1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,559 Speaker 1: I told my wife, I know the baby's not mine 2 00:00:02,960 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: in the delivery room. Now I'll ruin her life. She's 3 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:07,720 Speaker 1: a filthy cheater? Am I the a hole? 4 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 2: I feel like the delivery room is where you find out. 5 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 2: It's like you know those mystery boxes where it's like, 6 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: do you want a divorce or a mystery baby? And 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 2: then you open the mystery baby and it's like that 8 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,159 Speaker 2: that doesn't look like me, and then you get a 9 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 2: divorce too. Oh, that's that's sad. That's sad. But that's 10 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 2: how it happens. That is how it happens. Every pregnant 11 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 2: woman is a mystery box. That is true? Is it yours? 12 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 2: Is waiting to be opened? To just wait? Okay? 13 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: So I found out when she was about six months 14 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: a long pregnant. 15 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 2: That she was found out what we don't know yet. Sorry, 16 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 2: I'm getting ahead. 17 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: Getting ahead, but I see you in the comments if 18 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 1: you know what it's about to go down. The guy 19 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 1: Brian approached me at my work. Are you Sarah's boyfriend? 20 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: I said yeah, and I asked what he wanted. He 21 00:00:58,360 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: said he was sorry, but that he had slept with 22 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: her and swore that he didn't know that she was 23 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:05,880 Speaker 1: with someone. 24 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 2: I think it's like a good move on his part, though, 25 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 2: to be like, you know, I didn't know. Here's the info. 26 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 2: He didn't do anything wrong, assuming that is correct. Yeah, 27 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 2: he didn't do anything wrong. He did the right thing 28 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 2: by confronting. He did the right thing. Hard thing to do, 29 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 2: hard thing to do. Hey, salute to you, Brian impregnating 30 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 2: your coworker's wife. Oh boy, wait, wait, no it was 31 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 2: It's not his coworker, is it. No, it's just like 32 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 2: you found him in his office. Yeah, you may be right. 33 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: This guy Brian approached me at work, so yeah, he 34 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:43,959 Speaker 1: could be his coworker, but also could have just like 35 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:44,559 Speaker 1: pulled up. 36 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 2: And yeah, I think my money's on pulled up. 37 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll see. But damn, you beat me to 38 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: the bunch lines. But I don't believe that. Oh he's 39 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: not buying it. Really, Oh he's not buying it. 40 00:01:56,840 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: Well, to be fair, To be fair, you like a 41 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:05,520 Speaker 2: random person coming up to you saying, hey, I'm pregnated 42 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 2: your wife. Like, I'm gonna I'll give him the benefit 43 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: of the doubt. I'm like, hopefully I'm in a loving marriage, 44 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 2: so I'm gonna probably trust my wife over some random 45 00:02:18,280 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 2: guy at Chipotle. I'm working in Chipotle at this and 46 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 2: this and this, like serving him a burrito and he's like, yo, 47 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 2: what fuck your wife? And like you do you want 48 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:27,960 Speaker 2: cheese with that? 49 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:31,959 Speaker 1: And then afterwards he's like, hey, you might giving me 50 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: a little extra and he's like, fuck you, no, no. 51 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 2: You already gave my wife extra sour cream. Oh god, 52 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 2: that's a cream pie. You don't want add it to 53 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 2: your order. He then pulled out his phone to show 54 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 2: the text between them. Oh shit, he's got receipts. 55 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: They had been sleeping together or linking up for at 56 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 1: least a whole year. 57 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 2: Damn, a whole year. A whole year. 58 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 1: Then she found out she was pregnan it and they 59 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: came to an agreement to just pretend that the baby 60 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:05,520 Speaker 1: was mine. 61 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 2: Okay, so he didn't know, he did know, He didn't know, 62 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 2: but so he's a little bit of an ask. He 63 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: didn't know, he did know. They were hooking up for 64 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 2: a year. 65 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Yeah, it's possible he didn't know in the beginning, 66 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 1: but it's it's clear that he knew eventually. 67 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and it was conspiring to hide it to 68 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 2: have this man raise his child. Oh my God, oh 69 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: my God. 70 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 1: In return, she wouldn't lose her perfect life and he 71 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: wouldn't be responsible for a. 72 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: Baby, the deal of the devil. I know, it was weird. 73 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 1: We have been having problems trying for a baby, and 74 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: all of a sudden she got pregnant so easily. 