1 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, it is yours truly La La cant welcome 2 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: back to give them La La podcast. Wow. I'm like 3 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: truly obsessed with myself today listening to my voice in 4 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: these headphones and. 5 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: You get a look at yourself. Wow. 6 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: Wow, this is the best day ever. Your voice is 7 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: calm me in these headphones. You know what. Thank you, Jessica, 8 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: You're welcome. I feel that welcome. Easton. 9 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 2: Hey, everybody, how are you? 10 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm so good. How are you guys? We're round 11 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 1: two in the studio. 12 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 2: What a trip, I know. 13 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: Do you feel a little bit less nervous tea, Yeah, 14 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: I'm not nervous. 15 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 2: It's just overwhelming still. 16 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: It is because we usually don't have producers sitting here listening. 17 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, they get to judge my podcast in 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: real time. 19 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:55,080 Speaker 2: I hate that, I know, right, yeah, when they can't 20 00:00:55,120 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 2: see me, I feel like they can hear me. 21 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: I'd rather just send it into the world and then 22 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 1: have them judge. Like, well, it's too late, it's already 23 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:02,000 Speaker 1: out there. 24 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 3: Let me ask you something. When you say something, do 25 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 3: you look for their laugh? 26 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 2: Yes? I do too, And when they don't it makes 27 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 2: me feel a little a little bit sad. 28 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,480 Speaker 1: Really well, we have to get a laugh track on 29 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: the podcast. 30 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 2: Now give me the button. 31 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: I'm very excited about the podcast and everything that it's 32 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: doing and going to YouTube. If you guys have not 33 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: already heard, because you live under a rock, It's okay, 34 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: I live there too. Sometimes we're on YouTube, So go 35 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: to my Instagram page or the podcast page, give them 36 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: Lalla podcast and make sure you subscribe because you get 37 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: to see all the funny stuff that we do. Because 38 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: in my mind, I said this the other day, I 39 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: was like, in my mind, I am Amy Schumer and 40 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 1: they were like, oh, that is in your mind, isn't it. 41 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, yes, it is. Don't burst my bubble. So 42 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:57,560 Speaker 1: last week's episode we had how We Manned Out. That 43 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: was the episode that we find released after I want 44 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 1: to say, like almost a month, and people loved it. 45 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: We got a lot of love saying I'm so happy 46 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,519 Speaker 1: that you were able to talk to him about his OCD. 47 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: It's a real thing. I struggle with it. There was 48 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: a lot of love, but there were also people who 49 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: were like, are you kidding me? We waited all of 50 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 1: this time for the Howie episode. So I want to 51 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: tell you guys, we did that episode. It's fully filmed 52 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: in Howie's studio. The entire episode will be released, But unfortunately, 53 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: there's a lot of cooks in the kitchen on this podcast, 54 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:37,959 Speaker 1: especially the Howie episode, there were a lot of notes 55 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 1: coming in. I want you all to read between the lines. 56 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say who was listening to the podcast 57 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: and approving and saying what could go in and what couldn't. 58 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,480 Speaker 1: But I think we're all smart enough to understand what 59 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Correct, correct, So we had to comb through 60 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: Howie's episode with a fine tooth comb. And yes, do 61 00:02:56,000 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 1: I wish that I could have released the entire interview. Yes, 62 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: it was amazing, it was juicy, it was mind blowing, 63 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 1: and it will be released. I just have to wait 64 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: until all the cooks in the kitchen do a taste 65 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: test and say it's ready to go. Are we all 66 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:17,440 Speaker 1: on the same page. 67 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I'm curious, just because how he commented on 68 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 3: your podcast post but about that episode, he just said 69 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 3: I had so much I don't know exactly, but basically 70 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 3: the message was I had so much fun, but wow, 71 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 3: all the hate is crazy. 72 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: What did you think. 73 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 3: About the feedback? Did you get any feedback. Did you 74 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 3: look at any feedback or were you like it's out there. 75 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: I try to only have my team give me feedback 76 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: because I'm the type of person where I care about 77 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: the numbers that come in. I don't care if there's hate. 78 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: I need it now. If the numbers are reflecting what 79 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: the comments are saying, then obviously we need to reevaluate. 80 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: The episode did tremendously well. I heard from the team 81 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: that everything went great and people listened to the episode. 82 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: Some liked it, some didn't like it. That's life, and 83 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: I've been dealing with haters for a very long time. 84 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 1: I also was like going in on Howie Mandel when 85 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: he chose to do that interview with Sandobal, but like 86 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 1: meeting him, he was so kind, he was amazing in 87 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: a way. I was like, Wow, I'm really glad that 88 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: you live in a bubble, and I understand where your 89 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: head was at when you said, let's interview this guy 90 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 1: and have no preconceived notion of the situation at hand. 91 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,359 Speaker 1: Like I was digging that. I don't think his daughter 92 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: was digging that very much. I think she wishes that 93 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: maybe it would have gone a little bit differently, but 94 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 1: at the same time, like there will be a day 95 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 1: where the dust settles and people aren't going to be 96 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 1: riding as heavy. And I think that when you get 97 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: to look back and go like, I'm glad I didn't 98 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: go as hard on that person because now everyone's forgotten 99 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,679 Speaker 1: and I can say, like, you know what, I offered 100 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: grace in a time that not much grace was given 101 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 1: to someone. So there's my long winded answer to that. 102 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: I have a question always T T so. 103 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 2: Like how we in that space? Are you not allowed 104 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 2: to talk a lot about vander Pump as well? 105 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: No, especially after everything blew up, Like we're already put 106 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: our feeder to the fire when it comes to like 107 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: you have a podcast and you're on a Bravo show, 108 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 1: like you're not allowed to talk about anything. And that's 109 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: a really like fine line for me because I'm an 110 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: open book and I like to talk about everything, but 111 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 1: obviously I don't want to talk about things that are 112 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: happening in real time that are going to air later on. 113 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: So I'm sure that the audience is going to be 114 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: excited to see what this season holds. It's the first 115 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 1: time ever and I say this all the time, but 116 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,919 Speaker 1: this is the first time that I have put my 117 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: guard down, and I immediately regretted it. 118 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 2: I was gonna ask you how you liked it. 119 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: I did not like it. I felt extremely exposed, and 120 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: for me, most people would say because I talked to 121 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 1: production about it, I was like, I never get in there, like, 122 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 1: but those are the moments that like show that you're 123 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: a real person. I'm like, I'm okay like not being 124 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: a real person on camera, like not to say that 125 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: I'm not a real person when we're filming. I just 126 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: feel like I put my armor on because you have to. 127 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: You're going into like a territory where it's like this 128 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,440 Speaker 1: isn't just a conversation between you and I, this is 129 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: going to be like shown to the world. And I'm nervous. 