WEBVTT - 2+2 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:05.359 Wine down with Janet Kramer and I heard radio podcast. 0:00:07.120 --> 0:00:10.400 I think one of the coolest things is leaving therapy 0:00:10.400 --> 0:00:13.760 and then seeing you. I was surprised she was like 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:16.800 out there with you today. Well, she's so cute because 0:00:16.840 --> 0:00:18.560 I think now that like she knows that, like we're 0:00:18.560 --> 0:00:22.760 comfortable knowing that we share her She's like, I think 0:00:22.800 --> 0:00:25.000 you want to go out this. She's like, let's just 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:28.600 see who's in the waiting room, and then you and 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:30.600 then you weren't there. So I was like, Amy, you 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:33.519 have to see these videos. I was like, I'm so 0:00:33.520 --> 0:00:36.880 sore because I started dance with herself. So I was 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.080 showing her the videos because you know, She's just like, 0:00:39.120 --> 0:00:41.159 it's so great to see you know, dance bring you 0:00:41.159 --> 0:00:42.320 so much to joy. And I'm like, well, I'm in 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:45.800 a lot of pain right now actually, but I'm so 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:50.040 pumped because it UM. I didn't know that they were 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:53.519 announcing it that day that so I was just like, 0:00:53.520 --> 0:00:57.600 oh my gosh, okay, but no, I am doing a movie. 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:02.440 Me and Mario Lopez are co executive executive producing and 0:01:02.480 --> 0:01:07.160 starring in um untitled Mario Janna movie. But we we 0:01:07.280 --> 0:01:09.680 dance in it. So it's been so fun to learn 0:01:09.720 --> 0:01:13.480 these dances and um, yeah, when we all decide on 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:15.800 a title and how does that work? Well, there was 0:01:15.840 --> 0:01:17.560 a title, but then like they have to go back 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:19.360 because then that they didn't like the title. So now 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:21.280 it's just we're trying to figure it out right now. 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:24.800 So I actually had a title call yesterday. Yeah I know, 0:01:24.880 --> 0:01:28.280 but Katherine went came to the studio to watch you dance. 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:32.360 Yeah I was. I mean, you're good, um for not 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:35.280 being a dancer. Thanks, You're very good at dance. That's 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:37.880 like those like someone else just gave me a really 0:01:37.880 --> 0:01:41.560 great backhanded compliment the other day. Was that what mine was? 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.520 I'm sorry, no, no, but you know what I mean. 0:01:43.640 --> 0:01:45.880 It's one of those I can't remember it. Oh man, 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:50.120 oh oh, I remember it was about dancing. The choreographer. 0:01:50.160 --> 0:01:52.840 He goes, so I remember watching your Dancing with the 0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:54.640 Star stuff, and he goes, We're just going to focus 0:01:54.720 --> 0:01:57.000 on your your top half because and I was just like, 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:04.720 oh okay. It was like so kind of but then 0:02:04.760 --> 0:02:06.320 I remember like Glad yelling at me, be like a 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:10.520 stronger legs, and I'm like I can't. So I'm just like, yep, 0:02:11.120 --> 0:02:14.200 focus just on my you have strong legs. So yeah, 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:17.960 but they like they're like Bambi when I dance. Okay, 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:19.680 And I've also learned I can't to hip hop, so 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:24.720 there's that really. Oh and my boyfriend also came to 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:26.800 the studio and he came during the hip hop stuff 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:29.359 and I kept being like, for some reason, the hip 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:35.520 stop move. But he is here, So I feel like, 0:02:36.280 --> 0:02:42.160 what you're staring at him? What he done? Done? Done? 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:48.720 Should we have him? Come on? Ian, he's so nervous. 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:53.079 I love it. Come on, you don't have to. That's 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:54.760 a thing like I'm not am I forcing you to 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:58.959 do this? Okay, because it's clear, make sure. But he 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:00.800 knows she's not forcing it. I'm not forcing him to 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:03.160 do this, but he's gonna come stary in the middle. Yeah, 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:07.720 come on, you got this? Okay, Hey, everyone welcome. I 0:03:08.160 --> 0:03:20.400 chinnelli on wine down nervous. Yeah, he got it. He's 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:23.000 this is are you bringing back you? Like? I feel 0:03:23.000 --> 0:03:29.280 like I'm watching me podcasting. It's it's uncomfortable, I understand. Um, 0:03:29.360 --> 0:03:32.680 So everyone wants to know the gymnastics story. So do 0:03:32.680 --> 0:03:36.920 you want to give the gymnastic story? Um? The gymnastic 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:46.360 story before that? Okay? Um, when we met at Urban Air. 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:52.480 I think you asked me if I knew you? Well actually, 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:55.280 and we gotta go back back, so we'll tell that story. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:57.320 Tell the story. How much of the gymnastics am I telling? 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:01.920 Like we seeing me before you even saw me at 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:06.520 Urban Air? Okay, okay? Trying to follow it to So 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:12.040 I saw a hot mom, very aggravated with her child. 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:16.640 Two children, but one was sitting on the floor trying 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:19.640 to tie her shoes or put her shoes on, and 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:22.279 and the hot mom was just not having it. Hot 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:25.680 mom turned out to be Jane. So then a few 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:31.680 days later, then go ahead, about a week later, Um, 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:36.160 we had been introduced at Urban Air. So I walked 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.760 into Urban Air. I brought my daughter to a mutual 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:43.760 friends kid's birthday party, and across the room, I see 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:47.279 the hot mom who was aggravated with her child looked 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:51.960 even hotter. So nobody dresses up or wears leather jackets 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:55.120 doing a kid's birthday party. It was a Halloween thing, 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:59.640 and I wore a really cute like did you know 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.839 it was? I was comping cozy but it was like 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:04.560 I wore this cute little like spider jump suit and 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.120 then I was like wow, this isn't cute the little 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:10.800 low jacket. So I did, and I was in jeans 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:13.440 and a T shirt from the gym. So but then 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:15.320 it's okay. So then that was the hot mom and 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:18.600 then um, we're going to have Sean and Andrew on 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:22.240 so they can tell the rest of that story. But 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:24.840 do you have any questions for Ian because Mark's not here? 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:27.640 So this is good. It's a good like intern having Mark. No, 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:29.280 we don't need Mark on here, but not for the 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:33.679 first one. I don't think I can do. Okay, here's 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:38.000 something that before Sean and Andrew pop on which I 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:42.440 was dealing with something the other day. And the two 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:51.080 plus two things, Yeah, explain that. What do you what 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.159 do you want to explain? Like of rationale behind the 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:59.320 two plass two uh two plus teak was five. It's 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:02.359 basically like it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter, like don't 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:05.520 sweaterver things. Don't get worked up about things. If somebody 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:07.920 tells you to plus to his five, fine, believe him, 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:11.640 move on. It does not matter what they say. How 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:16.600 you respond to people's on you, and so if you 0:06:16.640 --> 0:06:17.960 want to argue with them, you can argue them all 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:20.880 day long. If they tell you Toplos to his five. Okay, 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:24.320 you're right, move on to the next thing. Hard. No, 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:26.080 it's so hard because I was like, tell it because 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:29.599 we were I was dealing with the situation could be 0:06:29.920 --> 0:06:34.200 a co parenting situation and it could be. And he 0:06:34.839 --> 0:06:36.760 was just like, what's two plus two? And I said four? 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:39.000 Hees no, it's not, it's five. And I was like, no, 0:06:39.080 --> 0:06:43.080 it's not, it's four, jeez. And he's like, and he's 0:06:43.120 --> 0:06:45.520 the math guy, like, you're like super smart at math. 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.200 So I was just like, but it's He's like, why 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:54.520 are you even You're wasting your time. Yeah, it's so hard. 0:06:54.880 --> 0:06:57.080 I mean, that's so good. Good. Like now, I'm always 0:06:57.080 --> 0:06:59.320 like especially with it's like with the kids, with like 0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:02.320 my act, it's like two plass too, it's five because 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:09.760 it just doesn't matter. Why fight it? I remember it? Um, Okay, 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:11.160 I'm so glad Riley. I was going to tell you 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:16.480 that it's not Drew. I mean, it's not Dave. But um, 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:18.680 it's it's fine. I know. I was just like, I'm 0:07:18.680 --> 0:07:21.120 just gonna let her go with this one. Um, but 0:07:21.480 --> 0:07:24.120 we're gonna take a break and then we're gonna get 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:26.280 Sean and Andrew on and we'll tell the rest of 0:07:26.320 --> 0:07:42.240 the story. We're back. So we have Sean and Andrew on, 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:46.080 so excited. Um, First of all, I just because I 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:50.120 remember when I was on it was just your podcast 0:07:50.160 --> 0:07:53.040 at the time, right Andrew? And then what was it 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:57.200 called again? Direct? Direct? We directed? I'm sorry, but I'm 0:07:57.240 --> 0:07:59.240 so a couple of things is ingrained in my brain now. 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:03.360 So but I came on your show, and I remember 0:08:03.600 --> 0:08:08.800 you were like trying to convince Sean to have a podcast, right, yeah, yeah, 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:11.480 and I didn't. I failed that. So I just started 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:13.840 one anyway and said, hey, you have a podcast now, Sean, 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:17.760 and he started five days after I gave birth to Drew. 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:22.360 I was pissed. You were like, we need to record 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:25.000 a podcast today. So you did it without her permission 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:33.720 for real? Yeah? Yeah, well I will. I'll give this caveat. 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:37.480 I had agreed to doing a podcast. I had not 0:08:37.600 --> 0:08:43.440 agreed to doing a podcast. Then, yeah, that's yeah, so 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:47.480 he took some liberties there. Why that why that timing? 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:49.080 Did you just like not think because this is like 0:08:49.160 --> 0:08:50.840 that's such a man thing to do, like not to 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:55.040 recognize like the healing of like having a baby, and 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:58.439 there's no better time than to start right now exactly. 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:01.240 I got you freaking my guy gets it. But I 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:03.640 also agree to there's there's not a lot of logic 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:06.640 behind it. Was just, hey, this feels right. We're going 0:09:06.679 --> 0:09:08.600 with the way Andrew operates is he's like, I have 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:12.560 an idea, it's started today, and then I literally chase him. 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:15.200 I'm like the person chasing him in business, just trying 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:17.880 to like make it look good. I mean I kind 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:19.960 of agree with that because that's kind of my mentality 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:22.280 to where it's like, you know, I think we're definitely 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:25.120 dreamers and we want to do it now. Like why 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.080 would you guys have always connected on this? You guys 0:09:27.120 --> 0:09:31.920 just are like serial starters, which we could never finish 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:37.240 anything perfectionist. But um, well, so this is Ian's first 0:09:37.280 --> 0:09:41.400 time being on wind down and he needs a little 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:44.520 I think he needs podcast period, holding holding a mic. 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:47.920 So I'm trying to teach him to like, you know, 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:53.240 first podcast, first podcast. It only makes sense. I was 0:09:53.280 --> 0:09:57.880 hoping for this, Yeah, just for you guys, because you 0:09:57.920 --> 0:10:03.600 guys are the reason why we're together. Yes, so technically Andrew, 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:06.120 that was that was all Andrew, because he's doing that. 0:10:06.200 --> 0:10:09.440 Came over to me and he's like, what do you 0:10:09.480 --> 0:10:12.480 think about in Janet? I gave Sean the nod I 0:10:12.520 --> 0:10:15.040 like pointed about to you, and then I was like yeah, 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:22.319 and then I know. And then Andrew comes running over 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.520 to me and he's like, Okay, so there's this guy 0:10:24.559 --> 0:10:28.280 here that I want you to meet, and he's over 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.000 there in the orange shirt and just so casually I 0:10:30.040 --> 0:10:34.600 had like stared at him, you know, the last thirty minutes, 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:42.079 but I was and then um, I was just like, 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:44.520 well do you Is he interested in me? And like 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:46.520 this is such a typical guy thing, but you were 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:48.160 like I don't know. And I'm like, why didn't you 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.240 go to him first? Because now you're going to go 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:52.320 to him and what if he's like has a girlfriend 0:10:52.400 --> 0:10:55.920 or not interested or like you know, I was Internet, 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:58.840 are done his due diligence there. I feel like you 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:01.600 and you and ud knew each other well enough, like 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:07.000 Andrew was aware you didn't have a girl. Also fun 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:09.720 story and probably killed me later for this. I remember 0:11:09.720 --> 0:11:12.640 the first time Andrew met you Ian and he came home, 0:11:12.720 --> 0:11:17.880 He's like, I have a man crush. It's this guy Ian. 0:11:18.360 --> 0:11:21.000 And then every Saturday he's like I would ask him 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:25.880 like where are you going? Like the Navy seal everyone 0:11:27.640 --> 0:11:30.440 and you and I vibe on the dreaming perspective things. 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:33.679 But Ian and I vibe because I showed up and 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:35.600 here I thought that I was like a pretty good 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:38.880 athlete in pretty good shape, and then I'm Ian, who's 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:43.000 quite literally at least twice as fit and athletic as 0:11:43.040 --> 0:11:45.679 I am. But he also like puts. So you know, 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:48.800 I've been around natural talent athletes and that's one thing 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:52.520 Ian has that but he also works super hard, and 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:56.440 so I just immediately had a high level respect for Ian, 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.960 and I was like, all right, this is a dude 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:08.199 that I want to I was immediately attractive. I'm still 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:11.920 trying to appreciate that. No, I mean you guys, you 0:12:11.960 --> 0:12:14.080 guys have your datter days on Saturdays. I feel like 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:17.200 we need to do something. Sean pays that, like they're 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:22.000 with wine Wednesdays. Absolutely, can it involve wine. Though we're 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:25.719 now working out, we're good, Like we're yeah, we can 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:27.720 work out and have wine on Wednesdays. There we go. 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:29.880 I'm trying to think what would a tally count look 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:32.360 like for the number of bottles of wine we've drank 0:12:32.400 --> 0:12:36.360 with Jannah. I think it's over tin. What do you 0:12:36.360 --> 0:12:39.120 think I've done that? I've done that in a week. 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:44.160 So we went through like justly remember going home and 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:48.080 I was like, I feel terrible. That was a fun night. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:50.640 What then we were both doing handstands in your kitchen? 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:53.520 So did you do that? We still need to compete, 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:57.800 by the way, Yes, actually those today? That scares me. 0:12:58.960 --> 0:13:00.960 What What did you say about the wine? You've never 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:04.280 had so much? What when we first started dating, I 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:06.800 had never had so much wine and salads of my 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:11.120 entire life salads, Yeah, you have the key wine. Yeah, 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:18.960 that's a salad. You feel good about drinking lots of 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:23.720 so Okay, a couple of things I did there? Um, 0:13:23.760 --> 0:13:28.679 what has been the hardest part working together on this podcast? 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:33.000 Hold on? What? We can't just talk about Ian and 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:37.400 not have Ian talk about himself. It's not your interview, 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:45.640 but we're going to get there later. Right now, we're interviewing, y'all. Okay, Yeah, 0:13:45.640 --> 0:13:47.720 we've got I've got plenty. You can interview Ian if 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:49.760 you want for the last part of this segment. You 0:13:49.760 --> 0:13:51.760 can then interview the in. Okay, there we go, But 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:55.200 right now it's having a couple of things. Uh, I 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:58.640 feel like working together. It was difficult at first. It 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:02.840 still is difficult, but we've gotten so much practice at it, 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:06.840 so many reps that the most difficult things we've figured 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:10.679 out how to navigate or communicate around. So I think 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:14.559 it's getting better. But I think it's a huge honor, honestly, 0:14:14.640 --> 0:14:19.960 to like get to know my wife and in like 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:23.640 a unique way that typically marriages don't. Like you don't 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:25.880 usually spend all day every day with your partner and 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:28.520 you don't really see how they are using their gifts 0:14:28.520 --> 0:14:30.920 and talents on a day day basis. But with Sean, 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:34.680 I do. And yes, there's like annoyances that come with 0:14:34.800 --> 0:14:36.400 working with your spouse, but at the end of the 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:44.080 day your opinionated. Yeah, but and you make things difficult. 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:47.320 But but do you think the difficult nos or the 0:14:47.480 --> 0:14:51.240 difficulty and that like what she does is actually makes 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:54.160 it better? Yeah, Hunter, Yeah, it would be a train 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:58.680 wreck over here, but it still makes it difficult. May 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:02.200 see good about my side work. I would also add 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:04.640 something that we're still working on we have a really 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:07.600 hard time with. I'd say it's like the one issue 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:11.720 that we um probably will forever work on, just because 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:16.120 we both love to work so much is differentiating husband 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:20.760 and wife and then like coworkers. So it's hard like 0:15:21.320 --> 0:15:22.920 if we're eating dinner at the end of the day, 0:15:22.920 --> 0:15:24.840 that's usually when we're supposed to be husband and wife. 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:26.360 But if I had to ask him like a coworker 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:29.480 question or vice versa, it's hard to know who I'm getting. 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:32.400 So if he if he makes a critique, is it 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:34.800 like is this my is this my business partner critiquing 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:38.040 a business partner, or is this husband critiquing wife? Like 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.880 it's those lines get very very blurred and trying to 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:43.960 like distinguish what times and what parts of the day 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:48.160 we get either. I think it's for us been the 0:15:48.200 --> 0:15:52.680 hardest part. But I think I'll ask us to do 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:57.520 you do you think, um, when you do have that disagreement, 0:15:57.800 --> 0:15:59.400 is it hard? Because I know for me, like when 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:01.600 I worked with my like it was when we were 0:16:01.640 --> 0:16:04.360 in it, it was hard to work, you know, and 0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:07.200 be present and be authentic. Is it like, how do 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:08.800 you guys like kind of snap out of it or 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:10.840 is it just like are you able to be like, Okay, 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:13.520 we're working, like let's drop the emotion or whatever. Oh 0:16:13.640 --> 0:16:16.840 like when we're in an argument. Yeah, yeah, no, that's 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:20.400 definitely the case. It's like we have to resolve like 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:23.640 personal stuff because we're like we're filming stuff this you 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:25.880 can't jump on a podcast and be pissed at each 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:28.640 other and then try to ask questions. And you know, 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:32.320 we've had it happened a few times where like we 0:16:32.360 --> 0:16:34.680 aren't able to resolve it before we're supposed to do something, 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:37.840 and we're just like, we can't fake this and it's 0:16:37.880 --> 0:16:39.840 not healthy to fake it. So we're just like we're done. 0:16:39.840 --> 0:16:41.600 We're not going to do it today. I mean, that's 0:16:41.600 --> 0:16:43.160 something that I wish I would have done because man, 0:16:44.200 --> 0:16:46.440 and I'm like, because I'm like, then people here and 0:16:46.440 --> 0:16:48.880 they're like, clearly they were at each other's that day, 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:52.440 you know, because you'll try to just keep going. Yeah, 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:54.840 it makes it worse because if you start getting used 0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:59.680 to like faking that on camera. I don't know. I 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:02.280 think that that just plays into like the relationship when 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:05.080 you're off camera. But one thing is for sure, Janna, 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:09.159 you know, she sometimes she gets the business partner, sometimes 0:17:09.160 --> 0:17:11.720 she gets the husband. But you can bet at the 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:19.000 end of the night she gets Rico Suave. Yeah, non 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:25.879 serious answer was coming out of that. Yeah, but you 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:27.640 know what I think is. I mean, obviously you guys 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:30.080 enjoy working together. You guys have found your your thing 0:17:30.160 --> 0:17:33.080 and you know you've what's what are you guys gonna 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:37.200 be working on a book next? Hm? I'm still learning 0:17:37.240 --> 0:17:42.480 how to read. So we have actually talked about doing 0:17:42.520 --> 0:17:45.480 a book, but we have such a hard time even 0:17:45.520 --> 0:17:49.440 like on our show of we want to make sure 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:51.719 we draw the line in the sand that we are 0:17:51.760 --> 0:17:53.760 never trying to teach anything because we don't know it. 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:57.280 We truly don't. We don't know anything about like this 0:17:57.359 --> 0:17:58.960 is how you should do marriage or this is how 0:17:59.000 --> 0:18:01.919 you should do relationship. So trying to figure out how 0:18:01.960 --> 0:18:04.680 to write a book where we're not trying to teach something, well, 0:18:04.720 --> 0:18:07.199 that kind of goes into my next thing is what 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:09.679 is one thing that you guys, like, what is it 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:11.800 that you're wanting to offer other couples? Like is there 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.879 something where it's like this has worked really well for 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:16.560 us and you want people to know that, or do 0:18:16.600 --> 0:18:18.680 you just want people to like see fun and light, 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:20.840 which they'd see, but also like is there something where 0:18:20.840 --> 0:18:23.960 you're like because we all learned something, yeah, we don't know. 0:18:24.080 --> 0:18:27.320 You were not therapists, but we're still, is there something 0:18:27.359 --> 0:18:29.200 that you guys do really well together that would be 0:18:29.200 --> 0:18:34.840 helpful for other couples? Um? Well, I view all content 0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:38.720 on the range of like education on one in entertainment 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:41.280 on the other. We definitely try to keep things more 0:18:41.359 --> 0:18:45.280 light and enjoyable and on the entertainment side of things. Um. 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:49.000 But I would say our goal with like what we're 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:51.920 trying to offer is really just be a starting point 0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:55.520 for conversations uh the other couples can have. So like 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:57.919 we gotta we went on this tour, this like sixth 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:00.800 day tour, um, which is so fun, like get to 0:19:00.840 --> 0:19:03.760 meet people, but hearing the stories of how they would 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:07.560 listen to a podcast episode and they had been in 0:19:07.600 --> 0:19:10.399 an argument and then we mentioned something that like touched 0:19:10.400 --> 0:19:14.040 the nerve or or like sparked a laugh and then 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:16.119 snap them out of that because you know, sometimes we 0:19:16.160 --> 0:19:17.760 need an argument. Alls you need is like a third 0:19:17.760 --> 0:19:22.120 party perspective to get you out of that rut. So 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:25.920 if we could be that and and provide that for people, 0:19:26.000 --> 0:19:28.600 then I would count that as a huge one. I 0:19:28.600 --> 0:19:31.919 think we're also slightly like blindly going into it and 0:19:32.040 --> 0:19:37.360 navigating it. Um. We started the show because we got 0:19:37.400 --> 0:19:41.440 really annoyed with the perfection that press tries to portray 0:19:41.520 --> 0:19:46.680 relationships as and we got really tired of then painting 0:19:46.680 --> 0:19:48.840 this picture that if you don't do your relationship a 0:19:48.880 --> 0:19:52.480 certain way, it's not going to work. And we believe 0:19:52.520 --> 0:19:55.720 that every single relationship is different and can overcome anything, 0:19:56.400 --> 0:19:59.000 like if that relationship like once, like it's just different. 0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:02.120 Every relationship is to friends, and I think for us, 0:20:02.200 --> 0:20:06.120 we just have had a really good time learning how 0:20:06.160 --> 0:20:10.639 each individual relationship works. And we've just learned a lot 0:20:10.680 --> 0:20:14.199 from other people that has like constantly helped our relationship. 0:20:15.119 --> 0:20:17.400 Do you guys have boundaries and like what you share 0:20:17.400 --> 0:20:24.240 and what you don't share? Yes, yeah, kind of. I 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:27.480 think we don't talk about anything that we haven't already 0:20:27.480 --> 0:20:30.080 worked through, So like we can't be working through something 0:20:30.119 --> 0:20:33.680 live on a show. It has to be resolved and 0:20:33.920 --> 0:20:36.399 we have to be like in a good space, and 0:20:36.400 --> 0:20:41.440 then we don't. We don't get like raunchy, like sexual 0:20:42.720 --> 0:20:45.040 that stuff always kind of like you don't really like 0:20:45.080 --> 0:20:51.080 talking about that, do you? Like? In general, I'll talk 0:20:51.119 --> 0:20:53.960 about it with friends and stuff. I don't care as 0:20:53.960 --> 0:20:55.960 far as like I feel like to a certain extent, 0:20:56.000 --> 0:20:57.959 you can only share so much your life before your 0:20:58.000 --> 0:21:00.600 life becomes the world and not your own up. And 0:21:00.640 --> 0:21:04.720 like we try to keep at least that to ourselves. Sure, 0:21:05.200 --> 0:21:08.199 I think we would have way less boundaries if it 0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:12.000 wasn't for Sean. And I'm thankful for Sean to set 0:21:12.000 --> 0:21:14.840 the boundaries. But like for me, anything that happens, I 0:21:14.920 --> 0:21:16.880 like view it as part of the plot. It's like, oh, 0:21:16.960 --> 0:21:23.480 this is an unfolding. I mean again, but also I've 0:21:23.560 --> 0:21:28.359 learned that that is can be harmful to a relationship, 0:21:28.440 --> 0:21:32.800 having that much detail out because it is you were more, 0:21:32.840 --> 0:21:37.359 you're you're picked apart more, you have more eyes to 0:21:37.520 --> 0:21:39.800 pick apart things because once you say it, you put 0:21:39.840 --> 0:21:42.320 it out there, you can't really get it back. But 0:21:42.320 --> 0:21:44.159 but you could probably test to this, tell me if 0:21:44.160 --> 0:21:49.000 I'm wrong. It's also you have more loyalty, Like there there, 0:21:49.080 --> 0:21:50.840 you definitely open yourself up. But that's the whole thing 0:21:50.840 --> 0:21:53.080 with being vulnerable right where it's like, yeah, you can 0:21:53.080 --> 0:21:56.800 get crushed, but you can also be supported in a 0:21:56.840 --> 0:22:01.000 way that you otherwise couldn't be. Right. No, very very yeah, 0:22:01.040 --> 0:22:05.280 I mean you have super loyal fans. Yeah they're very loyal. Yeah, 0:22:05.560 --> 0:22:08.960 very very very loyal for sure. But again the people 0:22:09.000 --> 0:22:11.359 that don't know me or don't know certain things, like 0:22:11.400 --> 0:22:13.520 they just see like a headline. Then that gets picked 0:22:13.520 --> 0:22:15.840 apart because I was too open or to this or whatever, 0:22:17.280 --> 0:22:19.919 or I misspoke or I you know, said, I mean 0:22:19.920 --> 0:22:22.280 there are some things that were spoken about last podcast. 0:22:22.320 --> 0:22:24.280 I'm like, man, I should have thought about before I spoke. 0:22:25.200 --> 0:22:27.359 I use my words a little differently, you know. So 0:22:27.400 --> 0:22:29.480 I think that can be. It's just hard when you 0:22:29.480 --> 0:22:32.680 put things out there. Yes, But I also think that's 0:22:32.720 --> 0:22:37.000 super super refreshing because people like to play this, people 0:22:37.000 --> 0:22:40.399 like to believe in act like we're all perfect and 0:22:40.440 --> 0:22:42.439 we should know exactly what we're saying when we say it, 0:22:42.480 --> 0:22:44.040 and we should know everything in the world and how 0:22:44.040 --> 0:22:47.119 to be politically correct and how to make everybody happy 0:22:47.160 --> 0:22:50.800 and when we're all human and we don't. So yeah, 0:22:50.920 --> 0:22:54.560 I think that's really refreshing and speak your mind. Yeah, 0:22:54.960 --> 0:23:00.520 And I have a question for you, Um, is it 0:23:00.560 --> 0:23:06.399 is it worrisome to you that I am so open um? 0:23:06.600 --> 0:23:09.040 Not exactly and I knew that kind of getting involved 0:23:09.040 --> 0:23:14.160 in this, but you haven't really shared too much about it, right, 0:23:14.720 --> 0:23:16.440 Like is there something where you're like, hey, like this 0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:19.919 isn't like off boundaries or like, don't talk about our 0:23:19.920 --> 0:23:22.440 relationship or because I mean I haven't. I haven't really, 0:23:23.400 --> 0:23:26.560