1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: It's always a good sign when your day asked to 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: speak to the manager. 3 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, right at the beginning too, at the beginning. 4 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: All right, we're going to get into that with a 5 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: brand new second date. Welcome to the podcast. We're so 6 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: glad you're. 7 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: Here to complain. Well, I'm sure that's what it was. 8 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 2: Where's the drama? 9 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right, we're gonna get to that in 10 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: just a second. But we love starting with your comments, 11 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: and we've been doing on Sunday. We've been hosting our 12 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: full show just once a week. We don't want to 13 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: give you too much of us because. 14 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 2: I get it. 15 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 3: Off here. 16 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:34,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, for even myself. So what what do you see, Alexis. 17 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 4: Yeah, someone said hello, this is Eustace from Cameroon. I 18 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,559 Speaker 4: like listening to you guys while working on my spreadsheets. 19 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 4: Oh I'm a finance guy. I used to skip the 20 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 4: one plus hour full sessions, but listening to this was 21 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 4: rather amazing. 22 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: Yeah all right, right, my mom loves spreadsheets. I don't 23 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: understand people like you, but there is a thrill in them. 24 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:56,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, how beautiful. 25 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: Yeah that would be the best place to be a 26 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: finance Yeah, sure, financial guy. 27 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, whatever it is. We don't do excel here. All right, 28 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 2: let's get into your brand new second date right now. 29 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 3: Second date up dated Brooke, you'd agree with me that 30 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 3: it's important in the dating world to know what you want. 31 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's important in life. 32 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, But it's equally important to know what you don't want. 33 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 2: Sometimes that's how you figure out what you do want. 34 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:29,120 Speaker 3: Like Alexis, she does not want labels. Yeah, even if 35 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 3: one day down the road she gets married, don't put 36 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 3: a label on that. 37 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: He was my guy friend. Yeah, bothered a couple of children, exactly, 38 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 2: label on that. 39 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 3: That's gross. And one of our listeners knows exactly what 40 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 3: she doesn't want, and that's a second date with the 41 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 3: guys she went out with. 42 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 2: And why is she calling us? 43 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 3: She does want answers. She deserves that, So let's talk 44 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 3: to her. Jenna, Welcome to the show. 45 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 5: Hi everyone, How did he block you? 46 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 3: And now you got to use us to tell him off? 47 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 5: Yeah? 48 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 6: Pretty much. I mean, I'm just no, I'm curious. 49 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 2: At the point. Okay, all right, you're beyond me. 50 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,399 Speaker 5: I'm beyond mad and I hate that I am expending 51 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 5: energy on this, but like it's not. 52 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 6: Okay, what happened and I just need to know, like, 53 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 6: what the heck? 54 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 1: Okay, I think we need some explaining because you sound 55 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: really serious. 56 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 3: I feel like I have all the information that I 57 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 3: need to that little convo. But if you want to 58 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 3: give us some details, I'm cool with that. 59 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like the guy's name, I start with, Yeah, what 60 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 2: is his name? 61 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 6: His name is Peter? 62 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 2: Okay, Peter. We hate Peter? Yeah, Peter. 63 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 6: Yeah that could have been red flag number one. 64 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 3: Oh okay, some guy Peter in his car, Like oh yeah, okay, Well, 65 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 3: we'll give grace to most other Peters, but this Peter, 66 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 3: we're not saying, Yeah, why why do we hate Peter? 67 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 5: So we met on a dating app, But I don't 68 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 5: usually meet a lot of guys, Like I'll talk to 69 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 5: a lot of people just to like get a vibe 70 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 5: or whatever, but I don't say yes to a lot 71 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 5: of dates because because. 72 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 6: You can meet some quality people on there. But that's 73 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 6: not what this is about, exactly. It's rare. 74 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 1: So you thought Peter was quality in the beginning. I'm 75 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: assuming since you did say yes. 76 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 5: Right, and he honestly should feel lucky that I said yes. 77 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:30,400 Speaker 5: Okay at this point, Yeah, but going in, obviously you 78 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 5: had a little bit of optimism for how the date 79 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 5: would go. 80 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 3: So like what happened? 81 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 6: So when I feel like the person who's asking for 82 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 6: the date should. 83 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 5: Be the one who plans the date, so thathing's fair. 84 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 6: I said that to him. He said, he made a reservation. Fine, 85 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 6: we decided to meet there to safety first, and we 86 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 6: get there and he checks in with. 87 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 5: The hostess and they're like, oh, yeah, it's going to 88 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:57,720 Speaker 5: be fifteen minute wait, and I was like, hold the pump. 89 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 2: Oh is that when you stopped talking to him? It's 90 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 2: usually like five actions. They say that too, that is true. 91 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 3: Why are you saying hold the phone? 92 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 5: Because if he made a reservation, we shouldn't have to wait. 93 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 1: No, but that's the thing about reservations. I've often had 94 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: to wait for a resume. 95 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:18,000 Speaker 3: But you're obviously not on the same level as Jenna. 96 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 3: Is so fair, you know, it's not fair to compare 97 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,720 Speaker 3: yourself that yet wait, so. 98 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 1: Wait, you're you're already getting upset because you're waiting and 99 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: you think he's lying about making a reservation. 100 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 5: Is that what you're I wasn't sure because he was 101 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 5: just like okay with the wait, So I'm like, that 102 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 5: feels iffy, Okay. 103 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 3: You want the guy to step up and be like, 104 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 3: excuse me, I made the reservation for this time. 105 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:44,040 Speaker 5: I wanted him to handle it, because you never know 106 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 5: when fifteen minutes can turn into twenty or thirty. I'm like, 107 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,560 Speaker 5: I don't want to spend all night waiting for a table. 108 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 5: So I ended up speaking with the hostess and then 109 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 5: with the manager. 110 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:58,920 Speaker 1: Oh good, Oh so you're fifteen minutes into a date 111 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:00,640 Speaker 1: and you're already talking your manager. 112 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 6: Well, I didn't wait for fifteen minutes. Like I spoke 113 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,559 Speaker 6: with the hostess, she brought in the manager. I didn't 114 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 6: ask for the manager, and. 115 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,359 Speaker 3: Brookes, she's only doing that because her date is dragging 116 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 3: his feet on doing it. He's just cool with whatever. 117 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: But it sounds like you're already starting to work yourself up, 118 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: like you're already starting to get upset. 119 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:19,640 Speaker 2: But get a bad mood pre date? 120 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 5: Maybe, Yes, I'm not in a bad mood. And if 121 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 5: I was in a bad mood, it wasn't my fault. 122 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 5: The restaurant put me in a bad mood by making 123 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 5: me wait. My date put me in a bad mood 124 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 5: by not fixing the situation. And after my conversation with 125 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 5: the manager, magically I was seated and I turned around 126 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 5: and they got me a few free drinks. 127 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 6: They offered me an appetizer. 128 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 3: This is why complaining always pays off. 129 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 2: This does feel like something you would do, Jeff. 130 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:49,040 Speaker 3: Ye. Yes, I've come out on top status. 131 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 2: So are you in your date back on? Are you're 132 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 2: feeling good? 133 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 3: Now? 134 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 2: You're feeling cared for and everybody's happy? 135 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: Right? Well? 136 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:59,279 Speaker 5: I sat down and like I'm having my drink and 137 00:05:59,320 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 5: I turned around. 138 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 6: He's just gone, like he vanished without saying a word. 139 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 3: Wait what Yeah? 140 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 6: And I tried to call him. He's not responding. He 141 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 6: won't answer text messages, he won't pick up phone calls. 142 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 5: I mean, I did his job exactly. 143 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 3: You put in all the work, and now he's deciding 144 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 3: to walk away. That's rude, right, Brooke, I you know 145 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 3: that's right. Yes, you are right, Jeff. This guy's are. 146 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: I'm imagining like my husband going out with you on 147 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: a first date. He would have been so mortified and 148 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: embarrassed that he just wouldn't have wanted to even speak 149 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: to the restaurant's staff after that incident, So he probably 150 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 1: just left. 151 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 3: There's a clear line here. Some people are team Jenna, 152 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 3: and some people seem to be team Peter in this room. 153 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, here's the thing. Are you really that 154 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 2: confused about why he left? 155 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:51,119 Speaker 6: Yeah? I want answers. I'm pissed. He wasted my time, 156 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 6: he wasted my energy, my makeup products. 157 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 3: Hello, and I mean Brooke. Sure, maybe he didn't want 158 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 3: to be on the day anymore, but shouldn't he have 159 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 3: at least had the gentleman courtesy to say something to her. 160 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 3: Be a man like your husband, I'm sure would have 161 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 3: been and ditch before he ditched you on the date. 162 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 2: I'm just sure, but I'm kidding. Thank you. 163 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 3: That's all that we need the bus. This guy deserves 164 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 3: to answer up for the cowardly move that he did 165 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 3: by ditching him by not saying anything, Jenna, we're all 166 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 3: on board with you despite the Thank. 167 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 6: You guys so much for your support. I appreciate it. 168 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 3: We appreciate you, Jenna, and we would love if you 169 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 3: left a five star review on our podcast when you're 170 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:34,239 Speaker 3: done with this. It would really go along with okay perfect. 171 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 2: So let's wait till segment two before she actually. 172 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 3: No, I wanted wanted to put it now before segment two, 173 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 3: because who knows what's gonna happen when we come back. 174 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 3: We're gonna call Peter and we'll see what he has 175 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 3: to say in your second date update. Right after this 176 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 3: second date update, the room seems very divided about this 177 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 3: call with our listener Jenna, who told us that she's 178 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 3: extremely upset since her date. Peter told her that he 179 00:08:00,640 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 3: made dinner reservations, but they showed up and the hostess said, well, 180 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 3: actually you're gonna need to wait an extra fifteen minutes. 181 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 3: And Jenna didn't scream, she was just like, I don't 182 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 3: understand why I thought we had reservations for that time. 183 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 2: I think she may have been a little more forceful 184 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 2: than that. 185 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 3: But yeah, Meanwhile, spineless Peter wouldn't say a word, so 186 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 3: Jenna had to step up and calmly confront the manager 187 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 3: herself and guess what happened? She got results? Okay, immediately, Oh, 188 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 3: I guess the table was available and was even given 189 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 3: free drinks and food for her trouble. And where was Peter? 190 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 3: Who knows quivering Pete had dipped out without saying a 191 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 3: single word. Those are Brooks words, by the way. 192 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 2: I hate when you just quote me like that. 193 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's true, Brooke. I am just curious though, because 194 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 3: I was getting the vibe in the first part that 195 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 3: you took issue with Jenna's approach to how she handled 196 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:03,440 Speaker 3: the situation. And I'm just wondering would it be different 197 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 3: if they had a reservation and it was an extra 198 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 3: forty five minutes an hour? Would her actions be warranted 199 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 3: if the time length was different? To me, good question. 200 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 2: Those are all like what ifs, Like that's not what. 201 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 3: Happened, because you know, because you know that I'm. 202 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 2: Right, No, it's not. 203 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,960 Speaker 1: It's like hypotheticals, and hypotheticals will always get you in trouble. 204 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 3: Okay, Jenna. I'm trying to get them onto your side. 205 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 3: I'm doing everything in my power. They still want to 206 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 3: be team Peter for some reason. 207 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 2: Brook. 208 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 6: I get the vibe that you don't support me, and 209 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 6: I've heard on your show that you support women, and honestly, 210 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:36,679 Speaker 6: I don't think supported. 211 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, where are you what happens? 212 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: I just don't know that you should be so mystified 213 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: that Peter's not interested? 214 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 3: I think, well, I don't think. I don't think that's it, though. 215 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 3: I don't think she's mystified about why he's not interested. 216 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:52,480 Speaker 3: She's just not understanding why he took the approach where 217 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,560 Speaker 3: he did without saying a word. He was rude. 218 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I just want to know, like what he was 219 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 5: thinking to make such a cowardly decision to just leave 220 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 5: without anything. 221 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 3: We don't know what we're gonna get. If Peter answers 222 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 3: the phone, let's let's speculation. Maybe he will own up 223 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 3: to all the mistakes that he made that day. But 224 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 3: let's find out. 225 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,080 Speaker 2: I bet you, I bet Jenna will be very kind 226 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 2: and forgiving it. 227 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 3: We're not dealing with hypotheticals earlier, so let's just take 228 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 3: some real action and dial the number. 229 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:29,559 Speaker 2: Give you makes sense, Let's get some Here we go. 230 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 3: Hello, Wow answered on the first ring. Yikes, is this Peter? 231 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 2: Is such a bad way to start a conversation. 232 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 7: Peter, is this you? 233 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 8: Yeah? 234 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 3: Who is this? 235 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 8: Well? 236 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 3: You should know us because we're a very popular radio 237 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,679 Speaker 3: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. You may 238 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 3: have heard of. 239 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: Us, or Jenna's really rubbed off on you. 240 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 8: What is happening right now? 241 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 3: Well, what's happening is a segment called a second Date 242 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 3: Update where we're trying to help out one of our listeners, 243 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 3: one of our very good friends. That's true. Her name 244 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 3: is Jenna, and you went on a date with her recently, 245 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,760 Speaker 3: you almost went on a date with her. I should say, well. 246 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,479 Speaker 2: You waited five minutes with her in the restaurant lobby. 247 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:22,079 Speaker 3: Ringing a bell. 248 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, that happened. 249 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, all right, I'd love just your first impression 250 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: of Jenna. 251 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 8: I mean, she's pretty, she seemed cool on the app 252 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 8: and then uh, I even went out of my way 253 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 8: to call a buddy and get a reservation at a 254 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 8: new restaurant. 255 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 7: Oh dude, you yeah, we heard that there were supposedly 256 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 7: reservations that were made, but when you arrived to the restaurant, 257 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 7: things didn't go that smoothly. 258 00:11:54,480 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 4: Yeah. 259 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 8: Look, I mean it was swamped. 260 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:56,600 Speaker 4: Okay. 261 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 8: I mean it's a new place. 262 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 1: It makes sense for a new restaurant. There's like systems 263 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: that they don't have in place. Yet sometimes they get 264 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: behind sounds. 265 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:04,679 Speaker 3: Like they don't have their stuff together. 266 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:08,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, that is just a trend. That's totally normal for 267 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 2: a new restaurant to not have all. 268 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. Sorry to interrupt you there, Peter, keep going. 269 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 8: I don't know, guys, it was just pretty awkward because 270 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 8: I mean we get there and she finds out there's 271 00:12:22,640 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 8: a fifteen minute wait. I mean, my goodness pretty much 272 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 8: kind of has a temper tantrump. 273 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 3: She even said like, do you know who I am? 274 00:12:31,000 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: What she said that? 275 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:32,559 Speaker 1: No? 276 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 8: Yeah, Like he starts whipping out her phone showing her 277 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 8: twenty thousand followers she has of everything. 278 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 3: Oh she's an influencer or she just has like twenty thousands. 279 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 3: That's pretty good. 280 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, really just. 281 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 3: Like Brooks sounds a little bit jealous. 282 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: So you even so followed, I am not interested in 283 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 1: how many found people have, and I think that's such 284 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: a weird flex. 285 00:12:56,960 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 8: Right, So then it was just so awkward, and I 286 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 8: just I was like, get over yourself. 287 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 3: Okay, well okay, so. 288 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: Is there a reason why you didn't tell her? Like, 289 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: hey man, that was too much for me. 290 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 2: I'm leaving. 291 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 8: I just couldn't be with a girl like that, you know, 292 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 8: I'm like, get over yourself. I mean, I left, and 293 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 8: I had to as I was going home, I had 294 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:19,160 Speaker 8: to like text my buddy like, hey, I'm so sorry, Peter. 295 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 5: No, no, no, Peter, sorry, Like just so you know, 296 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 5: like I've seen mannequin's with more initiative than you. 297 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 3: What, Yeah, so Peter, you couldn't figure it out. That's 298 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 3: Jenna on the other line. She's been listening to this call. 299 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:38,040 Speaker 3: Normally we we have them wait. But yeah, and I 300 00:13:38,040 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 3: don't blame her either. That was kind of a long 301 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:40,959 Speaker 3: explanation on your end. 302 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 2: It was exactly what we thought had happened. 303 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,839 Speaker 3: She could have summarized it a little bit quicker, but 304 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:48,359 Speaker 3: go ahead, Jenna. 305 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 5: I honestly don't appreciate being mischaracterized. 306 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 6: I am not. I never said you know who I am. 307 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 5: Like who says that anymore? 308 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,280 Speaker 8: I heard you say it. 309 00:13:58,360 --> 00:13:59,160 Speaker 7: But what maybe I did? 310 00:13:59,320 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 2: Maybe I did it. 311 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 6: But at least we got a table. 312 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 5: You had one chance to act like a man, and 313 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 5: you went full on NPC MPC. 314 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 2: What does that stand for? 315 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 6: Non playable character? 316 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, Brooke, come on, come on, Brook. 317 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:15,079 Speaker 2: It sounds like he didn't want to play. 318 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 4: Yeah. 319 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:17,959 Speaker 8: I didn't. I didn't want to be a part of. 320 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 3: It, right. Yeah, But there's a level of decorum that 321 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:24,000 Speaker 3: usually comes into dates where you tell someone, hey, I 322 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 3: don't know if this is going to work out, or 323 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 3: I gotta go just dipping out. 324 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 2: What is he supposed to do? 325 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:30,640 Speaker 1: He's supposed to say something, and then Jenna is going 326 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 1: to go nuclear on him and make a scene in 327 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: the restaurant next and embarrass his buddy even more. 328 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 3: I apologize to his buddy, He apologized to the manager 329 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 3: and everybody except for Jenna. 330 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 2: But why does she deserve an apology? I guess is 331 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 2: my question. 332 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 5: Brook. You're supposed to support women's rights and wrongs. 333 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 2: You know, women can still be a holes. Jenna. 334 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 5: I'm sorry, You're right and you're being one right now. 335 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 8: Brook. 336 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:59,040 Speaker 3: Ye, I don't understand why you're attacking Jenna. She came 337 00:14:59,120 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 3: to us for help. 338 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:01,760 Speaker 2: I'm not dagging anyone. 339 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: It's just well, she's kind of being one. But yeah, 340 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: here's the thing, Like, Jenna, how could anyone calmly talk 341 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: to you? 342 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 2: And in that moment, we're talking. 343 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 5: About the wrong thing here, Like we need to talk 344 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 5: about who gets done and I do? Okay, I got 345 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 5: it the table and he did nothing. 346 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 8: I mean, this is just outrageous. I mean, Jenna, you're 347 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:29,240 Speaker 8: a beautiful girl, but get over yourself. 348 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:32,280 Speaker 5: I'm just going to take that as an apology that 349 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 5: you won't get over me. 350 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, I like how you just take what 351 00:15:37,440 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 1: you want. 352 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 2: You know you got there. 353 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 8: I'm trying to see, Jenna, what you're saying doesn't even 354 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 8: make any sense. 355 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,479 Speaker 6: So I just want an apology. 356 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 3: I mean, I think that's a fair ass, just one 357 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 3: tiny apology for all the trouble that Jenna had to 358 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 3: go through to get her table. 359 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,560 Speaker 1: And then in return, will Jenna then apologize to the 360 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:56,520 Speaker 1: restaurant manager. 361 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 2: The restaurant gave. 362 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:00,240 Speaker 3: Her free food and drinks for their own mistake. They 363 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 3: admitted they were wrong fifteen minutes late for her reservation. 364 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 2: She didn't even wait fifteen minutes. 365 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 5: Super You know what, At that point, I don't even 366 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 5: just want an apology from Peter. 367 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:10,280 Speaker 6: I want an apology from Brooke. 368 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: Two. 369 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, bro why don't you be a good 370 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 3: role model and show Peter how a good apology is done. 371 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: I don't think it's healthy to apologize for something that 372 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:21,760 Speaker 1: you didn't do wrong. 373 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna take blame for Jenna's behavior. I'm sorry. 374 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 3: Well, maybe you should apologize for the outfit that you 375 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 3: chose to wear today, because this is a pain to ask. 376 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 2: Isn't like a snuggie? 377 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 3: Jeff? 378 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 2: For that? I am sorry. 379 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 3: Okay, sorry for that, Jenna. I'm going to pass that 380 00:16:38,440 --> 00:16:41,280 Speaker 3: apology over to you. Peter. Now's your chance to apologize 381 00:16:41,280 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 3: for ditching out on Jenna without a word. Ready three to. 382 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 8: One, and you know when they say you don't have 383 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,680 Speaker 8: anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. That's 384 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 8: why I left, and I just got a backbrook on this. 385 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 8: I mean, I can't condone bad behavior like that. I'm sorry. 386 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 3: Yeah all right, Yeah that was a long winded way 387 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 3: of almost saying absolutely nothing. I'm sorry. 388 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 2: Do not get what she. 389 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 3: Wants, Jenna, I'm so so sorry that you had to 390 00:17:07,400 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 3: go through all of that. Thank you. 391 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 2: She didn't want one to start. 392 00:17:11,880 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm a man of action like Jenna is, 393 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,919 Speaker 3: so I will take action and offer to put you 394 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 3: two together one more time for another redo. No thanks, Okay, 395 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,679 Speaker 3: at least I tried at I'm the only one in 396 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:24,359 Speaker 3: the room who did it. 397 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 6: So yeah, you hear that, Peter, I said no before 398 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:27,440 Speaker 6: you did. 399 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:35,040 Speaker 3: Spineless once again? My god, looking Jeffrey in the morning. 400 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 3: I don't like when calls get ugly like that. 401 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:39,760 Speaker 2: We have had a couple lately. 402 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 3: I know, yeah, yeah, I know, And then I have 403 00:17:43,720 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 3: to be the one who steps up and apologizes for 404 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 3: everybody on behalf of the entire show. 405 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: She didn't understand You're being sarcastic may not actually support her. 406 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 3: I think our listeners deserve a little bit of support 407 00:17:58,359 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 3: even if they're not right. 408 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 2: Okay, well do you never tell them that they're not right? 409 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 3: Well, that's just gonna make them mad at me. 410 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:04,440 Speaker 8: Yeah. 411 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, someone needs to stand up for them. But I 412 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,880 Speaker 3: did take something away from it. Twenty thousand followers can 413 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,120 Speaker 3: get you free drinks and an appetizer. 414 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:17,080 Speaker 2: What we are way more than that. We never get anything. 415 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 3: I thought for sure it would be higher, like forty 416 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 3: five K. But if it's only twenty I'm gonna start 417 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 3: pulling out my phone at acclaim Jeffer, and I'm gonna 418 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 3: be like, excuse me. Do you know who Brooke Fox is? 419 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 3: I work with her? Yeah, and if you do, if 420 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 3: you don't want to be on her bad side, you 421 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 3: will give me some free Hallo Peno papers on the house. 422 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 2: You show my Instagram and you get charged more. 423 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:40,399 Speaker 3: I'm not going to show him that, ye. Did you 424 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 3: want to check out our socials, specifically our show one 425 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 3: at Broken Jeffrey. You can go send us a DM 426 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 3: and we might reach out to that person who's not 427 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:51,199 Speaker 3: calling you back. Yeah, and go check out our podcast too. 428 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 3: They're available online you can see all of our second 429 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,120 Speaker 3: dates wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey