Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2: Kent is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named
Speaker 2: Macy that he went out with. So in a few minutes,
Speaker 2: we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us
Speaker 2: why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date.
Speaker 2: But first, Kent, how long has it been since you
Speaker 2: heard from Macy?
Speaker 3: Dude?
Speaker 4: It's been like five days. And I know I'm getting ghosted.
Speaker 4: Like absolutely, no, I am getting ghosted.
Speaker 3: What makes you say it like that?
Speaker 4: I knew that when she showed up to the place
Speaker 4: where I took her out, Like she just wasn't impressed,
Speaker 4: she wasn't having it, And.
Speaker 5: I just I don't clearly quite one hundred percent of
Speaker 5: her sham. But like I do know that she.
Speaker 3: Is avoiding me.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, what is it about her though that makes
Speaker 1: you want to get a hold of her? If you're
Speaker 1: being avoided, then why are you running towards the avoidee?
Speaker 4: Oh No, she's like she's great, she's professional. She you know,
Speaker 4: just like you know, we really like I wanted to
Speaker 4: really hit it off, but like it's.
Speaker 5: Like I don't know, Like I gave her an opportunity
Speaker 5: to choose the place, and she didn't choose a place.
Speaker 5: So I took her to.
Speaker 4: This like old like kind of haunt that like Scott
Speaker 4: like some character.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 5: She called it muddy, yeah, because I don't know, like
Speaker 5: I love like things like that, like.
Speaker 4: I don't necessarily go for I don't know. I gave
Speaker 4: her the opportunity to choose.
Speaker 1: So do you feel like the experience that you gave
Speaker 1: her wasn't normal for you?
Speaker 3: Or what do you want to tell her?
Speaker 5: Well, I just want to tell her that, you know,
Speaker 5: like did I could tell that.
Speaker 4: She was like getting quote work calls through the whole
Speaker 4: date and stuff, and it's like, you know, at a
Speaker 4: certain one, like dude, if you're really not.
Speaker 5: Having a great time.
Speaker 4: She finally said she had to leave after like five
Speaker 4: or six calls. All I'm trying to say is like,
Speaker 4: I'm not that bad of a guy. I don't know
Speaker 4: what it is exactly that I did. The plan was
Speaker 4: for her we were gonna eat after she got off work.
Speaker 5: It just it seemed weird, like it doesn't take much
Speaker 5: for me to pick up on it.
Speaker 2: Like so you could tell there was like a vibe
Speaker 2: vibe that she wasn't into it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just like I just kind of want to
Speaker 4: like get her to like I want to figure out
Speaker 4: the real reason why she was ghosting me, because I
Speaker 4: know it wasn't work and I don't know what I
Speaker 4: did wrong, you know what I mean. Like she's a
Speaker 4: great She's a great girl. You know, That's really what
Speaker 4: I'm trying to figure out.
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Well, we'll play a song come Back, and
Speaker 2: then call her see if she'll tell us why she's
Speaker 2: ghosting you and hopefully get you another date. Then all right, cool,
Speaker 2: all right man, we'll play song come Back and get
Speaker 2: your first day follow up next. Right in the middle
Speaker 2: of our first day follow up and if you're just
Speaker 2: joining us at Kent is on the phone and he's
Speaker 2: getting ghosted by Macy. So we're about to call her
Speaker 2: and ask her why she's ghosting it and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another day if he still wants them. But before
Speaker 2: we do that, can why don't you catch everybody up
Speaker 2: on your situation?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Well, you know, like I went out with this girl,
Speaker 4: I gave her an opportunity to choose anywhere to.
Speaker 5: Go in the world, and you know, she let me choose.
Speaker 5: She said my place was musty, And I know for
Speaker 5: sure I'm getting ghost of it. I don't know why,
Speaker 5: but I just don't feel like I deserve that. I
Speaker 5: want to know. I want to know why she won't
Speaker 5: talk to me anymore.
Speaker 3: Okay, and you really liked her?
Speaker 5: Huh No, she's fantastic. All right?
Speaker 3: Man? Well here you are you ready for us to
Speaker 3: call her?
Speaker 5: I'm ready as I can be. I guess.
Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hi Massik to MACI.
Speaker 6: Please, this is me see how can I help you?
Speaker 3: Macie?
Speaker 5: Hi?
Speaker 3: How are you? My name is Jewbell and I host
Speaker 3: a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 1: Him Macy, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 3: Hi, my name Victoria. How are you Hi?
Speaker 7: I'm good? How are you great?
Speaker 3: Thank you for asking? Have you ever listened to the
Speaker 3: show before?
Speaker 7: No, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 2: So we do a segment on the show it's called
Speaker 2: the first Date follow Up. That's where if you go
Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and they end up
Speaker 2: ghosting you, you can have us get them on the
Speaker 2: phone and ask them why they're ghosting you.
Speaker 3: So we got an email you.
Speaker 5: Oh you got it.
Speaker 7: Oh that's how you were offering.
Speaker 2: Oh gosh, yeah, no, we got an email about you
Speaker 2: and his name is Kent.
Speaker 1: What you know?
Speaker 5: Sorry?
Speaker 7: No, thank you, No, I don't want The first date
Speaker 7: was terrible.
Speaker 5: I don't really want to relive that.
Speaker 2: Oh no, okay, well could you tell us why? He
Speaker 2: just wants to know. He said he really liked you,
Speaker 2: and he doesn't know you know, why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7: Oh he should know. Okay, Well we'll put it very simply.
Speaker 7: He took me to have you guys ever been there? No,
Speaker 7: because you're normal people.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 6: It is a place that you take a first date.
Speaker 8: It is a place that you will take a future
Speaker 8: murder victim.
Speaker 3: Oh is that bad?
Speaker 5: It was?
Speaker 6: I thought it was going to be a cute little bar.
Speaker 7: You know, nice happy hour. I walked in, I got scared.
Speaker 8: I almost walked right out, but he had already seen me,
Speaker 8: and so I was like, oh, well, this will be
Speaker 8: my life for the next two hours.
Speaker 5: Yay. He was terrible.
Speaker 7: From the beginning.
Speaker 6: It wasn't good, and so you know, after like.
Speaker 8: Fifteen minutes, I went to the bathroom and I called
Speaker 8: my friends and I was like, hey, I need you
Speaker 8: to call me like every.
Speaker 6: Ten minutes until I can get out.
Speaker 5: Of here and be like, oh what emergency?
Speaker 6: It was so bad?
Speaker 7: He like, I come in. I had just gotten off
Speaker 7: of work. He's wearing jeans and a T shirt.
Speaker 6: I thought we were both coming from work.
Speaker 7: And then he tells me that he quit his job
Speaker 7: a few weeks ago.
Speaker 8: That's a big deal breaker for me because I want
Speaker 8: someone that I can work.
Speaker 7: With and we can grow together. I do not want
Speaker 7: to be the soul bread winner.
Speaker 1: Well did he explain why he quit his job, what
Speaker 1: his plan is for the future.
Speaker 8: No, No, I didn't get that far. I was already
Speaker 8: so turned off. I was like, can I cut in here?
Speaker 2: Eo, yes you can, Macie. That's Kent. He's been actually
Speaker 2: listening and wants to.
Speaker 5: Talk to you. What's up?
Speaker 7: First of all, sorry, wait, you're what you listening?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm listening.
Speaker 4: Because I was trying to figure out why you were
Speaker 4: ghosting me.
Speaker 5: But like, now I'm listening to you. I'm like, dude, Like,
Speaker 5: what the Like, what the hell? That's ken? You like
Speaker 5: the place that we went?
Speaker 7: Like okay, well, first of all, that bar is disgusting.
Speaker 7: In the future never take any woman there.
Speaker 8: They will call the police on you.
Speaker 10: But you you you emailed them and a secret phone
Speaker 10: call so that you could listen to me. You understand
Speaker 10: that weird o behavior tent right.
Speaker 8: No, you is a place like I know everybody's there.
Speaker 5: It's just like a really chill place. That's a good vibe.
Speaker 8: And I gave you the opportunity to choose anywhere you wanted.
Speaker 4: We could have gone anywhere, like if you were so,
Speaker 4: I knew that you didn't like it, but you could
Speaker 4: have said something.
Speaker 5: We could have gone elsewhere Kent.
Speaker 8: If I had known that you were gonna say let's
Speaker 8: go to I would have been like, oh, let's just
Speaker 8: meet in.
Speaker 7: The alley way behind the Arby's.
Speaker 6: And we could just forage in. Would have been time.
Speaker 7: It was not. It is not that bad, And like,
Speaker 7: come on, man, like that.
Speaker 5: A man making you're making my own shirt in the corner.
Speaker 7: Of the bar, you know?
Speaker 5: Is that normal?
Speaker 7: Is he just one of the regulars? Is he one
Speaker 7: of those characters we always hear about it?
Speaker 3: Another date?
Speaker 10: I don't I don't want any date with any man
Speaker 10: after this. If I go on a date with another
Speaker 10: man and he says, where do.
Speaker 7: You want to go.
Speaker 10: I'm going to say I have strong objections to in.
Speaker 6: Case you wanted to take me there.
Speaker 9: Other than that everywhere else is acceptable.
Speaker 5: Then why didn't you have a suggestion? Now you're just
Speaker 5: like you're just hating all my people.
Speaker 2: Macie, I have a question for you. Would you like
Speaker 2: to go out on another date with Kent? We'll pay
Speaker 2: for it.
Speaker 8: Oh my god, I'm so sorrying and be washing my
Speaker 8: hair that night, whatever night it's supposed to be, I'll
Speaker 8: be washing my hair that night.
Speaker 6: I'm so sorry. Oh I want to Kent if.
Speaker 10: You have them call me up so that you can
Speaker 10: listen in and being be sneaky peaty about this and
Speaker 10: want to want to know why I didn't want to
Speaker 10: go out.
Speaker 6: On a date with you.
Speaker 7: You should have known the way that you were dressed.
Speaker 7: You don't care. You quit your job.
Speaker 6: I would think you don't care about life. You're gonna
Speaker 6: bum around for a little bit.
Speaker 4: I quit my j oh my dad, dude, And I
Speaker 4: told you I quit my job. I mean like I
Speaker 4: sold my company for like six hundred K and I'm
Speaker 4: moving on.
Speaker 7: Like you didn't even take a second to.
Speaker 5: Even like ask anything about me.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's true. Okay, I apologize.
Speaker 8: But also, congratulations doesn't matter. You're still not working, You're
Speaker 8: still just bumming around. I'm not bumming around.
Speaker 1: Man.
Speaker 5: When I told you that I would take you anywhere,
Speaker 5: I meant it. I could take you anywhere.
Speaker 9: You didn't have a po If I had said, oh,
Speaker 9: I want to go to Mississippi and I want to
Speaker 9: ride on a on a steamboat and have dinner, you
Speaker 9: would have done that on a first date.
Speaker 5: You know what, That sounds cool? Why not I've got
Speaker 5: I've got the resources to do that.
Speaker 8: But like, I don't brag about my money like you
Speaker 8: obviously are really.
Speaker 4: Really matters to you to be like a princess everywhere
Speaker 4: you go, Like, I'm really.
Speaker 3: Are you sure?
Speaker 5: You let me tell you something?
Speaker 7: If you really want to dig some gold, I got its.
Speaker 5: Numbers for you. I got some duds so they'll like
Speaker 5: knock your socks off. Good ahead, But like I don't
Speaker 5: think it. Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 6: I'm so sad. Maybe I need to be a worst person.
Speaker 10: Do you want me to get in some alley sits?
Speaker 10: I'm a woman for you, get out of here.
Speaker 5: I don't know if you could be the worst person.
Speaker 5: Give it a shot.
Speaker 10: Oh my god, you are such a weirdo weirdo behavior.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry you didn't get another date or your fault.
Speaker 6: Thank you, damn shocker, shocker, there's no second date.
Speaker 7: Come on, all right, I guess we're done.
Speaker 5: This is to what.
Speaker 7: I'm just really glad that you guys called me.
Speaker 6: Thank you for reminding me why my standards are so high.
Speaker 7: I love you.
Speaker 6: I'm going to start listening to you now.
Speaker 3: Oh well, if you're standards are high, don't do that.
Speaker 6: Jubile's first day follow up