1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. Y'all 2 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:06,199 Speaker 1: don't know y'all. 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 2: At all at all, So don't given them a million 4 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 2: bus busy. 5 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: Listening to show. 6 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 3: I don't joy. 7 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 2: Yah, yeah, joy. 8 00:00:54,240 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 3: Show. You know you love you? 9 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 4: You gonna turn. 10 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 1: I can. 11 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 5: I got to turn the mouth the turn You've probably 12 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 5: got to turn the mouth out. 13 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:59,559 Speaker 1: The mon a up looking. Come come on, you'll think, 14 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You all 15 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 1: listening to the voice, come on, dig me now. One 16 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 1: and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Uh huh, 17 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yeah. Man, boy boy 18 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: boy boy man. God has been good to me. I 19 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:21,399 Speaker 1: can't even. 20 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 6: I can't even put it into words, man, But I try, though, 21 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 6: I try, I try, I try. 22 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: God does things for me just right on time. He's 23 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: so cool with it. 24 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 6: And I happened to run across Joel Oldstein on television 25 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 6: like I often do all the time, and I was 26 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 6: sitting there and he had such a timely message for me. 27 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 6: A part of it was something that I've said oftentimes 28 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 6: about if you really really want to be successful, if 29 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,359 Speaker 6: you really really want to check, if you really really 30 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 6: want to prosper If you really really want to achieve greatness, 31 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 6: if you really really want to have something in life 32 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 6: that's worth having, if you really really want to accomplish 33 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 6: your goals, you got to push through all of it. 34 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: He said that when you get closer to it, the 35 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: more difficult it becomes. Did you hear me? 36 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 6: He said, the closer you get to what it is 37 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 6: you want or you need, or you have to have 38 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 6: or you would love to be, it gets a little 39 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 6: bit more difficult when you get closer. 40 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: He told this story that's in the Bible that I 41 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: never heard before. This is what he said. 42 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 6: He said, there was a man who was paralyzed, and 43 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 6: he had heard that Jesus was speaking at a house, 44 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 6: and so he wanted to get there. So he convinced 45 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 6: four of his friends to put him on a stretcher 46 00:04:08,080 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 6: and carry him for hours to get to this house 47 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 6: where Jesus was speaking. He said that along the way, 48 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 6: these friends said that they went along because he had 49 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 6: so much faith that if he could just get to him, 50 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 6: it could be better that he could if he could 51 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 6: just get over there and he could see him, that 52 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 6: he might have a shot at getting here. And so 53 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 6: he said they took out along the way and they 54 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 6: walked and they walked and they walked for hours. And 55 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 6: then when they got there, the house was completely filled 56 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 6: with people. That was absolutely it was packed wall to wall. 57 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 6: There was absolutely no way for the men to get 58 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 6: him on that stretcher in to see Jesus. This is 59 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 6: a story that uh Joe Lostein said, It is in 60 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 6: the Bible, and he was telling it now. I'm just 61 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 6: repeating the parts of it. I got gathered and so 62 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 6: he said. They sat there and they went, wow, man, 63 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 6: we walked all this weight and it's full, and and 64 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 6: and and and and and we can't get there, he said. 65 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: And then the guy with the affliction told the four men, 66 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: if you get. 67 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 6: Up on the roof and cut a hole in it 68 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 6: and lower me down, I bet I could see him then, 69 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 6: and I bet it to be all right now. He 70 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 6: then said, you must imagined how these four men must 71 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 6: have felt when you carry somebody for hours on on 72 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 6: on on on on on the way. They had to 73 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,160 Speaker 6: carry some cloth connected by a couple of sticks, said 74 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 6: to me, and shoulders had to be bruised, had to 75 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 6: have deep gouges, and them not cuts, but just indentations 76 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 6: where they had carried the weight of this grown man 77 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 6: for so many hours, and they looked at him in disbelief, like, man, 78 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 6: what are you talking about? 79 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: We done walked all this far. 80 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 6: He said, yeah, But if you get up on that 81 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:13,119 Speaker 6: roof and you cut a hole in it and lower 82 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 6: me down, I can see him and when he see me, 83 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 6: it'll be all right. After sitting there and imploring the men, 84 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 6: they went up and did just that, And in the 85 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 6: story that Joel's Dean said, the man was healed. But 86 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 6: the point he was making was he was saying that 87 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,720 Speaker 6: the closer you get to what it is you really want, 88 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 6: the more difficult it's going to become. But you've got 89 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 6: to push through. See, if you don't push through, you 90 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 6: never know. See, you can't get right to the answer. 91 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 6: And because it gets really difficult, started creating those little 92 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 6: saying that we got as people. Well, I guess it 93 00:06:55,880 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 6: wasn't meant to be. I guess it wasn't the Lord's Now, man, 94 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:04,200 Speaker 6: I guess you should not give up right now. I 95 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 6: guess you should keep pressing. I guess you should do more, 96 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 6: because see, in all of us, in all of us, 97 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 6: when you've had enough, I want. 98 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: You to know something you do have a little bit 99 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: more in all of us. You can do one more 100 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: you know. 101 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 6: That's one of my favorite things that I heard Joel 102 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 6: Oldstein said, and it kind of made me feel good. 103 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 6: He said, I always feel like I can do one 104 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 6: more anything, and I tell my friends all the time, 105 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 6: I can do one more man. 106 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: I could do one more day. I can do one 107 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: more anything. Now Here was the jewel that I never 108 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: really knew that Joel Oldstein and God sent to me 109 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: I needed to hear. 110 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 6: He said that no matter what you're going through, no 111 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 6: matter how long the challenge is you've been facing, God 112 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 6: has an in date for it all. 113 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: Did you hear me? 114 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 6: No matter what you're going through, no matter what challenge 115 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 6: you're facing, no matter what situation you've gotten yourself into, 116 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 6: God has an ending date. All you got to do 117 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 6: is keep pressing forward. All you got to do is 118 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 6: hang in now. All you got to do is don't 119 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 6: give up. All you have to do is don't turn back. 120 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 6: There is an ind date for all of it, even 121 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 6: when you think you've had enough. And boy, have I 122 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:40,640 Speaker 6: had this conversation with God on several things that I've 123 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 6: been going through and going I've even told him, Look, 124 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 6: I got it, man, He said, just keep hanging on. 125 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 6: There is an in date to whatever it is you're 126 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 6: going through. There's an end date to your illness, your sickness, 127 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:00,839 Speaker 6: your tired of being tired. There's an end date to 128 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:07,680 Speaker 6: this relationship that you can't seem to get through beyond 129 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:13,680 Speaker 6: overs that's like a cancer to you. There's an end date. 130 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 6: But you've got to hang in there. You've got to 131 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 6: keep pushing forward. You cannot turn around. You must not 132 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:27,439 Speaker 6: go back, because when God gets you through this and 133 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 6: you break through to the other side, the reward and 134 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 6: the benefit is far greater than the struggle. 135 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: I oftentimes look. 136 00:09:38,840 --> 00:09:40,719 Speaker 6: At some of the things that God has brought me 137 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 6: through in my worst times, and when He brought me through, 138 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 6: I went, wow, man, now that I understand that, Now 139 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 6: that I'm on the other side and I have the 140 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 6: benefit of the reward for it. 141 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: Would you do it all again to get there? Yes, 142 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 1: I would. 143 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:04,079 Speaker 6: Show ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls might have your attention. Please, 144 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 6: people from all around the world listen to this. You 145 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 6: are listening to the absolute baddest morning showing the land 146 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,440 Speaker 6: without further ado, Here is the reason why. 147 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 1: Colin Farrell, what's up with your girl? Hey, Steve, how 148 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 1: you doing? Hey Shirley, Tommy junr? What's going on Thursday Junior? 149 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 1: Morning up Tommy, tom who is in the build on 150 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:32,640 Speaker 1: top of the morning on this day? All right? Hello, Hirley, 151 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: how you doing today? 152 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 7: I am good? 153 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: How are you? Absolutely wonderful day? So happy you could 154 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:44,120 Speaker 1: join us? 155 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 7: I've been here. 156 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: Okay, well glad, I don't. 157 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 7: Mess up me this morning. 158 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:54,079 Speaker 8: Okay, just go on, just go on and on. I 159 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 8: can't even do nothing no with you today. Well it's 160 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 8: already the starting. Hey Tommy, Tommy. 161 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: What's going on with you? 162 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 9: Boy? 163 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 4: I'm good man, I'm good. I'm I'm listening to my 164 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:09,439 Speaker 4: friend over there. She just find a little different this morning. 165 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm fine. 166 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 7: You guys are. 167 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 1: Crazy, hey baby? Just something happened you? 168 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 9: All right? 169 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:18,719 Speaker 1: Because you know I'm your big brother. Anything brother, I 170 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:22,199 Speaker 1: don't want to no, no, no, yes, I am. You 171 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: shut your mouth right there, you shut your mouth to 172 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: talk to me like that. I'm trying to fishes to 173 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: fight what you're talking. 174 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 7: When we were two and three and five, and that's 175 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 7: that's not true. 176 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: That is not true, and you know it. Don't make 177 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: us tell this. You go too far. Really, I didn't 178 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: say nothing. 179 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 7: See, I'm good. 180 00:11:55,520 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: I'm just listening to the conversations. What conversation junior? Morning up? 181 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:01,560 Speaker 3: Man? 182 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 1: How you feeling today? 183 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 3: Man? 184 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 6: Man, it's like a superstar baby, that's what you is. No, 185 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 6: you know, man, I don't see myself like that. I 186 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 6: just don't you see yourself? Po You see himself as 187 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 6: a loser. 188 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 1: What did you see? 189 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 6: I'm running from that real hard in a foot race 190 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 6: against popt. I have no a Poe end. I've been 191 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 6: on that end way too long. Matter of fact, I 192 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:32,359 Speaker 6: stayed over it. I felt like I stayed. 193 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: Over there way longer than I need. I was asking 194 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 1: God at one point, Hey God, you really is just necessary. 195 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:43,400 Speaker 1: I have learned the lesson. Teach me something else. I 196 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: want to learn something. 197 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 6: Man. 198 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 1: Man, you've seen this movie before, you know? 199 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 10: Man? 200 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,559 Speaker 6: Yeah, Like I told dude the other day, I say, hey, man, 201 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 6: Biggie never was wrong when he said more money, more problems. 202 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: He said, well the hell, I shall want to see 203 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: what they is. You want to know the new problem? 204 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: You want to experience it? 205 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 11: Signed up? 206 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 1: What was I got? Asking for the new problem? 207 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 12: Coming here at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 208 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 12: hear from a nephew as he runs that prank back 209 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:17,040 Speaker 12: right after this. 210 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 7: You're listening Hard Morning Show. 211 00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 12: It's time now for the nephew to run that prank back. 212 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 12: What you got for us today? Nef Booty Texas. 213 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Kendrick. Hey, Kenrick, got 214 00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:37,319 Speaker 3: you doing it? And my name is Anthony Man, Anthony Collins. 215 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 3: They call me a C. How you doing, I'm good, Bro? 216 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 3: How you doing? I'm good? I'm good. Hey listen, uh 217 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 3: this right here, man, this this I don't even know 218 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 3: how to put this though, but hey, listen, I'm calling 219 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 3: you man because I got some issues. I'm getting ready 220 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:57,559 Speaker 3: to find my texts and I'm going through all my expensis, 221 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 3: all my receipts and all this kind of stuff. You know. 222 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 3: I just I can't. I can't just let this go. 223 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:04,719 Speaker 4: Man. 224 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 3: I didn't spend like twenty thousand dollars on your wife 225 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 3: last year, and I'm trying to figure out. 226 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 13: Oh well, bru wait, Manue you asking me you don't 227 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 13: spend twenty thousand dollars on shiit I'm married to? 228 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 3: Is now what you're telling me? So all I'm trying 229 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 3: to do. Man, is I'm trying to do a write off? 230 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 3: That's what I'm trying to do. I'm trying to claim no, no, no, no, 231 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 3: to write off. 232 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 13: Basically, what you're telling me is you my wife. 233 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:36,280 Speaker 3: I ain't say all, man, I ain't. 234 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 13: Say how what what you're saying? 235 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 3: Bro? All I'm saying is I'm trying to figure out 236 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 3: is that all right if I claim Melanie on my expenses? Man, 237 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 3: I'm over twenty grand on money I spent on Melanie 238 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 3: last year. 239 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 13: So first, let me understand something right quick. You asking 240 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 13: me for permission to claim my wife? When did you 241 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 13: ask for permission my wife? 242 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 3: Help me with that, brother. Okay, okay, okay, okay, let's 243 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 3: do this here. 244 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 14: Drug. 245 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 3: I ain't say I did that. You saying that. I'm saying, 246 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 3: I just want to claim the taxes because I spent 247 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 3: twenty k on it. That's all I'm saying. Okay, let's 248 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 3: just let's do this, brother, Let's put Melley on on 249 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 3: the phone, Let's put mail on the mother. Pall, ain't 250 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 3: we ain't got a brain mail in this. We ain't 251 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 3: got a brainmail in it. What I'm saying is already 252 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 3: hear it see in it? 253 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 6: What excuse me? 254 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 9: We ain't got a brain any in it. 255 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 13: May you must be outside Joe mine. 256 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 3: All I'm saying is, do you have a problem with 257 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 3: me claiming Melody? You mother? What did I do? 258 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 9: Bruh? 259 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 13: I got a problem having this whole mother face? 260 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 3: How? 261 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 13: First of all, how did you get my information? How 262 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 13: you get my number? 263 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,840 Speaker 3: Brother? I asked around for your number. I ain't want 264 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 3: to call you. Took me a week to call you. 265 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. I'm just trying to dude, 266 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 3: I just spent twenty grand. You understand what I'm saying. 267 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 13: When did you spend twenty grand? That's what I want 268 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 13: to know. I ain't spent twenty grand on this month 269 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 13: and I'm married to so what what the you doing 270 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 13: that you spent twenty thousand dollars on my wife? And 271 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,040 Speaker 13: then you want to claim that? Tep me understanding that. 272 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 3: Hey man, I ain't trying to go into all my 273 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 3: receipts on everything I did for Melanie. I'm not trying 274 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 3: to do that. All I'm trying to do he is, 275 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 3: is just I just want I want to I want 276 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 3: to know if you I don't want to both claim 277 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 3: it because that's how you get in trouble. 278 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 13: Bruther you already and mother brule. Trouble is the last 279 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 13: mother time you ought to be worried about it, and 280 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 13: you call it my mother phone telling me about something 281 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 13: that you got going home with my old lady, and 282 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 13: then you telling me can I have your permission? 283 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 3: You? 284 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: Okay? 285 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 3: So nog, we got to get some kind of resolution 286 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,160 Speaker 3: to this. A good resolution is a good ass for 287 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 3: you mean a resolution. That's the only mother resolution we 288 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 3: gonna get. Brother, ain't no other resolution, Ain't no other resolution, 289 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 3: ain't ain't we ain't got elf to talk about. We 290 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 3: ain't got a mother thing to talk about. That's the 291 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:04,640 Speaker 3: resolution I got fighting. I'll tell you what, brou I'm 292 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:06,880 Speaker 3: texting Mail right now. I've been texting her since we've 293 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,919 Speaker 3: been on this mother phone. Okay, I'm pray, what did 294 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 3: you texting her? Father? No? You mean when am I 295 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 3: texting her? Fuss? She is the subject matter. 296 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:17,080 Speaker 13: So that's why I'm texting her. 297 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 3: But you better pray to God. This is a mooky 298 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 3: I hope to God. You y'all got y'all people stuff 299 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 3: with me like this. Bid, This ain't gonna go good. 300 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:33,560 Speaker 3: Brou At all at all. Okay, so I guess I 301 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:38,680 Speaker 3: can't claim them at this point. Tell mother now, so 302 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 3: what you want to do, though. 303 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 13: Bro, I don't already tell you what I'm gonna do, 304 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 13: and I'm waiting on mails with funs on this mother 305 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:48,160 Speaker 13: she has got. She's slow than the mother. She can't 306 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 13: tight fast for somebody. Go get me some ma'am today. Okay, 307 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 13: but man, look at brouh. I don't know who this is. 308 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 13: On the other than in the end of this song. 309 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 13: I hope to God it's just something somebody of X 310 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 13: five or something that I can't even fathom. You better 311 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:08,320 Speaker 13: pray to God, y'all playing with me? This is some 312 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 13: boot okay? 313 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 3: Okay? So can I go on? Tell you this your 314 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 3: dog and then I'm gonna get out your way, man, 315 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:19,159 Speaker 3: because I know how it's gonna go after this. Can 316 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:21,440 Speaker 3: I just go and tell you something else? I don't 317 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 3: know what the else you can tell me. But the 318 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,959 Speaker 3: only thing I can tell you, only thing I can 319 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 3: tell you, Kendrick, is that this is nephew Tommy from 320 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:34,200 Speaker 3: the Steel Harvey Morning Show. Your wife Melanie got me 321 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 3: to pray fak call you dog. 322 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 13: Well, y'all some riding mother boy. 323 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:42,480 Speaker 3: You look. 324 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 13: That's about many was telling me about. 325 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 3: Gone maint y'all ain't, man, y'all ain't. And I'm sitting 326 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 3: up at easth crackling and I don't throw them in the. 327 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 13: Ways and my fist French already. 328 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 3: Have you all right? Man? I gotta make sure you 329 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 3: all right before we get off the phone. You're good, man. 330 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 13: I gotta go get in a drink. 331 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm right all right. Tell me this, what's 332 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 3: the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio show in 333 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 3: the land. 334 00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 13: Man, Steve Harvey Morris Show with that bright land lift. 335 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 13: You telling him? 336 00:19:30,680 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 1: And now you have it, You're gonna get it. 337 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 4: Tax that behind tax that behind those the booty taxes 338 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:41,879 Speaker 4: right there, all right, and let's get some booties out 339 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 4: there in New Jersey. 340 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: Earthquake Father's Day. Let's let's get them on. 341 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 4: I tell baby Earthquake Father's Day Comedy show with Earthquake 342 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 4: Donelle Rollins Nephew Time at Tony Roberts. But that's the 343 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:55,400 Speaker 4: practice at the New Jersey Performing Arts Center. That's going 344 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,119 Speaker 4: down Father's Day Night with the Sunday Night at the 345 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 4: n j PAC. June A take its own Seale red. 346 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 4: Now that the NJ peck once again earth quent donell 347 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:08,400 Speaker 4: Rowlins and if you tell me Tony Robinson. 348 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 1: But that's the fraction we will be in the bill 349 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 1: and yee and New Jersey wavery here we come all right, look, 350 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 1: thank you. 351 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 7: Coming up next to is ask the CLO our chief 352 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 7: love officers. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 353 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 12: It is time to ask the CLO chief Love Officer, 354 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:26,959 Speaker 12: Steve Harvey. 355 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:30,399 Speaker 7: See this one is from Dana in the Bronx. 356 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:32,720 Speaker 12: Dana says, I'm forty two and I just let my 357 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 12: mother move in with me, and it's already a problem. 358 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 12: She drinks a lot and has had men come by 359 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,159 Speaker 12: my house all hours of the night to drink with her. 360 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:43,680 Speaker 12: One of her visitors was coming out of my guest 361 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:46,880 Speaker 12: bathroom the other day and I was still in my nightgown. 362 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 12: The guy propositioned me, and I was furious. I told 363 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 12: my mother she is not allowed to have men in 364 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 12: my home anymore. 365 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 7: She said, I can't tell her what to do. 366 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:59,640 Speaker 12: Well, how do I respectfully get my mother in line 367 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 12: while she's in my home? 368 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 4: See? 369 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 6: Well, you know, see you can't tell her what to 370 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 6: do in life, but you you can have rules in 371 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:15,479 Speaker 6: your house and respect goes both ways. 372 00:21:15,760 --> 00:21:19,879 Speaker 1: And you're old enough. Now, how does she say, who's 373 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 1: forty two? 374 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,560 Speaker 7: The daughter? The daughter's forty two and she just let 375 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 7: her mom move in. 376 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: Well, her mama got to go by the rules or else, Mama, 377 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:29,920 Speaker 1: where you want to stay? 378 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,600 Speaker 6: But these men coming to me properly, proposition to me 379 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 6: and my own house, that's unacceptable. 380 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 1: I can't be in my home and be uncomfortable. 381 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:39,760 Speaker 6: You can go out with me and just go meet 382 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:42,080 Speaker 6: them at the tavern, because that's what they are, a tavern, 383 00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 6: do cavern? 384 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 1: He was at the tavern? 385 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:55,320 Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, put a stop to that where tavern always 386 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,480 Speaker 15: have some nice smitties. H. 387 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,200 Speaker 12: Well, you could tell she's a nice woman because she 388 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,400 Speaker 12: wants to know how to do it respectfully. 389 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 6: Meanwhile, you have established rules, yeah, and she can. You 390 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:09,920 Speaker 6: can't tell her what to do, but you can you 391 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 6: can decide what happens in your house. You can't tell 392 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,479 Speaker 6: her not to see me, but you can't see him 393 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:15,120 Speaker 6: in here though. 394 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,200 Speaker 1: That's right, right? Period? Right? Steve? All right? 395 00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 12: Uh, you're gonna love this name out of Charlotte, Coalfax, Coax. 396 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,879 Speaker 1: Cold frakt straight out of Cleveland, come. 397 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:32,600 Speaker 12: On, Colefax says, Uh, my girlfriend and I had a 398 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,680 Speaker 12: weekend get away in neighboring city, and my girlfriend made 399 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 12: all of the plans. 400 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 7: She booked a hotel. 401 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,280 Speaker 12: When we checked in, the girl at the front death 402 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:43,720 Speaker 12: said welcome back and offered my girlfriend and I a 403 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 12: discounted massage because of her loyalty. 404 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 7: Point. I'm looking sideways at her all weekend after that? 405 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 12: Do I question her about being a regular at this 406 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 12: hotel or do you think it will come out eventually? 407 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 1: Well, no, dough. 