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Speaker 1: nobody named Charlottagne guy with the world Most Dangerous Morning.

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Speaker 1: Yore to Breakfast Club and currently we are on vacation, man,

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Speaker 1: totally disconnected. Yes, we're not even really here. You think

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Speaker 1: We're here in spirit. Yeah yeah, and we're gonna be

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Speaker 1: and we'll see ell in the new year. Happy holidays.

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Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. This is your time

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Speaker 1: to get it off your chests, whether you're Man or blast.

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Speaker 1: So we but have the same any we want to

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Speaker 1: Beneath you? Ya? Joy? How you doing good? Look? I

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Speaker 1: don't even want to be up yo long, I don't

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Speaker 1: on my way to work and I wur to say

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Speaker 1: my poem this morning. Oh yeah, Harriet, it's entire of

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Speaker 1: remodeling my home. Okay, okay, I like this, I like

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Speaker 1: what it could be going. I need you to have

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Speaker 1: more enthusiasm me okay. I had to divorce Depression said

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Speaker 1: Stressed tried to stay complaining every day, but I said,

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Speaker 1: piece stood. There was ease and comfort. Follow ups. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I was so pleased. Power called and said he was

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Speaker 1: it on Tuesday. Loved, yet it was delayed. Was the

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Speaker 1: only one that prays praised. Poured up in the vine

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Speaker 1: is called healing my heart of scar Friendship came running,

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Speaker 1: put her arms around my neck. Her brother came to

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Speaker 1: his thing with respect. Mercy, who was so kind of

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Speaker 1: helping me remodel my home, got rid of all the trash.

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Speaker 1: Now the uglans. Go. I did that. I did that.

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Speaker 1: That is amazing that I farely got y'all. Go ahead,

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Speaker 1: where can people here? I see some more of your poetry. Well,

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Speaker 1: my books on Amazon? Okay, what's the name? Moment? It's

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Speaker 1: entitled The Reaper. Hello, who's this? What's the deal? There's

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Speaker 1: a Marvel Carty mob? What's up? Get it off? You

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Speaker 1: change your real name? Your last name Boccardi. Yes, you're

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Speaker 1: a liar. Your last name is actually Boccardi. Like the drink.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, not cart Oh McCarty, okay, got you all

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Speaker 1: right McCarty, Okay, that makes more sense to get chess man?

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Speaker 1: All right, what's there? Man? I wanted to just give

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Speaker 1: to hear. I want to shout out Kyola McCarty, the

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Speaker 1: Charlotte Magne the Guard and congratulations brother, and have a

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Speaker 1: good one. Hello. Who's this? This is Romero? Romero? What

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Speaker 1: I'm getting off your chest? Man? I'm a little hot man.

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Speaker 1: I've been trying to get into this real estate game

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Speaker 1: and they're not making it easy for a brother at all. Man.

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Speaker 1: I brought my first property, renovated it, got it off

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Speaker 1: mean that's that's what this this whole pandemic did. I

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Speaker 1: who's this? Oh this is Marion john what's up up?

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Speaker 1: I was just trying to throw the link up there.

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Speaker 1: It's on ASA Publishing. Come our corporation dot com, slash

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Speaker 1: Marion Johnson's M. E. R. And Johnson, or you go

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Speaker 1: scrippy Johnson Johnson. Yeah. Yeah, my scripper name was black Cat. Okay,

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Speaker 1: should have been black Johnson. Black Cat? Why was it

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Speaker 1: a black cat? That's right, that's right, shaking everything, shaking everything, okay,

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Speaker 1: black Cat. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 1: This is your time to get it off your chest.

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Speaker 1: Whether you're man or blast so peop better have the

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Speaker 1: India bass Wist. Oh my goes get Morty DJ Sherlavay,

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Speaker 1: Oh good morning. Oh yeah, can I say break week

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Speaker 1: You said it's so hard. You said it's so aggressive

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Speaker 1: I am so tired these door dast customers not tipping

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Speaker 1: but yesterday I had an order that was like thirty

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Speaker 1: I would never order anything on door dash for ten dollars.

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Speaker 1: Some people I didn't think. I never would because there's

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Speaker 1: day and stay safe. We'll do a queen you too.

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Speaker 1: Come on this yo this season? What's up? Br chest?

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Speaker 1: He ses, I'm name everybody. Oh my goodness, man, do

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Speaker 1: you want to change your name? Now? Man, I'm just

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Speaker 1: get off my chestim quick. Don't because you walkee, because

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Speaker 1: I don't like when Charlomne and ve Me do that.

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Speaker 1: I don't like when people kind of take people. I

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Speaker 1: he's on a girl and he like, I forgive you,

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Speaker 1: I take you back, but like one week years down

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Speaker 1: That's like, come on now, so this just happens. This

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Speaker 1: though I do agree, you can't just keep on beating

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Speaker 1: somebody up after you said, let's work on it. But

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Speaker 1: you're right, you're right. We all you when we all

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Speaker 1: I feel you. Well, Thank you, bro, good luck man,

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Ye,

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Speaker 1: Charlomne the guy. We all the Breakfast Club. We have

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Speaker 1: Your first time on the Breakfast Club. This is amazing.

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Speaker 1: Oh I know you look nervous with good people, with

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Speaker 1: belated birthday, by the way, Thank you appreciated. So how

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Speaker 1: are you doing just mentally right now? Physically? We know coronavirus.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot going on. Are you good? Is your

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Speaker 1: family good? I'm good? Yeah. I have a one year old.

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Speaker 1: She just learned how to walk on her around her birthday,

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Speaker 1: Doing it from inside my house has been has been

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Speaker 1: How did you your one year old help you evolve

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Speaker 1: as a as a human? Um? He's made me super patient,

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Speaker 1: And he said, Okay, let me get on your level

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Speaker 1: Because you can't leave It's not like you'd be like,

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Speaker 1: have a gratitude list, but I literally run through it's

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Speaker 1: like an anxiety combating thing that I do with myself.

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Speaker 1: spend that kind of money on your cars and that

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00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 1: kind of money on your jury, how about spending on

424
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,800
Speaker 1: keeping your congregation safe. Yeah. I get what you're saying,

425
00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:00,600
Speaker 1: But I also feel like if that man that past

426
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,960
Speaker 1: the works hard, spend his money or whatever he wants

427
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 1: to spend his money, you know what I mean, if

428
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,440
Speaker 1: he wants to you know, who's who's the big crown

429
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 1: and have weird Dina mc crown, he should be able

430
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 1: to not worry about getting robed. No, that's not that's

431
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,480
Speaker 1: not how this works in there. That's how it should work.

432
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 1: That's life. I don't care how you're gonna amatic, you're

433
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna do things how they should or how

434
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:23,280
Speaker 1: things are well exactly, I don't want to pay taxes.

435
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,440
Speaker 1: We should not have to pay taxes because black people

436
00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 1: built this country. Come free. What No, because I don't

437
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 1: not going to jail, all right. I'm not gonna have

438
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 1: the RS knocking out my door, all right. So my

439
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 1: point is, yes, people should be able to wear what

440
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,040
Speaker 1: they want to wear without being robbed. But that's not

441
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 1: the reality of the situation. So if you're gonna spend

442
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 1: four hundred thousand or some jury spend three fifty on

443
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 1: jury and fifty thousand on security, I mean, of course

444
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 1: I would hope that something like that wouldn't happen. It's

445
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,639
Speaker 1: like when somebody's driving a nice car and then they

446
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,240
Speaker 1: blame you for getting car jack because why would you

447
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,880
Speaker 1: driving such a nice cars? Shit? So why I can't

448
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: drive a nice call and this, you know, in this neighborhood.

449
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 1: So I get that, and it's a shame that something

450
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: like this had to happen me personally. You know, I

451
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: live in Brooklyn and I don't even own jewelry. Whereth

452
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 1: that much money? And I mostly wear a costume jewelry anyway,

453
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 1: you know what you're smart, you're telling you're giving out

454
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 1: the right message just for so that's but I would

455
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 1: think in church, you would hope that would be a

456
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 1: safe haven, but unfortunately it's not. And you know, I'm

457
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 1: sorry that something like this had to happen to him,

458
00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 1: Like congregation is traumatized from this experience. And I feel

459
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,399
Speaker 1: like he's gotten a lot of press lately and the

460
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 1: way that they the way that they talk about him

461
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: in the media or the flashy you know, and I

462
00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: think that's why that's why he was targeted, because of

463
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:44,840
Speaker 1: how the media has put him out there for things

464
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: that have happened, you know, in the past. You just

465
00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:49,159
Speaker 1: told Brooklyn. Look, man, I know y'all hit me on

466
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 1: the radio. I know y'all know I got the businesses,

467
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 1: but they ain't nothing over here for y'all. All My

468
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:58,199
Speaker 1: money is in my businesses. Like I'm still trying to right,

469
00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,719
Speaker 1: we get it. I got on constant Jwelry, Right, Yeah,

470
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: I believe not real gold earring that car and drive

471
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:09,880
Speaker 1: ain't even real cars. A fake car too. All plastic people.

472
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 1: I here ruthless. They robbed Amy from Jeopardy. They heard

473
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: about Amy winning all of them goddamn bride winning, and

474
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: they robbed Amy bro not Amy. Hello, who's this man?

475
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: It's the free from mom haunters. Y man. They was

476
00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:28,880
Speaker 1: wrong for going in there robbing that, robbing that pass

477
00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 1: for like that in that church. But my whole thing

478
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 1: that they take fulling a thousand off the church, off

479
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 1: the passer or was that just collectively with the jewlry. Well,

480
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,159
Speaker 1: we don't know. It sounds like he had jewelry, But

481
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,119
Speaker 1: if you really think about it, let's say the plastic

482
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 1: brought himself a nice watch. Right, everybody's wearing a Richard

483
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,240
Speaker 1: Mill He maybe bought a Richard Mill watch. That watch

484
00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 1: could be two three hundred thousand right there. So it

485
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,480
Speaker 1: ain't a lot of jewelry. Just gotta watch him. And

486
00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:53,720
Speaker 1: if his wife got one on a an engagement ring,

487
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 1: that's four hunted. Yeah, they took their rings and everything. Man,

488
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 1: y'all asking the wrong questions. How much they're gonna get

489
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 1: forward in the street, man? What was that? That's that's

490
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 1: how much they're gonna get in the street. How much

491
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: they gonna get if it's a Richard mill watch, let's

492
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 1: say probably get about a cash by eighty seventy. You

493
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 1: know you're right. It could be their wedding bands, her

494
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 1: wedding ring and all of that too, and sometimes people

495
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 1: spend money on that stuff. Eight hundred five eight five

496
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: one oh five one. We're talking about the pastor who

497
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: got robbed in Brooklyn while he was live streaming. They

498
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: took it for his joy, They said, four hundred thousand dollars.

499
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,639
Speaker 1: People are like, oh, well, you shouldn't be wearing that

500
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn anyway, doing a live terment during the recession.

501
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: But I feel like he worked hard for You should

502
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 1: wear whatever you want to win. Man, shut up, No, yes,

503
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 1: you can wear whatever you want to wear. People can

504
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 1: rob whatever they want to rob. The reality of the

505
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 1: situation is, don't wear nothing you can't protect and if

506
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: you can't protect yourself, you better high somebody to protect

507
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 1: it for you. All right, Breakfast club coming the Breakfast club,

508
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 1: wanting everybody Choloman the gay. We are the breakfast Club.

509
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,680
Speaker 1: We have some special guests in the building. He was hating.

510
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 1: He turned to Mike, all we have this. Believe it.

511
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: I don't believe it. What's up? Everybody. How are y'all?

