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Speaker 1: This is from B on Steve Harvey fm B says,

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Speaker 1: my wife's friend visited us over the fourth and one night,

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Speaker 1: when my wife was asleep, her friend and I talked

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Speaker 1: into the night about my wife before I met her.

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Speaker 1: I was kind of shocked at her friend's description of

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Speaker 1: my wife in her twenties, and on some level I

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Speaker 1: wish she would act more like that now. For one,

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Speaker 1: her friend told me that my wife was very sexually

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Speaker 1: adventurous back then. I'd like to discuss this with my wife,

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Speaker 1: but I don't want to cause a rift between her

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Speaker 1: and her friend, since her friend may have been talking

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Speaker 1: about stuff my wife wouldn't have wanted her to. So

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Speaker 1: how can I bring this subject up to my wife

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Speaker 1: without damaging her relationship with her friend.

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Speaker 2: You can't bring this up.

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Speaker 3: Oh, as far as I'm concerned, this conversation never happened.

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Speaker 3: You can't bring this up, Pardner. All right, Now, you

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Speaker 3: found out some information about your baby. Cool, that's good.

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Speaker 3: It was a good information. You learned that she was

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Speaker 3: very sexual and you like that part. Good.

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Speaker 2: Now you got to pick got your own way of

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Speaker 2: pulling that out. But you can't.

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Speaker 3: You can't not have this conversation and talk about you

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Speaker 3: had a conversation with her girlfriend, no.

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Speaker 1: Friend, Yeah, your mouth, she was, she was out there,

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Speaker 1: she was back in the day.

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Speaker 2: No, so you say Jackie was working on the rooftop.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, one time we were in Vegas. What No, No,

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Speaker 1: that's not a good thing at all.

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Speaker 2: Do that, brother, You.

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Speaker 3: Found out some information. It wasn't bad and not not

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Speaker 3: like another man or something like that. So you cool'

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Speaker 3: just just just just riding it. It is what it is.

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Speaker 3: Some men just don't know when to stop. Just hey,

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Speaker 3: you found out something. It's pretty good information. You could

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Speaker 3: use it later. But you never talk about that. You

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Speaker 3: had this conversation with this woman.

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Speaker 2: Stop.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure y'all was out there on that patio drinking

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Speaker 3: and you got all that information coming up.

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Speaker 2: Boy, that's what happened. Don't be mad at her. She

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Speaker 2: was drinking. Oh no, I'm mad at her running her mom.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, telling where the bodies are buried and build and

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Speaker 4: all that to.

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Speaker 3: You shouldn't have left. You shouldn't have left them out there.

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Speaker 3: Get tell me about that beer, and come on out

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Speaker 3: there and see what they're talking about.

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Speaker 2: I thought they would sleep.

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Speaker 1: What happens in our twenties, stay in our twenties, thirties,

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Speaker 1: two thirties.

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Speaker 3: A mess around and wake up? Mess around and wake up?

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Speaker 3: And what's gonna be happening? Why?

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Speaker 2: Eggs? Eggs? Hen you what you got on this?

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Speaker 4: I say, I mean, no, man, you can't bring it

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Speaker 4: up to your wife, and you need to stop talking

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Speaker 4: to a friend. But on top of that, ain't nobody

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Speaker 4: who they was in their twenties? Now know I'm not

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Speaker 4: my wife ain't the same person she was in her twenties.

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Speaker 4: I mean she probably was sexually adventurous and all that

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Speaker 4: type stuff in her twenties or whatever, you know, with

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Speaker 4: me and everything. But it ain't happening now because now

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Speaker 4: you know we got grand baby, so it's kind of

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Speaker 4: hard to be sexual. We're watching Frozen all the time.

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Speaker 4: You can't have nothing happened in Frozen at all. You

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Speaker 4: can't touch our shoulder and the grand baker right there.

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Speaker 2: I can't do that.

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Speaker 4: And now you ain't finna get that woman no more.

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Speaker 4: That woman gone, that's not the one you fin get.

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Speaker 4: Let it go, Let it go.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm taking. That look like they looked in

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Speaker 2: it ain't working. Be shocked all of that.

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Speaker 4: That's what I'm doing that's what I got to try

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Speaker 4: to work with.

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Speaker 1: All right, we have time for another one from Darryl

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Speaker 1: Daryl and Steve Harvey FM says, after two decades of marriage,

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Speaker 1: I'm back into the dating scene and I'm legitimately terrified.

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Speaker 1: Things have changed so much and I feel like one

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Speaker 1: wrong move can ruin everything. One of my big things

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Speaker 1: is wondering about how to pay for the first date.

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Speaker 1: I just assume and that if I'm the one that

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Speaker 1: asked her out, then I'm the one that's paying. However,

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Speaker 1: I also understand that times and attitudes have changed. How

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Speaker 1: do I address this without making it a thing? You know,

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Speaker 1: I love him.

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Speaker 2: You just got to stay out there and try.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know how this this this this dating

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Speaker 3: game is different.

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Speaker 2: It's really really different. So you gotta just step out

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Speaker 2: there and give it a shot.

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Speaker 3: And don't don't do no texting because old people that

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Speaker 3: we don't know how to text, right, So don't do that.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna mess something up. And commune. I communicate the

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Speaker 2: skills this shot whatever.

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Speaker 1: It ain't changed that much.

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Speaker 2: Pay the bills. But I like the first check.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I ain't seen that do that at on

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Speaker 4: the first day.

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Speaker 2: No ye, pay check.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hey, every date something all everything hasn't changed.

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Speaker 2: Right, when was you dating? Just pay a check? All right.

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