Speaker 1: Aid, Do you have any tattoos?
Speaker 2: I've always wanted one where who oh my, but that
Speaker 2: would be a little heart a little hard so I
Speaker 2: can leave hearts as I walk away.
Speaker 1: Or you want someone to know where to aim when
Speaker 1: they like give you.
Speaker 3: A little.
Speaker 2: You know me too? Well?
Speaker 4: That's amazing all right, Welcome listeners. This is day on
Speaker 4: a Walida. First, we're our cute but ail Lilian plays
Speaker 4: matchmaker for one hopeful main dat. She's gonna meet three
Speaker 4: lucky contestants before sending one of them off on a
Speaker 4: one on one date with our amazing main dator. I
Speaker 4: am your host, Vigo ortis joined by the lovely Aura.
Speaker 2: How are you today? I didn't forget about the tattooth
Speaker 2: leading Now tell us about our main dater. Are they
Speaker 2: tatted up well?
Speaker 4: Our main dater this week is Marian. Marian is twenty
Speaker 4: eight and she's a fellow.
Speaker 2: Piees VIIs twin.
Speaker 4: Marian is a tatted and pierced nurse in a psych
Speaker 4: unit who dreams of traveling and writing a screenplay.
Speaker 1: She is a lover girl with specific taste.
Speaker 4: She's usually attracted to the skater look with a little
Speaker 4: tat or a little piercing Marian is looking for a
Speaker 4: serious relationship, and some of her red flags include no ambition.
Speaker 4: I feel that mommy issues and bad hygiene. Also feel
Speaker 4: that Marian loves all things horror. She even has a
Speaker 4: replica head of Twisty, the clown from American Horror Story
Speaker 4: in her bathroom.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what an experience.
Speaker 4: She's been cheated on in the past, so she says
Speaker 4: she's working untrusting people.
Speaker 1: What do you think that can we find someone worthy
Speaker 1: of Marian?
Speaker 2: I think I want to be friends with Marian. Oh
Speaker 2: and I want to do that right now.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 1: I love that way.
Speaker 4: I think that Segus perfectly into bringing Marian in. Hello Marian, welcome, Welcome, Thank.
Speaker 1: You so much.
Speaker 2: No, it's so lovely to see you again, MiNet Alin
Speaker 2: that you look amazing, a beautiful lady.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were so glad that we met you on
Speaker 4: that first episode with rough Us. But definitely we saw
Speaker 4: you and we're like, we're gonna get you three people
Speaker 4: that are gonna vibe for your love.
Speaker 5: So that was really fun too, just being like a contestant.
Speaker 5: I wish I got to meet that guy. But I'm
Speaker 5: so excited that you guys have found potentially a good
Speaker 5: one for me today.
Speaker 4: So tell us more about yourself. What should awilli than
Speaker 4: I know about you.
Speaker 5: I just came back from a really big trip. I
Speaker 5: joined like a group of strangers essentially and Costa Rica.
Speaker 5: We were there for like ten days and we got
Speaker 5: to like tour around and I would say, like traveling
Speaker 5: is one of my other really big passions. I got
Speaker 5: to meet people from like other countries like Australia and
Speaker 5: like England and stuff, and for me it's really cool
Speaker 5: just to see like other cultures.
Speaker 2: Were there any situations there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, there was one person that was fond of me,
Speaker 5: but it happened to be my freaking tour guide.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that is a situationship.
Speaker 1: I don't know. This is my favorite type.
Speaker 4: You just like go to a trip and you meet
Speaker 4: someone that you probably will never see again, and you
Speaker 4: have fun and then you did so you had a blast.
Speaker 5: It was kind of awkward because I mean I didn't
Speaker 5: feel the same way as him. Oh it was early
Speaker 5: on into the trip where he like kind of came
Speaker 5: on to me and he was telling me, like I
Speaker 5: could lose my job over this dangerous.
Speaker 2: But did anything happen?
Speaker 5: We just kissed a bit. Aside from that, there was
Speaker 5: a really hot like surfer dude from Costa Rica nice
Speaker 5: I danced with at the club and then he found
Speaker 5: his way over to us like after the club, like
Speaker 5: he was driving and then he saw us on the
Speaker 5: street and asked me and my friend if we wanted
Speaker 5: to ride. I said yes, but my friend said no.
Speaker 2: So surfboard, skateboard, don't matter what board it is.
Speaker 4: I I want to learn a bit more about your
Speaker 4: past relationships. What's been the longest relationship you've been in,
Speaker 4: and what are some traits from past relationships that you
Speaker 4: definitely want to see moving forward.
Speaker 1: What are the things you're like.
Speaker 4: Ooh, I really like this about this person and I
Speaker 4: learned this about this person.
Speaker 5: And yeah, So my longest relationship was four years and
Speaker 5: that was like a high school sweetheart.
Speaker 2: They didn't you break up and then go back?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, like there's that time period where like
Speaker 5: you break up and then you still are seeing each
Speaker 5: other but not really. It's a little bit of that.
Speaker 5: And then some trades that I really like from these people.
Speaker 5: It's like different people, but the last one, most recent
Speaker 5: one to take good care of me. I always thought
Speaker 5: that like relationships should be like equal across the board.
Speaker 5: But I don't know. As a lady, it was nice
Speaker 5: to be taken care of, you know sometimes, so acts.
