1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,320 Speaker 1: All right, before we get to your back to back classics, 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: there's something that we really need to address in this room. 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: But it's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Ashton, have 4 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: you recovered from the Jersey Mike's fiasco. Oh, we are 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:16,280 Speaker 1: all about it out there. I mean they put oil 6 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: on his sandwich and he did not want oil on 7 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: his sandwich. 8 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: Oh, I did not oil. I requested it specifically. 9 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you eat it? Yeah? Yeah, okay, I want 10 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 1: to talk to the manager now after you've eaten the sandwich. 11 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 2: You know what I think I'm entitled to. 12 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 3: I bet you, I. 13 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:42,840 Speaker 1: Bet you you. Okay, okay, I'm glad that we got 14 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:46,080 Speaker 1: that out. Yeah, it was uncomfortable in this room. 15 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, it smells a whole lot like onions. 16 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: I'll tell you. All right, I hope you're having a 17 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,239 Speaker 1: great day. We do have your back to back classics 18 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: right now. But first comments. Yeah, well, Cushi Galore said, 19 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: it's twenty twenty six. Why can't we watch full podcast 20 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: episodes with the video? 21 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 3: Yes? 22 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: Is your station poor? Well yes, yes, and yes, yes 23 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: and yes and yes. 24 00:01:09,680 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: I mean sorry, we had a lot of comments on 25 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: the chair that I sit in, and uh, yeah. 26 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 1: It is proof that we're poor. That chair, yes, front 27 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: half of it is just missing all of its fabric 28 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: and the foam is fully exposed. Yeah, I mean. 29 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 4: So many things in here that we talk about. Jeff's microphone, 30 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 4: my headphones, people were freaking out. 31 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: About need to be replaced, and ash and happy to 32 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 1: move back in with his mom and dad because he 33 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: can't afford red. Yeah, we're doing great at the radio station. Yes, 34 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 1: nothing's burning down, I promise. So you're back to back 35 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: classics right now. 36 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 2: After many failed romantic encounters and a couple of outright scams, 37 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 2: one of the most lovable and eternally optimistic listeners that 38 00:01:55,720 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 2: we've ever had on the show is back again. We 39 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 2: know he's gotten himself into some weird situations before, but 40 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 2: this time he thinks it's different because he finally executed 41 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 2: the perfect date night. Yes, well, at least for a 42 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 2: few minutes until his lady friend received a text that 43 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 2: changed everything. Once you hear it, you'll agree that this 44 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,560 Speaker 2: man definitely deserves a do over. We'll try to make 45 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: it happen for him in your second date update next. 46 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,399 Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates. 47 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: I'm gonna do a quick recap about one of my 48 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 2: most favorite listeners we've had on the show in the 49 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: past year, and I'm gonna do it because he's back today. 50 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's his favorite, not our favorite. 51 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:48,959 Speaker 2: That's his name is Randall. And last time we spoke 52 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 2: to Randall, he had met not one, but two international 53 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 2: women on the internet. One was from Vietnam, the other 54 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 2: from the Philippines, and he had even flown out to 55 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 2: meet the first one Vietnam. 56 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, they turned up not at the airport. 57 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, she never showed up. We didn't call that woman. 58 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: We ended up calling a different lady, someone that he'd 59 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: met locally, because his friend had suggested, why not try 60 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 2: dating in your own area code great. 61 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:21,679 Speaker 1: Friends, why try not getting scammed? 62 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that woman ended up just wanting to be 63 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 2: his friend album avoid scammers. 64 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 6: Yes. 65 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: The thing that we learned about Randall is that he 66 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:34,240 Speaker 2: believes in the power of true love. That's true, and 67 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 2: he's just had a bad run of luck lately and 68 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 2: needs our help. So I'm curious to hear about his 69 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 2: latest romantic endeavor. Randall, my guy, welcome back to the show. 70 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 2: How you been. 71 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 7: Man, Thank you guys so much for having me back. 72 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 6: On. 73 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 7: I really appreciate you. 74 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: You tell me in the time between the last time 75 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: we talked and now you have wired no one money, 76 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:57,119 Speaker 1: no sweet Okay. 77 00:03:58,480 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 4: He doesn't count as wiring. 78 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 2: We're learning, we're growing. That's great. But what brings you 79 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 2: back today? 80 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 7: Well, I had a few friends listen to the show 81 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 7: the last time. They agreed with you, guys that I 82 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 7: should try dating more locally first, okay, and surprisingly I 83 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 7: started doing that, but it hasn't gone that great. 84 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: To be honest, guys, Okay, are you on the apps? 85 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: Is that how you're finding women locally to date? 86 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 3: Well? 87 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 7: I met a girl named Sammy and we met in person. 88 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 2: You are doing a good thing where you're looking at 89 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: the past mistakes and learning and adjusting and adapting. That's 90 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 2: all very good. 91 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 7: Now, you guys know me. I'm a romantic, so I 92 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 7: surprised her with a very special date. I took her 93 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 7: on a picnic to an outdoor movie. 94 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: You that's great, cheery talk can you during the movie? 95 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:52,679 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. Okay, it's outdoors. People are only happy. 96 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 4: Okay, how did it go? 97 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 5: Well? 98 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 7: I think the first thirty to forty five seconds was good. 99 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 2: What second we start? 