denying my sister ended up hating her.

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Speaker 1: Dress she was right in her, attent but the fabric

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Speaker 1: didn't help. That she tried to fashion from a. Curtain

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Speaker 1: try to make her wedding dress from a. Curtain there's people.

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Speaker 3: Who do that from a.

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Speaker 2: Curtain it's kind of.

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Speaker 1: Trendy you have to buy the right, curtain she, thought

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Speaker 1: using the lace trim as a. Hem adjust to her.

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Speaker 1: Need she SUGGESTED i help her buy new. Dress wanted

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Speaker 1: eight hundred dollars to pay for something that she. SAW

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Speaker 1: i helped her find a seamstress who worked on short.

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Speaker 1: NOTICE i don't get why she left such important details

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Speaker 1: for the last, minute because none of your family knows

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Speaker 1: That i'll like live without. You, Still tracy was angry

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Speaker 1: because she didn't want her, dress so she kind of

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Speaker 1: stopped talking to. ME i stayed BECAUSE i thought she

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Speaker 1: was just being a. Bridezilla dad began to push me

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Speaker 1: to let my sister have my, tiara the one that's

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Speaker 1: bejeweled and bedazzled.

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Speaker 2: And, bronze the priceless Airrices Borvin.

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Speaker 1: TIARA i said no because it's a very personal. Decision,

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Speaker 1: listen these are maternal family heirlooms in, there AND i

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Speaker 1: was uncomfortable letting her wear it knowing that she hates

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Speaker 1: my mom for no freaking. Reason so, like, yeah there's

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Speaker 1: like jewels and.

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Speaker 2: Stuff, yeah it is intricate and.

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Speaker 1: Jeweled she said insulting things once we were teenagers and

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Speaker 1: gelled at me that her mom was more valuable than.

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Speaker 3: Mine that which is a crazy thing to.

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Speaker 1: Yell because Because dad dumped mom for, hers your mom's.

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Speaker 2: Worthless compared to my. Mom my mom is a high value.

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Speaker 2: Woman your mom shops like.

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Speaker 1: Ross my mom could steal any man she wants and

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Speaker 1: then divorce and then have a that's her. Income i'm

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Speaker 1: sure her mother played a part in. THIS i get

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Speaker 1: to the venue AND i see the of honor wearing

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Speaker 1: the flower CROWD i. MADE i felt a horrible sinking

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Speaker 1: sensation slash not in my. STOMACH i put so much

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Speaker 1: time into that and my sister just passed it. On

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Speaker 1: THEN i Found tracy wearing my. TIARA i never noticed

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Speaker 1: it was missing BECAUSE i kept it in just in

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Speaker 1: case she wasn't.

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Speaker 3: Dressed yet she never gave me an.

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Speaker 1: Explanation her mom kept adjusting it without even looking me

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Speaker 1: in the. EYE i addressed this With, dad but he

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Speaker 1: just kind of. YELLED i gave it to, her and

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Speaker 1: then he opened his eyes at me really. WIDE i

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Speaker 1: hate when he does. That that is only one of

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Speaker 1: some many facial expressions that remind me of my painful

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Speaker 1: relationship with. Him always opened his eyes really big to

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Speaker 1: scare me or to remove my power of. Decisions, OH

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Speaker 1: i was gaslighted because he accused me of driving all

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Speaker 1: the way to cause a scene On tracy's big. Day

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Speaker 1: but if you want to make our big, day you

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Speaker 1: can join us live every weekday at THREE pmbsd just oupur.

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Speaker 2: Profile you shouldn't have let the tiara out of your,

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Speaker 2: sight shouldn't have left your your, hands because these people

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Speaker 2: were clearly plotting against. YOU i know it. Sucks it's

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Speaker 2: your family and that probably keeps you from seeing it.

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Speaker 2: Clearly but, yeah it's not.

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Speaker 1: GOOD i think the fact that they stole this family

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Speaker 1: heirloom is is kind OF i, mean you're back to

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Speaker 1: you're back to block. TERRITORY i think you should go no. Contact,

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Speaker 1: yeah you were doing it at the very, beginning, honestly

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Speaker 1: if you knew what you.

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Speaker 2: Were you're doing this for how long like twenty?

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Speaker 3: Five?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah and every time that she lets these people

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Speaker 1: into her, life they just screw.

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Speaker 2: Over so you thought, pee you thought twenty five years

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Speaker 2: down the drain for a, reason you thought they can't

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Speaker 2: be the. Same now they have to have changed, Now.

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Speaker 1: And you know, WHAT i do think it's good that

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Speaker 1: she's giving them like multiple, Tries LIKE i think she's

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Speaker 1: trying to extend some some like. Compassion but, NO i

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Speaker 1: told the maid of honor that the crown wasn't meant for,

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Speaker 1: her and she gave it. Back my sister acted like

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Speaker 1: she didn't know WHY i was, upset AND i need

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Speaker 1: to admit THAT i was. Hurt nobody ever addressed how

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Speaker 1: and why they went through my, Stuff So tracy ended

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Speaker 1: up handing me back my, tiara but never answered WHEN

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Speaker 1: i asked her why she did, THAT i GUESS i

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Speaker 1: don't deserve an. ANSWER i was so ANGRY i left

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Speaker 1: with the flower crown still in my, hand didn't realize

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Speaker 1: and kept stopping to check my luggage to see if

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Speaker 1: anything was. Missing, Smart i've gone no. Contact also, Smart

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Speaker 1: smart BECAUSE i need to take care of my emotional well.

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Speaker 1: Being AND i see my family just likes to trample

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Speaker 1: over boundaries and people in, general which is completely. True

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Speaker 1: which is completely, true and they've proven it time and time.

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Speaker 2: Again my brother is a, narcissist but my family is

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Speaker 2: insisting THAT i reconcile with. Him for the first part

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Speaker 2: of my, LIFE i was unaware of what a delusional

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Speaker 2: narcissist my brother. Was our family might have never known

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Speaker 2: if it had not been for his persistent need to

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Speaker 2: have the last word and force others to agree with

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Speaker 2: him on any, topic especially political. Topics by the, way

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Speaker 2: this comes from user CHOICE ad thirty two to sixty

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Speaker 2: It growing, up our parents encouraged discussion and debate about,

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Speaker 2: everything ranging from, politics, science, history, religion and even conspiracy.

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Speaker 2: Theories we all grew up to be very vocal about

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Speaker 2: our opinions because of, this and learn that it is

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Speaker 2: okay if you don't share the same opinion or of

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Speaker 2: view as someone, else you can let it go and

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Speaker 2: move on with your life and the. Discussion my, brother

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Speaker 2: who will Call, adam did not learn this. Skill as

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Speaker 2: we got, older we would have discussions about hot political

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Speaker 2: he would get heated to the point of yelling and

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Speaker 2: frustration if you did not agree with. Him If adam

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Speaker 2: couldn't get you to agree with him on or see

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Speaker 2: his point of. View he seemed to think it was

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Speaker 2: the worst thing in the. World it got to the

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Speaker 2: point where politics slash social issues seemed to be the

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Speaker 2: only thing he wanted to talk, about even with our.

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Speaker 2: Mom during one of these political, rants he blew up

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Speaker 2: at our, mom unloading all of his true feelings about

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Speaker 2: her and, me AND i just can't forgive him for.

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Speaker 2: It we learned that he views the world and the

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Speaker 2: things that happened to him through a. KALEIDOSCOPE i will

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Speaker 2: do my best to relay these events in chronological order through.

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Speaker 2: History he's still upset about ten DOLLARS i allegedly stole

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Speaker 2: from him WHEN i was. Five this is an event

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Speaker 2: THAT i myself don't even really, remember but as an

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Speaker 2: adult in his mid, Twenties adam still resents me for.

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Speaker 2: It according to, him he hates THAT i took money

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Speaker 2: from him and was never punished for. It WHEN i

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Speaker 2: asked my mom about, this she said she refused to

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Speaker 2: punish me for something she has no proof. Of she

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Speaker 2: didn't see me take anything and had no proof That

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Speaker 2: i'd done. Anything and you were also, Children, like what

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Speaker 2: we went out AND i had money to buy, anything

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Speaker 2: she would take that as an admission THAT i did

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Speaker 2: take the, money AND i would be. Punished she knew

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Speaker 2: THAT i had no money at the time BECAUSE i was,

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Speaker 2: five so Taking adams would have been the only way

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Speaker 2: for me to get Any he was also just upset

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Speaker 2: in general that myself and our younger siblings weren't punished

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Speaker 2: when he thought we should have. Been as for why

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Speaker 2: my mom didn't punish, me our mom grew up in

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Speaker 2: a household where you would get whooped for anything and.

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Speaker 2: Everything if one child did something bad or was even,

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Speaker 2: accused all the children got. Whapped she refused to do

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Speaker 2: the same thing to her. Kids number, two our mother

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Speaker 2: never allowed him to go out and get oisted with

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Speaker 2: his friends as a. TEENAGER a very weird thing to

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Speaker 2: be upset, about BUT i. Digress our mom, was in his,

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Speaker 2: mind a terrible parent for never allowing him to experience

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Speaker 2: making mistakes as a Teen, first what parent allows, that

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Speaker 2: not to mention if that was something he actually wanted to,

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Speaker 2: do then he had ample opportunity to do. So our

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Speaker 2: parents would drop him off in another town and let

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Speaker 2: him spend all day with kids his age to do

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Speaker 2: who knows. What the only things that she told him

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Speaker 2: were to keep his phone on him and to meet

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Speaker 2: them AT x place AT x time to go. Home

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Speaker 2: if he wanted to get into any, shenanigans he could

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Speaker 2: have to hold resentment towards our mom because of this is.

