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Speaker 1: That's that's had to get everybody to a proper place

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Speaker 1: you know the conversation is happening. I mean, that's something.

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Speaker 1: It's happening, But that's want to know what's the end goal, Like,

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Speaker 1: what's the place of understanding are we trying to get? There?

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Speaker 1: Were just all, you know, yelling and screaming at each other. Well,

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Speaker 1: we can continue to discuss this morning, but that is

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Speaker 1: your rumor report. All right, we got front page news. Next,

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Speaker 1: what we're talking about, Yes, are you planning to get

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Speaker 1: that are being cleared to make it more accessible for you,

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Speaker 1: all right, we'll get into that. Next is to Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are to Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Let's get some front page news and Monday night football

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Speaker 1: the Ravens beat the Colts thirty one twenty five. Now

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Speaker 1: what else are you talking about? You? Well? A TikTok

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Speaker 1: user name Brianna had some issues when her toddler actually

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Speaker 1: put her on Instagram live while she was taking a shower,

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Speaker 1: so her young daughter accidentally broadcaster. She said she gave

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Speaker 1: her tyler her cell phone to play a game while

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Speaker 1: she was in the shower. It was a preschool learning

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Speaker 1: game that she plays often. Next thing I know, she's

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Speaker 1: knocking on my door asking me to help her fix something.

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Speaker 1: I of course to her to come in so I

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Speaker 1: the phone while I'm in the shower. I quickly realized

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Speaker 1: that my phone is broadcasting live on Instagram in my

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Speaker 1: hand while I'm in the shower. How many followers, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she said, no idea? How many people saw it? She said,

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Speaker 1: I deleted it so quick. I didn't see any of that,

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Speaker 1: so goodness gracious, And just to put it out there,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people are talking about this feature called

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Speaker 1: So you guys can have that on there if you

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Speaker 1: let your child play with your cell phone. All right, now,

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Speaker 1: the United States is moving closer to clearing Maderner and

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Speaker 1: Johnson and Johnson for these COVID booster shots, and they're

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Speaker 1: saying panel is meeting this week to debate these extra doses,

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Speaker 1: and they're hoping that these booster shots will ensure a

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Speaker 1: with Delta, the current vaccines are holding up quite well

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Speaker 1: seven million Americans have gotten a boost of dose in

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Speaker 1: the US as of Saturday. And a Wisconsin parent is

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Speaker 1: suing the school district after their son came down with

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Speaker 1: infected with COVID. So the whau Keisha School District and

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Speaker 1: on behalf of Shannon Jenten and other parents, and that

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Speaker 1: district is being bankrolled by a superpack that is started

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Speaker 1: by a local brewery owner. They are seeking an injunction

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Speaker 1: that would force the school district to implement safety recommendations

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Speaker 1: You know once Jared kids to have to sit next

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Speaker 1: your front page news. All right, thank you, miss ye.

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Speaker 1: Now when we come back, we got the founder and

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Speaker 1: CEO of Union, mister Jason Wilson. He trains and develops

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Speaker 1: young black men, teaches black men how to deal with

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Speaker 1: their trauma through Marshall Arts. He's got a documentary coming

495
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Speaker 1: out with Lawrence Fishburn about his life. You've seen him

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Speaker 1: on Doctor CNN, heard him on Joe Rogan The Today Show.

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Speaker 1: You're now you're about to listen to him on The

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. I love Jason Wilson. He spoke it my

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Speaker 1: mental welfax bot this past Sunday. All right, we'll get

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Speaker 1: into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is tj Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne,

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Speaker 1: the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got a

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Speaker 1: special guest joining us right now. Yes, Jason Wilson. He's

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Speaker 1: the found in CEO of Union. Okay. Jason has over

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Speaker 1: fourteen years of experience, you know, training and developing young

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Speaker 1: black men. You've probably seen his videos on Instagram where

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Speaker 1: he teaches, you know, young black men how to deal

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Speaker 1: with their trauma through martial arts. He's got two great

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Speaker 1: books out Cry Like a Man in Battle Cry. You've

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Speaker 1: probably heard him on the Joe Rogan podcast. You've seen

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Speaker 1: him on CNN Doctor Oz. He's spoken my Mental Wealth,

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Speaker 1: expotus past Sunday, and now he's on the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: Mister Jason Wilson, Good morning brother, Good morning brother. How

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Speaker 1: are you all as well? Man? I love New York.

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Speaker 1: Love walking early in the morning here, especially late at night.

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Speaker 1: Give me time to really reflect and release things that

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Speaker 1: I need to let go of. You wrote a couple

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Speaker 1: of books, Cry Like a Man and now Battle Cry.

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Speaker 1: Why trying such a theme? It was imperative for me

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Speaker 1: that I learned how because my life well, I was

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Speaker 1: self destructive, pretty much about to lose my marriage and

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Speaker 1: my family, and I didn't know how to not only

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Speaker 1: express them, but to even process what I was feeling.

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Speaker 1: So I was only taught to express it through either

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Speaker 1: fighting or really suppressing it. And as a result, Man

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Speaker 1: I lost it one day, man and demonstrall, be yelled

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Speaker 1: at my wife in the kitchen, hit a hole in

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Speaker 1: my refrigerator, and I just I had to make a change.

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Speaker 1: And when I saw my wife, I saw her go

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Speaker 1: from trusting me and loving me to her whole spirit

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Speaker 1: was torn down in front of me. And at that

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Speaker 1: very moment, I realized I had a problem, and that

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Speaker 1: problem was I wasn't a comprehensive man. I was just

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Speaker 1: a masculine male, and I needed to learn how to

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Speaker 1: express the gamut of emotions that God has given me.

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Speaker 1: You know, more so than just being strong, a protector

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Speaker 1: and provider, I needed to express being a nurturer, express

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Speaker 1: being compassionate, loving, long suffer from you know, when Kobe

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Speaker 1: Brian died in a helicopter accident with Gianna and nine others,

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Speaker 1: we didn't see a lot of pictures of him playing basketball.

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Speaker 1: We saw him operating as a nurturer, and then a

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Speaker 1: hashtag girl dad went viral through what men, but over

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Speaker 1: a million one point two million men posted pictures of

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Speaker 1: themselves loving their daughters. And so we've always been nurturists,

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Speaker 1: but we've allowed society to define us as men just

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Speaker 1: by one adjective, which is masculinity. But we're more than masculine.

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Speaker 1: Can we talk about your background a little because this

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Speaker 1: is our first time meeting, So I know that you

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Speaker 1: have this youth organization in Detroit, Union, but I want

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Speaker 1: to talk about you and how you started doing this work. Yes,

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Speaker 1: well I started actually was a popular DJ and Detroit

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Speaker 1: and actually did a few concerts with Public Enemy. I

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Speaker 1: was in rap group called Chaos a Maestro. So the

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Speaker 1: Union nonprofit started as a record label, and so we

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Speaker 1: would use as a Christian I would use the music

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Speaker 1: to counter what at the current time, what we would

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Speaker 1: call like gangster hip hop, and saw the negative impact

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Speaker 1: that was having on youth, and so we created music

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Speaker 1: to counter it. But we realized quickly that once the

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Speaker 1: music stopped, they still had to deal with the trauma.

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Speaker 1: And so we're like wall and we need to stay

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Speaker 1: in their lives, we need to get into schools more so,

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Speaker 1: we went after our nonprofit status and in two thousand

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Speaker 1: and seven we received our first grant for mentoring through

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Speaker 1: the government and we haven't looked back since. And currently

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Speaker 1: we've reached over fifteen thousand youth and young adults in

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Speaker 1: Detroit and we just purchased a fifteen thousand square foot

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Speaker 1: building due to the demand of the Cave of Adullum,

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Speaker 1: which is the Transformational Training Academy where I used martial

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Speaker 1: arts to help young boys navigate through their emotions instead

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Speaker 1: of succumbing to them. When did you get into martial arts?

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Speaker 1: It was that a way of channeling anger. Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: it was interesting when my good friend she was shot

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Speaker 1: and killed when I was in the eighth grade and

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Speaker 1: we didn't have grief counsels or anyone come to our school,

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Speaker 1: and I didn't know how to process what I was feeling,

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Speaker 1: so I gravitated toward the jets. At the time, I

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Speaker 1: was twelve years old. But then I quickly realized if

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Speaker 1: I only process my anger by hitting things, whenever that

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Speaker 1: anger rise, I start hitting things and hitting people. And

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Speaker 1: so from that day on, because I have my father around.

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Speaker 1: He was in the same city, but wasn't in my life.

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Speaker 1: I saw the sin Say as a father figure, and

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Speaker 1: I longed to have that affirmation and teach me how

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Speaker 1: to be a man. And it helped me with some

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Speaker 1: processing some of the training combat communication, which I talk

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Speaker 1: about in battlecry and fighting. If we're getting ready to fight,

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Speaker 1: I'm downloading all of your moves, your anger. If you

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Speaker 1: move on my jab or my kick, I'm seeing how

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Speaker 1: your defense is. I use that in communication with my wife.

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Speaker 1: I try to read the room. How is she feeling

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Speaker 1: to day? Is this a good time for me to

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Speaker 1: share with her how all of my emotions? Would it

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Speaker 1: overload her? And so instead of sometimes when you become

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Speaker 1: emotionally free, when you break free from emotional incarceration, we

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Speaker 1: can come home and unload too much on someone who

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Speaker 1: already had a heavy day. And I've learned to use

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Speaker 1: combat communication to excuse me. Read my wife, Read my son.

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Speaker 1: You know he's quiet today, what's going on with you?

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Speaker 1: Instead of yelling at him. Now I want to ask

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Speaker 1: you about for women who are dealing with a man

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Speaker 1: who may be experiencing trauma or doesn't identify ways that

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Speaker 1: he can improve his own communication. What advice do you

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Speaker 1: have for women that have to deal with that? My

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Speaker 1: wife A lot of people ask her that because it

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Speaker 1: was all new for us, you know. And so the

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Speaker 1: first thing I would say is that we as men,

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Speaker 1: we not only have to unlearn what we've been conditioned

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Speaker 1: to believe a man is, but also our women. And

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Speaker 1: we have to give our wives and our women the

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Speaker 1: grace and the space needed to do so, because you've

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Speaker 1: been also programmed to see a man a certain way.

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Speaker 1: My wife had never seen a man crying to me,

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Speaker 1: you know. And so that's number one, is to unlearn

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Speaker 1: what you've been taught to believe. Number two, never impassively

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Speaker 1: dismiss your husband or your significant other's emotion. When he

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Speaker 1: come to you, he's trying to open up, he's trying

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Speaker 1: to become comprehensive and whole. The worst thing a woman

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Speaker 1: could do is shut him down or I'm busy. Can

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Speaker 1: I come back to that When you see that door opening,

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Speaker 1: like okay, cool, he's allowing me access to that heart.

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Speaker 1: And then lastly is to listen without expectation. That's what

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Speaker 1: she would saying. She says, listen to your husband's or

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Speaker 1: your significant other's heart, like it's your girlfriend. Be slow

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Speaker 1: to speak, quick to listen. But I said, you also

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Speaker 1: need to know how to allow your wife to help

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Speaker 1: you through that process. Can you break down what is

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Speaker 1: emotional incarceration? It is a self imposed imprisonment, a mental

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Speaker 1: prison that a man confines his non masculine emotions and

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Speaker 1: his true heart from the world to keep him from

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Speaker 1: hurting others and even himself. And what's interesting about emotional

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Speaker 1: incarceration and we all as men, we can admit this.

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Speaker 1: There is no door keeping us locked in. We choose

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Speaker 1: to stay in there, and because we have to face

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Speaker 1: or acknowledge feelings or traumas or emotional pain that we

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Speaker 1: don't feel comfortable with, we choose to stay in there.

637
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: And a lot of good men and a tide of

638
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: being bad guys, even myself, Man, I ever suppressed all

639
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: of my emotions, you know, and because that's what I

640
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: was taught. And because of that, I didn't even they

641
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 1: not only know how to love my wife and my children, bro,

642
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: I didn't know how to love myself. And that self

643
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 1: hate caused me not to really be available for my wife.

644
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: And as I share it at the Mental Wealth Expo,

645
00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:25,239
Speaker 1: she had five miscarriages, and I was checked out. I

646
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: didn't know how to express the hurt or anything. To

647
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 1: this day, it bothers me because we should say we

648
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: had five miscarriages. No, I say she had and I

649
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: should have been there, but I was emotionally checked out.

650
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 1: But now it's it's truly a blessing to be able

651
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 1: to drop my guard with the woman who really holds

652
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: my heart with care. All Right, we got more with

653
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:46,880
Speaker 1: Jason Wilson when we come back, dute more. It's the

654
00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: breakfast club, Good morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,

655
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast Club. We're still

656
00:33:56,200 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: talking with Jason Wilson, Charlemagne. The things you see in

657
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: regards of your wife so relatable. And it's the same

658
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 1: reason I got myself together too, because you know, I

659
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 1: didn't want to be like my pops, and you know,

660
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: I saw the pain my pops called my mom, you

661
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And I saw how you know,

662
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: them getting divorce affected the family. So why are so

663
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: many men just comfortable with saying, you know what, Yeah,

664
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: I'm married, but I'm gonna still cheating. I'm still have

665
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: a whole other family out here, another girl like, why

666
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 1: is that okay? You think that something's it's affeckless attempt

667
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: for affirmation and so you know, again we taught you

668
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:34,200
Speaker 1: know masculinity as well being a man that's having multiple women.

669
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: My father told me I was going to him proud saying, hey, Dad,

670
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 1: I'm about to engage to Nicole. He said, why the

671
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,839
Speaker 1: hell you want to do that? When I come front

672
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 1: of my dad about cheating my mom, my dad said, oh,

673
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:47,759
Speaker 1: you only got one girlfriend. If it one day, you

674
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:51,839
Speaker 1: gonna understand. Hey, And I told my dad. I told him,

675
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: I said, I don't want to end up like you.

676
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: You're broke. You're still having to cut hair, Dad in

677
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 1: your sixties because you've had three marriages that failed because

678
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: you couldn't have any sexual self control. But when I

679
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: allowed my father developed Parkinson's, I finally was able to

680
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: get a relationship with him because he couldn't go anywhere.

681
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 1: So when we finally sat and talked, he shared with

682
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: me the pain of growing up and feeling lacking in

683
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: so many areas he was called to preach. He told guy,

684
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: there's nowhere on earth I'm gonna do that because he

685
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: came up in the sixties, when the cops cracked down

686
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,800
Speaker 1: on the pimps in Detroit, many of them became pastors.

687
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 1: So he said, the last thing I'm gonna do is

688
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 1: be one of these guys. But because of that, he

689
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 1: never really knew how to express what he was going

690
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 1: through and what he felt. And that's why sharing battle

691
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: cry too. As where we are now as men, we

692
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:38,280
Speaker 1: got to go back and reach and help our fathers

693
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: learn how to process what they're dealing with. So you

694
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,720
Speaker 1: gotta think my grandfather, not my great grandfather, a great

695
00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 1: great grandfather. My grandfather was lynched, beating and lynched, and

696
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 1: then after his lynching, my mother's family was terrorized by

697
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: the police to ensure that none of them would ever

698
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: feel like they're equal to white people. In Fort Pierce, Florida.

699
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: I saw that trauma transferred throughout general ration through our generation,

700
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: and until I allowed my dad that freedom to be human,

701
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,760
Speaker 1: I didn't hear him say he loved me until thirty

702
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: seven years of age. I told my dad, and it

703
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 1: didn't make sense to me at the time. He's landing

704
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: his bed and the Holy Spirit told me, he says,

705
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: tell your father, thank him for being a great dad.

706
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: That doesn't make sense to me. But what my father

707
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: needed was affirmation. So I leanked over to him while

708
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 1: he was landing his bed and I said, I said, Dad,

709
00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 1: I said, thank you for being a great dad. So

710
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: I was walking out and I heard him like getting

711
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: heavy in his breath, and I turned around and I

712
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: saw the strongest man in my life. Crime he finally

713
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:46,440
Speaker 1: had a release, and this is a tough one. So

714
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,240
Speaker 1: I went back over to him. I held his hands

715
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,800
Speaker 1: and I kissed him on his forehead and he wouldn't

716
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 1: let me go, and he says, son, he says, I

717
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 1: love you. And that there it removed so many shackles

718
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 1: off of me and freed me to really live from

719
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: my heart instead of my fears, instead of trying to

720
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 1: live up to this limited definition of what a man is.

721
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 1: Now I can be a comprehensive man, which is a

722
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 1: man who is courageous but also compassionate, strong but sensitive,

723
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: a man who can boldly but freely live from his

724
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: heart instead of his fears. How important is it for

725
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 1: men to give other men positive affirmations? Because you know,

726
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 1: I thought about this after the mental wealth export, because

727
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff came up for me when we

728
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 1: was on the panel having a conversation. That's why that's

729
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: why the tids came, because it's like, just listening to

730
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 1: you tell me, oh, I'm proud of you, YadA YadA,

731
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, oh, I didn't. I didn't get that

732
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: the way I wanted to growing up from my father.

733
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 1: So even just hearing it from another black man at

734
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: your respect is like whoa, it gets your emotional or

735
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: whether we realize that or not, we do that all

736
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: the time. That's why we gonna get the cars because

737
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 1: we want other men to give us affirmation. Yeah, like

738
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 1: I said, it's a feckless attempt for affirmation. Even with women.

739
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: You know, it's like we call you trophy wives and

740
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,479
Speaker 1: all this other foolishness you would create. You're not meant

741
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: to be objects, you know what I'm saying it. But

742
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,640
Speaker 1: it's when we objectify women that a lot. When I

743
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:11,320
Speaker 1: saw that evil, that's what allowed me to break free

744
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:15,399
Speaker 1: from pornography because again, to have this right in front

745
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:16,960
Speaker 1: of you where you feel you can have control over

746
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 1: the most beautiful woman in the world. I didn't know

747
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 1: how to really give a woman my heart, But when

748
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: I allowed myself to be free, I started cherishing women

749
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: for who they are, even their superior qualities, not that

750
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: equal qualities. Because my wife runs our nonprofit. If it

751
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: wasn't for her, I look at the stuff we do now,

752
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 1: that's because I allowed my wife to operate in the

753
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 1: fullness of who she is. Right, I don't need you

754
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:44,480
Speaker 1: to be just at home with my children. God has

755
00:38:44,520 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 1: created you to lead this organization, this ministry, and then

756
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 1: eventually I hope she gets her own health center. The

757
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: goal for us to even be healed, brother, and I

758
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: was sharing this at the ex Bowl, for us to

759
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 1: heal this black men. I want us to heal so

760
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,359
Speaker 1: we can finally decrease what's going on the side of us,

761
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 1: so that our sisters can finally unload the weight and

762
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: emotional pain that they've been in doing for decades. Now.

763
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 1: As far as affirmation, it's so important, especially with our boys.

764
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,839
Speaker 1: You know, I remember I had one kid when I

765
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: piloted the cave of a dullum. The principle introduced me

766
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: to this young man by all negative descriptions. I took

767
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 1: that young man and for twenty four weeks affirmed and

768
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:29,800
Speaker 1: poured into him, taught him how to meditate, release the anger,

769
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,720
Speaker 1: the frustration, and it actually the hurt of not having

770
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: a father there. He smoked about two blunts a week.

771
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 1: This was an eighth grader. His great point average was

772
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: point eight. Within twenty four weeks, his whole life change

773
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:47,360
Speaker 1: and he graduated because I affirmed him in who he was,

774
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,760
Speaker 1: even the young man he didn't see. They saw the prankster.

775
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: I saw someone who could negotiate, whose wives, who's clever?

776
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,839
Speaker 1: They saw someone anger. I saw a young man who

777
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 1: would fight against injustice, who would think kids who are bullied.

778
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,359
Speaker 1: That's what affirmation does. I thank you for who you are,

779
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 1: and I meant everything that I said. Man, I'm proud

780
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 1: of you, and that's why I affirmed you. And we

781
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:12,600
Speaker 1: need to affirm each other that way. And then more so,

782
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: as I told our brother Van Lathan when I was

783
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: on his podcast, we're so quick to just deflect it

784
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:21,319
Speaker 1: or just here, you're the man too. I love what

785
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: you're doing, like no, I want you to hold that, brother,

786
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,360
Speaker 1: because you're doing some great things. And I want you

787
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: to really embrace who you are as a man. And

788
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: that's all I ever wanted, man, And that's why I'm

789
00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 1: thankful I finally allowed my wife access to hear, because

790
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 1: what causes men to really drift away. You want to

791
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: feel important, you want to feel loved, But it's if

792
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: you don't work as hard as you do in the community,

793
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,799
Speaker 1: in your home. How do you expect those in your

794
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: home to give you the accolades that you desire when

795
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 1: you're working twice as hard for those who don't even

796
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 1: live with you. Right? You said something so powerful yesterday

797
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: at the Mental welfect Bo when Max Ball asked you,

798
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 1: what's the definitely of a man? How do you define

799
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: a man? Yeah? I said nothing. You can't define. Once

800
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,480
Speaker 1: you allow yourself to be defined, you can't be anything

801
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,760
Speaker 1: and everything you have to be at any given moment.

802
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: That's the goal of a man. That's comprehensive manner. I

803
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: want to be able to morph between transformers and everything

804
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: that I need to be for to complish my mission

805
00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: here on earth, for my family, for you, for my sister,

806
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 1: my brother, my brother, And that's the goal. Once you

807
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:31,120
Speaker 1: allow yourself to be defined, you've just cut off your potential.

808
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 1: And so I tell people to live I was telling

809
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 1: to me, and live from what we long for instead

810
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: of what we lack. We tend to blame my father's

811
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,439
Speaker 1: for not being there what we didn't have, And now

812
00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: we bring that stuff to the present. We allow our

813
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: trauma to time travel living the present so you can

814
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: fully be there. And that's the key. Man. If you

815
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:51,600
Speaker 1: only feel as a man that you're only a protector

816
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:54,040
Speaker 1: and provider, how you're going to be there for your family?

817
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: How can you have a relationship with your wife? And

818
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 1: you're only you can only manifest two attributes, You're extremely limited.

819
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: A friend of mine compared it to that crayon boxes,

820
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: the ones of eight and the ones of sixty four.

821
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: As men, we take out three crayons out the one

822
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: of eight, and we said, we're gonna stay in that

823
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: that area because it feels comfortable, it's safe. But the

824
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 1: most I created us to exude all sixty four and

825
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,840
Speaker 1: even more now move We got more with Jason Wilson.

826
00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 1: When we come back, it's the Breakfast Club, Morning Morning.

827
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlemagne, the guy. We

828
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 1: are the Breakfast Club. We're still talking with Jason Wilson. Yea.

829
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: You also have a documentary that you've been working on, right, Yes,

830
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 1: can you tell us something about that? Yeah, that's really exciting.

831
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 1: I signed with Lawrence Fitzburn's film company sent them a

832
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 1: gypsy to do a documentary film on my work with

833
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: boys in the Cave of Adullum. We submitted it to

834
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: Sundance and so we're waiting to hear back from them,

835
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: but it's supposed to release next year and we're really excited.

836
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:52,600
Speaker 1: You get to see them follow four of my boys,

837
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:56,600
Speaker 1: and you see the effects of intergenerational trauma, but then

838
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: you see it broken and it's so powerful, it's beautiful.

839
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: How do you black and brown people learn to stop

840
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: wearing trauma as if it's a bad honor, acknowledge that

841
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: it's nothing good about it. There's nothing honorable about getting shot.

842
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: There's nothing honorable about hating each other, mean mother and

843
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 1: not being able to say how you doing my brother,

844
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 1: how you doing my sister? There's nothing honorable about I

845
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: guess just the pain that we've been through. I mean,

846
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: we look at it as like, you know, especially I

847
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 1: love hip hop. I came up in the culture. We

848
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:34,440
Speaker 1: brag about getting shot. We don't brag about living in

849
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: a good neighborhood. We brag about being in the roughest neighborhood.

850
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:41,080
Speaker 1: And so until we recognize that this isn't how it's

851
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,600
Speaker 1: supposed to be. Yes, trauma will happen to all of us,

852
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 1: but it's not the Black experience as we always say.

853
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,919
Speaker 1: You know, just as trauma can be passed down through

854
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: our generation, so can healing. But we first have to

855
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: renew our minds. We have to allow. For me, it

856
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: took for me to ask the most how to break me,

857
00:43:59,320 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 1: break away my stubborn will, the evil in my heart.

858
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,839
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be his light to the world,

859
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 1: to help those who in darkness see And so until

860
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 1: I allowed him to break me, I wasn't able to

861
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 1: see that all that I've been through, the stuff that,

862
00:44:15,520 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: even for my benefit today, wasn't meant for me to

863
00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 1: stay there. So when traumatizing things happen, we have to

864
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,800
Speaker 1: let go and keep moving forward. But a lot of

865
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,839
Speaker 1: us we stay there because we fear moving forward because

866
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: of something else traumatizing may happen. And so as a

867
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: Black people, we got to start living from what we

868
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 1: desire and hear the good that's in here. We love

869
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 1: each other man, we do, we just have to learn

870
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 1: how to express it. And there's nothing weak or docile

871
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:47,879
Speaker 1: about telling you I love you, telling you I love

872
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: you and who you are. I'm proud of you. I

873
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: need help. I'm hurting. Just because something is wrong with

874
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,319
Speaker 1: me doesn't mean something is wrong with me. So when

875
00:44:56,320 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: we get to that place where we understand, okay, we

876
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,960
Speaker 1: can break through what we've been through, that's when you

877
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 1: see us rise together. My final question, you know, as

878
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: your profile raises, how did your wife feel about all

879
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,040
Speaker 1: these women calling you zaddie? I didn't know they called me.

880
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: They called me that them on Instagram. Oh man, I

881
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 1: um um. My wife and I have a very like

882
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 1: transparent relationship. If she feels something isn't right, she said,

883
00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 1: you know, but this is a funny story. One day

884
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: I met Halle Berry, right, and I took a video

885
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,800
Speaker 1: from my daughter because my daughter, you know, was into

886
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,439
Speaker 1: modeling at the time, and so I called the cart

887
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,479
Speaker 1: I say I met Holly Berry. She's like really, where

888
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 1: was she at? And I told her at this conference.

889
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: So we get off the phone and her friend was like, oh,

890
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: so your husband is with Halle Berry and she was

891
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: like yeah, and she could looking at my wife and

892
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: my wife called back and she says, are you okay?

893
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 1: Because you know, Holly Barry is was like attractive like

894
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 1: our generations lean a horn. But my wife was like,

895
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 1: are you okay? Because I know she's beautiful and I

896
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 1: know you know you together, You' good. I'm like, yeah,

897
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm good and we both laughed about it. But the

898
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 1: beautiful thing. When I got home and I looked at

899
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 1: my wife, I said, dang, you look better than her.

900
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying, and so and so when

901
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,880
Speaker 1: she knows my wife, she affirms me man and I

902
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: fight it. I'm still growing, bro, I don't like dan,

903
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: how do you what? You? She had touched my face

904
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 1: all gent. I'm like, what are you doing inside? That's

905
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 1: why I'm cringing because I'm thinking when my father told

906
00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: me I wasn't nothing, and they have a woman cress

907
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: my face and then tell me I'm beautiful and she

908
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: loves me. And as a man, you look in your mirror,

909
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:51,839
Speaker 1: you see your flaws. You ain't big enough, you ain't

910
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 1: buffing up, you ain't smart enough. What can any of

911
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: these women give me? Man? What's a night of sex?

912
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna give away everything in our god

913
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 1: just to have a moment with a woman. That's not

914
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,560
Speaker 1: peace to me, that's chaos. I ain't got time to

915
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: have three cell phones, and I don't. I don't have

916
00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: an energy for that. We're chasing a sense of worthiness

917
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 1: that we can't get from another woman. That's that's feeding

918
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: your ego. Being with your wife, that's feeding your soul. Yeah,

919
00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 1: it's it's it's she's a part of me, man, and

920
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 1: so you know, Yeah, they're flirt you can see them.

921
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 1: They look at you. But I don't have an available look.

922
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:27,080
Speaker 1: You know a lot of brothers who struggle with infidelity.

923
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: Y'all look available. You look like they can holler at you.

924
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 1: I consciously make sure I don't look available. I don't

925
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: look like you know. I practice with my sister. You know,

926
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:48,760
Speaker 1: we're talking. I'm like, you know what I'm talking about. Okay,

927
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: so I do this. Okay, I take my ring off,

928
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 1: but I'm not. I'm talking, but it's respectfully. How are

929
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: you doing? I shake your hands right, I'm not doing this?

930
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: So how are you doing you? I'm not doing all that.

931
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, how are you doing? Press A pleasure to

932
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 1: meet you. I'm proud of you, thank you. What are

933
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 1: you doing later? No, I'm kidding, I said, I'm calling

934
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: my wife. I'm telling you right now, taking that ring

935
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,320
Speaker 1: off and then having the conversation not make you less available.

936
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: But but but but the look is the spirit is

937
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:19,839
Speaker 1: the vibe. And that's why I tell my brothers. One

938
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 1: of my friends standing back in the day, amaze women

939
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 1: beyonly man, I'm trying to be faithful. I said, you

940
00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 1: look like you want them too, And he started laughing.

941
00:48:28,000 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: And we was in the gym, and I said, look

942
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 1: at you. He was like, I get it, Doug. You're

943
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 1: coming here every day with great sweat faces. And so

944
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 1: you know, and and and that's my my thing. I

945
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 1: just you know, Um, I love our women. I do.

946
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: And they need a man who doesn't want to get

947
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 1: between their legs just to talk to him and affirm

948
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: them to hear from just a man who just wants

949
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:55,839
Speaker 1: to affirm you for who you are, not because I'm

950
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,319
Speaker 1: you beautiful, I'm trying to hog light you. Man. These

951
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: women would just you know, I just you know. That's

952
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: why I say, Man, when we can get healed, keep

953
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,520
Speaker 1: doing those expos man. I mean, just we gotta continue

954
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: to do what we do. But when we can get healed,

955
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: we gotta sit down and open the space for our

956
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 1: sisters to heal. And that's when you're gonna start seeing transformation.

957
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 1: When we both can truly find that and get that

958
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: heal and we desire and our families become whole, then

959
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:25,719
Speaker 1: our communities to change, and then you got the world. Yeah,

960
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 1: I'm so extra grateful for like the men in my

961
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: life who do affirm me and have positive things to

962
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,839
Speaker 1: say to me, and it's not for any reason other

963
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,240
Speaker 1: than they really feel that way, and I don't feel

964
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:39,319
Speaker 1: anything crazy from them. I know their families, I know

965
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: their wives and significant others, and it's completely comfortable. And

966
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: I'm so appreciative all the time of people that are like, yo, Angela,

967
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: you really doing your thing. I'm so proud of you.

968
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come support like it means a lot to me. Yes,

969
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 1: And that's that's awesome. And you know, because sometimes people

970
00:49:53,560 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: feel like men and women can't have these relationships where

971
00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: there's nothing going on. And if you could take a

972
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:02,279
Speaker 1: picture with somebody like he trying to holler and you're like, dude,

973
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 1: come on, just because he's a man doesn't mean that

974
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:09,040
Speaker 1: that's what it is, just because somebody can affirm you,

975
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:11,359
Speaker 1: but people sometimes are scared to even do that. Yeah,

976
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,879
Speaker 1: but the more men who who model it, the more

977
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 1: men feel comfortable and say, Okay, this is what a

978
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: man is, you know, and that's what our women need,

979
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 1: you know, even at the union. Just affirm and love them.

980
00:50:23,080 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: I got you. Don't worry about that. I ain't trying

981
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 1: to holight you. They need brothers, They need men in

982
00:50:27,400 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: their lives that they feel that they got their back,

983
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 1: you know. And then ain't always wanting something, you know.

984
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:36,319
Speaker 1: And so I went I did what is it called

985
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 1: virtual reality. I was at this conference and they they

986
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: put put me in a headset where I saw through

987
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 1: the eyes of a woman at work, and it showed

988
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,800
Speaker 1: how many like advances men were making to this woman

989
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:54,239
Speaker 1: throughout the day and from the handshake to just having conversation.

990
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn it, can you just just respect me

991
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:00,320
Speaker 1: as a woman, affirm me just as a woman instead

992
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: of just trying to get between my legs, you know.

993
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 1: And so I'm glad you have men like that. I

994
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,440
Speaker 1: try to make myself available for the women in my

995
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:10,720
Speaker 1: life the same way, you know, and it's so needed

996
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 1: as men that again, as long as we're seeking affirmation

997
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: in the wrong places. And that's what I did for

998
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: the longest would never truly respect our women for the queens,

999
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: the jewels, the gifts that they truly are true to

1000
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:25,839
Speaker 1: use points. I mean, that's why I'd be so happy.

1001
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: I you know, I got too many women that call

1002
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,920
Speaker 1: me any brother uncle because I really wear that as

1003
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:32,400
Speaker 1: a badge of honor, like you know, I want to

1004
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,399
Speaker 1: be there for them in that way. And I'm glad

1005
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: they see me in that way. Yeah, they need it.

1006
00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 1: And we need women like when my mother when my

1007
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 1: when my mother passed, man, I needed a nurturer. I

1008
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: needed to allow older women and my wife access to

1009
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 1: my heart in that way, you know. And so and

1010
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 1: I don't need women sisters trying to holight me. I

1011
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,399
Speaker 1: need a sister. Sometimes women who pray for me, man,

1012
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,319
Speaker 1: ain't trying to holler praying for me, and they say,

1013
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 1: we know what you're doing. We got you. I feel invigorated,

1014
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: you know, I'm ready to go. And my wife doesn't

1015
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:08,399
Speaker 1: mind it, man, And so you know again it's it's

1016
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: our minds need to be renewed so that we can

1017
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 1: truly live from the good in our hearts. His name

1018
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: is Jason Wilson. Giving me your Twitters and Instagrams and

1019
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:18,800
Speaker 1: all that good stuff. My handle throughout all social media

1020
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: is mister Jason O. Wilson. That's m R J A

1021
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 1: S O N. The letter O W I L S

1022
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: O N. And I want to thank you for doing

1023
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:29,759
Speaker 1: the Mental Wealth Expert yesterday. I couldn't even have done

1024
00:52:29,800 --> 00:52:32,359
Speaker 1: an event like that and not have you there, because

1025
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 1: you're such a leader in this space, man, and you

1026
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: inspire me and you make me want to be a

1027
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,120
Speaker 1: better man every time I hear you speak, ary time

1028
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: I read your books, seeing you on Instagram, everything, So

1029
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,799
Speaker 1: I just I thank God for your existence. Brother, thank

1030
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 1: you feeling this mutual thank you and it was really

1031
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 1: powerful yesterday and I look forward to being at the

1032
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 1: next one. Brother, Yes, sir, thank you. Finally, Jason Wilson

1033
00:52:53,719 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 1: is the Breakfast Club. Listen It's well. Lila is speaking

1034
00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:16,560
Speaker 1: for the first time about her divorce. She was on

1035
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:20,400
Speaker 1: with Angie Martinez and she explained about keeping it private

1036
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: for a while, how it made her fail. Here's what

1037
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 1: she said. I still had my moments, but for the

1038
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: most part, I can't talk about it now and laugh

1039
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 1: about it and find, you know, the humor in it all.

1040
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:31,800
Speaker 1: Otherwise I'll be a basket case. Were you really bad?

1041
00:53:32,320 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: I was bad because it was public. I was bad

1042
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: because there were other people involved. That was bad because

1043
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,799
Speaker 1: there were allegations. It was it got bad. And then

1044
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not a person that ever put my

1045
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: business on social media. I'm not a person whoever I've

1046
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: never spoke the first time I spoke about But you're

1047
00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: my friend and I'm comfortable. But it's like, you know,

1048
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,080
Speaker 1: so many times you do want to say, oh you

1049
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 1: guys really want to know what happened. You want to

1050
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 1: hear from me, but you hold it in and it's like,

1051
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: oh Li is doing good, she looked good on a Gramm.

1052
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: It's like, nah, that shopped me really hard. Oh la la.

1053
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:02,440
Speaker 1: And then in addition to that, she also talked about

1054
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:04,840
Speaker 1: her post that she does on Instagram and where her

1055
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: DM's looking like I am in a new phase and

1056
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 1: chatter in my life like I didn't think at this

1057
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:13,359
Speaker 1: phase I would be entering into being signal. And so

1058
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 1: now I got to readjust so I can't be out

1059
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:18,319
Speaker 1: here look at it crazy. I'm trying to get some

1060
00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:20,880
Speaker 1: DMS popping. I'm trying to see what's going on. I

1061
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:25,160
Speaker 1: could only imagine what is happening. In las ms right now?

1062
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 1: Can you tell me one thing they don't tell the person.

1063
00:54:28,080 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: I can pull dms up with friends of mine and

1064
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,840
Speaker 1: it's the same message in each one of our dms

1065
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: from a person like what are you just copy and past?

1066
00:54:34,880 --> 00:54:39,320
Speaker 1: I thought you was somebody's super high profile too. Traveling

1067
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: include bonflatz Leasy is a group chat favor, meaning that

1068
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 1: if you're in a group chat with like guys, you'll

1069
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 1: see a la la picture float across the group chat

1070
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: timeline a lot. She's definitely a group chat favorite. All right, Well,

1071
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 1: that's good. She waited till she was more comfortable to

1072
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 1: speak about it to actually do it, and then she

1073
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:01,719
Speaker 1: did it in a s environment with Angie. So I

1074
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:03,719
Speaker 1: think that's great. And I have to be honest, I'm

1075
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 1: a snitch. I do be telling her? Who be posting

1076
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 1: her in the group chat? You be posting la la. Oh.

1077
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: You can't tell other people stuff that happens in the

1078
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:16,319
Speaker 1: group text. That's against policy. And from what she said though,

1079
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 1: she my friends being a text like Delicias after she

1080
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: said she told you and Angie she's a you know,

1081
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 1: trying to figure out Delia's after and we see some

1082
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:30,719
Speaker 1: people tell all right now, let's talk about Superman. John Kent,

1083
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 1: the son of the original Superman Clark Kent, and journalist

1084
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:38,360
Speaker 1: Lois Lane, is turned out to be bisexual. So according

1085
00:55:38,400 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 1: to the writer Tom Taylor, he said, it's not a gimmick.

1086
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: When I was off at this job, I thought, well,

1087
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: if we're going to have a new Superman for the

1088
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 1: DC universe, it feels like a missed opportunity to have

1089
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 1: another straight white savior. And he said, we don't want

1090
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,279
Speaker 1: this to be DC Comics creates new queer Superman. We

1091
00:55:52,280 --> 00:55:55,360
Speaker 1: want this to be Superman finds himself, becomes Superman, and

1092
00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: then comes out. And I think that's a really important distinction. Now,

1093
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: according to Tell, the reactions have been mostly positive. He said,

1094
00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,280
Speaker 1: I'm seeing tweets of people saying they burst into tears

1095
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,800
Speaker 1: when they read the news that they wished that Superman

1096
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 1: was this when they were growing up, that they could

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00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 1: see themselves. People are saying, for the first time ever,

1098
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 1: they're seeing themselves in Superman, something they never thought was possible.

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00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,919
Speaker 1: So he's a supertop of super Bottom does not say,

1100
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:20,719
Speaker 1: but he's bisexual. When your comments as a kid, did

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00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,359
Speaker 1: they have any sexuality in the comics, anybody dating man

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00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: woman and woman, I mean Superman with David Lewis, Lane

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00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: Clark Kent. No, you meant like LGBTQ relationship. Yeah, yes,

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00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 1: there was what's the what's the young lady that? Uh?

1105
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:39,359
Speaker 1: Players on? Thor's her name? The character test the Thompson players.

1106
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: I can't remember her name right now. And it was

1107
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:46,279
Speaker 1: always rooms that Deadpool dead Pool was bisexual, which you'll

1108
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 1: probably explored in future comics. So yeah, it's not a scratch.

1109
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 1: It's not like the things that they're doing now scratches sknew,

1110
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 1: But yes, it's it's characters. I'm a Marvel guy, I'm

1111
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:56,759
Speaker 1: not a DC guy, but there's characters in the Marvel

1112
00:56:56,840 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 1: universe that have been LGBTQ historically. All right, now, let's

1113
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:05,800
Speaker 1: talk about being offended by labels. Demi Levado is saying

1114
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:10,719
Speaker 1: that the label alien is offensive when referring to extraterrestrials.

1115
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:14,319
Speaker 1: Now we can flash back to a previous interview where

1116
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 1: she actually addressed this, w kid, you please clear up

1117
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: this fan theory that you have an unreleased song titled Aliens.

1118
00:57:21,840 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 1: I do not have a song called the Aliens I wish.

1119
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah it sounds cool, but it would be called ets. Yeah,

1120
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 1: my fans should know that I do not call them

1121
00:57:30,240 --> 00:57:34,439
Speaker 1: aliens because alien is a derogatory term for anything that's

1122
00:57:34,720 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 1: even extraterrestrials, which is why I call them ats. Did

1123
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: she have a conversation with an alien that he said

1124
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 1: he was offended or she said that they were offended

1125
00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 1: by that term? The WOKEE gotta get some sleep, man,

1126
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 1: because when you don't get no sleep, you just be

1127
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:50,000
Speaker 1: mad tied, and you just be saying silly stuff man, like, Yes,

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00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:51,920
Speaker 1: you're right, And we don't know what beings from other

1129
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 1: planets want to be called. We've identified a whole potential

1130
00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 1: population of beings with words I'm sure they don't use

1131
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: to identify themselves, and now we're trying to convince ourselves

1132
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 1: that they are offended by words that we made up

1133
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: to call them. So we can't call aliens aliens anymore.

1134
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 1: I don't know. I wonder if it's because people are offended,

1135
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,640
Speaker 1: actual people who I'm offended by your phone going off

1136
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 1: every morning at eight o'clock. Well, get my parking situation, right, um,

1137
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 1: But I wonder if it's because the term alien is offensive.

1138
00:58:19,480 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm referring to people who are coming from other countries,

1139
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 1: like that's an offensive term. So I wonder if she

1140
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: just thinks the term alien. I don't know, but we

1141
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: terrestrials want to be called. We're calling them extraterrestrials. We

1142
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 1: didn't even know if that's their name. We've made all

1143
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:35,320
Speaker 1: of these terms up to describe a bunch of beings

1144
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: we've we've never encountered. What can I call it? I

1145
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 1: thought you have. I've seen them before, so you haven't counted.

