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Speaker 1: Second date update. You know those axe body spray commercials

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Speaker 1: where some lanky guy sprays a little bit of axe

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Speaker 1: on his shirt and then immediately thousands of gorgeous women

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Speaker 1: start flocking to him from miles around.

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Speaker 2: You made the axe documentaries that you watch.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I tried that and didn't get any hot

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Speaker 1: models running up. But a few sick cats did come

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Speaker 1: by and cough hairballs onto my doorsteps, So that's something.

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Speaker 3: Okay, were.

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Speaker 1: But apparently there is a trick that men can do

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Speaker 1: to make random women want to come up and approach

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Speaker 1: you out in public.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to talk to him, You just want

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Speaker 3: the free drink.

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Speaker 1: One of our listeners tried it out. His name is Mark,

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Speaker 1: so let's talk to him about it. Mark, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, thank you for having me.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you got quite the voice.

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Speaker 5: Mark.

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 4: Man? Your trick? Mark?

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Speaker 1: You just talk?

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Speaker 4: No, No, there's a little bit more to it than that.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to take all the credit for this one,

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Speaker 4: but I was let in on a little secret, and

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Speaker 4: believe it or not, it actually worked in my experience.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So even you were skeptical before you did.

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Speaker 4: It, I was. I didn't think it was going to

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Speaker 4: be that easy.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, easy. Well, we have to know what this is.

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Speaker 1: Can you tell us about it?

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Speaker 4: A friend of mine, a female co worker, she's given

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Speaker 4: me some advice. She said, the secret to get them

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Speaker 4: to approach you is to just wear a pink shirt.

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Speaker 2: I could see this.

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Speaker 4: And apparently it's just enough of a warmth color that

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Speaker 4: it gives off approachability. I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, met immediately say secure masculine guys.

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Speaker 1: And it's funny. Every time I'm working shirt, I always

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Speaker 1: get that compliment. BA says, You're doesn't count as somebody

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Speaker 1: that should be taking each other for Alexis, would this

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Speaker 1: work for you?

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Speaker 4: Is?

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Speaker 1: If you saw a guy in pink, would you be

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Speaker 1: wanting to talk to him?

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Speaker 3: I mean, even if I want to talk to him

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Speaker 3: in like a flirty way. I could see myself drunkenly

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Speaker 3: walking by being like, hey, I like your outfit.

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Speaker 1: You want to steal his clothes?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a sweatshirt I'm going to take.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So Mark, this is something that you actually tried.

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Speaker 4: Well, first off, I realized I didn't own anything pink,

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Speaker 4: so I had to go yeah.

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Speaker 3: Of course you did okay, and it's a flattering color.

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Speaker 1: So how did this work when you were like trying

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Speaker 1: to meet women?

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Speaker 4: So I went to the bar with a couple of

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Speaker 4: my friends, just regular night, nothing crazy, and I wasn't

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Speaker 4: saying anything to anybody. Me and my guy friends were

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Speaker 4: just talking and the girls, oh wow, nice shirt. Yes,

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Speaker 4: and they're ignoring all my friends and my friends. They

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Speaker 4: were looking at me like I was a jock.

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Speaker 1: I'm a little bit surprised that it was this effective

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Speaker 1: the first time that you tried it. But that's cool.

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Speaker 1: You're wanting us to call one woman in particular, right,

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Speaker 1: not every woman that you met that definitely not all

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Speaker 1: of them.

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Speaker 2: Is a woman. We're calling someone who approached you.

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Speaker 4: She is her name is Tamara, and we were both

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Speaker 4: waiting online for the UNISX bathroom and of course she

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Speaker 4: saw my shirt.

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Speaker 1: Y Amara, what's I love it? What did she say?

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Speaker 1: She just said she liked it.

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Speaker 4: She was just said, wow, that's a really nice shirt.

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Speaker 4: You wear it well not, you know, she just called

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Speaker 4: me out on it, like as if she was surprised

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Speaker 4: I was even okay with wearing a shirt like most

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Speaker 1: And how do you reply?

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Speaker 4: To that. Well, at this point I had heard it

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Speaker 4: so many times in the night. I was like, I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna I'm gonna let her in on a little secret.