100 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, just my luck. Right after we sit down and 101 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 7: get situated, she goes, oh, my gosh, I think my 102 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 7: friends here. Then she looks at me says, do you 103 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 7: mind if I text them where we are? 104 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:16,840 Speaker 4: So of course you were like, yeah, tell your friends 105 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:17,479 Speaker 4: to come say hi. 106 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, it's a good sign that she's already wanting 107 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 2: to introduce you to her friends. 108 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 7: True, that's what I thought. It's got it, like, man, 109 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 7: I'm really in there this time. So a couple of 110 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 7: minutes later, a very good looking guy shows up, and 111 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 7: the only face on the little blanket that we have 112 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 7: is on the other side of me. So now I'm 113 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 7: in the middle of them. The movie starts, and then 114 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 7: as you're about to watch it, she whispered in my ear, 115 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 7: this is my. 116 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: Ex wait, her ex boyfriend. 117 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 7: Yeah, so I had to watch the movie with her. 118 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: Egg. Oh my god, what you stayed? 119 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 8: Bro? 120 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: I have so many questions. Well, they're on his blanket. 121 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 1: What is he gonna do? 122 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,359 Speaker 4: I'd be like blanket waving alone. 123 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 2: Anyways, let's hold on. Maybe it gets better from here. 124 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:04,760 Speaker 1: Oh goodness, does it? 125 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:05,359 Speaker 7: It does not? 126 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 2: Okay, what happened? 127 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 7: They're laughing at parts of the movie together that I'm 128 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 7: not laughing at because they have some history of inside 129 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 7: jokes and I don't even understand. Oh yeah, here's the 130 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 7: bad part. At one point she reached around my back 131 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 7: and rubbed his shoulder. 132 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 2: Maybe there's like a spider or something. She flipped it off. 133 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 4: This is bad. 134 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: Why you want to call this woman? She sounds terrible. 135 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 4: The woman in the Philippines sounds better. 136 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: It doesn't sound like this girl is giving you the 137 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 2: attention that you deserve and that you want for a 138 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 2: day respect. Why would you want to reach out. 139 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 7: To her if I really liked it. I thought she 140 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 7: was nice. I thought we had a good chemistry. I 141 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 7: mean after the movie, I was like, oh, that's your 142 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 7: ex huh. But she said we'll always just be friends. 143 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 1: So I mean that did probably give you hope that 144 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 1: she was still interested in you, though, right her saying. 145 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 7: That, Well, that's what it sounded like to me. She 146 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 7: was trying to make sure I understood they're just friends. 147 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: Okay, that is good. 148 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 4: She's like explaining, like, I know this looks weird, but 149 00:07:07,120 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 4: I want to reassure you that could be nice. 150 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: So nothing since. 151 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 7: No, and I really would love another chance with Sammy. 152 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 3: I like her. 153 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: I think she's the one should be asking for another 154 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: chance with you. 155 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 4: Or her ex. 156 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:19,559 Speaker 7: Maybe. 157 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it would be probably nice to get an opportunity 158 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 2: to a date without an next boyfriend sitting directly next 159 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 2: to you. That would probably help. 160 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 7: I prefer to sit in the non X section. 161 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 4: Yes, it's crazy. 162 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 2: You've been on so many dates recently and none of 163 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:38,880 Speaker 2: them have just been one on one with a woman. 164 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 7: And. 165 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 2: We got to hold that up for you. I mean, 166 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,679 Speaker 2: at least get you some answers, because clearly you're looking 167 00:07:43,680 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 2: for help here. 168 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 8: I am. 169 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 7: I really want the person that likes me. I like them. 170 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 7: So is there something I need to do to fix 171 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 7: that or improve it? I want to hear it. 172 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: Okay, you don't need to fix anything about yourself. You're 173 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 2: perfect the way you are. Randall maybe he. 174 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: Does well, we all could use growth. 175 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 2: Jeff We're going to try to help Sammy see how 176 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 2: amazing you really are when we call her and try 177 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 2: and get you your second date update that's coming up 178 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 2: right after Brook reaches aroun Jose to scratch my shoulder. 179 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, never mind, we'll just do. 180 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 7: It after this. 181 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates. 182 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us. We've got Randall on the phone, 183 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 2: friend of the show, who's been unlucky in love lately. Yeah, 184 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 2: and he's back because his latest date was with a 185 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 2: woman named Sammy, which also turned out to be pretty 186 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:38,839 Speaker 2: unlucky because Sammy's ex was at the outdoor movie theater 187 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 2: where they both. 188 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: Were at and then invited invited to join them. 189 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 7: Right. 190 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 2: That was the really weird part because he ended up 191 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 2: sitting between them for the entire film. For Yeah, it's 192 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 2: not exactly your ideal first meet up, and Sammy's not 193 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:03,599 Speaker 2: respond thing. Now is she back together with that ex boyfriend? 194 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 2: We don't know. We might find out here in a second. 195 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 2: Randall just wants to understand if he's doing something wrong 196 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 2: on these dates. 197 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,079 Speaker 7: You just kind of want to find out what am 198 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 7: I doing wrong? I just think I have a big 199 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 7: heart and a lot to offer. 200 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:18,719 Speaker 1: Not only that, but you're putting in the work, like 201 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: you are trying to do different things, change the way 202 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:24,800 Speaker 1: you're dating, even learn from this experience. 203 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 6: Absolutely, God, I'm frustrated for you. 204 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 4: I think this is like the good Guy's finished last 205 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 4: kind of motto. 206 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 2: It's like, you know, there's a guy out there who 207 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:35,960 Speaker 2: really does want love and really is trying. 208 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 4: It's just it's like helpless. 209 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: Well not, today's gonna finish first, or at least get 210 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 2: some explanation for why he can't win. 211 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:46,559 Speaker 4: Yeah, or we'll hang up on her. 212 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,559 Speaker 7: You guys are my best friend. 213 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,199 Speaker 2: Try not to think that that's a sad thing. 214 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 9: But hey, you know what, best buddy, we're in this together. 215 00:09:58,480 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 2: I'm going to dial her number right now. 216 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 7: You're we go. 217 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 2: Hello, Hey is this Sammy? Yeah, hey Sammy. We're calling 218 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 2: from a radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in 219 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:20,040 Speaker 2: the Morning Sammy. 220 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:21,199 Speaker 1: The whole shows here. 221 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 3: Nobody would talk crazy like we're from a morning show. 222 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 2: Thank you for speaking. 223 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 8: Sorry, radio shoes, Sorry, don't do radio shows. 224 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 6: I don't like to talk on radio show. 225 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:39,680 Speaker 1: We've never forgotten that. Oh yeah, that is a student. 226 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 2: Look I totally understand that. And listen. We won't air 227 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,080 Speaker 2: this unless we have your permission to do it. But 228 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 2: this is a segment. It's called a second date update. 229 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 6: I've heard about that before. 230 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. Thanks. Maybe it's not on TikTok or something. 231 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,839 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, definitely interesting. 232 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 2: It is, and you should take it as a compliment 233 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: because it means somebody out there is trying to get 234 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 2: a hold of you. 235 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 6: I want to know. 236 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 2: I'll play along, Okay, I'll just tell you it's a 237 00:11:10,840 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 2: guy that you went out with recently named Randall. 238 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 7: Oh my god. 239 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: Okay, is that I'm going to take that as a fun, 240 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 1: excited laugh like y Randall, it. 241 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 6: Was like, it was the weirdest date I've had. 242 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 2: It's really weird. Could you tell us how you felt 243 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 2: it was weird? Because we've heard a little bit from 244 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 2: Randall's side, we'd like to get like your perspective on 245 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:37,199 Speaker 2: the night. 246 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, we know, outdoor movie picnic, super fun. 247 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:45,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, it was actually like a really sweet idea. I 248 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 6: was like, Wow, this guy really put a lot into 249 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 6: the effort. But my ex was there and he hugged me. 250 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 6: I'm over near the Lemonique stand. 251 00:11:58,280 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: Wait, how did he know you were there? 252 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 6: He saw me, I guess from across the way. 253 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so he's the one who initiated the conversation 254 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:08,199 Speaker 2: with you. 255 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: Dude, how rude You were obviously on a date, Like 256 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: you're showing up with a guy, you know. 257 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 6: I don't really think my ex knew I was on 258 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 6: a date. And Randall is such a sweet art He's 259 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 6: like why don't you just invite him over? 260 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,080 Speaker 2: But when we spoke to Randall, he told us that 261 00:12:24,160 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 2: he was under the impression it was just a friend 262 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:26,800 Speaker 2: of yours. 263 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: Yeah you didn't specify. 264 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:31,680 Speaker 6: Oh well he was a friend, but he was my 265 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 6: ex friend. 266 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:34,720 Speaker 1: Okay, so you didn't tell him. 267 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:39,559 Speaker 6: I wanted to tell him, but it all happened so fast, 268 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 6: and the movie just started and he sat down right 269 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 6: next to us. 270 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:46,959 Speaker 2: All right. 271 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: Oh that makes me feel better though, because it sounds 272 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: like you weren't trying for this interaction to happen. 273 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 6: Absolute not. I thought he would leave, but he didn't. 274 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: Too many nice people that can't say no this. 275 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 2: So clearly that wasn't a malicious move on your part, Sammy. 276 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 2: But I think what Randall's confused about is if you 277 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 2: liked him so much and you're trying to be so 278 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 2: sweet to him, why aren't you calling him back for 279 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:10,640 Speaker 2: another date? 280 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 6: Well? It was kind of weird because he told me 281 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 6: that it was a movie, but he ran't tell me 282 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 6: the name of it, okay, And he said it was 283 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 6: a historical piece. Huh, I guess what movie it was? 284 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 1: What? 285 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 6: What sous and furious? That's not historical? 286 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 2: Is that a joke. 287 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 1: Are you saying that you're not calling him back because 288 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 1: he misrepresented what film was being shown? 289 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 6: No, I just I thought it was like weird, Like 290 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 6: my ex and I were just laughing. 291 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: Wait, you had told your ex like, oh my god, 292 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 1: this guy thinks it's a historical piece and we're joking 293 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 1: about him. 294 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 6: No, he told us, I suppose at the same time, 295 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 6: and he was backing it up with all these backs. 296 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:55,920 Speaker 1: Well, Randal told you both that it was historical. 297 00:13:56,000 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 6: Oh my, looking at me like, who is this guy? 298 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 2: Okay, well, Sammy, thank you for telling us your side 299 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 2: of the story. 300 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 7: Hold on, hold on, I need to let me speak 301 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 7: my piece please. 302 00:14:12,760 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 9: Okay, Yeah, who is that? 303 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 5: It's me. 304 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 7: It's Randall. 305 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 3: Listen. 306 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 7: We're actually based on a true story. You guys do 307 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 7: know that, right? 308 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 2: No? Wait? 309 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 7: Is it? 310 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 3: Yes? 311 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 7: The movies are actually based on street crimes that were 312 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 7: happening in LA in the nineties. Do you guys think 313 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 7: Ben Diesel was the very first person to rob a 314 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 7: semi truck going that that's on the freeway? 