75 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 2: Yoh should thank him. He's like basically a free sperm donner. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 76 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: thanks for the fertilizer. 77 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: Body welcome. Yeah, gave me a trip to home depot. 78 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: Don't need no fertilizer anymore. But he explained that he 79 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: had been thinking about it and he had recently become 80 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: a Christian. 81 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 2: Thanks for just in time, Just in time. Yeah, I 82 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 2: already fucked your wife, so I didn't become I didn't 83 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 2: want to become a Christian that But after that, I'm like, 84 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 2: all right, all right, let's wrap this thing up. 85 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: Post nut repentance. Nothing like it, baby, nothing like it. 86 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 2: That's why he was saying, Oh God, a bunch of 87 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 2: oh God, my Lord, and same, oh boy. 88 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 1: Brother in Christ, brother in Christ. He said that he 89 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: couldn't live his life knowing that I was living a 90 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: lie with his child that didn't know their real father. 91 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: So yeah, I told him i'd keep in touch and 92 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: not to say that he said anything just yet. I've 93 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: had a lot of time to think, but ultimately I've 94 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: decided to wait until she gave birth to hurt her 95 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: in her most vulnerable moment. OK, come on, well yeah, 96 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: it's it is absolutely fucked thing that the that the 97 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: wife did. 98 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 2: Yes, it doesn't you know, you know, I don't know. 99 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:11,359 Speaker 1: I don't know that that's necessarily the best move on 100 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 1: Op's part. 101 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 2: The wife did something unforgivable. Yep, yep, And oh, p 102 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: is uh is fighting fire with fire. 103 00:05:24,200 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: He really is fighting fire with a nuclear bomb. 104 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 2: I don't necessarily condone these actions, but I am very interested. Yeah, 105 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 2: I want to sip that ship, like what is he 106 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 2: gonna do it? Is he gonna do it? Like like 107 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 2: like pops out, it's like, oh my god, it's a boy. 108 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: And it's like and you're divorced. Fun being a single mother. 109 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 2: You're not a widow, you're a mom and a divorcee. Boom, 110 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 2: here's the papers. I think that would be rough. 111 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: I think that's it sounds like when he's going to 112 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 1: do damn. 113 00:06:01,880 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 2: But then it's like it's brutal because it's it's it's 114 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 2: like for like for if he does it at the 115 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 2: moment of birth, now that birthing story, the first time 116 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 2: she holds her son in her arms is always going 117 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 2: to be linked with those divorce papers coming. Hopefully he 118 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 2: doesn't do it. He can't. He can't do it right 119 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 2: at the moment. I mean he literally could, all right, literally, 120 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 2: let's see. Let's see, by the way, this. 121 00:06:27,839 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 1: Guy needs to become a rapper because his distracts would 122 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,119 Speaker 1: just go absolutely crazy. This man is a mastermind playing 123 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: forty chess. I will spare the details, but she went 124 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: into labor, the baby was born, and was taken to 125 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:42,440 Speaker 1: the NICU to be monitored for a bit, which I thinks. 126 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 2: That's natal intensive care unit or newborn either newborn or. 127 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: Natal neonatal intensive care unit neo natal Okay, basically for 128 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 1: you know, to have extra medical attention for babies. So 129 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: probably not doing so great. What should have been a 130 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 1: beautiful moment of me holding my baby was the most 131 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: heartbreaking time of my life. Just knowing he was not 132 00:07:04,279 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: mine hurt me. Once she was sewn up and comfortable, 133 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: I started packing up my stuff to leave. 134 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: She asked where I was going, and I just told 135 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 2: her this, Oh man, you ready alright, I'm ready, already 136 00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:17,600 Speaker 2: a ready reay. 137 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 1: I know I'm not the baby's father. You can act 138 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: all shocked, but I know, just ask Brian to come. 139 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 1: I'm positive that he will sign the birth certificate. Then 140 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: I left. Wow, at least he didn't do it like 141 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: while the baby was being put into the Yeah, and 142 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: I see you like that. 143 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:37,560 Speaker 2: Would not even gonna do it like while she was pushing. 144 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, hey read I know you're pushing mariad this. 145 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: From yeah yeah, I mean like like what he did, 146 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 2: like I think where he said it classier than if 147 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 2: she was mid push. Yeah, just it would have been 148 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:54,200 Speaker 2: evil to do it mid push. She's like, he's almost there. 149 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: She's like, ah, he's maybe that would be the final 150 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 2: push she needs. Yeah, just hop it out, you know, 151 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 2: or maybe just get sucked all back in. Oh yeah sure. 152 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 2: She's like, I'm forget this. 153 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: She's been calling my phone over and over, even sending 154 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,800 Speaker 1: texts as I'm typing this, and has even gotten her 155 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: sister to call me a few times. It was hard 156 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: pretending these last few months, but I think I'm satisfied. 157 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: I feel really really heartbroken. Though I was planning to 158 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: propose to her on the day our baby was born. 159 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:30,280 Speaker 1: Y I was gonna make her the happiest woman ever. 160 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 1: Oh well, I'm going to get chip faced now. Now 161 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: there is a bit of that. There are some updates. 162 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:40,680 Speaker 1: I want to hear those updates. But damn, dude, like 163 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 1: I feel bad for the guy. I feel bad and 164 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: I feel bad. Do you think it was still an Okay? 165 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: Was it an asshole move? Still to say what he said? 166 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, well I think it's an asshole. I feel like 167 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: it's an asshole move to like live for you know, 168 00:08:56,120 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 2: four months and then like I would if it was me. Yeah, 169 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 2: it's an asshole move because he was he said. He 170 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 2: literally said, I'm trying to have her have the most 171 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 2: pain possible. So that is also quick story. We're now 172 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 2: back in La here. We are finally from from Bali. 173 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 2: I was in Vietnam. I was going on a plane 174 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:24,240 Speaker 2: from Dunnang to Ho Chi Minh in Vietnam and this 175 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 2: guy comes up to me and he's like, dude, is 176 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 2: this Australian. He's like, dude, dude, do you have a 177 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 2: phone charger? My phone's dead. I just caught my missus 178 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 2: blowing some other guy. I need to get out of 179 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 2: the city. Can you help me? He walked in on 180 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 2: his wife blowing some other dude, and it is just 181 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: like he just needed to leave the city. And so 182 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 2: I hopped him out, like I gave him like some 183 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 2: money and like helped him charge his phone. Do we 184 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: and I have him on Instagram show he just did 185 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 2: a good deed. But uh, I just did a deal, 186 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:06,080 Speaker 2: my heart. But he was like he was not and 187 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 2: I think he was like popping some pills or something, 188 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 2: because he was it was a little a little off, 189 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 2: not in like what I like, Like he was like 190 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 2: he saw this happen and how this happened and was 191 00:10:18,200 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 2: immediately like I got to get the fuck out of there, 192 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 2: which is like a natural human response to stay for 193 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 2: four months knowing what he knows and like putting on 194 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 2: like a like a like a like a fake face 195 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 2: like that. It seems like psychopathic almost. Yeah, you're right, 196 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 2: that is a very good point. Why put yourself to 197 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 2: that exactly exactly, Like I feel like it's more self 198 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 2: torture than anything else. Yeah, So I think it's an 199 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 2: asshole move to himself mostly honestly. Yeah, that's true. 200 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: Wow, Dang, being an asshole to yourself I mean an 201 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: asshole to yourself. Love yourself, ladies and gentlemen. 202 00:10:56,840 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, like, don't make yourself unhappy for the sake of revenge. Yeah, 203 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 2: and usually revenge is always gonna make you unhappy, except 204 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 2: for when it's so. Yeah, let's get this update. 205 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: Get it. My head hurts, but I'm home and safe. 206 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: I'll clear up a few things. Brian is going to 207 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: be in the baby's life if it's his. I don't 208 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: care what anyone says. I'm sure the kid isn't mine. 209 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: I'll go get tested. But me and Brian have been 210 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 1: in context since last night, and there isn't a doubt 211 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: in my mind. For those of you calling me a 212 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 1: psychopath or whatever, that's what I said, Hugh, I don't 213 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: really care psychopath thing to say. You'll all forget about 214 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 1: this post in a day anyways, except for today. Hey, well, 215 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,920 Speaker 1: I have to live with this for the rest of 216 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 1: my life. What I did wasn't amazing, but I don't care. 217 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: All I ever did was treat her amazing, and this 218 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: is how she pays me back. If you think this 219 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 1: is fake, go read something else. It doesn't matter to me. 220 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 1: And there is a final update. Okay, Hey everyone, I 221 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,320 Speaker 1: wanted to say I would have updated sooner, but it 222 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 1: takes a bit to get the test results back. 223 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 2: Oh, test results. 224 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: I've also been working on myself and the time being, 225 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: so thanks for all the support. 226 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 2: I'll cut to the chase. I am not the father, 227 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 2: all right, what we expected, yep, but I already knew 228 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 2: that deep down. 229 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 1: Brian and the baby are a match. So pretty much 230 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 1: answers that question. He's very excited to be a dad, 231 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: even despite the circumstances. 232 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 2: Well, at least someone's happy, you know. 233 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, we've kept in touch this whole time, and he's 234 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 1: actually a really great guy. 235 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,839 Speaker 2: Oh man, man, that's that's kind of a kind of 236 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 2: a one eighty on for. 237 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm not sure if we'll continue to stay in 238 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,320 Speaker 1: touch after this, but I wouldn't mind getting a drink 239 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 1: with him every once in a while. I hope the 240 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: kid does great in life. He should be with Brian 241 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:50,560 Speaker 1: as his dad. 242 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 2: Wait, but Brian has Brian had to know that she 243 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 2: had a husband. 244 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: He in the texts it showed them conspiring to keep 245 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: a so it's still there's still plausible deniability on whether 246 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: he knew in the very beginning. Yeah, but he eventually learned. 247 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 1: He eventually learned and hit it for a period of time. 248 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: It wasn't like I would want to get a beer 249 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:13,480 Speaker 1: with a guy like that. It wasn't like she told him, 250 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 1: and then he came running over like, Yo, this is 251 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 1: what's happening. 252 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 2: Come on. 253 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: As for Sarah, around the time I posted, she had 254 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 1: asked Brian to be with her officially since now there 255 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: was nothing to hide. As far as I know, he 256 00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 1: has not taken her up on that offer and just 257 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: wants to co parent for the sake of him being 258 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 1: in the kid's life. 259 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 2: Damn, you lost it all, girl. 260 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: Come on, Sarah, you could have had it all. We 261 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: talked about where it all went wrong. She felt as 262 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 1: though I wasn't there for her fully and just felt unfulfilled. 263 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: So you got filled somewhere else. 264 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 2: Huh. I will never fill the hole in your heart. 265 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: Empty inside, But then you'll worried, which I understand. I 266 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: wasn't always the best guy, but I treated her the 267 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: best I could. 268 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:59,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, come on, well, you know I might 269 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 2: question that with the psychopathic behavior. Is he a nice guy? 270 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 2: Like a nice guy lie to you for four months 271 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:12,199 Speaker 2: and then reveal right after you had your baby? That 272 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 2: he knows that you've been cheating. 273 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: I don't think so, because earlier he said like I 274 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: was going to give for the world, and I promised 275 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: everything for her, and then he's. 276 00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: Like, no, I want to see her torture and suffer 277 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 2: and watch her. Yeah, like the really nice guys would 278 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 2: never do that. 279 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, come on now, Yeah, should we start a subprenit 280 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: called really nice guys. 281 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: It's actually nice guys. That's the good ones. 282 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: That's what the world needs. I guess it just wasn't 283 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: meant to be. She started crying, and I did give 284 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: her a hug, but I made sure she knew it 285 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: wasn't because I cared about her. 286 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 2: Jesus, how do you give a hug to someone that 287 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 2: you don't care about? Yeah, that you give a hug, 288 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 2: making sure that the person knows that you don't care 289 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 2: about them, Like you just a hug and say I 290 00:14:56,920 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 2: don't don't really about you. Just it's like more like 291 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 2: a you know, like you were seen like like one 292 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 2: of those mob movies where it's like they're doing a 293 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,520 Speaker 2: handshake and it's like, if you don't deliver the drugs, 294 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 2: I'll kill you. And then he like, yeah, the kiss, 295 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 2: the kiss of oh Man. That's exactly what that was. 296 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 2: He was trying to mob boss. 297 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:24,320 Speaker 1: Basically, she offered to stay with friends for me and 298 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: to visit if I wanted, but I declined. I'm not 299 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 1: really interested in keeping up with her and her kid. 300 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 1: But I did give her the stuffed animal I was 301 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: planning to give to our kids someday as a gift. 302 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,360 Speaker 1: She's been staying with her mom and has fully moved 303 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: out her stuff. 304 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 2: Isn't it a big thing? That's a weird detail to include? 305 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,160 Speaker 2: It is a weird detail, Like I bught him a 306 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 2: stuffed animal and I gave it to her anyway. He's 307 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:51,000 Speaker 2: such a nice guy. He's trying hard to give her 308 00:15:51,080 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 2: the world. It's like like it's not like a college fund. 309 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 2: It's like I was saving for this kid's college fund 310 00:15:56,200 --> 00:15:58,200 Speaker 2: and I gave it to her anyway. It's like like, yeah, 311 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 2: I picked up like a beanie baby, like I gave it. 312 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 2: Such a nice guy, not that deep. Yeah, I don't 313 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 2: think this guy's a good guy. Yeah, I'm not saying, 314 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 2: but she like, I'm not condoning her cheating on him. No, no, no, 315 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 2: by any means. But I understand why she would just kidding. 316 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:21,720 Speaker 1: She asked me to keep her number, but I blocked 317 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: her the same day that she finished moving out. 318 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 2: That that I don't think is an asshole. 319 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: That's okay, yeah, I mean it's going to move on 320 00:16:28,120 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: if she she did put him through a lot, so 321 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 1: it's just me now. I'm not gonna lie. My heart 322 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: has been super heavy, but I think I'll be okay. 323 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 1: There's a cute girl at work and we've been talking. 324 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 1: She's a single mom and has been awesome so far. 325 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: I explained that I wanted to go slow because of 326 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,320 Speaker 1: my recent breakup, and she understands. We've hooked up once 327 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 1: or twice, nothing serious yet. I just want to be 328 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 1: by myself for now, but I'll likely give her a 329 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: shot when i'm ready. 330 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,520 Speaker 2: That's it for now. I'm depressed, but I'm working out now. 331 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 2: At least. 332 00:16:56,040 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: I never want to talk to Sarah and will likely 333 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:00,800 Speaker 1: never see her again. It sucks because she was a 334 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 1: big part of my life, but that's gone now. Thanks 335 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: for all the support. I'll answer any questions if you 336 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:09,199 Speaker 1: guys have any wow going from one single mom to another. 337 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so what's the question here? 338 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 2: Is op the asshole? Yep for waiting four months to 339 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 2: tell his wife that he knew she cheated so he 340 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 2: could twist the knife right after she gave birth. We 341 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 2: have the whole story. Now, Yeah, what's the verdict. I 342 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 2: think he's an asshole. I want to know what everyone 343 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 2: else thinks, but I think he's an asshole. And I 344 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 2: also think some of the behavior that he's shown showcases 345 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 2: why she may have felt like uncomfortable in the relationship. Yeah, 346 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 2: not condoning that she like she shouldn't have cheated, of course, 347 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 2: But like, I don't think he's as nice a guy 348 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 2: as he's saying that he is. 349 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: Two assholes don't make a butt plug. That is a sentence. Yes, 350 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 1: So I think that like, just because she was a 351 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:00,640 Speaker 1: big asshole to him doesn't mean that he can go 352 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: and return the favor exactly. 353 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think like an asshole for an asshole 354 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 2: makes the whole world stinky. 355 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: But you know what, I would love for you to 356 00:18:11,119 --> 00:18:14,439 Speaker 1: plug me with this next story. But boom, Should I 357 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: tell the wife that I slept with her husband? 358 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 2: Oh? 359 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:21,119 Speaker 1: This is a big one. This because it's a double whammy. 360 00:18:21,359 --> 00:18:24,919 Speaker 1: The double really is a double whammy because not only 361 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 1: is he cheating, but there's no chance that he likes 362 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:32,640 Speaker 1: you if what we think is happening by that's true, 363 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: that's true, but probably still still lying, still lies, still lying, 364 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,160 Speaker 1: might be by but still live, but still lies. 365 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:43,439 Speaker 2: All right, let's see, let's find out. This is a 366 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,920 Speaker 2: bit of a complicated story, as it seems from his outset, 367 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 2: this is this is a complicated one. I met this 368 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,639 Speaker 2: guy about a year ago through mutual friends and we 369 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 2: started a brief sexual relationship where we hooked up a 370 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:58,959 Speaker 2: few times for about a month. SPICEE. He was friends 371 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 2: with the guys we would all go out with on weekends. 372 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,919 Speaker 2: I initially was told he had a wife in a 373 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:07,119 Speaker 2: different country and nothing ever happened. So like I guess, 374 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:10,879 Speaker 2: like maybe maybe he is gay, and like there's like 375 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,359 Speaker 2: a wife and another kind like he's like, oh, like 376 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 2: nothing ever happened with this person. It's like like there's 377 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 2: just like a little beard right out of the country 378 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 2: for familial purposes something like that. 379 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:24,440 Speaker 1: From the like the dude is is uh the guy 380 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:28,160 Speaker 1: that OPI slept with is like I've lived. 381 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 2: A marriage or something right right right where. It looks 382 00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 2: like this isn't a different country, it's not the US. 383 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 2: Got it over time, he started confiding in me that 384 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 2: they were actually broken up and going through divorce. He 385 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 2: made me promise to not tell anybody or his friends 386 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 2: because it was embarrassing for him, which OP says, I know, 387 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,919 Speaker 2: this is a huge red flag. Now. I was naive 388 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 2: and have since learned from this experience. So we started 389 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,879 Speaker 2: to hook up, and I fully believe during this time 390 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 2: that he was single. After about a month, I found 391 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 2: out his wife was visited him for the weekend. Hold on, now, 392 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 2: it makes me see so much. I'm a surprised. I 393 00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 2: was in total shock. Called him out immediately and told 394 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,120 Speaker 2: him he needed to confess to his wife. He told 395 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 2: me I didn't understand and that the relationship was complicated. 396 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,719 Speaker 2: I was traumatized from this event. I didn't think somebody 397 00:20:18,720 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 2: could lie like this. Oh honey, oh honey, oh honey, 398 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 2: it happens. We've read away too many stories. Yeah, we 399 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 2: have boys that are jaded as fuck. Oh. I went 400 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 2: to therapy for months, and it took a long time 401 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,320 Speaker 2: to let go of the guilt I felt because OP 402 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:36,679 Speaker 2: is like I was cheating on. I was like I 403 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:39,439 Speaker 2: was a pawn in this cheating scheme. 404 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 1: We need a word for the people that are not 405 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 1: being cheated on? But are the the cheaties the cheaties? 406 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 1: I don't know cheatahs? 407 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 2: I like that shortly, but that it just sounds like cheaters. 408 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 2: It does. It's tom might be too similar cheat does 409 00:20:56,960 --> 00:21:02,640 Speaker 2: Maybe she is cheaters. I think cheetahs like cheetahs. Cheetahs. Yeah. 410 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 2: Shortly after I was located in another country for the 411 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,280 Speaker 2: last year, but I have since moved back. Last month, 412 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: I went out with some of my friends and he 413 00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 2: and his wife were both there, and I found out 414 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:18,479 Speaker 2: that she is moving to our country for him. Excuse me. 415 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 2: He introduced us and acted like nothing was wrong. Wait, 416 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:25,000 Speaker 2: so the wife is literally moving to be with the husband. Yikes. 417 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 2: I almost had a panic attack and was shaking the 418 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 2: whole time. Yeah. She invited me to her birthday party 419 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 2: this Friday, as again there are some mutual friends. I 420 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,200 Speaker 2: am not going as I don't think it is right 421 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:39,399 Speaker 2: to see here and act like nothing happened. Yeah, should 422 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 2: I tell the wife what happened? Her and her boyfriend 423 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 2: are not as close with my friend group as I am, 424 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,680 Speaker 2: but they sometimes get invited to events for context. I've 425 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 2: been back for three months now and that was the 426 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 2: only time I have seen them, so far. I can't 427 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 2: live with knowing they might be at future events. But 428 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 2: if I tell her, everyone is going to know that 429 00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 2: I held this in for a year and this all 430 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 2: would likely cause some serious drama, which it totally would. Yeah, 431 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,480 Speaker 2: the wife moved her entire life from another country here. 432 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 2: I also refuse to stop seeing my actual friends because 433 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:16,200 Speaker 2: he might be there. Please, anyone, can you share your advice? TLDR. 434 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 2: I slept with a guy I didn't know how to wife. 435 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 2: We have mutual friends, and she invited me to her birthday. 436 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 2: I don't feel comfortable with this. 437 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 1: Why would you ever introduce your partner to the person 438 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 1: you cheated with? 439 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 2: Because you're trying to be all slick and sly and 440 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 2: be like, oh, like, I don't know who you. 441 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: Are, Like at least if you're gonna be a freaking 442 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:43,080 Speaker 1: dirty cheater, like, don't do that. 443 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 2: That. Also, don't if you're gonna be a dirty cheater, 444 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,919 Speaker 2: don't cheat with people within your friend group. Yeah right, 445 00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:53,560 Speaker 2: that's like come on, Like think about the legication, logistics, heistics, 446 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 2: it's gonna be very hard to hide that. Yeah, you're 447 00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 2: a bad cheater, bad bad be better at cheating. Wow. 448 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 2: So the question is should OP tell the wife that 449 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 2: moved her whole life from another country to hear that 450 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 2: the man that she uprooted her life for is a 451 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:15,680 Speaker 2: dirty stink and cheater. 452 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,120 Speaker 1: So there's two things going on here, right. Number one, 453 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,680 Speaker 1: OP is sharing that it was like, I think it's 454 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: a lot for Ope to handle knowing that they were 455 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: a h what's that's the word, not apprentice, an accomplice 456 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: in this cheating right and is feeling super guilty, And 457 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 1: it's like, I just sounds like Op is like, I 458 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 1: just want to be out of the situation. I'll let 459 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:38,959 Speaker 1: them go live their life and not like interrupt their 460 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 1: relationship anymore. 461 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 2: But on the. 462 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,439 Speaker 1: Flip side, I think it it's like it's the truth, 463 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,920 Speaker 1: like OP, yeah did Now if as long I would say, 464 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:53,879 Speaker 1: as long as uh uh, it doesn't put like OPI 465 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:57,440 Speaker 1: or any of them, any of them three in danger 466 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,920 Speaker 1: because we don't know exactly what country they're coming for 467 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: and like what their attitude is towards uh being gay. 468 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 1: But like, as long as that is not an issue, 469 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 1: I would say it is good to tell the girlfriend. 470 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 2: I agree, Yeah, I agree. I feel like she should 471 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 2: know sooner rather than later. Yeah, exact this happened now. 472 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: I think also, it would be a good move to 473 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:26,199 Speaker 1: go to op and be like, look, I'm going to 474 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,239 Speaker 1: tell her. I want you to tell her, right like 475 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: it's it's this should come from you. But if you don't, 476 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 1: then she deserves to know the truth. Yeah, you know which, 477 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know how. I don't think this 478 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,560 Speaker 1: guy is unhinged, but if he was, then it would 479 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 1: be like, oh man, he's going to uproove my entire life. 480 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,879 Speaker 2: Murder, you know, murder, and that's how a murder mystery starts. 481 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 1: That's a true crime podcast, like crime. 482 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:56,480 Speaker 2: Podcast sadly, So, yeah, I think if you are not 483 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 2: putting yourself in danger, if you're not putting the other 484 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 2: person in danger, I would go with the truth. I 485 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,160 Speaker 2: think the person deserves to know. Yeah, I agree, I agree. 486 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 2: But what would you do? What would you do in 487 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 2: this situation? It's a complicated situation, is it really is? 488 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 2: It's difficult. It's difficult. 489 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,760 Speaker 1: Have been in a similar situation before. Yeah, we would 490 00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 1: definitely love to hear your stories, your answers in the comments. 491 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:19,600 Speaker 2: Also, what we have now is you can call our 492 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:22,680 Speaker 2: number and leave a voicemail and we're gonna start playing it. 493 00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:24,439 Speaker 2: In episode what's the Number? 494 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: Call four four zero five zero eight six five six seven. 495 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,919 Speaker 1: Leave your story, give us a nice juicy title. You 496 00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 1: know how our stories are. 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