WEBVTT - Conversations About War and Women 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.400 Watch up and welcome back to another episode of No 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.480 Sealers Podcast with your host. Now, fuck that with your 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:14.360 low glasses, Malone. 0:00:15.480 --> 0:00:20.960 Just the obvious nature of you know, the tail. 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:24.080 Mm hmm. 0:00:25.160 --> 0:00:29.440 What Oh you're saying, what happened the story that that? 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.199 Yeah, yeah, there's no real way to work around it, 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:32.879 you know what I mean. 0:00:33.560 --> 0:00:37.320 So we did a live stream, Tony, and the live 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:39.800 stream what we're recording now right, this is the audio 0:00:39.920 --> 0:00:43.159 so he can see you, you can you know, so 0:00:43.240 --> 0:00:44.920 you can see you, so you know your finish. 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:47.280 We're gonna get a monitor. S has to look at mind. 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:50.800 I'm gonna get a monitor for them. He can see 0:00:51.080 --> 0:00:54.880 so you can see him over there. 0:00:56.280 --> 0:00:58.400 You picked a good time to come before the monitor 0:00:58.440 --> 0:00:58.960 got put up. 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:06.399 So we did a live stream and it was based 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.240 off a conversation I was having with one of my 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:12.119 young homies, my my little brother a d He has 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:14.679 a stream, a live stream called the Community with my 0:01:14.720 --> 0:01:19.880 homeboy pun and we were having a conversation about what 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:22.680 was going on with Dirt. Dirk got arrested for murder 0:01:22.720 --> 0:01:27.560 for hire. Dirk was a rapper in Chicago, you know exactly, 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:37.080 and he was saying that the beef Dirk and young Boy. 0:01:37.640 --> 0:01:39.760 Their cruise started over a girl. 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:44.280 They were sleeping with the same girls, and you know, 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:47.040 some happened somewhere along the line. They got loos and 0:01:47.040 --> 0:01:50.640 people start talking crazy and everybody's cruise. People around the 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:53.040 cruise start talking crazy. So now it's King Von who 0:01:53.120 --> 0:01:56.720 was part of Dirk's cruise. Was Quan Toronto was a 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:59.160 part of Young with They were all cool at first, 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:02.560 and they start are talking crazy to each other, you 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:03.200 know what I'm saying. 0:02:03.400 --> 0:02:08.520 And they go to Atlanta and the Chicago brothers go 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:11.400 to Atlanta, ron and they get into a confrontation with 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:14.680 Rondos his life. Yes, so. 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:19.519 Quando Rondo you know, year a year or two later, 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:24.800 comes to California to do some business and his transportation 0:02:24.880 --> 0:02:27.200 that he's riding in through to do the business within 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:31.280 the city. They near Century City. The whole truck get shot. 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:38.079 Were fully automatic weapons, okay. And that's the charge that 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:41.680 Dirk is, you know, being in dice that he organized 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:44.799 that he economically financed that that happened. Okay, So they 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:47.760 got supposed to be allegedly is the shooters and have 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:55.760 him for murder for hire. He was a d My 0:02:55.760 --> 0:02:58.239 little brother was telling me that was a lot to 0:02:58.440 --> 0:03:03.079 go through, you know, over a girl, and I'm like, well, 0:03:03.240 --> 0:03:06.160 it's not really over the girl, you know what I mean, 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:08.760 It's really over the stuff people say around the girl. 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:11.280 We start having a conversation and I was saying, like, 0:03:11.360 --> 0:03:16.480 if if we're together, you, if somebody sleeps with you 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:18.840 and they know I exist, they know me, No, they 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:20.440 don't have to be my friend. If they know me 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.280 and they know we're together and they sleep with you, 0:03:23.720 --> 0:03:27.080 not only are you disrespecting me, they're disrespecting me right. 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:31.200 And I believe in the universe where. 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:36.480 If people disrespect you purposely, they will keep doing it right, 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:42.120 So the harmonious thing to do is to erase you 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:48.320 off the planet. Okay, not the vengeful thing, because vengeance 0:03:48.320 --> 0:03:50.200 would be that I'm doing it because you did this. 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.360 The harmonious thing is, in my mind, is you will 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:55.960 keep disrespecting me because you should have respect for me. 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:58.920 I haven't did anything to you for you to disrespect 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:03.400 me the hormone. The justice thing would be to erase 0:04:03.440 --> 0:04:07.480 you off this planet, so you can't keep deflating who 0:04:07.520 --> 0:04:10.600 I am every day by taking advantage of whoever whatever 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.480 goodness you think lies inside of me. And that's the 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:19.839 difference between vengeance and street justice, right, because you have 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:23.880 regular societal justice where everybody agrees on laws, and then 0:04:23.920 --> 0:04:28.279 they have prisons and courts and juries and prisons and 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:32.680 jails to help them issue out that level of harmony 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:36.080 through justice. Well, in the streets there's the same space. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:40.000 And we were talking about Dirk situation and saying it. 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:40.720 Was more. 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:47.320 You started to pursue it differently, like there is a 0:04:47.400 --> 0:04:50.080 level of street justice that should happen, but street justice 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:53.880 again is still as harmonious as anything else. It's like 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:57.560 when you go to a real courthouse and instead of 0:04:57.600 --> 0:04:58.200 you like R. 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:00.640 Kelly or Puff right. 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.559 Where instead of them being held accountable, like Puff should 0:05:03.560 --> 0:05:06.960 be held accountable for combing his old lady here in 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:09.400 the hotel lobby and da da da, and that should 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:12.279 be like if they have a federal assault charge or 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:17.320 the solicitation of prostitution, those are all fair charges, you know, 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:21.920 possession of drugs, possession of guns, those are fair charges 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:25.480 based off of evidence versus them railroading him with a 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:31.440 rico where it's a racketeering charge for organization and there's 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:33.359 only one person being charge, so that would be a 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:34.640 one person organization. 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:35.280 Same for R. 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:38.560 Kelly, where instead of him just being charged for child 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:41.280 pornography because if you sleep with a girl under the 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:45.239 age of sixteen on a camera, you know, it don't matter, 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:49.000 she can't consent. It's child for not even federally, which 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:51.919 carries seven years and other stuff which R Kelly should 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:55.159 be in prison eight to twelve years fee me. But 0:05:56.120 --> 0:05:59.599 because you allow white folks to carry out vengeance against 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:02.080 a nasty thing that they have against brothers in this 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:05.599 country since they was buying them by the dozens. You know, 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:09.440 in Virginia, you have people mistreating and you have a 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:13.600 like a like a trail of vengeance that's happening where 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:15.120 it's all mistreatment. 0:06:15.360 --> 0:06:16.080 So instead of R. 0:06:16.200 --> 0:06:18.400 Kelly getting the eight to twelve years that he deserves 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:21.599 based off the crime, he gets more time than Sammy 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:24.960 the boy Girvano has for murdering you know, nineteen people. 0:06:25.440 --> 0:06:26.200 He almost has. 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:30.760 Forty years instead of R Kelly, you know, getting eight 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:34.560 to fifteen years for you know, having a consistent history 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:36.400 of soliciting prostitution and. 0:06:38.240 --> 0:06:40.560 You know, using drugs or possessing. 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:43.240 Drugs or having guns with serial numbers scratched off, which 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:46.320 carries ten years federally or any that stuff, so that 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.719 eight to fifteen years that he should be facing, he's 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:55.560 facing life. That's to me, white vengeance or systemic vengeance, 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:58.400 you know, like we still can get these niggas. 0:06:58.120 --> 0:06:58.640 When we can. 0:06:59.440 --> 0:06:59.760 Yeah. 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:05.320 And he was just saying to me and Pete like, Okay, 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:08.039 well that sucker if you do that over your girl, 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:11.040 because a girl gonna be a whole and you shouldn't 0:07:11.040 --> 0:07:13.160 be mad at no man. I'm like, well, I wouldn't 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:16.040 be upset at the man for what old lady is. 0:07:16.280 --> 0:07:19.440 I'd be upset at the man for disrespecting me knowing 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:22.640 that this is my lady. And he was saying like, oh, well, 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:25.040 you know you don't you disrespect that given his earn. 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:28.280 I'm like, that's street, that's not real. Like you should 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:32.280 respect every man even before they've earned it. You should 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:35.360 only disrespect the man that you've lost respect for. Ye 0:07:35.960 --> 0:07:40.600 But if you disrespect the man that immediately in y'all 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:43.840 first interaction, you know what I mean, you could take 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:47.480 advantage of that. And so Pete was gonna give me 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:49.960 a story. Fast forward again to the Baby Mama, where 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:52.480 he felt like, oh, well, if my friend sleeps with 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:55.400 my baby mother. And I'm like, well, what difference do 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:58.640 it make if y'all lot together, Like why does that body? Well, 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:01.040 he's beentraying our friendship. Like how He's like, well, you know, 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:03.400 I don't care about her, but he will be portraying 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:05.680 our friendship. I'm like, well, if you don't care about her, 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.280 and Pete was asking the same thing, you. 0:08:08.280 --> 0:08:09.400 Don't care about her? 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:13.800 Yeah, right, and this is your friend and he has 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:18.880 positive intentions for this woman, why does it bother? And 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:22.440 what I was telling Pete and I was telling still 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:26.080 on the live stream, the truth is you love her, 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:28.600 And he was like, well no, because I'm not sleeping 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:30.840 with the once we break up. I'm like, sleeping with 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:33.960 somebody is not with love is about that's self gratifying. 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:38.760 Like you can make that type of act about somebody else, 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:42.600 but for the most part, it's self gratifying. When you 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:45.200 have to do things for people and you get nothing, 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:49.160 it's true love. And I'm like, the reality is you 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:52.240 love her still and it's like, oh, well, why would 0:08:52.240 --> 0:08:53.640 I love her, you know, just because we had a kid. 0:08:53.720 --> 0:08:59.120 I'm like yes, And me and Pete were just talking 0:08:59.160 --> 0:09:03.120 to him, you know, and Obviously, the audience that's listening 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:05.160 to the stream immediately went to a space like where 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:08.280 they must stand by this versus us saying if you 0:09:08.320 --> 0:09:11.000 don't care trying to get him to say you love 0:09:11.080 --> 0:09:14.760 your kid's mother, which could make you think twice about 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:16.840 just getting somebody pregnant or at. 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:20.720 Least want I mean, if not love, at least can 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:23.560 see that you want her on some degree. 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:28.760 I think you love them. I think I don't care 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:33.040 what nobody say. There's no way possible somebody can give 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:36.280 you extended lineage on the planet Earth and you don't 0:09:36.360 --> 0:09:41.240 love them for it. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:43.679 M it's just don't. I don't believe, and nobody who 0:09:43.760 --> 0:09:46.640 says they don't. You could be angry as hell and 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:47.720 you love them. 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:51.880 Because you share a whole bloodline with that person. I've 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:55.800 had many conversations with people about this. You know, I 0:09:55.880 --> 0:10:00.520 mean that when you get a woman pregnant, you know 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:02.640 what I mean. She is now a part of your family. 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:03.880 Now. 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:08.640 Where you classify her is based off of your understanding 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:09.760 of what's happening here. 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:11.160 But a lot of. 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:15.040 People, you know, the reason girls have told me that 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:16.439 they dated me in a past. 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.440 Multiple girls said, well, you don't have no kids. I 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:20.839 wouldn't date nobody with kids, mind you, all of them 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:23.240 have kids. But that's also they. 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:26.080 Know the dynamic between men and women, not just because 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:28.360 they may have been in relationship with somebody at kids 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:32.520 and each YID you know your dynamic with your kids father, 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:35.959 and you don't want nobody to feel that way how 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:38.680 you feel because you ain't gonna make because they would 0:10:38.760 --> 0:10:43.760 use theyself as the automatic, you know, reference point. Like 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:45.720 if it was like, well, I hate my baby daddy, 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:47.320 so I ain't really worry because you can hate your 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:50.040 baby dad too, but you gonna reference it off the 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:53.920 situation where somebody was sleeping with their baby mom. That's 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:59.760 because you probably sleep with your baby dad. No seilings, 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:03.880 g hell brother Peter Boss in the house. I got 0:11:03.880 --> 0:11:09.000 a really special guest say how Tony people share her voice? Hell, 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:14.520 Tony don't really like to talk with She's brilliant, really brilliant, 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:22.760 says high school. So we wanted him to admit he 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:27.200 loved his baby mother. And it's so hard for men 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.960 to admit that. Yo, coming from the poor places we 0:11:30.040 --> 0:11:33.960 come from, Like it's like, you don't want anybody to 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.480 date this woman. Y'all want to run around and impregnate 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:38.000 all the girls from our community. 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:39.960 You don't want to marry them, but you don't want 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:40.880 nobody that. 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:43.760 You know to marry them out of some sense of 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:46.079 which I don't quite know what it is. 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:48.280 Unless you said you love her. 0:11:48.760 --> 0:11:51.680 I would rather a friend tell me, hey, I love her, 0:11:53.280 --> 0:11:54.959 and it's like I can't be with her, but I 0:11:55.040 --> 0:11:59.400 love her. I wouldn't understand that. But if you say 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:02.760 you don't care, shouldn't matter who decides to make an 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:03.560 honest woman. 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:03.600 Out of. 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:15.760 Yeah, but it's the friend. It's a friend's intention to 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:22.160 wife her or just to have relations with her to 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:27.360 be the issue, because now it's like we're sharing chip, Sorry, 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:29.960 we're sharing like I would never want somebody to be 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:32.800 able to And I've had this happen like a friend 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:36.720 of mine, No, no, not a friend of mine. I 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:42.559 was really close with my son's father's girlfriend. And when 0:12:42.600 --> 0:12:44.960 she started to talk about him, the way in which 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:47.719 she talked about him, it was like, you know, well, 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:49.880 he's this and he's that. She didn't, you know, describe 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:53.400 anything intimate that they had, but she described like the 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:56.079 way he treated her, the things that he did, and 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:58.840 it was just like, you know, so now you have 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:02.360 this comparison system, But guys do things their comparisons with 0:13:02.520 --> 0:13:05.240 like women they share is totally different. Like you know, 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:09.600 so you know if you had and that's why they 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:13.120 disrespect in a Like if I was with you and 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:16.040 then I find out that you were with my friend, Yeah, 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:19.240 we would have to have some kind of it would 0:13:19.280 --> 0:13:21.800 really be an issue because what if she starts to 0:13:21.840 --> 0:13:24.480 tell me like yeah, you know, well, all I can 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:25.920 do is like when I close my eyes, I just 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:27.600 remember how you hit me from the back, and it's 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:29.240 just like I don't want to share that with my friend, 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:32.200 Like I don't want you to have any type of 0:13:34.920 --> 0:13:38.240 dealings with something that I've had. So that's why it 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:41.680 would always be an issue with a friend having why 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:46.240 because who wants to talk about that difference? 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:48.120 Does it make y'all would share a play the food? 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:53.120 No, but men aren't food. Women aren't food. 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:57.200 I mean, you're you're not really with the person, you 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:58.760 just slept with them. 0:13:59.280 --> 0:14:00.960 But see that's the thing. That's why I brought up 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:03.080 the thing that I told my son like that, how 0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:06.880 that's how everyone treats people like things like a oh 0:14:07.040 --> 0:14:09.440 you know what, like I hit that like oh, I 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:13.000 smashed and that's it. But there's real like emotions that 0:14:13.080 --> 0:14:15.400 came with it. So even though we try to displace 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:17.960 them in act like they're not there, if someone came 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:21.080 back later and was like yeah, you know, and then 0:14:21.480 --> 0:14:25.080 described in detail, but not only is she like, she's 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:27.600 not just your girlfriend, that's your kid's mom, so you know, 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:29.920 like everything that you did with her, and then the 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:34.080 friends telling you, like the sun, no, it's just horrible, 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:35.120 it's horrible. 0:14:35.280 --> 0:14:38.760 So that's why you have to but even less examine 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:41.880 that deeper. Why would that bother you just because she 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:45.520 had the same penis you at if it's not your 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:49.200 husband or your boyfriend or your man, it was just 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.040 somebody you was just knocking down. 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:55.720 Because I personally have a code, and I really stick. 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:58.480 I know I heard this cold, but I'm asking you, 0:14:58.600 --> 0:14:59.840 why does the code exist? 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:03.120 This is what me and Pete was pressing ad about. 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:05.760 So you understood what the hell I was trying to 0:15:05.800 --> 0:15:08.880 ask at the very least, yes, thank you God. 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:09.760 Enough. 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:13.800 I kept answering it because people don't want to be 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:20.640 honest about what happens during sex, true, so they also 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:24.400 want to use it as a tool of nothingness, as 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:28.280 an exercise until it's time for somebody else to use 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:35.000 the same jim equipment that they know, which means we 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:39.320 can have an even greater conversation about what's happening, which 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:44.880 the same conversations lie in pregnancies, where people keep acting 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:48.160 like it's a woman's choice, it's her body. It's not 0:15:48.240 --> 0:15:51.880 about a body, it's about the person inside of her body. 0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:54.920 Right. So again, it's so much, it's. 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:59.240 So many like nuances that we will skip over for 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:02.760 the sake of silliness until it's time to have now 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:07.640 the same full conversation. Let's flush out everything. So that's 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:12.080 what I was saying to him, And but I digress 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:15.720 though what I was saying about that situation with Dirk. 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:18.880 If the things are true that they're saying, I couldn't 0:16:18.960 --> 0:16:21.480 judge him because if somebody did something to my friend, 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:26.520 I would probably, you know, look for a harmonious way. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:28.280 Too, especially if I think. 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:35.080 But but so there's a few things right, like because 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:38.440 he wasn't there to really like, I won't let my 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:41.240 friends get in trouble, like if I if I if 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.320 I got a couple guys I got from the streets 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:45.840 that came up, how I came up. I wouldn't go 0:16:45.920 --> 0:16:48.280 through whatever to keep them out of trouble. I wouldn't 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:51.960 let them get in trouble. Like like if I had 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:54.160 a situation with a rapper and then we were somewhere 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.640 where that rapper is that, I'm not going to put 0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:57.120 them in a. 0:16:57.120 --> 0:16:59.560 Situation to where they need to react that way. 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:01.680 I'll just with it on my own at another time. 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:09.240 But the difference between I think street justice and revenge 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:15.440 is revenges starts being emotional and it starts being about payback, like, Okay, 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:18.679 somebody hurt me, so I need to hurt them, versus 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:21.480 my mind state is like I need to make sure 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:24.960 somebody don't keep hurting. So it's only going to be 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:28.720 specific things that I'm going to respond to, you know 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:31.239 what I mean, Like respond to or if I think 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:34.200 I'm gonna say somebody life, Like if I teach you 0:17:34.240 --> 0:17:36.080 this lesson, it might say your life. So if you 0:17:36.119 --> 0:17:38.159 do something to me, I'm like, you know what, that 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:41.080 might get you killed another time. So I might, you know, 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:46.040 hit you upside your head so you realize this could 0:17:46.040 --> 0:17:50.760 be worse next time. Okay, I really believe in injustice, 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:53.400 you know what I mean? And I don't think America's 0:17:53.960 --> 0:17:56.360 sense of justice is more superior in minds. I don't 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:59.560 care what society agrees with, and that's what everybody pretty 0:17:59.600 --> 0:18:00.800 much gets mistake about. 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:12.600 Or yeah, but I mean we're we're fundamentally tall to 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:15.399 put it in the hands of someone else. That's that's 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:18.399 why people implement the police when something happens, instead of 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:21.320 you trying to find your way to solve it, and 0:18:21.400 --> 0:18:23.360 you give it to the courts. Like you know, if 0:18:23.359 --> 0:18:25.879 something happens to your child, you're like, oh, well, you know, 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:29.280 I'll report them instead of saying, you know what I 0:18:29.359 --> 0:18:31.679 like I have I've told my children, like if something 0:18:31.760 --> 0:18:37.120 happens to you the way that that's handled, you may 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:41.639 not like the timeline, but you know, people come up 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:44.439 missing every day, you know. But I wouldn't say that 0:18:44.480 --> 0:18:47.600 I'm gonna sit and wait because you have a justice 0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:50.320 system that a play in your face. You know, something 0:18:50.359 --> 0:18:54.000 will happen to your child that Harry's a life sentence 0:18:54.040 --> 0:18:57.080 to them, a mission you know, emotionally and mentally, and 0:18:57.200 --> 0:18:59.760 they tell them five years you know, so this person 0:18:59.760 --> 0:19:04.159 walk away unaware of the told that they've taken on 0:19:04.200 --> 0:19:06.679 your child's life. But you, as a parent, it's up 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:08.480 to you to make sure that they really feel that. 0:19:09.080 --> 0:19:11.960 And and and people around them actually feel that. I'm 0:19:12.000 --> 0:19:16.640 not a person who you know in the Japanese, Uh, 0:19:17.280 --> 0:19:19.639 they're there. They have a thing where they kill off 0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:23.040 the whole family line. And and some people are are 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:26.119 worthy of like some crimes they've committed, Like there should 0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:28.760 be no one after you. You shouldn't have children, you 0:19:28.760 --> 0:19:32.119 shouldn't have cousins. You your line is bad, you know. 0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:39.439 But we'll say nay, who But we say, you know, 0:19:40.920 --> 0:19:44.560 you know, let them spend life in jail, or you know, 0:19:45.240 --> 0:19:46.880 we give it to God, or we do a lot 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:49.480 of things that that we should take upon ourselves to 0:19:49.600 --> 0:19:52.560 like handle so that my child will know like, Okay, 0:19:52.600 --> 0:19:55.160 my mom did that. You know. So I'm really protective 0:19:55.200 --> 0:19:58.280 of who of who I have around them because I 0:19:58.320 --> 0:20:02.000 know that I don't have the same kind of you know, 0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:05.720 value system on life. If someone wants to hurt my kid, 0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:08.240 where are you. 0:20:08.200 --> 0:20:08.679 At with to be. 0:20:11.280 --> 0:20:15.720 With what? There's a lot there, like with regard to 0:20:16.280 --> 0:20:22.800 personal or outsourcing of justice. Sure, I understand both. Obviously. 0:20:22.840 --> 0:20:28.920 I think the philosophical root behind seeking out a third 0:20:29.040 --> 0:20:32.800 party is to attempt to take the emotionality out of it. 0:20:32.840 --> 0:20:35.080 Most people aren't able to do it themselves. So you 0:20:35.119 --> 0:20:38.640 want to have the most neutral arbiter that you can 0:20:42.880 --> 0:20:46.639 Jewish you know, probably in ninety five percent of cases 0:20:46.640 --> 0:20:52.120 that's necessary. You know, Japanese culture, they're pretty disciplined, they're 0:20:52.119 --> 0:20:58.040 not very emotionally, but they also have like set their 0:20:58.080 --> 0:21:02.120 standards as them max. If you cause shame to your family, 0:21:02.240 --> 0:21:07.840 you stabbed yourself and the torso fatally like, that's aggressive. 0:21:08.200 --> 0:21:11.119 You know, most other cultures don't do that. So the 0:21:11.160 --> 0:21:13.239 fact that they want to say, yeah, well you know 0:21:13.600 --> 0:21:15.160 we'll take it, We'll put take it into our own 0:21:15.160 --> 0:21:18.040 hands and make sure that we do the max. You know, 0:21:18.080 --> 0:21:22.480 there's there's not a lot of restraint there, so emotional 0:21:22.560 --> 0:21:25.679 or not, you're still going to get the same maxed 0:21:25.720 --> 0:21:26.640 out result. 0:21:27.400 --> 0:21:27.800 Mm hmm. 0:21:30.600 --> 0:21:33.160 It's like, I mean, as far as like the Dirk 0:21:33.240 --> 0:21:36.679 thing goes, I don't like so we said before. I mean, 0:21:36.720 --> 0:21:41.680 it depends on what your bigger picture your values are 0:21:41.680 --> 0:21:42.280 in that case. 0:21:43.200 --> 0:21:43.680 M hmm. 0:21:46.440 --> 0:21:49.800 But I'm confused. I thought that it was to a 0:21:49.880 --> 0:21:53.480 bench his friend, it was okay, and then they found 0:21:53.480 --> 0:21:58.000 out that it was related to another woman as well. 0:21:58.200 --> 0:22:00.760 Or is that the thing to do with the woman, 0:22:00.800 --> 0:22:02.560 and he eventually thinks. 0:22:01.840 --> 0:22:08.359 That the initial conflict is over. They say, I'm not 0:22:08.400 --> 0:22:10.879 sure if it's true, but they say, initially it was 0:22:10.920 --> 0:22:15.040 over at the two crews, the two guys, you know, 0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:18.439 the two separate crews were interacting with the same women, 0:22:19.080 --> 0:22:23.200 and somewhere along the line, you know it, who knows. 0:22:22.960 --> 0:22:27.160 You know, maybe somebody's talking shit. I quite don't know. 0:22:27.240 --> 0:22:31.400 But women are extremely responsible with their actions. It's the 0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:36.359 moral of the story as the moral. 0:22:38.240 --> 0:22:39.479 Is that the moral of the story. 0:22:40.320 --> 0:22:42.679 Yeah, that's the moral of pretty much any story, at 0:22:42.720 --> 0:22:44.240 least any story that involves women. 0:22:46.359 --> 0:22:51.920 Us. I don't know. 0:22:53.640 --> 0:22:58.040 Parallel universes, one with consequences, the other not so much. 0:22:58.600 --> 0:23:05.520