Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sillers Podcast with your host not funk that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses Malone. I was looking at this post on
Speaker 1: Instagram Pete, and it blew me away and it was
Speaker 1: they were talking about um they were it was okay,
Speaker 1: So the post itself was about a woman and they
Speaker 1: were saying that the woman specifically on the post, they
Speaker 1: were talking about her body count as a way. The
Speaker 1: discredited was as if her pussy would be worn based
Speaker 1: off how many dicks she took. I'm not so sure
Speaker 1: that's how it works. I'm one seventeenth sure that's not
Speaker 1: how it works, right, Yeah, because I have I have
Speaker 1: slept with true slut or two. Yeah, and some of
Speaker 1: the vagina was the greatest thing that has happened to
Speaker 1: my penis when it comes to actually just feel itself.
Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah. Why do you think guys think that?
Speaker 1: Like what is it about? Like it's metaphorical. Went into
Speaker 1: sex thinking to myself like, oh, she fucked a lot
Speaker 1: of people. I think that's what most guys think. They
Speaker 1: think like, oh, she slept with a lot of guys.
Speaker 1: The vagina is not gonna be good. I'm not sure
Speaker 1: that that's really what they think. I think it's more
Speaker 1: metaphorical too. Oh, this woman slept with a lot of guys,
Speaker 1: so the you know, social credit value of me having
Speaker 1: knocked it down as inverted. No, but they don't really
Speaker 1: think that that's what that's what that's what the better
Speaker 1: minds think. Most guys think the vagina changes. I think
Speaker 1: that there's to some extent there might be some minor
Speaker 1: elasticity issues there. But think about it this way, those
Speaker 1: same guys are taken down girls who've had two or
Speaker 1: three kids. That's a lot bigger than a male appendage. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but even then, I don't think it's true at all.
Speaker 1: I wonder how true is it, Like, I don't think
Speaker 1: it's true at all. It probably I'll say this much.
Speaker 1: I remember in college there were girls on my track
Speaker 1: team who would say, like over the course of like
Speaker 1: if they weren't getting knocked down for a while, like
Speaker 1: during training, that afterwards it would be super tight. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: That's true. So uh but also all parks girls were
Speaker 1: cause I knew him, and it probably wasn't gonna remain
Speaker 1: that way for very long. I'm just saying some of
Speaker 1: the craziest horns. I remember sleeping with a girl man
Speaker 1: that was like super out there, and I remember not
Speaker 1: trying to sleep with her. This girl they're doing porn.
Speaker 1: She was like a prostitute to some degree that she
Speaker 1: had to be. And like I did a lot of
Speaker 1: things to not sleep with this girl, Like I went
Speaker 1: out of my way to not sleep with her. She
Speaker 1: she was trying, Like I became her target, Like I
Speaker 1: knew god she slept with and I'm like, like, yo,
Speaker 1: like I'm not sleeping with you, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Like she was a beautiful girl, I mean, she attractive,
Speaker 1: had a couple of dollars whatever that means. But I
Speaker 1: was like, when I'm not sleeping with you, like you
Speaker 1: sleep with everybody, And she just wanted to give me
Speaker 1: some pussy so bad, and it just really was weird.
Speaker 1: So I pretty much steered clear away from the pussy
Speaker 1: for years, you know what I mean. I kept a
Speaker 1: cool relationship with her because I thought she was a
Speaker 1: really good friend. And the way she like we end
Speaker 1: up sleeping together, which was crazy, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It was almost unbelievable when I think about how it happened.
Speaker 1: It happened at a Kid's Pop Warner Football like a
Speaker 1: Snoop League football game. Snoop was actually at the fucking
Speaker 1: games and it happened in the parking lot. Oh, I
Speaker 1: thought it was gonna said it happened in the middle
Speaker 1: of the field like a halftime show. No, it happened
Speaker 1: because in the parking lot got you and um when
Speaker 1: I tell you that pussy was incredible, it was almost crazy,
Speaker 1: like you would think a motherfucker that then took that
Speaker 1: many dicks, it's no way. That's why I knew I
Speaker 1: would think the opposite that wasn't true. Why what do
Speaker 1: you think that a person with a broader spectrum and
Speaker 1: deeper volume of practice would be worse at something? I
Speaker 1: don't think I thought she would be worse. I actually
Speaker 1: believe so there's nothing she can do to to mask
Speaker 1: the damage done with all the skill repertoire. Well, I
Speaker 1: mean it's not the experience. I think the experience works
Speaker 1: out better for women. You know what I mean that
Speaker 1: the experience. But I thought the actual you know, immaturely
Speaker 1: thinking that it would be warned like time and that
Speaker 1: that's how I realized it wasn't Truebe think some of
Speaker 1: these other girls that ship not true. And then I
Speaker 1: slept with a girl that was a virgin that's happened
Speaker 1: to me twice, and it was like, don't get me wrong,
Speaker 1: the sex was great, but it was like you thought
Speaker 1: she'd been sucking all the time, got you? Yeah, So
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, because I thought that there
Speaker 1: was like some uh validation to the like Cagle exercise
Speaker 1: kind of theory, you know what I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: know to what extent that holds water? Mm hmm. So
Speaker 1: first off, no ceilings, Jail PB and Peter Bosh, are
Speaker 1: we going to change the name of the podcast for
Speaker 1: this particular episode from no ceilings to no walls to
Speaker 1: no feeling? Yeah? So what's your issue? Does body account
Speaker 1: really matter? What's your issue with body count? So if
Speaker 1: it's not, if it's not a physical thing, what's your
Speaker 1: issue with how many women? I mean how many men
Speaker 1: a woman that slept with? It's it matters reputationally speaking,
Speaker 1: and that's our reputation or your reputation both because her
Speaker 1: reputation then it's tied to your. It depends on what
Speaker 1: you what the end game is, whether you know, if
Speaker 1: it's just like, well I've got some time, it's only
Speaker 1: two o'clock, then it doesn't matter all that much. If
Speaker 1: it's like trying to be seen around with this woman,
Speaker 1: then that's when it starts to matter a little bit more.
Speaker 1: You know what's funny culturally speaking? You know, I have
Speaker 1: been saying prejudicially, I've been very prejudiced when I said
Speaker 1: this that it's almost like white people, coach really just
Speaker 1: don't care about that, right, because you would take something
Speaker 1: that is the farthest thing. I would say the absolute
Speaker 1: complete opposite. What's funny is though, because when I think
Speaker 1: of people like right, um the harmy that run, no jumper,
Speaker 1: real good dude, Adam, Right, Adam sided, but Adam like
Speaker 1: he's dating like a porn star, Like I think they're
Speaker 1: ever read this something? And I'm like, he don't even care.
Speaker 1: He's one of those alternatively white people though, Like here
Speaker 1: Rebel and Ship so white culturally, it does matter. If
Speaker 1: you brought home afore and start, your dad would look
Speaker 1: at you grazy. The list of things that my family
Speaker 1: and like my old circle of friends and all that
Speaker 1: ship would would be like the cringeworthy things is significant
Speaker 1: and it's unforgiving. Mm hmmm. And that was true all
Speaker 1: the way back through high school, through whatever. We're just
Speaker 1: like brought up kind of that way. Yeah, m hm.
Speaker 1: You know what I realized too. I was watching Forest
Speaker 1: Gump the other day and Forests slept with Jenny when
Speaker 1: Jenny had HIV. That's correct. I'm not sure Forest knew
Speaker 1: how to spell HIV, but it was unfair. It was
Speaker 1: fair for him a little bit. So his first pussy
Speaker 1: was HIV pussy. Yeah, that's rough. It's probably a whore. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the filthiest back to the point. Um, I just thought
Speaker 1: about that. Um, that's an interesting one because I didn't
Speaker 1: know where you. I was like, boy to tie Forest
Speaker 1: com through this conversation. This has to be really creative.
Speaker 1: But I forgot about that part of the movie. No,
Speaker 1: I had COVID. I had COVID, and so I was
Speaker 1: just watching movies and reading books, and I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: this is Jenny was a real dirt bag. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: her pussy was actually more like Forest than Forest because
Speaker 1: it just kept running as it is. I had to
Speaker 1: do it. I couldn't avoid it. Do you think body
Speaker 1: counts shouldn't matter? Like our is God, our guys being
Speaker 1: ridiculous at this point, Like like is it really ridiculous
Speaker 1: this to care? Is that really an estimation of character?
Speaker 1: Because I think that's where we both I think we
Speaker 1: both agree at the point of what we we both
Speaker 1: know physically, how many penises she had probably doesn't really affect,
Speaker 1: you know, the actual greatest feeling of the vagina. And
Speaker 1: so if it's not a physical thing, are we being
Speaker 1: a bit ridiculous? I mean thinking outside of the normal
Speaker 1: thinking of how we judged. Like I think my fear
Speaker 1: is the soul of her, Like her soul is being
Speaker 1: compromised over and over again. That could possibly be true
Speaker 1: in a vacuum. There's an argument that com be made
Speaker 1: that like the locality of the bodies matter, you know,
Speaker 1: like if you like it, Like I'm in Miami, right,
Speaker 1: I could go start dating some check from the Dominican
Speaker 1: Republic who ran through two in the d R. I'm
Speaker 1: never gonna see those people. But the skill set, you know,
Speaker 1: came through customs, so I'm kind of winning. True. So
Speaker 1: there's that. So is it? So let's say if she
Speaker 1: was a whore in Puerto Rico, yeah, and you know
Speaker 1: nothing about that or you've heard about it, but she's
Speaker 1: not a whore in America or in Florida. That's yeah,
Speaker 1: I think to a degree, that's a different conversation. It's
Speaker 1: kind of like if if if a pussy drops in
Speaker 1: the forest and nobody is there to hear, it doesn't
Speaker 1: really make a sound like a little like confucious ask
Speaker 1: type of take on the matter. What's the fear? What's
Speaker 1: the fear of the high body counts? Like, let's be honest, like,
Speaker 1: what's the fear fear? I don't know. I mean if
Speaker 1: we're just talking to fear, I mean like, yeah, if
Speaker 1: you my minus you, you could take the pussy getting
Speaker 1: checked out graded grating. I think it's purely reputational. I
Speaker 1: think there there is a certain capital on getting on exclusivity.
Speaker 1: It's it's it's almost sort of like a supply and
Speaker 1: demand perception even though it's past supply. Sort of strange
Speaker 1: in that regard, But also like practically speaking, do you
Speaker 1: want to be like you ever saw that movie Best
Speaker 1: In Show, the comedy about the Dog Show. No, I
Speaker 1: never saw it. It's it's a very very funny, like
Speaker 1: it's an excruciatingly white comedy, but it is very funny,
Speaker 1: and they're making fun of like weird people who are
Speaker 1: like weird white dog people, and one of one of
Speaker 1: them features like a wife who's like a burnt out
Speaker 1: slut and her nerdy husband, And everywhere they go her
Speaker 1: name is Cookie. They go to the store of the cashier,
Speaker 1: Oh Cookie, Yeah, hey, what's up? Remember that time we
Speaker 1: got busy at the fair on the ferris wheel. And
Speaker 1: then they go somewhere else the electrician. Oh oh hey, Cookie,
Speaker 1: Hey remember that time back behind the math building at
Speaker 1: the high school. Like it's everywhere that they go, And
Speaker 1: that's not probably the greatest. Like you could also have
Speaker 1: a mathematical likelihood that you're gonna bump into somebody that's
Speaker 1: really piste off because she because he's still wants her.
Speaker 1: I mean, like, who the hell knows. Yeah, that is
Speaker 1: a really weird feeling. Nothing is like being in the
Speaker 1: room with another dude that slept with your girl. It's
Speaker 1: not it's not great. Yeah, and especially first, I don't
Speaker 1: know what quite the feeling is. If I think about it,
Speaker 1: if I investigate, I don't quite know what's wrong. It's
Speaker 1: because it just credits I think what exactly it is
Speaker 1: that you have, Like you want to think that you
Speaker 1: have something very valuable. Another person walks bhind and goes,
Speaker 1: I had that not through with the trash. It's not
Speaker 1: that valuable, bro, It's deflating because the only way that
Speaker 1: you can have been ridiculous because in the sense that
Speaker 1: like we have her, it's gonna be corny, Oh God,
Speaker 1: like you have her love right? You you she's fucking
Speaker 1: with you, right, he might have slept with her, right,
Speaker 1: because I don't feel the same way if if I
Speaker 1: have a car, like right, if I my Malibu wagon,
Speaker 1: whoever had it before? If he see me with it
Speaker 1: and it's all fixed up, clean and last thing and
Speaker 1: now it ain't got the six center that was in it,
Speaker 1: good pain on it now, good interior is nice. I
Speaker 1: don't feel the same when he's in the room with
Speaker 1: my car, and I don't want to compare it. Well,
Speaker 1: it can't be comparable because I don't feel like that.
Speaker 1: If I mean, it can be comfortable, like if your
Speaker 1: girl was like I don't know, who's a girl that
Speaker 1: really upgraded herself visually, Like that's a public figure um
Speaker 1: of note. I don't know, but like Susie Q look
Speaker 1: kind of like mediocre or whatever. In two thousand and eighteen,
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden she's she's in the gym,
Speaker 1: she's eating right, she's got to do job, she's dressed great,
Speaker 1: everything's to the nines. And now you were there. Now
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, yeah, I had her. But then there's
Speaker 1: also like, but I couldn't get her again, you know,
Speaker 1: so that sort of changes things like buying a used card.
Speaker 1: But like, I don't think if I made a girl
Speaker 1: and I knocked her down and I had my way
Speaker 1: with her, and then she lost forty pounds and she
Speaker 1: looks better, I'd be thinking to myself like, oh I
Speaker 1: couldn't get her again, I would still look like I
Speaker 1: had her. Yeah, Like you might want to think to myself,
Speaker 1: what really bothers me? If I'm in the room with
Speaker 1: the guy who had the woman that I'm with, it
Speaker 1: might have some degree be doubt and knowing could he won't, won't.
Speaker 1: Once he's been there, it's easy to be there again,
Speaker 1: you know. I don't think that's true though, I mean, well,
Speaker 1: not with me. I don't know if I'm insecure thinking like, oh,
Speaker 1: we can have her again. I mean, I don't think
Speaker 1: so I'm thinking. I'm thinking, I'm thinking, I'm thinking, do
Speaker 1: I really feel that way? I don't. I think the
Speaker 1: public perception that creates this like climate of the way
Speaker 1: it's viewed is like a cocktail of all these things.
Speaker 1: It's like, well, that guy might have had her and
Speaker 1: not wanted her, and then I she stumbled down onto me,
Speaker 1: or maybe she still looks over at you know whatever
Speaker 1: kind of winks or something or whatever. It could be
Speaker 1: any of a so you think rudy and insecurity potentially,
Speaker 1: I think it's I think it's rooted more so in
Speaker 1: the I got the backdrop for it. I think that
Speaker 1: might be foundational to what it really has to do
Speaker 1: more with like that innate competitive nature among men, you know,
Speaker 1: and that you part of why you want a super
Speaker 1: good looking woman and dressed up take a round, because hey,
Speaker 1: I got the best woman in the building, you know.
Speaker 1: Like that people feel like that though of course they're
Speaker 1: called there's a term trophy wife. It's not something that
Speaker 1: you have the trophy it so people see the trophy
Speaker 1: that you have, But do they really feel like that.
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever thought of it like that.
Speaker 1: I never thought a girl I was dealing with was
Speaker 1: the best woman anywhere or whatever, or just like a
Speaker 1: better reflection of you or not you know better than
Speaker 1: the other one. But it's certainly like societally, that certainly exists.
Speaker 1: I would be pretty shallow to think that that's I
Speaker 1: don't think I ever felt that well. I never think
Speaker 1: I ever thought like, like you know, you you always
Speaker 1: heard that thing with women say I want to be
Speaker 1: I want him to make me feel like I'm the
Speaker 1: only woman in the world. Like that just don't make
Speaker 1: sense to me. But that don't I never see why
Speaker 1: would you want to feel like a lie? Like women?
Speaker 1: What if I made her feel like she was my
Speaker 1: woman and she was the best thing in my life?
Speaker 1: That makes sense. What don't make sense is having a
Speaker 1: woman that you think is the finest woman in the
Speaker 1: world when literally there's no such thing. Like I don't
Speaker 1: think there's a woman I could get and I don't
Speaker 1: think that she would be the finest woman in the world,
Speaker 1: Like I don't even know who the finest woman in
Speaker 1: the world is. I don't think that's a realistic, very subjective,
Speaker 1: very subjective. Uh yeah, I mean, like to me personally,
Speaker 1: I just need you to look good enough for me
Speaker 1: to not want to cheat on you when you aren't there.
Speaker 1: I don't even know if that's possible. Yeah, yeah, because
Speaker 1: once you sleep with a woman, bro like how she looked,
Speaker 1: changes was special about the way she looked. The more
Speaker 1: you sleep with her, that goes out the door. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But like my personal calculus is, like, if I'm gonna
Speaker 1: cheat with this chicken with that one, I gotta risk
Speaker 1: the potential that I'm that's gonna blow up my face.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose the first one, so I have to
Speaker 1: be prepared to get stuck with the second one if
Speaker 1: that's what I want. If I'm a relationship type of guy,
Speaker 1: I should your relationship type of guy, but a relationship
Speaker 1: type of guy to the less. But even then, is
Speaker 1: it really? Is that really something you think most guys
Speaker 1: worried about? Is the way the one looks? Statistically? Probably not,
Speaker 1: because evidence would suggest otherwise. Yeah, Yeah, I just I
Speaker 1: don't know, Like I don't think. I think when you
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, when you don't cheat, the
Speaker 1: motivation is not the cheat is, yes, you don't want
Speaker 1: to lose something, But I don't know. That would be
Speaker 1: pretty crappy for God to be worried about how a
Speaker 1: bitch look and that's why you're worried about losing her, Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you would have to really be a slave to
Speaker 1: some like lane, Ship. But one thing I have realized
Speaker 1: is guys. Guys are the the cheapest standard in beauty.
Speaker 1: Like you can do anything for a guy, and a guy,
Speaker 1: you know, a guy sees beauty a lot easier than
Speaker 1: a woman does, right, but let me see it a
Speaker 1: lot more mechanically, like where it's like how long your
Speaker 1: eyelashes are? Silly? Ship? But I was just thinking about that,
Speaker 1: why do we like what's really the issue? And body counts?
Speaker 1: And I was thinking about that ever since I saw
Speaker 1: that post, Like, well, you know, I obviously know it's
Speaker 1: not you know what it is. It's the fact that
Speaker 1: you think she doesn't have morals and she will cheat
Speaker 1: if that's also a factor, that's what I think that
Speaker 1: that's what I would think if she's so loose. But
Speaker 1: I also think, the same motherfucker you are single is
Speaker 1: the same motherfucker you are in a relationship, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? I don't, I don't. I always tell
Speaker 1: my home girls it's like, if you gotta nig of that,
Speaker 1: like if you gotta men that like sleeping with women,
Speaker 1: that's his thing, that's what he likes. He doesn't like
Speaker 1: because he single. What about what like the really impassioned
Speaker 1: woman who's all head over heels in love with the
Speaker 1: guy and the guy cheats on her, leaves her for
Speaker 1: another girl or whatever the hell, and she goes through
Speaker 1: a slutout phase and then finds another guy a couple
Speaker 1: of years later than she just loves to her dying
Speaker 1: day because she's just a passion individual and that's just
Speaker 1: how she coped with being that heartbroke. And it's just
Speaker 1: like a hardcore slut out because that happens all the
Speaker 1: time dealing with other people. Yeah, it's like drinking alcohol
Speaker 1: or doing drugs. It gives you a temporary relief of
Speaker 1: the thought of that person, but then once it's over,
Speaker 1: feel me, you'll be thinking about that person. So then
Speaker 1: it becomes a drug, like a high. You just changing
Speaker 1: it over and over again. I do think that happens
Speaker 1: a lot. Um. I could name some names, Okay, but
Speaker 1: is it wrong for me to think that? Am I
Speaker 1: wrong by thinking that? Like if a girl was super
Speaker 1: duper loose as a single woman, that she probably likes
Speaker 1: sex too much or she likes men's company too much,
Speaker 1: either which way? Um, the one usually manifest. The latter
Speaker 1: manifests often into the former. But I think the idea
Speaker 1: of being wrong by assessing past behavioral patterns to predict
Speaker 1: future behavioral patterns, it's tough to sell that as being wrong.
Speaker 1: You know, it's foundational for so many things. I mean,
Speaker 1: background checks and credit checks are based purely on that,
Speaker 1: which we could have some sort of Pico index for
Speaker 1: these women. Wouldn't be probably terrible scoreful little vagina. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like equipus, I call it right. I called it like
Speaker 1: when they were the cars, they called it the car facts. Yeah,
Speaker 1: cat facts can't fact. Would be great. I wouldn't mind
Speaker 1: a yelped page. We could get at least some reviews
Speaker 1: on quality, a yell pay for the pusson. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a great idea. I saw this man, you should start that.
Speaker 1: I saw this thing on next mostated man on Internet.
Speaker 1: For sure, you'd be the most hated man on the Internet.
Speaker 1: And we had a yell page for vagina for women.
Speaker 1: Could you imagine what that would do to the pussy market.
Speaker 1: Like we talked about pussy inflation before, imagine if your
Speaker 1: pussy goes down from four point one to three point six,
Speaker 1: you'd have to funk your way back into the forest.
Speaker 1: But it could be some and you'd have to do
Speaker 1: so with a very serious intent to throw it back
Speaker 1: like you. That could be all right, but they could
Speaker 1: also include what she cooks? Well, does she clean up? Well,
Speaker 1: that's in a different app, my friend. No, that should
Speaker 1: be on the same yo, because then the quality of
Speaker 1: customer can change. The quality of customer can Like let's say,
Speaker 1: if you you're like the head is bad, right, which
Speaker 1: takes points down, but then he Lacaronian cheese is fire
Speaker 1: like I still would like because I'm not super big
Speaker 1: fan of head, like, that's not as important, but I
Speaker 1: enjoy macaroni and cheese. I feel with I still could
Speaker 1: see myself patronizing their business. So in a straight up
Speaker 1: trade cheese for head. Yeah, okay, at least it's the
Speaker 1: rest of my life macaroni and cheese and head macaroni
Speaker 1: and cheese, okay and hands down cool? Cool? That's yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that wouldn't be a bad Yeah, I'm not mad
Speaker 1: at that. Like, have you had really great macaroni and
Speaker 1: cheese with brown the top? The cheese and brown that
Speaker 1: I live without? That you know where the best macaroni
Speaker 1: and cheese I've ever had in my life. Was there
Speaker 1: was a Trinity restaurant in Long Beach that was owned
Speaker 1: by a family of like Indian people from Trinidad, and
Speaker 1: they made the best mac and cheese I have ever had,
Speaker 1: I believe it. And the poor place went out of business.
Speaker 1: It was a shame. They made great food, macaroni and cheese.
Speaker 1: That's fun. Um So, But am I being ridiculous? Like, sure,
Speaker 1: I agree with you, right, Like that's how credit works
Speaker 1: the same way. But am I being ridiculous as a
Speaker 1: human being? I would say, no, you're not, because if
Speaker 1: you're gonna look at a woman who's like, doesn't mean
Speaker 1: that just because she was what if the thought of
Speaker 1: she was single? And it was like, I hate the
Speaker 1: thought of them saying I'm just having fun mhm right,
Speaker 1: Like fucking is fun. Fucking you know, forty niggas is fun.
Speaker 1: Fucking forty men is fun, right, And it's fun. That's
Speaker 1: just because cooking fun. Right, So I have forty I
Speaker 1: have forty men. I'm I'm thirty seven years old. I
Speaker 1: have forty men on my account. I've been fucking since
Speaker 1: I was seventeen. I'm thirty seven now, I have forty men,
Speaker 1: So over twenty years, I've had sex with it on
Speaker 1: average two many a year. Yeah, is it fair to say?
Speaker 1: Should I really be judging that woman? Thinking to myself like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, she really cannot be a righteous woman moving forward?
Speaker 1: I mean the more ideal scenario would be, is there
Speaker 1: a cheat index there of the forty or five of them,
Speaker 1: you know, cheat on in a relationship? Whatever? Private? What
Speaker 1: what if? What if she was she was in a
Speaker 1: relationship from high school the first with her boyfriend from
Speaker 1: UM until she was in two and then they broke
Speaker 1: up and a twenty three she had her wild summer.
Speaker 1: She slept with six guys, you know one year, you know,
Speaker 1: she was just trying to be single, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Then she went out and had sex with
Speaker 1: six guys in that one year, and then after that
Speaker 1: it was three guys the next year. Then I got
Speaker 1: with the guy. We was together for years, so we
Speaker 1: just slept together, and you know, that number became one
Speaker 1: to three per year, which is probably the more I
Speaker 1: think about it is actually unrealistic. It's like women body
Speaker 1: count gotta be high because nigga, like, because men as
Speaker 1: fucking men getting some pussy, like all my father pussy,
Speaker 1: so somebody fuck it. I cracked into a phone one
Speaker 1: time the guy left in my possession, and I was like,
Speaker 1: what's what's what's going on in the female lifestyle. It
Speaker 1: was brutal. It's brutal. So I don't know. I think,
Speaker 1: I think you'd have to have a little bit of
Speaker 1: willful ignorance or some sort of delusional sense of arrogance
Speaker 1: to think that, if that you're so special, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? And I refused, Yeah, same, So unless
Speaker 1: you're there, there's there's a conflict, like it's it's you
Speaker 1: have that propensity or you don't. And if you don't,
Speaker 1: I mean other than like there's probably some realistic age arcs,
Speaker 1: you know, like they say like men, for example, are
Speaker 1: more impulsively violent until they're about like depending on the guy,
Speaker 1: between thirty to thirty five. Then it tapers off radically
Speaker 1: in in in occurrences. So I don't know if from
Speaker 1: a brain development, hormonal whatever the hell. There's ebbs and
Speaker 1: flows in that with women where you can say, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: she was Looney Tunes from twenty to twenty six, but
Speaker 1: she's thirty five and her whole perspective on everything and
Speaker 1: priorities are radically different. Okay, Now, if you're statistically that
Speaker 1: holds water. Mm hmmm. So what's too many women for
Speaker 1: a thirty five year old woman? Is there actually just
Speaker 1: a number that context doesn't matter? What would be the
Speaker 1: number that Kyle man? I think the reality is it's
Speaker 1: gonna be really hard for me to assume that a
Speaker 1: woman has been single all that time, you know. And
Speaker 1: a lot of women like to do that cute thing
Speaker 1: where they say, well, we're together, but we're not officially together,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna go get piped down here and they're
Speaker 1: on a sneak like in their own heads. They love
Speaker 1: that too, so to me, and to be honest, if
Speaker 1: we're if we're like getting up into and beyond like
Speaker 1: the twenties, I'm gonna have some questions because I know
Speaker 1: that you were in a relationship for probably most of
Speaker 1: that time, because we're gonna just sitting stupid, deadened relationships
Speaker 1: for long periods of time in general, you know. So
Speaker 1: it's like, well, when you're on the market, you're wild
Speaker 1: or do you like to walk that line of officially
Speaker 1: being on or off the market and try to play
Speaker 1: with that to your advantage and I don't women like
Speaker 1: to lie and play with reality to their advantage. So
Speaker 1: m hm, so twenty at thirty five is a bit
Speaker 1: too much over yeah, and it also kind of depends
Speaker 1: on like Again, another thing is that that also does
Speaker 1: depend on how local that is, because like, if you
Speaker 1: your life's path, you moved to four cities whatever, typically
Speaker 1: you life operates in a first choice, second choice, third choice,
Speaker 1: fourth choice, you know, succession. So if you ran through
Speaker 1: twenty people in your neighborhood, you're probably just waving and
Speaker 1: anybody passing by. Okay, who that's in Hollywood, you know,
Speaker 1: very conservative town. Thank you. I'm not going to ask
Speaker 1: you this ship. No ask away in Hollywood. Who's had
Speaker 1: too many? Oh you mean celebrities? Fun? I don't know,
Speaker 1: I don't um. The issue is a lot of the
Speaker 1: time with life celebrity women, it's like they'll have had
Speaker 1: three four guys, but they're all really high profile, they're
Speaker 1: all in very close proximity, and it does matter me.
Speaker 1: I've got back for a girl, you like Pete, like
Speaker 1: she had twenty four guys mm hmm, but twelve of
Speaker 1: the guys are NBA player or NFL players over twenty years.
Speaker 1: I think that to me personally would matter less than
Speaker 1: if I knew them personally from around. Like, because you
Speaker 1: you're an athlete, you know, you ran track to some
Speaker 1: you know, high level, so you fit her type of
Speaker 1: being an athlete. But you know, she she dated Katie,
Speaker 1: she slept with uh Dame Lillard before, she slept with
Speaker 1: Bradley Bill before. But it's over twenty years. Here's one
Speaker 1: that's a little bit different. For Like, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: care so much about that because I think it more
Speaker 1: of it matters too, because those people I don't know,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna bump into, you know. I think where
Speaker 1: it matters with celebrities is like and again, like I
Speaker 1: don't keep tracking celebrity gossips, so I'm using some names
Speaker 1: pretty haphazardly here, But like I know, like Rihanna has
Speaker 1: been with numerous high profile people in the same industry,
Speaker 1: same niche of the same industry. So that circle, now
Speaker 1: you're painting yourself into a corner in the room. You know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's fair. And I have known girls that been with
Speaker 1: a lot of NBA players, and there's that's also a
Speaker 1: close fraternity, So there becomes some issues there for a
Speaker 1: guy if you're the fifth NBA player that supposed been
Speaker 1: with for the NBA guy that tried to be in
Speaker 1: the relationship with her, his his, his journey is gonna
Speaker 1: be different than you, who's not gonna be in those
Speaker 1: circles per se. Yeah, I gotta see the guys all
Speaker 1: the goddamn time. So there is an issue with seeing
Speaker 1: guys that slipped with the girl your dainty, yeah, and
Speaker 1: just the communication network in general. Like I'd be willing
Speaker 1: to bet like if you're some you know, money hungry, blonde,
Speaker 1: whatever the hell girl who likes to hang out at
Speaker 1: the hottest happy hour near the giant Century City law firms.
Speaker 1: Like if you're at what Xavier's over there all the
Speaker 1: time trying to pick up attorneys from Century Park East,
Speaker 1: we're just gonna get around and and and you could
Speaker 1: be a big time monster litigator. But if you just
Speaker 1: knocked down Kimberly, well, Kimberly just ran through shorts, shorts
Speaker 1: and shorts last summer, that's not a good look for
Speaker 1: you because everyone's gonna be laughing at you behind your
Speaker 1: back because you just party, huh at the Christmas party
Speaker 1: exactly exactly, and all of that. There's gonna be eggnog
Speaker 1: all over your face, not eg Well, the expression is
Speaker 1: egg on your face, so eggnogg on your face at
Speaker 1: the Christmas party. We gotta do it. We gotta do
Speaker 1: it with that. So I think that that kind of
Speaker 1: a thing. What do you think about these situations where like,
Speaker 1: um so, like g Herbo right is a rapper from Chicago,
Speaker 1: his baby moms you feel me or it was just
Speaker 1: I think I think they have a child together. I'm
Speaker 1: not sure if that's his child, and I can't say it,
Speaker 1: but his girl right. It's always weird for me when
Speaker 1: I see somebody like g Herbo's baby mom, who now
Speaker 1: is kind of popular for she don't really have talent,
Speaker 1: but she's kind of popular. And next thing you know,
Speaker 1: the boxer Tank Davis is dating her and the only
Speaker 1: reason she's famous or has any familiarity is because she
Speaker 1: was g Herbo's girlfriend or his baby mom, and that's
Speaker 1: why you know her. And then next thing you know,
Speaker 1: Tank David's is dating her, and then next thing you know,
Speaker 1: money bag Yo is dating her. M hmm. What do
Speaker 1: you think about guys who look at, you know, like,
Speaker 1: out of all the women, they find the woman that
Speaker 1: was the local woman in your town that was Yo, bro,
Speaker 1: is that a weird thing? Like weird guys? Do you
Speaker 1: think that's a guy? You put value on a woman
Speaker 1: because of who she slept with, Like, I don't do that,
Speaker 1: Like I think all women are the same unless the right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I've never looked at a woman more valuable because
Speaker 1: this guy slept with her. That's not a thing for me,
Speaker 1: Like the the only way that that would even be
Speaker 1: a thing because if I was, like, well, ship this
Speaker 1: last four boyfriends that this girl had all had twenty
Speaker 1: five million dollars a pop. Now she's dating me. This
Speaker 1: is on borrowed time. But like, other than that, I
Speaker 1: don't personally here and I'm not out there trying to
Speaker 1: head hunt chicks to try to one up a guy,
Speaker 1: because I think, how are you even one up? And
Speaker 1: the guy he already like ray J had a hit
Speaker 1: song suggesting the opposite. Yeah, Like, I don't think there's
Speaker 1: any situation where I feel better because like automatically, it
Speaker 1: turns me off. That's my problem. If I know somebody
Speaker 1: who slept with one major problem I have And this
Speaker 1: might be a bit arrogant, I'm like, you gave him
Speaker 1: some pussy like That's how I feel. I would feel like, damn,
Speaker 1: like you gave him some pussy, like and I felt
Speaker 1: like this over Brad too have slept with like they
Speaker 1: might have slept with a famous person like mad Way
Speaker 1: more famous than me, but he's a fucking clown. And
Speaker 1: I'm like, you would get that clown as nigga some
Speaker 1: pussy because he was famous, you feel me, or you
Speaker 1: would get this suck ass nigga like I've never like.
Speaker 1: I don't think I would feel better if Michelle Mama
Speaker 1: gave me pussy. I wouldn't be like, oh you fun,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, man, you're fucking nigga. I didn't even
Speaker 1: know real nigga like that, Like I would feel like
Speaker 1: and I don't know if it's me or if it's arrogance,
Speaker 1: but I remember I was on a no Jumper and
Speaker 1: I was talking and one of my homies like from
Speaker 1: from from Us, from Uh from Parou from ray J Neighborhood,
Speaker 1: got at me about something I said about ray J.
Speaker 1: He was like, man, you try to play the hommie.
Speaker 1: I'm like how he said, you know you was talking
Speaker 1: about Kim kardash and he was like, if she'd give
Speaker 1: ray J some pussy. You feel me that I could
Speaker 1: suck her. And I remember telling that nigga, like, I
Speaker 1: think what you're trying to say, because like I ain't
Speaker 1: like I'm nigga, I'm for really need streets with this
Speaker 1: ship nigga, Like I'm a real like I'm something like
Speaker 1: Niota held my own at every level, you feel me,
Speaker 1: I'll survive this life. I've been a man like you
Speaker 1: think I shouldn't feel like I'm like a cold and
Speaker 1: nigga and ray J. Now I'm not saying I have
Speaker 1: more j as a as a wealthy man, a really
Speaker 1: intelligent man, a thousand things, but like we talk out
Speaker 1: really being that nigga out in the life, mhm, like
Speaker 1: being a nigga nuts on the table, like you don't
Speaker 1: want to think of myself at a high level when
Speaker 1: it comes to that, you feel me so And I
Speaker 1: was explaining to him and by the end of the
Speaker 1: conversation's like I feel you. I'll see what you're saying,
Speaker 1: like and I had to listen to them. Is that
Speaker 1: really playing ray J down? And it's like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: just counting myself where I'm specialist. I don't let the
Speaker 1: world dictate why I'm spared. I don't let the world
Speaker 1: tell me because I don't have more money than ray
Speaker 1: J that I'm not as special or more special as
Speaker 1: a motherfuckering nigga than ray J. That's not like a
Speaker 1: solid nigga. I met him great dude, really could dude.
Speaker 1: But I just thought to myself, like, nigga, I'm a man.
Speaker 1: I exuberate masculinity more than ray J or or most
Speaker 1: motherfuckering niggas. So I think that's attractive to women, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So that's why I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: a nigga, I'm a masculine man. Fuck my my money.
Speaker 1: They're like if if if if it's me and you somewhere,
Speaker 1: if me and a girl somewhere and ray J and
Speaker 1: this girl somewhere and some nigga start tripping fee me.
Speaker 1: I like my chances better than ray like his chances.
Speaker 1: I think that's fair, you know I'm saying here like so,
Speaker 1: And I think that's where being in a relationship really
Speaker 1: comes down to. Like I can provide enough. I couldn't
Speaker 1: provide a life that's as great or as fabulous as
Speaker 1: ray J. Ray J is a very successful person and
Speaker 1: really talented and underratedly smart. What I'm saying, but ray
Speaker 1: J could put you in the mansion. But if it's
Speaker 1: four niggas coming right here to trip, you want to
Speaker 1: be with me because these motherfucker's gonna go, these hands
Speaker 1: gonna beet cracking, feel me, ain't gonna be nothing, but
Speaker 1: on back up, let's do it for me. So I
Speaker 1: think as a protector, I value myself. Yeah, and and
Speaker 1: and that's like, and I could provide, like I can't
Speaker 1: give you. I mean, I think ray J can give
Speaker 1: you a ten bedroom house, but I mean I can
Speaker 1: get you four or five bedrooms. Yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: can get you four or five bedrooms. I can get
Speaker 1: you a if I've really tried, I can get you
Speaker 1: a a little bit struck, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I'll be mad as a motherucker, but I can get that.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, if we scale back and I put
Speaker 1: you in four bedrooms and get you that new kid,
Speaker 1: that stinger or that K five, you feel me, then
Speaker 1: your life is luxurious. There's no pressure. Every day is good. Mhm.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So I was just thinking
Speaker 1: about that body counts, Like why do I trip, and
Speaker 1: I think it's a fear. It's a fear within about
Speaker 1: what type of woman she is, you know, I'm saying
Speaker 1: that's what my be. What would be fear and the
Speaker 1: body count thought of a woman mine, It would be
Speaker 1: purely I'm as sorry as it is gonna sound. I'm
Speaker 1: not even gonna lie to you. It's just purely external perceptions,
Speaker 1: purely external perception. So that's what it is, you know.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't need eggnog on my face. Good
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