1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,640 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with beck At Tilly and I Heart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:11,160 Speaker 1: Hello everybody, it's Beca Tilly and we are scrubbing in 3 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: by popular demand. We have the Tanya rad back in 4 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: the studios, back in yes, back in ther um. So 5 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: let's just get right to it, Gray's Anatomy. I have 6 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: some things to discuss with you. What do you have 7 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: to discuss? First of all, I went out of town 8 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: this weekend and then I came back super late last 9 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: night and I was like, I have to watch the 10 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 1: new episode of Gray's Anatomy before we scrub in tomorrow. Um, 11 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: what do you think? I didn't love it. I hated 12 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: the voice over, Amelia's voice over. I found it to 13 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: be so corny, and I didn't like that she just 14 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:53,159 Speaker 1: was like, had the surgery and it was just like 15 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: too much. In one episode, I was like, what is 16 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: going on? It was like that same feeling when Derek died. 17 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,279 Speaker 1: Accept it and it ended much better for her than 18 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: it did for him. But it was like all really 19 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: fast and it was over too much. I was like, 20 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,399 Speaker 1: now's out. Now they're in the car, Like what happened? 21 00:01:09,520 --> 00:01:14,199 Speaker 1: Is everything okay? Now? Yeah? They were within five minutes. Oh, shoot, 22 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 1: we're supposed to say spoiler alert before we talked about 23 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: anything Grace, spoiler alert will be better about it. Yeah, 24 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 1: but if you're a true Grace fan, you usually watched 25 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 1: by like Thursday Friday, I think at least over the weekend. 26 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: Well yeah, but a lot of people are binge watching 27 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 1: like you did, like on Netflix, and I'm saying they're 28 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: not even They probably don't even know who Amelia is 29 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: to get trucking guy. Anyway, She's still alive, so there's that, 30 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: and she's just home tumor free. Yeah, I know it 31 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: was too much. In one episode, it was too much 32 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: and she shaved like just a port you Okay, Okay, 33 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: So I'm kind of over the Maggie and Jackson thing. 34 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: Did we squash that with the whole like sibling like 35 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: they kind of that they were like sibling. No, I 36 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: don't think they squashed it because I think thing, I'm 37 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: done with it too. Are you able to separate Jackson 38 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: from Minka Kelly now? Because I'm not. I haven't even 39 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 1: seen photos of them together. No, because like for me, 40 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: when I'm watching Gray's like they are, he is Jackson 41 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: avery he's not when he's not. Jesse Williams like he's 42 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,800 Speaker 1: Jackson Avery and he is supposed to be with April 43 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: like Minka. Kelly doesn't even cross my mind when I watched, 44 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: and neither does his ex wife. No one crossed my 45 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: mind except for April. April. That's who he belongs with, 46 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 1: April for life. Okay, that I agree with you on. 47 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: But something I don't agree with you on is your 48 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: comparison of Danny and Easy to Meredith. The love story 49 00:02:38,360 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: Gray's Anatomy has ever seen is Danny and Iszy. That is, 50 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: it's so offensive to me and also offensive to anyone 51 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 1: who's watched this show for as long as it's been 52 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: on that I liked Teddy and Henry more than I 53 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: Likedzzy and Denny. Oh my race for people playing along 54 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 1: at home. Denny is on The Walking Dead now and 55 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: plays what's that Maniac's name? On Nigan? What is his name? 56 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: In real life? He has three names, Jeffrey, Dean, Morgan 57 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: and is he everything? Yeah? He Well, he's Denny to me. 58 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: He doesn't do it for me. Okay, So this is 59 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: where my mind goes when when I think of Denny 60 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 1: and Izzy, I think if they wouldn't have spoiler alert 61 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: killed him. They could have had the greatest love story 62 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 1: of all time. They did, I know, but I think 63 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: if you can, if you can really look past that, 64 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: I think the way that they started their relationship is 65 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: so beautiful. The foundation they had mean when she broke 66 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: all the rules and dated her patients and saved his life. 67 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: Because love has no boundaries, Amy, Love doesn't it if 68 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: it's your patient, if it's your doctor, if it's your teeth. 69 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: It was just like, it wasn't realistic because if you're 70 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: saying you don't need to just see past the spoiler 71 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: death and and and see what they could have been. Okay, 72 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: this is because it could have been greater than Mere 73 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 1: and Dare. It could have. Meredith and Derek went through 74 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: so many trials. It was like real life. That's why 75 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: people liked it. I think that's why I was like. 76 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: And then Derek chooses at to be back with Addison, 77 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: trying to be loyal. He was not loyal. He was 78 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: sleeping with Meredith when he was still married to Addison 79 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: because she slept with someone else. First, two wrongs don't 80 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: make a right, Okay. Do either of you think that 81 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 1: Meredith will ever have another love as true as Derek 82 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: not as true as Derek. However, I am kind of 83 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 1: in that wanting her with Riggs, which I had gotten 84 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:48,039 Speaker 1: out of that. I want her Okay, this is another 85 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:50,239 Speaker 1: unpopular vote, but I want her to be with Krev. 86 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:54,840 Speaker 1: It's so incestuous to me. I love Correv, but I 87 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: don't want him and Meredith together. I want them to 88 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: end up together because I think it would be It 89 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 1: would be the only the right way for her to 90 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 1: end up with somebody? Is it with Alex grow it 91 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,280 Speaker 1: would I don't know, I don't. I like him and 92 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 1: Joe together. You don't like that though for The Birds, 93 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: their their relationship Jenny and Izy were for the Birds. 94 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: For me, that hurts. That actually hurts. It was just 95 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: I don't want to sidebar too heavily. But do you 96 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: think Will and Jack should be together? On Will and Grace? 97 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:33,679 Speaker 1: I feel like they're hinting to that. I didn't watch, 98 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: I know, I'm like, how do do I remember any 99 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:43,120 Speaker 1: of the episodes? Like? Are they comparable to like Rachel 100 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 1: and Ross? Yeah? Okay, yeah, I like them together? Yeah, 101 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 1: anyone comparable to Rachel and Ross? We support here Merenith 102 00:05:53,800 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: and Derek and Robert. Wow, you really went there. Uh, 103 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: Tanya had dinner with Robert on Friday. You know it's weird. 104 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: He texted me and he's all, yeah, I'm having I 105 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: have dinner plans And I'm like, yeah, I know who 106 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: they're with. Don't make it seem like this is really interesting. 