1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: Welcome to the I Heart Radio and Coast to Coast 2 00:00:02,279 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: day M paranormal podcast network. Now get ready for another 3 00:00:05,600 --> 00:00:09,680 Speaker 1: episode of Shades of the Afterlife with Sandra Champlain. The 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: thoughts and opinions expressed by the host our thoughts and 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: opinions only, and do not necessarily reflect those of I 6 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: Heart Media, I Heart Radio, Coast to Coast a out, 7 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: employees of premier networks or their sponsors and associates. You 8 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: are encouraged to do the proper amount of research yourself, 9 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 1: depending on the subject matter and your needs. Hi. I'm 10 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 1: Sandra Champlain. For almost twenty five years, I've been on 11 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: a journey to prove the existence of life after death. 12 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:50,279 Speaker 1: On each episode will discuss the reasons we now know 13 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: that our loved ones have survived physical death and so 14 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: will we. Welcome to Shades of the Afterlife. Today, We're 15 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: going to talk about signs from your loved ones and 16 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: we'll speak with Joe Higgins. Joe is a fantastic guy. 17 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 1: He's been a medium for well over twenty years. He's 18 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: a certified Raikey master. He has brought comfort and relief 19 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: to just a countless amount of people in so many 20 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: different ways. He's the author of four books, including I 21 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: Got Your Message, Understanding Signs from Deceased loved Ones, and 22 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:30,839 Speaker 1: The Everything Guide to Evidence of the Afterlife, a scientific 23 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: approach to proving the existence of life after death. You 24 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: can find out more about Joe at his website, which 25 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 1: is Joe Higgins dot com. Joe, Welcome to Shades of 26 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 1: the Afterlife. HIC. Sandra, thank you so much for having 27 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: me on. I really've been looking forward to talking to you. 28 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: Would you tell us a little bit about yourself and 29 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: how you got into this wonderful world of studying the 30 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: afterlife and mediumship. Well, I think it's it's started when 31 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: I was a kid. I mean I was one of 32 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: these kids that never got to sleep at life because 33 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 1: there was always a lot of activity going on in 34 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 1: my room. And so it was probably six seven years 35 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: old years old at that point sentient, which means I 36 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: could sense other things around or other people around me 37 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: that you could see. So as a child, I was 38 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: always picking up this information. I would be seeing certain 39 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: things and definitely, like I said, feeling different things. And 40 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 1: then I could finally developed into knowing if there was 41 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 1: a male or a female in their ages. But that 42 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: then you really didn't have too many people that could 43 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,560 Speaker 1: talk to about so it was kind of like you 44 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: kind of kept it to yourself. And then when I 45 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: turned to my teens and in early twenties and life 46 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: kind of started taking over, and it was like, you know, 47 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: I'd go I'd be going to sleep and I would 48 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: be like, listen to people, you know, have fun, do 49 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: whatever you want, but don't wake me up because I 50 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:48,679 Speaker 1: gotta get out for work in the morning. You know 51 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: what I mean, real earth life problems, you know, you know, 52 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: responsibilities kicked in and it's like, you know, I don't 53 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:56,679 Speaker 1: have time to kind of like, you know, I'll see 54 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: what's going on and investigate this because you know, I 55 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:01,799 Speaker 1: got get up early and I gotta get me a sleep. 56 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 1: But then, you know, as I kind of aged, I 57 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 1: ran up people of like mind and every once in 58 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: a while we talked about it. Eventually, it had walked 59 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: into a spiritualist church, someone and one, and I realized 60 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: that other people all had very similar experiences when they're 61 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: growing up. And that's really when I started to bloom, 62 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: meaning I could talk to other people about certain experiences, 63 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: we could bounce things off each other, and then really 64 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: started to sit down and develop some of these gifts 65 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: and of these awarenesses that I've had since child. Joe, 66 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: did you have any fear of these dead people when 67 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 1: you were younger? Yeah, at the beginning show when I 68 00:03:38,960 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: was younger and stuff, it was fear and I really 69 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: didn't know what was going on. It was like being 70 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: very hyper aware of things because you could sense these things, 71 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 1: but you just didn't know anything about them because it 72 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: really weren't any books back then about you know, about 73 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: the afterlife or you know, connecting with loved ones and 74 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: stuff like that. I mean, people talked about it once 75 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: in a while, but usually if they don't talked about 76 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: it was like late at night, you know, when the 77 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 1: kids we went around after they have a few drinks, 78 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: you know, or after a funeral or something like that. 79 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 1: So we really didn't know because the TV shows hadn't 80 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: come out, that the popular books hadn't come out, and um, 81 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: you had to kind of live with it because it's 82 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: really couldn't talk to people about it. Luckily that that 83 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: stuff's done it to change. But as a child, you know, 84 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: people said, oh, he's very sensitive, he's very sensitive to things. 85 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: So they kind of left it at that. It's funny 86 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: because when I was older, I had read a book 87 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 1: by James long Frogue, you know, a great medium, and 88 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: I finished reading the book and I wanted to give 89 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: the book to my mother and you know, say how 90 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: she would feel about it and stuff. So I stopped 91 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 1: off to talk to her and she's She's sitting in 92 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: front of the TV sewing something like, Mom, we just 93 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: finished this great book by about product and stuff. It's 94 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 1: about people that you know, connected loved ones on the 95 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 1: other side and they get signed and she didn't miss 96 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: a beach. She's got her head down and she's sewing 97 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,599 Speaker 1: and she's like, you know, people used to come to 98 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 1: your grandmother go in the back room and I'm like 99 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 1: what because he just used to tone stuff and then 100 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: they would leave. And I'm like, really, you couldn't have 101 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:13,479 Speaker 1: told me this like twenty years ago, you know, and 102 00:05:13,520 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: it was like, no big deal. But I think we learned, 103 00:05:16,680 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 1: you know, over the years that this type of gift, 104 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: or sometimes the sensitiveness, it runs in families and or 105 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,839 Speaker 1: you know, and they can skip generations and stuff. But 106 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:30,280 Speaker 1: usually if there's someone that has that is usually relative 107 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 1: that also has the ability to connect at some level, 108 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: with the other side or some type of psychic ability 109 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: where they might be just really a little bit more 110 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,159 Speaker 1: sensitive to things that are going to happen or have 111 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: happened and make connections and stuff like that. So it's 112 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: a very complex but simple thing with energy and it's 113 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: just to me, it's just like really cool. I think 114 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: it's very cool too. And Jones who found spiritualism, did 115 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 1: you start taking classes? Yes? Actually I did. What I 116 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: did was I actually uh, I had gone to a 117 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 1: demonstration by von Prague and there was a lot of 118 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: people there, but the energy was just so fantastic and 119 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: talking to like minded people. It was just wonderful to 120 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,679 Speaker 1: be in the community of There was a couple hundred 121 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: people there. Um. And I didn't get a reading or anything, 122 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 1: but it was just being around those people. And I 123 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: sat next to a man. We we did um. I 124 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: think we did something with psychometry, and that's reading objects. 