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Speaker 2: I feel like most people just don't understand genetics.

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Speaker 1: They have no idea. Yeah, they have no idea. Or

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Speaker 2: And maybe this guy knows exactly that he should leave.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's a professor of genetics at.

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Speaker 2: Harvard Man's DNA testing every baby stumbles upon.

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Speaker 1: I guess, I guess, so, just like good. Instead instead

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Speaker 1: of us putting in labs, he instantly just like runs

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Speaker 1: have found it the results and I am not the

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Speaker 1: bother uh, the Dufenschmirtz of DNA testing. I will get it. Well,

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Speaker 1: we'll find out. I twenty four female, gave birth to

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Speaker 1: her skin was very dark and it looked like she

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Speaker 1: could have two biological parents who are of African sense.

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Speaker 2: Oh damn.

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Speaker 1: My husband, Jim twenty six mal fake name, was furious

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Speaker 2: And there is Jim White. Are they both white.

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Speaker 1: It seems that they're both white.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so they're both white, and the baby came out

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Speaker 2: like dark.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, from Op's words, looking like it could have African parents,

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Speaker 1: looking like the baby could have African parents. Yeah, my goodness.

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Speaker 2: I understand the especially if you don't understand how genetics

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Speaker 2: work and don't understand your family three, which most people do,

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Speaker 2: I can understand. He's like that, don't look like me,

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Speaker 2: and then and then just being pissed. But that's just

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Speaker 2: that's also just not how's always there's always more under

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Speaker 2: the surface. Yeah, guys, if.

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Speaker 1: You're curious how genetics works, google Drake's baby.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Drake's baby is nuts. My face pops up. Okay,

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Speaker 2: it is what it is.

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Speaker 1: It's true. Aubrey Graham is my father. End of discussion.

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Speaker 1: Then he told everyone on both sides of the family

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Speaker 2: Wait that so he thinks that Ope cheated.

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Speaker 1: And and just like went from zero to a million.

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Speaker 2: So he like sees this baby, he's like, not mine, Nope,

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Speaker 2: doesn't do any tests, just immediately runs out, I mean insanity, Yo,

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Speaker 2: that's crazy to do that, Like before you have any

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Speaker 2: Is nuts?

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is like blowing up Opie's life, like

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Speaker 2: I mean like maybe just take a little bit more thought, just.

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Speaker 1: One can you give it one brain cell? One brain cell?

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Speaker 1: Like please? His family and a lot of our friends

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Speaker 2: Who are these fraws up and calls and just like

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Speaker 1: Like because if you hear someone bad about someone in

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Speaker 1: You're a monster.

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Speaker 2: Unless I guess you're in the YouTube comments send you're

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Speaker 2: shitting on our show.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, but guess what some people like us?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I actually we saw a comment the other

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Speaker 1: There's other channels, go pound saying yeah, shout out to

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Speaker 1: out to Big Zoe. But my mother was on my

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Speaker 2: At least the family doesn't desert her like for a

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Speaker 1: Jim refused to pick me up from the hospital, threw

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Speaker 1: Like this man is like quadruple quintuple ten x dick.

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Speaker 1: Could you try to catch them? All?

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Speaker 1: I did? Wow, yeah both in my mouth. Wow, good job. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I have, I have.

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Speaker 1: I was distraught and I just tried to focus on

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Speaker 1: My god. Eventually he agreed to do a paternity test.

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Speaker 2: Finally, finally, after all this, man, if it comes back

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Speaker 2: like positive, I'm gonna laugh, so like positive that he's

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Speaker 2: he's he's gonna find out some ship right now. He

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Speaker 2: is a hundred percent the father. Fucking knew it. What

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Speaker 1: Wow wow wow wow. No one could believe the results,

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Speaker 2: Ah okay, so now we're getting to the bottom of

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Speaker 2: all right, like if he has some some African descent

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Speaker 1: And uh. Since then, Jim has been reaching out to

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, that's what I was gonna say. It's like, no, bro,

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Speaker 1: racist remarks. Why would you want him to be, you know,

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Speaker 2: Exactly? He sounds like a terrible influence.

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Speaker 1: Literally things that I thought he'd never say, and he

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Speaker 2: how do you react then? Because that's like the true

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Speaker 1: One hundred and uh safe to say should hit the fan?

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Speaker 2: To hit the fan?

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Speaker 1: Jim has been begging for forgiveness. I said I needed time,

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Speaker 1: My sister suggested couple's therapy, but I what, bitch, No,

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Speaker 1: therapy for yourself? This relationship? No? No, no, no, my goodness,

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Speaker 1: That's right. I've never cheated, and I've been one hundred

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Speaker 1: a second chance? So there is a decently big update here,

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Speaker 1: another update, another update. But I mean second chance, second chance? Nah?

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Speaker 2: No, I don't think so. I don't think so. I mean,

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Speaker 1: And you don't know what it'll be because op, he

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Speaker 1: it's like you just live in fear basically. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I mean, at least at this point,

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Speaker 2: Maybe after a few years of him consistently showing up

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Speaker 2: as a good father, maybe there's maybe a way to

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Speaker 2: he has rights as a father to the kid. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: right right, And I do believe that everyone has the

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Speaker 1: But for a.

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Speaker 2: Shithole like that, it takes time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I believe that everyone is a shit back now,

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Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. Yeah, it would take a long time.

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Speaker 2: And I don't think the grandparents are entitled. They they

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Speaker 1: Well, they have to learn how to make it up.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, yeah, to make like to make it

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Speaker 1: Not at all.

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Speaker 2: And I think what she does deserve is a little

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Speaker 1: So today I fed up by turning eleven dollars in

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Speaker 2: See that was the greatest investment of all time, and

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Speaker 2: then you just trashed it.

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Speaker 1: Now the landfill is four point five million, Richard.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, if you're ever sifting through that landfill, you know,

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Speaker 1: So this f up started around eleven years ago when

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's start from the very beginning, eleven years ago.

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Speaker 2: That's like the beginning of bitcoin.

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Speaker 1: It was the dawn of time, the dawn of a

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Speaker 2: I know, to be fair, you have to have a

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Speaker 1: I am poisoned with a beautiful mind that you cannot comprehend.

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Speaker 2: Could not comprehend the depths, the inn machinations of my mind.

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Speaker 1: I thought, instead of getting a part time job, I

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Speaker 2: Baby, that's the best way to make money, you know,

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Speaker 2: a straight, straight ty lo pesident. Yeah, I'm out here

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Speaker 2: on my garage books. Yeah, you know what's better than

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Speaker 2: these Lamborghinis, nalage.

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Speaker 1: I'm smart enough, so why not try it? So I

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Speaker 1: few hundred dollars. Let's go. That's actually pretty good, dude,

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Speaker 1: that is pretty good. And I also came across a

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Speaker 2: Bitcoin, which is this what is the thing technology?

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Speaker 1: And people were giving them away for free on some websites.

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Speaker 2: Really, that's so nuts, dude, Dude, that is crack in

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Speaker 1: I mean in the beginning, like it had to be

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Speaker 1: giving away money, like as much as five hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: I hear they do, Hey, yeah, they do. Everything I

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Speaker 1: fill those virtual pockets to them. Over the course of

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Speaker 2: That's so many.

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Speaker 1: That's so many, which Sam, Are you ready for the

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Speaker 1: grand reveal? Yeah? The price it was? Are you really ready?

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Speaker 1: I'm ready. I'm solely prepared.

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Speaker 2: My soul hurts not having bought bitcoins so many years ago,

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Speaker 2: but I'm ready to hear the number.

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Speaker 1: Now. These one hundred and fifty bitcoins at the time

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Speaker 2: That is an increase in price, dude, according to my calculations.

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Speaker 1: That's that's an investment. What a waste of effing time.

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Speaker 1: These things weren't exploding like they were supposed to. So

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Speaker 1: back to my much better betting and awesome trademark websites.

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Speaker 2: Wait betting site okay, so so gambling gambling and awesome

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Speaker 2: trademark which awesome, awesome trademarks. Those bitcoins were stored on

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Speaker 2: If you spill a little bit of coffee on your

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Speaker 2: little post it note, you can't read the numbers anymore.

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Speaker 1: You're done, exactly. Like basically, that sticky note means he

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Speaker 1: that five hundred smack of rooms. Baby. Now, that was

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Speaker 2: Congratso Pe making his way in this world.

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to last month, and I'm moving to a

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Speaker 2: Well you know, if you're like following Marie Condo, what

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Speaker 1: You know what sparks joy? Four point five million dollars, bro,

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling joyful now. I use that box to pack

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Speaker 1: And you know what, that scrap of paper said Sam,

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Speaker 1: one hundred and fifty bitcoin roughly equals eleven dollars monkey

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Speaker 1: seven seven four three one, Monkey seven seven four three one.

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Speaker 1: That was the key to the kingdom. I chuckled to

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Speaker 2: That is the most heart breaking thing ever to like

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Speaker 1: Bro, It's like hard to fathom that we can make

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Speaker 2: changing money.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean never would have to work

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Speaker 1: a day.

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Speaker 2: If you put that four point five million dollars in

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Speaker 2: cou coin sixty percent, apy, stop sixty percent, stop it.

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Speaker 2: That's like two million over two million dollars.

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Speaker 1: You could have had it all. Sorry, you suck today.

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00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 2: I have to by potentially rooting my kid's childhood by

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Speaker 2: showing that a.

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Speaker 1: Great fruit beja. You know, sometimes you just got a

447
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Speaker 1: fruit filled beja.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you just you know, there's but sometimes there's the

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Speaker 2: information that you shouldn't share with your children. Uh.

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Speaker 1: I almost said sharing is caring, sir? Are you implying

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Speaker 1: he doesn't care about his children? That is disgusting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I never got the sex talks and

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Speaker 2: maybe maybe it is normal for adults to talk about

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Speaker 2: great fruit bejas to their children.

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Speaker 1: I'm gutted.

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Speaker 2: There's only one swimming pool that does kids lessons in

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Speaker 2: the area. Other pools are at least in a half

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Speaker 2: hour drive away. I have the swim teacher's number as

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Speaker 2: there are always changes in schedule, and parents can WhatsApp

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Speaker 2: text if they need to get a hold of her.

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Speaker 1: FYI.

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Speaker 2: She's very prudish and a professional lady in her sixties

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Speaker 2: and she does the lessons for a bit of extra

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Speaker 2: money now that she has retired. My friend sent me

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Speaker 2: a short clip video of a great fruit blowjob. YouTube

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Speaker 2: it if you want. It's hilarious. Have you seen that video?

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Speaker 1: I have it. Oh, it's pretty funny. Yeah, you gotta

468
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Speaker 1: look up the great food blow jobs.

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Speaker 2: I'll look it after this. The clip has this bit

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Speaker 2: where the woman is chowing down and making unknoly noises.

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Speaker 2: To forward it to my husband as a joke because

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Speaker 2: we saw it way back and we were crying with laughter. Unfortunately,

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Speaker 2: their names are very close and essentially the masculine and

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Speaker 2: feminine version of the same name, and without realizing it,

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Speaker 2: I sent it to the swimming teacher. No, she was

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Speaker 2: obviously not happy even after I explained and told her

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Speaker 2: how mortified it was, and she decided that it's probably

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Speaker 2: best if my children and I no longer attend her lessons.

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Speaker 1: Wow, all over a YouTube video. We can't spoil the

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Speaker 1: minds of the other youth. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I feel so guilty now, as my kids loved her

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Speaker 2: and the lessons, and also because I obviously upset this

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Speaker 2: lovely lady.

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Speaker 1: I'm a rubbish mom. Wow, that is tragic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why you don't send sex videos to the

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Speaker 2: swimm instructor.

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Speaker 1: I guess not.

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Speaker 2: Lesson learned