1146
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: I didn't call them by their name. I just saw

1147
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: I saw sauce before and I woke up with it.

1148
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:46,640
Speaker 1: You call them one who was standing over me. I

1149
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 1: called it a flying saucer because that's the term they

1150
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 1: gave us to describe it. So what can we call?

1151
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:52,320
Speaker 1: Can we call them aliens? Go? We go? What you

1152
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 1: call them? Me? To you? What do we leave me alone?

1153
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 1: By the way, the character is Valkyrie from Marvel. That's

1154
00:58:56,800 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 1: who Testa Thompson play Valkyrie? Okay? Val and Loki. Loki

1155
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 1: is bisexual too. I don't know if you watched Loki

1156
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:07,320
Speaker 1: on Disney Plus. Well, that is your room of reports.

1157
00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 1: The bottom line is, you can't call aliens. Don't call

1158
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:15,479
Speaker 1: me your bottom Okay, I hope you referred to super

1159
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 1: Are you giving your donkey too? Um? John Grew? John

1160
00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 1: Grew needs to come to the front of congregation aka Supercracker.

1161
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 1: We need to have a conversation. Okay, all right, we'll

1162
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:28,120
Speaker 1: get into that next breakfast club. Good morning, So breakfast club,

1163
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Speaker 1: your mornings will never be the same. Angela here, don't

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Speaker 1: you wish everything was as easy as getting quality coverage

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Speaker 1: eight hundred General or visit the General dot com. Some

1169
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Speaker 1: restrictions apply. Don't be out here acting like a donkey.

1170
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 1: It's time for Donkey of the Day. I'm a big boy.

1171
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: I could take it if you feel I deserve it.

1172
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 1: Ain't no big deal. I know Charlotmagny got grow out,

1173
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:01,360
Speaker 1: funny sleep say out his mouth. You gotta say something

1174
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 1: you may not agree with. Doesn't mean he's getting that donkey.

1175
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 1: That donkey that don't don't don't, don't don't donkey other

1176
01:00:07,320 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: day right to breakfast club. Bitches, you can call me

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01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: the donkey of the day, but like I mean no harm. Yeah,

1178
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: donk you today for Tuesday, October twelfth. Gold to former

1179
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 1: Raiders coach John Gruden. If you haven't heard, John Gruden

1180
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 1: has resigned as head coach of the Raiders after homophobic,

1181
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:28,040
Speaker 1: misogynistic emails that he wrote between twenty ten and twenty

1182
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 1: eighteen have come out. Let's go to ESPN for the report.

1183
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:34,080
Speaker 1: John Gruden resigned after The New York Times reported he

1184
01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:37,920
Speaker 1: frequently used misogynistic and anti gay language and numerous emails

1185
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 1: before he was hired as coach of the Raiders in

1186
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 1: two eighteen. According to The Times, Gruden sent the emails

1187
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 1: to Bruce Allen, then the president of the Washington Football team,

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01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 1: and others during a seven year period that began in

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01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 1: two thousand eleven. The NFL sent the Raiders additional Gruden

1190
01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 1: emails to review after the first, which Gruden had been

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01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:59,040
Speaker 1: asked about, which included the racial troupe about NFLPA executive

1192
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:02,800
Speaker 1: director Demorris Smith that surfaced last week. Gruden was employed

1193
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: by ESPN as the lead analyst for Monday Night Football

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01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: at the time that he sent these emails, which are

1195
01:01:07,800 --> 01:01:12,800
Speaker 1: now under review. The comments are clearly repugnant under any circumstance,

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01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:17,080
Speaker 1: ESPN said in a statement. Gruden released the following statement,

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01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 1: I quote, I resigned as the head coach of the

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01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:21,720
Speaker 1: Las Vegas Raiders. I love the Raiders and do not

1199
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 1: want to be a distraction. Thank you to all the players,

1200
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 1: coaching staff, and fans of Raider Nation. I'm sorry. I

1201
01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:31,040
Speaker 1: never meant to hurt anyone. This is a teachable moment.

1202
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 1: It's a teachable moment because life is interesting. Life is

1203
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,560
Speaker 1: just something you simply can't run from. Because who you

1204
01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:39,040
Speaker 1: truly are in the dark will always come to light.

1205
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: It always does. This is why I subscribe to one

1206
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 1: of John Wooden's most famous quotes, be more concerned with

1207
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 1: your character than your reputation, because your character is what

1208
01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 1: you really are. Why your reputation is merely what others

1209
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 1: think you are. People be so caught up in the

1210
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,080
Speaker 1: reputation of others. There's so many people out here who

1211
01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 1: present well, who have these reputations of being nice, genuine people.

1212
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: When he is damn moving like the John Grudens of

1213
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:04,920
Speaker 1: the world behind the scenes, it's nothing you know to

1214
01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 1: even take personal. Okay, he makes joke using racist tropes,

1215
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 1: He uses gay slurs to refer to homosexuals. Makes you

1216
01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 1: think what he really thought about Carl Nazer Is that

1217
01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 1: a pronounce cars last name who came out a gay

1218
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 1: before the start of the season. Okay, he played for

1219
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 1: Gruden and the Raiders. I would love to see the

1220
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,400
Speaker 1: emails about that move, all right. Gruden doesn't like the

1221
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 1: emergence of female refs. See the problem with guys like

1222
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 1: Gruden is he's not just the biggest he is actively

1223
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 1: against the advancement of marginalized communities. Okay, John Gruden said

1224
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 1: Goodell shouldn't have pressured Jeff Fisher to draft Michael sam

1225
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 1: who was, you know, openly gay man. So to mean

1226
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,160
Speaker 1: he's against the gay man prospering, all right, he doesn't.

1227
01:02:43,240 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 1: He doesn't want that gay man to eat. In my interpretation,

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Speaker 1: According to the emails, Gruden denounced the emergence of female referees. Therefore,

1229
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 1: he doesn't think that a woman's place, you know, it's

1230
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 1: on the sidelines. Like, what other reason would he have

1231
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: to be against that? No other than she's a woman,

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01:02:57,800 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 1: you know. Gruden also wrote in his emails that Eric

1233
01:02:59,800 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 1: re former all Pro defensive backs should be fired for

1234
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 1: protesting during the national anthem. So you don't care about

1235
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 1: police brutality against black people either. Gruden also criticized the

1236
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 1: bill that would have forced Dinner Redskins to change their

1237
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 1: name in twenty fifteen. So let's look at the list

1238
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:21,479
Speaker 1: gay people, women, indigenous people, black people, America. We've seen

1239
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 1: this movie before. This is what I mean when I

1240
01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:26,760
Speaker 1: say we have to have a decratification of this country.

1241
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:28,920
Speaker 1: All right. The problem is you can change systems, but

1242
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: you can't change people's minds. But these are the kinds

1243
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:33,720
Speaker 1: of crack ass crackers that are in positions of power

1244
01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:36,880
Speaker 1: all throughout America. And the problem is there is white

1245
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 1: people listening to me right now who heard all those

1246
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:42,520
Speaker 1: things John John Gruden said and did, And they are

1247
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 1: more mad at me using the word cracker to describe

1248
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: John Gruden than they are of all the things John

1249
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: Gruden putting those emails that make him a cracker ass cracker.

1250
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:53,439
Speaker 1: And you know why, because you probably a cracker ass

1251
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:55,680
Speaker 1: cracker too, all right. Crackers a word. It's a word

1252
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 1: used to describe racist biggots, derived from the slave masters

1253
01:03:58,400 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: who used to crack whips on the back of the end.

1254
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:02,920
Speaker 1: Go back and watch episode one of the Gods Honest

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Speaker 1: Truth if my Late Night Talks show on Comedy Central,

1256
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: it's titled de Gratification. You can stream it on Paramount Plus,

1257
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 1: watch on demand, whatever. But we discuss how the denotification

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01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: of Germany could apply here in America. Wouldn't be a

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Speaker 1: permanent solution because once again, you can't change people's minds,

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Speaker 1: but it's a step in the right direction to real healing,

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Speaker 1: and that is what is happening right now. See, the

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Speaker 1: universe is trying to heal itself. I truly believe that.

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Speaker 1: And you can't heal what you don't reveal. So whatever

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Speaker 1: you truly are will be revealed because the universe is

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01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:38,960
Speaker 1: flushing things out and bringing things to the forefront. That's why,

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Speaker 1: once again, you should focus on character, not reputation, because

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Speaker 1: character is who you really are. Reputation is who people

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Speaker 1: think you are, and reputation can be created, okay, through

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Speaker 1: smoking mirass. That's why I don't believe anything I hear

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Speaker 1: or see about people, because folks present one way in

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Speaker 1: person and be like John Gruden behind the scenes, and

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Speaker 1: some people's presentation might be horrible, but in real life

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01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: they're the nicest, most genuine people. Okay, So just sit

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Speaker 1: back it's a lot of people that we misjudged who

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Speaker 1: we said with trash, who are about to be revealed.

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01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 1: It's really great humans, and it's a lot of people

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Speaker 1: who present as really great human humans who will be

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Speaker 1: revealed as trash. John Gruden is just the first of many.

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Speaker 1: Because if we don't deracify America, the universe will do

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Speaker 1: it for us. Please give John Gruden the biggest he

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01:05:23,560 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 1: are Just sit back, you ship back and watch the

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Speaker 1: reveal clock as clock. Okay, okay, okay, alright. A matter

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01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 1: of fact, why didn't I let Chelsea hand look, give

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01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 1: John Cruden the biggest he harms he he haw. That

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01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:43,880
Speaker 1: is way too much, Dan manthy Criffin, you get it

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01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:46,640
Speaker 1: on this too. Please give this giant jar male the

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01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:58,160
Speaker 1: biggest he reiterate. All right, all right, you've been getting

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01:05:58,200 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 1: hit a lot recently, man patting your head and men

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Speaker 1: rom forty three many pause, but don't believe no more.

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Speaker 1: M all right, all right, let's hopen up the phone lines.

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Speaker 1: Let's slander the breakfast club. You know we do this

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01:06:13,240 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 1: once every once a weekend. We allow people to open

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Speaker 1: up the phone lines. And if you have a problem

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Speaker 1: with the breakfast club, me e or Charlemagne, you can

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01:06:20,400 --> 01:06:22,760
Speaker 1: tell us what your problem is eight hundred five eight

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Speaker 1: five one on five one phone lines or wide open

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01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 1: whatever your problem is with us. Three. This is when

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01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:30,560
Speaker 1: we open up the phone lines and allow you to

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01:06:30,640 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 1: just say what your problem is. It's slander the breakfast club, right,

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Speaker 1: do it right now? The number again, it's eight hundred

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Speaker 1: five eight five one on five one. Something that you

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01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:41,880
Speaker 1: don't like about Charlemagne, ye or myself. You gotta start

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01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:45,240
Speaker 1: with me, all right, me ye or Charlemagne. There you go.

