Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that we back
Speaker 1: on the air. Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless
Speaker 1: episode with your girl. Just hilarious. What I be doing,
Speaker 1: I'll be fixed a mess, That's what I do. Up
Speaker 1: and down, back and forth, whatever however you see it.
Speaker 1: So we do have a voice note today, however, it's
Speaker 1: an update. I love when I get updates because sometimes
Speaker 1: I be thinking people don't come back and like update
Speaker 1: me because I'd be too hard on them, or they
Speaker 1: didn't get the advice that they wanted, or they're offended
Speaker 1: by the advice or what have you. But I am
Speaker 1: absolutely thankful and grateful for you guys updating me all
Speaker 1: the time. I sound a little tired because I am
Speaker 1: tired child. I am sluggish as hell today, So let's
Speaker 1: jump straight into it.
Speaker 2: Hey, Jess, thank you so much for giving me your
Speaker 2: advice and listening to my story. So I did exactly
Speaker 2: what you said. I took my well me and my
Speaker 2: best friend. We went out to dinner and I told
Speaker 2: her how I felt about the whole situation and told
Speaker 2: her you just gotta leave me out of it, and
Speaker 2: She was respectful of that, and then she asked me,
Speaker 2: is that why I have been pulling away from her?
Speaker 3: And I had to say yes.
Speaker 2: She was a little hurt by that, and I understood.
Speaker 2: I ended up feeling bad after we left, and I
Speaker 2: text her and I just, you know, let her know
Speaker 2: that I love you at the end of the day
Speaker 2: and I only want the best for you, and it
Speaker 2: just hurts me to see you have to go through this,
Speaker 2: So I appreciate your advice. Next question would be, I
Speaker 2: heard you say I have to elevate.
Speaker 3: My friend group.
Speaker 2: So how do I elevate my friend group? Right? These
Speaker 2: girls have been rocking with for ten plus years since
Speaker 2: high school, some even longer, so I don't want to
Speaker 2: just abandon them because they make shitty choices and men,
Speaker 2: because let's be real, they all do. I have another
Speaker 2: friend in North or South Carolina and she's been dealing
Speaker 2: with the same dude and his BS for about the
Speaker 2: same time that my other friend, and I understand if
Speaker 2: I have to, but I'm thirty years old, so making
Speaker 2: new friends is kind of hard for me. I'm a
Speaker 2: thirty year old Aquarius introvert, so you know how that
Speaker 2: goes ma'am. So just I guess I'm asking you give me,
Speaker 2: give me advice on how I can help them elevate
Speaker 2: without it feeling like a job.
Speaker 3: Though without it feeling like a job.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, because you're not responsible or obligated to help
Speaker 1: somebody elevate, you know, because at the end of.
Speaker 2: The day, I just want these girls to be happy
Speaker 2: and know their full potential.
Speaker 3: But I'm not going to keep repeating myself.
Speaker 2: And like I said and then first and the first message,
Speaker 2: I don't want to keep talking to a brick wall either.
Speaker 2: But also I will feel bad just you know, abandoning
Speaker 2: abandoning them. Yeah, so if you give me your advice, Jess,
Speaker 2: that'll be helpful. Again. I love you, I respect everything
Speaker 2: you're doing, and keep on doing a girl.
Speaker 3: Well, thank you so much, boo. I appreciate that update.
Speaker 1: Okay, So basically, guys, this was a story a couple
Speaker 1: episodes ago where this girl had wrote me telling me
Speaker 1: that basically she had to pull away from her friend
Speaker 1: a little bit because you know, she was just constantly,
Speaker 1: constantly talking shit about her relationship to her well venting.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about how wrong she's being done in her relationship,
Speaker 1: but she keeps going back, she's not gonna leave, and
Speaker 1: the friend will give her advice, advice, advice, advice, and
Speaker 1: she just wouldn't take it, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And she she's still staying and still going back, and
Speaker 1: so basically she just wants her friends to know their worth. Now,
Speaker 1: I did tell you to elevate your group of friends,
Speaker 1: not to abandon them as such. I know it kind
Speaker 1: of sounds like that's what I told you to do
Speaker 1: for sure, so I would have taken it that way
Speaker 1: as well. But the only reason that I had told
Speaker 1: you to you know, maybe it's not for you to
Speaker 1: get some new friends or you know, to elevate, because
Speaker 1: it started to bother you and your everyday mental and
Speaker 1: how and because you are so loyal and so connected
Speaker 1: to your girls, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: What hurts them hurts you.
Speaker 1: And if you are going through this unnecessarily and it
Speaker 1: really has no direct ties to you and how you're
Speaker 1: living and how and your worth, because you know you're worth,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, then that's kind of a
Speaker 1: setback for you that that's kind of draining for you.
Speaker 1: And I can see where it even leads to like
Speaker 1: stress that's like secondhand stress that you're getting, you know,
Speaker 1: from a situation you ain't even in. So that's why
Speaker 1: I told you that, you know, as it pertains to
Speaker 1: your mental you know. But I don't I want you
Speaker 1: to abandon your friends, like you said, if we had
Speaker 1: to abandon our friends for making poor choices and men,
Speaker 1: then none of us would have friends. Almost none of
Speaker 1: us would have friends, because that happens. That happens until
Speaker 1: you actually find the one you want. I had poor
Speaker 1: tastes and men didn't even know, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: But that's all a part of dating and figuring out
Speaker 1: yourself and what you will take and what you won't take,
Speaker 1: and what your standards are and all that type of stuff,
Speaker 1: you know. So that's pretty much why you sound like
Speaker 1: you were very fed up and tired of being sucked
Speaker 1: into somebody else's bullshit where it was starting to bother you.
Speaker 1: But if that is not the case, and you're willing
Speaker 1: to still be around like I said, I'm pretty sure
Speaker 1: I did say something like also, you can pull back
Speaker 1: just from that part of the relationship of friendship, you know.
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear anything about your man. I
Speaker 1: don't want to hear anything about this, because you're not
Speaker 1: going to do anything but go back so we can
Speaker 1: we can actually we can still have this friendship and
Speaker 1: be sisters, and we can still have our sisterhood and everything.
Speaker 1: I just don't want to be involved with that that
Speaker 1: part of it because I want you to see it
Speaker 1: worth But you're just not getting it, you know, and
Speaker 1: you'll get it on your own time. When a woman
Speaker 1: gets fed up, she gets fed up. Maybe she's not
Speaker 1: tired yet. And your other friend that you just spoke
Speaker 1: of as well, they're not tired yet. You can't make
Speaker 1: them be tired of what they're going through, you know.
Speaker 1: All you got to do is just be that listening
Speaker 1: ear until you don't want to hear it no more.
Speaker 3: Then you are.
Speaker 1: Absolutely at liberty to say, y'all, I'm sick of this shit.
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear this anymore. Until you are
Speaker 1: able to stand on your own two feet, put your
Speaker 1: foot down, and get out of that relationship because it's
Speaker 1: not doing you any good as a friend on the
Speaker 1: outside looking in, it's not doing you any good. You're
Speaker 1: more stressed than happy. Then you just have to proceed
Speaker 1: with other factors of the friendship. You know. Now we
Speaker 1: got a commercial and if you click off of this podcast,
Speaker 1: I swear I'm gonna beat your ass. Listen now, you
Speaker 1: being a thirty year old introvert Aquarius baby, I know
Speaker 1: exactly what that is.
Speaker 4: Like.
Speaker 1: I have a brother who is in his late thirties.
Speaker 1: He's an introvert and he's also in Aquarius. I do
Speaker 1: know making new friends is not something that you guys
Speaker 1: are seeking to do, especially not at you know, your age,
Speaker 1: which is not old, but it's just a bit more
Speaker 1: seasoned than a spring chicken. If you get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, because everybody gets offended when
Speaker 1: you see when you use the word old or older,
Speaker 1: like you know, it's just you're growing up and you're
Speaker 1: growing out of those things. But I am going to
Speaker 1: also say it's never too late to make new friends,
Speaker 1: and you don't have to do that. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, You don't have to do that. There are
Speaker 1: ways you can help. You can try to help elevate
Speaker 1: your friends going in different settings. If they're in relationships
Speaker 1: where they are not being appreciated and just being looked
Speaker 1: down on or whatever they're going through, put them around
Speaker 1: some shit that shows them what their worth is in
Speaker 1: environments where they can thrive, Like put them in different settings,
Speaker 1: you know, challenge your friends, get them out of their zones.
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure that they.
Speaker 1: Have like routines that they do make them step outside
Speaker 1: of that and whatever that looks like, you know, because
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you got it all together, but you
Speaker 1: got some type of damn sense, you know, to be
Speaker 1: calling out the realness and calling out the bullshit that
Speaker 1: you see that they going through or seeing that they're
Speaker 1: putting themselves through, and they don't have to go through it, you.
Speaker 3: Know what I'm saying. So I do thank you for.
Speaker 1: That update that was that was wonderful that you were
Speaker 1: able to share that with me. And I do apologize
Speaker 1: if I made you feel like you had to abandon
Speaker 1: your friends, because no good friends are hard to find.
Speaker 3: And I'm not saying that they're not good friends.
Speaker 1: Just because they're bad at choosing men does not make
Speaker 1: them bad friends, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Just show them who they are.
Speaker 1: Try your best every time you can, whenever you can,
Speaker 1: to show them who they are, you know, because sometimes
Speaker 1: a lot of people need a mirror to actually bust
Speaker 1: through the bullshit that they've been taking, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So just keep pouring into your friends and
Speaker 1: you know, getting them outside of their box, you know,
Speaker 1: daring them to do other things. And I as an introvert,
Speaker 1: that seems hard. It seems like a task, or it
Speaker 1: seems like a job. But you'll find in yourself that
Speaker 1: that's actually for the betterment of you too, that that
Speaker 1: can make you a better friend, that can actually spark
Speaker 1: something in yourself that you didn't see before, you know.
Speaker 1: So keep me posted, baby, So we have a written passage.
Speaker 1: Moving on to the next. Good morning, Jess. I've been
Speaker 1: keeping something on my conscience that I'm not really proud
Speaker 1: of and really have no one to talk to about it.
Speaker 1: So I would love if you could help me out
Speaker 1: with some advice. I just got out of a five
Speaker 1: year relationship about two years ago, and it was because
Speaker 1: of evolving in life and wanting different things.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's fair.
Speaker 1: Even though me and my ex are not together, we
Speaker 1: still see each other from time to time and would
Speaker 1: always talk. But the thing that I'm not so proud of, Jess,
Speaker 1: is that he is engaged and also has a two
Speaker 1: year old with the woman.
Speaker 3: He is engaged to.
Speaker 1: Okay the fuck lord, Lord, Okay, okay, you already said
Speaker 1: you ain't proud of it.
Speaker 3: Ain't gonna beat you down, all right.
Speaker 1: Yes, I know this is fucked up, absolutely, and once
Speaker 1: he moved on, I should have too. But it's like,
Speaker 1: I just can't see him happy with somebody else. And
Speaker 1: I'm thinking, maybe he isn't really happy if he's still
Speaker 1: messing around with me after two years of breaking up.
Speaker 3: Hmm.
Speaker 1: But I see that he posts her on social media
Speaker 1: all the time, which he's never done with me, and
Speaker 1: they just look happier than ever. He was the love
Speaker 1: of my life and it sucks to see him be
Speaker 1: the love of someone else's life.
Speaker 3: Oh and what is more.
Speaker 1: Fucked up is that when she calls and I'm laying
Speaker 1: next to him, she still thinks that's the same man
Speaker 1: that comes home to her every night. Mean, well, it is.
Speaker 1: It ain't a different man. It just ain't chill man.
Speaker 1: I haven't saw him in about two weeks, and I'm
Speaker 1: really trying to stay away from him, Jess, but this
Speaker 1: is just too hard. How do I let him go?
Speaker 1: How do I move on? What do I need to do?
Speaker 3: Hold up?
Speaker 2: Hold up.
Speaker 1: I know the shit getting good, but listen to just
Speaker 1: a couple seconds of a commercial with your you'll listen, girl,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know it's probably easier for me
Speaker 1: to say it. You know, Easier said than done, is
Speaker 1: what they say. Girl, Get the fuck up and leave.
Speaker 1: If you already haven't talked to him in about two weeks,
Speaker 1: you're already got a head start on what you should do.
Speaker 1: You're doing good. I mean from where I'm sitting, how
Speaker 1: it looks. That's great. You haven't talked to him in
Speaker 1: two weeks. That's a hiatus.
Speaker 3: That's great. Extend that shit.
Speaker 1: Don't talk to him for two more weeks, and then
Speaker 1: try a month, and then try another month, until it's
Speaker 1: been a year.
Speaker 3: Then you look up and you passed it. You know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: We have to stop minimizing ourselves, degrading ourselves, sharing willingly,
Speaker 1: sharing men, because that's the thing you know about her,
Speaker 1: but she don't know about you.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 1: Now, I'm not gonna say she's winning, but she thinks
Speaker 1: she is because he ain't about to tell her about you.
Speaker 1: But better believe you know about her, and he gonna
Speaker 1: keep on fucking with you as long as you let
Speaker 1: him keep his family and fuck with you when it's.
Speaker 3: Convenient for him.
Speaker 1: So you're giving him a bunch of power, a lot
Speaker 1: of power over you.
Speaker 3: Of course he's gonna have his cake and eat it too, girl. Duh.
Speaker 1: He ain't gotta be with you to fuck you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he ain't got to post you to fuck you. He
Speaker 1: ain't gotta like girl, what Yeah? I want you to
Speaker 1: hear it, and I want it. It's horrible and as
Speaker 1: like vulgar as it sounds, as bad as it sounds,
Speaker 1: that's exactly how bad it is. You're sitting there being
Speaker 1: stupid for this, nigga. That's what it is. That's what
Speaker 1: it is. I ain't here to cad on, no fucking adults.
Speaker 1: You know what's up? You said you ain't proud of it.
Speaker 1: I don't see why the fuck you. You ain't reread
Speaker 1: what you sent to me and made your own advice
Speaker 1: up to move the fuck on. And I'm sorry. I
Speaker 1: am sorry. I don't feel sorry for you. I don't
Speaker 1: and what I'm saying i'm sorry for. I apologize for
Speaker 1: how brutal this sounds, and how straightforward and blunt this sounds.
Speaker 3: I don't feel sorry.
Speaker 1: For you, because how about if you were that woman
Speaker 1: put yourself in her shoes as bad as you already
Speaker 1: want to be in them. Imagine if that were you
Speaker 1: and you had to find out that he was still
Speaker 1: laying with a bit she broke up with two years ago,
Speaker 1: and we got a kid together, and we're engaged.
Speaker 3: You're posted on social media.
Speaker 1: He ain't scared to let nobody know who he with,
Speaker 1: who he's engaged to, the mother of his child. But
Speaker 1: he's sneaking you around and you laying in a fucking
Speaker 1: bed when she called you shutting up?
Speaker 3: What's wrong with you? What's wrong with you? You laying
Speaker 3: there quiet?
Speaker 1: And they gonna have the nerve to say that ain't
Speaker 1: the same man that goes home to her. That's exactly
Speaker 1: who he is, the same man that you're sneaking around with,
Speaker 1: the nigga that you used to be with. Let that
Speaker 1: shit go because that them piss me off. I'm happy
Speaker 1: that you were able to tell me what you're going through,
Speaker 1: but sometimes we need to wake the fuck up and
Speaker 1: we need somebody to talk to us just like this.
Speaker 1: I'm not here to coddle you. I'm not I'm not
Speaker 1: here to it's gonna be alright. No, it ain't all right.
Speaker 1: It been ain't all right two years ago when you
Speaker 1: broke up. Yeah, you said it. Maybe I should have
Speaker 1: moved on when he did. So you ain't in denial.
Speaker 1: You ain't in denial. You know he moved on. You
Speaker 1: know it, you said it to me. But you're convenient
Speaker 1: for him. You're convenient. You let him do what he wants.
Speaker 1: The fuck she don't let him do what he wants,
Speaker 1: or she would know about you too. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She's not winning either, because this motherfucker's cheating on her,
Speaker 1: on his family with you. But you really in the dumps,
Speaker 1: You really ain't winning because you know about it. In fact,
Speaker 1: that makes you a fucked up ass individual because you
Speaker 1: know about it. But he your ex, and you can't
Speaker 1: let him go do a better job, do a better
Speaker 1: job of trying. Could you sound crazy as hell? But
Speaker 1: update me. I love you, real shit, real shit.
Speaker 3: I don't care. I still love you. I don't care.
Speaker 3: I don't care.
Speaker 1: This ain't nothing I ain't never heard before from my
Speaker 1: own friends. You know what I'm saying from people I
Speaker 1: do know. This ain't nothing I ain't never heard before.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm here to do to help fix it
Speaker 1: if you let me, because this is crazy, honey, this
Speaker 1: is crazy. You don't have any obligation to this nigga.
Speaker 1: You don't have kids with him, You ain't married on
Speaker 1: the low, You ain't ever the girl. He can't walk
Speaker 1: down the street with you. He gotta leave out first.
Speaker 1: Is it like that? Or you gotta leave out first.
Speaker 1: Y'all can't go out say that he's engaged. This ain't
Speaker 1: no girlfriend. This is as soon to be wife who
Speaker 1: probably about to get pregnant again. You don't know, girl. Please,
Speaker 1: I bet you one thing. He ain't never tell you
Speaker 1: he was gonna leave her for your ass. I bet
Speaker 1: you he ain't never tell you that. Now, if you
Speaker 1: can come back and do me a soiln and tell
Speaker 1: me he's told you that, I let it go.
Speaker 3: But you'll still be dumb.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you'll still be out of your mind to
Speaker 1: think that could ever happen.
Speaker 3: He never posted me on social media.
Speaker 1: He never don't ever compare what he got now to
Speaker 1: what y'all had, because what y'all have right now ain't shit.
Speaker 3: He just fucking with you, and that's it.
Speaker 1: Having his cake and eating it too, doing what a
Speaker 1: lot of men do for no reason. There's no reason
Speaker 1: you're available, so okay, cool? And then why haven't you
Speaker 1: talked to him for two weeks? Because he hasn't responded, right,
Speaker 1: he probably busy with his engagement. Yeah, his fiance somewhere.
Speaker 1: You never made it to with him. You're worth more
Speaker 1: than that shit. Get your ass up, get your ass together,
Speaker 1: keep me updated.
Speaker 3: Like I said, I love you all right and moving on.
Speaker 4: Just girl, this ain't got shit to do with shit.
Speaker 3: I just wanted to let.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 4: It won't let me give you five stars, bitch, I
Speaker 4: go give you five stars because you know you like
Speaker 4: to rape the podcasts and things. I want to go
Speaker 4: give you five stars, and they won't let me. Girl,
Speaker 4: you need to send an email to Spotify and tell
Speaker 4: them you deserve their fifth star and.
Speaker 3: See why the folk you can't get it. Oh yeah, anyways,
Speaker 3: have a bless day. I hope you Christmas was good.
Speaker 3: Thank you boo.
Speaker 1: Hold up, she said, First of all, this ain't got
Speaker 1: shit to do with shit. Spotify, why the fuck y'all
Speaker 1: playing with men? Don't make me have my people spam
Speaker 1: y'all comments? Because what's going on? Look like we need
Speaker 1: to talk to some higher ups because they ain't trying
Speaker 1: to give me what's mine. They ain't trying to let
Speaker 1: nobody rape me and give me my five stars.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I need to see what's going on with that. But
Speaker 1: before I get out of here, I just want to
Speaker 1: say to everybody, man, woman, other, whatever, Listen, If you
Speaker 1: are in a relationship or some type of situationship and
Speaker 1: you're feeling like it's a one sided thing, that's because
Speaker 1: it is. Nobody's gonna have these feelings out of nowhere
Speaker 1: and for no reason. That's because it is, it feels
Speaker 1: one sided. It is You should never have to ask yourself,
Speaker 1: does this person really love me? Am I just here
Speaker 1: for convenience? Am I really being treated right? Is he
Speaker 1: gonna ever change? Is she going to ever open up
Speaker 1: her eyes and see what I really mean to her?
Speaker 1: Is she gonna ever? You know what I'm saying. If
Speaker 1: you got to ask yourself these questions, baby, no, No,
Speaker 1: you're not where you're supposed to be, and you got
Speaker 1: a lot more growing to do to be to be
Speaker 1: sitting there to take that to ever think that's okay.
Speaker 1: Those type of people don't need to be in relationships.
Speaker 1: Y'all type of people don't need to be in relationships
Speaker 1: right off the bat, because y'all give more than y'all get,
Speaker 1: and people take advantage of that. People can see that
Speaker 1: from a mile away. These men, these women who prey
Speaker 1: on people like y'all. Man, y'all are great people. Y'all
Speaker 1: give so so fucking much, and you keep giving and
Speaker 1: giving and giving it to you and got nothing left.
Speaker 1: Nobody is reciprocating what you're doing. You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It is somebody out there for you. It's just that
Speaker 1: you rushing it because you Everybody want to be loved,
Speaker 1: not giddy.
Speaker 3: Yeah, everybody want to be loved.
Speaker 1: That's all right. It will happen when it's time. I
Speaker 1: was the same way.
Speaker 3: I don't give a fuck. Listen, y'all saw me through
Speaker 3: some relationships.
Speaker 1: Okay, I ain't never scared to admit I wasn't the
Speaker 1: smartest in in my previous relationships, none of them, even
Speaker 1: going back to my baby dad nigga, going back to
Speaker 1: ash father, like we were young, you know, Me and
Speaker 1: Roll made a lot of mistakes together, and then I
Speaker 1: got other and then I got another nigga. Then I
Speaker 1: got another nigga. Then I got another nigga. Then I
Speaker 1: talked to a girl to see if that was cool.
Speaker 1: Then I almost be high ass to death. Then I
Speaker 1: you know, this is also, like I said in the
Speaker 1: beginning of this episode, this is also how you find
Speaker 1: yourself as well dating realizing.
Speaker 3: Okay, what's inappropriate in a relationship to me? Okay? What
Speaker 3: am I willing to take? Okay?
Speaker 1: Am I willing to settle for this? If he ain't
Speaker 1: got this part of it, can we build that together?
Speaker 3: All right? Cool?
Speaker 1: Maybe he is gonna come with this man, Okay, he's
Speaker 1: coming with this, all right? How can your relationship benefit
Speaker 1: the both of you? You get what I'm saying. If
Speaker 1: you got to teach somebody how to love you, that
Speaker 1: ain't that ain't bad. That ain't bad. What'll make it
Speaker 1: bad is if they don't give a fuck enough to
Speaker 1: try or to want to love you.
Speaker 3: You get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I was in a relationship with a nigga who didn't
Speaker 1: know how to love and didn't want to fucking try.
Speaker 3: All right, cool.
Speaker 1: I should have left that alone a long time before
Speaker 1: I actually left it alone. But I was a giver, giver,
Speaker 1: giver giver never really cared about receiving. But that's where
Speaker 1: we short ourselves, ladies and gents, that's where we short ourselves.
Speaker 1: Don't ever short yourself and know who you are. If
Speaker 1: you don't know who you are, that's what your journey
Speaker 1: should be before you jump in a relationship.
Speaker 3: You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's what your homework should be. Do homework on yourself,
Speaker 1: you know, figure out what makes you happy, Make yourself
Speaker 1: happy before you give all of that responsibility to somebody
Speaker 1: else to make you happy. You understand what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And just like that, we're at the end of another
Speaker 1: carefully Reckless episode with your girl just hilarious. I said
Speaker 1: another one I should say another y'all knowing from Baltimore,
Speaker 1: y'all know that shit slip up out. I love y'all
Speaker 1: so much. Let me go talk to Spotify real quick.
Speaker 1: Love y'all see you next week. Peace Can't Fully Reckless
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