125 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:33,320 Speaker 1: So vom produ had us exchange objects and then we're 126 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: going to see if we had natural abilities to be 127 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:39,159 Speaker 1: able to pick up something from these objects that we 128 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: could relate to the other person. Because I think we 129 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: all have sixth sense, you know, and we use different terms. 130 00:06:44,680 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 1: People use it like a mother's intuition, you know what 131 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 1: I mean, or you know, a gut feeling, or you're 132 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: thinking about someone and all of a sudden, the phone rings. 133 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: So we all have these psychic abilities, and to certain extent, 134 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: some of them, you know, are more developed than others. 135 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: And so we did the exchange. I didn't get much 136 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: on his a little bit, but he actually brought through 137 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 1: my father because of the I was wearing his watch, 138 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: but he didn't know it. So that really piqued my interest. 139 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: And then but he had just started doing development at 140 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: a spiritual's church, so he invited me up to join 141 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,520 Speaker 1: the class um that was going to stop the new 142 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 1: one in January, and stuff I said show. So I 143 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 1: traveled from from Forever up to Swampskin, which is about 144 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,239 Speaker 1: an hour and a half something like that um every 145 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: weekend to take development classes and mediumship and to learn 146 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: more about all aspects of afterlife communication and things like that. 147 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,560 Speaker 1: That's why I took the Morris Pratt, which is a 148 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 1: series of courses that kind of run the gamut from 149 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: everything for medium ship to channeling too, all the wools 150 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 1: stuff you could think of, so that I would have 151 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: a background, you know what I mean, so when you 152 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: run across people, you know what's going on and stuff. 153 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: So it was like, you know, we just said it's 154 00:07:57,240 --> 00:08:00,200 Speaker 1: really cool and fascinating. So it was like a sponge 155 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 1: and I just soaked up everything and anyone I ran 156 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: into their stories and it was the way I went. 157 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: You know, mm hmmm. Do you remember when you first 158 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: started out in mediumship and that feeling when you worked 159 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 1: with a person and you're all to bring through the 160 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:18,320 Speaker 1: young one? Well, I remember we used to sit for 161 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: lights and incense, put some music on them on here 162 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: or something like that in the dot room for an 163 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: hour and a half, two hours and get nothing, get nothing. 164 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: And we did that and aout months and months, and 165 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: then eventually we would get flashes of something, and then 166 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 1: we'd get a little bit more, and then the next thing, 167 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: you know, when a couple of years, we're given readings 168 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 1: with our eyes open and you know, information just flowing 169 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: right through, evidential information, so that means the person can 170 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: understand exactly who it is that's coming through, you know, 171 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: personality or ship memory, certain things like that that only 172 00:08:56,240 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 1: up the person sitting would recognize. And then when you 173 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: do that, you actually get the residual feeling of that 174 00:09:03,400 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: love that passes through between the sitner and their loved one. 175 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: You know, it comes through you, so you pick up 176 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: part of that love, that love the stream and it's 177 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:17,439 Speaker 1: just it's so so just unbelievable. It just feels really 178 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:22,559 Speaker 1: warm and loving and puts life in perspective. And that's 179 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: when I was like, Wow, this stuff is like really, 180 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: it's it's just it's who I am. And at that point, 181 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:31,079 Speaker 1: I was like, there's no turning back. This is it. 182 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 1: There's what I'm supposed to do. I know that feeling 183 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: a note turning back, Joe, this is the last thing 184 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: I ever thought I'd be doing in my life because 185 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 1: I didn't even believe in this stuff. So the fact 186 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:44,679 Speaker 1: that I'm this messenger and I and I love it. 187 00:09:44,720 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: I love the difference that this information brings and being 188 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: able to bring good people in their stories to others. Yeah, 189 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: I mean for life and beyond. Well, it's it's a blessing. 190 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: I mean to me, it's it's a blessing in my 191 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,000 Speaker 1: life and other people I've talked to with what we 192 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: think can you do is to bring the healing and 193 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 1: peace to people, you know, I mean, I'm I think 194 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: I'm blessed to be able to do this type of work. Yeah, 195 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:14,959 Speaker 1: me too. I'm always I'm I'm sorry, I'm always very 196 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:19,960 Speaker 1: I'm inquisitive. So I'm always asking questions and on this 197 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: side and that side. A lot of times I tell 198 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: people I'm sitting with and stuff I said, I'm quiet, 199 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm asking them questions. Sometimes their questions. I just want 200 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 1: to know about life and what's going on. I tell 201 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: you betimes, right, don't. Yeah, I do that. And when 202 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 1: I started doing the books, a lot of the channeling, 203 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: I started to work with some groups, some individual groups 204 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: to get that information out, specifically for the veterans. My 205 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: current book is that people who have lost children. So 206 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 1: I'm working with some children on the other side and 207 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 1: um to answer some questions so that people in those 208 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 1: circumstances can get some feedback, you know, especially like the veterans. 209 00:10:57,040 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: You know, why we go to war and stuff like that. 210 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: So I'm like the interview or the other side something 211 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: like that. Well, I'd love to hear more about that, 212 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: because obviously there's a big theme going through your books 213 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: and it is signs. And I know for myself as 214 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 1: having some loved ones who are in the spirit world. 215 00:11:16,840 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 1: And what other people say is, how do I know 216 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: When did you first get the instinct that you had 217 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: to write a book on signs. The first time I 218 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: got it was when after my aunt had passed, I 219 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: was very close to her and I asked for a sign. 220 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 1: I was just thinking about it, probably a week after 221 00:11:32,440 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: the funeral, and stopped and asked her a sign if 222 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: she was around. And about three minutes later, five minutes later, 223 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,199 Speaker 1: I went through a drive through for some iced tea 224 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: and I looked down and there was all this fresh 225 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,839 Speaker 1: stirret the landscape is that just put down? There was 226 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: one green little thing. I'm like, where is that? Oh 227 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 1: my god, it's a shamerack. So I stopped in the 228 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 1: middle of the drive through open the cord boor. The 229 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: guy behind me thinks I'm crazy. I'm like, I don't care, 230 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: I'm grabbing this thing. So I and I plucked it 231 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 1: and it was It was a faw leash floba. Now, 232 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: my aunt was very very Irish, besides of her family 233 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: came from. When she passed, we had Irish bagpipe as 234 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 1: I had a big shamrock that was put next to 235 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 1: the casket, and she had green incarnations of the casket, 236 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:21,680 Speaker 1: so it was a perfect connection between her and I. Joe, 237 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: I just witnessed something today. We have our free Sunday 238 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:30,760 Speaker 1: gathering online and one of the medium's brought through a 239 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: mother and one of the things that he said was, 240 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: she's showing me all these daffodils, like she's pushing them 241 00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:41,679 Speaker 1: in my face. She really wants to show me daffodils. 