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Speaker 2: Crazy he truly believes that if she had allowed him

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Speaker 2: to experience these things as a, teen that he would

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Speaker 2: have avoided problems without in his. Twenties he didn't seem

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Speaker 2: to realize that we have cousins that were allowed to

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Speaker 2: drink his. Teens unlike, Them adam isn't spending his twenties in. Jail,

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Speaker 2: YEAH i was gonna, say that's not how that. Works it's,

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Speaker 2: like being allowed to drink when you're a teenager does

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Speaker 2: not mean you don't have drinking problems when you become

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Speaker 2: like a twenty, something it's probably.

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Speaker 3: What are you talking?

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Speaker 1: About you drink early so you can develop a healthy relationship.

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Speaker 2: With don't listen to that guy on probation or in.

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Speaker 2: Rehab number. Three he was gifted a car as a graduation,

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Speaker 2: gift but accuses our parents of being cheap and greedy

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Speaker 2: because they wanted one hundred dollars for a part to

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Speaker 2: make it. Work that's. Wild this guy is like. Sucks

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Speaker 2: this guy is Wi this guy is a self absorbed.

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Speaker 2: Narcissist when he graduated high, school our parents gifted him a.

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Speaker 2: Car adam had overheard them talking about this car and

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Speaker 2: what they could do with. It the car had been

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Speaker 2: sitting on our grandparents farm for a, while and it

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Speaker 2: only needed one part to get it working. Again they

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Speaker 2: bought the, part and our grandpa got it. Working but

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Speaker 2: they Told adam that he didn't have to pay them

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Speaker 2: till after he had started working and saved up money

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Speaker 2: for a.

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Speaker 3: While that even gives him an, yes zero.

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Speaker 2: Out this is a so. Far he's mad that his

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Speaker 2: parents got him.

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Speaker 1: A car and also are like willing to not charge

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Speaker 1: him for this part until like he gets a. Job

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Speaker 1: we got you a whole.

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Speaker 2: Car it's only gonna cost you one hundred dollars spread

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Speaker 2: out over an entire.

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Speaker 5: Year that is the best deal. Ever, literally that's the

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Speaker 5: best deal. Ever he didn't even need to take the

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Speaker 5: car if he didn't want. To they weren't forcing him.

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Speaker 5: To but of Course adam sees this in a way

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Speaker 5: only he.

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Speaker 2: Can instead of viewing this as an opportunity for a,

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Speaker 2: good cheap car right out of. School he's upset that

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Speaker 2: they're forcing it on. Him he feels that they shouldn't

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Speaker 2: be charging him for a car at, all and says

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Speaker 2: that they're terrible people for giving him a car that

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Speaker 2: has baked in the sun for. Years you know, What,

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Speaker 2: honestly this guy's not sounded like a sun. Guy this

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Speaker 2: guy sounded like a black hole. Guy, REALLY i would

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Speaker 2: like black hole is for when you want someone to

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Speaker 2: become spaghetti and no longer.

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Speaker 3: Exists and, immediately like, media.

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Speaker 2: Immedia you are spaghetti and you don't. Exist even though

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Speaker 2: our parents would never give him a car if they

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Speaker 2: thought it was unsafe to, drive he was still upset

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Speaker 2: they are. Terrible Yet adam sees himself as a saint

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Speaker 2: because he gave me a van for free that had zero,

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Speaker 2: breaks a dead, battery a rear axle that was about

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Speaker 2: to fall off IF i hit a bump at the

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Speaker 2: right time, speed and a head and gasket about to go,

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Speaker 2: out a broken spark, plug tires that were, balding and

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Speaker 2: the dashlight didn't even work SO i couldn't drive at.

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Speaker 2: Night to be, clear our parents are terrible for wanting

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Speaker 2: one hundred dollars for a part to make it car

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Speaker 2: perfectly safe to. Drive adam is a saint for giving

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Speaker 2: me a death trap for. Free number Four our parents

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Speaker 2: cheated him out of money over bills when him and

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Speaker 2: his fiance moved back in with our. Parents oh, god

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Speaker 2: this guy's got a. Fiance oh, NO.

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Speaker 3: I feel bad for.

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Speaker 2: Her do you think she's narcissistic?

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Speaker 3: TOO i think you. CAN'T i don't think dan.

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Speaker 2: Exactly she wouldn't be able to. Hang, yeah it's like

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Speaker 2: she's probably just being manipulated constantly by this. Guy our

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Speaker 2: parents would always allow us to come back home if

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Speaker 2: we needed. It they've done it with all of, us including.

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Speaker 2: Myself When adam needed to move back in with, them

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Speaker 2: they welcomed him and his fiance with open. Arms of,

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Speaker 2: course after they both found, jobs our parents wanted help

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Speaker 2: with their. Bills they split it up as equally as

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Speaker 2: they could, manage but he insisted that they didn't use

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Speaker 2: that much, electricity slash, gas or water and would always

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Speaker 2: make a fuss about how much they were. Paying turns

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Speaker 2: out he thought that my mom was just trying to

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Speaker 2: scam him out of his. Money but after they moved

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Speaker 2: out and got their yearly usage bill. Increased notification my

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Speaker 2: parents were the ones being. Scammed they cost our parents

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Speaker 2: a lot by staying with them to elaborate on the

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Speaker 2: bills for. Electricity my parents get built the same amount

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Speaker 2: every month based on their usage from the previous. Year

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Speaker 2: if you use way more one year the following, year

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Speaker 2: you're going to pay more to make up for. It

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Speaker 2: my parents bill went up a considerable amount after they

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Speaker 2: lived with. Them it's just makes. Sense there's more people

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Speaker 2: in the, house right. Exactly it's just the audacity they

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Speaker 2: had of Saying mom was cheating them out of money

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Speaker 2: and being so meticulous about how much they, paid when

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Speaker 2: it was really them who had the. Problem for both

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Speaker 2: myself and our younger, brother our parents charged a flat

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Speaker 2: fee every month and we never argued about. It number,

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Speaker 2: five our dad promised them a car as a wedding

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Speaker 2: gift and got mad when they weren't given the car for.

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Speaker 2: Free this incident is the reason Why dad says he

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Speaker 2: won't speak To adam again Without mom or a lawyer.

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Speaker 2: Present While adam was living with, Them adam And dad

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Speaker 2: discussed the possibility of giving them one of their older

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Speaker 2: Cars adam And sarah fake name for fiance wanted to

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Speaker 2: move across the country and needed a car to do.

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Speaker 2: So dad said that he would need to talk To

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Speaker 2: mom about, it but he would see what he could.

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Speaker 2: Do All adam heard was you'll get the car. Later

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Speaker 2: they said they would give him the car if they

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Speaker 2: got to keep THE Rv adam And sarah had. Bought,

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Speaker 2: now that might sound like a crazy trade a car

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Speaker 2: for AN, rv but THIS rv was. Junk adam And

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Speaker 2: sarah had moved in with our parents with the intention

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Speaker 2: of living in THE. Rv after renovating, it they ended

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Speaker 2: up gutting, it letting it sit in the backyard until,

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Speaker 2: winter and didn't seal it, properly so the inside was

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Speaker 2: completely water. Damaged not to, mention the engine was crap

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Speaker 2: and couldn't go above forty miles per. Hour there's no

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Speaker 2: Way adam And sarah had the money to burn for

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Speaker 2: THIS rv and they would never be able to make

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Speaker 2: it across the country with. It if, anything our parents

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Speaker 2: were doing them a favor and getting the crappy end

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Speaker 2: of the. Deal but no, Again adam thinks they're just

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Speaker 2: being greedy and going back on their. Promises he Insists

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Speaker 2: dad promised him the car when he never. Did number.

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Speaker 2: Six there's so many there's so many, reasons stop all.

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Speaker 2: BS i guarantee. It our parents are, abusive authoritative. Tyrants

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Speaker 2: i'll be the first to say not every parent is,

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Speaker 2: perfect but it baffles. Me our parents are siblings and

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Speaker 2: even some extended family with this. One we didn't have

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Speaker 2: a perfect childhood by any, means but it was far from,

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Speaker 2: abusive especially when we have cousins who were literally taken

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Speaker 2: away BY. Cps i'm shocked at how he views our.

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Speaker 2: Childhood one of these abusive moments he would bring up

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Speaker 2: was when he was forced to make a. Decision adam

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Speaker 2: was a very indecisive, child and the school counselor suggests

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Speaker 2: that our parents have him make more. Decisions apparently choosing

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Speaker 2: between A hamburger or a McChicken was too terrible for.

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Speaker 3: Him no.

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Speaker 2: Way other moments are things he finds unjust and. Unfair

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Speaker 2: like number. One i'm not going to get into the

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Speaker 2: political debates, here but just know his views on politics

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00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,240
Speaker 2: was a whole other point that helped to drive the

435
00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 2: wedge in our family. Relationship that was all in the.

436
00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:54,560
Speaker 2: Past now we get to the part that's really solidified

437
00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 2: everything of his. Wedding that was all just.

438
00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:01,640
Speaker 3: Context now we're getting into the real all. Content oh my, god.

439
00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:07,240
Speaker 2: Exhausting adam And sarah had their wedding across the. Country

440
00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:09,720
Speaker 2: we were expecting. That what we weren't expecting was for

441
00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,879
Speaker 2: our mother to not be invited to this. CEREMONY i

442
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:15,600
Speaker 2: was not invited, either BUT i expected that this broke

443
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,000
Speaker 2: our mom AND i will never be able to forgive

444
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,160
Speaker 2: him for the emotional abuse he's put on our mom

445
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 2: throughout the. Years every negative thing in his life he

446
00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 2: traces it back to. Her he doesn't blame our dad at,

447
00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:26,320
Speaker 2: all even though a lot of the things our mom

448
00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:28,199
Speaker 2: did was a joint decision between the two of. Them

449
00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 2: dad feels bad because we can only Assume adam blames

450
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,760
Speaker 2: mom Because dad was gone a lot when we were growing.

