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Speaker 1: Let's talk about this bitch Smerwalker.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it, guys, especially because a lot of

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Speaker 2: y'all were tagging. I got a tweet that was like, ooh,

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Speaker 2: I can't wait to hear you talk about the Summer

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Speaker 2: Walker saga on horrible decisions suck.

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Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Let's get into the tee. What

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Speaker 1: could we even say? Well, well, well.

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Speaker 2: Up, Like what happened is that there were there was

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Speaker 2: a leaked voice note from Summer Walker to rapper Rich

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Speaker 2: the Kid that was leaked allegedly by his baby mom

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Speaker 2: slash fiance Tory Bricks. Now, I was just hoping my

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Speaker 2: good sister didn't respond or said bitch, that's Ai. All

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Speaker 2: you had to do was say that ain't me, it's Ai.

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Speaker 2: In the voice note, you hear summer Walker pretty much

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Speaker 2: say hey, just buy me a new phone, save me

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Speaker 2: under pizza hut. I know you're not gonna leave your

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Speaker 2: baby mama, but I want us to.

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Speaker 1: Fuck with each other forever.

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Speaker 2: I think when you heard that, because that's the line,

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Speaker 2: that's all we need to know, right, Okay, So I

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Speaker 2: didn't see Summer's response.

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Speaker 1: First, Well, I want to.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to say the voice and then I was

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Speaker 2: gonna play no, no, no, I was want to say the

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Speaker 2: voice note I didn't say her. I didn't see anything.

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Speaker 2: My first reaction was, Oh, she's being funny.

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Speaker 1: Did you think that?

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Speaker 2: No. I've seen people say, oh, when you got a

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Speaker 2: side chick, you saved them under Pizza Hut.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, she's trying to be funny.

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Speaker 1: First off, let's be very clear. It is twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Nobody saves Pizza Hut's number, bitch, and.

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Speaker 2: I know, oh, we all know that we like a

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Speaker 2: slice from a real pizza rha and donody thought like that. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So you think she was serious because she was like, listen,

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Speaker 2: I'm tipsy right now, y'all gonna stop tucking each other.

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Speaker 1: I don't even want go be with her.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad y'all together, give me a phone and take

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Speaker 2: me on a pizza head. I was like, Oh, she

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Speaker 2: being funny because you're like, I could tell you talking

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Speaker 2: to your trick and you just like nigga, keep breaking

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Speaker 2: me off. No, So I thought she was playing it

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Speaker 2: first until I listen. I listened to her six minute video. Well,

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Speaker 2: I don't have six minutes, but I have about a

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Speaker 2: minute and a half. But this is where she explicitly says,

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Speaker 2: I just want to be the side piece.

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Speaker 1: This is what Summer Walker had two snaps.

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Speaker 3: I just want to be the side That's what I

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Speaker 3: will see him like.

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Speaker 1: I just want to be decided.

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Speaker 3: I just want you to kill I don't like him

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Speaker 3: enough to lay up next to him every day.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how you do it.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna start talking about him, you know, I'm

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Speaker 3: not gonna start talking about him, but you know the

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Speaker 3: things about him, girl, I don't know how you do it.

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Speaker 1: I was just trying to play in all little position.

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Speaker 1: He clearly wants to think. You know, he's obsessive.

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Speaker 3: You can like say that you're gonna leave him alone,

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Speaker 3: and he will just call you back back to back,

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Speaker 3: get to call your friends, get to call your manager,

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Speaker 3: get to call your assistant, and get to sit and

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Speaker 3: stuff that and money.

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Speaker 4: So why would you just.

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Speaker 3: Do you know on thing, you just give in, you like,

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Speaker 3: you don't let that, let that take me somewhere. And

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Speaker 3: you know what, I'm actually really glad you did this

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Speaker 3: because I was this close.

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Speaker 1: I said, Damn, I really want.

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Speaker 3: To push and I really want a kind of Miami

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Speaker 3: but I really kept thinking about it, like, no, I

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Speaker 3: don't know because you you act nuts.

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Speaker 4: And this is what I needed to see.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, huh So okay, okay, I want to hear your

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Speaker 2: thoughts and then I'm gonna get into the psychology of

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Speaker 2: all this with you.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So there's a few things that I actually thought were embarrassing.

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Speaker 2: So you're well, Okay, Remember Walker is actually too big

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Speaker 2: to have made this news, so too big in comparison

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Speaker 2: to them. Okay, Tory Bricks with all due respect and

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Speaker 2: riched a kid, I don't think they're on my radar

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Speaker 2: at all.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I would have swiped by.

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Speaker 2: That on Hollywood Unlocked or Shade Room. Summer Walker, to me,

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Speaker 2: really is that girl? Like that's an R and B

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Speaker 2: rotation if it's R and B night. I just went

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Speaker 2: last night, like I just said, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: Summer was on it, Like, bitch, I'm gonna name I

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Speaker 2: can name summer songs. You can't name me mial songs.

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Speaker 2: I can name summer songs. What are we talking about here?

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Speaker 2: Like I'm about to.

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Speaker 1: Respond to that.

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Speaker 2: And this is why the Internet sometimes is a curse,

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Speaker 2: because now you look like a Dodo, Like you really

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Speaker 2: couldn't let that whole just be like you and my

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Speaker 2: DM da da da, and I wouldn't. Because Summer talked

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Speaker 2: about it, it made it big. Rich the Kid, in

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Speaker 2: my opinion, leaked this because he actually has a little song.

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Speaker 2: Oh you think rich You think Rich linked it not Torri, Yes,

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Speaker 2: because rich just also put out a song. He goes, oh, well,

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Speaker 2: since y'all hear, and he put out a song, and

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Speaker 2: the song was kind of good, Rice.

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Speaker 1: And Killer and someone else.

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Speaker 2: But he had a little beat. Okay, Richard Kid only

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Speaker 2: got plugged walk talked to me, So I really think

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Speaker 2: he was like, what's the biggest play I could do here?

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Speaker 1: And I think Summer did just release her album last week.

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Speaker 2: And it's like, you shit on her because she got

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Speaker 2: all her cool shit going on. You can post your

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Speaker 2: shit up, make your name relevant again. I'm telling you.

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Speaker 2: I really think he was calculated and for Summer to

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Speaker 2: reply when all we're thinking about right now is her cute,

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Speaker 2: funny wedding dress. Shit, you're a dodo. The other thing

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Speaker 2: that really blew my mind was like, bitch, you've been

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Speaker 2: acting anxious for years and you got up there and

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Speaker 2: told us was fifth ninnies. You was able to do

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Speaker 2: all that, but she did say one really funny thing,

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Speaker 2: like the bitch was kind of funny even though she

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Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, I mean, if he's gonna buy

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Speaker 2: me shit, like, I can't imagine what you do because I'm.

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Speaker 1: Rich, so I can I see why you can't leave.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, oh that's fucked up.

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Speaker 2: Now, Okay, the summer is fucking lit. I've paid over

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Speaker 2: one hundred dollars the summer walker. I never think that

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Speaker 2: Richard the kid wouldn't even be on a group on

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Speaker 2: so and I would pay for her again. And she

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Speaker 2: barely did anything, but she sounded good. So okay, this

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Speaker 2: girl really got bread. And she like fucking with this

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Speaker 2: her words, not mine, bird brain, bird shit, you want

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Speaker 2: to trick on this nigga?

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Speaker 1: Cool, have him tricked on you cool?

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Speaker 2: But replying was so stupid. You do not reply to

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Speaker 2: people when they're begging for you too. You telling me

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Speaker 2: I'm up here, I'm that nah, that's begging for you

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Speaker 2: I love if.

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Speaker 1: I am not here with Mandy because I'm in LA.

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Speaker 1: We're taking a little bit of our winter break.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually in Los Angeles, my other co host for

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Speaker 2: my show For Facts Sakes podcast. So if you're a

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Speaker 2: But last week's episode was about cancel culture and we

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but hey, I'm back on back on the Patreon

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Speaker 4: for Horrible Decisions finally.

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Speaker 1: How many years ago in your a Horrible Decision before

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Speaker 4: look at my Instagram, just blowing up. Just black woman,

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Speaker 4: Sorry, sorry, I know.

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Speaker 1: Sound like, hey, I'm me.

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Speaker 2: But you're gonna want to see what he looks like anyway,

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Speaker 2: all right. So it's crazy because like people ask Mandy

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Speaker 2: and I such specific sex questions and I was like, damn, like,

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Speaker 2: how are Eddie and I going to do this?

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Speaker 4: Because that's fine, Hey, I had sex, you know me.

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Speaker 4: I have had sex. I've been in people, people have

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Speaker 4: been in me.

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Speaker 1: Really Now.

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Speaker 2: Eddie's married now, so I'm just like the married guy.

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Speaker 2: But to me, like married people sometimes give the best

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Speaker 2: dating advice, but you know, we it's pretty horrible advices.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you're out there sucking and fucking have a

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Speaker 2: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: That's that's what I done. Now the subject is plug

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Speaker 4: Butt plug butt plug? Who's a butt plug? Is that

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Speaker 4: a guy Eddie?

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Speaker 1: We are trying to sell our patrion here?

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Speaker 4: Do you think there's a guy with a who's a

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Speaker 4: butt plug? Plug?

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Speaker 1: That's what I was like, is it a plug? Or

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Speaker 1: is it a plug?

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Speaker 4: But that guy who can get you butt plugs? That's

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Speaker 4: something because I got a drug plug, But do you

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Speaker 4: have a butt plug plug? He just has a briefcase

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Speaker 4: full of butt plugs? Like, wow, aren't there any sex

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Speaker 4: choice slingers? Yeah, there should be a sex choice slinger because,

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Speaker 4: like I said, cheat, I guess yeah, all right? Also, what

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Speaker 4: you would want to from a story and want some

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Speaker 4: guy with a bag full of sex toys?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? No, but unless it was like because like certain vibrators,

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Speaker 2: like the womanizers like two upwards of two hundred dollars

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Speaker 2: or the we vibe the remotion.

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Speaker 4: What's your vibrator? I don't use any, you don't use any?

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Speaker 1: I need my hand you what you because I started

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Speaker 1: to desensitize my coach.

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Speaker 4: I see, I was going really hard. It's like a

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Speaker 4: chef's thumb that things. I think doesn't feel anything anymore.

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Speaker 1: How would you have a secon like you're just like

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And you're a vibrator because I guess, I guess

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Speaker 4: when you use a vibration so much, you must get

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Speaker 2: And I don't think this is a knock against vibrators

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Speaker 1: I wants you to buy it.

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Speaker 2: What I'm saying like you start to overuse it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think once you get to that point where you

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Speaker 4: I used to have an ex girlfriend back in the day.

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Speaker 1: I've never said the storybo oh my god, tell us

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Speaker 4: And uh she was like very like uh high sex drive,

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Speaker 4: She's like I go, do you ever use a second

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Speaker 4: Like we should use it?

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Speaker 4: Held right now, dude, I hope, dude, I'm telling you.

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Speaker 4: When she brought this out, I was like, oh, are

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Speaker 4: it's like I couldn't. I was like, And when she pulled,

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh no, I'm good, Like that's okay,

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Speaker 4: like I would get bringing a fucking Star Wars tool.

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Speaker 4: It was like this, what was she?

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Speaker 4: It was bizarre. I was like, that's not we are

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Speaker 4: we working our backs?

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Speaker 1: It's like my it was like a white it was

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Speaker 4: I don't know what it was. I was like, I'm

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Speaker 4: good And ever since that I've never asked. It was

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Speaker 2: Like tiny it's the tickler, not like not like you know,

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Speaker 2: did any of your male friends. So Eddie's a comedian.

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Speaker 2: If you guys haven't heard him, or you're new to decisions, decisions.

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Speaker 2: You haven't heard his name, So I'm wondering, like, do

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Speaker 4: No? No, me and my friends? Are you get no details?

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Speaker 1: What happened?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: What did smell it?

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Speaker 4: Guys were like you get it in? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Cool, you get it in.

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Speaker 4: It's like, oh yeah, we hooked up.

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Speaker 1: Get it in?

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Speaker 4: Like yeah, yeah, it was like that.

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Speaker 1: Why do I keep getting confused with Then I'm like,

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Speaker 2: Get it in?

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Speaker 1: Like the get the dick in?

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Speaker 4: Just like yeah, no, we hooked up. That's it, Like okay, cool,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if the don't whip it out first

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Speaker 4: all it's a little suss about friends, like tell me everything,

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Speaker 5: Feel and how did she feel? And how did did

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Speaker 5: over her chest? I don't ask any questions. No, no, no, guys, do.

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Speaker 1: No I need a vote?

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Speaker 4: No, I'd tell you. I'm not saying it. I'm not

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Speaker 4: saying anything. It's homerotic. But if I want to be

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Speaker 4: like buddy, take me there.

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Speaker 1: Like oh yeah, she was sucking my day.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't. We don't talk like me and my

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Speaker 4: I think women like details. Guys don't just need to

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Speaker 1: Guys be talking about how nasty someone is.

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Speaker 4: Maybe maybe it's just me, but my friends never like.

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Speaker 1: All right, nobody the plug story? Or you didn't tell

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Speaker 4: No, I've never talked. I've only known women these stories

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how they can find that.

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Speaker 4: No, we don't talk about my friends at all. Now

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Speaker 4: that we're married, we don't even talk about our wives

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Speaker 4: at all. It's like, what's her name again? Oh I

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Speaker 4: am but I can't wait to get there. Butthole anyway?

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Speaker 4: Plug or not?

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Speaker 1: Not the plug?

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Speaker 4: No worse anyway. That's the last time I asked a

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. So, hey, guys, it's been a while.

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Speaker 2: This shit is so long, So let me know if

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Speaker 2: I should send a voicemail to Mandy on the hotline

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Speaker 2: or sent a voicemail is like, yes, okay, So not

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Speaker 2: sure what I'm looking for? Validation, advice, just sending the

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Speaker 2: story into the ether. In May, my boyfriend met this

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Speaker 2: girl on Hinge Girl A. My partner is a guy

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Speaker 2: beginning to get deep feelings for her, like she could

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Speaker 2: Come June, he matches with another girl on Hinge Girl B.

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Speaker 2: She messages him, Oh my gosh, are you the guy

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Speaker 1: I'm the best friend she made during that trip.

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Speaker 2: He and girl A and B have become good friends

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Speaker 2: want you guys to know Eddie, who is a monogamous

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Speaker 1: What the fuck.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I'm not kidding. I just text my wife like

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Speaker 4: I don't know what's I don't know what's in someone's A,

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Speaker 1: Yes, I think, how does this happen?

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Speaker 2: God, damn, let me go. How is there no monogamy world? Okay,

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Speaker 2: fast forward to September. Boyfriend tells me girl A is

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Speaker 1: Sorry for the long background.

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Speaker 2: I feel it is needed because this is where the

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what the flud it is, and

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Speaker 2: They're both experienced with mushrooms, so he would like to

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Speaker 2: bring the happiness that is SID into their life. Bitch

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Speaker 2: put me on, So I ask him, will you do

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Speaker 2: it with them? He said probably not. I preferred if

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Speaker 2: He said he'll work on it, but no guarantee I'll

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Speaker 2: this is tea. We do our catch up convo. He's

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Speaker 2: the club with them. He's very sensitive to loud noises

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Speaker 2: to encourage him to try it out. He stood outside

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Speaker 2: And I joke, I bet you would have handled it

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Speaker 2: and I don't know because it's based on my plug.

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Speaker 1: Then I said, by the way, what do I get

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Speaker 1: Bitch? You did all of that?

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Speaker 4: Why did you you could just say it?

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Speaker 1: Almost? Sorry? Girl? I know you've been a fan.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, I'm using my connection to get

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Speaker 2: And I said, lol, that's cute, and no, really what

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Speaker 1: I don't like them. I don't know why you don't like.

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Speaker 1: I don't know them.

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Speaker 2: And I also am like, what if you do this

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Speaker 2: then you end up having a threesome. I say this

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Speaker 2: my heart. And the fight kind of spirals a bit

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Speaker 2: He said, well, I'm kind of hoping it would be

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Speaker 2: like something. How is it We're in a situation where

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Speaker 2: I'm getting nothing, and he said, well, what do you

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Speaker 2: country in a week. Girl B got sick with COVID.

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00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:36,760
Speaker 2: They all didn't hang out, and he ended up having

440
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Speaker 2: the best holiway with me that we've ever had together.

441
00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:41,920
Speaker 2: And all he offered me was a favor for the

442
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Speaker 2: fight and apology and some homemade sinneroles. She emails eighteen

443
00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:46,320
Speaker 2: hours ago.

444
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Speaker 1: This is a week ago.

445
00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:50,520
Speaker 2: Just to update, girl is out of country and we

446
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:54,840
Speaker 2: still got no goods. All the fighting for nothing, bitch,

447
00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:56,080
Speaker 2: you wrote All.

448
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Speaker 1: Of it was you all asked and.

449
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Speaker 4: What you wrote back. You know, this reminds me of

450
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:04,600
Speaker 4: actually with me my wife. Actually, my wife wanted to

451
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Speaker 4: get a new accent share and she wanted from West

452
00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,520
Speaker 4: Elm and I said we should just get it from Amazon.

453
00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:10,720
Speaker 4: It was four hundred dollars more. And then we have

454
00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:12,879
Speaker 4: a bit of a fight and anyway, that's what we

455
00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 4: thought about recently. What the that's that's where my life

456
00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,399
Speaker 4: is at. If you want to fuck these horrors and

457
00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:20,879
Speaker 4: want me to get the acid, don't think I wanna

458
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:25,280
Speaker 4: do it for free. I have no idea what I'm

459
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Speaker 4: doing here.

460
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Speaker 1: I'm not live it. Let me see what time she

461
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,480
Speaker 1: said that email. That's good man. I literally said, I

462
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,640
Speaker 1: don't know what I'm asking for.

463
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Speaker 4: People think little Christian as hell. Man, I'm not even

464
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,399
Speaker 4: I'm not even like strange of a guy. Man, I

465
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,400
Speaker 4: will say this, So this guy is, he's he does

466
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Speaker 4: have a luxury here to even be in this situation.

467
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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm not going to hold you.

468
00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:50,960
Speaker 4: He is like, very grateful that this woman's even Like fathomed.

469
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,159
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, I actually understand why she's mad. However,

470
00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 2: I can't dictate the dynamic of someone else's relationship, but

471
00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,119
Speaker 2: I'll save it when I have conversation with my boyfriend.

472
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Speaker 2: It isn't like a choice that anyone else is going

473
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,120
Speaker 2: to get Like, it's not like, oh.

474
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Speaker 1: Are we going to hang out?

475
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Speaker 2: And then he says maybe I'll be with someone else, Like,

476
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 2: so we aren't there, And I'm not shading you at all.

477
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I can't imagine someone telling me who

478
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 2: I would assume as the girlfriend is a priority, Like

479
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Speaker 2: I'm not.

480
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Speaker 1: Sure, but can you get this? Can you get this?

481
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Speaker 1: Can you do this? Like I A'm doing a favorite

482
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Speaker 1: for it?

483
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Speaker 4: That'll beat Yeah, Well you don't want to turn it

484
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,679
Speaker 4: to like a personal assistant. Oh so you can ya?

485
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 5: No?

486
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I bet you if you were fucking somebody

487
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 2: else and you were like, oh, make sure you get

488
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:31,119
Speaker 2: my new boosts and mushrooms and this and this and that,

489
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 2: what the fuck?

490
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 4: Like I don't like this, I don't need to convenience you.

491
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 4: And you give me some mushrooms and some condoms. I

492
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,200
Speaker 4: actually get some magnums. He's huge, And there be a

493
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 4: point like can you just get this yourself? There'd be

494
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 4: a point where you're like, why am I the club?

495
00:21:45,680 --> 00:21:45,880
Speaker 2: Yeah?

496
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 4: I think so. I think there's a point where you

497
00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 4: have to be like, hey, this is still a person,

498
00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 4: not just a personal system.

499
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Speaker 2: So I would tell you this because you never want

500
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:53,919
Speaker 2: to run into this situation again. Nothing is wrong with

501
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 2: the ab girl, like, especially if it's in wind. You're

502
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 2: a dynamic and they have some little sexual thing going on,

503
00:21:58,359 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 2: who cares?

504
00:21:58,800 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 1: Whatever?

505
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,600
Speaker 2: There should be boundaries drawn anytime you feel weird about something, right,

506
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: And I also think it's okay to say I don't

507
00:22:08,320 --> 00:22:10,640
Speaker 2: know how this is making me feel. What we got

508
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 2: to talk about it. For example, I think the last

509
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: person my boyfriend had sex with it's been a minute.

510
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 2: We've been monogamous for a bit as of lately, just

511
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 2: because I feel like we have too much life shit

512
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 2: going on for us to experience sexuality in the realm

513
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 2: where it's enjoyable, like, for example, just being totally transparent.

514
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 2: When I was in Brazil, my dad goes to the

515
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Speaker 2: emergency roo and I'm like, yeah, we can't just be

516
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: having reasons while I'm fucking calling the er and doing

517
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 2: all like damn, it kind of ruins it.

518
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,359
Speaker 4: But and he gets it, like and you're hitting certain

519
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,919
Speaker 4: life you know, steps through You're just like not that

520
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 4: anything's shameful, but you can't be just feel.

521
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 1: Like like there's certain things that start to you.

522
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 4: Can't be just like going down a woman like I

523
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 4: just signed a co signed a mortgage with her.

524
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:56,159
Speaker 1: I can't. Yeah, there's but don't get me wrong, that

525
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 1: would be fun. Right.

526
00:22:57,560 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 2: So I say all this to say, one of the

527
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 2: things I discovered in the last person he had sex with.

528
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what I feel.

529
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: I was like, I kind of don't want you fucking

530
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 2: someone from the past because I think it's this layer

531
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 2: of like, let's just say you fucked the miss a

532
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,640
Speaker 2: year ago, and I guess we've been together. It's gona

533
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,240
Speaker 2: half year so years before, and maybe you and her

534
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 2: ended because you couldn't give her what she want or

535
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 2: she liked you and something ended, and now you're fucking her.

536
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 4: You don't need anything rekindled.

537
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, don't you kind of feel like that would

538
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 2: cause issues because now you have a girlfriend that's totally

539
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 2: chill with you fucking but like right, so we start

540
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 2: talking about it.

541
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,240
Speaker 1: He's like, what do you want from this conversation?

542
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 2: Do you want me and you to make suggestions or

543
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 2: do you want me to cut off girls from the past?

544
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 2: And I literally said, I don't know, but I'm telling

545
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 2: you how I feel and something that's come into my

546
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 2: head for you to sit there and like we figure

547
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 2: this out together.

548
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 1: Because I when guys.

549
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 2: That I used to fuck hit me up, I do

550
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 2: speak to them, and that's something he brought up.

551
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 1: He's like, Okay, well you be hitting them back.

552
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:01,040
Speaker 4: It also depends on what type of relationship we had.

553
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 4: If you're just like it was one night stand. He's

554
00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:04,520
Speaker 4: from Europe, but he's in town. Okay, fine, but you

555
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 4: can't be like, yeah, he was the one that got away.

556
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 4: I thought it was something special. But anyway, we're.

557
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: Gonna no, it's not anything that series, but it's still

558
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: girls that may have had feelings. So and I guess

559
00:24:12,200 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 2: the thing that we had to discuss was like, all right,

560
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 2: but how do they feel about you?

561
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:16,360
Speaker 1: Right?

562
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 2: Like what about these women? And what if they have

563
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 2: a lot of weight for their feelings with you? Maybe

564
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 2: they didn't mean anything to you, but you did do

565
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 2: that like whatever. So I'm bringing that up to you, listener,

566
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 2: because I approached the way something made me feel or

567
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 2: thought that I thought was you know, kind of bothering me,

568
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 2: and it didn't have a solution and I didn't have

569
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,360
Speaker 2: an ask. I just needed to put it out there, right,

570
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 2: So I think it's okay in relationships where you have

571
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,440
Speaker 2: open dynamics to be like, something's making me feel a

572
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 2: little icky and I don't know why. If we don't

573
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 2: communicate to that level, then you don't have successful open

574
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 2: relationships because you're not gonna not get jealous, You're not

575
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 2: gonna not act funny like that is the truth. What

576
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 2: I don't like about people in non monogamous relationships is

577
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: the idea that they, oh, like we're good. I don't

578
00:25:02,640 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 2: experience this, Like if you're a monogamous you do, but

579
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: I don't get y'all. It's like, yes, the fuck you do,

580
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 2: Like that's just the reality. So I think you absolutely

581
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:12,639
Speaker 2: bring this up when you guys are not drunk and

582
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 2: you're like, you know what, you kind of made me

583
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 2: feel like I was the drug dealer plug and I

584
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 2: don't really want to be the liaison between you and

585
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 2: other women, Like think of it as I'm hooking up

586
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,159
Speaker 2: a restaurant reservation for you and some other bitch, like

587
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 2: oh yeah, yeah, your happiness should not come with me

588
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,439
Speaker 2: needing to help you to get women, Like I'm I

589
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 2: want you to be happy because when you when you fuck,

590
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 2: to me that your happiness and us being in a

591
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 2: dynamic isn't not right. Like the pleasure that I receive

592
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: in my relationship is like, let's just say I'm with

593
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: another person and it's like, oh yeah, she got to explore,

594
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: so that's fun. That's your happiness. That to me, is it?

595
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,160
Speaker 2: That's the compersion. I've been saying that word for years.

596
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,160
Speaker 2: We all have learned it. It's in the Nohl's Bard

597
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 2: compersion is the act of enjoying someone else's pleasure.

598
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: Bitch. I'm going to be the assistant en plug, so

599
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 1: it's not a butt plug. Yeah. Interesting? Any final thoughts?

600
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 1: Married guy?

601
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 4: Um, yeah, I call my wife, Hey, what are you doing? No,

602
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 4: I will say that for this guy. I don't know

603
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 4: who this guy is, but you gotta feel like the

604
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 4: fact that you're even allowed to do this stuff, you

605
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 4: must feel real lucky. Just don't abuse your power. Don't

606
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,400
Speaker 4: abuse that sort of comfort level.

607
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: And also because I'm happy is very manipulative.

608
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, oh, I guess you find enjoyment not

609
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 4: making me happy, And like, no, I think this makes

610
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 4: me feel ncomfortable and I'm allowed to say that. I

611
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 4: think you're right. Communication is key for everything. If you're hiding,

612
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 4: you're hiding. You're dying. Bro.

613
00:26:33,800 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 2: If every time I saw you, I asked you for something, Eddie, Oh.

614
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Speaker 1: Can you tell me about this? And you get Eddie'm

615
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: running late, Eddie, can we do another time? Okay?

616
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Speaker 2: So every single Wednesday we have you Got Decisions. They

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Speaker 2: are a little more relaxed in Our Decision's Decision episode

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Speaker 2: where you always get the both of us, but these

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Speaker 2: maybe solo might be with a friend another co host.

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Speaker 4: Did I do okay?

621
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Speaker 1: Did I ruin it?

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Speaker 4: Did I do okay? No?

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Speaker 1: I think you do good because you gave us a

624
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Speaker 1: little section.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, ye put it out there. Why make a past

626
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Speaker 4: I get to go okay?

627
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Speaker 1: That's a little tip, not the tip that you would

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Speaker 1: put in or the butt. Bye bye