408 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 6: When you meet people, people have histories. Ain't no need 409 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 6: of you digging up the history. So she been to 410 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 6: the hotel before welcome back? Maybe she liked the massages 411 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,119 Speaker 6: down there, Yeah, ain't. She could have went down there 412 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,240 Speaker 6: on girls' weekends. Ain't nothing to say. She was down 413 00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 6: there with some dudes. So, dog, what you tripping for? 414 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 7: Cold facts? 415 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 4: Now? 416 00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 1: You know he wants the facts? Now, these is the 417 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:24,400 Speaker 1: cold facts. 418 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,680 Speaker 6: Everybody had a life folded before they met you, and 419 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 6: like you had one two. So don't blow a good 420 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 6: thing trying to dig up dirt, because whatever you dig up, 421 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 6: it ain't really dirt. 422 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 1: She didn't know you. I like, how, no, man, you 423 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 1: can't blame nobody. 424 00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,640 Speaker 6: For nothing that that didn't have nothing to do with you, right, 425 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:50,199 Speaker 6: That wouldn't bother you all weekend though, would Hell? 426 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:50,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? 427 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,920 Speaker 7: Are you being a hypocrite right now? 428 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 429 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 1: Sitting in the car. 430 00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 2: Bah, that's all it is. 431 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: She just like man, I mean, that's probably all it is, 432 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:18,199 Speaker 1: you know, looks still and crazy all right? 433 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:18,800 Speaker 2: Moving on? 434 00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 12: Ama in East Saint Louis says, I'm dating I'm dating 435 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 12: a man. This is crazy right here? 436 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:27,240 Speaker 7: This one too. 437 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 12: I'm dating a man that is married and his wife 438 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 12: is a lunatic. She's been knowing about us for a while, 439 00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 12: so I'm shocked she still cares. I think she needs 440 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 12: to take all of her anger out on her husband 441 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 12: because he seeks me out, not the other way around. 442 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:44,879 Speaker 12: I've had to get a restraining order on her, and 443 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:46,680 Speaker 12: I had to put cameras on the front of my 444 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 12: house because I'm sure she was the one that tried 445 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:53,359 Speaker 12: to slash my tires once. I've asked her nicely not 446 00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 12: to bother me. Would I be wrong to beat her 447 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 12: ass one good time? 448 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:00,359 Speaker 3: Prize? 449 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 1: She ain't beat your ass one good time? What you 450 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: the one in the wrong? 451 00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 6: You're sleeping with this woman's husband you're talking about. He 452 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 6: the one that seeks me out. He ain't got to 453 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,800 Speaker 6: look too hard, right you responding? 454 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:15,920 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? 455 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:17,320 Speaker 1: He seeks me out? 456 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 2: You know well? 457 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 6: Or well you know you can put a stop to that. 458 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 6: He seeks you out because you're wanting to be sought after. 459 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 6: Now a woman know about y'all. She might be trying 460 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,880 Speaker 6: to fight for her husband. And yeah, she was one 461 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 6: trying to slit your tie. That ain't all Should I 462 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 6: beat her for? 463 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 3: What? 464 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 6: Do you know that the prison time you could do 465 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:47,800 Speaker 6: for that? You sleeping with a woman's husband. And now 466 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 6: you won't do something to her because she over there 467 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 6: to get her husband. That ain't how that's gonna work 468 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 6: in the court of law. What wait a minute, has 469 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 6: she asked you leave her husband alone? 470 00:25:59,119 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 7: Nicely? 471 00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:06,959 Speaker 1: Gotta get bamah? How you ask me nicely? Right? All right? 472 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 7: This is from Johnson and Omaha. 473 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,040 Speaker 12: Johnson says, my kids and I moved to a different 474 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,880 Speaker 12: city after I divorced their mom. I got full custody 475 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 12: and I moved so I would that I would have 476 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 12: my family support raising them. My toxic ex wife has 477 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 12: decided to move closer to us, and I don't think 478 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 12: she's fit enough to have visitation with our children. I 479 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:28,520 Speaker 12: don't want to say what's wrong with her, but she 480 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,480 Speaker 12: has some bad habits, and our children are all under 481 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,880 Speaker 12: ten years old. I can't stop her from moving closer, 482 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 12: but I can. But can I stop her from seeing 483 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 12: them at all? Will this impact my kids later? 484 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,920 Speaker 6: I don't know, because I'm not aware of the problem. 485 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:48,879 Speaker 6: But I do know that in a divorce, they rarely 486 00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:53,160 Speaker 6: take a child away from a mother unless she's unfit. 487 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 6: They don't normally do that. Women got DIBs on them kids, man, 488 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 6: and so I don't know what she did that caused 489 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 6: the court to allow you to have full custody of them. 490 00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,680 Speaker 6: But if they did that, you can't get some You 491 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 6: don't deny them visitation, but you can get supervised visitations. 492 00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:18,480 Speaker 12: That's for show, all right, thank you, Celo, brilliant as usual, 493 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 12: you're listening. 494 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 7: Morning show. 495 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 5: We all experience these little things, little neon says that 496 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,360 Speaker 5: you panic for like just a little bit if you're 497 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:33,680 Speaker 5: not really For instance, Prince okay, yeah, you order a pizza. 498 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 5: Pizza's on the way, Pizza man gets there. You can't 499 00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:38,720 Speaker 5: find your money. 500 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 2: Oh my god, you hold on hold on, hold on, 501 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,200 Speaker 2: hold on, man, I got money. 502 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:49,160 Speaker 5: You already told him, Chad, So you didn't say John, 503 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 5: you say him a fake cad. He's standing out there 504 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 5: thinking you stupid. Right, Yeah, you already said, you know, 505 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 5: just stopping that this little little time. 506 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,120 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, your little time. 507 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,960 Speaker 14: Yeah, like it is like daytime. And you then fell 508 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,880 Speaker 14: asleep with the night. You then woke up, started getting. 509 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 11: Dressed on that. 510 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 14: Oh man, anybody on the ship to everybody started working here. 511 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 11: I woke up. It was night six forty one pm. 512 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,280 Speaker 2: I was in traffic, said I'm. 513 00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 11: Still gonna fire. 514 00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,200 Speaker 2: I mean day two. I'm like, why is nobody on 515 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:27,120 Speaker 2: the highway. 516 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: Because it's Saturday. 517 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:31,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 518 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: I got one people. 519 00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 4: When you Edwards reach for a bottle of water that 520 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 4: you talked with you and it wouldn't and realize it's 521 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 4: the nasty person that. 522 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 16: O god, that just damn yeah yeah yeah yeah, that's 523 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 16: not a little man. That's a lot of path from 524 00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 16: the bar. 525 00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 2: And they're standing there looking at you. 526 00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 12: What you. 527 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 6: Remember when you was little, useduld be playing in the 528 00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:11,880 Speaker 6: floor and you was doing something wrong and you turn 529 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 6: around and your mama was that. 530 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 2: You just putting on your best show. You just playing 531 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:31,959 Speaker 2: your behind. 532 00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 3: And you for me. 533 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 2: I turned around and see that fat leg. Oh lord, 534 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 2: I know, Andley. 535 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:39,280 Speaker 1: Brown was standing there that. 536 00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:42,880 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 537 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 5: Okay, A little times you panic, a little time you 538 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:54,120 Speaker 5: have a little nervous breakdowns. You go to the doctor, right, 539 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 5: you got your clothes on. He's standing behind you. He's 540 00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 5: looking at your chut and you hear the. 541 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 1: Close break down again. 542 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 5: About you tell me, I mean it's not to me, man, 543 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 5: man something about to fall off. 544 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 1: I'll tell you one day that that got my entire family. 545 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,120 Speaker 14: I don't know what's happened for y'all, but on holiday, 546 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 14: that one kid that nobody want to have that steal. 547 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 14: We have been praying over Thanksgiving then and want saying, anybody. 548 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 1: Seen Johnny and you can't. 549 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 11: You can't. Fine about to get nerved for some miss. 550 00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 3: This. 551 00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:45,040 Speaker 14: Don't somebody purse wallet keys were shut. We get to 552 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 14: prayer started off for he's so thankful to be here 553 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:50,160 Speaker 14: today on this thing home? 554 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 7: What Johnny? 555 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 1: Come on now you'll be driving your car, come. 556 00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 4: Over the hill, you rolling a little bit too, fan 557 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 4: police sitting there and all of a sudden their lights 558 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 4: come on. 559 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 2: God talk, Yes, you think they after you? 560 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 1: You think they after you and then they can't buy you. 561 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 1: Oh god, oh god, that every. 562 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 11: Get your story together for trying to get. 563 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 6: It, because the one I had was similar to that. 564 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 6: You ever been pulled over by the police and they 565 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:36,000 Speaker 6: asked you for your driver's license and they go back 566 00:31:36,040 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 6: to the car. Then they come back and step out 567 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 6: the car right there? Whoa good man that step out 568 00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 6: the car. 569 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 13: Man. 570 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,360 Speaker 5: Once you have to get out of the car, like 571 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 5: you start thinking about what does he know that I 572 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 5: did a long time ago? 573 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 3: What was. 574 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 2: Mar Let me see? Let me see. You go to 575 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,240 Speaker 2: the beauty shop, right, ladies, you know what. You go 576 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,000 Speaker 2: to the beauty shop to get. 577 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 5: Your hair done, and she knows automatically that you've been 578 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 5: going someplace else to get your hair done. 579 00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 2: She knows right away, right away. Yeah, who's been doing. 580 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 1: Her work? 581 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 2: She knows her work. 582 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:29,720 Speaker 11: Shout out to my girl. 583 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 2: This is not my worst. 584 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,840 Speaker 11: Even that gets me nervous. 585 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 2: My little fantic moment when I'm on. 586 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 14: The highway doing sixty and the gas light come on but. 587 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 2: You ain't no what, Neil, that is so scary. 588 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,120 Speaker 14: Just driving like I got a full take out. It 589 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 14: is a rule of phone that when the gaslight come 590 00:32:58,520 --> 00:32:58,800 Speaker 14: on you. 591 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 2: Have to break it down and do we all hate 592 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 2: by gas? 593 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 3: Yes? 594 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,360 Speaker 1: Man, hold on what we do? 595 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:14,120 Speaker 16: I'm married now, it's a little yeah, no idea. 596 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:19,840 Speaker 1: Here, pa, he got i'd no idea. 597 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,680 Speaker 2: Some of these panics may not apply to Steve. 598 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 4: You have been a woman house and a husband come home. 599 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:34,720 Speaker 4: That's a little panic, you know. That's now you under 600 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 4: the bed three hours and you wait on him to leave. 601 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 7: You get your nap. 602 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:49,800 Speaker 1: Yes, you walk in the house and your wife say, 603 00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: I got something I want you to see. 604 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 2: She got she han't got it in her hands? 605 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 1: Laughing. You don't know where you see it? 606 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 8: On that right on? 607 00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 2: We got to go. 608 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 7: You're listening morning show time. Now, guys were around it? 609 00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:18,239 Speaker 7: Would you rather? Would you rather have no legs or 610 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:19,480 Speaker 7: no arms? 611 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:21,640 Speaker 1: Can you just take one apiece? 