Speaker 4: Of service is a good love language for you, Like
Speaker 4: receiving acts of service.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because I also give love by acts of service,
Speaker 5: so to receive it back it just made me feel
Speaker 5: really special. And it's not something that I expected because
Speaker 5: the relationship before him was a total opposite, Like I
Speaker 5: was given give and giving and not receiving a lot back,
Speaker 5: not even a thank you. But I also really liked
Speaker 5: when my partners would integrate with my friendships. I like
Speaker 5: someone that can have like a good time, is very versatile.
Speaker 5: I consider myself to be pretty social. I like to
Speaker 5: be like out and parties and like all over the place.
Speaker 5: So I would appreciate somebody who doesn't judge me for
Speaker 5: that and instead of like putting me down.
Speaker 2: No, we don't accept any putting down here.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would. I want them to like support me
Speaker 5: even though if I'm like dancing on the tables, which
Speaker 5: I do sometimes, like I would want him to be
Speaker 5: like hyping me up, not like getting mad at me,
Speaker 5: you know.
Speaker 1: Championing you up the table.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 1: But but I feel like that also is a metaphor
Speaker 1: to life.
Speaker 4: You know, someone who does need diminish your life, someone
Speaker 4: who's championship.
Speaker 2: A whole time, who doesn't hold you back.
Speaker 1: I love that. I love that.
Speaker 4: I also want to learn a little bit more about
Speaker 4: your trust with people. I know that you had that
Speaker 4: happened in the past. How have you learned from those
Speaker 4: past relationships and how are you working on trusting people now?
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I have been treated on by like multiple
Speaker 5: different partners. I don't know what it is, because I
Speaker 5: feel like I'm a great girlfriend, like I have never
Speaker 5: cheated on anybody. But what I've learned, I don't know
Speaker 5: if it's necessarily like a good thing, because it kind
Speaker 5: of made me a bit more guarded when it comes
Speaker 5: to relationships. I don't know. I've learned just to be
Speaker 5: more patient and getting to know people and not be
Speaker 5: so vulnerable so quick.
Speaker 2: I guess, specifically, what kind of person is this? What
Speaker 2: trade do you think it is that attracts you? Check
Speaker 2: you out, look at that big smile, so you're very
Speaker 2: well aware of it, which is really really good. That
Speaker 2: shows that you are growing up and you're looking for
Speaker 2: something better. In life. So that's where we're going today. Absolutely,
Speaker 2: we're going to drop all that BS and leave it behind. Yes,
Speaker 2: what do you want in a partnership right now?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: One loyalty consistency.
Speaker 1: How does loyalty and consistency look like?
Speaker 5: Not cheating? But also just I like communication, like consistent communication,
Speaker 5: knowing where their head is at. I'm a words of
Speaker 5: affirmation girl, so I think that reassurance is really helpful.
Speaker 2: Tell me a little thing about your passions. How many
Speaker 2: do you have and what's going on with that? And
Speaker 2: do you want your partner to have the same interest
Speaker 2: and passions that do you have?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 5: Actually, I don't want them to have the same interests.
Speaker 5: I like to be like the only one, but I
Speaker 5: want him to have his own too that I can appreciate,
Speaker 5: like for me, some of them are. I like to drum,
Speaker 5: like I'm learning to play the drums. I also bartend
Speaker 5: a little bit on the side, like private events and
Speaker 5: stuff I've always liked to write, like fiction, poetry and horror. Yes,
Speaker 5: I mean I work in the sideborg that's like my job.
Speaker 5: But I also really appreciate like mental health and dogs.
Speaker 5: I volunteer at like a dog shelter.
Speaker 1: Amazing.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, Well, I think it's time for Alan
Speaker 4: to find Marian, a gentleman that has a board.
Speaker 1: You can surf on.
Speaker 2: A board, you can ride life. Chris, Yes, let's do this.
Speaker 2: We go, We'll be.
Speaker 1: Back after the break.
Speaker 4: Welcome back today, Malani the first. Alrighty, let's bring on
Speaker 4: the contestants. Let's start with Mark. Mark is a scorpio
Speaker 4: who loves aliens in three D printing. He is affectionate, monogamous,
Speaker 4: and was raised Catholic.
Speaker 1: I hope that you are doing okay with that.
Speaker 4: He competes with Spartan races, dungeons and dragons fuck yes,
Speaker 4: and has a collection of miniature haunted houses.
Speaker 2: How dope is that? Who lives there?
Speaker 4: Mark was married once, but he's now looking for a
Speaker 4: long term relationship and for that special someone who will
Speaker 4: play with his hair.
Speaker 1: Oh I love that.
Speaker 4: We're so happy to have you Mark, Yes, yes.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes. And next we'll welcome Sahil.
Speaker 4: Sahuil is twenty seven, a virgo and is a Boston,
Speaker 4: Celtics obsessed LA based film composer. He's passionate about music
Speaker 4: and film and is looking for a partner who values
Speaker 4: their career and their passions.
Speaker 1: Hells yeah.
Speaker 4: Sahil has only ever dated other Indian folks to please
Speaker 4: his parents, but is now interested in exploring beyond that.
Speaker 4: Sahel says that work life balance can be hard for him,
Speaker 4: but that he is building better boundaries. Hell's yeah, while
Speaker 4: looking for a more serious relationship. Say hello, Sahuil, Hey.
Speaker 6: Guys, excited to be here. It seems like it'll be fun.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, oh yes, hold on to your pants.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my goodness, finally we meet.
Speaker 4: Louis Lewis is looking for someone he can really connect with.
Speaker 4: He is his best self when he is around cheery.
Speaker 4: An upbeat company will definitely give him that.
Speaker 1: Lewis works in tech.
Speaker 4: As a data scientist and is passionate about health and fitness.
Speaker 4: Lewis wants a real connection and is ready to cook
Speaker 4: a nice meal for his partner. His family is from Columbia,
Speaker 4: and while his own hourly that is in Columbia right now,
Speaker 4: he is very excited to meet ours.
Speaker 1: Yes, say hello Lewis.
Speaker 6: Hello, nice to meet you guys.
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my gosh, I love this now, contestants, I
Speaker 2: am really excited about you all being here today, and
Speaker 2: I'm looking forward to seeing how you do in little
Speaker 2: games that we're going to play and see if one
Speaker 2: of you could be the match for our beautiful.
Speaker 1: Main dat Let's dive into game number one, shallow.
Speaker 2: Well, I hope none of you are scary cats.
Speaker 4: The reason why we're laughing so maniacally is because our
Speaker 4: first game, we're sending you all to a hunted house,
Speaker 4: a hunted dating version of House of Horrors, if you will.
Speaker 2: Now, our main dator is a big fan of horror,
Speaker 2: so for this first game, we're going to throw three
Speaker 2: scenarios at you that are straight out of a horror film,
Speaker 2: and you'll tell us what you would do.
Speaker 4: For the first Hunted House of Horror scenario, imagine you
Speaker 4: are on a date with your sweetie.
Speaker 5: But.
Speaker 1: Oh no, she brought seven of her friends.
Speaker 4: You are already feeling pretty annoyed, but then all of
Speaker 4: her friends transform into mutating slime that makes everything it
Speaker 4: touches toxic. And I don't mean just toxic like you'll die,
Speaker 4: I mean toxic. You'll become the most toxic person imaginable.
Speaker 4: What do you do knowing that your girl rides or
Speaker 4: dies for her friends, even if they're toxic as.
Speaker 2: Lewis kick us off.
Speaker 7: I think what i'd first do is, you know, maybe
Speaker 7: get a round of drinks for everybody and maybe you
Speaker 7: know that's the antidote to get the toxicness out. And
Speaker 7: then yeah, that doesn't work, you know, we get it
Speaker 7: to go and uh maybe try their friends sometime else.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, Mark, what would you do?
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, if this is a real horror situation, right,
Speaker 3: I would make a trap. I would dig a hole
Speaker 3: and get them to fall into the hole and then
Speaker 3: you know, they can just be toxic down there. That's
Speaker 3: like right away what I will do, Like, all right,
Speaker 3: I'll re surviving this. I don't want to kill your
Speaker 3: friend because obviously care about them, but they're monsters now,
Speaker 3: so oh yeah.
Speaker 2: Put them away for a while.
Speaker 1: It's amazing.
Speaker 2: Well and now, last, but not least, Sahil, what the
Speaker 2: heck would you do?
Speaker 8: I'm introducing her to my friends. I'm sorry, but he's
Speaker 8: gonna meet my friends. She's going to join that group.
Speaker 8: She's gonna be happy, We're all gonna be happy. No
Speaker 8: disrespect to the toxic friends. I'm sure they, you know,
Speaker 8: have certain values that work. But I think my friends
Speaker 8: can kind of turn her around.
Speaker 2: Oh, what a sweetheard.
Speaker 1: How would you address that she has toxic friends?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 8: My friends are going to handle that part. That's that's
Speaker 8: their responsibility. I'm just gonna say, Ony, don't you go
Speaker 8: meet my friends? And why don't we, you know, just
Speaker 8: hang out and go to the movies or something, and
Speaker 8: she'll meet them and then you know, they're my friends
Speaker 8: for a reason.
Speaker 6: They'll handle the hard part.
Speaker 2: That's the end of toxicity as they know it. I
Speaker 2: love it. I love it all right. Listen, here's another one.
Speaker 2: You are crushing on someone and they invite you on
Speaker 2: a date to a carnival. Both of you decide to
Speaker 2: go into the House of mirrors. I love that. It's
Speaker 2: already trippy enough, but then all of a sudden, in
Speaker 2: the mirrors are the reflections of previous partners and mistakes
Speaker 2: you had in the past. Now what do you do?
Speaker 2: Do you run? Or do you face your past head on?
Speaker 4: This is therapy, Mark, what's your reaction to this?
Speaker 1: What will you do if.
Speaker 3: This really happened? I think my first reaction is like,
Speaker 3: what the hell is going on? Did this carry? Break
Speaker 3: the mirrors?
Speaker 1: Break mirrors, mirrors are out done?
Speaker 2: My goodness, hel what would you do?
Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm kind of similar to Marx Boat, except my
Speaker 8: fight or flight reflex is usually flight, So I probably
Speaker 8: rut like I'm here.
Speaker 3: That never goes well in horror movies.
Speaker 2: I know you're always going to the wrong classet, right, Lewis,
Speaker 2: what would you do?
Speaker 7: I guess I'd first see kind of her reaction to see,
Speaker 7: you know, is she trembling or does she want to know?
Speaker 7: Because I feel like a lot of the times you
Speaker 7: can kind of learn a lot about someone from their
Speaker 7: past and kind of what they want.