315 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:41,440 Speaker 6: No, sorry, but I did not know that. 316 00:14:42,200 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 7: Yes, if you read the forums that I'm a part 317 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 7: of the movie went on Facebook, we all know it's true. 318 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 7: We talk about it. 319 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: On Facebook. 320 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 7: I don't know that's true. Yes, it happened in Tokyo 321 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 7: as well. That's why they made a movie about it. 322 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,120 Speaker 7: Were rampant everywhere. 323 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 2: I think. I think what you need to do, Randall, 324 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 2: is actually talk to Sammy here. 325 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 1: That's exactly not about it. 326 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, don't you don't have to convince us. You 327 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 2: have to talk to. 328 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 7: Sam You know that I'm a good guy. I didn't 329 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 7: get jealous when the guy came over your ex. I 330 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 7: found it weird, but I told you understand that you're 331 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 7: a nice person too. And I'm just gonna be honest 332 00:15:23,000 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 7: and straight forward to Sammy when we're sitting there watching 333 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 7: that movie. You may not have believe me, but your 334 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 7: extra did. You could be with a man like that 335 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 7: that believes the truth, and I think you should be 336 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 7: with me as well. Get me a champ Oh. 337 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 1: Wow, wait the pitches. If you can date your ex, 338 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: you can date me. 339 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 2: Two fellow truth finders. 340 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 6: No, I'm sorry to break it to you, Randall, but 341 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 6: he did not buy an eater. We talked to each 342 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 6: other over text. 343 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 7: Text you again, Well, you know what, He probably just 344 00:15:56,840 --> 00:16:02,240 Speaker 7: trying to make you feel better because you didn't believe it. 345 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:04,080 Speaker 2: It's like when you talk to those people that believe 346 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 2: the earth is flat and you're like, you know what, 347 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: You're right it is. 348 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, Tyby, he's a good guy. He has some funny quirks. 349 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: Will say that this could be a cute story, you guys, 350 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: tell later, something that you make fun of him for 351 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:20,600 Speaker 1: in a relationship. 352 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 7: You know, I'm want to tell you what man nobody 353 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 7: else did I know is making fun of fashion and furious. 354 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well maybe the benefit is you'll actually learn 355 00:16:28,440 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 2: some interesting things by giving him another chair. 356 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 7: His best friends, like you, guys, documents so. 357 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 2: Many Honestly, we need to stop talking about the true 358 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 2: crimes that have happened on the streets of la and 359 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 2: focus on true love, because that's what you're here to do, Sammy. 360 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 2: We're here to attempt to connect you and Randall one 361 00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 2: more time. 362 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: Movies aside, and you deserve to give him another chance. 363 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: I mean, your ex hung out the entire time. This 364 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: guy like he deserves one more shot. 365 00:16:55,320 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, a one on one shot, and we would pay 366 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 2: for it. 367 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 6: I would absolutely love to go out with Randall. 368 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 4: Yes, oh my god. 369 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 6: Good as a friend? 370 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:11,240 Speaker 1: Oh not again, Sammy Up maybe he means friend and 371 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:12,640 Speaker 1: quotes like she did about her ex. 372 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:16,240 Speaker 6: No friend to. 373 00:17:16,240 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 4: Be a friend of hers? 374 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 6: All right, No, there's just not any potential. It's more 375 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:22,400 Speaker 6: of a friend's friend thing. 376 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 4: Friend friend Okay, doubling down on. 377 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 7: The friends, Randall, that's okay, because you know what, you 378 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 7: have to be friends before you can be romantic. So 379 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 7: I still have hope. 380 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 1: Okay, romantic one of those one in a million. 381 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,520 Speaker 2: Vin Diesel and Michelle Rodriguez were friends in the movie 382 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 2: before they got group. 383 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 1: Based on. 384 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:50,000 Speaker 6: That's not going to happen. But Randall, I would love 385 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 6: to hang out with you as a buddy body. 386 00:17:53,280 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 2: Oh god, we're downgrading even more has an acquaintance. Well, Randall, man, 387 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. So we've done now two second dates with you, 388 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 2: and you've gotten two friends out of it. 389 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,439 Speaker 7: I'm not feel this guys like you said, I just 390 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 7: earned another friend. 391 00:18:13,160 --> 00:18:19,680 Speaker 10: Friends Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 392 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 3: Man. 393 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:24,439 Speaker 2: We should be so lucky to be like Randall, who's 394 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 2: just collecting friends left and right in his life. Not 395 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 2: on purpose, but he's doing it. You know, this guy 396 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:35,240 Speaker 2: is so good at self improvement that one day it 397 00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:37,119 Speaker 2: maybe when he's one hundred, he's gonna be the perfect 398 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:39,360 Speaker 2: man you will think. 399 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 1: About it hurt my soul when she called him buddy. 400 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 4: I know now you see how we feel, brou But 401 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 4: how friend zone? 402 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 2: How cool would it be if Randall does finally find 403 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:53,040 Speaker 2: love with us here on the show and we're there 404 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 2: to witness it. 405 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: Wow? 406 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 4: Or better yet, we're calling someone who's like, I went 407 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:58,719 Speaker 4: on a date with this guy Randall, he won't call 408 00:18:58,760 --> 00:18:59,040 Speaker 4: me back. 409 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:06,160 Speaker 2: Although it is, like Brooke always says, almost everyone deserves love. 410 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 1: Everyone does. 411 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,919 Speaker 2: She keeps a list of people who don't, So if 412 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 2: you're not on that list, feel free to email us 413 00:19:15,440 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 2: for help with your dating life. And remember you can 414 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 2: listen to all of our second dates on our podcast 415 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:23,360 Speaker 2: at Brooke and Jeffrey wherever you listen to them, and 416 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 2: on our YouTube page. 417 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 10: Check it out Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 418 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 2: They say trends are cyclical. All the old stuff that 419 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:35,879 Speaker 2: went out of style years ago is suddenly back and 420 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 2: cool again, like baggy jeans, midcalf compression socks, blazers with 421 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:45,800 Speaker 2: shoulder pads. Wait, damn it, Brooke, did you get a 422 00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 2: hold of my notes again? Nobody likes shoulder pads. O 423 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:53,560 Speaker 2: how hard you try? They're never going to be cool again. 424 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 5: They're not. 425 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 2: But I will tell you one thing that's becoming hot 426 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 2: in the dating world all of a sudden, and it's 427 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 2: math question. I'm surprised, but that's what one of our 428 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 2: listeners says, and it helped. It helped her to meet 429 00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 2: the perfect guy. You're gonna hear how in your second 430 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 2: date update. 431 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 5: Next, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Updates. 432 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 2: I don't know why, but in the last year or 433 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 2: so on the show, it seems like people are trying 434 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 2: to hack the dating system more. Oh yeah, They're not 435 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:30,159 Speaker 2: just trying to meet people and let things happen the 436 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 2: way that they happened. They're they're actually strategizing beforehand. 437 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 1: Well because the other way wasn't working, jeff if you 438 00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:37,760 Speaker 1: realize that, well. 439 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm just surprised that the lengths people go 440 00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,880 Speaker 2: to they're setting up more unique dates. They're trying new 441 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 2: online techniques, even laying down first date traps to catch 442 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 2: the perfect person, traps like oh, did I say this 443 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:54,000 Speaker 2: was a modeling job interview? Oops? Sorry, I meant first 444 00:20:54,080 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 2: date stupid auto correct. 445 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,919 Speaker 1: Sure, and the same thing. I'm totally going with one 446 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:10,720 Speaker 1: of those bear traps like from the comics. 447 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: No Wrong Way to Find Your Soul mat And one 448 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 2: of our listeners emailed us saying she tested out a 449 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 2: new dating theory that she found online called optimal stopping math, 450 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:27,400 Speaker 2: which immediately sounds sex. Oh yeah, just stopping math down 451 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,439 Speaker 2: for a little os M girl. I mean that sounds 452 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 2: way better the variable angles of a nice sauceles dry? 453 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:39,159 Speaker 1: Can we get to her before you get too turned on? 454 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,159 Speaker 2: You don't want to solve for why with me? 455 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 3: Bruce? 456 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,919 Speaker 1: I don't, Okay, I don't. I'm not into Piccnthagorian's theorem 457 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:45,639 Speaker 1: or whatever. 458 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:49,239 Speaker 2: Wow, it's dirty talk over there. Let's hear how it 459 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 2: actually works, though, and talk to Tara. She's the one 460 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,479 Speaker 2: who emailed Tara. I know this is a dating segment, 461 00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 2: but I would absolutely love to hear more about optimal math. 462 00:21:58,320 --> 00:21:59,400 Speaker 2: How does that work? 463 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 8: Okay? I know, oh it's on scoring, but hear me out. 464 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? 465 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 8: This is for people who basically are tired of playing 466 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 8: games and like texting forever, okay, And it just basically 467 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 8: cuts right to finding the right person for you. 468 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,159 Speaker 2: How okay? 469 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:18,440 Speaker 1: Are you making your own algorithm right now? 470 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 8: I mean the theory is you go on twenty five 471 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 8: first dates as fast as you can. 472 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 1: Wow, it's a first first date. Yes, keep up, This 473 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,160 Speaker 1: is exactly how Jose did in math. 474 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,159 Speaker 4: Yeah the word problem, I know. 475 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 1: I'm already lost. 476 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:37,520 Speaker 2: Okay, twenty five different first dates as quickly as you can. 477 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 4: That's hard. 478 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 8: Yeah, So you basically have twenty five candidates to twoth between, 479 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 8: and you end up picking the one that's best for 480 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:46,400 Speaker 8: you to continue with. 481 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 1: One out of twenty five. Yeah, twenty five good to 482 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: start with, any dates? Yeah, a big wide neck. 483 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 2: Well I think that's probably the point. Like, you date 484 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 2: a bunch of people as quickly as you can, and 485 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 2: then you get a big selection to choose from. 486 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,159 Speaker 1: Right, it sounds just like what the apps are already 487 00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:03,720 Speaker 1: doing to me. 488 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,640 Speaker 2: It sounds like your college days, right, bro. 489 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,960 Speaker 1: I wasn't looking for the ones, I was looking for 490 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 1: the many. 491 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,600 Speaker 8: But it's it is different from the apps, though, because 492 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 8: the thing is you need to meet all twenty five 493 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 8: guys really quickly, like pretty much within a week. 494 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 2: What whoa wow? 495 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 3: Wow? 496 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 1: Really? Well, how are you doing it? Or do you work? 497 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 8: Yeah? So I do work, but here's how I. 498 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:28,520 Speaker 4: Do it office. 499 00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: Okay, wait, listen, what. 500 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,360 Speaker 8: The purpose of meeting them all so quickly is that basically, 501 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 8: if you don't do that, then the one you like 502 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 8: is probably going to move on, because you know, in 503 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,439 Speaker 8: these online dating situations, it's fast, it's quick. Okay, Okay, 504 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:41,760 Speaker 8: you can miss out on somebody. 505 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:42,040 Speaker 7: Great. 506 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 1: So how did you manage to go out with twenty 507 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: five people in one week? 508 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 8: Okay? So this is what we did, Me and my girlfriend, 509 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:51,359 Speaker 8: we decided we're going to do this together. So we 510 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 8: knocked out twenty first dates in one day. 511 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 2: How oh yeah, that sounds like you'd have to play 512 00:23:58,520 --> 00:23:59,880 Speaker 2: like you have like a spreadsheet. 