242 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 1: And the woman said, that was my sign with my 243 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 1: mom if she were to go first, she was to 244 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: prove it by saying daffodils through the medium. Joe, we 245 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 1: have to take a quick break. We'll be back in 246 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: just a minute. You're listening to Shades of the Afterlife 247 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: on the I Heart Radio and Coast to Coast a 248 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: M Paranormal podcast network. 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Now let's get back to Shades 279 00:14:54,720 --> 00:15:14,640 Speaker 1: of the Afterlife with Sanda Champagne. Welcome back to Shades 280 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: of the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain and we're with Joe Higgins, 281 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: author and expert on signs from the afterlife. Joe, can 282 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 1: you tell us some more stories that let up to 283 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 1: you writing the books and let's get into hearing some 284 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: of these signs. Lyddy I was seeing at that time. 285 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:36,840 Speaker 1: She was a widow and when her husband passed, she 286 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: started getting signs from here. But then she thought she 287 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: was going crazy. And I think that chapter two in 288 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 1: my book is no, You're not going crazy. It was 289 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 1: named after her because she was getting sciences from her 290 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: husband Jay, and she didn't realize that. She started talking 291 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: to other widows and they had gotten science from their husband. 292 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 1: She has gotten science from right to see husband. Some 293 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: of her friends have I said this that I'm going 294 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: to write it down and I think it will help 295 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,280 Speaker 1: a lot of people. Make it an easy read so 296 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: people can understand, you know, how they get them when 297 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: they get them, if they get them, why they get them. 298 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 1: That's when I really started focusing the research on that 299 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: particular phenomena. And then, as you know, in the last 300 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: few years, I've brought in, like I said, the groups 301 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: of the veterans or children and stuff, which I get 302 00:16:24,920 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: insight from them from the other side. But also I 303 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 1: put some sign stories in there who have lost veterans 304 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: or who have lost children to show that connection is 305 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: still there. You know, we're always we're always connected. The 306 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 1: science is just it's really in your face evidential means 307 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 1: of verifying that life does the want because it gets 308 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: to a certain point where it's not coincidence anymore. Statistically, 309 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: it's a lot of these science are astronomical. Can you 310 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: get some expression you can example, Yeah, can you give 311 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,440 Speaker 1: some examples. Thanks for that, by the way, but use 312 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 1: different thoughts going through my mind because you first you 313 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,199 Speaker 1: said you have to believe, because it's so easy for 314 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:07,679 Speaker 1: I think our mind to go, oh, that was just 315 00:17:07,760 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 1: a coincidence. But you have enough of them, they can't 316 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: be coincidences anymore, exactly. I mean, you get to the 317 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 1: point where it's like, Okay, I got it, And that's 318 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,120 Speaker 1: actually why you know the other book's name. I got 319 00:17:20,119 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 1: your messages like I got it. I got it because 320 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: at some point you just as I say, you know, 321 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 1: if it walks like a dog, backs like a dock, 322 00:17:27,280 --> 00:17:30,640 Speaker 1: it looks like a duck, an elephant, it just might 323 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:35,479 Speaker 1: be a duck. So what are the different kinds of signs. Well, 324 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 1: the most common signs are um. The connections that people 325 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: come through is through our dreams. It's just because it's 326 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:45,479 Speaker 1: it's a lot easier for them to communicate with us 327 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: that way. But a lot of the science will have 328 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 1: to do with things that are going to grab your attention. 329 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:53,679 Speaker 1: So you're looking at the very good with a sense 330 00:17:53,760 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 1: and smells, sounds, music, certain songs, animals. Coins sequential number 331 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: is that is they can ad minipulate electricity. So what 332 00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: they do is after someone passes, they do an evaluation 333 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:11,720 Speaker 1: to see if a sign is gonna be given at all, 334 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 1: because sometimes they're not going to send a sign because 335 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: if they feel like that sign is going to cause 336 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 1: the person more stress and anxiety or confusion, they won't 337 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: send it. They might they might send it through a 338 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 1: relative or a friend. That happens a lot of times 339 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: because the person is just not up for it UM, 340 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: and other times they don't necessarily send a sign because 341 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: sometimes it's against people's cultural or religious beliefs. I've had 342 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:39,120 Speaker 1: a lady said to me, you know, I really want 343 00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 1: to believe, but I can't my religions that it so. 344 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: But like when my dad first tarted coming through, I 345 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:48,679 Speaker 1: could smell the gospel. So when he was around and 346 00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:52,080 Speaker 1: there's no smoking house and the windows are closed, and 347 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 1: when I was writing one of the books, I remember 348 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 1: he came around and they got to the point where 349 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: I was like, Dad, you gotta back up because you 350 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: choken me like I can't function on my doing my work. 351 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 1: I said, it's like I'm getting really smoked out. So 352 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:08,440 Speaker 1: he told back along with my mom Um, there's a 353 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: lot of electricity things going on and off. So it 354 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: was nice because a couple of people had witnessed that. 355 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: That's another thing that I talked about one of the 356 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 1: books is UM group messages, group signs, and that's that 357 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:25,640 Speaker 1: reinforce it through multiple people and stuff, which is really 358 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 1: really cool how they do that. But I think that 359 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: this whole thing worked out. So, I mean, it's someone 360 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 1: passes over, they go through their memories and if they 361 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,400 Speaker 1: decide that sign is going to be given they don't 362 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 1: want to know, decide them where and at one time, 363 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 1: and they'll actually go through the shared memories of one 364 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 1: that's going to get the sign and the person that 365 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:48,240 Speaker 1: crossed over. It's like a supermarket analogy I like to use. 366 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: It's like they're walking down the aisle of the supermarket 367 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: instead of reaching up and see it. Fawn flakes and 368 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 1: tomato sauce is saying, first communion, trip to Hawaii, my 369 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 1: first car, a locket I gave my daughter, And they're 370 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 1: going to pick out certain things that are going to 371 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 1: remind the one that's here about their connection. So and 372 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 1: then they will use But I said, songs are great. 373 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: Someone has a favorite song, you're thinking about someone you're 374 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 1: driving down the road from the radio. Bang of songs 375 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: right there. Yes, very common, So they try to make 376 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:27,440 Speaker 1: it as very simple as possible. Coins have been used 377 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,840 Speaker 1: for a long time because they can be repetitive. Saw 378 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: someone trying to penny or something like that, and it 379 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 1: surround the time that they can of their loved one. 380 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: Then the love will continue to use that sign for 381 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 1: further contact. So there's you know, there's just so many 382 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:45,040 Speaker 1: different things they use sense of very popular, especially with 383 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 1: like Grandma is a woman and stuff you can smell 384 00:20:47,480 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: that per a few My dad was like discos and 385 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: sometimes it's people's cigarettes, so that's very popular. There's really 386 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:57,679 Speaker 1: like dozens and dozens of different signs depending on the 387 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 1: individual the way they want to connect with them. Believe 388 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:07,719 Speaker 1: that when we transition to the afterlife, we have to 389 00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: learn how to do these signs. The reason I'm asking 390 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: that is I had a friend, the guy that I met, 391 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: who he's never gotten a sign from his dad is 392 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: what he says, and he just doesn't know why that is. 393 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 1: And in part of me thinks, I don't think when 394 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 1: we cross over we're given all the information and knowledge 395 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,720 Speaker 1: in the universe. I think we're still people and there's 396 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 1: more learning to be done. Do you think there's some 397 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:37,359 Speaker 1: kind of education and also like they have to test 398 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,239 Speaker 1: it out, you know, and keep getting stronger at it 399 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: and keep trying. From their point of view, yes, still 400 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 1: have guides and stuff that will help them evaluation and 401 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 1: send it, but sometimes it is sometimes they have to 402 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: learn it. And sometimes people as I like, you know, 403 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: the expression, they go off the reservation and sometimes they 404 00:21:56,280 --> 00:22:00,399 Speaker 1: can overwhelm someone in coming to close or too fast, 405 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 1: and you can cause destructions to be scared or something 406 00:22:04,880 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: like that. That's because they're too anxious. They just wanted 407 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 1: to come through it so so quickly and so you 408 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: know so strongly that they didn't follow the quote protocol 409 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 1: un quote that the guys trying to teach them. So 410 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,160 Speaker 1: it does take time for some people to be able 411 00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:22,439 Speaker 1: to send that sign. But a lot of times what 412 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 1: I found is people will say I'm open to it, 413 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:30,080 Speaker 1: but subconsciously they'll say not really, I'm still scared a 414 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 1: little bit of the doata. You know a lot of 415 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:36,440 Speaker 1: times that that's what kind of builds up a blockage 416 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,000 Speaker 1: where people won't get the sign. Doubt was a very 417 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 1: very way of destroying it or blocking it. If they're 418 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:48,640 Speaker 1: an emotional events, it would be difficult to get through. 419 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,439 Speaker 1: If they're not ready, maybe they're not ready for a 420 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 1: particular science. For some they won't send one, you know, 421 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 1: but if someone is very anxious about it, when I 422 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 1: say you want to ask for sign, that invites them 423 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: in to give a sign because you have to, you 424 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 1: really want to invite them in and then let it go. 425 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 1: Don't put any conditions on it. I think people ask 426 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,160 Speaker 1: the signs and they said, i want to sign mode, 427 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 1: but not next because I'm going on vacation and we 428 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 1: can't soccer practice with the kids and stuff. I'm listening 429 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 1: to them, really, I'm like, I'm sure your mom is 430 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: gonna pull out a calendar and say, Okay, yeah, we're 431 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: gonna wait. We're gonna wait on that sign missing. So 432 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: ask for the sign, let it go, and then just 433 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 1: be open to its possibilities and eventually, eventually something will 434 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 1: come through. Well, it's interesting that you've talked like this 435 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 1: because our minds, I find, well I'll talk about myself, 436 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 1: are normally so busy that I'm not paying attention. There 437 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,680 Speaker 1: could be a dozen signs that happen. But if I'm 438 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:54,880 Speaker 1: living so much in my head, thinking about tomorrow, thinking 439 00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 1: about yesterday, you're not really paying attention to what's in 440 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 1: front of me. I might miss it. So do you 441 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 1: recommend that people be a little bit more in the 442 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 1: present moment and be open for signs? Oh? Yeah, I 443 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 1: think doing a meditation or active meditation, anything that wiots 444 00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 1: them down opens up the opportunity. Because you're right, it's like, 445 00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 1: if they want to send a sign and you know, 446 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,600 Speaker 1: you're on your cell phone, you've got this going on, 447 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 1: you got you know, you get the responsibilities of life, 448 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,000 Speaker 1: you're worried about this and all this other stuff. It's 449 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:28,920 Speaker 1: it's tough to get that sign through. But if let's say, 450 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: you know, you're at the beach for a couple of 451 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 1: days or something, and you're relaxed and you're not really 452 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 1: thinking about things in your mind, wand is, that's a 453 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: great time for it to come through. If you can 454 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: get into that state like where you're daydreaming, or maybe 455 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: if you're someone likes to paint or listen to music, 456 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,399 Speaker 1: something that's relaxed and goddening, anything that's repetitive, and you 457 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,959 Speaker 1: just kind of like, you know, your blood pressure goes down, 458 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 1: you're not as stressed, you relaxed, And that's the time 459 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 1: that they can get through much much more easily. Big 460 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 1: it difficult for him paying attention to just relax and 461 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,560 Speaker 1: clear in my mind. If there's nothing here, I could 462 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:11,080 Speaker 1: probably pay attention. If a cent comes in, you know 463 00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 1: something else right, or they might put an idea in 464 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: your might A lot of times, like with the music 465 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,440 Speaker 1: and stuff, they can actually if they know a particular 466 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,359 Speaker 1: song is going to come out of something like that. 467 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 1: They'll actually put the idea in your mind, moms here, 468 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:28,159 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden you'll be thinking of 469 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 1: your mom or your partner or whatever, and then the 470 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 1: song will come on. It will be their favorite song, 471 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: you know. And then other times they'll just do outright 472 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:41,720 Speaker 1: electronic manipulation. Have an old radio that's never worked, and 473 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you're cleaning out the garage, and 474 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,159 Speaker 1: if you turn it on and it works and a 475 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 1: particular song comes out of it, that was your father's 476 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,959 Speaker 1: favorite song, and then the radio doesn't work ever again. 477 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 1: That really happened, and happened to a DJ. I think 478 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,600 Speaker 1: it was down South and I was doing a radio 479 00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:01,159 Speaker 1: interview and he told me that star and it was 480 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,560 Speaker 1: like Hank William's song or something like that, and it 481 00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: was as his favorite song and it was a radioly 482 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 1: found out. He turned it on and the thing worked. 483 00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: They had never worked before, but it played. One song 484 00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,359 Speaker 1: was a Hank Williams song, and the the thing that I 485 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: didn't play anything of ever again. And he was a 486 00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: big doubt. Ort like that. That's so interesting. I had 487 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,880 Speaker 1: something that happened. Um. I had been fairly sad. Even 488 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,199 Speaker 1: though I believe in the afterlife, I do miss my 489 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: dad and you know, there's a song that come on 490 00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 1: or something I see on TV and it'll remind me 491 00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 1: of him. And I remember going to bed and just saying, Dad, 492 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 1: give me a sign, you know, give me a sign 493 00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: You're with me and Joe. It was the coolest thing 494 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 1: because in my mind's eye, it's like I got a 495 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:52,239 Speaker 1: slide show of images of things he and I had 496 00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 1: done together. If I was creating the slide show, I 497 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: wouldn't have used because I didn't even remember them, some 498 00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 1: of the things from childhood. That was one of the 499 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 1: most comforting things. We have to take a break. When 500 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 1: we come back, we'll be with Joe Higgins and talk 501 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:12,639 Speaker 1: more about signs. 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All the 524 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,360 Speaker 1: infos waiting for you now at Coast to Coast AM 525 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: dot com. That's Coast to Coast a M dot com 526 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 1: the best afterlife information you can get. Well, You're on 527 00:28:49,200 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: Shades of the Afterlife with Sander Champlain. Welcome back, to 528 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 1: Shades of the Afterlife. I'm Sander Champlain and we're with 529 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:14,240 Speaker 1: Joe Higgins talking about signs. Joe, just before the break, 530 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: I was sharing about asking my dad for a sign, 531 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: and just before I went to bed, it was like 532 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,479 Speaker 1: a slide show of shared memories that we had together. 533 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 1: That's a great example, because that actually is like when 534 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 1: they're showing shared memories like the supermarket analogy I said, 535 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 1: and you get to see it in like a you know, 536 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 1: a slide show, and that's great. What I've been told 537 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 1: to is a lot of times they will visit us, 538 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,520 Speaker 1: and consciously we won't realize that. Some people say, oh, 539 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,640 Speaker 1: my loved word has never visited me, and they actually have. 540 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 1: They've done it at night when you were sleeping and 541 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 1: you just don't realize it. But they have made that contact. 542 00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: And other times, people in their dreams will have a 543 00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: vivid dream um and they contact with their love It happens, 544 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: but kind of pretty often after right after the death. 545 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,520 Speaker 1: A lot of times the loved one will come to him, 546 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 1: sometimes just before they die, but sometimes within a few 547 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 1: days or a week after they died, right so they 548 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: picked their time. I would think they'd be very comforting 549 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 1: to have one of those dreams, just to know, well, 550 00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 1: here's a great, great one that came in a dream. 551 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,680 Speaker 1: Do you know the song by Paul McCartney, Let it Be, 552 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 1: Mother Mary comes to me speaking words of wisdom, Let 553 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:34,280 Speaker 1: it be, Let it be. I wish thought it was 554 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,120 Speaker 1: mother Mary was you know, priss mother. It's not. It 555 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: was his mother who had died when he was young, 556 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,640 Speaker 1: and he was worried about relationships because all the other 557 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: guys band members and girlfriends, and he didn't at that 558 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 1: point and look up in the middle of the night. 559 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 1: It was an apparition of his mother, his mother Mary, 560 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:56,479 Speaker 1: the foot of his bed. Let be Let it be. Yeah, Yeah. 561 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 1: And then when he get up in the morning, he 562 00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: goes the lyrics to the song, wonderful song Let Day. 563 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 1: It was about his mother. So next time and all 564 00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 1: of your listeners listen to that Beatles song. It's a 565 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:12,840 Speaker 1: wonderful connection between Paul and his mother. And then he 566 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: really listened to the words. You know, it happens. It's 567 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 1: been studies that between twenty million and eighty million Americans 568 00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: have had some type of after death communications. And that's conservative, 569 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 1: and that's just in America. So it's not uncommon. So 570 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm looking at an old birthday balloon that I have 571 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 1: in my bedroom right now, and it's still got air 572 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 1: in it, but it's reminding me. There was a woman 573 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: that I had spoken to and her husband had died, 574 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 1: and she was out for a run on the beach 575 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 1: and it was her birthday and a deflated balloon washed 576 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 1: up right in front of her on the beach and 577 00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 1: it said happy birthday. Perfect. That was her sign she 578 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,680 Speaker 1: was saying gave about her husband. I mean, that's pretty obvious. 579 00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 1: So there's really been some beautiful signs that I have 580 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,200 Speaker 1: heard of. I really like that you say believe and 581 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: ask and then just let it go. Don't be demanding, 582 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: because I think belief, being in the present moment, these 583 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: are all things. Because I want to get more signs. 584 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 1: Who doesn't? But am I asking? Am I really believing? 585 00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: And am I really being open and paying attention? I 586 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 1: have to say no, And by letting go it's important 587 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 1: because you might get You know, some people like, oh, 588 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 1: that's a sign. That's a sign. That's a sign, that's 589 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 1: a sign, and then they're overwhelmed thinking everything they see 590 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 1: at a sign. I sometimes a bird is a bird 591 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 1: is a bird that's right, you know, But other times 592 00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,560 Speaker 1: it's not because you know, you don't want to force it. 593 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: And when you get a sign, you can tell because 594 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 1: you get that chilled down your back or you get 595 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:54,080 Speaker 1: a wild sensation about it and a really good, warm feeling, 596 00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:57,400 Speaker 1: and then you've made that connection. And then once you have, 597 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 1: it's easier for them to make the connect and again, 598 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 1: and a lot of times they'll try to connect with 599 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 1: us when especially around stressful times. They're always around us, 600 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 1: but they get a little bit closer around stressful times 601 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 1: because they know when we're stressing out. They can hear 602 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:17,040 Speaker 1: our prayers, they can hear our conversations. So it's important 603 00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 1: to keep that dialogue going because they had to guide us. 604 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,560 Speaker 1: They want to see us be happy. They don't want 605 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 1: us to be stressed. They want us to enjoy life. 606 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:30,280 Speaker 1: They want us to laugh. I think laughter is one 607 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 1: of the biggest tools that we come to when we're born. 608 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 1: We come to the earth with laughed and I think 609 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 1: it just balances out all our mechanisms throughout our body. 610 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 1: And it's important that we use laughter. And you know, 611 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:49,520 Speaker 1: they like practical jokes and oh god, yeah, they'll send 612 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: a food signs, so they'll send all sorts of practical stuff. 613 00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 1: They love it, they really do love it. They love 614 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 1: the higher energy. So, you know, like the holidays, we 615 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,760 Speaker 1: talked about that, I'm around the holidays. It's difficult for 616 00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 1: a lot of people. But they're there for the family gatherings. 617 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: They're there for the foster life parties, the Christmas parties, 618 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 1: the graduation parties, the weddings. They never missed a wedding, 619 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 1: therefore all those things. And they will make themselves known 620 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:21,600 Speaker 1: through signs at these events, if not for a particular person, 621 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 1: someone else, or perhaps the whole group. And people share 622 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: stories and and and that's how that's what's important to 623 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 1: about when I put these signed stories in the book, 624 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: because it's really important to other people read about people's 625 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 1: stories because then they feel like, oh wow, what's happening 626 00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: to other people. And then even though a person might 627 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 1: not get a sign, if they know there's other people 628 00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 1: are getting signs, then they can start to realize, wait 629 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 1: a minute, there is an afterlife. The stuff is really happening, 630 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:53,360 Speaker 1: there's more to life, and maybe I should start to 631 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: live my life that way, knowing that there's a bigger picture. 632 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: I might not know it now, and I might all 633 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,799 Speaker 1: the whole picture when we passed, like you said, but 634 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 1: there is a bigger picture, and life does go on 635 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,319 Speaker 1: and we will see a love once again, even though 636 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,399 Speaker 1: maybe I haven't gotten to sign yet. But all these 637 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: other people are getting these great signs. I can look 638 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 1: at it with an analytical brain sit way, and it's 639 00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: something's told, So it's good to share. That's why it's 640 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: important to share these science stories we always hear as 641 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 1: a kid. You know, if you put a smile on 642 00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:25,359 Speaker 1: your face, you'll feel better, and it's like act as if. 643 00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,880 Speaker 1: So sometimes people say, well, I need to be proven 644 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 1: something before I can believe, and it's like you don't. 645 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 1: You can actually do it the other way around, you 646 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,200 Speaker 1: believe and you My dad would always say, whether you 647 00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: think you can or you think you can't, you're right. 648 00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 1: I think that's Henry Ford. But the same thing holds 649 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:46,000 Speaker 1: true with signs and how to live life. You know, 650 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: I always say about science is science always comes in 651 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,239 Speaker 1: second place because people say, oh, you're you have to 652 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 1: prove it first. As I said, that's not true. I 653 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,920 Speaker 1: mean the X rays and soul raise and stuff before 654 00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:03,120 Speaker 1: the microwaves, before they discovered up there's zillion zillion things 655 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,960 Speaker 1: out there that science hasn't discovered yet. It doesn't mean 656 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 1: that they don't exist, it's just that we don't have 657 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:10,640 Speaker 1: the tools to discover them yet. It's the same thing 658 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 1: with the afterlife belief or proof. There's a lot of 659 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: things that have come out with us three or forty 660 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:19,600 Speaker 1: years um, with different scientists working on different types of 661 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:23,360 Speaker 1: experiments and stuff like that, that are really starting to 662 00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:26,960 Speaker 1: open up the the ability to you know, possible multiple 663 00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 1: dimensions and things like that. But with the science, that's 664 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:31,919 Speaker 1: just like you know, you, me and the average person 665 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 1: walking down the street. We can make that connection and 666 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 1: say that was interesting. Then it happens again, and then 667 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,560 Speaker 1: we read about someone else and we can say, wow, 668 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 1: there's something going on here. And you let the scientists 669 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 1: do their crazy stuff and come up with what they 670 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 1: want to. But I think for the average person, they've 671 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:50,719 Speaker 1: known for you know, for thousands of years, people have 672 00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:54,200 Speaker 1: been getting signs and um known about the afterlife and 673 00:36:54,760 --> 00:36:59,319 Speaker 1: had mediumship and some type of communication through dreams. It's 674 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,279 Speaker 1: been you know, it's been documented for thousands of years. 675 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,640 Speaker 1: So I think that the proof it's really overwhelming. I 676 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,280 Speaker 1: think a lot of people that doubt it at some point, 677 00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 1: at some level they were afraid, which is normal, you know, 678 00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:16,799 Speaker 1: because everyone's at different levels of awakening or acceptance. You know, 679 00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: some people are afraid of it because it might it 680 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,280 Speaker 1: might rock their world with their religion or their upbringing, 681 00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:27,319 Speaker 1: or it might bring up more questions than they there 682 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 1: to ask for a lot of us at the expection 683 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 1: of the cats out of the bag. I'm seven years 684 00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: old and stuff going on in my room and know 685 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 1: my whole life, or like you, all of a sudden 686 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: you pick it up later on life. But you know, 687 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 1: I mean, we're human. We still have doubts about certain things, 688 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 1: but they kind of go by the wage side. The 689 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,279 Speaker 1: more we look into things and have more experiences and 690 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,800 Speaker 1: talk to more people or listen to more great radio 691 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:55,360 Speaker 1: shows that people like you produce, so that you know, 692 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 1: we know that there's a lot of other things going 693 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,919 Speaker 1: on out there, and the people are having these wonder 694 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,719 Speaker 1: experiences and guess what, I can have them too, or 695 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: at least I can listen and learn from them. Yeah, um, 696 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,799 Speaker 1: I had a question I wrote down we you said 697 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:14,560 Speaker 1: something about laughter, and I personally believe laughter feels great 698 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: and raises our vibration. Do you think that how we're 699 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:25,279 Speaker 1: feeling can impact the signs we get? Meaning if we're 700 00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:29,280 Speaker 1: heavy and grief or depressed, And then the flip side 701 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: is can we do things to raise our vibration kind 702 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 1: of a thing? Can you speak a little bit about that? Sure, 703 00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 1: emotional disruption or mental fatigue or something stressed can definitely 704 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:44,000 Speaker 1: block it. And so I mean that's like a lot 705 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,799 Speaker 1: of times so right after its own pass, you know, 706 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,799 Speaker 1: really heavy in the grief, and they'll come through a 707 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: friend or a relative to send a sign because the 708 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:56,000 Speaker 1: particular person might not be able to accept it because 709 00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 1: their energy and their body is just kind of like unbalanced, 710 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 1: out of whack because of the grief that they're going through. 711 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:05,640 Speaker 1: So that has a tendency to block things a lot. 712 00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 1: If people are very manic and they're all over the 713 00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 1: place doing ten things that want it's tough to get 714 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 1: your attention because that particular state. So you can raise 715 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:21,360 Speaker 1: your vibration by either meditation will calm you down and 716 00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:26,759 Speaker 1: put you in a more relaxed state, lafta, being around friends, dancing, 717 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 1: anything that brings joy to you and kinda puts you 718 00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,880 Speaker 1: in that a nice warm and fuzzy feeling state That 719 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,799 Speaker 1: works great a lot of times people you know, just daydreaming. 720 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 1: There's a great way to to set your body into 721 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 1: a state of awareness without having to you know, figure 722 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,719 Speaker 1: out the equation for the Rubric's cube or something, you know. 723 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,799 Speaker 1: I think in modern times it's gotten much much more 724 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:58,239 Speaker 1: difficult than it was under two years ago because it's 725 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,240 Speaker 1: probably doing manual labor or something that, or the bomb 726 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,439 Speaker 1: something and have a lot of downtime where you would 727 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 1: be able too much easier to connect with spirit than 728 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 1: these days. So we have to be a little bit 729 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:13,200 Speaker 1: more active in keeping our bodies, you know, in a 730 00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,719 Speaker 1: bit of balance in order to receive a sign. I mean, 731 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,400 Speaker 1: you can still get a sign, you know, being in 732 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 1: all those states. It's a lot easier if you're more 733 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 1: kicked back and you know, enjoying your life and things 734 00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:30,600 Speaker 1: are stressful. Joe, should we keep a notebook of signs 735 00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 1: or keep some kind of a log of what we're 736 00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:37,400 Speaker 1: getting or do you think that would be helpful? Absolutely, 737 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,200 Speaker 1: because what happens is you'll start to see a patent 738 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 1: and they will follow that. 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Just head on over to 786 00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,400 Speaker 1: Coast to Coast a M dot com the website and 787 00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,239 Speaker 1: you'll find all the info right there. That's Coast to 788 00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,320 Speaker 1: Coast a M dot com. Coast to Coast a M 789 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 1: dot com. You're listening to the I Heart Radio and 790 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:45,320 Speaker 1: Coast to Coast a M para normal podcast network heard 791 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:49,520 Speaker 1: on the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever 792 00:43:49,640 --> 00:44:07,800 Speaker 1: you find your favorite shows. Welcome back to Shades of 793 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 1: the Afterlife. I'm Sanders Champlain and we're with longtime medium 794 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 1: and author of several books about signs, Joe Higgins. Joe, 795 00:44:16,160 --> 00:44:20,439 Speaker 1: before the break, you were talking about people getting repetitive things. 