512
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: I love that. I love that they are collectively the

513
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:14,200
Speaker 1: dead ass podcasts are. Don't get more New York than that. No,

514
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 1: I don't for the podcast through like that. That's it,

515
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: it had to be done. Let's yo, yo, it's funny,

516
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: bro it's story. We do got mass stories. But it

517
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: really is just like our life. Like we just two

518
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: kids from Brooklyn who hustled like everybody else. And I

519
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: met my best friend when I was eighteen, my wife here,

520
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 1: and we just lived life together, grinding, taking chances with

521
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 1: each other, and we wanted to just show people like

522
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: this is how fun marriage can be, even though there's

523
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 1: some tough times, but it's just fun. Let's talk about

524
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 1: the real tims, Like I give you an example. When

525
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: I first met my wife. This was in two thousand

526
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:52,959
Speaker 1: and two. We were at a banquet of our our

527
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: elementary school we was going to and Pam Oliver was hosting,

528
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 1: and Pam Oliver she was reading down the list of accomplishments.

529
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 1: Valet's got a scholarship to Hofstra, aspires to play in

530
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:04,879
Speaker 1: the NFL. If you want to do that, you know

531
00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to grow in game more weight, and

532
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:13,680
Speaker 1: she was like, like, like one of those. It was

533
00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 1: no Condecember, you know. And I was kind of like,

534
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get your way out. And I'm like,

535
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, she's laughing at me. Right. So me

536
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,719
Speaker 1: and my wife wasn't together at that moment, right, that's

537
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 1: the day we met. So fast forward four years now,

538
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: I get a trial with the Lions make the team.

539
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: My first home game starting was against the Jets. It

540
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: all comes full circle. My family's in the stands and

541
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 1: the Jets, you know, they looked out for me. They

542
00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 1: got my wife down at the time, was my girlfriend.

543
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: She got home on the down there on the on

544
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: the stadium and she's on the field with my mom

545
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: and they're like, yo, your mommy, your wife's down there.

546
00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:49,199
Speaker 1: Tell some pictures. Get up there, right. So I'm down there.

547
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: As soon as I come down, I see my wife,

548
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: my girlfriend at the time, and she's like, yo, yo,

549
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 1: you see that bitch, Pam all over there. And I'm

550
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 1: four years later and I'm I'm like, yeah, I see it.

551
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I see it. I was like, you

552
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: remember number eighty, Oh you pressed? Pam checked this out.

553
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,440
Speaker 1: She says to me, she says to me. She says

554
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 1: to me, I'm supposed to be returning punts and she

555
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: called me over. I'm like, she paying Oliver. I'm like, yeah,

556
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: you're gonna say something to her. I'm like, I can't.

557
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: I'm about to play again. She said, you don't got

558
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 1: you I already did so I'm like, that's so. This

559
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,360
Speaker 1: isn't the middle of MetLife Stadium. Three pounds bang bang,

560
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 1: me and her body bump in the middle of MetLife

561
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,959
Speaker 1: Stadium right before a game. My coaches like to get

562
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 1: your eyes over here. But it's just too Brooklyn, Like,

563
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,560
Speaker 1: you got so many stories that said he needs to

564
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 1: get his weight up, that he would never make it

565
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: to the NFL. Over there, and I gave her the

566
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 1: laugh to say. She was like, no way are you

567
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: said say that? Yeah you said that. What if she

568
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: took her away, go off and slash and nothing? Nothing?

569
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: Shout out to Pam Oliver because she's a pioneer what

570
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 1: she she was being honest. I was five, I was five,

571
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: one hundred and forty pounds. Somebody dreamed that's all you

572
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 1: can give constructive criticism, But yeah, he does that all

573
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 1: the time. No, I don't do that. I don't tell

574
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 1: somebody will never be able to do something your day

575
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: job stop wrapping. But that not But that don't mean never.

576
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: That just means like little constructive criticism, like you might

577
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: want to bind me to do that. I can respect

578
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: the value. You said you booked two jobs, and I

579
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 1: heard on one of the podcasts you guys are talking

580
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 1: about how the dynamics of your relationship have changed. Let's

581
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: talk about that because it is different now, right, because

582
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: the value is gone for periods of time and y'all

583
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: not physically together. So how has that changed your relationship.

584
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: It's it's it's kind of changed our relationship in a

585
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: little bit. I mean, we just came out of a

586
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: pandemic where we couldn't do nothing, so we was on

587
00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 1: each other all the time. But I mean the time

588
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: to miss each other kind of took us back to

589
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 1: college in the league, because when I was in the league,

590
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: I'd be going for weeks, I'd be going for months

591
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: and doing those times, we really really missed each other.

592
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 1: So when we came back it was fireworks. Right. I

593
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: think we need that. I've been together phrase years almost

594
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: nineteen years out. Yeah, we definitely need a space. So

595
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: him being away filming for a couple of weeks at

596
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: the time. That gives me time to you know, rejuvenate

597
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 1: the sexy and whatnot, and you know, rebuild that you know,

598
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: wanting to see each other, like it's necessary when you've

599
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: been with somebody for so long. It's very necessary. In

600
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 1: the league for years, Okay, I guess you don't. You

601
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 1: don't get the pension, yea. I missed about three games.

602
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: Three games, bro, I learned. I learned a lot about

603
00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: I learned a lot about like ownership and finances through

604
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 1: the NFL. BRO Like they found ways, for example, it's

605
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: all about cheaper, younger talent. Right. So I played for

606
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: the Lions for three years. I got picked up by

607
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: the Browns, got released, and my agent told me like, yeah,

608
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: it's gonna be hard for you to get back into

609
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: the league. And I was like, what you mean. He

610
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: was like, whoever picked you up now it was gonna

611
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: be responsible for your pension from now until you've done

612
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 1: so for them, It's like, I might as well just

613
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 1: go get a rookie, paid them the league minimum having

614
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,200
Speaker 1: rather than having to pay you a million dollars. And

615
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 1: from a business point, I get it. You know what

616
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying from a business standpoint, from my ownership standpoint,

617
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: I get it. But from a player standpoint, I'm like,

618
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: this is jacked up. But that's what the CBA is

619
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: always fighting for, you know, They're always fighting to make

620
00:31:10,000 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 1: sure players are taken care of. So at that point

621
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: I made a decision. I didn't want to play ball

622
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: no more. I wanted to focus on TV film. My

623
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: wife wasn't too happy about that at the time. She

624
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: was like, what, I who leaves a bag on the table.

625
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: To me, I felt like, all right, well, they don't

626
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: want to play play you in the NFL. The Canada,

627
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: I think had some interest in him trying to send

628
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 1: me to Canada. You might as well just like, go

629
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: to Canada and play here or two. Because to me,

630
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 1: I kind of felt like he also did not He

631
00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: wasn't able to live out his full potential playing in

632
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: the NFL, so I feel like he still had more

633
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 1: to prove. I cursed out Pam Oliver for you. I

634
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: understand that had more to prove. I understand that, but

635
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: this was my thing, right. I also had a function

636
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: in payment addiction that playing football, and kind of that

637
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: was dangerous for me because what people don't understand about

638
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: football is you have to make it through practice in

639
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: order to play. So I wake up in the morning,

640
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: take four talent or take four talent, or before practice,

641
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: take four time or after practice, then take two vikings

642
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,959
Speaker 1: and to go to sleep. And I'm doing that Monday

643
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: through Saturday just to get through practice, and then I'm

644
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 1: taking payments on Sunday at the time. At the time,

645
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: she didn't know so, and I didn't know how it

646
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 1: was affecting me. It wasn't like a payment addiction where

647
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: it was like I need the payments on to get high.

648
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: I just needed it so my body was numb so

649
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: I could play ball. So I was like, man, I

650
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: really just don't want to do this no more. Has

651
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: the things you're doing now feel that void that football left,

652
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 1: because I hear that from so many athletes, like either

653
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 1: they didn't make it pro or they made it pro

654
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: and it was only it was only there for a

655
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: short time. Bro let me that was your dream though

656
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 1: playing football, it was always a means to end. When

657
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,480
Speaker 1: I first met kid eighteen, she was like, yeah, what

658
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: you want to do with your life? And I was

659
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 1: like that Martin was on TV. She was like that.

660
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 1: I was like, you're gonna be an actor. I want

661
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: to tell stories and she's like, how are you gonna

662
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 1: do that? And I told I was going to use

663
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: football as a means though. But what happens is when

664
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: football becomes your whole life for ten years and people

665
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,800
Speaker 1: are constantly giving you a structure for what your life

666
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: is gonna be, when that's taken away, suddenly there's no

667
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: way to avoid depression. Bro. They don't matter how much

668
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 1: money you got. I got boys who got twenty five

669
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,880
Speaker 1: million in the bank who called me and randomly be like, yo,

670
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,239
Speaker 1: d I'm not I'm not doing well. Like what you mean.

671
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 1: They're like, Yo, it's me and my kids and my

672
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: wife in the house. I don't know what to do.

673
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you got money, start some businesses. You're like,

674
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: money ain't a thing to me, Like I don't. I

675
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: don't care about that. I just don't have a purpose.

676
00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 1: And that that's when we also started, you know, talking

677
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: about black mental men's health on the podcast, because we

678
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: don't talk about that, and I know you big on that, Charlemagne,

679
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: and it's kind of it's good to see it be normalized. Now.

680
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 1: All right, we got more with the violin Codeine Ellis.

681
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: When we come back from the Dead Ass Podcast. Is

682
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club? Good Morning Morning, everybody is DJ Envy

683
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club.

684
00:33:49,000 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: Now from the Dead Ass Podcast, we have the volt

685
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: in cadeen etlas Charlemagne. Can y'all talk about that time

686
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: y'all went viral when y'all had that discussion about monogamy.

687
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: What happened was we were we were so there was

688
00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:02,719
Speaker 1: there was a whole already behind it. The Monday, the Monday,

689
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: this were supposed to be shooting four episodes of the podcast, right,

690
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 1: Kaye and I have this thing with sex where I'm like, yo,

691
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,600
Speaker 1: I like when you get dressed up. For example, kay

692
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 1: don't dress like this every day. She knows she's coming

693
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club. She put a makeup on, she

694
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:21,280
Speaker 1: got her thirty six dollars with when you married. Sometimes

695
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 1: you're like, ya, like, how my wife get dressed up?

696
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: So Monday up, Monday, she dressed up, and I was like, Yo,

697
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: let's you know tonight, let's do something. She's like, I

698
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: got you tonight. You be in a moment, you go

699
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: to an event or whatever. So I had my little

700
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: hair doing and the ponytail. He likes the pony tail.

701
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: So she had the ponytail, and she said, I'm gonna

702
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 1: take care of you tonight. Monday coming go. She forget Tuesday.

703
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: You know how this man when you're married. And then Tuesday,

704
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: so she get dressed again. We had we had the podcast.

705
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: She get dressed up against I got you to night.

706
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,560
Speaker 1: She's talking hot. Tuesday night, I get home, she forget again.

707
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 1: She put that head when she put that hescoff on.

708
00:34:56,280 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: You know, bro, she did it Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday night.

709
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 1: She promised me. She was like, bro, I got you

710
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:08,040
Speaker 1: to night. She had this long she had, she had

711
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:10,480
Speaker 1: the rhyd stones off forehead. Everything was looking nice. She

712
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: was like, yo. So that night I run to the

713
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 1: bath room. I come back. She got the stocking cap on,

714
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 1: and she got the stocking cap on with the little

715
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: little ponytail. Here she took took it out. Piss brother.

716
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, Joe, this a week. You've been promising me

717
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: that she was gonna do this. So now I put

718
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 1: on a little all in one body suit from Savage Fancy.

719
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 1: He was like, look at you in your dry ass

720
00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 1: dusty body perfectly. So now I'm pissed, right, So now

721
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: we have sex. Then we have angry sex, but it

722
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: ain't the type of sex I was trying to have. Right,

723
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: So we wake up the next morning Tommy and Belly

724
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:02,319
Speaker 1: d But my thing is you still put it off

725
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: and you didn't do what I asked you to do.