107 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 1: Does that weird you out that your best friend is 108 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 1: going to dinner with your ex boyfriend? No, it doesn't 109 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 1: weir me, not at all. I told you about it, 110 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: like when we made the plans. Yeah, and they love 111 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: each other and they're like so supportive and kind to 112 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: each other, Like maybe maybe I was just in the 113 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 1: way this whole time. No, I love it. Like I 114 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,840 Speaker 1: literally left the left dinner and I texted Mecca and 115 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: I was like, I love Robert so much. I know 116 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 1: everyone does. I think that. I think timing is everything 117 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 1: in life. And I'll just leave that with talking about that. 118 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: We were talking about um, like the leading photos of 119 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: relations Like if you've been in a relationship and then 120 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: you break up, do you keep the photos up or 121 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,239 Speaker 1: do you delete the photos? Because I had some people 122 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 1: that commented on like a photo I posted and they 123 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 1: asked why I still had photos of us up after 124 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 1: we broke up. It's a tricky situation because you know 125 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: they were a part of your life. Um. I think 126 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: it also depends how how the breakup happened, Like if 127 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 1: it was like you know, I'm speaking personally, the breakup 128 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: was so hard on me that I just delete, delete, delete, deleted, 129 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: because it was just seeing it just made me sad 130 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: and hurt. So I'm I'm pro delete. I'm having from 131 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 1: pro on the delete side. Okay, Well, I haven't deleted 132 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: any of them because they are very happy times and 133 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: I like looking back at him, and I don't have 134 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 1: any ill feelings feelings towards Robert. But I guess if 135 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 1: if I moved on and was dating someone else and 136 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: the guy was like, hey, I don't feel comfortable with 137 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: those being up. I see that being a thing, but um, 138 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: like being single and being in the place that I'm at, 139 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: I don't feel like, oh my gosh, I should delete those. 140 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: I don't want anyone to see him or I think 141 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: that we're still together something too. There's there's another person involves, 142 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: Like if you were to start dating somebody new, like 143 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 1: and you had pictures of you and your ex plastered 144 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 1: all over your Instagram kissing and being happy. It's uncomfortable 145 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: amount of respect. I think it is. It is okay 146 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: to delete them. Yeah, I mean we had some beautiful, 147 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: um romantic videos, so romantic, I know, but I don't 148 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: like go back and watch those all the time. They're fun. 149 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: But like Robert even he but he deleted a lot 150 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: of the stuff. But he even said he was like 151 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: he regretted deleting the video of us that he made 152 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 1: when we were when we were in Greece. He deleted it. 153 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,560 Speaker 1: Ross and Rachel, he did say in his defense he 154 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: was like, my my Instagram looked like an ode tobecca. 155 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: And so I think for him, he's like, I don't 156 00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:39,079 Speaker 1: post enough for it to just go away like crestly, 157 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: I'm seeing it. It It doesn't get buried in the speed. 158 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,439 Speaker 1: I don't have like like, I don't have any negative 159 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: feel either way. If you agree with it, great, if 160 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: you don't write the personal thing right. Same with double texting, 161 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 1: like we were talking about, okay, okay, okay, So Doanya 162 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: and I in the dating world especially, could not be 163 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:01,720 Speaker 1: more up. It's going to be more opposite in most 164 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: things in life. But when it comes to texting a guy, 165 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: I think that if you are just starting to text, 166 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: and it's kind of figuring out, like the vibes and 167 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 1: how it goes. Should you send a text back to 168 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:19,679 Speaker 1: back without them responding in between? Well, that's double that's 169 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,840 Speaker 1: double texting. I might be guilty of quadruple Yeah. Well no, 170 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 1: that's about something else. What's that called. That's called that's 171 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 1: called quadruple text? No, no, that has a name for it. No, no, no, 172 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 1: it has a name. Though. I will find marks looking 173 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: for it. I'm pro double texting because here's my thing. 174 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 1: I've tried all that, and I try. I go to 175 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 1: Becca for a lot of like guy boy advice. What's 176 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: it called barking? Oh yeah, it's called barking. So I 177 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: go to Becca for a lot of my like, I 178 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: asked her a lot of like what do I respond 179 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: to this guy? Or what do I say? Because I 180 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: feel like she's so much cooler than I am, Like 181 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: I am just exude like nerd and like it's fine. 182 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: But I've learned to like accept it. And I'm going 183 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 1: to double text you if I want to talk to 184 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: you and I'm interested in you, Like I'm gonna double texting. 185 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: I don't care. I just can't care. So I'm pro 186 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,520 Speaker 1: double texting. It's hard because when I ask Mark these questions, 187 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 1: he answers differently than I feel like most guys have. 188 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 1: So I don't I feel like when you're first starting 189 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 1: to get to know I just like I'm more traditional 190 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: in this sense that I like the guy to pursue 191 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: me and so me double texting. I don't like to 192 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 1: feel like I'm the aggressor, I guess, and I think 193 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,520 Speaker 1: that I should take some of that. Who's a very 194 00:10:28,679 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: guy like guy that we could call to ask? Like 195 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: a guy? Oh, kind of a Channing Studley guy. I 196 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: don't have his do you know what I'm saying? We 197 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: need to call orth Okay's rollin x Okay. I'm trying 198 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 1: to think, like, who's a very sort of guy guy guy, 199 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 1: guy that would know the answer to this? Um, you 200 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: know who we should call? Spike good one. Spike lives 201 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 1: in the building where we all I don't live there anymore, 202 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: but where we all once lived. He's a manly man 203 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:07,280 Speaker 1: where we all want to live. Oh high, Spike, it's 204 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: Becca your old neighbors. Hey, Um, we are discussing a 205 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: topic and we needed a guy's guy opinion on it, 206 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: and so we thought of you. Okay, are you honored? 207 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: I am honesty? Fine, can we get a little enthusias? 208 00:11:25,880 --> 00:11:28,320 Speaker 1: Did you win the Bachelor? No? Thank you for the 209 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 1: reminder that. Okay, I feel like you already knew the 210 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: answer that question. You're trying to embarrass me. I'm not 211 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: trying to embarrass I was actually asking the questions with sincerity. 212 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,600 Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm very single. Um. But okay, so we 213 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: have a wel yeah, like just like three years later 214 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 1: it is um. Okay. So if you are kind of 215 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 1: getting to know a girl going out with her, what 216 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: are your thoughts if do you like to be the 217 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: one initiating the text? And do you mind if she 218 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: double texts you, like, sends a text you don't answer 219 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:01,160 Speaker 1: and then she said it again? Or is that kind 220 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 1: of annoying? No? I don't mind it at all. Oh 221 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:07,480 Speaker 1: you you don't mind it at all? Nope, you act. 222 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 1: Do you prefer the girl being the aggressor? Uh? Sometimes 223 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: interest alpha females? Rebecca? Wait, what do you say I 224 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: like alpha females? Between alpha and annoying? Yes? Where does 225 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:29,959 Speaker 1: the line begin annoying? Um? When they're telling me what 226 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 1: to do? Okay, so you like you don't mind her 227 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: being the initiator, but you don't want her to be 228 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 1: like the dominating force. No, got it? All right? Okay, 229 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 1: well this answer really surprised me. I know me too. 230 00:12:42,360 --> 00:12:45,959 Speaker 1: I'm I'm feeling like I'm doing everything wrong. Ut I'm 231 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:50,760 Speaker 1: feeling pretty good. But we're all still single. So all right, 232 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: thanks for answering, Spike, Thank you for your wisdom. What 233 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: are you gonna do? Are you going to shout at 234 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: somebody on text? Now? I'm just gonna I'm gonna double 235 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:03,960 Speaker 1: text like crazy? Now, yeah, it depends, right. You gotta 236 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: just kind of you gotta. You gotta play with it. 237 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:09,240 Speaker 1: You can't. You can't bark bark, but you can have fun, 238 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 1: you can. You gotta feel out the vibes, right, that's right, Okay, 239 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 1: that's what my I say. You gotta felt the vibes. 240 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: Who are you trying to get this information from? No one? 241 00:13:19,679 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: It's just like a general opinion on things dating, and 242 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:27,719 Speaker 1: really you're actually doing the public a lot of good 243 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: right now with this information? There you go? All right, Well, 244 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: thank you so much. All right, bye bye bye. I 245 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:39,439 Speaker 1: feel as if everything I've ever thought just gone down 246 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: the drain. Maybe we need one more opinion. No, I 247 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: was gonna say, I feel like more opinion. Okay after this, Okay. 248 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 1: Something else that I feel like I've been doing wrong 249 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:54,719 Speaker 1: all this time is brushing my teeth. I didn't think 250 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:56,800 Speaker 1: you could brush your teeth wrong, And how are you 251 00:13:56,880 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: doing it wrong? I'm not doing it long enough. And 252 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: I learned this because is um Quip sent me their 253 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: electric toothbrush, and it feels like the kind that they 254 00:14:05,880 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: use it the dentist where they brush it, but it 255 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: goes the time that you're supposed to brush your teeth, 256 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: and it feels like it's like automatically as a time 257 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: set in it. Yeah, and it vibrates and then like 258 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 1: it'll it'll switch a vibrate setting to let you know 259 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: to switch to another part of your teeth, and so 260 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: it goes. It feels like it goes for ten minutes, 261 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: but I think it's just like maybe a minute and 262 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: a half or something. But I realized how I have 263 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 1: been brushing way too short. You've been giving it maybe 264 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: not even fifty like. But I have a clean mouth. 265 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 1: I'm very I'm very clean. But I I have a 266 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 1: dentist appointment this week, and I feel like my dentist 267 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 1: is going to be very impressed. Yeah, I'm feeling really confident. 268 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: This is the first time I've ever felt confident going 269 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: to the dentist. I will say that um So Quip 270 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: is a new company and it's kind of just showing 271 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:57,000 Speaker 1: people the right way to brush your teeth. Yeah, it's 272 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 1: really smart. It's an electric toothbrush. It packs premium vibe, 273 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: ration and timing features into an ultra slim design. Mine 274 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 1: is rose gold. It matches my Matt clap tops. That's 275 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: so cute. It's so pretty. And it has a little 276 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 1: case that you can stick onto your mirror, so you 277 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: just set it in there like a little section thing. Yeah, 278 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 1: and with this you can subscribe to receive new brush 279 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 1: heads on a three month plan for just five dollars 280 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 1: including free shipping. Um and it all starts at just 281 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: twenty five dollars. If you go to get quip dot 282 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 1: com slash Becca to get your first refill pack free 283 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 1: with equip electric toothbrush. Get equipped. That's g E T 284 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: q U I P dot com slash Becca and go 285 00:15:38,440 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: get your electric toothbrush and start brushing. Right. Were the 286 00:15:42,280 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: animals not washing? Not brushing our teeth? Long enough um, 287 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: and then we had get matching toothbrushes. By the way, 288 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: you can't see us, but we do have scrubs on 289 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:59,480 Speaker 1: right now. We are so official. I'm like, no one 290 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: can even have appreciate that because they're just listening to it. 291 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,240 Speaker 1: But I think it adds to the ambience. But what 292 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 1: if I got through this whole thing and we just 293 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 1: had scrubs on and never mentioned that. I feel we 294 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 1: should wear them every week. I know we do. Like 295 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: it really gets in you know what I mean, Like 296 00:16:12,560 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 1: it's full on character mode. Yeah, I feel like everyone 297 00:16:14,960 --> 00:16:17,440 Speaker 1: has a little more respect for us than they usually do. 298 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 1: Maybe not every time I walk down the street and 299 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: this thing, I feel like I'm going to run errands 300 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 1: after this. Things I don't even need to do. Okay, 301 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 1: I feel like we need to get one more person's 302 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 1: opinion on this. I'm not I'm not surrendering with just 303 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:35,120 Speaker 1: one guy's opinion. Who should we call? My friend Doug? Doug. 304 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: People want to know why the podcast is called scrubbing 305 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 1: In Because you know, I felt like I made it 306 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: very clear everything I post every other day, That's why 307 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: it's called scrubbing in. Because I am a freak about 308 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: Gray's anatomy. Doug, Yeah, I Dug. It's Becca, Tanya and Amy. 309 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 1: What's going on? Girls? We have a very very important 310 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: question and we need your help to get to the 311 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: bottom of it. Okay, when it comes to dating, the 312 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:14,960 Speaker 1: first few dates, the beginning of the relationship, are you 313 00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 1: how do you feel about a girl double texting you? 314 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 1: When I say that, I mean she text you, you 315 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:27,320 Speaker 1: don't respond for whatever reason, and then she texts you again. Um. 316 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:32,919 Speaker 1: It depends on so many different factors. Um, but is 317 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,439 Speaker 1: this after you've already gone out with her or just 318 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: kind of like just met. She texting you a couple 319 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 1: of times you haven't responded, Like you met at a bar, 320 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 1: you exchange numbers and then that's where you're at. Um. 321 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 1: It depends on how hot you was. You me deep 322 00:17:49,600 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: into it and you've been like hanging out. What we're 323 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:55,679 Speaker 1: talking about. This is just initial. This is the initial 324 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: I changed my mind. Then I don't double text until 325 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: we're way in do it. I mean the problem is 326 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:05,159 Speaker 1: the younger, the younger people, I mean they don't you know, 327 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 1: don't wait, they can wait two three hours. But I 328 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 1: think that you get older if you don't respond to 329 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:12,320 Speaker 1: somebody they get a little offended. I thought you were 330 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:14,400 Speaker 1: going to say two to three days, which is kind 331 00:18:14,400 --> 00:18:18,160 Speaker 1: of what I do. But saying like, you know, thirty minutes, 332 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 1: it's like, god, come on respond Yeah, but like is 333 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: that attracted? Like do you find that attractive? Is in like, 334 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: oh I want to text her? It's kind of like 335 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: a mystery or you like that someone's aggressive like that? No? No, 336 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 1: I totally turned off on that one. One guy said 337 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 1: it's fine. Another guy said it isn't fine. Yeah, I'm 338 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 1: so glad we called you, Doug and the quadruple Text. Yeah, 339 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,960 Speaker 1: well quadruple Text, did you just basically change the number? 340 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:53,960 Speaker 1: Block that number? Doug? You were a great call. Thank you. 341 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 1: It's almost like I texted you beforehand, exactly all right, 342 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: thanks so much of a good day. Yeah, I didn't 343 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: love Doug. Yeah, y'all are all on your high horse 344 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: over There was spike. Then Doug comes in and lifts 345 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 1: me up into my saddle. You like that. I really 346 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: kept it going. I got no reaction to ask for 347 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: it myself. Um, Okay, So I don't know, do we 348 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:26,080 Speaker 1: do we need one more person to even that outbreak? 349 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: I just but we gotta think of I mean, because 350 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 1: it's got to be a really good tiebreaker, Like I'm 351 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:35,119 Speaker 1: just gonna get a very guy guy. But like, who 352 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 1: talk amongst yourself? Okay, So my next thing, someone wanted 353 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 1: to know what plane faces. Okay, so it's really nothing. 354 00:19:45,400 --> 00:19:47,400 Speaker 1: I think my friend Laura and I are the only 355 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 1: people who talk about this, but you probably know what 356 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: I'm talking about when I explain it. You know, when 357 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:54,560 Speaker 1: you fly really far, you get off an airplane and 358 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 1: your face is just like not itself because of being 359 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,159 Speaker 1: up in the air, and it's dry, and like you 360 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 1: just feel like you don't look quite as put together 361 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: and pretty as you normally do when you're not on 362 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: a plane. Okay, called plane face, and like you can 363 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 1: just get rid of it. You have to have like 364 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 1: a full night's sleep to get rid of plane face, 365 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 1: like you never noticed, I guess. So I got to 366 00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: New York. This was a month ago, and I, um, 367 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,639 Speaker 1: I think I had a red eye or something, And 368 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: so I got to the hotel, I showered and everything, 369 00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: took my makeup off, go to put it back on 370 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 1: and just would not set the way I needed it too. 371 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 1: And my friend Laura, she's like, oh, it's plane face. 372 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,119 Speaker 1: I was like, yes, I have plane face and you 373 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 1: can't get rid of it until you wake up the 374 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: next morning. I've never heard of thing. It's not we 375 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:44,679 Speaker 1: just made it out. It's a thing, but like we 376 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 1: just gave it a name. What do you eat when 377 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 1: you watch grays Anatomy? What do you think? Popcorn or 378 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 1: kettle corn? And that has the best popcorn, Like I 379 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 1: don't know what's horrible red Box. It's literally what you 380 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 1: buy at Ralphs. It's so delicious and you would think 381 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 1: that I like slaved over my stone. I make like 382 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: the real popcorn that you make out of the kernels 383 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: and you put it over the stove like that, just 384 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 1: the healthy, like real you know popcorn, and because it's 385 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 1: just so much better. Yeah, just micro popcorn. I'm not kidding. 386 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: It's the most basics. They sell it probably at the 387 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:26,040 Speaker 1: Dollar Tree or something very um where did I can't remember? 388 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: We got our Meredith Gray sweatshurch. I think Etsy. Just 389 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: type in Meredith raise my spirit animal and will pop 390 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: right up. Um. I want to talk about um someone. 391 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 1: There was something about going where to go with your girlfriends? 392 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,440 Speaker 1: And I have a good like a road trip story. 393 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 1: So Amy invited me and Crystal to go to the 394 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:51,359 Speaker 1: Pebble Beach golf tournament with her two years ago. And 395 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 1: so we went up and first of all, we took 396 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: turn off a really weird side road and Amy was 397 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 1: freaking out because there wasn't a bathroom near and we 398 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 1: lost service. Was it was kind of a shaky start. 399 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,199 Speaker 1: I felt fine, you know. On the trip, I was 400 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: like excited golf tournament. My dad always said I should 401 00:22:07,280 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 1: marry a golfer. I was like, justin Timberlake was going 402 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 1: to be there. Yeah, he likes goffers and it's like 403 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 1: a it's a safe sport where they make a lot 404 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 1: of money. So you know, he like just was like, 405 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 1: marry golfer so funny. I find it to be so boring. 406 00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: So I don't know if I could ever do it, 407 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 1: But anyways, I was thinking like this could be it, 408 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 1: and um, this is my chance. This is my chance. 409 00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:28,840 Speaker 1: So the next day I wake up and I have 410 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: like a kind of a cough, but nothing. I thought 411 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: maybe it was a dry weather or something. We go 412 00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 1: to the golf tournament. I'm not kidding. I fall ill, 413 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:42,159 Speaker 1: like laying on the grass shaking violently with a fever, 414 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 1: and everyone people are coming up to me and like 415 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 1: Amy knows everyone in southern California in general, and so 416 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: people were coming up and we're introducing ourselves and I'm 417 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: just like please, I'm I'm don't touch me. I'm in 418 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: that achy weird phase. So then we go into this 419 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: party at this mansion and people are coming up and 420 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 1: they're like hugging me. They're like, we loved you on 421 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:07,119 Speaker 1: the show. And I'm like, I'm telling them as they 422 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,320 Speaker 1: hugging me, like I'm violently ill. I have a fever. 423 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 1: Like and I was like cold, I was shaped. I 424 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,919 Speaker 1: was so cold and like sweaty. I wasn't sweaty. I 425 00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: was just like shaking. You weren't like like you couldn't 426 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 1: physically see it on you. No, well I could physically 427 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,919 Speaker 1: feel like because coming up to you wouldn't know that 428 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: you were ill. But I was telling them okay, and 429 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,880 Speaker 1: so they kept hugging me, like and then I would 430 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: be like, I'm really sick. I think I have a fever. 431 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: In the big we loved you on the show hugged me. 432 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, I just infected a mansion full of people. 433 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:37,640 Speaker 1: She like infected a hundred people. Yeah, there's no talent 434 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 1: who went down because of me that day. So then 435 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: we're waiting to get out and they had to open 436 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: the gate and they had opened the gate when was 437 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:48,880 Speaker 1: this two years two years ago? And Joe Montana, who 438 00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: was the quarterback for the forty niners, he is like 439 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: leaving and I I'm like in his way, sitting on 440 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: the curb, and they're kind of looking at me like 441 00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: can you please move? I'm like sorry, I'll just limp 442 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:04,239 Speaker 1: over here. Do you mind giving us a ride? So 443 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 1: we walked back to the car, violently shaking, like literally 444 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,400 Speaker 1: it felt like I feel like a full blown marathon. 445 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:13,920 Speaker 1: I get in the car, I laid down, I turn 446 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:15,600 Speaker 1: on the heat. They take me back to the hotel. 447 00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,960 Speaker 1: I turn on the fireplace, turn it up to eighty 448 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 1: five degrees in there. Then I wake up and I'm 449 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 1: drenched and sweat. I was supposed to be at the 450 00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: airport like four am. Cancer I didn't cance my fire 451 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,640 Speaker 1: I just didn't show up. It was I don't think 452 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 1: I'll ever go back to a golf jurnament. This is 453 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 1: all coming from a listener wanted to know where we're 454 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: going girls trips. Maybe that was a sign what I'm 455 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 1: saying is that I don't believe in girls trips anymore. 456 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's necessarily the girl's trip, but 457 00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 1: maybe it was the universe telling you that your dad's wrong. 458 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,320 Speaker 1: You shouldn't be with a golfer. I know this should 459 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 1: be with the doctor. To bring it back full circle, 460 00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 1: I found another guy to break our Can we talk 461 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 1: about who it is? It's my friend Jared. He's a 462 00:24:54,960 --> 00:25:03,120 Speaker 1: very guy ish guy. The family is Jared Jared. How 463 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 1: manly are you skill one to tend? How manly am 464 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 1: I one to tend? Don't be humble? Two loaded question? 465 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,959 Speaker 1: I think I'm like seven. Okay, that's pretty good. Like seven. Okay, 466 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:17,959 Speaker 1: So we have a question and we want to know 467 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,160 Speaker 1: your opinion on double texting. If you meet a girl, 468 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: let's say you meet her out at a bar, at 469 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,480 Speaker 1: an event, y'all exchange numbers, haven't gone on a date yet, 470 00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: you're just talking up until that first date, right, Okay? 471 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,159 Speaker 1: If she texts you and then you don't respond, and 472 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 1: then she texts you again, what are your feelings on that? UM? 473 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 1: I guess it first depends how into her I am, 474 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:44,159 Speaker 1: because that's happening and I like her. Then it's a 475 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,439 Speaker 1: good thing and I feel like it's going well. But 476 00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 1: if it's kind of like the early stages and I'm 477 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,120 Speaker 1: feeling it out, it might be a sign of somebody 478 00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: that might be a little over the top, or you 479 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 1: know what I mean. It could be one of those 480 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 1: things where you're like, is just mean anytime? But I 481 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 1: don't get right back to someone or give them my 482 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:04,359 Speaker 1: full attention right away that this is what it's going 483 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 1: to be like. So, but I think you just have 484 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,320 Speaker 1: to feel it out based on how you are feeling 485 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 1: about the girl. Yeah, your initial attraction exactly. Because if 486 00:26:14,000 --> 00:26:16,640 Speaker 1: you're really into someone and and they're doing that, then 487 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,120 Speaker 1: then I think it's like you feel awesome, You're like wow, 488 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,240 Speaker 1: But is there into me? Do you feel like if 489 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: you're really into a girl, you're going to be the initiator? Like, 490 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 1: aren't as a guy, aren't you going to be the 491 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,719 Speaker 1: one that reaches out if you're really into her? I 492 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: think for me, it's it's different if if it it 493 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 1: depends on the type of girl. Like I think girls 494 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,439 Speaker 1: like it when a guy I mean, correct me if 495 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,440 Speaker 1: I'm wrong. Girls like a guy to be chivalrous and 496 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: to initiate. But you don't want to come on so 497 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:49,000 Speaker 1: strong because especially you know, especially out in Hollywood, Los Angeles, 498 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: for New York or big cities, you know, really attractive 499 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 1: girls or someone that you might be into, you know, 500 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: they're probably being pursued by a lot of people. So 501 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 1: if you come on too strong and do the double 502 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 1: text like you just mentioned from our end our meeting guys, 503 00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 1: then she might think the same thing. So it's like 504 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 1: you kind of have to see you out this girl 505 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 1: Like me, I don't want to come on too strong. 506 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,160 Speaker 1: How long? And is the is the band on double 507 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 1: texting lifted? This is a question I keep asking. I mean, 508 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: I think if you're going back and forth for three 509 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: months and you haven't rocked the phone call, there's like 510 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:29,359 Speaker 1: a serious problem. I mean, who's like three months deep 511 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,719 Speaker 1: only texting. There's too much fear going on this call. 512 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,439 Speaker 1: Leave hit up like a Starbucks or coffee based on 513 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,919 Speaker 1: your preference. You know, that's so much easier, and then 514 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:43,680 Speaker 1: you can feel out if the double texting was the 515 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,880 Speaker 1: red flag or if it's like a good thing, wow, 516 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,479 Speaker 1: well that that would be. My summary is like do 517 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 1: a little bit double texting, but then rock the actual 518 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: phone call. Do the voice thing and meet up in 519 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 1: person and then they'll probably get a good sense of 520 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 1: whether or not it's going anywhere. I don't know, was 521 00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:03,159 Speaker 1: that a good answer. Yeah, I felt like that was 522 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:05,520 Speaker 1: a very good answer. All right, Well, thank you so 523 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 1: much for alright. So it's basically the situation. It's all situational. 524 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,359 Speaker 1: It's about who it is and what they like, and 525 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 1: everyone's different. I know. That's I think that's what I 526 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 1: always go back to, is I'm like, I just have 527 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 1: to be myself because the right one. Why are you laughing? 528 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:28,440 Speaker 1: Just likely talking about this so often? What's my new 529 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,960 Speaker 1: word for Russ? Russ? But I said you should start now. 530 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:37,320 Speaker 1: So at my fifty year high school anniversary this weekend, Oh, 531 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 1: I was like years, Yeah, I sound so youthful, right, 532 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 1: Uh No, it's an anniversary of my high school. And 533 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 1: so I went back to give this speech. So I 534 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 1: was there on Saturday, and it was like such a 535 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 1: so much love in the arrows, just like really like light. 536 00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 1: Everything was just really like light and fun. And I 537 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 1: was like talking in groups of five or six people 538 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 1: and um people that recognized that I went to high 539 00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 1: school with, and then some teachers and just just good fun, fun, fun. 540 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,720 Speaker 1: I was talking to this guy for maybe like five 541 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:04,720 Speaker 1: minutes and um in a group and then he basically 542 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 1: pulls me aside and he's like, I'd love to take 543 00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: you to dinner sometime. And I was like, this is 544 00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 1: amazing because guys don't do that anymore, Like I don't 545 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 1: have like the last time a guy asked me out 546 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 1: to dinner was July. Literally, it's a long time. When 547 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: is it August? Almost Halloween? I was like, can we 548 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:28,200 Speaker 1: tell her? So I was like so excited because I 549 00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 1: was like, that's really nice, and I like, like, I 550 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 1: like forward men, and I like you know that. I 551 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: noticed he had a wedding ring on, and I was like, 552 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,800 Speaker 1: are you married? And he goes, I'm going through a 553 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 1: divorce and I was like, yeah, I'm gonna I'm gonna 554 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,880 Speaker 1: not go. I'm just gonna you're all call me after 555 00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: the divorce. Yeah. But I'm like, also, I think if 556 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: you're wearing your wedding ring, it's not a great sign. 557 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 1: If you're going through a divorce, you take it off. 558 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,760 Speaker 1: That's what Okay, that's what that was my initial ring. 559 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,720 Speaker 1: Especially if you're in the place where you're asking girls 560 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,840 Speaker 1: out totally like, if you're kind of like, you know what, 561 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 1: I'm I really want to work on the marriage, and 562 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: I'm believing that it's gonna work out. I'm gonna wear 563 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,240 Speaker 1: my wedding rings. That's fine. But if you're going to 564 00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 1: go to the point of asking someone to dinner and 565 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 1: you're still wearing right or like put your hand in 566 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: your pocket or something, do you know it's just very 567 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: obvious that he is like did I tell you all 568 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,680 Speaker 1: about the the guy met in the Hampton's And I 569 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 1: thought was like, do we talk about this one? Okay? 570 00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 1: Last year we were in the Hampton's and I was like, 571 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 1: this is I met this guy. We were throwing the 572 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: football back and forth. It was at this like beautiful 573 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 1: house by the way, throwing the football back and forth. 574 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: Like would I ever be throwing the football back and forth? No, 575 00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: and my kids would be throwing the football. He looked 576 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 1: like one of those guys who like sails his boat 577 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 1: in the Hampton's during the summer, and he was like 578 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: a quarterback at gale or something. I don't know, I'm 579 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 1: just like making up what I thought. He looked like, right, 580 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 1: and so I was like, well, this is it. I 581 00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 1: met my man in the Hamptons and so we're like 582 00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 1: having good conversations on the football and someone comes up 583 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 1: to me later and they're like, yeah, you know that 584 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: guy you were talking to And I was like, yeah, 585 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:08,640 Speaker 1: he's so hot and we had really good conversation and 586 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: they said, yeah, he's married and took his ring off. 587 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,200 Speaker 1: He was like on a guys trip this weekend. You 588 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 1: know what, I'm done. I am done with this good conversation. Okay, 589 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 1: here's your football, take your football, take it and go. 590 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 1: That makes me so sad, Like, honestly, case and point, 591 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: are there any good ones out there? And we have 592 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 1: all this access to dating apps in social media and 593 00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 1: it's like the mentality is if she don't want me 594 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 1: or if you don't want me, I can move on 595 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:42,240 Speaker 1: to someone else. I know. And I think that, like, 596 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: honest to god, it's a fear of mine, um that 597 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 1: like I'm not going to find someone that is as 598 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,560 Speaker 1: committed as I am, because you know me, like I'm 599 00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 1: in and like I'm loyal and I'm like all in 600 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,320 Speaker 1: and I feel like I haven't found a guy in 601 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 1: the past time of years I've been single that I 602 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 1: feel like is or would ever be as committed as 603 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:08,600 Speaker 1: I am. That is not go along with the trust 604 00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: word true. I have to trust that he's out there. 605 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 1: I have to trust that he's out there, that that 606 00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:18,120 Speaker 1: guy had his ring off and he was married. Don't 607 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 1: win the football with me? Like, how would you be 608 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: more flirty? Like did you see that spiral? He threw up? 609 00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,000 Speaker 1: Like and then he just came up and was like, 610 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 1: do you know I'm a doctor too? Can you imagine 611 00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,560 Speaker 1: I would have started crying if I would have started 612 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 1: crying if he was like a doctor. And then they're like, 613 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 1: he's married. Oh yeah, that's not very fun. You know what, 614 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,560 Speaker 1: it's fun? But do you know Okay, wait, I gotta 615 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 1: tell you something. Okay, I think I matched with the 616 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: creator of fat Fit Fun. I'm dating app or CEO 617 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 1: or ceo you need to double text that. How funny 618 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 1: is that? Though you could get a free subscribe shin 619 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 1: every month every year and meant to screenshot it and 620 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: send it to you because I don't know if you 621 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,520 Speaker 1: know him, because I know you do the commercials, but 622 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 1: I can't screenshot in that app. Oh, they've really blocked 623 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:15,760 Speaker 1: the fun man. Um Well, since we're talking about it, 624 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,640 Speaker 1: um fabit fund is a subscription box and that sends 625 00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 1: you the latest and beauty and fashion, fitness and wellness 626 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 1: every single season. So you get four boxes a year. 627 00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: You could get unlimited. Can you imagine. Wow? Um, all 628 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:30,480 Speaker 1: the products are full size. It's not like you're getting 629 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 1: these little dinky sample sizes. You're getting full size products. 630 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 1: You pay for each season. But they guarantee a value 631 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:39,240 Speaker 1: of at least two hundred dollars per box, so two 632 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 1: worth of products for Wow, it's amazing. The deal. UM 633 00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 1: this month or this season is the Editor's Box. They 634 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 1: have UM Summer in Rose, black, fold over clutch, Um, 635 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: the Wishbone necklace that we talked about. He could get 636 00:33:55,840 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: you a wishbone necklace and every about the Himilyan Pink Salt. Oh, 637 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 1: they do have that. That was night. It's a kit, 638 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:08,480 Speaker 1: the Himilyan Pink Salt Kit. They have UM Real her 639 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,320 Speaker 1: Lip Kit and deep Red. They have My Tagalong skipping rope. 640 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 1: That is a good exercise, especially like when you're on 641 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:23,200 Speaker 1: the road, when you're traveling on the street, Like, yeah, yeah, 642 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,360 Speaker 1: I totally agree. You can do it anywhere. They have 643 00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,719 Speaker 1: a body oil. But basically they have a bunch of 644 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 1: stuff all for but for you, it's even less. Go 645 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,319 Speaker 1: to fat fit fun dot com use code Becca that 646 00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,520 Speaker 1: is b E C C A and you'll get ten 647 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,080 Speaker 1: dollars off the editor's box. So again that's fat fit 648 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,800 Speaker 1: fun dot com. Don't forget the promo code Becca. We 649 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,719 Speaker 1: got to get that guy's number, Hue. How funny is that? 650 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:50,439 Speaker 1: Here's my thing. Everyone's really broken up about the death 651 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,839 Speaker 1: of aim A I AM me is A I AM 652 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 1: or am Why I didn't even know it was still 653 00:34:56,480 --> 00:35:01,160 Speaker 1: something people used every day every day. See mine died 654 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,799 Speaker 1: when I lost when A O L stopped for me. 655 00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,360 Speaker 1: See I think, like, for me, it's so nostalgic because 656 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: I like that's how I like flirted with guys in 657 00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,359 Speaker 1: high school, and I use it every day net work, 658 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,480 Speaker 1: that's how we communicate, like during the morning show, Like 659 00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,839 Speaker 1: that's literally the only thing we use is a AM. 660 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 1: But like that's how I felt when my Space kind 661 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,640 Speaker 1: of died and you kind of you go through this 662 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 1: feeling of sadness and then there's the next thing you have, Instagram. 663 00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,680 Speaker 1: But I didn't realize that there was still something people 664 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 1: used all the time. I'm trying to start a petition 665 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,000 Speaker 1: what to make it not go away because we still 666 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,680 Speaker 1: have a couple of months, doesn't go till the December, 667 00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,560 Speaker 1: and now everybody's trying to transfer us to slack. Slack 668 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,440 Speaker 1: is not the same. Why is it going away? Because 669 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:40,839 Speaker 1: not enough people are using it. I think you were 670 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 1: the only company who is so imported with aim. But 671 00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: what is slack black is essentially like a AM but 672 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 1: like it's just this is what you do. You're like 673 00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:53,840 Speaker 1: loyal to something and then you can't let it go. 674 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: You can't let it go, let it go. It's like 675 00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,799 Speaker 1: your candid. I'm not I'm not alone on this though. 676 00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 1: By the way, I had a friend message me on 677 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 1: Instagram when I posted that thing about how sad I was, 678 00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: and she was like, I will sign your petition. Let's go. 679 00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 1: I mean, she decided to support you, but I could 680 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 1: not care less. Also couldn't care less about Riverdale. Okay, 681 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 1: I just wanted to get that reaction from both of y'all. 682 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,120 Speaker 1: I haven't even caught up on the new season, but 683 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 1: my sister said it was super cheesy the first the 684 00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:29,920 Speaker 1: first episode of it was amazing. It's really good. Somebody. 685 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,200 Speaker 1: I'm not surprised to hear you say this, but I 686 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 1: am surprised your amy. I'm a teenager at heart, but 687 00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 1: here's my question, What the hell year is it? Riverdale? 688 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 1: I was so befuddled. I googled that. I thought it 689 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 1: was right, but watch it closer. They use iPhones and text, 690 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 1: but yet the cars are super old tiny. And did 691 00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,280 Speaker 1: you see when they took Luke Perry to the hospital 692 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 1: did they find that strange it was? There was not 693 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 1: a computer in sight the like I thought, I was 694 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 1: watching this is us remember when that They did a 695 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 1: great job at that, And I'm like, what year is it? 696 00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, but it's like a weird time warp. 697 00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 1: I don't care because I love it so much. I 698 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,799 Speaker 1: literally don't care. I am obsessed with that show. Like 699 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: literally you had to make out with somebody on that show, Archie. 700 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:25,200 Speaker 1: Are you kidding Bughead? No? First of all, it's Jugeads, 701 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 1: she's a big fan. No, No, it's Betty and Jugead 702 00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 1: are Bughead Jugeads dad? Every day twice on Sunday, I like, 703 00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 1: r R, do you know what would? Do you know 704 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 1: what would if I were on the cast of Riverdale 705 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,440 Speaker 1: and I were Betty and they made me wear my 706 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 1: hair like that? Because I don't look good, and that's 707 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 1: what I would be petitioning for. You know what's so 708 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,360 Speaker 1: funny is I wanted to be a cast member of 709 00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:58,239 Speaker 1: Riverdale for Halloween and I specifically didn't choose Betty because 710 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 1: I was like, I am not wearing my hair like 711 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 1: she's blonde. It isn't that the easiest for you to do? 712 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't care. No, no, yeah, you 713 00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,200 Speaker 1: get that Amazon wig and you do your show Blossom thing. 714 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,480 Speaker 1: Someone sent me. Did you see the photos? Someone said, mean, 715 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,480 Speaker 1: they're like, you're right about the Amazon wig and it 716 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:20,800 Speaker 1: was and it was like these really short things. No 717 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:26,280 Speaker 1: you It's like I can't wait to see, um, okay 718 00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 1: my last thing. People are offended that we that I 719 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,320 Speaker 1: dress up in scrubs for like this for the podcast 720 00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: and just reacially. I don't know, I think I don't 721 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,120 Speaker 1: know if they think that I think I'm an actress 722 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 1: and should be on Gray's Anatomy, or if they think 723 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: I think I'm a doctor. I kind of just want 724 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:46,040 Speaker 1: to be like, I'm just a weirdo. Yeah, I'm just 725 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:49,040 Speaker 1: doing my thing. Can I live? And can I can? 726 00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,279 Speaker 1: I just like that I get respect when I wear 727 00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,840 Speaker 1: scrubs the help that we just gave people over double 728 00:38:54,920 --> 00:39:00,719 Speaker 1: texting practically like surgeons. Yeah, like, yeah, I don't feel bad. 729 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,919 Speaker 1: It might not be life or death that we're helping with, 730 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:06,520 Speaker 1: But do you think sex and on call room is 731 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 1: life or death? No, we're just helping the way. They 732 00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:16,920 Speaker 1: don't do that anymore on the elevators like they used 733 00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 1: to do it all the time in the on call 734 00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 1: rooms and guess what not anymore. What do they even 735 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:27,839 Speaker 1: focus on now? It's a good question. I don't know, 736 00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,239 Speaker 1: Like what is the thing because that was such a thing, 737 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 1: that was the thing the first like five seasons. It 738 00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: was like the on call room and the elevator. Nobody 739 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: stepped foot in one of those in the past three years. 740 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:41,400 Speaker 1: No one's sleeping, No one's sleeping around. It's all business. 741 00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 1: It's all business. Yeah, there's research, business and disease um. 742 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,680 Speaker 1: If you want to get a hold of us, that's me, 743 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:53,239 Speaker 1: that's saying me, that's Tonny, that's marks in here. You 744 00:39:53,239 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 1: can email us at scrubbing in at i heeart media 745 00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:59,080 Speaker 1: dot com, or you can always tweet me at beck 746 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,080 Speaker 1: at Tilly five. If you have any topics you want 747 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 1: us to discuss any criticism. We prefer only the friendly kind, 748 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:10,919 Speaker 1: but any any kind you have we would accept. Bring it, yes, 749 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:15,120 Speaker 1: send us an email, give us a tweet. Okay, I 750 00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,040 Speaker 1: know you love kettle corn when we sit down and 751 00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 1: watch Grace, that's fine, But I was thinking we need 752 00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,520 Speaker 1: to start having like where we cook meals on Thursday 753 00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:24,359 Speaker 1: and sit down and watch Grace. I would love that. 754 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:28,440 Speaker 1: And if I don't cook a lot, do you cook 755 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:34,400 Speaker 1: a lot? I feel? Yeah, pretty pretty savvy. That was 756 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 1: the highest pitch. I try. Yeah, well, um, to make 757 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: it easy, we can get hell of fresh. Oh I've 758 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:47,520 Speaker 1: heard of this. Yes, So basically, they don't just send 759 00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,960 Speaker 1: you food. They send you a full blown experience. You 760 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,239 Speaker 1: get an apron, you get meals, you get all the 761 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:53,680 Speaker 1: ingredients you need so you don't have to go to 762 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,400 Speaker 1: the store, and they like teach you how to do 763 00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,840 Speaker 1: it step by step and it only takes thirty minutes. 764 00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: So like I never cook and I'm able to do 765 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: it and people don't die. Yeah, and people actually enjoy 766 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:08,720 Speaker 1: it because they send me everything, give me very specific instructions. 767 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:13,320 Speaker 1: So basically, if you can read, you're you're golden, golden, 768 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:17,760 Speaker 1: prove it. I will this Thursday. So all the meals 769 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,359 Speaker 1: are creative, they're delicious. My mom and dad love them. 770 00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:23,240 Speaker 1: I just went home and they're they're like, which, Hello 771 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,319 Speaker 1: Fresh meal do you want this week? Like fresh ingredients right? Yeah, 772 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:32,640 Speaker 1: super fresh delicious, Hello Fresh. Yeah. And it's good for you, 773 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,600 Speaker 1: which is what I need and what you love. Um. 774 00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,160 Speaker 1: So here's the best part. It's less than ten dollars 775 00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,680 Speaker 1: a meal, which is amazing because I normally spend you know, 776 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: at least ten dollars or more. I know what's I 777 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,880 Speaker 1: was gonna say. I didn't know if I was just 778 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:51,759 Speaker 1: going over the top. You know, it's normal. Um. For 779 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 1: thirty dollars off of your first week of Hello Fresh, 780 00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:58,120 Speaker 1: visit Hello Fresh dot com and enter the promo code 781 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 1: Becca T thirty. That B E C C A T 782 00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:05,319 Speaker 1: three zero So Hello Fresh dot com promo code back 783 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:09,000 Speaker 1: up T thirty and you'll get thirty dollars off. It's amazing, 784 00:42:09,719 --> 00:42:13,399 Speaker 1: and you're going to be doing the dishes. They don't 785 00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:17,080 Speaker 1: offer that, okay for actually I'll cook. You can do 786 00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 1: the dishes. It's fun, it's easy, it's perfect for sitting 787 00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,960 Speaker 1: down to watch Gray's perfect. Hello Fresh dot com and 788 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,279 Speaker 1: enter the promo code Becca T. Thirty. That's b E 789 00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:31,160 Speaker 1: C c A T three zero Becka T is in 790 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 1: Tillie thirty. Alright, So first of all, I want everyone 791 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,400 Speaker 1: to email me with shows that I should be watching. 792 00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 1: Everyone here agrees that I should be watching Riverdale, which 793 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 1: is what I'm going to catch up on this week. Um, 794 00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,359 Speaker 1: if you email scrubbing in, I heart media dot com. 795 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 1: Suggest your favorite show and a brief idea of why 796 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 1: you suggest it. Give us your elevator pitch. Yeah, elevator pitch. 797 00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:56,320 Speaker 1: So my homework this week is to catch up on Riverdale. 798 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,480 Speaker 1: What's your homework. I'm gonna watch the Bull Type. Oh, 799 00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:03,560 Speaker 1: the Bull I heard good things about that. Okay, well 800 00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,560 Speaker 1: there's there's a homework I'm gonna I'm gonna get for Riverdale. Chance. 801 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:10,320 Speaker 1: I feel like I've been a little harsh because it's magical. 802 00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:13,520 Speaker 1: Everyone else seems to love it. I'm the only one 803 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 1: talking about it. Who's people really like the bull type 804 00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 1: to like? They kind of they're saying it's like the 805 00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 1: new age Sex and City. No great, all right, so 806 00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 1: thank you for scrubbing in. We have to go scrub 807 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,839 Speaker 1: out right now. That's run errands, get the respect that 808 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:35,040 Speaker 1: we don't deserve, but feel like we do. And we 809 00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:38,239 Speaker 1: will be here next week to discuss all the topics, 810 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,839 Speaker 1: all the things I wish I could give you a 811 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,719 Speaker 1: different homework assignment, but to go on a date or something. No, 812 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:46,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to give you a homework assignment to go 813 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:49,920 Speaker 1: on a date. Okay, and we can both give each other. 814 00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 1: You both up this week and you'll go by next week. Wait, 815 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:58,320 Speaker 1: by the time we talk next week, I don't know 816 00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,360 Speaker 1: if I don't know if I want to come into it, 817 00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 1: and I've got to dinner with Robert. All right, we'll 818 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,440 Speaker 1: talk about it next week and see if we can 819 00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,200 Speaker 1: maybe do it the week after. Okay, we're going to 820 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 1: talk about potential date that Tany and I go in 821 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,400 Speaker 1: next week, So don't forget to tune in. Thank you 822 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 1: for scrubbing in. Should we call it? Yeah, you go? 823 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:18,719 Speaker 1: I went last week. Okay, I don't want to be 824 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:30,880 Speaker 1: like greedy. You're right. Time of death twelve forty one pm. 825 00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 1: It's so good.