1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: My girlfriend's friends hate me, and I think one of 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: them has a crush on her. Should I stay or 3 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: should I go? This is okay, Ope, home of the 4 00:00:06,519 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: Craziest stories on Earth. I'm Sophia and Riley showed Ope 5 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: stay or should she go? 6 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: I think she should stay because in a way, this 7 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 2: is like as if he was in an arena. He's 8 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: a fight off all of her friends to prove that 9 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 2: he can provide for her. This is Scott Pilgrim. This 10 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 2: is Scott Pilgrim. 11 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: This is Scott Pilgrim here verse. I think that I 12 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: think she should stay. Wait, No, okay, I think Gopie 13 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: should stay because we don't know. It's just one of 14 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: them has a crush on her. 15 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 2: What's a big deal? Come on, yeah, no, biggie. 16 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: It seems like the girlfriend is a hot commodity and 17 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: Ope is winning. 18 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:41,639 Speaker 2: There's only one way to find out. 19 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: There's only one way to find out. I met my 20 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: now girlfriend at our campus gym. I jokingly asked her 21 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 1: to spot me, made a joke about me not being 22 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 1: a big guy, and somehow ended up getting her to 23 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: go on a date with me. After we were done. Wow, 24 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: we've been together ever since. 25 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: A lot of guys cannot do that. A lot of 26 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 2: guys just make awkward eye contact in the Joe. 27 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,160 Speaker 1: Jim and say nothing. While I was getting to know her, 28 00:01:01,240 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: she admitted to being a huge geet. I never would 29 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: have guessed, but apparently her brother pretty much gave her 30 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 1: a constant stream of stuff like that. At the time, 31 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: I thought, cool, we could play Xbox together or something 32 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: like other girls. There actually wasn't a whole lot of overlap. 33 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: Besides some games like Halo. She's into a lot of 34 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 1: things I've never paid attention to, including D and D, 35 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: Final Fantasy, World of Warcraft, et cetera. I love D 36 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: and D. That's a great sign. She sounds like a catch. 37 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: It's been pretty fun and we still work out slash 38 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 1: run together all the time, and she'll watch me play 39 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 1: intram and she'll watch me play intramural sports. We're going 40 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 1: to do some co ed leagues together too. The only 41 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: problem is that a small group of her friends hate 42 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: the shit out of me. I'll name the main problem, 43 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: guy Bill. There's been a couple of really passive, aggressive 44 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 1: things him and his little group. I've done one. We've 45 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: been playing Destiny. Oh, we were playing Destiny and doing 46 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: a strike, which is for three players. It was Bill, 47 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: my girlfriend and me. He kept leaving the party and 48 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: inviting her to a different party. Ooh, that's so weird. 49 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: When she refused, he sent a text saying another one 50 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 1: of their friends was on and wanted to play. My 51 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: girlfriend decided to just play with me and one of 52 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: my friends. 53 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 2: What okay, what does that mean? Like you left the party? 54 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 1: He left party, made a new party and then was 55 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: like oh to the girlfriend, was like, oh, come come 56 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 1: to this one. 57 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: What does a party mean? 58 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: Like when you're on a game, like when you're on 59 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: a server or something, and then you're playing in that 60 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 1: on that server. I guess he like left to a 61 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: new server to create. Oh so it was like they're 62 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: a little group and like you can talk. But then 63 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: that's my understanding. So number two, my girlfriend has a 64 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 1: nice apartment. I'm probably over there five nights a week, 65 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: including Saturdays on Saturday a lot. 66 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 2: Just say six days, that's just it. 67 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's just six days a week. I'm over there 68 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: every day, but Sunday on Saturday they have D and 69 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: D party. Basically, they have a D and D party 70 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: Basically some of her friends who play, including Bill, come 71 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: over and play D and D. Bill complain about all 72 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: of the people who come over and don't play. Everyone 73 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: else just gets drinks and has a good time. My 74 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: girlfriend told him get over it because everyone else has 75 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: a good time. And number three another video game related issue. 