726
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: So we wake up that morning. Now we got to

727
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 1: do a podcast, so we get in there. We already

728
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: submitted the terms we're gonna do for the podcast, so

729
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 1: we get there, like, hey, the podcast is about monogamy.

730
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, so we're talking about sex, right, And it

731
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: came to this point in the podcast and I'm like, yo,

732
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: me ask you a question. If sex is going to

733
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 1: be a chore for you as a wife, why did

734
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: you want monogamy? Right? And she was just like, you

735
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: didn't want monogamy, and I was like, I did, but

736
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 1: I felt like you kind of pushed monogamy on me.

737
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: I said that, and her response was, oh, so I

738
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 1: forced you to marry me. I didn't say that. She moved, Yeah,

739
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: I didn't say that. But this is where I messed up, Right.

740
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: I was so mad and I was being petty, and

741
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: we both petty that I didn't take it back and

742
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,239
Speaker 1: be like, no, baby, didn't force me to marry you,

743
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 1: I said, because now I'm mad because now I'm being

744
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: petty and I'm like at the time when we was

745
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: getting married, we you know, we weren't even agreeing on

746
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 1: when we were going to get married because I had

747
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 1: I lost my money playing ball. I had said that

748
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 1: at that time, like, I think we should wait to

749
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 1: get married because financial I'm on a good spot, and

750
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,439
Speaker 1: she was like, I'm not waiting no more. I wanted

751
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,359
Speaker 1: to get married. So I kind of felt like, yeah,

752
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,400
Speaker 1: like you wanted to get married at this point. So

753
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 1: now that you wanted to get married at this point,

754
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: when it comes time to do these things as a

755
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: wife and you keep putting me off, it kind of

756
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 1: makes me feel like you didn't really want monogamy, you

757
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 1: just wanted me to do sorry, twenty seven year old Kade.

758
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: At the time, I was thinking, I want to be

759
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: clear about what the intentions are. What am I expecting

760
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,840
Speaker 1: to gain from this relationship or not, because at that

761
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: point we've been together for nine years, so I just

762
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,960
Speaker 1: want to know where we go with which is how

763
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: I got to get there, which she took that as pressure.

764
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,800
Speaker 1: To me, I was just stating where I stood in

765
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 1: that time. Happen that conversation. Now you said so that

766
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: what happened? So happened was? I said, uh right, And

767
00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 1: we end up having a full argument on the podcast.

768
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 1: We get over it. The podcast comes out like four

769
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: weeks later, we forget that we had this whole argument, right,

770
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 1: and now we now we're arguing about something else. And

771
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,919
Speaker 1: then people are hitting me on Twitter, like Joe, y'all

772
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,319
Speaker 1: trending on Twitter, and I'm like, for what? And they

773
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: just like your monogamy comment. I just was trying to

774
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 1: make a point, but y'all took it and y'all ran

775
00:38:17,480 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: with it. But I'm like, that's I mean. To be honest,

776
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 1: you know, we people was mad it was men versus women.

777
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: Agreed with me, women agree with her, and it created content,

778
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: but people was mad at us for a little bit

779
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 1: she accomplished. I mean, I get, I get, I see

780
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,239
Speaker 1: both sides, you know what I mean, Because it's not

781
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,399
Speaker 1: like you want to You're not gonna creep on your woman.

782
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 1: I'm not like that's you're desirable. It's all you're trying

783
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: to say. I appreciate right there, his wife is right

784
00:38:49,200 --> 00:39:00,040
Speaker 1: there that it's just that old, that old adage that

785
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: you don't do somebody else will not saying he would No,

786
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: I would never say that to my wife, you know

787
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: what I mean, But sometimes like I don't want it

788
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 1: to be a choir and trying to my wife that

789
00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: will say to me, do that was just like women

790
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 1: out there want me I am a sex symbol. Like

791
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: he lets me know, listen, this is the truth. And

792
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 1: I agree, and women went and women went kadeen as well. Yo.

793
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: Now here's the thing, Envy. This is my point. This

794
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 1: is my point, Envy. And when Kay says she wants

795
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 1: something or she needs something, I make it my point

796
00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 1: to get it done because I understand that. I'm like,

797
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: I'm not going to disregard your feelings and your needs

798
00:39:46,160 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 1: because the same way you want monogamy, I want monogamy too.

799
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 1: If my wife want if I want monogamy, and I'm

800
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 1: gonna say to my wife, yo, I want to be

801
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 1: the only person you come to for all of this.

802
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: When she says she want to need something, I'm gonna

803
00:39:57,200 --> 00:39:59,360
Speaker 1: take care of it. So when I asked for the

804
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:03,239
Speaker 1: same thing you're constantly saying, he later later later, be like,

805
00:40:03,239 --> 00:40:05,479
Speaker 1: why are you always on me? It's like damn, Like, yeah,

806
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: why don't you do the same for me if I'm

807
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: trying to do the same for you. So it's not

808
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: a thing where I'm like I could get mad chicks.

809
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:13,880
Speaker 1: It's like, yo, let's serve each other. And that's ultimately

810
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 1: what the podcast is about. We're talking to people about

811
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 1: I had to make a decision in my life to

812
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 1: learn how to serve my wife so I could be

813
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,879
Speaker 1: a better husband, you know, like even even the sex thing.

814
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: You know, how we figured out what happened with her

815
00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: sex drive? Yeah, because how doing these revelations over like

816
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: the past five seasons and kind of started where we

817
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 1: were like bitching about what we have problems. People were

818
00:40:35,480 --> 00:40:37,399
Speaker 1: talking about, oh wow, let's hear more about this because

819
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 1: I'm having the same issues. And then we kind of

820
00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: felt like we had a breakthrough recently we figured it out. Bro. Yeah,

821
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: that conversation we had about monogamy made us sit down

822
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: and be like, yo, let's figure out what's going on

823
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 1: with your body and mind. We spoke to a doctor,

824
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 1: we got off the birth control, and it was like

825
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 1: night and day. August we was having issues she got

826
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,600
Speaker 1: off the birth control September. I can't get away from me, Bro,

827
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: Like I can not get her away from me. I'm like,

828
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, I need a break. And then

829
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: talking about that, we realized that there were so many

830
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: people out there they were just having the same issue.

831
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: You know, that's such a good convo because men have

832
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,960
Speaker 1: fragile egos, right absolutely. It's like, if you don't want

833
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 1: to sleep with me, I start questioning myself, like you'd

834
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: be like will Smith on Fresidan, what I like that? Literally?

835
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: Does I tell you? Bro? When I when I say,

836
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: I'll say to her like, yo, other chicks want me.

837
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 1: I'm the same type of dude that my ego. I'll

838
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: be like, you know how, this is my ego. I

839
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: go to my wife and I ask for something. She's

840
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: constantly rejecting me. I make me feel bad. I don't

841
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: mind being honest and saying that. Like I start looking

842
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 1: at myself like my heads standing a little bit. I'm

843
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: not see what I'm saying. Let me let me get

844
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 1: back in the gym. I'll be looking at her like yeah,

845
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:53,480
Speaker 1: looking good, Like what's up? I don't move. We have

846
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: more with the volt and Cadeen Ellis from the Dead

847
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: Ass Podcast is the Breakfast Club Morning Morning, Everybody's DJ,

848
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the Breakfast Club.

849
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: Now from the Dead Ass Podcast, we have the val

850
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: In Kadeen Etlas Charlomagne. Did y'all expect the podcast to

851
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: blow up the way that it did? I didn't. Well.

852
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: First of all, I'll say this, I was not completely

853
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 1: signed up for any of this from Jump and my

854
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: because I grew up in a very traditional West Indian

855
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 1: household where it's the first thing I was taught as

856
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: soon as I can remember anything, was you don't tell

857
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: people your business like you are. You stay to yourself.

858
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: Anything that happens in this household, and this family stays

859
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: in the house, you know. But Deval and I started

860
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 1: to do the videos, they picked up some traction you're all,

861
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 1: let me tell you. But I was just not not

862
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: with it in the very beginning. This is my belief.

863
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: I believe that there's a delusional quality that all successful

864
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 1: people have. When I started this whole thing with social media,

865
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: I told her I was like, y'all want my own sitcom?

866
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 1: I want to do TV. I want to do this,

867
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: But I'm not going to sit back and wait for

868
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 1: somebody to pick me. You know what I'm saying, Like,

869
00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: I'm just not going to do that. So I'm create

870
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 1: my own content. I created this social sitcom. It was

871
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: fifteen second videos, and I continue to stay consistent. One

872
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: of the big people who was was very inspirational in

873
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: my life was fifty cent right because he was the

874
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 1: one that said to me, if you stay consistent when

875
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 1: something pop, you got a catalog. And um, I also

876
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: respect fifty because you know he hit me with the Hollywood. Yeah,

877
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 1: we're gonna work. And I got a story about Charlomagne too.

878
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,799
Speaker 1: We have to sorry to bother you take screen screening, right,

879
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: I catched out of Charlomagne. Charlemagne catch out of me,

880
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: and I could see in Charlomagne's face that Charlomagne already

881
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:32,799
Speaker 1: knew like this looked like the type of that's gonna

882
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 1: run up on me right now, right, he said. So

883
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: Charlomagne walked by me right now. I was like, yo,

884
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,759
Speaker 1: Scharman was good. He gave me a pound whatever. Was like, yo,

885
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: let me, how let you? He was like all right,

886
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 1: So we walk outside. I don't like his tone. So

887
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, Charlemagne, me and my wife got a

888
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,359
Speaker 1: podcast coming out. We're doing this, we're doing that. He listening,

889
00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 1: He's like mmmmmmmmm. He was like. I was like, yeah,

890
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:03,879
Speaker 1: I was wondering. You know what I'm saying. I want

891
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: getting the breakfast clubs so we could talk about it.

892
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: He was like, yeah, he can take my off. Let

893
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: me meet your phone and give you my number. Right,

894
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: So he takes my phone, right, and he puts all

895
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:13,959
Speaker 1: the numbers in there and I close. I'm like, a looking,

896
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: you don't want to keep him too much, you know

897
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because a lot going on. Charlotta Mayne

898
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 1: walk away. Right, we get outside, I look at my phone.

899
00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:23,680
Speaker 1: He only put nine digits in there, right, No do

900
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: this in there? Right? So he can't do that on purpose.

901
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: I was ready to go back in there come after y'all.

902
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 1: Was like you Charlottagne, me with the cake on him,

903
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 1: be like, yo, he tried to stunt on y'all. He

904
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: played trying to swerve you like he was a bad bitch.

905
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: Going back inside. I'm like, nahitch right, So I definitely

906
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: didn't do that on purpose. So this is the thing, though,

907
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 1: I said, Okay, I said, real talk, Charlottagne probably get

908
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 1: people to do two minute pitches every single day. I said,

909
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 1: I understand again, people have to see what you bring

910
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: to the table for you to get opportunity. I said,

911
00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: if this ain't our moment, this ain't our moment. So

912
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 1: then things did take off. I'm definitely not that guy.

913
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 1: I pay attention to everything because you never know what's

914
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 1: gonna be what, Yes, what's your true? What's your true?

915
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,040
Speaker 1: But I wasn't. I wasn't mad. I was gonna say

916
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: another thing on another episode. Y'all were talking about that, right,

917
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:12,799
Speaker 1: it's about you being called this sim CONDEI you're being

918
00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 1: called the missive, but that is important in relationships. That's

919
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: kind of how you should be toward each other there

920
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: at certain times. Yeah, It's it's funny on social media,

921
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 1: like I'll say something in men's favor and women will

922
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: just be like, oh, he's sexive and he's misogynistic. But

923
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 1: then if I say something in women's favor, then I'm

924
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 1: a simp. It's like, like, you know, people are gonna

925
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 1: be triggered by whatever you say, but this is my truth,

926
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: Like you know, my life is not a monolithic version

927
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 1: of what blackness is like. Some days I feel like

928
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: as a man, I should stand up for my masculinity.

929
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,399
Speaker 1: Some days I feel like, you know what, I can't

930
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 1: push the patriarchy too much, Like this ain't fair. So

931
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say both when I think it's fair. Sometimes

932
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 1: people be mad, sometimes people love it, but it's my truth.

933
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 1: I'm never gonna run from. I mean not get women

934
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 1: all the time that are just hy Condeini, what's your prayer?

935
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 1: What did you say? What you do? I was like,

936
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: y'all saying that, like this is like nineteen years in

937
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: the making. So what you're seeing now de valancating that

938
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 1: you see now have been through nineteen years. Where So

939
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,839
Speaker 1: if we're not transparent about where we've been things, we've

940
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: had conversations we had at twenty seven, and people want

941
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 1: to hold us to that one six minute clip, then

942
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 1: be my guests, but we at least know that we're

943
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 1: sharing the entire thing. So, like I said before, I

944
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: wasn't signed up for it, but now that I am,

945
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: I feel like it's our duty to be able to

946
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 1: have to tell people this is the entire picture here,

947
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 1: and then the beauty behind it is that we pick

948
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 1: and choose what we want to share and how we

949
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 1: want to share it. I don't know, but there's no

950
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: pedestals for me. The many people put you on the

951
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: pedestal and you you the greatest thing. That's how I

952
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 1: was fearful in the beginning. But I think the good

953
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 1: thing with us with the podcast and just even with

954
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: our content in general, is that we really try to

955
00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: try to show the entire picture, like we did a

956
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,440
Speaker 1: whole episode on cheating, because they're like, we're gonna put

957
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: ourselves out there before anybody tries to put us out there,

958
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Nobody can come to us

959
00:46:56,680 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 1: with stories now because everything's out there, both cheating, Yeah, yeah,

960
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: and we we we've held a hard conversation to have though,

961
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 1: Oh definitely this episode was a hard It's never it's

962
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: never an easy conversation to have. But I will say

963
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: this though, if you learn to to accept people and

964
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 1: accept them to have changes in life, you don't hold

965
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 1: people to that moment. And I've learned to not not

966
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: hold people to that, especially my wife, you know, saying

967
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: because I hope she doesn't hold me like that and

968
00:47:24,160 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: give me grace. I'm gonna give you grace. I was

969
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: after nineteen years, if you wasn't cheating somebody lying. So

970
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 1: I was like from eighteen to and we've been through

971
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: a lot, through the NFL, all this stuff. We had

972
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 1: an ups and down the same thing in college because

973
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: when we first got together when we were eighteen, I

974
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: told I didn't want to be a boyfriend because I

975
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: was just I don't want to be a boyfriend. And

976
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,160
Speaker 1: she was like, well, I don't want to be number

977
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 1: two to nobody else, and I was like, damn, like

978
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: I'm really not each other like a really fragile time

979
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 1: because I came from a very like strict Withinian household,

980
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: so I couldn't go out, I couldn't do anything. I

981
00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,000
Speaker 1: couldn't date, I can't do anything. So when I got

982
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: to college, I was ready to have fun, you know,

983
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: and he had just gotten into college too, and he

984
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 1: was ready to have fun. And then we met each

985
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: other like just couldn't a lot of times it was

986
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 1: like trying to put a square peg in a triangle

987
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 1: hole because it's like we're trying to make this work

988
00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 1: because we want to be together, but it just wasn't.

989
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: It wasn't working. And then not for nothing, I was

990
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: trying to be honest and tell her what I didn't want,

991
00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 1: but I wanted her more than anything else, and I

992
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: realized I couldn't have my best friend only on my terms.

993
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: And that was when I had to make a decision

994
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: of you know what, I value monogamy with her more

995
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 1: than I value all the other aspects in life. I

996
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: feel like Kadena and I have a like there's a

997
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,600
Speaker 1: divine aura that brings us together, that we work better

998
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 1: collectively and individually when we're together. I was just gonna say,

999
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: just as individual too, the way that both of you

1000
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 1: carry yourselves and you can you're amazing people individually. But

1001
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: I think that's important to when you talk about that

1002
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 1: as an individual, how you have to be able to

1003
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 1: be an independent individual before you can even be whole

1004
00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: in a relationship. No, that's true, and not for nothing.

1005
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: I think y'all have to give yourselves a lot of

1006
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: credit for what you've done for the culture. Because I've

1007
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: heard your stories about your marriage and everything you've been through, right,

1008
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 1: I've heard Envy stories about his marriage. Used to send me,

1009
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 1: He used to send me the Twelve Days of Christmas. Ye,

1010
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,800
Speaker 1: you being a businesswoman and doing everything that you do

1011
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 1: y'all really for me? What like set me up to realize, Like, Yo,

1012
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 1: I could do everything I want to do because I

1013
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 1: watched these people here do everything they want to do. Yeah,

1014
00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: well listen, man. Make sure you check out the dead

1015
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: Ass Podcast. Make sure you get the children's book The

1016
00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 1: Ellis Is and the Time Machine. Yes, why do we

1017
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: have to say Black lives matter? Make sure you check

1018
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:37,880
Speaker 1: out the vall on Tyler Perry's Sisters. Yes, and everything

1019
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 1: else y'all got going on. Man. Yeah, Bigger on BT

1020
00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: Plus will pack a show bigger, okay, and we know

1021
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 1: what Bigger was about. Okay. Make sure y'all subscribe to

1022
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 1: the podcast. Everybody listen to podcast. What's y'all? Twitter's Instagram

1023
00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 1: handles and all that good stuff. Kadeen I am and

1024
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,320
Speaker 1: that's I am devout, I am d e v Elie.

1025
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: We appreciate y'all so much. Appreciate y'all too. It's the

1026
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,920
Speaker 1: Dead Ass Podcast on the Breakfast Club. Thank you for

1027
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 1: joining us. Make sure you're telling to watch out for Florida, Milia.

1028
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: The craziest people in America come from the Bronx and

1029
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 1: all of Florida. Yes, you are a donkey. The Florida

1030
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: man at tapped in at N for a very strange reason.

1031
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,360
Speaker 1: It gave him too much money. Florida man is arrested

1032
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: after definitely stay he riggs the board to his home

1033
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 1: and an attempt to electric kid his partant wife. Police

1034
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 1: arrested in Orlando man for talking a Flaminia the Breakfast

1035
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 1: Club Bitchy Donkey other Day with Shallam Haine, a guy.

1036
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why y'all keeping him. Get y'all elected.

1037
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 1: Oh it's me, It's me, Hondua. Listen. Donkey of the

1038
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: Day for Tuesday, May twenty fourth goes to a Florida

1039
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:50,240
Speaker 1: woman named Tianna's Jones. What did Yunkashalla always say about

1040
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: the great state of Florida, Well, the craziest people in

1041
00:50:52,600 --> 00:50:55,960
Speaker 1: America come from the Bronx and all of Florida. And

1042
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,240
Speaker 1: I'm starting to think this is just my own personal

1043
00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 1: opinion that I probably formulated while I was high off

1044
00:51:01,840 --> 00:51:04,399
Speaker 1: about fifteen milligrams of inedible. But I'm starting to think

1045
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 1: some of this stuff we see online is actually just

1046
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 1: alternate realities. You know, if you're a Marvelhead like myself,

1047
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 1: you are familiar with the multiverse. I believe certain things

1048
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 1: we see on Instagram or from another Earth, Earth eight

1049
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 1: three eight. Okay, we are on Earth six one six,

1050
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 1: two different earths. But if you don't know you're looking

1051
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: at Earth eight one eight while you're on Earth six

1052
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: one six, then you will be confused and you will

1053
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 1: think that these people actually exist amongst us, which keeps

1054
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 1: us in a constant state of anxiety. Okay, we are

1055
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 1: United States of anxiety because of what we see on

1056
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 1: Earth eight one eight. Actually it's not Earth eight one eight.

1057
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: We're looking at this Earth six six six. Okay, planet

1058
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,320
Speaker 1: of the beast. All right, nothing but the devil in

1059
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:45,800
Speaker 1: fact is Satan's anis and there's a rash around. It

1060
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: might be monkeypox. Not sure, but this woman, Tianna's Jones

1061
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:53,919
Speaker 1: of Florida, was arrested after calling nine one one because

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00:51:54,040 --> 00:52:00,399
Speaker 1: McDonald's employees got her happy meal order wrong. You heard

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00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: me right. Tanna's Jones was upset that McDonald's in Florida

1064
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: got her happy meal order wrong. Tana's is twenty two.

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00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: I know what you're thinking. She's way too big and

1066
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 1: grown for a devil damn happy meal, but it might

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00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:15,200
Speaker 1: not have been for her. She placed an order online

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00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: which I even didn't even know you could do it McDonald's.

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00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 1: But it is twenty twenty two, so it makes sense.

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00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: She ordered a happy meal, a filet of fish, tea fries,

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00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 1: and a chocolate shake. Exactly exactly. Watch this value meal.

1072
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: Get all up in your guts. Okay, French vanilla butter

1073
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:37,840
Speaker 1: pecan comes out your butt. Now what does one do

1074
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: when McDonald's gets there order wrong? Well, Tanna's. When she

1075
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:43,839
Speaker 1: arrived at the drive through, she was directed to pull

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00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: up to the third window. But you know you can't

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00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 1: give nobody in Florida direction. Okay, they don't take directions

1078
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:52,080
Speaker 1: in Florida. Jones ignored the directions, parked their car, and

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00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: entered the restaurant to address the mistake. Now, I keep

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00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: telling y'all, we must keep in mind we are discussing

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00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 1: Florida here. So when discussed and Florida, just know that

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00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: the way you would address a wrong order at a

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00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 1: fast food spot anywhere else in the world is not

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00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:10,880
Speaker 1: the way Floridians would. Would you like to know Tianna's

1085
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 1: definition of addressing the mistake. Let's go to Fox thirteen

1086
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 1: for the report. Please Thursday night, the drive through at

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00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 1: this McDonald's detective say when twenty two year old Tianna's

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00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: Jones got the wrong order, her frustration exploded into a frenzy.

1089
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: They have it ready, but because it was a special order,

1090
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: they confused some things and they ask her pull up

1091
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:36,040
Speaker 1: to window three. We'll fix it for you really quick. Well,

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00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:40,479
Speaker 1: she got mcmad and stormed inside, her temper getting hotter

1093
00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:46,879
Speaker 1: and hotter by the second, until she called nine people

1094
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 1: don't know how to run McDonald. I want my money out,

1095
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:56,399
Speaker 1: my money. I bought my money, the sure, says Joan's sister.

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00:53:56,520 --> 00:54:00,040
Speaker 1: Tried to get her a chill, Nope, Employees offered to

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00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: reimburse her. Didn't work. She flipped out even more, whacking

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00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 1: a sign off the counter that barely missed hitting an employee.

1099
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 1: Then she tore into a bunch of bottles, screwed behind

1100
00:54:10,760 --> 00:54:13,400
Speaker 1: the counter, and went to work on stacks of cups

1101
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,800
Speaker 1: and other supplies. I don't know what was wrong with

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00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: her that night. I don't know if she was like

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00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:22,320
Speaker 1: two fry short of a happy meal, or maybe it

1104
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,560
Speaker 1: was she was short of a happy male completely, but

1105
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: she created a mcmass and she acted like a McNutt

1106
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: instead of leaving with one from the restaurant as a

1107
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: grand finale, she whipped up a little shake of her own.

