Speaker 1: Let's talk about this bitch Smerwalker.
Speaker 2: Let's get into it, guys, especially because a lot of
Speaker 2: y'all were tagging. I got a tweet that was like, ooh,
Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear you talk about the Summer
Speaker 2: Walker saga on horrible decisions suck.
Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Let's get into the tee. What
Speaker 1: could we even say? Well, well, well.
Speaker 2: Up, Like what happened is that there were there was
Speaker 2: a leaked voice note from Summer Walker to rapper Rich
Speaker 2: the Kid that was leaked allegedly by his baby mom
Speaker 2: slash fiance Tory Bricks. Now, I was just hoping my
Speaker 2: good sister didn't respond or said bitch, that's Ai. All
Speaker 2: you had to do was say that ain't me, it's Ai.
Speaker 2: In the voice note, you hear summer Walker pretty much
Speaker 2: say hey, just buy me a new phone, save me
Speaker 2: under pizza hut. I know you're not gonna leave your
Speaker 2: baby mama, but I want us to.
Speaker 1: Fuck with each other forever.
Speaker 2: I think when you heard that, because that's the line,
Speaker 2: that's all we need to know, right, Okay, So I
Speaker 2: didn't see Summer's response.
Speaker 1: First, Well, I want to.
Speaker 2: I wanted to say the voice and then I was
Speaker 2: gonna play no, no, no, I was want to say the
Speaker 2: voice note I didn't say her. I didn't see anything.
Speaker 2: My first reaction was, Oh, she's being funny.
Speaker 1: Did you think that?
Speaker 2: No. I've seen people say, oh, when you got a
Speaker 2: side chick, you saved them under Pizza Hut.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, she's trying to be funny.
Speaker 1: First off, let's be very clear. It is twenty twenty five.
Speaker 1: Nobody saves Pizza Hut's number, bitch, and.
Speaker 2: I know, oh, we all know that we like a
Speaker 2: slice from a real pizza rha and donody thought like that. Okay,
Speaker 2: So you think she was serious because she was like, listen,
Speaker 2: I'm tipsy right now, y'all gonna stop tucking each other.
Speaker 1: I don't even want go be with her.
Speaker 2: I'm glad y'all together, give me a phone and take
Speaker 2: me on a pizza head. I was like, Oh, she
Speaker 2: being funny because you're like, I could tell you talking
Speaker 2: to your trick and you just like nigga, keep breaking
Speaker 2: me off. No, So I thought she was playing it
Speaker 2: first until I listen. I listened to her six minute video. Well,
Speaker 2: I don't have six minutes, but I have about a
Speaker 2: minute and a half. But this is where she explicitly says,
Speaker 2: I just want to be the side piece.
Speaker 1: This is what Summer Walker had two snaps.
Speaker 3: I just want to be the side That's what I
Speaker 3: will see him like.
Speaker 1: I just want to be decided.
Speaker 3: I just want you to kill I don't like him
Speaker 3: enough to lay up next to him every day.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how you do it.
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna start talking about him, you know, I'm
Speaker 3: not gonna start talking about him, but you know the
Speaker 3: things about him, girl, I don't know how you do it.
Speaker 1: I was just trying to play in all little position.
Speaker 1: He clearly wants to think. You know, he's obsessive.
Speaker 3: You can like say that you're gonna leave him alone,
Speaker 3: and he will just call you back back to back,
Speaker 3: get to call your friends, get to call your manager,
Speaker 3: get to call your assistant, and get to sit and
Speaker 3: stuff that and money.
Speaker 4: So why would you just.
Speaker 3: Do you know on thing, you just give in, you like,
Speaker 3: you don't let that, let that take me somewhere. And
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm actually really glad you did this
Speaker 3: because I was this close.
Speaker 1: I said, Damn, I really want.
Speaker 3: To push and I really want a kind of Miami
Speaker 3: but I really kept thinking about it, like, no, I
Speaker 3: don't know because you you act nuts.
Speaker 4: And this is what I needed to see.
Speaker 2: Yeah, huh So okay, okay, I want to hear your
Speaker 2: thoughts and then I'm gonna get into the psychology of
Speaker 2: all this with you.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So there's a few things that I actually thought were embarrassing.
Speaker 2: So you're well, Okay, Remember Walker is actually too big
Speaker 2: to have made this news, so too big in comparison
Speaker 2: to them. Okay, Tory Bricks with all due respect and
Speaker 2: riched a kid, I don't think they're on my radar
Speaker 2: at all.
Speaker 1: Maybe I would have swiped by.
Speaker 2: That on Hollywood Unlocked or Shade Room. Summer Walker, to me,
Speaker 2: really is that girl? Like that's an R and B
Speaker 2: rotation if it's R and B night. I just went
Speaker 2: last night, like I just said, and I was like,
Speaker 2: Summer was on it, Like, bitch, I'm gonna name I
Speaker 2: can name summer songs. You can't name me mial songs.
Speaker 2: I can name summer songs. What are we talking about here?
Speaker 2: Like I'm about to.
Speaker 1: Respond to that.
Speaker 2: And this is why the Internet sometimes is a curse,
Speaker 2: because now you look like a Dodo, Like you really
Speaker 2: couldn't let that whole just be like you and my
Speaker 2: DM da da da, and I wouldn't. Because Summer talked
Speaker 2: about it, it made it big. Rich the Kid, in
Speaker 2: my opinion, leaked this because he actually has a little song.
Speaker 2: Oh you think rich You think Rich linked it not Torri, Yes,
Speaker 2: because rich just also put out a song. He goes, oh, well,
Speaker 2: since y'all hear, and he put out a song, and
Speaker 2: the song was kind of good, Rice.
Speaker 1: And Killer and someone else.
Speaker 2: But he had a little beat. Okay, Richard Kid only
Speaker 2: got plugged walk talked to me, So I really think
Speaker 2: he was like, what's the biggest play I could do here?
Speaker 1: And I think Summer did just release her album last week.
Speaker 2: And it's like, you shit on her because she got
Speaker 2: all her cool shit going on. You can post your
Speaker 2: shit up, make your name relevant again. I'm telling you.
Speaker 2: I really think he was calculated and for Summer to
Speaker 2: reply when all we're thinking about right now is her cute,
Speaker 2: funny wedding dress. Shit, you're a dodo. The other thing
Speaker 2: that really blew my mind was like, bitch, you've been
Speaker 2: acting anxious for years and you got up there and
Speaker 2: told us was fifth ninnies. You was able to do
Speaker 2: all that, but she did say one really funny thing,
Speaker 2: like the bitch was kind of funny even though she
Speaker 2: looked stupid, she.
Speaker 1: Was kind of funny.
Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, I mean, if he's gonna buy
Speaker 2: me shit, like, I can't imagine what you do because I'm.
Speaker 1: Rich, so I can I see why you can't leave.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, oh that's fucked up.
Speaker 2: Now, Okay, the summer is fucking lit. I've paid over
Speaker 2: one hundred dollars the summer walker. I never think that
Speaker 2: Richard the kid wouldn't even be on a group on
Speaker 2: so and I would pay for her again. And she
Speaker 2: barely did anything, but she sounded good. So okay, this
Speaker 2: girl really got bread. And she like fucking with this
Speaker 2: nigga because whatever, maybe if she wants to say, in
Speaker 2: her words, not mine, bird brain, bird shit, you want
Speaker 2: to trick on this nigga?
Speaker 1: Cool, have him tricked on you cool?
Speaker 2: But replying was so stupid. You do not reply to
Speaker 2: people when they're begging for you too. You telling me
Speaker 2: I'm up here, I'm that nah, that's begging for you
Speaker 2: to answer. You're trying to make me look bad. So okay,
Speaker 2: I love if.
Speaker 1: We disagree here.
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Speaker 2: back to another episode of You Got Decisions.
Speaker 1: I am not here with Mandy because I'm in LA.
Speaker 1: We're taking a little bit of our winter break.
Speaker 2: I'm actually in Los Angeles, my other co host for
Speaker 2: my show For Facts Sakes podcast. So if you're a
Speaker 2: member of Horrible Decisions on Patreon, go ahead and add
Speaker 2: For Fact's Sake to your list. Me and Eddie have
Speaker 2: had our show for about five years now, and it's
Speaker 2: all about random facts.
Speaker 1: We've only had one guest, actually it was Charlot Magne.
Speaker 2: But last week's episode was about cancel culture and we
Speaker 2: just named a bunch of kids. What was it one
Speaker 2: of the week before that talk about I don't know, oh, lawsuits,
Speaker 2: lawsuits a.
Speaker 4: Lot of people.
Speaker 2: You yeah, sorry because the podcast is leading over.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but hey, I'm back on back on the Patreon
Speaker 4: for Horrible Decisions finally.
Speaker 1: How many years ago in your a Horrible Decision before
Speaker 1: the pandemic.
Speaker 4: For the pandemic. I remember the first time I was
Speaker 4: on Horrible Decisions, I was just like, uh, just like,
Speaker 4: look at my Instagram, just blowing up. Just black woman,
Speaker 4: black women black Okay, all right, okay, hello bro, these
Speaker 4: names are fun.
Speaker 1: Hey.
Speaker 4: Sorry, sorry, I know.
Speaker 1: Sound like, hey, I'm me.
Speaker 2: But you're gonna want to see what he looks like anyway,
Speaker 2: So just kind on over to perfect for fact, Like
Speaker 2: all right. So it's crazy because like people ask Mandy
Speaker 2: and I such specific sex questions and I was like, damn, like,
Speaker 2: how are Eddie and I going to do this?
Speaker 4: Because that's fine, Hey, I had sex, you know me.
Speaker 4: I have had sex. I've been in people, people have
Speaker 4: been in me.
Speaker 1: Really Now.
Speaker 2: Eddie's married now, so I'm just like the married guy.
Speaker 2: But to me, like married people sometimes give the best
Speaker 2: dating advice, but you know, we it's pretty horrible advices.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you're out there sucking and fucking have a
Speaker 4: good time.
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 1: That's that's what I done. Now the subject is plug
Speaker 1: or not? And so I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you means.
Speaker 4: Butt plug butt plug? Who's a butt plug? Is that
Speaker 4: a guy Eddie?
Speaker 1: We are trying to sell our patrion here?
Speaker 4: Do you think there's a guy with a who's a
Speaker 4: butt plug? Plug?
Speaker 1: That's what I was like, is it a plug? Or
Speaker 1: is it a plug?
Speaker 4: But that guy who can get you butt plugs? That's
Speaker 4: something because I got a drug plug, But do you
Speaker 4: have a butt plug plug? He just has a briefcase
Speaker 4: full of butt plugs? Like, wow, aren't there any sex
Speaker 4: choice slingers? Yeah, there should be a sex choice slinger because,
Speaker 4: like I said, cheat, I guess yeah, all right? Also, what
Speaker 4: you would want to from a story and want some
Speaker 4: guy with a bag full of sex toys?
Speaker 2: Yeah? No, but unless it was like because like certain vibrators,
Speaker 2: like the womanizers like two upwards of two hundred dollars
Speaker 2: or the we vibe the remotion.
Speaker 4: What's your vibrator? I don't use any, you don't use any?
Speaker 1: I need my hand you what you because I started
Speaker 1: to desensitize my coach.
Speaker 4: I see, I was going really hard. It's like a
Speaker 4: chef's thumb that things. I think doesn't feel anything anymore.
Speaker 1: How would you have a secon like you're just like
Speaker 1: I can fuck myself.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And you're a vibrator because I guess, I guess
Speaker 4: when you use a vibration so much, you must get
Speaker 4: so you can it ruin a sex life where you're
Speaker 4: like I getsitized.
Speaker 2: And I don't think this is a knock against vibrators
Speaker 2: because if we have an ad that comes up, there's
Speaker 2: a vibrator.
Speaker 1: I wants you to buy it.
Speaker 2: What I'm saying like you start to overuse it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think once you get to that point where you
Speaker 2: need that strong of a fucking.
Speaker 4: I used to have an ex girlfriend back in the day.
Speaker 1: I've never said the storybo oh my god, tell us
Speaker 1: your sex stuff.
Speaker 4: And uh she was like very like uh high sex drive,
Speaker 4: very almost like a little bit like like okay, relax,
Speaker 4: you know, just like very very intesting. Let's do it
Speaker 4: now right now, okay, almost like a coach like come
Speaker 4: on twenty now, like all right, let's go right now.
Speaker 4: She's like I go, do you ever use a second
Speaker 4: you ever use a vibrator? She's like, I have one,
Speaker 4: Like we should use it?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 4: Held right now, dude, I hope, dude, I'm telling you.
Speaker 4: When she brought this out, I was like, oh, are
Speaker 4: we like mixing cement? It had a plug? Damn not
Speaker 4: even a battery, not double a not a plug like
Speaker 4: this needs a plug plug or not blood sod And
Speaker 4: it's like I couldn't. I was like, And when she pulled,
Speaker 4: I was like, oh no, I'm good, Like that's okay,
Speaker 4: like I would get bringing a fucking Star Wars tool.
Speaker 4: It was like this, what was she?
Speaker 1: What would she want to?
Speaker 4: It was bizarre. I was like, that's not we are
Speaker 4: we working our backs?
Speaker 1: It's like my it was like a white it was
Speaker 1: a it was it from Brooks Thrown.
Speaker 4: I don't know what it was. I was like, I'm
Speaker 4: good And ever since that I've never asked. It was
Speaker 4: a great never because you wanted because when you ask,
Speaker 4: you want to be.
Speaker 2: Like tiny it's the tickler, not like not like you know,
Speaker 2: did any of your male friends. So Eddie's a comedian.
Speaker 2: If you guys haven't heard him, or you're new to decisions, decisions.
Speaker 2: You haven't heard his name, So I'm wondering, like, do
Speaker 2: comics ever talk about sex because I know some of
Speaker 2: my like, oh like sex details like do male?
Speaker 4: No? No, me and my friends? Are you get no details?
Speaker 4: Women get details like how big was it?
Speaker 1: What happened?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 1: What did smell it?
Speaker 4: Guys were like you get it in? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Cool, you get it in.
Speaker 4: It's like, oh yeah, we hooked up.
Speaker 1: Get it in?
Speaker 4: Like yeah, yeah, it was like that.
Speaker 1: Why do I keep getting confused with Then I'm like,
Speaker 1: did you.
Speaker 2: Get it in?
Speaker 1: Like the get the dick in?
Speaker 4: Just like yeah, no, we hooked up. That's it, Like okay, cool,
Speaker 4: I don't know if the don't whip it out first
Speaker 4: all it's a little suss about friends, like tell me everything,
Speaker 4: every smell, every tastey.
Speaker 5: Feel and how did she feel? And how did did
Speaker 5: you like right away? Or really wait was it all
Speaker 5: over her chest? I don't ask any questions. No, no, no, guys, do.
Speaker 1: No I need a vote?
Speaker 4: No, I'd tell you. I'm not saying it. I'm not
Speaker 4: saying anything. It's homerotic. But if I want to be
Speaker 4: like buddy, take me there.
Speaker 1: Like oh yeah, she was sucking my day.
Speaker 4: No, I don't. We don't talk like me and my
Speaker 4: friends will talk like that. Is that I think it's
Speaker 4: I think women like details. Guys don't just need to
Speaker 4: know what happened.
Speaker 1: Guys be talking about how nasty someone is.
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe it's just me, but my friends never like.
Speaker 1: All right, nobody the plug story? Or you didn't tell
Speaker 1: anybody the story with that girl shit on you.
Speaker 4: No, I've never talked. I've only known women these stories
Speaker 4: because women don't judge me.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how they can find that.
Speaker 4: No, we don't talk about my friends at all. Now
Speaker 4: that we're married, we don't even talk about our wives
Speaker 4: at all. It's like, what's her name again? Oh I
Speaker 4: am but I can't wait to get there. Butthole anyway?
Speaker 4: Plug or not?
Speaker 1: Not the plug?
Speaker 4: No worse anyway. That's the last time I asked a
Speaker 4: moment about a sex story.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. So, hey, guys, it's been a while.
Speaker 2: This shit is so long, So let me know if
Speaker 2: I should send a voicemail to Mandy on the hotline
Speaker 2: or sent a voicemail is like, yes, okay, So not
Speaker 2: sure what I'm looking for? Validation, advice, just sending the
Speaker 2: story into the ether. In May, my boyfriend met this
Speaker 2: girl on Hinge Girl A. My partner is a guy
Speaker 2: that falls head over heels for people quickly. He was
Speaker 2: beginning to get deep feelings for her, like she could
Speaker 2: be another girlfriend, but she lives on another continent. When
Speaker 2: she left town, he was a bit depressed, but moved on.
Speaker 2: Come June, he matches with another girl on Hinge Girl B.
Speaker 2: She messages him, Oh my gosh, are you the guy
Speaker 2: girl A was hanging out with last month.
Speaker 1: I'm the best friend she made during that trip.
Speaker 2: He and girl A and B have become good friends
Speaker 2: and they connect and talk often. Girl B is local,
Speaker 2: so he hangs out with her every so often. I
Speaker 2: want you guys to know Eddie, who is a monogamous
Speaker 2: married me and is looking like.
Speaker 1: What the fuck.
Speaker 4: Honestly, I'm not kidding. I just text my wife like
Speaker 4: pasta tonight. So like, I don't know who A and
Speaker 4: B are. I don't know if they're having on plan B.
Speaker 4: I don't know what's I don't know what's in someone's A,
Speaker 4: in someone's p I don't know what's happening. It just
Speaker 4: sounds like someone is like in an open relationship with
Speaker 4: someone and then then they're meeting that meeting women. That
Speaker 4: woman happened to be friends with another woman.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think, how does this happen?
Speaker 2: God, damn, let me go. How is there no monogamy world? Okay,
Speaker 2: fast forward to September. Boyfriend tells me girl A is
Speaker 2: coming back to town next month.
Speaker 1: Sorry for the long background.
Speaker 2: I feel it is needed because this is where the
Speaker 2: advice for the story comes in. Very early into girl
Speaker 2: A being back in town, my boyfriend asks me if
Speaker 2: I could be would be able to hook up the
Speaker 2: girls with some SID.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what the flud it is, and
Speaker 1: I do drugs. He said.
Speaker 2: They're both experienced with mushrooms, so he would like to
Speaker 2: bring the happiness that is SID into their life. Bitch
Speaker 2: put me on, So I ask him, will you do
Speaker 2: it with them? He said probably not. I preferred if
Speaker 2: they experience it for their first time together, but I'd
Speaker 2: be willing to be their shepherd since I'm good at
Speaker 2: it and I've done it plenty of times. So I said, okay,
Speaker 2: I'll contact my plug said okay, this is a drug plug.
Speaker 2: He said he'll work on it, but no guarantee I'll
Speaker 2: get it before the girl leaves the country. So when
Speaker 2: my boyfriend and I get together, we do a little
Speaker 2: ketchup what have you been up to since we last
Speaker 2: hung out convo. We also talk about our upcoming plans
Speaker 2: for the week. He comes over on October twenty fifth. Damn,
Speaker 2: this is tea. We do our catch up convo. He's
Speaker 2: telling me about how he went out with girl A
Speaker 2: and B and he feels bad for not going to
Speaker 2: the club with them. He's very sensitive to loud noises
Speaker 2: and bright lights. Okay, so your nigga's autested. They tried
Speaker 2: to encourage him to try it out. He stood outside
Speaker 2: of the club and immediately he's like, no one left,
Speaker 2: And I joke, I bet you would have handled it
Speaker 2: if you could have had a threesome at the end
Speaker 2: of it. So then I asked him, are we going
Speaker 2: to hang out for Halloween? He says, I'm not sure.
Speaker 2: I may hang out with girl A and B. We
Speaker 2: may just hang out another day around Friday. And then
Speaker 2: he says, matter of fact, do you think you can
Speaker 2: get the CID before the weekend?
Speaker 1: And I said, oh, well, I'm not sure.
Speaker 2: What my plug Well, you know, call me next time,
Speaker 2: and I don't know if he'll even have it the
Speaker 2: next time I see him. And he said okay, because
Speaker 2: I was hoping to get it to them before the
Speaker 2: girl leaves. So I said, okay, I'm working on it,
Speaker 2: and I don't know because it's based on my plug.
Speaker 1: Then I said, by the way, what do I get
Speaker 1: out of all of this? Can you look up sid
Speaker 1: by the way, see id? Okay, let's see oh acid?
Speaker 4: Oh as acid?
Speaker 1: Bitch? You did all of that?
Speaker 4: Why did you you could just say it?
Speaker 1: Almost? Sorry? Girl? I know you've been a fan.
Speaker 4: Friend, like a gen Z slang thing.
Speaker 1: He's like, what do you mean?
Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, I'm using my connection to get
Speaker 2: you and these two people that I don't even like.
Speaker 2: We were drunk during this conversation, so that I negativity
Speaker 2: came out. I'm getting them the sit So what am
Speaker 2: I getting out of it? And he says my happiness?
Speaker 2: And I said, lol, that's cute, and no, really what
Speaker 2: am I getting out of it? And he gets it negative,
Speaker 2: takes it negatively and he's shocked that I'm saying his
Speaker 2: happiness isn't enough for me to do the favor. And
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, what about them because I don't know
Speaker 2: them and they're getting happy and I don't even know them.
Speaker 1: I don't like them. I don't know why you don't like.
Speaker 2: Them yet, But he said, I didn't realize it was
Speaker 2: transaction actional for you, and I'm like, well, I don't
Speaker 2: know why it wouldn't be.
Speaker 1: I don't know them.
Speaker 2: And I also am like, what if you do this
Speaker 2: then you end up having a threesome. I say this
Speaker 2: jokingly before the fight started. You think you're doing me,
Speaker 2: doing you this favor is out of the kindness of
Speaker 2: my heart. And the fight kind of spirals a bit
Speaker 2: from here. At one point, I say, you're not even
Speaker 2: the one that has anything to offer me, especially since
Speaker 2: there's no guarantee that he's even going to do it
Speaker 2: with them. It's just two bitches offering him something because
Speaker 2: I'm doing it for them. Oh so she thinks the
Speaker 2: gls are gonna give him some ass. She's getting them drugs.
Speaker 2: He said, well, I'm kind of hoping it would be
Speaker 2: a surprise for them. So, like I said, I'm not
Speaker 2: even asking for much, but fucking give me the money,
Speaker 2: like something. How is it We're in a situation where
Speaker 2: I'm getting nothing, and he said, well, what do you
Speaker 2: want twenty dollars? And I got so mad. It just
Speaker 2: adds to my point that he thinks I'm asking for
Speaker 2: a lot. Eventually we both take turns going to the
Speaker 2: bathroom to wash our faces to cool down, and come
Speaker 2: back when the fight is over. Now it's November second,
Speaker 2: I still don't have the acid. Girl A leaves the
Speaker 2: country in a week. Girl B got sick with COVID.
Speaker 2: They all didn't hang out, and he ended up having
Speaker 2: the best holiway with me that we've ever had together.
Speaker 2: And all he offered me was a favor for the
Speaker 2: fight and apology and some homemade sinneroles. She emails eighteen
Speaker 2: hours ago.
Speaker 1: This is a week ago.
Speaker 2: Just to update, girl is out of country and we
Speaker 2: still got no goods. All the fighting for nothing, bitch,
Speaker 2: you wrote All.
Speaker 1: Of it was you all asked and.
Speaker 4: What you wrote back. You know, this reminds me of
Speaker 4: actually with me my wife. Actually, my wife wanted to
Speaker 4: get a new accent share and she wanted from West
Speaker 4: Elm and I said we should just get it from Amazon.
Speaker 4: It was four hundred dollars more. And then we have
Speaker 4: a bit of a fight and anyway, that's what we
Speaker 4: thought about recently. What the that's that's where my life
Speaker 4: is at. If you want to fuck these horrors and
Speaker 4: want me to get the acid, don't think I wanna
Speaker 4: do it for free. I have no idea what I'm
Speaker 4: doing here.
Speaker 1: I'm not live it. Let me see what time she
Speaker 1: said that email. That's good man. I literally said, I
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm asking for.
Speaker 4: People think little Christian as hell. Man, I'm not even
Speaker 4: I'm not even like strange of a guy. Man, I
Speaker 4: will say this, So this guy is, he's he does
Speaker 4: have a luxury here to even be in this situation.
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm not going to hold you.
Speaker 4: He is like, very grateful that this woman's even Like fathomed.
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I actually understand why she's mad. However,
Speaker 2: I can't dictate the dynamic of someone else's relationship, but
Speaker 2: I'll save it when I have conversation with my boyfriend.
Speaker 2: It isn't like a choice that anyone else is going
Speaker 2: to get Like, it's not like, oh.
Speaker 1: Are we going to hang out?
Speaker 2: And then he says maybe I'll be with someone else, Like,
Speaker 2: so we aren't there, And I'm not shading you at all.
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I can't imagine someone telling me who
Speaker 2: I would assume as the girlfriend is a priority, Like
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 1: Sure, but can you get this? Can you get this?
Speaker 1: Can you do this? Like I A'm doing a favorite
Speaker 1: for it?
Speaker 4: That'll beat Yeah, Well you don't want to turn it
Speaker 4: to like a personal assistant. Oh so you can ya?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I bet you if you were fucking somebody
Speaker 2: else and you were like, oh, make sure you get
Speaker 2: my new boosts and mushrooms and this and this and that,
Speaker 2: what the fuck?
Speaker 4: Like I don't like this, I don't need to convenience you.
Speaker 4: And you give me some mushrooms and some condoms. I
Speaker 4: actually get some magnums. He's huge, And there be a
Speaker 4: point like can you just get this yourself? There'd be
Speaker 4: a point where you're like, why am I the club?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I think so. I think there's a point where you
Speaker 4: have to be like, hey, this is still a person,
Speaker 4: not just a personal system.
Speaker 2: So I would tell you this because you never want
Speaker 2: to run into this situation again. Nothing is wrong with
Speaker 2: the ab girl, like, especially if it's in wind. You're
Speaker 2: a dynamic and they have some little sexual thing going on,
Speaker 2: who cares?
Speaker 1: Whatever?
Speaker 2: There should be boundaries drawn anytime you feel weird about something, right,
Speaker 2: And I also think it's okay to say I don't
Speaker 2: know how this is making me feel. What we got
Speaker 2: to talk about it. For example, I think the last
Speaker 2: person my boyfriend had sex with it's been a minute.
Speaker 2: We've been monogamous for a bit as of lately, just
Speaker 2: because I feel like we have too much life shit
Speaker 2: going on for us to experience sexuality in the realm
Speaker 2: where it's enjoyable, like, for example, just being totally transparent.
Speaker 2: When I was in Brazil, my dad goes to the
Speaker 2: emergency roo and I'm like, yeah, we can't just be
Speaker 2: having reasons while I'm fucking calling the er and doing
Speaker 2: all like damn, it kind of ruins it.
Speaker 4: But and he gets it, like and you're hitting certain
Speaker 4: life you know, steps through You're just like not that
Speaker 4: anything's shameful, but you can't be just feel.
Speaker 1: Like like there's certain things that start to you.
Speaker 4: Can't be just like going down a woman like I
Speaker 4: just signed a co signed a mortgage with her.
Speaker 1: I can't. Yeah, there's but don't get me wrong, that
Speaker 1: would be fun. Right.
Speaker 2: So I say all this to say, one of the
Speaker 2: things I discovered in the last person he had sex with.
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what I feel.
Speaker 2: I was like, I kind of don't want you fucking
Speaker 2: someone from the past because I think it's this layer
Speaker 2: of like, let's just say you fucked the miss a
Speaker 2: year ago, and I guess we've been together. It's gona
Speaker 2: half year so years before, and maybe you and her
Speaker 2: ended because you couldn't give her what she want or
Speaker 2: she liked you and something ended, and now you're fucking her.
Speaker 4: You don't need anything rekindled.
Speaker 2: I'm like, don't you kind of feel like that would
Speaker 2: cause issues because now you have a girlfriend that's totally
Speaker 2: chill with you fucking but like right, so we start
Speaker 2: talking about it.
Speaker 1: He's like, what do you want from this conversation?
Speaker 2: Do you want me and you to make suggestions or
Speaker 2: do you want me to cut off girls from the past?
Speaker 2: And I literally said, I don't know, but I'm telling
Speaker 2: you how I feel and something that's come into my
Speaker 2: head for you to sit there and like we figure
Speaker 2: this out together.
Speaker 1: Because I when guys.
Speaker 2: That I used to fuck hit me up, I do
Speaker 2: speak to them, and that's something he brought up.
Speaker 1: He's like, Okay, well you be hitting them back.
Speaker 4: It also depends on what type of relationship we had.
Speaker 4: If you're just like it was one night stand. He's
Speaker 4: from Europe, but he's in town. Okay, fine, but you
Speaker 4: can't be like, yeah, he was the one that got away.
Speaker 4: I thought it was something special. But anyway, we're.
Speaker 2: Gonna no, it's not anything that series, but it's still
Speaker 2: girls that may have had feelings. So and I guess
Speaker 2: the thing that we had to discuss was like, all right,
Speaker 2: but how do they feel about you?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: Like what about these women? And what if they have
Speaker 2: a lot of weight for their feelings with you? Maybe
Speaker 2: they didn't mean anything to you, but you did do
Speaker 2: that like whatever. So I'm bringing that up to you, listener,
Speaker 2: because I approached the way something made me feel or
Speaker 2: thought that I thought was you know, kind of bothering me,
Speaker 2: and it didn't have a solution and I didn't have
Speaker 2: an ask. I just needed to put it out there, right,
Speaker 2: So I think it's okay in relationships where you have
Speaker 2: open dynamics to be like, something's making me feel a
Speaker 2: little icky and I don't know why. If we don't
Speaker 2: communicate to that level, then you don't have successful open
Speaker 2: relationships because you're not gonna not get jealous, You're not
Speaker 2: gonna not act funny like that is the truth. What
Speaker 2: I don't like about people in non monogamous relationships is
Speaker 2: the idea that they, oh, like we're good. I don't
Speaker 2: experience this, Like if you're a monogamous you do, but
Speaker 2: I don't get y'all. It's like, yes, the fuck you do,
Speaker 2: Like that's just the reality. So I think you absolutely
Speaker 2: bring this up when you guys are not drunk and
Speaker 2: you're like, you know what, you kind of made me
Speaker 2: feel like I was the drug dealer plug and I
Speaker 2: don't really want to be the liaison between you and
Speaker 2: other women, Like think of it as I'm hooking up
Speaker 2: a restaurant reservation for you and some other bitch, like
Speaker 2: oh yeah, yeah, your happiness should not come with me
Speaker 2: needing to help you to get women, Like I'm I
Speaker 2: want you to be happy because when you when you fuck,
Speaker 2: to me that your happiness and us being in a
Speaker 2: dynamic isn't not right. Like the pleasure that I receive
Speaker 2: in my relationship is like, let's just say I'm with
Speaker 2: another person and it's like, oh yeah, she got to explore,
Speaker 2: so that's fun. That's your happiness. That to me, is it?
Speaker 2: That's the compersion. I've been saying that word for years.
Speaker 2: We all have learned it. It's in the Nohl's Bard
Speaker 2: compersion is the act of enjoying someone else's pleasure.
Speaker 1: Bitch. I'm going to be the assistant en plug, so
Speaker 1: it's not a butt plug. Yeah. Interesting? Any final thoughts?
Speaker 1: Married guy?
Speaker 4: Um, yeah, I call my wife, Hey, what are you doing? No,
Speaker 4: I will say that for this guy. I don't know
Speaker 4: who this guy is, but you gotta feel like the
Speaker 4: fact that you're even allowed to do this stuff, you
Speaker 4: must feel real lucky. Just don't abuse your power. Don't
Speaker 4: abuse that sort of comfort level.
Speaker 1: And also because I'm happy is very manipulative.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, oh, I guess you find enjoyment not
Speaker 4: making me happy, And like, no, I think this makes
Speaker 4: me feel ncomfortable and I'm allowed to say that. I
Speaker 4: think you're right. Communication is key for everything. If you're hiding,
Speaker 4: you're hiding. You're dying. Bro.
Speaker 2: If every time I saw you, I asked you for something, Eddie, Oh.
Speaker 1: Can you tell me about this? And you get Eddie'm
Speaker 1: running late, Eddie, can we do another time? Okay?
Speaker 2: So every single Wednesday we have you Got Decisions. They
Speaker 2: are a little more relaxed in Our Decision's Decision episode
Speaker 2: where you always get the both of us, but these
Speaker 2: maybe solo might be with a friend another co host.
Speaker 4: Did I do okay?
Speaker 1: Did I ruin it?
Speaker 4: Did I do okay? No?
Speaker 1: I think you do good because you gave us a
Speaker 1: little section.
Speaker 4: Yeah, ye put it out there. Why make a past
Speaker 4: I get to go okay?
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Speaker 1: That's a little tip, not the tip that you would
Speaker 1: put in or the butt. Bye bye