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Speaker 4: And I said, to be honest, I'm actually wearing this

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Speaker 3: What was her reponse, Why would you say that?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I wasn't trying to sabotage myself. I

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Speaker 1: Women do actually.

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Speaker 5: Laughed laughed, Yeah, she thought, she laughed.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of like saying she felt for your track.

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Speaker 1: Well, she's not probably not as uptight and skeptical as

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Speaker 1: you guys are. This is one of those kind women

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Speaker 2: You know us. Wait, did you turn that into a

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Speaker 2: hag out?

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Speaker 4: So yeah, later on in the night she ended up

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Speaker 2: Oh, she's a little drunker.

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Speaker 4: A little more exactly. We both had a little bit

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Speaker 4: more influence going on at this point, and we found

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Speaker 4: a spot where we could sit down by ourselves and

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Speaker 1: Yes, an intimate sit down. How did that go?

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Speaker 4: It was great. We got to know each other. We

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Speaker 4: talked about travel, we talked about our families, we even

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Speaker 4: got to our childhood what into our childhood?

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Speaker 1: Wow, had a whole therapy session.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if it was the color, if it

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Speaker 4: was the pink bringing it out in me, but you know,

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Speaker 4: I just felt very sensitive, like yeah, fourth trade and

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Speaker 4: I got it could have been that to I won't lie.

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Speaker 1: So after you got done crying in each other's arms,

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Speaker 1: then how did you leave it?

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Speaker 4: Well, eventually she had to go. I found my friends,

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Speaker 4: and then she hasn't really been replying my text. You know,

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Speaker 4: we exchanged numbers and stuff, and I didn't know what

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Speaker 4: to do. So I asked my coworker, a female gave

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Speaker 4: me the advice in the first place, and she was like,

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Speaker 4: you know, just send her a question mark like the symbol. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It's actually not the worst.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of passive aggressive.

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Speaker 2: Like I need more. Yeah, Like it does feel passive.

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Speaker 1: You're a married woman, Brook, You're not allowed to be

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Speaker 1: a part of that. She shouldn't be asking for it.

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Speaker 2: Just feels angry a little bit.

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Speaker 1: Maybe question totally did it work? Did she respond?

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Speaker 4: All she did was.

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Speaker 2: Question it isikes, that's really bad.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well that's not a good sign. We need to

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Speaker 1: get to the bottom of this, We're gonna call Tamara

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Speaker 1: and try and get you a pink themed edition of

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Speaker 1: a Second Date update when we do it right after

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Speaker 1: this Second Date update. Today we learned about the seductive

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Speaker 1: magic of the pink shirt. So it's a man's secret

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Speaker 1: weapon to get random women to approach you out in

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Speaker 1: public and say flirty things to you like huh nice shirt,

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Speaker 1: yeah hold out. I know turned up the heat with

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Speaker 1: that one, and it worked for our listener Mark, not

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Speaker 1: just on Brook in her low standards, but on actual

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Speaker 1: women out in the real world. It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: The second part, that's how.

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Speaker 1: He met a woman named Tamara at a bar. They

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Speaker 1: ended up hanging out the entire night after that.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's so cute.

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Speaker 1: But following their bar meetup, she's been almost completely avoiding

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Speaker 1: his texts other than the question mark that he sent

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Speaker 1: to her and she just liked it.

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Speaker 3: Is that the only communication is that the only text

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Speaker 3: you sent to her?

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Speaker 1: What mark are you willing to every day for the

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Speaker 1: rest of your life?

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Speaker 2: If this works, he needs a text in pink.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, can you change.

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Speaker 1: The bubble to a pink bubble?

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Speaker 5: People really want it.

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Speaker 1: That's why he's turned to us for some radio helps.

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Speaker 1: So we're going to do our best here. I'm about

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Speaker 1: to dial to Maara.

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Speaker 3: If our low bar is just a question mark, I

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Speaker 3: think we've got this.

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Speaker 1: You never know with us, though, So here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm dialing your number right now.

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Speaker 4: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi, is this Tamara?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? The sense is this.

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Speaker 1: We are a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: On the show.

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Speaker 5: Good morning, Hi, thanks, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Sorry to surprise you like this, but we're doing a

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Speaker 1: segment called a second Date update, and one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners asked us to reach out to you.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, who was it that.

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Speaker 2: It's like yes, And then it just dawned on me

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Speaker 2: what you just said.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you don't realize what you're getting yourself into here.

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Speaker 1: But a guy named Mark met you the other night

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Speaker 1: out at the bar.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, what what did he tell you?

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Speaker 1: So far? Good reaction. He told us a little bit

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Speaker 1: about your guys' night that you complimented him on his

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Speaker 1: nice pink shirt. I'm sorry, I'm sorry to stop. Is

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Speaker 1: are you in a construction zone or are you in

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Speaker 1: a stairwell? Are you building a staircase?

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Speaker 5: There actually is contractors working underneath me in the apartment.

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Speaker 5: I think you're streaking the popcorn feelings underneath me.

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Speaker 2: That's good. Nobody wants those anymore. We're not HGTV.

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Speaker 5: But now it's been days of this noise.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you get I assumed that you had met somebody

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Speaker 1: else that night and brought him home and locked him

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Speaker 1: in a room, and now he's trying to.

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Speaker 2: I think Mark would still be open that he jealous,

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Speaker 2: that he wasn't the guy locked in the room.

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Speaker 4: Yea.

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Speaker 1: The whole reason that we're calling is Mark told us

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Speaker 1: he felt like he had a connection with you.

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Speaker 5: Is that all that he told you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean he said that you guys talked about a

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Speaker 3: lot of stuff, like you talked about your childhood and

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Speaker 3: travel and.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, did he tell you about our discussion about families?

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Speaker 1: He said childhood. I mean he said, you guys talked

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Speaker 1: about family stuff, but not you didn't get into detail.

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Speaker 3: But the way you're saying it right now, it sounds

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Speaker 3: like something bad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well Mark, he definitely tried to get into detail.

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Speaker 5: So we were talking about families and he asked to

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Speaker 5: see a photo of my family, So I pulled one

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Speaker 5: up from Christmas when we were all together, and it

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Speaker 5: got really weird, and actually, honestly it got really rude.

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Speaker 5: He like honed in on my sister from the picture yeah,

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Speaker 5: and was like his immediate reaction was, Wow, your sister

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Speaker 5: are so gorgeous, yeah, which I mean would have been

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Speaker 5: would have been okay, But then he kept going.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, maybe if anything, you compliment her mother? Did

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Speaker 2: you say beautiful family?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And I'm telling you that's not a lot.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: He was asking a ton of questions, like he wanted

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Speaker 5: to know how old she was, where she lived, Like

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Speaker 5: are you going to try to find her on Instagram?

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Speaker 5: Why are you asking so many questions about my sister?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, we didn't hear any of that stuff from him.

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Speaker 2: But he did want to call you and your sister.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, her phone number.

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Speaker 5: Otherwise you probably want why.

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Speaker 1: We're trying to help here, Remember, and I need to

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Speaker 2: I think he needs great.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he wants to talk to you unless your sister

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Speaker 5: I mean, Mark, you had to have read my reaction

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Speaker 5: when you kept asking about my sister, Like I pretty

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Speaker 4: I think you seriously misconstrued everything I was saying. Why

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Speaker 1: So what did she misunderstand? Mark?

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Speaker 4: If you'd seen her and her family, It's like when

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Speaker 5: Okay, now you're talking about my mom too, and now

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Speaker 5: it's my sister and my mom would have wanted to

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Move on to a male sitting figure in the family. Please.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well that's easy too, both of the dad and

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: You were impressed by her family and it just came

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Speaker 4: Jeans. That's the word I should have used, But I

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Speaker 4: was drunk. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Tamara said that she had a problem with you complementing

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and it wasn't. You weren't going on and on

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Speaker 1: What would tamara be something that he should have said

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Speaker 5: I wannestly anything else, but you could have said, oh

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Speaker 5: my gosh, your family is so good looking. No one

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Speaker 2: Do you hear that? Mark? Does that click for you?

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Speaker 4: Totally? Sorry, it's clicking for me now. I was just

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Speaker 5: Okay again, now he's on it again. This is insane, okay,

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Speaker 5: but learning.

