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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels a second date up date. Remember, if

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Speaker 1: you want a second date update, all you have to

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Speaker 1: do is email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine

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Speaker 1: two five dot com. We will call the person that

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Speaker 1: didn't call you back. We've got Kelly on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us today. Kelly email us about a guy named Cody.

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Speaker 1: Apparently they met through friends of friends, Yes, through friends

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Speaker 1: of friends, and we got together at this bar and

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Speaker 1: I figured, you know, blind dates or blind date, so

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go in and oh so this was a

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Speaker 1: blind date? All right, Yeah, it was a blind date.

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Speaker 1: I don't usually engage in those kinds of things because they,

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Speaker 1: you know, they can be a freaking disaster basically. So

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Speaker 1: what did your friends tell you about this guy before

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Speaker 1: the blind date? Well, they told me that he was

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Speaker 1: of relationship, so you know, that whole relationship word. I

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Speaker 1: you know, I went, oh, my gosh, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: he's got a great job. Um, you know, lots of potential. Okay,

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Speaker 1: when you showed up for the blind date, what you find.

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Speaker 1: I had very low expectations going in, But two and

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Speaker 1: this guy. It's a bar. It's so much in common,

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Speaker 1: it was great chemistry. It was just one of those

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Speaker 1: really great times, you know, one of those really just

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Speaker 1: great times in your in your life. Sounds like you

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Speaker 1: liked him a lot. I do. I do like him

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Speaker 1: a lot. He was just a really great guy. But

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Speaker 1: this guy came along. It's just him that it's making

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Speaker 1: you change your mind. Absolutely, you know, I would I

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Speaker 1: would consider getting to know this person better and investing

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Speaker 1: some time in him, basically. Okay. And at the end

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Speaker 1: that been. It's been it's been a week. It's only

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Speaker 1: been a week. Yeah, But he said to me, you know,

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Speaker 1: you know. I was about three days, I think, and

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Speaker 1: then I started to get nancy. Okay, So I've reached

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Speaker 1: out to my friends and I said, hey, you know,

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Speaker 1: heard anything. I'm not going to call him back. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm not gonna call him back, but I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: that's right, right, I'll do that, but I'm not I'm

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Speaker 1: not going to pick up the phone and call him

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Speaker 1: and say, hey, I didn't hear from you. You want

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Speaker 1: to get together, it's all kind of weird. Well, hang

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Speaker 1: out for like three and a half minutes, going to

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Speaker 1: play a song, come right back and get your second

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Speaker 1: date update. All right, all right, hold on brooking jubil

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Second and you guys ever got out

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Speaker 1: on a blind date, like completely blind, like never seen

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Speaker 1: the person met him? I don't think I have once

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Speaker 1: thanks to you guys on the show. Is correct, Yes,

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Speaker 1: and it didn't work out very well for him, though

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Speaker 1: not at all. Kelly is on the phone with us.

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Speaker 1: If you were listening just a minute ago, Kelly went

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Speaker 1: out on a blind date with a guy named Cody.

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Speaker 1: I met at a bar and then ended up hanging

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Speaker 1: after that date we're really into him, yes, and he

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Speaker 1: gonna end. Well. I have good feelings about this. Actually

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Speaker 1: we're definitely not on the same page. Hello. Hey, I

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Speaker 1: was looking for Cody. Oh, this is Cody. Cody. What's up? Man?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. How are you good?

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Speaker 1: How's it going pretty good? Have you heard our show before?

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Speaker 1: Parts of it? Yeah, parts of it too. I was

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Speaker 1: same We do a sameinar show up call Second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: It's where someone goes on a date and then gets

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Speaker 1: All right? Have you ever gone on a blind date before?

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Speaker 1: Actually that was my first time? Okay. She said, you

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Speaker 1: guys had fun though. You were talking at the bar

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Speaker 1: for like two and a half hours in exchange numbers,

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Speaker 1: and we're supposed to go out again, but you haven't

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Speaker 1: called her. Do you mind telling us why? I mean,

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Speaker 1: talk like a lot? By any chance? Okay, all women

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Speaker 1: talk a lot, Cody, I'll tell you this. She seems

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Speaker 1: I just don't think she noticed because she was really

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Speaker 1: busy talking. Wow, what's she talking about herself the entire time?

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Speaker 1: Or did she ask any questions about you? All? About everything?

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything left to like know about her.

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Speaker 1: So you feel like in that two and a half

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Speaker 1: hour kind of date, that you had, you learned about

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Speaker 1: Now I'm going to throw under the bus. Yeah, this

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Speaker 1: and she just heard all of that. Kelly. Yeah, what

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Speaker 1: am I supposed to say to that? I mean, obviously

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Speaker 1: I'm a huge hole, you know, Okay, Kelly, slow down.

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Speaker 1: I said you were nice. I just I mean, well,

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Speaker 1: isn't that a sweet say I'm nice? Well good, But Kelly,

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Speaker 1: can't even imagine wanting to spend any more time with

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Speaker 1: In two and a half hours, you would finish talking

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Speaker 1: about like how your grandparents met, and then suddenly you

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Speaker 1: like launched to do another story about like your high

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Speaker 1: school band teacher. And I'm just like, what information was

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Speaker 1: I eat able to present? You know, if somebody says

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Speaker 1: to tell you about Kelly. You know, quite frankly, I'm

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm all that in a bag of chips, dude.

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Speaker 1: You know, Kelly, Kelly, do you talk when you're nervous?

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Speaker 1: Were you nervous on this date? Somewhat? I mean, I'm

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Speaker 1: just totally. I'm just bored. I'm borry. I don't obey,

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Speaker 1: you know, I have no sense or no judge of

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Speaker 1: anything that I'm doing or saying. What were you trying

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Speaker 1: say something? And then she kept going like what the

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Speaker 1: she was nervous. I'm sorry, you know, what can I say? Hey, Kelly,

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Speaker 1: maybe you guys just don't click like maybe you do

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Speaker 1: talk a lot, but maybe there's a guy out there

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Speaker 1: who likes that. Cody obviously isn't that dude. That being said,

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Speaker 1: I would love to send you guys out on the

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Speaker 1: second date. We'll pay for it if you guys will

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Speaker 1: go out again. Would you be interested in going out

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Speaker 1: on a second date? Are you kidding me right now? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I just had to ask. I will just say this.

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Speaker 1: Next time you go on a first date, just go

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Speaker 1: to the movies so you can talk your way through

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Speaker 1: the film. Well no, you then that way you'll be

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Speaker 1: at least be quiet for like three hours. And that's

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Speaker 1: what you think. Not well, cloy, I'm really sorry that,

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Speaker 1: and you'll never get that back again. Sorry, you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know whatever I mean. Like I said, you're

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Speaker 1: you're not. It's not like you're totally boring the whole time.

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Speaker 1: I just you know, in the morning,