1 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: Miss Spelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: I've been lucky enough so far in my career to 3 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: be surrounded by uber talented people, because then I look 4 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,479 Speaker 2: like I said, my note what I'm doing. But my 5 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: longtime friend James Carpinello, which is a fun callback, I 6 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 2: just did an episode with my real life best friend, 7 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 2: doctor Kevin Sands, and James played a version of Kevin 8 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: in the TV show loosely based on my life that 9 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 2: I co created and produced and start in called So Notorious, 10 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 2: which was on VH one, And that's how James and 11 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 2: I met. But James is like, it's not a trifecta, 12 00:00:56,720 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: like this guy like does everything to start on Broadway 13 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 2: a little known musical called Saturday Night Fever, playing John 14 00:01:05,680 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 2: Travol's's role. He sings, he dances, he's a great actor, 15 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:14,759 Speaker 2: he's great at comedy. He's gorgeous, he has an amazing wife, 16 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 2: two children that are super talented, and just a really 17 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 2: great and funny guy. And he's doing a show right now. 18 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 2: He's doing a little shop of hors in New York. 19 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 2: Go check it out. And he is giving his time 20 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 2: to us today to come on and them share some 21 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 2: funny stories. So let's bring him in right now. James Carponella, 22 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: whoa HIAI Hi, Oh my gosh, I. 23 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 3: Am so old. I need readers to see you guys, 24 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 3: even on a computer screen. 25 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: I have like fifty million pairs. It all comes full 26 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: circle because I just didn't interview. Oh look I have 27 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 2: new I have teeth. 28 00:01:55,560 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: Nice, let me see did you get new to you guys? 29 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 3: New teeth? 30 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 2: So Kevin so I never had veneers and I had 31 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 2: a fear of the dentists for years, and my teeth 32 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 2: I used to have a great smile, and just like 33 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,080 Speaker 2: I didn't take care of it, and just and He's like, 34 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 2: one day we're putting in Veneers. I'm like, well, I 35 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 2: was there through dental school, terrified, never letting you put veneers. 36 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 2: But now world renowned. But I do have a little 37 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: bit of a lisp. I just got them though, I'm 38 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 2: adjusting twenty eight veneers. 39 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 3: Wow, you know what's crazy about that? 40 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: Well, I am not only did I play Kevin, but 41 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: Pete wasn't. 42 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 3: Really I don't know what you remember. I'm playing the 43 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 3: dentist in little Shop before is in New York right now? 44 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 2: He is, and he took time out to come to 45 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 2: our show, so thank you for doing that. Do you 46 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 2: have a show tonight? 47 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 3: I have a show tonight, I do. 48 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 2: I have so many directions I want to go here 49 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: with you. Okay, they're all perfectly innocent. So we met 50 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 2: doing So Notorious, which was loosely based on my life. 51 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 2: I had to say that, right, yeah, no liability from anybody. 52 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 2: It was. We enhanced it, but it was almost done 53 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: on my life anyway. James Gott cast and played Pete, 54 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 2: who was based on my best friend and roommate at 55 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:22,400 Speaker 2: the time, doctor Kevin Sands. That's so interesting because I 56 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 2: love Little Shopifore's and I was like, oh, that's so 57 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,799 Speaker 2: cool you're playing that role. And I didn't even make 58 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 2: the connection, like, oh my gosh, you played a dentist 59 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 2: on TV and in your show. So there you go. 60 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 2: So I remember originally was for NBC. Then we didn't 61 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 2: get picked up. They picked up My name is Earl. 62 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 2: Good choice, I guess. 63 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: I mean, it's so interesting to think about now, right 64 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: in this landscape of television and where everything you watch 65 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: on your phone or everything's a streamer, like I think 66 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: it was just before the time. It was like in 67 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: a weird custom. They wanted to do original programming, right, 68 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: that was the whole idea. 69 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: Right, we were the first. 70 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 3: They didn't really have the audience. 