WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Ditch Me No Ditch You 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:02.560 It's always a good sign when your day asked to 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:03.520 speak to the manager. 0:00:03.720 --> 0:00:06.560 Oh yeah, right at the beginning too, at the beginning. 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:07.880 All right, we're going to get into that with a 0:00:07.880 --> 0:00:10.000 brand new second date. Welcome to the podcast. We're so 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:10.720 glad you're. 0:00:10.560 --> 0:00:14.880 Here to complain. Well, I'm sure that's what it was. 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:17.800 Where's the drama? 0:00:17.960 --> 0:00:19.759 Yeah, yeah, all right, we're gonna get to that in 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:21.880 just a second. But we love starting with your comments, 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:24.400 and we've been doing on Sunday. We've been hosting our 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:26.480 full show just once a week. We don't want to 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:27.960 give you too much of us because. 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:28.360 I get it. 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:30.280 Off here. 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:34.600 Yeah, yeah, for even myself. So what what do you see, Alexis. 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:37.879 Yeah, someone said hello, this is Eustace from Cameroon. I 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:40.559 like listening to you guys while working on my spreadsheets. 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.320 Oh I'm a finance guy. I used to skip the 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:46.360 one plus hour full sessions, but listening to this was 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:47.280 rather amazing. 0:00:48.640 --> 0:00:52.040 Yeah all right, right, my mom loves spreadsheets. I don't 0:00:52.080 --> 0:00:54.400 understand people like you, but there is a thrill in them. 0:00:54.560 --> 0:00:56.639 Yeah, how beautiful. 0:00:56.680 --> 0:00:58.240 Yeah that would be the best place to be a 0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:00.800 finance Yeah, sure, financial guy. 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:03.680 Yeah, whatever it is. We don't do excel here. All right, 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:05.920 let's get into your brand new second date right now. 0:01:07.360 --> 0:01:11.520 Second date up dated Brooke, you'd agree with me that 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:15.280 it's important in the dating world to know what you want. 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:17.360 Yeah, I think it's important in life. 0:01:17.480 --> 0:01:21.240 Yeah, But it's equally important to know what you don't want. 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:23.679 Sometimes that's how you figure out what you do want. 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:29.120 Like Alexis, she does not want labels. Yeah, even if 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:31.920 one day down the road she gets married, don't put 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:32.880 a label on that. 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:41.000 He was my guy friend. Yeah, bothered a couple of children, exactly, 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:42.440 label on that. 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:46.400 That's gross. And one of our listeners knows exactly what 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:49.920 she doesn't want, and that's a second date with the 0:01:49.960 --> 0:01:50.960 guys she went out with. 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:52.200 And why is she calling us? 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:57.000 She does want answers. She deserves that, So let's talk 0:01:57.000 --> 0:01:58.440 to her. Jenna, Welcome to the show. 0:01:59.120 --> 0:02:01.480 Hi everyone, How did he block you? 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:04.280 And now you got to use us to tell him off? 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:05.400 Yeah? 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:09.799 Pretty much. I mean, I'm just no, I'm curious. 0:02:09.520 --> 0:02:11.919 At the point. Okay, all right, you're beyond me. 0:02:12.120 --> 0:02:15.399 I'm beyond mad and I hate that I am expending 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:17.799 energy on this, but like it's not. 0:02:17.840 --> 0:02:20.240 Okay, what happened and I just need to know, like, 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:21.200 what the heck? 0:02:21.440 --> 0:02:23.679 Okay, I think we need some explaining because you sound 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:24.280 really serious. 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.320 I feel like I have all the information that I 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:28.720 need to that little convo. But if you want to 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:30.520 give us some details, I'm cool with that. 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.080 Yeah, Like the guy's name, I start with, Yeah, what 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:33.720 is his name? 0:02:34.600 --> 0:02:35.440 His name is Peter? 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:39.480 Okay, Peter. We hate Peter? Yeah, Peter. 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:41.440 Yeah that could have been red flag number one. 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:47.520 Oh okay, some guy Peter in his car, Like oh yeah, okay, Well, 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:49.840 we'll give grace to most other Peters, but this Peter, 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:52.840 we're not saying, Yeah, why why do we hate Peter? 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:57.919 So we met on a dating app, But I don't 0:02:58.120 --> 0:03:00.280 usually meet a lot of guys, Like I'll talk to 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:02.640 a lot of people just to like get a vibe 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:04.880 or whatever, but I don't say yes to a lot 0:03:04.919 --> 0:03:10.320 of dates because because. 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:12.160 You can meet some quality people on there. But that's 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.160 not what this is about, exactly. It's rare. 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:17.280 So you thought Peter was quality in the beginning. I'm 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.360 assuming since you did say yes. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:23.079 Right, and he honestly should feel lucky that I said yes. 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:30.400 Okay at this point, Yeah, but going in, obviously you 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:32.520 had a little bit of optimism for how the date 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:32.920 would go. 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:34.320 So like what happened? 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:37.560 So when I feel like the person who's asking for 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:38.520 the date should. 0:03:38.240 --> 0:03:41.240 Be the one who plans the date, so thathing's fair. 0:03:41.880 --> 0:03:45.640 I said that to him. He said, he made a reservation. Fine, 0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:50.360 we decided to meet there to safety first, and we 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:52.240 get there and he checks in with. 0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.360 The hostess and they're like, oh, yeah, it's going to 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:57.720 be fifteen minute wait, and I was like, hold the pump. 0:03:57.840 --> 0:04:01.960 Oh is that when you stopped talking to him? It's 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:05.000 usually like five actions. They say that too, that is true. 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:06.640 Why are you saying hold the phone? 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:10.880 Because if he made a reservation, we shouldn't have to wait. 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:13.920 No, but that's the thing about reservations. I've often had 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:14.920 to wait for a resume. 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:18.000 But you're obviously not on the same level as Jenna. 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:21.360 Is so fair, you know, it's not fair to compare 0:04:21.400 --> 0:04:23.720 yourself that yet wait, so. 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:26.640 Wait, you're you're already getting upset because you're waiting and 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.840 you think he's lying about making a reservation. 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:31.479 Is that what you're I wasn't sure because he was 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:34.280 just like okay with the wait, So I'm like, that 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:36.680 feels iffy, Okay. 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.400 You want the guy to step up and be like, 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:41.840 excuse me, I made the reservation for this time. 0:04:42.240 --> 0:04:44.040 I wanted him to handle it, because you never know 0:04:44.080 --> 0:04:47.000 when fifteen minutes can turn into twenty or thirty. I'm like, 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:49.560 I don't want to spend all night waiting for a table. 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:53.279 So I ended up speaking with the hostess and then 0:04:53.400 --> 0:04:54.240 with the manager. 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:58.920 Oh good, Oh so you're fifteen minutes into a date 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:00.640 and you're already talking your manager. 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.839 Well, I didn't wait for fifteen minutes. Like I spoke 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:06.559 with the hostess, she brought in the manager. I didn't 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:08.840 ask for the manager, and. 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.359 Brookes, she's only doing that because her date is dragging 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.840 his feet on doing it. He's just cool with whatever. 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:16.680 But it sounds like you're already starting to work yourself up, 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:18.279 like you're already starting to get upset. 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:19.640 But get a bad mood pre date? 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:21.680 Maybe, Yes, I'm not in a bad mood. And if 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:23.760 I was in a bad mood, it wasn't my fault. 0:05:23.839 --> 0:05:25.640 The restaurant put me in a bad mood by making 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:27.480 me wait. My date put me in a bad mood 0:05:27.520 --> 0:05:32.520 by not fixing the situation. And after my conversation with 0:05:32.800 --> 0:05:37.440 the manager, magically I was seated and I turned around 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.520 and they got me a few free drinks. 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:41.000 They offered me an appetizer. 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:43.680 This is why complaining always pays off. 0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:45.719 This does feel like something you would do, Jeff. 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:49.040 Ye. Yes, I've come out on top status. 0:05:49.400 --> 0:05:51.680 So are you in your date back on? Are you're 0:05:51.720 --> 0:05:52.279 feeling good? 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:52.480 Now? 0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:55.279 You're feeling cared for and everybody's happy? 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:56.320 Right? Well? 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:59.279 I sat down and like I'm having my drink and 0:05:59.320 --> 0:05:59.880 I turned around. 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:03.320 He's just gone, like he vanished without saying a word. 0:06:03.440 --> 0:06:04.560 Wait what Yeah? 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.440 And I tried to call him. He's not responding. He 0:06:07.480 --> 0:06:10.159 won't answer text messages, he won't pick up phone calls. 0:06:10.440 --> 0:06:12.640 I mean, I did his job exactly. 0:06:12.640 --> 0:06:14.920 You put in all the work, and now he's deciding 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:17.640 to walk away. That's rude, right, Brooke, I you know 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:21.680 that's right. Yes, you are right, Jeff. This guy's are. 0:06:21.520 --> 0:06:24.400 I'm imagining like my husband going out with you on 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:28.160 a first date. He would have been so mortified and 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:32.960 embarrassed that he just wouldn't have wanted to even speak 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:36.039 to the restaurant's staff after that incident, So he probably 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:36.599 just left. 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:38.839 There's a clear line here. Some people are team Jenna, 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:42.400 and some people seem to be team Peter in this room. 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.400 Yeah. I mean, here's the thing. Are you really that 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:47.800 confused about why he left? 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.119 Yeah? I want answers. I'm pissed. He wasted my time, 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.599 he wasted my energy, my makeup products. 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:56.880 Hello, and I mean Brooke. Sure, maybe he didn't want 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:58.800 to be on the day anymore, but shouldn't he have 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:02.440 at least had the gentleman courtesy to say something to her. 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:04.919 Be a man like your husband, I'm sure would have 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.440 been and ditch before he ditched you on the date. 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:09.760 I'm just sure, but I'm kidding. Thank you. 0:07:09.800 --> 0:07:14.480 That's all that we need the bus. This guy deserves 0:07:14.520 --> 0:07:18.120 to answer up for the cowardly move that he did 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:20.840 by ditching him by not saying anything, Jenna, we're all 0:07:20.920 --> 0:07:23.880 on board with you despite the Thank. 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:26.000 You guys so much for your support. I appreciate it. 0:07:26.280 --> 0:07:28.600 We appreciate you, Jenna, and we would love if you 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:30.960 left a five star review on our podcast when you're 0:07:30.960 --> 0:07:34.239 done with this. It would really go along with okay perfect. 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:37.080 So let's wait till segment two before she actually. 0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:39.400 No, I wanted wanted to put it now before segment two, 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:41.600 because who knows what's gonna happen when we come back. 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:44.720 We're gonna call Peter and we'll see what he has 0:07:44.840 --> 0:07:46.880 to say in your second date update. Right after this 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:53.520 second date update, the room seems very divided about this 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:56.840 call with our listener Jenna, who told us that she's 0:07:56.920 --> 0:08:00.560 extremely upset since her date. Peter told her that he 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:04.800 made dinner reservations, but they showed up and the hostess said, well, 0:08:04.840 --> 0:08:08.680 actually you're gonna need to wait an extra fifteen minutes. 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:15.840 And Jenna didn't scream, she was just like, I don't 0:08:15.920 --> 0:08:18.840 understand why I thought we had reservations for that time. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:20.720 I think she may have been a little more forceful 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:21.000 than that. 0:08:21.040 --> 0:08:25.040 But yeah, Meanwhile, spineless Peter wouldn't say a word, so 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:28.880 Jenna had to step up and calmly confront the manager 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:35.640 herself and guess what happened? She got results? Okay, immediately, Oh, 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:38.760 I guess the table was available and was even given 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:42.600 free drinks and food for her trouble. And where was Peter? 0:08:43.120 --> 0:08:47.320 Who knows quivering Pete had dipped out without saying a 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:51.920 single word. Those are Brooks words, by the way. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.800 I hate when you just quote me like that. 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:55.640 Yeah, that's true, Brooke. I am just curious though, because 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:57.400 I was getting the vibe in the first part that 0:08:57.440 --> 0:09:00.440 you took issue with Jenna's approach to how she handled 0:09:00.440 --> 0:09:03.440 the situation. And I'm just wondering would it be different 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.320 if they had a reservation and it was an extra 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:10.000 forty five minutes an hour? Would her actions be warranted 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:12.760 if the time length was different? To me, good question. 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:15.319 Those are all like what ifs, Like that's not what. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:17.840 Happened, because you know, because you know that I'm. 0:09:17.760 --> 0:09:18.760 Right, No, it's not. 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:22.960 It's like hypotheticals, and hypotheticals will always get you in trouble. 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:25.000 Okay, Jenna. I'm trying to get them onto your side. 0:09:25.040 --> 0:09:27.559 I'm doing everything in my power. They still want to 0:09:27.600 --> 0:09:29.000 be team Peter for some reason. 0:09:29.120 --> 0:09:29.400 Brook. 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:32.000 I get the vibe that you don't support me, and 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:35.760 I've heard on your show that you support women, and honestly, 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:36.679 I don't think supported. 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:39.680 Yeah, where are you what happens? 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.800 I just don't know that you should be so mystified 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:44.480 that Peter's not interested? 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:46.760 I think, well, I don't think. I don't think that's it, though. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:49.040 I don't think she's mystified about why he's not interested. 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:52.480 She's just not understanding why he took the approach where 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:54.560 he did without saying a word. He was rude. 0:09:54.760 --> 0:09:57.480 Yeah, I just want to know, like what he was 0:09:57.520 --> 0:10:00.320 thinking to make such a cowardly decision to just leave 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:01.880 without anything. 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:04.480 We don't know what we're gonna get. If Peter answers 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:08.200 the phone, let's let's speculation. Maybe he will own up 0:10:08.240 --> 0:10:10.120 to all the mistakes that he made that day. But 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:10.880 let's find out. 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:13.080 I bet you, I bet Jenna will be very kind 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:13.800 and forgiving it. 0:10:14.880 --> 0:10:21.520 We're not dealing with hypotheticals earlier, so let's just take 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:23.319 some real action and dial the number. 0:10:23.559 --> 0:10:29.559 Give you makes sense, Let's get some Here we go. 0:10:34.559 --> 0:10:40.880 Hello, Wow answered on the first ring. Yikes, is this Peter? 0:10:41.080 --> 0:10:42.840 Is such a bad way to start a conversation. 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:45.520 Peter, is this you? 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:45.840 Yeah? 0:10:45.880 --> 0:10:46.400 Who is this? 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:47.640 Well? 0:10:47.760 --> 0:10:50.000 You should know us because we're a very popular radio 0:10:50.000 --> 0:10:52.679 show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. You may 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:53.320 have heard of. 0:10:53.320 --> 0:10:59.640 Us, or Jenna's really rubbed off on you. 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:01.520 What is happening right now? 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:04.800 Well, what's happening is a segment called a second Date 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.800 Update where we're trying to help out one of our listeners, 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:13.160 one of our very good friends. That's true. Her name 0:11:13.240 --> 0:11:15.920 is Jenna, and you went on a date with her recently, 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:18.760 you almost went on a date with her. I should say, well. 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:21.479 You waited five minutes with her in the restaurant lobby. 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:22.079 Ringing a bell. 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:26.120 Yeah, yeah, that happened. 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:30.400 Okay, okay, all right, I'd love just your first impression 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:31.880 of Jenna. 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:36.400 I mean, she's pretty, she seemed cool on the app 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:39.200 and then uh, I even went out of my way 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:42.240 to call a buddy and get a reservation at a 0:11:42.280 --> 0:11:43.120 new restaurant. 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:48.760 Oh dude, you yeah, we heard that there were supposedly 0:11:48.840 --> 0:11:52.360 reservations that were made, but when you arrived to the restaurant, 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:53.720 things didn't go that smoothly. 0:11:54.480 --> 0:11:54.680 Yeah. 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:56.160 Look, I mean it was swamped. 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:56.600 Okay. 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:57.880 I mean it's a new place. 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:00.480 It makes sense for a new restaurant. There's like systems 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:02.800 that they don't have in place. Yet sometimes they get 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:03.760 behind sounds. 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:04.679 Like they don't have their stuff together. 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:08.280 Yeah, that is just a trend. That's totally normal for 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:10.360 a new restaurant to not have all. 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:15.800 Yeah. Sorry to interrupt you there, Peter, keep going. 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:19.640 I don't know, guys, it was just pretty awkward because 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:22.640 I mean we get there and she finds out there's 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:25.480 a fifteen minute wait. I mean, my goodness pretty much 0:12:25.559 --> 0:12:27.120 kind of has a temper tantrump. 0:12:27.480 --> 0:12:30.800 She even said like, do you know who I am? 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:31.760 What she said that? 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:32.559 No? 0:12:33.040 --> 0:12:36.440 Yeah, Like he starts whipping out her phone showing her 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:39.200 twenty thousand followers she has of everything. 0:12:39.640 --> 0:12:43.000 Oh she's an influencer or she just has like twenty thousands. 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:45.280 That's pretty good. 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:47.240 Yeah, really just. 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:48.640 Like Brooks sounds a little bit jealous. 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:52.400 So you even so followed, I am not interested in 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.080 how many found people have, and I think that's such 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:56.800 a weird flex. 0:12:56.960 --> 0:12:59.400 Right, So then it was just so awkward, and I 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:01.840 just I was like, get over yourself. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:03.520 Okay, well okay, so. 0:13:04.080 --> 0:13:06.160 Is there a reason why you didn't tell her? Like, 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:07.480 hey man, that was too much for me. 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:08.040 I'm leaving. 0:13:08.440 --> 0:13:10.520 I just couldn't be with a girl like that, you know, 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:12.680 I'm like, get over yourself. I mean, I left, and 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:15.240 I had to as I was going home, I had 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:19.160 to like text my buddy like, hey, I'm so sorry, Peter. 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:22.760 No, no, no, Peter, sorry, Like just so you know, 0:13:23.040 --> 0:13:26.559 like I've seen mannequin's with more initiative than you. 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:30.120 What, Yeah, so Peter, you couldn't figure it out. That's 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:32.480 Jenna on the other line. She's been listening to this call. 0:13:32.600 --> 0:13:38.040 Normally we we have them wait. But yeah, and I 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:39.679 don't blame her either. That was kind of a long 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:40.959 explanation on your end. 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:43.600 It was exactly what we thought had happened. 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:45.839 She could have summarized it a little bit quicker, but 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:48.359 go ahead, Jenna. 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:51.000 I honestly don't appreciate being mischaracterized. 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:54.120 I am not. I never said you know who I am. 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:55.640 Like who says that anymore? 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:58.280 I heard you say it. 0:13:58.360 --> 0:13:59.160 But what maybe I did? 0:13:59.320 --> 0:13:59.839 Maybe I did it. 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:01.160 But at least we got a table. 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:03.880 You had one chance to act like a man, and 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.439 you went full on NPC MPC. 0:14:06.600 --> 0:14:07.640 What does that stand for? 0:14:08.120 --> 0:14:09.200 Non playable character? 0:14:09.400 --> 0:14:12.920 Yeah, Brooke, come on, come on, Brook. 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:15.079 It sounds like he didn't want to play. 0:14:15.240 --> 0:14:16.160 Yeah. 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:17.959 I didn't. I didn't want to be a part of. 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:21.000 It, right. Yeah, But there's a level of decorum that 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:24.000 usually comes into dates where you tell someone, hey, I 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:25.440 don't know if this is going to work out, or 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:27.480 I gotta go just dipping out. 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:28.440 What is he supposed to do? 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:30.640 He's supposed to say something, and then Jenna is going 0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:32.600 to go nuclear on him and make a scene in 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.280 the restaurant next and embarrass his buddy even more. 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:38.160 I apologize to his buddy, He apologized to the manager 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:39.840 and everybody except for Jenna. 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:42.360 But why does she deserve an apology? I guess is 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:42.880 my question. 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.800 Brook. You're supposed to support women's rights and wrongs. 0:14:48.320 --> 0:14:50.480 You know, women can still be a holes. Jenna. 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:53.400 I'm sorry, You're right and you're being one right now. 0:14:53.400 --> 0:14:53.680 Brook. 0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:59.040 Ye, I don't understand why you're attacking Jenna. She came 0:14:59.120 --> 0:14:59.920 to us for help. 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:01.760 I'm not dagging anyone. 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:06.320 It's just well, she's kind of being one. But yeah, 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:12.720 here's the thing, Like, Jenna, how could anyone calmly talk 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:12.840 to you? 0:15:13.120 --> 0:15:15.400 And in that moment, we're talking. 0:15:15.120 --> 0:15:17.280 About the wrong thing here, Like we need to talk 0:15:17.280 --> 0:15:20.760 about who gets done and I do? Okay, I got 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:23.800 it the table and he did nothing. 0:15:24.240 --> 0:15:26.640 I mean, this is just outrageous. I mean, Jenna, you're 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:29.240 a beautiful girl, but get over yourself. 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:32.280 I'm just going to take that as an apology that 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:33.520 you won't get over me. 0:15:34.080 --> 0:15:37.440 Oh wow, Okay, I like how you just take what 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:38.280 you want. 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:40.080 You know you got there. 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:42.560 I'm trying to see, Jenna, what you're saying doesn't even 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:43.440 make any sense. 0:15:43.840 --> 0:15:46.479 So I just want an apology. 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:49.520 I mean, I think that's a fair ass, just one 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.960 tiny apology for all the trouble that Jenna had to 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:53.280 go through to get her table. 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:55.560 And then in return, will Jenna then apologize to the 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:56.520 restaurant manager. 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:58.120 The restaurant gave. 0:15:57.960 --> 0:16:00.240 Her free food and drinks for their own mistake. They 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:03.200 admitted they were wrong fifteen minutes late for her reservation. 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:04.720 She didn't even wait fifteen minutes. 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:07.120 Super You know what, At that point, I don't even 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:08.440 just want an apology from Peter. 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:10.280 I want an apology from Brooke. 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:10.480 Two. 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:13.880 Okay, all right, bro why don't you be a good 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:16.960 role model and show Peter how a good apology is done. 0:16:17.000 --> 0:16:19.480 I don't think it's healthy to apologize for something that 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:21.760 you didn't do wrong. 0:16:22.600 --> 0:16:25.840 I'm not gonna take blame for Jenna's behavior. I'm sorry. 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:27.880 Well, maybe you should apologize for the outfit that you 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:30.360 chose to wear today, because this is a pain to ask. 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:33.040 Isn't like a snuggie? 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:33.800 Jeff? 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:35.640 For that? I am sorry. 0:16:35.760 --> 0:16:38.400 Okay, sorry for that, Jenna. I'm going to pass that 0:16:38.440 --> 0:16:41.280 apology over to you. Peter. Now's your chance to apologize 0:16:41.280 --> 0:16:44.280 for ditching out on Jenna without a word. Ready three to. 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:47.360 One, and you know when they say you don't have 0:16:47.400 --> 0:16:49.680 anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. That's 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:52.760 why I left, and I just got a backbrook on this. 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:55.960 I mean, I can't condone bad behavior like that. I'm sorry. 0:16:56.080 --> 0:16:59.160 Yeah all right, Yeah that was a long winded way 0:16:59.200 --> 0:17:02.480 of almost saying absolutely nothing. I'm sorry. 0:17:02.960 --> 0:17:04.120 Do not get what she. 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:07.359 Wants, Jenna, I'm so so sorry that you had to 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:10.320 go through all of that. Thank you. 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:11.520 She didn't want one to start. 0:17:11.880 --> 0:17:14.679 Yeah, I mean, I'm a man of action like Jenna is, 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:16.919 so I will take action and offer to put you 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:20.800 two together one more time for another redo. No thanks, Okay, 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:23.679 at least I tried at I'm the only one in 0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:24.359 the room who did it. 0:17:24.480 --> 0:17:27.000 So yeah, you hear that, Peter, I said no before 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:27.440 you did. 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:35.040 Spineless once again? My god, looking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:38.080 I don't like when calls get ugly like that. 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:39.760