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Speaker 1: Is everyone ready? Let's check you check you on the

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Speaker 1: Mikey Mikeys check check check Who.

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Speaker 2: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 3: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 4: Yes, you look extra gorgeous today.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, thank you. I feel so tired. Really,

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Speaker 3: I feel like I look so tired.

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Speaker 4: You don't look.

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Speaker 3: There you so much.

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Speaker 4: I feel pretty tired too. I've been having nightmares lately.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that feels like so off brand for you.

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Speaker 4: So off brand. But the end they've been like, I've

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Speaker 4: been like sweating and stuff.

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Speaker 3: What are they?

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Speaker 2: I think it's images I've been seeing on social media

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Speaker 2: stuf because they're just pretty dark.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah that makes sense.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so the sleep's been Sanzi.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're very cozy, cozily dressed today for the ninety degree.

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Speaker 1: Autumn and I'm gonna dress like autumn. I don't care

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Speaker 1: what the weather is.

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Speaker 4: I dress like autumn.

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Speaker 2: You're sixty five. Yeah, because they keep the studio sixty

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Speaker 2: degrees in here?

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Speaker 1: Why do we do that to keep the hits fresh?

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Speaker 1: That's right?

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's good. Yeah, you're you're you're in your would

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Speaker 3: you say folklore evermore. I think evermore more. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: definitely give it evermore vibes.

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Speaker 2: But it's like cold when I leave the house because

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Speaker 2: the sun's not out, and then it's sixty degrees in

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Speaker 2: the studio. So I dress for where I'm going to be,

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Speaker 2: which is Antarctica.

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Speaker 1: It's really not that cold.

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Speaker 3: I'm not that cold.

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Speaker 4: Really, it's so cold in here.

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Speaker 3: I get in the morning though, like leaving the.

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Speaker 4: House, it's like something like, I actually.

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Speaker 3: But I'm sweating looking at you.

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Speaker 4: And do you know what's so funny is I'm the

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sure there will be a video. She

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Speaker 3: has a full like sweatsuit on it and then a

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Speaker 3: like a wool.

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Speaker 4: Jacket winter the winter down past my knees.

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Speaker 3: A trench, a trench.

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Speaker 2: So I put my clothes out the night before. I

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Speaker 2: put them in the bathroom because I slither out of

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Speaker 2: the bed and I get writing in the bathroom as

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Speaker 2: to not wake up Robbie. And one morning I was

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Speaker 2: trying to I was like, you know, I'm gonna be

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Speaker 2: cute for work tomorrow and I'm gonna wear like a

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Speaker 2: T shirt and jeans.

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Speaker 4: There's like a normal T shirt.

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Speaker 2: Like a little crop, and I put it on in

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Speaker 2: the morning, and I was like, I cannot go into

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Speaker 2: work like this, Like I was hurt. It physically hurt me,

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Speaker 2: Like I need my puff, writing my best I need

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Speaker 2: something to like cozy around. Yeah, And so I had

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Speaker 2: to wake Robbie up and get in the closet get

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Speaker 2: my puffer.

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Speaker 4: Now I don't make that mistake.

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Speaker 2: I always have some sort of sweatshirt or puffer or

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Speaker 4: On stand by, on stand by in the bathroom. Ready.

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Speaker 3: Do you know when I used to travel, Like when

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Speaker 3: I used to go to the airport and stuff I

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Speaker 3: would put on like full jeans and like booties. I

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Speaker 4: Dressed up there who were like that girl.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where there was a shift, But now

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Speaker 3: I can barely match, like get the Actually, I won't

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Speaker 3: say that, I'm pretty still pretty particular, but like I

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Speaker 3: used to be like decked out and it'd be like

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Speaker 3: three thirty four and like, but my type jeans, and

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Speaker 4: Nothing sounds worse worse than traveling in jeans, tight jeans, jeans.

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Speaker 3: I feel like y'all are not in type jeans, Like

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Speaker 3: we are, though not tight.

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Speaker 1: But also I feel like we're more limited in what

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Speaker 1: we have options. Like you have leggings, we don't really

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Speaker 5: Some nice I'm not leaving the house in sweatpants.

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Speaker 1: Me neither. That's when you've really thrown in the towel.

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Speaker 3: But like Lemon has like nice like stretchy, like like

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Speaker 3: like slacks, but they're like stretchy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, fine, but.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I are choosing jeans.

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Speaker 6: I like the rigidity of jeans on a plane because

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Speaker 6: planes are gross to me and I want to feel

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Speaker 6: like I'm wearing a suit of armor.

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Speaker 5: When I'm on there.

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Speaker 3: Did you wear your jeans again after the plane? I

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Speaker 3: change No, But I'm saying, like, do those jeans just

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Speaker 3: get tossed the side for the rest of the trip?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well until the return trip.

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Speaker 3: Wow, all right?

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Speaker 1: Respect But it is funny how like in the old

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Speaker 1: days of air travel, people would dress up for air

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Speaker 1: travel because it's like a big deal. In people are

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Speaker 1: in pajamas, barely.

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Speaker 3: Dressed. If it wasn't required.

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Speaker 4: I can't put a gene on to come to work.

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Speaker 1: A gene a gene.

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Speaker 2: Like a denim. If I have a bit, if I

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Speaker 2: have to clasp it around my waist. It's not happening

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Speaker 2: Monday through Friday.

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Speaker 4: It's just not.

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Speaker 3: Happening any sort of like sucking and missions. But I

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Speaker 3: think that changed after they because you did dress up.

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Speaker 4: But were heels into work.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, was she who was she heels?

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Speaker 4: I would do my hair, I would do my makeup.

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Speaker 4: I would have like blouses, a blouse. I would throwing

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Speaker 4: a blouse and I'd sweat through it.

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Speaker 3: Well, I have to say, Maren's looking really nice even

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Speaker 3: with this outfit being like dressed down.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, Maren, marenny outfit. Yeah, she does, she does.

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Speaker 3: It is what it is.

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Speaker 1: Maren is the name of Chinya's ring. For those of

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Speaker 1: you just joining us, Yes.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I saw you were with another Marin recently.

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Speaker 5: Did you make her that?

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Speaker 3: No? And actually I just wa had sun and shot

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Speaker 3: it forever at the premiere, So I went to the

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Speaker 3: Haley and I went to the Era's premiere, which was insane,

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Speaker 3: you guys, like the whole grove was shut down, shops, restaurants, everything.

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Speaker 2: Was close, which is so crazy expensive. Such a did

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Speaker 2: you have to pay them out?

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Speaker 4: She had to pay?

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Speaker 3: I mean, or she was just like Rick Caruso, do

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Speaker 3: you mind if I throw a little event in here?

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Speaker 3: And he you know, I don't know either way. It

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Speaker 3: was insane, not on.

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Speaker 1: Her pocket, but somebody paid millions to shut down the

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Speaker 3: So we went and it was really fun, like it

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Speaker 3: think she went to every single theater, so hello did

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Speaker 3: like her her backup singers were on the row in

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Speaker 3: so we talked to her a lot before the Adam

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Speaker 3: Sandler and his family were next to us. You were there, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we were like right next to them.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I need somebody to confirm before you

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Speaker 2: get to your story. There is a girl that was

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Speaker 2: next to Taylor Swift. I take two people down from her,

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Speaker 2: and she was.

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Speaker 3: From Ozar Ozark. Yeah. How random was the girl next

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Speaker 3: to her? Tyler's wife?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: She didn't look familiar, but the girl from Ozark. I

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Speaker 2: was like Taylor's friends with the chick. Yeah, the blonde

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Speaker 3: Interesting, but I think she's best friends with whoever was

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Speaker 3: Kaylie Teller? Yeah, Kaylie Teller?

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Speaker 1: I think Yeah, Tayler's father is a big fan of

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Speaker 3: This is them on a boat.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was like the girl from Ozark. Really, she was

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Speaker 2: a fantastic Aye amazing.

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Speaker 3: Haley was like fangirling and then uh, Caylee. I've only

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Speaker 3: seen her in like photos and stuff. She is stunning

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Speaker 3: in person, Like, I was like, who is this girl?

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Speaker 3: She's so beautiful?

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Speaker 2: So you're next to Maren so wise, who's sitting next

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Speaker 2: to Maren?

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Speaker 4: You?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I think it was some people from her team, and

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Speaker 3: and then there were two other people that may have

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Speaker 3: so okay, so it's me Haley looking at the screen.

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Speaker 3: Haley's to my left, and then there was a man

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Speaker 3: and then someone from Maren's team and then Maren So okay,

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Speaker 3: it was all a sign seating far away. I know.

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Speaker 2: I went to a movie theater and I could barely

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Speaker 2: hear Raquel, who was two seats down for me.

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Speaker 3: No, so that before the movie started, because there, it's

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Speaker 3: not the movie hasn't started. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So we

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Speaker 3: talked for like a long time. I'm I love her.

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Speaker 3: I was like like we're we're like, let's go get

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Speaker 3: dinner next time you're in La. Yeah. Well we met at.

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Speaker 2: iHeart Festival and you failed to mention my I know

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Speaker 2: her ring after you because your song the.

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Speaker 4: Bones their song, I know, I just fangly.

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Speaker 3: No, I think that would have been hilarious. I wish

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Speaker 3: I would have thought of that.

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Speaker 1: The gag work for a future conversation, to save that

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Speaker 1: for number two.

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Speaker 3: Great combo starter for the next one. So and then yeah, her,

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Speaker 3: all of Taylor's singers, like backup singers, were in front

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Speaker 3: of us. They were they were like having the best time,

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Speaker 3: and we were saying, like how cool for them to

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Speaker 3: like like they probably were like how cool to go

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Speaker 3: on tour and now they're like on big screens across

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Speaker 3: the world. Yeah, that's insane. Yeah, but it was. It

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Speaker 3: was really fun. It was fun to be like right

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Speaker 3: behind Taylor just like doing her choreo. Like, it was

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Speaker 5: Rick Cruso's daughter Gig was in that theater and I

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Speaker 5: follow on Instagram too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she went to my screening on Friday.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, I just met her.

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Speaker 3: Was that at the Grove?

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Speaker 4: No, it was in North Hollywood.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I was like, I ran over and showed Alice.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, GGI cruzes in the st theater's Taylor. And

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Speaker 6: if I had known you were in there, I mean

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Speaker 6: I would have freaked out even more.

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Speaker 3: She's really cute. Actually, she's so cute. I have some

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Speaker 3: of your swimwear. She has a swim line. I did

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Speaker 3: not know that great, so you would love her swim line.

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Speaker 3: Really not to cut out, yeah, you get enough track anyways,

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Speaker 4: People were getting mad at them.

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Speaker 3: This is the thing. If it was like showed behind

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you couldn't go to the concert, this is

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a guy in our screening that dressed

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Speaker 4: He like, he did, look what you made me do?

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Speaker 4: You know I've got a list in yours is in red.

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Speaker 4: I was like, wow, this is some some good work. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You know what's interesting. I went into the screening. I

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Speaker 1: Like watch it.

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Speaker 2: Just does it to me, And I will stand here

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Speaker 1: So as a movie, positive reviews, great, great, great, no complaints.

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Speaker 2: I was hoping for some bts me too, but I

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Speaker 4: Up a stage or like where does she die in?

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Speaker 3: This is what I think is gonna happen. I think

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Speaker 3: they've definitely filmed all that they're gonna make a documentary

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Speaker 3: or this is just to give people the Eras experience.

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Speaker 4: Right, the people who couldn't like afford ticket.

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Speaker 1: Yes, right, if you live in Kansas, now you get

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Speaker 6: I did not see the I didn't go to the concert,

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Speaker 5: We didn't know, you know.

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Speaker 6: So this was all new and I was brought to

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Speaker 6: It was just incredible, and the transitions between the eras

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Speaker 3: But you did have one for reputage was large. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's definitely a documentary coming.

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Speaker 3: Definitely, it's gonna be like not that.

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Speaker 1: Normal most aime, No way possible.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's no way about this is.

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Speaker 3: Like I mean they all they had to do was

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Speaker 1: And it made a hundred million dollars this weekend easily.

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Speaker 3: I do have to say, though, I am on board,

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Speaker 3: But we should take a break and then come back

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Speaker 3: and talk about it. Thanks for clearing that up.

