WEBVTT - Conversations About Body Count

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<v Speaker 1>Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No

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<v Speaker 1>Sillers Podcast with your host not funk that with your

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<v Speaker 1>low glasses Malone. I was looking at this post on

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram Pete, and it blew me away and it was

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<v Speaker 1>they were talking about um they were it was okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So the post itself was about a woman and they

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<v Speaker 1>were saying that the woman specifically on the post, they

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about her body count as a way. The

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<v Speaker 1>discredited was as if her pussy would be worn based

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<v Speaker 1>off how many dicks she took. I'm not so sure

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<v Speaker 1>that's how it works. I'm one seventeenth sure that's not

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<v Speaker 1>how it works, right, Yeah, because I have I have

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<v Speaker 1>slept with true slut or two. Yeah, and some of

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<v Speaker 1>the vagina was the greatest thing that has happened to

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<v Speaker 1>my penis when it comes to actually just feel itself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh yeah. Why do you think guys think that?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what is it about? Like it's metaphorical. Went into

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<v Speaker 1>sex thinking to myself like, oh, she fucked a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people. I think that's what most guys think. They

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<v Speaker 1>think like, oh, she slept with a lot of guys.

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<v Speaker 1>The vagina is not gonna be good. I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 1>that that's really what they think. I think it's more

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<v Speaker 1>metaphorical too. Oh, this woman slept with a lot of guys,

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<v Speaker 1>so the you know, social credit value of me having

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<v Speaker 1>knocked it down as inverted. No, but they don't really

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<v Speaker 1>think that that's what that's what that's what the better

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<v Speaker 1>minds think. Most guys think the vagina changes. I think

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<v Speaker 1>that there's to some extent there might be some minor

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<v Speaker 1>elasticity issues there. But think about it this way, those

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<v Speaker 1>same guys are taken down girls who've had two or

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<v Speaker 1>three kids. That's a lot bigger than a male appendage. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but even then, I don't think it's true at all.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder how true is it, Like, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's true at all. It probably I'll say this much.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember in college there were girls on my track

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<v Speaker 1>team who would say, like over the course of like

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<v Speaker 1>if they weren't getting knocked down for a while, like

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<v Speaker 1>during training, that afterwards it would be super tight. Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. So uh but also all parks girls were

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<v Speaker 1>cause I knew him, and it probably wasn't gonna remain

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<v Speaker 1>that way for very long. I'm just saying some of

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<v Speaker 1>the craziest horns. I remember sleeping with a girl man

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<v Speaker 1>that was like super out there, and I remember not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to sleep with her. This girl they're doing porn.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like a prostitute to some degree that she

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<v Speaker 1>had to be. And like I did a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things to not sleep with this girl, Like I went

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<v Speaker 1>out of my way to not sleep with her. She

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<v Speaker 1>she was trying, Like I became her target, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>knew god she slept with and I'm like, like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not sleeping with you, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she was a beautiful girl, I mean, she attractive,

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<v Speaker 1>had a couple of dollars whatever that means. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, when I'm not sleeping with you, like you

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with everybody, And she just wanted to give me

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<v Speaker 1>some pussy so bad, and it just really was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So I pretty much steered clear away from the pussy

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<v Speaker 1>for years, you know what I mean. I kept a

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<v Speaker 1>cool relationship with her because I thought she was a

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<v Speaker 1>really good friend. And the way she like we end

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<v Speaker 1>up sleeping together, which was crazy, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>It was almost unbelievable when I think about how it happened.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened at a Kid's Pop Warner Football like a

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<v Speaker 1>Snoop League football game. Snoop was actually at the fucking

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<v Speaker 1>games and it happened in the parking lot. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was gonna said it happened in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of the field like a halftime show. No, it happened

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<v Speaker 1>because in the parking lot got you and um when

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<v Speaker 1>I tell you that pussy was incredible, it was almost crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>like you would think a motherfucker that then took that

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<v Speaker 1>many dicks, it's no way. That's why I knew I

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<v Speaker 1>would think the opposite that wasn't true. Why what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that a person with a broader spectrum and

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<v Speaker 1>deeper volume of practice would be worse at something? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I thought she would be worse. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>believe so there's nothing she can do to to mask

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<v Speaker 1>the damage done with all the skill repertoire. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it's not the experience. I think the experience works

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<v Speaker 1>out better for women. You know what I mean that

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<v Speaker 1>the experience. But I thought the actual you know, immaturely

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<v Speaker 1>thinking that it would be warned like time and that

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I realized it wasn't Truebe think some of

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<v Speaker 1>these other girls that ship not true. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>slept with a girl that was a virgin that's happened

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<v Speaker 1>to me twice, and it was like, don't get me wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>the sex was great, but it was like you thought

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<v Speaker 1>she'd been sucking all the time, got you? Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I mean, because I thought that there

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<v Speaker 1>was like some uh validation to the like Cagle exercise

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<v Speaker 1>kind of theory, you know what I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know to what extent that holds water? Mm hmm. So

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<v Speaker 1>first off, no ceilings, Jail PB and Peter Bosh, are

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<v Speaker 1>we going to change the name of the podcast for

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<v Speaker 1>this particular episode from no ceilings to no walls to

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<v Speaker 1>no feeling? Yeah? So what's your issue? Does body account

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<v Speaker 1>really matter? What's your issue with body count? So if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not, if it's not a physical thing, what's your

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<v Speaker 1>issue with how many women? I mean how many men

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<v Speaker 1>a woman that slept with? It's it matters reputationally speaking,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's our reputation or your reputation both because her

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<v Speaker 1>reputation then it's tied to your. It depends on what

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<v Speaker 1>you what the end game is, whether you know, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like, well I've got some time, it's only

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<v Speaker 1>two o'clock, then it doesn't matter all that much. If

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<v Speaker 1>it's like trying to be seen around with this woman,

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<v Speaker 1>then that's when it starts to matter a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's funny culturally speaking? You know, I have

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<v Speaker 1>been saying prejudicially, I've been very prejudiced when I said

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<v Speaker 1>this that it's almost like white people, coach really just

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<v Speaker 1>don't care about that, right, because you would take something

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<v Speaker 1>that is the farthest thing. I would say the absolute

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<v Speaker 1>complete opposite. What's funny is though, because when I think

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<v Speaker 1>of people like right, um the harmy that run, no jumper,

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<v Speaker 1>real good dude, Adam, Right, Adam sided, but Adam like

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<v Speaker 1>he's dating like a porn star, Like I think they're

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<v Speaker 1>ever read this something? And I'm like, he don't even care.

