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Speaker 1: Radio Radio Radio Coms a Myth and Bullshit, a radiophonic novella.

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Speaker 1: Loc Radio hosted by Malamo. Hello, Hello, Hello, welcome back

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Speaker 1: to local radio. Welcome back. This is Malam and this

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Speaker 1: is the f and we are last Radio, coming to

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Speaker 1: you once again from Radio Spacio, located here at EsPAS

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Speaker 1: nine and boil Heights. Thank you for joining us. Look

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Speaker 1: at the Radio is a radiophonic novella arch having the

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Speaker 1: brilliance and legacies of women and fans of color. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for tuning into We just keep We just keep rolling.

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Speaker 1: You just keep making works like we are unstoppable. We've

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Speaker 1: been busy again as always, right, I'm and I'm so

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Speaker 1: happy that we're back from our break. Last time on

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Speaker 1: look at That our Radio, our radio, we interviewed Jay

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Speaker 1: you haven't tuned into that one, make sure you do.

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Speaker 1: It's such a good dialogue about um taking selfies and

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Speaker 1: like claiming your body taking up space, especially like for

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Speaker 1: j as a black transform So we were super happy

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Speaker 1: to have them on the show. And I think that

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Speaker 1: this maybe was our first like alumni episode. Oh yes, right,

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Speaker 1: Like so Jay and I went to college together and

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Speaker 1: that's where we met and became friends. So it was

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Speaker 1: cute having a tough salone here on the pod. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I agree, I agree on the pod on the pod.

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Speaker 1: In addition, we had some new stuff come out about

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Speaker 1: so we were super excited to see that we were

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Speaker 1: on this list. It was such a surprise. Um. So

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Speaker 1: on this Fierce by Me through article is titled these

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Speaker 1: Latina and Latino's hosts share our stories and highlight what

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Speaker 1: matters to our community through podcast and it's by Stephanie

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Speaker 1: Gina Genas Genus and yeah that sounds right. Yeah her,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, just thank you to her and thank you

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Speaker 1: to everyone that includes us in these list of goals

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Speaker 1: and like shares our content. I wanted to read um

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Speaker 1: what she wrote about us because I thought it was

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Speaker 1: super cute, super sweet. Um So she says, you can't

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Speaker 1: have a podcast list without featuring everyone's favorite mommy s

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Speaker 1: of myth and bullshit look at our radio. The podcasting

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Speaker 1: power Couple of Mala Jun pump A celebrating the power

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Speaker 1: and legacies of women of color. These posts love to

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Speaker 1: stay busy creating workshops, during keynotes at universities and fimcyeing

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Speaker 1: events all over Los Angeles with Las look at us.

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Speaker 1: Every hour is Brown Girl Hour. I love it. That's

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Speaker 1: such a cute like representation, like a good summary of

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Speaker 1: us and what we do. So thank you, girl, thank you.

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Speaker 1: We're so happy to be featured on this list with

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Speaker 1: so many of our other favorite podcast like Lots of

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Speaker 1: Good Latin X Yes, like Bad Ladies and Rayomanea Lose

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Speaker 1: Loses podcast Yeah, and so many others. Yeah, that's not

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Speaker 1: the only list that we were included on. This next

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Speaker 1: list was a huge surprise for us. Um we well

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Speaker 1: the aside. You happen to be on Instagram and saw

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Speaker 1: a post that Radomnea had made. Yes about Radiomenea had

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Speaker 1: been featured on this Forbes list Women of Forbes ten

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Speaker 1: I hadn't seen this list. So I clicked it and

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Speaker 1: thrilled to see all of this, like this very diverse

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Speaker 1: So it was so nice to see it. I'm scrolling

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Speaker 1: very exciting. And it's so funny because Mom and I

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Speaker 1: It feels like the crossover because it's motherfucking four, it's Forbes,

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Speaker 1: it's Forbes, be this is our like Selena records her

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Speaker 1: English language album this is It. So the author of

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Speaker 1: the article, Jane Claire Hervey, thank you for including us.

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you. So it's it's a list of all

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Speaker 1: these really great women lead podcasts, and we are right

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Speaker 1: next to Two Dope Queens, hosted by Jessica Williams and

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Speaker 1: And here's what they said about Local tora Um on Forbes,

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Speaker 1: regularly featuring Latin X artists and creatives. Look at a

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Speaker 1: Radio describes itself as a radio phonic novela semin Unos.

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Speaker 1: The podcast hosts are self proclaimed mommies of myth and bullshit,

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Speaker 1: that is what we do. We're just like just thank

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Speaker 1: our labor of love being recognized. You know, our seeds

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Speaker 1: are blooming, the seeds that we've planted are definitely blooming. Yes, um,

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Speaker 1: So we record this out of a community radio station.

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Speaker 1: They allow like community to come and record for free

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Speaker 1: thank you everybody. We have some upcoming events, yes we do, yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm like so happy that Mama was able to go

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Speaker 1: like all that stuff, you know, and so like there's

427
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 1: so many communities. I feel like the Internet has really

428
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: made that available to us, all these like sub communities

429
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 1: within one community, which I think is really interesting. Like

430
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 1: I just joined like a like a poc skincare group

431
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: on Facebook, and I was like, I thought I knew

432
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,680
Speaker 1: a lot about skincare, and it turns out I don't

433
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: like like these heads are these women? These folks talk

434
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,439
Speaker 1: about like the ingredients in the skincare and like literally

435
00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 1: like the scientific ship like, well, if you're using this

436
00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 1: product and it has this ingredient, well you can't use

437
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,399
Speaker 1: this one because it has that ingredient and it's not

438
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 1: going to mix. Well they know that kind of ship.

439
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,960
Speaker 1: And I was like, wow, I just know the vitamin

440
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:47,879
Speaker 1: C is good for my skins. All that I know.

441
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,439
Speaker 1: I thought I was on top of it because I

442
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:53,560
Speaker 1: was wearing serums, but no. So anyway, the point is

443
00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 1: that there's like a there's a lot out there, and

444
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 1: like I hope like you find your group and like

445
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:01,920
Speaker 1: come to our events. And yeah, the head that actually

446
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 1: wrote this wrote this question. She also like DMed us

447
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: the other day. Um, I forget about what but she

448
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,880
Speaker 1: demmed us. So come to one of our events, come

449
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,399
Speaker 1: to the meet up, like we want to meet we

450
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: want to meet you. Let's be friends. Yes, I think

451
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 1: it's time for us to go into our song break Yes,

452
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:29,879
Speaker 1: vodka belly Rosa and and and and and and and

453
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 1: and and and and and and and and um um

454
00:24:53,280 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: um um um um and we're back. Who remembered that song?

455
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 1: That's a classic, right, that is a classic joint. So

456
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 1: like Agian but I don't look so yeah, and obviously

457
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: she is, but like, oh my god, they were baby, right,

458
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 1: they were like thirteen or fourteen. I can't even so

459
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 1: many of our favorite favorite pop stars got started when

460
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: they were so young, saying all the Destiny's Child girls, Brittany, Christina,

461
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 1: all of them. I can't even imagine. I feel young

462
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,239
Speaker 1: in like our twenties, like trying to do stuff like

463
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 1: I can't, like I know, oh my god. Alright anyway, yeah,

464
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: so anyway, So the topic of today it's cap is

465
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: actually umando as politic um a survival, a survival like

466
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: what is from defense is look like? What is what

467
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: does like camaraderie co mariando look like? First, I think

468
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: it's so fascinating because I don't know that there's like

469
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: an English language equivalent to the concept. I don't know

470
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 1: who there is. Like literally, you're a core, you are

471
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: co mothering, Yes, you're a co mother and like in

472
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: Latino communities, as we all know, to be a mare

473
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:28,919
Speaker 1: can take a lot of different forms. There can be

474
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: the formal, like you're literally the baptismal like godmother to

475
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:37,679
Speaker 1: someone's child, like I have my have that um and

476
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: I baptized her, So I'm like formally, like you know,

477
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: like my uncle is my mi compadre, you know what

478
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: I mean. And then like the baby's godfather is Michempare

479
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: and then her mom is Michael Madre. So there's like

480
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: that literal way of doing things, and then there's the

481
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: less formal way of being a Yeah. Yeah, and like

482
00:26:55,080 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 1: I like, so my Mina is like my mother. So

483
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:02,159
Speaker 1: like when you're talking about like co mothering, it's like

484
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 1: absolutely absolutely, Like I think being a Nina is like

485
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 1: a very very big responsibility. It's a very big role

486
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: because she like she mothers me and like all the

487
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 1: fun ways, you know, like she doesn't have to like

488
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 1: deal with my bullshit, you know, like the way my

489
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 1: mom had to, right right, but like my Nina like

490
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:26,320
Speaker 1: she gets to spoil me and like we get to

491
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: have all the fun you know, and and then that's it,

492
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,359
Speaker 1: you know. I mean she does mother me in other ways,

493
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 1: but like the point is like she gets to be

494
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: like the mom that goes home, you know what I mean,

495
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: the mom that takes a break, right. Yeah. Anyway, Um,

496
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: so yeah, I think Nina's are like when I because

497
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,199
Speaker 1: I have such a good relationship with mine, and now

498
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 1: I'm like when I think of Nina's, I just think

499
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,719
Speaker 1: of like warmth and like a lot of and like

500
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, like with my um, with Chloe's, with my

501
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: god baby with that, Like I love her so much

502
00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: because she's hilarious and I see so much of myself her.

503
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 1: The other day, like I hung out with her, right

504
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 1: and I don't. Like, here's the thing, like I have,

505
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 1: I have never really taken care of like a child

506
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: for like a long period of time by myself because

507
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: there's just so many other people, like in the family,

508
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: in the house. It's never been like just me. There's

509
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 1: never been a necessity for me to like take care

510
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: of the baby for a week or for three days,

511
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 1: you know, like I'll babysit for four or five hours

512
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 1: here and there, and then we're relinquishing. So like I

513
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: had Chloes the other day and like we went and

514
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 1: we got tacos and we blew bubbles and we hung

515
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: out and it was just me and her, and I'm

516
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: like so annoyed because at the end of it, I

517
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: was like, Wow, I'm like, I'm like, could be such

518
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: a cute single mom right now. He's so good at

519
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 1: this baby six once right, prepared for prepared for motherhood.

520
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: You're ridiculous, but it was. But it was so cute.

521
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: It was a cute thing to do. But like the

522
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: like non formal or like informal like school that it

523
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: weighs that, like our sisterhood are like friendships that they

524
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: kind of like they turned into like this very like

525
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 1: like family type of relationships. Right, Like I like joked

526
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 1: with Mala like the very first time that she gave

527
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: me plant clippings, I was like, oh my god, Madres

528
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: level unlocked, like mother status unlocked. I was like, this

529
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: is it status unlocked truly in real ways And it

530
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,280
Speaker 1: was the perfect clipping because it's it was the standard

531
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: like potos, Like every Senora has this house plant. Every

532
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: Senora has this house plants somewhere in the house. Yeah,

533
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: And I told MoMA was like, oh, I want to

534
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 1: buy this plant. She was no, I have clippings. She

535
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,719
Speaker 1: was like, I'll give you clippings, Like, don't buy it.

536
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: And how are they doing? How are the clippings? They

537
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 1: are thriving? They have like they appropriated them and like

538
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 1: the little these little like pink faces and they look

539
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 1: really pretty. I have like one next to my succulents

540
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: one of my dad. Like, they're very they're doing well.

541
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: I love it because we're both dog moms, but we're

542
00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:01,280
Speaker 1: also plant moms. Yes, yes, we like for now, that's

543
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 1: the only mothering that we only have the capacity for

544
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 1: those types of mother right right. And our dogs, our

545
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,480
Speaker 1: dogs are friends. Pappas is a little aggressive. Pop Us

546
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 1: is very aggressive. He's just like a super hyper terrier.

547
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: He's like a year old. He is like he cannot

548
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: be around like other small dogs. He needs to be

549
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: around like the big boys. Honestly, yeah, but that's neither

550
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,840
Speaker 1: here nor there. Ye. Anyways, the other thing that we

551
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: do like levels is when we got our joint bank account.

552
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: Yes we had we got our joint bank account. We

553
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 1: went to the bank obviously went to the bank and

554
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,960
Speaker 1: we opened up our bank account. And it's so funny

555
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: because mil and I do like very partnery things, you know,

556
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: because we are partners, are partners in podcasting. We're like,

557
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: you know, we have a very like romantic platonic relationship,

558
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: like we send each other good morning text messages, you know.

559
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: But obviously we're home girls were gods. But we get

560
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: asked constantly if like we're partners, like if we're in

561
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:01,239
Speaker 1: a romantic relationship and we're always like no, but like

562
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: it looks like it definitely yeah, and maybe like, um,

563
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 1: you know, maybe more functional, yeah, many a romantic maybe

564
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: maybe No, it's super cute. I mean we'll shop for

565
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: clothes together, like if we have an event, because we

566
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: like to coordinate, you we like matching out. We accidentally

567
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 1: coordinate all the time. Yes, it does happen accidentally. Um,

568
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: I think we just aret in rhythm right now, an

569
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: aesthetic rhythm. We're also like very in sync. Yeah, I

570
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: feel it. Like sometimes we we'll like text each other

571
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 1: like things that the other was in a text, Like,

572
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: we'll text each other something that the other was going

573
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 1: to text. You know what I mean. I'm like, stop it.

574
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: I was just going to tell you this. The thoughts

575
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: are like here on the forefront, right yeah, yeah, yeah

576
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: what else? Yeah no, no, no, we joke. I'm like,

577
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: is the only person who sends me my good morning

578
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: beautiful text? It's true, It's true. I sent her a

579
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 1: good morning text every day, good morning text every day.

580
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm partnership, and we don't talk, like and if we

581
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: don't talk for like twelve hours, to twenty four hours,

582
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: like freak out. It's like weird. She's like just checking

583
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: in because it feels weird that we haven't spoken, Like

584
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 1: what have we not been talking all day like we

585
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: normally do, because usually we're texting and we're on I

586
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 1: G D M and Twitter DM and sometimes also Facebook

587
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: at the same time talking about different things. And then

588
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: sometimes we will both switch between our personal and the

589
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: look at the account on all the platforms. So from

590
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: two profiles on every platform, Oh my god, yeah, exactly exactly,

591
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: so you know what I mean? You know what I mean?

592
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: Like our sister, like, why don't we even talk about everything? Everything?

593
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:49,720
Speaker 1: We're plotting. We're plots. We're literally always talking about something

594
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 1: at all times. When I tell you, like we're like podcast,

595
00:32:54,560 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: Like sometimes it's first thing in the morning, it's like,

596
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: good morning, this is what we have going on to right. Well,

597
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 1: then the other day I was out here in boil

598
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 1: Hights for work and when I was driving back to

599
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: the office, I called Mala and we had like a

600
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 1: twenty five minute work call as I was driving to

601
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: my other job, and I was like, Okay, this is

602
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: the kind of ship you gotta do. And we had

603
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: like a full ass meeting in the twenty five minute drive.

604
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: Like no, we hustle, like we really do. We We eat, breathe,

605
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: and sleep this ship. To be honest, we literally do.

606
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, So anyway, anyway, anyway, going back to

607
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:38,360
Speaker 1: like it's interesting like the way I feel like once

608
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: you get to liked, like it's a very different type

609
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: of relationship or like it's almost like like you're it's

610
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: like like I said earlier, like you it's like a

611
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: status unlocked, right, So it's like you're above the home girl,

612
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,719
Speaker 1: You're closer than the friend. You're like kind of like

613
00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: a sister, but not necessarily so. And I feel like

614
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 1: the way Mama said in the beginning, it's like is

615
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,360
Speaker 1: like we'll take care of each other. Literally they take

616
00:34:04,400 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 1: care of each other's kids. There's like so much support

617
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: in that once you have children. I mean obviously we

618
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 1: joke it like we don't have children, but like seeing

619
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 1: the way our mothers have like have had their friends

620
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 1: like be in our lives and help us and the

621
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: thea and is like literally having like this community of

622
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 1: this network of women, it's really important for like like

623
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:29,879
Speaker 1: financial support like go mas have like thandas like they'll have, um,

624
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,920
Speaker 1: what's the word in English? Exactly Like they'll have like

625
00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:36,439
Speaker 1: a like a cooperative type thing, and like they'll put

626
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: like a hundred bucks each month and then one time

627
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: this girl gets it, this movehead gets it, and so

628
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: on and so forth, right, And that that kind of

629
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 1: like informal economy is like really really important. And also

630
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: if like women need to have money separate from their partners, yes,

631
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: like if you're if you if a woman is married

632
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 1: to a man, right, like do you want to on

633
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: bank account? Like because you want him to know everything

634
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 1: that you're spending, you know what I mean. He needs

635
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: to know about all of your assets and prop whatever

636
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,319
Speaker 1: you have, whatever that you have. So having that kind

637
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Speaker 1: of like informal support, well informal in the sense it's

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Speaker 1: not like at a bank, right, That's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Like I think that that is also a really important

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Speaker 1: part of survival that we don't always talk about. Um.

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Speaker 1: I was just thinking about this the other day. Is

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Speaker 1: like in the community at large, like the amount of

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Speaker 1: currency that we have between us to survive, there's more

644
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 1: of us than there is currency, right, what we end

645
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: up doing. And I was just because within my own

646
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Speaker 1: family and like looking at my mother and her mares

647
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: and just like all of our lives. There's especially one

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00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: woman that her daughter I went to Lilia. You know

649
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 1: that I've known this girl since I wasn't like pre

650
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: k um and till now to like lifelong friends and

651
00:35:56,800 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 1: like other co mares right and their moms and my

652
00:36:00,760 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: mom and like her co mothers would lend each other

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Speaker 1: money all the time. Like there was a time where,

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00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: like my parents did not have money for my sisters

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Speaker 1: one semester one semester of her tuition. And you know

656
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: how universities are, they don't give a funk. They'll lock

657
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: you out of your door, out of your classes, like

658
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 1: they'll drop you from classes and then you're dropped from

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Speaker 1: the university. They'll lock you out of your dorm so

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00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: your key card doesn't work. And my sister was going

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00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: to school in New York at the time, and it

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00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 1: was winter and so she like they had locked her

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00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: out of her door, and they had locked out of

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Speaker 1: the cafeteria. All this bullshit because of the tuition. One

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00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: of my mom's called mothers like lent us money and

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00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 1: like went without electricity in her house for like twenty

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Speaker 1: four hours so that my parents could put money for

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Speaker 1: my sister's tuition, and that's what it's been, back and forth,

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00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,879
Speaker 1: back and forth like that for years. And then now

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00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: growing up, now that me and my sister are young adults,

671
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: we see sort of the same trends happening between us

672
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:57,760
Speaker 1: and our friends. We help each other out because there's

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00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: more of us than there are resource this, so we

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00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 1: end up It's like when you have your bank accounts

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00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 1: and you're constantly moving around money. I feel like in

676
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 1: our communities, we're just always moving around right right right,

677
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 1: just to cover this for today and then you'll get

678
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: me back next week and now we're going to cover

679
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: this absolutely. Yeah yeah, no, I mean and building off

680
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 1: of that, like having that support, that social support, like

681
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 1: to even like have like your kids be like babysat

682
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: or like having your kids like they go to your

683
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,840
Speaker 1: house like or like the other person's house after school,

684
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, So that there's like kind

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00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 1: of like safety net. There's that support that's really important

686
00:37:34,160 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 1: in our communities, and like we see that like that

687
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: whole Like that's saying of like it takes a village,

688
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: right like literally, it takes likes, it takes sisterhood, It

689
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: takes the pimas like everybody like being involved and a

690
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: lot of I feel like a lot of us are

691
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:52,240
Speaker 1: raised by like multiple people in our families because it

692
00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 1: is it is that kind of like, well, I cannot

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00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 1: stay at home because I have to work, right, so

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00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to leave you with like your Nina, I'm

695
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,440
Speaker 1: gonna leave you with your with and so on and

696
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,319
Speaker 1: so forth. Absolutely, and childcare is expensive, yes, you know,

697
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 1: so that's another sort of it's still in economic support. Absolutely.

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00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: And I also love how mare and comrade are so

699
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 1: similar in spelling, and I think that like when you

700
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: take all these things into account, it's basically the same thing.

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00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:25,840
Speaker 1: It is you're surviving repression, right. And also like, okay,

702
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: so if we want to move beyond like being in

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00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,560
Speaker 1: survival mode, right, and like we want to actually be

704
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 1: thriving individuals, thriving women, thriving beings, Like you don't thrive

705
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: by yourself, like you need your like comas, you need

706
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: your home girls with you. I's not like are you

707
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: really thriving? Are you really thriving? And you should want

708
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 1: them with you too? Yeah. Absolutely, I think part of

709
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 1: what I love, like we talked about, you know, like

710
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,919
Speaker 1: our parties and our events on the podcast. I love

711
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: that it's become a place, whether in the comments section

712
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 1: or at our in real life meetups where like listeners

713
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,440
Speaker 1: are getting to know each other and are becoming friends,

714
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:05,720
Speaker 1: are becoming lovers or whatever it is. Yes, and yeah,

715
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,760
Speaker 1: like I just I want this to be a place

716
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 1: where like you could be a core and you can

717
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:16,280
Speaker 1: thrive in it. Absolutely, Yes, cute. Okay, So my question

718
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 1: for all of y'all, Our question for all of y'all is, um,

719
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: what does core could look like in your life? And

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00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: like what is being a com I means to you?

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00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 1: That is my question for y'all. So we're gonna link,

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00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 1: We're gonna do a text post for y'all to answer.

723
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: But I'm really curious as like are you a Nina

724
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 1: and like what does that mean for you? Or like

725
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: what is your relationship with your nina? Like what is

726
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: like sisterhood and like camaraderie, Like like Mala said, like

727
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: and comrade are very similar words, you know, and like

728
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: that doesn't seem accidental, no, right, there's still like a

729
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,840
Speaker 1: lot of politics behind it. So yeah, what does that

730
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 1: look like for y'all? We cannot wait to hear we

731
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: want to hear about your experiences UM and yeah, as always,

732
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 1: like if there are topics or other subject matter that

733
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 1: you want to hear us talk about. If you have

734
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: questions or ideas, please contact us email us look I

735
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,760
Speaker 1: thought our radio at gmail dot com because we're always

736
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: looking for more ideas and and things to chat about. Yes, yes,

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00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: and like we've been very like the past few caps,

738
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 1: we've have been very interview based where we have like

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00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,240
Speaker 1: a lot of guests on UM, which we will continue

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00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: to be doing. But we also like really enjoy having

741
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 1: like our just like recording the two of us and

742
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 1: having our like local so it's also good to have

743
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,919
Speaker 1: that mix and balance. So yes, I mean, if there's

744
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 1: something specific y'all want to hear about, like you know,

745
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 1: we can talk about in our LOCA segment or just

746
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 1: in the CAAPLO in general. So just as a reminder,

747
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 1: come out this Friday, July thirteenth UM to come see

748
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: Coast City. And so for the love of Pavilion Summer

749
00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: Concert Series and MacArthur Park, we're going to be fancy

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00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: ease UM l A meet up August eleventh, Location to

751
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: be determined. Yes, and yeah, so we're super excited. So

752
00:41:07,719 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: many opportunities to come out and be in community and

753
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: hang out and do all those fun things. Um. So,

754
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:17,720
Speaker 1: just as reminders, you can tune in on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Audiobo,

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00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,920
Speaker 1: sound Card, and you can visit us to watch our

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00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: behind the scenes at YouTube dot com, slash Locata Radio,

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00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:27,040
Speaker 1: ak Local Landia and it's always You can keep up

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00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:30,720
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00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:34,200
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00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: a review on Apple podcasts. Always think about liking, subscribing, sharing, commenting.

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00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 1: Um and we're gonna leave you with a fun throwback song.

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00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: This is a blast from the past from two thousand

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00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: to Let's see if you all remember this song and

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00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 1: the dance that came with it. Yes, let us know,

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00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 1: we like want to debut this somewhere, somewhere We'll see

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00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: to be determined anyway, Okay, look at what is. Thank

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00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: you so much for tuning into another capital of Locata

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00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: radio is and this is the OSSA catch you next time,

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Speaker 1: besitos M M