130 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 1: So even though I'm being myself and maybe there is 131 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 1: no difference, the feeling inside when I know, like, Okay, 132 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my guard up a bit is completely 133 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: different and I feel a little bit more safe that way. 134 00:06:41,440 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: So we'll see if I can continue to be vulnerable 135 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: the rest of the season. 136 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:47,280 Speaker 3: I know that was hard for you, but I am 137 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 3: very excited to see all of that because it is 138 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:51,679 Speaker 3: you know, we see. 139 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: Vulnerable Lalla every day. 140 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 3: And it's beautiful and so yeah, I'm very excited to 141 00:06:56,680 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 3: see what you're talking about and how it comes across. 142 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 2: I am too really for people to see that side 143 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:06,120 Speaker 2: because I feel like they only see filming Lalla. Whendn't 144 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 2: we get to see Lalla off camera? 145 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: Independent? 146 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 3: Guard up Lalla, don't come for me like it's what 147 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 3: you've said, what you've talked about before a lot of 148 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 3: times sometimes you don't get a defended ways other people 149 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 3: will because they're like, Laala's got it. She's like she'll 150 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 3: stand up for herself, She'll come for you. That's guard 151 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 3: up Lalla. But there's a very vulnerable beautiful. I think 152 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 3: they're both beautiful, but you know what I mean, there's 153 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 3: a very there's something so soft about a very big 154 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 3: part of you and vulnerable. 155 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, just yeah. I think just based off 156 00:07:39,400 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what everyone else has filmed, but you 157 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: will see some sort of a turn where there's things 158 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: that I have maybe needed in the past that I 159 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: didn't get because people think that like, oh, she's got 160 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: her own back. There is a little bit of a 161 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: twist which I was very very thankful for. It's just 162 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: in a very interesting environment to be a part of. 163 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 2: I can only imagine. 164 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:03,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, and there will be a day where the dust settles, 165 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: people move on. You know. It's the strangest season that 166 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,840 Speaker 1: we've ever filmed, and for the first time, like usually 167 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: when we film, I'm like, oh, I can't wait to 168 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: see when this airs and this round, I'm like, you 169 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: know what, I'm just going to go and do and 170 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: be and then I'm gonna retreat because I'm very much 171 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,440 Speaker 1: in a healing process right now. Last year was not 172 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: that way at all. It was like guns blazing. My 173 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 1: body was moving just out of survival and my mind 174 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 1: was trying to process. But the two couldn't keep up 175 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: with each other. And now they're working in sync, and 176 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: it is like, I'm freaking exhausted. I won't even lie. 177 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: I want to talk about this very very quickly. Since 178 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: we're in Barbie zone, everyone's talking about the Barbie movie. 179 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: They're completely obsessed. 180 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 2: I still need to see it, so do I I. 181 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 1: Mean, didn't it just come out. Yeah, I'm like the 182 00:08:58,000 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 1: twenty first. 183 00:08:58,840 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 2: And it's still we I walked by a theater yesterday 184 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 2: people still dressed up in that ship and lines, and 185 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:07,439 Speaker 2: I thought I can give it a couple of months. 186 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:08,680 Speaker 2: I'll see it at home. 187 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:11,599 Speaker 1: I'll wait until it's on a streaming service on a 188 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: big screen. I don't either. Plus I think that I 189 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: don't know if it's like child friendly. I was just Barbie, 190 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:19,480 Speaker 1: yeah is it? 191 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. 192 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: It would be a little sexy Barbie. 193 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 2: You havn't for rated r What bring it back to 194 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 2: the old Wolf of Wall Street? 195 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 1: We all fell in love with her then, yeah, we 196 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,679 Speaker 1: were Wolf of Wall Street, like to. 197 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 2: See and there was no wolf on that Wall Street? 198 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: Right? Oh my god, you liked it all. I feel 199 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: like I'm a part of a barstool podcast nowak. 200 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 2: I got myself hot. 201 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: Well speaking, I know Margot Robbie is hot. And apparently 202 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: on TikTok, the gen Zers you know, they they love 203 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:05,559 Speaker 1: to like be gen Z are calling Margot Robbie mid 204 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:08,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, what is mid? And apparently that 205 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: means like midshelf. Like she's kind of like, ah, like 206 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: if you go and to like buy weed, it's like 207 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,079 Speaker 1: I'll take the middle, middle of the road, like you 208 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: don't got to be great, but like, don't give me 209 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: the shit, give me middle. And I'm like, on what 210 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 1: planet is Margot Robbie. 211 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 2: A mid I know, the people who say she's mid 212 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 2: weren't even old enough to watch Wolf of Wall Street. 213 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 1: Oh you should probably do that, so go home, sit down. 214 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,559 Speaker 2: It's like all the people with the forward haircuts. You 215 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 2: get what I'm saying, Now, what is the forward haircut? 216 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 2: It's like trimmed in the back and it all goes forward. 217 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on with it. 218 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 1: Oh they like that, Now that's a gen z vibe. Yeah. 219 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, those are the people who are saying Margot Robbie 220 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 2: isn't hot. 221 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 3: And for mid, she she's objectively I'm talking just biologically, 222 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 3: distance between the eyes, the shape of the nose, the face. 223 00:10:56,520 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 3: Objectively one of the most beautiful women in the world. 224 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 2: No, I was she got talent too. I don't know 225 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:10,240 Speaker 2: what these people are saying. It's like they're getting off 226 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,599 Speaker 2: to the model who just posts and face tunes this 227 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 2: shit out of it. I guarantee, Well, that's what I. 228 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 1: Was wondering like, And then I asked, I think it 229 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:21,719 Speaker 1: was you, Jess, like where do they put Kim Kay? 230 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 1: And you were like, oh, she's top shelf. And by 231 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:28,320 Speaker 1: the way, she's definitely top shelf. But like Margot Robbie 232 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 1: is also top shelf. I'm just confused because for a 233 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: minute there everyone was talking about how like everyone's deflating 234 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 1: their face, which made me very nervous, and I was like, 235 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 1: I don't think I can get on that track. But 236 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: then when they were like everyone's deflating their ass, I 237 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,320 Speaker 1: was like, oh, hell yeah, I don't schedule the appointment 238 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 1: for the BBL no more. But I was thinking, like, 239 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,680 Speaker 1: so if you have lips to like out to hear 240 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 1: froze as it gets in a BBL with no talent, like, 241 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 1: that's top sh else, which is great for me because 242 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 1: all I'm missing is the BBL. I guess you know. 243 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 1: But it's so crazy, Like I don't understand how she 244 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 1: could be who's judging this the people with the forehead? 245 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:15,559 Speaker 1: Like are women judging the four people the forward haircuts? 246 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 1: Don't bring my people into the people with the foreheads 247 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 1: name to leave us out of that, Sonny what. 248 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,760 Speaker 3: No, But every I do take the back that back 249 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:30,240 Speaker 3: because I did say that about Kim. 250 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: I don't even think gen Z would say that about Kim. 251 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 3: Gen Z's all over the place, and I know that, 252 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 3: and I could say that because I have a little 253 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 3: brother who's gen Z. 254 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 1: They're all over the place. Who knows. They're all doing 255 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:43,959 Speaker 1: all the things, but also none of that. They're doing 256 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:47,880 Speaker 1: everything to like do something great in the world, but 257 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: actually not doing anything at all. Like if that makes sense. 258 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 2: It's different. 259 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: Let's be different. Let's save all the animals just by 260 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 1: posting one time and like talking about it. And I 261 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: would donate money, but like I don't have a job 262 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:03,840 Speaker 1: because I don't want to give money to the man. 263 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to work for the man. It's just 264 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 1: like very intense is ocean. She's coming for you, gen Z. 265 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 2: I think is coming from Margot Robbie. You know, I 266 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 2: don't do it again? 267 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,800 Speaker 1: Infended by it? No, Okay, so we all agree that 268 00:13:17,800 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: she's a ten. Yes, if you don't agree, watch a 269 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 1: Wolf of wall Street immediately. 270 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch it for no reason today. 271 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: Are you? 272 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 3: He's got he's hot over here, so he's got to 273 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 3: watch it to get some of that heat out. 274 00:13:30,480 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 1: He's talked about. Margot Wolf of Wall Street. 275 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 3: That's Kyle's number top by the way, Margot Wolf Wall Street. 276 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: That's like, oh with the New York accent. And then 277 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 1: she like spreads her leg with no no undies, and 278 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 1: she's like messing with freaking Leonardo DiCaprio basically being like, bitch, 279 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: I run things around here. He's crawling toward her. Oh 280 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: my god, we're all we're all sweating. 281 00:13:55,240 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 2: I'll watch it together. 282 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 1: Oh my oh no, maybe alone? 283 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 2: I like that. Oh are you feeling okay? 284 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 1: So I was scrolling the gram and Garcel from Housewives 285 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:17,880 Speaker 1: of VH addressed the unfollowing of Lalla Kent on Instagram. 286 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 1: Ooh what'd she say? She said, yes, she unfollowed because 287 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: of things that she had heard. And then she also 288 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 1: said that we were at a table together, which I 289 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,080 Speaker 1: don't think I knew that. Maybe I did, did I 290 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: know that? I'm like, when was this the vander Pump 291 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: Dogs gala? Lisa, I guess put her at our table 292 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: and once they sat down, they noticed me and they 293 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 1: left because she needed to and I quote protect her piece. 294 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 3: Hi, her piece of mind, her just her energy. And 295 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 3: it was just you that was throwing off the piece 296 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 3: or everyone at the table. 297 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:00,400 Speaker 1: I think, just me, Like the question was about me 298 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: on Watch what Happens Live, and that's what she said. 299 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: And then the girl who did it with her was 300 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 1: like protect your peace, honey or whatever. And in my head, 301 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:10,400 Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like I should have been the 302 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: one protecting my piece. I mean, like I'm over here 303 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 1: like doing right by God. You know, I may throw 304 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: that word around talk about some cookie, but at the 305 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 1: end of the day, like I live a pretty pretty 306 00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 1: decent life. I think it's you who needs to be 307 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 1: worried about my piece. You know, well, what was what 308 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: did you said? 309 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 3: She addressed the unfollow and I'm assuming it was because 310 00:15:33,920 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 3: you had some things to say about her son Oliver correct. 311 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: I'm assuming so too. But I also said, we don't 312 00:15:40,800 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 1: control like when Ocean goes out into the world, Like 313 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 1: I can only do so much, right, Ocean's gonna one 314 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 1: day go into the world and be whoever she is, 315 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have to pray to God that she 316 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: doesn't like act a damn fool and hurt people's feelings, 317 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: Like I just have to hope that that happens. Right, 318 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,400 Speaker 1: There's some things I can't control. 319 00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 2: So well. 320 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: I always liked Garcel, I thought she was She's always 321 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: been kind to me. And then you know, everything happened 322 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 1: on vander Pump and with you know, the ex wife 323 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: and I was just very, very triggered by it. I 324 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 1: was like, oh, I've met a hundred of this person, 325 00:16:17,280 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 1: and I just I don't like like this at all, 326 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: and me wanting to protect other people. You know, you 327 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: got to talk about it because it could end very 328 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: badly where you don't even realize it. And I just 329 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 1: think people like that can sometimes become dangerous to your 330 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: mental state, especially, And I did not place blame on 331 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 1: her for that. You know, these are this is who 332 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 1: he is or maybe is not. I don't know, but 333 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: I thought it was so strange that I don't even 334 00:16:47,080 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 1: feel like I was very intense when I would say 335 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 1: certain things. I mean, y'all saw the reunion. I said, 336 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm not going to talk about this. I don't want 337 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 1: to touch on it because I actually do like and 338 00:16:57,440 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 1: respect Garcel tremendously. It was just strange to have someone 339 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: say that they wanted to protect their piece from me. 340 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: Literally never heard that in my life anybody. You're the 341 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 1: one always protecting your piece. 342 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 3: Yes, in her I guess defense, not whatever, I get it. 343 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 3: I mean, just from knowing how you would be with Ocean. 344 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 3: It's her baby, yeah, anyone a single word. It's like 345 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:24,159 Speaker 3: you're done. 346 00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:26,920 Speaker 1: You're done. I was just gonna say that just if 347 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 1: anyone came for Ocean, I don't care what she had done, 348 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 1: Like I'm the mama and you come for her and 349 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 1: you're dead to me. So I completely understand where she 350 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 1: was coming from. But when you read things about yourself 351 00:17:39,480 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 1: and you're like, why does this make no sense? Like 352 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,439 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm reading another language, like protect my 353 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 1: piece from Lalla Kent, I was like, what, Like you've. 354 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 2: Gone at her a hundred times, can't do it again? 355 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 1: The one staging myself from the world every night, and 356 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:59,199 Speaker 1: then Pello santoing and like opening all the windows and 357 00:17:59,200 --> 00:18:03,479 Speaker 1: being like out out smud so much like she wouldn't 358 00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 1: even had to have left, because had I sat down 359 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:08,640 Speaker 1: and they would have been there, like I would have left, 360 00:18:08,680 --> 00:18:10,760 Speaker 1: she could have enjoyed her evening. And I left early 361 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:14,880 Speaker 1: because I was so littired. I wish that they would 362 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 1: have stayed, because I certainly would have left, yes to 363 00:18:17,760 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: enjoy their night about the dogs. I was having a 364 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 1: rough day that day anyway. 