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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lex Pee. And as

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Speaker 1: y'all can see, I Drea's not here today. Dre usually

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Speaker 1: say the next part, but you were tuned into another

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Speaker 1: episode of Poor Minds where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 1: So Drea is still cutting up in Miami having a

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Speaker 1: good time poor girls. We're gonna cross our fingers that

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Speaker 1: she brings me back a BDB. That's what I'm hoping on.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm praying, a moment of silence that Drea

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Speaker 1: brings me back a BDB.

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Speaker 2: Amen. So I have a special guest with me today.

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Speaker 1: Y'all probably heard me talk about her on the show

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Speaker 1: a few times. Y'all know I'll be with her outside

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Speaker 1: all the time. We tweet each other. She's crazy as hell.

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Speaker 1: My friend Diamond is here.

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Speaker 2: Yay. Hey guys, So Domond tell us a little bit,

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Speaker 2: but telling people about yourself because I know all about you.

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Speaker 2: But okay, everybody, Hey guys, I'm Diamond.

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Speaker 3: I'm from Brooklyn originally, I've been in Atlanta the last

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Speaker 3: two years. Some people know me from being a slum

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Speaker 3: of correction off for someone right now I'm dead. You're

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Speaker 3: a big booty officer girl and got in so much

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Speaker 3: trouble and they used to sing that to me too,

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Speaker 3: like a cop car.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all, she has the biggest ass, Like seriously.

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Speaker 4: We've been friends for a year and she doesn't get.

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Speaker 2: Over it to see it? Can you stand? Paid my

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Speaker 2: rent already? Because look at it? Look at it? I

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Speaker 2: charge you. I was just play. We had to show that. Well,

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Speaker 2: we had to show it at least to the YouTube. YouTube.

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Speaker 2: Canna see how big her ass is, so y'all can understand.

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Speaker 4: And I still pay my own bills, so it's not

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Speaker 4: even that big of a deal.

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Speaker 3: Guy, No, I don't agree with that. I've still paid

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Speaker 3: me to a BDB. Please and thank you so so.

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Speaker 2: Give me an update. What's been going on this past week?

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Speaker 2: What do you be doing? Great?

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Speaker 4: My life sucks.

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Speaker 2: I don't have a man. I pay my own bills.

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Speaker 4: I actually work.

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Speaker 3: Everything that's terrible about life, I do it.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean, but you gotta look at it

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Speaker 2: like these. You gotta look at.

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Speaker 1: Things in a positive way, like, Okay, you don't have

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Speaker 1: a man, but these niggas is stressful.

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Speaker 2: You got a job to pay your bills. That's a blessing.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You gotta be positive.

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Speaker 3: MM, I guess holding on by uh by a thread here,

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Speaker 3: but you're still love.

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Speaker 2: I guess. Okay, So my past week, I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: Uh. Last week we kind of had a shitty episode,

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Speaker 1: but I was emotional. But I'm back at it again today.

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting on his crown. What happened?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I lost my wallet yesterday, y'all. I have a Valentino wallet.

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Speaker 1: I was at Barns and Noble fucking left my wallet there.

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Speaker 1: I go back to get my wallet. The girl is like, no,

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Speaker 1: I picked up your wallet and I brought it to

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Speaker 1: Loston Found. I go to Loston Found and my shit

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Speaker 1: is gone. So one of the employees took my fucking wallet. So,

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Speaker 1: people that work at Barnes and Noble, I'm coming for you,

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Speaker 1: or you better cut my check cause I need my fucking.

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Speaker 2: Wallet and she gonna bring me. You don't want that,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So yeah, that was like

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Speaker 1: how I started my February. But I'm not gonna let

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Speaker 1: it bring me down. I'm gonna still be positive because

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Speaker 1: you know what if I don't get it back.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna get another one and call a day

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Speaker 2: and move on.

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Speaker 1: So we gonna go ahead and get into these topics

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Speaker 1: for y'all. So the first topic was actually sitting to

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Speaker 1: me by a listener, Thank you for that. So I

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Speaker 1: seen somebody tweet this, and I just wanted to talk

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Speaker 1: and you know me and dre R, we're both in

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Speaker 1: and he says there are advantages of dating a younger

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Speaker 1: I'm referring to eighteen years of old plus, so before

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Speaker 1: the feminist accused me of child abuse, I'm talking about

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Speaker 2: Girls mature faster than boys.

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Speaker 1: So even if she is eighteen, she's mature, and if

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Speaker 2: You can basically mold her into what you want her

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Speaker 2: to be. The biological clock. Older women they can't have kids,

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Speaker 1: Younger girls, saying that once a woman hits thirty, she's

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Speaker 2: He was saying, I'm not saying.

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Speaker 1: Thirty year olds don't look good, but compared to twenty

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Speaker 1: year old you can see the difference. Time is a

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Speaker 1: woman's greatest enemy because by her late twenties she starts

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Speaker 1: using more and more makeup, wearing push up bras, so

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Speaker 2: So basically he's a predator. Yeah, that's the vibes I

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Speaker 2: got right, Maria.

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Speaker 5: As a man, I disagreed. Did y'all watch that Super

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: He is so under educated about like everything, women's sex

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Speaker 4: So clearly he only praise on the week.

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Speaker 3: Younger women are easier to manipulate because they don't know

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Speaker 3: that's what he's seeking out.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you what most women think, and no,

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Speaker 1: I can tell you as a thirty year old woman,

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Speaker 1: like eighteen to twenty five, I look back on that

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Speaker 2: Grew and I don't accept that for men anymore. He's

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Speaker 2: looking for the old year, he's looking.

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Speaker 1: For the old men because a thirty year old lex,

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Speaker 1: I'm not taking that ship. I'm not letting you walk

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Speaker 1: and that. So it just surprises me that as a man,

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Speaker 1: don't you want a strong woman that's a partner to you.

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Speaker 2: What can the eighteen year old offer a thirty year

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Speaker 2: old man. He doesn't want to be held accountable. He

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Speaker 2: wants to go on soda dates.

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Speaker 3: Not SO Today, Yes that was a crazy top. He

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Speaker 3: wants to be on a pop date.

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Speaker 1: A pop date. So if y'all don't know what a

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Speaker 1: SO today, a SO today is. Now men are asking

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Speaker 3: So the bars in Hell No, And to people who

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Speaker 3: don't have Twitter, you're gonna think this is made up.

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Speaker 2: But this is an actual.

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Speaker 3: Friend of us that got offered a soda date because

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Speaker 3: he first he asked, I'm dead, Maria. This is what

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Speaker 3: I say, a man to even invite you out for

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Speaker 1: He invited her for coffee. She was like, well, I

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Speaker 1: don't really like coffee. He was like, okay, I don't either. Good,

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Speaker 1: let's go grass with soda. I just feel like, but

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, though an eighteen year old girl, if it's

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Speaker 1: a thirty old man and she thinking, oh he got money, girl,

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Speaker 1: he just wants to spend time with me.

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Speaker 2: Let me go see what he talking about. And she

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Speaker 2: gonna go grab the fucking sierra. Miss Oh sweet lord,

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So I just think that

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Speaker 2: it's crazy because I do. I will say this. I

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Speaker 2: don't like it. How women will be like, oh, I'm thirty,

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Speaker 2: but I look like I'm twenty two. I look like

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Speaker 2: I'm twenty three. Why do we do that as we

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Speaker 3: Because women's values is in their parents and men's values

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Speaker 3: more valuable than younger we look. So it's okay to

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, because thirty's not old, So how

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Speaker 2: can we be like, oh, I'm thirty, but I look twenty.

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Speaker 1: No, I look all of thirty years old. And I

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Speaker 1: forth on Twitter the other day because they were like,

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Speaker 1: I thought you were like twenty one. I said, girl, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm thirty and I look all of thirty. Because y'all

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Speaker 1: be thinking just because somebody's thirty, they're supposed to look

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Speaker 2: I'm not not decrepit like they're supposed to. Like, I'm

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Speaker 2: looking like what am I supposed to look like at thirty?

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Speaker 2: That's not a compliment, though, I mean it is a compliment,

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Speaker 2: but it's like, I'm thirty. There's nothing wrong with me

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Speaker 2: looking thirty.

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Speaker 3: We got a hold it down. For first of all,

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Speaker 3: we are the originators of Twitter. They'd be like, goat

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Speaker 5: We mad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we here, we made it. We just all of

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Speaker 3: two thousand and nine. We rock that shit, and we

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Speaker 5: I should if I feel like, I mean the fact

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Speaker 2: That just sounds more compliment.

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Speaker 1: I mean, no, it is a compliment. But what I'm

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Speaker 1: saying is looking this is what thirty looks like. Though

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Speaker 1: I don't look twenty one, I don't look twenty five.

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Speaker 1: I look like a thirty year old.

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Speaker 2: This is what a thirty year old. It is what

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Speaker 1: I feel more so like younger girls are looking older

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Speaker 1: because they're looking at YouTube tuatorials. We know how to

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. So of course I look young,

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Speaker 2: but I look like a thirty year old. You know

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Speaker 5: I feel you, But does you think that probably contribute

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Speaker 5: like thirty, y'all thirty up here too?

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Speaker 2: Uh sometimes because child? Okay, okay, but I say this.

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Speaker 1: I just I feel like with the age thing, I

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Speaker 2: But I feel like it's the same thing for women.

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Speaker 1: I feel like me turning thirty last year, like I

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Speaker 2: In my best team. I feel like I'm just now

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Speaker 2: getting into my prime.

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Speaker 1: I've never felt better about my body, about my looks,

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Speaker 1: about my personality. I feel like what I demand when

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Speaker 1: I date. I feel like I'm enjoying dating more because

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Speaker 1: I'm getting what I feel like I deserve out of it.

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Speaker 1: So it just always confuses me that women are like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I don't want to turn thirty, because

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Speaker 1: Dreya says that a lie.

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Speaker 2: She's always like, I don't want to turn thirty. But

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Speaker 1: I just feel like men that like today younger women,

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Speaker 2: So how old is your ex and how old are you?

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Speaker 3: We have a nine year difference Okay, So when we dated,

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Speaker 2: I was doing it before Keisha. I that was my favorite.

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Speaker 4: I'm thirty three now. Of all thirty three years of.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like you were trying to like kind

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Speaker 3: He had to teach me how to check the eggs

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Speaker 3: You weren't doing that.

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Speaker 1: These men are literally going out Like somebody told me

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Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, man, bruh, I can't manipulate her.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: He was like, oh man, bro he was like, I

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Speaker 1: Oh shit, he's thirty eight. His friend he was like,

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Speaker 2: I tried to avoid him, but dad, So that that's different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like there's a difference between men trying

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Speaker 2: They're like, ugh, she's twenty seven.

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Speaker 1: Those eggs not right, Like I want him to scramble,

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Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying. Like, so, I just

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Speaker 2: Oh, I mean, I don't care if the offended. It

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Speaker 5: But nah, it's just crazy that you say that, because

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Speaker 5: I'm open enough to say, like, when I was like

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Speaker 2: Did you live with her? Was it serious?

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Speaker 5: I never loved it was not serious.

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Speaker 2: It was understood what it was.

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Speaker 5: It was understood im off rial, Like if I caught

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Speaker 2: This is real. Like I might live together for over

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Speaker 5: I live, but I can honestly say, like I learned

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I learned from him. It's sick. Did you

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Speaker 2: feel like she was ever taking advantage of you or

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Speaker 2: It was just lit. But I also understood, Like, I mean,

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't say I was her side nigga. I was

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Speaker 5: basically I mean, she didn't have a relationship. I definitely

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Speaker 5: It was definitely fucking like she. I was basically her

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Speaker 2: That's what it was marinated.

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Speaker 3: Was so in your experience at that age, did you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because you know we had like real conversations like

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Speaker 2: Oh shit, you was learning some real shit.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I learned this at like twenty twenty.

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Speaker 2: One, right, right, that's from Nana.

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Speaker 3: That's cut man, that's called me Nana Nay.

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Speaker 2: I used to call him junior.

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Speaker 1: Oh I did I call him junior because he was

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Speaker 1: so young? But no, I do feel like I think

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Speaker 1: it's weird if you go out purposely searching for somebody younger.

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Speaker 1: Just to wrap up this conversation, I just feel like

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Speaker 1: it's weird now. Like I said, in some situation, things

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Speaker 1: I said, I feel like people like in Marian situation,

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Speaker 1: tend to like women their age when.

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Speaker 2: They get older.

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Speaker 1: Like I know a lot of guys are like, hey,

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Speaker 1: doing with an eighteen year old? Like, if you're thirty

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Speaker 2: You're sick. Yeah, that means to me that you're a

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Speaker 1: But you know what I'm saying, you know, what I'm saying, like,

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Speaker 1: that's the people that be like creeping around the high schools. R.

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Speaker 2: Kelly Styles. Let's just say it what it is. You

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Speaker 2: they was out there. Oh, they was definitely out.

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Speaker 5: Y'all knew the girl in high school that was dating

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Speaker 2: Drug dealer that I'm not gonna lie. I had a

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Speaker 3: My guy was on FBI's Most Wanted. Oh, I swear

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Speaker 3: to god, look.

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Speaker 1: Were gonna have a whole at bonus episode with Diamond

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Speaker 1: just telling her story times because she got a lot

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Speaker 1: of stories. So let us know how y'all feel about,

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Speaker 1: you know, people that are in their thirties dating teenagers.

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Speaker 1: That's what it is like, eighteen nineteen year olds or

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Speaker 1: people in their twenties. So I want to move on

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Speaker 1: to this topic because this is something that me and

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Speaker 2: We do not see out of eye on it, and

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Speaker 2: it's a very simple topic.

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Speaker 1: But I just need to understand your thought process on

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Speaker 1: going through your significant other's phone and why now I'll

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Speaker 1: tell y'all on my side of it. If I don't

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Speaker 1: give a fuck, if you was with my man last night.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to know. I'm not looking through his

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Speaker 1: phone to find out. Ignorance is bliss. If somebody is

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Speaker 1: making me happy, I just want to be happy because

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Speaker 1: nobody is perfect and how relationships are nowadays with social media,

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Speaker 1: people have access to everyone. You can open your man's

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Speaker 1: DMS and see fucking Shakira in there.

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Speaker 2: Don't look, bitch, don't look.

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Speaker 1: So what is your logic? I'm going through man's because

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Speaker 1: you're staying hard by this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So my thing is I'm deathly loyal. So it

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Speaker 3: doesn't matter how much money you have, how good you look.

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Speaker 2: If we are committed, we are committed.

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Speaker 3: So if I am sacrificing my life's like pleasures, like

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Speaker 3: X amount of money. If I'm shutting that down and

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Speaker 3: staying with your broke cass, I want to know that

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Speaker 3: I did that for love.

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Speaker 2: That's real. So i'ma go through your phone and see

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Speaker 2: what you're doing. But don't you feel like, why are

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Speaker 2: you with somebody if you don't trust? Because I don't

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Speaker 3: I don't trust my mom, I don't trust myself when

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Speaker 3: I drink That's how I get most of my bodies

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Speaker 3: when I drink.

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Speaker 1: So if I don't know me, how'mna know you. But

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, but do you feel like you've

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 2: Because that's not Yeah, I don't trust somebody. You trust me? Yes,

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Speaker 2: I trust you. You shouldn't, cause I steal from you.

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Speaker 2: If you're not, no, you would not know.

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Speaker 3: But friendships are different from relationships. Men are just so

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Speaker 3: easily persuaded to like do shit to the people they love.

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Speaker 3: A man can love you enough to die for you

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Speaker 3: and still cheat. I don't know what it is about

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Speaker 3: so exactly. So if you know he gonna do that,

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Speaker 3: just be no.

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Speaker 2: No, no, I don't know until I check your phone. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so you check your phone, he's cheating.

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Speaker 3: But when I check the phone, they don't be doing nothing.

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Speaker 3: I don't have those kind of men. You got men

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Speaker 3: with money, I don't. So I meant my man can't

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Speaker 3: afford to bitches.

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Speaker 4: So I check.

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, okay, let me suck his dick because

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Speaker 3: I'm wrong. I go through so many different avenues of

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Speaker 3: I check the Twitter, DMS, I check because now they're sleeping.

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Speaker 3: I check all the shit, and then when I know

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Speaker 2: But if I did.

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Speaker 3: Check and someone's cheating, I'm leaving, why would you check

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Speaker 3: the stay? That's that's a mental illness. I'm checking to

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Speaker 4: So yeah, I'm turning, like.

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Speaker 2: What if you have somebody that's just because some.

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Speaker 1: People cheat good? They texting you, They're like, hey, all right,

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Speaker 1: i'll hit you up tomorrow. I'll hit you first, and

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Speaker 1: they delete everything, So a man could still be cheating.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but if I did what I had to do

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Speaker 3: joke's on me because you're that good.

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Speaker 2: And if you're that good, you deserve to do what

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Speaker 2: you will have to do. So you just don't want

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Speaker 2: to be happy. Why can't you think that? People?

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Speaker 3: Okay, there's no one hundred percent to anything. You don't

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Speaker 3: think that you're lucky enough to get somebody who doesn't cheat. No,

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Speaker 3: all men cheat, they don't men. Oh, there's no all

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Speaker 3: to anything. All bitches don't something. All torment, there's no

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Speaker 3: all to anything. People are human. There's individuality is inhuman.

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Speaker 3: You have to luck out at some point.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I just well, I won't say that, like

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Speaker 2: it just depends what you count as cheaty. I feel

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Speaker 3: Do with When I checked that phone, everything that I

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Speaker 2: He wasn't doing anything anything.

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Speaker 3: And there was girls like, hey, I have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 3: I literally see DMS.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: So you said that was because you know you had

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Speaker 1: though your opinion has changed.

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Speaker 4: I have relationship PTSD, so my ideals.

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Speaker 2: But you want a man, that's well, I don't want

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you want a rich man, because

439
00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:34,440
Speaker 1: I know y'all be thinking. That's all we talk about

440
00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:35,439
Speaker 1: on the podcast is rich.

441
00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:35,639
Speaker 2: Now.

442
00:17:35,720 --> 00:17:37,400
Speaker 4: I don't want to struggle anymore.

443
00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:38,280
Speaker 2: But I just.

444
00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:40,520
Speaker 1: Feel like we always say that you should date somebody

445
00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,879
Speaker 1: that can at least help you or elevate you in

446
00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:46,400
Speaker 1: some way, shape or form, whether it's giving you business advice,

447
00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:49,679
Speaker 1: whether it's introducing you to people, whether it's putting you

448
00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:52,440
Speaker 1: in certain circles or even putting money in your pocket.

449
00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:55,480
Speaker 1: It's not just about the money when I say that. So, now,

450
00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:59,119
Speaker 1: do you feel like you're gonna have to accept cheating? No,

451
00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,959
Speaker 1: because you own me, know what you know.

452
00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,560
Speaker 3: So if I've been if I'm thirty three years old

453
00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:08,639
Speaker 3: and I've been dealing with faithful men, I'm not gonna

454
00:18:08,640 --> 00:18:10,320
Speaker 3: be able to turn a blind eye unless it's for

455
00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:12,840
Speaker 3: significant money. And then if I'm turning to black and

456
00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,119
Speaker 3: it's gonna change me because I'm I'm super not a

457
00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:16,359
Speaker 3: cheater like you can't.

458
00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,080
Speaker 2: I pride on my loyalty and I say this on

459
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,200
Speaker 2: Twitter all the time. No I'm doing it because I've

460
00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,280
Speaker 2: been that devil on your shoulder. It's like, bitch goal,

461
00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:26,760
Speaker 2: I'm super. I was super pride on my loyalty.

462
00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:30,200
Speaker 3: If what I say to you can't be known to

463
00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:32,000
Speaker 3: you as a fact, and I just didn't do my job.

464
00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:33,800
Speaker 3: So now if I'm dealing with a man that I

465
00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:36,439
Speaker 3: know cheets, it's gonna change me because now to have

466
00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:38,000
Speaker 3: some kind of peace of mind, I got to cheat

467
00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:39,200
Speaker 3: back and that's not me and I'm not.

468
00:18:39,119 --> 00:18:40,480
Speaker 4: Gonna be comfortable. So I don't even know if I'm

469
00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:40,920
Speaker 4: ready for that.

470
00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:43,239
Speaker 2: Life right honestly, But I feel like this.

471
00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:45,840
Speaker 1: I always talk about how I have been unfaithful in

472
00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,399
Speaker 1: the past, and I'm not the most faithful person, but

473
00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:53,359
Speaker 1: I will say this, I feel like now, I just

474
00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:55,960
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily that I don't look because I'm like, well,

475
00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:57,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do what I want to do anyway, because

476
00:18:57,480 --> 00:18:59,240
Speaker 1: I told ya how I am with Nigerian Bay, Like,

477
00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:03,720
Speaker 1: I'm very happy, you know, you know everybody, everybody loves

478
00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:04,960
Speaker 1: hing me and I feel like, you know what this

479
00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,000
Speaker 1: is somebody I'm really gonna you don't make an effort

480
00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:08,920
Speaker 1: with and do right things with. But am I gonna

481
00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:11,959
Speaker 1: look through his phone? And no, because I'm happy, I

482
00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:12,800
Speaker 1: just don't want to know.

483
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:13,840
Speaker 2: Literally, it's you.

484
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:16,280
Speaker 3: It's it's all that you know, you know, not looking

485
00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:19,199
Speaker 3: in phones, you know, not caring about that because I

486
00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,159
Speaker 3: have I have this discussion all the time. What is

487
00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,879
Speaker 3: people's breaking points in a relationship. Some girls were like,

488
00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:26,320
Speaker 3: I can't deal with a broken nigga, but I.

489
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:27,000
Speaker 2: Can deal with cheating.

490
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:30,200
Speaker 3: I'm the absolute reverse. I can deal with a broke nigga.

491
00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:34,080
Speaker 3: I can't deal with cheating because circumstances change people. That's broke,

492
00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,440
Speaker 3: don't stay broke. But people who are cheat is stay CHEATERSHS.

493
00:19:37,000 --> 00:19:38,480
Speaker 2: That's true, that's true.

494
00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:42,119
Speaker 1: But so but I'm not, like I said, maybe twenty

495
00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,479
Speaker 1: five year old legs cool, but thirty year old legs.

496
00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm not in the business of being like a rod

497
00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:48,080
Speaker 1: or die like I'm not about to be.

498
00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:50,280
Speaker 2: I can't struggle with somebody. I'm struggle.

499
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:53,080
Speaker 1: I can struggle by myself. I'm not struggling by myself.

500
00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,840
Speaker 1: But it's like, why do bad with somebody? Like we're

501
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 1: both in here, like how we're gonna pay these bills,

502
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,280
Speaker 1: how we're gonna do this or what like, it's some

503
00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:02,200
Speaker 1: somebody needs to be pulling in something, you know what

504
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 1: I mean. I just feel like I'd rather struggle by myself.

505
00:20:05,640 --> 00:20:08,000
Speaker 3: So you rather be cheated or that have songs like

506
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,960
Speaker 3: in depth loyalty, I feel like.

507
00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,560
Speaker 2: I feel like no. I feel like at the end

508
00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:16,919
Speaker 2: of the day, people are gonna be loyal who they

509
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:18,400
Speaker 2: want to be loyal to. At the end of the day.

510
00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:20,280
Speaker 1: People can cheat that, but that doesn't mean they don't

511
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:22,760
Speaker 1: love you. Sheting is just not a deal breaker for me,

512
00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:27,800
Speaker 1: like people is a jaw breaker for me. It's just

513
00:20:27,840 --> 00:20:30,920
Speaker 1: not if you get it now. It's a different type

514
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:31,359
Speaker 1: of cheating.

515
00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:35,160
Speaker 2: Though. You got some niggas that nakers.

516
00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:39,800
Speaker 1: You got some naggers that be cheating, and they'd be

517
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,600
Speaker 1: like taking care of their side bitches. They got them

518
00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:46,240
Speaker 1: in whole apartments, giving them two three thousand dollars a month,

519
00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,640
Speaker 1: buying them jewelry, taking them on trips.

520
00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:49,680
Speaker 2: That's a different.

521
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,920
Speaker 3: Cheating is like murder. To me, there's no better kind

522
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,639
Speaker 3: of murder. It is so like.

523
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 1: It's an accidental murder. It's like what's it called when

524
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 1: you actually hit somebody with your manslaughter?

525
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:00,840
Speaker 4: Murder is murdered.

526
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 3: Someone's dead and gone. You cheated on me, You cheated

527
00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:05,720
Speaker 3: on me, just mad you paid her bills.

528
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 2: Manslaughter you gonna go like to jail. Well, depending on

529
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:12,159
Speaker 2: how it happened, like a year or two, first degree here,

530
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 2: you wouldn't have style. Oh my god, going down. He's

531
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 2: not in there anymore exactly. Don't laugh. Oh I still

532
00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,200
Speaker 2: wanted to have sex with him. I don't care. Okay,

533
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:30,440
Speaker 2: you know what, very nice murderer. So, oh we're gonna

534
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 2: stay on top because look y'all, I've been sipping the crown.

535
00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:33,400
Speaker 2: I'm a little tisty now.

536
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,880
Speaker 1: So you feel like cheating is a deal breaker. Yes,

537
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 1: and you're gonna go through people's phone for the rest.

538
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:38,880
Speaker 2: Of your life.

539
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,720
Speaker 3: I go through my dad's phone. Yes, I just gotta

540
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:42,560
Speaker 3: know what's going on, what is wrong.

541
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,879
Speaker 2: I'm very intrusive. I don't care. Okay, I have to

542
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:47,439
Speaker 2: keep my men in check. Do you go through your

543
00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:48,119
Speaker 2: friend's phone?

544
00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:51,200
Speaker 3: No, I'm giving fuck with you bitches, dude.

545
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,240
Speaker 2: But what if, like I'm talking about you like, I

546
00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 2: don't care.

547
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 4: I'll figure it out. I don't.

548
00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 3: I don't care about anything but what my man is

549
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:02,160
Speaker 3: doing your dad, Yes, that's my thinker think.

550
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, we're just gonna move on because I can't

551
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:08,359
Speaker 1: change your mind because I just think that's crazy.

552
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 2: Do you go through people's phones brand, No, you're a man.

553
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 3: I would have really hoped that you didn't do that

554
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 3: because I have gender norms for everything, like genders can't

555
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 3: do the same ship.

556
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:21,760
Speaker 4: I have very like guidelines gender bias. Men shouldn't do that,

557
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 4: but I can.

558
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 2: Have you had your phone going through before, I'm pretty

559
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:25,960
Speaker 2: sure I have.

560
00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,960
Speaker 5: But I've definitely been in a scenario where somebody was

561
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 5: looking for something and they didn't find ship. They broke

562
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:35,159
Speaker 5: down and that just made the relationship trash because it's like,

563
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 5: why are you sneaking around?

564
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:39,639
Speaker 2: Right? Because you were sneaking around. I was sneaking around.

565
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,400
Speaker 1: But this is the thing, though, If you go through

566
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: a man's phone and he's not.

567
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,440
Speaker 2: Doing anything, that's gonna make him feel like.

568
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,720
Speaker 3: Why why why are you getting caught? Why are you

569
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 3: getting caught? Why are you getting caught going through his phone? Well,

570
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 3: she told me, yes, sometimes I'm not I'm not on myself.

571
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna be extra nice. You're gonna get an

572
00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 2: extra head. That's it.

573
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 3: I'm fucking bad because that's something I don't like to do.

574
00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 3: So if you're getting hit.

575
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 2: Oh you did it. You've been a good boy. You've

576
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 2: been a good boy. No, my Joe hurtsing doesn't pay enough.

577
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 2: It's slavery.

578
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 5: All men cheat is saying all women give good.

579
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 2: I'm dead. All men don't cheat. I think they do.

580
00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:21,760
Speaker 2: All men with money cheat. No, you can't say that

581
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 2: I'm dead. I just feel like, OK, yeah, really bad.

582
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 2: So I'm really really sorry, y'all.

583
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,080
Speaker 1: So you you're gonna go through the phones, I'm not

584
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:32,920
Speaker 1: gonna go through phones. I feel like it's an invasion

585
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,159
Speaker 1: of privacy. It shows that you don't trust somebody. And

586
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I just feel like

587
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 1: I just want to be happy and enjoy people like

588
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:40,440
Speaker 1: nobody belongs.

589
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 2: To you, Like we don't belong to people. You su

590
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,320
Speaker 2: So if you're gonna a man is gonna do what

591
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 2: he wants to do, regardless, who am I to try

592
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 2: to regulate your life. As long as we have fun

593
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 2: and we're enjoying each other's company and we join each

594
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 2: other's time and our relationship is good and happy, that's

595
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 2: I just live.

596
00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: I lived one day at a time. That's just my

597
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 1: philosoph I am that type of person I try to live.

598
00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 1: I just take shit one day at a fucking time

599
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: because life does not promise, So I'm not about to

600
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:10,200
Speaker 1: spend especially because most of the time I deal with

601
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:12,880
Speaker 1: niggas that are out of town in long distance. So

602
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 1: if I go through your phone and I see something,

603
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 1: I'm not about to spend the two days I have

604
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: with you arguing.

605
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,360
Speaker 2: That's just mine. See, you have a whole different circumstance.

606
00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 2: I live in people like I meet you in the.

607
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,360
Speaker 3: First day, we have sex, you moving, we love each other.

608
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 4: I have to know that it's.

609
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 2: Right that's.

610
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,919
Speaker 1: Okay, So let us know how y'all feel about going

611
00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: through people's hongs, because I'm not doing that shit.

612
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 2: So this past week I'm moving to the next topic.

613
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,200
Speaker 1: So this past week, of course, everybody has been coming

614
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:41,000
Speaker 1: out with the girl dad posts. You know, all the

615
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,159
Speaker 1: men are representing for their girls since Kobe's passing and

616
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 1: everything like that. But it was like a really big

617
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 1: trend on Twitter for people to be like, I don't

618
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 1: want a daughter. If I have a daughter, I'm sending

619
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: her back.

620
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:53,159
Speaker 2: I want straight sons.

621
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 1: I want straight sons. But now everybody's like, oh, girl dad,

622
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 1: this is cute. Let's represent for the men who have daughters.

623
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 1: But it's so many men out there and women that

624
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: be like, I don't want a daughter. So I wanted

625
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: to talk about that, like how dumb that is and

626
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 1: how the logic works on not want a daughter because

627
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:11,920
Speaker 1: you say.

628
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 2: That a lot.

629
00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 3: Listen, there's only two genders. You can have a preference

630
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 3: if you want. There's only two genders. How do you

631
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 3: not know what you want between two genders? What you

632
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 3: can see yourself envision yourself doing. It's only two genders.

633
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:24,160
Speaker 2: To pick from.

634
00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 3: It's not a crime to have a preference when you

635
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 3: have this vision.

636
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 1: No, it's not a crime to have a preference, but

637
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: it's kind of fucked up to be like, I.

638
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 2: Don't want a daughter. Daughters are trouble, but they we

639
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 2: do the same thing. Just like girls be out here

640
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 2: at fifteen fucking the boys be out here fucking a twelve.

641
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 2: It's even harder to have a sign, honestly, because you

642
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,199
Speaker 2: gotta you know what I'm saying, Guys be sticking, they

643
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 2: dicking everything and doing this. You gotta teach you, but

644
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:51,400
Speaker 2: you got everything is for with reasoning.

645
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 3: The reason I don't care for like daughters is because

646
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 3: everything that I liked growing up was very masculine. I

647
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 3: grew up playing like football and sports and fighting and.

648
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 2: Doing stuff like that.

649
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 3: So and then when I was young, I grew in

650
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 3: love for the NBA.

651
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 4: I can never be in the NBA.

652
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 3: The closest thing I can have to the NBA is

653
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 3: a nigga in the NBA, which isn't gonna happen because.

654
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 2: Well, most likely your kid's not gonna go in the NBA.

655
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's why I seek out tall men.

656
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 2: I'm dead, you know how hard is to get to

657
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 2: the NBA. I don't care.

658
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 4: I have no chance with a vagina.

659
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 2: I'm dead.

660
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 3: My favorite basketball player of all time is five eleven

661
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 3: six feet with sneakers on Alan Iverson doesn't matter. I

662
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 3: want a son, girl, girl babies donna bring back no money.

663
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 2: How can you say that?

664
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: Girl bosses out here like women are the most educated

665
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: women they are right now.

666
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 4: I have a fascination with sports.

667
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: I have a fashion. Look at Serena. What are the

668
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 2: ratings for the w NBA. I'm talking, okay, maybe not?

669
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 2: What are the ratings? Not? Who who kills it? Paid?

670
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,000
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't care about paid.

671
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 3: I care about It's just like I see like the

672
00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 3: Greeks and the coliseum and people going spend yourd spin

673
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 3: a coliseum full of people.

674
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,360
Speaker 2: They don't do that to Serena. I don't.

675
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 4: I like basketball. I never watched a tennis game in

676
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 4: my life.

677
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: I'm a hoodbitch. I don't know what they do on

678
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 3: that tennis court. I like basketball. I will never be

679
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,440
Speaker 3: in the NBA. Can I at least make a little

680
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 3: boy that's gonna do it?

681
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 2: I mean, you can have a preference, but you can't

682
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 2: be like my daughter. I'll tolerate her, Yeah, she'll be

683
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 2: all right. That sounds crazy as hell. I don't care,

684
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 2: I swear don't, but I'm just saying I feel like,

685
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 2: but this is a problem though.

686
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,640
Speaker 1: This is a problem with that thinking, because that's why

687
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: a lot of times women can't progress because they always

688
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 1: feel like men can do this.

689
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:42,120
Speaker 2: And women can't do that.

690
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 3: Listen, you know I'm a girl's girl. I just want

691
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 3: a boy. I think men are dumb, I think men

692
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:51,520
Speaker 3: are weak. I think men are very feeble. I wish

693
00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 3: I was a lesbian, but for some reason, God made

694
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 3: me straight. But when it comes to my dreams of

695
00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 3: like sports and stuff, I just want to.

696
00:27:59,400 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 2: Make a son.

697
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 1: You wanna have a sign because you have this sick

698
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: fantasy that he's gonna.

699
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 2: Go to the yes yes, and he like wants to

700
00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 2: Like what.

701
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 3: If he what if you have he works for Amazon,

702
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 3: he's gay and he wants to be a fashion designer

703
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 3: or something like that, or he wants to that's not

704
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:19,800
Speaker 3: too gay because people get sensitive with that topic. Let's

705
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:23,280
Speaker 3: just say let's just say if what if he's a

706
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 3: feminine boy?

707
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: Or what if you have a boy. Listen, You're gonna love.

708
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 4: You're gonna love whatever you make regardless, absolutely but your

709
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 4: vision is your vision.

710
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 3: And then God is the funniest comedian on earth. That's

711
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 3: not what's that little.

712
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 4: Guy, Kevin Hart. God is the biggest comedian.

713
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 3: I'm big because whenever you make a plan, he's gonna say,

714
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 3: got your bitch exactly. So you just gotta dam just

715
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 3: prepare your mind. I do, but I still have a

716
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 3: preference because of the NBA. I think you're gonna have Okay,

717
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 3: I already listened still with that. Sorry, wait what I

718
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 3: didn't say?

719
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: That was Gotti? How do you feel about kids? Man?

720
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: From a guy's point of view, do you feel like,

721
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: because it really comes from a lot of guys, she's

722
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: really I don't see a lot of women saying that,

723
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 1: oh I don't want a daughter, So usually I see

724
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: men saying they don't want a daughter.

725
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 2: So how do you feel about having kids? On that?

726
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 2: Because you don't have kids yet?

727
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 5: I do not, honest to God, my whole life, everybody's

728
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 5: told me I might have a daughter life. So if

729
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 5: I have a daughter, great, I don't care as long

730
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 5: as he or she is healthy.

731
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 2: I really don't care.

732
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 4: It's not like you care.

733
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:27,600
Speaker 2: It's just like a preference. You have. Visions.

734
00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 3: People have visions and like some girls wake up and

735
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 3: they have visions of weddings and stuff.

736
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 4: I don't give a I want.

737
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 2: A little ball.

738
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,240
Speaker 4: I'm just so boyish. It's nothing about anything else, and.

739
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 2: I feel that.

740
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 5: But I just feel like all the reasonings have nothing

741
00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 5: to do with the child, as like, I feel like

742
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 5: a lot of it has to do with sex, right,

743
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 5: A lot it has to do.

744
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 2: With that type of stuff. I was early as I expected,

745
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 2: you're a woman, like you've done, you've you've got your

746
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 2: back blown out before as a father that thought their

747
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,480
Speaker 2: daughter getting their bat blown out with people, right, and

748
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 2: they was doing the back blowing out in but like,

749
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:05,959
Speaker 2: but as a man, sorry to cut you off.

750
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 5: But as a man, it's like, there are women who

751
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 5: don't like the thought of their sons having sex too.

752
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 3: Right, so we don't think that far. This is literally

753
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 3: with me. I can only speak for myself. My vision

754
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 3: is all about basketball because I'm a tomboy with a

755
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 3: fat ass.

756
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 2: It's not about sex.

757
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 3: Everybody has sex, you take it takes two genders to

758
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: have that kind of sex that people are worried about.

759
00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 3: I don't care about that. I have sports fantasy.

760
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: You're sick, but I just want to say, like, I

761
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: think I think that as a parent, it's weird to

762
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 1: be thinking about not you, but just how people be like, oh,

763
00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: I don't want a daughter because of this, is this,

764
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: and that your daughter is not even here yet. She's

765
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: gonna be born and it's gonna be a celebration, but

766
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: you're thinking about who she's.

767
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 2: Probably gonna be fucking when she's That's what guys do.

768
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 2: I don't think girl's problem. Yeah, it's guys.

769
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 1: Like I said, guys do that, And I think that's

770
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 1: just really really really weird because I feel like, as

771
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 1: a man, but this is your opportunity to rectify, so

772
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: you know, it's a teacher your daughter about this or

773
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 1: if you have a son, to teach him better how

774
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: to treat women better.

775
00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: So there's not a bunch of idiots running around here

776
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 2: acting fucking crazy.

777
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: I feel like as a parent, people like they argue

778
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 1: about the gender so much, like we've seen so many

779
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: gender reveals of it being revealed that it was a

780
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: girl and people little.

781
00:31:17,240 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 2: Breaking down crying. People send me girl, oh my god,

782
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 2: it's like, are you crazy.

783
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 3: People send me those videos all the time, the girls

784
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 3: because they think that's how I'm gonna be I know

785
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 3: that's how you're gonna be.

786
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 2: I'd be like, I'll be okay, No, she's not.

787
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,120
Speaker 1: You're gonna make a big fucking deal, Like, bro, this

788
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: bitch gotta go.

789
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 4: I'll get over it.

790
00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 2: I will.

791
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 3: I'm not a liar one thing. I don't give a

792
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 3: shit about your opinion. You can write and be like

793
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 3: I don't like her, I don't give a fuck. I'm

794
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 3: going to be real the end of the day, and

795
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 3: that's what you can respect. I will be pissed at

796
00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 3: that moment and then not get over it because only

797
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 3: the vision. But then I'm my parents, I'm my dad's favorite.

798
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 3: I'm a girl like girls are stronger. But it just really.

799
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 4: Just comes back to me being a tomboy and just

800
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 4: me being here.

801
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: I can't believe that's really all about basketball. Yes, so

802
00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: you just want to sit course out and watch ya something?

803
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 1: I got it stuck his teammates.

804
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh yes, Wait, what's what's the Lebron's mom name?

805
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 2: What's she doing that? She sucked out Delante West? He's

806
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 2: a motherfucker, he sure is. Was trying to get her

807
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 2: a BDB. We feel her. That's me.

808
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 4: You gotta get you because my son's name is Legend.

809
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, Legend.

810
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 3: Your mom, poor legend Legend.

811
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 2: Because she was about to show it to the Junior

812
00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 2: high Games and like the legging period out period go lads,

813
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,719
Speaker 2: ghetto hashtag pray for Legends.

814
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 3: Okay, So we're gonna move on to the next topic,

815
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 3: the bab ab.

816
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: So y'all know I'm like to push things in the bedroom.

817
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: I've never hit that I do. I don't believe in

818
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: like you said, you believe in like men can do

819
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 1: something and women can do something.

820
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: I don't believe in that at all, especially in the bedroom.

821
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: So today I wanted to talk about nipple play. But

822
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: for men, I feel like a lot of times, like women,

823
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: we like to get our titty sucks, we like to

824
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: get our titties played with and this and that.

825
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 2: But what about men liking to get their TV suck,

826
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 2: get their nipples plays.

827
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 4: They don't have titt Yes, they do.

828
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 2: Some of them do, oh, some of them do. It's

829
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 2: somebody you like those porkers. I really don't. It's got tts.

830
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 2: Oh god, But how would you feel if you were

831
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 2: in the bedroom and a man asked you to suck

832
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: his TV? Don't they have suck his nipples.

833
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 3: It's fine, it's a nipple, it has nerves, it has feelings.

834
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 2: I understand. But what if it's a titty. I don't

835
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 2: do pork.

836
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: I'm a little chunky, so I don't want chunky.

837
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 2: So you're fat covid. Yes I am, Yes, I am.

838
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: So you won't talk to a big guy. What if

839
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 2: if he has money?

840
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 3: Yes, money superseds any dislike of mine, because I don't

841
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 3: like working more than I don't like any personal character

842
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:00,160
Speaker 3: trait physic.

843
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you are sick. So, Marian, do you

844
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 2: like nipple play?

845
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 5: If it happened, sure, but I don't ask for it.

846
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: I feel like, okay, so I can't tell this story

847
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: because it's not my story to tell. So I'll let

848
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: Drean Telor when she comes back. But I feel like

849
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: some men like they like what is it called a titty?

850
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 2: Twist the nurples? Okay, that's you know, like twisting the titties.

851
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 4: No, I'm very very old school.

852
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:23,240
Speaker 2: I'm very plain.

853
00:34:24,200 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 4: Too much too much anything in sexual activity.

854
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 2: Yes, I get creeped out very easily. I'm not gonna lie.

855
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,439
Speaker 1: I haven't had a guy like ask me to suck

856
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: his nipples before or like twist his nipples.

857
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,520
Speaker 2: But I really want to do that. I think next

858
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 2: time I'm.

859
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,080
Speaker 1: Getting the bad and I'm gonna like twist the titty

860
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:39,879
Speaker 1: and see what he does.

861
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 2: That's a bad idea.

862
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, don't.

863
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 2: Trying ship suck it.

864
00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 3: Do you feel weird sucking a man titty? No, because

865
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 3: it's not a titty. Oh hang a little bit. You

866
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 3: say titty. I think of fatmin and then I get

867
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 3: weird because I don't like fat people.

868
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 2: Why what is wrong with you? What is wrong with you?

869
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 2: I try so hard to be fat.

870
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm not laughing, but is my DNA what? Okay, so

871
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 1: this is what I'll say. Dominant is fat phobic and

872
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: it's not funny. So I'm not laughing at it. But

873
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: I just don't understand the logic that is so.

874
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 3: Mean that girls are cute. I don't like fat guys.

875
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:24,280
Speaker 3: So it's fat guys.

876
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, women can do whatever they want.

877
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:27,800
Speaker 2: Women just rule the world.

878
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 3: Okay, fat men they smell funny?

879
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, Ross big Gross has money. Yes? So are you listening, sir? Yes?

880
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 4: Is this thing on?

881
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,799
Speaker 2: Yes, sir? Well, I just felt like I used to

882
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 2: be I wasn't.

883
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: I won't say obese, but I was definitely overweighted, overweight.

884
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 2: Now, no, you're not yet. I'm struggling to keep here.

885
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 3: You know what the sacrifice. I don't drink liquor, I

886
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 3: don't have carbs. I don't eat past the seven o'clock

887
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 3: like a goddamn gremlin.

888
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,680
Speaker 2: Okay, but you're not to realize seven o'clock. Yeah, she really,

889
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 2: she's hardcore.

890
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 3: Because I am literally I carried a DNA to be big.

891
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 3: I was big my whole I just stopped being big.

892
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 2: I saw that when you were like eight. Oh my god.

893
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 3: So it's not just like it's PTSD. I work so

894
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 3: hard to keep those jeans recessed. But I ain't going back,

895
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:18,959
Speaker 3: and I ain't gonna dat who.

896
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 2: Looks like me? Who looks like true me? I look

897
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 2: in the mirror and I see that's what it is.

898
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 2: It's not it's more of what you went through trauma. Yes,

899
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 2: I was big my whole life. Oh you traumatized. That's sad.

900
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 2: Oh I'm hungry right now. So anyways, let me know

901
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 2: how y'all feel about nimple play.

902
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 1: I really feel like I would like I think I

903
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: like sucking titties and I want.

904
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 2: To but not girl titties.

905
00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: I want to suck a man t Hold on, now,

906
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 1: I really want to suck a man titty so.

907
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:50,600
Speaker 3: Bad their titties are musty. Yeah, you don't have that

908
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:52,800
Speaker 3: tart taste when you suck a titty. They don't bathe

909
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 3: their men, they don't do anything right.

910
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: But I eat ass, so it can't be worse than

911
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,759
Speaker 1: the ass who got more drink?

912
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 2: Stay away from my cup.

913
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: I just feel like, I just feel like I think

914
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: it would be interesting because I don't know, I just

915
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: like men letting me take advantage.

916
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 2: Of them in the bedroom. Would you peg a man

917
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 2: to have sex?

918
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 4: Peg peg a man?

919
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: Yes, I absolutely would. Now not my boyfriend. Okay, great,

920
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 1: not my boyfriend. But I said, pegging is something that

921
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,479
Speaker 1: I definitely, I definitely would do. But I would feel

922
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: kind of weird if it was somebody like now, I

923
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: like men to be not feminine in the bedroom, but

924
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 1: I like for them to I like to be dominant

925
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. But too much dominance when I feel

926
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 1: like you're a little too feminine for me, is like

927
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,200
Speaker 1: a little weird for my men.

928
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

929
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 1: For somebody that I'm like in love with, dating or whatever.

930
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: But somebody that I'm just fucking around with, Hell, yeah.

931
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 2: I'll peg you. Let's get to it.

932
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 1: I just want to see I just wanna hear him

933
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 1: like an archer's back.

934
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 4: I would love to see it, absolutely not.

935
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:49,919
Speaker 2: I would love to see a grown man like tune

936
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 2: it Up? Is that really a grown man? Yeah? Making

937
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 2: it club? I would love to see that. I think

938
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 2: that's interesting. Okay, so let me know how y'all feel

939
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 2: about mepple play. I would like to suck some TD.

940
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: So if anybody any bdb's out there listening and you

941
00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 1: want me to.

942
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 2: Suck your TD, I will gladly do.

943
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna get into the bop of the

944
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: week per usual.

945
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 2: Donald, what's your bout of the week?

946
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 3: Okay, listen. I tell people I'm old all the time,

947
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 3: and I mean it. I don't understand any of these

948
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:22,399
Speaker 3: songs out right now. In Atlanta, they need subtitles.

949
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,920
Speaker 2: Subtitles. But there's a guy named little Baby. Not a

950
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 2: little baby? Is it a little There's so many babies.

951
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm thirty three, he said, a guy

952
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:32,760
Speaker 2: little Baby.

953
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 3: First of all, I'm old and I'm from New York,

954
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 3: so I'm in a different culture. I'm in a different

955
00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 3: I'm in I'm in a different age range. The Little

956
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 3: Baby guy, I think he says, you're not even that

957
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 3: fine in person.

958
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 2: So funny.

959
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 4: He said, you ain't even know that finer person.

960
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: And yeah.

961
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 1: She's talking about Whoa.

962
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:10,240
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I like myself.

963
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 1: I'm dead okay, so boas Whoa by Little Baby the

964
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: new hot joint?

965
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 2: You did good sta okay.

966
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 1: So Actually, but my song my Bapa the Week is

967
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 1: kind of old as well, because this artist has been

968
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 1: out for about three years now, and probably about a

969
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: year and a half ago. I was put onto a

970
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 1: song by her. It was my bap of the Week

971
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 1: before and she won Best New Artists Billy Eilish.

972
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 2: She won Best New Artists. So I was like, you

973
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:41,240
Speaker 2: know what, let me go back and listen.

974
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,720
Speaker 1: To her album because I just I tend to listen

975
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: to like new new artists. I don't really like listening

976
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: to artists that everybody loves because I feel like it's generic.

977
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: But I listened to her album and I was pleasantly surprised.

978
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 2: It was so fire.

979
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 1: So the first song that I ever heard by her

980
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,080
Speaker 1: was not on the album. It's called Ocean Eyed, and

981
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, I really like her voice.

982
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:02,280
Speaker 2: She's fired.

983
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 1: Then I heard the song by her and Khaleid a

984
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 1: while back, and I was like, okay, you know, but

985
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: I just never got around and listen to her. But

986
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 1: I listened to her album. She has a song called

987
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 1: when the Party's Over and it's just a beautiful song,

988
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 1: like her voice is like puts you in a trance.

989
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I like her style because you hear

990
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 1: her and you see her and it's like that voice

991
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 1: is coming out of like that person, you know. And

992
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm all about artists being artists and

993
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: being creative.

994
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: I say that every week.

995
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: And I feel like her videos are really like good videos,

996
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: like she's being creative, she's showing like her side. I

997
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: feel like she has a hand in directing her videos,

998
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: and I like artists like that that sit down with

999
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: the director and like no, I want this, I want that.

1000
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: So Billy Ellish when the Party's Over. That's my bother

1001
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: of the week. What about you, Marin?

1002
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 5: I currently do have one because I didn't know it's

1003
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 5: gonna be put on the spots, but I will say

1004
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 5: I don't know if y'all.

1005
00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 2: Listen to k Tri Mata, but I don't know who

1006
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 2: that is.

1007
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:57,760
Speaker 5: He's a DJ producer.

1008
00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 2: Okay, I just been vibus.

1009
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 5: I think the best song on this album, Bubba, it's

1010
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:03,479
Speaker 5: probably a VEX with a gold link.

1011
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: Well, I like gold link, So I'm gonna go ahead

1012
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 2: and go ahead and listen to that. Yeah, check out

1013
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 2: en out man shout out to him. So we gonna

1014
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:14,520
Speaker 2: read the advice mail of the week. I'm not gonna lie, y'all.

1015
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 1: I'm really behind in the advice mail and I'm really sorry,

1016
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 1: but I appreciate y'all, you know, blowing it up. Make

1017
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 1: sure if you want your questions answered on the show,

1018
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,280
Speaker 1: you email us at askfour Minds.

1019
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 2: At gmail dot com.

1020
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: That's ask p ou r m my n ds at

1021
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: gmail dot com. Okay, okay, so this message, I'm gonna

1022
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: read this first one, so it says, hi, girlies, I

1023
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: just wanted to stay. I fing love your podcast. I

1024
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: wish you guys would give us bonus episodes every.

1025
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 2: Week now hold on sesus and for a lot now.

1026
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,360
Speaker 2: But anyways, call me Z. I really need your advice.

1027
00:41:53,480 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 1: I've been best friends let's call her L for like

1028
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: ten years. We recently moved to another state, and I

1029
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: realized she's chained lot befriending bitches who have been rude

1030
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: to me, violated me for no reason, just to say

1031
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 1: they're a good time and more available to go.

1032
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 2: Out with her. I'm not a controlling person at all,

1033
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: but I am loyal.

1034
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 1: I love my friends with everything in me, so when

1035
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 1: people violate them, I take it personally and get offended

1036
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 1: as well. If I don't, then why are we friends

1037
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: in the first place. That would be a surface level

1038
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: relationship in my opinion. I spoke to her about this,

1039
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 1: and she keeps saying it's immature, even though she agreed

1040
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 1: that the other bitches were objectively wrong.

1041
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:32,560
Speaker 2: And clearly violated me.

1042
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: This is why I can never see this is why

1043
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,919
Speaker 1: I can never see it. For friendly ass bitches, they

1044
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 1: swear being friendly is a great quality to have, but

1045
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 1: then you get to realize that they just want to

1046
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: be everyone's friends and be liked so bad that they

1047
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:48,000
Speaker 1: can't be loyal to anybody, so they end up having

1048
00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: good times only friend A friend to all is a

1049
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 1: friend to none. It's been ten years of friendship, but

1050
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it's time to let this go because

1051
00:42:56,040 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 1: I'm not comfortable with any of this, and I feel

1052
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:00,479
Speaker 1: like I can't tell her my business because she's around

1053
00:43:00,480 --> 00:43:01,839
Speaker 1: bitches who hate me so much.

1054
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 2: What would you do? Would you still be friends with

1055
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 2: someone who keeps befriending your ops?

1056
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: Wow, this is crazy. I always Dre was here because

1057
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,120
Speaker 1: I know we would't agree. But I know this is

1058
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: how you are too. You Andre are the same on this.

1059
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: I'm the friendly friend. Oh bitch, I'm the friendly friend.

1060
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends, but I am loyal though,

1061
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 1: so I feel like I have a situation where, like,

1062
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:29,080
Speaker 1: not that they don't like each other, but i'm friend.

1063
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: Like you have a friend and I have a friend,

1064
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 1: and it's just like not messy in between them, but

1065
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: you know, it's just kind of weird sometimes. But I

1066
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: don't Me and Diamond don't do that. We don't talk

1067
00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,240
Speaker 1: about our friends business to each other. Like I feel

1068
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: like I can be around somebody that doesn't like my friend,

1069
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: but I'm not about to sit here and talk to

1070
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 1: my friend about you.

1071
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:48,280
Speaker 2: That's when things get a little weird.

1072
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: But I can see where you get mad at But

1073
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I feel like we're

1074
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 1: grown people are.

1075
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 2: Gonna do what they wanna do you not trusting her?

1076
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: That's a whole different topic because I feel like if

1077
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 1: I went and hung out with somebody that didn't like Diamond,

1078
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: I think I'm not gonna sit there and talk shit

1079
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: about her because I'm with Diamond all the time and

1080
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 1: domind knows all my business. So how stupid would I

1081
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 1: be as a friend to go tell somebody all the

1082
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: Diamond's business when she knows everything about.

1083
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 2: Me, You know what I'm saying.

1084
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 4: I think their situation is unique because they move together.

1085
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 3: They move they moved somewhere together, so it's really them

1086
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 3: against the world. When you move somewhere with somebody and

1087
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 3: your family isn't there and you just have each other

1088
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:25,680
Speaker 3: as a support system, it's really supposed to be all

1089
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:29,799
Speaker 3: versus the world. So I wouldn't be comfortable treating you

1090
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:32,799
Speaker 3: like family because you don't go somewhere in the world

1091
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 3: without somebody you don't consider family, And then you're just

1092
00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,880
Speaker 3: like cool with people who don't like me. That's weird,

1093
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 3: Like what's more valuable in your mind? Them liking you

1094
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 3: or me liking you?

1095
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 2: Now, I do agree with that.

1096
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: I do think it's weird to like be around somebody

1097
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 1: that's vocal and always like. I've been around people that

1098
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: like don't care for like Drer or don't care for

1099
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: like Diamond or you know what I'm saying.

1100
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,800
Speaker 2: But it's not like they like hate them. Now they're

1101
00:44:57,840 --> 00:45:01,720
Speaker 2: like hating you and y'all have real beef. That's different.

1102
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 2: But like I said, I can be around people that

1103
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 2: like you.

1104
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: I don't care if you like my friends though, because

1105
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 1: but we're not gonna sit here and talk about my friend, you.

1106
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 2: Know what I mean.

1107
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 3: So the weird thing for me is that some people

1108
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 3: respect their relationships with their boyfriends more than their friends.

1109
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:16,719
Speaker 3: Because you wouldn't hang out with niggas it didn't like

1110
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 3: your man, So why is it so easy for hanging

1111
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 3: out with bitches don't like your bitch.

1112
00:45:21,120 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 2: That's a good point. That's a good point. I guess

1113
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 2: it's like the same thing you said because I'm.

1114
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 3: Fucking him, that that supersedes all kind of relationship, all

1115
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 3: loyalty and boundary.

1116
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying though, But it's just like,

1117
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I feel like I am.

1118
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: With the men.

1119
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:38,799
Speaker 1: It's different because I feel like it's an ego thing.

1120
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 1: With girls, it's like a jealousy thing. But at the

1121
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 1: end of the day, like, I'm okay, let me let

1122
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: me say this, because because I'm fucking him is the reason.

1123
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 2: I was really just kidding.

1124
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,600
Speaker 1: But let me say it like this, The reason I'm

1125
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:51,919
Speaker 1: not hanging out with the guy that dislikes my man

1126
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 1: is because that guy is not my friend. He's just

1127
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 1: hanging out with me to piss my man off.

1128
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 4: But what if their friends, like when Nikki had beef with.

1129
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 3: When Drake had beef with Meek, and she really had

1130
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 3: this ten year partnership with Drake, but then she didn't

1131
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 3: meet and then like, what what are you doing in

1132
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 3: a situation like that when it's really not him being

1133
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 3: petty but you are really friends with the guy who

1134
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 3: has beef with your man.

1135
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 2: I mean that I've never been in that situation.

1136
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:19,919
Speaker 1: Like I said, I feel like most men, if you're

1137
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:22,239
Speaker 1: hanging out with somebody, like I don't know, I just

1138
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 1: feel like they're trying to just be manipulative.

1139
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 2: And be like because it's just funny.

1140
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 1: How when Drake, I mean, when Meek and Nikki broke up,

1141
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: Drake and meet your best friends now, you know, Like

1142
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:32,879
Speaker 1: I feel like there's a lot of so I can't

1143
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 1: speak on that situation, but I know for me, if

1144
00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 1: a guy is trying to be around me and he

1145
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: doesn't like my man, it's because he's trying to be

1146
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:40,279
Speaker 1: petty towards my man, not that he cares to hang

1147
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: out with me.

1148
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:41,839
Speaker 4: Them girls be doing the same shit.

1149
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 6: Now I could now I agree with you on that,

1150
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 6: but I for me personally, I've never been in a

1151
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 6: situation like I said, I've been cool with somebody that

1152
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 6: like doesn't care for Dre or doesn't care for Killer

1153
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,040
Speaker 6: or any of my friends, but it's not like they

1154
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:54,920
Speaker 6: want to hang out with me to make them mad.

1155
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 2: To me, it's weird.

1156
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna fuck with nobody who don't like my bitch,

1157
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:59,240
Speaker 3: because I'm the bitch. You cool when you need bitches

1158
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 3: beat up, So it would be a conflican interest because

1159
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to beat you up at some point

1160
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:03,439
Speaker 3: I'm dead.

1161
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 1: So I do feel like you should talk to your friend, though,

1162
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 1: I feel like you need to sit down and talk

1163
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: to her and really kind of come to the bottom

1164
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: of it. But if you're not a friendly person, that's

1165
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:17,240
Speaker 1: totally understandable. Like you're not friendly, Drea is not friendly,

1166
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 1: like they're not the I'm the person that's usually like

1167
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: all around people. They're like, hey, this girl is really

1168
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: not your friend. Lis like Dre'll be like, hey, you

1169
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: gotta like open your eyes because I just be like, bitch,

1170
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:27,800
Speaker 1: let's go outside, let's.

1171
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 2: Go smoke some hooks. That's me.

1172
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: No, I am like that though, Like I am, and

1173
00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: I don't, and I don't feel like being friendly is

1174
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 1: a bad thing. Let's just let me say that right now.

1175
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: I'm just a nice person. I'm not being friendly with

1176
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 1: people because I have motives or because I want I'm

1177
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:44,040
Speaker 1: trying to use you, or I just want to be liked.

1178
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm a people person and I like being

1179
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 1: around people. So maybe you don't need to look at

1180
00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: it like she's trying to be liked and she's trying

1181
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: to be in front of people. Like I feel like

1182
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,399
Speaker 1: y'all need to both sit down and kind of look

1183
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: at it from the other person's point of view and

1184
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: understand each other's personalities a little bit more.

1185
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 2: But I don't think you just stop being friends.

1186
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 1: But you also can't put time on a relationship. Just

1187
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: because you've been with somebody for ten years doesn't mean

1188
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 1: that you're supposed to be friends for twenty You see

1189
00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like, you can be friends with somebody

1190
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 1: for a long time, and it just I think she.

1191
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 2: Should cut the girl off. You do well? Her friendly asked, Bye, Yeah,

1192
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 2: I don't. I can't.

1193
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 4: I can't tell you my business away I want.

1194
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 2: I just don't.

1195
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,319
Speaker 3: I don't know what goes on in those other conversations.

1196
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 3: So for my peace of mind and my comfort, anything

1197
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 3: that I wouldn't do to you that you do to me,

1198
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 3: I just.

1199
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 2: Want to several times.

1200
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 1: And but like I said, I agree with you on

1201
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: that cause I'll say this, if Drea told me, hey,

1202
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: I don't like you around this girl, because I just

1203
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: and you're gonna have to choose hire me.

1204
00:48:38,239 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 2: I'ma always choose Drea. Not gonna lie like I'm gonna

1205
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 2: keep it one honting. You know what I'm saying.

1206
00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: Like, if it's something silly, I'm like, okay, Drea, you tripping.

1207
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 1: This is not what you think it is. But if

1208
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: it's something like okay, bitch.

1209
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 2: She try to kill me before, ye like, I'll be

1210
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 2: like okay, I'm not. Yeah, That's what I'm saying. It's

1211
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:54,839
Speaker 2: just I don't know.

1212
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 1: The exact situation of why you're beefing with her friends.

1213
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: So I can't really say, but like I said, if

1214
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: Drea hates to me, it was like, bitch, I don't

1215
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 1: like this shit, So you gonna have to choose her

1216
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: and me. I'm gona choo Dre every time. You know,

1217
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 1: the same thing with you, Like if you told me, hey,

1218
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:08,879
Speaker 1: you're around this girl and I don't like it, I'm

1219
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 1: gonna choose you. You know what I'm saying. Like, because

1220
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: I just have my circle of friends that are my

1221
00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:14,839
Speaker 1: friend's friends, and then I have my people that i'm

1222
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: associates with that can you know, hey, you can go

1223
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: and my friend don't like you.

1224
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, you know what I'm saying. So I just

1225
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 2: feel like it just depends on the situation. But I

1226
00:49:22,640 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 2: definitely think y'all should maybe have a conversation first. Yeah,

1227
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 2: have a conversation. Okay, we'll leave it at that. Marine.

1228
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 2: You got any advice for it? Hey, y'all said some

1229
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 2: real stuff. Okay, I'm gonna read another one. Oh this

1230
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:38,319
Speaker 2: is a long one, says Oh, we're gonna save you

1231
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:41,920
Speaker 2: for next week. A girl, This is a long one. Okay, Oh,

1232
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 2: this is a long one too. Okay, I got this one.

1233
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:48,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read this one. I'm gonna read y'alls. I'm sorry, y'all.

1234
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,399
Speaker 1: There's two of them that I skip. I'm gonna read

1235
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: y'alls next week when Dre gets back. Okay, it says, hey,

1236
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,680
Speaker 1: lex Andrea, please don't use my name. Love you guys

1237
00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: and your bedter so much. I'd like to know if

1238
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 1: y'all can please give us some free game. What do

1239
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 1: you think is the most important? What type of man

1240
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: to look for and how to initiate ask.

1241
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 2: Them to give you money? Is there a way to

1242
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:09,759
Speaker 2: ask without saying it.

1243
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 1: I'm also from New England, adding that in for context

1244
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 1: because the.

1245
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:18,200
Speaker 2: Men are worlds different than in Atlanta. See look, I

1246
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 2: tell everybody this not to cut you off. Morn.

1247
00:50:20,640 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 3: Please explain why you're making the face like you just

1248
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 3: beiten tell women as a baby.

1249
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 5: Because that's that's crazy.

1250
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 2: Like you look so disgusted. What's he is? Her boyfriend was?

1251
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: She didn't say anything, She just said, how can we

1252
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 1: ask men for money?

1253
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 2: How do we get so?

1254
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 3: In your mind? It's different if you ask for money

1255
00:50:38,239 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 3: if you're all in a.

1256
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:41,040
Speaker 2: Relationship or not. I mean, if you're my girl.

1257
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 4: Do you wait till somebody your girl asks for pussy?

1258
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 2: Again?

1259
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 4: Do you is this mic on?

1260
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 2: Do you wait for when you're in a relationship to

1261
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:49,680
Speaker 2: ask for pussy?

1262
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 5: But most of the time as pussy. I know that's

1263
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:55,839
Speaker 5: why marine humble energy, humble energy most of the time.

1264
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm like, that's the hot happened for one?

1265
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 1: What do I think is most important? And I know

1266
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 1: y'all probably think I'm lying, but I really do. I

1267
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 1: really think the quality of a person, like his character.

1268
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 1: I don't care if you got a hundred million dollars

1269
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: in the bank, if you're laying corny, can't hold a conversation.

1270
00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: I like to have fun, Okay, So I say that

1271
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 1: if this, I don't believe in the whole sugar daddy thing,

1272
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: And me and Dre have said that a million times.

1273
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 2: I don't believe hanging out with a guy.

1274
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: That's ugly, that you don't find attractive, that you think

1275
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: is annoying and disgusting just because he has money. So

1276
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: that's I honestly, I feel like what's important to me

1277
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:32,960
Speaker 1: is the quality of a person.

1278
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 2: Do we are we compatible? Are we gonna go outside?

1279
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,319
Speaker 1: I can bring my friends and we all lit turns

1280
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 1: up having a good time. That's what's most important to

1281
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: me now as far as like getting what you want

1282
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: from a man and getting things that you need. I

1283
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 1: feel like if a man really fucks with you, he's

1284
00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: going to do what he needs to do.

1285
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 2: Period.

1286
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,960
Speaker 1: You can't force that, you can't, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1287
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: there's no really way to ask for money. Like I

1288
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 1: feel like if somebody is fun. That's why you know,

1289
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 1: y'all need to understand. Fuck with men that like you,

1290
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: fuck with men that care about you, because especially if

1291
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 1: they have money, they're gonna.

1292
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 2: Be like, hey, you straight, do you need anything? You good?

1293
00:52:09,160 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 2: So you don't even have to ask them for shit.

1294
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 1: Now, sometimes you know, shit happens and you're gonna have

1295
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 1: to ask things happen, you know what I'm saying. But

1296
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,760
Speaker 1: if a man has money and he cares about you,

1297
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 1: you're not even gonna feel uncomfortable asking him for that.

1298
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: Like you know, in my situation, I'll be asking.

1299
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:26,840
Speaker 2: For shit all the time. But I be mean she

1300
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 2: but he fuck with me. He like, baby, you know

1301
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,280
Speaker 2: I got you girl, And I'd be like, okay, stang,

1302
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,760
Speaker 2: I love you, must be nice. But that's what I'm saying.

1303
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: But you know, like I said, I always make sure

1304
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:38,319
Speaker 2: because I'm not where I want to be in my

1305
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 2: career and I've never hit. I'm not balling out here.

1306
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:41,720
Speaker 2: I'm not struggling, but I'm not balling.

1307
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,720
Speaker 1: So I need that partnership of somebody that's gonna elevate

1308
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 1: me because I want to be a millionaire too, you

1309
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'm not saying I only date millionaires,

1310
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,000
Speaker 1: but I want to date somebody who can teach me

1311
00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 1: a thing or two.

1312
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:53,920
Speaker 2: Why would I be dating somebody who's making forty I

1313
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 2: know how to make forty thousand dollars here? You know

1314
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:56,799
Speaker 2: what I'm saying?

1315
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: How can we elevate each other? So I feel like

1316
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:01,839
Speaker 1: if y'all start are dating men that are are like

1317
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 1: my man is my goals? Honestly I be looking at

1318
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 1: him like how do I get to.

1319
00:53:07,239 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 2: What you're doing?

1320
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: But in media, like how can I make this translate?

1321
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 1: Like these meetings that you in and the how you

1322
00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: moving around? How can I do this in my media world?

1323
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 1: You know, like I'll try to translate that stuff. But

1324
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: that stuff that turns me on and makes me interested.

1325
00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:22,319
Speaker 1: I feel like when you start dating somebody you like

1326
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: and dating somebody like y'all, can you know, flip flop.

1327
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 2: And help each other out. It's no need to ask,

1328
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:28,799
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

1329
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: Like, when you're fucking with somebody who's successful or doing

1330
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:34,399
Speaker 1: the right things and they want to see you when

1331
00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: and you're an ambitious person, I'm not talking to the

1332
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:37,719
Speaker 1: girls out there who.

1333
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 2: Don't want to do nothing. I'm a hustler, you know

1334
00:53:40,640 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1335
00:53:41,320 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: I'm not sitting at home every day just being like, oh,

1336
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: can I have two thousand dollars?

1337
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It's not like that.

1338
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 1: So I feel like, if you have shit going on

1339
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: for yourself and you're fucking with somebody who wants to

1340
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: see you succeed, it's not about a ask.

1341
00:53:54,239 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 2: It's just about he's gonna do it and make sure

1342
00:53:56,080 --> 00:53:57,120
Speaker 2: you straight at.

1343
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, if you want your girl to be straight, if

1344
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 5: you see she needs something, you're gonna get it.

1345
00:54:03,600 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 2: You're gonna give it to her, right, exactly, your girl, right.

1346
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: I feel like and thank you for saying that as

1347
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: a man, cause, like I said, I feel like a

1348
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:12,880
Speaker 1: lot of girls ask us that, like how do you

1349
00:54:12,920 --> 00:54:15,360
Speaker 1: get money out of a man sis if he like

1350
00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: you and he got it, you gonna be straight period.

1351
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 2: You don't ain't gonna be no having a ass and

1352
00:54:20,560 --> 00:54:22,759
Speaker 2: this and that. Just date people that like you. That's

1353
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:24,720
Speaker 2: all I can say. You got any advice?

1354
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 3: I men don't have no money, So y'ah, ain't hear

1355
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,919
Speaker 3: my voice in two minutes because if I can't relate,

1356
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 3: I ain't gonna talk.

1357
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 2: I am dead.

1358
00:54:34,800 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 3: No.

1359
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 1: But like I said, I mean, I never hear that

1360
00:54:37,280 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: I date certain type of men. You know what I'm saying,

1361
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:40,759
Speaker 1: Like I don't have cause I have nothing to be

1362
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,440
Speaker 1: ashamed about. Men always be like, oh, only day there

1363
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 1: she got a fat ass, or only day there she

1364
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 1: got titties, or she got long hair. It's just a

1365
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: preference everybody is. You know, it's a right.

1366
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,240
Speaker 2: You can have your preference. That's my preference.

1367
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: And then not only do I date man that you

1368
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 1: know are well off, but you also have to fucking

1369
00:54:57,120 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 1: like me because a man can have a hundred million

1370
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:00,919
Speaker 1: dollars in the bank account. I say this all the time,

1371
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,359
Speaker 1: but if you don't like you, he not gonna give

1372
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 1: you fifty dollars.

1373
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying

1374
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:09,280
Speaker 2: do you agree?

1375
00:55:09,400 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 5: I mean, I do agree, but I feel like what

1376
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 5: you're saying is real because like you're with somebody, you

1377
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 5: just admit it on record, you want to be where

1378
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:19,360
Speaker 5: they are. Yeah, So for you, it's like, Okay, I

1379
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 5: see my girl, she's doing a B and C, so

1380
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 5: I'm gonna help her. But when I heard the question,

1381
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 5: it really just sounded like how do I scam somebody?

1382
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: No?

1383
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:29,760
Speaker 4: But see, okay, this is my problem.

1384
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 3: Like on Twitter, there's like a broke Nigga coalition, so list.

1385
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:36,759
Speaker 2: Like I don't know about that.

1386
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,600
Speaker 3: There is, there's a broke Nigga coalition and they have

1387
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 3: strength in numbers. So what they try to do to

1388
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 3: compensate for their shortcomings is make it seem like it's.

1389
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 2: So disgusting when a woman wants more.

1390
00:55:48,800 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 4: And you don't need.

1391
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 3: They don't even get why nobody enjoys busting their ass,

1392
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 3: being aggravated around the first, not knowing if you're gonna

1393
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:01,839
Speaker 3: make this rent money. But then you have a man

1394
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,920
Speaker 3: that's always in your face, always went and pussy always when.

1395
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 2: His dick sucked, always went.

1396
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:07,879
Speaker 4: You have your once.

1397
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 3: My want is to not struggle. My once is not

1398
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,839
Speaker 3: to be stressed. So when a woman be like, oh god,

1399
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 3: ta these niggas being broken and they're just like whoa,

1400
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 3: and they pride on doing the least for women.

1401
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 2: I'm not taking no bit y'all. I'm not doing this, y'all.

1402
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 2: Just off off top.

1403
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 4: You gotta pussy off the top, because that's all you

1404
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 4: have is top.

1405
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:26,319
Speaker 3: And I always say this, a man will offer you

1406
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,439
Speaker 3: his mouth before they lf for you some financial help

1407
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 3: because that's all they have, and.

1408
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:33,200
Speaker 4: The minute that you insinuate or.

1409
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 3: Inquire, like so like you want your dictucked all the time.

1410
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:37,839
Speaker 3: But i just want to just take a day off

1411
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:40,080
Speaker 3: because I'm stressed. You got the you got this bill,

1412
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:42,959
Speaker 3: and niggas will they'll freak out, not because you asking

1413
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:44,839
Speaker 3: for too much and they will manipulate you into thinking

1414
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 3: that you're asking too much, but because they don't have it.

1415
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 3: So this kind is it's a whole war with and

1416
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 3: I think the wars with the man within himself because

1417
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,120
Speaker 3: it ain't me. They don't have it because the honest question,

1418
00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 3: because it's.

1419
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:59,080
Speaker 5: Like like when you're really chilling with your girl.

1420
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 3: Right and now I'm not talking about guys that are

1421
00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 3: even your man. I'm sure about guys that are pursuing you,

1422
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 3: because men as women, men pursue you every day. There's

1423
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 3: this one guy in my DM that DMS me every

1424
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 3: day around one fucking thirteen pm.

1425
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 2: He don't know, Oh he in there right now, it's

1426
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 2: one nineteen.

1427
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 3: If you only knew, if you only knew every day

1428
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 3: the same message, if you only knew, bitch, if you

1429
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 3: only knew how much my rent was. I'm dead because

1430
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 3: you're telling me everything you want to do to me sexually.

1431
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,240
Speaker 3: You don't care if I ate today because I'm a

1432
00:57:27,280 --> 00:57:28,680
Speaker 3: little light headed, you know.

1433
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 5: I do think that's fair, though, King, That's fair, King,

1434
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 5: because it's like, okay, like okay, if you're a woman

1435
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 5: and you're really trying.

1436
00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:40,520
Speaker 2: I work, I work thing right, and like we all

1437
00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 2: go through stuff, we all. I feel what you're saying

1438
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 2: I think is fair because I think I don't know

1439
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 2: you very very well.

1440
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: But I know I've been around you enough, so I

1441
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:51,240
Speaker 1: feel like if you were dating a girl and you

1442
00:57:51,280 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 1: see that she's working and she's hustling, and she's probably

1443
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 1: got a side thing going on, and you were like, hey,

1444
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: I want to hang out with you, she's like, no,

1445
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 1: I gotta work. I can see you being like, okay, well,

1446
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:02,040
Speaker 1: what do you need If it's like one hundred fifty dollars,

1447
00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: that ain't nothing.

1448
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 4: A girl is not asking for fifteen hundred every time

1449
00:58:05,080 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 4: she come out.

1450
00:58:05,560 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 2: I'm just asking to take a day off. I want to.

1451
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:10,280
Speaker 1: I want to one bad And if you're pursuing her

1452
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: and you're trying to see her actively and it's been

1453
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 1: like four or five times and she can't make it out,

1454
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 1: I don't see the big deal of being like, okay, well,

1455
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: let me take care of something to release on stress.

1456
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 2: They like shep and she gonna ask me no, But

1457
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 2: you ask for pussy. Then you don't even know my

1458
00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 2: fucking you know? You know?

1459
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 4: You know my name is Diamond. Did you know my

1460
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:25,240
Speaker 4: mom named me Julie?

1461
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 3: No, But you want to be inside my gut draw

1462
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 3: and don't care if I work six times this week,

1463
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 3: my feet hurt, my socks.

1464
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:33,960
Speaker 2: Think, but you want some pussy. I don't get hungry.

1465
00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 2: My dog gets hungry. I think that's okay. I do

1466
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 2: believe what you're saying is fear right, Oka.

1467
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:42,000
Speaker 5: I also feel like we're not when it comes to this,

1468
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 5: we're not talking about women.

1469
00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:47,040
Speaker 1: Like y'all right, now, that's what I agree with on

1470
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 1: Morane's side.

1471
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:52,680
Speaker 3: But for sanity sake, because they have these shortcomings, they

1472
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 3: will generalize and they'll say, well, I.

1473
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 2: Ain't giving no bitch money because all they want to do.

1474
00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 4: Is stay home, and they don't understand this different kind

1475
00:58:59,400 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 4: of bitches.

1476
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:01,919
Speaker 2: Bitches who don't work. There's bitches who work.

1477
00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 4: Therese bitches who work too much. And y'all come at

1478
00:59:03,680 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 4: everybody the same way.

1479
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: You can't.

1480
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 3: You have to have a different plan for every different

1481
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 3: kind of woman. That because I'm a worker. You see

1482
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 3: what I drive, you see where I live, and then

1483
00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 3: you want to fuck You don't want.

1484
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 2: To help me.

1485
00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 3: No, it's not happening. That's why I don't have a man.

1486
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 3: That's why I have cobwebs, and that's why I'm angry

1487
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 3: because I'd rather be by my arself.

1488
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 4: I'm very.

1489
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 3: Rub that shoulder right there. I will be by myself

1490
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 3: and still drive that jeep and still have that balcony

1491
00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 3: pool view without you niggas. But if you want some

1492
00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 3: of this fat ass, let me take two days off,

1493
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 3: slide me some money, stank, and I will rock your

1494
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:37,560
Speaker 3: fucking world.

1495
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 2: I promise you a rocket, but not for free. Stinks,

1496
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 2: because I'm a grown.

1497
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 4: Woman with responsibility.

1498
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:47,640
Speaker 3: If you're not easing that load off my back, then

1499
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:49,360
Speaker 3: you are disposable.

1500
00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:53,400
Speaker 2: I get it. That's fair. That's fair. Had to get

1501
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 2: it out and I lean back. Should see me hand.

1502
00:59:59,480 --> 01:00:03,480
Speaker 1: You y'all just gonna love this cause okay, So yeah,

1503
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: I feel like, like I said back to her question,

1504
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:07,840
Speaker 1: thank you for the question. But like I said, I

1505
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 1: feel like, just if you raise your standards of a

1506
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: man and he likes you when he has it, Like

1507
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 1: I said, you can date a man that's making one

1508
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:15,800
Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars a year, eighty thousand dollars a year,

1509
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: he's gonna slide you stuff and make sure you're straight

1510
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 1: as long as you're doing for yourself, like you know

1511
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 1: what I mean. So that's all I have to say

1512
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 1: about it.

1513
01:00:22,760 --> 01:00:25,200
Speaker 5: Man, Well, if I'm speaking for myself, the best type

1514
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 5: of woman is a woman that.

1515
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 4: Don't need you, right type of thing right period out She.

1516
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 2: It's hurt right.

1517
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 1: Right, And it's not that like we need you because

1518
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: it's like at the end the day, like if you

1519
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: don't give me this money, I'm gonna figure it out.

1520
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 2: I'm making it.

1521
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 4: It's the third I figured it out. You know without

1522
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:43,440
Speaker 4: a man, I went to work.

1523
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, miserable, but I went to

1524
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:46,920
Speaker 3: work and I still have a roof of my head

1525
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 3: without some dick carrier.

1526
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: So that's the best advice, you know, we can give

1527
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 1: to y'all. So let me just say thank you so

1528
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 1: much for my best the diamond coming through and holding

1529
01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 1: it down for little Drel. Let's pray that Drea brings

1530
01:01:00,320 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 1: us back a BDB. Like I said before, Yes, please

1531
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:07,080
Speaker 1: Dram make sure y'all tune in every Tuesday.

1532
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 2: We were on ninety six seven the Beach.

1533
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:10,919
Speaker 1: Shout out to Scream, shout out to Kodak, and shout

1534
01:01:10,920 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 1: out to Moran and Cash always coming in and holding

1535
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:14,439
Speaker 1: it down for us.

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01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:18,240
Speaker 2: And we will see y'all next week. Bye, y'all.