513 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,280 Speaker 8: So what we did was we found a location that 514 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,719 Speaker 8: had two cafes across the street from one another. Okay, 515 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 8: so my girlfriend, she had my Tinder and she was 516 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 8: swiping for me. She knows my type. She was setting 517 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 8: up basically fifteen to twenty minute long coffee dates with 518 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:19,800 Speaker 8: these guys, back to back to back. 519 00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,640 Speaker 1: So you were just bouncing between cafes, and you did 520 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 1: two different cafes so that the guys never overlapped into 521 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: the same place. 522 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 2: Right, like sitting in one cafe and letting them roll 523 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,160 Speaker 2: through one after the other. 524 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 1: Dude, did you get caught? I mean, there's got to 525 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,640 Speaker 1: be one guy who lingered later or. 526 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 8: You know, really no, it was it worked out great, 527 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,880 Speaker 8: like I actually met a time guy. Some of them 528 00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 8: did cancel, some of them were kind of like Duda. 529 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 8: There was one that I liked the most. 530 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 2: Okay, who is that? 531 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 3: His name was loll lolll. 532 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:58,880 Speaker 1: Like a lull in the conversation orlwl Lowell. Yeah, oh yeah, 533 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:02,680 Speaker 1: you got it, host Lowell. 534 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 2: No, not under the age of seventy. I don't think 535 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 2: I knew was. 536 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:12,679 Speaker 1: Okay? 537 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 2: What made you? What made you drawn to him? Out 538 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 2: of twenty different guys? 539 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 8: So basically what was sweet about him was he arrived 540 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 8: with a cookie, which I thought was really cute because 541 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 8: in my profile I say that I really love chocolate. 542 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, ribes that's a good idea. 543 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 1: I mus have been buzzing on so much caffeine. It 544 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: just dawned on. 545 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,360 Speaker 2: Did you have to drink a latte every single time? 546 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: You can't go to a coffee shop not buying something? 547 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 8: I thought things other than the coffee, you know, I had, 548 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,040 Speaker 8: you know, treats. 549 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 9: And okay, limping across the street by date number nineteen, cutting. 550 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,719 Speaker 1: You off, he shows a little gift for you I mean, 551 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 1: obviously that makes him stand out from the. 552 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 8: Crowd exactly, and I think going back, I think he 553 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 8: was date number seventeen. 554 00:25:59,000 --> 00:25:59,560 Speaker 2: Oh wow. 555 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,120 Speaker 8: I was really glad that I could honestly like still 556 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 8: focus by that point, because honestly, the day was super exhausting. 557 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 2: I know, one date sounds exhausting to me, let alone 558 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:10,119 Speaker 2: seventeen in a row, back to back to back to 559 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 2: back terribly. 560 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: I mean, were you able to hold the conversation? 561 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 8: Oh yeah, we had a really great, like fifteen minute hangout. 562 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 8: We've been texting afterwards, and I tried to set something 563 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,199 Speaker 8: else up, but then in the last week, I don't know, 564 00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 8: he kind of cooled off or whatever. 565 00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: Wait when we get him on the phone. You don't 566 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,959 Speaker 1: want us to mention that he was the best of twenty, 567 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,160 Speaker 1: do you, because I mean some guys, no, no, no, 568 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 1: I honestly though some guys may be flattered by that. 569 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, guys are competitive. We want to know that we're 570 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:36,640 Speaker 2: the best out of a big group. 571 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,840 Speaker 4: You there you go, Yeah, yeah, tell me after I 572 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 4: was the best in the middle of it. 573 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 1: I feel good knowing. 574 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 575 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 8: I really just don't want him to know because I 576 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,360 Speaker 8: feel like he might find it really cringey. 577 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 4: I mean it's way different. 578 00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, well we'll keep it a secret. Then 579 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 2: when we call loll for you and try and get you. 580 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 4: Yourself, you have the right number, right because you have 581 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:57,199 Speaker 4: heard numbers. 582 00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,679 Speaker 1: Just don't mean what if his name is wrong? What 583 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,200 Speaker 1: if we're calling him a name? 584 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 2: That's what I. 585 00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 8: Would do, But he's the only one I've been texting. 586 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 2: Okay, this is really interesting. An optimal stopping math experiment 587 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 2: where Tara met twenty guys in one day, back to 588 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 2: back to back to back. We're gonna call the one 589 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 2: that she actually liked when we do your second date 590 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 2: update right. 591 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 5: After this, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates. 592 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:28,960 Speaker 2: Going on twenty dates with twenty dudes all in one day. 593 00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 6: Wow. 594 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:30,919 Speaker 4: Wow, that's a big statement. 595 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 1: It sounds like a Kate Hudson movie, doesn't it. 596 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, sounds like an episode of the Bachelorette. But it's 597 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 2: actually a dating theory called optimal stopping math, and it's 598 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,360 Speaker 2: what one of our listeners Tara set up for herself 599 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 2: the other night. With the help of her friend, she 600 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 2: bounced between two coffee shops back and forth, meeting twenty 601 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 2: different guys over the course of a few hours to 602 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 2: pick the one that she liked the best. And who 603 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,440 Speaker 2: was that? It was a guy named. 604 00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,760 Speaker 4: Lowell l O W E L l it for himself. 605 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 2: I know, because I will have a whole fit about it. 606 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:07,240 Speaker 2: But he came with a chocolate cookie for her. So 607 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 2: Brooke is going to steal this guy. If he doesn't 608 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 2: agree to a date. 609 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 1: He's actually gonna take his cookies. 610 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,359 Speaker 2: Okay, rob him whatever of them. 611 00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: I do not need another man, Jeffrey, I just need 612 00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 1: more cookies. 613 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,000 Speaker 2: Your chocolate. But we're trying to hook her up with 614 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 2: Lull one more time because they've been texting but hasn't 615 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 2: been able to lock down a date. How do you 616 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 2: feel him before we call him, Tara. 617 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:32,200 Speaker 8: I'm interested to see what he's gonna say. I mean curious, 618 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:32,679 Speaker 8: I guess. 