365 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:25,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And it's funny, I don't even remember you 366 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:27,359 Speaker 3: met you. I asked you the next day, how is 367 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 3: the gallon you said everything was great, and I feel 368 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 3: like if there was a thing you would have mentioned, 369 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 3: oh yeah, it was weird, Garsa got up and you didn't. 370 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: So I don't think I saw her. Okay, she must 371 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:39,879 Speaker 1: have locked eyes on me and said aboard a board. 372 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:44,960 Speaker 1: You know, I will say I appreciate anybody who decides 373 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:49,080 Speaker 1: to protect their peace, even if it's against me. You know, like, 374 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 1: do what you gotta do. Your the piece is all 375 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 1: we got. He says, Oh, goah, it's a rough world 376 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,680 Speaker 1: out there. Did you guys decide to watch the new 377 00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 1: reboot of uh New York? You're not gonna like my 378 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:04,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna what do you guys do all day? 379 00:19:04,680 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 2: No other stuff? 380 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: Other other stuff than watch? No. 381 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 3: I here's what I do. I cannot wait to watch it. 382 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 3: I like to put my focus into. 383 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:15,640 Speaker 1: It so where you can't wait because you don't been waiting. 384 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 3: What I did do was I watched clips, and I 385 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 3: did a little research, and I listened to some recaps, 386 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:25,399 Speaker 3: and so I feel like I'm in the now. 387 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 1: Cliff notes, Yes. 388 00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 2: Well, I didn't even do that. 389 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: So there's two episodes that have aired so far. We 390 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: did not. I didn't get to the second episode they 391 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 1: air on Sunday nights. I didn't get to the second one, 392 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: so next week I'll recap episode two and three. But 393 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 1: the reason we did not get to the second episode, Teter, 394 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 1: can you talk about it or will you get emotional? 395 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 2: No, I won't talk about it because we read up 396 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:53,480 Speaker 2: on it. But our kitty died last night, passed away 397 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:57,960 Speaker 2: and she is in a better place. I just hope 398 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 2: that you didn't suffer, because like, she was normal when 399 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,479 Speaker 2: we got home from Palm Springs and then she just 400 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,719 Speaker 2: suddenly was laying on her side and I knew something 401 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,400 Speaker 2: was off, so we ran her to the vet. 402 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:13,120 Speaker 1: He called my mom and I have. 403 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 2: To laugh about this because we own we've owned how 404 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 2: many animals. And I call and I'm like, so she's panting, 405 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 2: and so she goes, okay, I'll come down like it 406 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 2: was like okay, like I didn't know, and she goes, well, 407 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,000 Speaker 2: how hot is it? It was? 408 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 1: It was pretty late. And when you hear like an 409 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:34,800 Speaker 1: animals panting, of course, my mom's not gonna expect. And 410 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 1: the way you were saying it East and you were like, 411 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:39,439 Speaker 1: she's just panting a lot, like you didn't go into detail. 412 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 1: So I will defend Mama, no, I will. She's like 413 00:20:41,880 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 1: an animologized a lover. And had you said, like the 414 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,040 Speaker 1: real situation, well I think it would have been. It 415 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: just sounded like the cat was panting and like needed 416 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:52,240 Speaker 1: some water. 417 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 2: Well that's the thing. So she called me and she goes, 418 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 2: how hot is it in your place? And I said, 419 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 2: I'm face timing you, so just look, and right when 420 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 2: I face tim during she saw she was like, I'm 421 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 2: coming over right now. So she came over. Luckily she 422 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:10,000 Speaker 2: grabbed her and unfortunately she passed on the way to 423 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,680 Speaker 2: the vet, but she did it in my mom's arms. 424 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 2: So I'm very happy for that. 425 00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, So I was on the phone with Easton because 426 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: obviously my mom was distraught. The cat's name was kid 427 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: Kitty like kid Cuddie, and my mom rescued the cat 428 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: from the Humane Society of Utah. I mean I still 429 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 1: lived in Utah and I've been in LA for ten years. 430 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,680 Speaker 1: So we had the cat for a very long time. 431 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 2: Thirteen years. 432 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, around twelve thirteen years we had the cat 433 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: at this point in time. The cat when we first 434 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:45,960 Speaker 1: got her was like skin and bone. Her organs were 435 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:49,879 Speaker 1: shutting down. She had just had a litter of kittens 436 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: that obviously were taken and put up for adoption. Her 437 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: fur was like so greasy, she wasn't cleaning herself. She 438 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: was obviously dying. So my mom brought her back to 439 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: the house. I remember they kept her in like this 440 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:07,360 Speaker 1: warm little kennel area so that she felt safe and secure. 441 00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 1: Syringe fed her for like weeks on end. She started 442 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,760 Speaker 1: getting her groove back, which they did not think was 443 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 1: going to happen. We went on vacation. My mom was like, 444 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring the cat back to the shelter, hopefully 445 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,919 Speaker 1: get her on her feet. Maybe she'll get adopted. We 446 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:25,199 Speaker 1: come back, the cat is back to struggling heavily. So 447 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 1: we bring the cat back, nurse her to health. She 448 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,959 Speaker 1: had a pinhead. She was so fat, Oh so happy. 449 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 2: She was a happy eater, Yes she was. 450 00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:37,400 Speaker 1: She had a great life. She would lick the pit 451 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,119 Speaker 1: bull's face and they would cuddle. She was like just 452 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,359 Speaker 1: the sweetest cat. 453 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 2: And you can tell that Pobby and Bernie in my pities. 454 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 2: They they're sad. 455 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, well of course it's like losing a sibling for them. 456 00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. So yeah, the energy's off right now, but it'll 457 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:53,160 Speaker 2: be back. 458 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,919 Speaker 1: It'll be back. My mom's getting the cat cremated, so 459 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,720 Speaker 1: we'll have some of that. She's getting the pot we're. 460 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 2: Getting it's like aquamated. That's not what it is, but 461 00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:05,720 Speaker 2: it's like and now it's a more eco friendly way 462 00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,639 Speaker 2: where it's like high pressure and you get like eighty 463 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 2: percent more of the ashes back. So we did it 464 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:11,360 Speaker 2: that way. 465 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: Look amazing. 466 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 2: You guys can correct me on the term, but it's 467 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 2: like used with high pressure and stuff like that. So 468 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 2: we're doing it that way so we get more of 469 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 2: her bag, which is great. 470 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, and my mom and Easton said that the vets 471 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 1: at Nash which is over in West Hollywood, they were 472 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: so amazing. I could hear them on the phone and 473 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,760 Speaker 1: ocean could hear my mom crying and she's like, it's okay, 474 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 1: it's okay. 475 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 2: They did and what's it called. They called mom and 476 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 2: they were like, hey, are you close? And Mom was like, 477 00:23:39,920 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 2: we're pulling up and they were like, are you in 478 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 2: a gray car? And she goes yes, and two of 479 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,000 Speaker 2: them came running out. Oh my god, and they just 480 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 2: said give us the cat. They took it and just 481 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 2: sprinted back. Yeah, and I just said, do CPR and 482 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 2: They just did it because I knew they would ask, 483 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 2: so I just said, do it. 484 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I have. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know, 485 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:02,440 Speaker 1: losing a pet. 486 00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 3: It's only happened to me once so far, but it's 487 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:07,800 Speaker 3: I don't have a child, so one of the most heartbreaking, 488 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 3: no really imagine. 