76 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: My girlfriend had all of us play Diablo three hardcore, her, Bill, me, 77 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: and Ryan, who was actually a good guy. 78 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 2: Ryan. 79 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: Ryan, nobody's a good guy. We just hate Bill. I 80 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: was having a little fun basically making my girlfriend hold 81 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: my hand through the game. Bill ran ahead and got killed. 82 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 1: He was pissed. 83 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 2: It just got pissed because you guys were making premarital handholding. 84 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:21,919 Speaker 1: Yeah oooh, that's a little bit too much, guys. See, 85 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:25,080 Speaker 1: you have to save that for marriage. Number four, he 86 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: invited my girlfriend to a concert with him and his 87 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: closer friends, after I had already bought the tickets for 88 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: us to go and have her see my family again. 89 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: The festival is in my hometown. My girlfriend told him 90 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 1: that we might see him there, and he asked if 91 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: we would even be together that long. It's in December, Dude, 92 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: he's planted this out. Bill. Bill sucks. Oh my god. 93 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: I think the girlfriend should get rid of Bill. Number 94 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: five This one's probably the most egregious. Yesterday, he literally 95 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: sent a text to me saying I'm hogging my girlfriends. 96 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: I sent something saying that if she didn't want to 97 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: hang out with me so much, she wouldn't. He replied 98 00:03:56,760 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 1: I didn't have to do everything with my girlfriend and 99 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: that it was annoying people. I'm positive he has a 100 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: crush in her, that's pretty obvious. My girlfriend's told me 101 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 1: that she grew up with him but never really liked him, 102 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: that he was a part of the group, and she'd 103 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: rather not make a fuss. She's pretty non confrontational. Oh 104 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: so he's like maybe not even like super close friends 105 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: with her, he's just like in the friend group. 106 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 2: Oh that makes sense, So she. 107 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: Can't just kick him out. I don't think I can 108 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: really blame him for having a crush on her. She's 109 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: a beautiful girl in all, but I definitely think he's 110 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: been nothing but an ass the whole time. Fortunately, I'm 111 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:31,400 Speaker 1: not very threatened, mainly because he isn't my girlfriend's pipe physically. Yeah, 112 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 1: she likes not big. 113 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: Guys, not big red flag guys, not big. 114 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: Red flags named Bill. Because he isn't my girlfriend's type physically. 115 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: If what I look like is anything to go off of. 116 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 1: Should I just ignore him? 117 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 2: It feels hard for him to ignore him. I feel 118 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 2: like he needs to. 119 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 1: Like no, I mean, if his texted Bill texted him, 120 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: that's weird. 121 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: How can he ignore him in this situation? Like if 122 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:54,480 Speaker 2: you were to what, what do you think would happen 123 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 2: like later on? 124 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: Well, it doesn't seem like the girlfriend is like really 125 00:04:57,960 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: friends with Bill, and she seems like he's in the 126 00:04:59,640 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: same place. 127 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 128 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 1: Maybe you can block his tech. I think he can't 129 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: just ignore him. I think he has to talk to 130 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: his girlfriend about it. Yeah, let her know what's going on, 131 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: and then they can both ignore Bill and cut him 132 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 1: out of their lives. Kill Bill? 133 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 2: Kill Bill? Is that what this is for? 134 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: That's what this movie's about. Well, those of you that 135 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,599 Speaker 1: said just wait and let him escalate things, he did 136 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: just that. Typical Bill escalating things, trying to steal people's girlfriends. 137 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: Go away, Bill, I don't like you. Something I ate. 138 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: Must have given me food poisoning two days ago. Whoa 139 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: Bill poison? Ope? 140 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 2: It's the only way to get rid of Op, or 141 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 2: for Op to spend less time with his girlfriend. 142 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Wait, hold on. There's more something I 143 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: ate must have given me food poisoning two days ago, 144 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: so she's been taking care of me for the few days. 145 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,719 Speaker 1: If that's not intimacy, I don't know what is. His 146 00:05:48,760 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: girlfriend sounds great side now she sounds really cool. She 147 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 1: does dn D, she helps keep soup, she cooks soup. 148 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: Maybe did it say that or is that just some disissumation. 149 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 1: Riley assumes a lot. 150 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, she told me, okay, storytime, But she told me 151 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 2: if I don't believe I can juggle, it's okay storytime. 152 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: We'll get to that. 153 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. Oh. She got a call from Bill, who 154 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: was at her apartment with some of her friends. She 155 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 1: pretty much has an open door policy, people drop by 156 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 1: unannounced all the time. She want. She went to go 157 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 1: meet them. Apparently they decided to have some sort of intervention, 158 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: basically saying what Bill has said to me earlier in 159 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: the text, Oh my god, these friends mmmm yikes, saying 160 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: that I didn't have to do everything with them and 161 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: that we spend too much time together. It escalated because 162 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 1: my girlfriend got angry and they aren't friends anymore. Yoh, 163 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 1: oh my god, the whole friend group broke down. 164 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like that that wasn't really good friends? 165 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,839 Speaker 1: Then yeah, they must not have been that good. But 166 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: I am I'm like, I want to know what the 167 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: friends saw because we're hearing this from Ope. 168 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 2: That's true, that's true. 169 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: This is a peace out of the story, and right 170 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: now I support you, Opee, but we need a full, 171 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 1: full scope scope. My girlfriend came home crying. I did 172 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: my best to comfort her, and we haven't heard from 173 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: them since yesterday. Apparently there were a few more people, 174 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: including some of her female friends in that group that 175 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: she's been really close with, who had a problem with us, 176 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:04,599 Speaker 1: but most of her friends didn't bother taking a side. 177 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 1: How do I support her through this? She's lost a 178 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 1: relatively large chunk of friends, and even if they weren't 179 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: great friends, they were the people she shared her hobbies with. 180 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: That's really hard, especially when you have that's your D 181 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: and D group. Yeah, you don't find D and D groups. 182 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 2: They're hard to come by. 183 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: They're hard to come by. Obviously, if she wants to 184 00:07:20,720 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: do anything with me, I'll do it with her. But 185 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:30,119 Speaker 1: I can't replace all of them. God, that's true. You can't. 186 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: You're just one guy, one man. Is that the full thing? 187 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 2: No? 188 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 1: There's another juicy update, my god, that surprised even me. John, 189 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: another one of her original D and D buddies from 190 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: high school, sent my girlfriend an email asking if they 191 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: could talk with us yesterday. Oh, we agreed, honestly thinking 192 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: that they might apologize. Yeah, they actually decided to tell 193 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: my girlfriend that they still like to be friends and 194 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: that they didn't have to be friends with me to 195 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: be friends with her. My girlfriend said she understood that, 196 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: but wasn't even sure if she still wanted to be friends. 197 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: They actually apologized for putting her in that position the 198 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: other day when they tried an intervention, she still said 199 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: the only way that they could ever be friends again 200 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: was to apologize to me and her. I really don't 201 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: know why I had to ask what they didn't like 202 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 1: about me. They told me, and honestly, some of their 203 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: points had a little merit and I'll probably have to 204 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: work on them. Juicy Okay number one, I only met 205 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: my girlfriend because I was physically attracted to her and 206 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 1: decided to talk to her. I don't think this is 207 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: a legitimate criticism. 