1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: It is time now for us the CLO Chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. We have some good questions from Steve Harvey 3 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: FM dot com. Keep them coming, people, keep them coming. 4 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:15,239 Speaker 1: Tyler in Syracruse Right Syracuse writes, I'm a forty two 5 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 1: year old woman and I work at a bank by 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: day and I work at a bar at night. I 7 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: serve the same customers in both places, so I try 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 1: to remain professional. Last night a co worker from the 9 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: bank came in the bar and hit on me. He 10 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: said he sees me differently at the bar. Do I 11 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: look easy because I work at a bar? 12 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 2: Well, baby, all the man said was he see you 13 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 2: differently at the bar. It's not saying that you look easy. 14 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: He keeps you professional at work. Now, y'all ain't at work. 15 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 2: You at work, so that old not talking to your 16 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 2: co worker is out of his head when he comes 17 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 2: to the bar. 18 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 3: He just said he sees you differently. 19 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you think he sees you easy, that's not it's 20 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:04,559 Speaker 2: putting this easy. And you know if you easey hello. 21 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,199 Speaker 2: But now your problem ain't the fact that he talking 22 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 2: to you. You just don't want to appear easy. Obviously you 23 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: attracted to it. Hello, I'll be trying to get it 24 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 2: at the bank and the bar. Hon. 25 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:20,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's for real. I don't give a damn about 26 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 3: to move. 27 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:31,320 Speaker 1: Moving on, big a bee a Missouri bicky and Missouri rights. 28 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: My husband of four years cheated on me and he 29 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 1: won't tell me who the woman is. I found an 30 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 1: earring back and lip gloss between her between his car seat, 31 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: and he said he gave an old friend to ride 32 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: and that's it. If it is totally innocen, then why 33 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: can't he tell me her name? 34 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: Ain't nobody find to do that? Lady? Are you kidding me? 35 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 2: You're saying that your man cheated on you four years ago. 36 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 2: Now you're saying he's telling you because you found an 37 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 2: ear ring in the car, not four years ago. They've 38 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 2: been married four years. Okay, you said he cheated on 39 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 2: you because you found an ear ring and something in 40 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 2: the carring back and he said it was an old friend. 41 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: You want a name, He won't give you the name. Now, 42 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 2: Shirley is she said she called him cheating or because 43 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 2: of the ear ring in the car he was cheating. 44 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,080 Speaker 1: No, she didn't say she caught him. She just said 45 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:35,079 Speaker 1: he cheated on hers. She's presenting this as evidence. 46 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:39,600 Speaker 2: And that's right, that's not earring back then, and that's 47 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 2: just what he said. He picked an old friend of them, 48 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 2: gave her a ride, gave her ear rings fall off 49 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 2: all the time. 50 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 3: What's her name? I'd be damn if I give you 51 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 3: her name. What happens with the lip gloss? It falls 52 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 3: off mine? You have in your purse? 53 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know what you got to put 54 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 2: your redo your lips for this show wasn't because we 55 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 2: was in here kissing real hard or nothing. You can't 56 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 2: assume that maybe she's just trying to get ready for 57 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 2: her next appointment. But what we not even do is 58 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 2: give a name up though. 59 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 3: I didn't want to tell you that, I be cross. 60 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 3: I just did not want. 61 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 2: To see anything but hers anything. I'm allergic to chapstick. 62 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 2: I have to use gloss. Really, it was a drive 63 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 2: by lips lost throne and you happen to catch one. 64 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 3: And I have him. 65 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 2: I have a doctor's excuse for your ass next two wenesday, 66 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 2: so fast. 67 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 3: The next question, Shirley. 68 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:52,400 Speaker 1: Told friend or rhyme, all right, Chelsea and Birmingham says, 69 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: I'm a single mother of a seventeen year old girl, 70 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: and she is always in the middle of drama with 71 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: her girlfriends, her best friends call. Her best friend called 72 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: to tell me that my daughter almost got beat up. 73 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: So I talked to my daughter. Her first reaction was 74 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: to go and beat up her friend for calling me. 75 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 1: What kind of hell raiser am I raising? 76 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. You tell us you raised her? 77 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 2: If her idea of conflict resolution is fighting, has she 78 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 2: not been taught any other way? 79 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: You know? Stop all this. 80 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 2: Oh I didn't raise her that way? Okay, well who 81 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 2: raised you know? But she's seventeen. She a drama queen. 82 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 2: Now what's gonna happen is if she was a boy. 83 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 2: This is what would happen if you a hell raised 84 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,279 Speaker 2: at seventeen, you're a boy and you keep drama going, 85 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 2: somebody gonna. 86 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 3: Beat your ass. It's just amount of time. It's no 87 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 3: way around that. Now. Let me let me give you 88 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 3: an example. 89 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 2: I know a kid that works for me that doesn't 90 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: really you know, just he just nice guy, but he 91 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 2: just don't know how to be around a lot of men. 92 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 2: And he says stuff sometimes because he's never been around men. 93 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 2: That's not you know, appropriate, It's just what men don't 94 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 2: do well now because he grew up around his mother 95 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 2: and stuff. 96 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 3: He's never had his ass whoop. But he twenty nine. 97 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 2: And I try to tell this kid, if you keep 98 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 2: going this route, Parker, you got to learn the ways 99 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: of manhood quick because somebody gonna knock your ass out. 100 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 3: You know how shocking or ass whooping he was. If 101 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:36,760 Speaker 3: you ain't never had one till two, oh that first 102 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 3: one in your twenty. 103 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 1: O eye opener, she may need some counseling' I think. 104 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 2: I think, yeah, she missed her daddy all kinds. Yeah, 105 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 2: it could be daddy issues in here. 106 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,160 Speaker 3: We don't know. Yeah, but you got to get her 107 00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 3: some help because some i's wrong with her. Yeah for sure. 108 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 2: Humphrey and called and told you she was about to 109 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 2: got jumped on her, gonna go down and whoop her 110 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 2: free in ass? 111 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 3: What is that? 112 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: That's bullying? And yeah, brand is trying to give her 113 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: mother heads up. This girl's arms waist, So I'm going 114 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:21,000 Speaker 1: on all right, all right? Moving on to Mignon and Detroit, 115 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: she says, I'm sixty nine year old retired female and 116 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: I've been relaxing at home without a braun lately. My 117 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,279 Speaker 1: husband's friend was at the house for the Super Bowl, 118 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 1: and my husband told me to put a bron I 119 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 1: was at home, so why should I have to be uncomfortable? 120 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 2: Oh come on, well, come on now, you're walking around 121 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 2: sixty nine? 122 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 3: You know you heavy chested? Chested? 123 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 2: That's the old folk turned nine. She's sixty nine. She 124 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 2: didn heard this before. 125 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 3: You have a chested? Put a bra? 126 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 2: Why should I be on comfort? You say you wear 127 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 2: don't wear bra all the time? It's super Bowl. He 128 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 2: got some friends come over. Put a brawn. It's nothing 129 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 2: while you're being uncomfortable. Let's just be respectful. Everybody can't 130 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 2: handle us here walking around and stuff. We got all 131 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 2: these solo cups on this table. You just knocking solo 132 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 2: cups over the brow doing in here? 133 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 3: Look over here now you all yo, you hanging all 134 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 3: in the chip dip. Put a bra on? Asked you 135 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:29,520 Speaker 3: right now? 136 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 2: Damn sitting up in hell choke, Damn all that chicken 137 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 2: wing sauce on your breast. 138 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 3: Put a brawl on. 139 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. 140 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 3: Thank you. 141 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 2: C l O.