489 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,919 Speaker 2: So yeah, oh, very blessed to have had her as 490 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 2: long as we did and given her the life that 491 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,479 Speaker 2: we did. Yes, we did very well for her. 492 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,880 Speaker 1: She had a very very good life. 493 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 2: Teach you did, and thank you. 494 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,119 Speaker 1: Easton has experienced such trauma. He's the one that found 495 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:26,520 Speaker 1: my dad. He's the one that saw the cat with like. 496 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 2: Just keeps coming. I know, man, all right though, all right, 497 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:33,240 Speaker 2: tick skin, we'll get by. 498 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: Well. I love you, TT and you're very strong. So 499 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: that's why we didn't get to the second episode. We 500 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,160 Speaker 1: had other things going on. 501 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 2: For its watching it though it is good. 502 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:47,640 Speaker 1: So when I heard that Ronie was over and they 503 00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: were recasting and doing it full reboot, I was like 504 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: personally offended. I was like, you're telling me that there's 505 00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: no more Sonia Morgan, There's no more lu Wan Ramona, 506 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 1: like all of these iconic women who started this franchise 507 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,120 Speaker 1: and by the way, there were even women who came 508 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,040 Speaker 1: on for like a couple of seasons that still fit 509 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: in so well. And it was just like an iconic show. 510 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 1: And what happened on it you literally felt like you 511 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,639 Speaker 1: that they were just being followed by a camera. It 512 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: was the one franchise or one city a part of 513 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: the franchise where you were like, there's no producers here, 514 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 1: like literally because they were all so chaotic and freaking awesome. 515 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 2: Okay. 516 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 1: So I took that as like one of the greatest 517 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,160 Speaker 1: heartbreaks that all experience in all my lives was when 518 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: they decided to rebrand the whole thing. So I was 519 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: going into the reboot. I first of all saw the 520 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 1: cast and I was like, I mean, they're hot, whatever. 521 00:25:54,200 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 2: Who are they? Yes, all right, I'm really excited. 522 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 1: And I loved how dive verse it was. It was like, okay, 523 00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 1: it's diverse, all right, I'm warming up. I'm warming up, 524 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,960 Speaker 1: and then I just broke and turned it on the 525 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 1: TV right twelve minutes in. I was like done, I'm 526 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 1: freaking obsessed with all of these women. The relationships feel organic. 527 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:22,719 Speaker 1: The drama, hear me out. So the drama this this 528 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: episode was that Brynn, who's like the hot sexy vixen 529 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 1: single captain trying to steal your man, and she tells 530 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: her friend Ci that Aaron had made a comment. I 531 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 1: hope I'm getting their names right, brand I know it 532 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 1: is right. Brinn is right. I think Si is right, 533 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: and I think Aaron is right as well. Give me 534 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 1: a minute, because I will get the names down. Trust me. 535 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 1: By second episode, I'll be like, but it's about a 536 00:26:54,320 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 1: cheeseboard and that Cy said to Brynn, it was so 537 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 1: weird that like she was that Aarin was serving cheese 538 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:09,280 Speaker 1: at her event as she put cheese in her mouth. Okay, 539 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 1: so that was the first That was the first red 540 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:18,680 Speaker 1: mark for Aarin? Right, am I saying this correctly? I hope, 541 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 1: So you guys know what I'm talking about. The other 542 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 1: one was Aaron put a group dinner together. They bleep 543 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,479 Speaker 1: out the restaurant's name because they're dragging it. Okay, but 544 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: I now know what the restaurant is. To tell the 545 00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: restaurant is. 546 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 2: Catch it's so shiit. 547 00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: No, I like your fucking tongue. Shame, shame, shame, shame. 548 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna listen. He eats like a six 549 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:49,120 Speaker 1: year old. 550 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 2: I love eating nothing. This guy is I feel they 551 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 2: don't like Catch. 552 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 1: He likes baked lads who likes baked lanes? 553 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:02,359 Speaker 2: Shut out les? 554 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,679 Speaker 1: You go in for just the lays with the grease 555 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 1: on the fingers. 556 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 2: Oh, I love a good dry, cardboarded chip. 557 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 3: I understand like a oh, this restaurant is like whatever, 558 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 3: like old news, But I ketches food is amazing. 559 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 2: I'll give it another chance. 560 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: Apparently you shouldn't go there anymore because it's so twenty 561 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 1: twelve if you ask Brinn. But I will say I 562 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 1: was personally offended by the comment. And here's why I 563 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,479 Speaker 1: have such a fond memory of Catch. I the last 564 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 1: time I went to Catch in New York, it was 565 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 1: with you in my drinking days. And I apologize for 566 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:44,800 Speaker 1: what you experienced on this trip. I were you at 567 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 1: the dinner with us? Yes, you guys are gonna judge 568 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 1: me so hard. I'm a filthy, disgusting fun is okay? 569 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,080 Speaker 2: Yes, And this is where I'm thinking about Catch too, 570 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 2: And this is why I don't like it. 571 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: That makes sense. We had an entire group of people, right, 572 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,120 Speaker 1: And when I say, I am balls deep in my alcoholism, 573 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 1: Like we're there Okay, okay, you couldn't be any more 574 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 1: rock bottom if you tried, right. I put on this 575 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:16,480 Speaker 1: mesh lingerie top, nipples out, nipples, nipples out to go 576 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 1: to dinner. 577 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,000 Speaker 2: I'm there, Okay. 578 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 1: He sits there and all the boys or the man's 579 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 1: are like looking and I wonder, why is it is 580 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 1: my face just hitting that right? No, the nipples are out. 581 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 1: I then find an NBA baller who's who's trying to 582 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 1: clurb right. So we leave together and we're like popping 583 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: into all of these bars and nightclubs. We then go 584 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: back to Soho House where we're staying. I'm staying. He 585 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 1: comes in, We do the deed, say it was great 586 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 1: to meet you. By the way, he drove me in 587 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: his Ferrari to Soho House, which I was like, this 588 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 1: is pretty cool. It could have been a Lamborghini. I 589 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: wouldn't know the difference at that time. Could have been anybody, 590 00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 1: could have been anyone. Are you with her? 591 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 3: Okay? 592 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: I ditched him. Okay, she gets. 593 00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:04,680 Speaker 2: God, don't want to be there for that one hey 594 00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:05,680 Speaker 2: in the corner. 595 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: No, I ditched him. And so for me, just where 596 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 1: I was at in life, I needed that experience. So 597 00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 1: catch will forever hold a giant spot in my heart, 598 00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: and whether it's twenty twelve or twenty seventy seven, I 599 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 1: will be at Catch. Okay, I think that's so beautiful Easton. 600 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 2: I need to go back and get a new memory 601 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,120 Speaker 2: of it, because it's pretty. 