796 00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,600 Speaker 1: Could you talk a little bit more about that and 797 00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,400 Speaker 1: why some things are so similar? Gave me the connection 798 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,920 Speaker 1: On the other side, they know that we accepted it 799 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:32,960 Speaker 1: and say thank you, always thank them, uh receiving a sign, 800 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,960 Speaker 1: and then that just opens up the you know, it's 801 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,399 Speaker 1: like a fire hose. The information just can come back 802 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:42,319 Speaker 1: for a lot better because it's been given, it's been accepted, 803 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,840 Speaker 1: and they accepted the manner in which it was given. 804 00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:48,440 Speaker 1: I like that thank you. I think it's important. Somebody 805 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:51,680 Speaker 1: had said something like, if your grandmother has given you 806 00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 1: great gifts, you know, and you love them every year, 807 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,040 Speaker 1: if you don't say thank you, she might stop giving them. 808 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:02,359 Speaker 1: So that the good. That's a good example. Yeah, if 809 00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:04,440 Speaker 1: someone sends you a pod I get well caught or 810 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: a happy Birthday cod, it's just top the same, thank 811 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 1: you for thinking of me. They love it because they 812 00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: know not only has it radiated to your heart that 813 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,680 Speaker 1: you accepted, but by verbalizing it raise your vibration. It 814 00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:20,200 Speaker 1: stlfriend husband Jay when he came through, he's just saying 815 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:25,279 Speaker 1: quarters and we used to find him everywhere quarter and yeah, 816 00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 1: I used to say, I say, that's one thing about 817 00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:32,480 Speaker 1: Jay's not cheaplause and uh really would be cleaning the house, 818 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,360 Speaker 1: you know, it's just clean. I remember one time I 819 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,840 Speaker 1: clean the dining room and put down a new table 820 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 1: plot the whole nine. God, there's a perfect turned around 821 00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:42,879 Speaker 1: and I'm like, there's a quarter sitting right there, there's 822 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:44,640 Speaker 1: a there's a quarter for you. I mean, they would 823 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:47,040 Speaker 1: just pop up all over the place and other people 824 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,399 Speaker 1: get you know, they get the coins or whatever, other 825 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:53,200 Speaker 1: songs and uh and and it's great because they know 826 00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,600 Speaker 1: that connection is there. Every once in a while I 827 00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:58,480 Speaker 1: think about it, I just sit here and I smile. Wow, 828 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:02,160 Speaker 1: that's like so cool, like it's brand new all over again. 829 00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,640 Speaker 1: And then I get back to my regular faults. Yeah, 830 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 1: that's what we do. I get the number thirty three 831 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:10,520 Speaker 1: as a sign, and I don't know exactly who it's from, 832 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:12,960 Speaker 1: and it doesn't really matter, but for me, it's a 833 00:46:13,000 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 1: little reminder. And sometimes it's on a billboard or sometimes 834 00:46:17,080 --> 00:46:19,719 Speaker 1: it's all threes, and even my mom now is like 835 00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:22,239 Speaker 1: pointing them out to me because they're funny. I mean 836 00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,480 Speaker 1: I can only laugh because I do try to pay attention. 837 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 1: But that number is as bold as can be in 838 00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 1: so many places, and it's like, Okay, I remember there's 839 00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:35,680 Speaker 1: a bigger picture. And normally it comes when I'm frustrated 840 00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,920 Speaker 1: or I get trapped into thinking that, you know, I'm 841 00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:43,800 Speaker 1: just a little old human and feeling sorry for myself. Exactly. 842 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 1: Funny how it happens so somebody's got a good sense 843 00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,520 Speaker 1: of oh they do, they do, and they can be 844 00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,640 Speaker 1: very ironic. I always get sequential numbers. I actually did 845 00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:55,760 Speaker 1: a for a year. I kept notes on sequential numbers 846 00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,879 Speaker 1: I was getting every day for every couple of days, 847 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 1: and I noticed around RESTful times or times of change 848 00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 1: that I would get more of the sequential numbers, like one, one, one, two, two, two, 849 00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,640 Speaker 1: up to like seventy nine times in a day. Wake 850 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 1: up in the middle of the night and it's three 851 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 1: thirty three, things like that. So I just say thank you, 852 00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:17,600 Speaker 1: either from a loved one or a guide that is 853 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:21,120 Speaker 1: still around and supporting me. It's just learning the new 854 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:25,759 Speaker 1: language or learning the language between the two dimensions of 855 00:47:26,080 --> 00:47:30,120 Speaker 1: life and afterlife continued life. And that's just one aspect. 856 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,319 Speaker 1: You know science, and you know from all the people 857 00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 1: you've interviewed on your show that there are a lot 858 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:40,440 Speaker 1: of different modalities people use and connections with the other side. 859 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:43,960 Speaker 1: It's just really fascinating. Yeah, that's just one piece of 860 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,319 Speaker 1: the puzzle. It's exciting, it really is. I had this 861 00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,160 Speaker 1: image in my mind of the movie Close Encounters and 862 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 1: when the spaceship first lands and they're playing that song 863 00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 1: no Nonna, no, no, I'm not even close to that. 864 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,600 Speaker 1: But anyways, how the the scientists, how they would play it, 865 00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:01,680 Speaker 1: and then the UFO would play it. And it's like, 866 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:04,640 Speaker 1: so it's finding a common language. And I think when 867 00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:08,680 Speaker 1: we are open and we're believing, and we're paying attention 868 00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:14,200 Speaker 1: and let our loved one play around and try and 869 00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:17,839 Speaker 1: learn to figure out the signs on their point of view. 870 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:21,960 Speaker 1: And then I really liked your coaching, so to speak, believe, ask, 871 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:26,000 Speaker 1: let it go, thank them right, but pay attention and 872 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 1: pay attention and try to be in a good mental 873 00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:30,880 Speaker 1: state to be able to accept them. Like trying to 874 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 1: play baseball. If you're trying to play catch with someone 875 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:37,600 Speaker 1: it's a beautiful day, it's a lot easier than yeah, 876 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 1: or hurricane. It's like they can they'll throw you the ball, 877 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,200 Speaker 1: but you're not gonna know where it is because you're 878 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,160 Speaker 1: in the role of a hurricane. And sometimes we have 879 00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:48,760 Speaker 1: a little hurricanes in our lives because of everything, everything 880 00:48:48,760 --> 00:48:51,080 Speaker 1: that's going on. And what did you say your latest 881 00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 1: book is that you're writing The latest book is also 882 00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:56,799 Speaker 1: part of the Always Connected series and it's for those 883 00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:00,239 Speaker 1: who have lost children. Children Gift Signs and the es 884 00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,359 Speaker 1: from heaven. And what that's gonna do is it's going 885 00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:04,839 Speaker 1: to answer some of the questions that we all ask, 886 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,319 Speaker 1: you know, why is the child have to die? Their 887 00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:11,520 Speaker 1: reason not their exit plans, different times of people's lives 888 00:49:11,560 --> 00:49:14,759 Speaker 1: with people to leave. There'll be a chapter on suicide 889 00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:19,360 Speaker 1: looking in the veterans, because that's always very uh important. 