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01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,920
Speaker 1: I'll put you in the middle of me. You're on

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01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:53,760
Speaker 1: the bottom. Yes, yes, yes, nope, yes, call us now?

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01:06:53,800 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 1: Is the breakfast Lug, Good morning the breakfast club, because

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Speaker 1: the club humble with slaming the breakfast clubs? Sit down?

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Speaker 1: Her daughter, Hello, who's this yo? Dave? What's up? Dave?

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Speaker 1: What up? Doe? What up? Do? What up? Man? I

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01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 1: got I got some from Angela. Ye, man, I think

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01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 1: the whole world ready to hear it is? We're her man,

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01:07:21,880 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: that man she always worried about somebody else, belated until

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Speaker 1: with her relationship with her man, that he must be death.

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01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 1: She talks about her man all the time. He's asleep

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Speaker 1: right now. Actually, oh for real, man, yo, Man, No, okay, okay, yeah,

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01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 1: I think people's been waiting to hear that. You always

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Speaker 1: look somebody out business. I had to get to my tips.

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Speaker 1: I don't never hear about dor relationship. Well you gotta

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01:07:44,280 --> 01:07:48,080
Speaker 1: listen to a little harder, sir. Hello, who's this? Gee? Gee?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Man? Slander the breakfast club? What's good? Man?

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Speaker 1: Breakfast club? What up? Bro? Charlom Magne, Yes, sir, he's happening. King,

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Speaker 1: not a much man, and I ain't get a slender y'all. Man,

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Speaker 1: I love a breakfast club. Man. That's well, thank you, King.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Man. So sure, Hello, who's this? You

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01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 1: know this? Rob Caper? Up? I'm not gonna try to

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Speaker 1: pronounce your name. What's up? Man? Stand at the breakfast club? Brother?

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Speaker 1: All right? I love the show. I just want to

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01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:18,000
Speaker 1: I want to give Charlotte man to guard the donkey

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Speaker 1: to David. That's that's how we could do. But ahead go.

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Speaker 1: It's on you, sir, okay, so on you because you

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01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: always talking about deep run to fide, but you want

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01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:28,639
Speaker 1: to go on their talking about the Jesus Christ. So

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01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:31,880
Speaker 1: how could you free our people? You know? If you

1334
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:35,599
Speaker 1: I'm corrupted vocabinary, So that's one of the says. Uh,

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01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:38,040
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta straighten that out so he could

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Speaker 1: be really liberated. My brother, let me ask you a question,

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01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,120
Speaker 1: why why why are you assuming that when I say

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Speaker 1: Jesus Christ? Why are you assuming Jesus's white? Why? Why

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01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,880
Speaker 1: is yours? I'm not I'm not a stuman Jesus a

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Speaker 1: spike because I know that Jesus kim from sir ROPAs,

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01:08:53,200 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 1: who is white, so be a Greek, a Greek un

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Speaker 1: scept so I'm not assuman that I know that Jesus

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Speaker 1: kim from the white mind. Does hold on? Do you

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01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:07,680
Speaker 1: think Jesus white? Jesus North? You think Jesus white? I

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01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 1: didn't think Jesus isn't blind men white? Is he is white?

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01:09:11,360 --> 01:09:15,080
Speaker 1: I said, surround, you gotta do your you gotta do

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01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:20,679
Speaker 1: a proper history research whether it comes to knowledge. My brother, hey,

1348
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 1: de cratify your mind, my brother, de colonize your brain.

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Speaker 1: My brother Jesus is black. My brother Jesus is a

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Speaker 1: black mind. My brother, Hello, who's this Dinysia Slands at

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Speaker 1: the breakfast club. So I really want to get on

1352
01:09:36,240 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 1: you and Charlemagne because y'all don't know the difference between

1353
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 1: wrath and ethnicity. Always getting on you about being Dominican.

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Speaker 1: You can, I'm not Dominican. I'm black. Yeah, you're black,

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01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:49,400
Speaker 1: but you can. There's something as black Dominicans because brain

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01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:53,640
Speaker 1: is based off your journey being tech in perfection and

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01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:58,880
Speaker 1: your hair touched her. But ethnicity that's based off like tripo, affiliation, diligence,

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01:09:59,160 --> 01:10:04,600
Speaker 1: and traditions. A particular du identified myself as black, identified

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01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 1: myself as black. My mama black black, and I'm black. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know, I know you said that. In this roomains

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01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 1: always like oh no, but they're Dominican. But you can't

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Speaker 1: black and Dominican. It's not like you're not black and

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01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:20,519
Speaker 1: you're you can't be you. I don't know that racist

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Speaker 1: based on your did you say your hair texture and

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Speaker 1: you're well, your your field cool characteristics like your skin color.

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Speaker 1: What about when you wear white jeans after labor day?

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01:10:29,160 --> 01:10:31,880
Speaker 1: Does that make you Dominican? That makes you Dominican? Mama, No,

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Speaker 1: I'm not domnicaated. I wear white why I don't wear

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Speaker 1: white jeans at all? But I don't care about wearing

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Speaker 1: white beings after labor day. Well, because like Michael Cole's bags.

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Speaker 1: What do you? What does that mean? Whoa? Whoa whoa?

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01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:45,720
Speaker 1: This guy is crazy. This guy is crazy. This guy

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01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:49,280
Speaker 1: is crazy. Is this guy not crazy? Why my crazy

1374
01:10:49,320 --> 01:10:57,559
Speaker 1: guy is crazy? Man? All right? Jesus Christy slaying at

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01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club eight hundred five five five one. You

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01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:02,840
Speaker 1: want to sland to the Breakfast Club. Call us now

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01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:06,360
Speaker 1: as the breakfast Club, the body the Breakfast Club, humble

1378
01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:15,240
Speaker 1: with slacking the breakfast class down? Hello? Who's this? This

1379
01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 1: is Sean whatever envy? What's up? Bro? How you doing?

1380
01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 1: Who's gonna get this smoke? First? You go? Whatever? You

1381
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 1: whoever you want to give it to. I want to

1382
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:26,800
Speaker 1: give it to Charlottemagne. You know now that he's getting money,

1383
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:28,599
Speaker 1: he want to put that black make up for him. Man,

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01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:30,400
Speaker 1: let's take it back to the Wendy ms. You have

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01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 1: fifteen shades of black, Charlottegagne. Come on now, who told

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01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 1: you I'm getting money? We all know you're getting money.

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Speaker 1: It ain't true. Don't tell them, don't spread them. Live

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01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:41,839
Speaker 1: y'all all getting my Angela? You next, you're ready, Angela?

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01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:44,280
Speaker 1: I'm ready. I don't like how I met you the

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Speaker 1: first time on loan forty fifth on the telephone poll.

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Speaker 1: You want to ji for me? Commerce? You you understand

1392
01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 1: saying advertiving good here? You already got good here. You

1393
01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:56,120
Speaker 1: don't need no JI from me. He's talking about your billboard.

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01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:58,360
Speaker 1: That's that's all. No, you know what I came on

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01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 1: every way I see, I'm like old. That's it with

1396
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:02,920
Speaker 1: ye the first time I'm showing you know, just for me.

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01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:04,680
Speaker 1: You didn't mean that. You just seen a build. Bull

1398
01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:10,960
Speaker 1: ahead continued. Okay, anything else, you're boring me, anything else.

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01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:13,879
Speaker 1: If you ain't like how youre going to really represent

1400
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 1: our liation brothers like that, you know what I mean?

1401
01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 1: If you're gonna be on a real weird time out

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01:12:17,120 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 1: of change, you know what I mean? If you're going

1403
01:12:18,479 --> 01:12:20,800
Speaker 1: out way to tie not to change that was like

1404
01:12:20,880 --> 01:12:23,920
Speaker 1: five years ago, bro, like where you ast like you

1405
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:27,439
Speaker 1: got out of something. I don't know. Jesus Christ, Hello,

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01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 1: who's this this rooney? I want to slender ye goad

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01:12:31,439 --> 01:12:34,360
Speaker 1: go yeah, give us some logic. Year. I'm tired of

1408
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:37,880
Speaker 1: every time somebody come on the show you're talking about well,

1409
01:12:37,920 --> 01:12:41,280
Speaker 1: I feel like you always feel like something you use

1410
01:12:41,320 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 1: that logic, young ladies, beautiful self. I don't have feelings

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01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 1: on they use logic. That's right, Okay, goodbye. I feel

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01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:55,439
Speaker 1: like that's a terrible idea. Hello, that's a good conversation. Logic,

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01:12:55,439 --> 01:12:57,120
Speaker 1: which one is? It should be logic of a feelings

1414
01:12:57,160 --> 01:13:00,120
Speaker 1: and feelings of a logic. That's a good conversation. I

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01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:02,760
Speaker 1: want to spend all three, y'all. Go all right, let's

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01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:06,040
Speaker 1: start off for you. Um he did good on the first,

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01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:08,880
Speaker 1: kind of like a young Diddy kiss and he's kind

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01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:12,400
Speaker 1: of more for starting to hit all right, keep going?

1419
01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 1: What version did you do? Kiss? Ahead? Go oh Charlemagne

1420
01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 1: and heavy? Man, I'm tired of this textual tension between y'all.

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01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:23,599
Speaker 1: My time, y'all has the text is gonna be so trash,

1422
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:29,280
Speaker 1: y'all building up. I'm gonna be y'all get it in man,

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01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 1: y'all got that's gonna be like the Detox album. Okay,

1424
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:42,600
Speaker 1: you can't now that's funny. That's that was hilarious. That

1425
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:46,320
Speaker 1: was that's the best one of the day so far. Hello,

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01:13:46,320 --> 01:13:52,600
Speaker 1: who's this club? Wrepperas club Wrappers Club? It's Freddy for Annapolis, Mandy.

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01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:56,560
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, man, you gotta stop usually in

1428
01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 1: words so freely, man, what a I use the A word.

1429
01:14:01,000 --> 01:14:02,960
Speaker 1: Don't you use the times you be talking about it

1430
01:14:02,960 --> 01:14:04,680
Speaker 1: and you'd be using it, man, I think would be

1431
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 1: a good idea if anytime you use it, you know,

1432
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:11,080
Speaker 1: pay yourself for fine and didn't take that money that

1433
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:14,040
Speaker 1: you accumulate from using the word so much and donated

1434
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:16,400
Speaker 1: to a charity. You're right, I'm trying not to use it.

1435
01:14:16,400 --> 01:14:17,800
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, man, I use it in this

1436
01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:20,240
Speaker 1: proper context. I don't use it as a term of endemic.

1437
01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:22,519
Speaker 1: I use it. And when i'd be like these this boy,

1438
01:14:22,640 --> 01:14:25,200
Speaker 1: well you know, he just use it again. How much

1439
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 1: should that fine be? I don't know, ma'am. Maybe a thousand.

1440
01:14:29,600 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how my brain works. In my mind,

1441
01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:34,479
Speaker 1: whenever I use cracker, it off sets the N word.

1442
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 1: Thank you. He right, though, I gotta stop using that word. Hello, Hello,

1443
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:47,680
Speaker 1: Hey Slater the breakfast clab Mama. All right, so this

1444
01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:51,519
Speaker 1: one for Charlomane. Listen, I'm a cancer. I rock with

1445
01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:55,880
Speaker 1: you every day. Okay, Yes, man, When you see that

1446
01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:00,200
Speaker 1: when I say what I didn't hear it? Script eight

1447
01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 1: script and straight straight strip street and you add a

1448
01:15:04,360 --> 01:15:08,880
Speaker 1: cake to it, your phone is breaking up. Your phone

1449
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:11,040
Speaker 1: is making me upset. But I'm from Monkst corner of

1450
01:15:11,040 --> 01:15:12,880
Speaker 1: South Carolina. You know what I'm saying. I don't. I'm

1451
01:15:12,880 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 1: not gonna blame it on South Carolina, but I do

1452
01:15:15,080 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 1: feel like straight screech, scrump scrimp. That's just how we talk.

1453
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 1: All right, Well, slander the Breakfast Club eight ondred five

1454
01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:24,200
Speaker 1: eight five one on five one. If you slander the

1455
01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, we do that once a week where you

1456
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,640
Speaker 1: can just call us up and let us know what

1457
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 1: you think about it. Now you've got rooms on the way, yes,

1458
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 1: And let's talk about being offended. Who was offended by

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Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian's monologue on SNL. All right, we'll get into

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Speaker 1: that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Come morning, the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: This is the rumor report with Angela years well. Michael

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01:15:53,800 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 1: Jordan was on NBC Today's Show and Craig Melvin asked

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Speaker 1: him if he's concerned about the NBA's COVID vaccine protocols.

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Speaker 1: And here is what Michael Jordan had to say in response,

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Speaker 1: Are you at all concerned about the protocols? Not at all.

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Speaker 1: I am total in unison with the league, and I

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01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:14,520
Speaker 1: think everybody you know it's been speaking about the vaccinations,

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Speaker 1: and you know, I'm a firm believer in science, you know,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna stick with that and hopefully everybody ad

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Speaker 1: buys by whatever the league sets the rules, and you know,

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Speaker 1: I think that, you know, once everybody buys, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: be fine. I mean, what would be different from last year?

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Speaker 1: Last hit? They got through it. It was traveling, they

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01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 1: was playing home games in away games, Like, what would

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01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:40,600
Speaker 1: be different without an audience was two years ago the

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Speaker 1: season before. Huh? But were they at full capacity? I

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01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't know if they were full some

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01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 1: of them were, not all of the not all of them. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then I think it also coincides whatever their restrictions

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01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:52,960
Speaker 1: are in the city that you're into. So if the

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Speaker 1: city is saying you can't come in here if you're

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Speaker 1: not vaccinated, you have to buye by that. It was

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Speaker 1: like that last season though. The vaccine was rolled out

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Speaker 1: last season because I remember at the Barclays you had

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01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:06,160
Speaker 1: to get a COVID test and then at a certain

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01:17:06,160 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 1: point in time you had to be vaccinated. Yeah, you

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01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:10,800
Speaker 1: have to go to some of the I think Atlanta too,

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01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:12,160
Speaker 1: you had to have the COVID test before you walk

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Speaker 1: into the arena as well. Now, was Michael talking about

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01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:16,880
Speaker 1: players just now or was he talking about just overall?

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01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:20,280
Speaker 1: He's talking about players because he's saying whatever the leader. Okay, okay,

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01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:22,719
Speaker 1: all right, yeah he's talking about players. Okay, that's different,

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01:17:22,760 --> 01:17:27,120
Speaker 1: all right now. Kim Kardashian the the monologue that she

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01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:32,320
Speaker 1: gave on SNL offended Nicole Brown's sister, and Tanya Brown,

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01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:34,320
Speaker 1: who is a sister of Nicole Brown, said she thought

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Speaker 1: that they were in poor taste and that Nicole's death

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01:17:37,080 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 1: should not be portrayed as a joke. Here's what she said.

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Speaker 1: You know, my father was and still is such an

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01:17:43,200 --> 01:17:46,000
Speaker 1: influence and inspiration to me, and I credit him with

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Speaker 1: really opening up my eyes to racial injustice. It's because

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01:17:49,320 --> 01:17:52,840
Speaker 1: of him that I met my first black person. You

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01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:54,760
Speaker 1: want to take a stab in the dark at who

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01:17:54,760 --> 01:17:58,240
Speaker 1: it was. I know, it's sort of weird to remember

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01:17:58,280 --> 01:18:01,000
Speaker 1: the first black person you met, But O J doesn't

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01:18:01,040 --> 01:18:04,120
Speaker 1: leave a mark or several or none at all. I

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01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 1: still don't know. Now. Tanya Brown says that these jokes

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01:18:08,120 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 1: were beyond inappropriate and insensitive, and she's wondering how much

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01:18:12,360 --> 01:18:15,439
Speaker 1: the Kardashians actually cared about Nicole because Chris Jenna was

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01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:17,960
Speaker 1: one of Nicole's close friends. Yeah, I wondered. I wondered,

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01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: you know, did that hurt more because it's coming from

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01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,800
Speaker 1: Kim and Kim and you know, the families were close.

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01:18:22,960 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 1: Because comedian has been making OJ Simpson jokes for ever,

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01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 1: everybody making it's probably different when you know the person

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01:18:28,800 --> 01:18:31,680
Speaker 1: and they supposedly were friends with the person. So she

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01:18:31,800 --> 01:18:33,760
Speaker 1: feels like, even though she knows Kim didn't write it,

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01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:36,240
Speaker 1: she should have pushed back and refused to do that

1517
01:18:36,320 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 1: particular joke. That is one of those things about those

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01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:42,000
Speaker 1: jokes tho. And I even realized that with the surviving

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01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 1: R Kelly situation, Like, you know, we all made jokes

1520
01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:47,479
Speaker 1: about R Kelly, but you don't realize there's actual victims

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01:18:47,479 --> 01:18:49,320
Speaker 1: of all. Even when you're making jokes about OJ and

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01:18:49,439 --> 01:18:51,880
Speaker 1: fans hurts them as well. Of course people will kill

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01:18:52,200 --> 01:18:53,840
Speaker 1: so I get it. Yeah, And I'm sure it's the

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01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:57,120
Speaker 1: worst when it's somebody you know personally and you're like, damn,

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01:18:57,120 --> 01:19:00,559
Speaker 1: you was at the house, you know, so hurt more? Yeah?

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01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 1: All right. Now, Kanye has put his Wyoming ranch up

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01:19:03,160 --> 01:19:06,760
Speaker 1: for sale. The list price is eleven million dollars he

1528
01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:10,840
Speaker 1: initially purchases for fourteen point five million, and they said

1529
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,599
Speaker 1: it's a forty five acre Monster Lake property with eight

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01:19:13,640 --> 01:19:16,719
Speaker 1: lodging units, two freshwater lakes, a restaurant and events center,

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01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:21,280
Speaker 1: and meeting facilities and barns for eleven million dollars. Not bad.

1532
01:19:21,360 --> 01:19:24,679
Speaker 1: And I think he has others owl he's losing. I'm saying,

1533
01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:26,640
Speaker 1: not bad. If you want to buy it, that's a

1534
01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 1: lot for eleven million dollars. It comes with all that.

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01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,600
Speaker 1: So he wants to leave Wyoming Now, I think he

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01:19:31,640 --> 01:19:34,720
Speaker 1: also has other properties. There's one of his ranch properties,

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01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:36,920
Speaker 1: so that one is on the market. We don't know

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01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:40,400
Speaker 1: if he's leaving and selling everything yet, all right, now,

1539
01:19:40,520 --> 01:19:45,960
Speaker 1: former judge duty bailiff Peter Petrie Hawkins Bird and he's

1540
01:19:46,000 --> 01:19:48,400
Speaker 1: saying that he's upset because he's not reprising his role

1541
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 1: in the spinoff series Justice Judy. He said that he

1542
01:19:52,360 --> 01:19:55,120
Speaker 1: told the outlet that he was excluded from the new series,

1543
01:19:55,160 --> 01:19:57,120
Speaker 1: but he caught wind of the new project when she

1544
01:19:57,200 --> 01:20:00,120
Speaker 1: made the announcement in twenty twenty. During an apparent on

1545
01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 1: The Ellen Show, he said, my assumption is if you

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01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 1: were going on to do something else, that you were

1547
01:20:04,240 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 1: at least going to ask me if I wanted to

1548
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:09,800
Speaker 1: have the opportunity to audition for the role. They never

1549
01:20:09,840 --> 01:20:12,240
Speaker 1: discussed the new show during their time filming the twenty

1550
01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:14,320
Speaker 1: fifth and final season, so he was on there with

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01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:16,960
Speaker 1: her for twenty five seasons. He said he didn't have

1552
01:20:17,000 --> 01:20:19,720
Speaker 1: time to think about or ask about Judy Justice because

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01:20:19,760 --> 01:20:22,200
Speaker 1: after filming wrapped up, he had to focus on his wife,

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01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:24,800
Speaker 1: who's also a veteran show producer, who was scheduled to

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01:20:24,840 --> 01:20:28,040
Speaker 1: have brain surgery, and he revealed that he did reach

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01:20:28,080 --> 01:20:30,680
Speaker 1: out to Judy Shinlan and she told him that he

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01:20:30,720 --> 01:20:32,559
Speaker 1: was not being asked to come along on the project.

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01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:34,840
Speaker 1: He said, I didn't inquire as to why that's her choice,

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01:20:35,040 --> 01:20:37,320
Speaker 1: but she did inform me that fundamentally I was priced

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01:20:37,320 --> 01:20:38,800
Speaker 1: out as a new bailiff on her new show. My

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01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:40,800
Speaker 1: salary would have been too much, but he would have

1562
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:44,280
Speaker 1: liked the opportunity to have accepted a lower salary if possible.