Speaker 6: So but if she's ready to bolt, I'm also ready
Speaker 6: to storm out.
Speaker 4: And then then you talk a little later, it's like,
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, she's terrified. Let's get out of here
Speaker 4: and be like I can explain it was a tough time.
Speaker 1: I love it, Okay. I have the last scenario.
Speaker 4: You've been dating someone for a couple of months and
Speaker 4: it's going really well and so far nothing huge is
Speaker 4: standing out as a red flag.
Speaker 1: Now your date invites you to a haunted.
Speaker 4: House and when you show up, you are met with
Speaker 4: every single one of your worst fears and they all
Speaker 4: come to life.
Speaker 1: What do you do?
Speaker 4: Do you face your fears to rescue your date, or
Speaker 4: do you ditch because the fear inside is too much
Speaker 4: to bear? If you decide to stay, describe what's inside?
Speaker 1: What are some of your fears? Very danger?
Speaker 2: This game real major therapy. You will be built for
Speaker 2: this one.
Speaker 1: Sorry, what's your what's your response?
Speaker 6: I'd like to think I would stay.
Speaker 4: And that's the case. If you stay, what would it
Speaker 4: look like? What are some of the fears that are
Speaker 4: coming up to life?
Speaker 8: Fire? I can't really be around fires. I still mix
Speaker 8: my spaghetti with an oven mitt on because I'm afraid
Speaker 8: of the stove. I hear that I have like a
Speaker 8: weird eye fear, Like if I'm watching a movie and
Speaker 8: like zoom in someone's eye, I have to look away
Speaker 8: or stuff like that interesting, And I can't put contacts
Speaker 8: in or eye drops in because I have a really
Speaker 8: weird kind of eyes.
Speaker 6: Definitely be a lot of eyes.
Speaker 2: That needs to be studied, right Lewis, So, Yeah, would
Speaker 2: I stay?
Speaker 7: I think it depends on how much I like her? Yeah,
Speaker 7: I see a future worth her. Yeah, I'm definitely staying.
Speaker 6: Fighting it out.
Speaker 7: And then what that would look like I'm imagining like
Speaker 7: big spiders, Yeah, something a little bit more psychological maybe
Speaker 7: like inadequacy.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think I'd fight through it if it was
Speaker 6: worth it.
Speaker 1: Hell's yeah, Hell's yeah, Mark, what about you? How does
Speaker 1: it look like.
Speaker 3: On a more grounded level, there would be a you
Speaker 3: know those Triloquist stummies?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate those things.
Speaker 3: I'm kind of chasm that I would have to walk
Speaker 3: through because.
Speaker 6: I'm terrified of heights.
Speaker 3: Ooh same and much like these other two gentlemen, I
Speaker 3: have abandonment things from my dad, So loneliness would be
Speaker 3: a concept somehow. But yeah, I would also say, you said,
Speaker 3: we've been dating for what five months?
Speaker 1: Yes, it's been five months.
Speaker 3: Definitely, Even if I didn't like her that much, at
Speaker 3: that point, I'm invested in this person, at least as
Speaker 3: a friend. So what's trying to savor?
Speaker 8: Here?
Speaker 1: Here? Here here? Well, that was juicy.
Speaker 2: I think you guys did an amazing job. Can we
Speaker 2: applaud you? But if you think that a Wilita is
Speaker 2: gonna take a break. Hell Now, next.
Speaker 1: Game, This one is a crowd favorite. It's called the
Speaker 1: Red Flags.
Speaker 4: We're gonna list three things that are generally considered to
Speaker 4: be red flags, and you're gonna rang them from tolerable
Speaker 4: to totally deplorable.
Speaker 2: Some of these are gonna be really, really bad. I'm
Speaker 2: just warning you. Here we go. Says they're not interested
Speaker 2: when you talk about something exciting to you, always makes
Speaker 2: fun of your taste in music, defers to your preferences
Speaker 2: when making all plans. One, two, and three mark.
Speaker 3: The biggest reflect I guess would be the third one.
Speaker 3: If she's always deferring to me, then I don't know
Speaker 3: how much of her would I even really know?
Speaker 5: Right?
Speaker 2: The other one was not interested when you talk about
Speaker 2: something exciting to you.
Speaker 3: That would be I guess number two. For me, it's
Speaker 3: not that big of reflex. I think it's healthy to
Speaker 3: have different interests at times.
Speaker 1: You can.
Speaker 3: My taste in music is so broad. I will listen
Speaker 3: to death metal and I will listen to tas with.
Speaker 3: If she's making fun of my taste of music, he's
Speaker 3: making fun of her own, that's cool. That's not a
Speaker 3: problem for.
Speaker 1: Meright, cool cool, Lewis, what's your order?
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 7: So Toleral, I think defaulting to me when it comes
Speaker 7: to like logistics.
Speaker 6: And plans, I kind of like that.
Speaker 7: I kind of the plans and you know, usually do
Speaker 7: a pretty good job at it. So I take that
Speaker 7: the second one laughing at music tastes.
Speaker 6: I laugh at my own music taste sometimes, so I
Speaker 6: think I'd be okay with that.
Speaker 7: But what I would not stand for is someone telling
Speaker 7: me they're not interested when I'm talking about something I'm
Speaker 7: excited about. You can at least pretend to be interested,
Speaker 7: or you know, you don't have to be mean about it.
Speaker 1: Here here sihil what are yours?
Speaker 8: So like deferring to me? Like, I'm cool with that.
Speaker 8: I'm not the most decisive person myself, but maybe that's
Speaker 8: a good thing. If people defer to me more, I
Speaker 8: can be a little bit more decisive then in terms
Speaker 8: of my music taste, you know, I wouldn't prefer for
Speaker 8: people to make fun of it. But at the same time,
Speaker 8: people make fun of my music taste all the time already,
Speaker 8: as long as like we're already close because I just
Speaker 8: listen to film scores and people think that's kind of weird.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 8: But the things that I'm passionate about, like I only
Speaker 8: talk about things that I'm like, if you see me
Speaker 8: start talking about basketball, I won't stop, or like the
Speaker 8: same thing with like movie scores, I just don't stop.
Speaker 8: I just continue to go. So it's like pretty important
Speaker 8: that if that's all I talk about, to be with
Speaker 8: someone who's cool with me talking about those things.
Speaker 1: Cute q qq okay. I got three other ones.
Speaker 4: Their moto in life is live, leftlove, where's sunglasses? Indoors
Speaker 4: for no reason and calls you babe after the first date.
Speaker 4: I want to start with you, Saio, what came up
Speaker 4: for you in these three?
Speaker 6: I don't want to be called babe after a first date.
Speaker 1: That's your biggest red flag.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 8: To me, it's like a sign of endearment. And if
Speaker 8: I'm hearing that after the first date, then I have
Speaker 8: to really wonder how authentic it is. The second one
Speaker 8: would be sunglasses inside. I just that seems kind of weird.
Speaker 8: And then I'll deal with the live laugh love.
Speaker 1: Lewis, what's you?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess most tolerable would probably love, even though
Speaker 7: I wouldn't say it that way.
Speaker 6: You know, I like the mentality, the mindset.
Speaker 7: Next tolerable would be wearing the sunglasses inside, you know.
Speaker 6: On the same page.
Speaker 7: Yea like a fashion statement, you know, and then yeah,
Speaker 7: getting called babe. You know, maybe it's like an amazing
Speaker 7: first date, but still, you know, maybe wait, at least till.
Speaker 3: A third date.
Speaker 1: I hear that, Yeah, Mark, what's yours?
Speaker 3: Live?
Speaker 1: Left love as the most tolerable?
Speaker 3: Yeah, little sense of adventure. I guess being called babe
Speaker 3: after the first date wouldn't be a huge red flag
Speaker 3: for me, so that would be my second. But the
Speaker 3: sunglasses indoors, that's a little odd.
Speaker 2: Okay, here we go now with another set? Are we ready?
Speaker 2: Doesn't ask questions about your life? Says that all of
Speaker 2: their exes are crazy since they don't do drama, but
Speaker 2: creates dramatic situations. Often these are tough, yo, how about it? Mark?
Speaker 3: Most tolerable would be that he says all her exes
Speaker 3: are crazy because it sounds like hyperbole, but it could
Speaker 3: be true. Maybe she had terrible tape in men that
Speaker 3: she doesn't like drama but creates. It would be the
Speaker 3: second mm hmm, And what.
Speaker 6: Was the third?
Speaker 1: Doesn't ask questions about your life?
Speaker 3: That would definitely still be the worst one. I'm just
Speaker 3: a mannequin.
Speaker 1: Then, yeah, there's a prop mm, sachio, what are yours?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Not asking questions is the worst. The drama thing would
Speaker 8: be second. I think I'd find that kind of annoying
Speaker 8: at times the exes are crazy. That doesn't bother me
Speaker 8: as much. I think that's a lot better than I
Speaker 8: miss my ext Hm hmmm, I understand that if he
Speaker 8: has terrible taste in men and she's seeing me, what
Speaker 8: does that say about me? So that kind of, I
Speaker 8: guess be a little bit of a concern.
Speaker 3: You're breaking the cycle.
Speaker 8: Yeah, No, I'm totally always gad for people to talk
Speaker 8: trash about their exits.
Speaker 6: I mean, that might be one.
Speaker 1: Of my red flags, Lewis, what are yours most tolerable?
Speaker 7: Is all my exes are crazy, just because all they're great.
Speaker 7: Next to that second would be not asking questions about me.
Speaker 7: I think that's a little weird, but I'm sure we'll
Speaker 7: get to know each other at some point. And then
Speaker 7: the third would definitely be says she doesn't like drama.
Speaker 7: It makes drama for two reasons, very hypocritical and yeah,
Speaker 7: I hate drama.
Speaker 6: I'm looking for peace, So yeah.
Speaker 1: Well you're here for peace and ease. Absolutely.
Speaker 4: Thank you all so much for your answers and your analysis.
Speaker 4: These were some sticky, yiky situations, so hats off to y'all.
Speaker 2: No, even though these red flags may seem silly to all,
Speaker 2: of you or atrocious. They really help me get a
Speaker 2: sense of your preferences in what you would tolerate or
Speaker 2: not tolerate, which is so helpful when thinking about who
Speaker 2: might be the right match for our main data.
Speaker 4: That is very, very true, So Alida Leana, who is
Speaker 4: not going to be moving on with us.
Speaker 2: The one thing that we have to keep in mind
Speaker 2: is what is our main data about who would start
Speaker 2: out with a nice friendship and take it on to
Speaker 2: a nice relationship, which is what we hope here. Unfortunately,
Speaker 2: the one person that will be leaving us now, and
Speaker 2: thank you so much for being here, because you are
Speaker 2: adorable is Sahil.
Speaker 4: Sahil, thank you so so much for bringing it, for
Speaker 4: being so charming and so funny.
Speaker 1: This is thanks guys, thank you so much. We'll see you.
Speaker 1: We'll be back after the break. Welcome back today, my
Speaker 1: HOURII the.
Speaker 4: First well, alrighty to you too.
Speaker 1: You've made it to the next portion.
Speaker 4: Of our show where Awilita is going to take you
Speaker 4: on a speed date a little cafeo Awilita with each
Speaker 4: one of you. This is an opportunity for her to
Speaker 4: get to know you better, dive deep and ask you
Speaker 4: questions that will help her pick the winner.
Speaker 1: So shall we get started out what you do?
Speaker 4: Let's do it alrighty Mark, I'm gonna go ahead and
Speaker 4: hand you over with Awlita for a little one on one.
Speaker 2: How are you, my darling? Thank you? Vico?
Speaker 3: Really good? Having fun?
Speaker 2: That is very good. Now, when was the last time
Speaker 2: you had a relationship and what happened last July?
Speaker 3: And frankly he was on paper so the relationship ended.
Speaker 2: Is it safe to think then you might have some
Speaker 2: trust issues.
Speaker 3: No, I've been in therapy since I was two. My
Speaker 3: brother passed away and him and I were never close,
Speaker 3: so I hadn't talked to him in years and that
Speaker 3: really messed me up. So I've been in therapy for
Speaker 3: a long time. So as far as trust issues, I
Speaker 3: know that he's a person not everyone's. I'm not like that, right,
Speaker 3: so I don't expect other people to be the same.
Speaker 2: I'm very sorry about your laws. That had to be
Speaker 2: very difficult. And the fact that you have continued talking
Speaker 2: to someone about all the issues or questions that you
Speaker 2: might have about life that is pretty impressive. Also, so
Speaker 2: because of all the therapy that you have taken and
Speaker 2: how you have been able to grow up from all
Speaker 2: that baggage that you were carrying. What is it that
Speaker 2: you want now?
Speaker 3: Essentially, I'm looking for a life partner. We're not getting
Speaker 3: any younger.
Speaker 6: You look wonderful for your age.
Speaker 3: But you know, I want to have kids at some point,
Speaker 3: if possible. I know millennials are not having a lot
Speaker 3: of luck having kids for whatever reason, but eventually I
Speaker 3: would like to try to have kids. So as far
Speaker 3: as a partner, I want someone who is willing to
Speaker 3: go there. It's not a necessity it I want it
Speaker 3: to be an option. I want someone who enjoys some
Speaker 3: of the similar things that I do, but they don't
Speaker 3: have to be all like I can have my own
Speaker 3: Like Dungeons and Dragons. It's a hard ass. It's a
Speaker 3: very involved game. It's not for everyone.
Speaker 2: My last husband played Dungeons and Dragons. He did I
Speaker 2: didn't see him for days.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it can be it can be a thing. But
Speaker 3: you know, I love horror films too, and that's actually
Speaker 3: a big part of who I am.
Speaker 2: But you are willing to compromise in these things that
Speaker 2: you want to do in order to spend time with
Speaker 2: your partner. Of course, make sure that you each support
Speaker 2: each other.
Speaker 3: Right, Yes, if you're making a commitment to a partner,
Speaker 3: there should be your main priority until you have kids.
Speaker 6: At least that's kind of how I see it.
Speaker 2: So what is the biggest green flag of something that
Speaker 2: you really really want in your partner?
Speaker 3: Any kind of passion for a creative endeavor? I would
Speaker 3: say it's a huge green flag for me.
Speaker 2: You like to have a lot of fun?
Speaker 3: I do, but you know, within reason.
Speaker 2: Well, what if you were at a party and you
Speaker 2: both gods so out of control that you're just dancing
Speaker 2: all over the place getting up on chairs.
Speaker 3: I will do that without getting out of control. So
Speaker 3: I'm not a big drinker, but I will still get
Speaker 3: on top of a table on death.
Speaker 2: Okay, I like that. Thank you so much, Mark, loved
Speaker 2: your answers.
Speaker 1: Fantastic. Let's bring in the next one. Hello Lewis.
Speaker 4: Hello, alright, I'm going to hand you off to our
Speaker 4: Wilita for a little take it away.
Speaker 2: Oh so cute are you Latino? See see Colombia on
Speaker 2: the Colombia in sign? And that's pretty good. I'm also
Speaker 2: South American, so yeah, but listen, what are you looking for?
Speaker 6: I think I'm looking for like a genuine connection.
Speaker 7: I think I want someone where I can be myself
Speaker 7: and you know, be outgoing and you know, someone that'll
Speaker 7: appreciate that, and someone that I can just have a
Speaker 7: good time with no matter you know, if I'm at
Speaker 7: the club or you know, family party.
Speaker 2: When was your last relationship and how long did it last?
Speaker 7: That would have been about I mean, I guess a
Speaker 7: year or two years ago, somewhere around that time.
Speaker 6: That one was about three years.
Speaker 2: That was a long time. Why did it end?
Speaker 7: She moved and then I stayed here and you know
Speaker 7: we tried long distance but it didn't really work.
Speaker 2: So what is it that you don't want in a
Speaker 2: new relationship? What kind of baggage did you bring from
Speaker 2: the past that you said, I don't want this anymore.
Speaker 7: Some people that are stuck in their ways are a
Speaker 7: little stubborn. I don't really get along with some people
Speaker 7: that like try to be, you know, on the more
Speaker 7: positive side, just because you know there's a lot of
Speaker 7: negative going.
Speaker 6: On, but what can you do about it? And you know,
Speaker 6: on the day to day that doesn't really help.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do seem like a very chill person. You are.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I would self describe myself and.
Speaker 2: You're a Wlita, what kind of advice does she give
Speaker 2: you about love?
Speaker 7: Mamilita is also a really happy, cheerful person. You know,
Speaker 7: she's the one that's you know, gossiping and knows all
Speaker 7: her neighbors. So I don't know about as outgoing as
Speaker 7: she is, but I definitely relate and try to kind
Speaker 7: of emulate that.
Speaker 2: It's very good. I love that answer because I'm a Wilita,
Speaker 2: so you know, thank you very much, my love. I
Speaker 2: appreciate your answer with a great smile.
Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you both so much for having your
Speaker 4: one on One's cafe. Will lead that, and I think
Speaker 4: it's now time to be honest with you all since
Speaker 4: you've been so honest with us. So Awita and I
Speaker 4: have been a little sneaky and we've invited our main
Speaker 4: dater to listen on everything today, meaning she's been in
Speaker 4: here in secret this.
Speaker 2: Whole time and watching.
Speaker 1: Awlita might have an idea of who she likes. But
Speaker 1: let's see if we have a unanimous decision.
Speaker 4: So muchisimus, Grassies, We're gonna ask you for a quick
Speaker 4: exit and we'll bring back our main contestant.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I will lead that. What do you think about.
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't have any doubts.
Speaker 4: You don't have any doubts. No, you don't have any No,
Speaker 4: what are you not doubting about.
Speaker 2: I'm not doubting that Ryan would have a wonderful time
Speaker 2: with this person. They would start out as amazing friends.
Speaker 2: It would be a good balance for both of them,
Speaker 2: and I think they're pretty much on the same wavelength.
Speaker 4: I have a feeling what I would eat us leading
Speaker 4: to and I'm gonna be I'm gonna throw a curveball.
Speaker 4: I can see why you're leaning towards Lewis.
Speaker 1: He's a cutie.
Speaker 2: Okay. If that is the case, then let me just
Speaker 2: put this little thing about Mark, our beautiful mandator wants
Speaker 2: to travel and do a lot of stuff. And I
Speaker 2: think that Mark is more on the clock. He is
Speaker 2: ready to not only have a wonderful relationship, and I
Speaker 2: have no doubt whatsoever about that.
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.
Speaker 2: He's a great guy. I love him dearly. He is beautiful,
Speaker 2: But his schedule is a little different than our main dator.
Speaker 2: He is ready to solidify a relationship right now and
Speaker 2: start having kids.
Speaker 4: I would have wished to have hear a bit more
Speaker 4: of Lewis's handling of past relationships. Because when I see
Speaker 4: guys that are really chill but have not given me
Speaker 4: their process around their chillness, I get a little like, hmm,
Speaker 4: what have you been resentful about that you're not communicating.
Speaker 2: But I don't think that he is chill because or
Speaker 2: he said he was chill because I asked them, I
Speaker 2: saw it, I felt him, and see. That's why you're
Speaker 2: the logic and I'm the heart. Yeah, yeah, we're gonna
Speaker 2: bring these topics. And you're very right. I should have
Speaker 2: asked one more question or two, but our main dator
Speaker 2: can do that easily. Also, that's true right away.
Speaker 1: That's true, Marian. What are your thoughts?
Speaker 2: Just say it, drop it. Yeah, but listen in regards
Speaker 2: to what Vico was saying. Yes, I didn't hear or
Speaker 2: ask any questions in regard to how he handled any
Speaker 2: of that, but he does seem like a nice person.
Speaker 2: We can't be asking all questions that need to be asked,
Speaker 2: and we can't just decide that because a person also
Speaker 2: is in therapy for a very long time, that things
Speaker 2: are as good as they should be. You know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying, There are still questions and you know, fragmented
Speaker 2: pieces from the past that still keep dropping on now
Speaker 2: questions that you might have. It is going to be
Speaker 2: up to you to make sure that that relationship gets
Speaker 2: half on the right foot.
Speaker 4: Right Yeah here, alrighty, let's bring back these two handsome fellas. Welcome,
Speaker 4: Welcome back, my goodness, nail biter, nail biter, indeed, so
Speaker 4: Wilita tell us who gets a shot at MUCHU MUCHU more?
Speaker 1: And Hawaii.
Speaker 2: Listen, guys, because I am all about love. I just
Speaker 2: hope that the person that we picked today to meet
Speaker 2: our main dater, we'll do it with an open heart
Speaker 2: and an open mind. You have both said that you
Speaker 2: want a relationship, so make sure you don't bring the
Speaker 2: mistakes of the past into this new day. And for
Speaker 2: that and beautiful other reasons, we have chosen one of
Speaker 2: you to meet our main dater, and that person is.
Speaker 1: Lewis Mark. Thank you so so much for your time.
Speaker 2: Thank you member.
Speaker 4: You're hilarious and creative answers. You definitely know your horror.
Speaker 4: I have not left in the moment that you're like
Speaker 4: I'm gonna dig a hole and like put them all there.
Speaker 1: That was freaking hilarious. Thank you. So so much. You're
Speaker 1: so sweet, almost a big D and D fan.
Speaker 4: So Hell's yeah, thank you guys, thank you that day,
Speaker 4: Take it easily, good luck.
Speaker 1: And then there was one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so Lewis, let's go ahead and introduce you to Marian.
Speaker 4: Go ahead and turn on your camera. Marian, what are
Speaker 4: your first impressions on Lewis?
Speaker 5: I like, favorite to him since the beginning, So I'm
Speaker 5: so glad that you made it to the end.
Speaker 1: Hells, yes, Lewis first impressions.
Speaker 6: She's very pretty. I like the chucky doll in the back.
Speaker 1: It's hanging in there, observant. All right, well, now.
Speaker 4: We're gonna send ar contestants away for a little virtual dates.
Speaker 2: Just have fun, cuties, please have fun.
Speaker 5: My nickname is Ryan. I don't know if that's what's
Speaker 5: showing up on your screen. It's probably still producer. Ye, yes, yeah,
Speaker 5: that is my name. When you were talking about how
Speaker 5: like you would invite like all the monsters and stuff
Speaker 5: to like have drinks and stuff, yeah that's perfect. And
Speaker 5: then when you were saying about like how you would
Speaker 5: want someone who is like fun and like optimistic and
Speaker 5: someone that you can bring around like family, Yeah, I
Speaker 5: was like, Yo, this boy is describing me.
Speaker 7: So yeah, yeah, you know, I don't know a lot
Speaker 7: about you, but I can kind of feel that. Oh yeah,
Speaker 7: I know, get energy, your cheerfulness. You know, I'm thinking, yeah,
Speaker 7: I was very curious to see you know what you
Speaker 7: look like.
Speaker 6: And you know, I was like, okay, we'll play the game.
Speaker 5: And I know it's been fun. I hope that, like,
Speaker 5: you're not disappointed.
Speaker 6: I am not at all.
Speaker 1: How old are you again?
Speaker 6: I am thirty three?
Speaker 5: Oh perfect, because I just turned twenty nine. I just
Speaker 5: celebrated a birthday. So when on the twenty fifth of February.
Speaker 6: Okay, gotcha.
Speaker 5: I'm like used to dating men who are a bit younger.
Speaker 5: I don't know why, like they just tend to be
Speaker 5: So I was like hoping to meet someone older.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think I think that's the right ratio to go.
Speaker 7: You know, older got younger girls.
Speaker 5: So yeah, I think. So have you been to Colombia?
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I.
Speaker 6: Try to go every so often. I was there maybe
Speaker 6: what a year now?
Speaker 3: Ago?
Speaker 5: Maybe you can take me because I hear good things
Speaker 5: about it.
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, I'd love to take you.
Speaker 5: I just came back from Costa Rica, okay literally on Saturday.
Speaker 6: Oh, nice. I'd you like it?
Speaker 5: I loved it. I was there for like ten days.
Speaker 5: It was one of those like social travel solo groups.
Speaker 6: Okay, that's cool.
Speaker 5: Have you been before Yeah yeah, a while ago, but
Speaker 5: yeah I remember the Yeah do you like Do you
Speaker 5: like to travel?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I try to travel. Take at least a one
Speaker 6: big trip a year.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 7: Done, South America, done, Europe, Central America.
Speaker 6: So yeah, try to get out there. How about you?
Speaker 5: Nice? Yeah, this travel book been me so hard that
Speaker 5: I'm low key thinking about like quitting my job just
Speaker 5: to travel for like six months or something.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: That's always nice.
Speaker 5: But I think it would be fun came out and
Speaker 5: get to know each other.
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, let's go get some drinks.
Speaker 5: You know. Do you have weekdays free?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Maybe Wednesday tomorrow? Is that tomorrow?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm off tomorrow, so I work out.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, let's kick it off strong.
Speaker 1: Well wow wow wow. I hope those sweeties hit it off.
Speaker 4: Find us back here next week as Leanna and I
Speaker 4: make some more matches.
Speaker 2: Good work today, Ali, Oh we did good, But I
Speaker 2: like what I'm looking at.
Speaker 1: Date my Ali.
Speaker 4: The first is a production from WV Sound and I
Speaker 4: heart Media's Michaultura podcast network, hosted by me Vico Ortiz,
Speaker 4: joined by the fabulous Lena Montenegro date My Houri. The
Speaker 4: first is produced by Leo Klem, Nico Raquel and Sophie
Speaker 4: Spencer Zavos or Executive producer are Wilmer Valder Alma, Leo
Speaker 4: Clem and Nico Raguelt WV Sound. This episode was edited
Speaker 4: by Sean Tracy and Sophie Spencer Zalos and features original
Speaker 4: music by Alvara Morello and Gabe Lobez. Special things also
Speaker 4: to our hopeful romantics this week, Marian Lewis Mark and Sahio.
Speaker 1: Additional thanks to Solid in Lime Media.
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Speaker 1: See you next week and in the meantime, Don't do
Speaker 1: anything Awanita wouldn't do.
Speaker 2: Just do it better, Okay, Thesitos