602 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:34,239 Speaker 1: Really really nice. It's not that kind of you you 603 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 1: had it. 604 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 3: I feel like that a lot of people with that 605 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 3: experience maybe would be like. And then at the end, 606 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 3: he was a what's the laala ism for a the 607 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 3: A word? 608 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,040 Speaker 1: I said the effort on this podcast because I was 609 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 1: so offended by saying that didn't like Catch we're trying 610 00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:51,160 Speaker 1: to get rid of. 611 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 3: I was going to say, well, I was, you know, like, 612 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,760 Speaker 3: and he was an asshole at the end, and then 613 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 3: I believe but he was nice, and. 614 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:01,200 Speaker 1: He was nice every time I hopped back into New York. 615 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 1: I mean still to this day, if he sees them 616 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,520 Speaker 1: in New York, he's like, Hey, what's up. But I'm 617 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 1: not going backwards. We have to move forward. If we've hit, 618 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 1: if I've hit before, we can't go back. 619 00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 2: I hear you, Oh really, the guys he's cool. I 620 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 2: liked him and she did her well for whatever that, 621 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:16,200 Speaker 2: Let's go back. 622 00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: Let's all go back to catch and we'll make it. 623 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,720 Speaker 2: Better for you, because how many people want to look 624 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 2: across the table and see their sister's nipples all dinner? 625 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 2: She's like, put that on? 626 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,280 Speaker 1: What are you looking at? 627 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 2: Why are you looking at me? Funny when I help you. 628 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,719 Speaker 1: It's when the nipples were in. Do you remember there 629 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:36,320 Speaker 1: was a moment where I think one of the Willis 630 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,880 Speaker 1: sisters was walking through New York with her nipples out. 631 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: Kim k had nips out like everyone Rihanna. So I 632 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: just wanted to like pretend like I was just one 633 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:45,600 Speaker 1: of those people. 634 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 3: I feel like nipples have never gone out. But I 635 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 3: hear what you're saying. It was when everyone was walking 636 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 3: around with the nips out with like Mesh. 637 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 2: Mesh, yeah, Sam, not the Jennifer Anniston nipples out. 638 00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:00,880 Speaker 1: No, not like rock not rock Tip, no Rocket. 639 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,760 Speaker 3: Heard rumors within like into like three or a few 640 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 3: seasons of friends those were actually fake because they were. 641 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: So famous, they were iconic. They were so. 642 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,719 Speaker 3: Iconic that people were like, where are the nips? And 643 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 3: so she had to put start putting in like ones 644 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 3: that were hard twenty four to seven, basically hasties like 645 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 3: like fake nips. 646 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: You can buy fake nips. They're like petals. And actually 647 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: that's a genius idea because here's the thing about the 648 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: petals that cover the nip. Then you just look like 649 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 1: you've got giant areolas, you know, So what's worse. 650 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 3: No, that's so true because I'm taken off my bro 651 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:37,760 Speaker 3: or taken off my shirt and be like, oh my god, 652 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 3: like jump scared, and I'll be like, oh, it's. 653 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 1: No way to the same thing. It's just after a 654 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:44,960 Speaker 1: long night of film me. I'm like, my nipples stole off. 655 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:45,960 Speaker 2: Holy shit. 656 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,680 Speaker 3: No, it's scary, which which, by the way, we love 657 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 3: all size areolas. But for for someone who maybe has 658 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 3: a different you know, you take off your shirt and 659 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 3: I like it. 660 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 1: Whatever areola if it's your natural one. Yeah, but when 661 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 1: you have a and it's got these pedal marks, it's 662 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: like what like a man would be like, what's happening here? 663 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: She's got flower nipples. You know, it's not about the 664 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: size of. 665 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 2: The nip, it's about the pedal of. 666 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,880 Speaker 1: The pedal of it, exactly what you knows that could 667 00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 1: be cute. 668 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 2: Hey, we're just likey to see them, so thank you? 669 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 1: Did we did? We go on a tangent because you 670 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:24,560 Speaker 1: we were talking about New York. We were talking about 671 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 1: New York. So back to New York, the cheese, they 672 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 1: end up squashing the beef everyone not everyone. Actually, I 673 00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 1: threaded about this because thread is still popping right now, 674 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:36,880 Speaker 1: and I really love it. I think if thread is 675 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: like my vacation home, love that for you because you 676 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 1: never were on Twitter, so this is great. Instagram is 677 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:45,600 Speaker 1: like my apartment in LA. There's like sirens and people 678 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 1: screaming at each other, like it's just very chaotic and intense, 679 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 1: where Threads is like the desert of social media. 680 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 2: No app. 681 00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,400 Speaker 1: They use it, they use it, but everyone's so friendly, 682 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 1: Like I could say anything on there, like tooting my 683 00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,640 Speaker 1: own horn and everyone's like, you go girl, sleigh the day, 684 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: like they're so kind. So I posted like what do 685 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: y'all think about this? And there were just a few, 686 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,840 Speaker 1: a few that said, I can't believe that the biggest 687 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: drama is about cheese. Let's go back. Are you a 688 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:23,960 Speaker 1: real Housewives watcher? Just like throwback Days Bubbs, Mister Bubbs 689 00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 1: is throw and through, So then I think you'd agree 690 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 1: with me on this. Okay, if you go back to 691 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 1: early seasons of like Housewives and the drama that they 692 00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 1: had and why we fell in love with this franchise. 693 00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: It is the silliest drama in the world. It's about 694 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:44,320 Speaker 1: sprinkle cookies, It's about who didn't get invited to a dinner. 695 00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 1: You know, like it's a very, very stupid, but it's 696 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 1: relatable because in real life, most people's drama is not 697 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:57,240 Speaker 1: people going to prison or being indicted on like insurance fraud, 698 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 1: like whatever it may be. You know, like, in real life, 699 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,760 Speaker 1: your best friend isn't going toes with the legal system 700 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:08,240 Speaker 1: over seven hundred and fifty thousand dollars earrings. So maybe 701 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 1: there is a shift that's happening, and we've given the 702 00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 1: people too much of like intense drama that they're bored. 703 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,760 Speaker 1: But I would like the viewers to really go back 704 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:20,240 Speaker 1: to like the first days of Housewives, the whole reason 705 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 1: why there's one hundred and seventy two cities of the 706 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:27,960 Speaker 1: Real Housewives franchise, damn, the normal freaking drama that you 707 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,640 Speaker 1: can relate to. You also have to remember, this is 708 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 1: me defending Ronie right now, because I think everyone should 709 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,360 Speaker 1: give it a try. This is a brand new cast. 710 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:40,279 Speaker 1: They're just getting used to having their lives filmed. Some 711 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 1: are gonna take it on better than others. Some are 712 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 1: gonna overcompensate, some are gonna get intimidated. Some are just 713 00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 1: gonna thrive. And it's like like Aarin and gen alliance thriving. 714 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:54,839 Speaker 1: Like I feel like if I were to meet them 715 00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 1: in person, they would be the exact same person that 716 00:35:56,840 --> 00:35:59,480 Speaker 1: they are on camera. There are somewhere I'm like, oh, 717 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: I feel like you're a little bit more tamed than 718 00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 1: you are on the show. I love all of it, 719 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,480 Speaker 1: but I want people to give it a chance and 720 00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: just know, like, of course it's going to be about 721 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 1: cheese right now, Like you can't just go in and 722 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 1: these people, for the first time ever, are having to 723 00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:20,239 Speaker 1: talk behind people's backs on camera. Usually normal people they 724 00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,319 Speaker 1: go tell their friend and then like GE's squashed, right, 725 00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,439 Speaker 1: and that person doesn't tell Now you got to say 726 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:28,759 Speaker 1: that stuff, And then the next scene you better be 727 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,480 Speaker 1: telling the other person what that person just told you, 728 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,319 Speaker 1: because if not, someone's gonna step in and be like, hey, 729 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,400 Speaker 1: remember that thing which you never have to do anything 730 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 1: you don't want to do, But at the end of 731 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 1: the day, it's gonna air. You might as well just 732 00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,759 Speaker 1: like air your dirty laundry to that person and not 733 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,879 Speaker 1: have to deal with the repercussions at the reunion, because 734 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 1: that's when it gets intense and the audience calls you out. 735 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,400 Speaker 3: If you wanted to, if you were to have one 736 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:57,640 Speaker 3: of the new rony ladies on this podcast. 