71 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 2: No, it was all it was a real audience, which 72 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 2: they thought, you know, we're doing like a semi reality 73 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 2: based version. Anyway, remember we got all those great reviews. 74 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 2: That's always the kiss of death, right, ye yeah. 75 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 3: So much fun though. 76 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: It was some of the best times in my life. 77 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 2: It's so funny because I get intimidated, like because you're 78 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 2: such like an actor and you've been on Broadway so 79 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: many times and you have that background. But then like 80 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,919 Speaker 2: TV wise, I'm like, yeah, cool, we can roll and 81 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 2: like hang in that department. So I have two hats 82 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 2: when it comes to you. So I remember in the 83 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 2: back of my head thinking like, Okay, this is going 84 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 2: to go so much better with Kevin if it's someone 85 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 2: that he's going to look at and be like, oh 86 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 2: my god. Not only is he a great actor, but 87 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 2: let's you know, he's vain. So someone great looking, and 88 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 2: of course we want someone gorgeous, because Kevin, you're gorgeous. 89 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 2: And like I remember, NBC was like there was another 90 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 2: guy and he was very talented and very funny, but 91 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,159 Speaker 2: he wasn't a sound and funny as you, and he 92 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 2: was not good looking. And I remember we were like, no, 93 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 2: it had it had to be you. 94 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 3: Why. 95 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 2: I didn't even tell him this was happening until I 96 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 2: could present him with yeah, and then I told him 97 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 2: to come to set, and he came to set, and 98 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 2: then that's when we did the pilot and he met you. 99 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,679 Speaker 2: And after that he was like, you have my blessing 100 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 2: to do whatever you want. Like just look at those eyes, 101 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 2: look at him, smile great. I was like, cool, can 102 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 2: we rename Kevin? He's like nope, So oh I was. 103 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 2: I was talking the other day to Kevin about this 104 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 2: and I don't even know if you remember this, but 105 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 2: and I can't say his name Joe Magnio. 106 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 3: Manganello. 107 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 2: Oh good, so you. 108 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 3: Can't say I can't say it either. I think it's fine. Dude. 109 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 2: Should have changed his name to Figara, but that didn't 110 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 2: work out either. But anyway, great guy, great guy. So NBC, 111 00:05:57,200 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 2: after we did our first table read, wanted to recast him. 112 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 2: Really they did. I didn't tell you this part. No, yeah, 113 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 2: and we see it was like we don't think he 114 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 2: has like star quality. This guy we want. He was 115 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 2: only going to be on for two episodes, but it's 116 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 2: her love interest. We want someone that's you know, people 117 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,039 Speaker 2: are gonna want to see now more. And we just 118 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 2: don't think he has the it factor. Okay, but yeah, 119 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 2: now he's. 120 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: A big giant star. You know, he went to college. 121 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 1: He went to Carnegie Mellon with me. He was younger 122 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: than I was. But then, yeah, that was cool, and 123 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 1: then of course he blew up, can. 124 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 2: We go back to how I killed your comedy career? 125 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 3: You didn't kill my comedy career. 126 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: I find it all so funny, you know that you 127 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: you sort of my agent now that did this one 128 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: thing one time, which was really funny because I was complaining. 129 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 3: Why do you know I grew up like this? 130 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 1: I did two comedy pilots when I came out. Here 131 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: is the first thing I've done. I've done Broadway shows 132 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 1: where I played complete fools and clowns. And why why 133 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: can't I get seen for blah blah blah? You know, 134 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: I reactors like, why can't I get seen for blah 135 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah. And he did this thing. Yeah, 136 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: He's like, are you your computer? And I was like yeah, 137 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: and he's like, go to your email and he set 138 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: forwarded me my reel and it was literally like one 139 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: like what you're talking about, after another, like. 140 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 3: Back to back to back to back to back. 141 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: Because you know, at a certain point you can't you know, 142 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: you can't put clips from a pilot you did when 143 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 1: you were twenty two or twenty three. You know, you 144 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: got to sort of be age appropriate. But so it 145 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with that. I just always found 146 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: it funny that for there was a shift where I 147 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: couldn't or it wasn't seen very often for comedies, for pilots. 148 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 3: It was very frustrating, which is. 149 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 2: So odd to me because you have amazing comedic talent 150 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 2: like timing. Your timing's done on and you're gorgeous, so 151 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 2: it's like it's a win win for them all around. 152 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: But we know how that world works. 153 00:07:58,760 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 3: It's crazy. 154 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 2: Anyway, Should we bring so Notorious back? 155 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? 156 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 2: I mean, if you're available, you're always booked, but you know. 157 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 3: Yes, I'm not always booked. 158 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 2: I'll have my agent talk to your agent. Talk to Oh, 159 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 2: she's my old agent. Hey, Ruth can and your old agent. 160 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 3: You should bring it back. You should do it. You 161 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 3: ever talked to Zach duh. 162 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 2: So we're talking about So Notorious. James played my best 163 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 2: friend Pete on So Notorious, based loosely based on my 164 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:32,280 Speaker 2: real life best friend Kevin, and Zach Quinto played Soson 165 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 2: loosely based on my other real best friend Maron. So 166 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 2: we all have busy lives and you mean to stay 167 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,560 Speaker 2: in contact with everyone and you don't. But then when 168 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 2: you see them or talk to them, you're like, you 169 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 2: go right back. It's like high school. We're like high school, 170 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,199 Speaker 2: like you go right back to your old friends. And 171 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 2: Zach and I like hadn't talked for years, and then 172 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 2: he DMed me and I was like, oh my gosh. 173 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 2: So he was like, hey, I'm back in la I'd 174 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 2: love to reconnect. So we set a lunch and we 175 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 2: were supposed to go have lunch and then I fainted. 176 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 2: This is in August. I fainted and got a concussion 177 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 2: and had to go to the er, and I in 178 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 2: the er, I was concerned. This is what I was 179 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 2: concerned about, which is so weird. I had a full concussion, 180 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 2: like blacked out. My daughter had to call the ambulance. 181 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 2: It was like a whole situation. I was like but wait. 182 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm supposed to meet Zach for lunch and 183 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 2: at the time, my soon to be ex had arrived 184 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,840 Speaker 2: at the hospital and he goes, Oh my gosh, he goes, 185 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 2: she's in This is worse than we thought. She's talking 186 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 2: about Zach. That was like seventeen eighteen years ago. She 187 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 2: was friends with him and on a TV show she 188 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: hasn't seen him in years, and I was like, no, hello, 189 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,600 Speaker 2: I'm right here, I'm fine, Like, I'm fine, I actually 190 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 2: and I was like proof. I was like, see, Zach 191 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 2: and I were supposed to have lunch today. Can you 192 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:00,480 Speaker 2: call him? Cancel with him? Thank you? 193 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's hysterical, Like this is worse than 194 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 3: I thought. 195 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 2: It's worst than I thought. Zach quinto she doesn't talked 196 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 2: to him in seventeen years. 197 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 3: Yep, have you are you serious? Do you really want 198 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 3: to bring it back? That would be. 199 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I really do. I mean, no time like the present. 200 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 2: There's a big shift going on in my life, and 201 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 2: I think it would be great. 202 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 3: Would it be your life now? 203 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: Meaning like all of this stuff that's happening you know, 204 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: and or has happened since the previous so notorious or 205 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 1: where would you. 206 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 2: Pick up, it would be a blend, just like we 207 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:42,599 Speaker 2: did at the time. I feel like a lot of 208 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 2: the stories, I was like, oh my gosh, this happened 209 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 2: in my teens, But now I was were we supped 210 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 2: topan our twenties? You're way younger than me. Wait, how 211 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 2: old are you now? 212 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 3: Not I'm almost fifty. I'm going to be forty nine 213 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 3: in August. 