612 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:27,800 Speaker 7: I'm damn no, no legs, no arms, don't man, I 613 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 7: got to have them. 614 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:33,399 Speaker 1: I got touch Okay, I'm gonna let you take them legs. 615 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:38,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have them all. Come on, see no legs, 616 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:39,839 Speaker 1: no arms, Yeah, I'm gonna need them. 617 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 3: Mom to. 618 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 1: I can't grab nothing. I can't beat up there. At 619 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,359 Speaker 1: least you got arms. You can go somewhere. I can 620 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,800 Speaker 1: drive them all okay, you know, you know how to 621 00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: be a wheelchairs and stuff picks and all I get. 622 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 6: But cats are strong and hey them dudes, way you out, man, Yeah, 623 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:01,360 Speaker 6: every wear you out. But I'm I'm just going with 624 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,160 Speaker 6: I like, what the way I am? I'm I'm gonna pass. 625 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:11,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, this was hey dog. 626 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,239 Speaker 6: And I'm sitting up here with my leg up on 627 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:17,840 Speaker 6: the desk right now thinking if you wouldn't now, I 628 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,560 Speaker 6: could just slump down, beat and fell out. 629 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,919 Speaker 1: This damn chance I slide out on the floor. 630 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 12: All right. So would you rather walk barefoot in a 631 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:31,120 Speaker 12: public restroom or would you rather get food poisoning? 632 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 6: I gonna take that food poison I'd have been food 633 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 6: poisoned before. 634 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 1: Yeah. 635 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 6: Let me gonna start throwing up because I'm not walking 636 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,279 Speaker 6: barefoot in that public. 637 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,839 Speaker 4: I'm throwing up either way. 638 00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:46,279 Speaker 3: I just. 639 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I got to blow torch the bottom of 640 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 1: my feet with my cigar lighter. Try to your feet. 641 00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 1: Hell no, I need to crawl the burning sayings. 642 00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:09,360 Speaker 7: All right, I. 643 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,759 Speaker 12: Think we have three for food poisoning on that one. 644 00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:15,400 Speaker 12: If you're keeping score, all right, would you rather save 645 00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:18,360 Speaker 12: the world but die as a hero in the process, 646 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 12: or save the world but no one knows. 647 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 4: Man blank this world? What is you talking about? I'm 648 00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 4: telling them to saving and then die? 649 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:32,279 Speaker 1: Why would I do that? I'd rather just be here 650 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:39,680 Speaker 1: and see where the hell gonna have me? Y'all. I 651 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:41,920 Speaker 1: ain't never asked be no hero, No damn way. I 652 00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 1: just want to be the survival. 653 00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 7: Wanted in die. 654 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:49,759 Speaker 1: Last one. 655 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:52,840 Speaker 12: Would you rather scream at each other? Or would you 656 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,080 Speaker 12: rather give each other the silent treatment? 657 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:56,000 Speaker 1: Give each other? 658 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,120 Speaker 7: What the silent treatment? 659 00:36:59,440 --> 00:36:59,480 Speaker 3: No? 660 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: I take the side of the tree because I want 661 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 1: you to be quiet. Any damn work? 662 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 3: All right? 663 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,759 Speaker 1: At least I can hear the game when it's home. 664 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:15,839 Speaker 12: All right, We'll be back with more of the Steve 665 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 12: Harvey Morning Show right after this. 666 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:22,040 Speaker 7: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 667 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:24,399 Speaker 1: Steve, here's a question. 668 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,760 Speaker 10: Well, actually it's probably for Junior and Tommy, because Steve, 669 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:32,280 Speaker 10: we know that our jobs isn't as lucrative as yours. 670 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:32,640 Speaker 1: Steve. 671 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:35,360 Speaker 10: So because when we're with you, When we're with you, Steve, 672 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:39,320 Speaker 10: you pay for everything, right, y'all. 673 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:45,879 Speaker 1: Don't right? Right? I pay some time? Has yeah, Okay, 674 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,439 Speaker 1: I've never seen it? All right? Anyway, you haven't called ever? 675 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 3: Noah? 676 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:54,680 Speaker 1: Will I? 677 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:56,840 Speaker 3: No? No ever? No? 678 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 10: So Okay, So here's a question for Junior and Tommy. 679 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,360 Speaker 10: So think about your friends and family. You're the ones 680 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:06,239 Speaker 10: who make the decent money in this friendship or in 681 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 10: your family, in your circle. Yeah, Now, do you splurge 682 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 10: on them or do you feel like they're a leech? 683 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:13,040 Speaker 3: Or? 684 00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:19,399 Speaker 1: And does money actually change everything? Can we talk about 685 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,439 Speaker 1: something else? And why? Because I don't need my family 686 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:23,400 Speaker 1: then uston listening? 687 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 4: Well, we gotta go on on say it though, Junior, 688 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 4: We'll go ahead, I splurge on them. I guess my 689 00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 4: problem is is when I think you expect it. 690 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:36,040 Speaker 1: Okay, when we sit. 691 00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,640 Speaker 4: Down for dinner at a restaurant and it's fifteen twenty 692 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 4: of us, I think I started. 693 00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:42,480 Speaker 1: You know, I've been telling my wife, I. 694 00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,279 Speaker 4: Said, I think they expect this all the damn to 695 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,640 Speaker 4: Ain't nobody said I got by, I got me and 696 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 4: my wife I got hours. 697 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:52,279 Speaker 1: Don't nobody say that it's just past that envelope down 698 00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,520 Speaker 1: at the time. They're not fit to say that either. 699 00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 10: No, they're not gonna because you're talking to somebody speaking 700 00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:57,600 Speaker 10: up right now. 701 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,279 Speaker 6: Ye see, go ahead, y'all through the whole process. But 702 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,840 Speaker 6: please don't expect them to ever say it. 703 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 1: They donna fix their lips or nothing that ain't fitting 704 00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:09,879 Speaker 1: to come out. 705 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,960 Speaker 6: Don't, don't, don't, don't prepare your ears like what, No, 706 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 6: because they didn't. They didn't say it. They're not fitting 707 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,680 Speaker 6: to say it. They ain't about to say it. Hello, 708 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,440 Speaker 6: be fit and pray for everything. So what I do 709 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,439 Speaker 6: with my family when I'm around them, I just treat 710 00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 6: them first class. Y'all just come on this to life here, 711 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 6: it is welcome. Now when y'all go home, you know, 712 00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:36,000 Speaker 6: I take care of my family. 713 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:36,200 Speaker 3: Now. 714 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 6: You know, my brothers and sisters, they ain't gotta they 715 00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 6: ain't gotta work. I caught here go y'all's you know, 716 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:43,160 Speaker 6: little summer ed month. 717 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:43,560 Speaker 3: Here you go. 718 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:44,399 Speaker 1: I love y'all. 719 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 6: I know I don't want y'all struggling. My little little 720 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:53,560 Speaker 6: baby brod doing good here. After that, that's it. 721 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:57,080 Speaker 1: Mm hm see. But what I did was I had 722 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,839 Speaker 1: to do that because I had to stop. 723 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 6: The constant request fairness coming out air conditioning brin. 724 00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,880 Speaker 1: Uh huh, I need ties. So they kept coming to 725 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:14,759 Speaker 1: you this connection. Notice I went to the doctor. Hold up, 726 00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 1: hold hold you gotta pay the doctor bill. 727 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:24,040 Speaker 6: And you know it becomes a request from two sisters 728 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,520 Speaker 6: a nephew. My nephew ain't never asked me for the 729 00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:31,040 Speaker 6: two sisters, two brothers, just the request. I'm trying to 730 00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:34,799 Speaker 6: fix my garage. Can you help me that? Damn dough? 731 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,800 Speaker 6: It's this lodge and to see, I don't want to 732 00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:42,200 Speaker 6: hear that. So what I do is, I just I 733 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 6: got everybody in the situation here we are that everybody 734 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:49,480 Speaker 6: got a little payroll check coming from here. It is 735 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,480 Speaker 6: every month. You know you're gonna get that all y'all pensions, 736 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,759 Speaker 6: y'all can keep your pensions that you done earned off 737 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 6: your jobs or retirement money and higge your little baby 738 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:02,040 Speaker 6: brother throwing it a little bit more. Now, can you 739 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,040 Speaker 6: make it from that? Because I feel as though you should. 740 00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 6: I really don't see how we can't. 741 00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:11,839 Speaker 1: Get hanging now. 742 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,800 Speaker 10: That's cool because I think a lot of people that 743 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,400 Speaker 10: are listening right now, you know they're the breadwinners of 744 00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:20,920 Speaker 10: their family and friends. This is a common problem that 745 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,480 Speaker 10: you know everybody's dealing with. So it's cool to hear 746 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:23,759 Speaker 10: from you. 747 00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:24,120 Speaker 1: Steve. 748 00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,000 Speaker 7: Well, you're rich enough where you can put your family 749 00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:26,760 Speaker 7: on your payroll. 750 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 3: Now. 751 00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 1: Look, most most people can't do that, But here's what 752 00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:30,320 Speaker 1: I suggest you do. 753 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:30,920 Speaker 7: Thank you. 754 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:32,000 Speaker 1: Here's what you do. 755 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 6: Work out a nominal amount of money or it's a 756 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,719 Speaker 6: word minimal. I don't know what it is. But look, 757 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:42,920 Speaker 6: make work out the small amount of money minimal that 758 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,320 Speaker 6: you can afford that you know they gonna beg you 759 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 6: out of anyway. 760 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:47,200 Speaker 1: Mm hm. 761 00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 6: And just say, look, once a month, I'm gonna send 762 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,799 Speaker 6: you a hundred hundred and fifty. Once a month, I'm 763 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,640 Speaker 6: gonna send you two hundred whatever that number is, right, okay, 764 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,840 Speaker 6: And just here you go, man, take care of yourself. 765 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:02,560 Speaker 1: I got some more questions. 766 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:10,879 Speaker 7: You're listening Morning show. 767 00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:14,200 Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 768 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 12: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today and 769 00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,759 Speaker 12: the subject is my ex wife made my son hate me. 770 00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:23,279 Speaker 12: Wait till you hear this. We'll get into it in 771 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,520 Speaker 12: a little bit. But right now, the nephew is here 772 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,120 Speaker 12: with today's prank phone call. What you got for his 773 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 12: neph The doctor's visit, the doctor's visits? 774 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 3: I know it? Does I know it? 775 00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:38,520 Speaker 1: Let's go. 776 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:44,400 Speaker 3: Okay, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Roger. Please 777 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:45,279 Speaker 3: he's not here. 778 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:46,280 Speaker 9: I take a message. 779 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,719 Speaker 3: My name is Mark, ma'am. I'm calling from the. 780 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 9: Club music down hold on, I'm sorry, say that again. 781 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 3: Okay, can you hear me? 782 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 9: I can hear you now. 783 00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 3: I'm trying to reach Rogers. He's not here, Okay. I'm 784 00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,600 Speaker 3: calling from from the clinic, from doctor Robert's office and 785 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 3: trying to get some information to him. When do you 786 00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,279 Speaker 3: know what he actually be in? No? 787 00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:10,279 Speaker 9: Actually I don't. Is everything okay? 788 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:13,400 Speaker 3: Uh? Well, you know everything's fine. I mean, nothing that 789 00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 3: can't be handled. But we were trying to actually get 790 00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 3: some information to him so that he can actually come 791 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:20,600 Speaker 3: back in for the results. 792 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:23,880 Speaker 9: Okay, well I don't. I don't know when I can. 793 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 9: He's supposed to be here now, I'm not sure when 794 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 9: I can tell you he's going to be back. 795 00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,839 Speaker 3: Who I'm sorry I didn't ask you earlier. Man. Who 796 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:32,680 Speaker 3: am I actually speaking with? 797 00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:36,919 Speaker 9: This is his girlfriend and is Jen Jen? 798 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,759 Speaker 3: Okay, so Jan, you don't you say you don't know, 799 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,399 Speaker 3: you don't have an idea when he'll be back. 800 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 9: No, it's trying to make me kind of give a 801 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:46,480 Speaker 9: little concern though. 802 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:50,080 Speaker 3: No, no, no, wow, Okay, I'll tell you what. This 803 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 3: is the number that he actually left us to give 804 00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 3: him a call on his results, and we're not getting 805 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 3: an answer. I don't have another number on hand. Do 806 00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,440 Speaker 3: you have any specific time I can actually all back 807 00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,840 Speaker 3: and maybe I'll get him again. 