737 00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,440 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that is so freaking hard. Would die 738 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:03,799 Speaker 1: to have Jenna Alliance. Obviously she's an icon in her 739 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 1: closet's insane, but I think the first one would probably 740 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:12,920 Speaker 1: be Brinn. Okay, yes, why I fell in love with 741 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:16,360 Speaker 1: her once she said that her go to is massage 742 00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,799 Speaker 1: porn because that's what my go to is when I 743 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:21,760 Speaker 1: do watch porn, which is like a rare occasion. Wow, 744 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 1: you hear that, fellas like when a massage goes like 745 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 1: a little too far. 746 00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:29,560 Speaker 2: You're like upstairs in the old massage parlor. 747 00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:33,120 Speaker 3: I heard that happens more than we think. My question, 748 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:35,919 Speaker 3: I'm really glad you brought up Brynn Easton's like wait 749 00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 3: and same morning, so I heard because I was again 750 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,720 Speaker 3: doing research, so I've seen interview clips. I heard bren 751 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,520 Speaker 3: is close friends with Pandora, Lisa vander Pump's daughter, and 752 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,279 Speaker 3: there was talk years ago about her possibly being on 753 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 3: vander Pump Rules. Not only that she made out with 754 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 3: Peter on Halloween one time, so this is fun. 755 00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:02,319 Speaker 1: Peter like pulls mad hot, Like what is that? Bravo Peter, 756 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:06,360 Speaker 1: Bravo Peter. He's pulled all the baddest. Yeah. Well, I 757 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,280 Speaker 1: I tagged all of the girls in my threads post 758 00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:12,239 Speaker 1: and Brinn reached out and was like, I met you 759 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,840 Speaker 1: years ago with Pandora Villa Blanca, and I was like, 760 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,400 Speaker 1: I knew that she looked familiar. So yeah, she's like 761 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:21,319 Speaker 1: very much in the circle of Pandora's life. Amazing, so 762 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,840 Speaker 1: I would love to get her on the podcast. 763 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:23,279 Speaker 2: You know what. 764 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 1: I also loved about watching these women. They talk like 765 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:31,319 Speaker 1: we do, Like they say like that slaps. I think 766 00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:34,799 Speaker 1: it's Uba said during sex she's a starfish, And I'm like, 767 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,960 Speaker 1: I talk about like I use those things because I'm 768 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 1: so used to watching these women who are so much 769 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 1: older than me, and of course they're fabulous, but it's 770 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,880 Speaker 1: not relatable. And now we've taken a group of women 771 00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: who are like so cool, all different age range, and 772 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:57,320 Speaker 1: that age ranges overcho whor's it really hard today? But 773 00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,719 Speaker 1: like these women really are friends, Like that is new 774 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,479 Speaker 1: York like a very diverse group of women who get along. 775 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:07,000 Speaker 1: All of their houses are phenomenal gen alliance closet. I 776 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:10,080 Speaker 1: want to live in there and to see her call 777 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 1: out and actually have producers keep it in. When Brennan 778 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 1: Aaron hug after Cheesegate is squashed and one is in 779 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:21,400 Speaker 1: sequence and the other one is in lace, and she's like, 780 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,400 Speaker 1: I was fine with the clothes being on, but then 781 00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:25,960 Speaker 1: they go to hug, and I was like, everyone knows 782 00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 1: that if you are in lace or someone else's and 783 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:33,239 Speaker 1: the other person, the opposing party is in sequence, you 784 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 1: go like this and you go whah whah, no touching 785 00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,600 Speaker 1: because the sequin will then attach itself to the lace 786 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 1: pull and then your fabric is screwed and the look 787 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,640 Speaker 1: is ruined. Everyone knows this. Everyone knows this. 788 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:48,080 Speaker 2: I know it. 789 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,879 Speaker 1: So sequence you don't know that, No secuin, you don't hug, 790 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:55,360 Speaker 1: absolutely not. If you came near me in sequence and 791 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 1: I was in lace, I would it's screwt. Thank god, 792 00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:02,479 Speaker 1: I've never been Oh wait, wow, I'm learning something. See 793 00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 1: they're keeping little things in that are like so it's like, yes, 794 00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:08,840 Speaker 1: I love that they kept that in because it's so 795 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,879 Speaker 1: important for the world to know that you air kiss 796 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 1: with puppy paws in the air. Back away, back away, 797 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:17,840 Speaker 1: That's what I like. 798 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:18,760 Speaker 2: It's like covid. 799 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,439 Speaker 1: Well, it's six feet six feet when you're in lace, 800 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,000 Speaker 1: six feet apart. 801 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 2: And then back to back to starfish? Is that like 802 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:27,880 Speaker 2: dead fish? 803 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:32,120 Speaker 1: Well, it's kind of like where you lay yourself like this, Oh, 804 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,719 Speaker 1: dead fish. No, it's a starfish. 805 00:40:35,680 --> 00:40:39,359 Speaker 2: We always used to say fish. How did she? How 806 00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:41,759 Speaker 2: was she? She's a dead fish? She just lied there? 807 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,920 Speaker 1: And people want to know what helps you stay sober? 808 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:47,160 Speaker 1: Thoughts of that? 809 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,520 Speaker 2: Do you remember? 810 00:40:50,840 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 1: Do I want to know? What else? I want to know? 811 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:54,120 Speaker 1: In coherently? 812 00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,120 Speaker 2: I can't remember exactly where because I wasn't there, but 813 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 2: I think we were in Miami, okay, and you were 814 00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,640 Speaker 2: at a restaurant and you fell up the stairs and. 815 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:08,480 Speaker 1: Everyone was disney World, disney World, and I got sober 816 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:12,279 Speaker 1: that same same It was the same okay, the same 817 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 1: Disney World in your book because you talked about that. Yeah, 818 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,319 Speaker 1: it was falling up the stairs of the hard rock. 819 00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:20,640 Speaker 1: What was it Red Robin or something? Red Robin? 820 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,920 Speaker 2: Was it Red Robin or was it they had like the. 821 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,359 Speaker 1: Captain Crunch like Planet Hollywood that thing. 822 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,279 Speaker 2: That's what it was. 823 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,160 Speaker 1: A tumble or a trip. It was constantly falling to 824 00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:33,960 Speaker 1: where my mom. I looked at her and I was like, 825 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,200 Speaker 1: you have to walk me to the bathroom. I'm so drunk, 826 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,000 Speaker 1: I can't even walk. 827 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 2: My mom was very embarrassed. So that tells you something 828 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:40,880 Speaker 2: because she doesn't get that embarrassed. 829 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,640 Speaker 1: She doesn't. She's so cool about that trip. I got sober. Wow, 830 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 1: well that was the trip that made me get sober. 831 00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 2: That was my rock bottom moment, sliding downstairs. 832 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,799 Speaker 1: The entire trip. Let's not go here. This is very 833 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,719 Speaker 1: intense and how we're getting how we're getting dark. What 834 00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:58,680 Speaker 1: are my amas? 835 00:41:58,719 --> 00:41:58,919 Speaker 2: Baby? 836 00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,800 Speaker 1: Okay, we have some great ones today. 837 00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,560 Speaker 3: First, if you're allowed to answer, is it weird having 838 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,840 Speaker 3: to film with Sandy after everything that happened? 