208 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 2: That's usually how it starts. Start start, you're attracted to 209 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:33,720 Speaker 2: them and then like like they. 210 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 1: Saw each other at the gym. They locked eyes. They 211 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 1: were like, hey, you're cute, and then they talked about 212 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:40,839 Speaker 1: reps or whatever. Yeah, talk about that gym. No, I 213 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:42,839 Speaker 1: feel like that's not a valid concern. Yeah, I spend 214 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: too much time with my girlfriend, which I do, but 215 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: like I said in the previous post, it's something we 216 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 1: both currently want, and I've never told her to hang 217 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: out with me over them or something. Again, spend time 218 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 1: with your friends if you want. 219 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 2: To keep there's a point. 220 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. Number three, I only talk to my girlfriend when 221 00:08:58,040 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: we're all on a groove. I guess I do tend 222 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: to do that. I see how that's annoying when we're 223 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 1: having a conversation. No one else is a part of 224 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 1: that is annoying. 225 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, you are making everyone feel like a third wheel. 226 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I hate that. Like you're coming to a 227 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 1: party and you're like oh, and then your girlfriend's like oh, 228 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 1: and everyone else is just like sitting there. They feel like. 229 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: I've had my girlfriend kick them out before. She has 230 00:09:16,280 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: a few times that we could be together. Both times 231 00:09:18,520 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: I didn't tell her to. Number five. Apparently I've taken 232 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: advantage of her. She turned twenty one before me, so 233 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: I would always give her cash so she could go 234 00:09:26,120 --> 00:09:28,120 Speaker 1: run up to the ABC store and get whatever we 235 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: wanted to drink that night. On one night, this was 236 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: when we were first dating and still using them, I 237 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: asked her to get condoms because we ran out. Apparently 238 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 1: they were there with her, and she was really embarrassed 239 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: about it. I definitely thanked her, and she didn't seem 240 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: upset about it at the time, and when I talked 241 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: to her after we left, I apologized for putting her 242 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: in a place she felt uncomfortable that is kind of weird, 243 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: Like she was with her friends and he was like, hey, 244 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: get condomso do. 245 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 2: One of these. That was a little bit of a yeah, bro, 246 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 2: that's not cool. 247 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like get them yourself, be a gentleman. Number six 248 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: Apparently my friends that came over and made a few 249 00:09:58,679 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: jokes about D and D and feel uncomfortable they heard 250 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 1: Shane them. I actually apologize for this, although I'm probably 251 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: not going to say anything to them. We weren't really 252 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: more than acquaintances. 253 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 2: So lowki. I feel like Opie's a jock, and like 254 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 2: him and his jock friends are making fun of the team. 255 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: He's like doing reps at the gym and he's like, oh, 256 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: these g and D nerds. I mean in the title 257 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 1: he calls her nerdy or geeky. Right, yeah, yeah. Number 258 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 1: seven Bill heard a story and thus told it to 259 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 1: the rest of the group from one of my few 260 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: high school friends who I might actually talk to about this, 261 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:28,920 Speaker 1: who came to the school about a few of the 262 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 1: girls I dated in high school. 263 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:34,000 Speaker 2: WHOA so like Bill went behind the scenes and like 264 00:10:34,280 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 2: try to get dirt on him. 265 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, and that I had a nat and 266 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: saying that I had a nasty habit of leading girls 267 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,679 Speaker 1: on in high school. I did, but my senior year, 268 00:10:42,720 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 1: my mom and older sister sat me down and told 269 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: me to cut that shit out and treat women with 270 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 1: more respect. So I did. I've told my girlfriend about this, 271 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: and I considered it to be one of the more 272 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: important moments of my life. WHOA, Okay, So, I mean, 273 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 1: like in the past, that's a red flag. Yeah, but 274 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 1: if you've learned from it, I don't know. Put in 275 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 1: the beige a beige beige flag. I don't have a 276 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: beige flag on me, but if I did, I'd be 277 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 1: waving it. Anyways, we left, my girlfriend and I talked 278 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: it over. She's still not going to forgive them if 279 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 1: they don't apologize to both of us. She said she 280 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: doesn't want to spend any less time with me and 281 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 1: sent an email pretty much saying that to them. An email, 282 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: An email? Yeah, why not text? That's really form me? Yeah, 283 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: m Two of the six have already apologized by way 284 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 1: of a phone call. I should note that Bill wasn't there. 285 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: I think he's out of town for whatever reason. Oh yeah, 286 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 1: he's out of town. 287 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 2: To your exes getting dart on you, bro. 288 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just researching a lot of things. I mean, 289 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 1: I was going the route of like op got rid 290 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 1: of them. But I think he's out of town for 291 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: whatever reason. Not sure if he'll apologize or not. I 292 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 1: don't think he will. It seems like he just wants 293 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: to be with your girlfriend. 294 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:45,119 Speaker 2: Think he wants you gone, buddy. 295 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 1: He wants to play D and D with your GIRLFRIENDT 296 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: you're in the way, you're the way, You're spending too 297 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 1: much time with her. I wanted some advice on how 298 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 1: to be around the group that did slash will apologize. 299 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,320 Speaker 1: The two girls in the group are her friends that 300 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 1: usually come over multiple times a week, as opposed to 301 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: the D and D group who came over once a week, 302 00:12:01,240 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 1: So she is he having problems with the D and 303 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: D group and the two girls seems like maybe, yeah, 304 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: so that's kind of a real time if everyone's having problems. Yeah, Anyway, 305 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: I think the girls will probably start inviting her out 306 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: more as opposed to hanging out in her apartment. I 307 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,719 Speaker 1: really don't think that if they continue playing D and 308 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 1: D that they'll be able to hang out somewhere else. Yeah. Wait, 309 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:23,319 Speaker 1: so the girls are like, okay, well she can't escape 310 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: if we go out. 311 00:12:24,320 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, and like all they do when they hang out 312 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 2: is play D and D. So he's like, that's kind 313 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 2: of pointless. We'll pick up a new hobby. 314 00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. To be fair to OP, D and D is 315 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: really like, as I said, it's really you gotta focus. 316 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: So maybe they should just be including Op in more things. 317 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: They should be doing activities that he can he can 318 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 1: be included. 319 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 2: In my thoughts on those. 320 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, what's your thoughts or do you want to wait? 321 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:46,560 Speaker 1: Oh wait a wait, okay, okay, okay. My girlfriend said 322 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: that she'd be willing to move the D and D 323 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 1: night with the people that I've apologized and have everyone 324 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 1: just come over Saturday if I am with her normally 325 00:12:52,920 --> 00:12:54,559 Speaker 1: when they play Should I just leave? I felt like 326 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: I could have done that earlier, but knowing that they 327 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 1: really don't like me makes me uncomfortable, even if I'm 328 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: pretty sure she wouldn't with that. The fact that, from 329 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: what I've gathered so far, that Bill gathered that info 330 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: about me from a high school friend makes me so uneasy. 331 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 1: That's so weird. Yeah, so weird, Like Bill dug up information. 332 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 1: Why was the high school friend telling Bill about this? 333 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,199 Speaker 2: It's probably like where did he find the high school? 334 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: Did he find like did he go on like LinkedIn 335 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: or like Facebook? And he's like our Instagram? I don't know. 336 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 2: He probably like once your Instagram saw a tag photo 337 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 2: into them, saw another tag photo, and then asked that 338 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 2: person through he did like really. 339 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 1: In depth research. That's kind of crazy. Has it bilship 340 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: work for the FBI? 341 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:36,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? He should. 342 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:39,960 Speaker 1: I don't have anything to hide, but he basically researched me. 343 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: I haven't said anything about this because I do want 344 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: my girlfriend to have her friend. I think our relationship 345 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 1: is still doing really great. We had a lot of 346 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 1: fun this weekend before they asked to meet us. I 347 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: also want to apologize for posting so much. I'm not 348 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: terribly close with my friends. I can't really talk to 349 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: them about this. And it's also nice to get some 350 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 1: outside perspectives on everything. What are your thoughts now that 351 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 1: you have Loki? 352 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 2: This just seems like a young couple kind of. Yeah, 353 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:04,079 Speaker 2: like they're in love. 354 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: They have to be again, I want to spend all 355 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: the time together. 356 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 2: All they want to spend the time together. And this 357 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 2: is him like this is a maturing thing. 358 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems like just from the fact that he's like, 359 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: I'm not terribly close with my friends, I think you 360 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 1: need to spend some time on your friendships. 361 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, like go find some other gym dudes, you know, 362 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 2: find some gym bros that you can actually have a 363 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 2: conversation about this with. 364 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, who can spot you can life and at the gym. 365 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, find that support. You deserve that. But I think, honestly, 366 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 2: that's what he's lacking. Is like his only support that 367 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 2: he is getting is from his girlfriend, so like. 368 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: And it's yeah, his girlfriend's friends. 369 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and and two that he like kind of a 370 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 2: joke and they're more like they do D and D 371 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 2: and stuff like that. Yeah, he doesn't feel comfortable hanging 372 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 2: out there all the time. Like, imagine if you were 373 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 2: you work out, No, imagine if you were as film walks. Yeah, 374 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 2: like if you went with all the gym bros and 375 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 2: like you were, like you were with a guy and 376 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 2: like you were trying to do that, how would you feel? 377 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 2: How woud you feel about that? 378 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: Wait? Give me that scenario. 379 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 2: Like instead of you guys spinning together playing D and D, yeah, 380 00:14:58,880 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: you guys were at the gym. 381 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: Iron I mean, I guess my partner was like, I 382 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 1: want to take you to the gym and like, you know, 383 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: we can work out together. I'd be like, sure, I'll 384 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: do it, but the bros are there. I feel a 385 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:08,840 Speaker 1: little bit intimidated. 386 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 2: But like you're cool with the bros, but like you're 387 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 2: the hobby I would be okay. 388 00:15:12,560 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 1: I think I would be okay with that. But but honestly, 389 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,480 Speaker 1: I think that maybe you can have your own hobbies 390 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 1: with your friends sometimes, like you don't like if it's 391 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: one day a week, if it's Saturday, you know, they 392 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 1: can just have their D and D time And dan d' 393 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: is not like a whole day thing. Usually it's like. 394 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 2: Four hours, just like half a day. 395 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: It's just like half a day and then you can 396 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 1: have the rest of the week with your except Sundays. 397 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: Except for Sunday. 398 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, no Sunday is allowed. 399 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 2: I just think, oh, pre you needs to have more 400 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 2: solid guy friends. 401 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you need a network. A network well 402 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 1: that aren't just your girlfriend, even though your girlfriend is 403 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: very important. And now we have some relevant comments. This 404 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: is from Jen Carrious. It looks like this is jan 405 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 1: Carrius Seer huge and who says. I would have been 406 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: really pissed if someone's so at my games had his 407 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 1: friends over and they made fun of me and my 408 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 1: friends for playing D and D to the point of 409 00:15:58,080 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 1: not welcome here anymore. I do agree with them that, Yeah, 410 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: if someone came over while I was playing D and 411 00:16:01,920 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: D and was like that's stupid, I'd be like, get out, yeah, 412 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:06,880 Speaker 1: get it right now. And then oh, he responded, They're 413 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 1: not coming over again. I just won't invite them. 414 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 2: It's just a solution. 415 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: Wow, you need to work on your friendships though. Yeah, yeah, okay, 416 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: I think that no one else should be coming to 417 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: these D and D sessions. Honestly, I think they should 418 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 1: be exclusive. I think that's the solution. 419 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 2: Yeah. 420 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: Fact, this is t Asaki. I definitely think Bill was 421 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 1: an instigator in all of this, but for just a moment, 422 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 1: try to see it from the rest of their points 423 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: of view. Hey, read it. We have this friend that 424 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: we love to play D and D with. She has 425 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: a USO and they seem to really like each other. 426 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: She seems to always spend her time with him, including 427 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 1: on our game night. We try to talk to him, 428 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: but he basically ignores us. On top of that, his 429 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 1: friends made fun of us one night and he didn't 430 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:46,520 Speaker 1: stand up to them, which you think he would since 431 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:48,360 Speaker 1: his girlfriend loves playing D and D. One of the 432 00:16:48,360 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: other group members said he used to be a huge 433 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: womanizer a few years ago. When we try to talk 434 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: to her about it, she just got really mad and 435 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 1: is demanding an apology to both of them. What should 436 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 1: I do? I'm not exactly defending them, but everyone on 437 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:01,960 Speaker 1: here seems to be jumping down their throats as well. 438 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: From your point of view, they are being unreasonable, But 439 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: from their point of view, you are being a jerk. 440 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 1: I get that because we don't know their point of view. Soach, 441 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,280 Speaker 1: I like this person. I don't know what the intervention 442 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 1: was actually like, but can you at least see why 443 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:15,960 Speaker 1: some of them might be might have been concerned. They 444 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:18,160 Speaker 1: probably took it a little too far with Bill leading 445 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,439 Speaker 1: the way, I'm sure, but you aren't faultless either. I 446 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:22,200 Speaker 1: think you need a drop Bill and then try to 447 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: get the and then try to get to know them 448 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: all individually instead of lumping them into a D and 449 00:17:26,680 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 1: D group. That's so true. Having every having everything being 450 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: relayed through other people is a little juvenile. Maybe try 451 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 1: to just grab coffee with one or two of them, 452 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: or have them try to teach you to play. Essentially, 453 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to say is, don't make your girlfriend 454 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 1: push your friends away because one because of one idiot. 455 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point, Tea, that's hockey. 456 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 1: That's a really great point. I think I agree with 457 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:50,679 Speaker 1: everything you're saying because yeah, no, literally everything that you 458 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: said was so true. 459 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, because like, if her friends are important to her, 460 00:17:55,119 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: they should also be important to you. 461 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: You shot, you should like, yeah, not, they're not just 462 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:02,679 Speaker 1: like her D and D group. No, And they're like 463 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,399 Speaker 1: what I feel like the main thing here is that 464 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: they want to spend time with her and they're feeling 465 00:18:07,359 --> 00:18:11,359 Speaker 1: like they're not getting that time. And also you should 466 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: try and you know, be interested in her interests and 467 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: play D and D. 468 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 2: Just do this with your brain. Yeah, listeners, I'm putting 469 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 2: my hands on my head and opening my skull. 470 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:24,119 Speaker 1: It's happening. Open your mind, Open your mind. Play D 471 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 1: and D. That's a lesson. That's put it on a mug, 472 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 1: put it on a hat. New merch played D and D. 473 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,959 Speaker 1: Op responded and said, I definitely plan on making an 474 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: effort with the ones that apologized. I think the reason 475 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:37,919 Speaker 1: I never talked to them so much was that they 476 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,479 Speaker 1: were probably a little hesitant around me, and I just 477 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,840 Speaker 1: took that as them not really wanting a conversation, just shy. 478 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 1: There's a song about this, and if you want to 479 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:48,800 Speaker 1: be my lover, you gotta get with my friends. 480 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 2: Oh snap. 481 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: That that's advice for everyone noting them to try and 482 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 1: win you over. You have to win them over exactly. 483 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 1: And if they're a little hesitant with you, you gotta 484 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,439 Speaker 1: make you gotta warm them. 485 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,679 Speaker 2: Up, take them to coffee, take them for the coffee. 486 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: You'll warm coffee D and D with them. Awesome, Dice. 487 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: I never heard my friend saying anything. If I did, 488 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 1: I would have said something, even if it's just a 489 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: little defense because of my girlfriend. Okay, wait, I thought before, 490 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: I've never really been called a womanizer before. It wasn't 491 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 1: really the number. It wasn't really the number. Okay, so 492 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 1: much is the way tho. Oh, it wasn't really the 493 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: number so much as the way that I treated my 494 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:29,760 Speaker 1: two high school girlfriends. Yeah, that sounds like you didn't 495 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: treat them well. I didn't really care for them, but 496 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't say no to either of them when they 497 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: offered sex. It was just so easy to say yes. 498 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 2: Okay, this did not help you with the mormanizer else. 499 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 1: The phrasing of that, just the phrasing of that does 500 00:19:42,440 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: not sound good. He says. I still feel terrible about it, 501 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 1: but I don't like the way that you phrase that. 502 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 2: I'm not a womanizer. But here is evidence that I own. 503 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 1: I'm not a womanizer. But when they offered checks, I 504 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:57,040 Speaker 1: just couldn't turn it down. And I didn't care about 505 00:19:57,040 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 1: them at all. That doesn't sound good. Op not playing. 506 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 1: I think I will try to view them more as individuals, 507 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:06,880 Speaker 1: her friends. That sounds bad. 508 00:20:09,200 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 2: They're not geeks. They're actually people, my friend, my girlfriend's 509 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:15,320 Speaker 2: geeky friends. 510 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 1: Maybe you'll think of them as people who have their 511 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 1: own personalities in lives. So this is so bad, you're 512 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: really digging yourself into I don't think i'd immediately offer 513 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 1: to play with them for a while unless things go 514 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: well and they want me to. I'm really not interested 515 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: in playing. Take an interest, take an interest in what 516 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,360 Speaker 1: your girlfriend takes an interest, and also take an interest 517 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 1: and trying to win them over. Quite frankly, I really 518 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:41,400 Speaker 1: don't think I've forced her into doing anything. Unfortunately, Bill 519 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,359 Speaker 1: ended up apologizing, so I feel like I'll keep an 520 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: eye on him for now. 521 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 2: Oh so, like basically he's in the clear, but yeah, 522 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:48,719 Speaker 2: he doesn't want him to be there. 523 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:51,679 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to. Yeah, Bill still sounds like he sucks. 524 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: Like I still think that Bill has a crush on Ohp. 525 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: He's golfriend, and I feel like Bill maybe get rid 526 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 1: of Bell. But I do think that he should take 527 00:20:59,240 --> 00:20:59,600 Speaker 1: an effort. 528 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,360 Speaker 2: What you think first, Yeah, I mean I think OPI's 529 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:06,120 Speaker 2: low key not like the best guy here. Honestly, I'd 530 00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 2: put him in the a whole category just because he's young. 531 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 2: He doesn't know any better. He's in love. Honestly, they 532 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 2: just said college. 533 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 1: That's all okay, okay, so not to. 534 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,920 Speaker 2: She just turned twenty one and he's like under twenty. 535 00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,320 Speaker 2: Oh right, yeah, so. 536 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:20,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, this does feel like an under twenty thing. 537 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, So I think like it just comes with age. 538 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 2: You'll figure it out, You'll you'll get over your brain's 539 00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 2: not fully connecting. So ah, just because he's young. 540 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that also brings up a good point of the 541 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:35,160 Speaker 1: like senior or the high school stuff. Wasn't that long ago? Yeah, 542 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,480 Speaker 1: I mean it's good that you've changed. Honestly, kudos to 543 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 1: Op for like taking that. Yeah yeah, yeah, kudos to 544 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 1: you for taking that, not being very defensive, staying open. Yeah, 545 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 1: but it wasn't that long ago. So yeah, that is 546 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 1: a little concerning, and I think that you Yeah, I 547 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,199 Speaker 1: think you need to take some time and get to 548 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: know our friends and get to know D. 549 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:55,360 Speaker 2: And D facts. That's that's if you want to stick 550 00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 2: with this girl. 551 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you want to be her lover, you've got 552 00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 1: to play D and D. That's actually that's a bar 553 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 1: real line of the song. I have another story for you. 554 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:06,200 Speaker 2: Let's get into it.