1108
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 1: She pulls her shirt up. There you go, there's a

1109
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 1: little torque on the way out the door. Ah. We

1110
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: live in a world full of hepatitis and COVID and

1111
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:50,800
Speaker 1: white supremacy and social media and heart disease and colon

1112
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 1: cancer and World War three possibly in aliens and June

1113
00:54:54,600 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: teeth create value ice cream. And she caused nine on

1114
00:54:57,160 --> 00:55:00,759
Speaker 1: one because her McDonald's thought was wrong. Okay, listen, listen

1115
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 1: to nine one one callers. People don't know how to run.

1116
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 1: I want my money out, my money. I bought my money.

1117
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 1: They tried to offer a refund, by the way, she

1118
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 1: didn't take it for whatever reason. So I don't get

1119
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:19,840
Speaker 1: what she's complaining about. But I remember when Flavor flavoring

1120
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:22,279
Speaker 1: Public Enemy told us now when one was a joke. Okay,

1121
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 1: it's hard enough to get nine one one operator to

1122
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: take issues with black people serious as it is, And

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00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,239
Speaker 1: now we're wasting their time over devil damn McDonald's. I

1124
00:55:29,400 --> 00:55:32,240
Speaker 1: understand Tianna's is five months pregnant, so the hormone changes

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00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:35,279
Speaker 1: could be one reason for this uncontrollable anger. And she

1126
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: was hungry, okay, angry, and a pregnant woman who I understand. Okay,

1127
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 1: all right, she give me back that filet of fish.

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00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 1: Give me that fish, Okay, not Tiana's. I understand you,

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00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 1: twenty two. But wrong fast food orders are a part

1130
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 1: of life, and I shouldn't have to tell you that.

1131
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,439
Speaker 1: This isn't how you react to wrong fast food orders.

1132
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: And what's so interesting about this is I want to

1133
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: know what was messed up. Okay. The only thing that

1134
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 1: could piss her off like this is they forgotten the

1135
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: happy Meal. You can only be this unhappy if they

1136
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 1: actually forgot your happy meal. That makes all the sense

1137
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,439
Speaker 1: in the world, because I bought the happy meal because

1138
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 1: I was trying to make me or some young child happy.

1139
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: If they forgot the happy meal, then I understand you

1140
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:16,279
Speaker 1: getting irate. What makes this story extra Florida is after

1141
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:20,280
Speaker 1: this woman comes in McDonald's, knocks over condiments, goes behind

1142
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:24,080
Speaker 1: the counter and throws stacks of cups, then calls nine

1143
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:28,439
Speaker 1: one one irate, she twerks on the way out. Listen

1144
00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,400
Speaker 1: to this part. You get that little girl. There's a

1145
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:32,319
Speaker 1: little twerk on the way out the door, A little

1146
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 1: twerk on the way out the door. You know what

1147
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: happened here? Somebody pulled up to the drive through playing

1148
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,719
Speaker 1: her favorite song. Okay, might have been City Girls, but

1149
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 1: you know when your favorite record comes on one of

1150
00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 1: those need Girls spirituals that touches your soul, don't matter

1151
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:47,879
Speaker 1: what you're doing, you're gonna stop and do a little jig. Okay.

1152
00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: All I know is if you five months pregnant and

1153
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 1: you go to McDonald's and you order a happy meal

1154
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:57,759
Speaker 1: for lay of fish, tea fries, a chocolate shake, and

1155
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:04,719
Speaker 1: you twerk, whoa, whoa. Once again, I'm not gonna sit

1156
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: here and ask why Tiannas did this? All right, there

1157
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,760
Speaker 1: is no logic in it. It's simply Florida ladies and gentlemen,

1158
00:57:11,160 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 1: Florida please give Tiannas Jones to Sweet Signs and Hamletones.

1159
00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 1: You donkey, oh the day, Yeah the dog, Oh the day. Ye.

1160
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 1: A happy meal for laya fish, tea fries, and a

1161
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:42,760
Speaker 1: chocolate shake and you twerk. Last time I heard a

1162
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: order that was guaranteed to give you bubble guts like

1163
00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: this was on the Laicia Keys. You don't know my name, well,

1164
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 1: that Kyla Greens and Hot Coco or something that was

1165
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:55,560
Speaker 1: a recipe for disaster. Okay, I haven't heard the recipe

1166
00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 1: for disaster like this in a long time. This is guaranteed.

1167
00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:09,439
Speaker 1: Bubble Guts to breakfast Club, Good Morning, the breakfast club corner.

1168
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:13,560
Speaker 1: It was, you know, he's yes, absolutely using it for himself.

1169
00:58:13,600 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 1: So it could have been done. But we're not Cornell West.

1170
00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:18,840
Speaker 1: We we thought maybe we can do something a bit

1171
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: more practically. So we went to law school. I went

1172
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: to Duke, he went to NYU. He wasn't passionate at

1173
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 1: all about it. I thought that I really wanted to

1174
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 1: be a lawyer, but it just didn't work out. Yeah,

1175
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 1: and then right around that time in law school, I

1176
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: started experimenting with drugs. Like I started smoking, I started

1177
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 1: doing adderall, I was drinking, and like I was starting

1178
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: to like because the stress of law school. I never

1179
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 1: felt anything like that before. And I'm from Newark. I've

1180
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:46,760
Speaker 1: seen that violence. I've seen like people using drugs. Didn't

1181
00:58:46,800 --> 00:58:48,640
Speaker 1: never wanted to touch a drug. Then I get to

1182
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 1: law school, I'm like, damn, I can't take this exam.

1183
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:57,880
Speaker 1: Three years of law school almost finished, were almost finished.

1184
00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,640
Speaker 1: We did like with two years and like ninety eight

1185
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,919
Speaker 1: percent about thirty year we have about two weeks left

1186
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: before our exams, and we were like, okay, man, let's

1187
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: go do standout. I want to go back to the

1188
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 1: law school thing. Have you ever unpacked that? Because you

1189
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 1: came up in the hood, so that seems so normal

1190
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:13,440
Speaker 1: with the fact that when you was in law school

1191
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 1: you was like fish out of water kind of that's

1192
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 1: exactly what Yeah, that's exactly what it felt like, Alice

1193
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 1: in Wonderland, Like, I had never seen people use drugs

1194
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 1: so openly from like privilege. It's got what you as

1195
00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 1: a black man, right, because you see people in the hood,

1196
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: they're usually leaning on drugs for for trauma reasons, right

1197
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 1: y'all y'all doing this for fun, not going to jail exactly,

1198
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 1: Like it blew our minds, now, how can they especially

1199
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 1: at law school, you know, these guys are the people

1200
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:42,000
Speaker 1: who are gonna be right, policy right, laws right, and

1201
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 1: they're breaking the rules and these policies are going to

1202
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 1: affect you know, black people. So it was like a

1203
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 1: weird sort of situation where you're like, how can I

1204
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: study this and know that these these people are gonna

1205
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 1: write these laws that affect my people? But there they

1206
00:59:55,600 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 1: don't even care about the rules are the laws. Get

1207
00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 1: back to it. So y'all decided not to fish law

1208
01:00:00,320 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 1: school after stand up in let's do comedy. Yeah, when

1209
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: you're working on comedy or did some of the family

1210
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 1: gonna say y'all funny, I'm like, listen, nobody, family. I

1211
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:11,440
Speaker 1: think it was just like I went I did some

1212
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: stand up in New York. I went to like a club.

1213
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 1: I did a club and it was just I sucked,

1214
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 1: but I liked it. But what makes you do that?

1215
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 1: But you know what, let me try. I was losing

1216
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:20,720
Speaker 1: my mind. I think I was losing my mind. Like

1217
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: I was literally like drinking, doing drugs, and I was like, man,

1218
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:28,360
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not gonna do this law school anymore.

1219
01:00:28,480 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: And I was just losing. I was breaking up with

1220
01:00:30,600 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: my girlfriend at the time. He was breaking up with

1221
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:36,240
Speaker 1: me at the time, and I was just like I

1222
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 1: was on one man, like it was crazy, but I

1223
01:00:38,640 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 1: was on stage and that was the only time I

1224
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: felt normal. And you went to his first show, No,

1225
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 1: he sent me. He sent me a clip of it.

1226
01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 1: You didn't even go. You know, I was in North Carolina.

1227
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 1: He was in New York, right. He sent me a

1228
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: clip of his first show. And I was like, Yo,

1229
01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:55,960
Speaker 1: this terrible, the worst set I thought. I know, I

1230
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,320
Speaker 1: knew he was having like the crisis of mental health.

1231
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 1: And I was like, dude, man like this, do it

1232
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:02,440
Speaker 1: a few more times, but you know, get back to

1233
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 1: the books because this ain't But he kept with it,

1234
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: like he still kept going to the open mics and

1235
01:01:09,120 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 1: he still kept, you know, trying to get better at it.

1236
01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 1: So after like a couple of weeks he called me again.

1237
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: It was like, Yo, I think we need to quit

1238
01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 1: law school. I think we need to write it was crazy.

1239
01:01:22,520 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 1: I want to be a lawyer. I didn't put three

1240
01:01:24,680 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: years into this. I'm not gonna just drop it for comedy.

1241
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 1: But he was very persuasive. And then that's when I

1242
01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 1: had that moment of clarity, like, man, let's just do it.

1243
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: Let's try it. So he would have been a law

1244
01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 1: That's what I said. I used my three years of

1245
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 1: legal education just to convince him to drop out of

1246
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: law school. So now what is your mom? Say? Your mom,

1247
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 1: you know, struggled to get you in good school, worked

1248
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 1: hard for you. Yeah, she's so excited my boys about

1249
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 1: to be attorneys. And he like, Mom, now we're dropping out.

1250
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: We're gonna be I mean she thought we were losing

1251
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 1: our minds. I mean, she knows, like our whole story.

1252
01:01:57,360 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: So she's familiar with our father not being there. She

1253
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 1: familiar with the drugs, and he's like, you know, maybe

1254
01:02:01,960 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 1: you guys should go to therapy or something. Make sure

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01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: you think about what you're doing before you're doing it,

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01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 1: just being a mom. But eventually when she saw that

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01:02:08,080 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: we were serious about it and we were made us happy,

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01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 1: he was huge, completely on board, right dad. You know

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01:02:13,920 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: he thought that he's gonna get some free legal advice

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01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:20,880
Speaker 1: all right. Once we dropped out, he got upset. He's

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01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 1: been super supported. I love how you said, my mom

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01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: knows our whole story, like people like my mom is

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01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: my day one? Oh really? I mean you can't lie

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01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 1: to her, like you know what I mean, you can't

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01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: lie to pretty much. You can't lie to your mom.

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Speaker 1: She just sees right through that. We got more with

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Speaker 1: the Lucas Brothers. When we come back, don't move. It's

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Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club, Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy

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Speaker 1: Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy we are the Breakfast Club

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Speaker 1: were still kicking it with the Lucas Brothers. Charlomagne. Do

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01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 1: you think censorship artists, uh, woke culture that we're in

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Speaker 1: right now, is that going to dilute the art? No,

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01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think that it's going to

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01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 1: make because even more, what's the way to look for

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Speaker 1: making us like I think creative? I creative. You have

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01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: to be creative, you have to be a little bit

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Speaker 1: more considerative because I think about it. Look, there was

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01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: a period when black face was like the top style

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Speaker 1: of comedy. People were like, the people like, you can't

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Speaker 1: do black face anymore. I'm sure that people who were

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Speaker 1: doing black face were like, this is ruining comedy, this

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01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: is hurting the purity. But it's like, no, you just

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01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 1: have to, you know, adjust and make better comedy. I

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01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 1: think that's how evolution works. It's like you just have

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01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: to if people are like they don't make fun of

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01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: trans or don't make fun of gays, and now we

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01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: can't do those things. I think it makes our comedy fresher.

