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Speaker 1: restaurant choice is always important. Usually you try to find

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Speaker 1: You know, very classy places like that. And that's exactly

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Speaker 1: what Mark did on his first date. His email said,

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Speaker 1: It's hard to get a reservation there, Mark, How did

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Sorry, who did you say you were?

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Speaker 1: Whoop business? It's a radio show, a morning show. I

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Speaker 1: And it sounds really bad, but there's an explanation. I

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Speaker 1: it's not my first date move. I swear with with you, Christina,

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Speaker 1: that was an impulsive move. That is not my go

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Speaker 1: I have been in there a few times. I've been

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Speaker 1: I've been in there with two other girls. But no,

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Speaker 1: let me explain. It's it's legitimate. I was actually engaged

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Speaker 1: the recent past. Yes, I was engaged twice and uh,

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Speaker 1: So have you been married before? Like what You've just

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Speaker 1: There's there's a lot of stuff you could have done.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask her then, Christina, would you like to

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Speaker 1: you know what everybody says, don't listen to your gut. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: be Mark's next ex fiance. Come on, man, don't don't

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Speaker 1: say it like that. It makes me look it makes

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Speaker 1: tell me that's not weird. Broken Jupil in the morning.