1563
01:20:45,439 --> 01:20:48,840
Speaker 1: Tiger is cooperating with authorities. His ex is saying that

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01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:52,839
Speaker 1: he got physical and she posted some alleged injuries. Cameron

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01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:55,720
Speaker 1: Swanson is her name. She came over to his home

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01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:58,120
Speaker 1: around three am after he told her not to, and

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01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:00,479
Speaker 1: she was at his front door shout at the top

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01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:03,960
Speaker 1: of her lungs. According to a source, they said Tiger

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01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:05,880
Speaker 1: and other family members in his home felt that she

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01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:08,400
Speaker 1: appeared to be under the influence. He led her inside

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01:21:08,439 --> 01:21:10,719
Speaker 1: to talk to yell and continue, they said. Cameron claims

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01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:13,360
Speaker 1: Tiger put his hands on her during the argument. Afterward,

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01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:15,200
Speaker 1: her mother came to pick her up and then she

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01:21:15,320 --> 01:21:17,800
Speaker 1: called the cops to report the alleged incident. So she

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01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:20,800
Speaker 1: did also post a video showing these injuries. She said

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01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 1: she is standing up for herself and he is cooperating

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01:21:25,240 --> 01:21:28,840
Speaker 1: with authorities right now, so we'll keep you updated on that,

1578
01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: all right. Teraji has been talking about launching her music career.

1579
01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:36,280
Speaker 1: She has a new feel good EP and she's been

1580
01:21:36,320 --> 01:21:38,680
Speaker 1: working on that, so it's a surprise for people. But

1581
01:21:38,760 --> 01:21:41,760
Speaker 1: as you know, her new season of her Facebook watch

1582
01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 1: series has just kicked off and one of the people

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01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:47,920
Speaker 1: on there was Megan the Stallion. So here's what Meghan

1584
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:51,559
Speaker 1: the Stallion had to say about her Boo partisan Fontaine.

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01:21:52,000 --> 01:21:55,800
Speaker 1: My boyfriend does make me very happy. He definitely takes

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01:21:55,840 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 1: care of me emotionally. He makes my brain feel good,

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01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:03,160
Speaker 1: my heart feel good. That's, you know, a big thing

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01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:05,400
Speaker 1: for me because I used to be so into the

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01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 1: physical right. But he moves me, he inspires me. We

1590
01:22:09,479 --> 01:22:13,320
Speaker 1: just feel like a real team. Okay, you can watch

1591
01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:15,680
Speaker 1: an entire episode of Peace of Mind with Tagie on

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01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:18,760
Speaker 1: Facebook Watch and that is your rumor report. All right,

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01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:21,120
Speaker 1: shout out to Revolt. We'll see you guys tomorrow. Everybody

1594
01:22:21,160 --> 01:22:23,240
Speaker 1: else to People's Choice Mixes Up. Next, get your requesting.

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Speaker 1: Let's go so Breakfast Club. Your mornings will never be

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Speaker 1: Slash Breakfast Club, j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomne the guy.

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Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club again. Don't forget my car show.

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01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:57,559
Speaker 1: It's three weeks away, super duper excited in Detroit. That

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01:22:57,840 --> 01:22:59,680
Speaker 1: is October thirty. So if you want to take the

1605
01:22:59,720 --> 01:23:02,960
Speaker 1: kids trick or treating, or maybe you're fearful of what

1606
01:23:03,080 --> 01:23:04,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna have it the day before, so would it

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01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:06,920
Speaker 1: be cars? It'll be candy for the kids. It'll be

1608
01:23:06,920 --> 01:23:10,519
Speaker 1: amusement rides, carnival games, kids fibing under a free and

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01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:13,639
Speaker 1: then in December will be in Miami. That's twelve twelve,

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01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:15,560
Speaker 1: so bring the kids out. It's family fun day, so

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01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:17,960
Speaker 1: you could bring the family out, safe environment and we

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01:23:18,040 --> 01:23:20,160
Speaker 1: just have fun. Just gonna be dressed up as a

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01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 1: you know, folloween Ye, yep, I'm gonna be dressed up.

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01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:24,200
Speaker 1: My kids are gonna be dressed up. What are you

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01:23:24,240 --> 01:23:25,720
Speaker 1: gonna come as? I don't know. I don't want to

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01:23:25,720 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 1: say yet. I don't say yet, so you already know. Yep.

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01:23:30,320 --> 01:23:32,519
Speaker 1: Is it a car? No, I'm not gonna dress us

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01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:37,839
Speaker 1: a car. But yeah, I will be dressed up for Halloween.

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01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:39,639
Speaker 1: So I can't wait to see you guys, all right.

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01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:41,679
Speaker 1: And also I want to tell everybody just be careful

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01:23:41,720 --> 01:23:44,000
Speaker 1: out there. I mean, you know, it's getting close to

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01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:48,120
Speaker 1: the holiday season and I see robberies up, people getting

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01:23:48,200 --> 01:23:52,000
Speaker 1: robbed and assaulted up. Just be careful out there. You

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01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:55,280
Speaker 1: sell a candy man? Did canny man is fake? You?

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01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 1: I saw yesterday? Did they caught some of those people?

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01:23:58,240 --> 01:24:00,760
Speaker 1: I get one guy, didn't you never leave? Yeah? They

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01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:03,439
Speaker 1: believe it was flip child. They believe that there's a

1628
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:05,519
Speaker 1: gang in New York City if you're from out of town.

1629
01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:07,360
Speaker 1: But this is all over the place that they were

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01:24:07,400 --> 01:24:09,639
Speaker 1: just robbing people going to the hot spots, the clubs,

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01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:13,040
Speaker 1: the restaurants and waiting for people to walk out, and

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01:24:13,160 --> 01:24:15,040
Speaker 1: you know, trying to take their watches and rings and

1633
01:24:15,160 --> 01:24:18,040
Speaker 1: phones and all that. So just be extra careful if

1634
01:24:18,040 --> 01:24:21,519
Speaker 1: you see something, call the police. See something, say something,

1635
01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:23,720
Speaker 1: But they are out there. This is robbery season. Just

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01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:25,720
Speaker 1: be extra careful. When you go into your crib, your house,

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01:24:25,760 --> 01:24:27,559
Speaker 1: just look over your shoulder to look for paul cars.

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01:24:27,880 --> 01:24:30,599
Speaker 1: Just be extra careful out there. I mean, I've never

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01:24:30,640 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 1: seen the city like this. The city's bad. The hell

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01:24:33,200 --> 01:24:35,280
Speaker 1: you mean You've been in since the eighties and it's bad.

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01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:37,840
Speaker 1: This is this is one of them. Not even just

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01:24:37,880 --> 01:24:40,799
Speaker 1: people get robbed like you seeing you seeing like yesterday,

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01:24:40,800 --> 01:24:43,400
Speaker 1: I've seen a lady push a three year old on

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01:24:43,400 --> 01:24:45,000
Speaker 1: the floor. I've seen somebody trying to push some money

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01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:47,120
Speaker 1: in front of a train and somebody cut somebody in

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01:24:47,120 --> 01:24:48,800
Speaker 1: the face. Like it's c yeah, and I think it's

1647
01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:50,600
Speaker 1: because of social media too, But you're right. I was.

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01:24:50,800 --> 01:24:53,280
Speaker 1: I was having a conversation with an older white home

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01:24:53,280 --> 01:24:55,400
Speaker 1: in your mind, and um I said that. I was like, man,

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01:24:55,439 --> 01:24:57,600
Speaker 1: I said, your New York look like it did in

1651
01:24:57,600 --> 01:25:00,120
Speaker 1: the early two thousands, late nineties. She said, no, this

1652
01:25:00,200 --> 01:25:02,360
Speaker 1: is like how it wasn't the sixty seventies. I was like, well,

1653
01:25:02,400 --> 01:25:05,200
Speaker 1: it wasn't around. I'll take your word for it, man,

1654
01:25:05,400 --> 01:25:08,200
Speaker 1: but it's bad out there, so just be careful. And

1655
01:25:08,280 --> 01:25:10,600
Speaker 1: it's and it's because people starving. It's literally because of

1656
01:25:10,600 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 1: the economy. I'm telling you. Then PPM, then PPM, then PPP.

1657
01:25:14,200 --> 01:25:18,680
Speaker 1: Loans gone, the unemployment gone, the holiday season about to

1658
01:25:18,720 --> 01:25:21,320
Speaker 1: be upon us, everything looking like a lake for people

1659
01:25:21,320 --> 01:25:23,719
Speaker 1: who need eat. Yeah. And the dude that they caught yesterday,

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01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:26,719
Speaker 1: he's from the Bronx, of course, because the craziest people

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01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:31,240
Speaker 1: in America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. Yes, yes,

1662
01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:33,960
Speaker 1: so all right, Well when we come back, positive noticed

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01:25:34,000 --> 01:25:37,639
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club go Morning Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy,

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01:25:37,800 --> 01:25:40,960
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club,

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Speaker 1: Yes we are, and shout out to everybody that was

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Speaker 1: calling in today. One person that was talking about the

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Speaker 1: sexual attention between Envy and Charlottage. He said, by the

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Speaker 1: time y'all have sex. It's going to be trash. That

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Speaker 1: has to be such a disappointment if you wait for

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Speaker 1: years and years and years and hold out and then

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01:25:59,439 --> 01:26:01,479
Speaker 1: you finally have sex with someone and it's not what

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Speaker 1: you thought it was. I think it's scranged that people

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Speaker 1: um think about me and envy having sex. Me and

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Speaker 1: iv ain't thinking about that. No, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Just just because you tell your brother you love him

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Speaker 1: and you value them and you appreciate them, don't mean

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Speaker 1: you wanted to sleep with him. Jesus Christ, people get

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Speaker 1: your names out the gutter. Also, sleute to Jason Wilson,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Jason Wilson, the author of

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Speaker 1: Cry Like a Man in Battle Cry, just a great

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Speaker 1: brother man. Follow him on Instagram and Twitter at mister

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Speaker 1: Jason Wilson. He's got a documentary coming out produced by

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Speaker 1: Lawrence Fishburn about his life. He's just a really really

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Speaker 1: good brother man who's really out here, you know, helping

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Speaker 1: the people, helping the community, especially in Detroit, Like I

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Speaker 1: mean his organization Union, you know, he's he's helped over

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Speaker 1: ten thousand young black men, you know, deal with their

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Speaker 1: trauma through Marshal Larch. So really, hell yeah, Detroit, get

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Speaker 1: his number because maybe he got some young men that

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Speaker 1: he wants to give, you know, look to getting the

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Speaker 1: car show free and just you know he would love that.

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Speaker 1: Ask you can ask Ty Royce any of him about

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Speaker 1: Jay and Jason absolutely demand sleute to Jason Wilson. So

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Speaker 1: I'm happy you pulled up this morning. All right, Well

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Speaker 1: you got a positive note, Yes, the positive note simply

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Speaker 1: this be around the light bringers, the magic makers, the

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Speaker 1: world shift is the game shakers. They challenge you, break

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Speaker 1: you open, uplift and expand you. They don't let you

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Speaker 1: play small with your life. These heartbeats are your people.

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Speaker 1: These people are your tribe. Breakfast club pitches, yount finish.

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Speaker 1: Are y'all dumb a