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Speaker 3: Second Date Update. Most of the time, whenever we talk
Speaker 3: about forbidden love on the show, it's about Brooke and
Speaker 3: her insatiable thirst for her cousin Ron stop it. I
Speaker 3: do not like my cousin, not anymore, oh my god.
Speaker 3: But alas, we're not dealing with that type of forbidden
Speaker 3: love at least good not today. One of our listeners,
Speaker 3: Mark says he dipped a toe into the forbidden pool
Speaker 3: of romance recently, and he's afraid the lifeguard won't let
Speaker 3: him cannonball all the way in, so he needs our
Speaker 3: Mark why, welcome to the show man.
Speaker 4: Hey, thank you, oh man.
Speaker 3: I love a good, juicy story.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm dying to know who you're talking about.
Speaker 3: Yeah, tell us your situation.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, so I have a best friend Stuart goes
Speaker 4: by Stu. We've been really good friends since college.
Speaker 1: Oh, do you want to take it to the next level?
Speaker 4: No, okay, well I thought would be forbid your best friend. No,
Speaker 4: I'm a straight fella, and you know you and I
Speaker 4: have been really good buddies since college. You know, I
Speaker 4: know his family go over his house all the time.
Speaker 4: He loves my family.
Speaker 3: That's the best when you can just like walk in. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I feel like you're the second son. Sometimes you prefer
Speaker 3: their family to your own most of the time.
Speaker 1: Do you ever take any family?
Speaker 3: Okay, that's cool. It's nice to have a close friend
Speaker 3: from college.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like a brother to me. And I'm just
Speaker 4: afraid I may have ruined everything because I won't. He
Speaker 4: had crushed on his younger sister Lisa for a while.
Speaker 3: Oh you did.
Speaker 1: You hook up with her already?
Speaker 4: Yeah, something did happen, you know, but it's been one
Speaker 4: of those things where I you know, I couldn't even
Speaker 4: ask because he wouldn't be cool with it.
Speaker 3: Oh really, he wouldn't be. Well, there's two different types.
Speaker 3: Like I have a friend who's literally always asked like, bro,
Speaker 3: you should date my sister? Be so cool? Yeah, are
Speaker 3: like stay away. I asked my best friend from high
Speaker 3: school if I could date his little sister, and he
Speaker 3: said yes. But then I asked the sister and she
Speaker 3: said no. So that was a super low moment. Yeah,
Speaker 3: legally we're supposed to. Yeah, that's rough.
Speaker 1: I think it's really weird too, Like it's just like
Speaker 1: a kind of aggressive on your bro's part may be weird.
Speaker 1: I mean, how old is a little sister?
Speaker 3: How much younger she was a few years younger?
Speaker 4: I mean, nothing.
Speaker 1: Crazy, Okay, So what happened.
Speaker 4: I was recently single and I was at a bar
Speaker 4: and I saw Lisa there. I went over and started
Speaker 4: talking to her and we were laughing about something, and
Speaker 4: I said, it was under different circumstances. You know, I
Speaker 4: wasn't friends with your brother. I would have asked you
Speaker 4: out a long time ago.
Speaker 3: What you just told her that?
Speaker 5: That's a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah you had to have been drunk when you said that.
Speaker 4: Buzz.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I got a little bit of that.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: What did she say to that?
Speaker 4: She was like, well, maybe you should do it anyway.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is why I always wanted an
Speaker 1: older brother.
Speaker 3: I never had one.
Speaker 5: I'm like, they're friend would be so cute?
Speaker 3: Right up? Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 1: My friends with older brothers always had hot.
Speaker 3: You'd like to salute around with everybody in your friends
Speaker 3: group and in your family. Thank you, Alexa, we got it.
Speaker 3: So she wanted you to ask her out.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I took that as a goal ahead. So I
Speaker 4: was like, what are you doing ten minutes from now?
Speaker 4: And she said, oh, she said, I'm busy, but I'm
Speaker 4: available five minutes from now.
Speaker 3: Like Lisa, actually, you guys do have a good banterns.
Speaker 5: So was it fun?
Speaker 4: Yeah, She's like, meet me outside in five So we
Speaker 4: ended up walking around and grabbing food in a food
Speaker 4: truck and we kind of stet up making out like that.
Speaker 1: So fun and it probably felt like you know, it's
Speaker 1: always fun when it's a little dangerous.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what was it good? Because there's a whole build
Speaker 3: up to that moment. Was it as good as you
Speaker 3: thought it would be?
Speaker 4: It was great? And I mean we had I mean,
Speaker 4: we have a connection. You know, we had a lot
Speaker 4: of fun hanging out, and you know, we had known
Speaker 4: each other for so long, so it was a little
Speaker 4: you know, weird kissing someone that you know that you've
Speaker 4: known for for that long.
Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean that's good news. How did it?
Speaker 3: How did that night end?
Speaker 4: Well? I was like we can't tell your brother about this,
Speaker 4: and it said, I'm a grown woman. I can make
Speaker 4: my own decisions.
Speaker 3: I was going to say that you guys are both adults.
Speaker 1: I mean, that makes it feel really immature by trying
Speaker 1: to keep a secret. But I get while you're worried
Speaker 1: about it, if you really think he'd be that upset.
Speaker 4: Well, it kind of changed my tune after that, and
Speaker 4: I said, anybody's gonna tell him, it's got to be me,
Speaker 4: and I kind of need some time to figure out
Speaker 4: how to do that.
Speaker 1: Okay, what she say to that, Well, we.
Speaker 4: Just kind of got into a disagreement and it really
Speaker 4: just ended sort of weird.
Speaker 1: Oh so did she like immediately leave and text her brother?
Speaker 1: Does he know?
Speaker 4: I don't know everything. He seems to be okay with two.
Speaker 4: He's not treating me different, and I haven't brought it up,
Speaker 4: so I don't think she said anything.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: I mean hopefully she did and he's cool with it,
Speaker 3: but it doesn't sound likely.
Speaker 1: But do you want to date her or do you
Speaker 1: just wanted it to be with that one night?
Speaker 4: Everything except for the end was awesome, and I you know,
Speaker 4: I would love to keep hanging out with her.
Speaker 3: Okay, you would like to see your Let's take a
Speaker 3: quick vote around the room. Do we think that this
Speaker 3: is a good idea for him to date his best
Speaker 3: friend's younger sister Alexis Yeah.
Speaker 5: Why not?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, one vote for yes, Brook, Yeah, I'm into it.
Speaker 3: The girls love message.
Speaker 1: Worst thing that can happen you lose your best friend.
Speaker 2: Oh well, the romantic in me loves this because if you,
Speaker 2: guys do I'm fast forwarding here, end up getting engaged.
Speaker 3: You already have the family's blessing already, they kissed outside
Speaker 3: of a kill Boston. Let's not jump saying. The romantic
Speaker 3: in me things this will go very well. Okay, and
Speaker 3: so I'm gonna I'm gonna vote no. This is probably
Speaker 3: not a good idea, but we're gonna that's.
Speaker 1: Only because you were rejected by a sister.
Speaker 3: If I can't have my best friends friends sister. Anyway,
Speaker 3: we're gonna call your best friend's sister Lisa and try
Speaker 3: and get you a second date update right after this.
Speaker 3: All right, that's awesome thing. Hold on, second date update.
Speaker 3: We're running a little bit short on time, so I'm
Speaker 3: gonna do a quick recap. The guy has a best
Speaker 3: friend from college and he's had a crush on his
Speaker 3: friend's little sister for a few years now. One night
Speaker 3: they ran into each other at a bar and ended
Speaker 3: up hanging out the rest of the evening and even
Speaker 3: kissed outside of a food truck. Yeah, and Mark, here's
Speaker 3: my question because I just want to make sure I
Speaker 3: heard it correctly. You definitely don't think her brother knows
Speaker 3: about this.
Speaker 4: No way, he would have freaked out on me by no,
Speaker 4: for sure.
Speaker 3: Okay, So when do you want to tell him, like
Speaker 3: a month in a year when you start popping out
Speaker 3: nieces and nephews her him, when's the good time at
Speaker 3: the wedding?
Speaker 4: I don't know. I guess it depends on what happens early.
Speaker 3: Play it by a year.
Speaker 1: But today we're calling the little sister, right, We're not
Speaker 1: calling his brother. I mean, when was the last time you.
Speaker 3: Talked to her?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I anolutely talked to her since all this went
Speaker 4: down about three weeks.
Speaker 3: Oh oh wow, no text.
Speaker 1: I have no idea what we're going to get on
Speaker 1: the other line when we call her, like we're.
Speaker 3: A girl hopefully, Well, I know, is she angry?
Speaker 2: Is she?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, I'm going in with a positive attitude. Okay, Mark, you.
Speaker 1: Always do Jeff.
Speaker 3: Someone has to let's do it. Calling Lisa right now
Speaker 3: here we go. Hello, Hey is this Lisa?
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is sheep Lisa.
Speaker 3: How's it going? You're on the radio right now?
Speaker 5: Okay, wait, who is this?
Speaker 3: Well, we're a morning show called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the Morning, and we.
Speaker 1: Are excited to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we have a very interesting conversation looming here.
Speaker 2: I think I don't understand what's happening. I don't understand
Speaker 2: what you mean by a radio.
Speaker 3: We have a lot of explaining to do here.
Speaker 1: We also do a podcast. Does that help?
Speaker 3: Probably?
Speaker 5: Okay, but why are you calling me?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: We're calling because we're doing a segment called a Second
Speaker 3: Date Update, and we're trying to ask you a little
Speaker 3: bit about your interaction about three weeks ago with a
Speaker 3: guy named Mark.
Speaker 1: I'm saying to the family name.
Speaker 5: Mm hmmm, I'm.
Speaker 3: Trying to label anything.
Speaker 5: Okay, what did he tell you?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 5: I what did he say?
Speaker 3: Yeah, So, you guys met up randomly at a bar
Speaker 3: one night and ran into each other there hung out
Speaker 3: the rest of the night. You guys went to a
Speaker 3: food truck.
Speaker 5: You remember this, right, yeh, I very vividly remember this night.
Speaker 3: Okay, what did you think? In her throat?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean, can you start for the beginning,
Speaker 1: like when Mark said I want to ask you about
Speaker 1: on the date, Like, I mean, it's your brother's best friend.
Speaker 1: What were you thinking?
Speaker 2: So at first I actually was like into it, just
Speaker 2: because I've always felt like Mark is kind of hot
Speaker 2: and fun and it was exciting and felt this is
Speaker 2: going to sound strange, but like a little bit dangerous
Speaker 2: and risky going.
Speaker 5: Behind my brother's back.
Speaker 2: Because yeah, I don't know how much you know, but
Speaker 2: like Mark is best friends with my older brothers too.
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, well because of that though, after we kind
Speaker 6: of had our I mean we like kind of made
Speaker 6: out whatever, and then immediately Mark was like, you can't
Speaker 6: tell your.
Speaker 2: Brother, and that felt really gross to me, like really controlling,
Speaker 2: Like that felt like a red flag.
Speaker 3: Well, I don't think he was like trying to kill
Speaker 3: the romance or anything. I think he was just honestly
Speaker 3: worried that he might be blowing up a good friendship for.
Speaker 7: This who wants to keep the good relations with everybody
Speaker 7: I guess, but that's not attractive to me, Like you're
Speaker 7: making out with me, and now you're you're acting scared.
Speaker 3: I don't tell anybody would have waited like five minutes
Speaker 3: or something.
Speaker 1: I mean, we told him that sounded pretty immature when
Speaker 1: he retold that. I mean, he told us that you
Speaker 1: guys got into an argument about it, and it sounded
Speaker 1: like he kind of realized that too.
Speaker 2: Honestly, it was a little too late because I decided
Speaker 2: for sure I was going to tell my brother, Oh
Speaker 2: what so.
Speaker 1: Wait, when did you tell.
Speaker 5: Him that night?
Speaker 1: What was his response?
Speaker 5: Well, my brother was cool with it, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 5: that's not a big deal.
Speaker 3: Sure seriously, mm hmmm.
Speaker 1: Why was Mark so in his head about your brother
Speaker 1: being so weird about it?
Speaker 5: Then?
Speaker 1: Like yeah, he was like for certain that his best.
Speaker 4: Friend was the date most sister.
Speaker 3: Yeah weird.
Speaker 1: Well that's weird, that's strange. So your brother was actually fine.
Speaker 2: Exactly, he said, Mark's the good guy. If you want
Speaker 2: to hang out with him, that's cool with me.
Speaker 5: For someone. But the riskiness, the dangerous part of it.
Speaker 2: Was gone, which like, Okay, that's fine, not all my
Speaker 2: relationship need to be that. But then it just started
Speaker 2: becoming weird for me, Like I'm going to be like
Speaker 2: making out with my brother's best friend.
Speaker 5: This guy knows all my brother's deep secrets. Like, that's
Speaker 5: not something.
Speaker 3: So it didn't freak your brother out.
Speaker 1: It freaked you out to think about it.
Speaker 3: The risk and the danger was gone, and then so
Speaker 3: that the romance left. But like, what if I told you,
Speaker 3: if you're into risk and danger, there's been somebody secretly
Speaker 3: listening in on this conversation on the other line wanted
Speaker 3: to talk to you.
Speaker 5: I just don't really know what this is.
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 3: I mean Mark has been quietly listening wanting to jump in.
Speaker 1: And you were creepy.
Speaker 3: It's dangerous. He's a dangerous ball, isn't that?
Speaker 4: Oh yeah either, bad boy?
Speaker 5: Wait, so Mark heard everything I just said.
Speaker 1: Yes, you can ask him.
Speaker 4: Mark, you told your brother, like right off the bath,
Speaker 4: that's what you did.
Speaker 2: Of course, I'm able to make my own decisions, and
Speaker 2: I decided to do that.
Speaker 5: Yes, that's the first thing you have to say about.
Speaker 4: All of this. I just, I mean, I don't know
Speaker 4: why you would do that, Like that would be your
Speaker 4: first instinct when I was like, I'm worried.
Speaker 3: About it, But whatever, I mean, he was cool with it.
Speaker 4: Yes, I mean that's unexpected and I was just trying
Speaker 4: to be cautious about relationships.
Speaker 3: See that's the problem right there. Mark, You're trying to
Speaker 3: be cautious and she's into danger got togerous.
Speaker 4: I'm still plenty dangerous. Really, Yeah, your your your family
Speaker 4: would have hated if we hooked up. Like, have you
Speaker 4: told your mom about it?
Speaker 5: No, believe it or not.
Speaker 2: I didn't call my mom.
Speaker 4: You're You're lucky you didn't tell your mom. You would
Speaker 4: have been super angry and.
Speaker 3: Dangerous. Don't tell the dog either.
Speaker 1: Going to believe your gauge on this family best friend
Speaker 1: so wrong?
Speaker 3: It sounds like he's trying to make it sound dangerous.
Speaker 3: If you think your parents would be.
Speaker 2: Upset, No, I think they'd be fine with it too,
Speaker 2: which makes it feel continuously more lame.
Speaker 3: I mean, Mark, I think not everyone approving of a
Speaker 3: healthy relationship.
Speaker 1: I think we need to play up Mark's good parts.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: Everyone says he's a great guy in your family, he
Speaker 1: obviously likes you, and you guys know each other really well,
Speaker 1: Like that can be a real foundation for something.
Speaker 5: I'm just saying.
Speaker 2: I feel like with Mark specifically, i'd want it to
Speaker 2: feel more dangerous, and it doesn't, and so that's just
Speaker 2: kind of where I'm at.
Speaker 1: Okay, so maybe that was the interaction.
Speaker 4: I do other dangerous things, you know, I gamble until
Speaker 4: I have no money.
Speaker 3: We should not do that, large give him a hot
Speaker 3: line number.
Speaker 5: Okay, So that's just irresponsible, not dangerous. It's like, I
Speaker 5: also have horrible credit.
Speaker 4: What do you think of sometimes?
Speaker 1: I don't brush Wow.
Speaker 3: I mean what we would like to do, Lisa, is
Speaker 3: send you and Mark out on another date and we
Speaker 3: would pay for it. See that? Look at that? A
Speaker 3: man who won't even pay for his own dates because
Speaker 3: he ran out of money gambling. Isn't that naughty? What
Speaker 3: do you think, Lisa?
Speaker 2: Well, I hear that you want to do that, and
Speaker 2: Mark probably wants to do that, But I do not
Speaker 2: want to.
Speaker 3: Look at that. We finally found someone that doesn't approve
Speaker 3: of the relationship. Dating him would go against your own wishes.
Speaker 3: It doesn't get any more naughty and risky than that.
Speaker 1: I think that.
Speaker 7: Jeffrey Yeah herself, Yeah, okay, but listen, I do want
Speaker 7: to say I'm okay with us still being friends, but like,
Speaker 7: all of this is really awkward.
Speaker 5: So I think maybe let's just have some distance for
Speaker 5: a bit, and I'll see you when I see you.
Speaker 4: Okay, great you are Thanksgiving.
Speaker 5: Wow, I definitely shouldn't have kissed you.
Speaker 4: Okay, maybe we can know.
Speaker 1: I'll laugh about this in the future. Thanksgiving freaking Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning.
Speaker 3: You guys, ever heard the phrase trying to catch a
Speaker 3: falling knife? No, it's a good phrase.
Speaker 1: I already know what it means.
Speaker 3: It's where things are spirally out of control and you're
Speaker 3: in a desperate panic to just stop the damage continuing.
Speaker 3: That's what we just witnessed with Mark, because he immediately
Speaker 3: came on and thought, you know what, I'm being too
Speaker 3: safe for her. I need to come across as dangerous.
Speaker 3: And it just got worse and worse and worse till
Speaker 3: we found out he's a degenerate gambler with horrible credit.
Speaker 3: I think I broke all the time.
Speaker 1: I feel like his buddy's going to lose respect for
Speaker 1: him too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, gave you the green light to date my sister
Speaker 3: and then she rejected you a loser. Alright, that's the
Speaker 3: same outcome. You know what, I think Mark's a good guy,
Speaker 3: and I'm changing my opinion. We need to make a
Speaker 3: phone call for you. He already got rejected. We're done.
Speaker 3: If you ever need a second date update, we won't
Speaker 3: judge you. You can email the show. We'll call the
Speaker 3: person who wasn't calling you back.
Speaker 5: Broaking Jeffrey in the morning,