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Speaker 1: Wine down with Janet Kramer and I heard radio podcast.

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Speaker 1: I think one of the coolest things is leaving therapy

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Speaker 1: and then seeing you. I was surprised she was like

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Speaker 1: out there with you today. Well, she's so cute because

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Speaker 1: I think now that like she knows that, like we're

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Speaker 1: comfortable knowing that we share her She's like, I think

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Speaker 1: you want to go out this. She's like, let's just

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Speaker 1: see who's in the waiting room, and then you and

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Speaker 1: then you weren't there. So I was like, Amy, you

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Speaker 1: have to see these videos. I was like, I'm so

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Speaker 1: sore because I started dance with herself. So I was

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Speaker 1: showing her the videos because you know, She's just like,

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Speaker 1: it's so great to see you know, dance bring you

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Speaker 1: so much to joy. And I'm like, well, I'm in

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Speaker 1: a lot of pain right now actually, but I'm so

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Speaker 1: pumped because it UM. I didn't know that they were

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Speaker 1: announcing it that day that so I was just like,

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Speaker 1: oh my gosh, okay, but no, I am doing a movie.

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Speaker 1: Me and Mario Lopez are co executive executive producing and

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Speaker 1: starring in um untitled Mario Janna movie. But we we

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Speaker 1: dance in it. So it's been so fun to learn

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Speaker 1: these dances and um, yeah, when we all decide on

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Speaker 1: a title and how does that work? Well, there was

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Speaker 1: because then that they didn't like the title. So now

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Speaker 1: it's just we're trying to figure it out right now.

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Speaker 1: So I actually had a title call yesterday. Yeah I know,

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Speaker 1: but Katherine went came to the studio to watch you dance.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I was. I mean, you're good, um for not

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Speaker 1: like those like someone else just gave me a really

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Speaker 1: great backhanded compliment the other day. Was that what mine was?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, no, no, but you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It's one of those I can't remember it. Oh man,

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Speaker 1: oh oh, I remember it was about dancing. The choreographer.

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Speaker 1: He goes, so I remember watching your Dancing with the

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Speaker 1: Star stuff, and he goes, We're just going to focus

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Speaker 1: but they like they're like Bambi when I dance. Okay,

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Speaker 1: And I've also learned I can't to hip hop, so

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Speaker 1: there's that really. Oh and my boyfriend also came to

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Speaker 1: what you're staring at him? What he done? Done? Done?

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Speaker 1: Should we have him? Come on? Ian, he's so nervous.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Come on, you don't have to. That's

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Speaker 1: a thing like I'm not am I forcing you to

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Speaker 1: knows she's not forcing it. I'm not forcing him to

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Speaker 1: come on, you got this? Okay, Hey, everyone welcome. I

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Speaker 1: chinnelli on wine down nervous. Yeah, he got it. He's

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Speaker 1: this is are you bringing back you? Like? I feel

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Speaker 1: like I'm watching me podcasting. It's it's uncomfortable, I understand. Um,

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Speaker 1: So everyone wants to know the gymnastics story. So do

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Speaker 1: you want to give the gymnastic story? Um? The gymnastic

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Speaker 1: story before that? Okay? Um, when we met at Urban Air.

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Speaker 1: and we gotta go back back, so we'll tell that story.

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Speaker 1: Tell the story. How much of the gymnastics am I telling?

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Speaker 1: two plass two uh two plus teak was five. It's

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Speaker 1: move on. It does not matter what they say. How

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Speaker 1: a podcast today. So you did it without her permission

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Speaker 1: there's no better time than to start right now exactly.

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Speaker 1: an idea, it's started today, and then I literally chase him.

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Speaker 1: the first time Andrew met you Ian and he came home,

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Speaker 1: He's like, I have a man crush. It's this guy Ian.

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Speaker 1: And then every Saturday he's like I would ask him

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Speaker 1: and you and I vibe on the dreaming perspective things.

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Speaker 1: But Ian and I vibe because I showed up and

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Speaker 1: here I thought that I was like a pretty good

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Speaker 1: I am. But he also like puts. So you know,

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Speaker 1: I've been around natural talent athletes and that's one thing

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Speaker 1: so I just immediately had a high level respect for Ian,

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Speaker 1: trying to appreciate that. No, I mean you guys, you

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Speaker 1: guys have your datter days on Saturdays. I feel like

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Speaker 1: with wine Wednesdays. Absolutely, can it involve wine. Though we're

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Speaker 1: in Nashville. I was like, Okay, what do I need

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00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 1: to like prepare for with marriage? What arguments, like, what transition,

426
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: what hardships? And she was like, oh, me and my

427
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 1: husband have never fought. And I was like, Okay, that

428
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: makes me feel terrible because like we had argued. And

429
00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: I think what's refreshing is like having all of these

430
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: conversations with people who have been together for however many

431
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:55,920
Speaker 1: years or overcome whatever, or gone through separation happily or

432
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 1: married like everything. It's just relatable and it makes you

433
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 1: feel like, Okay, I've got a that I can use

434
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 1: to get through it. I guess I'm just saying out

435
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 1: loud though, because I do think there there's a stipulation

436
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 1: in my mind of like it's almost like gossiping about

437
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: yourself can happen where you can just unfiltered share of things, right,

438
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 1: And we've done that in the past on social media

439
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:22,200
Speaker 1: and we've learned from it. And like I think sending

440
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 1: whatever issue or conflict or problem you're having through an

441
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 1: initial like filter of you're dealing with it can be

442
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: really helpful and all because you want to talk about

443
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 1: issues with friends with the hopes of resolving them or

444
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 1: learning something new or you know, with the positive outcome

445
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 1: in mind, not with like the echo chamber of oh,

446
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: you know what, Sean said this to me and I'm

447
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 1: talking to my friend about it and he's like, I

448
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,360
Speaker 1: can't believe she did that to you, and she sucks

449
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 1: like it should never be And so you don't want

450
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: to You don't want to create that in your life.

451
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:59,040
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Does that make sense? Makes sense? Ye?

452
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: Have have? Yeah, how is dating a celeb been for you?

453
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:16,199
Speaker 1: It's been different. It's a it's been really good. But

454
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: I don't really get too caught up in the limelight

455
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:20,959
Speaker 1: of stuff. Like every now and then she's been like, hey,

456
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: we were on this, and I'm like, okay, I just

457
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,479
Speaker 1: don't I don't see it. I don't look it up.

458
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 1: I don't you know I met every once in a a

459
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 1: while she's just like, oh, I just have like the

460
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: top song in the world for like four days. I

461
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: will I will say that was pretty cool. It was

462
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 1: actually really cool. So and she downplayed it way too much,

463
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: and she tries to, you know, make my things that

464
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: I do way more important than what she's doing. I'm like,

465
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: you have the best song, the number one song and everything,

466
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 1: and it's like every couple of hours, I would look

467
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 1: it up again and make sure that the time kind

468
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 1: of scrolled through to make sure that it was updated,

469
00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 1: and then I would take a screenshot and send it

470
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: to her and like, well, it'll it'll be different by

471
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: you know, tonight, or be different by tomorrow morning. Well,

472
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: I like up three five in the morning, it's still there,

473
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 1: so like, well, it didn't change. And so it went

474
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: on for a couple of days, but it was it

475
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: was very cool to see that. Um, that was sweet

476
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: of you. Otherwise I want to say I would say

477
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: one thing. Okay, it's just like, oh my gosh. So

478
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: I have another friend in a very similar position to you, Jianna,

479
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 1: and you both are kind of going through a very

480
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 1: similar jurney at the same exact time. And I almost

481
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: like cry the other day watching her journey because her

482
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 1: new boyfriend is like celebrating her for the first time

483
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,960
Speaker 1: and she's never had that. And then watching you and

484
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 1: ian like you're being celebrated and you're being allowed to

485
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: be who you are, and I think it's it's just

486
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: really really sweet and really cool. You have the number

487
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: one song in the world. Are you kidding me? Don't

488
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 1: don't play that had but um, you know, it was sweet.

489
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 1: And when I told him, I was like, never like,

490
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: has anyone like anyone that I was ever with like

491
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 1: sent you know, like even my acts, like I never

492
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 1: like got celebrated like when things were like that. So

493
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 1: I always downplayed it because I'm like, oh, it must

494
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: not be a big deal, you know. So it's it's

495
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 1: a huge deal to have the number one so okay, okay, okay,

496
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: but it was. It was very it was very sweet,

497
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,359
Speaker 1: and I, you know, I really do appreciate it because

498
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,440
Speaker 1: you know, he need's like I want to celebrate it

499
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,199
Speaker 1: with you, and I'm like, I just again because I have,

500
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 1: I do downplay it because it wasn't I mean, you know,

501
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: it wasn't important or celebrating. Have you heard of Beyonce

502
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: in common? You guys are on the same level. Okay, Okay,

503
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: but no, actually you're not. You're higher than beyond everybody.

504
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 1: But I think he's done. I think He've done a

505
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: good job though handling things. And I mean because people

506
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 1: were calling him a trainer, He's like he's a Navy

507
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: seal like people, it's like a poor guy was labeled

508
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: as a trainer. That a trainer, not that a trainer

509
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: isn't a problem, but it's a Instagram had like me

510
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: at the gym, like andrewing, like, why do I detail

511
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 1: what I do for actual livings? So I just I mean,

512
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: it's okay. We we did a video jay where we

513
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 1: had to google ourselves to see like what was right,

514
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: and the website put Andrew's professionist family member, he's along

515
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: for the ride. And I but you do show up

516
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: to the gym sometimes and guys will give you a

517
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: hard time, right, I was like, you know every Saturday

518
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: morning stop really, yes, you better, you better fix this.

519
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's all good things, but it's but

520
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 1: it's because there's headlines and stuff. Oh no, no, it's

521
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: just it's been a it's been a fun trip, especially guys.

522
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: I mean, you work out. These guys um to have

523
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: fun and enjoy it and give each other a hard time,

524
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: and and we do that and no matter what it is,

525
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, we've Trevor or Jamie whoever might be,

526
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: you know, hard time, whatever happened in the week or

527
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: the day and stuff like that. So yeah, it's been

528
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 1: a little bit different for that. Um, but everybody's kind

529
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: of acknowledged obviously dating Janna, and they were all excited

530
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: because I think all of their wives all follow Janna

531
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,239
Speaker 1: as well. So it's kind of like, hey, she had

532
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: number one song and they'll find out because they didn't know,

533
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:18,800
Speaker 1: and then they'll tell of anyone Like I know, dude,

534
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: it's been the hardest part about dating me because love

535
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: that that changes the lave hardest part about dat. You

536
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: can be honest too. We're gonna get there. Yeah, I mean,

537
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 1: there's just it's two very different personalities and two very

538
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: different lifestyles. Like some of the things in the beginning,

539
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: you know, my background of I mean even the little

540
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: things like me getting up at three four in the morning,

541
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: that's not for me. We can't be doing that every day.

542
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: It's like she might be up a little bit later.

543
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: I like to get about eight o'clock. You know, just

544
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,239
Speaker 1: little things like that where it's kind of get used

545
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: to each other. Um, And I guess that's not my boundary,

546
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: but it's more of just kind of understanding like her

547
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: needs my needs. Um, we didn't address those right away

548
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: and that was definitely a difficult thing to get to.

549
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: Once we finally got to, it was kind of like,

550
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: all right, well I need this in my day in

551
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: my week, and she needs this in her day in

552
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 1: her week. And I think once we we went on

553
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: a very long walk one day we did. We went

554
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:28,560
Speaker 1: like a four hour walk and just a long walk,

555
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 1: and well we just I think like when you start

556
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: in a relationship, you know, you like he was just

557
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: trying to make me happy. I was dealing with, you know,

558
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: being in a healthy relationship post which I think that's

559
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 1: also hard for him because he's like I'm not your

560
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: ax um. So I think like that's been really difficult

561
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,880
Speaker 1: on him because, like my therapist says, she's like, you

562
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: gave him shrapnel without him like being in a war. Like, yes,

563
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: you were in a war a long time, but like

564
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: in this war, she's like, he's getting like shrapnel and

565
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: he wasn't a part of your war, but that's like

566
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: the leftover stuff. So like, you know, I think being

567
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: in something that is healthy now, like he has he's

568
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: like trying to differentiate the two and like letting someone

569
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 1: like in it's it's been like difficult for him because

570
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: I've tried to push him away so many times. She tried,

571
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 1: I did. I did a hurricane hurricane Spartan race Andrew.

572
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 1: Andrew signed us up a hurricane heat Spartan race, and I, yeah,

573
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: we'll gladly never do that again, which was hard aware that, oh,

574
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 1: for sure, you're pushing me. It was more difficult mentally. Emotionally.

575
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: We thought like I signed all the guys up for it,

576
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: and I was like, that's gonna be so cool. And

577
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: it was like advertise like the hardest race you could

578
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 1: you could ever do, and it basically said like you

579
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 1: need the mental grit of a Navy seal, dude, and

580
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: it was like, it turns out that from an actual

581
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 1: Navy seal, which was it was easier than expected, but

582
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 1: it was a hilarious story. I do even so one

583
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: thing that I had to navigate with Sean, She's like

584
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 1: not our interview, no, no, but no, I like where

585
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: you going with this because I'm gonna I'm gonna turn

586
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: it back around after you say this, because I think

587
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: I know where you're going with that, I am hijacking

588
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: the interview. You are Ian, it's just not talking a lot.

589
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: So I got I'm trying. It's not about me, it's

590
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 1: about you guys. So that that was exactly. Yeah, dating

591
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: Sean was like I loved her, right, and I knew

592
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: that I love Sean, but there's and there's the excitement

593
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: of dating, but then there's also like this layered excitement

594
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 1: of she's like famous and people will stop her on

595
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:52,719
Speaker 1: the street and they want to talk, and it's like

596
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: there's this level of excitement that comes with being in

597
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: the public eye. And it was I felt like I

598
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: needed to take a step back and be like, all right,

599
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: what part of me is interested in this relationship because

600
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:11,439
Speaker 1: of that excitement versus the excitement of actually the love

601
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 1: of Sean. You know what I'm saying. I don't know

602
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: if if you resonate with that at all, but that

603
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,320
Speaker 1: was something that I had to Maybe I'm more shallow,

604
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 1: but you're also a college kid. Yeah that'd be way different. Yeah,

605
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 1: I don't I don't think I could have handled it

606
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: it twenty one or whatever, you guys got together twenty two?

607
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,760
Speaker 1: Are you with me just because of my Instagram followers,

608
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: and I didn't know how many Instagram followers, you know

609
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like now to his point, like do

610
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 1: you is it like do you love me for me?

611
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: Or do you love like obviously not gonna be like yeah,

612
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 1: actually because it's cool because you're famous. No. I mean

613
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: I told you in the beginning, I would have deleted mine.

614
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: I don't need it. It's not for me. It's you know,

615
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 1: half the time, it was like Andrew would come in

616
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,479
Speaker 1: on my stuff, like Jamie would come on my stuff.

617
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: You know, it's like us working out. It's about it.

618
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: It has been different as far as the notoriety, not

619
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: me obviously, but for her. I think the one that

620
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: I remember is like we were on the beach visiting

621
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: your mom and some girl just with her boyfriends, sitting

622
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: by themselves, no one around. We're walking past and the

623
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 1: kid pops up. He's like, hey, my girlfriend loves you,

624
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, that's a different life. Yeah, Because

625
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: for me, I didn't have social media since two eight,

626
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: so I had been completely off of it and military

627
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of very quiet and went about my

628
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 1: day and it's not like that anymore. What Okay, I'm

629
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,839
Speaker 1: gonna flip the background. What is one thing that you

630
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 1: guys do better than I'm sure there's a lot, but

631
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: that um in the beginning of dating, you know, like

632
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: in our early stages, that you do better now or

633
00:35:48,520 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: you wish that you'd go back, or you tell us

634
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: like hey, like watch this, or like we do better now.

635
00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 1: I think we communicate better. Yeah, I think I almost

636
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 1: identifying patterns in marriage. Like we've been married six years,

637
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,720
Speaker 1: so we've we've had the same argument about a certain

638
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: topic like forty times, right, So what is it? Can

639
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:19,759
Speaker 1: you say what it is? Anything? Okay? What's what's one

640
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 1: of the ones that always keeps coming up? Ah? The dog? Honestly,

641
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: as ridiculous as that sounds, like it, I feel like

642
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:31,680
Speaker 1: that's gotten better lately. What's up with the dog? Oh?

643
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 1: I just dogs are actual royalty to me. So like

644
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm a psycho dog person. Okay, Like I said, A

645
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: and a dog, and I was like, you have to

646
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: get this dog because I just try to find dog homes,

647
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:50,240
Speaker 1: dogs homes and and where's your stance dogs? But I

648
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:55,240
Speaker 1: like kind of view it as a dog. We're the same,

649
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 1: Like I love it, right, and I'm going to do

650
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 1: my best to take care of it. The dog will

651
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:03,960
Speaker 1: sleep in the bed before I will, So that's literally

652
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: like my dog. It's kind of it has kind of

653
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 1: correlated to kids ish, where like Sean has the way

654
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: she expresses her love, and again I know this through patterns,

655
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: like seeing this over and over is through being like

656
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: hands on and always like being there to help, whereas

657
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm kind of like, ah, you gotta figure it out,

658
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: go you can do it, you know. So is the

659
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 1: argument that Sean gets frustrated with you because you don't

660
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 1: treat the dog like she does, or you're upset because

661
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 1: she treats the dog like royalty. The argument is that

662
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:39,879
Speaker 1: I expect more of him he treats dogs, or it's

663
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: like with kids. I am definitely more of like the warrior,

664
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: and so I'm like, oh my gosh, you cannot let

665
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,479
Speaker 1: her do that, or you can't she's gonna get hurt,

666
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 1: or she has to go to bed at a certain

667
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: time or whatever it might be. I'm just more like

668
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 1: I'm graduled on the moms. I hear you on the moms. Yeah,

669
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 1: the dog thing more una but shouldn't have grouped the

670
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: dog and the dog anyway? What we do now, is

671
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 1: like we we have developed patterns where it's like, hey,

672
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: the morning with Sean, I shouldn't throw a bunch of

673
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: logistics her way because the past two hundred times that

674
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: I've done that, uh, it overwhelms her right Or like

675
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:33,040
Speaker 1: at night, she really Sean really likes to debrief her day,

676
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,399
Speaker 1: so I need a instead of jumping right into whatever

677
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,919
Speaker 1: I want to do next, Like I should sit down

678
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: and have time with her to talk as opposed to

679
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 1: their being conflict in place of that, so that that

680
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: probably would be it. I don't I don't like getting

681
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: asked questions. Do you guys like that? For some reason,

682
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:50,839
Speaker 1: it's like what are you doing? I'm like, I like,

683
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: you have my schedule? I don't know, Like just like

684
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: you and Andrew are the same human, don't ask me questions.

685
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, you figure it out or look at my

686
00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,719
Speaker 1: calendar or I don't know. It's just like I'm like,

687
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 1: I got like a million other things in my head

688
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:11,800
Speaker 1: right now. I don't have to ask questions. Yeah, Andrew's

689
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: biggest pet peeves if I'm like, what do we have

690
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: to do today? And here I don't know, I don't know.

691
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: He just doesn't want to questions freak him out too.

692
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 1: I can kind of tell her facial expressions. Now, it's

693
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 1: like I can tell when she's busier. There's a thousand

694
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: things going on her head. I'm like, I'm just not

695
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 1: gonna ask a question right now. That's good. I'm gonna

696
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 1: go out again. Well, I'm gonna go back and work.

697
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: But it's kind of like, I know when her face

698
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: looks like that, I can ask her a question. When

699
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: it's not like that, I don't ask a question. That's kind.

700
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: But she does like to ask questions though, if I

701
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: really need to know them, like what's two plus two? Five?

702
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: Every time? We'll get there later. It's one of those

703
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 1: things where we I was dealing with something the other

704
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 1: day and I was trying to have this person see

705
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 1: my reality, and Ian goes, what's two plus two? And

706
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:13,920
Speaker 1: I said four? He goes, no, it's five. I'm like, no,

707
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: it's not poor, but like the other person's reality, it's five. Yeah.

708
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 1: So it's going, okay, okay, you're right, it's fine, let's

709
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 1: move on, and his mind is blown. Right, just six

710
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: years of us trying to figure out all in one

711
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 1: simple bathic version again. So now next time when you

712
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: guys go to a fight, so like if not that

713
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 1: we like have like I mean, we had like one

714
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 1: thing just because again it was like misunderstandings and not

715
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 1: speaking what we need, but like being like if there's

716
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 1: even like a little like tiff, it's like two plus

717
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 1: two and then it kind of like yeah, resets like that.

718
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,080
Speaker 1: That's good. I like that, You're welcome, Thank you. I

719
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: do think most of our arguments come from a misunderstanding

720
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: of what the other person is trying to say. Well,

721
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 1: I think I promised we don't ask for what we need.

722
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: We're my thing is and I'm like, I'm not asking

723
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 1: you actually what I need. I'm wanting you to read

724
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 1: my mind. But I know what but it's like, yeah,

725
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: don't shake your head like that, Mr same if you

726
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: did the same thing to me. Um, But yeah, I

727
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 1: hear you on that too. It's it's it's you know,

728
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 1: but we're working on it. I think it's what Shaun

729
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: said earlier about um when you are asking like a

730
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: business question, but then you're getting a personal response from

731
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 1: man Andrew. You're asking a personal question which you might

732
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 1: get a business response from me Andrew. It's kind of

733
00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,879
Speaker 1: like what what mind frame are you, And it's also

734
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: how are you responding to it? So I may ask

735
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: her something with an intent in a certain way and

736
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:49,000
Speaker 1: expect a certain response I'm looking for one, but she

737
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 1: may not be in the same mental state whatever it

738
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 1: might be that it's a good or bad men as

739
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like whatever is going on in her head.

740
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,200
Speaker 1: So if you have a business question that it's kind

741
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,439
Speaker 1: of like where I guess a worker being with kids

742
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:04,759
Speaker 1: for us, because our emotions get confused a lot when

743
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 1: we'll be working, and like when Andrew works, he goes

744
00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 1: like completely void of all emotion and feelings. He just

745
00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: goes stone cold, and our emotions get really confused when

746
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 1: I come in as like wife where I've taken like

747
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: a breakout of the day, and I'm like wife and

748
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 1: I want to ask him something like wife to husband,

749
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: and he gives me a cold response that makes me

750
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: really upset when I'm expecting him to turn it off

751
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, husband, when he's in the

752
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 1: middle of his work day, thank you so much. I

753
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: am aware right now after are the two plus two?

754
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: That's what it was? I wonder if it is it simple?

755
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: Is it something as simple as saying like what do

756
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: you what response do you need as your husband or

757
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: is your or is your employee or as and or

758
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 1: is your coworker me like a little badge that you

759
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: just turn around, you know, like what response do you need?

760
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 1: You know, like, hey, I need you to like not

761
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 1: make a joke or whatever. I don't know because that

762
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 1: me asking that would come off as cold if I

763
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: was like, what do you need from me, husband or

764
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: because then I the crazy woman would be like I

765
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: expect you to know what I need and I don't

766
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: want to ask for it because I don't want to

767
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: ask my husband to give me love. Yeah, it's a

768
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: whole thing. Why don't you know what I'm thinking? Look

769
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:33,799
Speaker 1: at Ian showing up all mature and freaking with with advice. Well,

770
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 1: it's like I do think there's like a stubbornness though

771
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: to to I guess I could generalize it as women,

772
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: but whatever, um people people know I think it's a woman.

773
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:53,320
Speaker 1: I really, I really, it's almost like a pride issue.

774
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 1: I don't want to tell him what I need because

775
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: I want him to give it to me, because I

776
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 1: then feel desperate. I'm like, I need to tell you

777
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: that I want to cuddle with you on the couch

778
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:06,279
Speaker 1: like that makes me feel pathetic. Yes, in actuality, it's

779
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 1: actually a healthy thing to do. Yeah, it is the

780
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: right thing to do is to say, which needs really

781
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: hard because I know it'll be like, what do you

782
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: need dinner on the house And I'm like, I don't

783
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 1: want to have to tell you what I need done.

784
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 1: I want you to see you need to and how

785
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,920
Speaker 1: I need to, you know all of it exactly. I

786
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 1: need the one box in the attic in the back

787
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:28,240
Speaker 1: corner that's three seasons away. I gotta say, it's pretty

788
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: good that he's asking, what do you mean done around

789
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 1: the house? I hear you. But that is very that

790
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 1: is very sweet, totally and I love that. And it's

791
00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 1: very sweet having said that. One thing that I did say,

792
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:51,239
Speaker 1: there's still not rock right after um no, but I do.

793
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: I hear you. It's it's hard to be like can

794
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,720
Speaker 1: you because then we feel like we're like naggy annoying,

795
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: But like you guys, guys are just they don't they'd

796
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: be like, okay, so absolutely, I'll caddle you like you

797
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 1: probably wouldn't think that was like if if me and

798
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 1: you know, if Sean Andrew whatever, like we were like,

799
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: can you please scuttle with me tonight? Does that seem needier? Like,

800
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 1: oh my goshly thanks for telling me. You've literally told

801
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 1: me that exact thing. Well, you get this way, but

802
00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 1: like if I'm having a bad day or whatever and

803
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 1: I ask that, then I go all crazy and I'm like, well,

804
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: is he actually caddling me because he wants to? And

805
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 1: then I get all like crazy one. All right, well

806
00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:34,239
Speaker 1: so tell I mean, obviously our listeners know you guys,

807
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 1: but like where can they listen? Where can they follow?

808
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:39,919
Speaker 1: One of my favorite TikTok's is when you guys changed

809
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 1: the car the seats in the car. That was hilarious.

810
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 1: I watched it like five times, so funny. But go

811
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 1: ahead give it all pretty much, Sean Johnson. That is

812
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,879
Speaker 1: the best place to look for. Just google that You've

813
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:56,800
Speaker 1: come across some stuff The East Family on YouTube. And

814
00:45:56,880 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 1: then we have a podcast called A Couple of Things. Yeah,

815
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: I'm so excited and we would love to come on

816
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 1: as well. I think we're ready to come on. We

817
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: do it in person, though, Yeah, come on over, come

818
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 1: onl coome on first and we'll drink drink Yeah, perfect,

819
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 1: all right, Well, thank you guys so much for coming

820
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: on the show. I appreciate it. Okay, see you guys soon,

821
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 1: Thank soon, Yes, please, thanks guys. Bye, Honey's Texas. We'll

822
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 1: figure it out with you all right. By guys. Didn't

823
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 1: you do the cross with thin? He beat everybody? Well?

824
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: That was a fun episode. How does that feel in

825
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 1: Haven't if your first mic in your hand, it's I

826
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: don't want to do with it. It's awkward, Yeah, holding

827
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: it very weird. I feel like I can only look

828
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 1: at you and I just kind of look at a

829
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: bit kind look at I just look at who I

830
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: was talking. Yeah. Is it coming from someone who had

831
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 1: like the hardest job ever? They don't have a camera

832
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:27,520
Speaker 1: in my face or a microphone, had a gun? Very different.

833
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,720
Speaker 1: Can I ask you one question? In the seal training

834
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 1: for is it called hell week? Hell week? What was

835
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:40,160
Speaker 1: the hardest thing you had to overcome? Like they gass you,

836
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 1: they make you be underwater for four and a half minutes,

837
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 1: they like, what is like? What was the one thing

838
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: where you're like, because not many people like you said

839
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:52,319
Speaker 1: pass the first round? Right? First phase in hell week?

840
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 1: Or is where everybody pretty much quits so forever? What's

841
00:47:56,719 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 1: the percentage that like first timers. Oh, um, I think

842
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 1: it's around between eighty five drop radar. I look at

843
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: it so um. I know the last class that went through,

844
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,720
Speaker 1: I believe it was started with two and they finished

845
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: with seventeen guys. Wow. And was there like in that

846
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: week or the first phase, like where is there a

847
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: point where you were like this is hard or this

848
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: is going to make me drop? Um? I never I

849
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:30,160
Speaker 1: think the guys that make it through don't ever really

850
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:33,279
Speaker 1: have that go through their head. The thing for me

851
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: was the cold that was not what do you mean

852
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: by the cold? I mean you sit in the Pacific

853
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:42,759
Speaker 1: Ocean in the middle of the night for hours on end,

854
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:45,279
Speaker 1: just staring at stars and you're like, well, is this

855
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 1: ever gonna stop? So um. They try to get you

856
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:52,319
Speaker 1: to a somewhat hypothermic state, and we had guys get

857
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: dropped of the program because they couldn't raise their body temperatures,

858
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 1: they couldn't control um their mind basically, And so that's

859
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: kind of the hardest part for me. Like the physical

860
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:02,359
Speaker 1: stuff is just you work out and then you get

861
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:06,200
Speaker 1: to eat. It's great. It's you know, most twenty year

862
00:49:06,239 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: old guys dreams is you work out all day and

863
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 1: it's a big boy scout camp for the most part,

864
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:13,880
Speaker 1: and you get to eat every couple of hours. But

865
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 1: it was just a cold and you're constantly shaking and

866
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: you're just covered in sand head to toe for weeks

867
00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 1: straight and you sleep. Uh do you get to eat

868
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: the whole time though? Or do they not like try

869
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: to prepare you for not eating and you don't sleep? Right,

870
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: you don't sleep. You get a time you get use

871
00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 1: my handler. You get a time frame to sleep. Not

872
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: everybody does. UM. Once you kind of stop moving, your

873
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 1: body starts to shut down and try to recover. So

874
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 1: if you do sleep, once we wake you up, how

875
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 1: long do you get to sleep if you slept? I

876
00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: don't remember the actual note. I think it was you

877
00:49:53,640 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 1: get a time frame of like two hours on Wednesday,

878
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 1: so it starts Sunday night. You don't know when it starts.

879
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:02,279
Speaker 1: So basically the whole compound UM if you don't know.

880
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: It's in Cornado, California, so UM, a lot of Cornado

881
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:09,560
Speaker 1: hears it. They hear the explosions go off and fake

882
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:13,400
Speaker 1: gunfire blanks that's what they call him, and everything goes off.

883
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:15,320
Speaker 1: Everybody knows is to start a hell week and that

884
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: lasts for a couple of hours and then it just

885
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: continues on for the whole week. And then uh so

886
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 1: you don't So how long? How many days did you

887
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 1: not sleep for? To start? You don't sleep for three

888
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 1: and a half days straight, I thinks what it is.

889
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:29,160
Speaker 1: And then you get a two hour I think's two

890
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,879
Speaker 1: hours two hours to sleep if you do, and then

891
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:34,840
Speaker 1: you're done. After that you don't sleep again. So how

892
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,880
Speaker 1: many days did you consecutively? Go send me a Friday

893
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 1: without sleeping? Wow, So you didn't take the two hours? No,

894
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 1: because I was scared about what would happen if I did.

895
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 1: Say that seems could be worse. So I knew. I

896
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: heard guys that win in you go into like this tent,

897
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: you gotta thank everybody's free. I was a winner. I

898
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 1: was a winter hell week. So I went through in November,

899
00:50:57,520 --> 00:51:00,160
Speaker 1: about a week or two weeks before Thanksgiving started. It

900
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: was one of the coldest times in Coronado history, and

901
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: it was miserable. And the guys that got into the

902
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 1: tent to go sleep, when they would get woken um,

903
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: they would get you know, woken up in the morning

904
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,560
Speaker 1: or whatever it was, they would quit right there because

905
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: they were too cold and too mentally out of it.

906
00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: So I knew that I didn't want to do that,

907
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: take that chance. I don't think I could. Being cold.

908
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,359
Speaker 1: The cold is the worst. I had a buddy all

909
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:30,359
Speaker 1: of it sounds, who he he couldn't get his body

910
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: temperature up, so they had to drop him because he

911
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 1: wasn't mentally there. But he was one of the best

912
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: physical specimens I've ever seen. Like the guy was incredible.

913
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: But every time we go in the water, he'd come

914
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: out and he would be So we swallow a pill

915
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 1: that they take our temperature and like our core temperature,

916
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 1: and they scan us every time we come out of

917
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 1: the water to make sure see where we're in. If

918
00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: you're too locally. That's a thing. That's crazy, that that's

919
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:59,360
Speaker 1: mental though. Keeping your body, it's part of it is

920
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:00,960
Speaker 1: because you can you can get into an ice bath

921
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 1: and it can be miserable, or you can kind of like,

922
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,000
Speaker 1: all right, I can regulate with my thoughts now to

923
00:52:07,080 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: a certain extent an entire time. But once you get out,

924
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 1: if you're so if you're so cold and you can't

925
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: process what you're doing because sometimes you're you know, they'd

926
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:17,879
Speaker 1: ask you to count to a certain number or whatever

927
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: and you wouldn't respond to it. So I mean guys

928
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:22,719
Speaker 1: haven't do all the time. So well, thank you for

929
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:27,480
Speaker 1: your service, You're welcome. Thank you for your support. Um,

930
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: then thanks for coming on wind down UM a few

931
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,839
Speaker 1: minutes Bye guys, are you hye