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Speaker 1: I think it makes it purer because now you're, you know,

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01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: got to be a bit more inventive. You gotta just

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01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,440
Speaker 1: be a bit more creative and clever. But does it

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Speaker 1: really reflect reality? Meaning like I should get a certain

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01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: type of license to reflect reality or right, if you're

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01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 1: not able to reflect reality without people offending, people saying,

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01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 1: oh that that shouldn't be in the movie. It's offensive. Like,

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Speaker 1: but it's a movie. I'm trying to tell a story here, right, right, right, No,

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Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. I guess I just think

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Speaker 1: like it's not just about you know, telling the freest

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01:04:01,960 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 1: form of comedy, but it's also like a moral and

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01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 1: social component to the comedy that we do. Again, you

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01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 1: can choose to be offensive, you can choose to say

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Speaker 1: whatever you want, but you have to be prepared for

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01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:17,120
Speaker 1: the backlas. You know, you could do whatever you want. Yeah, so,

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01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 1: but for us, it's like you still got to take risk,

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01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:21,800
Speaker 1: but got to you have to. I mean that's art.

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01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:24,400
Speaker 1: Art is risk taking. Yeah, I mean, you guys are

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01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 1: doing a remake of Revenge of the Nerds. I heard

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01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 1: with us Seth McFarlane right that movie would be considered problematic, toxic,

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Speaker 1: reinforcing great culture. It was problematic, you know in the nineties,

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01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:39,880
Speaker 1: we didn't notice. How do you remake that for this era,

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01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,120
Speaker 1: you know, times of change. I feel like we have

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01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:47,040
Speaker 1: an opportunity to comment on the film in the eighties.

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Speaker 1: You know, I think that like they did in twenty

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01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 1: two Jumps three to twenty one Jumps, they took an

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01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:54,280
Speaker 1: approach where it allowed for them to you know, create

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Speaker 1: a new story but also comment on the past. And

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Speaker 1: I think that's what we want to do, because he

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Speaker 1: that's my thing. Nobody's knowledging the shift in culture, right, right,

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01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:05,240
Speaker 1: there was a shift in culture. The stuff that you

1319
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 1: used to could have get away way to music, music, movies, whatever,

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01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 1: you just can't anymore. But we haven't acknowledged that. Yeah,

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01:05:11,120 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 1: it's almost like we just started handling out retrorafter speeding tickets, right,

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01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: It's weird. I think I think there's been a shift

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Speaker 1: in the number of things. I feel like there's been

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01:05:19,080 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 1: a shift in science. We've we've gone from you know,

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01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,800
Speaker 1: straight Einstein sort of relativity to sort of a quantum

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01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 1: sort of perspective of science. And I think that that's

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01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:30,440
Speaker 1: reflective of in the Internet, where everyone has a point

1328
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:32,640
Speaker 1: of view and everyone feels like their reality is real.

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Speaker 1: Like like everyone says we're speaking out of truth. Everyone's

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01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 1: truth is sort of legit. I mean, even if it

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01:05:39,080 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 1: contradicts someone else's reality. And that's quantum. You know what

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01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:46,160
Speaker 1: I mean, like, everyone's perspective is legitimate, even flat earths,

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01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 1: even flat eartherst, Like, if they believe it, why is

1334
01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: it not, you know, like they truly believe It's even

1335
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 1: if you put forth evidence that you know their beliefs

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01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 1: are erroneous, they're still going to believe what they want

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01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 1: to believe. Right, So you're putting yourself at a disavent,

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01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: and it's trying to use reason to a person that

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01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 1: doesn't even use reason. Right, Well, do you think about

1340
01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 1: putting their disclaimers, you know how they've been putting disclaimers

1341
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:09,800
Speaker 1: like on movies and TV shows just to give people like, okay,

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01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 1: this was filmed during this time. I mean, I think

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01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: that that's a more effective approach than just completely banning something.

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01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I think that maybe that works. But again,

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01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: I think we're assuming that audiences aren't intelligent. We're assuming

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01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:27,200
Speaker 1: that they can't differentiate between what's offensive and what's not offensive.

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01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:29,200
Speaker 1: It's and then you're gonna have a small minority of

1348
01:06:29,240 --> 01:06:31,760
Speaker 1: people who go online and say take this down. But

1349
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 1: I think what's happening now is people being very reactive

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01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:38,000
Speaker 1: to those minority of voices. Yeah, I feel like eventually

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01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:41,439
Speaker 1: hopefully that they'll be like a leveling out where we're like, Okay,

1352
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:43,800
Speaker 1: maybe we shouldn't be that reaction there, Maybe we should.

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01:06:43,840 --> 01:06:46,160
Speaker 1: Maybe we should have some sort of due process in

1354
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 1: assessing what we do with a particular piece of art,

1355
01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:51,040
Speaker 1: because it's a very slippery slope. Like I even saw

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Speaker 1: what they did with a YG this weekend with the

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01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 1: meet the Fokker's record, right, and I think they took

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01:06:55,200 --> 01:06:56,840
Speaker 1: it down, but then they put it back because they said,

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Speaker 1: if we take this down, and we're gonna have to

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01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:02,520
Speaker 1: do this all across the boars so many things people

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01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 1: could be offended by, Like it's like you can't go

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01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:06,400
Speaker 1: down that role when it comes to art. I think

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01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 1: we need to make a distinction between offense and harm, right,

1364
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 1: I think we need to. I think when we're assessing

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Speaker 1: how we limit someone's liberty, like is that exercise of

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Speaker 1: liberty harming a person or is it offending a person?

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Speaker 1: If it's harming, then I think we can take a

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01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:23,320
Speaker 1: more proactive approach to the piece of art and maybe say, hey,

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01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: maybe we should consider taking it down if it's just

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01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 1: offending someone, Like I think you have a right to

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Speaker 1: be offended. I'm saying, I don't think that that offense

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Speaker 1: should equate to completely eliminate in a work of art.

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01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 1: I think we have to I think we have to

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01:07:35,960 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: be able to process offense and have honest conversations about

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01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 1: that which offends. But I think that that shouldn't result in,

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01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,400
Speaker 1: you know, a boycott of someone's work of art that

1377
01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 1: they've put years into. Like if it's harmful, if it's

1378
01:07:49,480 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: causing violence, if it's like causing like blatant racism, then

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01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:55,200
Speaker 1: you got like black face, for example, that that was

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Speaker 1: harmful to black people, you know what I mean, like

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01:07:57,520 --> 01:08:00,120
Speaker 1: birth of a Nation, what's directly harmful to black But

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01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:02,080
Speaker 1: so it should be removed. I mean, I don't think

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01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:04,240
Speaker 1: that that's a problem. I don't. I don't have an

1384
01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:07,280
Speaker 1: issue with that. But if it's just offensive, I'm like, yeah,

1385
01:08:07,360 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 1: we gotta have kickers that don't move. We got more

1386
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:11,160
Speaker 1: with the Lucas Brothers. When we come back, it's the

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01:08:11,200 --> 01:08:18,000
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club, Go Morning, the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is

1388
01:08:18,080 --> 01:08:21,680
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy we are the

1389
01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:23,800
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club were still kicking it with the Lucas Brothers.

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Speaker 1: Charlomagne Judas in the Black Side. Well, first of all,

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01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 1: you've done a lot more than us in the Black Side.

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01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:30,120
Speaker 1: I remember aller friends of the people, you know what

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01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:35,600
Speaker 1: I mean, you little round? Who else was on that?

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01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:40,719
Speaker 1: Jermaine Fowler, Josh Bennowitz. Yeah, Like if you think about

1395
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:42,640
Speaker 1: it now, that show should have been a hit. It

1396
01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:45,799
Speaker 1: should have been, but you know, you know, sometimes things

1397
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:48,080
Speaker 1: fell to launch. I mean you think about Okay, see

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01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:49,800
Speaker 1: the thunder that had all the talent in the world,

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01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 1: they couldn't get a championship. I don't remember when network

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01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 1: that was true TV. How you going from TV the

1401
01:08:56,560 --> 01:09:08,880
Speaker 1: Oscar nominated? I meant to say, how do y'all go

1402
01:09:09,000 --> 01:09:11,200
Speaker 1: from that to Oscar nominated? What are the steps? What's

1403
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 1: the process? It's a grind man Like. It was crazy

1404
01:09:14,200 --> 01:09:16,280
Speaker 1: for us because, like it was, we were going to

1405
01:09:16,360 --> 01:09:18,600
Speaker 1: nowhere fast. Scotch show gets canceled and we were like,

1406
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:21,960
Speaker 1: let's just go to Lucas. Lucas Bros. Movement gets canceled,

1407
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 1: Like so we got two cancelations under our belt with

1408
01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:27,880
Speaker 1: five years and we're like, so we we escaped from

1409
01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 1: New York and humiliation in our minds and we go

1410
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:33,320
Speaker 1: to LA and we're like, all right, we're gonna figure

1411
01:09:33,360 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 1: this out here. We're gonna you know, we're gonna figure

1412
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:38,360
Speaker 1: out I act, We're gonna write something. Before we went

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01:09:38,400 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: to LA, we were already like thinking about Judas. You know,

1414
01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 1: we were already right right, really brainstorming like some of

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01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:46,400
Speaker 1: the beats of the story. We were just doing a

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01:09:46,439 --> 01:09:49,639
Speaker 1: lot of research. Around twenty twelve, twenty thirteen, we started

1417
01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:51,639
Speaker 1: doing a ton of research about have To. We didn't

1418
01:09:51,640 --> 01:09:54,320
Speaker 1: know how to turn it into a film, but we

1419
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:56,560
Speaker 1: knew like, this is something that we would like to

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01:09:56,720 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 1: potentially turn into a film. So we went to LA

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01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 1: with the gold in mind of either getting the script

1422
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:05,559
Speaker 1: deal to write, to write Judas, or to sell pitch somewhere.

1423
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 1: We had ambitions going into Cali, but we were still

1424
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:12,519
Speaker 1: so focused on comedy that it was sort of like

1425
01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 1: a bouncing at trying to get Judas made, but also

1426
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:18,400
Speaker 1: trying to like, you know, get our comedy career, you know,

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01:10:18,520 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 1: back on that. I'm back back on tracks. So we're

1428
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 1: in La. We're pitching the story around town, getting no traction.

1429
01:10:24,720 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 1: People like this doesn't make any sense, It's not gonna

1430
01:10:26,920 --> 01:10:29,400
Speaker 1: make any money. It's it's a period piece about a

1431
01:10:29,439 --> 01:10:32,280
Speaker 1: black revolutionary socialism. What are you guys crazy? And we're like, yeah,

1432
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 1: all right, we are crazy. So we we kind of

1433
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:38,200
Speaker 1: went away from the material for a bit, went back

1434
01:10:38,240 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 1: to comedy. We were doing this pilot with Effects Killer Mike.

1435
01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:44,719
Speaker 1: It was for him and that eventually went to Netflix

1436
01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:48,679
Speaker 1: it and go to Effects. So we did the pilot

1437
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 1: for Trigger Warning for Effects and Shaka King was directing it,

1438
01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:55,400
Speaker 1: and that's how we that's how we met Shaka and

1439
01:10:56,040 --> 01:10:58,320
Speaker 1: we knew that after we got rejected from all of

1440
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:00,360
Speaker 1: our pitches, we were like, I think we need to

1441
01:11:00,400 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 1: work with a filmmaker who can can can take this

1442
01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 1: idea and make it into a film. And so that's

1443
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:07,880
Speaker 1: when we we're like, we gotta, we gotta, we gotta

1444
01:11:07,960 --> 01:11:09,600
Speaker 1: reach out to Shaka. And then we hung out with

1445
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,600
Speaker 1: Shotka in our apartment in Hollywood, listening to music, just

1446
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:15,680
Speaker 1: vibing on cinema and we sort of pitched him our

1447
01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:19,080
Speaker 1: idea and he said it was great, and we started

1448
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 1: to develop a beefier outline. And then but simultaneously, Will

1449
01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:27,640
Speaker 1: Bursting the other core writer, and Oscar Nominee was you know,

1450
01:11:27,720 --> 01:11:30,760
Speaker 1: working on his own script, and Jamaine Fowler our boy

1451
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 1: from a frol TP he knew he made the connection.