451
00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:35,680
Speaker 2: Up having a full time job and being a full

452
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,320
Speaker 2: time college attendant will do. That though our dad would

453
00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,240
Speaker 2: get home at one am and leave at six or

454
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,800
Speaker 2: seven nearly every day to put food on the table

455
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 2: and work towards a better future for all of. US

456
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,679
Speaker 2: i have nothing but respect for my, dad but with his,

457
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:51,000
Speaker 2: Absence adam only had our mom to turn his hate towards.

458
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:53,560
Speaker 2: Anyway after some back and, forth our mom is allowed to.

459
00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:55,920
Speaker 2: Go apparently he just forgot her name on the invite or,

460
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 2: something but due to finances in, time they couldn't. Go

461
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,439
Speaker 2: mom is very claustrophobic and refuses to ride into, planes

462
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,439
Speaker 2: so they would have needed to drive the whole. Way

463
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 2: With mom's nerve issues and dad's, hip it would have

464
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:07,879
Speaker 2: been three days there and three days. Back it just

465
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,399
Speaker 2: was not going to. Happen not to, worry, though my

466
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 2: mom still had hope of seeing her firstborn be married

467
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 2: because they were streaming the. Wedding it sounds great until

468
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:19,160
Speaker 2: the day arrived and we needed to sign an information

469
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,800
Speaker 2: that we couldn't find until the last minute Because adam

470
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 2: never gave it to, us and when we were able

471
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 2: to view, it the stream was broken due to the

472
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,400
Speaker 2: amount of people watching or some technical. Glitch no one

473
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 2: watching the stream saw. Anything, PERSONALLY i wouldn't put it

474
00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 2: past him to have planned. It so, yeah there's a

475
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 2: lot MORE i could, say but that's about the gist of.

476
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,880
Speaker 2: It the main point is that you can join us

477
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 2: live on YouTube every weekday at three PM. Pst just

478
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:42,959
Speaker 2: tap our.

479
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,399
Speaker 1: Profile this sounds like someone that you don't need in your.

480
00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 1: Life it sucks that your mom's being caught in the,

481
00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: crosshairs though.

482
00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,360
Speaker 2: You guys can all just lean on each other and

483
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,919
Speaker 2: cut this like absolute just the malignant growth of a

484
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 2: person out of your life like this person is no

485
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 2: bueno for. Anyone our mother will ever stopped loving, him

486
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 2: and myself and younger siblings do not understand. It he

487
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 2: has used her as a verbal punching bag for, years

488
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,679
Speaker 2: and he thinks it's. Justified until he apologizes to our,

489
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,199
Speaker 2: MOTHER i will not be forgiving him or even speak to.

490
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: Him at this. Point it feels weird to think That

491
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 2: i'm one of four siblings and not one of. Three

492
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:18,880
Speaker 2: it's also weird to think That i've had a sister

493
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 2: in law for the last few. YEARS i know they,

494
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,160
Speaker 2: exist but they feel dead to. Me she doesn't deserve

495
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:24,919
Speaker 2: how she's been treated by, him AND i hope he

496
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: realizes that, someday for our mother's. SAKE i don't think

497
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 2: he ever, will, Though, adam if you're reading, this you

498
00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 2: do not deserve our. MOTHER i hope that you get

499
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 2: the therapy you desperately need and decide to. Reconcile one day.

500
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 2: Before all you have is a headstone to Say i'm

501
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 2: sorry TO.

502
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,640
Speaker 1: I mean the, dad the dad in the last one

503
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 1: kind of deserved the. Block, yeah like that's a good.

504
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 1: One it's like they already had like. Nos, yeah and

505
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:48,920
Speaker 1: it's like the first thing that happens when you go

506
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:49,760
Speaker 1: back is they do for.

507
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,959
Speaker 2: Me so, anyway AM i the a hole for not

508
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 2: wanting to reconcile with? Him? No, no it's this guy

509
00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 2: is one of the every these doody Boys i've ever.

510
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 1: Heard, yeah like literally every quality of a narcissist is,

511
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 1: there and he's exhibiting all of them to the fullest.

512
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 1: Degree my stepmother is extremely. Controlling now she's refusing to

513
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 1: let me drive my.

514
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 2: Car room vroom skirts you can to drive your car for.

515
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:23,879
Speaker 1: Contexts sixteen female and my twin brother sixteen, male obviously

516
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: have always been pretty close as. Siblings our, dad forty one,

517
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:30,199
Speaker 1: male has always been a bit of a, nomad a

518
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: cheating piece of, crap and although we have two older

519
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: sisters and a couple of older step, siblings my twitter

520
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: is the only Thing i've ever been able to count

521
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: on to be in my. Life he is the only

522
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:43,399
Speaker 1: thing or person That i've never been separated. From by the,

523
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: way this comes from A Shamed air twenty seven oh

524
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,880
Speaker 1: eight on the r Slash okay Story, time So i've read.

525
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: It so, anyway this problem THAT i have is not with,

526
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 1: him but with my stepmom forty two. Female she has

527
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 1: been with my dad off and, on hard to explain

528
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: for about eight years. Now i'm not going to go

529
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 1: into details on their, relationship but basically the only reason

530
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 1: my dad's with her is because she's convenient and pretty

531
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 1: much free. Babysitter she has always been extremely controlling of

532
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: me and my, siblings and she didn't try for the

533
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: first few months she lived with, us but everything pretty

534
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 1: much exploded after. That she'd only have sons before we

535
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,159
Speaker 1: came into her, life more like she intruded into, ours

536
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:24,199
Speaker 1: and she kind of lost it when she realized she

537
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 1: had an impressional little Daughar molt jokes on her THOUGH

538
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: i had basically been taking care of myself SINCE i

539
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 1: was six years old because my dad didn't give a

540
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:38,720
Speaker 1: crap about his, kids so as finful as she initially. Expected,

541
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 1: anyway the present, times we are currently living in a

542
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 1: state very far from my two older sisters and the

543
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:45,159
Speaker 1: rest of the.

544
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 3: Family are you?

545
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:50,640
Speaker 1: Serious i'm thirsty And i'm not allowed to have contact

546
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,400
Speaker 1: with any of, them AND i totally follow that. Roule

547
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: i've made very very good friends with a family that

548
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: she used to be neighbors. With the mom is her only,

549
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:02,880
Speaker 1: friend and the dad thinks she's a piece of. Pope

550
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,360
Speaker 1: they have seven kids with mixed, feelings And i'm not

551
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: really sure What i'm supposed to be thinking right, Now so,

552
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: basically my stepmom will call Her. Sharon recently kind of

553
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 1: helped me out in finding a car to buy for

554
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 1: myself with my. Savings i've been working for two years

555
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: now and saving up fifty percent of my, paychecks ALTHOUGH

556
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: i didn't REALIZE i was going to be using it

557
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 1: to buy my own. Car i've been hoping that my

558
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: dad would be a good person for once in his

559
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: gosh darn life and put the brakes on an old

560
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 1: jump that we have sitting in her backyard that used

561
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 1: to be my oldest stepbrother's car still runs, fine AND

562
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 1: i told him THAT i would pay for the new,

563
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 1: breaks although he's the one that fed them up in

564
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,159
Speaker 1: the first. Places he has been putting it off for

565
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,480
Speaker 1: two years, now and RECENTLY i got my. LICENSE i

566
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: figured it was about TIME i had something to, drive

567
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 1: and my dad tried offering me a rusted out Old

568
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 1: camry that has been through four of my, siblings and

569
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: my sister literally crashed into the side of a concrete.

570
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 1: BARN i told him that he could either make the

571
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 1: jeeper priority or tell me THAT i needed to find

572
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: my own. Car he didn't give me an, answer and

573
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 1: SO i told HIM i would buy my own car

574
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: and be done with. IT i didn't want his or

575
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 1: my stepmom's names anywhere near my. Car, anyways she went

576
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 1: behind my dad's back and found a green two thousand

577
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: and Three prius for sale about three hours away from

578
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,160
Speaker 1: where we. Lived it's not exactly a challenge to look

579
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 1: at a screen and send a car to your, stepdaughter

580
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,919
Speaker 1: but thank you so much for your. Contribution, ANYWAYS i

581
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 1: buy the car and she insists on having her name.

582
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 3: Put with mine on the.

583
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: Title she didn't give me much of a choice SINCE

584
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: A i wanted the car really badly after going to

585
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 1: see it and knew she would walk my booty out

586
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: of the dealership and tell me to forget about driving

587
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 1: IF i said, anything and B i didn't want.

588
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 3: To cause a scene in front of the sales, guy

589
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 3: who was a really nice.

590
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 1: Guy, anyways we'd get the car home and instantly take

591
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: it over to the friend's house to have the, dad

592
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,159
Speaker 1: let's call Him, jake take a look at. It he

593
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 1: is a mechanic and has his own shop right next

594
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: to his. House he runs through it and a few

595
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,199
Speaker 1: days Later i'm at his house hanging out with my

596
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: best friend who is his, daughter and he tells me

597
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 1: that it's ready to take, home and mind, YOU i

598
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 1: have my license at this, POINT i can legally drive

599
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,879
Speaker 1: the fing car IF i want to drive the efing. Car,

600
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: plus his house is seven minutes down the road from.

601
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: Mine SO i Called sharon and let her know the

602
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: situation and basically tell her THAT i was planning on

603
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 1: driving at home the next day after PLAYING d AND

604
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 1: d with their. Kids she yells at me for telling

605
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 1: her and not asking her if it was. OKAY i

606
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: tried to explain THAT i was mostly letting her know

607
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: the situation and THAT i was planning on asking her

608
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: if it was okay in person WHEN i got.

609
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:34,800
Speaker 3: Home she hung up on.

610
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: Me you're supposed to be, Like i'm co signing the

611
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 2: car so that you can get good credit and not

612
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 2: be totally at fault if something goes.

613
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 3: Wrong not to control your car.

614
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 2: Usage, yeah and not to be like you co belongs

615
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 2: to me for the evening and.

616
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 3: That's your life belongs to.

617
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 1: Me the next day rolls around AND i haven't heard

618
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,919
Speaker 1: anything about. It if she's okay with me driving my

619
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 1: car from their house until about fifteen minutes before we

620
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 1: had to, leave when she calls my twin to tell

621
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: him that he's driving my car, home and then IF

622
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: i have a problem with, it we can just leave

623
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: it here AND i can forget about driving it at.

624
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 1: ALL i had a huge problem with, that as in everyone. Else,

625
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 1: allison her best, friend told me THAT i need to

626
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 1: talk to her about, it and basically kind of emotionally

627
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 1: manipulated me into doing. SO i was just about to

628
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 1: drop it to not make, waves and she told me

629
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 1: THAT i sound Like sharon WHEN i say THAT i

630
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 1: don't want to deal with a.

631
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:29,679
Speaker 3: Fight it's so.

632
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: Artful advise me every time to keep something secret from my.

633
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 1: Dad jake advised me to stay quiet about it and

634
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: not make waves Until i'm. Eighteen he supports me in

635
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: my decision to cut her off. Completely after, that looking,

636
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 1: back he was completely right AND i shouldn't have listened

637
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: To allison's, advice although she meant well and thought it

638
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:49,479
Speaker 1: would pan. Out but, Okay, ANYWAYS i went home and

639
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 1: walked in the. Door she was sitting on the floor

640
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: playing video. GAMES i like to point out THAT i

641
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: never usually say anything to her WHEN i first walk.

642
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: IN i usually go about my business and take care

643
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 1: of my. Crap, anyways they go to my room begin

644
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 1: putting my clothes away that were on my bed so

645
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: THAT i could get to bed, early and also because

646
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: it takes me a long time to work with the

647
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 1: courage to tell my parents THAT i need to have

648
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: talked with them about. Stuff after ten minutes of psyching myself,

649
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 1: UP i finally am able to get the words. OUT

650
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: i tell her THAT i need to talk to her

651
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: in a. Bit she replies, with if you have something to,

652
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: say just say. It AND i tell her That i'm

653
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: a bit busy right now AND i wanted to talk

654
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: about it a bit. Later she wanted the conversation to

655
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 1: be a family spectacle WHEN i clearly wanted to be in.

656
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 2: Private, yes she's trying to juice up the drama, numbers

657
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 2: and you're just trying to be, LIKE i want to

658
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 2: have a real conversation with. You she's, like not unless

659
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 2: it makes everyone hate. You, yeah not unless it's on.

660
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 2: Stream not unless it's streamed.

661
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: Out about fifteen minutes, later she got none playing video

662
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 1: games and went to her. Room my twin followed her

663
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: and started talking to her about school. STUFF i waited

664
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: until the conversation seemed like it was almost finished before

665
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 1: walking into the. ROOM i sat down on the bed

666
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: right next to her and waited for them to be.

667
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 1: Done my twin hadn't even exited the room before she

668
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: tried me and, said go ahead throw your. Fit what

669
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: a ballsy thing to, say WHEN i tell, YOU i

670
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: had to hold myself back from showing her what a

671
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: fit really looked. Like SO i held myself back and

672
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:14,959
Speaker 1: tried to tell her THAT i was not comfortable with

673
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: the fact that she had him drive my. Car even

674
00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: BEFORE i got To i'd even get two words out

675
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 1: before she cut me, off literally screaming at me for

676
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 1: being so selfish and self absorbed and ungrateful for everything

677
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,840
Speaker 1: that she did for, Me, like b you stole owe

678
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: me two thousand dollars that you borrowed because you don't

679
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 1: have an effing. Job who's doing what?

680
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 3: For who?

681
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 2: Here talk talk yo ish talk yo.

682
00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: ISH i tried to explain to her THAT i didn't

683
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,160
Speaker 1: have a problem with him driving the, car BUT i

684
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: did have one with the fact THAT i hadn't even

685
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 1: had a chance to drive it yet at. All she

686
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: was the one that testrove. It, Anyway she kept jumping

687
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: on my booty every single or TIME i opened my.

688
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,640
Speaker 1: Mouth the most WORDS i said at the, time the

689
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 1: whole argument was. Three she kept calling me a b

690
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: SAYING i was a. Brat the insult that pisces me

691
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,239
Speaker 1: off the f a. Most she was even hitting the.

692
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: Combos at one point she called me a B e

693
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 1: teenage brat who was throwing a fit because she couldn't

694
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: share a car for five seconds.

695
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 2: M she hit the combo of like you're, one you're,

696
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 2: two you're both of these. Things let's.

697
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:23,479
Speaker 4: Combined.

698
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: Though by the, way if you want to hit the

699
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: combo of your, life you should join his live on

700
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: YouTube every weekday THREE. BMPST i just have her. Profile

701
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: the reason that she gave me for WHY i wasn't

702
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: allowed to drive my car home was BECAUSE i wasn't

703
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 1: on the insurance as a licensed. Driver yet guess what

704
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 1: neither was my. Twin the argument ended when she told

705
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: me twice in a row THAT i WAS, bs AND

706
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: i completely lost. It the entire TIME i was holding

707
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: back tears of anger and. Hurt but WHEN i tell,

708
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:53,959
Speaker 1: you my eyes were completely dry WHEN i, screamed our

709
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: entire fing family IS. BS i mean it's a hair

710
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 1: type Drive my, dudes m ida hole for having a

711
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: problem with. This AM i right in my decision to

712
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 1: cut off contact AFTER i turn. Eighteen, also it's been

713
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: a few months since this happened AND i still haven't

714
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 1: driven my car.

715
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 3: Alone she basically uses it as her personal.

716
00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: VEHICLE i have a huge problem Because i'm paying for

717
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 1: effing gas that she's using and she still hasn't paid

718
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:23,440
Speaker 1: me back by Two, okay it's completely whack that She's

719
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 1: she's being manipulated like.

720
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 3: THIS i hate.

721
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 2: This here's my. Advice you're legally on the paperwork as

722
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: a registered owner of this. Vehicle steal this car from

723
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 2: your lame family member and do not tell her where it.

724
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 2: IS i always say this when it comes to cutting

725
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 2: off like family at an early. AGE i think you

726
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 2: have this one family member who's like really really like just.

727
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 2: Lame you can go like low slash no contact with.

728
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 2: THEM i wouldn't ever. Like it's just hard when it

729
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 2: comes to. Family so it's hard when it comes to

730
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 2: anything really to like close the door. Permanently, yeah stepmom

731
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: and this and op need to have a legit like

732
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 2: x ambition match in front of the, family because apparently

733
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 2: that's that's what the step mom likes to. Do, yeah

734
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: she likes to make the entire family weigh in on. It,

735
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 2: now this is your, Car get your family on your,

736
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 2: side and then pressure your dead well the.

737
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: Dad the dad's basically saying, like wait until you're. Eighteen

738
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: if she spent money on, it, yeah that's my.

739
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 2: Car you spent on. It it's, like that's your, car

740
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:17,959
Speaker 2: that's your.

741
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 6: Car my mother in law wanted to wear white on

742
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 6: my wedding. DAY i let, her but now she's.

743
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 4: Furious she just wants to be the. Star she's, like

744
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 4: you you gave me WHAT i wanted and it wasn't. Enough.

745
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 6: Me mail thirty three and, husband also male thirty, three

746
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 6: met seven years, ago started. Dating after three years of

747
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 6: knowing each, other we got married last. Year we decided

748
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 6: to have dinner with each side of our family separately

749
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 6: and tell them the big news about our. Engagement by the,

750
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 6: way this comes from Mother effort fifty nine seventy eight

751
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:49,959
Speaker 6: on The Okay storytime suppered.

752
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 4: It so dinner with my family went.

753
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 6: Smoothly on the other, hand dinner with his family was

754
00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 6: a stressful event after we shared our news with. Them at,

755
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 6: first his parents and so we're thrilled and really happy for,

756
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 6: us then wanted to know details about what we're planning

757
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 6: to do for the. Ceremony we shared that it still

758
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 6: hasn't been discussed because we just got. Engaged mother in

759
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 6: law declared that she'll be wearing white to the, events

760
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 6: not even calling it a. WEDDING i asked if she

761
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 6: was serious and why on earth she would come to

762
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 6: a wedding in. White she then replied that it's not

763
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 6: a real wedding since we're both men and there's no

764
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 6: bride to wear a white. Dress oh, oh it's. Amophobia that's.

765
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 6: Why if there's no, Bride i'm the. Bride that's how it.

766
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 6: Works it's gotta be. Someone someone's gotta be the bride.

767
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 6: Here one of them could wear a white. Suit, yeah

768
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 6: why would you wear a white, dress regardless of whether

769
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 6: or not they wear white or. Not, well, right people

770
00:34:51,600 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 6: going to think that you're marrying your? Son, yeah exactly like.

771
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 6: WHY i was absolutely raging about that statement and lost

772
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:01,760
Speaker 6: my cool for a. Bit call her rude and disrespectful

773
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 6: for saying it's not a real wedding and me and

774
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 6: her son are getting. WET i ended up saying that

775
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 6: if she comes wearing, white she will not be welcomed at.

776
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 6: All my husband tried to calm me down and we.

777
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 6: LEFT a day, LATER i called her to apologize for

778
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 6: my behavior and said she's welcome to our wedding and

779
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 6: asked her not to wear white because we are getting,

780
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 6: married even if we are both.

781
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 4: Men she did not.

782
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 6: Apologize for her part in the, situation but said, fine

783
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 6: she will not come to the wedding wearing a white.

784
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 6: Dress going, forward two, months his sister called me saying

785
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 6: that the mother bought a white.

786
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 4: Dress, No lisa's.

787
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 6: Sisters on his, Side you've got a little spy in the.

788
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 6: RANKS i was angry and brought it up to my

789
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 6: soon to be. Husband he didn't want to make this

790
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 6: a big. Deal he'll support any DECISION i, make but

791
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 6: would very much appreciate for me to compromise and still

792
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,799
Speaker 6: let her come because she's very important to. HIM i

793
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,799
Speaker 6: said THAT i need to think about, it and her

794
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 6: behavior is very disappointing and. DISRESPECTFUL i talked to one

795
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 6: of my clothes, friends female thirty, two and she suggested

796
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,360
Speaker 6: that all of the guests will come in white so

797
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:05,760
Speaker 6: mother in law won't stand.

798
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 4: Out genius. Idea, honestly, yeah that's pretty. Smart that's so.

799
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 4: SMART i want to.

800
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 6: KNOW i want to know, if like op and, there

801
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:16,319
Speaker 6: if his fiance area to come in like colors and.

802
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 6: STUFF i feel like that's a really fun concept of

803
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 6: everyone wearing white and you're The, yeah, honestly that would

804
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 6: be Maybe i'll wear green to my wedding and everyone

805
00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 6: else is to wear.

806
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 4: White, OOH i like that.

807
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 2: IDEA i like.

808
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 6: IT i decided to be even more spiteful and ask

809
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 6: only women to come in white, dresses and if it's

810
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 6: their wedding, DRESS i would even appreciate it.

811
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,719
Speaker 4: More this is so patty AND i love.

812
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 6: It we set invitations to the wedding addressing the white,

813
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 6: dresses talked to relatives and people who might talk to

814
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 6: the mother in law and ask them not to bring

815
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 6: it up in front of, her and she got a

816
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:51,720
Speaker 6: different wedding.

817
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 4: INVITATION i really.

818
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 6: Reliant on everyone keeping that on the down la and

819
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 6: apparently that guess they, did.

820
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 4: Right that's like a that's like a master.

821
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 6: Plan master plan really requires a lot of secrecy THAT

822
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 6: i would not. Like if this was my, family it

823
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 6: would not work. Right like it's like a surprise party

824
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,960
Speaker 6: like times one. Hundred, yeah this is for one. Person

825
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,240
Speaker 6: it's not even about. Them it's not even their. Party

826
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 6: no day of the wedding. Comes she came in a white.

827
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 6: DRESS i welcome her with open arms and, SAID i

828
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 6: Think i've seen other guests wearing. White she looked. Puzzled

829
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 6: enter the venue and starts looking. Around she was shocked

830
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:33,720
Speaker 6: and became even whiter than her. Dress almost every woman

831
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 6: in our wedding wore. White shout out to. Goodness she

832
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:41,720
Speaker 6: was mad and pouting the whole. EVENING i was happy

833
00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,759
Speaker 6: not only to marry the love of my, life but

834
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 6: also not letting crazy people get their.

835
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 4: Way that was part one of my. Revenge oh oh my.

836
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 6: GOODNESS i was happy to end it, There but my

837
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 6: sister in law had other plans for her. Mother part

838
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 6: two to come, soon since this is already long and

839
00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 6: there is an.

840
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 4: Update oh but what do you?

841
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 6: Think?

842
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 4: Goodness is this?

843
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 6: Petty is this? Justified BECAUSE i have? Thoughts what are your?

844
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 4: THOUGHTS i think it's, petty but Like i'm kind of

845
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 4: here for.

846
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 6: IT i am also LIKE i think THAT i think

847
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 6: that's so, fun like because it's not important for her

848
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 6: to wear.

849
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:16,400
Speaker 2: White not.

850
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 6: ALL i don't know why she like made it so

851
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 6: important for her to wear. White so it's, like, yeah.

852
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 2: Just everyone wear.

853
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 4: WHITE i, mean what a great, idea mother in.

854
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 6: Law, Yes and you play it, Off you're, like oh,

855
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 6: no you LIKE i thought that was you, know at

856
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 6: first it was.

857
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 4: GOOD i didn't want you to wear, white but THEN

858
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 4: i thought about.

859
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:34,280
Speaker 6: It AND i was, like, wow, yeah that's a brilliant, idea,

860
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 6: exact and it's all thanks to, you mother in.

861
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 4: Law, yeah thank you so.

862
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 6: Much and just like really lean into, it, right really

863
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 6: rubber face in.

864
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,360
Speaker 4: IT i really want to, know like how she really

865
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:46,240
Speaker 4: thought about.

866
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 6: IT i, mean she's got to be furious you. SHOULD i, mean,

867
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 6: like there's only one reason for you to wear white

868
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 6: to a. Wedding it's because you want, attention, right she

869
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 6: doesn't get that attention now and now it's just now

870
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 6: they get to have fun with everyone wearing wedding dresses like.

871
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 4: That, honestly is kind of. Fun sounds like a great. Wedding,

872
00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 4: yeah so let's find out part two of this. Revenge

873
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 4: let's hear.

874
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 6: It BEFORE i get to part, TWO i want to

875
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 6: say a few. Things at, First i'd like to thank

876
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 6: everyone in the common section for the love and. Support,

877
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 6: Second hobby is a very reserved person and sadly let

878
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 6: his parents walk all over, him so to sister in,

879
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 6: law but when they spoke ill about me happened only,

880
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 6: twice he was very clear to let them know they

881
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 6: shouldn't and.

882
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 4: Cut it off right.

883
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 6: Away hopefully one day he will stand up for himself

884
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 6: the same as he does for. Me let's get to

885
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:38,200
Speaker 6: the second. Part sister in law is absolutely legend and

886
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 6: we became close instantly when we met five years. Ago

887
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 6: that's why she informed me about mother in law's. Plans

888
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 6: so after the whole wedding, drama sister in law decided

889
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 6: to be silent no more against their mother and how

890
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 6: she treats. THEM a few months past since my wedding

891
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 6: and sister in law got, engaged she and her soon

892
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,799
Speaker 6: to be a, husband are very easy going and not

893
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 6: much for. Tradition they decided not to have a religious

894
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,320
Speaker 6: wedding in our. Country unless you have a wedding officiate

895
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 6: by a man of, religion it is not recognized by the.

896
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 4: Government. Wow, Interesting so it seems like not only is

897
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 4: this you, know is she being?

898
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 6: Homophobic but also right the government is kind of backing

899
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:18,359
Speaker 6: her homophobia.

900
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 4: Up she's like, that it's not just.

901
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 6: Me so gays can't get married and non religions also.

902
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 6: Can't only if the ceremony is held in another country

903
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 6: would it be. Recognizable after mother in law found out

904
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 6: the wedding is not going to be held in a

905
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 6: traditional setting and no man of religion is going to be,

906
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 6: involved she again, said.

907
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 2: It's not a real.

908
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 4: Wedding oh my. Goodness, booo mother in, law we don't like.

909
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 6: You sister in law finally decided to stand up for

910
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 6: herself after mother in law said what she. Said sister

911
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 6: in law inform me that she's had it with her

912
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 6: mother and wants to take revenge for her behavior in

913
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 6: her wedding and their entire. Life after consulting with her

914
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 6: soon to be a, husband they want me an hobby

915
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 6: to be involved in the ceremony is awarding them while

916
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 6: wearing white.

917
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 4: Dresses. WO i love.

918
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 6: THAT i think everyone needs to wear white. Dresses everyone's

919
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,799
Speaker 6: just like ganging up on. Her, yeah they're, like, oh

920
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 6: she wanted to wear white. Dresses, well here we, are

921
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 6: everyone's wearing white. DRESSES i was happy that she was

922
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:19,399
Speaker 6: finally going to stand up for herself and asked if

923
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 6: she and her husband were absolutely sure they want their

924
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 6: wedding to have two guys wearing. Dresses she said it

925
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 6: was her wish and would very much appreciate me IF

926
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 6: i did.

927
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:28,880
Speaker 4: It she is no.

928
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 6: Longer going to hold herself back just to make their parents.

929
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 6: HAPPY i myself what you can call a very much flamboyant,

930
00:41:35,440 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 6: person SO i didn't mind wearing a. Dress hobby, is

931
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 6: as said in the beginning of this, post very reserved

932
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 6: and doesn't like. Attention he doesn't want to wear a,

933
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 6: dress but was willing to come in a white suit

934
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 6: and walk his sister down the. Aisle we agreed that

935
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 6: his sister's wishes for her wedding are important and would

936
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 6: do our best to make them come, true but we

937
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 6: decided we would both wear matching suits in. White since

938
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 6: she got. Pregnant they wanted to have the wedding as

939
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 6: two months after the. Engagement the wedding took. Place mother

940
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 6: in law and father in law were asked to sit

941
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 6: with the rest of the. Crowd during the, ceremony her

942
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 6: husband's parents walked him by the. AISLE i didn't see

943
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 6: mother in law or father in law BECAUSE i was

944
00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 6: backstage preparing to walk sister in law down the, aisle

945
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 6: BUT i was sure they were. Pissed and you'll never

946
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 6: be pissed if you join us live every week to

947
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 6: at THREE pmpsd on. YouTube just tap her. Profile that's,

948
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,800
Speaker 6: right tap top bits our turn to walk sister in

949
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,319
Speaker 6: law and she wore a beautiful, dress all black as she.

950
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 6: Wanted Nice me and my hobby both on each side of,

951
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 6: her wearing white and looking Fab the look on their parents'

952
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 6: face was absolutely the best THING i could ever. IMAGINE

953
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 6: i truly am happy for sister in law getting the

954
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 6: wedding she wants and finally standing up for herself and

955
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 6: her wishes while being as petty as one. Can the

956
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 6: wedding was last, month and mother in law is still

957
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 6: very mad at all of, us barely speaking to any of.

958
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 6: Us father in, law while he isn't very, happy let

959
00:42:58,480 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 6: it go as he does with.

960
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 4: Everything and moved.

961
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 6: ON i WISH i could share picks with you, guys

962
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 6: but respect my hubby's wishes to remain.

963
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,880
Speaker 4: Anonymous and that is the end of that.

964
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 6: Story seems like everything worked out their whole. Life opie's

965
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 6: fiance and sister just weren't standing up for themselves, right

966
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:18,160
Speaker 6: and finally they had a reason. TO i really really

967
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,800
Speaker 6: love like the double revenge. Blog, yeah same, person same,

968
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:25,520
Speaker 6: person same type of. Revenge, yeah and like for the

969
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 6: same kind of. Reasons yes, Too like that's just just

970
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 6: really rub it in her.

971
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 4: Face, yeah that's she's gonna. Keep, yeah if she could

972
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 4: get if she's gonna keep.

973
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,360
Speaker 6: Saying i've always known a real, wedding, well she's gonna

974
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 6: keep getting served that revenge. Exactly she's gonna get non

975
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 6: traditional weddings and the only wedding that she's gonna get

976
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:43,720
Speaker 6: to be invited to from now.

977
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,799
Speaker 4: On exactly for her. Family but that is the end

978
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 4: of that.

979
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:50,040
Speaker 6: Story so we'll see you Next next to my father

980
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 6: in law never keeps his. Words SO i told my

981
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 6: fiance not to invite him to our. WEDDING i twenty

982
00:43:56,400 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 6: seven female and my fiance twenty nine, male are engaged

983
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 6: and we just started planning for our. Wedding we have

984
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 6: been a couple for seven, years engaged for two that

985
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 6: WAY i could finish, university and have known each other

986
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 6: since high. School we reconnected in our early university slash

987
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:15,319
Speaker 6: junior college days and have been inseparable ever, since having

988
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,760
Speaker 6: helped each other through a lot of significant life changes

989
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 6: and accomplishments. Already by the, way this comes from u

990
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 6: slash Topeaz scorpio ninety six on the r Slash okay storytime.

991
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:29,439
Speaker 6: Subreddit so we are really looking forward to getting married

992
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 6: in front of our families and close. Friends, already we

993
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 6: have been encountering the typical family member pressures about how

994
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 6: they hope our wedding to be where it should be

995
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 6: and if we can keep things in mind for them in, accommodations.

996
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 4: Etc we have been.

997
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 6: Doing well so, far keeping our interests as a, priority

998
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 6: mutually agreeing that we will not be married in our

999
00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 6: hometown because there's too many painful associations and memories for

1000
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 6: the both of, us and then it won't be a

1001
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 6: church wedding as we aren't very, religious so that everyone

1002
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 6: we'd love from all walks of spirituality can be.

1003
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,280
Speaker 2: There, however there.

1004
00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 6: Is one of a few outstanding issues we are experiencing

1005
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 6: related to the. Wedding my future father in law has

1006
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 6: been making remarks about us saying we would like to

1007
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 6: get married in our current, city saying that he would

1008
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,799
Speaker 6: be better able to attend if it were back in

1009
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 6: our hometown where it.

1010
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,320
Speaker 4: Was more convenient for him as well for our other family.

1011
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 6: Members where we currently live is four to six hours

1012
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 6: away in a very scenic and popular tourist area of our.

1013
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 6: State we ideally would plan the wedding to be on

1014
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 6: a weekend so that people had a better chance of

1015
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 6: attending and enjoying being out. THERE a vast majority of

1016
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 6: our potential guests have said that they would come wherever

1017
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 6: we have the, wedding, regardless including family members on my fiance's,

1018
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,600
Speaker 6: Side so it sounds like it's just the future father in.

1019
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 4: Laws he's making.

1020
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 6: TROUBLE i guess the reason why father in law's request

1021
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 6: bothers me so much is BECAUSE i do not trust

1022
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 6: him to keep his word in attending in either. Scenario

1023
00:45:55,800 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 6: as of late family dynamics between my fiance's immediate family

1024
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 6: members mom versus, Dad dad versus sister fiancee stuck in

1025
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 6: the middle has been pretty. Tense future father in law

1026
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 6: has a history of. Infidelity he can't.

1027
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 4: Handle, commitment not at. All don't let him come to the.

1028
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:15,200
Speaker 2: Wedding he's not gonna be.

1029
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 4: There he's not even gonna go. Down probably.

1030
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 6: Not his latest incident being this past summer. Incident what

1031
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:25,359
Speaker 6: do you mean ancida in an, Incident he's, like.

1032
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:26,880
Speaker 4: Ah you, know father in.

1033
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 6: Law sometimes he just, slips just acts up sometimes like

1034
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 6: he's infidelity.

1035
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,720
Speaker 4: Acts It's. Claire he's having A claire.

1036
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 6: Right he's prioritizing his job and indiscretions over family time

1037
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,959
Speaker 6: and events that occur both in and out of, town

1038
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 6: and not having the best of relationships with his two,

1039
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 6: children which are my fiance and his. SISTER a lot

1040
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 6: of the time if he wasn't really, working he has

1041
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 6: missed family get togethers to instead go drinking with his

1042
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 6: buddies until late at, night or to see another woman

1043
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 6: in the future of mother in law was traveling out of.

1044
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 3: Town.

1045
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 4: Disgusting oh my.

1046
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 6: Goodness since we started, dating father in law has missed two.

1047
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,960
Speaker 6: Graduations one was my fiances for his masters and two,

1048
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 6: weddings a couple of, funerals and countless family.

1049
00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 4: Dinners oh my, goodness what is the point of this?

1050
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,439
Speaker 4: Man he's just not shown up, anyway doesn't. Exist what's

1051
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 4: the point of? Him stop inviting him to things he

1052
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:23,719
Speaker 4: doesn't show? Up, yeah.

1053
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,280
Speaker 6: Exactly this has happened so much so that close family

1054
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,439
Speaker 6: and friends are. Disappointed when they asked me and made

1055
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 6: remarks of how unsurprised they. Are his kids and my

1056
00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 6: future mother in law have been equally just as. Disappointed

1057
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 6: but mother in law enables it and makes excuses for

1058
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 6: him that neither sister in law or fiance accept that.

1059
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,880
Speaker 4: Suck she's just making excuses for him to. Cheat, yeah she's, like,

1060
00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:49,400
Speaker 4: oh you, know father in.

1061
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 6: Law when, confronted the father in law gets defensive and

1062
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:57,399
Speaker 6: makes excuses for his. Actions it has caused a rift

1063
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 6: between father in law and sister in law to not

1064
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:03,080
Speaker 6: talk to one another much. Anymore after he chose not

1065
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 6: to go with us to help and support mother in

1066
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:08,800
Speaker 6: law's family out of the country when her father sadly

1067
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 6: passed away suddenly after battling terminal. Cancer why is this

1068
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 6: woman still with? Him, yeah that's really. Sad that's so

1069
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 6: sad like he literally has nothing good to. Offer he

1070
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 6: doesn't show to any, events doesn't help her, ailing you,

1071
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 6: know or passed away. Parent, right it's like not even

1072
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 6: just an absent father and an absent. Husband, yeah like

1073
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 6: you just cheat, Center it's just, gone like what does he?

1074
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:34,399
Speaker 3: Do?

1075
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 6: Nothing from Everything i've, seen observed and experienced regarding the

1076
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:41,160
Speaker 6: father in, LAW i honestly don't expect him to come

1077
00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 6: to our wedding at.

1078
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 4: All seeing how sad and.

1079
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 6: Disappointed my fiance has been towards his dad's most recent

1080
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 6: lack of attendance was. Devastating it really seems like he

1081
00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 6: wouldn't be missing anything if he wasn't. INVITED i voiced

1082
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 6: my concerns to my fiance and asked him what he

1083
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 6: thought to consider not having the father in law.

1084
00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 4: THERE i listed out.

1085
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 6: All the reasons with EXAMPLES i stated, above further saying

1086
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,319
Speaker 6: how his dad has never come to visit us at

1087
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,840
Speaker 6: our previous, home and how he has declined every offer

1088
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 6: to visit us where we currently live now when future

1089
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:14,319
Speaker 6: mother in law and sister in law, visit and how

1090
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 6: he has been caught using his job as an excuse

1091
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,959
Speaker 6: to stay behind and go see another. Woman while mother

1092
00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 6: in law is, away or to just go. DRINKING i

1093
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 6: tried my best to tell my fiance that as much

1094
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:28,359
Speaker 6: AS i want to be respectful to father in law

1095
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 6: as he is my fiance's, DAD i cannot deny that

1096
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 6: the father in law's actions and lack of accountability to

1097
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,360
Speaker 6: recent events has upset me enough to think that he

1098
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 6: should not be included at.

1099
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 4: All don't include. Him he's not gonna show. Up, yeah

1100
00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 4: that's just no.

1101
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:46,320
Speaker 6: Point like you're just gonna get your hopes super high

1102
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 6: of like him showing, up.

1103
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 4: And then he's gonna disappoint. You he's not even, there

1104
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 4: not even.

1105
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,239
Speaker 6: There we haven't come to an agreement, yet we still

1106
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 6: have plenty of. TIME i believe that both people in

1107
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 6: a couple should agree on serious decisions like. This if

1108
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 6: he decides to still invite his, DAD i won't go

1109
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 6: against him and respect, it BUT i will take care

1110
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 6: of any drama stemming from this so that he can

1111
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:07,879
Speaker 6: enjoy our future big.

1112
00:50:07,960 --> 00:50:10,080
Speaker 4: Day that's really. SWEET i think that's, fair.

1113
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 6: Especially because it is his partners her parent right, right

1114
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 6: so she can't really fully decide whether she will.

1115
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 4: Exactly so it's nice that she's just like you make that.

1116
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 6: Decision i'll take care of whatever problem About i'll take

1117
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:24,760
Speaker 6: care Of i'll take, cure don't you. Worry my fiance

1118
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:28,399
Speaker 6: AND i have been having some very, good serious conversations about,

1119
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:31,440
Speaker 6: this but he does get quiet sometimes and frustrated with

1120
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:32,959
Speaker 6: how torn he is about his.

1121
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 4: Feelings towards his.

1122
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 6: DAD i feel bad for having brought this to his

1123
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:39,520
Speaker 6: attention and. Consideration so AM i the a hole for

1124
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 6: asking my fiance to consider not inviting his father slash

1125
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:46,280
Speaker 6: my future father in law to our. Wedding any outside

1126
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 6: perspective on this is, welcomed and there is an.

1127
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 4: Update but what do we think.

1128
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 6: Is A, No, no you're not the a hole HE'S i,

1129
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:58,680
Speaker 6: mean like, kids you're not doing anything like. Crazy you're

1130
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,799
Speaker 6: just not giving an invite to someone who's also not

1131
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 6: coming to The it's like it's like not inviting the.

1132
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 6: Queen it's like she's not good to get there. There

1133
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,880
Speaker 6: that's that's like that's a really good way to like thank. You, Yeah,

1134
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 6: NO i don't think you're the a whole like at. All,

1135
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 6: yeah BECAUSE i mean you're bringing it up and, yeah it's,

1136
00:51:17,400 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 6: sad but it's kind of the.

1137
00:51:18,760 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 4: Reality so it's like it's not really.

1138
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 6: Your fault that he's being. Sad it's a sad situation.

1139
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,359
Speaker 6: Already you're just bringing it to, attention.

1140
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 4: And you're going about it in a really good.

1141
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 2: WAY i.

1142
00:51:28,280 --> 00:51:31,319
Speaker 6: Think, so, yeah like you're offering all this support and

1143
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,520
Speaker 6: stuff and like making sure that he can make that

1144
00:51:33,600 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 6: decision for.

1145
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,840
Speaker 4: Himself SO i, think.

1146
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:38,279
Speaker 6: Yeah just let him, know, like, hey if you don't

1147
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 6: want him, there let's let's make that make sure that

1148
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:43,760
Speaker 6: he doesn't come. UPDATE i know my post was shared

1149
00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 6: to get as much input as, possible and to, THAT

1150
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 6: i think everyone who commented and messaged me their, support, insides,

1151
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:54,600
Speaker 6: tips and similar. Experiences my fiance AND i are currently

1152
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 6: experiencing some unfore seen financed setbacks a POST i will

1153
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 6: make later and considering much of the advice you. Gave

1154
00:52:00,840 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 6: thank you to the couple of folks with shared experiences

1155
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 6: on how to navigate toxic family members when wedding. Planning

1156
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 6: you all have reassured me THAT i wasn't wrong for

1157
00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 6: communicating such concerns to my, fiance as it is something

1158
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 6: unavoidable now and in the future when it comes to

1159
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 6: more bigger. Milestones reading your comments and messages, together you

1160
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 6: have given us some hopeful. Alternatives elopement has become a

1161
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 6: renewed discussion our PLAN, b as well as potentially finding

1162
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 6: stand in family members for my. Fiance day of the big,

1163
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 6: day it all goes forward with the ceremony and a,

1164
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,240
Speaker 6: reception which was. Planning i'm just happy that he seems

1165
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,239
Speaker 6: a little more confident in what he wants to do

1166
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 6: after reading your suggestions for. Us by the, way you

1167
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 6: can always be confident that we're gonna be live on

1168
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:48,080
Speaker 6: YouTube every weekday at three PM psd just to have

1169
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 6: our profiles. Tappit it seems like it's working. Out they're

1170
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,600
Speaker 6: figuring out different. Alternatives. Yeah as for those who commented

1171
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 6: probably the least helpful perspective and even messaging me some

1172
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,839
Speaker 6: very hurtful, THINGS i only have to say that you

1173
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 6: are lucky to not have experienced toxic family members in

1174
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 6: your home life or your significant.

1175
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 4: Others that is very fortunate for.

1176
00:53:09,080 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 6: You but do not suggest THAT i am a crap

1177
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 6: starter for putting my no's in where it doesn't, belong

1178
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 6: and even going as far as saying that my fiance

1179
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,400
Speaker 6: should break up with me for being a petty be

1180
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 6: or who has no saying. ANYTHING i have stand in

1181
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 6: people of my own for my chosen, Family so don't

1182
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 6: accuse me of being insensitive to his family situation.

1183
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,320
Speaker 4: WHEN i have had mine of my.

1184
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 6: OWN i am committed deeply to him as he is my,

1185
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:41,359
Speaker 6: person and that includes being there as he navigates his

1186
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,440
Speaker 6: family issues and helping him WHERE i. Can instead of

1187
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 6: being a completely silent bystander that you pessimistic guys, SUGGEST i.

1188
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 6: Be his family becomes my extended family as we start,

1189
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 6: ours and it will be ours together to work.

1190
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 4: Through IF i have.

1191
00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 6: Any more updates to share regarding this line of wedding

1192
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 6: planning and the event, Itself i'll keep you all. Posted

1193
00:54:02,800 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 6: but that is the end of that. Story, fortunately we

1194
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 6: didn't get any. Revenge no, revenge just got like whatever

1195
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 6: not backs to all The reddit COLL i guess the

1196
00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:17,240
Speaker 6: best revenge is living. Happily it truly. Is they, say

1197
00:54:17,360 --> 00:54:19,439
Speaker 6: that's what they. Say that's what they. Say but that's

1198
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 6: the end of that. Story, yep so we'll see you next.

1199
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 6: Time my toxic in laws are absolute. NIGHTMARES i don't

1200
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 6: want them anywhere near my. Son get him out of.

1201
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,120
Speaker 6: THERE i twenty four, female and my, fiancee twenty three,

1202
00:54:33,200 --> 00:54:36,760
Speaker 6: male have a beautiful little. Boy he was not, planned

1203
00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:39,360
Speaker 6: but he is the absolute best thing that has happened to.

1204
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 6: Us such a, sweet smiley little. Boy i've tried so

1205
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:44,879
Speaker 6: hard to get along with my future mother in, law

1206
00:54:44,960 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 6: but she is an absolute. Nightmare by the, way this

1207
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 6: comes From Jealous barnacle five. P sixty on The Okay

1208
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 6: storytime subbured. It so she has not met our. Son

1209
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 6: he's almost three months now AND i just don't feel

1210
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 6: comfortable with her seeing. Him my future father in law

1211
00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 6: either father in law smokes terribly and was not even

1212
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:04,239
Speaker 6: considered about it WHILE i was pregnant UNTIL i told

1213
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 6: my fiance to mention. Something he would be dramatic. About

1214
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 6: going outside in the cold made me feel. Great the

1215
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 6: future in laws are extremely negative people never have anything

1216
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 6: good to. Say only thing my mother in law talks

1217
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 6: about that's somewhat positive is the rodents she breeds lash, shows.

1218
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 4: Which that's a whole.

1219
00:55:22,480 --> 00:55:25,439
Speaker 6: Thing they live under her trailer house in low key

1220
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 6: kind of nasty, conditions smell. Horrible she also gets rid

1221
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:31,359
Speaker 6: of any of them that won't take care of their

1222
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 6: litters after being bred all the.

1223
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 4: Time not. Good this is. Crazy she's like just like

1224
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 4: a rat. Lady, yes they're just LIKE i imagining like.

1225
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:45,760
Speaker 6: Pets, no they live under the house and she kills

1226
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 6: them if they don't breed well this is or if

1227
00:55:48,960 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 6: they don't take care of their LITER i don't.

1228
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 4: Know range not.

1229
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 6: GOOD i avoid talking about it with. HER i had

1230
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 6: a big rabbit as a kid and can't imagine treating

1231
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 6: her my rabbit that. Way future mother in law made

1232
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:03,480
Speaker 6: my pregnancy. Horrible she would attack me over the dumbest.

1233
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 6: THINGS i worked at a local grocery store with her

1234
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 6: daughter future sister in law HOW i met my, fiance

1235
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 6: and she would often create drama between her AND, i

1236
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:14,400
Speaker 6: as well as calling me a liar for THINGS i

1237
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 6: never lied. About she's very rumor. Obsessed try to avoid

1238
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:21,439
Speaker 6: talking to her at all, costs but my fiance really

1239
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 6: wanted me to have a relationship with. Her she would

1240
00:56:23,680 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 6: purposely bait me in conversations to get information out of.

1241
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 6: ME i was stupid and fell for it at. First

1242
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:32,800
Speaker 6: she was just using me to create more rumors about.

1243
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,080
Speaker 6: PEOPLE i just wanted so badly to get. ALONG i

1244
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 6: have not seen her Since Mother's. DAY i had my

1245
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 6: baby In. August she called me big On Mother's day

1246
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 6: WHILE i was, pregnant AND i never went back over it. Completely,

1247
00:56:46,480 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 6: recently she had a meltdown and called my. Fiance she

1248
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,719
Speaker 6: called him crying over not seeing her, grandson and he

1249
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 6: absolutely fell for. It you need to have a conversation

1250
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 6: with your, HUSBAND i mean your fiance and say, like,

1251
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:02,720
Speaker 6: hey your mother is incredibly. Manipulative, yeah this is not healthy,

1252
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 6: Right like at the very, Least pager don't like being

1253
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 6: around her because it makes me feel.

1254
00:57:07,160 --> 00:57:08,759
Speaker 4: Bad she makes. Me she's mean to.

1255
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 6: Me, yeah crocodile tears. Completely she pulled at his. Heartstrings

1256
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:16,439
Speaker 6: he went to their place alone, afterwards and future mother

1257
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 6: in law.

1258
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 4: Got a bunch of. PRESENTS i didn't want any of.

1259
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 6: It she never helped us out while we were struggling

1260
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,479
Speaker 6: AND i was, pregnant or even after we had our little.

1261
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 6: ONE i told HER i didn't want, clothes lots of.

1262
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 6: CLOTHES i have everything sitting in the corner in my

1263
00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 6: dining room AND i don't even want to look at.

1264
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 6: It bothers me terribly hate seeing a reminder of her

1265
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 6: in my. Home she's never even been, over mainly because

1266
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 6: she's so judgmental and low key kind of. Crazy she

1267
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 6: has made my life a living. Hell And i'm so

1268
00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 6: worried about the holidays coming. Up she attacked me Over.

1269
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 6: Thanksgiving last YEAR i got MY covid. VACCINATION i lived

1270
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:53,439
Speaker 6: with my mid eighties, grandpa and both my parents were high.

1271
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 6: Risk i've made it very clear THAT i don't mind

1272
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 6: if anyone hasn't been vaccinated their, choice BUT i did

1273
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 6: it to lower THE mp because it was hitting our

1274
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 6: small town. Bad she proceeded to get in my face

1275
00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:06,440
Speaker 6: about HOW i would be infertile and how it messed

1276
00:58:06,480 --> 00:58:08,800
Speaker 6: up my. BODY i found OUT i was pregnant In.

1277
00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 6: December definitely was not. Infertile she's telling you that you're

1278
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 6: infertile as you're. Pregnant, yeah what, like you're, Good you're,

1279
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:19,160
Speaker 6: Okay she's.

1280
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 4: Good, Man she's. Good nothing else that's.

1281
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:22,760
Speaker 3: Crazy.

1282
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:26,320
Speaker 6: Yeah she Made christmas so. Awkward we sat in a

1283
00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 6: cold shed and eate. Hamburgers mine was not cooked fully

1284
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 6: AND i didn't even feel comfortable enough to say something about.

1285
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 6: It cried the entire ten minutes. HOME i was worried

1286
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 6: about it hurting the. Baby they didn't appreciate anything we

1287
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:42,360
Speaker 6: got them. Either we brought over my eight wk ultrasound

1288
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 6: pictures and they didn't even smile not a. Reaction same

1289
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:50,360
Speaker 6: with the twenty wk. Broke my fiance AND i both

1290
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 6: don't even don't even smile.

1291
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 4: About your new. Grandchild that is so, sad so.

1292
00:58:56,440 --> 00:59:00,240
Speaker 6: Cold, yeah like it's just it's a place sure of

1293
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 6: the picture of a bag that's so, exciting and you're

1294
00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 6: not gonna have it anisod of. Reaction Mother's day was.

1295
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,680
Speaker 6: WORSE i was definitely showing and. Puffy she called me

1296
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 6: bag again or, no, WAIT i think this is going

1297
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 6: back in.

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00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 4: Time took it very.

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00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 6: HARD i was a solid one hundred and seventy pounds

1300
00:59:16,400 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 6: before and gained some. Weight it was hard for. ME

1301
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 6: i know it's partially her own, insecurity showing she was

1302
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 6: much smaller than me before, kids and now she's too

1303
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 6: big to even get up on any of her. HORSES

1304
00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 6: i can tell she's. Insecure we got her flowers For Mother's,

1305
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 6: day carnations she could plant in the, yard her favorite.

1306
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 6: Flower money was very. Tight my fiance was laid off

1307
00:59:36,120 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 6: for a few months because the company he works for

1308
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 6: was bought.

1309
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 4: Out it was very.

1310
00:59:39,800 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 6: Difficult future in laws laughed and made comments because future

1311
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 6: sister in law bought them a very expensive magnolia.

1312
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 4: Tree it was.

1313
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 6: Embarrassing honestly felt stupid getting her. Something so the in

1314
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 6: laws are just making fun of the gift they gave

1315
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 6: them because it's not expensive.

1316
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 4: Enough, yeah the sister brought them a, tree like a whole,

1317
00:59:58,360 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 4: tree a whole, tree and then they just got the little.

1318
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 4: Flowers but it's not still. Sweet though it's still.

1319
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 6: Sweet their fault that the sister got a, tree, Right

1320
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:10,440
Speaker 6: like they're just joining in together to make it.

1321
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 4: Be a garden.

1322
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 6: Exactly we've got this beautiful tree and beautiful. Flowers, yeah

1323
01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 6: not a competition for a, loone especially being made fun

1324
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 6: of because we couldn't spend. Much she never appreciated. ANYTHING

1325
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 6: i tried so, hard BUT i had, it SO i

1326
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,880
Speaker 6: went no. Contact she sees pictures of him on My,

1327
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:30,760
Speaker 6: facebook doesn't react to any of. THEM i hear through

1328
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:33,800
Speaker 6: other people that she's talking. BADLY i can tell by

1329
01:00:33,800 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 6: the way they act towards, me especially their. Family i've

1330
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 6: considered blocking, her BUT i don't want to create more.

1331
01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 6: DRAMA i WISH i could cut her off. Completely by the,

1332
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 6: way you should never cut us, off because you can

1333
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 6: join us live every weekday THROUGH pmpst on YouTube just

1334
01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 6: to her, profile and there is a little bit more

1335
01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 6: to this.

1336
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 4: Story but what are your? Thoughts what do we do?

1337
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 4: Here what is so p? Do it just seems like

1338
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:56,680
Speaker 4: everyone on that side is really.

1339
01:00:56,680 --> 01:00:59,280
Speaker 6: Annoying, yeah and it's just like making fun of them

1340
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:04,800
Speaker 6: for stupid. Thing her weight when she's literally, pregnant actively. Pregnant,

1341
01:01:04,920 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 6: yes like come, On, like of course she's. Big everyone

1342
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:10,320
Speaker 6: gets big when they're. Pregnant it's because pregnancy freaking. Work

1343
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:13,439
Speaker 6: there's another human inside of. You, like, SORRY i can't

1344
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 6: look LIKE i did BEFORE i had a human inside.

1345
01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 4: Me, Yeah like ESPECIALLY i feel like especially it's.

1346
01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 2: Like you were a.

1347
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:21,080
Speaker 4: Mother, yeah you should.

1348
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 6: Understand she just seems pretty like jealous in a weird way.

1349
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:29,320
Speaker 4: Of, yeah of, op AND i don't like. It that's

1350
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:31,480
Speaker 4: A i don't like, it. Don't, YEAH i don't let

1351
01:01:31,480 --> 01:01:31,920
Speaker 4: her au her.

1352
01:01:32,000 --> 01:01:35,280
Speaker 6: Kids she's just gonna be, nasty nasty unless she can

1353
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:38,200
Speaker 6: prove that she's, gonna you, know apologize and be a

1354
01:01:38,240 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 6: functioning member of this.

1355
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 3: Family.

1356
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 4: Yeah for more.

1357
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 6: Context as, well she was abusive to her, kids both

1358
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 6: sis in law and my, fiance But sis was the

1359
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 6: fabe and my fiance got most of. It father in

1360
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 6: law was an alcoholic and still is not supportive, parents

1361
01:01:54,400 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 6: never showed up for their, son never cared to make.

1362
01:01:57,800 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 4: Excuses to this, DAY i fully believe that she is

1363
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:01,560
Speaker 4: full of.

1364
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 6: It in the crying phone, call she said she'd be

1365
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 6: better and wanted a relationship with me and my. SON

1366
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 6: i don't want, it BUT i don't want to hurt

1367
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:11,200
Speaker 6: my future. HUSBAND i love him so very. Much he

1368
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:13,520
Speaker 6: tries his, best BUT i know he's trying to please his.

1369
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 6: Parents and, yes he sticks up for. Me he's such

1370
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 6: a good.

1371
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 4: Man not the.

1372
01:02:17,480 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 6: Problem he just is awful. Parents AM i the a

1373
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 6: hole for not letting my in laws see their? GRANDSON

1374
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:26,200
Speaker 6: i need some advice and that.

1375
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:28,920
Speaker 4: Is the end of that. Story, WELL i don't think

1376
01:02:28,960 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 4: that you're the a.

1377
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 6: HOLE i think that as a, parent you have to

1378
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 6: decide who you want in your child's, life and if

1379
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:36,640
Speaker 6: they are not going to, be you, know a good

1380
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 6: person for your child to be. Around if they're going

1381
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 6: to spout nonsense and, mean mean, stuff then we just

1382
01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 6: don't need them around. Them, yeah especially if they're like

1383
01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 6: they were abusive too to the, Father, like, yeah you

1384
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 6: know you don't want them around, kids, Right like it's

1385
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 6: one thing if they're just like a little toxic a little,

1386
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 6: weird but it's, like, yeah there's a straight up like

1387
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:58,080
Speaker 6: abusive and and you know that it's like that's not

1388
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 6: going to just go, away, no very, easily you, know

1389
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 6: like that's. Risky, yeah so you wouldn't want your grandkids

1390
01:03:03,920 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 6: to be around.

1391
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 4: That, LIKE i think that's very.

1392
01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 6: FAIR i think that having a conversation with your fiance

1393
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:10,720
Speaker 6: and just seeing where he's, At, yeah this is the

1394
01:03:10,760 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 6: decision THAT i think you both need to. Make but

1395
01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 6: just putting your son. First, Yeah AND i don't think

1396
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:17,040
Speaker 6: you'd be there all for, that, no.

1397
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 4: No, No but that's the end of that.

1398
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:20,920
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