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Speaker 1: Scintillating conversation.

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Speaker 4: Just check in.

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Speaker 1: You want to recreate that moment.

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Speaker 4: Are you still on your period?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Well trickling down?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, coming off, coming off of it? Somebody me too? Whoa,

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Speaker 3: you're okay? So we realized that we're a day off.

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Speaker 3: We were a day off, so we're almost exactly sink.

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Speaker 4: Almost sink sisters.

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Speaker 3: Wow, maybe next pretty wild because normally that happened when

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Speaker 3: did not live together. No, not even closed because we're

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Speaker 2: But yeah, when my period comes, it comes in ferocious

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Speaker 2: and hot and then she leaves quick.

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Speaker 3: Same. Yeah. Anyway, so before we took the break when

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: She needs to have a deal with Peacock, which is

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Speaker 4: The what's the NFL on?

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Speaker 1: It's in a number of things, but NBC is one

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So so Peacock, which is like a brother, sister or

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Speaker 2: on Taylor the whole time.

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00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:02,639
Speaker 1: No, that's a separate feed of That would be a

448
00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:04,160
Speaker 1: huge What I would watch.

449
00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,159
Speaker 3: I would watch so exhausting for her. It's like a

450
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,800
Speaker 3: whole other performance. It's like she has to get ready

451
00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,000
Speaker 3: to perform great, I.

452
00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:16,960
Speaker 1: Mean happening scare her away. But I think that'd be

453
00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:18,560
Speaker 1: the best way to do it, was to watch her

454
00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:19,960
Speaker 1: all the time with the game in the corner.

455
00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:21,440
Speaker 4: I'd love that it be.

456
00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:23,520
Speaker 2: It'd be so family friendly in our house, you know,

457
00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,159
Speaker 2: I'd watch the peacock feed, Robbie watches the NFL.

458
00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:29,560
Speaker 3: It would be a very bond like family bonding experience.

459
00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:33,159
Speaker 3: But they had their first like public night out in

460
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:37,920
Speaker 3: New York City, and I have to say, the photos

461
00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:41,520
Speaker 3: of them and the way he was such a gentleman

462
00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:45,080
Speaker 3: and how he just like every detail about it, I'm

463
00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:46,000
Speaker 3: on I'm on board.

464
00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:49,560
Speaker 2: I was listening to this podcast and it like changed

465
00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:52,120
Speaker 2: my perspective on because this whole time I thought Taylor

466
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:53,159
Speaker 2: was the one.

467
00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:53,800
Speaker 3: To be private.

468
00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:57,000
Speaker 2: Yes, me too, And now I'm like, dang, was it

469
00:19:57,040 --> 00:19:59,480
Speaker 2: the guys that were always making her be private?

470
00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,320
Speaker 3: Well, the video I saw of them running to the car,

471
00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:06,640
Speaker 3: her and Joe. Did you see that video of the comparison? No,

472
00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:10,119
Speaker 3: but I've been say security running and Joe gets in

473
00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,200
Speaker 3: the car first and then Taylor, but you can tell

474
00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,080
Speaker 3: they're like just trying to like mad dash it. And

475
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,360
Speaker 3: then was comparing to her and Travis walking and they're

476
00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,760
Speaker 3: like holding hands and he he like tells the security

477
00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:21,959
Speaker 3: guard like I wants to get the door for her,

478
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:22,639
Speaker 3: for her to get out.

479
00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,000
Speaker 4: Yeah I saw that, and he had like red lipstick

480
00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 4: on his mouth.

481
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:28,000
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, but it was just saying the difference of

482
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 3: like the confidence of Travis being like I can like

483
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,600
Speaker 3: we can handle this, and like being protective and making

484
00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 3: sure she's okay, but not like getting into the car first.

485
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 2: No, Like I literally this whole time, I'm like, it

486
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:45,000
Speaker 2: just feels weird. She's been so private with Joe. I

487
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,479
Speaker 2: don't know, this just doesn't feel right. And now I'm like,

488
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 2: did Joe traumatize her?

489
00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,760
Speaker 3: Well, it always felt like it would make sense that

490
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,520
Speaker 3: she would want privacy because her life is everyone wants

491
00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,320
Speaker 3: to know everything about her, so it makes sense that

492
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,000
Speaker 3: she'd be like, oh, I want to be private. But

493
00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,280
Speaker 3: now knowing that, maybe that, I mean, we still don't

494
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,080
Speaker 3: know if that's what the case was.

495
00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:05,080
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, we'll never know.

496
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe they both agreed to Yeah, maybe they both agreed,

497
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,840
Speaker 3: but let's say he was the one that wanted to

498
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 3: be private. It's kind of sad because she like seems

499
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:14,879
Speaker 3: to be having such a block.

500
00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:19,239
Speaker 4: She's like a caged burden. Now she's free in the wild. Oh,

501
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 4: spread your wings tailor.

502
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,680
Speaker 3: Hanna, Do you have any opinions on this after seeing

503
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 3: them together? Do you feel the same way? They were

504
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,760
Speaker 3: really cute? Yeah, really, it was really cute, and I

505
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:29,800
Speaker 3: did like how he went up to the security garden,

506
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,440
Speaker 3: was like, I got in here, and like the way

507
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,119
Speaker 3: his hand kind of like grazed her like waist, and

508
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 3: then and then the fact that she's in like the

509
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:38,399
Speaker 3: tallest heels.

510
00:21:38,160 --> 00:21:41,840
Speaker 4: She could possibly wear, trying to make herself shorter. Yeah, yeah,

511
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:42,199
Speaker 4: it was.

512
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:45,520
Speaker 3: It's cute. It's cute. It's cute, and I like the

513
00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,399
Speaker 3: way he talks about her. I like that he's not

514
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:48,720
Speaker 3: trying to be like right.

515
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 2: Like every other guy she dated has done. I know,

516
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 2: it's interesting.

517
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:59,240
Speaker 3: So if I'm finding myself really feeling invested in this,

518
00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 3: which I didn't want to be, but I feel like

519
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 3: she's happy, I feel like she's thriving, and he seems like.

520
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 4: A yeah, he does seem like a nice guy.

521
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,879
Speaker 3: So there. Oh so yeah. I loved the fact that

522
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 3: you could see the red lipstick like smeared on his

523
00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:17,920
Speaker 3: mustache too.

524
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, that was a good makeout. Yeah,

525
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:24,360
Speaker 2: it was a good makeout. Speaking of making out. Oh

526
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 2: what did I did not do a lot of makeup?

527
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 1: I was.

528
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:31,679
Speaker 3: I like, it confirmed you didn't do a lot of

529
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:32,440
Speaker 3: making out this weekend.

530
00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 2: Yes, correct, My period like really got the best of

531
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 2: me this weekend. Like I was not whatever, but I

532
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 2: was so emotional this weekend. And tomorrow, I don't know

533
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 2: if it's tomorrow the next day, but it's like my

534
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 2: last official day in my apartment, okay. And Robbie and

535
00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:48,719
Speaker 2: I went over the weekend to kind of just like

536
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:50,720
Speaker 2: all these things that you have to do when you

537
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: about it an apartment, put everything back the way that

538
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 2: you found it, you know, like make sure all the

539
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,399
Speaker 2: blinds are back up and all the light switches are fixed,

540
00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 2: and you know all that stuff. And so we were

541
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 2: doing stuff and we were going back home and I

542
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:04,439
Speaker 2: just like turn him and I was like, thank you

543
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 2: so much for your help.

544
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 4: I really appreciate it.

545
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 2: And he was like, you don't have to thank me.

546
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 2: We're a team, you know, like you're a modern woman,

547
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 2: but you don't have to do it alone anymore, like

548
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:15,439
Speaker 2: you have me. And I just literally started bawling in

549
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:15,879
Speaker 2: the car.

550
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 3: It's really emotional. I mean that's like really like he didn't.

551
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 2: It was He didn't even say it in an emotional way.

552
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:22,919
Speaker 2: He was just like so matter of fact about it,

553
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 2: and I just started bawling.

554
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 4: He was like, are you okay? Are you upset? I

555
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 4: was like no, it's like a nice cry, like it's

556
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 4: just really nice.

557
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 3: And I was like I've been waiting so long, I just.

558
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 4: Like could not like it just like was just coming

559
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 4: out like waterfalls, I.

560
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 3: Know, but so just it's like so simple and it's

561
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 3: so true, like that's how it should be like that.

562
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 3: But I think because we have watched you wait for

563
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 3: that partnership, like you you've been like I'm a modern woman.

564
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,399
Speaker 3: I can do it by myself. I do what I

565
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 3: want how I want, and you still can be that way,

566
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 3: but you don't you have someone there.

567
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it's like I I could have done it

568
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 2: by myself. I didn't need him to do it, you

569
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like there were some things I needed.

570
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 2: I could have hired a task grab it or you

571
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Like I could have done it

572
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 2: on my own and I would have figured it out.

573
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:14,560
Speaker 2: But just like there's this sense of solidarity and teamwork

574
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 2: that like I've never had before. And it was like

575
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:17,400
Speaker 2: really emotional.

576
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 4: I'm getting emotional now, my god, I need my period

577
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 4: to go away. But it was really crazy, Like I

578
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 4: literally was just like touched.

579
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really sweet. I think it gives you a

580
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 3: lot of our listeners like a like really nice hope

581
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 3: when they're because I saw I think you may have

582
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 3: reposted someone saying.

583
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,879
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, I was getting a lot of tired of like.

584
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 3: I'm like so tired of doing everything on my own,

585
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 3: and it's just nice to know that, like there is

586
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 3: this out there. Yeah you know I love that. Yeah, okay, good,

587
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,800
Speaker 3: Oh okay. So I went to Vegas and I met

588
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,640
Speaker 3: Jojo because she was there for work, and I wait,

589
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 3: I was supposed to go for work and Ali is

590
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:04,479
Speaker 3: supposed to go with me. Ali bailed and I was like,

591
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,119
Speaker 3: I'll just still go. So we went and it was

592
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,120
Speaker 3: really fun. I mean we were like in bed by

593
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 3: like midnight, maybe eleven thirty every night, Like it was

594
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 3: a very on Vegasy but it was really funny. Yeah,

595
00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 3: but it was like you know Vegas, like when we

596
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 3: when we were up to like four a morning.

597
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 4: That was crazy.

598
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was wild. But yeah, I have that vision

599
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 3: of you and Robbie Corn in my head forever, just like.

600
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 4: Nothing behind the eyes.

601
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 3: Nothing behind the eyes.

602
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, just living popcorn in my mind. Yeah.

603
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 3: But we went to Katie Perry on Friday night. Yeah,

604
00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 3: that was the most interesting experience I think I've.

605
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 4: Ever had fun or interesting, weird.

606
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 3: Interesting, weird. Why because the way the show is set up,

607
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,679
Speaker 3: it feels more like like a play. I guess, like

608
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 3: there's different like scenes. And then one of the scenes,

609
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 3: she's in a bathroom and there's like a toilet that's talking,

610
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 3: and there's like a turd, a talking turd, yeah, talking,

611
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 3: and she's like having a conversation with it. And then

612
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 3: she's like, oh, and there was something sticking out of

613
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 3: his mouth, which I thought it was a joint. And

614
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,439
Speaker 3: then I was like wait, and she goes, is that

615
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 3: a corn kernel? There was a corn kernel? And we

616
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 3: were just like, what is going on?

617
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 5: You can see that the corn kernel sticking.

618
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:37,400
Speaker 3: I have its thet yellow thing. It's a corn kernel.

619
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 3: It was very the whole thing, and like being a

620
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 3: little intoxicated, really weird show heightened the weirdness. Yeah, it

621
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 3: was strange. But then we got Taco Bell and we

622
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,160
Speaker 3: Jojo had never had the cinnamon twist from taco bell.

623
00:26:56,320 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 4: Wow, I know that's like a staple had the right.

624
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,959
Speaker 3: I was like, this feels like something everyone has had

625
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 3: at least once, and she was like, I will, I

626
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 3: will not never stop thinking about those.

627
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 2: Because they're so good. Yeah, how do I make those?

628
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 2: They're like lighter than air.

629
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 4: Like honestly a delicate treat.

630
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 2: De same.

631
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it was really fun and it was like

632
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 3: nice to not be just like miserably hungover leaving I don't.

633
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 3: I think the last time Jojo and I were in

634
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 3: Vegas together is when I was on the bathroom floor

635
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 3: at I heart. So it was nice to have some redemption.

636
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

637
00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:34,919
Speaker 3: I hope to never feel the way I felt the

638
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 3: day after that. Ever, again, it's alcohol.

639
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 4: It makes us feel bad, So why do we drink it?

640
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 3: Yeah? Well, no, this is the thing there is there

641
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 3: is a certain amount that you can drink where you

642
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 3: can have fun and not feel like that.

643
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna stand on my soapbox

644
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 2: soapbox and say, no matter how much I drink, even

645
00:27:58,359 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: if I have just a couple of glasses of wine,

646
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 2: I feel it the next day.

647
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 3: Well, why I'm so sugary, so like of course, but.

648
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:08,000
Speaker 2: Like if I have a martini, if I have one margarita,

649
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,119
Speaker 2: I will feel social and happy and good and I

650
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 2: won't feel bad the next day. Yeah, like I feel

651
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 2: the giggles I have. Yeah, remember when we had seven

652
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 2: in Palm Springs.

653
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 3: Yep, it's documented. Actually, oh my gosh, I will never

654
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 3: my most The only the only clear visual I have

655
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,280
Speaker 3: of that moment is Eastern standing over me while I'm

656
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 3: in the pool and going, hey, we have to go

657
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 3: do the podcast, and me being like he was like

658
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 3: a mirage, and then opening Tanya opening the door butt naked.

659
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 4: Like you and Alison. Right, I thought it was Alison,

660
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 4: Danielle and.

661
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 3: Danielle ye and Tanya had mascara like down to here,

662
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 3: oh my.

663
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 4: God, totally naked.

664
00:28:57,520 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 3: Every time I see Sabrina, I'm like, I don't think

665
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 3: she is associates me because I saw her like the

666
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 3: Grammy's party that we went to, and I don't think

667
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 3: she associates me with that.

668
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 4: How does she not? You were there during the interview

669
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 4: and then you were not gone.

670
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 3: In a weird way. I don't think she understood what

671
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 3: was happening. I think it was just like I had

672
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 3: to go and she doesn't know like the level of drunkenness,

673
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 3: even though like we know, and you can see it

674
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 3: in my eyes because I'm like, we need.

675
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 4: To repost that clip, Crystal. Yeah, yeah, might need a

676
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 4: third time around the sun.

677
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, go ahead, laugh it up.

678
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 2: Though we had her, we didn't we do like a

679
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 2: Valentine's Day show or whatever, and Sabrina Carpenter was our

680
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 2: guest and then we had we it was a pandemic.

681
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 4: So Becca we ordered like alcohol to the house and

682
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 4: it was late.

683
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so Becca had to leave the interview to

684
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 2: go get the alcohol from the door. And I was like,

685
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: this is just so serendipitous. I was like, and Sabrina

686
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 2: Carpenter was like.

687
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 4: On the zoom.

688
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 3: It was so like she probably is like I hate

689
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 3: this girl. She's like worst, And that's fine if she

690
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 3: feels that way truly. Okay, should we take a break

691
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 3: into emails? Should Okay, we'll be right back. All right,

692
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 3: We are back, And this has just got really controversial

693
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 3: because Easton was gonna do the emails because Mark stepped out,

694
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 3: but Mark just walked in. When we came back.

695
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 5: I was excited to read this one.

696
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: I don't have any ownership of these emails.

697
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 6: All right, it's in our contract, but this is from Amber.

698
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,560
Speaker 6: All caps help help help get me some action, well,

699
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 6: more frequent action in the sex department. My boyfriend and

700
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 6: I are approaching three years together. In the first year,

701
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 6: like any new relationship, we were like glue, couldn't get

702
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 6: enough of each other. In the second year, not as regular,

703
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 6: but frequent enough that I wasn't too worried. However, as

704
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 6: we enter into this third year, we basically only have

705
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 6: sex once a month. We have talked about it, and

706
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 6: he just attributes it to being together for so long

707
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 6: and knowing each other so well. His love language is

708
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 6: quality time and minus physical touch. A friend of mine

709
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 6: thinks he might be getting satisfied elsewhere. When I asked him,

710
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 6: he shot that theory down, and I do believe him.

711
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 6: I just think he's comfortable, but I don't know. He's

712
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 6: also resisted to go into couple's therapy all of your

713
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 6: in long term relationships. Has this ever happened to you,

714
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 6: and if so, how did you address it? If not,

715
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 6: any advice? I love him so deeply, but this is

716
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 6: something really important to me. Thanks for making my train

717
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 6: rides to work a bearable.

718
00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 4: Nice nice, nice train.

719
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, the train listening to us on the train, me too.

720
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 4: I love a train, me too.

721
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 3: And I love us toasted together.

722
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 4: And what do you get?

723
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,280
Speaker 3: A good time, good time, a bearable time.

724
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 4: Little Margarita in there?

725
00:31:56,320 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 3: Oh my god, does anyone else will start? I'm not

726
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 3: in a relationship with a man, so I think it's

727
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 3: a little bit different.

728
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: Well, and isn't it fair to say that any two

729
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:09,640
Speaker 1: people together are going.

730
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 4: To have different Yeah, I think though.

731
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: Levels of interest is going to come and go, isn

732
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: and flow.

733
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 3: I do think there's this, uh, this stereotype of like

734
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 3: men never get tired of it, men are never not

735
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 3: wanting it. So that's why I said that.

736
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 2: Let me tell you, in this relationship, the girl wants

737
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 2: it more than the guy.

738
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 3: Oh that's that's comforting though, I think.

739
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 4: But like it's pretty even, but like I could have sex.

740
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 3: Every day mm hmm, and like she I don't know

741
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 3: she's looking for every day.

742
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 4: But but I think it is if it once a month,

743
00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 4: and if it's so important to you, I feel like

744
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 4: you have to I'm trying to think, like.

745
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 2: How you have that conversation, but it's like it just

746
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 2: has to be a priority and I think you have

747
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 2: to just make him realize how serious it is for you,

748
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

749
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: Like, but I also there's you know when we have

750
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 3: that sex therapists on't and too is talking about how

751
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 3: people have different things that turn them on. Yeah, here's

752
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 3: this quality time. Maybe it's something like I'm gonna like,

753
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 3: let's let's give each other each other a massage or

754
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 3: like something that's not just like all about sex and

755
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 3: that way, maybe you're both getting what you want. So

756
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:19,160
Speaker 3: maybe it's a conversation of like what it is that

757
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 3: makes him.

758
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 4: Feel turned on, turned on, or like.

759
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 3: In the mood. But I do think his resistance towards

760
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 3: couple's therapy, I think that's more of a conversation that

761
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 3: y'all could have where you, you know, just let him

762
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 3: know it's important to you and that would be helpful.

763
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 3: If maybe someone could, you know, give some advice.

764
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 2: Or because I do know some people like at the

765
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 2: end of the day, they're so tired from work that

766
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 2: they like, don't they during the week that you know

767
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 2: some people I do know some people like this that

768
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: that's the case, then you maybe like say, okay, well

769
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 2: then on the weekends, let's like do it in the

770
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 2: morning or like figure out a time where he like

771
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 2: feels more.

772
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: Morning is a good idea, and also a conversation about

773
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: what he's kind of what excites him. Maybe he's got

774
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: some fantasies that you haven't really gone into and whatever

775
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: it may be, and that would be exciting for him,

776
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 1: and then you can both get some excitement about that.

777
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: And also and this I don't know, this could be controversial,

778
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: but I've certainly heard about situations like this in the past.

779
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: Guys tend to just for convenience sake, take care of themselves,

780
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 1: and the female in the relationship will be neglected because

781
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:28,919
Speaker 1: their needs are being met somewhere else. It's just being

782
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: met by themselves in the shower or wherever. So that

783
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: might be worth the conversation as well, because if he

784
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 1: stops doing that, it's gonna be much It's going to

785
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 1: definitely increase the frequency of the two of you together.

786
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 3: Well, that's what I was going to say when her

787
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 3: friend was like, maybe he's getting it from somewhere else.

788
00:34:43,960 --> 00:34:47,239
Speaker 3: Obviously she probably meant that he's getting it from someone else,

789
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 3: but I was thinking, like, maybe he's just like masturbating, yeah,

790
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 3: doing it himself. But maybe you have a conversation of like, hey,

791
00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 3: I want I need something here.

792
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 2: Right or maybe maybe okay, maybe maybe he's doing that

793
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 2: in the middle of the day because that's when he's

794
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 2: like the most tense or whatever, and that's so maybe

795
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: then they can I don't know, she can.

796
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 1: Go there for it's a laziness though, it's a I

797
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: can knock this out in thirty seconds and then I

798
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,799
Speaker 1: don't have to think about it.

799
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 6: Anymore thirty seconds or okay, I meant it anyway.

800
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: I know I can just do this real fast because

801
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 1: with her, you know, there's a relationship. I'm just saying

802
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: that could also be a factor here. It's like a

803
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: multi hour situation where he can just knock one out

804
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:37,680
Speaker 1: real quick.

805
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:44,320
Speaker 4: Dude, so gross, knock one out real quick. So knock

806
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 4: one out real quick.

807
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 6: Really Quig Coldplay hosted American Top forty like last year,

808
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 6: and uh, I had written for them to say, hello,

809
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 6: we have another fan question here. Let's knock one out,

810
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:57,759
Speaker 6: and they both and Chris Martin just started cracking up

811
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 6: and he's like in England Easton he went out means

812
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 6: something quite rude and I'm not going to say that.

813
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 6: And I learned that means that means jack and out.

814
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah.

815
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well when he says it in a British accent,

816
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:12,760
Speaker 3: it's different.

817
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 5: Mary Charman.

818
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 3: So I think it's just worth having a conversation and

819
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 3: telling him it's important to you. You you don't want

820
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 3: to feel like you're having to beg for something.

821
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, come to a compromise.

822
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: Excuse me if you're having it once a month and

823
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 2: you want it seven times a month, maybe you guys

824
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:31,399
Speaker 2: settle on three to four.

825
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 3: Yeah. I just think it's a conversation of like, what

826
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 3: can I do that makes you feel and want to

827
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 3: want to have that moment with me? And I want

828
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:43,360
Speaker 3: to I want to be able to meet you and

829
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 3: I want you to be able to meet me. That's

830
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 3: what it is. It's relationship. So good luck, good luck.

831
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: Are you reading the second one? Easton?

832
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 5: I mean, I can't be part of the email reader.

833
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: Responsibility if to be ready here. But when they start

834
00:36:58,320 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 1: to wrap up the first wee, he's launch right into

835
00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: that Seco Melissa.

836
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 6: I was in tears hearing Mark talk about how he

837
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 6: was this person for his daughter and that is the

838
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 6: kind of parent I'm hoping to be to my daughter.

839
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 6: Her safe place for any storm.

840
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: That was the Rotten Chicken conversation she's referring to.

841
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:14,240
Speaker 5: That's right from Trader Joe's.

842
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 3: Oh, I was like, what what episode? I remember?

843
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 1: Yeah?

844
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, Curious on the topic. I know you've brought up

845
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 6: anxiety in the past, and it's been mentioned that Beca

846
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 6: and Tanya don't really deal with it. How have you

847
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 6: had to be a listening ear for someone who has

848
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 6: these struggles? And what kind of advice do you give

849
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 6: your friends and family when they confide their worries in you?

850
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 6: Is it hard to give advice when you can't understand

851
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 6: why someone would have these fears that might be a

852
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 6: little outlandish. I know anxiety can look like many things

853
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:41,880
Speaker 6: and be different for everyone, and I hope one day

854
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 6: we can all feel safe to express our feelings.

855
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 3: And that's for you.

856
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: Mark, Well, I think it's for you as well. They

857
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:50,720
Speaker 1: mentioned you by name in there.

858
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 3: But she said it's been mentioned that Beca and Tanya

859
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,799
Speaker 3: don't really deal with it. So I think the question is,

860
00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 3: how how do you have you've been a listening year

861
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: for someone else?

862
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, look, I've mentioned this before and I

863
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 1: wasn't great with her with my daughter's anxiety when she

864
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: was little, and and that will be a regret I

865
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: will have for the rest of my life. And so

866
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: I've spent the past five years trying to make that

867
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: up to her and to always be her person, their

868
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 1: safe place for any storm. Because I wasn't that when

869
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: she was little, because I was coming at it from

870
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,839
Speaker 1: a place of ego. But anyway, so now I think

871
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,880
Speaker 1: I'm a better person for all of that stuff I was.

872
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 1: I was not good with that because I would have

873
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 1: been the type before I dealt with this with her.

874
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 1: It's maybe a better person because before if somebody said

875
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: to me, oh, I have a really bad fear of that,

876
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: I'd be like, what you are you crazy? Like that's

877
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 1: so stupid, Just deal with it.

878
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:40,279
Speaker 4: You're a little like, don't know.

879
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,799
Speaker 1: Well, that's a fair criticism, Tanya, if you like with.

880
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 4: Other things, like go ahead.

881
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 3: Let's talk it out.

882
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 2: Like when someone says like they're trying to get off

883
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 2: coffee or they're trying to get rid of the coffee,

884
00:38:54,680 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 2: like you.

885
00:38:54,800 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 3: Don't need coffee coffee, I'm like, whoa someone? When someone

886
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 3: but just okay, fair.

887
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 1: So it's still an area I can improve in. I

888
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: guess Melissa is the answer to your.

889
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 5: Question, feels safe to express your feelings here. It's important.

890
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's important that Tony feels safe.

891
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm better with that now. But I think

892
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,800
Speaker 1: what you're saying to you guys is not having experience

893
00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: with anxiety. Do you feel okay when people tell you

894
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 1: things like that? How do you respond when people come

895
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 1: to you and say, I have this horrible situation.

896
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 2: I've experienced anxiety before. It's not like I'm like, never

897
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 2: have I've never been anxious or never experienced it.

898
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 3: Oh.

899
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: I think what I've said is I'm not I don't.

900
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 2: I wouldn't describe myself as an anxious person.

901
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:41,880
Speaker 4: But I've definitely dealt.

902
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 2: With anxiety and I've had I've had anxious feelings in

903
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 2: the past, so I know what it feels like, and

904
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,720
Speaker 2: I feel like I try to be there when friends

905
00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:49,280
Speaker 2: of mine have these feelings.

906
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 3: I'm the same, Like, I'm not an anxious person, but

907
00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:58,200
Speaker 3: I've experienced anxious moments. But I have friends like I

908
00:39:58,239 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 3: know Hannah and I have talked about it, but my

909
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 3: friend and Ali is like has a crazy fear of flying,

910
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 3: like anxiety getting on the plane, and like it's it's funny,

911
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:09,439
Speaker 3: like we kind of laugh about it, but we were

912
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 3: I remember in the Bahamas, we were on like one

913
00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 3: of those really small planes, and to be honest, I

914
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 3: don't have any fear of flying, and I got a

915
00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 3: little nervous, like we might not laying this plane, and

916
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 3: she was like bent over crying, which she doesn't normally

917
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 3: crying for me, and I was like, oh, this is serious,

918
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 3: So I was like rubbing her back. I get kind

919
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:28,080
Speaker 3: of put into perspective of like, even if it's something

920
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 3: I don't understand, it's real for people like the fear,

921
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,480
Speaker 3: and they don't want to feel that feeling like they're

922
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 3: fighting it. So I think it just gives you empathy

923
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 3: to think. Like for me with that, I'm able to

924
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 3: go like, I'm so grateful I don't fear this, and

925
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 3: I'm grateful that I can be calm if she needs

926
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 3: me to be calm for her.

927
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:46,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

928
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 3: So I think it's just I used to have an

929
00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 3: ego about people who had like different fears and anxiety

930
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:55,320
Speaker 3: because I'm like, why is that scary? Like in anything,

931
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 3: I'd be like why are you scared of that? Why

932
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: why can't you just get over that? And now I

933
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 3: have a total different perspective of it.

934
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, when my daughter was little, I'd be like, why

935
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 1: are you scared of anything? Nothing bad has ever happened

936
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,760
Speaker 1: to you? Like would why would you have any fear?

937
00:41:07,840 --> 00:41:10,319
Speaker 1: Like I understand if you have a fire in your home,

938
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 1: a fear of fire, like I think of it like

939
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: from a logical perspective. But she had a fear of

940
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:17,959
Speaker 1: fire and smoke just out of nowhere, and I didn't

941
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,879
Speaker 1: understand where that was coming from. And there's a bunch

942
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 1: of stuff like that. So I try to be more

943
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 1: empathetic about it now, regardless of what Tanya may say.

944
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:29,320
Speaker 3: Did y'all have a fear of quicksand ever? Because actually

945
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 3: I posted about this and I had this fear that

946
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 3: like I was going to be in quicksand at some point,

947
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 3: And there's no quicksand around. No.

948
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,840
Speaker 2: But I think it all comes from, like from stuff

949
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 2: from your past that you don't even realize, like, well, yeah,

950
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 2: there's quicksand.

951
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 4: Oh, I feel.

952
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 2: Like I was talking. I talked to my sister about

953
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 2: this all the time because I used to always have

954
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:54,520
Speaker 2: this fear of like the shoe dropping, like I would

955
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 2: always I guess, and it happened a lot when I

956
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 2: was newly ditting Robbie, because I was like, this just

957
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: feels too good.

958
00:41:58,640 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 4: It just feels too good.

959
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,359
Speaker 2: I'm like always waiting for like the shoe to drop,

960
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: or like something like he's going to break up with me.

961
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 2: Then I've always been broken up with so it's gonna happen.

962
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 2: So I was just like always waiting for that, and

963
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 2: that creates a lot of anxiety and anxious feeling, and

964
00:42:11,080 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 2: it's like you can't live your life that way. You

965
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 2: can't live your life like anybody's shoe can drop with

966
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 2: anything in their relationship, in their career and their health,

967
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: Like there's all these things that can happen, and it's

968
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 2: like you just can't live in that space of just

969
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 2: waiting for it to happen.

970
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 3: Like you're saying when things feel I think a lot

971
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 3: of people deal with that, like everything feels so good,

972
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 3: when's it going to go bad?

973
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 2: Or like everything's fine? You know, like everything's fine, what's coming?

974
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:37,360
Speaker 2: When's something coming for me?

975
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 4: You know what I mean? Like it's that type of

976
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:41,720
Speaker 4: feeling I have that. Yeah, I'm.

977
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 6: I never had a fear of quicksand because uh, there

978
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 6: is a song Hedgehog Cartoon I watch as a kid

979
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 6: that taught you how to get out of quicksand.

980
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,000
Speaker 1: You're live flat or something, or you move very slowly,

981
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 1: you move very slowly to again.

982
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 6: I remember being like seven years old watching this, going,

983
00:42:57,680 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 6: why do I need to know this? Am I gonna

984
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 6: into quicksand? Because I know that was like a that

985
00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 6: was like a fear, but like they're teaching me how

986
00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 6: to get out of it, as if it's on every corner,

987
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 6: and now I'll never forget it now and I know

988
00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 6: that mosque is on the north side of a tree.

989
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,359
Speaker 5: Wow, in case I get second quicksand in the forest.

990
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 2: Did I tell you that I saw the sonic the

991
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 2: hedgehog moving? I really want to be in the next one.

992
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 3: Yes, we have a whole podcast.

993
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, making sure we covered that because it really moved me,

994
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 2: Like I was like, I really want.

995
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 4: To be a hedgehog.

996
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 5: He's a moving guy. I get it. Yeah, you get

997
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 5: me moves fast.

998
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

999
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 3: Are we doing a book club episode this week?

1000
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 4: And said no, oh yeah, Well you said no, so

1001
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 4: I said no too, Yeah.

1002
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 3: But no one confirmed it. So I was just confirming

1003
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 3: your Yeah, why till you're stricken because.

1004
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 4: You didn't read until I was stricken.

1005
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 1: You didn't read anything.

1006
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,839
Speaker 4: I did. I did read one chapter a book club.

1007
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: On that chapter, Look, I heard wants more episodes from

1008
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,879
Speaker 1: you guys, and the fans want more episodes from you guys,

1009
00:43:56,880 --> 00:44:01,280
Speaker 1: and you guys are like, no one episode. That's it.

1010
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 2: It's true, it's not entirely true. The scrubbers want quality episodes.

1011
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:10,720
Speaker 3: I do feel like last week was a great Unfortunately

1012
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,840
Speaker 3: it was chaotic, but it was a good Thursday episode.

1013
00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: It was a classic.

1014
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 4: Do you think smartlest I know, do you think SmartLess

1015
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:20,280
Speaker 4: heard about us.

1016
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: Us?

1017
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 4: No, but SmartLess maybe?

1018
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.

1019
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 3: We will go down in history as the worst book

1020
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 3: club in terms of like what people expect from a

1021
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:35,360
Speaker 3: book club.

1022
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 2: I think you're wrong, but the best book club episodes,

1023
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:42,439
Speaker 2: that's where you're right.

1024
00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: But no consistency or expectations, just kind of.

1025
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it was meant to be like we're

1026
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 2: reading this book, we're doing it sporadically.

1027
00:44:57,920 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: I don't think that was part of the plan. Was sporadically.

1028
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 3: No, I think that was a modern woman roll thrown

1029
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 3: in with the.

1030
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,839
Speaker 1: Response we got people are really enjoying it. It's gotten

1031
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: them to read again. They're enjoying reading it with you.

1032
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 2: The response is that I got in my dms where

1033
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 2: I'm not reading along but I am enjoying this.

1034
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 4: Well, there you.

1035
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 1: Go the way it's still enjoyable. That's ideal.

1036
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 3: We can recap the one chapter you read if you

1037
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 3: want to.

1038
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 4: Take notes on it.

1039
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 3: Why was it about? Was it about like living the

1040
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 3: life that you want to live, not.

1041
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 4: Being stopped, but not being caged by the cage? Yeah, exactly.

1042
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 3: It revamped one of the episodes we've already done and

1043
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 3: stick it on the Thursday.

1044
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 1: So you're saying it's getting repetitive.

1045
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 3: That's what I was saying. I was saying the book

1046
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 3: as a whole is incredible, but the overlying theme, if

1047
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 3: you're reading chapter by chapter, can feel repetitive while we're

1048
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 3: whilst we're.

1049
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 2: Which is why I said we should just everybody should

1050
00:45:59,040 --> 00:45:59,920
Speaker 2: just read until they're.

1051
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,720
Speaker 3: That's but you didn't.

1052
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 4: I know, that's my bad, But like I'm just saying,

1053
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 4: that's why that was hitched.

1054
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:13,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, here's my issue with the reading until you're

1055
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 3: struck thing. Someone could be struck on chapter two that

1056
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 3: they read, and then the other could be struck till

1057
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 3: the end of the.

1058
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 4: Book, and to each their own such as the.

1059
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 2: Beauty of life, unpredictable, unpredictable. What strikes you doesn't strike me.

1060
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 2: What strikes me doesn't strike you. You like hot soup? I

1061
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:39,319
Speaker 2: like aspatcho what exactly? No?

1062
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 4: I don't.

1063
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 2: I actually had a really amazing cold watermelon soup like

1064
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:44,439
Speaker 2: a couple of weeks.

1065
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 4: I do not like cold soup. And this was the

1066
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 4: most delicious watermelon soup I have ever.

1067
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 5: Had watermelon soup. I know that, not a fruit salad.

1068
00:46:55,480 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 4: No, it was delicious. So again, you never know what

1069
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 4: you want.

1070
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 3: And soup just cold watermelon juice.

1071
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 4: No, I don't even know how you make it. Maybe

1072
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:09,480
Speaker 4: we could google.

1073
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:13,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, well, stay tuned for that riveting special.

1074
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:21,720
Speaker 3: We'll be back next Monday, and we will read until

1075
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 3: stricken struck exactly you know what, And even if we don't,

1076
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 3: we will do a Thursday episode and we will make

1077
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 3: it amazing, just as we did last week, because that's

1078
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 3: what we do here at scrubbing In. We make train

1079
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 3: rides bearable and book clubs tolerabustainable, and we love you

1080
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 3: all so much. Week goodbye bye,