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Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decision. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Harby Bled. This is your

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Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy b aka Peg the Stallion aka

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Speaker 1: Mandy Basking taka dead Bitch aka I'll fuck your daddy

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Speaker 1: and your brother. Um okay, girl, girl, I'm single and

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Speaker 1: want to take him beat. I'm weazy. Welcome back to

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Speaker 1: this episode. If you've never heard of us before, you're

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Speaker 1: infer a ride. Well, I just said I would like

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Speaker 1: your daddy and your brother. No, if you have siblings

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Speaker 1: for a ride, not for me, because I ain't riding.

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Speaker 1: And you know that. Well, I just started yoga so

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Speaker 1: I might start riding. It's gonna taking time. Be someone

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Speaker 1: that pucking me in a gymp It's gonna take a time.

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Speaker 1: Have you never heard of us before. We're a disgusting

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Speaker 1: show and we're normally based out of New York, but

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Speaker 1: today we're in LA and we have a guess that's right,

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Speaker 1: we have misstap Fire joining us. Welcome to the stage.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I gotta say that it's a stripper name.

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Speaker 1: It really is. Were you a stripper before? There's your

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Speaker 1: government name? No? Okay, it's changed name it is, and

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that we're in LA. I think it's as

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Speaker 1: soon as we knew. We were like looking for guests, um,

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Speaker 1: and I said it. I love talking to other sex workers,

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Speaker 1: other women in the space and getting all these Are

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Speaker 1: you a sex worker? I am? She got her only

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Speaker 1: fans a week. I was just girl curious workers. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I was curious because I heard you say that you

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Speaker 1: don't do something which I'm sorry we'll talk about later. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't under if you consider yourself a sex worker

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Speaker 1: or am SEUs both? But I keep it separately, dude,

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Speaker 1: Like in what way? I don't get happy endings? So wait,

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Speaker 1: but you're still a sex worker. But but we yeah,

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Speaker 1: we don't get Like, let's talk about what you do.

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Speaker 1: So you consider yourself a sex worker animal suite, what

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Speaker 1: part of it is considered sex work? That's a good question. Well,

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Speaker 1: I started off with only fans first, so I've been

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Speaker 1: doing only fans for like four years now, So I

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Speaker 1: was doing dat first. That's sex work. But I started

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Speaker 1: um must ssaging a year ago, and that's something totally different,

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Speaker 1: Like when I started with my mentor um the moment

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Speaker 1: like first section. He told me that I'm a healer,

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Speaker 1: and like started crying because I didn't want it. I

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Speaker 1: didn't want that job, but I heard it my whole life.

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Speaker 1: So we've been working for like a whole year on

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Speaker 1: I figured that massaging was my way of healing because

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Speaker 1: I always heard my whole life my hands or like

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Speaker 1: I started massaging. And I wanted to separate the two

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Speaker 1: because but I just X work. Got it necessarily mean

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Speaker 1: you gotta make them. Oh you know what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: Like if something is erotic, it could still be. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm still very sacid with my massages. I just like

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Speaker 1: comfortable using sex with healing, even though sensual energy is healing.

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Speaker 1: But I still use my sensual energy. I like to

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Speaker 1: is spiritual sex for sure, connection there's all of those

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Speaker 1: were you came in. Girl. First off, I thought you

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Speaker 1: but ironically too. I do want to share with the audience.

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Speaker 1: I found you because quite a few people were sending

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Speaker 1: you to me. I don't remember exactly the video, but

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Speaker 1: you have blonde hair. So there was a video where

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Speaker 1: literally I had like three dms like, YO, thought this

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Speaker 1: and I'd be like, y'all, we're not the same at all.

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Speaker 1: But when I looked, I was like, I'll see it.

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Speaker 1: She kill What was the video? I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: You see her Instagram. I did what I'm saying. I

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Speaker 1: me to start massaging as well. Well, we're gonna do

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Speaker 1: a really quick icebreaker. It's giving this so that and

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Speaker 1: All right, oral oral for hours or quickie with penetration,

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Speaker 1: oral for hours, pleasing quickly with penetration, quicker with penetration

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Speaker 1: for me too? Why oral flowers? Um? Is it for me?

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Speaker 1: Or am I giving it? You're you're Oh? I considered both.

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Speaker 1: I considered both. Does the answer change for no? Okay,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't change. Okay, I can't suck a different hours.

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Speaker 1: My I can suck a day for twenty five minutes,

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Speaker 1: sucking balls because it's not as much work on my

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Speaker 1: I don't think. So you're doing you're doing oral for hours?

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Speaker 1: All right? Yeah? Toes in mouth or tips in mouth?

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Speaker 1: What do you proper? For you too? But I don't

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Speaker 1: so I like to please people. It gets me off,

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Speaker 1: So I think that's why I choose oral. Four plays

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Speaker 1: Did you suck the toe like I did? I did it.

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Speaker 1: It was a big one. It's just like what else

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Speaker 1: Well no, I used to not like anything with feet,

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Speaker 1: but my but my ex like was a toe foot

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna hit a tooth. Girl. No, you lay in

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Speaker 1: My foot is in his mouth, and he's rubbing my pussy.

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Speaker 1: At the same time, I was bit y'all had a

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Speaker 1: missionary with the toes in the mouth like it it's hot,

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Speaker 1: spit in between. It feels like spacers with spit, like

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Speaker 1: in a show, Like what do you mean sex in

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Speaker 1: No bit you you perform in front of your parents,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, and you know you've been getting all

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Speaker 1: kinkies shit you. If I just had to lay there,

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Speaker 1: If I could just lay there and be blindfolded and

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Speaker 1: You know what's crazy? Mom came in and said you

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Speaker 1: see if she really do mean, I would do it.

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Speaker 1: How No, she just knows from the way Nigga's act

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Speaker 1: great dick sucker, which I am. Come on, great dick,

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Speaker 1: premature ejaculator. Premature ejaculator sounds great. Yeah, I think I'm

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Speaker 1: dick shaming every other. Now that I found out that

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Speaker 1: the show. I'm becoming doctor got more than just that.

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Speaker 1: They might need me to go to not they Well,

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Speaker 1: So the Vanilla Ship comes from Newsweek and it's about

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Speaker 1: a wife who is distraught over her husband's browser history.

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Speaker 1: So a wife described her shock and heartbreak after discovering

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Speaker 1: her husband's browsing history. The woman explains that she has

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Speaker 1: In the meantime, the husband has gotten a new job

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Speaker 1: He was like that's a difference. And I'm like, what

424
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Speaker 1: do you mean though today and listen, I don't know

425
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Speaker 1: what that means either. I've been having this conversation like

426
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Speaker 1: because you a lot of Danny get to my A

427
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Speaker 1: lot of fans, A lot of men even say they

428
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Speaker 1: wouldn't wife sex workers or with a girl he couldn't

429
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Speaker 1: have only fans so say that. But I'm not into

430
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Speaker 1: guys like that, So I know that's right, but clearly

431
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Speaker 1: a huh, I don't know. I don't know how. I

432
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:15,680
Speaker 1: don't know what how guys think, because like when niggas

433
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Speaker 1: say that to me, there's I've had been say that

434
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Speaker 1: to me too. I'm sure you probably heard yeah like that.

435
00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 1: I mean Dave said that to me too. Wait wait,

436
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Speaker 1: hold on, I was talking about the opposite. I was

437
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Speaker 1: saying I've had niggas say, oh, no, I'm into you,

438
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Speaker 1: but this girl's just x y Z And I'm like,

439
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Speaker 1: yeah that but why but why because also like I've

440
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Speaker 1: got hor right in my bio. It's giving niggas by.

441
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Speaker 1: He's probably saying it to the other bitch too, maybe,

442
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Speaker 1: But he's monogamous though, so it's not like he's saying

443
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Speaker 1: that he would suck her now. It's just he said

444
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Speaker 1: when he saw her, he was just like, oh, I

445
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Speaker 1: would suck her. But when I saw you, it was like,

446
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Speaker 1: oh I will wife her. Okay, got you? Yeah, all right?