890 00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,920 Speaker 1: People want to know answers about that, so they give 891 00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 1: me insights from the other side, you know, I share 892 00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:28,920 Speaker 1: those answers, those insights people that are concerned about that 893 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:33,000 Speaker 1: particular subject. And then I have science that the children 894 00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:37,160 Speaker 1: have shared with their parents or their relatives or friends, 895 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,640 Speaker 1: and so they will be like thirty or forty signs 896 00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,279 Speaker 1: stories in that book too, so people can see that 897 00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:45,360 Speaker 1: their children are still alive and they're still with them 898 00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 1: throughout their lives. They know what's going on. Do you 899 00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,520 Speaker 1: have any words to comfort someone who has a child 900 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 1: that has transitioned to bring that up? And I know 901 00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,240 Speaker 1: there's many of our listeners that are with a wonderful 902 00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:01,080 Speaker 1: group called Helping Parents Heal and Other Parents obviously, but 903 00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:04,280 Speaker 1: just from what you've learned about children in the afterlife, 904 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:08,879 Speaker 1: it's very interesting. A lot of times children a lot 905 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,960 Speaker 1: of them are much more advanced than people think they are. 906 00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,040 Speaker 1: A lot of them just need to come here to 907 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,399 Speaker 1: to learn a few lessons are for us to learn 908 00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:21,080 Speaker 1: lessons that's very important. Interesting there is there's a bigger 909 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:25,080 Speaker 1: picture on why they are here. There's just so many 910 00:50:25,080 --> 00:50:27,600 Speaker 1: different aspects when it comes to children because it's a 911 00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:31,799 Speaker 1: very sensitive thing. And when a child passes, when you 912 00:50:32,120 --> 00:50:37,320 Speaker 1: pass over, you will have the opportunity to share life 913 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:40,520 Speaker 1: in all the experiences that you thought you had missed. 914 00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,760 Speaker 1: So if your daughter passes when she's nine years old, okay, 915 00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,640 Speaker 1: and you die when you're eighty, you'll have the opportunity 916 00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,240 Speaker 1: when you're on the other side to stop back off. 917 00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,960 Speaker 1: When that girl, that little girl was nine years old 918 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,560 Speaker 1: and you're younger, and you will go through the entire 919 00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:59,400 Speaker 1: life and lived through all the milestones as if she 920 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:05,560 Speaker 1: had never asked, wow, I have never heard that before. Yes, absolutely, 921 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 1: And they also show it to me. You live through 922 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,560 Speaker 1: all the milestone You will live a life of full 923 00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:14,000 Speaker 1: life with that child that you thought you would have 924 00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,319 Speaker 1: missed those milestones. You know what I'm left with personally 925 00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 1: is I think for me, I know I have this show. 926 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,000 Speaker 1: I know I talked to all the guests, but living 927 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,400 Speaker 1: day to day sometimes it's really easy to forget this 928 00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:28,879 Speaker 1: side of me. And I just thought if I had 929 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,839 Speaker 1: a diary and I could actually have a dialogue, would 930 00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:35,759 Speaker 1: say my dad or my grandmother and as if I'm 931 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,040 Speaker 1: writing them a letter, you know, I think that would 932 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:41,040 Speaker 1: make it more real and even talk to them about 933 00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 1: asking for signs and believing and will you do what 934 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:47,759 Speaker 1: you can do from your side and then let it go, 935 00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:50,560 Speaker 1: but then pay attention and keep that dialogue going in 936 00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:53,680 Speaker 1: a notebook or a diary or something like that. I 937 00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:56,239 Speaker 1: think that right, and hopefully, yeah, do it before you 938 00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:59,000 Speaker 1: go to bed, because you might start getting some communication 939 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:04,000 Speaker 1: through dreams or righte diary before going to be at 940 00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:05,799 Speaker 1: the beach or some pace where you're common stuff, and 941 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:10,320 Speaker 1: you might start to get communications from them little bits 942 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:13,279 Speaker 1: and pieces, depending on where you are and you know, 943 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,399 Speaker 1: in your life and how open you are. But that's 944 00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,279 Speaker 1: a great idea. I mean, I sleep with a pad 945 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:20,680 Speaker 1: of paper, I really do, because that's how I get 946 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:25,799 Speaker 1: some information like in the middle is quite right? Yeah, absolutely, 947 00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 1: your minds, you know, and up well, I'm like I 948 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 1: have to write that down, Joe, So thank you, Joe, 949 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,759 Speaker 1: thank you thank you, Thank you. You've left me very inspired. 950 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,680 Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to share before you 951 00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:41,000 Speaker 1: wrap up this episode, or something I should have asked you, 952 00:52:41,120 --> 00:52:44,360 Speaker 1: or just something you're burning to say, or any just 953 00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:48,960 Speaker 1: closing words, closing words? I think people just be open, 954 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:53,480 Speaker 1: don't put any limitations. Love is the strongest thing. It's 955 00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:57,759 Speaker 1: the connection between everything. And give yourself a break. Don't 956 00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:01,160 Speaker 1: be hot on yourself. Your loved ones always around you. 957 00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:04,480 Speaker 1: They're guiding you, and they're just waiting for you to 958 00:53:04,560 --> 00:53:08,560 Speaker 1: ask for help. And did there for support? They are 959 00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:12,520 Speaker 1: most definitely there for support. And we've got some alive 960 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,640 Speaker 1: people here for support to Again, if you're a parent 961 00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,920 Speaker 1: and you have a child in the afterlife, visit Helping 962 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:23,080 Speaker 1: Parents Heal dot org. Now. Also on my site, we 963 00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,920 Speaker 1: Don't Die is the name of my book, also the 964 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,680 Speaker 1: name of my website. So if you go to we 965 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:31,239 Speaker 1: Don't Die dot com, I've got a free audio how 966 00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:36,480 Speaker 1: to survive grief. Also, if you join my Insiders Club, 967 00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,439 Speaker 1: it's just a snazzy way talking about my email list, 968 00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:43,000 Speaker 1: you get a free copy pdf form of my book 969 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:46,320 Speaker 1: We Don't Die as Skeptics Discovery of Life after Death. 970 00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:51,319 Speaker 1: We also offer a free Sunday gathering. Now it's our 971 00:53:51,440 --> 00:53:53,919 Speaker 1: version of a Sunday service, but it's a whole lot 972 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,200 Speaker 1: different than maybe what you're used to. Not only do 973 00:53:57,320 --> 00:54:02,520 Speaker 1: we have music and great philosophy and stories and sharing 974 00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:06,239 Speaker 1: about the afterlife, but we usually have a medium or 975 00:54:06,320 --> 00:54:09,760 Speaker 1: two that demonstrate, so you're actually part of the audience 976 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,799 Speaker 1: and your loved one might come through. It's a very 977 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:16,319 Speaker 1: powerful thing. My first radio show is called We Don't 978 00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,680 Speaker 1: Die Radio. You can also find over three hundred episodes 979 00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 1: of that there. You want to remember to visit Joe 980 00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,720 Speaker 1: Higgins dot com to find out more about our guests 981 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:32,960 Speaker 1: today and believe in signs, ask for signs, then let 982 00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 1: them go. Remember to add laughter to your life. Find 983 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,560 Speaker 1: some time where you can be quiet and peaceful in 984 00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:45,000 Speaker 1: your own mind and just trust. There are all kinds 985 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:50,319 Speaker 1: of different signs, whether it's feathers or dimes, or ask 986 00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:53,360 Speaker 1: for something bigger like quarters, or there could be something 987 00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:56,360 Speaker 1: that you and your loved one shared. My father was 988 00:54:56,400 --> 00:55:00,200 Speaker 1: a pilot, and there are some really interesting thing as 989 00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,120 Speaker 1: I see about planes when I'm looking for a sign, 990 00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,640 Speaker 1: or when we are quiet and we do pay attention, 991 00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:10,560 Speaker 1: we can often see things on actual signs. I pulled 992 00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:13,239 Speaker 1: up to a car right in front of me, and 993 00:55:13,560 --> 00:55:17,160 Speaker 1: the license plate was John D. And my dad's middle 994 00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:19,760 Speaker 1: name was Donald, so I took that as a sign 995 00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:22,440 Speaker 1: that Dad was with me. And you can also try 996 00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:25,840 Speaker 1: what I did and have them use your imagination and 997 00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:30,560 Speaker 1: plant some images or shared memories in your mind. And 998 00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:33,280 Speaker 1: you really have to trust that this is them, because 999 00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:36,480 Speaker 1: they do work through our imagination, but our mind will 1000 00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:41,240 Speaker 1: tell us that it is our imagination. So Joe, once again, 1001 00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:45,799 Speaker 1: thank you for being our guest today, my pleasure, and 1002 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:48,959 Speaker 1: for our listeners, I most importantly want to thank you. 1003 00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:54,200 Speaker 1: I'm Sandra Champlain and a sincere thank you for listening 1004 00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:57,640 Speaker 1: to Shades of the Afterlife on the I Heart Radio 1005 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:01,480 Speaker 1: and Coast to Coast, a m para normal podcast network. 1006 00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:14,000 Speaker 1: And if you like this episode of Shades of the Afterlife, 1007 00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:16,440 Speaker 1: wait until you hear the next one. Thank you for 1008 00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,000 Speaker 1: listening to the Heart Radio and Coast to Coast, a 1009 00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 1: AM paranormal podcast network.