808 00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 9: I'm you're making my stomach is getting nervous right now. 809 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 9: What is what is the problem? 810 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 3: Well, actually you know what is, ma'am. As mister Rogers 811 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,640 Speaker 3: came in for UH to take a few tests, and 812 00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 3: he took some tests and we actually have the results 813 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:17,920 Speaker 3: in and we'd actually really like for him to come back. 814 00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:19,759 Speaker 9: I don't know anything about it. I'm sorry, I didn't 815 00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 9: mean to interrupt you, but I don't know anything about 816 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,920 Speaker 9: any tests. He hasn't told me anything about going to 817 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,040 Speaker 9: a clinic or anything like that. I see, So what 818 00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,439 Speaker 9: kind of tests are you talking about? 819 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,239 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I'm not really not at liberty to 820 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 3: give you any kind of information unless you're actually on 821 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 3: the paperwork. So you know, it's not even something that 822 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,719 Speaker 3: I can discuss unless the patient has signed off that 823 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,360 Speaker 3: you are the next and ken or the person that 824 00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:42,680 Speaker 3: can we can actually give the information to you. 825 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:46,480 Speaker 9: You do know you I do, and I'm pretty certain, 826 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,000 Speaker 9: I mean the way we operate in this house, so 827 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,320 Speaker 9: I'm pretty certain that that I'm on the paperwork. So 828 00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,360 Speaker 9: would you see he pull up. 829 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 3: Roger stuff on computer here and I'll see what I 830 00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,600 Speaker 3: give me one second, please, sure, okay, okay, let's see now. 831 00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,400 Speaker 3: Let me scroll down for next to Ken. Okay, I 832 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:05,920 Speaker 3: got a Janis. 833 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:07,320 Speaker 1: That is me. 834 00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 9: I mean everybody called me jam, but that's me Janis. 835 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:12,839 Speaker 3: Wow. Okay, tell me your name again. 836 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:13,919 Speaker 9: I'm sorry, what's your name again? 837 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,239 Speaker 3: Mark? Mark? Like I said, I'm the clerk here at 838 00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:19,480 Speaker 3: doctor Robert Bofers, I guess I am at Liberty to 839 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:22,919 Speaker 3: tell you what's going on? Please do mister Roger came 840 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:27,920 Speaker 3: in and took some STD test STD yes, And I 841 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,239 Speaker 3: guess at this point I should just maybe both of 842 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,320 Speaker 3: you guys would come in and wait, wait a minute, 843 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 3: way everybody, no, no. 844 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:38,160 Speaker 9: No, no, no, no no, I need you to finish 845 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:38,919 Speaker 9: what you were just saying. 846 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:40,960 Speaker 3: Well, no, that's what I'm saying. Man. What has happened 847 00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:44,640 Speaker 3: is he's been diagnosed with as well as. 848 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,400 Speaker 9: You got to be kidding me. You have got to 849 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,480 Speaker 9: be kidding me. Okay, I'm not hearing this. 850 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:53,360 Speaker 3: Seconds. 851 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 9: See what that means? Do you understand that he lives 852 00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,759 Speaker 9: in my household? Do you understand what that means that 853 00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,960 Speaker 9: he has been dipping somewhere else because I have been 854 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 9: not doing anything that would even come close to bringing 855 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:09,440 Speaker 9: something to him like that. So it's our parents that 856 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,239 Speaker 9: this man has been outside of my household and do 857 00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:13,960 Speaker 9: it when he has no business doing it, and bring 858 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:14,440 Speaker 9: it back in. 859 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:18,040 Speaker 3: Man, I'm not at liberty making any accusations like that. 860 00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:20,239 Speaker 3: I cannot say anything like that. All I can say 861 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:22,120 Speaker 3: is I'd like for both of you. You know, it'd 862 00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:23,279 Speaker 3: be good for both of you guys to come in 863 00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 3: because they will tell you about this is something treatable, 864 00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 3: it is curable. 865 00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,640 Speaker 9: Care about it being treatable or curable. What I care 866 00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 9: about is the fact that he apparently had been somewhere 867 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,840 Speaker 9: with some trick and brought something back home to my household. 868 00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:40,399 Speaker 9: That's what I care about. 869 00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:43,640 Speaker 3: I do understand that, Missus Dannis. I do, but you 870 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 3: have to understand my position and what I'm trying to do. 871 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:46,960 Speaker 3: I'm just reaching out. 872 00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 9: And well, listen, you happen to call my household, you 873 00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:51,239 Speaker 9: just have to have to be on the end, on 874 00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,640 Speaker 9: the other side of it. I'm sorry you're getting most 875 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 9: of it, but I tell you what what you need 876 00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,759 Speaker 9: to do is you need to make him an appointment 877 00:46:58,000 --> 00:46:59,160 Speaker 9: and I will meet him there. 878 00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:01,320 Speaker 3: He will be wait wait, wait, wait, wait when he 879 00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:03,239 Speaker 3: wait a minute, wait a minute, I'm sorry. 880 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,080 Speaker 9: You need to make him an appointment to come out 881 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:08,280 Speaker 9: to take a look at these results you're talking about. 882 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,359 Speaker 9: And guess who will show up at the door before 883 00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:11,040 Speaker 9: he gets there? 884 00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,480 Speaker 3: Me, that's what I'm even with three. I mean, since 885 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 3: you're the next Mexican, wouldn't it better for you just 886 00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,239 Speaker 3: needs it to tell him what's going long? 887 00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,840 Speaker 9: Since I'm net, you know this is the plan you 888 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:22,000 Speaker 9: need to give him. You need to give him a 889 00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:23,919 Speaker 9: call and give you a steal phone number you haven't. 890 00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,239 Speaker 3: Yes, I have a pig. Okay, I got it. 891 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,720 Speaker 9: Okay, you call him a set of twelve new appointment. 892 00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 9: Trust me when I tell you when he walks through 893 00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:35,800 Speaker 9: that door and seize my faith, he will know. 894 00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, ms min Setlls. I'm not trying to create 895 00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:44,920 Speaker 3: chaos to let mister Roger know that we need him 896 00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:46,320 Speaker 3: to come actually into the building. 897 00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:49,719 Speaker 9: I could give to about a call. All I know 898 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,760 Speaker 9: is you make that appointment. I will get there before 899 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,960 Speaker 9: he gets there and his own I'm telling you that's 900 00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:57,080 Speaker 9: how it's gonna run. 901 00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,720 Speaker 3: Do you understand me, miss miss Mizeid? I can't allow 902 00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 3: any chaos to be going on in the building. I 903 00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 3: cannot allow that. Let me know you're create it. 904 00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 9: Let me tell you something I don't care. I could 905 00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:10,440 Speaker 9: care less about what you feel about it and what 906 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,560 Speaker 9: you can and can. All I'm telling you is you. 907 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,520 Speaker 3: Looking for mister Rogers and you call him soon to 908 00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:21,480 Speaker 3: be white. 909 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 9: Correction correction, soon to not be white. 910 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,440 Speaker 3: I got one more thing I do need to tell you, though, 911 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:29,560 Speaker 3: miss you know what. 912 00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 9: I can't deal with another thing. I swear to God, 913 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:32,799 Speaker 9: don't tell me everything out. 914 00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 3: But I do have a one. 915 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,719 Speaker 9: Make your appointment. That's all I care about. 916 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:39,440 Speaker 3: You make your appointment, will make your point. But I 917 00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:41,360 Speaker 3: need you to ask to somebody when you come to 918 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,200 Speaker 3: the clinic. I need you to ask for one person 919 00:48:43,440 --> 00:48:44,680 Speaker 3: and then they will take care of you. 920 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:46,840 Speaker 9: Who do I need to ask for us? 921 00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,600 Speaker 3: Okay, you need to ask for nephew Tommy from the 922 00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,440 Speaker 3: Steve Harvey Morning Show, because that's who I am. You 923 00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,680 Speaker 3: just got pranked by your husband, Roger. 924 00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:03,360 Speaker 9: You know what my on it tell me tell me 925 00:49:03,520 --> 00:49:07,560 Speaker 9: I listened to you everyone. I said, no, Oh my goodness, 926 00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:10,480 Speaker 9: I am so embarrassed. And wait till I see. 927 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:12,839 Speaker 3: Tell me, are you all right. 928 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:17,840 Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, I am I am over. 929 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:19,120 Speaker 3: I'm done. I'm done. 930 00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:20,880 Speaker 9: I can't believe I. 931 00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:23,560 Speaker 3: Got I got one more thing. I got to ask. Okay, 932 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,360 Speaker 3: what is the baddest that I mean, the baddest radio 933 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,120 Speaker 3: show in the land, the. 934 00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,600 Speaker 9: One I wake up to every morning, the Steve Sarby 935 00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:31,279 Speaker 9: Morning Show. 936 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,759 Speaker 1: Come on, come on? 937 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:45,600 Speaker 7: Oh I felt her pain? 938 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,640 Speaker 11: What is all this finish off? 939 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:54,680 Speaker 1: If you really gave her disease? 940 00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:54,879 Speaker 3: Though? 941 00:49:54,920 --> 00:50:03,319 Speaker 2: When really funny? Oh my god, good one, Johnny, that's 942 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:03,719 Speaker 2: the deal with. 943 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:08,839 Speaker 1: Man for her? 944 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:09,759 Speaker 7: I wore my heart. 945 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:13,720 Speaker 1: Just think you're about to prank. 946 00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:16,960 Speaker 12: I guess that's why they call you the King of 947 00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:19,399 Speaker 12: frank He's the king. 948 00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm gonna be with Earthquake, shaking it up Father 949 00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:27,800 Speaker 1: to Comedy. Get over it. 950 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,760 Speaker 4: I'm with Earthquake Father's Day Comedy show New Jersey Pack. Baby, 951 00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:36,000 Speaker 4: that's going down Father's Day Night. That is June eighteenth 952 00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,400 Speaker 4: at the New Jersey Pack. Father's Day. Tickets are on 953 00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:41,359 Speaker 4: sale right now. You don't want to miss it. I'm 954 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,120 Speaker 4: shaking it up with the one and only earthquake in 955 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 4: the building. So y'all get ready, all right, laying in 956 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:48,680 Speaker 4: the cut, I've been getting calls. 957 00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 1: They blowing me up. I have not been there in 958 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,000 Speaker 1: a very long time, Los Angeles. 959 00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:58,240 Speaker 4: Should I say Redundo Beach Performing Arts Center, Redundo Beach 960 00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,880 Speaker 4: Performing Art Center, July twhen third, nephew, Timmy, your friends 961 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:04,560 Speaker 4: take us to the old sale right now, stop blowing 962 00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 4: me up. 963 00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to show up and show out. 964 00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:11,239 Speaker 4: July twenty third, Rodondo Beach, California, Performing a cent. 965 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,680 Speaker 1: My nephew is coming to Dad. Oh dear, I can't wait. 966 00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:17,839 Speaker 7: All right, thanks to NEF my ex wife made sure 967 00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 7: my son hates me. Strawberry Letter up next, you're. 968 00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:26,120 Speaker 12: Listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, time now 969 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:31,480 Speaker 12: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 970 00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,960 Speaker 12: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM 971 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:38,080 Speaker 12: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. 972 00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 7: We could be reading your letter live on the air, 973 00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:43,879 Speaker 7: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now. 974 00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:46,640 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for 975 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 1: you here. It is Strawberry Letter. 976 00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 12: Subject my wife made sure my son hates me. Do 977 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,880 Speaker 12: Stephen Shirley. I'm going to jump right on end. I 978 00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,960 Speaker 12: cheated on my wife two years ago with a woman 979 00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,320 Speaker 12: that constantly threatened to call my wife. 980 00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,040 Speaker 7: When she didn't get what she wanted. 981 00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 12: This went on two years until I ran out of 982 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,880 Speaker 12: money and decided to end the affair. 983 00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:14,799 Speaker 7: This woman called my wife a few days later. 984 00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:18,800 Speaker 12: I was out cutting the yard when my wife when 985 00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,720 Speaker 12: she called my house and my wife answered. I walked 986 00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 12: in and my wife was on the speaker phone listening 987 00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:29,000 Speaker 12: to my side chicks, with my son sitting there listening 988 00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:32,279 Speaker 12: to everything. He was twelve years old at the time, 989 00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,120 Speaker 12: and I made him leave the room, but he had 990 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:39,040 Speaker 12: already heard enough. My relationship with him was ruined. 991 00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:39,960 Speaker 1: After that day. 992 00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:43,399 Speaker 12: My home life was terrible too, so I moved out 993 00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:46,920 Speaker 12: after my wife served me with divorce papers. 