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Speaker 1: Second date of dating. I'm going to share something with

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Speaker 1: our audience that's happened behind the scenes.

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Speaker 2: Here.

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Speaker 1: It's brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Oh what is it going to be?

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Speaker 4: I don't remember if.

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Speaker 1: Brooke has said this on the air and it's not bad,

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Speaker 1: but off the air. Whenever somebody brings up online dating,

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Speaker 1: Brooks response and Jose alexis you can confirm this, She's

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Speaker 1: always like, Uh, I don't think I could ever do

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Speaker 1: online dating. There's just there's way too many options. How

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Speaker 1: could you ever just pick one?

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Speaker 3: No, I totally do online dating. I would just never

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Speaker 3: do marriage after I did it, exactly because I would

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Speaker 3: have never dated anybody long enough. Yeah, exactly, I see

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Speaker 3: what you mean. I thought you meant.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's the crux of dating with all the apps.

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Speaker 3: Now, too many choices for people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I think it was intended in a good way

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Speaker 1: But more often than not, it just ends up being

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Speaker 1: with you have so many choices, and women can't make

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Speaker 1: if they're not blown away immediately, there's you know twenty

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Speaker 3: I go to the Cereal aisle and it feels overwhelming,

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Speaker 3: but I should choose.

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Speaker 1: And the thing is, that's where our listener, Evan is

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Speaker 1: at right now. He claims he is a victim of

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Speaker 1: being just one guy in a sea of a billion dudes.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Jeff's dream.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but Evan, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Evn, I'm sorry, man. He sounds like you're going

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Speaker 2: I am. It's been years and there's been ups and downs,

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Speaker 2: but I'm just I want to try something new and

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So what is your your stance on dating

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Speaker 2: I think that you should date a lot of different

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Speaker 2: people because experts say that if you focus too much

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Speaker 1: But you're supposed to like date a little bit and

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Speaker 1: then when one stands out, then you kind of focus

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Speaker 4: It doesn't bode well.

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Speaker 1: Her Brooks married, she is a lot on that one guy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so funny.

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Speaker 1: So Evan, You're you're not focusing on just one. You're

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Speaker 1: dating a lot of different people.

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Speaker 2: Well, I wouldn't say a lot, but yeah, i'd say

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Speaker 2: a small handful at any given times.

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Speaker 3: At for some is there one in particular that you

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Speaker 3: really like or we just gonna call ten girls?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there is one. Her name is Jenna and she's

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Speaker 2: a top contender?

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Speaker 3: Is that a compliment, Alexis it is?

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Speaker 5: I mean I want to be the top one.

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Speaker 4: So where do you and Jenna stand?

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Speaker 2: We had one date. It was good and nothing bad happened.

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Speaker 4: Is that your bar says it defensively, nothing happened?

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Speaker 3: I mean, is that your bar like you had a

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Speaker 3: good enough date that nothing bad happened, So that's why

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Speaker 2: Well, sometimes I do feel that way. But this was

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Speaker 2: a good date. It was genuinely good, and I do

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Speaker 5: What.

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Speaker 3: Wait, so you're not calling us because someone's not calling

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Speaker 3: you back or isn't interested.

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Speaker 2: Craig, She is interested, That's what I believe.

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is different. I guess let's hear him out.

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Speaker 3: So this girl trying not to think game. He's playing

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Speaker 2: It's not a game, but it is reverse psychology.

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Speaker 3: Oh that works so good on me?

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Speaker 1: Did it just work on you?

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Speaker 4: He's like, I'm trying to figure this out. It all right,

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Speaker 1: Now, So what is your idea for reverse psychology with Jenna?

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Speaker 2: I want you to call her and tell her that, like,

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Speaker 2: I thought that she was cool, but I'm a little

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Speaker 3: Huh wait, wait, why why would we be calling her

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's gonna make her morning.

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Speaker 1: Why do you want to do it this way with Jenna?

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Speaker 2: The thing is, I've had a lot of dates this

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Speaker 3: You're getting friend zoned, is what it sounds like.

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Speaker 2: It makes me feel like I need to be defensive

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Speaker 1: So okay, all I see, you're good.

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Speaker 2: At the first couple of days, which is.

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Speaker 1: He wants to flip the script on these women, and

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Speaker 1: he wants to be in the power position being like, hey, like,

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Speaker 1: I think you're cool and everything, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: If it's there, then the girl will have to sell

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Speaker 4: Here's the thing.

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Speaker 3: You sound like a genuinely nice guy, and that's probably

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Speaker 1: Did you see Alexis gag when you said genuinely nice guys?

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Speaker 1: That's the problem here.

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Speaker 5: Everything makes sense.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you do know this could backfire, right.

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Speaker 2: I have nothing to lose at this point, trusting.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it is a bold move. You have to admit.

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Speaker 3: Can you tell us anything about Jenna that would make

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: What is she like?

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Speaker 5: Would you do?

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Speaker 2: I can tell you. But she's literally like every other

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Speaker 2: she's funny, she's pretty, like they all are. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: Let's not get caught up in the minutia of who

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Speaker 4: If this strategy would actually work.

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Speaker 1: It sounds kind of manipulative, similar to one of my

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Speaker 1: Strategy at the end of the day.

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Speaker 3: Here's my thing, Like, we tell her this statement, and

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Speaker 3: then what Jeff like, we tell her, hey, so and

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Speaker 3: so is it into how can we follow up that conversation?

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Speaker 1: You know what? He is on the other line right now,

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Speaker 1: So like maybe if you want to try to convince

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Speaker 3: Okay, Like we won't do a lot of the talking.

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Speaker 4: No, I think Evan wants to be in control here.

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Speaker 3: So the boy Evan is it's not interested time to

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Speaker 3: call the radio. Wait on, hold, wind around, Okay, Hell no,

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Speaker 3: he's not gonna say hello, it's gonna say suck. Oh

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Speaker 3: I forgot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're just gonna be super non committal about it

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Speaker 3: For entertainment purposes. I'm in.

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Speaker 1: It's an interesting experiment at the very least, So we're

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Speaker 4: Her in your second date update right after this hold

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Speaker 4: on man Second date update.

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Speaker 1: If you're just joining us for the second date, our listener,

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Speaker 1: Evan has asked us to do something that we've never

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Speaker 1: really tried on this segment before.

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Speaker 3: Because it's not an idea any of us have ever happened.

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Speaker 1: No, probably too smart for our simple brains. But he

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Speaker 1: saying he had a lot of fun with you, he

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Speaker 1: on kind.

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Speaker 4: Of strong, even me saying.

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Speaker 3: That are you giving yourself the itch?

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Speaker 1: I kind of even that it does feel like a lot.

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Speaker 1: That's why. Instead, Evan wants us to say he reached out,

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Speaker 4: So I don't know how are you feeling about him?

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Speaker 1: Basically reverse psychology Jenna into loving him.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to be so disheartened if this works, Like

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Speaker 1: Well, Evan has been rejected so many times. He's tired

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Speaker 2: Is the only problem.

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Speaker 1: He's trying to stop the cycle of what's going on

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Speaker 2: Right Evan, It's time I got to stand up for

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Speaker 3: I think you could have used the quote about like

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Speaker 1: You're doing something new and he thinks that if he

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Speaker 1: the fourth date. So how cool do we play it?

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Speaker 1: Jeff I'm worried, like, do we do? We get her

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Speaker 1: think we just have to play kind of non committal

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Speaker 1: and more just ask her about what she thinks about

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Speaker 1: the date. We'll just go right to that. Okay, deafening

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Speaker 1: silence from the room. Okay, here we go, let's try it.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Jenna. We're a radio show actually called

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey Jenna, dang, thanks

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Speaker 1: for picking up. We're doing a segment on our show

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Speaker 1: A you may have heard of it before. It's called

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Speaker 1: a second date update.

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Speaker 5: Yes, but where you guys get calling me.

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Speaker 3: We're kind of surprised we're calling you too. Yeah, this

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Speaker 3: segment because it doesn't actually fit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this is a little bit different than what

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Speaker 1: we normally do. But we got an email from one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners that you went out with His name's Evan. Okay, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: remember going out with Evan?

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Speaker 5: I do? Okay, yeah, I do.

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Speaker 4: Evan emailed our show.

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Speaker 1: He told us that the two of you went out

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Speaker 1: and you know, yet he had a decent time. He's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he said that.

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Speaker 1: He's just he I mean yeah, like he enjoyed the date,

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Speaker 1: no question about it, but the future he's a little

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Speaker 5: So he doesn't like me.

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Speaker 3: No, no, No, he doesn't not like you, but he

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, his heart is congested.

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Speaker 1: What confused?

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Speaker 4: I don't know he he doesn't know.

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Speaker 1: That's not what I meant. He doesn't know where his

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Speaker 5: I guess I'm just confused. I thought we liked each other.

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Speaker 1: I thought everything was say specifically that he liked you,

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Speaker 1: Do you like you make it a whole lot easier.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes it's hard to know how people feel.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you're reading signs, you're reading them wrong.

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Speaker 5: No, No, we had a great time.

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Speaker 1: We even kissed. Okay, well that's good. Tell us more

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Speaker 3: So out of the box.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean we grabbed drinks. I got to really

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Speaker 5: know him. He was super, super nice. I don't really

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Speaker 1: Or maybe maybe you thought that he liked you, but

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Speaker 4: Could just be like a vibe that you were getting.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, this is just extremely disappointing to hear because we

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, maybe the vibe that you're feeling from him

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Speaker 3: Makes him feel like he wants it more. Yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: I'm just going.

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Speaker 4: To say that. I will say he does want to talk.

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Speaker 1: To you, though, what.

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Speaker 5: Evan, what is going on? I'm so confused.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry to throw a loop in things, But

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Speaker 2: you thought I was nice? Yeah, I thought you were

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Speaker 5: Huh. Okay, well I guess I guess maybe we're just

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Speaker 1: Well hold on, what are you doing, dude, I don't

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Speaker 5: This is weird. This is a very strange way of

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Speaker 3: I don't even understand where he's trying to go here.

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Speaker 1: Evan, you're saying, you're saying that she's saying that she

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Speaker 2: Not completely, because I'm a nice guy and I I

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Speaker 3: I thought you just that you were attracted to her

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying there isn't that there isn't. I'm not sure.

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Speaker 3: Okay, your message, I think is getting a little lost.

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Speaker 5: After all this, why would I do that? I mean,

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Speaker 1: You see one date, they're saying they like him, and

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Speaker 3: Is you telling her there's no romantic connection and that

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Speaker 3: the switch. You can turn that back. You can be

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Speaker 5: I would have never been weirded out as I am

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Speaker 5: This is very strange. What's turning me off?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, it would have happened on the second or

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jenny, realize this now, but after three dates with him,

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Speaker 3: Now we're going to tell her how she's going to

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Speaker 4: Date unless we're wrong.

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Speaker 1: Because unless we're wrong, because normally at this time I

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Speaker 1: right now, Jenna and ask Evan out after he turned

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Speaker 2: I want to partner who will fight for me, okay.

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Speaker 4: After one day, that's respectable.

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Speaker 1: I think it's an Are you willing to fight for him,

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Speaker 5: To be asked with?

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Speaker 3: You?

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Speaker 5: Know?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you have nothing else to lose at this point, Evan,

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Speaker 5: I mean, what is this truth? You have to tell me?

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Speaker 5: This is the very insane that how this is working

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Speaker 5: I mean, you might as well tell me right now.

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Speaker 2: Look, the truth is I really like you, and I was,

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Speaker 2: I'm usually the one that's trying to win somebody over,

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Speaker 5: Buddy, I mean, thank you for being honest. Finally about this.

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Speaker 5: It was weird. It was a weird way of going about.

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Speaker 3: It, but he was just trying something new. Datings hard

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Speaker 3: these days, and he liked you, and he didn't know

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Speaker 3: I think he is finally understanding that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, now that we've really sold him, we'd love

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Speaker 1: to offer to send you guys out on another day, Jenna,

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Speaker 1: and we would pay for it. I mean, he has

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Speaker 1: finally come clean, He's told you the truth. And no

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Speaker 1: more games going forward, at least not from Evans part,

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Speaker 1: has never happened.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Kenn, promise no games going forward.

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Speaker 3: Come on, don't the player hate the game? Let's go

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Speaker 3: one more day. Yeah, we're the games.

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Speaker 5: We're going to date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Reverse psychology does work.

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Speaker 3: The honest truth works, your real feelings work. Like we

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Speaker 1: We did it.

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Speaker 2: You guys are the best. Thank you, You're.

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Speaker 1: Welcome, buddy.

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Speaker 3: I don't feel like it.

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Speaker 1: Rookie Jeffrey in the morning. I don't think there's any

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I mean we literally just we added more drama.

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Speaker 3: We did, and there was no need for it.

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Speaker 1: This is what happens when us non cool guys try

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean, that's right. It was

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Speaker 3: a be yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's a nice duould be a nice dude.

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Speaker 1: It's a win for nice guys everywhere. And he's lucky

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Speaker 1: that for some weird reason she just liked him for

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Speaker 3: But I really don't want to get an update from

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Speaker 4: He's just too nice.

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Speaker 5: So we need to talk to all the girls to

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Speaker 4: The act and he shows up an hour later the date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's all right. But you know what, if you're

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Speaker 1: a nice guy or if you're a bad boy or

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Speaker 1: anything in between, we will help you with your dating life.

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Speaker 4: Email the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 4: you back.

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