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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, Welcome back to Cheeky's and Chill podcast. I

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Speaker 1: hope your week is off to a happy, healthy, and

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Speaker 1: productive start. Today we're going to get into some things.

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Speaker 1: As you can tell by the title of the episode.

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Speaker 1: We're going to talk about letting go, letting go of

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Speaker 1: everyone who no longer serves you, who no longer deserves

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Speaker 1: your time, energy, and attention. Let's do this, Okay. So,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys listened to the first

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Speaker 1: episode of the season, but if you haven't, go listen

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Speaker 1: to that, because then you're going to understand a little

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Speaker 1: bit more as to why I wanted to talk about

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Speaker 1: this topic very early on in the season because I

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Speaker 1: realized a few weeks ago that with this new change

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Speaker 1: or whatever it is that I'm going through or growing through,

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Speaker 1: should I say because I'm growing. I know I'm growing.

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Speaker 1: I know that I'm going to upset a few people maybe,

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Speaker 1: and I'm okay with that, and specifically people that have

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Speaker 1: know if they're going to understand where I'm at, and

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Speaker 1: that's okay. I don't necessarily feel the need anymore to

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Speaker 1: like explain myself or over explain myself or have people

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Speaker 1: meet me where I'm at, and I don't necessarily want

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Speaker 1: to meet people where they're at. Whoever's meant to be

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Speaker 1: in my life is going to be in my life,

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Speaker 1: and it doesn't have to feel forced. I don't want

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Speaker 1: it to feel forced. We're just going to be on

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Speaker 1: the same frequency when I tell you, hey, this is

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Speaker 1: what I'm feeling, or be like, hey, cool, awesome, I'm

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Speaker 1: happy for you. Hell yeah, Like I'm going to feel

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Speaker 1: it right away is what I feel. And I know

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Speaker 1: there are going to be people that are going to

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Speaker 1: be like, what are you talking about? What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: Why would you do that? Like why would you put

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Speaker 1: a pause? Especially with like my career. You know, I

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Speaker 1: just won my third Grammy. I was nominated for the

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Speaker 1: second time in the American Grammy. Like my career musically

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Speaker 1: has been going amazing, and I'm so freaking grateful. And

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Speaker 1: some people would probably think like, Okay, this is not

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Speaker 1: the time, you need to keep the momentum going. But

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Speaker 1: in a way, I feel content with what I've been

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Speaker 1: able to accomplish. Not in a way I feel very content.

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Speaker 1: I feel very grateful. And you have to know when

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Speaker 1: to walk away. I have seen so many people, and

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Speaker 1: not just in my career or in my industry, should

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Speaker 1: I say, but in so many different industries that people

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Speaker 1: keep pushing because it gives them money, Like I understand that,

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Speaker 1: but they're not necessarily happy one hundred percent. They feel

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Speaker 1: like their soul is calling them to do something else

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Speaker 1: or take a little break, and they don't, and they

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Speaker 1: damages their career and their image. And I am okay

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Speaker 1: with saying I want to put a pause, not a

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Speaker 1: stop button, just a pause button where it's like I'm

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Speaker 1: going to press the pause button for a little bit,

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Speaker 1: go do something else real quick, and figure something out

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Speaker 1: within myself, because if Janey is not spiritually aligned and

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Speaker 1: feeling good and feeling centered, then she's not going to

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Speaker 1: be able to be okay. For Cheeky's the person that

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Speaker 1: come back to Janee and I explain this all in

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Speaker 1: the first episode, but I have noticed and I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily want to say names because but I

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Speaker 1: want to say names because I don't think it's necessary.

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Speaker 1: But I think some people are kind of like maybe

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Speaker 1: not taking me that seriously. They're kind of like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's just a moment thing. Maybe she's being emotional, you know,

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Speaker 1: like she's tired right now, like you know, because I was.

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Speaker 1: You know, last year was an and I this year.

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Speaker 1: I started off the year a little like exhausted, like

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Speaker 1: so much deeper than that. And I feel like the

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Speaker 1: people that are meant to be in my life or

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Speaker 1: this new season of my life are going to embrace

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Speaker 1: excited for me. And if they're not, it's not like, okay, peace,

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Speaker 1: meant to go with me to this next season of

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Speaker 1: my soul right now. And I've been doing this for

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Speaker 1: a while, but now, more than ever, I'm okay with

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Speaker 1: walking away from situations or people, friendships, relationships that no

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Speaker 1: longer serve my highest good, like more than ever, especially

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty five. This is the year of the Snake Geys,

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Speaker 1: and with the snake comes a lot of wisdom rebirth

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Speaker 1: because a snake sheds their skin, so you're like rebirth

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Speaker 1: and changing and becoming who you're meant to become for

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Speaker 1: the next x amount of years. That's what this year

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Speaker 1: is going to allow us to see people for who

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Speaker 1: And this is something that I've kind of been feeling

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Speaker 1: something is happening, something is changing within me, and I

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Speaker 1: need to embrace it because change is uncomfortable. It is

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Speaker 1: and I'm a cancer and I've learned to be better

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Speaker 1: don't like change. It's like we are creatures of habit.

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Speaker 1: But that's also not good either. So I've learned to

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Speaker 1: I'm okay with it. And that also means that I'm

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Speaker 1: open to it now, and I know that that's going

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Speaker 1: even like, no, I don't even want to bring that

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It makes me a little bit sad,

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Speaker 1: but I'm like, well, it is what it is. This

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Speaker 1: knowing this isn't a good situation for me, this isn't

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Speaker 1: even knowing it's not good for me. Done done with that.

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Speaker 1: know that's to come, you know, because it hasn't it's

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Speaker 1: So yeah, all that to say, I'm ready to lose

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Speaker 1: like text my producer right now, it's really late, but

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