Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2: Mia is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 2: Cheater and she's been with her boyfriend JB for about
Speaker 2: a half a year now and she already thinks something
Speaker 2: might be going on.
Speaker 3: So we'll see if he is.
Speaker 2: Hopefully he isn't.
Speaker 3: But Mia, what's up?
Speaker 2: Why do you think that JB might be cheating on you?
Speaker 4: Hey? Yeah, thanks for having me. This is really weird
Speaker 4: and normally we can sult my girlfriends, but I listen
Speaker 4: to you guys.
Speaker 5: A lot, so I figured you might be able to
Speaker 5: have some advice to offer me.
Speaker 4: But yeah, So I love my boyfriend JB. We met
Speaker 4: six months ago and it's been really great.
Speaker 5: Literally he might dream die. And oddly enough, my brother
Speaker 5: actually introduced us.
Speaker 6: That's pretty awesome.
Speaker 5: Actually, yeah, which is that's one of the best things
Speaker 5: that my brothers could have given me.
Speaker 4: My brother could have given me.
Speaker 5: So I love AB, like really hot guy of my
Speaker 5: dreams that I've ever ever wanted to date, and it
Speaker 5: was like a dream come true with that. And yeah,
Speaker 5: pretty soon after dating, about three months in, he even
Speaker 5: gave me keys to his house, which I thought was
Speaker 5: like Okay, we're building something here. There's trust, there's commitments.
Speaker 5: Everything was really good. He's super respectful, doesn't like make
Speaker 5: me feel uncomfortable about not wanting to do anything.
Speaker 4: Or anything like that.
Speaker 5: So one day, you know, because we lived together, I
Speaker 5: was cleaning up around the house, I was doing some laundry.
Speaker 5: I was putting away some of his underwear, and I
Speaker 5: saw some that did not belong to him, clearly because
Speaker 5: they're of a different design and different texture.
Speaker 4: And it's super weirded me out.
Speaker 5: And I thought, perhaps maybe left behind by his ex
Speaker 5: cohemited x he split together as well, so maybe she
Speaker 5: left something behind. Also, she left something behind, why haven't
Speaker 5: you been? Why haven't you like fixed it? Also, why
Speaker 5: do you still have it? Just throw it away?
Speaker 4: Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 6: Just to clarify, when you say by a different design,
Speaker 6: are you talking about like women's panties like it's a
Speaker 6: full blown yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, yeah yeah. And I was going to ask
Speaker 2: if it could be his exes. But that's a good
Speaker 2: point though. I mean, you'd want to get rid of
Speaker 2: that stuff.
Speaker 6: If you never was there, But maybe he didn't.
Speaker 4: These are all the thoughts that I've had in my head.
Speaker 5: So thank you for letting me know that I'm absolutely
Speaker 5: not one hundred percent crazy.
Speaker 4: So, yeah, they're red and they're silk.
Speaker 3: Oh yep, not his?
Speaker 5: Y Yeah, that's not his, and it's definitely not mine.
Speaker 5: I don't even like bread, So this is weird for me.
Speaker 5: I'm holding onto it.
Speaker 4: I'm trying not to panic.
Speaker 5: I'm like vibrating, I'm trying to take deep breaths, and
Speaker 5: so I'm just like holding onto this.
Speaker 4: I love him, I don't want to scare him off,
Speaker 4: but also, like, you know what the af.
Speaker 2: Yes a valid question. I mean you find that women's
Speaker 2: underwear and your boyfriend's stuff, did you ask him about it?
Speaker 4: I kind of hinted around it, and I like I
Speaker 4: said stuff about like being like I'm so scared. I'm
Speaker 4: so scared guys.
Speaker 5: Because like literally it's like coming across the person of
Speaker 5: your dreams and not wanting to ruin it, but also
Speaker 5: trying to find some human decency that you like you
Speaker 5: respect yourself. So it's like, I just I don't know
Speaker 5: what to do. Clearly, clearly they're not his, Clearly they're
Speaker 5: not mine.
Speaker 4: They might be as exes.
Speaker 5: Also in our neighborhood there is a girl that lives
Speaker 5: close by, and she's.
Speaker 4: Kind of cute whatever, but she gives me like.
Speaker 5: Really bad vibes and she's always flirting with JB. Whenever
Speaker 5: she sees this out together, She's always like, oh my god.
Speaker 4: DP, how are you guys your day?
Speaker 5: And I'm like, oh cool, I don't exist really under
Speaker 5: the ghost right now?
Speaker 6: Does she do that to other people too, though? Or
Speaker 6: is she singling out now?
Speaker 4: Not even I feel like she's singling him out, So
Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, is it Jennas Like is it?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 4: Who is it? Is it like the mailman?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: I like clear my mind, like clearly it's not the mailman,
Speaker 4: you know. So I don't know. I'm just freaking out.
Speaker 4: I don't know what to do. I don't I like, like,
Speaker 4: do I throw it away? Is he gonna notice that
Speaker 4: I threw it away? Like? Do I burn it? Do? I?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 4: I don't chop it up and leave it on the
Speaker 4: dinner table? I don't know what.
Speaker 6: I'm curious though, Like when you're hinting around it, how
Speaker 6: does he react to that? Does he feel like does
Speaker 6: it seem like he is hiding something from you? Does
Speaker 6: that make him squirrelly, or he's just like oblivious.
Speaker 4: He's oblivious, like I know he's a guy, and not
Speaker 4: to put guys down because they can be oblivious, but
Speaker 4: like he's like yeah, if they what's up? You know,
Speaker 4: how would you do?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 4: What should be? Od pizza and then.
Speaker 5: Like feeding in the background, like pizza.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well you already told us what grocery
Speaker 2: store he's a rewards card member, so we'll play us
Speaker 2: on and then come back and call him and pretend
Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store and say that every
Speaker 2: single month, we choose one lucky Rewards member who gets
Speaker 2: three flowers delivered from our floral department, and will he
Speaker 2: if he sends those to you or to somebody else?
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, all right, play.
Speaker 2: Us on, comeback, get your to Catch a Tater next
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Miya is on the phone and she thinks that her
Speaker 2: boyfriend of six months might already be messing around. So
Speaker 2: in a second, we're going to call him and pretend
Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store that he's a Rewards
Speaker 2: card member at and say that every single month, we
Speaker 2: choose one Awards card member at random who gets free
Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our floral department. We'll see if he
Speaker 2: believes that, and if he does, we'll see who he
Speaker 2: sends the flowers to, his girlfriend, Mea or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: But before we do that, Mia, why don't you catch
Speaker 2: us up on why you suspect he's cheating?
Speaker 5: So, like he said, my boyfriend is six months we
Speaker 5: live together. I'm very happily coupled. I was basically putting
Speaker 5: away laundry and I found women's underwear in his drawer,
Speaker 5: and so I'm kind of conflicted as to what to do.
Speaker 5: I don't know if his neighbors or someone else's or
Speaker 5: his ex's, but I've kind of hinted around trying to
Speaker 5: get to the bottom of it, and nothing has come
Speaker 5: from it.
Speaker 4: So I'm kind of like losing my mind at this point.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well here we go. Are you ready?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 2: No, Hey, this is Corbyn calling from I was looking
Speaker 2: for our rewards card member named jb. Oh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's me JB Hi, how are you?
Speaker 1: Please?
Speaker 2: Don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 2: I'm actually calling to give you a big congratulations and
Speaker 2: thank you. You're this month's big winner.
Speaker 3: All right, yeah, thanks? What does this mean?
Speaker 2: Oh well, every single month, we choose one Rewards Card
Speaker 2: member to say thank you very much for being such
Speaker 2: a loyal customer by gifting you free flowers delivered from
Speaker 2: our floor apartment. You've won thirty six long sim red roses,
Speaker 2: a box of candy or chocolates, and a card to
Speaker 2: be delivered to anybody that you want with in the
Speaker 2: fifteen United States of America. Absolutely free. Congratulations, cool, thank you, Yes,
Speaker 2: no problem. And here's how it works. I can take
Speaker 2: the information over the phone. I can do that in
Speaker 2: just a matter of minutes. If you're prepared to do
Speaker 2: that right now. You know you want to send them to,
Speaker 2: No problem, I can do that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean cool, I know who I want to
Speaker 3: send it to.
Speaker 2: Okay, I can take that on the information right now.
Speaker 2: Then the first thing I would need would be the
Speaker 2: first and last name of the person, and then what
Speaker 2: you would want to say on a card if you
Speaker 2: want to say something, and then you get the address
Speaker 2: and stuff.
Speaker 3: Okay, first name is Mia.
Speaker 2: Mia, and then a last name on that gotcha, and
Speaker 2: anything you want to put on a card to Miah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we could have it.
Speaker 7: Say I've made mistakes, I have regrets, but you are
Speaker 7: not one of them.
Speaker 3: I love you. Miya know that that too longers?
Speaker 2: That are no, that should be good, that should be great.
Speaker 3: Okay, cool.
Speaker 2: Well, yes, we can get that sent out and I
Speaker 2: would get the address from me, but I can't do
Speaker 2: that right now because this actually is not the grocery store.
Speaker 2: This is Jewble from the Jebel Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 6: Hi ammina.
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria and we do a segment on the
Speaker 2: show called to Catch a Cheater, where if you think
Speaker 2: your significant other might be messing around, you see who
Speaker 2: they send flowers to, and you go for me is
Speaker 2: actually on the phone.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, so she's not getting flowers, so what what?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 3: What's I called.
Speaker 5: Them up because I was feeling uncomfortable and I've been
Speaker 5: wanting to ask you about something.
Speaker 4: So I was doing laundry and.
Speaker 5: I found some underwear in your door that's clearly not yours.
Speaker 4: So I need you to tell me, like, what's up? TB? Hello, Yeah,
Speaker 4: are you serious? Are you there?
Speaker 3: I am? I am? I just really wasn't. Uh, there's nothing.
Speaker 4: Prepared for those cool. I wasn't prepared for those.
Speaker 7: Look, look, there's no problem. I mean they don't belong
Speaker 7: to anybody. I mean they I mean they belonged to me.
Speaker 1: All right, listen you do It's like, what are you
Speaker 1: even saying right now? I don't believe you. I need
Speaker 1: you to be a man and tell me who they
Speaker 1: belong to.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well listen, look, you know, I'm like.
Speaker 7: So much and I realized, like you're kind of going
Speaker 7: out on the limb here, like taking this on the radio.
Speaker 7: But it's kind of putting me in a position. So
Speaker 7: I'm going to be very honest with you too. I
Speaker 7: guess save this relationship. They they are mine, Okay, they do.
Speaker 3: Not belong to anybody but me. I bought them.
Speaker 7: I own them, and that is why they are there. Wait,
Speaker 7: won't so look look, I know this is this is
Speaker 7: not how I would choose to tell you this, Okay,
Speaker 7: but I I guess.
Speaker 3: You need to know. And I really know.
Speaker 7: Right now, impression here they do not belong to anybody else,
Speaker 7: Like that is the key thing.
Speaker 3: I need you enough.
Speaker 7: I'm kind of into them, all right. I don't know,
Speaker 7: it's just a really private thing. I'm not prepared to
Speaker 7: really don't talk about it.
Speaker 3: Don't tell me, well, because.
Speaker 4: Why did I have to find out this way?
Speaker 7: Then? I have never told anybody about this. I have
Speaker 7: no words for it. That's why I am struggling now.
Speaker 7: It's just kind of a private kind I guess you
Speaker 7: could say kink sort of thing, you know, and I
Speaker 7: and I've never really been in a relationship this solid like,
Speaker 7: I've just never had the occasion to discuss it. I mean,
Speaker 7: I'm sorry, it is embarrassing. I hope I'm making sense.
Speaker 4: I think I hear you. I love you, I respect you.
Speaker 4: I just are you dressing in women's clothes completely like
Speaker 4: I need? Are you cut strut or what it like this?
Speaker 4: You use some weekend? What is the tall?
Speaker 7: No, it's nothing that involved. Have I put them on? Yes,
Speaker 7: I have put them. I think they feel nice, and
Speaker 7: it's just like a private thing. Every once in a
Speaker 7: while I'll kind of get into.
Speaker 3: I don't know, it just feels good. We'll wear them sometimes.
Speaker 3: Most of the other times they just kind of sit
Speaker 3: in the drawer.
Speaker 7: That's so bad.
Speaker 5: I was over here thinking that it was a Jenna
Speaker 5: or like your exis or something like. I literally been
Speaker 5: silently freaking out and I did not know what to do,
Speaker 5: and I'm so sorry that I didn't come to you personally.
Speaker 3: Oh, that's fine, Like I can't.
Speaker 7: I understand that you would find these and probably think
Speaker 7: something so like that is the key thing I needed
Speaker 7: to know, is that, Like, and we can talk about
Speaker 7: you know, my interest in this down the road, but
Speaker 7: first and foremost know that they do not belong to
Speaker 7: anybody but me.
Speaker 3: I would not do that to you.
Speaker 4: Are there any other surprises that I need to know about?
Speaker 7: Just maybe that that one thing that you kind of
Speaker 7: always wanted to try, and I'm working on making that happen.
Speaker 2: Well, what all right? Well, I don't know we need
Speaker 2: all that right now. Like, good, good for you, Mia.
Speaker 2: That sounds fun and at least you know he's not cheating.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I do.
Speaker 5: I'm so sorry, and I love I love you, and
Speaker 5: I'm I'm sorry. I'll be better about communication in the future,
Speaker 5: but I'm glad that out now.
Speaker 7: I love you too, and maybe you know, we'll look
Speaker 7: back and this is the best way to get out
Speaker 7: of the open until he starts missing.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And she looks at you and she's like, honey,
Speaker 6: you got to ask before.
Speaker 2: You take my pannies.
Speaker 4: This is actually kind of hot. Maybe you can.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 3: if I'd fit into them anyway, But you do have
Speaker 3: some nice funds. I will say
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