214 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 2: That's it so and I just turned fifty one. Sorry 215 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 2: to clarify that. I would incorporate things that have happened 216 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 2: in the last like probably ten years, but present them and 217 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 2: story wise like up to date and everything going on? Now? 218 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,360 Speaker 2: I mean, is it art entertaining life? Life? Imintaining art? 219 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 2: How do we even recreate the podcast on the show? 220 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:19,880 Speaker 2: Because you would be playing Kevin, but you're also playing James. 221 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 2: Oh wait, maybe there's something there, Maybe there. 222 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 3: Is something there? Can I write? Does he still drive 223 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 3: a Ferrari? 224 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? Do you remember that? 225 00:11:29,240 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 3: I just remember. I just remember he drew a Ferrari? 226 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,200 Speaker 3: And now I was like, why why didn't I become 227 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 3: a dentist? Like why am I actor? 228 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:42,320 Speaker 2: Multiple ferraris? He has an office in Dubai. He sees 229 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 2: everybody in the world, like it's the craziest thing. But 230 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 2: he always says, going back, those were the best days 231 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 2: of his life. Like we were how old then, I 232 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 2: mean in our twenties. I mean, and you guys, we 233 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,960 Speaker 2: used to go out, we used to do everything. You not 234 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:02,160 Speaker 2: straight lace, that's not the right word. You are a 235 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 2: very respectful person to your wife, to women, to men, 236 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:11,079 Speaker 2: to everybody. Like we go out and you'd be like, 237 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 2: you'd have some beers. You'd be like, I gotta go home. 238 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 2: And you were responsible. That's the word. You were always responsible. 239 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,040 Speaker 1: I was always, and I've said this to a million 240 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:22,600 Speaker 1: people about you, I was always super impressed with you, 241 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: and frankly, not that I thought otherwise, But I wasn't 242 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 1: like a huge nine to two one oho fan. 243 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 3: I mean, I know I saw it. I know it 244 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 3: was a part of like are growing up. But I 245 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 3: was just the way. 246 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: The best part of so notorious for me was that 247 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: you were such a great actor, Like, and I've told 248 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:43,319 Speaker 1: everybody who I've worked with on that that you were 249 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: just so great. I would sit there mesmerized by how 250 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: you could. You were essentially playing yourself. So one would 251 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: think that's easy, but I would argue that's way harder 252 00:12:54,240 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 1: than that, because I mean, maybe not for you, but 253 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 1: watching you do it, I was like, man, like this 254 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: is this takes a lot of skill and attention, and 255 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: you were always prepared and it was like it was 256 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 1: it was really inspiring, and I was bummed when it 257 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 1: ended because I thought that was one of the best 258 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: qualities of the show is how good you were at 259 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 1: I mean a theory portraying yourself but doing it. You know, 260 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: your comic timing was obviously great. There were gentle, sweet 261 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 1: moments in the piece and certain episodes that were that 262 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: really played quite well. And I just I remember being 263 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:31,839 Speaker 1: there and being like, man, she's really good. 264 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 2: Do you know Whitney Cummings, I mean you know of her, 265 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 2: but have you met her? 266 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 3: You know? 267 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: I funny enough, I met her through it through another 268 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,440 Speaker 1: friend years ago. 269 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 3: I think they were dating before. 270 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: She was you know, Whitney Cummings, like very famous and 271 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: you know, but no I don't. I don't know her, 272 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: but I have met her, but it was years and 273 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:52,559 Speaker 1: years ago. 274 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:58,719 Speaker 2: Ah, you guys would love each other. But she's very 275 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:03,359 Speaker 2: much art sense of humor. But she huge so notorious 276 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 2: fan and she's always like yeah, uh, she wants to 277 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 2: bring it back, and I always we're friends. Now we met, 278 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 2: it's funny on she like slid into my DMS and 279 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: I didn't see it for like a year, and then 280 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 2: all of a sudden one day I was just like 281 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 2: scrolling and I was like, Whitney Cummings, are you shitting me? 282 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:22,880 Speaker 2: And I was like, Hi, I didn't see this. And 283 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 2: then we became fast friends. But she always says, no, 284 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna bring that back, and I'm always like, uh, 285 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 2: I'm hold of you to that, and she's like but 286 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 2: like the self deprecating thing. She's like, we're gonna like 287 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 2: rebrand you. Like that's funny to a certain extent, but 288 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 2: there's way more to you. I'm like, cool. So anyway, 289 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 2: where would we put so notorious? We could do so 290 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 2: many things now, we could say anything we wanted to say. 291 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 3: Oh my god, it would be it would be genius. 292 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:56,600 Speaker 2: Wait do you remember that? Okay, First of all, sorry, 293 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna talk about your wife for a second, because 294 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 2: I love your wife, Amy Acker, who I did not realize. 295 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 2: We got to work on your social media presence because 296 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 2: she's crushing that, and you got to up your empty 297 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 2: I do. 298 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing I don't understand. We are past this. 299 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: Like I was in this conversation with this youngster in 300 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 1: our show the other night yesterday maybe about just like 301 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 1: the implications of social media, and also like he had 302 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:27,080 Speaker 1: just done the Apple vision pro thing and like the 303 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 1: you know the glasses that are if you. 304 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 3: Try to mind blowing, it's sick. 305 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, But I feel like I'm almost fifty, so I 306 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: feel like the really bad stuff that's going to happen 307 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:41,280 Speaker 1: from all of this, like for our humanity kind of 308 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: like I kind of feel the same way about social media, 309 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 1: like I could take it or leave it. The problem 310 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 1: for it with me is that I got addicted to 311 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: I'm addicted to TikTok. And I don't mean like I 312 00:15:53,520 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: put tiktoks out like I it has replaced anything I 313 00:15:57,160 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 1: do in my free time, Like I just scroll through 314 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 1: TikTok and Amy hates that I do that. But I'm like, 315 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: now I've just didn't. At first, I was like, I 316 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 1: don't have a problem, like this is how I relax 317 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: at night before I fall asleep, And then now it's 318 00:16:11,440 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: like I now I can fully just admit, like I'm 319 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 1: addicted to TikTok. 320 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 2: So you've been married to Amy since two thousand and three. 321 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 3: That's twenty one years. 322 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 2: Twenty one years. It is wild like it is so 323 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 2: and she's so beautiful and so talented. And I guess 324 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 2: this is something I've always wondered about because you were 325 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 2: there when Deane and I met. I was we had 326 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 2: done the pilot, right, but when you. 327 00:16:39,440 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 1: Did the pilot, I'm going to go for a deep 328 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: dive if I remember this. 329 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 3: I went, was it Charlie. 330 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 2: I'll always let you one because you're cute, But yep. 331 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: Were you still with Charlie when we did the pilot 332 00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 1: because there was a break, So I I think we 333 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,640 Speaker 1: met when we came got picked up right, right? 334 00:16:56,480 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 2: So what happened was I, yes, I married for a 335 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:06,920 Speaker 2: year and then we did so notorious. We did the pilot, 336 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 2: which then didn't get picked up by NBC. Then we 337 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 2: got it picked up with VH one, and while I 338 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 2: was gone for that summer making a TV movie in Canada, 339 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 2: and then I met Dean and then well the rest 340 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 2: is history. But I blame I don't blame anyone. I'm mean, 341 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 2: I'm super happy. I'm grateful. We have five beautiful kids. 342 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 2: I wouldn't change a moment of my journey, and Dean 343 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:36,439 Speaker 2: and I are super amicable and everything's great. But I 344 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:40,679 Speaker 2: always jokingly blame our one of our creators, Chris Alborghini, 345 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 2: because that night we had like thread through and the 346 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:46,119 Speaker 2: cast get together and we all and crew and everyone 347 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 2: went home, and Dean and I stayed, and Mike, of 348 00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 2: course Grandma Chessler went back to the hotel and Chris 349 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:57,479 Speaker 2: Alberghini stayed. And I'm like, this is your fault, Like 350 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 2: you let this happen. He's like, I let it happen 351 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 2: that you crawled across me to get to him and 352 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:05,959 Speaker 2: kissed him in the middle of like a bar, and 353 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:09,360 Speaker 2: I was like, yep, but yeah. So we came back 354 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 2: from that and Charlie was actually going to be a 355 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 2: writer on So Notorious. 356 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:16,240 Speaker 3: I think I remember, which. 357 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 2: Was a really difficult thing because while he very talented writer, 358 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,199 Speaker 2: and that's how I met him is I was in 359 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 2: a play that with him that he wrote, he was 360 00:18:25,359 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 2: very reserved when it came to females. And you know, 361 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 2: I think there was a part of me that I 362 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:35,520 Speaker 2: could be reserved. I could be Donna Martin, even though 363 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 2: you don't know nine or two and zero. But I 364 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 2: could also be I'm messing with you. Oh hey, James, 365 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 2: what'd you do with the Donna? Martin dahll On? So Notorious? 366 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 2: Kevin and I discussed this story, and I talked about 367 00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 2: it in such an inappropriate way we had to cut 368 00:18:50,920 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 2: the whole story. Oh my gosh, do you remember the part? 369 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 2: I was just telling a friend this the other day. 370 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 2: So in the big party scene, and this was based 371 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 2: on a true story where Kevin, who was Pete who 372 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 2: you played on the show. There's a big party in 373 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 2: the apartment and a lot of chaos ensues, and the 374 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 2: biggest thing is I on the bar had my sea monkeys. 375 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 2: I had kept alive for a year and a half 376 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 2: and someone knocked them over. And I told a friend 377 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 2: the story that I had sea monkeys and he was like, oh, 378 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,479 Speaker 2: sea monkeys, it's not a thing. They don't work. I'm like, no, 379 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 2: they do work. I kept ones alive for a year 380 00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 2: and a half and he was like, I don't believe that. 381 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 2: I'm like, let me find it. It's so hard to 382 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,680 Speaker 2: find So Notorious. You really can't view it. 383 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:43,919 Speaker 3: I have the DVD. 384 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:45,199 Speaker 2: Can you burn it for me? 385 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 3: He's in like the box set at my house. 386 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I need to see that because I can't 387 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 2: find clips. It's hard to like I tell people's stories. 388 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 2: They're like, I don't believe you. I'm like, well made 389 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:57,640 Speaker 2: a TV show based on it. Let me just show 390 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 2: you that, and then I can't find the TV show. 391 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, Sea Monkeys, Living Proof they were everywhere. Sorry 392 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 2: before we go. It's interesting that everything came full circle 393 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 2: because not only did we meet become friends, starting a 394 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 2: show together where you played my best friend, but then 395 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 2: years later our kids ended up going to school together. 396 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, for like a year. When we were at Losancinos, 397 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 3: Ava was there two years. 398 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 2: Correct, and Jack was already older, right he was, he was. 399 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,120 Speaker 3: He did sixth grade there because we were coming back. 400 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:28,960 Speaker 2: From You're in New York, right, you. 401 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 3: Work, and we just needed a landing spot. 402 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: And our friends Nica and Justin said, you got to 403 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: look at this place, and we just fell in love 404 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: with it. 405 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 3: And that's where we were for elementary. 406 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 2: School, which you know how parents are all parents are 407 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 2: like and teachers and they were all like, oh this 408 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 2: actor family. The husband and wife were both actors, and 409 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 2: the kids are coming in. I was just listening and 410 00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:54,160 Speaker 2: I didn't know. I think I didn't know you were 411 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 2: coming there, and I heard your name and I was 412 00:20:57,280 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 2: like huh and I was like what. And then and 413 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 2: all of a sudden we were at like back to 414 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:06,199 Speaker 2: school night and you were there, but yeah, and I 415 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh. And so Liam and Ava 416 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: were in the same class together, which is I was 417 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 2: showing Liam last night. I'm like, oh my gosh. I'm like, 418 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:18,119 Speaker 2: so James is coming on the show tomorrow and and 419 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:20,440 Speaker 2: I was like, have you ever have you reconnected with 420 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 2: Ava since? Then He's like no. And then he came 421 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 2: in and he goes, mom, have you seen what Ava 422 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 2: looks like? And I was like she was always hot. 423 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:34,520 Speaker 2: I was like, uh, so gorgeous. So is Jack. I 424 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 2: can't believe all the things they are doing, Like you 425 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 2: and Amy, well creative, amazing, talented children the two of 426 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 2: you brought onto this planet. But behind the scenes, everyone 427 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 2: at school was just like and I'm not talking like 428 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 2: every mom was like, oh my god, that dad is 429 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:55,639 Speaker 2: so hot, Like you, what is it called dilf dolf? 430 00:21:56,080 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 3: Sure that vibe there, but well maybe I'm just there. 431 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 2: They're not going to let you know. So every every mother, 432 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 2: yeah exactly, and I just pretend like I didn't even 433 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 2: know you and just be like listen, and every mother 434 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 2: there was just like, oh my god, he's so gorgeous. 435 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 2: Every day was like, oh I wish I look like 436 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:21,880 Speaker 2: that guy. And all the teachers were just like whoa. 437 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 2: But it was so funny because you wouldn't even think 438 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:29,119 Speaker 2: about it, but like everything behind the scenes, they'd be like, 439 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,640 Speaker 2: oh yeah, it was die Like James Carponella is coming 440 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 2: in to set up the stage. He like you would 441 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 2: come and do like the labor there, and like. 442 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: It's my it's my love language. Acts of service. I've 443 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 1: learned this in my later life. I don't think I 444 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 1: knew it as much then, But that's like what that's 445 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 1: like what I do. Like if I do stuff for people, 446 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 1: it makes me feel good, and that's not I mean. 447 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:56,160 Speaker 2: I'll never fix for me back in the day, I. 448 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: Know, but like like if you literally called me and 449 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 1: I was in LA and You're like, I need someone 450 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: to and hang. We were going to start a company 451 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,159 Speaker 1: because I was like glowing to our friend's houses and 452 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 1: hanging pictures and I was going to pretty well hung. 453 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:15,040 Speaker 3: But I'm bump exactly my friend Jody came up with that. Actually, 454 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 3: so I can't. 455 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 2: I'll invest in that company. 456 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,159 Speaker 3: Yeahs enough Jody Harris. 457 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 2: I remember her. But yeah, So you would show up 458 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 2: and like, I'm blanking on what it was? What is 459 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 2: the thing at Halloween? They would have like the house, yes, 460 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 2: and it was just like it almost to a fault, 461 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:38,080 Speaker 2: got annoying, like who's like, who's coming in to do 462 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,000 Speaker 2: do this? Oh, it's James James, and it's just they'd 463 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:44,959 Speaker 2: all be like, oh, yeah, James Carmona is coming in. 464 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:46,920 Speaker 2: He's going to screw in a light bulb. And they'd 465 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 2: all just be like and he would show up and 466 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 2: like in his T shirt and just like they would 467 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 2: just all be oggling you. And I'd be like, oh 468 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 2: my god, this is just so funny to me because 469 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 2: I obviously you're hot, but I don't think of you 470 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 2: that like because we have known each other for so long. 471 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 2: But it was just interesting that it was like, yeah, 472 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 2: it all came full circle. Two actors in the business. 473 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 2: I don't know how you guys have this relationship. 474 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 3: It's hard. 475 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,400 Speaker 1: Raising kids is hard, it is, and be at two 476 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,800 Speaker 1: people in the business, it's hard. But we've been lucky 477 00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 1: in the sense that those times when I was in 478 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:27,199 Speaker 1: a T shirt screwing in light bulbs at Losncino has 479 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,560 Speaker 1: meant that I wasn't working, or that I could be 480 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: with the kids, or I could help out there because 481 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 1: Amy was on a TV show somewhere making money to 482 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,600 Speaker 1: support the fact that I could screw in a light 483 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: bulb and a T shirt at the school haunted house. 484 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: And I think that sort of balance, you know, has 485 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 1: always been We've been lucky that way. 486 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,919 Speaker 2: This is what I feel like from knowing you both 487 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,880 Speaker 2: this long is you really don't have egos and it's 488 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:53,199 Speaker 2: not an easy business to be in, and especially I 489 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 2: hate to say this with men in entertainment, you know 490 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 2: you always feel like men are like you know, go 491 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 2: back to like I'm just provide and protect and this 492 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 2: is my role and it's ingrained in us. And you know, 493 00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,879 Speaker 2: nothing's perfect. But you, guys, I've watched you over the 494 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 2: years seamlessly transition back and forth and truly be equals 495 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:17,000 Speaker 2: in a partnership and it's really nice. And I hope 496 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:19,520 Speaker 2: I find my Amy someday. Wait that sound right. 497 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 1: I appreciate that you got you know, you've worked your 498 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,200 Speaker 1: whole life, job to job to job to jobs job, 499 00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: and you know, Amy's very much like that too. She 500 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,120 Speaker 1: had a career that was it'd be easy to say 501 00:25:30,119 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 1: she's lucky, but she's really good at it, Like she's 502 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 1: really good, and so it's deserved and it's provided, you know, 503 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 1: And that was challenging, no doubt, you know, when she'd 504 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,280 Speaker 1: done a TV show and I was home driving to 505 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: Losansinos in the morning, and then you know, building a 506 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: haunted house. As fun as that is, it's like, you know, 507 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,320 Speaker 1: it's challenging to have different roles and like you said 508 00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 1: about you know, the need to provide and really trying 509 00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:56,120 Speaker 1: to you know, manage that and make sure you pat 510 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 1: yourself on the back a little bit and go, you know, 511 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 1: this is a job too, Like the laundry do need 512 00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:02,679 Speaker 1: to get folded, and the house does need to be cleaned, 513 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: and the kids do need to get to school, and 514 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 1: the lunches do need to be made, and that's equally 515 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:07,120 Speaker 1: as important. 516 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 2: I'm lucky to be in your world. You are such 517 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 2: an evolved man, James Carponell, You really are. You're the 518 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:13,720 Speaker 2: new age Merue. 519 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 3: But I appreciate you saying it. I'll take it I'm 520 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:19,440 Speaker 3: lucky to be in your world. It's great to reconnect 521 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 3: with you. 522 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,879 Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you for being here. So we're filming 523 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 2: so Notorious again. 524 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 3: We are randomly I. 525 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 1: I used to go to this gym before COVID in 526 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 1: LA and I would see Vernon Sanders there. 527 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:34,919 Speaker 3: Do you remember. 528 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,520 Speaker 2: Is he an Amazon Still he's like the like head 529 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 2: out of Amazon, and he was our champion, was our champion. 530 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 1: And I went in for a meeting randomly the day 531 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:53,600 Speaker 1: that like the world shut down for COVID with him. 532 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,200 Speaker 1: But because he's like you know he said at the 533 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 1: gym one day, he was like, you know something about 534 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: working together and I was like, yeah, you're to God's ears. 535 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:01,679 Speaker 3: Let's like please. 536 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 1: But he's such a lovely, lovely man and loved this 537 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,880 Speaker 1: project and I wonder, you know, you were saying, where 538 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 1: should we do it? I don't know, Like he's he's 539 00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:12,400 Speaker 1: the person over there at Amazon. 540 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 541 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:19,280 Speaker 2: I love when nice, kind people actually get ahead in 542 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 2: this world. 543 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 3: Yep. 544 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 2: And he's one of them that was at NBC and 545 00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 2: went out on a limb for us because you know, executives. 546 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:32,000 Speaker 2: He was an executive there and a lot of people 547 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,280 Speaker 2: were like, oh no, you know and he he would 548 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 2: come into the editing bay on a Friday night and 549 00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:41,919 Speaker 2: stay all night like he really was invested and everything 550 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,920 Speaker 2: he has is deserved. But Vernon, if you're listening to those, 551 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,960 Speaker 2: hey James Night, Wait, when are you back? September? 552 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, September. 553 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 2: Okay, put it on your calendar. We're going to take 554 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: pitch meetings. Pitch meetings. I'll sell that shit before we'll 555 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:58,000 Speaker 2: start filming them. 556 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 1: Correct, great sounds good, ka him, It was so great 557 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: to see you, great to see. 558 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:09,200 Speaker 2: Thank you for doing this. There you go, best, Dilf. 559 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,360 Speaker 2: I've never had love that man,