619 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:35,000 Speaker 1: Okay, if this doesn't work out, are you going to 620 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:38,440 Speaker 1: call us back tomorrow for number two dude? 621 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 2: A second best option? 622 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 8: No, he's the only one I coicked with, honestly. 623 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 2: Are Well, let's call this guy and we'll see if 624 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 2: he picks up. Good luck to me. 625 00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 9: Here we go, here we get it, just to say 626 00:28:55,400 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 9: his name? Hello, Hey, is this Lowell? 627 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? Speaking? 628 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 2: I did it? Okay, So, uh you are loll and 629 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:16,719 Speaker 2: we are a radio show. We're called Brooke and Jeffrey 630 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 2: in the Morning. 631 00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know you guys. What's up? 632 00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 2: Oh you do? Yeah, well, welcome onto our show here. 633 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 2: We're doing a second date update today. 634 00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 3: Oh okay. 635 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 2: Yeah that's a good thing. You know that, because I mean, 636 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 2: somebody is trying to get a hold of you and 637 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 2: you're not calling them back. 638 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. I guess I'm just thinking about it all right. 639 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 1: This would be so crazy to get like you're just 640 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: trying to process everything that makes sense. 641 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 2: We don't hurt yourself thinking. We'll just tell you who 642 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 2: it is. Her name is Tara. 643 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, okay, you guys had Well that's okay. 644 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 2: I feel like the smile left his voice. 645 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 1: I mean, you only had like a fifteen twenty minute date. Like, 646 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: it's not like you guys had a big long connection. 647 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 3: Well, I mean there was some talking, I guess you 648 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 3: could say beforehand, but yeah, you're right more or less. 649 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 3: What does she want to know? 650 00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 2: Well, basically, she wants to know why she hasn't seen 651 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 2: you again. 652 00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I mean I don't know what to say 653 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,320 Speaker 3: to her. Oh really, to be honest. 654 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 4: Would you. That's a good chemistry, like easy to talk to. 655 00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 3: No, I mean she she was definitely cool. It's just 656 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,200 Speaker 3: I guess you could tell her I know about everything. 657 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 3: That would be a way to put it what it means? 658 00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean no, no, no, let him explain. What 659 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: do you mean you know about everything? What do you 660 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 1: know about? 661 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,120 Speaker 3: I mean, I know I know about the speed dating 662 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 3: or the whatever. 663 00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 1: How'd you find out? 664 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 3: No, Tara's friends told me. 665 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:54,120 Speaker 4: Why would they do that? 666 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: How do you know Tara's. 667 00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 3: Friends may mean she texted me it'd be it's it's weird. 668 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 3: Apparently she's been texting me kind of the whole time. 669 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 1: Wait, who who's she? 670 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 3: Tara's friend was texting me in advance of us beating 671 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 3: up for this copy date thing. Why and she set 672 00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:15,239 Speaker 3: up the date? That's the point. Like, Okay, it's like 673 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 3: a half catfish thing. I met the real Terra in person, 674 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 3: but the person who I was, you know, texting and 675 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 3: emailing back and forth with somebody totally different. 676 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: Wait, but how did you know it wasn't the real 677 00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 1: terror that you were texting with? 678 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,200 Speaker 3: Well, because Tara's friend told me after the date. 679 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 2: Oh that's not she just came out and was like, hey, 680 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:36,960 Speaker 2: by the way, I was the one that reached out 681 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 2: to you, not Tara. 682 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 1: You have to be two different phone numbers. 683 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 3: No, it was stranger than that. It was more like, hey, 684 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,800 Speaker 3: guess what Tara liked you the most, which was confusing 685 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 3: because I didn't know who was texting me at first, 686 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 3: and then we got into it. I found out that 687 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,960 Speaker 3: there was twenty guys, twenty five people speed dating thing. 688 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 2: Oh my god, she told you the whole thing. 689 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,719 Speaker 1: So what are you saying, you like Tara's friend or 690 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,200 Speaker 1: your freaked out about the speed dating sitch? 691 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:06,560 Speaker 3: I mean the speed dating thing. Whatever. There's weirder things 692 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:07,760 Speaker 3: that happen in life, and. 693 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 2: You you were the best guy out of all twenty guys, 694 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 2: so you should feel good about it any day you 695 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 2: lead with that. Yeah, how that he knows? 696 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 3: I mean, sure, I get that, but I mean that's 697 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 3: not really how I think of it. It's more just 698 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,440 Speaker 3: the deceitful nature of it. 699 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you wouldn't have showed up if she said, Hey, 700 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,280 Speaker 1: I'm going to try to line up twenty five dates. 701 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:27,560 Speaker 1: You want to be one to twenty five? 702 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:28,400 Speaker 8: Uh? 703 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 3: Probably not? 704 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 2: No, I got you there. 705 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,480 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, sure, I don't know anybody who would 706 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 3: say yes to that. 707 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 2: Okay, good boy. 708 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 1: That's what dating is. I mean, sure she would have 709 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 1: gone on twenty five dates in a month and you 710 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 1: would have been okay with that. But just because she 711 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 1: did it in an afternoon, it's like the timeline. 712 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 3: Okay, No, no, no, that's not what I mean. It's more okay, 713 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 3: look to put it in simplest terms, I like the friend. 714 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, Oh that's the real stuff right there. 715 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 3: I mean, Tara was fine, Tara's a good person whatever. Like, 716 00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 3: nothing against Tara, it's just not the one I thought 717 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 3: I was talking to. 718 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 2: But you don't even know what We don't even know 719 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,400 Speaker 2: what Tara's friend looks. 