1452
01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:35,360
Speaker 1: He knew Will, he knew that we were working on

1453
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:37,960
Speaker 1: our thing, and he just wrote us all together. We

1454
01:11:38,280 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 1: used our story outline that we worked on with Shaka,

1455
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 1: and so Shotka and Will went together and basically rewrote

1456
01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:49,560
Speaker 1: will script using our story outline, and they wrote a

1457
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:52,880
Speaker 1: brilliant script and uh it went. They sent it to

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01:11:53,320 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 1: Ryan Coogler. We didn't know that Shatka knew Ryan Coogler.

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01:11:56,960 --> 01:11:59,680
Speaker 1: But once I mean once Ryan got it, that's one

1460
01:11:59,760 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 1: thing started to like pick up because I love the

1461
01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:05,479
Speaker 1: script and he definitely wanted to make it. He wanted

1462
01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 1: that to be his first project on its new production company, Propinity,

1463
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:13,080
Speaker 1: and so things just started to get crazy. Yeah. First

1464
01:12:13,120 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 1: it was like we were nowhere and then Shaka Will,

1465
01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 1: Ryan Charles, I'm like what how did all in a

1466
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 1: year that just started happening. We were like what the uh?

1467
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:25,639
Speaker 1: And then we went out with you know, the script

1468
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:28,680
Speaker 1: with Macro with Ryan with shocka or Will and us

1469
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: Macro financing half, Acro financing half, and the white man

1470
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 1: still saying no, white man still say still said we

1471
01:12:36,640 --> 01:12:38,840
Speaker 1: put half the money. He's gonna get a bidding war

1472
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:42,200
Speaker 1: where we think that you know, this is we got Khaluyah,

1473
01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:44,720
Speaker 1: we got Keith, we have our stars, we have a

1474
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:47,760
Speaker 1: brilliant script, we have these great producers, and still, you know,

1475
01:12:47,800 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 1: it's a struggle. Think about that, all of that already

1476
01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:57,840
Speaker 1: attached Daniel Keith, Ryan money, Macro, half the money with

1477
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:01,840
Speaker 1: Lucas Brothers and the white man like no, And I

1478
01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 1: don't think people realize how hard it is to get

1479
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,719
Speaker 1: a movie made, and especially when you have a dream

1480
01:13:06,760 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 1: team like that and you still can't get traction, Like

1481
01:13:09,600 --> 01:13:11,759
Speaker 1: that's how hard it is. Just Ryan after Black Panthers,

1482
01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:16,240
Speaker 1: billionaire Black Panther, the hottest producer in the game. And

1483
01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:20,600
Speaker 1: still but fortunately enough Warner Bros. You know, they they

1484
01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 1: put up half the money and they wanted to distribute it.

1485
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:25,640
Speaker 1: They love the script. When they let us shoot it,

1486
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:27,680
Speaker 1: they re lit it, they let us shoot it, and

1487
01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 1: it just came out as perfect as I thought it.

1488
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 1: Why did't want to Brothers get it? I want, I need,

1489
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:34,400
Speaker 1: I need white people to understand how coolest it can be.

1490
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:36,280
Speaker 1: So I want to know why did Warner Brothers get

1491
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 1: it over every other black executive, Black exacts, Black exacts,

1492
01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:44,880
Speaker 1: they get it. Nigia really like he was the key

1493
01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:48,360
Speaker 1: what's your last name? I don't know how to not

1494
01:13:48,479 --> 01:13:51,439
Speaker 1: to you, Nija Kaikendall. I think I may have mispronounced that,

1495
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:54,920
Speaker 1: but yeah, she's She's a buriant executive, and she was

1496
01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:57,160
Speaker 1: the one who sort of he saw the importance of

1497
01:13:57,200 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 1: the film. She loved the script, and she was the

1498
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 1: one who sort of just powered it through. Luna's why

1499
01:14:05,200 --> 01:14:09,920
Speaker 1: diversity matters. That's exactly why that because you're telling these

1500
01:14:09,960 --> 01:14:13,120
Speaker 1: stories and if you're sitting across from a group of

1501
01:14:13,160 --> 01:14:15,479
Speaker 1: white people, they just don't even hear it. They don't

1502
01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 1: know the language, they don't know the why it matters. Why.

1503
01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:20,160
Speaker 1: This is how we had to describe Fred Hampton. The

1504
01:14:20,200 --> 01:14:23,440
Speaker 1: white people were like, Fred Hampton is the velvet underground

1505
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 1: of civil rights leaders. We thought perhaps that they'll see

1506
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 1: the connection. They did. It was like, you know, how

1507
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:33,320
Speaker 1: many white executive problems like Okay, Ryan Cooper's coming here

1508
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 1: to talk about doing Black Panther, Another Black Panther. It

1509
01:14:38,320 --> 01:14:40,240
Speaker 1: was at Marvel, But maybe we probably like trying to

1510
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:42,519
Speaker 1: find mess around it. Now, I see you tweeted it.

1511
01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 1: If you guys wouldn't ask as you are returning from

1512
01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:48,400
Speaker 1: stand up and you're cutting off half your family yeah,

1513
01:14:48,800 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 1: but we're gonna do that before. Yeah, I mean we

1514
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 1: got to figure out. How do we figure out who

1515
01:14:53,160 --> 01:14:54,760
Speaker 1: we're gonna cut ot? Yeah, well, well family members you

1516
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 1: cut north, oh man, just the ones who haven't talked

1517
01:14:58,240 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: to me in years and like hit me up for money.

1518
01:15:01,080 --> 01:15:03,320
Speaker 1: So like the ones who like didn't know I existed,

1519
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 1: Like like, oh you, I'm your cousin from your father's side,

1520
01:15:06,479 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 1: Can you let me buy all three hundred dollars? Like ah, man,

1521
01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:12,360
Speaker 1: get yeah, man, it's crazy. It's crazy. It's like comfortable

1522
01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:14,120
Speaker 1: because they think you got money because you got an

1523
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 1: Oscar nomine. He's like, you don't get paid for this.

1524
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:19,439
Speaker 1: You gotta pay your way for always to get extra

1525
01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:22,880
Speaker 1: money for an ASCAR nomination. It's it's expec close with

1526
01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:24,800
Speaker 1: your dad while he while he was in jail. Wire

1527
01:15:24,800 --> 01:15:27,880
Speaker 1: you close with your dad. We were close at first,

1528
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:30,840
Speaker 1: you know, we went to go visit him a bunch,

1529
01:15:30,920 --> 01:15:33,920
Speaker 1: and then we moved to North Carolina. Our mom remarried,

1530
01:15:34,040 --> 01:15:36,800
Speaker 1: so we sort of became distant. We grew a little

1531
01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:38,880
Speaker 1: distant because we couldn't visit them as much and we

1532
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 1: weren't really calling them. And that was like that must

1533
01:15:41,400 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 1: have been like five or six years and then once

1534
01:15:43,640 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 1: he got out, we started to work on our relationship.

1535
01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:47,720
Speaker 1: But you know, it was a lot to unpack. I

1536
01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:50,360
Speaker 1: mean yeah, you know, as we got older, we started

1537
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:53,880
Speaker 1: to fill the ramifications of not growing up with a father,

1538
01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 1: but a lot of anger ramifications of grown up with

1539
01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:59,040
Speaker 1: a father who went to prison. So it's like, you know,

1540
01:15:59,200 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 1: you just have raided. You hate the law, you hate

1541
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:03,640
Speaker 1: the government, you hate all that, and you're trying to

1542
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:06,960
Speaker 1: figure out ways to cope, and uh, it was tough.

1543
01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:10,000
Speaker 1: It was tough. It's still tough sometimes to to to

1544
01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 1: speak with our dad because of so much we missed

1545
01:16:12,920 --> 01:16:14,240
Speaker 1: out on so much, you know what I mean, And

1546
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:17,160
Speaker 1: you can never forget how much you missed out on right,

1547
01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:18,960
Speaker 1: Like even like to this day, I go to the

1548
01:16:19,080 --> 01:16:21,639
Speaker 1: park and I see you dad like throwing the ball

1549
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:23,080
Speaker 1: with their son, and I tear up a little bit.

1550
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, man, it's kind of I wish I had that, Like,

1551
01:16:25,880 --> 01:16:28,280
Speaker 1: it's it kind of sucks to know that. It's sad

1552
01:16:28,400 --> 01:16:52,400
Speaker 1: man right now, father and sons. Man. Like I can't

1553
01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 1: even like scroll on Instagram and I see people like saying,

1554
01:16:55,000 --> 01:17:06,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, it just it's hurts. Shut up. You

1555
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:09,600
Speaker 1: might be in to make up for you know, I

1556
01:17:09,680 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 1: do have one final question. How do y'all maintain your

1557
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 1: own identity? That's twins? Oh, that's a great question. That's

1558
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:21,200
Speaker 1: a great question. That's a great question. We don't. No.

1559
01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:23,760
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy is that for a while we

1560
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:26,400
Speaker 1: tried to like establish your when I didn't right, just

1561
01:17:26,479 --> 01:17:28,519
Speaker 1: like I want to be Keith, he wants to be Kenny.

1562
01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 1: We went to law school. We were just trying to

1563
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:32,400
Speaker 1: do our own thing, and we just had a breakdown,

1564
01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:35,559
Speaker 1: and uh, I think we realized, like we're just stronger together,

1565
01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 1: and why do you need an individual identity? Like why

1566
01:17:39,120 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 1: why do we Why do we emphasize that so much?

1567
01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:43,200
Speaker 1: Like why is that such a thing that we place

1568
01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:45,760
Speaker 1: an importance on that I was supposed to be normal?

1569
01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:48,599
Speaker 1: Like normal normal is being a single ten of being

1570
01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:51,040
Speaker 1: an individual. And I think that that's why people get

1571
01:17:51,080 --> 01:17:53,720
Speaker 1: so stressed out. Why is that normal? But everyone's like

1572
01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:56,560
Speaker 1: has a desire to get married. So are we to

1573
01:17:56,600 --> 01:17:58,360
Speaker 1: have a desire to have a family or we have it?

1574
01:17:58,439 --> 01:18:01,519
Speaker 1: So there's this notion that the individual supreme. But we

1575
01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:04,759
Speaker 1: rushed to these group identities so quickly. We have sports teams,

1576
01:18:04,800 --> 01:18:08,519
Speaker 1: we have our family, we have, you know, religion, religion,

1577
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:13,400
Speaker 1: a political party. We rushed to these eternities exactly, exactly,

1578
01:18:13,560 --> 01:18:15,679
Speaker 1: so I think we have to readjust how we see

1579
01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 1: what normal is. It's not necessarily about the individual, it's

1580
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:22,360
Speaker 1: not necessarily about you know, willing yourself to greatness. It's

1581
01:18:22,400 --> 01:18:25,600
Speaker 1: really a community type thing. And I think that he

1582
01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:28,040
Speaker 1: and I kind of see that, and we're like, we

1583
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:31,560
Speaker 1: have a group identity right right, right, and we just

1584
01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 1: so happened to look exactly like weird group, but a

1585
01:18:35,479 --> 01:18:38,280
Speaker 1: group nonetheless. Well, I hope y'all win to Oscar Man Man.

1586
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 1: Y'all gonna give a phenomenal speech. I really think y'all

1587
01:18:43,439 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 1: will give a great speech. And I want to see

1588
01:18:45,040 --> 01:18:48,720
Speaker 1: y'all update with the military jacks. The military jack at

1589
01:18:48,760 --> 01:18:52,200
Speaker 1: least depends something. I think we'll keep our pens up.

1590
01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:58,040
Speaker 1: I'll keep the free heering. Lucas. It's the breakfast clogal morning.

1591
01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:07,000
Speaker 1: It's topic time called eight hundred five eight five one

1592
01:19:07,040 --> 01:19:08,760
Speaker 1: oh five. Wanted to join it to the discussion with

1593
01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:12,799
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club talk about it. I want everybody, DJ

1594
01:19:13,320 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 1: Envy and Jela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the

1595
01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club now if he just joined us. We're talking

1596
01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:23,200
Speaker 1: about a story we reported during our front page news

1597
01:19:23,240 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 1: about a pastor in Brooklyn. You want to break it down,

1598
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:27,479
Speaker 1: you yeah, Bishop Lamar Whitehead. He was in the middle

1599
01:19:27,479 --> 01:19:29,760
Speaker 1: of a sermon, it was live streaming when three masks

1600
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:34,719
Speaker 1: gunmen broken with their guns and stole four hundred thousand

1601
01:19:34,800 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 1: dollars worth of jewelry from him and his wife, maybe

1602
01:19:37,439 --> 01:19:39,840
Speaker 1: from some turnsgoers to. We don't know where all the

1603
01:19:39,960 --> 01:19:42,719
Speaker 1: jewelry came from, but he did have on some rings

1604
01:19:42,760 --> 01:19:46,599
Speaker 1: and chain right. So when we reported the story earlier today,

1605
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:48,600
Speaker 1: people were like, well, I mean, why the hell is

1606
01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:50,400
Speaker 1: he wearing four undred thousand dollars worth of jewelry and

1607
01:19:50,439 --> 01:19:52,280
Speaker 1: Brooklyn in the middle of recession with all the wolves

1608
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:55,960
Speaker 1: out and people are starting. Those people are right me myself.

1609
01:19:56,080 --> 01:19:58,960
Speaker 1: You know, yes, it wouldn't be the smart decision to

1610
01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:01,000
Speaker 1: wear four hundred thousd it is worth the jewelry, but

1611
01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:03,080
Speaker 1: that's his right. He works hard for You can wear

1612
01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:04,920
Speaker 1: whatever you want to wear, right that that's what life

1613
01:20:05,000 --> 01:20:06,840
Speaker 1: is about. And they can rob whoever they want to rob,

1614
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:08,680
Speaker 1: and they're gonna rob the people that they see ya,

1615
01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:10,960
Speaker 1: and they're gonna rob the people who they see y'all

1616
01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:13,639
Speaker 1: here flossing and stunting. The reality is, if you're gonna

1617
01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:17,599
Speaker 1: spend four hundred thousand dollars on the jury, you should

1618
01:20:17,640 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 1: have security. And that goes for any path, that goes

1619
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:22,840
Speaker 1: for anybody who wants to wear those kind of luxury things,

1620
01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:27,080
Speaker 1: have security protecting you. That's it simple as that. And

1621
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:31,479
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, churches should have security. Period.

1622
01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:34,720
Speaker 1: We've seen enough mass shootings happening happening in churches, in

1623
01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 1: places of the worship nowadays that things like that, you know,

1624
01:20:38,280 --> 01:20:40,880
Speaker 1: should be prevented by having on security in the churches. Anyway,

1625
01:20:40,880 --> 01:20:42,479
Speaker 1: if you're gonna spend that kind of money on your

1626
01:20:42,520 --> 01:20:44,439
Speaker 1: cars and that kind of money on your jury, how

1627
01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:48,200
Speaker 1: about spending on keeping your congregation safe. Yeah. I get

1628
01:20:48,240 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 1: what you're saying, But I also feel like if that

1629
01:20:50,280 --> 01:20:53,400
Speaker 1: man that pastor works hard can spend his money or

1630
01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:55,000
Speaker 1: whatever he wants to spend his money, and I mean,

1631
01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 1: if he wants to, you know, who's debating in crown

1632
01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:00,320
Speaker 1: and wear a diamond crown, he should be able to

1633
01:21:00,320 --> 01:21:02,479
Speaker 1: would not worry about getting wrong. No, that's not that's

1634
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 1: not how this works. In me, that's how it should work.

1635
01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:07,680
Speaker 1: That's life. I don't care. How would you're gonnatic, you're

1636
01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:09,559
Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna do things how they should or how

1637
01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:14,160
Speaker 1: things are. Well exactly, I don't want to pay taxes.

1638
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:18,320
Speaker 1: We should not have to pay taxes because black people

1639
01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:23,280
Speaker 1: built this country. What nocause I don't not going to jail,

1640
01:21:23,840 --> 01:21:26,439
Speaker 1: all right. I'm not gonna have the RS knocking out

1641
01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:30,200
Speaker 1: my door, all right. So my point is, yes, people

1642
01:21:30,200 --> 01:21:31,640
Speaker 1: should be able to wear what they want to wear

1643
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:34,120
Speaker 1: without being robbed. But that's not the reality of the situation.

1644
01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:36,320
Speaker 1: So if you're gonna spend four hundred thousand on some jury,

1645
01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:39,719
Speaker 1: spend three fifty on jury and fifty thousand on security,

1646
01:21:41,120 --> 01:21:43,200
Speaker 1: I mean, of course I would hope that something like

1647
01:21:43,280 --> 01:21:45,519
Speaker 1: that wouldn't happen. It's like when somebody's driving a nice

1648
01:21:45,560 --> 01:21:48,400
Speaker 1: car and then they blame you for getting car jack

1649
01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 1: because why would you driving such a nice car? Still,

1650
01:21:50,920 --> 01:21:52,800
Speaker 1: so why I can't drive a nice car and this,

1651
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:55,640
Speaker 1: you know, in this neighborhood. So I get that, and

1652
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:57,639
Speaker 1: it's a shame that something like this has to happen

1653
01:21:58,000 --> 01:22:00,800
Speaker 1: me personally. You know, I live in Brooklyn and I

1654
01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 1: don't even own jewelry worth that much. Money, and I

1655
01:22:03,520 --> 01:22:07,080
Speaker 1: mostly wear costume jewelry anyway. You know what, you're smart.

1656
01:22:07,439 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 1: You're telling him that you're giving out the right message

1657
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:12,080
Speaker 1: this morning. So that's cads for me. But I would

1658
01:22:12,120 --> 01:22:14,800
Speaker 1: think in church, you would hope that would be a

1659
01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:17,559
Speaker 1: safe haven, but unfortunately it's not. And you know, I'm

1660
01:22:17,560 --> 01:22:19,200
Speaker 1: sorry that something like this had to happen to him.

1661
01:22:20,120 --> 01:22:23,400
Speaker 1: Congregation is traumatized from this experience. And I feel like

1662
01:22:23,439 --> 01:22:25,519
Speaker 1: he's gotten a lot of press lately and the way

1663
01:22:25,560 --> 01:22:27,519
Speaker 1: that they the way that they talk about him in

1664
01:22:27,560 --> 01:22:30,960
Speaker 1: the media or the flashy you know, and I think

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01:22:31,000 --> 01:22:34,000
Speaker 1: that's why that's why he was targeted, because of how

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01:22:34,040 --> 01:22:35,840
Speaker 1: the media has put him out there for things that

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01:22:35,920 --> 01:22:39,240
Speaker 1: have happened, you know, in the past. You just told Brooklyn. Look, man,

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01:22:39,240 --> 01:22:41,000
Speaker 1: I know y'all hit me on the radio. I know

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01:22:41,120 --> 01:22:43,240
Speaker 1: y'all know I got the businesses, but they ain't nothing

1670
01:22:43,280 --> 01:22:46,320
Speaker 1: over here for y'all all. My money is in my businesses.

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01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:50,960
Speaker 1: Like I'm still trying to right, we get it. I

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01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 1: got on costume jewelry right now. Yeah, I believe not

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01:22:55,240 --> 01:23:00,800
Speaker 1: real gold earrings real cause a fake car too plastic people,

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01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:05,040
Speaker 1: I hear ruthless. They robbed Amy from Jeopardy. They heard

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01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 1: about Amy winning all of them goddamn bride winning, and

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01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:11,439
Speaker 1: they robbed Amy bro not Amy. Hello, who's this man?

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01:23:11,479 --> 01:23:17,600
Speaker 1: It's the free from mohuns. Man. They was wrong for

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01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:20,040
Speaker 1: going in there robbing that, robbing that pass for like

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01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:22,240
Speaker 1: that in that church. But my whole thing that they

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01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:25,080
Speaker 1: take one hundred thousand off the church, off the passer

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01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:28,080
Speaker 1: or was that just collectively with the jewelry? Well, we

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01:23:28,160 --> 01:23:30,240
Speaker 1: don't know. It sounds like he had jewelry. But if

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01:23:30,280 --> 01:23:32,280
Speaker 1: you really think about it, let's say the pastor brought

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01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 1: himself a nice watch. Right, everybody's wearing a Richard Mill

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01:23:35,439 --> 01:23:38,160
Speaker 1: he maybe he bought a Richard Mill watch. That watch

1686
01:23:38,240 --> 01:23:40,080
Speaker 1: could be two three hundred thousand right there, So it

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01:23:40,120 --> 01:23:42,360
Speaker 1: ain't a lot of jewelry. Just gotta watch him. And

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01:23:42,479 --> 01:23:45,120
Speaker 1: if his wife got one on an engagement ring, that's

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01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:47,400
Speaker 1: four hunted. Yeah, they took their rings and everything. Man,

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01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:49,240
Speaker 1: y'all asking the wrong questions. How much they're gonna get

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01:23:49,240 --> 01:23:51,320
Speaker 1: for it in the street? Man? What was that? That's

1692
01:23:52,040 --> 01:23:54,320
Speaker 1: how much they're gonna get in the street. How much

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01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:56,880
Speaker 1: they gonna get if it's a Richard Mill watch, let's say,

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01:23:57,240 --> 01:24:01,080
Speaker 1: probably get about a cash by eighty. You know, you're right.

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01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:03,680
Speaker 1: It could be their wedding bands, her wedding ring and

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01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 1: all of that too, And sometimes people spend money on

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01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:08,920
Speaker 1: that stuff. Eight hundred five eight five one o five one.

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01:24:08,920 --> 01:24:11,360
Speaker 1: We'll talk about the pastor who got robbed in Brooklyn

1699
01:24:11,439 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 1: while he was live streaming. They took it for his joy,

1700
01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 1: they said, four hundred thousand dollars. People are like, oh, well,

1701
01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:18,680
Speaker 1: you shouldn't be wearing that in Brooklyn anyway, doing a

1702
01:24:18,760 --> 01:24:21,479
Speaker 1: live sermon during the recession. But I feel like he

1703
01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:23,680
Speaker 1: worked hard for You should wear whatever you want to wear. Man,

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01:24:23,800 --> 01:24:26,200
Speaker 1: shut up, No, yes, you can wear whatever you want

1705
01:24:26,200 --> 01:24:28,200
Speaker 1: to win. People can rob whatever they want to rob.

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01:24:28,320 --> 01:24:31,160
Speaker 1: The reality of the situation is, don't wear nothing you

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01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:33,720
Speaker 1: can't protect. And if you can't protect yourself, you better

1708
01:24:33,840 --> 01:24:36,719
Speaker 1: high somebody to protect it for you. All right, Breakfast

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01:24:36,720 --> 01:24:37,320
Speaker 1: Club for morning