447
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Speaker 1: These niggas be lying, well, it may also be that

448
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Speaker 1: he wants to wife you because you also go by

449
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Speaker 1: the sault snatch a baby. We have been known as

450
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Speaker 1: well to snatch some souls from time to time during

451
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Speaker 1: ard you know from from every time. That's what you

452
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,959
Speaker 1: thought I was doing during the rain. And so for

453
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Speaker 1: the hore Derve this week, I wanted you to share

454
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Speaker 1: some oral tips on snatching souls because you say you

455
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Speaker 1: do it, and you do it well. There was a

456
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Speaker 1: video where you went byrow snatching it. So give us

457
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Speaker 1: some tips on what has worked for you and what

458
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:38,439
Speaker 1: every man kind of it's worked across the board. I

459
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 1: feel like sometimes you just can't teach look like energy

460
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Speaker 1: or passion. I feel like I snatch souls because I'm

461
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: very passionate with it because I actually enjoy it. Um.

462
00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 1: I feel like it has to do with the sloppiness,

463
00:22:54,680 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 1: the passion, the eyes. I just it's just like slow.

464
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,399
Speaker 1: But I don't know, I just I don't know how

465
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: to explain it because it just feels right for me,

466
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 1: and I don't know how to like teach that. But

467
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 1: you do with your eyes. You mentioned your eyes eye contact. Umm,

468
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: I even give like little innocent eyes or the like that, right,

469
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:30,879
Speaker 1: so but I give that like that, but it's the

470
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 1: eyes that just like like that's it. They love it.

471
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: It's like but I remember, like when I was nineteen,

472
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 1: was like I was eighteen, I was this this guy

473
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 1: he told me I sucked and that was the moment

474
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 1: that I my pride hurt, right because I can't suck

475
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 1: at things like I have to be good at things.

476
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 1: So I'm actually grateful for him to telling me the

477
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 1: truth because I made it. Did he say was bad?

478
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 1: I don't. He didn't necessarily tell me. He just said

479
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: I stopped. This is bad. And I was so embarrassed

480
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,879
Speaker 1: that I told myself, I'm never gonna hear this ever again.

481
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: And so I watched the video. It took only me

482
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 1: watching one video. I don't remember because it was very old.

483
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: But the lady explained that the little thing in the

484
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: back of the head, of the tip of the head,

485
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,199
Speaker 1: the front of him, yes, they said, she said that

486
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 1: was the spot. And I just rang with it, and

487
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 1: I don't know that's what helped. And I died something

488
00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 1: that can be uncomfortable for people. No, but that I

489
00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: saw it. I was throbbing over here right now. You

490
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:43,399
Speaker 1: don't give my contact, Oh yeah, I'll gonna rub all

491
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 1: this pussy juice on his couch. So I realized. I

492
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,359
Speaker 1: realized that most guys that's their spot. So me, I

493
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 1: have a small mouth. I don't know how to deep

494
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 1: throat for ship, and so that's why I tell people

495
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 1: I don't deep throat, but I learned how to be

496
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: good at giving head other ways. You can also cover

497
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 1: the whole dick without deep throating, and I think girls

498
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 1: sometimes just stay at the top without like getting the side. Yeah,

499
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: because I gag a lot, So if I like get

500
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: the side of your dick, like why has the side dry?

501
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: It shouldn't be only went from spit in my hand,

502
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: like okay, but do you fake gack? I still go

503
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: as far as I can go because I try to

504
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 1: get the spit from the back of my throat because

505
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,240
Speaker 1: they do like it's sloppy, you know. So I do

506
00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:25,239
Speaker 1: do that, but I can't go that far. And so

507
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 1: I always tell people like I do not got the throat,

508
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 1: but I am a soul snatcher like period, because I

509
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: know a lot of people do assume like deep throating.

510
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:36,959
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, the niggas don't be having that much

511
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Speaker 1: dick to give anyway, that don't ye? Can you do?

512
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Speaker 1: Can you grow? Can you grow your dick? Sir? When

513
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Speaker 1: you watch Pouring up and you see the ad pop

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Speaker 1: up order one of those fucking pills you us favorite. Sorry,

515
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna I don't really oh yeah, And I'm like, also,

516
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 1: just I don't know it. Just I woke up on

517
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: the side of the bed that wasn't right. Um, you said,

518
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 1: fuck the medium. Well for the horrible decision. We finally

519
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: go get into it. We're gonna get into your magic hands, okay,

520
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 1: and you being a masseuse and doing erotic massages. Let's

521
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 1: get into erotic massage. Let's do the difference. Because what's

522
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,959
Speaker 1: the difference between your erotic massages? And do they come

523
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: with happy endings? Um, they don't come with happy endings.

524
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: But I have given happy endings, So you can't pay

525
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:38,119
Speaker 1: me for a happy ending. But if I've vibe with you,

526
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: it just depends on energy. If I decide to just

527
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: give you one in the spot, then I decided to

528
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: give you one, I gave you more that wasn't a

529
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: part of the package. Most people tip me, so yeah,

530
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: like it's no issues. So what makes your massages erotic? Um?

531
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: I think it's just my sensual energy. Are you making

532
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 1: that what you're wearing is? I do wear song sports

533
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: brawl or like a bathing suit, so I'm always like

534
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 1: half naked. But I think it's just more so my touch, um,

535
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 1: my sensual touch. I also get on top of you,

536
00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: I get close to your like face. I start so

537
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: like I'm on top of you and my face is

538
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: right next to your face. I'm singing in your ear

539
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 1: along with can I hear a little song saying girl,

540
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 1: I'm not singing, what the fuck are you singing? Well?

541
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: I usually play Sabrina Claudio do you know yeah, I

542
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: love her too. Yeah, yeah kind of, But honestly I

543
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: didn't even eventually at a little it's not weird to

544
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: be talking about how like the humming, you know, it's

545
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: vibrating and all that. Men like that. Yeah, so I

546
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: need to what you be because to put me on

547
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,399
Speaker 1: my boys a little deep, but what you'll be putting

548
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: in the ear for them to be like, say, I'm

549
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:58,480
Speaker 1: you gave us your eyes and you can't use us

550
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: your vocals? Yeah, is there anything with your mouth? Are

551
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: you kissing or you licking or is it all just

552
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: your hands? It's just all my hands, all my energy. Um.

553
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: It's crazy because I didn't intentionally start singing, like I

554
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: was just singing along while I massage because I it

555
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: just makes me get into the mood. Um. And then

556
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,439
Speaker 1: I just started getting complimented on my singing. So I

557
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: just made it a part of it after that because

558
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, everybody like singing. Do you only do men? No?

559
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 1: I do women too, and so yeah. So one of

560
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:36,000
Speaker 1: my friends was like, you gave me like a girl,

561
00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: a boyfriend experience, a girlfriend experience. He was like, when

562
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 1: you were singing Oh my god. I felt like I

563
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: was being serenaded. Like I was just like, okay, So, yeah,

564
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: everybody compliments that part, so I guess that's what makes

565
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: essential too. Um. But yeah, every every guy mostly they

566
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: get hard and does that make you uncomfortable? No, it doesn't.

567
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: It's a compliment. For me. I feel like I'm doing

568
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: my job. Well, it's weird because I know regular massages

569
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: be turning me on. I'll be like, I do not

570
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: like this. Yea woman rubbing me right now, ain't nothing

571
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,560
Speaker 1: about I'm sexy, but goddamn, I don't know whatever you're imagining.

572
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,440
Speaker 1: I'll be like, opening my lab happened. Well, I did

573
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 1: have once, but that was okay. We ain't gonna get

574
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: into that. So I get horny and massage, but not

575
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: for the person because I go to these like rinky

576
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: dinky places a lot. So when I'm at the rinkyd right,

577
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 1: And why did they always do this? I swear if

578
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: you go to a little shitty massage place, right, they like,

579
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 1: I'm not doing an accent, but I'm telling you the exit.

580
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: Just just hear me. Tell me, y'all ain't had this happen.

581
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: So I go to a mad spots in Korea town

582
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 1: even in New York, it's like reneweled or whatever. They

583
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 1: got like a bunch of them. Anytime I'm face down,

584
00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: I can't see who was about to massage me. When

585
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: it's a man, it's always a little man anyway. You

586
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: just hear them. That is so fun, you know what

587
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You hear the feet and they're like okay,

588
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 1: but like and I'm just like, I don't know, he

589
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: looks like and everything it's okay, but they do like okay, okay, okay,

590
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: let me find out be masages are damn near glory

591
00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 1: holes for you. You don't know who who is such

592
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: a bo I never know because my face is always

593
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: down so towards the end of the massage, and like,

594
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:10,719
Speaker 1: I guess i'd be tense when I know it's a man,

595
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 1: so they always have to be I'm sowhere, and then

596
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 1: by the time I flip over, I'm so relaxed. Then

597
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to look at them because I'd be like, damn,

598
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,200
Speaker 1: now I'm kind of turned on. So I don't want

599
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 1: to look at you and you not be what I

600
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: want to see, you know what I mean. I'll be

601
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: squeezing my eyes clothes, wait until they get the towel

602
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: to put over me, and I'm always given and then

603
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: and then it's given up. I don't even see him

604
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: at the end because I'm telling you, they'd be so

605
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 1: in and out. It's like their turnover is crazy. At

606
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: the massage places, think about when you go in one

607
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 1: of them, there's like ten books, you know what I mean.

608
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: And that's actually the difference between Like I actually have

609
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 1: someone that comes to massage me. Oh my god, his

610
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: name is Joe. He is tied and he's fired. But

611
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: I realized, like when someone comes to your house and

612
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: you spend a little more money, they really focus on you.

613
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's a healer too, right, And like I

614
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 1: realized my massages customs how I'm feeling. So it's like

615
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 1: spending extra money on a massage I will do if

616
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: the person's worth it. And I've noticed that the people

617
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: to come to your house normally, are you do you

618
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: do you do couples as well? Yeah, I've done couples.

619
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: How do you do it? How is that? Yeah? It's

620
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:20,239
Speaker 1: actually really fun, Like it's fun because they do it

621
00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 1: with me. So so I have a friend that's a

622
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: couple and he wanted to give his girlfriend a forehand

623
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 1: massage for her birthday. And it was so cute because

624
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: he just kept trying to follow everything I was doing,

625
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: and I was just like, just be yourself, like you

626
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 1: don't have to do exactly what I'm doing. So it's

627
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: cool because I get to teach them. I get to

628
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,520
Speaker 1: teach them how to be more intimate. So yeah, I

629
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 1: had fun. I was telling him what to do, like

630
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: kiss her forehead, do this, and do that, and yeah,

631
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: she was loving it. She had a big smile on

632
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: her face, like, oh my god, this is amazing. So

633
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: I do love helping couples, you know, be more. See,

634
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I don't know if

635
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: I could, like, and I'm a really respectful person. Yeah,

636
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can hire somebody attractive to

637
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 1: give me a couple of massages. Why no, because like

638
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna want to fuck. And she said the energy, right,

639
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 1: I know. But like the thing though, you don't you

640
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean. You don't want to be rude.

641
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: But like if I got a girl telling me what

642
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 1: to do, what, I'm robbing my nigga and be like

643
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: did you kissing with me? You should just ask, so

644
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: what's the about the packages? What else do you come with? No?

645
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: But so one of the things that I really enjoyed though,

646
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: like and I wanted to your captions and I really

647
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 1: liked it through central massages. Through these massages, you say

648
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: that a part of it is also creating a safe

649
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: space for black men specifically, and I kind of wanted

650
00:32:43,160 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 1: to dig into that because what does intimacy and a

651
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: safe space? What does that look like to you? And

652
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: how do you how do you bring that? You know

653
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,400
Speaker 1: to your partners. First, I just feel like I have

654
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 1: the energy that just I don't know what it is.

655
00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: I've always had guys just be comfortable telling me the

656
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: craziest things, and so I just created say, I don't

657
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: guys tell me that I have that energy where I

658
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 1: make them feel soft or just comfortable or it's just

659
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: like relaxing homie vibes. And so I just beat myself

660
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: and they just say things, and I always tell them

661
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,840
Speaker 1: it's okay, Like if they cry, it's okay, I'll give

662
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: them a hug. It's okay. Let it out. Tell me.

663
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, if you've given a hundred massages,

664
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: how many of them cried um. I feel like one

665
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: guy was trying to hold back. It touched my heart though,

666
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: because he came to me because he said I just

667
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: lost my mom and I just need a woman's touch.

668
00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 1: And I was just like, oh, oh wow, that's Jesus.

669
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: And I was like, I got you. I'll give you

670
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: extra life. I mean, I guess. I mean I'm gonna

671
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 1: be real. I couldn't. You couldn't do it because, like

672
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: I feel like when people are grieving sometimes sex helps, right,

673
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: Like I remember the first time I had sex after

674
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: grieving a loss of my family member. But like, your

675
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: mom died, and then it's also like a woman touch

676
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: I need. That is a little weird. No, like your

677
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: mama just died and you want a woman to be

678
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: touching you like this. No, but he's basically saying like

679
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: I need some love, you know, keep like keep missing. No,

680
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 1: he did not. It's like it's like if you're saying, like, hey,

681
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: I had a bad day of work, I need a

682
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: woman's touch. Right, that was just the circumstances they do,

683
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 1: you do hear me? That ship kind of was a

684
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 1: little weird. Was like saying he didn't want to show

685
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 1: up somewhere in here like um, I do. But I

686
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: do notice that guys definitely are very tense and they

687
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: get um. I don't know it takes them a while,

688
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: but I guess them the lashings do even put them

689
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: in like do you put them in in submissive positions?

690
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 1: Where wait, I'm assuming it's a regular table right and

691
00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 1: their legs in the air like I missed my mom? What?

692
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 1: Maybe all fours? I don't know how people like to

693
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:06,759
Speaker 1: be missiles sometimes on all fours, Mandy, listen, I like

694
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: a little missige on all fours. Crack this back? What

695
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: that's how you gotta crack it? You know? Like the yoga?

696
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 1: What is the downward dog type shit? Okay, sometimes you

697
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: gotta have that ass something the air? What listen. I've

698
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,480
Speaker 1: been to yoga, like y'all. Some of the positions I

699
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,320
Speaker 1: literally be like the yoga don't do me? And I

700
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: did realize I I went twice to see I didn't.

701
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,239
Speaker 1: I'll tell y'all what. I just went to it. I

702
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,240
Speaker 1: really hope somebody black works at your local one, you nigga.

703
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: I went to Solid Court. Y'all heard of that? Yeah, well,

704
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 1: I tell you what someone said you shouldn't go there

705
00:35:43,640 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 1: if you can't plank for at least a minute. And

706
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: I see why. I was like class and I was

707
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 1: like the my I was contracting so much. I thought

708
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 1: I had the ship. That's how strong. Wow, my stomach

709
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: had to be. I don't know why you'd be going

710
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 1: to ship like this sounds all thankful, though, it's the point, bitch.

711
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: That's how you get lit. That's how I'm getting bro.

712
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: I can't tell you I'm I've never had one three

713
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 1: in front of my weight in two years, Like I'm

714
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:11,759
Speaker 1: one thirty something. Maybe it's one thirty nine, but I

715
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: think I said in one hundred forty one. I was

716
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: one forty nine in Thailand. So the fact that I

717
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: lost ten pounds that quick just from like actually like

718
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: really working out bugged me the fuck out. That's awesome, right, bat.

719
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 1: It's hard, but it can't get there unless I'm in pain.

720
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: So it's either maybe I'm pain. I'll tell you that

721
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: I heard about that. Why to try it? I just polize, bitch,

722
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 1: my ribs hurt. To enjoy that pain a little though,

723
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: I was like, just somebody just punched me. It feels

724
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 1: like it's working when you feel it. I feel well breathe.

725
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,120
Speaker 1: I was like, all right, I know I just worked

726
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: out because I feel it. If I could laugh and

727
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 1: feel the pilates, it works. But see, this is what

728
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 1: you gotta do. I've been telling people because they're like, oh,

729
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: how'd you gonna lose a weight? Lorie Harvey? It was

730
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 1: gonna eat it. But I was telling you that bitch

731
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: is like, I ain't two hundred calories and I burned

732
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 1: them all. And I do work out in the morning

733
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 1: and the night, but basically do intermitte passing with the

734
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 1: twelve hundred collies, like you just really slim down. It's like, okay,

735
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 1: so he does. He's sorry, okay, right, so you don't

736
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: got to do half right? Uh let me let me

737
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 1: ask you before we get into our homemail um in

738
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: terms of because you get arousal from it, you know

739
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 1: the people are getting arousal from it, what does that

740
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: conversation look like when you're giving massages to people outside

741
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: of your partner? And clearly he respects the work, but

742
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: are there conversations what do you mean around that? Like,

743
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: are you guys then in an open relationship? Open? Right?

744
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 1: And that's why she said, did you hear me. You

745
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:38,919
Speaker 1: mentioned monogamous, and that's why I'm asking, because there's such

746
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: the sexual energy involved with this. You're aroused sometimes you

747
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: know that the people are going to be arousal Oh yeah,

748
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: do you be jealous? Like is there? He's not jealous.

749
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: And we just started dating, so I haven't really massaged

750
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: much people since. So you ain't got there yet. Okay, yeah,

751
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,720
Speaker 1: I don't even sage the girl. But he's not jealous.

752
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 1: He's not a jealous person at all. Now, I might

753
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: be jealous. Their conversation about now boundaries that he wants

754
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: you to have if you go massage men because now

755
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 1: y'all are in a religions. Actually we actually I actually

756
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 1: did massage a guy. But no, he didn't. He was

757
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: just like, oh, get your money, Yeah, go ahead. That

758
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: was it. We never really him. Come on blacking sex work,

759
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 1: I know that's the fun. You can't get the sex

760
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,879
Speaker 1: record too. So he gets what's he doing sex? Yeah? Yeah,

761
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: only fans. What's he doing that? Um? Well, before me,

762
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: he was, yeah, having sex with other women. Oh wait,

763
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 1: that's how we that's how you makee So he's not

764
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,120
Speaker 1: having sex now at work? No, it's just me. Now,

765
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 1: it's just us. But did you put a stop to that?

766
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 1: You ain't telling him to go make his No, I

767
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: got judging on it. Low hold on, you said I didn't.

768
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: You can get your money, but let me hear it

769
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: giving double standards, it's giving you no, no, not at all.

770
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: He wants to be monogamous and I want to be

771
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: monogamous too. I'm not anything outside of him? What do

772
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: you mean work working with each other? What are you

773
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: talking about? Old on? Look, he's been looking for somebody

774
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: that he only wanted to work with one person. I

775
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,680
Speaker 1: was looking for the same thing. So it just worked. Yeah,

776
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: but what if he wants to like he doesn't want to,

777
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:27,799
Speaker 1: you know, because I'm sure he does not want to,

778
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: because he literally told me, well before we decided to

779
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 1: like work with each other, he said that he's only

780
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: working with one person. So I told him, ideally, I'm

781
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: looking to work with one person that's not working with

782
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: nobody else, and he was like, oh, me too, cut

783
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 1: her off and came to me. So I was like, okay,

784
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: So he was working for one person before it did

785
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 1: say I'm switched to another one person to me because

786
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: he wanted me, because he actually saw a relationship with me.

787
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: You didn't have a relationship with her. He was just

788
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,360
Speaker 1: working with her. But he actually saw a relationship with me,

789
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 1: So that's why he was like, okay, now, what is it? Like?

790
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: Broadens though, because a lot of only fans creators have

791
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 1: been looking to become contract stars or do mainstream porn

792
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 1: so that a lot of people can see them. How

793
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,800
Speaker 1: would you feel about that? Like opening both your careers

794
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 1: up to that. I would never be a porn star.

795
00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 1: He said that he wouldn't do it either. How do

796
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 1: you how do you separate outside of the agency of it?

797
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 1: You said I wouldn't be a porn star, but you

798
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: have only fans. How do you distinguish between what a

799
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: porn star does and what someone on only fans that? Well,

800
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 1: porn star, you get booked and you go on set

801
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: and you get paid for that day and that's it.

802
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 1: That video goes on porn sites and all that. I

803
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:46,799
Speaker 1: have a lot of porn star friends, so I hear

804
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: stories and I'm like, I convene y'all because I can't

805
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,439
Speaker 1: do it. But sometimes you're meeting the person that you're

806
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:55,879
Speaker 1: working with that same day. I can't do that. Oh

807
00:40:55,960 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 1: sorry me. It's like a process I have to meet

808
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: two first. I gotta see if I've I with you,

809
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:02,960
Speaker 1: if I even like you to even want to shoot

810
00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,759
Speaker 1: with you. And I shoot my own stuff. It's just

811
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,480
Speaker 1: us too. There's nobody else, there's no cameraman or and

812
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: it just goes on my only fans. It doesn't go

813
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 1: on porn sites and stuff. And I get paid for

814
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 1: my stuff. Do you call porn I'm gonna be honest,

815
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: I do call some only fans people like porn. Well,

816
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: because some porn stars have only fans. I think, I

817
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,879
Speaker 1: just say it in my brain to me, if I'm

818
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: paid for having set like I have sex, if they

819
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 1: have sex, I call them porn right to me. But

820
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 1: there's a difference for sure, there's different titles. That's why

821
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 1: I say I'm only because amateur that it's not porn,

822
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: like because you mentioned the set, the crew, the staff.

823
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 1: Because sometimes some stuff can be like I I'm not

824
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 1: mainstream porn star. I'm just the only fans concept creator,

825
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not. I never got booked for a

826
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 1: scene or anything like that. So so like I always separated,

827
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: like for a while early time of only fans, I

828
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 1: was like, oh, it's just like yam girl because Cam

829
00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 1: to me was low fi amateur, and then porn would

830
00:41:56,719 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: be set set production. Yeah. But now in my brain

831
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: when I'm like, because I pay for only fans content

832
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 1: creators because either I'm cool with them or because I

833
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 1: want to watch them, I'm sex me too. That's me

834
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,040
Speaker 1: is porn. Not be mad when I don't see I'm

835
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,840
Speaker 1: just buying porn in a different way. And like, do

836
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 1: you do you do you have to see sex if

837
00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:16,439
Speaker 1: you're subscribing for some people that I want to see

838
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 1: them have sex. Yeah, but then he posted selfies and

839
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,480
Speaker 1: I'd be like, bitch, if you I'll get this shit

840
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:26,040
Speaker 1: off the things. He put that shit on Instagram playing

841
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: with me. I don't they want to get to the selfies,

842
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: don't you know? Okay? God, that shit be this at me?

843
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: All I want to like because this is interesting because

844
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 1: I did it. I did an episode on sex Cells.

845
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,680
Speaker 1: And when I was telling you about so Mandy has

846
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: a friend that works for Evil Angel, Evil Angel, I

847
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 1: almost said Vivid Evil Angels. So I did one of

848
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,360
Speaker 1: an independent creator which is Landed the plug and um

849
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: evil Angel. And the interesting thing that the guy that

850
00:42:56,480 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: owned Evil Angel said is like porn stars or only

851
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: Fans girls are coming to me now knowing they won't

852
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 1: make as much, but knowing they're gonna broaden now, right,

853
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 1: So they want to do these scenes on a major

854
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: market things they can make more money. But the Only

855
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 1: Fans creators that I was reaching out to work with

856
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 1: still said they did porn. They just said to me, like,

857
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: I make my own. So the episode was kind of

858
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: shot in this way of like, both people are distributing

859
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,399
Speaker 1: this content. One just owns their one doesn't. But I

860
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: wonder too, because Only Fans has made cardib pop, that

861
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,439
Speaker 1: we had that girl who does toorking videos, who's super

862
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:34,040
Speaker 1: subscribe to, like all of these people that aren't fucking

863
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: for money? Is that really what it is? Like? If

864
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 1: there was an only fans type porn type site, would

865
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 1: you not do that? Would you prepare to be on

866
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: a platform that has everybody? Well, even like porn Hub

867
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: allows you to create your own ship, yeah, create your

868
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: own subscriptions. Yeah. I just personally don't want to be

869
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 1: on porgn size, even though my stolen content is on there.

870
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:56,719
Speaker 1: I just prefer not to because I don't want to

871
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 1: ruin porn for my family. So I was about to say,

872
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: how does your family view you do. They is porn though,

873
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,279
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I get, I mean it is part I

874
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,160
Speaker 1: make porn. But I just don't consider myself a porn

875
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:09,480
Speaker 1: star because just because I have porn star friends and

876
00:44:09,560 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 1: they live a different life like that, I just feel

877
00:44:11,880 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: I just don't feel right calling myself a porn star.

878
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:18,359
Speaker 1: Said how is your comba with your family? I mean,

879
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 1: because you're in your thirties, so it's like they should

880
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:23,200
Speaker 1: be able to know. But what somebody's twenty one doing porn,

881
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god, find a way when you

882
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 1: making decision in your late twenties or early thirties, they're like,

883
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: you tried out life. I was. I was very terrified

884
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 1: telling them because they're very old school, but I think

885
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 1: because I moved out first and then I started doing

886
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: that and I don't they didn't problem. I literally told them,

887
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: and I literally was prepared for them to this only

888
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: and they were just like, Okay, we understand why you

889
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:51,360
Speaker 1: were like freaking out and stuff, but we're just more concerned,

890
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 1: more concerned with your safety. And so my mom asked

891
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: a lot of questions. I answered all of it, and

892
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: they were just like, okay, cool it is. I'm not

893
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 1: thinking Thanksgiving. Now, it's not weird at all because we

894
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: don't really talk about things. So it was just like

895
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: I just tell them once and that's it. We never

896
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 1: talked about it ever again. Okay, yeah, you know what

897
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: to I feel like it's so we're like becoming so

898
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: desensitized that, like, in ten years, to find out your

899
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: daughter is making porn with her boyfriend, it's just like,

900
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:22,360
Speaker 1: all right, at least it's him, like you know what

901
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, and then if it's like they're doing

902
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: it with another thing, like, all right, at least it's

903
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: a set, like you're gonna find a way to try

904
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,479
Speaker 1: to feel some safety in this. And I think that's

905
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 1: a really good sign of the older generation trying to

906
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: acclimate to what we do. Yeah. I think my mom

907
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: was okay with it because I told her like, don't worry, mom,

908
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 1: these are not strangers. Because before I was dating my partner,

909
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: obviously I was doing it single for four years. So

910
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:47,240
Speaker 1: I would tell her like, don't worry, these are not strangers.

911
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: We're getting tested. So I started telling her all these

912
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: things and she was like, okay, cool, how was it

913
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 1: making content while you were single? Training? Draining? I tell

914
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 1: you that. I think that's the reason why I slow

915
00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:03,280
Speaker 1: down for a little bit, and I was like, really

916
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: wanting just one partner. I think it's funny because you're

917
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: saying that it was draining. I'm back single and there's

918
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:14,920
Speaker 1: certain people from my past that I haven't even wanted

919
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:17,320
Speaker 1: to entertain because I'm just like, what am I getting

920
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:19,959
Speaker 1: out of this? But also I'm giving you my time.

921
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,880
Speaker 1: It's the idea of things being pointless now, and we

922
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: talked on this pot about pointless sex. I'm like, I'm

923
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:29,439
Speaker 1: really not that interested. But pleasing someone that you're really

924
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: not into that exchange with someone that you're just like,

925
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:36,320
Speaker 1: we're just here, Yeah, becomes draining. I would say, after

926
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: the fact, there's not as much aftercare, there's not really communication,

927
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:43,280
Speaker 1: and then you're just sitting with yourself and you're feeling

928
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: a lot of things, and that I think is the

929
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:49,919
Speaker 1: draining party, not even actual sexist after feeling less than

930
00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 1: and all these things. And that does lead to the

931
00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:54,360
Speaker 1: homemail because you even saying that it looks like we

932
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:57,839
Speaker 1: have someone else dealing with it. However, she's asking how

933
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 1: much of a home am I Listen, she said, Hey, y'all,

934
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 1: I'd love to hear y'all's opinions on my attraction to

935
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:10,319
Speaker 1: men and women who are usually emotionally unavailable in some

936
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: way or how. I most often find myself attracted to

937
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 1: men who are already in relationships. Running the club me

938
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 1: to we right there. I'm twenty eight from the East

939
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: Coast and have had three sons and been a unicorn.

940
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 1: They were both cool. I feel like I can really

941
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 1: care about more than one person at a time as well.

942
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:32,280
Speaker 1: I've also tried to center myself and take time away

943
00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:35,280
Speaker 1: from sex to build my relationship with myself and haven't

944
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: had sex since November. Before that, I had sex from

945
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,320
Speaker 1: June to November with some fire az demon dick that

946
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: I had to let go despite of how good it was,

947
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 1: and I haven't had sex for a year before June.

948
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,399
Speaker 1: I've learned a lot from taking breaks away. I want

949
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,320
Speaker 1: to believe in that spark that Wheezy talks about with niggas,

950
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: and that's what usually draws me in. I feel like

951
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 1: I just know when I meet someone I'm a water sign,

952
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 1: and I do think it has to do with my

953
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: emotions and being okay with fucking with that fucking can bring,

954
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,439
Speaker 1: but also wanting some love and care in it. From

955
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 1: taking a break, I've seen my money go up and

956
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: grown a closer relationship to God, travel lots, bought a

957
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: new vibrator, built relationships with my friends, then God a vibrator.

958
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: All of it I'm thankful for, but I'm honest. I

959
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: miss Dick, and I wonder what being attracted to folks

960
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: who are partnered says about me. I talked to this

961
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: nigga who has partnered. He's Polly. I often find myself

962
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: attracted to men who I know I shouldn't, and I

963
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,760
Speaker 1: don't want to help anyone cheat. My karma reacts fast.

964
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: But I also wonder if this is a part of

965
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: my attachment style, if my not liking folks in the

966
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 1: quote unquote typical manner makes me more of a hoe,

967
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 1: and if I'm wrong, and if I'm wrong right now

968
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 1: for considering letting this man who I know is with

969
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: someone pay my bills, as he's been asking for almost

970
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:03,239
Speaker 1: the last three years, and I always say no, but

971
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 1: he looks so fine the other day, I'm starting to

972
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 1: consider it. It's also getting mad expensive out here, so

973
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 1: y'all know it would be nice. I don't want to

974
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: just give pieces of myself anymore, and because the connection

975
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 1: may not be typical, does that mean it's wrong. Ultimately,

976
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: we'll love to hear your thoughts. Thanks. Now, I think

977
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: we can break this down. I'll be honest. This is

978
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: something recently I noticed in therapy and also y'all thinking,

979
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,960
Speaker 1: I think it's a flex that I married men or

980
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 1: men in relationships. It's not a flex. But I also

981
00:49:33,520 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 1: realize I project the fact that I don't want long

982
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: term to me. Long term looks like marriaging kids. Yeah,

983
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,840
Speaker 1: we had this conversation recently, and so I think because

984
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 1: I project so much that I don't want marriage and

985
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 1: I don't want kids. Unfortunately, I think the universe is

986
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: sending me people who have limitations. The universe. Bitch, if

987
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: y'all can talking about stars of Moments, I can talk

988
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: about the universe. Citi Medies married Because I don't think

989
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: it's me. I think it's the universe. Hey, y'all be

990
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:02,960
Speaker 1: mad at the universe, bitches, don't be mad at me.

991
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:06,959
Speaker 1: Is not bad. These niggers and relationships. The universe will

992
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,839
Speaker 1: test you. They will what's the test? But I don't

993
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 1: I don't really want you long term. I want you

994
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 1: to make me feel good and which I told you

995
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,840
Speaker 1: they treat me the best. So the universe is like this,

996
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: It's documented they treat you so well. Why say that

997
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: your ex was the first man to make to make

998
00:50:23,680 --> 00:50:26,120
Speaker 1: you feel x y Z because he was able to

999
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 1: pour into you because he had the time, right he

1000
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 1: didn't have because he was retired, But like the jobs,

1001
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 1: ain't got a lot of time. But if someone can

1002
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: only focus on you and not a lot of people,

1003
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: Like I have a friend that is in a polly

1004
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 1: relationship right now, and I had expressed that the only

1005
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 1: issue was that their partner was in you know, he

1006
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: has other partners. It was like, I can't get like

1007
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: what I need from this person at all times because

1008
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: he's just got too much going on. Like I'm gonna

1009
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 1: be real, like having a bad day of work, normal

1010
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: nigga can answer the phone is important. I don't want

1011
00:50:58,080 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 1: you to have to move around your wife and kids eat.

1012
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 1: Having someone to like lean on is what's great. And

1013
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 1: also the love that you were able to get from

1014
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: your ex. How much could he give you if you

1015
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 1: really had a wife and kids at home. I think

1016
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 1: that a part of it is still knowing, like I

1017
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 1: don't expect from people what I can't give them. And

1018
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 1: so I think because my friends, bitch I brought up,

1019
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 1: I'm in a polly relationship with all my friends, even

1020
00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 1: though it's not sexual. Some of them it is, but

1021
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:25,759
Speaker 1: it's not always sexual, you know. I just like to

1022
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,240
Speaker 1: put my friends sometimes not my gay friends. There's there's lines, John, Okay,

1023
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 1: But to me, I do know that I'm not giving

1024
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 1: someone a hundred percent of my time. I don't even

1025
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:39,799
Speaker 1: want you to. But you're not getting ninety. See, yeah,

1026
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 1: you're making a point, you know what I'm saying. No,

1027
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 1: it's not though, but that's the thing to me. Like,

1028
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: but if they if we all have limited time, bro,

1029
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,520
Speaker 1: So if you're telling me you got thirty percent of

1030
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: your time to give, which is probably what I have

1031
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 1: to give, and you got a wife on the side

1032
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 1: and children, how much do I get? Well, if if

1033
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 1: I'm giving out an X amount of time to somebody,

1034
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 1: I'm fine with them finding fulfillment in someone else. And

1035
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 1: so to me, because I know I don't have that

1036
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: time to give you. And I know a lot of

1037
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: men expect women to be all upon they did because

1038
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 1: that's what they do. A lot of men expect you're

1039
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: gonna stop hanging with your friends. You're gonna you're gonna

1040
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: drop the world for me because this is what women

1041
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: do with men. It ain't me and so to me,

1042
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:19,400
Speaker 1: I think I come in with some sort of relief

1043
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 1: that there's somebody else because I ain't gonna be able

1044
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:23,840
Speaker 1: to do that for you. Yeah, I don't want marriage,

1045
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,839
Speaker 1: I don't want kids, and there's so to me, there

1046
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 1: is a stop. I think I think it's my it's

1047
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: it's a bad negative thing. Yes, I think it's my

1048
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: safe haven to know the expectations are only gonna go

1049
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:39,680
Speaker 1: but so far because you either got it already or

1050
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,760
Speaker 1: you're lacking in something. So I can be that person

1051
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,280
Speaker 1: and we can be in this blissful bubble of naivity.

1052
00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck. Yeah, but I don't want

1053
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: to be single. Then no, that's the thing. I want

1054
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 1: a relationship. But I'm fine with Like, I'm not gonna

1055
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 1: hold you literally about this conversation, and you know the nigga,

1056
00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: I'll tell you all. But like he was married and

1057
00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:00,879
Speaker 1: had a girlfriend. I was open to being girlfriend number two.

1058
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: The problem is he, like lig me, Nigga said I

1059
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:05,399
Speaker 1: couldn't have sex outside. So I'm like, no, you don't

1060
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: even live you don't even live here. I don't care

1061
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 1: if you take care about my bills. The fact that

1062
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: I have to wait on sex for you doesn't seem appeasing, right.

1063
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: So to me, the married men that I've been with,

1064
00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:18,279
Speaker 1: I've literally asked, can we talk to your girlfriend you

1065
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:20,359
Speaker 1: know about me? Can we allow it? Like? Can? I? Like,

1066
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm fine, I would at least you're doing that. I'm

1067
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:25,839
Speaker 1: being in an opening is good? Yeah, yeah, I don't

1068
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:29,680
Speaker 1: want to be a mistress tee. That's marygas. No, they're

1069
00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,919
Speaker 1: married because they wife don't know about me, Okay, that

1070
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 1: they're not Polly, that's like, let me teach you about

1071
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 1: these things because I think we can make this work.

1072
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,279
Speaker 1: Like that's the difference. But I think it's because those

1073
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: two that how I came in, you know what I mean.

1074
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,280
Speaker 1: It's not only to ruin her home, but the dynamic

1075
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 1: of her relation whatever. This is why I wanted to

1076
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:48,760
Speaker 1: have this conversation as well with both of you. Because

1077
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,799
Speaker 1: she said, because I don't want a traditional love, does

1078
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:55,720
Speaker 1: that make me a hope? Doesn't mean I'm giving someone pieces? Um.

1079
00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: I think falling in love with couples though it's a

1080
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 1: different thing because you're attracted just like the love. But

1081
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,960
Speaker 1: what about to just someone that you know is, like

1082
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 1: she said, emotionally unavailable because they're either already in relationships.

1083
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: By the way, nigga being in a relationship, no me

1084
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 1: emotionally unavailable them. Niggas hold emotionals for a lot of

1085
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: different bitches. Just be his favorite, That's what I say.

1086
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 1: Being favorite is just being favorite. Oh niggas being a

1087
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 1: shiny car that he likes to drive all the time.

1088
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:21,680
Speaker 1: Don't be the bucket that he liked. Shit, I gotta

1089
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 1: get an oil change in the one I really like.

1090
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 1: Now letting me drive this one be his favorite. I

1091
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:27,880
Speaker 1: think with women, if you go in just wanted to

1092
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 1: be a nigga's favorite, you will live a happier life because, baby,

1093
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:32,799
Speaker 1: you are getting cheated on, you are being lied to.

1094
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:35,360
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I've been around a lot of friends lately

1095
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: literally are finding out their boyfriends are married. I was

1096
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 1: in a car the other day. Boy I didn't even

1097
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,480
Speaker 1: know he was married and expecting. And I'm in the

1098
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: car with a sidebitch and she's telling me, you know this,

1099
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:50,240
Speaker 1: nigga married and expecting. You know I know the wise spacebook.

1100
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 1: Should I hit the white spacebook in front of her?

1101
00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: In front of him? He was driving. I said, now,

1102
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: why are you dealing with a craziest sidebitch threatening to

1103
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: hit your wife up? This ain't the type of bit

1104
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: you need to be with. But I'm literally like around

1105
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: all of these men who have multiple relationships going on.

1106
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 1: Swear to God, Swear to God. All my friends have

1107
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 1: relationships with men, so that are I don't know. Girlfriend,

1108
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:13,319
Speaker 1: my girl is saying to me, She's like, oh, why

1109
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,239
Speaker 1: am I attracted to people that are already taken? I

1110
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:19,799
Speaker 1: feel like if you are looking for something, for one,

1111
00:55:19,880 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: you need to know what you're looking for, right, Yes,

1112
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 1: Like I know what I'm looking for, So when I

1113
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:26,399
Speaker 1: meet men that are taken, I'm off it. What's ending

1114
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 1: of her? I mean, I have men that have been

1115
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: lying to me. That's how I get a little caught up.

1116
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: But it's like, if you're getting so far down the

1117
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: line where you are attracted to them, you must not

1118
00:55:34,600 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: see a relationship as assigned to stop, which is a

1119
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 1: you thing. Like it doesn't mean your way of loving

1120
00:55:41,600 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: is wrong, but like that's a you problem to me.

1121
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 1: I agree, Unless you want a Polly relationship. If you

1122
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 1: want a polly relationship, maybe that's why this is appeasing

1123
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:51,680
Speaker 1: to you. But if you're like, why does this keep

1124
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,399
Speaker 1: happening to me? Bitch? Is pretty easy. If a nigga

1125
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 1: told me he got a girl, I'm off. You just

1126
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:57,919
Speaker 1: don't deal with them. You know what I'm saying. You care?

1127
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 1: I don't, but yes, right. For example, I recently fucked

1128
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,840
Speaker 1: the skater nigga. I didn't know he had a girlfriend

1129
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: until after we had That's crazy. That ship was crazy.

1130
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 1: Fucked him. Didn't know your a girlfriend went on a

1131
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 1: second day. It was so ready to get some dick.

1132
00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:14,399
Speaker 1: The girlfriend popped out. I was living. I was done.

1133
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: Oh I went back without Then I came back to

1134
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 1: New York two months later and I said, I'm gonna

1135
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:21,400
Speaker 1: just suck this nigga because I feel like it and

1136
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,480
Speaker 1: that's all I want. However, that was one of the

1137
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 1: first times in a while I was like, this is

1138
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 1: actually all I want. Is just I think that when

1139
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:32,839
Speaker 1: you're looking for love and you cross those lines, that's

1140
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: the problem because you get delusion on you think that this. Yeah,

1141
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree. If you go in knowing, then

1142
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Girl. Everybody's fun when they unavailable. I

1143
00:56:42,239 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: feel like we always want people we can't have. So

1144
00:56:44,840 --> 00:56:49,359
Speaker 1: that's exactly it. Like if I why, I don't know why.

1145
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 1: I don't know why either. Think about the Red Boots.

1146
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 1: The Red Boots me too, three hundred and fifty dollars.

1147
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what they did. They get them too

1148
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:01,879
Speaker 1: every celebrity, right, and we know we can't have them,

1149
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 1: so now they're like fifteen hundred and two thousand, even

1150
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 1: though they're only three fifty like as so far, yeah,

1151
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 1: so now we want them. I the boots are dumb.

1152
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 1: And then I started looking at him like, damn, I

1153
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,439
Speaker 1: guess like a rock those like what my brain made

1154
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 1: me think? Find out niggas getting married? Just this? Do

1155
00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 1: you think crazy? You know? I did hear that taking

1156
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 1: men have way more girls in their d ms, way

1157
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 1: more yes, And I'm just like, what saies look put together?

1158
00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 1: You said they look put together? They'd be like, look

1159
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 1: at this, look at he be on nice vacations? Who

1160
00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: is that woman on his arm? Anyway he looks great?

1161
00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 1: Or maybe they're just curious, like why is he in

1162
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: the relationship, Like what qualities does he have? Like I

1163
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 1: want to know? Maybe you're the same as these things.

1164
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 1: Who's single? That's what I want to know, if nobody,

1165
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 1: because what if they single, they don't want to be

1166
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 1: with nobody. I'm not looking for anything, is exactly why

1167
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:56,240
Speaker 1: you said something that I used to believe and a

1168
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 1: lot of people say this, Oh they change my mind.

1169
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:00,520
Speaker 1: You used to say, if a dude's else, you ain't

1170
00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: looking for nothing listening to him. Oh for sure. But

1171
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm gonna tell y'all. And I've been saying, listen, nigga,

1172
00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 1: I'm talking to me, and both agreed. I was like,

1173
00:58:08,480 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 1: you know, men say they're not looking for anything, but

1174
00:58:12,120 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 1: maybe y'all tell me anytime I've ended up in a relationship,

1175
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: the nigga was never looking for a girlfriend. We just

1176
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 1: ended up together. Danny, you were married, Tell me what

1177
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:24,600
Speaker 1: were you looking for? A girlfriend or a wife? You

1178
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: know what. I was just talking about this the other

1179
00:58:26,800 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 1: day with my partner because I always talk to men

1180
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 1: like because they say, oh, you know, I'm focused on

1181
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: my career at okay, So what if when you get

1182
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:37,880
Speaker 1: when you hit your goal in your career, aren't you

1183
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: gonna have another goal? So I just feel like you

1184
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,200
Speaker 1: just haven't found the right They just don't want to.

1185
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 1: That's literally, you're not the most important thing I've learned.

1186
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 1: I've had a nigga like and this is the whole

1187
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,520
Speaker 1: recent stuff, and it's very real for me, Like whether

1188
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 1: it be a conversation with someone else that he wasn't

1189
00:58:55,760 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 1: looking for something, or like you know, and just conversations

1190
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 1: about what about the people before me? Right, the last

1191
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 1: two people updated. I've asked that and it's like, Oh,

1192
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: it's clear you just weren't into them. You know what

1193
00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 1: I'm saying. You're telling me you're different from ninety days

1194
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 1: ago when you fuckus. Hole. Nah, you're just looking at

1195
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 1: me like I'm that person for you, which is totally fine.

1196
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:18,080
Speaker 1: Like that happened to Oh, way, hadn't had a girlfriend

1197
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 1: in eight years. Why he's a whore that lives in

1198
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 1: New York, that's attractive and makes money, get it? He

1199
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: told me. Remember we were in Detroit and he set

1200
00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: flowers and basically he was like, oh, we're not going

1201
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:29,880
Speaker 1: together and I was like, oh we're not. Okay, I'm

1202
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 1: done and then he can't, running right back like no,

1203
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 1: I can't be without you. And as fucked up as

1204
00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: that is to think that it took that sometimes I

1205
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 1: really believe that men are like, I'm gonna keep milking

1206
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: what I can out of you. You know what I'm saying,

1207
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 1: because I do be fucking sucking just as good as

1208
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna front if I was probably married. This

1209
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 1: is what I do. I'm a passionate dick sucker here,

1210
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: So how much better am I gonna lose? Once I'm

1211
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 1: down the aisle? This is the dick sucking I got

1212
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 1: to get. So what makes you want to wipe me up?

1213
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: If you know, hey, I could just go get it.

1214
00:59:57,280 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 1: So I think that we need to start act to

1215
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 1: lead just multiple like women need to start dating multiple

1216
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,560
Speaker 1: people because if we do that, our eggs aren't only

1217
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 1: one basket. And the three niggas that are looking for girlfriends,

1218
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:09,960
Speaker 1: it's the numbers game. One of them gonna end up

1219
01:00:09,960 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 1: with your girl. Yeah, just take it from me. They

1220
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: just don't let all of them know you're dating, because

1221
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: then you're a whole, and then you're really worth being.

1222
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 1: Sometimes that's the help, bully, that's the help. Be like, hey,

1223
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 1: the niggas, be like, I was gonna take you serious,

1224
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:23,800
Speaker 1: but sin see why here fucking lead all these other

1225
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,440
Speaker 1: though you just know when somebody's gonna take you serious

1226
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 1: or it's taking you serious through action not words. So

1227
01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 1: action not words. That's the team, Miss that Ferd. Please

1228
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 1: let everybody know what they can follow you, subscribe and

1229
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,840
Speaker 1: support you. Haney. Oh man, Can I look at my

1230
01:00:38,840 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 1: Instagram because I like you most of them. I know

1231
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:45,560
Speaker 1: they are getting deleted like everybody every day. Well, yeah,

1232
01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 1: and I follow. I think I actually follow your backup

1233
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:49,960
Speaker 1: one you follow my backup? Following your backup? What does

1234
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 1: the backup page means? It's a backup page. It's the same, yeah,

1235
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: just in case. Yeah, So what I do is like

1236
01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:58,200
Speaker 1: I'll post all my backup and I'll just do a

1237
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:01,320
Speaker 1: collaborator with my main so us in case, like if

1238
01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 1: a video gets flagged, my main page is not getting deleted.

1239
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: It's my backup. So it's like for safety. But my

1240
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:12,680
Speaker 1: Instagram is miss Sapphire, is I S M S S

1241
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Speaker 1: A P P H I R E e E. Okay

1242
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 1: with the extra easy Yeah, this will as well be

1243
01:01:20,520 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 1: in the description of this episode. And then my Twitter

1244
01:01:24,760 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 1: is I think it's the same thing, but without the

1245
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: it's in the in the yes, so it's MS S

1246
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Speaker 1: A P P H I R E e and then

1247
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Speaker 1: they can find all of your links too, for sires

1248
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 1: and everything in those licks and those licks, look at me,

1249
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:44,160
Speaker 1: not the licks, the link y'all, the link y'all. You

1250
01:01:44,240 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: want some more horrible decisions, contact check us out on

1251
01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:50,520
Speaker 1: patreon dot com. Back decisions. We've got our town hall

1252
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: every week we give merch or bitch, bitch, don't be

1253
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: lying to the people. Every month. I was thinking about

1254
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Speaker 1: February month. I don't know, um, and yeah, we are

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Speaker 1: waiting to see you on there. Our town halls are

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Speaker 1: a lot of fun there for our top tier patrons.

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Speaker 1: But they're so much fun. We get to sit down,

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Speaker 1: look at everybody, go through our episodes. Oh, April twenty seconds,

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Speaker 1: April twenty second, y'all. Make sure y'all pull up on us,

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Speaker 1: uh and let everyone know how lit the war hype is.

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Speaker 1: Hit your tickets now at black Effect dot com. Um,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna be there with eighty five South all of

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Speaker 1: your favorite pods on the Black Effect Network, So go

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Speaker 1: ahead and get your tickets now, um, and also make

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Speaker 1: sure you guys follow us on all of our social channels.

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Speaker 1: It's at Horrible Pod on Twitter and at Horrible Underscore Decisions.

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Speaker 1: We have some announcements Heney coming up regarding where you

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Speaker 1: can see us live. Calm down, not bitch, you know

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Speaker 1: what we're doing. We got some announcements for y'all. Holl Is, Okay,

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Speaker 1: what's my damn what's not happen? Bitch? You know what's

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Speaker 1: not happen? Don't do that so you ain't like you

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Speaker 1: not on these calls too. You ain't get the xcel sheet.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. All right, Well,

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Speaker 1: we got some announcements coming your way, so please make

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Speaker 1: sure you follow all of our channels to see what

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Speaker 1: news we got announcing soon and we will leave you

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Speaker 1: guys again with a five minute bonus flip. If you

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Speaker 1: like what you hear there, join us on Patreon and

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Speaker 1: support us. This has been yet another episode of Horry Blair.

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Speaker 1: Just as you own by. It's Bony's beat. Welcome back, Hoose,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my shit together, Yes, welcome welcome back.

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Speaker 1: It's so crazy because we recorded pretty much the next

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Speaker 1: month of Horrible Decisions last week, and it was giving

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Speaker 1: I haven't had sex, It was giving I haven't gone

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Speaker 1: on the date it was giving. I don't even know

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Speaker 1: what I'm gonna talk about, and I ended up going

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Speaker 1: out this weekend and literally in the last few days,

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Speaker 1: I have met two guys that I'm talking to. One

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Speaker 1: is local, one doesn't live here. But the one that

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Speaker 1: lives here already has a nickname. His nickname is Black Jesus.

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Speaker 1: I already told him not to listen to the podcast,

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Speaker 1: but he knows his name is Black Jesus. And because

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Speaker 1: he's giving Black Jesus, he looks like Black Jesus, and

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Speaker 1: what's crazy. So we're gonna talk about how I met

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Speaker 1: him because I was like not even looking to day.

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Speaker 1: I went to this party over the weekend. No, we

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Speaker 1: actually went to every Day People together. We spent the

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Speaker 1: whole weekend together after meeting each other. So and then

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Speaker 1: we also had a date last night. So I have

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Speaker 1: now spent three of the last four days with him.

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Speaker 1: Uh yeah, and I really, I mean, he's great. So

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Speaker 1: let me tell y'all to Tea about how to fuck

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Speaker 1: I even met him. So I'm at this party on

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Speaker 1: Saturday and I lose my home girl. Now that I

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Speaker 1: lost her, she went to the bathroom and so I

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Speaker 1: left the table to go look for her. Is he

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Speaker 1: a Brooklyn nigga? Rewind he lived in Brooklyn, but he's

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Speaker 1: not a Brooklyn nigga. No, not even he's an x fat.

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Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, like he's he's been in New York

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Speaker 1: less time than I have, like the States. He's not

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Speaker 1: an American, yeah, like x time, Like he's not from

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Speaker 1: New York, like he was from somewhere else and lives

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Speaker 1: here now. Um So, anyways, I'm looking for my homegirls.

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Speaker 1: Let me let y'all know, I am drunk as fuck

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Speaker 1: and all shrums at the same time. So I just

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Speaker 1: took like this little square of the chocolate shrums and

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, it's a vibe wind you. It

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Speaker 1: took me so long to even take the square because

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Speaker 1: so many of our fans were there. It was like

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Speaker 1: overwhelming for me, like I was on FaceTime, Like every

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Speaker 1: man that approached me called their girlfriend or wife and

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Speaker 1: had me on FaceTime with their girl wife. And then

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Speaker 1: all the girls that were there were just like buying,

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Speaker 1: like offering me drinks and I'm like, yeah, I'm already drunk.

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Speaker 1: So anyways, I go to find my home girls after

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling a little buzz on the shrooms and I

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Speaker 1: passed him and I didn't know what to do because

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Speaker 1: I'm on shrooms and I don't know what the word like,

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Speaker 1: what's going on? So I just started me mugging his

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Speaker 1: ass and I'm like, I don't just mean mugging him.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know words even come out. And he

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Speaker 1: was like what's up? And I was like, you find

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Speaker 1: a shit? That's literally the only thing that came out

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Speaker 1: of my mouth. I'm like, you actually too fine to

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Speaker 1: be here? What the fuck you doing here? What you all?

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Speaker 1: I knew what you say to him? So where to God?

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Speaker 1: That's all pbo. So it was like a party like

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Speaker 1: with tons of like all the Africans and Nigerians and

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Speaker 1: like a lot of people had like their African garbs

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Speaker 1: on women was fine up in there. So anyways, I

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Speaker 1: approached him and I'm like you you find a ship?

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Speaker 1: And well I know how to say, and then I'm like,

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Speaker 1: you know what, I have my whole foot in my mouth. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: I'm on shrooms. Would you like some all I knew

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Speaker 1: what to do was for him drugs, So mind you

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Speaker 1: his responses, I'm actually shruman right now. Yeah, sure I'll

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Speaker 1: take some, So he takes some, and I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm still looking for my friends, but I would really

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Speaker 1: like to exchange like information. Can I get your Instagram

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Speaker 1: or your phone number? At this point, foot in my

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Speaker 1: mouth again, He's like, yeah, let's exchange instagrams. So I

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Speaker 1: immediately feel curved. I immediately feel like Nigga ain't fucking

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Speaker 1: with me, because anytime I really don't want to give

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Speaker 1: someone my number, I give them my Instagram, even though

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Speaker 1: I asked for Instagram. And I think I only felt

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Speaker 1: curve too because the nigga's Instagram was private. So I'm like, Nigga,

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Speaker 1: this does me no good. I'm not gonna remember your page.

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Speaker 1: Now I have to follow you, like I'm not even

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Speaker 1: gonna remember what your name is to find you through

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Speaker 1: who I followed. So I was just like, okay, well

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Speaker 1: this was pointless. So anyways, I find my I'm like,

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Speaker 1: all right, well I'm gonna go find my friends. I

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Speaker 1: find my friends. We go back to the table and

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Speaker 1: we're vibing now like I'm with my friends. He passes

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Speaker 1: the table and goes to like touch my shoulder to chat.

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Speaker 1: I say, hey, so I'm with my friends. Now there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of really good looking women in here. You

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Speaker 1: should like do a walkthrough, go get some numbers, like

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Speaker 1: that's what you're here for, right, and like completely dismissed him,

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Speaker 1: completely dismissed that so