720 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 3: Like, right, I mean no, but I'd still take somebody 721 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 3: I haven't met in person who's at least sitting there are. 722 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 2: Some type of guy that likes women for their personalities. 723 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:21,920 Speaker 1: That's what the heck loser going on with you? Very 724 00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,240 Speaker 1: nice little But I don't think that Tera is gonna 725 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: like that. 726 00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, because if you listen, then you know that TERA's 727 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 2: on the other line right now hearing this whole thing. 728 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:38,160 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, right, I don't know. 729 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,000 Speaker 2: If she's going to be laughing though, Terry. 730 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 8: There, Yeah, I'm here, and I'm just so confused because 731 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,480 Speaker 8: he had such a great connection when we met in person. 732 00:33:46,880 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 2: Yeah what about your your friend though, going behind your 733 00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 2: back and revealing the whole plan to him? 734 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, what the heck, that's messed up. I'm definitely going 735 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 8: to talk to her about that. But like, she's not 736 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 8: interested in you like that, like you're it was for me. 737 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 3: She said, what did she say? 738 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:06,560 Speaker 7: That? 739 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 3: Just that she'd like to see me for real? That's all. 740 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is cutting Tara out of it. 741 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,959 Speaker 8: I just don't believe it. 742 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:18,760 Speaker 1: You don't. 743 00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 8: I felt like we really connected. I'm just shocked. 744 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,520 Speaker 3: I mean, you're a very nice person, don't get me wrong. 745 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,279 Speaker 3: It's just the art once would have want something like that. 746 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:31,279 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I guess, mumble, mumble whatever, I gotta 747 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 2: say anything. 748 00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:33,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna paraphrase. 749 00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I guess it's just the highs and the 750 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 2: lowells of the dating room. 751 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:39,239 Speaker 7: Like this. 752 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that was a point in your career that 753 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: really was so. 754 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 3: Now that we've reached I'm going to use that though. 755 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 3: I'm definitely gonna use that. 756 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,080 Speaker 2: Dating friend because we're supposed to offer to send you 757 00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 2: and Tara out on another date. 758 00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 1: I mean, you can at least give Tara one more try. 759 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: You only had fifteen to twenty minutes with her. Don't 760 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:00,920 Speaker 1: even at the friend in person. 761 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 4: But Terror goes out with him, that's gonna make her 762 00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 4: friend of sex. 763 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,000 Speaker 3: Look at the bottom line is at the end of 764 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 3: the day, I had a stronger connection with the roommate 765 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 3: who I was talking to for what like a week 766 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 3: and a half, two weeks. Tara, I was like, it 767 00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 3: was fifteen minutes. It was basically hello, goodbye. I mean, 768 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,839 Speaker 3: it's just that simple. I'd rather date her. 769 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,319 Speaker 1: I hope that's okay, Tara. I mean, your girlfriend was 770 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,480 Speaker 1: an amazing wing woman, Like, that's a lot of work. 771 00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:29,399 Speaker 2: A reward for from the wing woman ended up taking 772 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:31,040 Speaker 2: over the whole plane though, Well, now. 773 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,359 Speaker 1: We're wing women in her. Like now it's like back 774 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: and forth, you know, you wing the wing and toning. 775 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, there's literally no one in the cockpit at this point. 776 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 2: So I guess we need to get an answer from 777 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,320 Speaker 2: you Lowel yes or no on dating Tara one more time, 778 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:46,719 Speaker 2: and we would pay for it if you met up 779 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:47,240 Speaker 2: with her again. 780 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:50,520 Speaker 3: I just feel like it would be disingenuous. I'm gonna 781 00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:50,960 Speaker 3: say no. 782 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 1: Oh wow, but you'll see him at your apartment this weekend. 783 00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:00,200 Speaker 1: It sounds like Tara, Oh god, no, you okay? 784 00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm okay, I'm just upset. 785 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Tara, We're sorry. I know you probably feel really 786 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,360 Speaker 2: really bad about how this ended. But at least that 787 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,960 Speaker 2: joke that I said earlier was really really funny. Remember 788 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 2: that'll keep you laughing for like a month. Wow, the 789 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,360 Speaker 2: highs and the lolls of your life. 790 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't need to repeat it. 791 00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,279 Speaker 2: No, this is a Lowell moment. Yeah, okay, we're ending that. 792 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:22,399 Speaker 8: I'm hanging up now. 793 00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I would do. 794 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:30,439 Speaker 10: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning man. 795 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 2: Tara was really putting a tough position there, finding out 796 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 2: simultaneously that the one guy she actually liked out of 797 00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 2: twenty was not only interested in another person, but that 798 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 2: other person happens to be her friend, who went behind 799 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,359 Speaker 2: her back to reveal the big plan. 800 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 1: To be awkward conversation because it sounds like the girls 801 00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,919 Speaker 1: live together too, Yeah, yeah, I did too. 802 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:57,840 Speaker 2: I believe that's called double jeopardy and it's worth twice 803 00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 2: as many points. 804 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 1: Oh are we still going on? The math nerdy angle. 805 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 2: On all this. I don't really know, Okay, I just 806 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 2: know it's doubly awkward for that friend situation. 807 00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 1: I know, but it's one of those things where it 808 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 1: sucks in the moment, but you know ten years down 809 00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: the line when the roommate's married to Lay. 810 00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah it's true. 811 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, no pressure, Lolly better marrier. And if you ever 812 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,560 Speaker 2: want help with your dating life, we can always try 813 00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 2: to do it. Email the show. We'll call that person 814 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 2: who's not calling you back and go check out all 815 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:27,359 Speaker 2: of our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at 816 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:28,120 Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey