WEBVTT - Marian: Travel Lover Seeks Surfboard to Ride 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:07.640 Aid, Do you have any tattoos? 0:00:07.880 --> 0:00:15.440 I've always wanted one where who oh my, but that 0:00:15.480 --> 0:00:19.919 would be a little heart a little hard so I 0:00:19.960 --> 0:00:21.960 can leave hearts as I walk away. 0:00:22.160 --> 0:00:23.880 Or you want someone to know where to aim when 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:24.560 they like give you. 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:25.119 A little. 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:29.120 You know me too? Well? 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:34.000 That's amazing all right, Welcome listeners. This is day on 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:38.440 a Walida. First, we're our cute but ail Lilian plays 0:00:38.520 --> 0:00:43.280 matchmaker for one hopeful main dat. She's gonna meet three 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:45.839 lucky contestants before sending one of them off on a 0:00:45.920 --> 0:00:49.279 one on one date with our amazing main dator. I 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:56.560 am your host, Vigo ortis joined by the lovely Aura. 0:00:57.240 --> 0:01:00.560 How are you today? I didn't forget about the tattooth 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:04.720 leading Now tell us about our main dater. Are they 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:06.720 tatted up well? 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:11.520 Our main dater this week is Marian. Marian is twenty 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:13.720 eight and she's a fellow. 0:01:13.520 --> 0:01:16.000 Piees VIIs twin. 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:21.160 Marian is a tatted and pierced nurse in a psych 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:24.920 unit who dreams of traveling and writing a screenplay. 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:29.680 She is a lover girl with specific taste. 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:32.760 She's usually attracted to the skater look with a little 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:36.080 tat or a little piercing Marian is looking for a 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:40.040 serious relationship, and some of her red flags include no ambition. 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:44.479 I feel that mommy issues and bad hygiene. Also feel 0:01:44.480 --> 0:01:48.200 that Marian loves all things horror. She even has a 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:52.520 replica head of Twisty, the clown from American Horror Story 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.040 in her bathroom. 0:01:54.120 --> 0:01:55.880 Oh my god, what an experience. 0:01:56.480 --> 0:01:59.559 She's been cheated on in the past, so she says 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:01.000 she's working untrusting people. 0:02:01.320 --> 0:02:04.280 What do you think that can we find someone worthy 0:02:04.520 --> 0:02:05.200 of Marian? 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:07.920 I think I want to be friends with Marian. Oh 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:09.600 and I want to do that right now. 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:10.079 Oh. 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:10.760 I love that way. 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:19.280 I think that Segus perfectly into bringing Marian in. Hello Marian, welcome, Welcome, Thank. 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:19.680 You so much. 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:22.680 No, it's so lovely to see you again, MiNet Alin 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.880 that you look amazing, a beautiful lady. 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:28.000 Yeah, we were so glad that we met you on 0:02:28.040 --> 0:02:30.720 that first episode with rough Us. But definitely we saw 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:32.920 you and we're like, we're gonna get you three people 0:02:32.960 --> 0:02:34.480 that are gonna vibe for your love. 0:02:35.240 --> 0:02:39.040 So that was really fun too, just being like a contestant. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:40.840 I wish I got to meet that guy. But I'm 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:44.000 so excited that you guys have found potentially a good 0:02:44.000 --> 0:02:44.920 one for me today. 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:48.560 So tell us more about yourself. What should awilli than 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:49.400 I know about you. 0:02:50.400 --> 0:02:53.160 I just came back from a really big trip. I 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:56.280 joined like a group of strangers essentially and Costa Rica. 0:02:56.440 --> 0:02:58.519 We were there for like ten days and we got 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.519 to like tour around and I would say, like traveling 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:04.760 is one of my other really big passions. I got 0:03:04.760 --> 0:03:07.600 to meet people from like other countries like Australia and 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.280 like England and stuff, and for me it's really cool 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:11.800 just to see like other cultures. 0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:14.040 Were there any situations there. 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:17.320 Yeah, there was one person that was fond of me, 0:03:17.600 --> 0:03:20.200 but it happened to be my freaking tour guide. 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:24.000 Oh my gosh, that is a situationship. 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:26.000 I don't know. This is my favorite type. 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:27.760 You just like go to a trip and you meet 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.800 someone that you probably will never see again, and you 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:33.359 have fun and then you did so you had a blast. 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:36.720 It was kind of awkward because I mean I didn't 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:40.040 feel the same way as him. Oh it was early 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.320 on into the trip where he like kind of came 0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:44.600 on to me and he was telling me, like I 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:47.400 could lose my job over this dangerous. 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:48.800 But did anything happen? 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:52.080 We just kissed a bit. Aside from that, there was 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:55.680 a really hot like surfer dude from Costa Rica nice 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.960 I danced with at the club and then he found 0:04:00.120 --> 0:04:02.960 his way over to us like after the club, like 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.120 he was driving and then he saw us on the 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:07.400 street and asked me and my friend if we wanted 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:09.760 to ride. I said yes, but my friend said no. 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:14.120 So surfboard, skateboard, don't matter what board it is. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:18.640 I I want to learn a bit more about your 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:22.159 past relationships. What's been the longest relationship you've been in, 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:25.880 and what are some traits from past relationships that you 0:04:25.960 --> 0:04:28.120 definitely want to see moving forward. 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:29.200 What are the things you're like. 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:32.599 Ooh, I really like this about this person and I 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:33.960 learned this about this person. 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:38.960 And yeah, So my longest relationship was four years and 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:41.400 that was like a high school sweetheart. 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:43.520 They didn't you break up and then go back? 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:46.200 Yeah, you know, like there's that time period where like 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:48.240 you break up and then you still are seeing each 0:04:48.279 --> 0:04:52.160 other but not really. It's a little bit of that. 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:55.520 And then some trades that I really like from these people. 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:59.680 It's like different people, but the last one, most recent 0:04:59.720 --> 0:05:02.240 one to take good care of me. I always thought 0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:05.760 that like relationships should be like equal across the board. 0:05:05.839 --> 0:05:08.120 But I don't know. As a lady, it was nice 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:11.000 to be taken care of, you know sometimes, so acts. 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:13.279 Of service is a good love language for you, Like 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:14.840 receiving acts of service. 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:18.360 Yeah, because I also give love by acts of service, 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:21.800 so to receive it back it just made me feel 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:25.240 really special. And it's not something that I expected because 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:28.440 the relationship before him was a total opposite, Like I 0:05:28.480 --> 0:05:31.200 was given give and giving and not receiving a lot back, 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:35.520 not even a thank you. But I also really liked 0:05:35.560 --> 0:05:41.080 when my partners would integrate with my friendships. I like 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:44.280 someone that can have like a good time, is very versatile. 0:05:44.640 --> 0:05:47.279 I consider myself to be pretty social. I like to 0:05:47.320 --> 0:05:50.360 be like out and parties and like all over the place. 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:53.680 So I would appreciate somebody who doesn't judge me for 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:56.320 that and instead of like putting me down. 0:05:56.520 --> 0:05:58.560 No, we don't accept any putting down here. 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.400 Yeah, I would. I want them to like support me 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:04.120 even though if I'm like dancing on the tables, which 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:06.280 I do sometimes, like I would want him to be 0:06:06.360 --> 0:06:09.160 like hyping me up, not like getting mad at me, 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:09.680 you know. 0:06:10.920 --> 0:06:12.400 Championing you up the table. 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:13.240 I like that. 0:06:13.360 --> 0:06:15.360 But but I feel like that also is a metaphor 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:15.840 to life. 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:18.080 You know, someone who does need diminish your life, someone 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:19.400 who's championship. 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:20.320 A whole time, who doesn't hold you back. 0:06:21.480 --> 0:06:22.840 I love that. I love that. 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.040 I also want to learn a little bit more about 0:06:25.080 --> 0:06:28.120 your trust with people. I know that you had that 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:31.200 happened in the past. How have you learned from those 0:06:31.200 --> 0:06:34.320 past relationships and how are you working on trusting people now? 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.360 Well, yeah, I have been treated on by like multiple 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:41.480 different partners. I don't know what it is, because I 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:43.800 feel like I'm a great girlfriend, like I have never 0:06:43.839 --> 0:06:47.440 cheated on anybody. But what I've learned, I don't know 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:50.200 if it's necessarily like a good thing, because it kind 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:52.760 of made me a bit more guarded when it comes 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:55.919 to relationships. I don't know. I've learned just to be 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:58.320 more patient and getting to know people and not be 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:00.000 so vulnerable so quick. 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:03.640 I guess, specifically, what kind of person is this? What 0:07:03.720 --> 0:07:07.880 trade do you think it is that attracts you? Check 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:10.440 you out, look at that big smile, so you're very 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:13.880 well aware of it, which is really really good. That 0:07:14.000 --> 0:07:16.360 shows that you are growing up and you're looking for 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:20.840 something better. In life. So that's where we're going today. Absolutely, 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:25.040 we're going to drop all that BS and leave it behind. Yes, 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:26.920 what do you want in a partnership right now? 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:27.840 Yeah? 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:31.640 One loyalty consistency. 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:33.960 How does loyalty and consistency look like? 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:41.560 Not cheating? But also just I like communication, like consistent communication, 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:44.320 knowing where their head is at. I'm a words of 0:07:44.360 --> 0:07:49.080 affirmation girl, so I think that reassurance is really helpful. 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:51.720 Tell me a little thing about your passions. How many 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:54.000 do you have and what's going on with that? And 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:56.160 do you want your partner to have the same interest 0:07:56.200 --> 0:07:57.120 and passions that do you have? 0:07:57.720 --> 0:07:57.960 Oh? 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:00.440 Actually, I don't want them to have the same interests. 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:03.560 I like to be like the only one, but I 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:06.080 want him to have his own too that I can appreciate, 0:08:06.560 --> 0:08:09.760 like for me, some of them are. I like to drum, 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:13.320 like I'm learning to play the drums. I also bartend 0:08:13.440 --> 0:08:15.720 a little bit on the side, like private events and 0:08:15.720 --> 0:08:22.360 stuff I've always liked to write, like fiction, poetry and horror. Yes, 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:24.640 I mean I work in the sideborg that's like my job. 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:28.560 But I also really appreciate like mental health and dogs. 0:08:28.800 --> 0:08:30.560 I volunteer at like a dog shelter. 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:32.120 Amazing. 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:36.479 Oh my gosh, Well, I think it's time for Alan 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:40.960 to find Marian, a gentleman that has a board. 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:42.240 You can surf on. 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:50.400 A board, you can ride life. Chris, Yes, let's do this. 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:52.240 We go, We'll be. 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:53.560 Back after the break. 0:08:56.920 --> 0:09:02.800 Welcome back today, Malani the first. Alrighty, let's bring on 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:07.880 the contestants. Let's start with Mark. Mark is a scorpio 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:13.680 who loves aliens in three D printing. He is affectionate, monogamous, 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:15.000 and was raised Catholic. 0:09:15.160 --> 0:09:17.600 I hope that you are doing okay with that. 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:21.640 He competes with Spartan races, dungeons and dragons fuck yes, 0:09:22.080 --> 0:09:25.280 and has a collection of miniature haunted houses. 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:27.079 How dope is that? Who lives there? 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:30.160 Mark was married once, but he's now looking for a 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:32.640 long term relationship and for that special someone who will 0:09:32.679 --> 0:09:33.640 play with his hair. 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:34.280 Oh I love that. 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:38.840 We're so happy to have you Mark, Yes, yes. 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:41.600 Yes, yes, yes. And next we'll welcome Sahil. 0:09:41.960 --> 0:09:44.920 Sahuil is twenty seven, a virgo and is a Boston, 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:50.240 Celtics obsessed LA based film composer. He's passionate about music 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:52.800 and film and is looking for a partner who values 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:54.520 their career and their passions. 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:55.400 Hells yeah. 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:59.200 Sahil has only ever dated other Indian folks to please 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:02.200 his parents, but is now interested in exploring beyond that. 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:05.400 Sahel says that work life balance can be hard for him, 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:08.760 but that he is building better boundaries. Hell's yeah, while 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:12.600 looking for a more serious relationship. Say hello, Sahuil, Hey. 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:14.840 Guys, excited to be here. It seems like it'll be fun. 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:18.320 Yes, yes, yes, yes, oh yes, hold on to your pants. 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:21.720 Yeah, Oh my goodness, finally we meet. 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:25.120 Louis Lewis is looking for someone he can really connect with. 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:27.760 He is his best self when he is around cheery. 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:31.320 An upbeat company will definitely give him that. 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:33.600 Lewis works in tech. 0:10:33.640 --> 0:10:38.360 As a data scientist and is passionate about health and fitness. 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:41.160 Lewis wants a real connection and is ready to cook 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:46.239 a nice meal for his partner. His family is from Columbia, 0:10:46.400 --> 0:10:48.960 and while his own hourly that is in Columbia right now, 0:10:49.160 --> 0:10:51.679 he is very excited to meet ours. 0:10:51.960 --> 0:10:53.400 Yes, say hello Lewis. 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:55.440 Hello, nice to meet you guys. 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:59.560 Yes, oh my gosh, I love this now, contestants, I 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.920 am really excited about you all being here today, and 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:06.079 I'm looking forward to seeing how you do in little 0:11:06.120 --> 0:11:09.280 games that we're going to play and see if one 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:11.839 of you could be the match for our beautiful. 0:11:11.360 --> 0:11:15.120 Main dat Let's dive into game number one, shallow. 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:18.559 Well, I hope none of you are scary cats. 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:25.120 The reason why we're laughing so maniacally is because our 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:28.679 first game, we're sending you all to a hunted house, 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:34.000 a hunted dating version of House of Horrors, if you will. 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:37.800 Now, our main dator is a big fan of horror, 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:41.200 so for this first game, we're going to throw three 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:45.280 scenarios at you that are straight out of a horror film, 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:48.439 and you'll tell us what you would do. 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:57.480 For the first Hunted House of Horror scenario, imagine you 0:11:57.559 --> 0:12:00.200 are on a date with your sweetie. 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:00.439 But. 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:06.320 Oh no, she brought seven of her friends. 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:13.480 You are already feeling pretty annoyed, but then all of 0:12:13.600 --> 0:12:20.319 her friends transform into mutating slime that makes everything it 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:26.679 touches toxic. And I don't mean just toxic like you'll die, 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:32.680 I mean toxic. You'll become the most toxic person imaginable. 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:38.520 What do you do knowing that your girl rides or 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:46.680 dies for her friends, even if they're toxic as. 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:49.600 Lewis kick us off. 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:52.520 I think what i'd first do is, you know, maybe 0:12:52.559 --> 0:12:54.319 get a round of drinks for everybody and maybe you 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:57.360 know that's the antidote to get the toxicness out. And 0:12:57.440 --> 0:13:00.480 then yeah, that doesn't work, you know, we get it 0:13:00.559 --> 0:13:03.040 to go and uh maybe try their friends sometime else. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.560 Okay, okay, Mark, what would you do? 0:13:06.160 --> 0:13:09.360 Okay, Well, if this is a real horror situation, right, 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.880 I would make a trap. I would dig a hole 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:14.240 and get them to fall into the hole and then 0:13:14.360 --> 0:13:17.679 you know, they can just be toxic down there. That's 0:13:17.720 --> 0:13:19.719 like right away what I will do, Like, all right, 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:21.280 I'll re surviving this. I don't want to kill your 0:13:21.280 --> 0:13:24.120 friend because obviously care about them, but they're monsters now, 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:25.319 so oh yeah. 0:13:25.200 --> 0:13:26.200 Put them away for a while. 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:27.040 It's amazing. 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.840 Well and now, last, but not least, Sahil, what the 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:30.600 heck would you do? 0:13:31.280 --> 0:13:35.400 I'm introducing her to my friends. I'm sorry, but he's 0:13:35.440 --> 0:13:37.360 gonna meet my friends. She's going to join that group. 0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:39.720 She's gonna be happy, We're all gonna be happy. No 0:13:39.840 --> 0:13:42.480 disrespect to the toxic friends. I'm sure they, you know, 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:44.959 have certain values that work. But I think my friends 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:46.280 can kind of turn her around. 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:48.640 Oh, what a sweetheard. 0:13:49.040 --> 0:13:52.120 How would you address that she has toxic friends? 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:52.520 Oh? 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:54.439 My friends are going to handle that part. That's that's 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:57.800 their responsibility. I'm just gonna say, Ony, don't you go 0:13:57.880 --> 0:13:59.199 meet my friends? And why don't we, you know, just 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.000 hang out and go to the movies or something, and 0:14:01.040 --> 0:14:03.640 she'll meet them and then you know, they're my friends 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:04.040 for a reason. 0:14:04.040 --> 0:14:04.920 They'll handle the hard part. 0:14:05.040 --> 0:14:07.920 That's the end of toxicity as they know it. I 0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:11.839 love it. I love it all right. Listen, here's another one. 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:15.840 You are crushing on someone and they invite you on 0:14:15.880 --> 0:14:18.960 a date to a carnival. Both of you decide to 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:23.600 go into the House of mirrors. I love that. It's 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:28.440 already trippy enough, but then all of a sudden, in 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:33.880 the mirrors are the reflections of previous partners and mistakes 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:37.479 you had in the past. Now what do you do? 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:41.360 Do you run? Or do you face your past head on? 0:14:41.960 --> 0:14:46.200 This is therapy, Mark, what's your reaction to this? 0:14:46.240 --> 0:14:47.880 What will you do if. 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:50.440 This really happened? I think my first reaction is like, 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.600 what the hell is going on? Did this carry? Break 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:53.160 the mirrors? 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:55.920 Break mirrors, mirrors are out done? 0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:59.600 My goodness, hel what would you do? 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:02.800 Yeah, I'm kind of similar to Marx Boat, except my 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:05.760 fight or flight reflex is usually flight, So I probably 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:07.880 rut like I'm here. 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:10.560 That never goes well in horror movies. 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:15.040 I know you're always going to the wrong classet, right, Lewis, 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:15.760 what would you do? 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:19.480 I guess I'd first see kind of her reaction to see, 0:15:19.600 --> 0:15:22.560 you know, is she trembling or does she want to know? 0:15:23.080 --> 0:15:24.640 Because I feel like a lot of the times you 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:26.840 can kind of learn a lot about someone from their 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:28.760 past and kind of what they want. 0:15:28.960 --> 0:15:31.640 So but if she's ready to bolt, I'm also ready 0:15:31.640 --> 0:15:32.640 to storm out. 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:34.640 And then then you talk a little later, it's like, 0:15:34.720 --> 0:15:37.080 oh my gosh, she's terrified. Let's get out of here 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:41.320 and be like I can explain it was a tough time. 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:45.160 I love it, Okay. I have the last scenario. 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:48.680 You've been dating someone for a couple of months and 0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:53.600 it's going really well and so far nothing huge is 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:56.200 standing out as a red flag. 0:15:57.040 --> 0:16:01.400 Now your date invites you to a haunted. 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:06.040 House and when you show up, you are met with 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:12.280 every single one of your worst fears and they all 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:13.440 come to life. 0:16:14.480 --> 0:16:15.600 What do you do? 0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:18.640 Do you face your fears to rescue your date, or 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:21.920 do you ditch because the fear inside is too much 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:26.720 to bear? If you decide to stay, describe what's inside? 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:29.280 What are some of your fears? Very danger? 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:35.480 This game real major therapy. You will be built for 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:35.920 this one. 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:39.280 Sorry, what's your what's your response? 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:41.200 I'd like to think I would stay. 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:43.200 And that's the case. If you stay, what would it 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:44.560 look like? What are some of the fears that are 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:45.360 coming up to life? 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:49.600 Fire? I can't really be around fires. I still mix 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:52.440 my spaghetti with an oven mitt on because I'm afraid 0:16:52.480 --> 0:16:54.760 of the stove. I hear that I have like a 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:57.080 weird eye fear, Like if I'm watching a movie and 0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:59.280 like zoom in someone's eye, I have to look away 0:16:59.320 --> 0:17:01.840 or stuff like that interesting, And I can't put contacts 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:04.080 in or eye drops in because I have a really 0:17:04.080 --> 0:17:04.720 weird kind of eyes. 0:17:05.320 --> 0:17:07.280 Definitely be a lot of eyes. 0:17:07.440 --> 0:17:12.120 That needs to be studied, right Lewis, So, Yeah, would 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:12.560 I stay? 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:15.120 I think it depends on how much I like her? Yeah, 0:17:15.240 --> 0:17:17.280 I see a future worth her. Yeah, I'm definitely staying. 0:17:17.359 --> 0:17:18.080 Fighting it out. 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:21.520 And then what that would look like I'm imagining like 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:26.040 big spiders, Yeah, something a little bit more psychological maybe 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:27.200 like inadequacy. 0:17:29.840 --> 0:17:31.840 Yeah, I think I'd fight through it if it was 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:32.280 worth it. 0:17:32.480 --> 0:17:34.840 Hell's yeah, Hell's yeah, Mark, what about you? How does 0:17:34.880 --> 0:17:35.400 it look like. 0:17:36.200 --> 0:17:39.199 On a more grounded level, there would be a you 0:17:39.240 --> 0:17:41.159 know those Triloquist stummies? 0:17:42.440 --> 0:17:44.639 Yeah, I hate those things. 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:47.560 I'm kind of chasm that I would have to walk 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:48.560 through because. 0:17:48.320 --> 0:17:49.520 I'm terrified of heights. 0:17:50.080 --> 0:17:53.239 Ooh same and much like these other two gentlemen, I 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:58.800 have abandonment things from my dad, So loneliness would be 0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:02.560 a concept somehow. But yeah, I would also say, you said, 0:18:02.600 --> 0:18:04.080 we've been dating for what five months? 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:05.840 Yes, it's been five months. 0:18:05.880 --> 0:18:07.800 Definitely, Even if I didn't like her that much, at 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:09.520 that point, I'm invested in this person, at least as 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:11.280 a friend. So what's trying to savor? 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:12.000 Here? 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.199 Here? Here here? Well, that was juicy. 0:18:14.600 --> 0:18:17.000 I think you guys did an amazing job. Can we 0:18:17.080 --> 0:18:20.159 applaud you? But if you think that a Wilita is 0:18:20.160 --> 0:18:22.840 gonna take a break. Hell Now, next. 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:27.000 Game, This one is a crowd favorite. It's called the 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:28.159 Red Flags. 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:33.240 We're gonna list three things that are generally considered to 0:18:33.320 --> 0:18:36.840 be red flags, and you're gonna rang them from tolerable 0:18:37.080 --> 0:18:39.280 to totally deplorable. 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:43.240 Some of these are gonna be really, really bad. I'm 0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:47.520 just warning you. Here we go. Says they're not interested 0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:52.160 when you talk about something exciting to you, always makes 0:18:52.200 --> 0:18:56.040 fun of your taste in music, defers to your preferences 0:18:56.080 --> 0:19:00.440 when making all plans. One, two, and three mark. 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:03.280 The biggest reflect I guess would be the third one. 0:19:03.400 --> 0:19:06.520 If she's always deferring to me, then I don't know 0:19:06.520 --> 0:19:08.280 how much of her would I even really know? 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:08.600 Right? 0:19:09.280 --> 0:19:12.080 The other one was not interested when you talk about 0:19:12.119 --> 0:19:13.600 something exciting to you. 0:19:13.720 --> 0:19:15.960 That would be I guess number two. For me, it's 0:19:15.960 --> 0:19:18.240 not that big of reflex. I think it's healthy to 0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:19.600 have different interests at times. 0:19:19.960 --> 0:19:20.320 You can. 0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:22.760 My taste in music is so broad. I will listen 0:19:22.760 --> 0:19:24.639 to death metal and I will listen to tas with. 0:19:26.359 --> 0:19:28.000 If she's making fun of my taste of music, he's 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:30.080 making fun of her own, that's cool. That's not a 0:19:30.080 --> 0:19:30.560 problem for. 0:19:30.520 --> 0:19:32.840 Meright, cool cool, Lewis, what's your order? 0:19:33.200 --> 0:19:33.480 Okay? 0:19:33.520 --> 0:19:36.480 So Toleral, I think defaulting to me when it comes 0:19:36.480 --> 0:19:38.840 to like logistics. 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:39.879 And plans, I kind of like that. 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:42.359 I kind of the plans and you know, usually do 0:19:42.359 --> 0:19:44.680 a pretty good job at it. So I take that 0:19:44.920 --> 0:19:47.560