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<v Speaker 1>He's one of those alternatively white people though, Like here

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<v Speaker 1>Rebel and Ship so white culturally, it does matter. If

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<v Speaker 1>you brought home afore and start, your dad would look

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<v Speaker 1>at you grazy. The list of things that my family

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<v Speaker 1>and like my old circle of friends and all that

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<v Speaker 1>ship would would be like the cringeworthy things is significant

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<v Speaker 1>and it's unforgiving. Mm hmmm. And that was true all

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<v Speaker 1>the way back through high school, through whatever. We're just

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<v Speaker 1>like brought up kind of that way. Yeah, m hm.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I realized too. I was watching Forest

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<v Speaker 1>Gump the other day and Forests slept with Jenny when

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<v Speaker 1>Jenny had HIV. That's correct. I'm not sure Forest knew

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<v Speaker 1>how to spell HIV, but it was unfair. It was

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<v Speaker 1>fair for him a little bit. So his first pussy

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<v Speaker 1>was HIV pussy. Yeah, that's rough. It's probably a whore. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the filthiest back to the point. Um, I just thought

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<v Speaker 1>about that. Um, that's an interesting one because I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know where you. I was like, boy to tie Forest

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<v Speaker 1>com through this conversation. This has to be really creative.

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<v Speaker 1>But I forgot about that part of the movie. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I had COVID. I had COVID, and so I was

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<v Speaker 1>just watching movies and reading books, and I was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Jenny was a real dirt bag. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>her pussy was actually more like Forest than Forest because

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<v Speaker 1>it just kept running as it is. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>do it. I couldn't avoid it. Do you think body

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<v Speaker 1>counts shouldn't matter? Like our is God, our guys being

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<v Speaker 1>ridiculous at this point, Like like is it really ridiculous

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<v Speaker 1>this to care? Is that really an estimation of character?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I think that's where we both I think we

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<v Speaker 1>both agree at the point of what we we both

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<v Speaker 1>know physically, how many penises she had probably doesn't really affect,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the actual greatest feeling of the vagina. And

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<v Speaker 1>so if it's not a physical thing, are we being

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<v Speaker 1>a bit ridiculous? I mean thinking outside of the normal

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<v Speaker 1>thinking of how we judged. Like I think my fear

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<v Speaker 1>is the soul of her, Like her soul is being

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<v Speaker 1>compromised over and over again. That could possibly be true

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<v Speaker 1>in a vacuum. There's an argument that com be made

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<v Speaker 1>that like the locality of the bodies matter, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you like it, Like I'm in Miami, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I could go start dating some check from the Dominican

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<v Speaker 1>Republic who ran through two in the d R. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>never gonna see those people. But the skill set, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>came through customs, so I'm kind of winning. True. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's that. So is it? So let's say if she

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<v Speaker 1>was a whore in Puerto Rico, yeah, and you know

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<v Speaker 1>nothing about that or you've heard about it, but she's

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<v Speaker 1>not a whore in America or in Florida. That's yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think to a degree, that's a different conversation. It's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like if if if a pussy drops in

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<v Speaker 1>the forest and nobody is there to hear, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>really make a sound like a little like confucious ask

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<v Speaker 1>type of take on the matter. What's the fear? What's

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<v Speaker 1>the fear of the high body counts? Like, let's be honest, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the fear fear? I don't know. I mean if

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<v Speaker 1>we're just talking to fear, I mean like, yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you my minus you, you could take the pussy getting

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<v Speaker 1>checked out graded grating. I think it's purely reputational. I

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<v Speaker 1>think there there is a certain capital on getting on exclusivity.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's it's almost sort of like a supply and

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<v Speaker 1>demand perception even though it's past supply. Sort of strange

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<v Speaker 1>in that regard, But also like practically speaking, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be like you ever saw that movie Best

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<v Speaker 1>In Show, the comedy about the Dog Show. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>never saw it. It's it's a very very funny, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's an excruciatingly white comedy, but it is very funny,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're making fun of like weird people who are

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<v Speaker 1>like weird white dog people, and one of one of

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<v Speaker 1>them features like a wife who's like a burnt out

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<v Speaker 1>slut and her nerdy husband, And everywhere they go her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Cookie. They go to the store of the cashier,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Cookie, Yeah, hey, what's up? Remember that time we

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<v Speaker 1>got busy at the fair on the ferris wheel. And

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<v Speaker 1>then they go somewhere else the electrician. Oh oh hey, Cookie,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey remember that time back behind the math building at

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<v Speaker 1>the high school. Like it's everywhere that they go, And

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<v Speaker 1>that's not probably the greatest. Like you could also have

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<v Speaker 1>a mathematical likelihood that you're gonna bump into somebody that's

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<v Speaker 1>really piste off because she because he's still wants her.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like, who the hell knows. Yeah, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a really weird feeling. Nothing is like being in the

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<v Speaker 1>room with another dude that slept with your girl. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not it's not great. Yeah, and especially first, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what quite the feeling is. If I think about it,

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<v Speaker 1>if I investigate, I don't quite know what's wrong. It's

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<v Speaker 1>because it just credits I think what exactly it is

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<v Speaker 1>that you have, Like you want to think that you

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<v Speaker 1>have something very valuable. Another person walks bhind and goes,

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<v Speaker 1>I had that not through with the trash. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>that valuable, bro, It's deflating because the only way that

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<v Speaker 1>you can have been ridiculous because in the sense that

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<v Speaker 1>like we have her, it's gonna be corny, Oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>like you have her love right? You you she's fucking

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<v Speaker 1>with you, right, he might have slept with her, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't feel the same way if if I

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<v Speaker 1>have a car, like right, if I my Malibu wagon,

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<v Speaker 1>whoever had it before? If he see me with it

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<v Speaker 1>and it's all fixed up, clean and last thing and

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<v Speaker 1>now it ain't got the six center that was in it,

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<v Speaker 1>good pain on it now, good interior is nice. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't feel the same when he's in the room with

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<v Speaker 1>my car, and I don't want to compare it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it can't be comparable because I don't feel like that.

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<v Speaker 1>If I mean, it can be comfortable, like if your

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<v Speaker 1>girl was like I don't know, who's a girl that

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<v Speaker 1>really upgraded herself visually, Like that's a public figure um

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<v Speaker 1>of note. I don't know, but like Susie Q look

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like mediocre or whatever. In two thousand and eighteen,

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<v Speaker 1>then all of a sudden she's she's in the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>she's eating right, she's got to do job, she's dressed great,

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<v Speaker 1>everything's to the nines. And now you were there. Now

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, yeah, I had her. But then there's

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<v Speaker 1>also like, but I couldn't get her again, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so that sort of changes things like buying a used card.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, I don't think if I made a girl

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<v Speaker 1>and I knocked her down and I had my way

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<v Speaker 1>with her, and then she lost forty pounds and she

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<v Speaker 1>looks better, I'd be thinking to myself like, oh I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't get her again, I would still look like I

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<v Speaker 1>had her. Yeah, Like you might want to think to myself,

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<v Speaker 1>what really bothers me? If I'm in the room with

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<v Speaker 1>the guy who had the woman that I'm with, it

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<v Speaker 1>might have some degree be doubt and knowing could he won't, won't.

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<v Speaker 1>Once he's been there, it's easy to be there again,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I don't think that's true though, I mean, well,

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<v Speaker 1>not with me. I don't know if I'm insecure thinking like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we can have her again. I mean, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm thinking. I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, do

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<v Speaker 1>I really feel that way? I don't. I think the

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<v Speaker 1>public perception that creates this like climate of the way

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<v Speaker 1>it's viewed is like a cocktail of all these things.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, well, that guy might have had her and

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<v Speaker 1>not wanted her, and then I she stumbled down onto me,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe she still looks over at you know whatever

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<v Speaker 1>kind of winks or something or whatever. It could be

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<v Speaker 1>any of a so you think rudy and insecurity potentially,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's I think it's rooted more so in

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<v Speaker 1>the I got the backdrop for it. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>might be foundational to what it really has to do

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<v Speaker 1>more with like that innate competitive nature among men, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and that you part of why you want a super

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<v Speaker 1>good looking woman and dressed up take a round, because hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I got the best woman in the building, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that people feel like that though of course they're

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<v Speaker 1>called there's a term trophy wife. It's not something that

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<v Speaker 1>you have the trophy it so people see the trophy

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<v Speaker 1>that you have, But do they really feel like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've ever thought of it like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I never thought a girl I was dealing with was

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<v Speaker 1>the best woman anywhere or whatever, or just like a

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<v Speaker 1>better reflection of you or not you know better than

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<v Speaker 1>the other one. But it's certainly like societally, that certainly exists.

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<v Speaker 1>I would be pretty shallow to think that that's I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I ever felt that well. I never think

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<v Speaker 1>I ever thought like, like you know, you you always

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<v Speaker 1>heard that thing with women say I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>I want him to make me feel like I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>only woman in the world. Like that just don't make

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<v Speaker 1>sense to me. But that don't I never see why

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<v Speaker 1>would you want to feel like a lie? Like women?

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<v Speaker 1>What if I made her feel like she was my

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<v Speaker 1>woman and she was the best thing in my life?

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<v Speaker 1>That makes sense. What don't make sense is having a

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<v Speaker 1>woman that you think is the finest woman in the

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<v Speaker 1>world when literally there's no such thing. Like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think there's a woman I could get and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that she would be the finest woman in the world,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't even know who the finest woman in

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<v Speaker 1>the world is. I don't think that's a realistic, very subjective,

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<v Speaker 1>very subjective. Uh yeah, I mean, like to me personally,

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<v Speaker 1>I just need you to look good enough for me

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<v Speaker 1>to not want to cheat on you when you aren't there.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if that's possible. Yeah, yeah, because

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<v Speaker 1>once you sleep with a woman, bro like how she looked,

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<v Speaker 1>changes was special about the way she looked. The more

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<v Speaker 1>you sleep with her, that goes out the door. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But like my personal calculus is, like, if I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>cheat with this chicken with that one, I gotta risk

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<v Speaker 1>the potential that I'm that's gonna blow up my face.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna lose the first one, so I have to

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<v Speaker 1>be prepared to get stuck with the second one if

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I want. If I'm a relationship type of guy,

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<v Speaker 1>I should your relationship type of guy, but a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>type of guy to the less. But even then, is

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<v Speaker 1>it really? Is that really something you think most guys

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<v Speaker 1>worried about? Is the way the one looks? Statistically? Probably not,

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<v Speaker 1>because evidence would suggest otherwise. Yeah, Yeah, I just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, Like I don't think. I think when you

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, when you don't cheat, the

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<v Speaker 1>motivation is not the cheat is, yes, you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to lose something, But I don't know. That would be

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<v Speaker 1>pretty crappy for God to be worried about how a

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<v Speaker 1>bitch look and that's why you're worried about losing her, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like you would have to really be a slave to

0:20:21.160 --> 0:20:25.159
<v Speaker 1>some like lane, Ship. But one thing I have realized

0:20:25.280 --> 0:20:32.359
<v Speaker 1>is guys. Guys are the the cheapest standard in beauty.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you can do anything for a guy, and a guy,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a guy sees beauty a lot easier than

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<v Speaker 1>a woman does, right, but let me see it a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more mechanically, like where it's like how long your

0:20:47.720 --> 0:20:53.520
<v Speaker 1>eyelashes are? Silly? Ship? But I was just thinking about that,

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<v Speaker 1>why do we like what's really the issue? And body counts?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was thinking about that ever since I saw

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<v Speaker 1>that post, Like, well, you know, I obviously know it's

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<v Speaker 1>not you know what it is. It's the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you think she doesn't have morals and she will cheat

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<v Speaker 1>if that's also a factor, that's what I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I would think if she's so loose. But

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<v Speaker 1>I also think, the same motherfucker you are single is

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<v Speaker 1>the same motherfucker you are in a relationship, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? I don't, I don't. I always tell

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<v Speaker 1>my home girls it's like, if you gotta nig of that,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you gotta men that like sleeping with women,

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<v Speaker 1>that's his thing, that's what he likes. He doesn't like

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<v Speaker 1>because he single. What about what like the really impassioned

0:21:46.600 --> 0:21:50.240
<v Speaker 1>woman who's all head over heels in love with the

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<v Speaker 1>guy and the guy cheats on her, leaves her for

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<v Speaker 1>another girl or whatever the hell, and she goes through

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<v Speaker 1>a slutout phase and then finds another guy a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of years later than she just loves to her dying

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<v Speaker 1>day because she's just a passion individual and that's just

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<v Speaker 1>how she coped with being that heartbroke. And it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a hardcore slut out because that happens all the

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<v Speaker 1>time dealing with other people. Yeah, it's like drinking alcohol

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<v Speaker 1>or doing drugs. It gives you a temporary relief of

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<v Speaker 1>the thought of that person, but then once it's over,

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<v Speaker 1>feel me, you'll be thinking about that person. So then

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<v Speaker 1>it becomes a drug, like a high. You just changing

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<v Speaker 1>it over and over again. I do think that happens

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. Um. I could name some names, Okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>is it wrong for me to think that? Am I

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<v Speaker 1>wrong by thinking that? Like if a girl was super

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<v Speaker 1>duper loose as a single woman, that she probably likes

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<v Speaker 1>sex too much or she likes men's company too much,

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<v Speaker 1>either which way? Um, the one usually manifest. The latter

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<v Speaker 1>manifests often into the former. But I think the idea

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<v Speaker 1>of being wrong by assessing past behavioral patterns to predict

0:23:10.400 --> 0:23:14.960
<v Speaker 1>future behavioral patterns, it's tough to sell that as being wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's foundational for so many things. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>background checks and credit checks are based purely on that,

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<v Speaker 1>which we could have some sort of Pico index for

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<v Speaker 1>these women. Wouldn't be probably terrible scoreful little vagina. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like equipus, I call it right. I called it like

0:23:40.880 --> 0:23:43.960
<v Speaker 1>when they were the cars, they called it the car facts. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>cat facts can't fact. Would be great. I wouldn't mind

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<v Speaker 1>a yelped page. We could get at least some reviews

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<v Speaker 1>on quality, a yell pay for the pusson. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a great idea. I saw this man, you should start that.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw this thing on next mostated man on Internet.

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<v Speaker 1>For sure, you'd be the most hated man on the Internet.

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<v Speaker 1>And we had a yell page for vagina for women.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you imagine what that would do to the pussy market.

0:24:11.720 --> 0:24:13.879
<v Speaker 1>Like we talked about pussy inflation before, imagine if your

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<v Speaker 1>pussy goes down from four point one to three point six,

0:24:17.480 --> 0:24:19.840
<v Speaker 1>you'd have to funk your way back into the forest.

0:24:21.560 --> 0:24:24.080
<v Speaker 1>But it could be some and you'd have to do

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<v Speaker 1>so with a very serious intent to throw it back

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<v Speaker 1>like you. That could be all right, but they could

0:24:31.280 --> 0:24:35.200
<v Speaker 1>also include what she cooks? Well, does she clean up? Well,

0:24:35.560 --> 0:24:38.119
<v Speaker 1>that's in a different app, my friend. No, that should

0:24:38.119 --> 0:24:44.679
<v Speaker 1>be on the same yo, because then the quality of

0:24:44.760 --> 0:24:49.480
<v Speaker 1>customer can change. The quality of customer can Like let's say,

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<v Speaker 1>if you you're like the head is bad, right, which

0:24:52.520 --> 0:24:56.359
<v Speaker 1>takes points down, but then he Lacaronian cheese is fire

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<v Speaker 1>like I still would like because I'm not super big

0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:04.080
<v Speaker 1>fan of head, like, that's not as important, but I

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy macaroni and cheese. I feel with I still could

0:25:08.119 --> 0:25:12.000
<v Speaker 1>see myself patronizing their business. So in a straight up

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<v Speaker 1>trade cheese for head. Yeah, okay, at least it's the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of my life macaroni and cheese and head macaroni

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<v Speaker 1>and cheese, okay and hands down cool? Cool? That's yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that wouldn't be a bad Yeah, I'm not mad

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<v Speaker 1>at that. Like, have you had really great macaroni and

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<v Speaker 1>cheese with brown the top? The cheese and brown that

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<v Speaker 1>I live without? That you know where the best macaroni

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<v Speaker 1>and cheese I've ever had in my life. Was there

0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 1>was a Trinity restaurant in Long Beach that was owned

0:25:46.640 --> 0:25:51.240
<v Speaker 1>by a family of like Indian people from Trinidad, and

0:25:51.240 --> 0:25:53.400
<v Speaker 1>they made the best mac and cheese I have ever had,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe it. And the poor place went out of business.

0:25:57.080 --> 0:26:00.000
<v Speaker 1>It was a shame. They made great food, macaroni and cheese.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fun. Um So, But am I being ridiculous? Like, sure,

0:26:11.520 --> 0:26:14.280
<v Speaker 1>I agree with you, right, Like that's how credit works

0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:16.480
<v Speaker 1>the same way. But am I being ridiculous as a

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<v Speaker 1>human being? I would say, no, you're not, because if

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna look at a woman who's like, doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>that just because she was what if the thought of

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:33.520
<v Speaker 1>she was single? And it was like, I hate the

0:26:33.520 --> 0:26:38.680
<v Speaker 1>thought of them saying I'm just having fun mhm right,

0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 1>Like fucking is fun. Fucking you know, forty niggas is fun.

0:26:42.720 --> 0:26:46.240
<v Speaker 1>Fucking forty men is fun, right, And it's fun. That's

0:26:46.280 --> 0:26:50.639
<v Speaker 1>just because cooking fun. Right, So I have forty I

0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:54.320
<v Speaker 1>have forty men. I'm I'm thirty seven years old. I

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:57.600
<v Speaker 1>have forty men on my account. I've been fucking since

0:26:57.640 --> 0:27:01.520
<v Speaker 1>I was seventeen. I'm thirty seven now, I have forty men,

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:04.720
<v Speaker 1>So over twenty years, I've had sex with it on

0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 1>average two many a year. Yeah, is it fair to say?

0:27:09.960 --> 0:27:13.040
<v Speaker 1>Should I really be judging that woman? Thinking to myself like,

0:27:13.880 --> 0:27:18.160
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, she really cannot be a righteous woman moving forward?

0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:27.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean the more ideal scenario would be, is there

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<v Speaker 1>a cheat index there of the forty or five of them,

0:27:31.600 --> 0:27:39.240
<v Speaker 1>you know, cheat on in a relationship? Whatever? Private? What

0:27:39.240 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 1>what if? What if she was she was in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship from high school the first with her boyfriend from

0:27:45.600 --> 0:27:49.359
<v Speaker 1>UM until she was in two and then they broke

0:27:49.480 --> 0:27:52.040
<v Speaker 1>up and a twenty three she had her wild summer.

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:56.399
<v Speaker 1>She slept with six guys, you know one year, you know,

0:27:56.480 --> 0:27:59.560
<v Speaker 1>she was just trying to be single, you know what

0:27:59.640 --> 0:28:01.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean. Then she went out and had sex with

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<v Speaker 1>six guys in that one year, and then after that

0:28:05.200 --> 0:28:08.520
<v Speaker 1>it was three guys the next year. Then I got

0:28:08.560 --> 0:28:10.760
<v Speaker 1>with the guy. We was together for years, so we

0:28:10.840 --> 0:28:14.320
<v Speaker 1>just slept together, and you know, that number became one

0:28:14.440 --> 0:28:19.040
<v Speaker 1>to three per year, which is probably the more I

0:28:19.080 --> 0:28:23.160
<v Speaker 1>think about it is actually unrealistic. It's like women body

0:28:23.200 --> 0:28:26.760
<v Speaker 1>count gotta be high because nigga, like, because men as

0:28:26.800 --> 0:28:29.800
<v Speaker 1>fucking men getting some pussy, like all my father pussy,

0:28:29.880 --> 0:28:35.160
<v Speaker 1>so somebody fuck it. I cracked into a phone one

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:40.760
<v Speaker 1>time the guy left in my possession, and I was like,

0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:46.520
<v Speaker 1>what's what's what's going on in the female lifestyle. It

0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:54.360
<v Speaker 1>was brutal. It's brutal. So I don't know. I think,

0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:56.520
<v Speaker 1>I think you'd have to have a little bit of

0:28:56.520 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 1>willful ignorance or some sort of delusional sense of arrogance

0:29:02.640 --> 0:29:05.880
<v Speaker 1>to think that, if that you're so special, you know

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:12.360
<v Speaker 1>what I mean? And I refused, Yeah, same, So unless

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:17.360
<v Speaker 1>you're there, there's there's a conflict, like it's it's you

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:24.720
<v Speaker 1>have that propensity or you don't. And if you don't,

0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 1>I mean other than like there's probably some realistic age arcs,

0:29:29.840 --> 0:29:34.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, like they say like men, for example, are

0:29:34.880 --> 0:29:39.840
<v Speaker 1>more impulsively violent until they're about like depending on the guy,

0:29:39.960 --> 0:29:43.080
<v Speaker 1>between thirty to thirty five. Then it tapers off radically

0:29:43.160 --> 0:29:46.960
<v Speaker 1>in in in occurrences. So I don't know if from

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:50.000
<v Speaker 1>a brain development, hormonal whatever the hell. There's ebbs and

0:29:50.080 --> 0:29:52.040
<v Speaker 1>flows in that with women where you can say, well, yeah,

0:29:52.080 --> 0:29:56.560
<v Speaker 1>she was Looney Tunes from twenty to twenty six, but

0:29:56.720 --> 0:30:01.640
<v Speaker 1>she's thirty five and her whole perspective on everything and

0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:05.880
<v Speaker 1>priorities are radically different. Okay, Now, if you're statistically that

0:30:05.920 --> 0:30:15.280
<v Speaker 1>holds water. Mm hmmm. So what's too many women for

0:30:15.360 --> 0:30:18.800
<v Speaker 1>a thirty five year old woman? Is there actually just

0:30:18.920 --> 0:30:23.960
<v Speaker 1>a number that context doesn't matter? What would be the

0:30:24.040 --> 0:30:36.640
<v Speaker 1>number that Kyle man? I think the reality is it's

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:41.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna be really hard for me to assume that a

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:48.000
<v Speaker 1>woman has been single all that time, you know. And

0:30:48.080 --> 0:30:51.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot of women like to do that cute thing

0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:54.120
<v Speaker 1>where they say, well, we're together, but we're not officially together,

0:30:54.160 --> 0:30:56.680
<v Speaker 1>so I'm gonna go get piped down here and they're

0:30:56.680 --> 0:30:59.120
<v Speaker 1>on a sneak like in their own heads. They love

0:30:59.200 --> 0:31:04.600
<v Speaker 1>that too, so to me, and to be honest, if

0:31:04.640 --> 0:31:09.760
<v Speaker 1>we're if we're like getting up into and beyond like

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:14.760
<v Speaker 1>the twenties, I'm gonna have some questions because I know

0:31:14.840 --> 0:31:16.720
<v Speaker 1>that you were in a relationship for probably most of

0:31:16.720 --> 0:31:19.600
<v Speaker 1>that time, because we're gonna just sitting stupid, deadened relationships

0:31:19.640 --> 0:31:22.719
<v Speaker 1>for long periods of time in general, you know. So

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:28.240
<v Speaker 1>it's like, well, when you're on the market, you're wild

0:31:28.920 --> 0:31:32.320
<v Speaker 1>or do you like to walk that line of officially

0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:34.320
<v Speaker 1>being on or off the market and try to play

0:31:34.360 --> 0:31:36.240
<v Speaker 1>with that to your advantage and I don't women like

0:31:36.280 --> 0:31:39.000
<v Speaker 1>to lie and play with reality to their advantage. So

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:45.080
<v Speaker 1>m hm, so twenty at thirty five is a bit

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:50.400
<v Speaker 1>too much over yeah, and it also kind of depends

0:31:50.440 --> 0:31:53.720
<v Speaker 1>on like Again, another thing is that that also does

0:31:53.760 --> 0:31:56.800
<v Speaker 1>depend on how local that is, because like, if you

0:31:56.800 --> 0:32:02.720
<v Speaker 1>your life's path, you moved to four cities whatever, typically

0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:07.080
<v Speaker 1>you life operates in a first choice, second choice, third choice,

0:32:07.120 --> 0:32:12.200
<v Speaker 1>fourth choice, you know, succession. So if you ran through

0:32:12.280 --> 0:32:15.840
<v Speaker 1>twenty people in your neighborhood, you're probably just waving and

0:32:15.880 --> 0:32:26.360
<v Speaker 1>anybody passing by. Okay, who that's in Hollywood, you know,

0:32:27.560 --> 0:32:31.880
<v Speaker 1>very conservative town. Thank you. I'm not going to ask

0:32:31.920 --> 0:32:36.800
<v Speaker 1>you this ship. No ask away in Hollywood. Who's had

0:32:36.920 --> 0:32:43.240
<v Speaker 1>too many? Oh you mean celebrities? Fun? I don't know,

0:32:43.520 --> 0:32:47.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't um. The issue is a lot of the

0:32:47.280 --> 0:32:51.560
<v Speaker 1>time with life celebrity women, it's like they'll have had

0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:55.400
<v Speaker 1>three four guys, but they're all really high profile, they're

0:32:55.440 --> 0:33:00.080
<v Speaker 1>all in very close proximity, and it does matter me.

0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:03.200
<v Speaker 1>I've got back for a girl, you like Pete, like

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:10.000
<v Speaker 1>she had twenty four guys mm hmm, but twelve of

0:33:10.040 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 1>the guys are NBA player or NFL players over twenty years.

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 1>I think that to me personally would matter less than

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 1>if I knew them personally from around. Like, because you

0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:31.920
<v Speaker 1>you're an athlete, you know, you ran track to some

0:33:32.440 --> 0:33:35.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, high level, so you fit her type of

0:33:35.680 --> 0:33:40.520
<v Speaker 1>being an athlete. But you know, she she dated Katie,

0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:48.280
<v Speaker 1>she slept with uh Dame Lillard before, she slept with

0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:54.000
<v Speaker 1>Bradley Bill before. But it's over twenty years. Here's one

0:33:54.160 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 1>that's a little bit different. For Like, I'm not gonna

0:33:56.160 --> 0:33:58.719
<v Speaker 1>care so much about that because I think it more

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>of it matters too, because those people I don't know,

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna bump into, you know. I think where

0:34:04.040 --> 0:34:07.360
<v Speaker 1>it matters with celebrities is like and again, like I

0:34:07.400 --> 0:34:10.919
<v Speaker 1>don't keep tracking celebrity gossips, so I'm using some names

0:34:10.960 --> 0:34:15.000
<v Speaker 1>pretty haphazardly here, But like I know, like Rihanna has

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:19.320
<v Speaker 1>been with numerous high profile people in the same industry,

0:34:19.400 --> 0:34:22.759
<v Speaker 1>same niche of the same industry. So that circle, now

0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:26.600
<v Speaker 1>you're painting yourself into a corner in the room. You know. Yeah,

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:30.680
<v Speaker 1>that's fair. And I have known girls that been with

0:34:30.719 --> 0:34:34.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot of NBA players, and there's that's also a

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:39.520
<v Speaker 1>close fraternity, So there becomes some issues there for a

0:34:39.560 --> 0:34:41.879
<v Speaker 1>guy if you're the fifth NBA player that supposed been

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:45.120
<v Speaker 1>with for the NBA guy that tried to be in

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:48.359
<v Speaker 1>the relationship with her, his his, his journey is gonna

0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:50.840
<v Speaker 1>be different than you, who's not gonna be in those

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:53.000
<v Speaker 1>circles per se. Yeah, I gotta see the guys all

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:59.640
<v Speaker 1>the goddamn time. So there is an issue with seeing

0:34:59.680 --> 0:35:02.200
<v Speaker 1>guys that slipped with the girl your dainty, yeah, and

0:35:02.280 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 1>just the communication network in general. Like I'd be willing

0:35:04.560 --> 0:35:09.400
<v Speaker 1>to bet like if you're some you know, money hungry, blonde,

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:12.840
<v Speaker 1>whatever the hell girl who likes to hang out at

0:35:12.880 --> 0:35:19.240
<v Speaker 1>the hottest happy hour near the giant Century City law firms.

0:35:19.239 --> 0:35:21.360
<v Speaker 1>Like if you're at what Xavier's over there all the

0:35:21.400 --> 0:35:24.000
<v Speaker 1>time trying to pick up attorneys from Century Park East,

0:35:25.000 --> 0:35:27.080
<v Speaker 1>we're just gonna get around and and and you could

0:35:27.080 --> 0:35:29.840
<v Speaker 1>be a big time monster litigator. But if you just

0:35:29.920 --> 0:35:32.800
<v Speaker 1>knocked down Kimberly, well, Kimberly just ran through shorts, shorts

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:35.759
<v Speaker 1>and shorts last summer, that's not a good look for

0:35:35.800 --> 0:35:37.799
<v Speaker 1>you because everyone's gonna be laughing at you behind your

0:35:37.800 --> 0:35:41.560
<v Speaker 1>back because you just party, huh at the Christmas party

0:35:41.800 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 1>exactly exactly, and all of that. There's gonna be eggnog

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:57.319
<v Speaker 1>all over your face, not eg Well, the expression is

0:35:57.320 --> 0:35:59.360
<v Speaker 1>egg on your face, so eggnogg on your face at

0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:01.239
<v Speaker 1>the Christmas party. We gotta do it. We gotta do

0:36:01.280 --> 0:36:07.640
<v Speaker 1>it with that. So I think that that kind of

0:36:07.640 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 1>a thing. What do you think about these situations where like,

0:36:11.719 --> 0:36:16.280
<v Speaker 1>um so, like g Herbo right is a rapper from Chicago,

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:19.920
<v Speaker 1>his baby moms you feel me or it was just

0:36:20.080 --> 0:36:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I think I think they have a child together. I'm

0:36:23.040 --> 0:36:25.279
<v Speaker 1>not sure if that's his child, and I can't say it,

0:36:25.320 --> 0:36:29.600
<v Speaker 1>but his girl right. It's always weird for me when

0:36:29.640 --> 0:36:32.200
<v Speaker 1>I see somebody like g Herbo's baby mom, who now

0:36:32.320 --> 0:36:34.880
<v Speaker 1>is kind of popular for she don't really have talent,

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:38.480
<v Speaker 1>but she's kind of popular. And next thing you know,

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:41.439
<v Speaker 1>the boxer Tank Davis is dating her and the only

0:36:41.480 --> 0:36:45.239
<v Speaker 1>reason she's famous or has any familiarity is because she

0:36:45.440 --> 0:36:49.759
<v Speaker 1>was g Herbo's girlfriend or his baby mom, and that's

0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:51.400
<v Speaker 1>why you know her. And then next thing you know,

0:36:51.480 --> 0:36:54.160
<v Speaker 1>Tank David's is dating her, and then next thing you know,

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:58.040
<v Speaker 1>money bag Yo is dating her. M hmm. What do

0:36:58.080 --> 0:37:05.600
<v Speaker 1>you think about guys who look at, you know, like,

0:37:06.120 --> 0:37:08.279
<v Speaker 1>out of all the women, they find the woman that

0:37:08.360 --> 0:37:10.359
<v Speaker 1>was the local woman in your town that was Yo, bro,

0:37:12.520 --> 0:37:15.120
<v Speaker 1>is that a weird thing? Like weird guys? Do you

0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:17.520
<v Speaker 1>think that's a guy? You put value on a woman

0:37:17.600 --> 0:37:20.399
<v Speaker 1>because of who she slept with, Like, I don't do that,

0:37:21.200 --> 0:37:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Like I think all women are the same unless the right. Yeah,

0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:30.560
<v Speaker 1>but I've never looked at a woman more valuable because

0:37:31.400 --> 0:37:36.560
<v Speaker 1>this guy slept with her. That's not a thing for me,

0:37:38.120 --> 0:37:40.120
<v Speaker 1>Like the the only way that that would even be

0:37:40.160 --> 0:37:44.279
<v Speaker 1>a thing because if I was, like, well, ship this

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:49.480
<v Speaker 1>last four boyfriends that this girl had all had twenty

0:37:49.560 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 1>five million dollars a pop. Now she's dating me. This

0:37:52.719 --> 0:37:58.880
<v Speaker 1>is on borrowed time. But like, other than that, I

0:37:58.920 --> 0:38:01.319
<v Speaker 1>don't personally here and I'm not out there trying to

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:03.319
<v Speaker 1>head hunt chicks to try to one up a guy,

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:07.279
<v Speaker 1>because I think, how are you even one up? And

0:38:07.360 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 1>the guy he already like ray J had a hit

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:14.680
<v Speaker 1>song suggesting the opposite. Yeah, Like, I don't think there's

0:38:14.719 --> 0:38:20.400
<v Speaker 1>any situation where I feel better because like automatically, it

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:23.920
<v Speaker 1>turns me off. That's my problem. If I know somebody

0:38:23.920 --> 0:38:28.960
<v Speaker 1>who slept with one major problem I have And this

0:38:29.040 --> 0:38:30.879
<v Speaker 1>might be a bit arrogant, I'm like, you gave him

0:38:30.920 --> 0:38:37.480
<v Speaker 1>some pussy like That's how I feel. I would feel like, damn,

0:38:37.920 --> 0:38:40.480
<v Speaker 1>like you gave him some pussy, like and I felt

0:38:40.520 --> 0:38:43.600
<v Speaker 1>like this over Brad too have slept with like they

0:38:43.680 --> 0:38:46.840
<v Speaker 1>might have slept with a famous person like mad Way

0:38:46.840 --> 0:38:49.080
<v Speaker 1>more famous than me, but he's a fucking clown. And

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:50.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you would get that clown as nigga some

0:38:50.800 --> 0:38:53.640
<v Speaker 1>pussy because he was famous, you feel me, or you

0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:57.440
<v Speaker 1>would get this suck ass nigga like I've never like.

0:38:57.520 --> 0:39:00.280
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I would feel better if Michelle Mama

0:39:00.320 --> 0:39:01.799
<v Speaker 1>gave me pussy. I wouldn't be like, oh you fun,

0:39:01.880 --> 0:39:03.640
<v Speaker 1>but I'm like, man, you're fucking nigga. I didn't even

0:39:03.640 --> 0:39:06.120
<v Speaker 1>know real nigga like that, Like I would feel like

0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:08.960
<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if it's me or if it's arrogance,

0:39:09.040 --> 0:39:11.560
<v Speaker 1>but I remember I was on a no Jumper and

0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:15.480
<v Speaker 1>I was talking and one of my homies like from

0:39:15.520 --> 0:39:20.200
<v Speaker 1>from from Us, from Uh from Parou from ray J Neighborhood,

0:39:20.239 --> 0:39:22.319
<v Speaker 1>got at me about something I said about ray J.

0:39:23.080 --> 0:39:25.240
<v Speaker 1>He was like, man, you try to play the hommie.

0:39:25.239 --> 0:39:27.919
<v Speaker 1>I'm like how he said, you know you was talking

0:39:27.920 --> 0:39:29.719
<v Speaker 1>about Kim kardash and he was like, if she'd give

0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:32.239
<v Speaker 1>ray J some pussy. You feel me that I could

0:39:32.280 --> 0:39:34.360
<v Speaker 1>suck her. And I remember telling that nigga, like, I

0:39:34.400 --> 0:39:36.239
<v Speaker 1>think what you're trying to say, because like I ain't

0:39:37.120 --> 0:39:39.120
<v Speaker 1>like I'm nigga, I'm for really need streets with this

0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:41.920
<v Speaker 1>ship nigga, Like I'm a real like I'm something like

0:39:42.000 --> 0:39:44.400
<v Speaker 1>Niota held my own at every level, you feel me,

0:39:44.440 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I'll survive this life. I've been a man like you

0:39:47.200 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 1>think I shouldn't feel like I'm like a cold and

0:39:50.760 --> 0:39:52.560
<v Speaker 1>nigga and ray J. Now I'm not saying I have

0:39:52.719 --> 0:39:55.320
<v Speaker 1>more j as a as a wealthy man, a really

0:39:55.360 --> 0:39:58.439
<v Speaker 1>intelligent man, a thousand things, but like we talk out

0:39:58.760 --> 0:40:02.480
<v Speaker 1>really being that nigga out in the life, mhm, like

0:40:02.600 --> 0:40:06.160
<v Speaker 1>being a nigga nuts on the table, like you don't

0:40:06.239 --> 0:40:09.000
<v Speaker 1>want to think of myself at a high level when

0:40:09.000 --> 0:40:12.839
<v Speaker 1>it comes to that, you feel me so And I

0:40:12.920 --> 0:40:14.840
<v Speaker 1>was explaining to him and by the end of the

0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:17.080
<v Speaker 1>conversation's like I feel you. I'll see what you're saying,

0:40:17.120 --> 0:40:19.239
<v Speaker 1>like and I had to listen to them. Is that

0:40:19.280 --> 0:40:21.960
<v Speaker 1>really playing ray J down? And it's like, no, I'm

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:26.279
<v Speaker 1>just counting myself where I'm specialist. I don't let the

0:40:26.320 --> 0:40:28.839
<v Speaker 1>world dictate why I'm spared. I don't let the world

0:40:28.840 --> 0:40:31.400
<v Speaker 1>tell me because I don't have more money than ray

0:40:31.480 --> 0:40:35.239
<v Speaker 1>J that I'm not as special or more special as

0:40:35.239 --> 0:40:39.000
<v Speaker 1>a motherfuckering nigga than ray J. That's not like a

0:40:39.080 --> 0:40:41.919
<v Speaker 1>solid nigga. I met him great dude, really could dude.

0:40:41.920 --> 0:40:44.600
<v Speaker 1>But I just thought to myself, like, nigga, I'm a man.

0:40:46.200 --> 0:40:51.759
<v Speaker 1>I exuberate masculinity more than ray J or or most

0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:56.520
<v Speaker 1>motherfuckering niggas. So I think that's attractive to women, you

0:40:56.520 --> 0:40:59.359
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So that's why I'm like, I'm

0:40:59.400 --> 0:41:03.520
<v Speaker 1>a nigga, I'm a masculine man. Fuck my my money.

0:41:03.600 --> 0:41:07.240
<v Speaker 1>They're like if if if if it's me and you somewhere,

0:41:07.800 --> 0:41:09.600
<v Speaker 1>if me and a girl somewhere and ray J and

0:41:09.640 --> 0:41:13.239
<v Speaker 1>this girl somewhere and some nigga start tripping fee me.

0:41:13.800 --> 0:41:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I like my chances better than ray like his chances.

0:41:18.480 --> 0:41:20.799
<v Speaker 1>I think that's fair, you know I'm saying here like so,

0:41:20.960 --> 0:41:24.839
<v Speaker 1>And I think that's where being in a relationship really

0:41:24.880 --> 0:41:27.760
<v Speaker 1>comes down to. Like I can provide enough. I couldn't

0:41:27.760 --> 0:41:30.359
<v Speaker 1>provide a life that's as great or as fabulous as

0:41:30.400 --> 0:41:33.480
<v Speaker 1>ray J. Ray J is a very successful person and

0:41:33.560 --> 0:41:38.200
<v Speaker 1>really talented and underratedly smart. What I'm saying, but ray

0:41:38.280 --> 0:41:39.680
<v Speaker 1>J could put you in the mansion. But if it's

0:41:39.680 --> 0:41:42.680
<v Speaker 1>four niggas coming right here to trip, you want to

0:41:42.680 --> 0:41:45.840
<v Speaker 1>be with me because these motherfucker's gonna go, these hands

0:41:45.840 --> 0:41:49.759
<v Speaker 1>gonna beet cracking, feel me, ain't gonna be nothing, but

0:41:50.040 --> 0:41:54.040
<v Speaker 1>on back up, let's do it for me. So I

0:41:54.080 --> 0:41:59.839
<v Speaker 1>think as a protector, I value myself. Yeah, and and

0:41:59.840 --> 0:42:03.399
<v Speaker 1>and that's like, and I could provide, like I can't

0:42:03.440 --> 0:42:06.400
<v Speaker 1>give you. I mean, I think ray J can give

0:42:06.400 --> 0:42:08.160
<v Speaker 1>you a ten bedroom house, but I mean I can

0:42:08.160 --> 0:42:11.480
<v Speaker 1>get you four or five bedrooms. Yeah, you know, I

0:42:11.760 --> 0:42:14.000
<v Speaker 1>can get you four or five bedrooms. I can get

0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:19.440
<v Speaker 1>you a if I've really tried, I can get you

0:42:19.520 --> 0:42:22.960
<v Speaker 1>a a little bit struck, you know what I mean.

0:42:25.440 --> 0:42:27.920
<v Speaker 1>I'll be mad as a motherucker, but I can get that.

0:42:28.320 --> 0:42:30.960
<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying, if we scale back and I put

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:33.200
<v Speaker 1>you in four bedrooms and get you that new kid,

0:42:33.520 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 1>that stinger or that K five, you feel me, then

0:42:37.360 --> 0:42:41.320
<v Speaker 1>your life is luxurious. There's no pressure. Every day is good. Mhm.

0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:44.959
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. So I was just thinking

0:42:45.000 --> 0:42:48.120
<v Speaker 1>about that body counts, Like why do I trip, and

0:42:48.120 --> 0:42:52.240
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a fear. It's a fear within about

0:42:52.840 --> 0:42:57.319
<v Speaker 1>what type of woman she is, you know, I'm saying

0:42:57.360 --> 0:43:01.200
<v Speaker 1>that's what my be. What would be fear and the

0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:05.319
<v Speaker 1>body count thought of a woman mine, It would be

0:43:05.680 --> 0:43:08.799
<v Speaker 1>purely I'm as sorry as it is gonna sound. I'm

0:43:08.800 --> 0:43:12.120
<v Speaker 1>not even gonna lie to you. It's just purely external perceptions,

0:43:12.200 --> 0:43:16.880
<v Speaker 1>purely external perception. So that's what it is, you know.

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:24.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't need eggnog on my face. Good

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<v Speaker 1>episode was recorded right here on the West coast of

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<v Speaker 1>the USA and produced by my homeboy A King, for

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<v Speaker 1>the Black Effect Podcast Network and not Heart Radio. Yeah