994 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:49,160 Speaker 7: We are in the process of. 995 00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:52,400 Speaker 12: Discussing who will get custody of our son, and I 996 00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:56,080 Speaker 12: haven't seen him in months. His mother's brainwatched him to 997 00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:59,520 Speaker 12: think I'm a no good cheater and liar. She has 998 00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:01,960 Speaker 12: him in the middle of grown folks business, and when 999 00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 12: we talk, she's always on speakerphone so my son can 1000 00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:09,200 Speaker 12: hear all of the conversation. She sends me text messages 1001 00:53:09,280 --> 00:53:12,319 Speaker 12: with our son on the text thread, and she's usually. 1002 00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,440 Speaker 7: Calling me names and cursing me out. 1003 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,480 Speaker 12: She's brought up all kinds of things that have happened 1004 00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,719 Speaker 12: in our marriage, and my son doesn't need to know 1005 00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:23,000 Speaker 12: all of that. I'm dying to see him, so I 1006 00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:25,840 Speaker 12: send him a text asking him to have dinner with 1007 00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 12: me one day soon. He sent me the most disrespectful 1008 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:33,200 Speaker 12: reply a child could send a father. 1009 00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:36,120 Speaker 7: I wanted to go snatch him up real quick, but 1010 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:37,040 Speaker 7: I can't. 1011 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:40,320 Speaker 12: This is not the boy I raised. He needs his 1012 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:43,879 Speaker 12: father back in his life. How can I reverse all 1013 00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 12: of this brainwashing? Please advise? Well, I don't know if 1014 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:49,120 Speaker 12: you're going to be able to do that. 1015 00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,399 Speaker 7: And I have to say this. Everything in this letter 1016 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:54,399 Speaker 7: is just terrible. Everything in this letter, I mean. 1017 00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:59,120 Speaker 12: You cheated for the lamest excuse ever, I mean in 1018 00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:02,000 Speaker 12: the history of she just say you cheated or wanted 1019 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,640 Speaker 12: to cheat, cheating because this woman was gonna call your 1020 00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:06,640 Speaker 12: wife if you didn't cheat with her. 1021 00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 7: It's about the stupidest thing ever, I mean. And then 1022 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:14,360 Speaker 7: you cheated with her for two years. She scared you 1023 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:17,359 Speaker 7: for two years. Okay, that's just dumb. 1024 00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,400 Speaker 12: You know you should have told your wife about the 1025 00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:24,800 Speaker 12: threats when they started, and then call the woman's bluff 1026 00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,239 Speaker 12: and not cheat it since she ended up calling your 1027 00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:31,440 Speaker 12: wife anyway, you know. I also, this is what I 1028 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:34,200 Speaker 12: don't hear in this letter. I don't hear any remorse 1029 00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,279 Speaker 12: from you. I hear no remorse from you. 1030 00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 7: About what you did. 1031 00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 12: I mean, did you try to fix it, did you 1032 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:42,840 Speaker 12: try to apologize, did you try anything anything? 1033 00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:43,799 Speaker 2: I mean? 1034 00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,600 Speaker 12: And of course your wife wanted to hurt you, and 1035 00:54:46,719 --> 00:54:49,320 Speaker 12: she knows your son is the way to get at you. 1036 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 12: I mean, what she did is beyond wrong. What she 1037 00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:56,879 Speaker 12: did is beyond wrong. There's no way your son should 1038 00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,200 Speaker 12: have been in the middle, as you say, grown folks business. 1039 00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 7: If she an ally, she could have talked to another adult. 1040 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 3: You know. 1041 00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 12: She tainted the boy now, made herself look like a victim, 1042 00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:12,120 Speaker 12: and yeah, made you hate him, made your son hate 1043 00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:13,360 Speaker 12: you and disrespect you. 1044 00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:16,880 Speaker 7: I'm not blaming your wife. I'm not blaming her for anything. 1045 00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:18,120 Speaker 1: This is your fault. 1046 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,520 Speaker 12: This is you, And of course your your son doesn't 1047 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:23,760 Speaker 12: want to see his mom hurt and going through because 1048 00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:28,000 Speaker 12: of you. People get divorced every day, and parents do 1049 00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:30,560 Speaker 12: get joint custody of a kid. So hopefully during the 1050 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:35,320 Speaker 12: divorce that'll work itself out. But yeah, you, sir, created 1051 00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:39,320 Speaker 12: all of this because of your cheating. Now the family's broken. 1052 00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 12: But you got to get to your son some kind 1053 00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:46,120 Speaker 12: of way. You gotta apologize to him. You gotta do something. 1054 00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:50,080 Speaker 12: You got to talk to your son and not say 1055 00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:53,040 Speaker 12: anything bad about his mom like you tried to, you know, 1056 00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:54,439 Speaker 12: allude to in the letter. 1057 00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 7: None of that. 1058 00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:58,640 Speaker 12: I don't agree with anything she's done either. And your 1059 00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:01,279 Speaker 12: son is already damaged by what she did, you know, 1060 00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,840 Speaker 12: letting him hear everything. So you got to get to 1061 00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:05,920 Speaker 12: a counselor you got to talk to him a therapist, 1062 00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:10,440 Speaker 12: the pastor Jesus someone to heal this relationship. Hopefully, like 1063 00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,840 Speaker 12: I said, the divorce, when you get that, when you 1064 00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:16,160 Speaker 12: get custody, you know, he can begin to understand that 1065 00:56:16,320 --> 00:56:17,200 Speaker 12: you do love him. 1066 00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:19,040 Speaker 1: Steve. 1067 00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:23,399 Speaker 6: See, I don't think this is a letter at all 1068 00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:29,160 Speaker 6: about reconciliation. I don't think it is at all. And 1069 00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,399 Speaker 6: I think the man came right on when he said, 1070 00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:35,360 Speaker 6: I'm gonna just jump right on it. I cheated on 1071 00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:38,960 Speaker 6: my wife two years ago. He already noticed his fault. 1072 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:40,480 Speaker 4: He hit that. 1073 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:45,360 Speaker 6: I'm just saying he knows this is his fault with 1074 00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:48,560 Speaker 6: a woman who constantly threatened to call my wife when 1075 00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:49,880 Speaker 6: she didn't get what she wanted. 1076 00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:53,040 Speaker 1: See, now that's not a threat. If you don't stay 1077 00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:54,200 Speaker 1: with me, I'm gonna call your wife. 1078 00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:58,680 Speaker 6: It could be anything she wanted, because he said, like 1079 00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:02,160 Speaker 6: he was buying her stuff, getting her stuff, probably helping her, 1080 00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:04,560 Speaker 6: you know, with the bills and all this hit. And 1081 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:07,480 Speaker 6: when she don't give something she want her way for 1082 00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:09,799 Speaker 6: him to come over at a certain time, then I'm. 1083 00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:10,959 Speaker 1: Threaten to call your wife. 1084 00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,440 Speaker 6: This went on for two years, and this is the 1085 00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 6: killer part, he says, until I ran out of money 1086 00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:22,160 Speaker 6: and decided to end the affair. See, this affair was 1087 00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:27,040 Speaker 6: based around the money he was giving the mistress. So 1088 00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:30,400 Speaker 6: when the mistress couldn't get what she want and would 1089 00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:32,320 Speaker 6: threat out need this, you need to buy me that 1090 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,080 Speaker 6: din shit, threatened to call the wife. 1091 00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:35,960 Speaker 1: He kept it going for two years. 1092 00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:40,080 Speaker 6: He liked the little sideline stuff, but it was costing 1093 00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:42,840 Speaker 6: him too much, so then he decided to end the affair. 1094 00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:47,000 Speaker 1: What should he didn't have to do any of this? 1095 00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:52,480 Speaker 6: He was cheating with the woman. He was buying her stuff. 1096 00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,600 Speaker 6: She wanted more when he didn't have the money to 1097 00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:56,840 Speaker 6: give her. Once she threatened to call him, he tried 1098 00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:58,640 Speaker 6: to keep it until he ran out of money. 1099 00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:01,680 Speaker 12: I what is is, we'll come back with purchue of 1100 00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:05,040 Speaker 12: your response. Girl at twenty three minutes after you. 1101 00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:08,280 Speaker 1: And straightened her letter and her out, come on back. 1102 00:58:08,920 --> 00:58:09,920 Speaker 7: You straightened him out. 1103 00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 1: He needs send you out. 1104 00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 7: My ex wife made sure my son hates. 1105 00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:15,120 Speaker 1: Me is the subject? 1106 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:18,400 Speaker 7: Will be back right after this. You're listening, she would 1107 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:19,840 Speaker 7: hard Morning show. 1108 00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:23,360 Speaker 12: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1109 00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:26,360 Speaker 12: The subject my ex wife made my son hate me? 1110 00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:27,520 Speaker 1: All right. 1111 00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:29,960 Speaker 6: Man writes a letter that said he gonna jump right 1112 00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 6: on it. Cheated on his wife two years ago. He 1113 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:35,960 Speaker 6: admitted that he know he wrong with a woman that 1114 00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,600 Speaker 6: constantly threatened to call my wife when she didn't get 1115 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:41,280 Speaker 6: what she wanted. That could be I want you to 1116 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:44,080 Speaker 6: come over now. That could be I want a new dress. 1117 00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:45,880 Speaker 6: That could be I want you to fix my car. 1118 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:48,240 Speaker 6: That could be I need help with these bills. It 1119 00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 6: could be anything she wanted, but she would threaten to 1120 00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:51,560 Speaker 6: call wife. 1121 00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:51,760 Speaker 1: Now. 1122 00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,040 Speaker 6: He tried to keep it up, and he said, this 1123 00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:57,600 Speaker 6: went on for two years until I ran out of money. 1124 00:58:59,400 --> 00:59:01,720 Speaker 6: And I said, man, now I got to end this affair. 1125 00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:05,280 Speaker 6: Because that affair he was in. It might have been sexual, 1126 00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:06,440 Speaker 6: but it was tied to money. 1127 00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:07,960 Speaker 1: Sugar. 1128 00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:13,480 Speaker 6: Daddy ran out of sugar. He just daddy, now, So 1129 00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:16,160 Speaker 6: that's what happened. I was out cutting the yard when 1130 00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:17,960 Speaker 6: she called my house and my wife answered. 1131 00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,120 Speaker 1: Walked in. Wife on the speakerphone listening to my side. Chick, 1132 00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,600 Speaker 1: he know he's wrong. My son was sitting there listening 1133 00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:24,960 Speaker 1: to everything. 1134 00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,520 Speaker 6: He was twelve years old at the time, and I 1135 00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:29,880 Speaker 6: made him leave the room, but he had already heard enough. 1136 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:33,520 Speaker 1: My relationship with him was ruined after that day. 1137 00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:37,400 Speaker 6: My home life was terrible too, so I moved out 1138 00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:39,240 Speaker 6: after my wife served. 1139 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 1: Me with divorce papers. So this isn't about a reconciliation. 1140 00:59:42,720 --> 00:59:43,240 Speaker 1: It's over. 1141 00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:47,960 Speaker 6: He caused it. His fault bound hit the problem. We 1142 00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:50,720 Speaker 6: are in the process of discussion who will get custody 1143 00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:56,040 Speaker 6: of our son dog. You not getting custody. You could 1144 00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:59,280 Speaker 6: get joint custody. You know you might get knocked down 1145 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,200 Speaker 6: to visitation, but you're not getting cussed. You can stop 1146 01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:06,160 Speaker 6: this argument right now. I haven't seen him in months. 1147 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,560 Speaker 6: His mother has brainwashed him to think I'm a no 1148 01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:11,439 Speaker 6: good cheetah and liar. She has him in the middle 1149 01:00:11,440 --> 01:00:14,040 Speaker 6: of grown folks business, and when we talk, she's always 1150 01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,920 Speaker 6: on speakerphone, so my son can hear all of the conversation. 1151 01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:21,200 Speaker 6: Sureley and I both agree she's wrong for this. I'm 1152 01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:23,800 Speaker 6: gonna tell you at the end. Sends me text messages 1153 01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:28,439 Speaker 6: with our son on the text thread. Oh she she wrong, man, 1154 01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:30,480 Speaker 6: But I'm gonna tell you why she's doing this too, 1155 01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,400 Speaker 6: calling your names and cussing me out. She's brought off 1156 01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,120 Speaker 6: all kinds of things that happened in I marriage, and 1157 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,280 Speaker 6: my son don't need to know all that. I'm dying 1158 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:38,880 Speaker 6: to see him. So when I send him a text 1159 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,600 Speaker 6: asking him to have dinner with me one day soon, 1160 01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:45,120 Speaker 6: he sent me the most disrespectful reply a child could send. 1161 01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:45,880 Speaker 1: The father. 1162 01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:48,960 Speaker 6: I want to go snatch him up real quick, but 1163 01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:52,240 Speaker 6: I can't. This is not the boy I raise. He 1164 01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:54,600 Speaker 6: needs his father back in his life. How can I 1165 01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:58,280 Speaker 6: reverse all the brain washing? Please adviyes. Well, see, here's 1166 01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:01,480 Speaker 6: a deal. She has a accomplished what she wanted to do. 1167 01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:08,400 Speaker 6: But here's the problem. She won, but he lost, not 1168 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:12,840 Speaker 6: you have lost. Her son has lost because he not 1169 01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:16,120 Speaker 6: only does she not have a husband, but now she 1170 01:01:16,280 --> 01:01:18,880 Speaker 6: got her son thinking he ain't got a father, and 1171 01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:19,760 Speaker 6: it don't have to be. 1172 01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:26,200 Speaker 1: Because here's my opinion in this whole thing. When your husband. 1173 01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:31,720 Speaker 6: Doesn't prove to be a great husband, it doesn't mean 1174 01:01:32,040 --> 01:01:37,280 Speaker 6: that he's not a good father. Those are two different 1175 01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:42,000 Speaker 6: roles completely, And when I say that, I meaning that 1176 01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:45,600 Speaker 6: the two roles can be separated and each can be 1177 01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:47,959 Speaker 6: performed extremely well. 1178 01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:51,440 Speaker 1: You can be a great husband and never have any children. 1179 01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:56,400 Speaker 6: You can be a great father, but you don't necessarily 1180 01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:57,880 Speaker 6: make you a great husband. 1181 01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:01,000 Speaker 1: So the man's not a great husband. 1182 01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:04,000 Speaker 6: Got that, But that don't mean he ain't a great father. 1183 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:09,680 Speaker 6: But as a scorn woman or man, tying the two 1184 01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:13,960 Speaker 6: together only hurts the child. The child is crushed. 1185 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:17,880 Speaker 1: Oh you whipping the fathers behind. But do you know that? 1186 01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,880 Speaker 6: You know in the long run that man is still 1187 01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,680 Speaker 6: a man no matter what you say about him. But 1188 01:02:23,840 --> 01:02:29,680 Speaker 6: you are hindering your son's development into man because the 1189 01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,120 Speaker 6: one person that can teach him how to be a man, 1190 01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:37,960 Speaker 6: you've discredited him because he wasn't a good husband. See, 1191 01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:40,760 Speaker 6: y'all just wasn't it for each other? For whatever the 1192 01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:44,120 Speaker 6: reason was. He wrong for cheating one hundred percent one 1193 01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 6: hundred percent. But because he's not a good husband, don't 1194 01:02:47,600 --> 01:02:50,960 Speaker 6: make him not a good father. So now you've brainwashed 1195 01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,880 Speaker 6: the child and the hating his own father, and you win. 1196 01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:57,920 Speaker 6: But guess what your child loses. And y'all got to 1197 01:02:57,920 --> 01:02:58,320 Speaker 6: stop that. 1198 01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:01,400 Speaker 1: This is knowledge of it. If you are out there, 1199 01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:04,520 Speaker 1: you have to stop that. If you are in the. 1200 01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:06,880 Speaker 6: Process of using your child as a pond and your 1201 01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:10,120 Speaker 6: divorce and your relationship, you have to stop that. 1202 01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:15,920 Speaker 1: I am speaking from experience. You have to stop that. 1203 01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:19,560 Speaker 6: It's not for you to do this to this boy, 1204 01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:23,760 Speaker 6: because I have news for you. One day, this boy's 1205 01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:27,440 Speaker 6: gonna grow up and he gonna know the truth. And 1206 01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:30,640 Speaker 6: as this boy grows up, this boy's gonna make mistakes 1207 01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 6: of his own and he's gonna start to understand that 1208 01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:37,959 Speaker 6: mistakes happen in life. But because he wasn't a great 1209 01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:40,520 Speaker 6: husband to you don't mean that he wasn't a great 1210 01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:43,600 Speaker 6: father to this boy. And you're doing nothing but damaging 1211 01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:46,840 Speaker 6: the boy. And they tell you all the time. Listen, 1212 01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:50,600 Speaker 6: I don't let my children hear me say nothing about 1213 01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:51,760 Speaker 6: their mother's disparage. 1214 01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:57,000 Speaker 1: Nothing. Oh I could, but I don't now them. 1215 01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:59,480 Speaker 6: On the other hand, Oh, they ain't done me, done 1216 01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:03,560 Speaker 6: me like like like a day book or guess what 1217 01:04:04,720 --> 01:04:06,880 Speaker 6: at the end, the truth comes out hanging that dog. 1218 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:09,400 Speaker 1: I support the man in this letter. 1219 01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:11,480 Speaker 7: I support the child. 1220 01:04:14,640 --> 01:04:19,000 Speaker 12: All right, well wow, okay, Well we'll continue this conversation 1221 01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:21,760 Speaker 12: when we come back. My ex wife made sure my 1222 01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:23,800 Speaker 12: son hates me. Steve and I agree on that that 1223 01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:28,000 Speaker 12: that is definitely wrong and we have some personal experiences 1224 01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:29,280 Speaker 12: to talk about when we come back. 1225 01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:31,280 Speaker 1: We all do right after this. 1226 01:04:32,160 --> 01:04:34,840 Speaker 7: You're listening, Steve Hardy Morning Show. 1227 01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:39,640 Speaker 12: All right, Steve, this this Strawberry letter was was interesting. 1228 01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:44,200 Speaker 12: My ex wife made sure my son hates me, you know, 1229 01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:46,040 Speaker 12: I mean, we can relate to it. 1230 01:04:46,160 --> 01:04:48,280 Speaker 7: We can relate to it. We've both been divorced on 1231 01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:53,440 Speaker 7: the show. You know, full disclosure, my first marriage. 1232 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:56,520 Speaker 12: Didn't go well, didn't end well, but we had a 1233 01:04:56,560 --> 01:05:00,280 Speaker 12: beautiful child out of that relationship. And you know, I'm 1234 01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:03,920 Speaker 12: not ashamed to admit that I was very bitter. I 1235 01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:05,840 Speaker 12: was very, very bitter when we broke up. 1236 01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:07,560 Speaker 3: Uh. 1237 01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:10,680 Speaker 12: You know, you get to a dark place sometimes you're angry, 1238 01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:14,360 Speaker 12: you're bitter, and you know, I. 1239 01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:15,040 Speaker 1: Was on the radio. 1240 01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:16,200 Speaker 7: I was on the radio in LA. 1241 01:05:16,360 --> 01:05:18,760 Speaker 12: A lot of people who listened during that time, probably 1242 01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:20,560 Speaker 12: well hopefully they don't remember. 1243 01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:22,240 Speaker 7: It was so long ago. But yeah, I used to 1244 01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:22,920 Speaker 7: bad man. 1245 01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:28,080 Speaker 12: I used to really bad mouth my ex husband on 1246 01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:32,440 Speaker 12: the air constantly because you know, something would happen that 1247 01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:35,120 Speaker 12: it would remind me or you know, trigger me or 1248 01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:37,760 Speaker 12: something like that, and I just go in, you know, 1249 01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:40,439 Speaker 12: or say one thing, you call him a deadbeat dad 1250 01:05:40,600 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 12: or whatever whatever, and uh, just just not a good look, 1251 01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:47,840 Speaker 12: you know when you look back from now. 1252 01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:50,280 Speaker 7: Oh, it was horrible. 1253 01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:52,480 Speaker 12: I mean I had to stop myself. You know, you grow, 1254 01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:54,760 Speaker 12: you change, people change, they do. 1255 01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:55,520 Speaker 16: Uh. 1256 01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:57,200 Speaker 7: I had to forgive him that. 1257 01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:01,000 Speaker 12: It started with that forgiveness be because forgiveness is not 1258 01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:01,960 Speaker 12: for the other person. 1259 01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:04,280 Speaker 7: We talk about that a lot on this show. Forgiveness, 1260 01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:04,720 Speaker 7: it's for you. 1261 01:06:05,280 --> 01:06:08,919 Speaker 12: Once I forgave him, then I could start to heal 1262 01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:11,520 Speaker 12: and I stopped and I apologized on the air. I 1263 01:06:11,600 --> 01:06:14,160 Speaker 12: apologized to him for saying that because we had a child, 1264 01:06:14,400 --> 01:06:16,440 Speaker 12: I never wanted her to grow up. And you know 1265 01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:18,680 Speaker 12: have people saying, well, your mom used to do this 1266 01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:21,600 Speaker 12: talk about your I never wanted that, so you know. 1267 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:22,919 Speaker 1: Mine ain't feel that way. 1268 01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,640 Speaker 7: She wouldn't do that. You're too much of a gentleman 1269 01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:32,120 Speaker 7: to do that. 1270 01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:37,600 Speaker 6: Well, I would never talk about my sons and daughters 1271 01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:40,520 Speaker 6: mothers in a disparaging way publicly. 1272 01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:41,920 Speaker 1: I would never do that. 1273 01:06:42,560 --> 01:06:42,760 Speaker 3: You know. 1274 01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:46,600 Speaker 6: I have my comments awhile in my own personal life 1275 01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:49,360 Speaker 6: because I'm human, but never on the air. 1276 01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:51,160 Speaker 1: Because I taught my sons. 1277 01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:54,600 Speaker 6: I raised my sons to honor their mothers like I 1278 01:06:54,800 --> 01:06:58,200 Speaker 6: was raised to honor mind and to defeending her at 1279 01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:01,320 Speaker 6: all costs. I can't they can't see me talking about it. 1280 01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 6: And then I asked him not to honor them. 1281 01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:06,600 Speaker 1: But you know, my my ex. 1282 01:07:08,040 --> 01:07:10,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, but my ex went on a complete and total 1283 01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:14,880 Speaker 6: smear campaign out of out of her anger and scoring 1284 01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:15,960 Speaker 6: for years. 1285 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:18,320 Speaker 1: I understand, for years. 1286 01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:24,400 Speaker 6: I mean just attack, attack, attack, attack. You're so yeah, 1287 01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:27,760 Speaker 6: and you know I thank god I had Marjorie. 1288 01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:31,400 Speaker 1: You know, a strong woman who knew me. You can 1289 01:07:31,480 --> 01:07:31,800 Speaker 1: say no. 1290 01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:35,000 Speaker 12: All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 1291 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:36,840 Speaker 12: Harvey Morning Show right after this. 1292 01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:45,960 Speaker 7: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, fella's time for comedy. Runette, Jacob, 1293 01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:47,439 Speaker 7: quickly set this up again. 1294 01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:51,240 Speaker 5: Please, you test us every week, you test our comedy ability. 1295 01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:54,640 Speaker 5: Give us five subjects, put them on the wheel, spend 1296 01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:56,080 Speaker 5: the wheel, which stop? 1297 01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:56,920 Speaker 4: We can do it? 1298 01:07:57,040 --> 01:07:57,480 Speaker 1: What you got? 1299 01:07:57,560 --> 01:07:57,840 Speaker 4: All right? 1300 01:07:58,160 --> 01:07:58,200 Speaker 3: Go? 1301 01:07:58,440 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, here's the tacics. I'umber one people I hate. 1302 01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:04,320 Speaker 1: On my job. Many can do that. 1303 01:08:05,320 --> 01:08:07,640 Speaker 7: Number two, your mama keeps hitting on me. 1304 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:10,200 Speaker 13: Like that. 1305 01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:16,400 Speaker 7: Number three I thought they was dead already. Number four 1306 01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:22,360 Speaker 7: Jehovah's witness. Number five people would a clean house? 1307 01:08:26,120 --> 01:08:27,720 Speaker 2: Put them on the wheel. Spin the wheel with your 1308 01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:42,439 Speaker 2: people I hate on my job. 1309 01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:43,960 Speaker 10: Let me. 1310 01:08:46,160 --> 01:08:48,360 Speaker 5: You know the people on your job who bring that 1311 01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:52,120 Speaker 5: food item that don't nobody want any damn way. Oh yeah, 1312 01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:54,160 Speaker 5: but they all booze you about it. First of all, 1313 01:08:54,640 --> 01:09:01,800 Speaker 5: don't nobody like why they bring it to work and 1314 01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:04,720 Speaker 5: didn't make an announcement. Hey I got a slice of 1315 01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:07,479 Speaker 5: punkin pie and then don't touch it. You ain't got 1316 01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:11,479 Speaker 5: nothing to worry about it. Why what else you got, Junior? 1317 01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 11: I'll tell you what I was like. I don't like 1318 01:09:13,080 --> 01:09:15,600 Speaker 11: people I work with that act like they're healthier than you. 1319 01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:19,240 Speaker 1: That's an issue for me. 1320 01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:21,760 Speaker 11: You know, I'm saying, he's saying he's gonna be acting like. 1321 01:09:21,800 --> 01:09:24,040 Speaker 14: He's more healthy than me. But he got eight told. 1322 01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:29,640 Speaker 14: I want you to know he ain't told it. I 1323 01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:31,800 Speaker 14: ain't talking about nobody, but just. 1324 01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:40,680 Speaker 1: You got I can't stand the dude that that that 1325 01:09:40,880 --> 01:09:44,960 Speaker 1: that rad on you when you clock out an you 1326 01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:45,400 Speaker 1: were here. 1327 01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:47,439 Speaker 4: You thought you had it cool with him until you 1328 01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:50,320 Speaker 4: get halfway home. Yeah, they looking for you. 1329 01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:54,920 Speaker 11: How do they know I'm going. 1330 01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:05,479 Speaker 6: I don't like people to send you video, email you 1331 01:10:05,680 --> 01:10:07,120 Speaker 6: videos for their life. 1332 01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:18,600 Speaker 1: I just got even your real. 1333 01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:21,760 Speaker 7: The topic is people I hate on my job. 1334 01:10:21,880 --> 01:10:22,200 Speaker 3: Let's go. 1335 01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:24,680 Speaker 5: You know what the people that I hate on my job, 1336 01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:27,680 Speaker 5: And not only are they sicker than you, but they 1337 01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:31,800 Speaker 5: have functions to raise money about how damn sick they are. 1338 01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:36,160 Speaker 5: We don't have nothing for diabetes. We running, We ain't 1339 01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:39,120 Speaker 5: making speeches. We ain't out there doing that. 1340 01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:42,360 Speaker 2: We don't have a month or nothing. Therefore with you 1341 01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:46,640 Speaker 2: having a day or a month or a marathon, to me, 1342 01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:50,120 Speaker 2: just to me, you are sicker than me. 1343 01:10:57,560 --> 01:10:59,920 Speaker 11: You know what I like about my job. 1344 01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:02,679 Speaker 1: I know some sick people on the job. 1345 01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:06,880 Speaker 14: I'm not calling no man, ain't telling no lidy, But 1346 01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:09,640 Speaker 14: I child like people that got diabetes. 1347 01:11:10,000 --> 01:11:12,920 Speaker 11: They act like type two is better than type wo. 1348 01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:15,519 Speaker 2: They care for all that. 1349 01:11:16,880 --> 01:11:18,080 Speaker 7: They just really all that. 1350 01:11:19,600 --> 01:11:20,879 Speaker 11: I take my medicine. 1351 01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:23,000 Speaker 2: I don't shoot my medice. 1352 01:11:24,280 --> 01:11:27,200 Speaker 11: They talking to other sick people about it. Yeah, I 1353 01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:31,360 Speaker 11: mean you really still old medice? And I thought you 1354 01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:37,320 Speaker 11: gonna sat at ways said okay, you was at one 1355 01:11:37,400 --> 01:11:42,200 Speaker 11: point you die bet you by pays one. That's all 1356 01:11:42,240 --> 01:11:43,400 Speaker 11: I'm saying, not talking about nobody. 1357 01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:49,160 Speaker 4: Oh my job, I can't stand nobody. I can't stand 1358 01:11:49,240 --> 01:11:52,240 Speaker 4: nobody on my job. Who a millionaire And every time 1359 01:11:52,320 --> 01:11:55,080 Speaker 4: they come to work, they always, oh, I'm going through 1360 01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:56,679 Speaker 4: what is going through? 1361 01:11:57,080 --> 01:12:01,960 Speaker 1: You ain't going through who? The Lord Testament ain't not 1362 01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:05,040 Speaker 1: wrong with I'm going through who. I don't know what's 1363 01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:06,120 Speaker 1: your boy going to? 1364 01:12:06,560 --> 01:12:06,840 Speaker 9: God? 1365 01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:14,280 Speaker 1: They had your boy. Man, I'm gonna make it to 1366 01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:15,000 Speaker 1: test your. 1367 01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:21,160 Speaker 12: Co o. 1368 01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:23,960 Speaker 1: All these champagne and products. 1369 01:12:25,840 --> 01:12:30,040 Speaker 7: All right, you're listening Morning show. 1370 01:12:32,200 --> 01:12:34,519 Speaker 12: All right, come on, Steve, Let's make sure that the 1371 01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:38,160 Speaker 12: Steve Harvey nation knows that you're Elevate You healthy green 1372 01:12:38,280 --> 01:12:41,400 Speaker 12: powders will soon be available at Walmart, and of course 1373 01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:42,200 Speaker 12: they're still available. 1374 01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:45,920 Speaker 6: I'm telling you all, I'm excited about this on June 1375 01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:51,080 Speaker 6: night in Walmart stores. Elevate You has gone big time 1376 01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:55,040 Speaker 6: And how much bigger can you get than the super. 1377 01:12:54,880 --> 01:12:57,480 Speaker 1: Giant themselves Walmart. 1378 01:12:57,800 --> 01:13:02,160 Speaker 6: The newest product that sweeping the nation is called Elevate 1379 01:13:02,320 --> 01:13:09,000 Speaker 6: You l Apostrophe Evat. It's my daily green drink powder 1380 01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:12,720 Speaker 6: that has been helping people get more healthy, helping them 1381 01:13:12,760 --> 01:13:16,200 Speaker 6: with their digestion, helping them with their brain clarity, and 1382 01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:20,040 Speaker 6: helping them with their energy, all in a tasty green drink. 1383 01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:22,800 Speaker 6: A lot of my friends have told me, Steve, I'm 1384 01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:25,200 Speaker 6: gonna be honest with you. I like the original. That's 1385 01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:28,200 Speaker 6: my favorite because it's a good tasting green drink. But 1386 01:13:28,280 --> 01:13:31,599 Speaker 6: if you need flavor, I've got tart, cherry and chocolate. 1387 01:13:32,000 --> 01:13:36,160 Speaker 6: But in Walmart on June ninth, you can get the 1388 01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:40,000 Speaker 6: new products exclusively in Raalmart. The green drinks will come 1389 01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:43,760 Speaker 6: in now travel easy to use stick packs where you 1390 01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:46,120 Speaker 6: can take them on the go with you, mix them anywhere. 1391 01:13:46,600 --> 01:13:49,840 Speaker 6: And we have three brand new products coming out which 1392 01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:54,080 Speaker 6: are gummies. They're delicious flavors. One is for digestion, one 1393 01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:57,800 Speaker 6: is for your immunity, and the other one is for metabolism. 1394 01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:02,120 Speaker 1: Elevate You is in wall Mark on June night long. 1395 01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:07,960 Speaker 12: I'm more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up 1396 01:14:08,000 --> 01:14:10,479 Speaker 12: in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play around him. 1397 01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:11,120 Speaker 7: Would you rather? 1398 01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:16,760 Speaker 12: Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning Show time. Now, 1399 01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:17,800 Speaker 12: guys for around it? 1400 01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:24,000 Speaker 7: Would you rather? Would you rather have no legs or 1401 01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:25,200 Speaker 7: no arms. 1402 01:14:26,000 --> 01:14:27,360 Speaker 1: Can you just take one apiece? 1403 01:14:28,040 --> 01:14:33,519 Speaker 7: I mean, damn no, no legs, no arms. The moms though, man, I. 1404 01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:38,200 Speaker 1: Got to have them. I got to. Okay, I'm gonna 1405 01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:40,000 Speaker 1: let you take them legs. I'm gonna have them all. 1406 01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:44,280 Speaker 7: Come on, Steve, No legs, no arms. 1407 01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:46,800 Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna need them. Mom, I can't grab nothing, 1408 01:14:46,840 --> 01:14:49,080 Speaker 1: I can't beat up there. At least you got arms. 1409 01:14:49,080 --> 01:14:53,040 Speaker 1: You can go somewhere. I can drive need them all. 1410 01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:56,320 Speaker 6: Okay, you know you know how to be in wheelchairs 1411 01:14:56,360 --> 01:15:01,720 Speaker 6: and stuffs and all I get. But cats strong? Yeah, Hey, 1412 01:15:01,800 --> 01:15:05,160 Speaker 6: them dudes way you out, man, Yeah, they wear you out. 1413 01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:07,800 Speaker 6: But I'm just going with I like, what the way 1414 01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:09,519 Speaker 6: I am. I'm I'm gonna pass. 1415 01:15:15,520 --> 01:15:15,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1416 01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:16,040 Speaker 10: This was. 1417 01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:18,560 Speaker 6: And I'm sitting up here with my leg up on 1418 01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:23,240 Speaker 6: the desk right now thinking if you wouldn't now, I'll 1419 01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:24,800 Speaker 6: just slumped down and beat and fell out. 1420 01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:29,120 Speaker 1: This damn chance I slide out on the floor. 1421 01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:30,519 Speaker 3: All right. 1422 01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:33,440 Speaker 12: So would you rather walk barefoot in a public restroom 1423 01:15:34,240 --> 01:15:36,280 Speaker 12: or would you rather get food poisoning? 1424 01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:40,920 Speaker 6: I gonna take that food poison I've been food poisoned before. Yeah, 1425 01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:42,640 Speaker 6: let me go and start throwing up because I'm not 1426 01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:44,519 Speaker 6: walking barefoot in that public restaurant. 1427 01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm throwing up either way. 1428 01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:51,320 Speaker 9: I just. 1429 01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:56,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I got to blow torch the bottom of 1430 01:15:56,160 --> 01:16:01,719 Speaker 1: my feet with my cigar lighter, trying to sanitize your feet. 1431 01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:06,439 Speaker 1: I need to cross the burn and sayings again. 1432 01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:16,080 Speaker 12: All right, I think we have three for food poisoning 1433 01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:19,400 Speaker 12: on that one. If you're keeping score, all right? Would 1434 01:16:19,439 --> 01:16:22,080 Speaker 12: you rather save the world but die as a hero 1435 01:16:22,320 --> 01:16:26,599 Speaker 12: in the process, or save the world but no one knows? 1436 01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:29,920 Speaker 4: Man blank this world? What is you talking about? I'm 1437 01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:32,479 Speaker 4: telling to save it and then die? Why would I 1438 01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:32,720 Speaker 4: do that? 1439 01:16:35,840 --> 01:16:37,680 Speaker 6: I'd rather just be here and see where the hell 1440 01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:45,559 Speaker 6: gonna happen me, y'all. I ain't never asked be no heat, 1441 01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:48,559 Speaker 6: no damn way. I just want to be the survival. 1442 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:51,840 Speaker 7: Die. 1443 01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:54,280 Speaker 2: Last one. 1444 01:16:54,760 --> 01:16:57,320 Speaker 7: Would you rather scream at each other? Or would you 1445 01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:00,519 Speaker 7: rather give each other the silent treatment? Give each other 1446 01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:02,599 Speaker 7: worch the silent treatment? 1447 01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:04,080 Speaker 3: Oh? 1448 01:17:04,240 --> 01:17:06,560 Speaker 1: Oh really, I take the side of the treatment. I 1449 01:17:06,680 --> 01:17:09,200 Speaker 1: take all that, holly yeah, because I want you to 1450 01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:10,360 Speaker 1: be quiet anyday I work. 1451 01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:11,519 Speaker 3: All right? 1452 01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:14,160 Speaker 7: All right, we're coming up at forty nine. 1453 01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:15,920 Speaker 1: The game when it's home. 1454 01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:23,519 Speaker 12: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, it's 1455 01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:25,320 Speaker 12: our last break of the day, and we'll close out 1456 01:17:25,360 --> 01:17:27,479 Speaker 12: the show with Steve Harvey right after this. 1457 01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:32,360 Speaker 7: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, here 1458 01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:34,600 Speaker 7: we are last break of the day. Time for you 1459 01:17:34,800 --> 01:17:37,240 Speaker 7: to leave us with some closing remarks. 1460 01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:41,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, I try to find different ways to 1461 01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:48,320 Speaker 6: encourage people because life is really challenging, man, and it's 1462 01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:52,600 Speaker 6: becoming even more so for all of us because of 1463 01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:56,840 Speaker 6: social media. Man, it's like craziness. It's it's you can 1464 01:17:56,960 --> 01:18:02,400 Speaker 6: become a part of the the meal, so to speak. 1465 01:18:02,520 --> 01:18:04,960 Speaker 6: You can just become a part of the meal. And 1466 01:18:05,080 --> 01:18:08,759 Speaker 6: you don't even have to be famous, you really really don't. 1467 01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:12,000 Speaker 6: It can just be in your circle of friends that 1468 01:18:12,160 --> 01:18:14,960 Speaker 6: you start getting hated on or something like that. But 1469 01:18:15,120 --> 01:18:17,320 Speaker 6: it's really difficult out here. So I really try to 1470 01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:21,439 Speaker 6: give people bits and pieces of things that happened to 1471 01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:26,799 Speaker 6: me as I progress through my life, and I maintain 1472 01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:31,479 Speaker 6: and I grow all the while. In spite of in 1473 01:18:31,640 --> 01:18:35,800 Speaker 6: spite of now, two things help me. First of all, 1474 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:42,400 Speaker 6: my relationship with God is probably better than it's ever 1475 01:18:42,560 --> 01:18:46,200 Speaker 6: been because I've learned some really really useful tools over 1476 01:18:46,240 --> 01:18:47,559 Speaker 6: the past year to. 1477 01:18:47,680 --> 01:18:48,560 Speaker 1: Really really help me. 1478 01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:51,800 Speaker 6: Now, little did I know that God was presenting these 1479 01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:56,120 Speaker 6: tools to me so so I would have them and 1480 01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:59,519 Speaker 6: be equipped for the fight that he knew was coming 1481 01:18:59,640 --> 01:19:04,600 Speaker 6: my way. Man, that's a cool, cool thing to know 1482 01:19:05,600 --> 01:19:11,439 Speaker 6: that God taught me some things before last year that 1483 01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:14,040 Speaker 6: was going to help me with what he knew was 1484 01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:16,560 Speaker 6: coming my way this year. So the first thing I 1485 01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:20,040 Speaker 6: have to attribute and give credit to my relationship with 1486 01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:25,400 Speaker 6: God has been the real root of my ability to 1487 01:19:25,600 --> 01:19:30,040 Speaker 6: keep moving forward in the face of all circumstances, whether 1488 01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:33,800 Speaker 6: they seemed appeared to be what they were or not. 1489 01:19:34,479 --> 01:19:42,519 Speaker 1: And then secondly, I have learned how to shield myself. 1490 01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:45,880 Speaker 6: It's not that I know how to shield myself, but 1491 01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:49,920 Speaker 6: I've learned how to put a protective coding over my 1492 01:19:50,120 --> 01:19:53,680 Speaker 6: mind to help me deal with negativity because it's just 1493 01:19:53,840 --> 01:19:54,840 Speaker 6: so much of it out there. 1494 01:19:54,960 --> 01:19:55,120 Speaker 1: Man. 1495 01:19:55,400 --> 01:19:57,240 Speaker 6: And if you get if you really listen to what 1496 01:19:57,400 --> 01:20:00,000 Speaker 6: everybody's saying, you know you have a lot more people 1497 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:01,200 Speaker 6: that love you and hate. 1498 01:20:01,240 --> 01:20:03,960 Speaker 1: You know that the problem with hate. 1499 01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:07,280 Speaker 6: Is it's so dog gonna loud, and love is just 1500 01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:10,000 Speaker 6: so somebody call and say, hey, man, don't worry about 1501 01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:10,360 Speaker 6: none of that. 1502 01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:11,080 Speaker 1: I got you back. 1503 01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:13,160 Speaker 6: I love you, man, Thank you for all you do 1504 01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:16,320 Speaker 6: your real friends know the truth? It's just people who 1505 01:20:16,400 --> 01:20:19,680 Speaker 6: don't they have something to say. So, your relationship with 1506 01:20:19,800 --> 01:20:23,439 Speaker 6: God and this practice that I've learned of how now 1507 01:20:23,479 --> 01:20:27,040 Speaker 6: how to cope my mind from negativity have been two 1508 01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:30,200 Speaker 6: of the most powerful things that I've developed over the 1509 01:20:30,320 --> 01:20:31,280 Speaker 6: past couple. 1510 01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:34,559 Speaker 1: Of years and last year and a few months ago. 1511 01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:39,519 Speaker 6: That's really really helping me. And So what I wanted 1512 01:20:39,600 --> 01:20:41,680 Speaker 6: to kind of share in light of all of that 1513 01:20:42,640 --> 01:20:45,800 Speaker 6: in that same vein as what I want you to 1514 01:20:45,880 --> 01:20:52,720 Speaker 6: stop doing. If you're doing this, stop giving people permission 1515 01:20:53,600 --> 01:21:02,719 Speaker 6: to have an opinion about you. Man, Stop giving people 1516 01:21:03,240 --> 01:21:09,960 Speaker 6: permission to have an opinion about you when, first of all, 1517 01:21:10,520 --> 01:21:15,760 Speaker 6: they don't even know you. Number two, a lot of 1518 01:21:15,800 --> 01:21:19,720 Speaker 6: people with an opinion about you they've never met you. 1519 01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:25,680 Speaker 6: And here's the most important reason they don't know you. 1520 01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:26,880 Speaker 6: They haven't met you. 1521 01:21:28,520 --> 01:21:30,760 Speaker 1: And you want to know the real reason you shouldn't care, 1522 01:21:31,320 --> 01:21:35,519 Speaker 1: because they don't care. They don't care anything about you 1523 01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:36,880 Speaker 1: one way other than the other. 1524 01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:40,760 Speaker 6: They just riding through the system pushing buttons, and you 1525 01:21:40,920 --> 01:21:43,080 Speaker 6: happen to be the button that they pushing today. 1526 01:21:44,040 --> 01:21:48,639 Speaker 1: Do not give people permission. 1527 01:21:49,640 --> 01:21:53,680 Speaker 6: To have an opinion about you, and you listen to it. 1528 01:21:54,960 --> 01:21:59,919 Speaker 6: I stop doing that. I stop giving people my permission 1529 01:22:00,120 --> 01:22:02,640 Speaker 6: have an opinion about me you don't have. I'm not 1530 01:22:02,760 --> 01:22:05,640 Speaker 6: giving you permission. Now you can go have one, but 1531 01:22:05,760 --> 01:22:09,280 Speaker 6: it's without my permission, So therefore you. 1532 01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:12,519 Speaker 1: Can't affect me. Listen to me. 1533 01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:16,240 Speaker 6: People, if you don't give them the permission to affect you, 1534 01:22:16,439 --> 01:22:21,040 Speaker 6: they can't affect you. You can keep pushing on and 1535 01:22:21,240 --> 01:22:25,080 Speaker 6: upward to your goals. Don't give them permission to turn 1536 01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:28,400 Speaker 6: you back. Don't give them permission to stop you. Don't 1537 01:22:28,439 --> 01:22:31,880 Speaker 6: give a person permission to ride your back. Martin Luther 1538 01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:32,519 Speaker 6: King said, a. 1539 01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:35,599 Speaker 1: Man can't ride your back unless you bend over. Stand up, 1540 01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:40,679 Speaker 1: stand up to some of this mess. I'm not saying 1541 01:22:40,760 --> 01:22:42,360 Speaker 1: go down there and do something about it. 1542 01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:45,960 Speaker 6: I'm just saying, stand up, hold your head up, square 1543 01:22:46,000 --> 01:22:49,840 Speaker 6: your shoulders, pinch your shoulder blades, get your chests out, 1544 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:53,800 Speaker 6: hold your cheain up, go on with your bad self. 1545 01:22:54,520 --> 01:22:58,000 Speaker 1: Quit worrying about what they saying. Them people don't even 1546 01:22:58,160 --> 01:22:58,439 Speaker 1: know you. 1547 01:23:00,240 --> 01:23:04,120 Speaker 6: Don't give these people permission to make you feel less 1548 01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:08,360 Speaker 6: than who you really are. Your heavenly father made you 1549 01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:11,439 Speaker 6: you a child of God. These people didn't make you. 1550 01:23:14,360 --> 01:23:21,040 Speaker 6: Do not give them permission. Don't give them permission to 1551 01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:26,640 Speaker 6: be a determining factor in your life. They don't have 1552 01:23:26,880 --> 01:23:30,560 Speaker 6: your permission to do that. They don't have the ability 1553 01:23:30,680 --> 01:23:34,200 Speaker 6: to do that. Don't give them permission. 1554 01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:34,519 Speaker 1: To hate you. 1555 01:23:35,160 --> 01:23:38,679 Speaker 6: Turn your back, ride your back, make you feel less, 1556 01:23:39,040 --> 01:23:41,599 Speaker 6: be a determining factor in your life. You know why 1557 01:23:41,680 --> 01:23:43,880 Speaker 6: because they don't know you, they ain't never met you, 1558 01:23:44,160 --> 01:23:47,080 Speaker 6: and they don't care about you. You should not care 1559 01:23:47,360 --> 01:23:50,400 Speaker 6: about what they think. Those are my remarks. 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