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Speaker 4: To be honest here and tell you what was going

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Speaker 4: is she older or younger than you? Too? Like I

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Speaker 4: have been thinking about that, You've.

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Speaker 5: Been thinking about it, You've been okay, so you've been

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Speaker 5: trying to do want but honestly, not really a question.

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Speaker 5: Mark isn't really trying to test me. That's like the

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Speaker 5: bare minimum. But you've been thinking about my sister and

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Speaker 5: her age since then. This is creepy.

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Speaker 1: He's just trying to get to know your family. I'm

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Speaker 4: Trying to avoid being creepy because I want to make

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Speaker 4: sure she's not like super young or something. What a question?

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Speaker 2: You shut your mouth.

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Speaker 5: You don't need to make sure of that because you're

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Speaker 3: Well, that's because she's not invited on their next day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Mark, you need to just be quiet. Let me

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Speaker 1: I don't think you can Tamara. As a guy, it's

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Speaker 1: It's a trap. It's a trap. It's hard to know

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Speaker 1: the right thing when you're drinking. That is the right

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Speaker 2: Would you say the right thing?

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Speaker 3: When he was sober on the phone, Jes, you can't

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that he's pounding alcohol right now. He's totally

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Speaker 1: nervous and fluster because the truth is, to Mara, the

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Speaker 1: reason why he reached out to us is because he

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Speaker 1: likes you that much that he's willing to do whatever

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Speaker 5: No, I I think at this point, I don't trust

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Speaker 5: that he just wants to get to my sister through me,

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Speaker 5: So there's no way that that's happening.

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Speaker 1: If you don't trust what I say. Let Mark tell you, Mark,

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Speaker 1: this is your a chance.

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Speaker 4: I bluff? Do I fold?

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Speaker 1: I don't even know man, Mark, Are you texting the

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Speaker 1: girl that told you to wear that pink shirt for advice?

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Speaker 1: I want what to say here.

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Speaker 4: I don't think she would help. You probably did this whole.

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Speaker 5: Deeper for me now you've dug it deep enough on

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Speaker 3: It is It is, honestly like one big pink grave honesty.

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Speaker 1: Is there another color that can fix a yellow where

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Speaker 2: So it's a valiant effort. Jeffrey to Mary.

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Speaker 1: We were going to offer to send you out on

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Speaker 1: I think all right, okay, So in that case, are

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Speaker 1: you cool if you just give him your sister's Instagram now,

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Speaker 1: so you just text me to it.

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Speaker 5: You know he's already found shocked if he had not

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Speaker 1: Right, well, good, I'm glad you shipped them. Congratulations. It's

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Speaker 1: looking Jeffrey in the morning. If we ever get an update,

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Speaker 1: update email from Mark saying, Hey, I found her sister

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Speaker 1: and it way better. Do I reply to that email, Brook,

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Speaker 2: You reply because you love it.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what to do if someone shows you

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Speaker 1: I said, if you're drinking as a guy and you're

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Speaker 1: you might say the wrong thing. As a dude, we

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Speaker 3: Okay, but you don't say the wrong thing over and

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Speaker 3: over and over and.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he doubled down. So it's whatever. That relationship is

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Speaker 1: probably never gonna happen. It wouldn't it be interesting if

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Speaker 1: Tamara like found somebody in Mark's family he had a

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Speaker 1: secret brother. Tamara is dating Mark's dad. Mark is dating

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Speaker 1: her sister. Mark's mom is with Tamara's brother.

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Speaker 2: Trying to feel too much like my hometown. I don't

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Speaker 2: think I'm here for it.

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Speaker 1: Talk about a weird Thanksgiving? Yeah, somehow they're like stepsisters.

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Speaker 2: It's actually pretty easy Thanksgiving. There'd only be like four

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Mark, Tamara, we have her fingers crossed for your

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Speaker 1: Both of your family is best And all of this

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Speaker 3: Everyone's going to be in pink at the bar.

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Speaker 1: But if you ever need help with your dating live

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Speaker 1: email the show. We'll call that person that's not calling

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Speaker 1: you back. You can check out all of our Second

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Speaker 1: Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey