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Speaker 1: Radio Radio radios a myth and bullshit radio phonic novella

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Speaker 1: Local Radio hosted by Malam. Hello, welcome back to local radio. Welcome, Welcome.

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Speaker 1: This is Mala and this is DIOSA. This is Get

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Speaker 1: Another Girl Hour. Yes, Look at the Radio is a

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Speaker 1: podcast archiving the brilliance and legacies of women and fems

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Speaker 1: of color. Thank you for joining us once again. Yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you for being here. It's been a hot minute

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Speaker 1: since we last recorded, and we're so happy to be recordings.

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Speaker 1: And we've overcome a lot, honestly to record. Yes, as

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Speaker 1: you all know or maybe you don't, but mercury is

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Speaker 1: in retrograde, which is known to block communication. And the

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Speaker 1: last Saturday when we tried to record, everything was a

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Speaker 1: hot mess and it was weird because everything was a

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Speaker 1: hot mess, like one thing after the other. But the

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Speaker 1: middle this wasn't working, Like there was this weird sound

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Speaker 1: coming on the radio stack at the radio station out Yes,

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Speaker 1: and then when we were trying to tell you all

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Speaker 1: about it, are the sound on our phones? We're working either.

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Speaker 1: And then like I was having trouble uploading shipped to

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Speaker 1: my story, like things things that I uploaded you couldn't

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Speaker 1: see on so strange. It was just because we had

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Speaker 1: every intention of coming in here and recording. We did

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Speaker 1: come and we couldn't because the sound was sucked up.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it was just a weird day and we

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Speaker 1: were like, yeah, mercury is definitely in retrograde. Someone has

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Speaker 1: done like a weird on our technology and it's trying

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Speaker 1: to stifle us. But we overcame and now we're here. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we cannot be silence. You cannot kill a bad BT, No,

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Speaker 1: you cannot. So anyways, so so much has happened since

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Speaker 1: we last recorded. We want to give you all an

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Speaker 1: update before we get into our main content. The Gardener

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Speaker 1: as mother like gardener. So, um, we've been busy. We've

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Speaker 1: been busy. Porcallo happened about two or three weeks ago. Now,

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Speaker 1: that was November nine, on a Sunday a La downtown

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Speaker 1: l A. It was a lot of fun. It was

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Speaker 1: pleasantly surprised that so many people came out specifically for

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Speaker 1: Latinox podcasts. Yes, like it was all it was podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Like we had panels, we were tabling, um, there were

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Speaker 1: different topics. It was really fun there was merch. We

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Speaker 1: got to meet some of our listeners, which is always

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Speaker 1: our favorite part about doing events. We love that. Um

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Speaker 1: and Yeah, I think we didn't know what to expect

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Speaker 1: and like mol said, we were pleasantly surprised. We got

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Speaker 1: to share a little table with umfic on cheese Man

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Speaker 1: shout out. And our setup was so cute. We had

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Speaker 1: our pink BoA's and our Velita's and swag and all that.

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Speaker 1: So poppy hats, Our poppy hats. Shout out to everyone

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Speaker 1: that has purchased them. Now available in black, they're super

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Speaker 1: and black super cute. Were currently sold out. Mona and

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Speaker 1: I don't even have a black one. You don't. They're exclusive, yes,

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Speaker 1: so if you were lucky enough to get your hands

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Speaker 1: on them, they'll be back in the country. People want them,

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Speaker 1: like our family members think that they're going to get

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Speaker 1: them for free. They're like, oh, could I get a hat?

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Speaker 1: Were like for fifteen dollars first seventeen Mama, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: my mom was like, my mom was like, um, can

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Speaker 1: I get one? And I was like, yes, it'll be

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Speaker 1: seventeen dollars. Yes, even my mother but she's a big

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Speaker 1: fan of the podcast. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, So you know,

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Speaker 1: support your local podcasts absolutely, and we got to meet

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Speaker 1: some of our favorite podcasters. We met, you know, the

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Speaker 1: folks of shout Out that are a lot of town

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Speaker 1: and that is Yeah, Latinos to lunch ump a lot

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Speaker 1: it was cute. Thank you everybody for who was there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: shout out to the organizers as well. And then in

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Speaker 1: addition to podcast studio, we've been like, we've been doing

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Speaker 1: a but we went to pitts Or College and one

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Speaker 1: Absolutely what we always do. We always do what we do,

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Speaker 1: yes and when, And we were at USC. They're Latino

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Speaker 1: All of the stuff is accumulating. But then we we

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Speaker 1: had an event. Our friend Bukafalaha was here from out

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Speaker 1: talk about our prod deject about and there were some

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Speaker 1: listeners there in the audience, you know, did his thing

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Speaker 1: with his poetry. It was fun. It was a really

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Speaker 1: nice night. Yeah, and I we had we all. I

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Speaker 1: think we have some new listeners now. We had made

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Speaker 1: some great connections. So I'm really happy if you're listening, friend,

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Speaker 1: you went to the book of thank you to Me.

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Speaker 1: And then in addition, we were selected um by Word Agency.

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Speaker 1: Are girls over a Word Agency? They featured us as

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Speaker 1: one of their twenty five days of word women, So

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Speaker 1: women opening real doors and um it was super cute.

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Speaker 1: They did like a short interview with us. They asked

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Speaker 1: us like our favorite what we're grateful for, and then

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Speaker 1: our favorite moments or collaboration from um so just to

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Speaker 1: read it a little bit. Seventeen was our year of collaborations,

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Speaker 1: from throwing parties to our friends with our friends Ala Junta,

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Speaker 1: had a good year. He did have a year. And

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Speaker 1: that's what this sizzle is over here and Espasio and

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Speaker 1: she's like hats us on her Instagram recording right now. Girl,

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Speaker 1: we love her, We love sizzle. Yes. And then one

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Speaker 1: her at on Instagram at mass up on home. She's

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Speaker 1: so cute, she's very cute. She's she's a fellow youth.

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Speaker 1: to know. And this cut pizzle is all about it's

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Speaker 1: a year in review. We are going to be talking

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Speaker 1: about our favorite different memories of this year. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: got into some ship this year. You know, the good,

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Speaker 1: the bad, the ridiculous, the scandalous, yes, the embarrassing. Oh god,

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Speaker 1: We're going to talk about all of it. I'm so

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Speaker 1: well when you say it like that. Okay, we begin.

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Speaker 1: So the first the first memory, of course, at the

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Speaker 1: top is our favorite home memories. Favorite memory, Yeah, who

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Speaker 1: My favorite memory of this year is learning that it's

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Speaker 1: regular memories? I wouldn't even consider those whole memories necessarily.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I feel like this was my peak year. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And now I'm just like, you know, not out and

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Speaker 1: about anymore. You're a sabbatical I want a sabbatical. I

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Speaker 1: started the year like, hello, ho ish you're resting. I'm resting.

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Speaker 1: from this year. Well, let's see the mommy celebrated the

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Speaker 1: when year anniversary. Yes, oh my god, we had two

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Speaker 1: anniversaries this year. We did. We had two big ones.

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Speaker 1: First there was the Mummy Verse three and then something

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Speaker 1: just like I always joked, like MoMA's my other partner

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Speaker 1: because like if you look at my Instagram, it's like

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Speaker 1: my bow and then Mala like it's like them too.

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Speaker 1: Um so exactly, so we actually Mama and I we

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Speaker 1: a memory. We were at the bank together, yes, together

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Speaker 1: And it was funny because I don't know what do

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Speaker 1: bankers they were. The manager was like, oh, oh, are

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Speaker 1: YouTube partners and they were like very sweet, really nice.

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Speaker 1: They were like this for household items. They were like yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: had like like an Afro Cuban night with different floors

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Speaker 1: I agree, And Ludi, are you do you listen to

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Speaker 1: lots of podcasts? Are you like a big a big

424
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Speaker 1: podcast head? I am? More recently. It was always something

425
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:49,879
Speaker 1: that I was low key like, oh my god, I

426
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 1: was doing this pot listening to podcast and I felt

427
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,200
Speaker 1: so insecure. I was like, I don't in the podcast,

428
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,160
Speaker 1: like I definitely should. Um. But yeah, this last year,

429
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 1: a couple of years, I've gotten a lot more into it,

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Speaker 1: just because you know, I haven't. I've been out of

431
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: school for like a few years, and I just really

432
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,879
Speaker 1: miss a like amassing new knowledge and like exposing myself

433
00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: to just different you know, not that I don't learn

434
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: a lot just moving through the world like as like

435
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,160
Speaker 1: a human being, but like you know, sometimes so yeah,

436
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,680
Speaker 1: I've gotten a lot more into them, and like I

437
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 1: just I love you guys so much, and I'm like,

438
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: it's just the very fact that you exist, like it

439
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: just gives me so much life, and I just, yeah,

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00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: thank you, I appreciate that. Um let's see, I think

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00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 1: we have another category, favorite pop culture memory. Yes of

442
00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 1: this year, I don't have one off the top of

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Speaker 1: my work. I have to think. Yeah. I mean, I

444
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 1: feel like a lot has happened, happened, and I think

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00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 1: since so much has been happening globally, that translates to

446
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 1: lots of things happening in pop culture as well. You know,

447
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: it's just been an active year, and a lot of

448
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,639
Speaker 1: times I feel like what what artists are doing and

449
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 1: what stars are doing is sometimes a reaction to what's

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00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 1: happening in the world or a reflection of it. So

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00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: it just I just feel like there's been a lot

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00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: of activity. I mean, one example, like Cardie B by

453
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: herself has made so and so many moves. She's Grammy nominated.

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00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: This is true in one year she has made she engaged,

455
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: She's Grammy nominated. Thank you Cardi B for spicing up yar,

456
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 1: giving us something to shake her asses too. She gave

457
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 1: us lots of entertainment, like lots of just news and

458
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: news ship because it's always something new with her recently.

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00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,160
Speaker 1: Always it's like this new thing with Cardi B. Happened,

460
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: Cardi B did this, CARTIV did that. But it's all

461
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 1: been positive. It hasn't been like scandal really well, accept

462
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 1: Cardie has been problematic. Yes, she continuously. We've talked about

463
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: this invious episodes. Yes, so there's that element that's always

464
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,880
Speaker 1: there that we want to acknowledge. But she's made moves.

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00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 1: She's made moves, you know. So as far as pop

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00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,680
Speaker 1: culture memories, I'm happy for her. Um. I feel like

467
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,719
Speaker 1: there's a lot of ladies in hip hop right now

468
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: that are like on the come up and that are

469
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: like being seen. Um, so that's exciting. That's for me.

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00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,920
Speaker 1: I think that's a good pop culture memory. Beyond gave birth,

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00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: that's mine, that's mine. Yes, thank you Gottess, Thank you

472
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: gottess is for bringing this life, these lives into the world. Yes, highlight,

473
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,160
Speaker 1: there we go. That's a good one. Her maternity shoot

474
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 1: at that is. It's fine. When Milestone of the year,

475
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,719
Speaker 1: all the white feminists quote feminists were mad as hell. Um,

476
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: Megan Markel is engaged to that prince. Yes, that Prince

477
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:45,880
Speaker 1: that guy, that redhead. That's fine, It's be a royal

478
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 1: wedding and soon, very soon, Christy Tigan is having another

479
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: baby with John leon Ab. Oh wow, I love them.

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00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 1: They're cute. They're very cutely, right, Yeah. Do you have

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Speaker 1: a favorite pop culture memory of this year, Ludy, Sometimes

482
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm is the worst of pop culture. Like I get

483
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: a little anxious them because I consume media obviously, but

484
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: it's hard to like pick one and I'm just being

485
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: liberate and probably but I don't know, I guess it's

486
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: not one moment, but it's just like it's been so

487
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: nice to see how pop culture is shifting to reflect

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00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 1: the moment that we're in politically and socially, and like,

489
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, like throughout how much ship we've been

490
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 1: through this year, it's like so nice to see so

491
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: many creatives and artists and people in media just like

492
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: stepping up and being like yeo, I'm just gonna make

493
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: this and like people, I don't know, it's so validating

494
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 1: to to see so many, you know, people of color

495
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: and marginalized people being creative and like making ship and

496
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 1: using that as a artist too. It's not just you know,

497
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: you know, it's a coping mechanism, and but it's also

498
00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: like a way to empower ourselves and to make ourselves

499
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: feel like in control even though things can feel like

500
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: they're spinning out of control a lot of the time.

501
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 1: So I don't know, that's been really amazing for me.

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00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: Just like music, this year has been a year of

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00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: just incredible music, film TV with all centering like a

504
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: lot of marginalized folks, and like, I don't know, I

505
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,959
Speaker 1: live for that, So yeah, I mean yeah, I think that, Like, um,

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00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: there's been a lot to watch and a lot to

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00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: listen to. Um. Selenna got her star Hollywood, and we

508
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: still haven't really seen the actual star. If y'all remember

509
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 1: we went to the actual like when they unveiled it,

510
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 1: the ceremony, the ceremony with the Hollywood Chamber of Commerce.

511
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: Mayor Garcetti was the labor. It was a really emotional

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00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: it was beautiful. I remember Chris Perez was there, Oh

513
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: my god, and he brought her roses goodbye. It was

514
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: like I would have been like a mess. It was

515
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: very emotional to see like how moved everyone still is

516
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 1: by her and her presence and what she does, what

517
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: she did. People love hers, Selenna continues to have big years.

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00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 1: I know that collection that was last year, right, and

519
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: this year's star on the Hollywood and the cool the

520
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 1: Google homepage that they did the Whole Little Animal and

521
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: then the one did the wax at the Wax Museum.

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00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: When did that become with us this year, last year,

523
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 1: in the past two years, Wax figure, Hollywood Star Walk

524
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 1: of Fame, Mac mac collection. Well, moving on to another diva,

525
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: mis Rihanna blessed us with fenty Yeah she did, she did,

526
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: she did, and it has been very well received. Yeah,

527
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: I agree. She just came out with her red lipstick

528
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: and I saw it at Sappho the other day and

529
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:37,400
Speaker 1: it's so beautiful, it's very pigmented. Good. Yeah, I'm glad.

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00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, those are good pop culture memories. I don't know,

531
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think, like, what else has happened this year.

532
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 1: It's like, I feel like the past few the past

533
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: few weeks or even months even, and we've just been

534
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: so inundated with all this like sexual assault, enviolence against women,

535
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 1: and I'm like, we don't need to talk about that

536
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: right now. When we did an episode on it, but

537
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: it's just like it's just a constant. It's just right now,

538
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 1: like when I'm thinking about what's happening in the media,

539
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: like that's all that I can think of. That's kind

540
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: of sad, right, so it's hard to think of, like, well,

541
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 1: what was my favorite thing? You know what I mean? Yeah, no,

542
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: I mean I was reflecting on that a lot, Like

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00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: I went to Mexico City this year. I went to

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00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: Mexico City and then I went to Miami this year. UM,

545
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 1: And when I went to Mexico City, you know, I

546
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: was reflecting on the fact that so much of that

547
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,760
Speaker 1: trip like revolved around violence against women. Like I went

548
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: to this UM. They're in Mexico City. They have a

549
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: genocide museum called the Museum of Tolerance, and they on

550
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: different floors, different levels. They have basically information and like

551
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 1: exhibits having to do with like different genocides from throughout

552
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: the world, like historically and like today like continuing continuing genocides, right,

553
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: And one of the floors was specifically about femin CEO

554
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: in Mexico, so it was like an entire genocide which

555
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: is only of like Mexican women. And on a different

556
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: floor they had one about Guatemalan women. So I'm like,

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00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: in this one museum in Mexico, there are two floors

558
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: just on genocide of women. That's fucked up. And I

559
00:32:07,080 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 1: was only in Mexico City for like five days, so

560
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: I go to the genocide museum. And then a couple

561
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: of days later we hear the news of that young

562
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 1: woman who was found on the campus, murdered like strangled.

563
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: And the day after she was found, the prosecutor, the

564
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: district attorney was already tweeting out about how she was

565
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: in poor moral stand and she lived with her boyfriend.

566
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: The hashtag that came out of that with what are

567
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: they going to say about exactly? And many women were

568
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: tweeting like, you know, they're going to say that I

569
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: wore a short skirt and I like to go clubbing

570
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: and drinking with my friends. They're gonna pull up my

571
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: social media and say she was a home she hated men,

572
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: she had a comming all that ship. Yeah we could talk,

573
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: but that's true. Has been full of like sexual violence,

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00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: I think. Also like thinking on the flip side, also

575
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: like resilience. So seeing like all these women coming forward

576
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: and even the women that don't come forward, you know

577
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: that are still existing and living and thriving. Um that's

578
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: also something to celebrate, right yeah, I mean the Time

579
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: Time magazine person of the Year. They called them the

580
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: silence breakers, but basically survivors. They can just said survivors,

581
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: but they can't, they won't, but they won't. In other words,

582
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 1: survive survivors. It's been the year of the survivor. I

583
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 1: would say, I agree every year, right m M. I

584
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: also want to shout out both of us. I'm going

585
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: to give a shout out to ourselves because we it

586
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: took us a while to get out of certain relationships

587
00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: that we knew were bad for us, that we're hurting us,

588
00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: that maybe we you know, a lot of ship was happening,

589
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 1: and like was the year that we like set ourselves free.

590
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 1: And I'm really proud of us. Yes, I'm a free Yes,

591
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: I love it, yes, and like to because it's hard.

592
00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's hard to use. You broke up, like your

593
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: breakup lasted six months, like my lasted like a year exactly,

594
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:08,680
Speaker 1: so like it's real. Yes, thank you, thank you gottesses

595
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: for helping us guiding us away. Yes, well, I'm all

596
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 1: out of memories, honest, I'm exhausted this year. I'm exhausted.

597
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: Yea same same. We have a really really special coming

598
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:29,399
Speaker 1: for y'all next week. Yes, we have a special guest

599
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 1: for our next and we're going to keep that a

600
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 1: secret until we record with her. It's gonna be so amazing.

601
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: So we're gonna leave with a good note, with a

602
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 1: bank yes, our canality. Yes. So anyways, any final thoughts,

603
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 1: final thoughts, final words. Drink lots of water. Drink water,

604
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 1: get sleep moister, eat good, eat your greens. You know

605
00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: what your body needs. Put down the stop getting the

606
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,800
Speaker 1: fried food met me to me, eating French fries to

607
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 1: that's me to me. I constantly have to tell myself yeah,

608
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: I don't know, just keep kicking ass and surviving in

609
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: this crazy at world one. That's good, right, Yeah, thank

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00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,919
Speaker 1: you for tuning in again. Yes, thank you so much.

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00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,479
Speaker 1: I love you all. We will catch you next time.

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Speaker 1: Seat those