WEBVTT - Unlearn Everything ( Jason Wilson Interview) 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:09.920 I don't sit down is becoming the most prominent form 0:00:09.920 --> 0:00:11.880 for you. What yo ass up early in the morning, 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:14.239 But they tell me it was y'all. I say, hell yeah, 0:00:14.240 --> 0:00:19.640 I'm getting small ship free people's choice. Actually, let's see, 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:23.279 I've got you shoomading god people. I can't believe you 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:26.800 guys are the basket? Did we know this prekface club petition? 0:00:29.520 --> 0:00:32.479 Good morning Usa yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.239 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:34.280 --> 0:00:36.159 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:38.120 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:41.640 yo yo yo, Good morning Angelo, Ye good money v 0:00:41.880 --> 0:00:47.880 Chola mine the guy piece to the plane. It is Tuesday, Yes, 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:51.239 it's tuesday. Hing is what's happening? How's everybody feeling out? Then? 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.400 How you guys doing? I'm blessed black and Holly favor man, 0:00:54.480 --> 0:00:56.640 God is good man. It's another dead life. Man. You 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:59.160 know you gotta send everybody positive energy, love and like 0:00:59.640 --> 0:01:03.120 beat before another day. You woke up this morning, you're breathing, 0:01:03.800 --> 0:01:06.440 might be a little under the weather, but you're still here. Okay, 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:09.840 so be happy now. Question now, have you got I 0:01:09.880 --> 0:01:11.920 know I know we were talking about a long time 0:01:11.959 --> 0:01:14.160 Anthony Ramos came up a month ago. Did you guys 0:01:14.200 --> 0:01:16.400 see The Heights the movie? No? I didn't. I didn't 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:19.039 see it. Oh my goodness, that movie is good. Drop 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:23.800 a bomb for Anthony Ramos and nights. I just seen it. Yeah, 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:25.480 I seen it on on a plane ride and my 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:28.360 goodness it was. I watched it on the plane ride back. 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:31.200 And then my daughter who was taking acting classes, she's 0:01:31.200 --> 0:01:33.640 really into acting. I watched it with her last night 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:38.039 and it was really really dope, like surprisingly like I 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:42.000 thought it. I knew it was good, but think now 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:52.360 critically acclaimed Mirandas and didn't see it. Well, I went 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:54.640 to the plane. He's great. I'm gonna tell you why, 0:01:54.800 --> 0:01:57.760 because I'm not gonna lie when I seen a movie 0:01:57.800 --> 0:01:59.840 and they're gonna they rapping and singing in the movie. 0:02:00.080 --> 0:02:03.120 The movie goes like Hamilton, Hamilton, but not in the 0:02:03.240 --> 0:02:06.200 movie for him. That's a play. How are you talking about? Yeah? 0:02:06.200 --> 0:02:07.960 But you know, and The Heights was a play first. Yes, 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:10.680 I know that as a full movie for two hours 0:02:10.680 --> 0:02:12.840 and twenty minutes, there's no way that I thought it 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:14.680 was going to be that good. And keep me You've 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.400 never seen them musical, not in a movie for him, 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:21.080 not as a movie whiz yeah, as a kid. But 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:25.919 talking about yeah, those were kiddy movies. Those were kids. 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:29.600 Musicals are musical music. This was a grown up musical 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:32.080 and I love grown up I enjoyed it. Like West 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:34.560 Side Story, I didn't see West Side Story. It doesn't 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:37.760 surprise me that Lynn Manuel Miranda made something dope, and 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.760 that was before Hamilton, and that was a critically acclaimed 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:42.959 play before that happens. No, but I've seen it last 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:44.920 yesterday on the plane and I just thought it was great. 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:46.920 So there's a couple of curses in there, but you know, 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:49.880 it was fine for my daughter, who was eight years old. 0:02:49.880 --> 0:02:52.400 But we really enjoyed it. I really thought it was great. 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:55.000 Man good shout out to Anthony Man Brooklyn Zone. And 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:57.480 I think I think there was two hours and twenty minutes. 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:59.760 I was well entertained for two hours and twenty minutes 0:02:59.760 --> 0:03:02.560 on that flight. Okay, So if you haven't seen The Heights, 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:04.160 like my guys in here to talk about it was 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:06.080 critically claim they haven't seen it, go watch it because 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:08.200 it's really really and The Woods is not a kiddy movie, 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:10.720 by the way. There's people getting killed in the Woods. 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:12.959 Have you ever guys. Ever seen this movie um called 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:17.919 The Hangover. I heard it's funny, it's a comedy. You 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:21.720 heard of it? Have you guys? Have you guys critically 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:24.040 acclaim you took all this issue? You know, I don't 0:03:24.040 --> 0:03:28.760 think the Non Heights sadly wasn't critically somebody didn't. No, 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:31.359 no, no no, not not the movie play. It was definitely 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:33.359 and that's why they ended up making it into a movie. 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:35.400 The movie didn't do well at the box office, and 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:38.200 they didn't get good reviews because they said that, but 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:39.760 they had they had issues with the fact that there 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:43.440 weren't any dark There weren't any dark skin um Latino 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.720 people in it, and it wasn't a good representation, and 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:48.760 they apologize for it and everything. So that was some 0:03:48.840 --> 0:03:50.680 of the issues that they had with it. It did 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:54.560 forty three point nine million at the box office. All right, Well, 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:56.480 let's get the show cracking front page news. What we're 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:58.520 talking about. Hello, we got a guest today, man, the 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:02.000 Good Brother, Jason Wilson from Detroit will be here this morning. 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:06.120 He has an organization called Union. You know, he's fourteen 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:08.960 years of experience in training and developing young black men. 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.280 You know, if you've seen online. You know, you see 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.520 the brother who teaches young black men how to deal 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:18.480 with their trauma through martial arts. That's mister Jason Wilson. Okay, 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:20.400 so he'll be here this morning. He's got a documentary 0:04:20.400 --> 0:04:23.440 coming out that Lawrence Fishburn is doing about his life. 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:25.520 He got a couple of books out called Battle Cry 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:27.599 and Cry Like a Man, and he'll be here to 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:29.440 talk to us this morning. All right, Well, let's get 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:31.680 the show cracking front page news. What we're talking about, Well, 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:36.279 the Raiders coach John Gruden has resigned over these misogynistic 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:38.839 and homophobic emails. All right, we'll get into that next. 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:42.240 It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, everybody is DJ mvy 0:04:42.360 --> 0:04:45.000 Angela yee Charlemagne the guy we are to Breakfast Club 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:50.000 is getting some front page news now. Monday Night football, 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.720 the Ravens beat the Coats thirty one twenty five. All right, 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:57.039 Now at w NBA Finals is tomorrow, Chicago takes on 0:04:57.160 --> 0:05:01.359 the Mercury Phoenix Mercury. The game is at PM two motto. 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:04.200 All right, what else we got you? Well, John Gruden 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.719 has resigned as head coach of the Las Vegas Raiders. 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:08.320 He said, I love the Raiders and do not want 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:11.000 to be a distraction. Thank you to all the players, coaches, 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:14.160 staff and fans of Raider Nation. I'm sorry. I never 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:18.800 meant to hurt anyone. And the owner of the Las 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:22.320 Vegas Raiders actually accepted that resignation and so in the 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:26.000 meantime their assistant will be the interim head coach. So 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:28.880 there was a revelation about an email, initially that John 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:32.400 Gruden has sent out that contained some racist comments regarding 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:35.080 the head of the Players Association Association for the NFL, 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:38.640 Demorris Smith, and then they did an investigation and found 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:42.119 other emails. Now, this first email initially said Don Morris 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.840 Smith has ellipse the size of Michelin tires. He said 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:47.479 he Gruden said he wasn't a racist, But then The 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:50.000 New York Times reported that there were other emails that 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:53.000 were sent there were also unearthed as part of this investigation. 0:05:53.400 --> 0:05:56.320 They said he used anti gay slurs. He referred to 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:59.520 Roger Goodell, the NFL commissioner, as a something that runs 0:05:59.560 --> 0:06:01.560 with Maggie yes, the gay sword that starts with the 0:06:01.640 --> 0:06:06.080 F and the clueless anti football vagina. Also in an 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:09.599 email that Goodell shouldn't have pressured the Saint Louis Rams 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:12.440 coach at the time, Jeff Fisher, to draft queers, which 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:14.480 was a reference to Michael Sam, who was the first 0:06:14.520 --> 0:06:17.200 openly gay player drafted by the NFL in twenty fourteen. 0:06:17.600 --> 0:06:20.280 There were also emails where he criticized the hiring of 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.960 women as referees and also the acceptance of players protesting 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:27.120 for racial justice during the national anthem. They also said 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:30.240 there were photos of topless women that he was exchanging, 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:35.200 including one of the cheerleaders. So those are some of 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:37.359 the things that they found in these emails. Yeah, I 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:39.960 mean the big lip thing, that's definitely a racist trope. 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:42.320 But there's from gray area because you could say I 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.080 wasn't being racist. I just made a comment about the 0:06:44.080 --> 0:06:45.599 size of his lips. But you know, the F word, 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.160 that's a gay slur. And you know, calling Michael Sam 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:51.120 the key word. That's not up for debate, is it. 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:54.960 It's pretty cut and dry. It's pretty clear. So he 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:59.400 has since resigned and the players have reacted. You know, 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:01.719 us as a team, we were like, yeah, coach, it 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:03.280 was ten years ago. We love you, man, we got 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.479 your back. We're just trying to be there a support coach. 0:07:05.520 --> 0:07:07.000 I know, it's a hard time for him. He told 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:09.520 this man learned from my mistake when we left that meeting. 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:11.640 We didn't take it as how it came out. So 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:13.960 he said he could see how. According to Las Vegas 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.880 quarterback Derek Carr, he said the team did rally around 0:07:16.880 --> 0:07:20.680 growding after Friday's meeting and they acknowledged they could see 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:23.280 how the emails would offend and hurt that the words 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:28.480 have caused you think, but you know what it is is. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:31.240 Originally the email was from two thou eleven, but some 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:33.679 of these emails go up to I think twenty eighteen. 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:36.600 So it don't feel like Michael Sam was that long ago. 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:40.120 When it was the Michael Sama fourteen, I think, I 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:41.560 don't feel like that was that long ago. Yeah, that 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:44.440 was twenty fourteen. All right, Well that is your front 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:46.640 page news, all right, get it off your chess eight 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.160 five eight five one o five one. If you need 0:07:49.160 --> 0:07:50.920 to vent phone lines to wide open, hit this up now. 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:57.440 It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. I'm 0:07:57.520 --> 0:08:03.000 telling I'm telling you if this is your time to 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:07.760 get it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed, one, 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:11.200 we want to hear from you. On the breakfast clause, Hello, 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:14.880 who's this? Indeed Colim for Hall been in Jordan. Let's up, broke, 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:16.760 get it off your chest, man. I just thought of 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:20.240 my own independence record company because we ain't got that 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:22.640 down here, like hey, Lina, Jordian dude and my wife 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:25.480 had gone crazy. Well you know why because back in 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:28.760 the day the Streets and Savannah cut their nose off 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:32.800 despite their face because the good brother Camouflage got murdered. 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:36.600 You know what I mean, Pure Pure Paint Records would 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.800 have definitely put the van on the map. And that's 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.800 why the hood got to stop cannibalizing its own because 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:43.959 sometimes you take out the same people that were sent 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:46.840 to help you. You're right about that, Uncle Charlotte. So 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:48.959 all I'm saying suit the Pure Paint Records man, r 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:52.520 ip Camouflage from good luck with your company. Brother, Thank y'all? 