1 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: Welcome back to I Do Part two. 2 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:19,479 Speaker 2: It's your celebrity mentors Kelly, Ben Simone and Jennifer Wessler. 3 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: And today we are in Los Angeles or jingle Ball with. 4 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:28,880 Speaker 2: Our fair bachelors Serena and Joe. You guys, let's get 5 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: started talking everything jingle Ball. 6 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: What do you think of Jen? What do we create? 7 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 3: Joe? 8 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 4: That's not just your name, you have something else attached 9 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 4: to that. 10 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 5: Name. 11 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 6: Mobli grocery store, Joe grocery store, Joe, thank you very much, 12 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 6: very much, a grocery store, rocery store, I have a nickname. 13 00:00:54,840 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 4: Can you help us out and tell us? I feel 14 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 4: like you'll have a good one. Your best pickup line. 15 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 7: I mean something about me is I got eliminated from 16 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,400 Speaker 7: the Beats or Night one because. 17 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 8: I didn't have a pickup. 18 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 7: I would say my best pickup line that I used 19 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 7: to use was probably just high and just like make 20 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 7: eye contact and smile. 21 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was mine. 22 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 8: Yeah. I would be like, Hi, yeah, that's why we 23 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 8: that's why we worked out well. 24 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 3: So I think maybe because you have that smile that 25 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 3: was for you. 26 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: After the high and the smile, what's the follow up? 27 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 9: Usually I like it when they're like ordering a drink, 28 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 9: and I would be like hi, and then they'd be 29 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 9: like Hi. 30 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: I'd be like, what are you ordering? 31 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 10: And then I'd be like, do you want to order 32 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 10: me one? 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: Too? 34 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 8: I would say Hi, do you want to drink? 35 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 3: Yeah? 36 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:39,039 Speaker 1: Exactly. 37 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:39,479 Speaker 11: It's easy. 38 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 10: You say hi, like what are you ordering? 39 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 9: And then they say and then you Usually they'll be 40 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 9: like do you want one? I'll be like yeah, I do, 41 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:46,679 Speaker 9: or I'll be like do you want. 42 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:47,040 Speaker 1: To order me one? 43 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 3: Too? 44 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: Perfect. I love that flirt. 45 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 9: It's more about flirting is more about like energy and 46 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 9: eye contact than it is what you're actually saying. 47 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 8: What you're saying. Actually, I don't think even matters. 48 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 1: I mean. 49 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 3: Cheesy, if you have a cheesy pickup line, I don't know. 50 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 3: I like your style, both of you. I like Hi, 51 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 3: my name is. I don't like, uh, I don't know whatever. 52 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 3: Cheesy pickup line. I don't think it worked. 53 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,800 Speaker 2: I took Lo Angel's advice one time to put my 54 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 2: number on my on a on a piece of paper 55 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 2: and give it to a guy and he happened to 56 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 2: also be on love Hotel and one of her you know, 57 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 2: perspective love interests. 58 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:30,440 Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, yeah, no, no, no, we're not 59 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: doing this anymore. 60 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 9: No, no, no, no, we are not about this because you're like, 61 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 9: I don't really know who I'm giving my number two. 62 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 10: I feel like you got to have a little chit 63 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 10: chat first. 64 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 7: I also think it depends on who's asking it, Like 65 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 7: I think if Brad Pitt delivers a cheesy line, it's 66 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 7: still gonna work. 67 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 3: Disagree, Well, probably because I always like Kelly and I 68 00:02:53,840 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 3: actually both. I always went for the chubby boy. He 69 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:02,800 Speaker 3: was already in points against him. I'm sure he would 70 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 3: have been crushed. 71 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 4: Okay, how about you guys' best flirty move? 72 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 10: Flirty move? 73 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. 74 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 9: I think just like a little like a little hand 75 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 9: brush on the shoulder, like a little brush on the 76 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 9: thigh is cute, like a quick touch. 77 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 12: Yeah, not be brushing anyone on the thigh, I would say, 78 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 12: yeah again, I would probably go just like across the room, 79 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 12: eye contact, smile. 80 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Joe. 81 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 2: What about when a girl like touches her hair because 82 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 2: people will always say that, like when when a female 83 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 2: touches her hair like a male is. 84 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 9: Like oh, or I saw when a girl like takes 85 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 9: her hair down, like if it's up and they take 86 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 9: it down. 87 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I wish I had known that way back in 88 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 4: the day. 89 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, take your hair down. 90 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 8: I would notice that. 91 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 7: But also if I'm not getting any eye contact, that's 92 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 7: also that's a sign of like, no. 93 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: She's just supposed her. Why is she doing that? 94 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 7: Well, she's just like, yeah, she's not acknowledging me because 95 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 7: she's like, why is this weird guy's there at me? 96 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so it's touch touch them, put your fiddle. 97 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 10: With your hair, your down, eye contacts. 98 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 8: Smile, got no touch at the beginning. 99 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 10: Don't touch the guy, or yeah the girl can do 100 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 10: a little touch. 101 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:19,920 Speaker 9: I think the guy should keep his hands to himself 102 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 9: a little for longer. 103 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, welcome until you can touch me. 104 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 1: I love that. 105 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 2: Okay, what about the best first date could be an 106 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,799 Speaker 2: actual one that you had, or just like a location 107 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 2: you think is great. 108 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 9: I think I've only been on like one or two 109 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 9: first dates ever. 110 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 10: If I'm being honest, I was not really a dater. 111 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 9: But I think I think just like drinks, drinks is 112 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 9: great on a first day, especially you don't know the person, 113 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 9: because it's like you can extend, you can go to 114 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,120 Speaker 9: another bar, you can be like, oh, I'm hungry, let's 115 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 9: go grab dinner, or you can be like nice to 116 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 9: meet This was like a nice like one hour. 117 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 3: High totally let's call it, say like go for coffee, 118 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 3: or you never commit to dinner. 119 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:55,839 Speaker 4: You never commit. 120 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 8: I want to be locked into. 121 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 10: A dinner and then you're eating with someone you don't like. 122 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 10: And that's the whole other thing. 123 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 9: I also used to like having like a plan, like 124 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 9: when I would have go on a first day to 125 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 9: be like, oh, I'm supposed to meet my friend at like. 126 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 4: Eight or meet the person yeah, just so they know. 127 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 9: So that if it's not going well, it's like, oh, 128 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 9: you know, as I told you, like I have to go. 129 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 9: But if it's going great, you could be like, you 130 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,479 Speaker 9: know what, my friend just bailed, Like let's go do 131 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 9: something else together. 132 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 2: So this guy, actually my favorite first day is this 133 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 2: guy that I'm dating. He invited me to his house 134 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: far away from where I live, which is something I 135 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 2: would never do. I would never go anywhere for anyone. 136 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, I am not traveling, I will meet you 137 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 2: across the street. 138 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: But so I went on a train to go see him. 139 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: That was my first date. 140 00:05:40,040 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 4: And by the way, six months later. 141 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 9: We are no way had you met him before, did 142 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 9: you have a sign that it was going to go? 143 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,720 Speaker 2: Really, we talked and I knew we knew people, and 144 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 2: we were like talking for like a month and then 145 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 2: I went to go meet him. 146 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:53,800 Speaker 10: Okay, so there's already a little investment before you. 147 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 2: Like, I'm literally like all my dates were literally across 148 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 2: the street from my apartment. 149 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. 150 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just if you and I were close, then 151 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 3: we got closed very well, right, I would not allow that. 152 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 4: No, listen, what do I know here? 153 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 9: You are words when you break your dating roles is when. 154 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, I just was like should I should I 155 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: not that. I was like, I'm not going to go. 156 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 1: I'm not going to go. I'm the queen of like 157 00:06:16,760 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: making plans and canceling. Yeah, and yeah I went. I 158 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,160 Speaker 1: love that. I love that it worked out. Yeah. So 159 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: you can travel if you want, but I wouldn't suggest it. 160 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, or you can always just go on the Bachelor 161 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 3: or meet the man or woman of your dreams. 162 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a bit of travel, right, But I do 163 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 1: like the idea. 164 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 2: I do like theda of like having a plan and 165 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,719 Speaker 2: maybe like at the beginning of the date saying listen, 166 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:41,240 Speaker 2: you know, I just I'm so happy. 167 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 1: To meet you. 168 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 2: I have something afterwards, even if you like the person, 169 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 2: I think it's always good to like just be able 170 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,520 Speaker 2: to like meet them, digest it and then move on 171 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: versus just kind of like. 172 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 3: I used to be the director of something called. You 173 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: all will probably not well telling me it's called It's 174 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 3: Just Lunch, and it was a national dating service and 175 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 3: it's just lunch, meaning it's only lunch. 176 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 4: We're going to set you up for lunches for. 177 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 3: Professionals, busy professionals, and then we'll see what happens. 178 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. 179 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:10,880 Speaker 10: How do you feel about day dates though? 180 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: Do you guys like you like a day day? 181 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 4: I haven't had one. 182 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 8: I'm pro a day date. 183 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 3: That's cool, you guys, this was fun meet you jingle 184 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 3: balla jingle on. 185 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're with my favorite goal Kathy and season. 186 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: How are you guys. It's so good to see, so 187 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: much to talk about. We're excited about tonight, my god. 188 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 3: Yes, and your earlier our friend Joan our the favorite 189 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 3: Golden saying that she doesn't know any of the. 190 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: Performers and I'll double that, and I'll triple that, and 191 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: yes you do, grandchild. 192 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 13: Little little girls, and I know the music that's. 193 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 1: A I know this, but we don't exactly. 194 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 3: Well, listen, ladies, we need you to give us some 195 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 3: good advice for our listeners. In terms of dating. It's 196 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 3: cuffing season. We want to talk about how you get 197 00:08:19,080 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 3: your flirt on. So, ladies, give me either your best 198 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 3: pickup line or the best pickup line that a guy's 199 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 3: ever used on you. 200 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: I use eyes. 201 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 13: It's always you look somebody right in the. 202 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 10: Eyes. 203 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:34,839 Speaker 1: I love your eyes. 204 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 5: I was like wow when I so, I'm trying to 205 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 5: learn to get my feminine expression and I've heard that's 206 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 5: the way to catch a guy. 207 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 1: What does that mean? What does that mean? Well that 208 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: I've been told it's you know, basically, look like you're helpless. 209 00:08:49,559 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 5: Really, I know people are saying, Kathy, youre too You're 210 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 5: too you can do it all yourself, you're too independent. 211 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,320 Speaker 4: This is a whole other podcast that we have to But. 212 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 5: When I need a guy, I'm just telling you, when 213 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 5: I meet a guy, I smile and look him in 214 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 5: the eye, and you know there's either connection or there isn't. 215 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 5: But everyone says, Kathy, you come across like you don't 216 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 5: need a guy, and men need to feel needed, So 217 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 5: you need to make him feel needed. 218 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, like, what open the door for me? Like, well, 219 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: I don't. 220 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 3: I do subscribe to the idea. I like when a 221 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 3: man is the first to make the move. Yes, so 222 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 3: that's just my I don't reach out first. 223 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 1: I reature on a dating app. 224 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 13: Have any of you ever asked the man out? 225 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: No? 226 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:29,199 Speaker 3: No? 227 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 2: Never? 228 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: Never? Have you? 229 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 13: Yep? 230 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: And wait, would you say she's single? 231 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 3: No? 232 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: No? I need to hear the actual So uncomfortable. 233 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 13: I think it was more of a dare that somebody 234 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 13: dared me to, and. 235 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 1: I feel like, will you go out with me? 236 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:47,679 Speaker 14: Would you like to get together? Sometimes over text, her call, 237 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 14: face to face? In person, I was beat red as 238 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,959 Speaker 14: loud and outspoken as I am. There's a different size, 239 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:58,839 Speaker 14: you know, feel very intimidating, vulnerable. What the hell if 240 00:09:58,840 --> 00:09:59,720 Speaker 14: he says no? 241 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 1: Why would you? People were watching? 242 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 13: I did? 243 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: When gives you power? 244 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 4: Amen? 245 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 1: Sister? So you asked him and he said yes, guess 246 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 1: what he said? 247 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 13: What I absolutely would. However, I'm married. 248 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 1: Do you mind? Yes? 249 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 2: I mind? 250 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: That's not going Thank. 251 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:23,280 Speaker 2: You was nice about it exactly, and I love that 252 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 2: he said yes at first? 253 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you guys? Your best flirty move? Like 254 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 3: it's not it's gonna be. 255 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 1: It's gonna be. From our last. 256 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,839 Speaker 3: Guest, Serena, Yeah, Serena said it's like definitely, and Kelly 257 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 3: said playing with her hair. 258 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 5: Your hair kind of looking up shoulders and. 259 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 4: To jump in here. 260 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 15: Nobody's ever sent a drink over to a man. 261 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 1: Never I have. 262 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 5: I have never said a flirty move. 263 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 14: That is a flirty mord They just said thank you, 264 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 14: and I say thank you. When somebody said it was like, no, 265 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 14: if you were just gonna sound would you sound like. 266 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 13: Just they turned the shot class. 267 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:17,480 Speaker 5: I had a man buying an enjoy that movie, which 268 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 5: I have had a man buy me a drink before. 269 00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 5: But when I was with a couple of women and 270 00:11:21,760 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 5: he and he sent drinks over to the table and 271 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 5: then he kind of came over and chatted. 272 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 4: I think that's hot. I've met a man buying me 273 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:28,560 Speaker 4: lunch before. 274 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 3: Like I was sitting at Houston at the bar with 275 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 3: a girlfriend and actually bought both of us lunch. 276 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:36,240 Speaker 4: I saw Hi kind of staring at me across the way, 277 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 4: and I thought that was hot. 278 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 3: Anybody was move I mean, I think the Flordy move 279 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 3: was just that eye contact with you, lock guy. 280 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: That's Key. 281 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 14: But how about buying somebody a couple of coffee in 282 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 14: the car behind you. 283 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:54,040 Speaker 1: I like it too, buying somewhere a coffee. But then 284 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: you pull over and get into the car. 285 00:11:57,400 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 2: If there's a connection that is a great falling, you 286 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 2: could do that too. You could be like, hey, I'm 287 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 2: see here's the thing. When you're in a drive through line, 288 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 2: I have to get out of the car. 289 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 1: Looked ways. It's a woman with her two. 290 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:19,000 Speaker 13: There's a comple and it's like, wow, the attraction. 291 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 4: I feel the same. 292 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:29,560 Speaker 5: I want the guy to make the first move. Then 293 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 5: then I'll put on the flirty moves. I'll buy him 294 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 5: a drink, I'll do all those things. But I want 295 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 5: the guy to show in key. 296 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 14: How many times have we both been told? Men say 297 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,839 Speaker 14: they want an independent however they don't. 298 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 1: They don't. I don't think that. 299 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 3: They don't want an independent woman. I just think in 300 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 3: terms of like meeting the first time. I I think 301 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:56,080 Speaker 3: that that's sort of I don't know, it could be 302 00:12:56,160 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 3: independent and yes, like what I'm saying is it's okay 303 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 3: to be who you are. I don't think that you, 304 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 3: you and you all are to women. But I think 305 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:08,960 Speaker 3: in terms of like meeting that first time. There's this book, 306 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 3: the Rule. 307 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: When I meet someone for the first time, The Rules. 308 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: The Rules. A book is a book. 309 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 2: It just kind of gives you, like an outline of 310 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 2: like how to date. 311 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 4: It's really interesting. It is about this, about letting him, letting. 312 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 5: When I've gone out with the guy on a first date, 313 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:30,240 Speaker 5: i am, believe it or not, I will ask a 314 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 5: lot of questions. 315 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 4: I think it's great because I. 316 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 5: Want because I do them, I want them to know 317 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 5: that I'm interested in them. However, if they do not 318 00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 5: turn around and ask me questions, that is a red 319 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 5: flag for me. 320 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 1: And I've had that happen too. 321 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 4: Sometimes it's their nerves. 322 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 14: Sometimes they're nervous, you know, but they really shouldn't talk 323 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:53,959 Speaker 14: all about themselves. 324 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:55,559 Speaker 13: They should be interested in something. 325 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. 326 00:13:57,320 --> 00:13:59,439 Speaker 5: That to me has always been a red flag, and 327 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 5: I'm never been wrong yet. When I've gone out with 328 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 5: a guy and he'll ask me a lot of questions 329 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 5: about myself, but. 330 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: Then I'm like, no, he's interesting, he's interested. 331 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 5: But I've gone up with guys that I'll say, so, 332 00:14:10,320 --> 00:14:11,800 Speaker 5: you know, tell me about yourself. 333 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 4: I think you don't think that's great. 334 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:14,839 Speaker 3: I think it's almost like a job in re you know, 335 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 3: they tell you to make the interview are comfortable. Your 336 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 3: job is to make that. So I feel like that's 337 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 3: you're making him already feel comfortable with you. 338 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 2: But do you feel that because you've been you know, 339 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 2: you've been on a Bachelor, do you feel like that 340 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:30,160 Speaker 2: guy see you in a different way and they're asking 341 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 2: you questions because you've been on it? 342 00:14:31,760 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: Because that's how I felt. I was like, why are 343 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 1: you interviewing me about what I did? 344 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,960 Speaker 5: I feel like when sometimes when guys I've had a 345 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 5: couple of guys recently talk to me and and theoretically 346 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 5: they're gonna ask me out, and then they let it 347 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 5: slip that they know I was on the Bachelor, And 348 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, so you're not really interested in Kathy 349 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 5: per Se. 350 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:58,600 Speaker 1: You're more interested in the persona that was on. That's 351 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: the way they are interested when they tell me. 352 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,360 Speaker 5: Then they say, well, I know you did this, this 353 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 5: and this day about my children. 354 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:08,520 Speaker 1: Or my you know, and I totally agree about the show. 355 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 2: I feel like when they start asking questions like I 356 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 2: feel like there's like, you know, how many kids do 357 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 2: you have? Like what you know those kind of real questions. 358 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 2: But when they start saying like, so right did you 359 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,680 Speaker 2: Oh you guys went to back to wherever? 360 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: It was, like what happened there? 361 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 2: I feel like when they're asking questions, it's like it's 362 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 2: like me saying like, so, how is your business meeting exactly? 363 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 3: Oh? 364 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 1: And you know I ate you up and unfound five 365 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: hundred years, you've never. 366 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 14: Someone told me one time. 367 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 13: And I think it's a great opening for this. What 368 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 13: is it you want me to know about you? 369 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 16: Oh? 370 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm trying, as you just said, I help answer that. 371 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:46,920 Speaker 11: What do you want to too loaded? I think on 372 00:15:46,960 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 11: a first day that is too loaded a question? That's 373 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 11: that really does seem like a job interview to me. 374 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 11: When I go on a date, my goal is always 375 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 11: to make the guy feel comfortable and want to see 376 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:00,640 Speaker 11: me for a second day. 377 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: I don't sit there. 378 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 2: You know It's interesting, is what you just said. Wait, 379 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 2: and I'm not telling you how to date, but you 380 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 2: just said that people have been saying to you that 381 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 2: you're not giving, you're not emoting your feminine side, right, 382 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,600 Speaker 2: And you just said that you want them to feel comfortable. 383 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 2: So they're going to ask you on the date like 384 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 2: controlling it. I flirt with those amazing eyes and just 385 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 2: have fun and let them want to be with you, 386 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 2: versus like you saying I want to control this date 387 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 2: because I. 388 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: Can also really get them do. 389 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 3: It really being sincerely interested, like well, I love talking 390 00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 3: to people, but I want to talk about. 391 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: Us left a podcast. 392 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 4: Yes, right, because you're interested, I will. 393 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 5: Say, I very much feel. I'm from New England. I'm 394 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,440 Speaker 5: from outside of Boston. I am a Yankee. I'm a 395 00:16:54,480 --> 00:16:57,200 Speaker 5: New England girl. We speak, our minds were more direct. 396 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 5: I live in Texas and that is a hard because 397 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 5: I'm not a blessed your little heart kind of girl. 398 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 5: And I really think culturally regionally there are differences. So 399 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 5: when I go back to the Northeast, I think that's 400 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:14,200 Speaker 5: an easier place today because people are more open. 401 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 3: Think those cowboys would be very drawn to you. 402 00:17:20,480 --> 00:17:21,640 Speaker 4: I'm from Houston myself. 403 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. 404 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:29,360 Speaker 2: Anyway, Wait, Susan, tell me your best first date. 405 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 1: I remember mine. 406 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 13: It was recent. It was a year ago. Best first date, 407 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:37,640 Speaker 13: Oh the Bachelor. 408 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 1: We went no the guy she's St. 409 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 14: Martin and we went salsa dancing and he could dance, 410 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:45,360 Speaker 14: and I know I could. 411 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: He's from Saint Martin. He's French. Hell yeah, that was. 412 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 13: The best day. 413 00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 14: I mean I was dripping wet with swell love it 414 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 14: because it was. 415 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,199 Speaker 13: Hot, it's humid, and we danced for hours. 416 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: So you guys met I just went to start dancing. 417 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 13: Well we met? 418 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 1: How did you? 419 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 13: And Kathy almost didn't let me go on that date? 420 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:13,959 Speaker 1: And have I ranged her in a bar and place 421 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: here we gone? 422 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 2: Well, you guys, you met him on a dating app 423 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 2: while you in St. Martin. 424 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 14: Okay, yeah, Kathy and I were on a vacation for 425 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:26,719 Speaker 14: a couple of weeks and I had an espresso. 426 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 13: Martine couldn't go to sleep. 427 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 14: We did our face wash and the night she goes up, 428 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,200 Speaker 14: I'm laying in bed playing games on my eye. 429 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 13: Patti can come to sleep. 430 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:36,199 Speaker 8: Let me. 431 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: She goes. 432 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:40,959 Speaker 14: Sorry. 433 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 1: I said, don't do this and not doing that. Don't 434 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: follow our advice. 435 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 5: Here doesn't speak French. I have to introduce them in French. 436 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,199 Speaker 5: I'll translate. Don't worry, just send it to me. I 437 00:18:52,200 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 5: will send you some amazing things to say to her 438 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 5: man in French. 439 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:57,639 Speaker 1: I'm going to moor all right, I got it. 440 00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 2: I'll text you you guys, thank you, thank you. 441 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 4: Let's do it again. 442 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 13: We have a lot more thanks for having us. 443 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:13,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, m. 444 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 1: All right, you guys. 445 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 3: So we are here with the most beautiful couple that 446 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 3: ever came out of The Bachelor, Katie and. 447 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 17: Zach doing well? 448 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 1: How are you guys doing it? 449 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 4: Is? 450 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: It can be bad? 451 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 16: I'm super excited. This is my first time going to it. 452 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 16: Actually I'm excited. 453 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: I mean too bad you guys are together. 454 00:19:36,560 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 2: Because there's a lot of fun guys and girls at 455 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 2: this event. 456 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 1: I mean, it's definitely a lot of fun. 457 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 17: So single, if you're a single person, if. 458 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 2: You're single and ready to jingle, okay, because look at 459 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 2: this couple. 460 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 3: All right. Anyway, guys, we're going to talk a little 461 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 3: bit about dating and apparently it's something called cuffing season. 462 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 17: Do you know what that is, Zach, I have learned 463 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 17: about that. It's when you decide to settle down. I 464 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 17: think I want Yes, I want to be with this person. 465 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 15: Yes, situation Sorry, producer, how they're jumping in here. Cuffing 466 00:20:19,560 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 15: season is the time of year, the colder months, when 467 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 15: people tend to partner up so that they have somebody 468 00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 15: to go through the holidays. 469 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 1: Wow, it's kind of like a situationship. 470 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 15: It's kind of like your new boyfriend and new girlfriend. 471 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,679 Speaker 15: It could be a situationship. But cuffing season is usually 472 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 15: between Thanksgiving and then it tends to end right before 473 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 15: Valentine's Day for a lot of people. 474 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:47,400 Speaker 2: They I don't know anything, all right, right, yeah, let's 475 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 2: get cuffed, Let's get cut all right, let's get cuffed. 476 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 1: I love that. 477 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 3: For instance, in terms of flirting, what's your or what 478 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 3: was your best pickup line? 479 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:57,640 Speaker 16: Or when you've actually I don't think Zach ever used 480 00:20:57,640 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 16: a pickup line on me. All his personality just did 481 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 16: it for me. 482 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 3: Oh wow? 483 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 2: Maybe is it like eye contact? 484 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 17: I mean when she came out of the limo, I 485 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 17: looked at her eyes and God, like. 486 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 15: What did you say when you got out of the limo? 487 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:19,199 Speaker 8: Please? 488 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 15: Okay? 489 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 16: So I don't think I've ever told anybody this, but 490 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,960 Speaker 16: so they kind of like I had the idea that 491 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 16: I wanted to like throw football to them. They didn't 492 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:30,199 Speaker 16: really like that. 493 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 1: Then they were like, you should do. 494 00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 16: A moaning scene from what is that movie? They wanted 495 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,600 Speaker 16: me to reenact that, and I was so uncomfortable with it, 496 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 16: and I actually called the producer from my hotel room. 497 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 16: I said, I don't want to do this. I don't 498 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 16: want to do it. 499 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 1: They're like, you have to do it right. 500 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:51,879 Speaker 16: And anyways, last minute we were in the limo and 501 00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 16: then the producer was like, hey, we have to change that. 502 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 16: They don't think they'd be able. 503 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:56,159 Speaker 1: To air it. 504 00:21:56,400 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 4: Thank reason, right, I know that to the. 505 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: Right. So I just say this. 506 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 2: So I said, that would have been awful because you 507 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 2: when you smile, your eyes, your whole face like lights 508 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 2: up like it does it does? 509 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 1: It does? It was so lame. 510 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 16: But I came out and I was like, we have 511 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,720 Speaker 16: something in common, we're both from Austin, and then I'm 512 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 16: not from Austin. I was so nervous, and I was like, 513 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 16: we have something in This was the line I was 514 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 16: told to say, we have something in common, we're both 515 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,479 Speaker 16: from Austin, and he immediately goes, I'm not from Austin 516 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 16: and they cut that part out. 517 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: I was like, then I panic, and I'm like, neither, wait. 518 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,199 Speaker 3: A second, I'm sorry, and we're not gonna we're not 519 00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 3: gonna harp on this too much. They told you just 520 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 3: to make something up like I'm from Austin and so 521 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 3: what they. 522 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 16: Told me, right, yeah, So it's like I panicked. Know 523 00:22:56,920 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 16: I'm like this is production whatever. And then he immediately 524 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:03,680 Speaker 16: said that and I was like oh, and I couldn't 525 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 16: like catch up to it. So I was just like, 526 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 16: you know what they say, everything's bigger in Austin, and 527 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 16: I like, look down at you said that. 528 00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 4: I mean it's clever taking on your feet. 529 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's what Jen and I learned. It's 530 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: called packing in the pants. 531 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,560 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, it's started a lot in this podcast. 532 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 13: We certainly have. 533 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,480 Speaker 1: He definitely has a packaging Well. 534 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 4: Listen, Kelly and I are both fifty seven. 535 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 3: You're gonna have to work with actually, So if you're 536 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 3: going to a movie, guys and you're flirting, you want 537 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:43,320 Speaker 3: to go to a flirty movie? 538 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 4: Pick one? 539 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,120 Speaker 17: Flirt a flirty movie. 540 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like you're gonna go. 541 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:47,199 Speaker 3: On a date and you want to go can you 542 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,440 Speaker 3: do you have any movies you would suggest? 543 00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,879 Speaker 17: I mean, I'm a huge movie buff, but it's like 544 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:57,239 Speaker 17: for horror movies and thrillers and all that. She loves comedies. 545 00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 2: And yeah, but you would take a girl to a 546 00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 2: horror movie on a date. But actual. 547 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 17: Protect you against monsters right. 548 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 15: More. 549 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 3: I'm actually more of a roundcom get myself, like I 550 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:20,239 Speaker 3: think nor Fron I would think would be like the 551 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:21,679 Speaker 3: greatest first thing. 552 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 4: Okay, do you guys know who fron is. 553 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:29,119 Speaker 8: Roberts? 554 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: Okay, what about best first date? 555 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 16: Okay, my best first date would be going on a 556 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:41,359 Speaker 16: sailboat sun set cruise with a glass of wine. 557 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 4: I never thought about it, but that is that's. 558 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 16: Like she did take me in Portugal and it was 559 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:55,360 Speaker 16: the most romantic. But that was like the epitome of 560 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:56,800 Speaker 16: what I think a first date should be. 561 00:24:57,400 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 17: Romance. 562 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:00,200 Speaker 1: Right, you don't think that's too committed though, I it's 563 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: like it sounds like a lot. 564 00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 16: I mean you would hope that, like when you are 565 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 16: starting to date somebody, that they're actually intentionally dating to 566 00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 16: get married. But in this world, I feel like it's 567 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,400 Speaker 16: so different. But I feel like you've got to start. 568 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 17: Off strung for a perfect. 569 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:20,159 Speaker 16: Holistic one would be. 570 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,119 Speaker 2: A good Wait, that's really what you just said. It's 571 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 2: super loaded dating with the intention to get married. A 572 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,399 Speaker 2: lot of guys in New York City are just dating 573 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 2: to dating, and so like, I feel like their dates 574 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,000 Speaker 2: can be like really over the top and then it goes. 575 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 1: Or dating to hook up or dating. You guys get photographed. Yeah, 576 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,880 Speaker 1: well I don't think we answered any of your questions. 577 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:49,120 Speaker 1: We learned a lot. 578 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 4: We have I know we have actually. 579 00:25:54,000 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 1: No package. Don't package in your paints. Guys. 580 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,680 Speaker 4: This has been really fun, So so excited. Let's go 581 00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 4: to jingle ball. 582 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 3: Are you ready to get your flirt on this holiday season? 583 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,359 Speaker 3: Need some help when it comes to that area of dating? 584 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,320 Speaker 4: Call us. Email us all the infos in the show notes. 585 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 1: Follow us on socials. 586 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,359 Speaker 3: Make sure to rate and review the podcast I Do 587 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,439 Speaker 3: Part two and iHeartRadio podcasts where falling in love is 588 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 3: the main objective.