WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Forbidden Love

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we just need to apologize right now for taking

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<v Speaker 1>over your TikTok for you page. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, sorry my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all the old ones are going viral, but the

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<v Speaker 1>new ones are so much better. O.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so glad you found them.

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<v Speaker 1>Follow like whatever you're supposed to do on these podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>and just sit back and listen.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Update. Most of the time, whenever we talk

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<v Speaker 3>about forbidden love on the show, it's about Brooke and

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<v Speaker 3>her insatiable thirst for her cousin Ron stop it. I

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<v Speaker 3>do not like my cousin, not anymore, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>But alas, we're not dealing with that type of forbidden

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<v Speaker 3>love at least good not today. One of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 3>Mark says he dipped a toe into the forbidden pool

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<v Speaker 3>of romance recently, and he's afraid the lifeguard won't let

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<v Speaker 3>him cannonball all the way in, so he needs our

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<v Speaker 3>Mark why, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, thank you, oh man.

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<v Speaker 3>I love a good, juicy story.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm dying to know who you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, tell us your situation.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well, so I have a best friend Stuart goes

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<v Speaker 4>by Stu. We've been really good friends since college.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, do you want to take it to the next level?

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<v Speaker 4>No, okay, well I thought would be forbid your best friend. No,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a straight fella, and you know you and I

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<v Speaker 4>have been really good buddies since college. You know, I

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<v Speaker 4>know his family go over his house all the time.

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<v Speaker 4>He loves my family.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the best when you can just like walk in. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like you're the second son. Sometimes you prefer

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<v Speaker 3>their family to your own most of the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever take any family?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's cool. It's nice to have a close friend

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<v Speaker 3>from college.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's like a brother to me. And I'm just

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<v Speaker 4>afraid I may have ruined everything because I won't. He

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<v Speaker 4>had crushed on his younger sister Lisa for a while.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you did.

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<v Speaker 1>You hook up with her already?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, something did happen, you know, but it's been one

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<v Speaker 4>of those things where I you know, I couldn't even

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<v Speaker 4>ask because he wouldn't be cool with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh really, he wouldn't be. Well, there's two different types.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I have a friend who's literally always asked like, bro,

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<v Speaker 3>you should date my sister? Be so cool? Yeah, are

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<v Speaker 3>like stay away. I asked my best friend from high

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<v Speaker 3>school if I could date his little sister, and he

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<v Speaker 3>said yes. But then I asked the sister and she

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<v Speaker 3>said no. So that was a super low moment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>legally we're supposed to. Yeah, that's rough.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's really weird too, Like it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of aggressive on your bro's part may be weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how old is a little sister?

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<v Speaker 3>How much younger she was a few years younger?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy, Okay, So what happened.

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<v Speaker 4>I was recently single and I was at a bar

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<v Speaker 4>and I saw Lisa there. I went over and started

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<v Speaker 4>talking to her and we were laughing about something, and

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<v Speaker 4>I said, it was under different circumstances. You know, I

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't friends with your brother. I would have asked you

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<v Speaker 4>out a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 3>What you just told her that?

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<v Speaker 5>That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you had to have been drunk when you said that.

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<v Speaker 4>Buzz.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I got a little bit of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>What did she say to that?

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<v Speaker 4>She was like, well, maybe you should do it anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, this is why I always wanted an

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<v Speaker 1>older brother.

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<v Speaker 3>I never had one.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, they're friend would be so cute?

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<v Speaker 3>Right up? Yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>My friends with older brothers always had hot.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd like to salute around with everybody in your friends

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<v Speaker 3>group and in your family. Thank you, Alexa, we got it.

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<v Speaker 3>So she wanted you to ask her out.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I took that as a goal ahead. So I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, what are you doing ten minutes from now?

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<v Speaker 4>And she said, oh, she said, I'm busy, but I'm

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<v Speaker 4>available five minutes from now.

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<v Speaker 3>Like Lisa, actually, you guys do have a good banterns.

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<v Speaker 5>So was it fun?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, She's like, meet me outside in five So we

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<v Speaker 4>ended up walking around and grabbing food in a food

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<v Speaker 4>truck and we kind of stet up making out like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So fun and it probably felt like you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>always fun when it's a little dangerous.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what was it good? Because there's a whole build

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<v Speaker 3>up to that moment. Was it as good as you

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<v Speaker 3>thought it would be?

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<v Speaker 4>It was great? And I mean we had I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>we have a connection. You know, we had a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of fun hanging out, and you know, we had known

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<v Speaker 4>each other for so long, so it was a little

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<v Speaker 4>you know, weird kissing someone that you know that you've

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<v Speaker 4>known for for that long.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I mean that's good news. How did it?

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<v Speaker 3>How did that night end?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? I was like we can't tell your brother about this,

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<v Speaker 4>and it said, I'm a grown woman. I can make

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<v Speaker 4>my own decisions.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to say that you guys are both adults.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that makes it feel really immature by trying

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<v Speaker 1>to keep a secret. But I get while you're worried

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<v Speaker 1>about it, if you really think he'd be that upset.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it kind of changed my tune after that, and

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<v Speaker 4>I said, anybody's gonna tell him, it's got to be me,

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<v Speaker 4>and I kind of need some time to figure out

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<v Speaker 4>how to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what she say to that, Well, we.

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<v Speaker 4>Just kind of got into a disagreement and it really

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<v Speaker 4>just ended sort of weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so did she like immediately leave and text her brother?

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<v Speaker 1>Does he know?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know everything. He seems to be okay with two.

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<v Speaker 4>He's not treating me different, and I haven't brought it up,

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<v Speaker 4>so I don't think she said anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean hopefully she did and he's cool with it,

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<v Speaker 3>but it doesn't sound likely.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you want to date her or do you

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted it to be with that one night?

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<v Speaker 4>Everything except for the end was awesome, and I you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I would love to keep hanging out with her.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you would like to see your Let's take a

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<v Speaker 3>quick vote around the room. Do we think that this

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<v Speaker 3>is a good idea for him to date his best

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<v Speaker 3>friend's younger sister Alexis Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Why not?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Okay, one vote for yes, Brook, Yeah, I'm into it.

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<v Speaker 3>The girls love message.

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<v Speaker 1>Worst thing that can happen you lose your best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well, the romantic in me loves this because if you,

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<v Speaker 2>guys do I'm fast forwarding here, end up getting engaged.

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<v Speaker 3>You already have the family's blessing already, they kissed outside

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<v Speaker 3>of a kill Boston. Let's not jump saying. The romantic

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<v Speaker 3>in me things this will go very well. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I'm gonna I'm gonna vote no. This is probably

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<v Speaker 3>not a good idea, but we're gonna that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Only because you were rejected by a sister.

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<v Speaker 3>If I can't have my best friends friends sister. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 3>we're gonna call your best friend's sister Lisa and try

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<v Speaker 3>and get you a second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, that's awesome thing. Hold on, second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>We're running a little bit short on time, so I'm

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<v Speaker 3>gonna do a quick recap. The guy has a best

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<v Speaker 3>friend from college and he's had a crush on his

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<v Speaker 3>friend's little sister for a few years now. One night

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<v Speaker 3>they ran into each other at a bar and ended

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<v Speaker 3>up hanging out the rest of the evening and even

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<v Speaker 3>kissed outside of a food truck. Yeah, and Mark, here's

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<v Speaker 3>my question because I just want to make sure I

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<v Speaker 3>heard it correctly. You definitely don't think her brother knows

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<v Speaker 3>about this.

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<v Speaker 4>No way, he would have freaked out on me by no,

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<v Speaker 4>for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So when do you want to tell him, like

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<v Speaker 3>a month in a year when you start popping out

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<v Speaker 3>nieces and nephews her him, when's the good time at

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<v Speaker 3>the wedding?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I guess it depends on what happens early.

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<v Speaker 3>Play it by a year.

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<v Speaker 1>But today we're calling the little sister, right, We're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling his brother. I mean, when was the last time you.

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<v Speaker 3>Talked to her?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I anolutely talked to her since all this went

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<v Speaker 4>down about three weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh oh wow, no text.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea what we're going to get on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line when we call her, like we're.

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<v Speaker 3>A girl hopefully, Well, I know, is she angry?

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<v Speaker 2>Is she?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Okay, I'm going in with a positive attitude. Okay, Mark, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Always do Jeff.

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<v Speaker 3>Someone has to let's do it. Calling Lisa right now

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<v Speaker 3>here we go. Hello, Hey is this Lisa?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is sheep Lisa.

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<v Speaker 3>How's it going? You're on the radio right now?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, wait, who is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we're a morning show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 3>the Morning, and we.

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<v Speaker 1>Are excited to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we have a very interesting conversation looming here.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I don't understand what's happening. I don't understand

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<v Speaker 2>what you mean by a radio.

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<v Speaker 3>We have a lot of explaining to do here.

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<v Speaker 1>We also do a podcast. Does that help?

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<v Speaker 3>Probably?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>We're calling because we're doing a segment called a Second

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<v Speaker 3>Date Update, and we're trying to ask you a little

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<v Speaker 3>bit about your interaction about three weeks ago with a

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<v Speaker 3>guy named Mark.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying to the family name.

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<v Speaker 5>Mm hmmm, I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Trying to label anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, what did he tell you?

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<v Speaker 4>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>I what did he say?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So, you guys met up randomly at a bar

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<v Speaker 3>one night and ran into each other there hung out

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<v Speaker 3>the rest of the night. You guys went to a

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<v Speaker 3>food truck.

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<v Speaker 5>You remember this, right, yeh, I very vividly remember this night.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, what did you think? In her throat?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I mean, can you start for the beginning,

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<v Speaker 1>like when Mark said I want to ask you about

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<v Speaker 1>on the date, Like, I mean, it's your brother's best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>What were you thinking?

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<v Speaker 2>So at first I actually was like into it, just

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<v Speaker 2>because I've always felt like Mark is kind of hot

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<v Speaker 2>and fun and it was exciting and felt this is

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<v Speaker 2>going to sound strange, but like a little bit dangerous

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<v Speaker 2>and risky going.

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<v Speaker 5>Behind my brother's back.

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<v Speaker 2>Because yeah, I don't know how much you know, but

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<v Speaker 2>like Mark is best friends with my older brothers too.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay, well because of that though, after we kind

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<v Speaker 6>of had our I mean we like kind of made

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<v Speaker 6>out whatever, and then immediately Mark was like, you can't

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<v Speaker 6>tell your.

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<v Speaker 2>Brother, and that felt really gross to me, like really controlling,

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<v Speaker 2>Like that felt like a red flag.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't think he was like trying to kill

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<v Speaker 3>the romance or anything. I think he was just honestly

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<v Speaker 3>worried that he might be blowing up a good friendship for.

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<v Speaker 7>This who wants to keep the good relations with everybody

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<v Speaker 7>I guess, but that's not attractive to me, Like you're

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<v Speaker 7>making out with me, and now you're you're acting scared.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't tell anybody would have waited like five minutes

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<v Speaker 3>or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we told him that sounded pretty immature when

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<v Speaker 1>he retold that. I mean, he told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys got into an argument about it, and it sounded

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<v Speaker 1>like he kind of realized that too.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, it was a little too late because I decided

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<v Speaker 2>for sure I was going to tell my brother, Oh

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<v Speaker 2>what so.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, when did you tell.

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<v Speaker 5>Him that night?

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<v Speaker 1>What was his response?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, my brother was cool with it, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>that's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>Sure seriously, mm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Why was Mark so in his head about your brother

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<v Speaker 1>being so weird about it?

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<v Speaker 5>Then?

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, he was like for certain that his best.

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<v Speaker 4>Friend was the date most sister.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's weird, that's strange. So your brother was actually fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, he said, Mark's the good guy. If you want

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<v Speaker 2>to hang out with him, that's cool with me.

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<v Speaker 5>For someone. But the riskiness, the dangerous part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was gone, which like, Okay, that's fine, not all my

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<v Speaker 2>relationship need to be that. But then it just started

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<v Speaker 2>becoming weird for me, Like I'm going to be like

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<v Speaker 2>making out with my brother's best friend.

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<v Speaker 5>This guy knows all my brother's deep secrets. Like, that's

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<v Speaker 5>not something.

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<v Speaker 3>So it didn't freak your brother out.

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<v Speaker 1>It freaked you out to think about it.

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<v Speaker 3>The risk and the danger was gone, and then so

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<v Speaker 3>that the romance left. But like, what if I told you,

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<v Speaker 3>if you're into risk and danger, there's been somebody secretly

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<v Speaker 3>listening in on this conversation on the other line wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't really know what this is.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean Mark has been quietly listening wanting to jump in.

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<v Speaker 1>And you were creepy.

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<v Speaker 3>It's dangerous. He's a dangerous ball, isn't that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah either, bad boy?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, so Mark heard everything I just said.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you can ask him.

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<v Speaker 4>Mark, you told your brother, like right off the bath,

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<v Speaker 4>that's what you did.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, I'm able to make my own decisions, and

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<v Speaker 2>I decided to do that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, that's the first thing you have to say about.

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<v Speaker 4>All of this. I just, I mean, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>why you would do that, Like that would be your

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<v Speaker 4>first instinct when I was like, I'm worried.

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<v Speaker 3>About it, But whatever, I mean, he was cool with it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I mean that's unexpected and I was just trying

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<v Speaker 4>to be cautious about relationships.

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<v Speaker 3>See that's the problem right there. Mark, You're trying to

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<v Speaker 3>be cautious and she's into danger got togerous.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm still plenty dangerous. Really, Yeah, your your your family

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<v Speaker 4>would have hated if we hooked up. Like, have you

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<v Speaker 4>told your mom about it?

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<v Speaker 5>No, believe it or not.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't call my mom.

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<v Speaker 4>You're You're lucky you didn't tell your mom. You would

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<v Speaker 4>have been super angry and.

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<v Speaker 3>Dangerous. Don't tell the dog either.

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<v Speaker 1>Going to believe your gauge on this family best friend

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<v Speaker 1>so wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like he's trying to make it sound dangerous.

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<v Speaker 3>If you think your parents would be.

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<v Speaker 2>Upset, No, I think they'd be fine with it too,

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<v Speaker 2>which makes it feel continuously more lame.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, Mark, I think not everyone approving of a

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<v Speaker 3>healthy relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we need to play up Mark's good parts.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone says he's a great guy in your family, he

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<v Speaker 1>obviously likes you, and you guys know each other really well,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that can be a real foundation for something.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like with Mark specifically, i'd want it to

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<v Speaker 2>feel more dangerous, and it doesn't, and so that's just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of where I'm at.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so maybe that was the interaction.

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<v Speaker 4>I do other dangerous things, you know, I gamble until

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<v Speaker 4>I have no money.

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<v Speaker 3>We should not do that, large give him a hot

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<v Speaker 3>line number.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So that's just irresponsible, not dangerous. It's like, I

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<v Speaker 5>also have horrible credit.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you think of sometimes?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't brush Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean what we would like to do, Lisa, is

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<v Speaker 3>send you and Mark out on another date and we

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<v Speaker 3>would pay for it. See that? Look at that? A

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<v Speaker 3>man who won't even pay for his own dates because

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<v Speaker 3>he ran out of money gambling. Isn't that naughty? What

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<v Speaker 3>do you think, Lisa?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I hear that you want to do that, and

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<v Speaker 2>Mark probably wants to do that, But I do not

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<v Speaker 2>want to.

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<v Speaker 3>Look at that. We finally found someone that doesn't approve

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<v Speaker 3>of the relationship. Dating him would go against your own wishes.

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<v Speaker 3>It doesn't get any more naughty and risky than that.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that.

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<v Speaker 7>Jeffrey Yeah herself, Yeah, okay, but listen, I do want

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<v Speaker 7>to say I'm okay with us still being friends, but like,

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<v Speaker 7>all of this is really awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think maybe let's just have some distance for

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<v Speaker 5>a bit, and I'll see you when I see you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, great you are Thanksgiving.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow, I definitely shouldn't have kissed you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, maybe we can know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll laugh about this in the future. Thanksgiving freaking Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>You guys, ever heard the phrase trying to catch a

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<v Speaker 3>falling knife? No, it's a good phrase.

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<v Speaker 1>I already know what it means.

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<v Speaker 3>It's where things are spirally out of control and you're

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<v Speaker 3>in a desperate panic to just stop the damage continuing.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what we just witnessed with Mark, because he immediately

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<v Speaker 3>came on and thought, you know what, I'm being too

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<v Speaker 3>safe for her. I need to come across as dangerous.

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<v Speaker 3>And it just got worse and worse and worse till

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<v Speaker 3>we found out he's a degenerate gambler with horrible credit.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I broke all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like his buddy's going to lose respect for

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<v Speaker 1>him too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, gave you the green light to date my sister

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<v Speaker 3>and then she rejected you a loser. Alright, that's the

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<v Speaker 3>same outcome. You know what, I think Mark's a good guy,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm changing my opinion. We need to make a

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<v Speaker 3>phone call for you. He already got rejected. We're done.

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<v Speaker 3>If you ever need a second date update, we won't

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<v Speaker 3>judge you. You can email the show. We'll call the

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<v Speaker 3>person who wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 5>Broaking Jeffrey in the morning,