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:57.120 All right, bro? Hello, who's this? Good morning? Good if 0:08:57.160 --> 0:09:00.720 your chest all right? Are you doing? Answer? They dj 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:04.760 mvy Charlomagne the GUARDI how you doing? Black? You know 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:08.840 I'm doing good? About God's graces. I wanted to call 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:11.679 in and somebody said in passing, you know, back when 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:14.840 everything was going on with Haiti. Why does America hate 0:09:14.840 --> 0:09:17.000 Haiti so much? And I just wanted to you know, 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:20.200 gives you guys some sacks. Okay, you know everybody knows 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:22.520 that we were the first to take our freedom. You know, 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:26.320 they hate us for that. Yeah, we also when we 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:30.280 did so, you know, we offered freedom to any American 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:33.160 that can come over to Haiti who can make it. 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:37.200 A lot of people don't know that. France also came 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:41.960 back twenty twenty years later and basically demanded that we 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:46.480 give them back their property, i e. The slaves and uh, 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:50.400 they basically forced us to pay them one hundred and 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:53.480 fifty million francs, which is about twenty one billion, you 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:58.960 know dollars. Also, America also came to Haiti back in 0:09:59.160 --> 0:10:02.920 nineteen four team and stole about five hundred thousand dollars 0:10:02.960 --> 0:10:07.839 you know, so all of that was levied by America 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:11.160 City Bank. They took that five hundred did he even 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:14.200 put it towards the debt and basically stole a lot 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:17.400 of money from France. So I would also feel like 0:10:17.520 --> 0:10:21.160 that it's grounds for you know, if they were ever 0:10:21.679 --> 0:10:25.360 to give you know, reparations that they owe us money. Also, 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:28.640 you know a lot of Americans also don't know that 0:10:29.120 --> 0:10:34.400 Haiti played a lot roles in America's history, like we 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:40.120 fought in the Civil War. We actually there was a 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:44.360 Haitian by the name of John Baptist point Do Stab 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:49.720 who founded Chicago. And also four Haitians flew with the 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:53.600 Tuskegee Airmen, you know. So the craziest thing is that 0:10:53.679 --> 0:10:56.240 we asked France for reparations back to two thousand and 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:59.960 four and they essentially gave us the middle finger. You know, 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.360 they hate that we took our freedom first. Uh. We 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:08.079 played a lot of roles in america history and the 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:11.360 haters for it, well, thank you for the history. Lesson 0:11:11.559 --> 0:11:13.800 for the history. Lesson, Brothers, get it off your chests. 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:16.520 Eight hundred five eight five one on five one. If 0:11:16.559 --> 0:11:18.079 you need to vent, hit us up now. It's the 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:25.400 breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club. This is your 0:11:25.400 --> 0:11:27.120 time to get it off your chest. Whether you're man 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:31.880 from you on the breakfast clubs, you got something on 0:11:31.920 --> 0:11:35.959 your mind? Hello, who's this good? More than DJ Hanvy? 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:41.000 This court? You from Atlanta? Bro Get off your chests. Bro, 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.120 I just got a blend of y'all in Midklett a 0:11:43.120 --> 0:11:45.400 little bit. I just need all of y'all in the 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:48.280 studio for a week, every last one of y'all. It's 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:51.240 like missing your cousins and your your favorite cousins. May's 0:11:51.240 --> 0:11:53.360 given dNaM when you know, all y'all not there. So 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:55.679 I need all y'all diver like a week in the 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:59.880 studio together. Everybody's here right now? Oh oh bet bet 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:01.719 I'm gonna going and watching on YouTube when I get 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:08.000 off the juice. Yeah, I got you from Mersings down 0:12:08.040 --> 0:12:13.400 here in Atlanta and Atlanta you need some juices, okay, juice? 0:12:13.760 --> 0:12:18.000 All right? Right now? Hello? Who's this yo? We have 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:21.680 solved it's deading. Good morning guys. Yeah, what's up? So 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:25.320 I'm actually going to see air because I do night 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:28.599 shout out hers in so many Kansas. The thing is, 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:31.679 you gotta either have a vaccination card or a show 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:35.120 that you or negative, which I just think it's so 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:38.360 I don't mind taking a COVID test. But I just like, 0:12:38.880 --> 0:12:41.280 why do you think that's stupid? They gave you two options. 0:12:41.320 --> 0:12:43.160 You either got to have a car to be get 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:45.160 a negative test. What's wrong with that? That's the world 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:48.240 we live in now, right, But what stupid is I 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:51.880 don't mind taking a COVID test, right, negatived? But what 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:53.640 about the people who have a COVID test? You can 0:12:53.720 --> 0:12:56.400 still get COVID. I don't understand what you're saying. I'm 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.640 saying I have to get a COVID test. Fun huh, 0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:03.640 I don't care about that, right, what's I don't know? 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:07.960 Samonica right, she is vaccinated, but she could still have COVID. 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:10.520 I get. That's what you're saying is even if you're vaccinated, 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:13.200 you should still have to take a test, right, Okay, 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:16.400 I agree? So they don't you know you just got 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:21.440 okay yeah, most places, Yeah, most places, even when you 0:13:21.440 --> 0:13:24.000 show your card, you still got to take a test. Man. No, 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:29.240 but well either way you get to see miss bob 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:31.560 do look at the bright side. I mean I don't. 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:34.600 But what about the first one they might have? Right? 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:36.760 She don't want to get COVID from a vaccinated person. 0:13:36.880 --> 0:13:40.280 Now that's true too. Well, hopefully um Erica bod smudges 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:42.840 the whole arena so that keeps the COVID up. Hello, 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:52.520 who's this? What's yo? Man? I heard this whole little Friday. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:56.120 Somebody t had to hate on you, yo, And it's 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:58.079 crazy because if you're the same woman that was in 0:13:58.200 --> 0:14:01.800 my DMS, Colia, you failed to mention that show? Are 0:14:01.920 --> 0:14:08.520 you man? Like, excuse me? I don't hit my dms 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:10.400 and then blocked me when I don't want you because 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:13.720 black men don't. She like said, the girl that calls 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:15.640 up here trying to talk crazy about you was in 0:14:15.720 --> 0:14:18.240 your DMS. I think this is the one because like 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:21.200 literally she said, yo, I'm like, she try to hit 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:23.480 me up and I'm like, yeah, chill, you know black No, 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:25.000 she you know what I mean. Next thing I know, 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:26.600 I'm blocked and I got I'm here in the cool 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:29.240 that I'm a can fish like it's two plus to 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:31.160 its full. I think it was her, like I said, man, 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:33.040 your body going backwards, like you couldn't have had me 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:35.440 what I was single or not? Like why she body? Why? 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:38.880 Why was she body shaming you? Thokay yo? She she 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:45.560 built like me. Okay, listen to me, I think so okay, Well, 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:48.680 salute to both of y'all. It wasn't mean now when 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:50.640 she called up here doing all that for no reason, 0:14:51.480 --> 0:14:54.360 like barun talk about trifling, because you know what, I'm 0:14:54.400 --> 0:14:57.400 in a relationship and you're still try to shot okay, right, 0:14:57.520 --> 0:15:00.360 everybody knows mellow got a girl, all right, mellow, black 0:15:00.360 --> 0:15:05.080 men don't cheat king exactly, black men don't get it 0:15:05.120 --> 0:15:07.560 off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one oh 0:15:07.600 --> 0:15:09.440 five one. Now we got rumors on the way. Yes, 0:15:09.480 --> 0:15:13.040 and how is Netflix responding to these demands to pull 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.440 down Dave Chappelle's special. We'll tell you what the co 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:18.160 CEO has to say. All right, we'll get into that next. 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:28.480 It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, The Breakfast Club's filling 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:31.840 the team. This is the rumor report with Angela Yee 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:35.880 on the Breakfast Club. Well, people are still torn on 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:39.160 how they feel about Dave Chappelle's special The Closer, but 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:43.080 a top Netflix executive co CEO Tes Surrondos says that 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:46.480 they are not going to pull down that special off 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:49.480 of Netflix. He told managers that some talent may join 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.600 third parties and calling for the show's ren movements, and 0:15:51.640 --> 0:15:54.560 he said, we are not going to do that. And 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:59.040 so as much as people are saying pull it down, 0:15:59.120 --> 0:16:01.800 pull it down, it's not gonna happen. He made some 0:16:01.840 --> 0:16:04.240 statements about stand up comedy that I thought we were 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:07.960 really dopeful. Basically, I don't I'm paraphrasing it. We basically 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:09.840 said that's what stand up comedy is forced here to, 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:12.000 you know, push the limit. I just hope he feels 0:16:12.000 --> 0:16:16.360 like that about everybody, not just Dave Chappelle. Yeah, I mean, 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:19.000 I also think that when it comes to comedy and 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:21.280 pushing the limit, that has to be like thoughtfulness and 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:24.280 purpose behind what you say, because some people just say 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:26.560 things for the sake of being shocking too. And if 0:16:26.600 --> 0:16:30.040 it's not funny and it's not thoughtful, then it doesn't work. 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:32.000 Even if it's funny and thoughtful, looking still a fan, 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:33.720 and I mean and it's still and it's still can 0:16:33.840 --> 0:16:36.000 a fan. But I think that if it's based in something, 0:16:36.040 --> 0:16:39.400 and it's gonna still be divisive, right, And Flay Munroe 0:16:39.440 --> 0:16:41.640 was actually on Don Lemon and here's what you had 0:16:41.680 --> 0:16:44.480 to say about Dave Chappelle. And I think that he 0:16:44.520 --> 0:16:47.000 has opened up an opportunity for us to come to 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:50.360 the table and have real conversations done about this. The 0:16:50.520 --> 0:16:53.800 problem is we keep sitting disgrown through the angry people 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:55.760 with the fistballs up, and they face it with an 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:58.120 attitude to come to the table. If you come to 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:00.680 the table already with an attitude, you will never hear 0:17:00.680 --> 0:17:02.720 what I'm saying, and I will never hear what you 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:05.359 saying if we don't take the time to have real 0:17:05.400 --> 0:17:08.840 conversations with real people in the community that represent you 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:11.360 can't come with an already agenda, so we can let 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:13.440 down the smoke screen between us and them, so that 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:15.760 would just be in us. He pretty much said that 0:17:15.800 --> 0:17:18.000 we are so much more alike than we are different. 0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:20.520 And I'm telling you you hear what you want to hear. 0:17:20.880 --> 0:17:22.359 Drop on a clue bumps for Flame on the road. 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:24.560 That's why I love Flame. Flame is always down to 0:17:24.600 --> 0:17:26.680 have a conversation of dialogues we can get to a 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:29.480 place of understanding. That's why Flames podcast is appropriately called 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:31.720 Laugh and Learn and it's available on the Black Affect 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:35.000 I Heart Radio podcast network. Thank you all right, Now, 0:17:35.440 --> 0:17:38.280 as far as there was some other people who were 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.359 speaking out in the family of Daphne, who is the 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:45.880 LGBTQ person that she that Dave Chappelle addresses in the closer, 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:49.119 He refers to Daphne who killed hself out under attack 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:51.960 for sticking up for Dave Chappelle over some of his 0:17:52.119 --> 0:17:54.760 earlier things that he had to say about the trans community. 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:57.600 Here is the actually what Dave Chappell had to say 0:17:57.600 --> 0:18:00.280 on The Closer about Daphne. One of the coolest people 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:03.040 that I ever met was a transgender woman lived in 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:06.320 San Francisco. Daphne Dowarman is a name. I would do 0:18:06.400 --> 0:18:08.879 eighteen shows in the Babe and she would be there, 0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:12.440 a white trans woman, laughing loud and hard at everything 0:18:12.520 --> 0:18:15.960 I said, especially the trans jokes. And one night after 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:18.600 one of the shows I met up. Turns out it 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:21.040 was their dream to be a comedian and I was 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:24.520 a hero. It's very moving. I could not dislike somebody 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:27.840 that felt that way about me. We became fast friends. 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:30.560 And when I made that special Sticks and Stones, right 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:32.520 as it was coming out, I happened to be in 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:34.800 San Francisco and I wanted to do a show, but 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:36.879 I needed an opening that so I called her on 0:18:36.920 --> 0:18:41.440 the phone and she was like, yeah, all right. In addition, 0:18:41.520 --> 0:18:44.119 here is what Dave Chappelle had to say about Daphne 0:18:44.200 --> 0:18:47.600 actually taking her own life. When Sticks and Stones came out, 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:50.159 a lot of people in the trans community were furious 0:18:50.160 --> 0:18:52.199 with me, and the hardest thing for a person to 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:55.600 do is go against their tribe. But Daphne did that 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:59.560 for me. And when she did that, the trans community 0:19:00.119 --> 0:19:03.720 dragged that bitch are all over Twitter. But six days 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:06.840 after that wonderful night, I described to you, my friend 0:19:06.920 --> 0:19:10.639 Daphne killed herself. I don't know if it was them Dragon, 0:19:10.680 --> 0:19:11.960 I don't know what's going on in her life, but 0:19:12.000 --> 0:19:16.000 I bet Dragon her didn't help. This is a good conversation, 0:19:16.240 --> 0:19:18.600 which man, and this walks to a really good conversation 0:19:18.600 --> 0:19:20.480 because you know, you can't tell people how to react, 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:23.000 and you can't tell people you know what should and 0:19:23.000 --> 0:19:25.000 shouldn't offend them. But I wonder if the folks who 0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:29.680 are outraged know that their intentions are actually malicious. Dave 0:19:29.760 --> 0:19:32.359 Chappelle's are not. So Dave said something his intention is 0:19:32.359 --> 0:19:34.600 to be funny. You reply to Dave, but your intention 0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:38.399 is actually to be hurtful because you feel Dave hurt you. 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:40.719 Or what if that hurt you were projecting that you 0:19:40.760 --> 0:19:43.959 took out on Dave and Daphne contributed to her taking 0:19:43.960 --> 0:19:47.840 her life. Now, Daphne's sisters have since defended Dave Chappelle. 0:19:48.160 --> 0:19:51.800 They said, Dave loved my sister and as an LGBTQ ally, 0:19:52.000 --> 0:19:55.159 his entire set was begging to end this very situation. 0:19:55.880 --> 0:19:59.119 And what He's saying to the LGBTQ family, is I 0:19:59.160 --> 0:20:00.920 see you? Do you see me? I'm morning my friend 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:02.879 in the best way I know. How can you see me? 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:05.760 Can you allow me that? And she called to set 0:20:05.760 --> 0:20:11.000 a call to come together and according to you know 0:20:11.119 --> 0:20:14.520 other messages, Becky, who his Daphne's sister, also said she 0:20:14.560 --> 0:20:16.600 did not find his jokes real recruit, off coloring, off 0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:20.320 putting anything. She thought his jokes were funny and Daphney 0:20:20.359 --> 0:20:22.800 understood humor and comedy. She was not offended. Why would 0:20:22.800 --> 0:20:25.800 her family be offended? So that is the family speaking out. 0:20:26.000 --> 0:20:28.760 Have anyone from the trans community responded to you know, 0:20:29.680 --> 0:20:34.200 possibly that rhetoric, you know, pushing Daphne over the edge 0:20:34.359 --> 0:20:37.520 her being? You know? Now, I haven't seen. I haven't 0:20:37.520 --> 0:20:41.439 seen people addressed that specifically. But I did see that 0:20:41.480 --> 0:20:44.359 Netflix has suspended three employees, and those three employees did 0:20:44.400 --> 0:20:48.760 crash a meeting of its top executives, including and a 0:20:48.800 --> 0:20:53.480 trans person who criticized the Dave Chappelle special terror Field, 0:20:53.760 --> 0:20:56.720 a senior software engineer based in San Francisco, was among 0:20:56.720 --> 0:21:00.400 those who were suspended for crashing this meeting and failed 0:21:00.440 --> 0:21:03.639 identifies as queer and trans and had actually done a 0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:08.080 series of posts on Twitter saying I work at Netflix. 0:21:08.160 --> 0:21:10.639 Yesterday we launched another Chappelle special where he attacks the 0:21:10.680 --> 0:21:13.880 trans community and at the very validity of transness, all 0:21:13.920 --> 0:21:16.840 while trying to pit us against other marginalized groups. You're 0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:18.960 going to hear a lot of talk about offense. We 0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:21.639 are not offended. Being trans is actually pretty funny if 0:21:21.640 --> 0:21:24.639 you're someone who actually knows about the subject matter and 0:21:25.240 --> 0:21:29.400 goes on to discuss the reasons why she is offended. Now, 0:21:29.440 --> 0:21:33.280 other people who were offended by this, TS Madison had 0:21:33.359 --> 0:21:36.160 some things to say on social media. Now. TS Madison 0:21:36.600 --> 0:21:40.240 has actually not seen the special, but here's what she 0:21:40.320 --> 0:21:43.680 had to say. Bitch. What I said was I was 0:21:43.800 --> 0:21:47.200 not watching it because I was exhausted with the conversations 0:21:47.200 --> 0:21:50.400 wrapped around it. And I also said, you can't tell 0:21:50.440 --> 0:21:53.639 people what to be offended by. I said, if you 0:21:53.760 --> 0:21:56.399 mother got feel some type of way about anything that 0:21:56.440 --> 0:21:59.560 you've seen or any whatever, and you feel something, bitch, 0:21:59.600 --> 0:22:02.040 I stay scrap y'all beaches. We all on my page 0:22:02.040 --> 0:22:05.080 with this damn transphobic as this is the rhetoric that 0:22:05.160 --> 0:22:07.879 comes with it. I mean, how weet, How can we 0:22:07.880 --> 0:22:09.760 get to a place of understanding though. We can't stay 0:22:09.760 --> 0:22:11.399 in this space of just going back and forth with 0:22:11.400 --> 0:22:13.600 each other, right, Like, it's got to be a conversation. 0:22:13.640 --> 0:22:15.760 That's that's had to get everybody to a proper place 0:22:15.760 --> 0:22:17.879 of understanding, because I don't think anybody's intention is to 0:22:17.880 --> 0:22:22.080 see anybody harmed or want anybody harmed. Right right, Well, 0:22:22.160 --> 0:22:25.679 you know the conversation is happening. I mean, that's something. 0:22:26.040 --> 0:22:28.439 It's happening, But that's want to know what's the end goal, Like, 0:22:28.440 --> 0:22:30.880 what's the place of understanding are we trying to get? There? 0:22:30.880 --> 0:22:33.960 Were just all, you know, yelling and screaming at each other. Well, 0:22:33.960 --> 0:22:36.280 we can continue to discuss this morning, but that is 0:22:36.320 --> 0:22:38.640 your rumor report. All right, we got front page news. Next, 0:22:38.640 --> 0:22:40.800 what we're talking about, Yes, are you planning to get 0:22:40.800 --> 0:22:43.000 this booster shot? Well, there might be some more things 0:22:43.000 --> 0:22:45.680 that are being cleared to make it more accessible for you, 0:22:45.760 --> 0:22:47.680 all right, we'll get into that. Next is to Breakfast Club. 0:22:47.680 --> 0:22:51.080 Good morning, So Breakfast Club, your mornings will never be 0:22:51.200 --> 0:22:54.520 the same. Our audible pick of the day is seven 0:22:54.640 --> 0:22:57.600 Years by Terik Chatter, one of hip hop's greatest mcs, 0:22:57.680 --> 0:23:01.240 narrates his life story and this beach memoir It's part 0:23:01.240 --> 0:23:03.920 of Audible's Words and Music series. Your first thirty days 0:23:03.920 --> 0:23:06.119 of Audible are free when you sign up at audible 0:23:06.200 --> 0:23:13.040 dot com. Slash Breakfast Club Morning, everybody is DJ Envy, 0:23:13.200 --> 0:23:16.040 Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. 0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:20.560 Let's get some front page news and Monday night football 0:23:20.560 --> 0:23:23.240 the Ravens beat the Colts thirty one twenty five. Now 0:23:23.240 --> 0:23:25.440 what else are you talking about? You? Well? A TikTok 0:23:25.560 --> 0:23:29.240 user name Brianna had some issues when her toddler actually 0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:32.200 put her on Instagram live while she was taking a shower, 0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:35.760 so her young daughter accidentally broadcaster. She said she gave 0:23:35.760 --> 0:23:37.640 her tyler her cell phone to play a game while 0:23:37.680 --> 0:23:39.639 she was in the shower. It was a preschool learning 0:23:39.680 --> 0:23:41.960 game that she plays often. Next thing I know, she's 0:23:42.040 --> 0:23:44.240 knocking on my door asking me to help her fix something. 0:23:44.640 --> 0:23:46.080 I of course to her to come in so I 0:23:46.080 --> 0:23:47.800 can help so she can keep playing. She hands me 0:23:47.840 --> 0:23:50.159 the phone while I'm in the shower. I quickly realized 0:23:50.160 --> 0:23:52.960 that my phone is broadcasting live on Instagram in my 0:23:53.040 --> 0:23:56.639 hand while I'm in the shower. How many followers, yeah, 0:23:56.720 --> 0:23:59.080 she said, no idea? How many people saw it? She said, 0:23:59.080 --> 0:24:01.280 I deleted it so quick. I didn't see any of that, 0:24:01.600 --> 0:24:04.240 so goodness gracious, And just to put it out there, 0:24:04.280 --> 0:24:07.520 a lot of people are talking about this feature called 0:24:07.560 --> 0:24:10.840 guided Access, which can restrict an iPhone to a single app, 0:24:10.880 --> 0:24:12.439 So you guys can have that on there if you 0:24:12.520 --> 0:24:16.280 let your child play with your cell phone. All right, now, 0:24:16.280 --> 0:24:19.040 the United States is moving closer to clearing Maderner and 0:24:19.240 --> 0:24:22.760 Johnson and Johnson for these COVID booster shots, and they're 0:24:22.800 --> 0:24:26.520 saying panel is meeting this week to debate these extra doses, 0:24:26.840 --> 0:24:29.560 and they're hoping that these booster shots will ensure a 0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:33.160 long term and endurable protection against COVID. They said, even 0:24:33.160 --> 0:24:35.679 with Delta, the current vaccines are holding up quite well 0:24:35.920 --> 0:24:40.640 as far as hospitalization and severe disease. So more than 0:24:40.680 --> 0:24:43.000 seven million Americans have gotten a boost of dose in 0:24:43.040 --> 0:24:46.960 the US as of Saturday. And a Wisconsin parent is 0:24:47.000 --> 0:24:51.000 suing the school district after their son came down with 0:24:51.160 --> 0:24:54.320 COVID from sitting next to an unmasked classmate who was 0:24:54.359 --> 0:24:58.800 infected with COVID. So the whau Keisha School District and 0:24:58.840 --> 0:25:01.920 school board are defendants in the federal case. It's filed 0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:04.399 on behalf of Shannon Jenten and other parents, and that 0:25:04.520 --> 0:25:07.560 district is being bankrolled by a superpack that is started 0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:10.800 by a local brewery owner. They are seeking an injunction 0:25:10.800 --> 0:25:14.000 that would force the school district to implement safety recommendations 0:25:14.480 --> 0:25:17.959 by the us CDC that was reduced the spread of 0:25:17.960 --> 0:25:21.440 COVID nineteen. So it was another lawsuit that's been filed. 0:25:21.480 --> 0:25:23.800 You know once Jared kids to have to sit next 0:25:23.840 --> 0:25:25.800 to somebody who could potentially have COVID and then they 0:25:25.840 --> 0:25:27.639 end up getting COVID. They want to make sure that 0:25:28.560 --> 0:25:33.119 classmates have to wear masks. All right, and that is 0:25:33.160 --> 0:25:35.600 your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye. 0:25:35.600 --> 0:25:38.480 Now when we come back, we got the founder and 0:25:38.600 --> 0:25:42.520 CEO of Union, mister Jason Wilson. He trains and develops 0:25:42.560 --> 0:25:44.639 young black men, teaches black men how to deal with 0:25:44.640 --> 0:25:47.880 their trauma through Marshall Arts. He's got a documentary coming 0:25:47.880 --> 0:25:51.199 out with Lawrence Fishburn about his life. You've seen him 0:25:51.240 --> 0:25:54.639 on Doctor CNN, heard him on Joe Rogan The Today Show. 0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:56.119 You're now you're about to listen to him on The 0:25:56.119 --> 0:25:58.639 Breakfast Club. I love Jason Wilson. He spoke it my 0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:01.880 mental welfax bot this past Sunday. All right, we'll get 0:26:01.880 --> 0:26:04.399 into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the 0:26:04.600 --> 0:26:12.600 Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is tj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, 0:26:12.600 --> 0:26:14.280 the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a 0:26:14.280 --> 0:26:16.879 special guest joining us right now. Yes, Jason Wilson. He's 0:26:16.920 --> 0:26:19.920 the found in CEO of Union. Okay. Jason has over 0:26:19.960 --> 0:26:22.760 fourteen years of experience, you know, training and developing young 0:26:22.800 --> 0:26:25.280 black men. You've probably seen his videos on Instagram where 0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:27.640 he teaches, you know, young black men how to deal 0:26:27.680 --> 0:26:30.840 with their trauma through martial arts. He's got two great 0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:33.400 books out Cry Like a Man in Battle Cry. You've 0:26:33.400 --> 0:26:35.960 probably heard him on the Joe Rogan podcast. You've seen 0:26:36.040 --> 0:26:39.280 him on CNN Doctor Oz. He's spoken my Mental Wealth, 0:26:39.320 --> 0:26:42.359 expotus past Sunday, and now he's on the Breakfast Club. 0:26:42.480 --> 0:26:45.360 Mister Jason Wilson, Good morning brother, Good morning brother. How 0:26:45.400 --> 0:26:47.840 are you all as well? Man? I love New York. 0:26:48.520 --> 0:26:51.600 Love walking early in the morning here, especially late at night. 0:26:51.640 --> 0:26:54.520 Give me time to really reflect and release things that 0:26:54.560 --> 0:26:56.280 I need to let go of. You wrote a couple 0:26:56.320 --> 0:26:59.520 of books, Cry Like a Man and now Battle Cry. 0:26:59.320 --> 0:27:02.959 Why trying such a theme? It was imperative for me 0:27:03.000 --> 0:27:05.199 that I learned how because my life well, I was 0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:08.000 self destructive, pretty much about to lose my marriage and 0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:11.160 my family, and I didn't know how to not only 0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:13.879 express them, but to even process what I was feeling. 0:27:13.880 --> 0:27:16.680 So I was only taught to express it through either 0:27:16.760 --> 0:27:20.200 fighting or really suppressing it. And as a result, Man 0:27:20.320 --> 0:27:23.240 I lost it one day, man and demonstrall, be yelled 0:27:23.240 --> 0:27:25.600 at my wife in the kitchen, hit a hole in 0:27:25.640 --> 0:27:28.639 my refrigerator, and I just I had to make a change. 0:27:28.640 --> 0:27:31.280 And when I saw my wife, I saw her go 0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:35.399 from trusting me and loving me to her whole spirit 0:27:35.520 --> 0:27:37.800 was torn down in front of me. And at that 0:27:37.920 --> 0:27:40.000 very moment, I realized I had a problem, and that 0:27:40.080 --> 0:27:42.520 problem was I wasn't a comprehensive man. I was just 0:27:42.560 --> 0:27:46.199 a masculine male, and I needed to learn how to 0:27:46.760 --> 0:27:50.640 express the gamut of emotions that God has given me. 0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:53.760 You know, more so than just being strong, a protector 0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:57.440 and provider, I needed to express being a nurturer, express 0:27:57.520 --> 0:28:01.680 being compassionate, loving, long suffer from you know, when Kobe 0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:05.439 Brian died in a helicopter accident with Gianna and nine others, 0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:08.560 we didn't see a lot of pictures of him playing basketball. 0:28:08.600 --> 0:28:11.359 We saw him operating as a nurturer, and then a 0:28:11.440 --> 0:28:15.080 hashtag girl dad went viral through what men, but over 0:28:15.080 --> 0:28:17.679 a million one point two million men posted pictures of 0:28:17.720 --> 0:28:21.119 themselves loving their daughters. And so we've always been nurturists, 0:28:21.160 --> 0:28:25.440 but we've allowed society to define us as men just 0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:28.800 by one adjective, which is masculinity. But we're more than masculine. 0:28:29.320 --> 0:28:31.520 Can we talk about your background a little because this 0:28:31.560 --> 0:28:33.800 is our first time meeting, So I know that you 0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:37.520 have this youth organization in Detroit, Union, but I want 0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:40.600 to talk about you and how you started doing this work. Yes, 0:28:40.680 --> 0:28:43.640 well I started actually was a popular DJ and Detroit 0:28:44.080 --> 0:28:46.640 and actually did a few concerts with Public Enemy. I 0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:48.720 was in rap group called Chaos a Maestro. So the 0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:52.080 Union nonprofit started as a record label, and so we 0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:54.720 would use as a Christian I would use the music 0:28:54.800 --> 0:28:58.200 to counter what at the current time, what we would 0:28:58.240 --> 0:29:01.280 call like gangster hip hop, and saw the negative impact 0:29:01.280 --> 0:29:04.080 that was having on youth, and so we created music 0:29:04.120 --> 0:29:06.520 to counter it. But we realized quickly that once the 0:29:06.640 --> 0:29:09.600 music stopped, they still had to deal with the trauma. 0:29:09.720 --> 0:29:11.200 And so we're like wall and we need to stay 0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:13.520 in their lives, we need to get into schools more so, 0:29:13.560 --> 0:29:16.840 we went after our nonprofit status and in two thousand 0:29:16.920 --> 0:29:20.480 and seven we received our first grant for mentoring through 0:29:20.800 --> 0:29:23.640 the government and we haven't looked back since. And currently 0:29:23.680 --> 0:29:26.520 we've reached over fifteen thousand youth and young adults in 0:29:26.560 --> 0:29:30.000 Detroit and we just purchased a fifteen thousand square foot 0:29:30.040 --> 0:29:32.680 building due to the demand of the Cave of Adullum, 0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:35.840 which is the Transformational Training Academy where I used martial 0:29:35.920 --> 0:29:39.640 arts to help young boys navigate through their emotions instead 0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:42.440 of succumbing to them. When did you get into martial arts? 0:29:43.160 --> 0:29:45.680 It was that a way of channeling anger. Yeah, So 0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:49.120 it was interesting when my good friend she was shot 0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:52.080 and killed when I was in the eighth grade and 0:29:52.120 --> 0:29:55.360 we didn't have grief counsels or anyone come to our school, 0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:57.800 and I didn't know how to process what I was feeling, 0:29:58.160 --> 0:30:00.760 so I gravitated toward the jets. At the time, I 0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:03.480 was twelve years old. But then I quickly realized if 0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:06.960 I only process my anger by hitting things, whenever that 0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:10.560 anger rise, I start hitting things and hitting people. And 0:30:10.640 --> 0:30:13.920 so from that day on, because I have my father around. 0:30:13.920 --> 0:30:16.080 He was in the same city, but wasn't in my life. 0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:19.000 I saw the sin Say as a father figure, and 0:30:19.040 --> 0:30:22.120 I longed to have that affirmation and teach me how 0:30:22.160 --> 0:30:24.800 to be a man. And it helped me with some 0:30:25.040 --> 0:30:28.560 processing some of the training combat communication, which I talk 0:30:28.600 --> 0:30:32.960 about in battlecry and fighting. If we're getting ready to fight, 0:30:33.080 --> 0:30:35.480 I'm downloading all of your moves, your anger. If you 0:30:35.520 --> 0:30:38.120 move on my jab or my kick, I'm seeing how 0:30:38.120 --> 0:30:41.200 your defense is. I use that in communication with my wife. 0:30:41.240 --> 0:30:43.320 I try to read the room. How is she feeling 0:30:43.360 --> 0:30:45.080 to day? Is this a good time for me to 0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:47.680 share with her how all of my emotions? Would it 0:30:47.720 --> 0:30:51.640 overload her? And so instead of sometimes when you become 0:30:51.640 --> 0:30:55.480 emotionally free, when you break free from emotional incarceration, we 0:30:55.520 --> 0:30:58.120 can come home and unload too much on someone who 0:30:58.200 --> 0:31:01.080 already had a heavy day. And I've learned to use 0:31:01.560 --> 0:31:05.600 combat communication to excuse me. Read my wife, Read my son. 0:31:06.080 --> 0:31:08.040 You know he's quiet today, what's going on with you? 0:31:08.080 --> 0:31:10.320 Instead of yelling at him. Now I want to ask 0:31:10.360 --> 0:31:12.600 you about for women who are dealing with a man 0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:16.960 who may be experiencing trauma or doesn't identify ways that 0:31:16.960 --> 0:31:19.400 he can improve his own communication. What advice do you 0:31:19.440 --> 0:31:21.880 have for women that have to deal with that? My 0:31:21.960 --> 0:31:24.719 wife A lot of people ask her that because it 0:31:24.800 --> 0:31:26.680 was all new for us, you know. And so the 0:31:26.720 --> 0:31:28.800 first thing I would say is that we as men, 0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:31.360 we not only have to unlearn what we've been conditioned 0:31:31.360 --> 0:31:33.600 to believe a man is, but also our women. And 0:31:33.680 --> 0:31:35.840 we have to give our wives and our women the 0:31:35.960 --> 0:31:38.240 grace and the space needed to do so, because you've 0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:40.720 been also programmed to see a man a certain way. 0:31:40.800 --> 0:31:42.840 My wife had never seen a man crying to me, 0:31:43.400 --> 0:31:45.760 you know. And so that's number one, is to unlearn 0:31:45.800 --> 0:31:49.480 what you've been taught to believe. Number two, never impassively 0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:53.080 dismiss your husband or your significant other's emotion. When he 0:31:53.160 --> 0:31:55.320 come to you, he's trying to open up, he's trying 0:31:55.360 --> 0:31:58.440 to become comprehensive and whole. The worst thing a woman 0:31:58.480 --> 0:32:00.880 could do is shut him down or I'm busy. Can 0:32:00.880 --> 0:32:03.800 I come back to that When you see that door opening, 0:32:03.880 --> 0:32:06.760 like okay, cool, he's allowing me access to that heart. 0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:11.400 And then lastly is to listen without expectation. That's what 0:32:11.480 --> 0:32:14.600 she would saying. She says, listen to your husband's or 0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:19.080 your significant other's heart, like it's your girlfriend. Be slow 0:32:19.120 --> 0:32:21.560 to speak, quick to listen. But I said, you also 0:32:21.600 --> 0:32:24.000 need to know how to allow your wife to help 0:32:24.080 --> 0:32:27.240 you through that process. Can you break down what is 0:32:27.280 --> 0:32:32.840 emotional incarceration? It is a self imposed imprisonment, a mental 0:32:32.840 --> 0:32:36.560 prison that a man confines his non masculine emotions and 0:32:36.600 --> 0:32:39.040 his true heart from the world to keep him from 0:32:39.120 --> 0:32:42.680 hurting others and even himself. And what's interesting about emotional 0:32:42.680 --> 0:32:45.120 incarceration and we all as men, we can admit this. 0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:48.520 There is no door keeping us locked in. We choose 0:32:48.560 --> 0:32:51.400 to stay in there, and because we have to face 0:32:51.800 --> 0:32:56.280 or acknowledge feelings or traumas or emotional pain that we 0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:58.960 don't feel comfortable with, we choose to stay in there. 0:32:59.040 --> 0:33:00.600 And a lot of good men and a tide of 0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:04.560 being bad guys, even myself, Man, I ever suppressed all 0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:07.120 of my emotions, you know, and because that's what I 0:33:07.240 --> 0:33:10.000 was taught. And because of that, I didn't even they 0:33:10.120 --> 0:33:12.320 not only know how to love my wife and my children, bro, 0:33:12.400 --> 0:33:15.040 I didn't know how to love myself. And that self 0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:18.440 hate caused me not to really be available for my wife. 0:33:18.440 --> 0:33:20.800 And as I share it at the Mental Wealth Expo, 0:33:21.280 --> 0:33:25.239 she had five miscarriages, and I was checked out. I 0:33:25.240 --> 0:33:27.600 didn't know how to express the hurt or anything. To 0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:29.920 this day, it bothers me because we should say we 0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:33.560 had five miscarriages. No, I say she had and I 0:33:33.560 --> 0:33:36.120 should have been there, but I was emotionally checked out. 0:33:36.160 --> 0:33:39.880 But now it's it's truly a blessing to be able 0:33:39.960 --> 0:33:42.800 to drop my guard with the woman who really holds 0:33:42.880 --> 0:33:44.840 my heart with care. All Right, we got more with 0:33:44.920 --> 0:33:46.880 Jason Wilson when we come back, dute more. It's the 0:33:46.880 --> 0:33:53.760 breakfast club, Good morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, 0:33:53.840 --> 0:33:56.200 Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast Club. We're still 0:33:56.200 --> 0:33:59.080 talking with Jason Wilson, Charlemagne. The things you see in 0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:01.400 regards of your wife so relatable. And it's the same 0:34:01.440 --> 0:34:04.160 reason I got myself together too, because you know, I 0:34:04.160 --> 0:34:06.640 didn't want to be like my pops, and you know, 0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:09.600 I saw the pain my pops called my mom, you 0:34:09.640 --> 0:34:11.000 know what I mean. And I saw how you know, 0:34:11.360 --> 0:34:14.640 them getting divorce affected the family. So why are so 0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:17.920 many men just comfortable with saying, you know what, Yeah, 0:34:17.960 --> 0:34:20.560 I'm married, but I'm gonna still cheating. I'm still have 0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:23.200 a whole other family out here, another girl like, why 0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:26.840 is that okay? You think that something's it's affeckless attempt 0:34:26.840 --> 0:34:30.319 for affirmation and so you know, again we taught you 0:34:30.360 --> 0:34:34.200 know masculinity as well being a man that's having multiple women. 0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:38.120 My father told me I was going to him proud saying, hey, Dad, 0:34:38.120 --> 0:34:40.840 I'm about to engage to Nicole. He said, why the 0:34:40.880 --> 0:34:43.839 hell you want to do that? When I come front 0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:45.799 of my dad about cheating my mom, my dad said, oh, 0:34:45.800 --> 0:34:47.759 you only got one girlfriend. If it one day, you 0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:51.839 gonna understand. Hey, And I told my dad. I told him, 0:34:51.840 --> 0:34:53.640 I said, I don't want to end up like you. 0:34:53.640 --> 0:34:56.080 You're broke. You're still having to cut hair, Dad in 0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:59.399 your sixties because you've had three marriages that failed because 0:34:59.400 --> 0:35:03.000 you couldn't have any sexual self control. But when I 0:35:03.000 --> 0:35:05.480 allowed my father developed Parkinson's, I finally was able to 0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:07.640 get a relationship with him because he couldn't go anywhere. 0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:10.520 So when we finally sat and talked, he shared with 0:35:10.520 --> 0:35:13.680 me the pain of growing up and feeling lacking in 0:35:13.760 --> 0:35:16.520 so many areas he was called to preach. He told guy, 0:35:16.560 --> 0:35:18.560 there's nowhere on earth I'm gonna do that because he 0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:21.319 came up in the sixties, when the cops cracked down 0:35:21.360 --> 0:35:23.800 on the pimps in Detroit, many of them became pastors. 0:35:24.280 --> 0:35:25.759 So he said, the last thing I'm gonna do is 0:35:25.800 --> 0:35:28.359 be one of these guys. But because of that, he 0:35:28.480 --> 0:35:31.520 never really knew how to express what he was going 0:35:31.560 --> 0:35:33.719 through and what he felt. And that's why sharing battle 0:35:33.800 --> 0:35:36.160 cry too. As where we are now as men, we 0:35:36.200 --> 0:35:38.280 got to go back and reach and help our fathers 0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:40.560 learn how to process what they're dealing with. So you 0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:43.720 gotta think my grandfather, not my great grandfather, a great 0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:47.759 great grandfather. My grandfather was lynched, beating and lynched, and 0:35:47.800 --> 0:35:51.799 then after his lynching, my mother's family was terrorized by 0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:54.239 the police to ensure that none of them would ever 0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:57.480 feel like they're equal to white people. In Fort Pierce, Florida. 0:35:57.560 --> 0:36:01.279 I saw that trauma transferred throughout general ration through our generation, 0:36:01.840 --> 0:36:07.000 and until I allowed my dad that freedom to be human, 0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:09.760 I didn't hear him say he loved me until thirty 0:36:09.800 --> 0:36:12.120 seven years of age. I told my dad, and it 0:36:12.160 --> 0:36:15.120 didn't make sense to me at the time. He's landing 0:36:15.200 --> 0:36:18.560 his bed and the Holy Spirit told me, he says, 0:36:18.760 --> 0:36:21.680 tell your father, thank him for being a great dad. 0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:24.680 That doesn't make sense to me. But what my father 0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:28.160 needed was affirmation. So I leanked over to him while 0:36:28.160 --> 0:36:30.799 he was landing his bed and I said, I said, Dad, 0:36:30.880 --> 0:36:34.000 I said, thank you for being a great dad. So 0:36:34.200 --> 0:36:37.360 I was walking out and I heard him like getting 0:36:37.360 --> 0:36:39.680 heavy in his breath, and I turned around and I 0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:42.840 saw the strongest man in my life. Crime he finally 0:36:42.840 --> 0:36:46.440 had a release, and this is a tough one. So 0:36:46.560 --> 0:36:49.240 I went back over to him. I held his hands 0:36:49.400 --> 0:36:51.800 and I kissed him on his forehead and he wouldn't 0:36:51.880 --> 0:36:54.080 let me go, and he says, son, he says, I 0:36:54.200 --> 0:36:58.640 love you. And that there it removed so many shackles 0:36:59.040 --> 0:37:01.920 off of me and freed me to really live from 0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:05.080 my heart instead of my fears, instead of trying to 0:37:05.280 --> 0:37:08.319 live up to this limited definition of what a man is. 0:37:08.800 --> 0:37:10.960 Now I can be a comprehensive man, which is a 0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:14.800 man who is courageous but also compassionate, strong but sensitive, 0:37:14.880 --> 0:37:17.719 a man who can boldly but freely live from his 0:37:17.840 --> 0:37:20.640 heart instead of his fears. How important is it for 0:37:20.719 --> 0:37:23.480 men to give other men positive affirmations? Because you know, 0:37:23.520 --> 0:37:26.319 I thought about this after the mental wealth export, because 0:37:26.320 --> 0:37:27.719 a lot of stuff came up for me when we 0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:30.319 was on the panel having a conversation. That's why that's 0:37:30.320 --> 0:37:32.480 why the tids came, because it's like, just listening to 0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:34.360 you tell me, oh, I'm proud of you, YadA YadA, 0:37:34.360 --> 0:37:37.200 I'm like, damn, oh, I didn't. I didn't get that 0:37:37.640 --> 0:37:40.520 the way I wanted to growing up from my father. 0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:43.279 So even just hearing it from another black man at 0:37:43.280 --> 0:37:46.160 your respect is like whoa, it gets your emotional or 0:37:46.160 --> 0:37:47.640 whether we realize that or not, we do that all 0:37:47.640 --> 0:37:51.600 the time. That's why we gonna get the cars because 0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:53.680 we want other men to give us affirmation. Yeah, like 0:37:53.680 --> 0:37:56.520 I said, it's a feckless attempt for affirmation. Even with women. 0:37:56.719 --> 0:37:59.440 You know, it's like we call you trophy wives and 0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:02.479 all this other foolishness you would create. You're not meant 0:38:02.480 --> 0:38:04.640 to be objects, you know what I'm saying it. But 0:38:04.680 --> 0:38:07.640 it's when we objectify women that a lot. When I 0:38:07.680 --> 0:38:11.320 saw that evil, that's what allowed me to break free 0:38:11.400 --> 0:38:15.399 from pornography because again, to have this right in front 0:38:15.400 --> 0:38:16.960 of you where you feel you can have control over 0:38:16.960 --> 0:38:19.400 the most beautiful woman in the world. I didn't know 0:38:19.440 --> 0:38:22.239 how to really give a woman my heart, But when 0:38:22.239 --> 0:38:25.880 I allowed myself to be free, I started cherishing women 0:38:26.000 --> 0:38:29.440 for who they are, even their superior qualities, not that 0:38:29.520 --> 0:38:33.160 equal qualities. Because my wife runs our nonprofit. If it 0:38:33.239 --> 0:38:35.560 wasn't for her, I look at the stuff we do now, 0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:38.719 that's because I allowed my wife to operate in the 0:38:38.840 --> 0:38:41.400 fullness of who she is. Right, I don't need you 0:38:41.560 --> 0:38:44.480 to be just at home with my children. God has 0:38:44.520 --> 0:38:47.799 created you to lead this organization, this ministry, and then 0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:50.440 eventually I hope she gets her own health center. The 0:38:50.600 --> 0:38:52.719 goal for us to even be healed, brother, and I 0:38:52.760 --> 0:38:55.200 was sharing this at the ex Bowl, for us to 0:38:55.239 --> 0:38:57.880 heal this black men. I want us to heal so 0:38:57.960 --> 0:39:01.359 we can finally decrease what's going on the side of us, 0:39:01.640 --> 0:39:05.239 so that our sisters can finally unload the weight and 0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:09.040 emotional pain that they've been in doing for decades. Now. 0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:13.360 As far as affirmation, it's so important, especially with our boys. 0:39:13.400 --> 0:39:15.839 You know, I remember I had one kid when I 0:39:15.880 --> 0:39:19.000 piloted the cave of a dullum. The principle introduced me 0:39:19.040 --> 0:39:23.200 to this young man by all negative descriptions. I took 0:39:23.280 --> 0:39:26.440 that young man and for twenty four weeks affirmed and 0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:29.800 poured into him, taught him how to meditate, release the anger, 0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:32.720 the frustration, and it actually the hurt of not having 0:39:32.719 --> 0:39:35.799 a father there. He smoked about two blunts a week. 0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:38.840 This was an eighth grader. His great point average was 0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:42.680 point eight. Within twenty four weeks, his whole life change 0:39:42.680 --> 0:39:47.360 and he graduated because I affirmed him in who he was, 0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:50.760 even the young man he didn't see. They saw the prankster. 0:39:51.239 --> 0:39:54.680 I saw someone who could negotiate, whose wives, who's clever? 0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:57.839 They saw someone anger. I saw a young man who 0:39:57.880 --> 0:40:01.240 would fight against injustice, who would think kids who are bullied. 0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:05.359 That's what affirmation does. I thank you for who you are, 0:40:05.400 --> 0:40:07.800 and I meant everything that I said. Man, I'm proud 0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:09.719 of you, and that's why I affirmed you. And we 0:40:09.760 --> 0:40:12.600 need to affirm each other that way. And then more so, 0:40:12.680 --> 0:40:15.200 as I told our brother Van Lathan when I was 0:40:15.239 --> 0:40:18.759 on his podcast, we're so quick to just deflect it 0:40:18.920 --> 0:40:21.319 or just here, you're the man too. I love what 0:40:21.360 --> 0:40:23.920 you're doing, like no, I want you to hold that, brother, 0:40:24.280 --> 0:40:26.360 because you're doing some great things. And I want you 0:40:26.400 --> 0:40:29.759 to really embrace who you are as a man. And 0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:31.960 that's all I ever wanted, man, And that's why I'm 0:40:32.000 --> 0:40:36.240 thankful I finally allowed my wife access to hear, because 0:40:36.239 --> 0:40:39.360 what causes men to really drift away. You want to 0:40:39.400 --> 0:40:42.600 feel important, you want to feel loved, But it's if 0:40:42.640 --> 0:40:45.040 you don't work as hard as you do in the community, 0:40:45.280 --> 0:40:47.799 in your home. How do you expect those in your 0:40:47.800 --> 0:40:50.600 home to give you the accolades that you desire when 0:40:50.600 --> 0:40:53.000 you're working twice as hard for those who don't even 0:40:53.080 --> 0:40:56.080 live with you. Right? You said something so powerful yesterday 0:40:56.160 --> 0:40:58.640 at the Mental welfect Bo when Max Ball asked you, 0:40:59.280 --> 0:41:01.920 what's the definitely of a man? How do you define 0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:06.200 a man? Yeah? I said nothing. You can't define. Once 0:41:06.239 --> 0:41:09.480 you allow yourself to be defined, you can't be anything 0:41:09.520 --> 0:41:11.760 and everything you have to be at any given moment. 0:41:12.000 --> 0:41:14.680 That's the goal of a man. That's comprehensive manner. I 0:41:14.719 --> 0:41:17.480 want to be able to morph between transformers and everything 0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:20.200 that I need to be for to complish my mission 0:41:20.239 --> 0:41:23.560 here on earth, for my family, for you, for my sister, 0:41:24.400 --> 0:41:27.279 my brother, my brother, And that's the goal. Once you 0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:31.120 allow yourself to be defined, you've just cut off your potential. 0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:33.759 And so I tell people to live I was telling 0:41:33.800 --> 0:41:35.680 to me, and live from what we long for instead 0:41:35.719 --> 0:41:37.920 of what we lack. We tend to blame my father's 0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:40.439 for not being there what we didn't have, And now 0:41:40.480 --> 0:41:42.560 we bring that stuff to the present. We allow our 0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:46.000 trauma to time travel living the present so you can 0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:48.719 fully be there. And that's the key. Man. If you 0:41:48.920 --> 0:41:51.600 only feel as a man that you're only a protector 0:41:51.600 --> 0:41:54.040 and provider, how you're going to be there for your family? 0:41:54.120 --> 0:41:57.319 How can you have a relationship with your wife? And 0:41:57.360 --> 0:42:02.360 you're only you can only manifest two attributes, You're extremely limited. 0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:05.840 A friend of mine compared it to that crayon boxes, 0:42:05.880 --> 0:42:08.000 the ones of eight and the ones of sixty four. 0:42:08.360 --> 0:42:10.640 As men, we take out three crayons out the one 0:42:10.680 --> 0:42:12.360 of eight, and we said, we're gonna stay in that 0:42:12.360 --> 0:42:15.040 that area because it feels comfortable, it's safe. But the 0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:18.160 most I created us to exude all sixty four and 0:42:18.239 --> 0:42:20.840 even more now move We got more with Jason Wilson. 0:42:20.880 --> 0:42:23.040 When we come back, it's the Breakfast Club, Morning Morning. 0:42:23.040 --> 0:42:27.000 Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy. We 0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:30.279 are the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Yea. 0:42:30.480 --> 0:42:33.400 You also have a documentary that you've been working on, right, Yes, 0:42:33.600 --> 0:42:36.520 can you tell us something about that? Yeah, that's really exciting. 0:42:36.560 --> 0:42:39.239 I signed with Lawrence Fitzburn's film company sent them a 0:42:39.280 --> 0:42:41.960 gypsy to do a documentary film on my work with 0:42:42.120 --> 0:42:44.880 boys in the Cave of Adullum. We submitted it to 0:42:44.920 --> 0:42:47.000 Sundance and so we're waiting to hear back from them, 0:42:47.000 --> 0:42:50.000 but it's supposed to release next year and we're really excited. 0:42:50.040 --> 0:42:52.600 You get to see them follow four of my boys, 0:42:53.000 --> 0:42:56.600 and you see the effects of intergenerational trauma, but then 0:42:56.640 --> 0:42:59.600 you see it broken and it's so powerful, it's beautiful. 0:42:59.760 --> 0:43:01.759 How do you black and brown people learn to stop 0:43:01.800 --> 0:43:06.160 wearing trauma as if it's a bad honor, acknowledge that 0:43:07.640 --> 0:43:11.680 it's nothing good about it. There's nothing honorable about getting shot. 0:43:12.120 --> 0:43:16.759 There's nothing honorable about hating each other, mean mother and 0:43:16.840 --> 0:43:19.040 not being able to say how you doing my brother, 0:43:19.120 --> 0:43:23.799 how you doing my sister? There's nothing honorable about I 0:43:23.840 --> 0:43:26.520 guess just the pain that we've been through. I mean, 0:43:26.520 --> 0:43:28.840 we look at it as like, you know, especially I 0:43:28.880 --> 0:43:31.480 love hip hop. I came up in the culture. We 0:43:31.640 --> 0:43:34.440 brag about getting shot. We don't brag about living in 0:43:34.480 --> 0:43:37.279 a good neighborhood. We brag about being in the roughest neighborhood. 0:43:38.000 --> 0:43:41.080 And so until we recognize that this isn't how it's 0:43:41.120 --> 0:43:44.600 supposed to be. Yes, trauma will happen to all of us, 0:43:45.000 --> 0:43:48.480 but it's not the Black experience as we always say. 0:43:48.560 --> 0:43:51.919 You know, just as trauma can be passed down through 0:43:51.920 --> 0:43:54.120 our generation, so can healing. But we first have to 0:43:54.160 --> 0:43:56.600 renew our minds. We have to allow. For me, it 0:43:56.640 --> 0:43:59.080 took for me to ask the most how to break me, 0:43:59.320 --> 0:44:03.359 break away my stubborn will, the evil in my heart. 0:44:03.400 --> 0:44:05.839 I didn't want to be his light to the world, 0:44:05.880 --> 0:44:09.240 to help those who in darkness see And so until 0:44:09.320 --> 0:44:12.920 I allowed him to break me, I wasn't able to 0:44:12.960 --> 0:44:15.279 see that all that I've been through, the stuff that, 0:44:15.520 --> 0:44:18.600 even for my benefit today, wasn't meant for me to 0:44:18.640 --> 0:44:22.799 stay there. So when traumatizing things happen, we have to 0:44:22.880 --> 0:44:25.800 let go and keep moving forward. But a lot of 0:44:25.880 --> 0:44:28.839 us we stay there because we fear moving forward because 0:44:28.880 --> 0:44:32.279 of something else traumatizing may happen. And so as a 0:44:32.719 --> 0:44:35.560 Black people, we got to start living from what we 0:44:35.680 --> 0:44:38.319 desire and hear the good that's in here. We love 0:44:38.360 --> 0:44:41.319 each other man, we do, we just have to learn 0:44:41.320 --> 0:44:45.040 how to express it. And there's nothing weak or docile 0:44:45.600 --> 0:44:47.879 about telling you I love you, telling you I love 0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:50.319 you and who you are. I'm proud of you. I 0:44:50.400 --> 0:44:53.640 need help. I'm hurting. Just because something is wrong with 0:44:53.640 --> 0:44:56.319 me doesn't mean something is wrong with me. So when 0:44:56.320 --> 0:45:00.319 we get to that place where we understand, okay, we 0:45:00.400 --> 0:45:02.960 can break through what we've been through, that's when you 0:45:03.040 --> 0:45:06.480 see us rise together. My final question, you know, as 0:45:06.480 --> 0:45:10.200 your profile raises, how did your wife feel about all 0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:13.040 these women calling you zaddie? I didn't know they called me. 0:45:15.120 --> 0:45:20.239 They called me that them on Instagram. Oh man, I 0:45:20.440 --> 0:45:23.480 um um. My wife and I have a very like 0:45:24.080 --> 0:45:27.400 transparent relationship. If she feels something isn't right, she said, 0:45:27.600 --> 0:45:30.799 you know, but this is a funny story. One day 0:45:30.800 --> 0:45:35.600 I met Halle Berry, right, and I took a video 0:45:35.600 --> 0:45:37.800 from my daughter because my daughter, you know, was into 0:45:37.840 --> 0:45:40.439 modeling at the time, and so I called the cart 0:45:40.440 --> 0:45:42.479 I say I met Holly Berry. She's like really, where 0:45:42.520 --> 0:45:44.400 was she at? And I told her at this conference. 0:45:44.920 --> 0:45:48.040 So we get off the phone and her friend was like, oh, 0:45:48.080 --> 0:45:50.880 so your husband is with Halle Berry and she was 0:45:50.960 --> 0:45:53.239 like yeah, and she could looking at my wife and 0:45:53.280 --> 0:45:57.640 my wife called back and she says, are you okay? 0:45:59.040 --> 0:46:02.360 Because you know, Holly Barry is was like attractive like 0:46:02.880 --> 0:46:05.920 our generations lean a horn. But my wife was like, 0:46:06.160 --> 0:46:09.400 are you okay? Because I know she's beautiful and I 0:46:09.480 --> 0:46:13.399 know you know you together, You' good. I'm like, yeah, 0:46:13.480 --> 0:46:15.640 I'm good and we both laughed about it. But the 0:46:15.640 --> 0:46:17.680 beautiful thing. When I got home and I looked at 0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:20.600 my wife, I said, dang, you look better than her. 0:46:21.880 --> 0:46:25.120 You see what I'm saying, and so and so when 0:46:25.800 --> 0:46:28.880 she knows my wife, she affirms me man and I 0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:31.719 fight it. I'm still growing, bro, I don't like dan, 0:46:31.800 --> 0:46:33.680 how do you what? You? She had touched my face 0:46:33.719 --> 0:46:36.520 all gent. I'm like, what are you doing inside? That's 0:46:36.520 --> 0:46:40.040 why I'm cringing because I'm thinking when my father told 0:46:40.040 --> 0:46:44.200 me I wasn't nothing, and they have a woman cress 0:46:44.320 --> 0:46:47.239 my face and then tell me I'm beautiful and she 0:46:47.360 --> 0:46:49.880 loves me. And as a man, you look in your mirror, 0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:51.839 you see your flaws. You ain't big enough, you ain't 0:46:51.840 --> 0:46:54.839 buffing up, you ain't smart enough. What can any of 0:46:54.840 --> 0:46:57.600 these women give me? Man? What's a night of sex? 0:46:57.719 --> 0:47:00.400 I'm gonna I'm gonna give away everything in our god 0:47:00.520 --> 0:47:03.279 just to have a moment with a woman. That's not 0:47:03.440 --> 0:47:05.560 peace to me, that's chaos. I ain't got time to 0:47:05.600 --> 0:47:07.560 have three cell phones, and I don't. I don't have 0:47:07.640 --> 0:47:10.560 an energy for that. We're chasing a sense of worthiness 0:47:10.560 --> 0:47:13.840 that we can't get from another woman. That's that's feeding 0:47:13.880 --> 0:47:16.480 your ego. Being with your wife, that's feeding your soul. Yeah, 0:47:16.480 --> 0:47:18.799 it's it's it's she's a part of me, man, and 0:47:18.920 --> 0:47:22.319 so you know, Yeah, they're flirt you can see them. 0:47:22.320 --> 0:47:24.400 They look at you. But I don't have an available look. 0:47:24.719 --> 0:47:27.080 You know a lot of brothers who struggle with infidelity. 0:47:27.160 --> 0:47:30.279 Y'all look available. You look like they can holler at you. 0:47:30.920 --> 0:47:36.680 I consciously make sure I don't look available. I don't 0:47:37.200 --> 0:47:42.200 look like you know. I practice with my sister. You know, 0:47:42.280 --> 0:47:48.760 we're talking. I'm like, you know what I'm talking about. Okay, 0:47:48.800 --> 0:47:51.000 so I do this. Okay, I take my ring off, 0:47:51.000 --> 0:47:54.520 but I'm not. I'm talking, but it's respectfully. How are 0:47:54.520 --> 0:47:56.880 you doing? I shake your hands right, I'm not doing this? 0:47:57.000 --> 0:47:58.719 So how are you doing you? I'm not doing all that. 0:47:58.760 --> 0:48:01.040 I'm like, how are you doing? Press A pleasure to 0:48:01.040 --> 0:48:03.840 meet you. I'm proud of you, thank you. What are 0:48:03.840 --> 0:48:07.440 you doing later? No, I'm kidding, I said, I'm calling 0:48:07.520 --> 0:48:10.160 my wife. I'm telling you right now, taking that ring 0:48:10.200 --> 0:48:13.320 off and then having the conversation not make you less available. 0:48:14.600 --> 0:48:17.360 But but but but the look is the spirit is 0:48:17.360 --> 0:48:19.839 the vibe. And that's why I tell my brothers. One 0:48:19.880 --> 0:48:22.680 of my friends standing back in the day, amaze women 0:48:22.719 --> 0:48:24.719 beyonly man, I'm trying to be faithful. I said, you 0:48:24.800 --> 0:48:27.960 look like you want them too, And he started laughing. 0:48:28.000 --> 0:48:30.319 And we was in the gym, and I said, look 0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:33.759 at you. He was like, I get it, Doug. You're 0:48:33.760 --> 0:48:38.839 coming here every day with great sweat faces. And so 0:48:39.000 --> 0:48:41.000 you know, and and and that's my my thing. I 0:48:41.080 --> 0:48:44.480 just you know, Um, I love our women. I do. 0:48:44.600 --> 0:48:47.200 And they need a man who doesn't want to get 0:48:47.239 --> 0:48:49.480 between their legs just to talk to him and affirm 0:48:49.520 --> 0:48:52.759 them to hear from just a man who just wants 0:48:52.800 --> 0:48:55.839 to affirm you for who you are, not because I'm 0:48:56.040 --> 0:48:58.319 you beautiful, I'm trying to hog light you. Man. These 0:48:58.320 --> 0:49:01.239 women would just you know, I just you know. That's 0:49:01.239 --> 0:49:04.120 why I say, Man, when we can get healed, keep 0:49:04.160 --> 0:49:06.520 doing those expos man. I mean, just we gotta continue 0:49:06.560 --> 0:49:08.160 to do what we do. But when we can get healed, 0:49:08.840 --> 0:49:11.719 we gotta sit down and open the space for our 0:49:11.760 --> 0:49:16.359 sisters to heal. And that's when you're gonna start seeing transformation. 0:49:16.600 --> 0:49:18.600 When we both can truly find that and get that 0:49:18.680 --> 0:49:22.279 heal and we desire and our families become whole, then 0:49:22.320 --> 0:49:25.719 our communities to change, and then you got the world. Yeah, 0:49:25.760 --> 0:49:27.600 I'm so extra grateful for like the men in my 0:49:27.680 --> 0:49:30.080 life who do affirm me and have positive things to 0:49:30.120 --> 0:49:32.839 say to me, and it's not for any reason other 0:49:32.880 --> 0:49:35.240 than they really feel that way, and I don't feel 0:49:35.640 --> 0:49:39.319 anything crazy from them. I know their families, I know 0:49:39.360 --> 0:49:42.640 their wives and significant others, and it's completely comfortable. And 0:49:42.719 --> 0:49:46.040 I'm so appreciative all the time of people that are like, yo, Angela, 0:49:46.080 --> 0:49:47.759 you really doing your thing. I'm so proud of you. 0:49:47.800 --> 0:49:50.799 I'm gonna come support like it means a lot to me. Yes, 0:49:50.880 --> 0:49:53.560 And that's that's awesome. And you know, because sometimes people 0:49:53.560 --> 0:49:57.239 feel like men and women can't have these relationships where 0:49:57.239 --> 0:49:58.960 there's nothing going on. And if you could take a 0:49:59.000 --> 0:50:02.279 picture with somebody like he trying to holler and you're like, dude, 0:50:02.320 --> 0:50:06.319 come on, just because he's a man doesn't mean that 0:50:06.320 --> 0:50:09.040 that's what it is, just because somebody can affirm you, 0:50:09.080 --> 0:50:11.359 but people sometimes are scared to even do that. Yeah, 0:50:11.440 --> 0:50:14.879 but the more men who who model it, the more 0:50:14.920 --> 0:50:16.880 men feel comfortable and say, Okay, this is what a 0:50:16.920 --> 0:50:20.080 man is, you know, and that's what our women need, 0:50:20.120 --> 0:50:23.040 you know, even at the union. Just affirm and love them. 0:50:23.080 --> 0:50:25.319 I got you. Don't worry about that. I ain't trying 0:50:25.360 --> 0:50:27.400 to holight you. They need brothers, They need men in 0:50:27.400 --> 0:50:30.160 their lives that they feel that they got their back, 0:50:30.440 --> 0:50:32.960 you know. And then ain't always wanting something, you know. 0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:36.319 And so I went I did what is it called 0:50:36.360 --> 0:50:39.799 virtual reality. I was at this conference and they they 0:50:39.840 --> 0:50:42.680 put put me in a headset where I saw through 0:50:42.719 --> 0:50:46.440 the eyes of a woman at work, and it showed 0:50:46.520 --> 0:50:49.800 how many like advances men were making to this woman 0:50:49.840 --> 0:50:54.239 throughout the day and from the handshake to just having conversation. 0:50:54.320 --> 0:50:57.759 I'm like, damn it, can you just just respect me 0:50:57.800 --> 0:51:00.320 as a woman, affirm me just as a woman instead 0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:02.440 of just trying to get between my legs, you know. 0:51:02.520 --> 0:51:05.239 And so I'm glad you have men like that. I 0:51:05.320 --> 0:51:07.440 try to make myself available for the women in my 0:51:07.480 --> 0:51:10.720 life the same way, you know, and it's so needed 0:51:10.760 --> 0:51:13.960 as men that again, as long as we're seeking affirmation 0:51:14.000 --> 0:51:16.759 in the wrong places. And that's what I did for 0:51:16.800 --> 0:51:21.000 the longest would never truly respect our women for the queens, 0:51:21.120 --> 0:51:24.200 the jewels, the gifts that they truly are true to 0:51:24.320 --> 0:51:25.839 use points. I mean, that's why I'd be so happy. 0:51:25.840 --> 0:51:27.120 I you know, I got too many women that call 0:51:27.160 --> 0:51:29.920 me any brother uncle because I really wear that as 0:51:29.960 --> 0:51:32.400 a badge of honor, like you know, I want to 0:51:32.400 --> 0:51:34.399 be there for them in that way. And I'm glad 0:51:34.440 --> 0:51:36.719 they see me in that way. Yeah, they need it. 0:51:36.800 --> 0:51:39.400 And we need women like when my mother when my 0:51:39.440 --> 0:51:42.960 when my mother passed, man, I needed a nurturer. I 0:51:43.040 --> 0:51:46.719 needed to allow older women and my wife access to 0:51:46.800 --> 0:51:49.440 my heart in that way, you know. And so and 0:51:49.480 --> 0:51:52.600 I don't need women sisters trying to holight me. I 0:51:52.719 --> 0:51:55.399 need a sister. Sometimes women who pray for me, man, 0:51:55.920 --> 0:51:58.319 ain't trying to holler praying for me, and they say, 0:51:58.360 --> 0:52:02.040 we know what you're doing. We got you. I feel invigorated, 0:52:02.120 --> 0:52:05.200 you know, I'm ready to go. And my wife doesn't 0:52:05.239 --> 0:52:08.399 mind it, man, And so you know again it's it's 0:52:08.719 --> 0:52:10.640 our minds need to be renewed so that we can 0:52:10.640 --> 0:52:13.440 truly live from the good in our hearts. His name 0:52:13.520 --> 0:52:15.799 is Jason Wilson. Giving me your Twitters and Instagrams and 0:52:15.800 --> 0:52:18.800 all that good stuff. My handle throughout all social media 0:52:18.960 --> 0:52:22.200 is mister Jason O. Wilson. That's m R J A 0:52:22.560 --> 0:52:25.440 S O N. The letter O W I L S 0:52:25.520 --> 0:52:27.200 O N. And I want to thank you for doing 0:52:27.200 --> 0:52:29.759 the Mental Wealth Expert yesterday. I couldn't even have done 0:52:29.800 --> 0:52:32.359 an event like that and not have you there, because 0:52:32.360 --> 0:52:34.120 you're such a leader in this space, man, and you 0:52:34.160 --> 0:52:36.160 inspire me and you make me want to be a 0:52:36.200 --> 0:52:38.120 better man every time I hear you speak, ary time 0:52:38.160 --> 0:52:41.200 I read your books, seeing you on Instagram, everything, So 0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:43.799 I just I thank God for your existence. Brother, thank 0:52:43.840 --> 0:52:47.239 you feeling this mutual thank you and it was really 0:52:47.280 --> 0:52:49.640 powerful yesterday and I look forward to being at the 0:52:49.680 --> 0:52:53.640 next one. Brother, Yes, sir, thank you. Finally, Jason Wilson 0:52:53.719 --> 0:53:14.160 is the Breakfast Club. Listen It's well. Lila is speaking 0:53:14.200 --> 0:53:16.560 for the first time about her divorce. She was on 0:53:16.680 --> 0:53:20.400 with Angie Martinez and she explained about keeping it private 0:53:20.400 --> 0:53:22.040 for a while, how it made her fail. Here's what 0:53:22.120 --> 0:53:24.040 she said. I still had my moments, but for the 0:53:24.040 --> 0:53:26.560 most part, I can't talk about it now and laugh 0:53:26.600 --> 0:53:28.680 about it and find, you know, the humor in it all. 0:53:28.719 --> 0:53:31.800 Otherwise I'll be a basket case. Were you really bad? 0:53:32.320 --> 0:53:34.640 I was bad because it was public. I was bad 0:53:34.680 --> 0:53:37.520 because there were other people involved. That was bad because 0:53:37.520 --> 0:53:39.799 there were allegations. It was it got bad. And then 0:53:39.800 --> 0:53:41.200 you know, I'm not a person that ever put my 0:53:41.200 --> 0:53:43.200 business on social media. I'm not a person whoever I've 0:53:43.239 --> 0:53:45.640 never spoke the first time I spoke about But you're 0:53:45.680 --> 0:53:47.840 my friend and I'm comfortable. But it's like, you know, 0:53:48.000 --> 0:53:50.080 so many times you do want to say, oh you 0:53:50.120 --> 0:53:51.840 guys really want to know what happened. You want to 0:53:51.840 --> 0:53:53.759 hear from me, but you hold it in and it's like, 0:53:53.760 --> 0:53:55.640 oh Li is doing good, she looked good on a Gramm. 0:53:55.640 --> 0:53:59.160 It's like, nah, that shopped me really hard. Oh la la. 0:53:59.480 --> 0:54:02.440 And then in addition to that, she also talked about 0:54:02.440 --> 0:54:04.840 her post that she does on Instagram and where her 0:54:04.920 --> 0:54:07.279 DM's looking like I am in a new phase and 0:54:07.360 --> 0:54:09.239 chatter in my life like I didn't think at this 0:54:09.320 --> 0:54:13.359 phase I would be entering into being signal. And so 0:54:13.440 --> 0:54:15.160 now I got to readjust so I can't be out 0:54:15.160 --> 0:54:18.319 here look at it crazy. I'm trying to get some 0:54:18.440 --> 0:54:20.880 DMS popping. I'm trying to see what's going on. I 0:54:20.920 --> 0:54:25.160 could only imagine what is happening. In las ms right now? 0:54:25.239 --> 0:54:27.440 Can you tell me one thing they don't tell the person. 0:54:28.080 --> 0:54:30.640 I can pull dms up with friends of mine and 0:54:30.680 --> 0:54:32.840 it's the same message in each one of our dms 0:54:32.880 --> 0:54:34.719 from a person like what are you just copy and past? 0:54:34.880 --> 0:54:39.320 I thought you was somebody's super high profile too. Traveling 0:54:39.360 --> 0:54:43.080 include bonflatz Leasy is a group chat favor, meaning that 0:54:43.360 --> 0:54:46.560 if you're in a group chat with like guys, you'll 0:54:46.560 --> 0:54:49.160 see a la la picture float across the group chat 0:54:49.200 --> 0:54:54.239 timeline a lot. She's definitely a group chat favorite. All right, Well, 0:54:54.239 --> 0:54:56.279 that's good. She waited till she was more comfortable to 0:54:56.320 --> 0:54:59.400 speak about it to actually do it, and then she 0:54:59.400 --> 0:55:01.719 did it in a s environment with Angie. So I 0:55:01.719 --> 0:55:03.719 think that's great. And I have to be honest, I'm 0:55:03.719 --> 0:55:06.800 a snitch. I do be telling her? Who be posting 0:55:06.800 --> 0:55:09.680 her in the group chat? You be posting la la. Oh. 0:55:09.760 --> 0:55:11.920 You can't tell other people stuff that happens in the 0:55:11.920 --> 0:55:16.319 group text. That's against policy. And from what she said though, 0:55:16.400 --> 0:55:20.160 she my friends being a text like Delicias after she 0:55:20.360 --> 0:55:22.759 said she told you and Angie she's a you know, 0:55:23.480 --> 0:55:25.920 trying to figure out Delia's after and we see some 0:55:26.000 --> 0:55:30.719 people tell all right now, let's talk about Superman. John Kent, 0:55:30.920 --> 0:55:33.880 the son of the original Superman Clark Kent, and journalist 0:55:33.920 --> 0:55:38.360 Lois Lane, is turned out to be bisexual. So according 0:55:38.400 --> 0:55:40.600 to the writer Tom Taylor, he said, it's not a gimmick. 0:55:40.640 --> 0:55:42.080 When I was off at this job, I thought, well, 0:55:42.080 --> 0:55:43.600 if we're going to have a new Superman for the 0:55:43.680 --> 0:55:46.480 DC universe, it feels like a missed opportunity to have 0:55:46.520 --> 0:55:49.799 another straight white savior. And he said, we don't want 0:55:49.800 --> 0:55:52.279 this to be DC Comics creates new queer Superman. We 0:55:52.280 --> 0:55:55.360 want this to be Superman finds himself, becomes Superman, and 0:55:55.480 --> 0:55:59.200 then comes out. And I think that's a really important distinction. Now, 0:55:59.239 --> 0:56:01.960 according to Tell, the reactions have been mostly positive. He said, 0:56:01.960 --> 0:56:04.280 I'm seeing tweets of people saying they burst into tears 0:56:04.560 --> 0:56:06.800 when they read the news that they wished that Superman 0:56:07.000 --> 0:56:09.040 was this when they were growing up, that they could 0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:11.640 see themselves. People are saying, for the first time ever, 0:56:11.680 --> 0:56:14.880 they're seeing themselves in Superman, something they never thought was possible. 0:56:15.000 --> 0:56:17.919 So he's a supertop of super Bottom does not say, 0:56:17.920 --> 0:56:20.719 but he's bisexual. When your comments as a kid, did 0:56:20.719 --> 0:56:23.359 they have any sexuality in the comics, anybody dating man 0:56:23.400 --> 0:56:26.000 woman and woman, I mean Superman with David Lewis, Lane 0:56:26.480 --> 0:56:30.080 Clark Kent. No, you meant like LGBTQ relationship. Yeah, yes, 0:56:30.320 --> 0:56:35.400 there was what's the what's the young lady that? Uh? 0:56:35.880 --> 0:56:39.359 Players on? Thor's her name? The character test the Thompson players. 0:56:39.360 --> 0:56:41.920 I can't remember her name right now. And it was 0:56:41.960 --> 0:56:46.279 always rooms that Deadpool dead Pool was bisexual, which you'll 0:56:46.320 --> 0:56:49.480 probably explored in future comics. So yeah, it's not a scratch. 0:56:49.520 --> 0:56:53.040 It's not like the things that they're doing now scratches sknew, 0:56:53.120 --> 0:56:55.239 But yes, it's it's characters. I'm a Marvel guy, I'm 0:56:55.239 --> 0:56:56.759 not a DC guy, but there's characters in the Marvel 0:56:56.840 --> 0:57:01.600 universe that have been LGBTQ historically. All right, now, let's 0:57:01.640 --> 0:57:05.800 talk about being offended by labels. Demi Levado is saying 0:57:05.880 --> 0:57:10.719 that the label alien is offensive when referring to extraterrestrials. 0:57:10.760 --> 0:57:14.319 Now we can flash back to a previous interview where 0:57:14.320 --> 0:57:18.000 she actually addressed this, w kid, you please clear up 0:57:18.000 --> 0:57:21.600 this fan theory that you have an unreleased song titled Aliens. 0:57:21.840 --> 0:57:24.960 I do not have a song called the Aliens I wish. 0:57:25.040 --> 0:57:28.040 Yeah it sounds cool, but it would be called ets. Yeah, 0:57:28.320 --> 0:57:30.200 my fans should know that I do not call them 0:57:30.240 --> 0:57:34.439 aliens because alien is a derogatory term for anything that's 0:57:34.720 --> 0:57:39.040 even extraterrestrials, which is why I call them ats. Did 0:57:39.040 --> 0:57:41.480 she have a conversation with an alien that he said 0:57:41.480 --> 0:57:43.400 he was offended or she said that they were offended 0:57:43.440 --> 0:57:45.480 by that term? The WOKEE gotta get some sleep, man, 0:57:45.480 --> 0:57:47.080 because when you don't get no sleep, you just be 0:57:47.200 --> 0:57:50.000 mad tied, and you just be saying silly stuff man, like, Yes, 0:57:50.040 --> 0:57:51.920 you're right, And we don't know what beings from other 0:57:51.960 --> 0:57:55.560 planets want to be called. We've identified a whole potential 0:57:55.600 --> 0:57:58.840 population of beings with words I'm sure they don't use 0:57:58.920 --> 0:58:01.720 to identify themselves, and now we're trying to convince ourselves 0:58:01.720 --> 0:58:03.600 that they are offended by words that we made up 0:58:03.600 --> 0:58:05.880 to call them. So we can't call aliens aliens anymore. 0:58:06.000 --> 0:58:09.720 I don't know. I wonder if it's because people are offended, 0:58:10.160 --> 0:58:12.640 actual people who I'm offended by your phone going off 0:58:12.640 --> 0:58:17.000 every morning at eight o'clock. Well, get my parking situation, right, um, 0:58:17.040 --> 0:58:19.480 But I wonder if it's because the term alien is offensive. 0:58:19.480 --> 0:58:22.160 I'm referring to people who are coming from other countries, 0:58:22.680 --> 0:58:24.600 like that's an offensive term. So I wonder if she 0:58:24.720 --> 0:58:26.680 just thinks the term alien. I don't know, but we 0:58:28.560 --> 0:58:30.680 terrestrials want to be called. We're calling them extraterrestrials. We 0:58:30.680 --> 0:58:33.240 didn't even know if that's their name. We've made all 0:58:33.240 --> 0:58:35.320 of these terms up to describe a bunch of beings 0:58:35.320 --> 0:58:37.600 we've we've never encountered. What can I call it? I 0:58:37.600 --> 0:58:40.840 thought you have. I've seen them before, so you haven't counted. 0:58:41.200 --> 0:58:42.760 I didn't call them by their name. I just saw 0:58:42.880 --> 0:58:44.880 I saw sauce before and I woke up with it. 0:58:45.120 --> 0:58:46.640 You call them one who was standing over me. I 0:58:46.680 --> 0:58:48.200 called it a flying saucer because that's the term they 0:58:48.240 --> 0:58:50.440 gave us to describe it. So what can we call? 0:58:50.880 --> 0:58:52.320 Can we call them aliens? Go? We go? What you 0:58:52.400 --> 0:58:54.040 call them? Me? To you? What do we leave me alone? 0:58:54.160 --> 0:58:56.800 By the way, the character is Valkyrie from Marvel. That's 0:58:56.800 --> 0:59:01.400 who Testa Thompson play Valkyrie? Okay? Val and Loki. Loki 0:59:01.480 --> 0:59:03.160 is bisexual too. I don't know if you watched Loki 0:59:03.200 --> 0:59:07.320 on Disney Plus. Well, that is your room of reports. 0:59:08.240 --> 0:59:10.440 The bottom line is, you can't call aliens. Don't call 0:59:10.480 --> 0:59:15.479 me your bottom Okay, I hope you referred to super 0:59:17.280 --> 0:59:20.000 Are you giving your donkey too? Um? John Grew? John 0:59:20.040 --> 0:59:22.680 Grew needs to come to the front of congregation aka Supercracker. 0:59:22.960 --> 0:59:24.880 We need to have a conversation. Okay, all right, we'll 0:59:24.880 --> 0:59:28.120 get into that next breakfast club. Good morning, So breakfast club, 0:59:28.200 --> 0:59:32.280 your mornings will never be the same. Angela here, don't 0:59:32.280 --> 0:59:35.000 you wish everything was as easy as getting quality coverage 0:59:35.040 --> 0:59:37.920 from the General Insurance. The General offers the quality coverage 0:59:37.920 --> 0:59:40.240 you deserve at prices you can afford. Switch to the 0:59:40.280 --> 0:59:42.680 General and you could save over five hundred dollars. Call 0:59:42.760 --> 0:59:45.040 eight hundred General or visit the General dot com. Some 0:59:45.120 --> 0:59:52.160 restrictions apply. Don't be out here acting like a donkey. 0:59:52.920 --> 0:59:55.640 It's time for Donkey of the Day. I'm a big boy. 0:59:55.640 --> 0:59:57.280 I could take it if you feel I deserve it. 0:59:57.280 --> 0:59:59.360 Ain't no big deal. I know Charlotmagny got grow out, 0:59:59.440 --> 1:00:01.360 funny sleep say out his mouth. You gotta say something 1:00:01.400 --> 1:00:04.080 you may not agree with. Doesn't mean he's getting that donkey. 1:00:04.160 --> 1:00:07.240 That donkey that don't don't don't, don't don't donkey other 1:00:07.320 --> 1:00:11.600 day right to breakfast club. Bitches, you can call me 1:00:11.640 --> 1:00:15.120 the donkey of the day, but like I mean no harm. Yeah, 1:00:15.280 --> 1:00:18.120 donk you today for Tuesday, October twelfth. Gold to former 1:00:18.200 --> 1:00:21.840 Raiders coach John Gruden. If you haven't heard, John Gruden 1:00:21.920 --> 1:00:25.120 has resigned as head coach of the Raiders after homophobic, 1:00:25.200 --> 1:00:28.040 misogynistic emails that he wrote between twenty ten and twenty 1:00:28.040 --> 1:00:30.320 eighteen have come out. Let's go to ESPN for the report. 1:00:30.760 --> 1:00:34.080 John Gruden resigned after The New York Times reported he 1:00:34.160 --> 1:00:37.920 frequently used misogynistic and anti gay language and numerous emails 1:00:37.960 --> 1:00:40.160 before he was hired as coach of the Raiders in 1:00:40.200 --> 1:00:43.400 two eighteen. According to The Times, Gruden sent the emails 1:00:43.400 --> 1:00:46.560 to Bruce Allen, then the president of the Washington Football team, 1:00:46.600 --> 1:00:49.040 and others during a seven year period that began in 1:00:49.080 --> 1:00:52.200 two thousand eleven. The NFL sent the Raiders additional Gruden 1:00:52.240 --> 1:00:54.960 emails to review after the first, which Gruden had been 1:00:55.000 --> 1:00:59.040 asked about, which included the racial troupe about NFLPA executive 1:00:59.040 --> 1:01:02.800 director Demorris Smith that surfaced last week. Gruden was employed 1:01:02.800 --> 1:01:05.560 by ESPN as the lead analyst for Monday Night Football 1:01:05.560 --> 1:01:07.800 at the time that he sent these emails, which are 1:01:07.800 --> 1:01:12.800 now under review. The comments are clearly repugnant under any circumstance, 1:01:13.320 --> 1:01:17.080 ESPN said in a statement. Gruden released the following statement, 1:01:17.080 --> 1:01:19.400 I quote, I resigned as the head coach of the 1:01:19.480 --> 1:01:21.720 Las Vegas Raiders. I love the Raiders and do not 1:01:21.840 --> 1:01:24.680 want to be a distraction. Thank you to all the players, 1:01:24.720 --> 1:01:28.200 coaching staff, and fans of Raider Nation. I'm sorry. I 1:01:28.280 --> 1:01:31.040 never meant to hurt anyone. This is a teachable moment. 1:01:31.080 --> 1:01:33.800 It's a teachable moment because life is interesting. Life is 1:01:33.840 --> 1:01:36.560 just something you simply can't run from. Because who you 1:01:36.600 --> 1:01:39.040 truly are in the dark will always come to light. 1:01:39.080 --> 1:01:41.560 It always does. This is why I subscribe to one 1:01:41.600 --> 1:01:44.520 of John Wooden's most famous quotes, be more concerned with 1:01:44.600 --> 1:01:48.080 your character than your reputation, because your character is what 1:01:48.160 --> 1:01:51.320 you really are. Why your reputation is merely what others 1:01:51.360 --> 1:01:53.640 think you are. People be so caught up in the 1:01:53.680 --> 1:01:56.080 reputation of others. There's so many people out here who 1:01:56.080 --> 1:01:59.280 present well, who have these reputations of being nice, genuine people. 1:01:59.440 --> 1:02:02.080 When he is damn moving like the John Grudens of 1:02:02.120 --> 1:02:04.920 the world behind the scenes, it's nothing you know to 1:02:05.080 --> 1:02:08.160 even take personal. Okay, he makes joke using racist tropes, 1:02:08.600 --> 1:02:11.360 He uses gay slurs to refer to homosexuals. Makes you 1:02:11.400 --> 1:02:14.640 think what he really thought about Carl Nazer Is that 1:02:14.720 --> 1:02:16.800 a pronounce cars last name who came out a gay 1:02:16.840 --> 1:02:18.480 before the start of the season. Okay, he played for 1:02:18.520 --> 1:02:20.680 Gruden and the Raiders. I would love to see the 1:02:20.760 --> 1:02:23.400 emails about that move, all right. Gruden doesn't like the 1:02:23.440 --> 1:02:26.880 emergence of female refs. See the problem with guys like 1:02:27.000 --> 1:02:29.360 Gruden is he's not just the biggest he is actively 1:02:29.360 --> 1:02:34.000 against the advancement of marginalized communities. Okay, John Gruden said 1:02:34.000 --> 1:02:38.200 Goodell shouldn't have pressured Jeff Fisher to draft Michael sam 1:02:38.320 --> 1:02:41.000 who was, you know, openly gay man. So to mean 1:02:41.000 --> 1:02:43.160 he's against the gay man prospering, all right, he doesn't. 1:02:43.240 --> 1:02:45.720 He doesn't want that gay man to eat. In my interpretation, 1:02:45.960 --> 1:02:49.600 According to the emails, Gruden denounced the emergence of female referees. Therefore, 1:02:49.600 --> 1:02:52.400 he doesn't think that a woman's place, you know, it's 1:02:52.440 --> 1:02:54.760 on the sidelines. Like, what other reason would he have 1:02:54.800 --> 1:02:57.560 to be against that? No other than she's a woman, 1:02:57.800 --> 1:02:59.720 you know. Gruden also wrote in his emails that Eric 1:02:59.800 --> 1:03:03.760 re former all Pro defensive backs should be fired for 1:03:03.880 --> 1:03:06.280 protesting during the national anthem. So you don't care about 1:03:06.320 --> 1:03:10.240 police brutality against black people either. Gruden also criticized the 1:03:10.480 --> 1:03:13.760 bill that would have forced Dinner Redskins to change their 1:03:13.840 --> 1:03:15.840 name in twenty fifteen. So let's look at the list 1:03:16.800 --> 1:03:21.479 gay people, women, indigenous people, black people, America. We've seen 1:03:21.560 --> 1:03:23.960 this movie before. This is what I mean when I 1:03:24.000 --> 1:03:26.760 say we have to have a decratification of this country. 1:03:26.880 --> 1:03:28.920 All right. The problem is you can change systems, but 1:03:29.000 --> 1:03:31.560 you can't change people's minds. But these are the kinds 1:03:31.560 --> 1:03:33.720 of crack ass crackers that are in positions of power 1:03:33.920 --> 1:03:36.880 all throughout America. And the problem is there is white 1:03:36.880 --> 1:03:39.480 people listening to me right now who heard all those 1:03:39.520 --> 1:03:42.520 things John John Gruden said and did, And they are 1:03:42.640 --> 1:03:45.360 more mad at me using the word cracker to describe 1:03:45.440 --> 1:03:48.040 John Gruden than they are of all the things John 1:03:48.080 --> 1:03:51.080 Gruden putting those emails that make him a cracker ass cracker. 1:03:51.240 --> 1:03:53.439 And you know why, because you probably a cracker ass 1:03:53.440 --> 1:03:55.680 cracker too, all right. Crackers a word. It's a word 1:03:55.840 --> 1:03:58.400 used to describe racist biggots, derived from the slave masters 1:03:58.400 --> 1:03:59.880 who used to crack whips on the back of the end. 1:04:00.400 --> 1:04:02.920 Go back and watch episode one of the Gods Honest 1:04:02.920 --> 1:04:04.840 Truth if my Late Night Talks show on Comedy Central, 1:04:04.880 --> 1:04:08.280 it's titled de Gratification. You can stream it on Paramount Plus, 1:04:08.360 --> 1:04:11.560 watch on demand, whatever. But we discuss how the denotification 1:04:11.640 --> 1:04:14.800 of Germany could apply here in America. Wouldn't be a 1:04:14.800 --> 1:04:18.720 permanent solution because once again, you can't change people's minds, 1:04:18.840 --> 1:04:21.920 but it's a step in the right direction to real healing, 1:04:22.200 --> 1:04:25.240 and that is what is happening right now. See, the 1:04:25.360 --> 1:04:28.400 universe is trying to heal itself. I truly believe that. 1:04:28.680 --> 1:04:31.600 And you can't heal what you don't reveal. So whatever 1:04:31.680 --> 1:04:35.520 you truly are will be revealed because the universe is 1:04:35.600 --> 1:04:38.960 flushing things out and bringing things to the forefront. That's why, 1:04:39.040 --> 1:04:43.000 once again, you should focus on character, not reputation, because 1:04:43.120 --> 1:04:46.240 character is who you really are. Reputation is who people 1:04:46.480 --> 1:04:50.280 think you are, and reputation can be created, okay, through 1:04:50.320 --> 1:04:52.720 smoking mirass. That's why I don't believe anything I hear 1:04:52.800 --> 1:04:54.960 or see about people, because folks present one way in 1:04:55.040 --> 1:04:57.640 person and be like John Gruden behind the scenes, and 1:04:57.720 --> 1:05:00.760 some people's presentation might be horrible, but in real life 1:05:01.120 --> 1:05:04.720 they're the nicest, most genuine people. Okay, So just sit 1:05:04.840 --> 1:05:07.440 back it's a lot of people that we misjudged who 1:05:07.480 --> 1:05:09.480 we said with trash, who are about to be revealed. 1:05:09.600 --> 1:05:11.560 It's really great humans, and it's a lot of people 1:05:11.560 --> 1:05:14.200 who present as really great human humans who will be 1:05:14.240 --> 1:05:17.520 revealed as trash. John Gruden is just the first of many. 1:05:17.680 --> 1:05:20.760 Because if we don't deracify America, the universe will do 1:05:20.760 --> 1:05:23.520 it for us. Please give John Gruden the biggest he 1:05:23.560 --> 1:05:30.280 are Just sit back, you ship back and watch the 1:05:30.360 --> 1:05:35.680 reveal clock as clock. Okay, okay, okay, alright. A matter 1:05:35.720 --> 1:05:37.720 of fact, why didn't I let Chelsea hand look, give 1:05:37.760 --> 1:05:41.120 John Cruden the biggest he harms he he haw. That 1:05:41.280 --> 1:05:43.880 is way too much, Dan manthy Criffin, you get it 1:05:43.920 --> 1:05:46.640 on this too. Please give this giant jar male the 1:05:46.760 --> 1:05:58.160 biggest he reiterate. All right, all right, you've been getting 1:05:58.200 --> 1:05:59.800 hit a lot recently, man patting your head and men 1:06:00.280 --> 1:06:04.120 rom forty three many pause, but don't believe no more. 1:06:04.760 --> 1:06:08.440 M all right, all right, let's hopen up the phone lines. 1:06:10.640 --> 1:06:12.920 Let's slander the breakfast club. You know we do this 1:06:13.240 --> 1:06:16.000 once every once a weekend. We allow people to open 1:06:16.040 --> 1:06:17.479 up the phone lines. And if you have a problem 1:06:17.520 --> 1:06:20.200 with the breakfast club, me e or Charlemagne, you can 1:06:20.400 --> 1:06:22.760 tell us what your problem is eight hundred five eight 1:06:22.840 --> 1:06:25.680 five one on five one phone lines or wide open 1:06:25.760 --> 1:06:28.600 whatever your problem is with us. Three. This is when 1:06:28.600 --> 1:06:30.560 we open up the phone lines and allow you to 1:06:30.640 --> 1:06:34.080 just say what your problem is. It's slander the breakfast club, right, 1:06:34.240 --> 1:06:36.000 do it right now? The number again, it's eight hundred 1:06:36.200 --> 1:06:38.600 five eight five one on five one. Something that you 1:06:38.600 --> 1:06:41.880 don't like about Charlemagne, ye or myself. You gotta start 1:06:41.880 --> 1:06:45.240 with me, all right, me ye or Charlemagne. There you go. 1:06:45.440 --> 1:06:48.920 I'll put you in the middle of me. You're on 1:06:48.960 --> 1:06:53.760 the bottom. Yes, yes, yes, nope, yes, call us now? 1:06:53.800 --> 1:07:00.280 Is the breakfast Lug, Good morning the breakfast club, because 1:07:00.280 --> 1:07:04.640 the club humble with slaming the breakfast clubs? Sit down? 1:07:06.200 --> 1:07:12.480 Her daughter, Hello, who's this yo? Dave? What's up? Dave? 1:07:12.640 --> 1:07:15.640 What up? Doe? What up? Do? What up? Man? I 1:07:15.680 --> 1:07:18.160 got I got some from Angela. Ye, man, I think 1:07:18.200 --> 1:07:21.760 the whole world ready to hear it is? We're her man, 1:07:21.880 --> 1:07:24.360 that man she always worried about somebody else, belated until 1:07:24.400 --> 1:07:28.000 with her relationship with her man, that he must be death. 1:07:28.080 --> 1:07:30.200 She talks about her man all the time. He's asleep 1:07:30.280 --> 1:07:36.200 right now. Actually, oh for real, man, yo, Man, No, okay, okay, yeah, 1:07:36.200 --> 1:07:38.080 I think people's been waiting to hear that. You always 1:07:38.120 --> 1:07:41.120 look somebody out business. I had to get to my tips. 1:07:41.160 --> 1:07:44.280 I don't never hear about dor relationship. Well you gotta 1:07:44.280 --> 1:07:48.080 listen to a little harder, sir. Hello, who's this? Gee? Gee? 1:07:48.080 --> 1:07:50.919 What's up? Man? Slander the breakfast club? What's good? Man? 1:07:51.000 --> 1:07:56.440 Breakfast club? What up? Bro? Charlom Magne, Yes, sir, he's happening. King, 1:07:56.800 --> 1:07:58.920 not a much man, and I ain't get a slender y'all. Man, 1:07:58.960 --> 1:08:03.320 I love a breakfast club. Man. That's well, thank you, King. 1:08:03.360 --> 1:08:07.520 We appreciate you. Man. So sure, Hello, who's this? You 1:08:07.640 --> 1:08:09.920 know this? Rob Caper? Up? I'm not gonna try to 1:08:09.920 --> 1:08:12.120 pronounce your name. What's up? Man? Stand at the breakfast club? Brother? 1:08:12.640 --> 1:08:15.160 All right? I love the show. I just want to 1:08:15.880 --> 1:08:18.000 I want to give Charlotte man to guard the donkey 1:08:18.120 --> 1:08:20.519 to David. That's that's how we could do. But ahead go. 1:08:20.600 --> 1:08:23.519 It's on you, sir, okay, so on you because you 1:08:23.640 --> 1:08:26.040 always talking about deep run to fide, but you want 1:08:26.040 --> 1:08:28.639 to go on their talking about the Jesus Christ. So 1:08:28.680 --> 1:08:31.880 how could you free our people? You know? If you 1:08:32.160 --> 1:08:35.599 I'm corrupted vocabinary, So that's one of the says. Uh, 1:08:35.760 --> 1:08:38.040 you know, you gotta straighten that out so he could 1:08:38.040 --> 1:08:40.880 be really liberated. My brother, let me ask you a question, 1:08:41.000 --> 1:08:43.120 why why why are you assuming that when I say 1:08:43.200 --> 1:08:46.400 Jesus Christ? Why are you assuming Jesus's white? Why? Why 1:08:46.520 --> 1:08:48.880 is yours? I'm not I'm not a stuman Jesus a 1:08:48.960 --> 1:08:53.200 spike because I know that Jesus kim from sir ROPAs, 1:08:53.200 --> 1:08:56.400 who is white, so be a Greek, a Greek un 1:08:56.400 --> 1:08:59.559 scept so I'm not assuman that I know that Jesus 1:08:59.680 --> 1:09:03.040 kim from the white mind. Does hold on? Do you 1:09:03.040 --> 1:09:07.680 think Jesus white? Jesus North? You think Jesus white? I 1:09:07.760 --> 1:09:11.280 didn't think Jesus isn't blind men white? Is he is white? 1:09:11.360 --> 1:09:15.080 I said, surround, you gotta do your you gotta do 1:09:15.120 --> 1:09:20.679 a proper history research whether it comes to knowledge. My brother, hey, 1:09:20.800 --> 1:09:24.439 de cratify your mind, my brother, de colonize your brain. 1:09:24.600 --> 1:09:28.120 My brother Jesus is black. My brother Jesus is a 1:09:28.160 --> 1:09:33.320 black mind. My brother, Hello, who's this Dinysia Slands at 1:09:33.320 --> 1:09:36.160 the breakfast club. So I really want to get on 1:09:36.240 --> 1:09:38.880 you and Charlemagne because y'all don't know the difference between 1:09:38.920 --> 1:09:43.400 wrath and ethnicity. Always getting on you about being Dominican. 1:09:43.520 --> 1:09:46.120 You can, I'm not Dominican. I'm black. Yeah, you're black, 1:09:46.160 --> 1:09:49.400 but you can. There's something as black Dominicans because brain 1:09:49.920 --> 1:09:53.640 is based off your journey being tech in perfection and 1:09:53.720 --> 1:09:58.880 your hair touched her. But ethnicity that's based off like tripo, affiliation, diligence, 1:09:59.160 --> 1:10:04.600 and traditions. A particular du identified myself as black, identified 1:10:04.640 --> 1:10:08.040 myself as black. My mama black black, and I'm black. Yeah, 1:10:08.080 --> 1:10:09.960 I know, I know you said that. In this roomains 1:10:09.960 --> 1:10:11.960 always like oh no, but they're Dominican. But you can't 1:10:12.160 --> 1:10:16.439 black and Dominican. It's not like you're not black and 1:10:16.680 --> 1:10:20.519 you're you can't be you. I don't know that racist 1:10:20.560 --> 1:10:22.920 based on your did you say your hair texture and 1:10:23.000 --> 1:10:26.200 you're well, your your field cool characteristics like your skin color. 1:10:26.600 --> 1:10:28.960 What about when you wear white jeans after labor day? 1:10:29.160 --> 1:10:31.880 Does that make you Dominican? That makes you Dominican? Mama, No, 1:10:32.360 --> 1:10:34.519 I'm not domnicaated. I wear white why I don't wear 1:10:34.520 --> 1:10:36.400 white jeans at all? But I don't care about wearing 1:10:36.400 --> 1:10:39.679 white beings after labor day. Well, because like Michael Cole's bags. 1:10:39.680 --> 1:10:42.120 What do you? What does that mean? Whoa? Whoa whoa? 1:10:42.160 --> 1:10:45.720 This guy is crazy. This guy is crazy. This guy 1:10:45.880 --> 1:10:49.280 is crazy. Is this guy not crazy? Why my crazy 1:10:49.320 --> 1:10:57.559 guy is crazy? Man? All right? Jesus Christy slaying at 1:10:57.560 --> 1:11:01.240 the Breakfast Club eight hundred five five five one. You 1:11:01.280 --> 1:11:02.840 want to sland to the Breakfast Club. Call us now 1:11:02.880 --> 1:11:06.360 as the breakfast Club, the body the Breakfast Club, humble 1:11:06.400 --> 1:11:15.240 with slacking the breakfast class down? Hello? Who's this? This 1:11:15.360 --> 1:11:19.639 is Sean whatever envy? What's up? Bro? How you doing? 1:11:19.800 --> 1:11:22.559 Who's gonna get this smoke? First? You go? Whatever? You 1:11:22.560 --> 1:11:24.479 whoever you want to give it to. I want to 1:11:24.479 --> 1:11:26.800 give it to Charlottemagne. You know now that he's getting money, 1:11:26.800 --> 1:11:28.599 he want to put that black make up for him. Man, 1:11:28.640 --> 1:11:30.400 let's take it back to the Wendy ms. You have 1:11:30.520 --> 1:11:33.160 fifteen shades of black, Charlottegagne. Come on now, who told 1:11:33.200 --> 1:11:36.240 you I'm getting money? We all know you're getting money. 1:11:36.240 --> 1:11:38.280 It ain't true. Don't tell them, don't spread them. Live 1:11:38.800 --> 1:11:41.839 y'all all getting my Angela? You next, you're ready, Angela? 1:11:42.040 --> 1:11:44.280 I'm ready. I don't like how I met you the 1:11:44.320 --> 1:11:46.719 first time on loan forty fifth on the telephone poll. 1:11:46.760 --> 1:11:48.919 You want to ji for me? Commerce? You you understand 1:11:49.040 --> 1:11:52.200 saying advertiving good here? You already got good here. You 1:11:52.200 --> 1:11:56.120 don't need no JI from me. He's talking about your billboard. 1:11:56.120 --> 1:11:58.360 That's that's all. No, you know what I came on 1:11:58.400 --> 1:12:00.320 every way I see, I'm like old. That's it with 1:12:00.400 --> 1:12:02.920 ye the first time I'm showing you know, just for me. 1:12:03.400 --> 1:12:04.680 You didn't mean that. You just seen a build. Bull 1:12:04.760 --> 1:12:10.960 ahead continued. Okay, anything else, you're boring me, anything else. 1:12:11.800 --> 1:12:13.879 If you ain't like how youre going to really represent 1:12:13.880 --> 1:12:15.479 our liation brothers like that, you know what I mean? 1:12:15.520 --> 1:12:17.120 If you're gonna be on a real weird time out 1:12:17.120 --> 1:12:18.400 of change, you know what I mean? If you're going 1:12:18.479 --> 1:12:20.800 out way to tie not to change that was like 1:12:20.880 --> 1:12:23.920 five years ago, bro, like where you ast like you 1:12:24.000 --> 1:12:27.439 got out of something. I don't know. Jesus Christ, Hello, 1:12:27.479 --> 1:12:31.320 who's this this rooney? I want to slender ye goad 1:12:31.439 --> 1:12:34.360 go yeah, give us some logic. Year. I'm tired of 1:12:34.479 --> 1:12:37.880 every time somebody come on the show you're talking about well, 1:12:37.920 --> 1:12:41.280 I feel like you always feel like something you use 1:12:41.320 --> 1:12:46.719 that logic, young ladies, beautiful self. I don't have feelings 1:12:46.800 --> 1:12:51.240 on they use logic. That's right, Okay, goodbye. I feel 1:12:51.240 --> 1:12:55.439 like that's a terrible idea. Hello, that's a good conversation. Logic, 1:12:55.439 --> 1:12:57.120 which one is? It should be logic of a feelings 1:12:57.160 --> 1:13:00.120 and feelings of a logic. That's a good conversation. I 1:13:00.120 --> 1:13:02.760 want to spend all three, y'all. Go all right, let's 1:13:02.760 --> 1:13:06.040 start off for you. Um he did good on the first, 1:13:06.360 --> 1:13:08.880 kind of like a young Diddy kiss and he's kind 1:13:08.880 --> 1:13:12.400 of more for starting to hit all right, keep going? 1:13:12.640 --> 1:13:17.240 What version did you do? Kiss? Ahead? Go oh Charlemagne 1:13:17.240 --> 1:13:20.519 and heavy? Man, I'm tired of this textual tension between y'all. 1:13:21.160 --> 1:13:23.599 My time, y'all has the text is gonna be so trash, 1:13:23.800 --> 1:13:29.280 y'all building up. I'm gonna be y'all get it in man, 1:13:29.400 --> 1:13:33.120 y'all got that's gonna be like the Detox album. Okay, 1:13:33.560 --> 1:13:42.600 you can't now that's funny. That's that was hilarious. That 1:13:42.680 --> 1:13:46.320 was that's the best one of the day so far. Hello, 1:13:46.320 --> 1:13:52.600 who's this club? Wrepperas club Wrappers Club? It's Freddy for Annapolis, Mandy. 1:13:52.960 --> 1:13:56.560 I gotta tell you, man, you gotta stop usually in 1:13:56.760 --> 1:13:59.800 words so freely, man, what a I use the A word. 1:14:01.000 --> 1:14:02.960 Don't you use the times you be talking about it 1:14:02.960 --> 1:14:04.680 and you'd be using it, man, I think would be 1:14:04.680 --> 1:14:08.040 a good idea if anytime you use it, you know, 1:14:08.160 --> 1:14:11.080 pay yourself for fine and didn't take that money that 1:14:11.160 --> 1:14:14.040 you accumulate from using the word so much and donated 1:14:14.080 --> 1:14:16.400 to a charity. You're right, I'm trying not to use it. 1:14:16.400 --> 1:14:17.800 But here's the thing, man, I use it in this 1:14:17.920 --> 1:14:20.240 proper context. I don't use it as a term of endemic. 1:14:20.320 --> 1:14:22.519 I use it. And when i'd be like these this boy, 1:14:22.640 --> 1:14:25.200 well you know, he just use it again. How much 1:14:25.240 --> 1:14:29.320 should that fine be? I don't know, ma'am. Maybe a thousand. 1:14:29.600 --> 1:14:31.880 Let me tell you how my brain works. In my mind, 1:14:31.960 --> 1:14:34.479 whenever I use cracker, it off sets the N word. 1:14:36.360 --> 1:14:43.439 Thank you. He right, though, I gotta stop using that word. Hello, Hello, 1:14:43.720 --> 1:14:47.680 Hey Slater the breakfast clab Mama. All right, so this 1:14:47.720 --> 1:14:51.519 one for Charlomane. Listen, I'm a cancer. I rock with 1:14:51.600 --> 1:14:55.880 you every day. Okay, Yes, man, When you see that 1:14:57.200 --> 1:15:00.200 when I say what I didn't hear it? Script eight 1:15:00.520 --> 1:15:04.240 script and straight straight strip street and you add a 1:15:04.360 --> 1:15:08.880 cake to it, your phone is breaking up. Your phone 1:15:08.960 --> 1:15:11.040 is making me upset. But I'm from Monkst corner of 1:15:11.040 --> 1:15:12.880 South Carolina. You know what I'm saying. I don't. I'm 1:15:12.880 --> 1:15:14.800 not gonna blame it on South Carolina, but I do 1:15:15.080 --> 1:15:18.800 feel like straight screech, scrump scrimp. That's just how we talk. 1:15:19.240 --> 1:15:22.320 All right, Well, slander the Breakfast Club eight ondred five 1:15:22.400 --> 1:15:24.200 eight five one on five one. If you slander the 1:15:24.200 --> 1:15:25.800 Breakfast Club, we do that once a week where you 1:15:25.800 --> 1:15:27.640 can just call us up and let us know what 1:15:27.680 --> 1:15:30.360 you think about it. Now you've got rooms on the way, yes, 1:15:30.560 --> 1:15:34.040 And let's talk about being offended. Who was offended by 1:15:34.080 --> 1:15:37.400 Kim Kardashian's monologue on SNL. All right, we'll get into 1:15:37.439 --> 1:15:40.559 that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Come morning, the Breakfast Club. 1:15:44.000 --> 1:15:53.759 This is the rumor report with Angela years well. Michael 1:15:53.800 --> 1:15:56.880 Jordan was on NBC Today's Show and Craig Melvin asked 1:15:56.920 --> 1:16:00.880 him if he's concerned about the NBA's COVID vaccine protocols. 1:16:01.320 --> 1:16:04.280 And here is what Michael Jordan had to say in response, 1:16:04.640 --> 1:16:08.040 Are you at all concerned about the protocols? Not at all. 1:16:08.080 --> 1:16:11.559 I am total in unison with the league, and I 1:16:11.600 --> 1:16:14.520 think everybody you know it's been speaking about the vaccinations, 1:16:14.560 --> 1:16:17.000 and you know, I'm a firm believer in science, you know, 1:16:17.000 --> 1:16:19.479 and I'm gonna stick with that and hopefully everybody ad 1:16:19.520 --> 1:16:22.040 buys by whatever the league sets the rules, and you know, 1:16:22.240 --> 1:16:24.920 I think that, you know, once everybody buys, we're gonna 1:16:24.920 --> 1:16:28.120 be fine. I mean, what would be different from last year? 1:16:28.200 --> 1:16:31.160 Last hit? They got through it. It was traveling, they 1:16:31.280 --> 1:16:33.280 was playing home games in away games, Like, what would 1:16:33.320 --> 1:16:40.600 be different without an audience was two years ago the 1:16:40.600 --> 1:16:43.519 season before. Huh? But were they at full capacity? I 1:16:43.560 --> 1:16:45.280 don't think. I don't know if they were full some 1:16:45.360 --> 1:16:47.400 of them were, not all of the not all of them. Yeah. 1:16:47.439 --> 1:16:50.400 And then I think it also coincides whatever their restrictions 1:16:50.400 --> 1:16:52.960 are in the city that you're into. So if the 1:16:53.000 --> 1:16:55.000 city is saying you can't come in here if you're 1:16:55.040 --> 1:16:57.400 not vaccinated, you have to buye by that. It was 1:16:57.439 --> 1:17:00.920 like that last season though. The vaccine was rolled out 1:17:01.000 --> 1:17:03.360 last season because I remember at the Barclays you had 1:17:03.400 --> 1:17:06.160 to get a COVID test and then at a certain 1:17:06.160 --> 1:17:08.400 point in time you had to be vaccinated. Yeah, you 1:17:08.439 --> 1:17:10.800 have to go to some of the I think Atlanta too, 1:17:10.800 --> 1:17:12.160 you had to have the COVID test before you walk 1:17:12.200 --> 1:17:14.639 into the arena as well. Now, was Michael talking about 1:17:14.640 --> 1:17:16.880 players just now or was he talking about just overall? 1:17:16.920 --> 1:17:20.280 He's talking about players because he's saying whatever the leader. Okay, okay, 1:17:20.280 --> 1:17:22.719 all right, yeah he's talking about players. Okay, that's different, 1:17:22.760 --> 1:17:27.120 all right now. Kim Kardashian the the monologue that she 1:17:27.200 --> 1:17:32.320 gave on SNL offended Nicole Brown's sister, and Tanya Brown, 1:17:32.400 --> 1:17:34.320 who is a sister of Nicole Brown, said she thought 1:17:34.360 --> 1:17:37.080 that they were in poor taste and that Nicole's death 1:17:37.080 --> 1:17:39.880 should not be portrayed as a joke. Here's what she said. 1:17:40.560 --> 1:17:43.160 You know, my father was and still is such an 1:17:43.200 --> 1:17:46.000 influence and inspiration to me, and I credit him with 1:17:46.080 --> 1:17:49.320 really opening up my eyes to racial injustice. It's because 1:17:49.320 --> 1:17:52.840 of him that I met my first black person. You 1:17:52.960 --> 1:17:54.760 want to take a stab in the dark at who 1:17:54.760 --> 1:17:58.240 it was. I know, it's sort of weird to remember 1:17:58.280 --> 1:18:01.000 the first black person you met, But O J doesn't 1:18:01.040 --> 1:18:04.120 leave a mark or several or none at all. I 1:18:04.200 --> 1:18:08.120 still don't know. Now. Tanya Brown says that these jokes 1:18:08.120 --> 1:18:12.080 were beyond inappropriate and insensitive, and she's wondering how much 1:18:12.360 --> 1:18:15.439 the Kardashians actually cared about Nicole because Chris Jenna was 1:18:15.439 --> 1:18:17.960 one of Nicole's close friends. Yeah, I wondered. I wondered, 1:18:18.080 --> 1:18:20.160 you know, did that hurt more because it's coming from 1:18:20.240 --> 1:18:22.800 Kim and Kim and you know, the families were close. 1:18:22.960 --> 1:18:25.320 Because comedian has been making OJ Simpson jokes for ever, 1:18:25.360 --> 1:18:28.040 everybody making it's probably different when you know the person 1:18:28.800 --> 1:18:31.680 and they supposedly were friends with the person. So she 1:18:31.800 --> 1:18:33.760 feels like, even though she knows Kim didn't write it, 1:18:33.760 --> 1:18:36.240 she should have pushed back and refused to do that 1:18:36.320 --> 1:18:38.400 particular joke. That is one of those things about those 1:18:38.479 --> 1:18:42.000 jokes tho. And I even realized that with the surviving 1:18:42.080 --> 1:18:44.920 R Kelly situation, Like, you know, we all made jokes 1:18:44.920 --> 1:18:47.479 about R Kelly, but you don't realize there's actual victims 1:18:47.479 --> 1:18:49.320 of all. Even when you're making jokes about OJ and 1:18:49.439 --> 1:18:51.880 fans hurts them as well. Of course people will kill 1:18:52.200 --> 1:18:53.840 so I get it. Yeah, And I'm sure it's the 1:18:53.840 --> 1:18:57.120 worst when it's somebody you know personally and you're like, damn, 1:18:57.120 --> 1:19:00.559 you was at the house, you know, so hurt more? Yeah? 1:19:00.600 --> 1:19:03.160 All right. Now, Kanye has put his Wyoming ranch up 1:19:03.160 --> 1:19:06.760 for sale. The list price is eleven million dollars he 1:19:06.800 --> 1:19:10.840 initially purchases for fourteen point five million, and they said 1:19:10.840 --> 1:19:13.599 it's a forty five acre Monster Lake property with eight 1:19:13.640 --> 1:19:16.719 lodging units, two freshwater lakes, a restaurant and events center, 1:19:16.720 --> 1:19:21.280 and meeting facilities and barns for eleven million dollars. Not bad. 1:19:21.360 --> 1:19:24.679 And I think he has others owl he's losing. I'm saying, 1:19:24.680 --> 1:19:26.640 not bad. If you want to buy it, that's a 1:19:26.680 --> 1:19:29.320 lot for eleven million dollars. It comes with all that. 1:19:29.479 --> 1:19:31.600 So he wants to leave Wyoming Now, I think he 1:19:31.640 --> 1:19:34.720 also has other properties. There's one of his ranch properties, 1:19:34.800 --> 1:19:36.920 so that one is on the market. We don't know 1:19:36.960 --> 1:19:40.400 if he's leaving and selling everything yet, all right, now, 1:19:40.520 --> 1:19:45.960 former judge duty bailiff Peter Petrie Hawkins Bird and he's 1:19:46.000 --> 1:19:48.400 saying that he's upset because he's not reprising his role 1:19:48.479 --> 1:19:52.040 in the spinoff series Justice Judy. He said that he 1:19:52.360 --> 1:19:55.120 told the outlet that he was excluded from the new series, 1:19:55.160 --> 1:19:57.120 but he caught wind of the new project when she 1:19:57.200 --> 1:20:00.120 made the announcement in twenty twenty. During an apparent on 1:20:00.160 --> 1:20:02.240 The Ellen Show, he said, my assumption is if you 1:20:02.320 --> 1:20:04.200 were going on to do something else, that you were 1:20:04.240 --> 1:20:06.479 at least going to ask me if I wanted to 1:20:06.479 --> 1:20:09.800 have the opportunity to audition for the role. They never 1:20:09.840 --> 1:20:12.240 discussed the new show during their time filming the twenty 1:20:12.240 --> 1:20:14.320 fifth and final season, so he was on there with 1:20:14.360 --> 1:20:16.960 her for twenty five seasons. He said he didn't have 1:20:17.000 --> 1:20:19.720 time to think about or ask about Judy Justice because 1:20:19.760 --> 1:20:22.200 after filming wrapped up, he had to focus on his wife, 1:20:22.320 --> 1:20:24.800 who's also a veteran show producer, who was scheduled to 1:20:24.840 --> 1:20:28.040 have brain surgery, and he revealed that he did reach 1:20:28.080 --> 1:20:30.680 out to Judy Shinlan and she told him that he 1:20:30.720 --> 1:20:32.559 was not being asked to come along on the project. 1:20:32.640 --> 1:20:34.840 He said, I didn't inquire as to why that's her choice, 1:20:35.040 --> 1:20:37.320 but she did inform me that fundamentally I was priced 1:20:37.320 --> 1:20:38.800 out as a new bailiff on her new show. My 1:20:38.840 --> 1:20:40.800 salary would have been too much, but he would have 1:20:40.840 --> 1:20:44.280 liked the opportunity to have accepted a lower salary if possible. 1:20:45.439 --> 1:20:48.840 Tiger is cooperating with authorities. His ex is saying that 1:20:48.880 --> 1:20:52.839 he got physical and she posted some alleged injuries. Cameron 1:20:53.000 --> 1:20:55.720 Swanson is her name. She came over to his home 1:20:55.760 --> 1:20:58.120 around three am after he told her not to, and 1:20:58.160 --> 1:21:00.479 she was at his front door shout at the top 1:21:00.479 --> 1:21:03.960 of her lungs. According to a source, they said Tiger 1:21:03.960 --> 1:21:05.880 and other family members in his home felt that she 1:21:05.920 --> 1:21:08.400 appeared to be under the influence. He led her inside 1:21:08.439 --> 1:21:10.719 to talk to yell and continue, they said. Cameron claims 1:21:10.720 --> 1:21:13.360 Tiger put his hands on her during the argument. Afterward, 1:21:13.400 --> 1:21:15.200 her mother came to pick her up and then she 1:21:15.320 --> 1:21:17.800 called the cops to report the alleged incident. So she 1:21:17.840 --> 1:21:20.800 did also post a video showing these injuries. She said 1:21:20.840 --> 1:21:25.240 she is standing up for herself and he is cooperating 1:21:25.240 --> 1:21:28.840 with authorities right now, so we'll keep you updated on that, 1:21:29.280 --> 1:21:32.400 all right. Teraji has been talking about launching her music career. 1:21:32.439 --> 1:21:36.280 She has a new feel good EP and she's been 1:21:36.320 --> 1:21:38.680 working on that, so it's a surprise for people. But 1:21:38.760 --> 1:21:41.760 as you know, her new season of her Facebook watch 1:21:41.840 --> 1:21:44.320 series has just kicked off and one of the people 1:21:44.400 --> 1:21:47.920 on there was Megan the Stallion. So here's what Meghan 1:21:48.000 --> 1:21:51.559 the Stallion had to say about her Boo partisan Fontaine. 1:21:52.000 --> 1:21:55.800 My boyfriend does make me very happy. He definitely takes 1:21:55.840 --> 1:21:58.960 care of me emotionally. He makes my brain feel good, 1:22:00.240 --> 1:22:03.160 my heart feel good. That's, you know, a big thing 1:22:03.200 --> 1:22:05.400 for me because I used to be so into the 1:22:05.439 --> 1:22:09.360 physical right. But he moves me, he inspires me. We 1:22:09.479 --> 1:22:13.320 just feel like a real team. Okay, you can watch 1:22:13.360 --> 1:22:15.680 an entire episode of Peace of Mind with Tagie on 1:22:15.760 --> 1:22:18.760 Facebook Watch and that is your rumor report. All right, 1:22:18.840 --> 1:22:21.120 shout out to Revolt. We'll see you guys tomorrow. Everybody 1:22:21.160 --> 1:22:23.240 else to People's Choice Mixes Up. Next, get your requesting. 1:22:23.320 --> 1:22:26.920 Let's go so Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be 1:22:27.080 --> 1:22:30.639 the same. Our Audible pick of the day is Founding 1:22:30.680 --> 1:22:34.000 Fuboo by Damon John. The trailblazer of hip hop fashion, 1:22:34.040 --> 1:22:37.320 started his revolutionary clothing line in his mom's house. Here 1:22:37.400 --> 1:22:40.160 how he did it in this inspiring memoir. Sign up 1:22:40.200 --> 1:22:42.960 for a free thirty day Audible trial at audible dot com. 1:22:43.040 --> 1:22:49.479 Slash Breakfast Club, j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomne the guy. 1:22:49.560 --> 1:22:53.759 We are the Breakfast Club again. Don't forget my car show. 1:22:54.120 --> 1:22:57.559 It's three weeks away, super duper excited in Detroit. That 1:22:57.840 --> 1:22:59.680 is October thirty. So if you want to take the 1:22:59.720 --> 1:23:02.960 kids trick or treating, or maybe you're fearful of what 1:23:03.080 --> 1:23:04.920 we're gonna have it the day before, so would it 1:23:05.000 --> 1:23:06.920 be cars? It'll be candy for the kids. It'll be 1:23:06.920 --> 1:23:10.519 amusement rides, carnival games, kids fibing under a free and 1:23:10.560 --> 1:23:13.639 then in December will be in Miami. That's twelve twelve, 1:23:13.680 --> 1:23:15.560 so bring the kids out. It's family fun day, so 1:23:15.600 --> 1:23:17.960 you could bring the family out, safe environment and we 1:23:18.040 --> 1:23:20.160 just have fun. Just gonna be dressed up as a 1:23:20.840 --> 1:23:23.000 you know, folloween Ye, yep, I'm gonna be dressed up. 1:23:23.000 --> 1:23:24.200 My kids are gonna be dressed up. What are you 1:23:24.240 --> 1:23:25.720 gonna come as? I don't know. I don't want to 1:23:25.720 --> 1:23:29.240 say yet. I don't say yet, so you already know. Yep. 1:23:30.320 --> 1:23:32.519 Is it a car? No, I'm not gonna dress us 1:23:32.600 --> 1:23:37.839 a car. But yeah, I will be dressed up for Halloween. 1:23:37.840 --> 1:23:39.639 So I can't wait to see you guys, all right. 1:23:39.920 --> 1:23:41.679 And also I want to tell everybody just be careful 1:23:41.720 --> 1:23:44.000 out there. I mean, you know, it's getting close to 1:23:44.000 --> 1:23:48.120 the holiday season and I see robberies up, people getting 1:23:48.200 --> 1:23:52.000 robbed and assaulted up. Just be careful out there. You 1:23:52.040 --> 1:23:55.280 sell a candy man? Did canny man is fake? You? 1:23:56.080 --> 1:23:58.120 I saw yesterday? Did they caught some of those people? 1:23:58.240 --> 1:24:00.760 I get one guy, didn't you never leave? Yeah? They 1:24:01.080 --> 1:24:03.439 believe it was flip child. They believe that there's a 1:24:03.520 --> 1:24:05.519 gang in New York City if you're from out of town. 1:24:05.520 --> 1:24:07.360 But this is all over the place that they were 1:24:07.400 --> 1:24:09.639 just robbing people going to the hot spots, the clubs, 1:24:09.720 --> 1:24:13.040 the restaurants and waiting for people to walk out, and 1:24:13.160 --> 1:24:15.040 you know, trying to take their watches and rings and 1:24:15.160 --> 1:24:18.040 phones and all that. So just be extra careful if 1:24:18.040 --> 1:24:21.519 you see something, call the police. See something, say something, 1:24:21.560 --> 1:24:23.720 But they are out there. This is robbery season. Just 1:24:23.720 --> 1:24:25.720 be extra careful. When you go into your crib, your house, 1:24:25.760 --> 1:24:27.559 just look over your shoulder to look for paul cars. 1:24:27.880 --> 1:24:30.599 Just be extra careful out there. I mean, I've never 1:24:30.640 --> 1:24:33.160 seen the city like this. The city's bad. The hell 1:24:33.200 --> 1:24:35.280 you mean You've been in since the eighties and it's bad. 1:24:35.840 --> 1:24:37.840 This is this is one of them. Not even just 1:24:37.880 --> 1:24:40.799 people get robbed like you seeing you seeing like yesterday, 1:24:40.800 --> 1:24:43.400 I've seen a lady push a three year old on 1:24:43.400 --> 1:24:45.000 the floor. I've seen somebody trying to push some money 1:24:45.000 --> 1:24:47.120 in front of a train and somebody cut somebody in 1:24:47.120 --> 1:24:48.800 the face. Like it's c yeah, and I think it's 1:24:48.800 --> 1:24:50.600 because of social media too, But you're right. I was. 1:24:50.800 --> 1:24:53.280 I was having a conversation with an older white home 1:24:53.280 --> 1:24:55.400 in your mind, and um I said that. I was like, man, 1:24:55.439 --> 1:24:57.600 I said, your New York look like it did in 1:24:57.600 --> 1:25:00.120 the early two thousands, late nineties. She said, no, this 1:25:00.200 --> 1:25:02.360 is like how it wasn't the sixty seventies. I was like, well, 1:25:02.400 --> 1:25:05.200 it wasn't around. I'll take your word for it, man, 1:25:05.400 --> 1:25:08.200 but it's bad out there, so just be careful. And 1:25:08.280 --> 1:25:10.600 it's and it's because people starving. It's literally because of 1:25:10.600 --> 1:25:14.000 the economy. I'm telling you. Then PPM, then PPM, then PPP. 1:25:14.200 --> 1:25:18.680 Loans gone, the unemployment gone, the holiday season about to 1:25:18.720 --> 1:25:21.320 be upon us, everything looking like a lake for people 1:25:21.320 --> 1:25:23.719 who need eat. Yeah. And the dude that they caught yesterday, 1:25:23.720 --> 1:25:26.719 he's from the Bronx, of course, because the craziest people 1:25:26.720 --> 1:25:31.240 in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. Yes, yes, 1:25:31.360 --> 1:25:33.960 so all right, Well when we come back, positive noticed 1:25:34.000 --> 1:25:37.639 the Breakfast Club go Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, 1:25:37.800 --> 1:25:40.960 Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club, 1:25:41.320 --> 1:25:43.800 Yes we are, and shout out to everybody that was 1:25:43.840 --> 1:25:47.840 calling in today. One person that was talking about the 1:25:47.880 --> 1:25:50.880 sexual attention between Envy and Charlottage. He said, by the 1:25:50.920 --> 1:25:54.280 time y'all have sex. It's going to be trash. That 1:25:54.360 --> 1:25:56.280 has to be such a disappointment if you wait for 1:25:56.400 --> 1:25:59.400 years and years and years and hold out and then 1:25:59.439 --> 1:26:01.479 you finally have sex with someone and it's not what 1:26:01.479 --> 1:26:03.719 you thought it was. I think it's scranged that people 1:26:04.080 --> 1:26:07.479 um think about me and envy having sex. Me and 1:26:07.479 --> 1:26:10.719 iv ain't thinking about that. No, you know what I'm saying. 1:26:11.200 --> 1:26:13.640 Just just because you tell your brother you love him 1:26:13.680 --> 1:26:15.360 and you value them and you appreciate them, don't mean 1:26:15.400 --> 1:26:18.760 you wanted to sleep with him. Jesus Christ, people get 1:26:18.800 --> 1:26:22.200 your names out the gutter. Also, sleute to Jason Wilson, 1:26:22.520 --> 1:26:24.559 you know what I mean. Jason Wilson, the author of 1:26:24.600 --> 1:26:27.120 Cry Like a Man in Battle Cry, just a great 1:26:27.120 --> 1:26:30.040 brother man. Follow him on Instagram and Twitter at mister 1:26:30.200 --> 1:26:32.680 Jason Wilson. He's got a documentary coming out produced by 1:26:32.760 --> 1:26:35.760 Lawrence Fishburn about his life. He's just a really really 1:26:35.800 --> 1:26:39.080 good brother man who's really out here, you know, helping 1:26:39.120 --> 1:26:41.479 the people, helping the community, especially in Detroit, Like I 1:26:41.520 --> 1:26:44.160 mean his organization Union, you know, he's he's helped over 1:26:44.200 --> 1:26:47.240 ten thousand young black men, you know, deal with their 1:26:47.280 --> 1:26:52.360 trauma through Marshal Larch. So really, hell yeah, Detroit, get 1:26:52.360 --> 1:26:53.880 his number because maybe he got some young men that 1:26:53.920 --> 1:26:55.240 he wants to give, you know, look to getting the 1:26:55.280 --> 1:26:57.479 car show free and just you know he would love that. 1:26:57.600 --> 1:26:59.760 Ask you can ask Ty Royce any of him about 1:26:59.840 --> 1:27:03.320 Jay and Jason absolutely demand sleute to Jason Wilson. So 1:27:03.840 --> 1:27:06.120 I'm happy you pulled up this morning. All right, Well 1:27:06.120 --> 1:27:08.880 you got a positive note, Yes, the positive note simply 1:27:08.960 --> 1:27:11.519 this be around the light bringers, the magic makers, the 1:27:11.600 --> 1:27:14.760 world shift is the game shakers. They challenge you, break 1:27:14.840 --> 1:27:17.200 you open, uplift and expand you. They don't let you 1:27:17.280 --> 1:27:20.200 play small with your life. These heartbeats are your people. 1:27:20.479 --> 1:27:24.200 These people are your tribe. Breakfast club pitches, yount finish. 1:27:24.240 --> 1:27:25.000 Are y'all dumb a