839 00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:13,880 Speaker 1: Extremely weird, extremely freaking weird. I am not envious of 840 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,840 Speaker 1: the people who used to have friendships with him, because 841 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 1: I feel like I get the long end of the 842 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 1: stick where it's like I never really cared for you, 843 00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:27,800 Speaker 1: so like there's nothing to repair. There's no memory I 844 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,319 Speaker 1: can go back to of like you being a good 845 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,840 Speaker 1: dude or fun times that we had. I don't have that, 846 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:36,840 Speaker 1: you know, so for me, him coming around is just 847 00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,600 Speaker 1: like he's been around when I haven't wanted him there 848 00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:43,239 Speaker 1: for a really long time, you know. But also, I'm 849 00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: not going to have Sandoval's presence dictate if I go 850 00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,560 Speaker 1: and have a good time in life. Where I understand 851 00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,839 Speaker 1: if other people do, is that I'm trying to give 852 00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 1: just enough without getting in trouble. Yeah, that makes sense. 853 00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 3: This next one, I believe answered before, But I know 854 00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:02,799 Speaker 3: people love when you talk about this, so I'm gonna 855 00:43:02,800 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 3: I'm gonna read it. I'm also sober, and first and 856 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,399 Speaker 3: foremost want to congratulate you on your sobriety. Second of all, 857 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 3: how have you found that it has affected your dating experience. 858 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 3: I'm worried about dating for the first time sober. 859 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:20,279 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's affected it tremendously. I don't really date. 860 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:25,440 Speaker 1: I've had some hookups here and there, but you're fully 861 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,840 Speaker 1: with your thoughts and you can't calm anything down, and 862 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:34,279 Speaker 1: there's there's no social lubrication. So it's definitely intense. And 863 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,160 Speaker 1: I think if it's hard for you and triggering to 864 00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:39,399 Speaker 1: where you feel like you need to drink, I would 865 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,560 Speaker 1: say halt and do some do some self work before 866 00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,040 Speaker 1: you throw yourself into the dating scene because I don't 867 00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:51,360 Speaker 1: think dating is worth giving up sobriety. You know, I 868 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 1: think if there was I think, if I'm going to 869 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:55,680 Speaker 1: start dating, because I don't go out much, I just 870 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,360 Speaker 1: don't see the point. I've seen what's out there and 871 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 1: it's like very, very grim. If I were to start dating, 872 00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,080 Speaker 1: I think I I'm warming up to the idea of 873 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,319 Speaker 1: dating apps. Oh yeah, I know. I heard you mention 874 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:12,799 Speaker 1: that a couple of weeks ago. I had never been 875 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,759 Speaker 1: into them, but now just with everything I've experienced, and 876 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:18,759 Speaker 1: there's a place like I don't think you're going to 877 00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:20,680 Speaker 1: meet someone at a bar. You're not going to meet 878 00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:24,040 Speaker 1: someone at a restaurant. Most likely. Maybe people have, but 879 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,920 Speaker 1: I think just the new age dating takes place on 880 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: dating apps where people are there, depending on the one 881 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 1: you go to and sign up for, people are there 882 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 1: to like find their person, and we've all kind of 883 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:38,640 Speaker 1: hit a wall. So I grew up with this girl, Danny, 884 00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:41,360 Speaker 1: and her sister is Whitney Wolf and she is the 885 00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 1: creator of Bumble and I loved when she started this 886 00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:47,560 Speaker 1: that it was all female driven, you know, the woman 887 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,279 Speaker 1: makes the call. They also take into account that like 888 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:56,320 Speaker 1: safety is first and foremost. So if I do decide 889 00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 1: to start dating again, which I'm not there yet, I 890 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 1: do think I'm going to dabble in the apps because 891 00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,960 Speaker 1: like the dms ain't working because that's a booty call, 892 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,359 Speaker 1: just like I don't leave the house really unless there's 893 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,439 Speaker 1: a reason. So like bumble is probably where I would 894 00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 1: start dating. And then I can tell people like in 895 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,400 Speaker 1: my profile, like I don't drink, so it's a different 896 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:20,240 Speaker 1: type of dude that's probably gonna, you know, attach himself 897 00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:24,799 Speaker 1: to me, right right, So match with a different right men? Right? 898 00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I just missed the dating apps because Kyle 899 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,839 Speaker 3: and I've been together for seven years. Bumble, you said 900 00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:34,879 Speaker 3: female let so that's like you I think I'm saying 901 00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,359 Speaker 3: this right. A guy can only talk to you if 902 00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:38,480 Speaker 3: you've swiped on him. 903 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:41,880 Speaker 2: Now, oh, from what I know, because I don't have it, 904 00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:45,680 Speaker 2: but I thought if you match, the only like he 905 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 2: can't DM you unless she dms first. So even if 906 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:50,960 Speaker 2: you match and then like she, I don't know if 907 00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,440 Speaker 2: you can read more about it, but unless she DMS him, 908 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:57,719 Speaker 2: he can't even talk to her. Yeah, the woman is right, 909 00:45:57,800 --> 00:45:59,759 Speaker 2: which I like because now it's almost like getting shut 910 00:45:59,800 --> 00:46:02,440 Speaker 2: down nicely if you don't get that chat right. 911 00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:07,040 Speaker 1: And I like, I just like the the optics of 912 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:11,719 Speaker 1: like my life being where I call the shots. Yeah, yeah, no, 913 00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,560 Speaker 1: I love that horrible No, I feel like my asks 914 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,680 Speaker 1: aren't that intense. It's like I just need you to 915 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:19,680 Speaker 1: like be kind to me and like don't cheat on me. 916 00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:23,480 Speaker 1: Like it's pretty simple, you would think, Well, you would 917 00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:27,080 Speaker 1: think it's actually very complex. All right, what's that next one? 918 00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:30,640 Speaker 3: Do you have advice for starting a new chapter in life? 919 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,080 Speaker 3: I need a boost from my fave girl. 920 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, starting a new chapter. Well, I'm all 921 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,759 Speaker 1: about the universe putting you exactly where you're supposed to be. 922 00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,920 Speaker 1: So I think my biggest thing was creating a relationship 923 00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:47,640 Speaker 1: with my higher power, making a list of things that 924 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,960 Speaker 1: I want out of life, and then doing whatever I 925 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 1: possibly can to achieve those things. And I feel like 926 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,560 Speaker 1: when you, I know, this sounds so cheesy and maybe 927 00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:58,439 Speaker 1: I'm like up in the night. This is just what's 928 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:02,040 Speaker 1: worked for me. The relationship with the higher power on 929 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:05,360 Speaker 1: top of like me me believing in the universe and 930 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 1: working with it has led me to a place where 931 00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:15,400 Speaker 1: I can live a very happy life. That's fulfilling without 932 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:19,160 Speaker 1: needing anybody or anything in it. If that makes sense, 933 00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:21,040 Speaker 1: Like there's not one thing that I can think of 934 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,240 Speaker 1: where I go. When I have that, I'll be happy, 935 00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 1: Like happiness just exists. And I think, once you have 936 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:32,000 Speaker 1: that dynamic with the universe, and maybe I sound like 937 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,440 Speaker 1: a quack, but this is what's worked for me, So 938 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,120 Speaker 1: this is what I'm going to project onto all of you. 939 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:39,239 Speaker 1: Once you have that dynamic, you end up in a 940 00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 1: place where you're like wow, for for the first time, 941 00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:46,239 Speaker 1: like I feel safe because I'm not relying on anything else. 942 00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:47,959 Speaker 1: That makes sense. 943 00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:51,480 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, I hope very profound. I have two more 944 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,200 Speaker 3: this one. Do you think you'll ever want to get married. 945 00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:58,440 Speaker 1: I don't think I ever want to be legally married, 946 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 1: but I would most certainly be into a commitment ceremony 947 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:03,399 Speaker 1: where like I invite a lot of people to come 948 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:08,200 Speaker 1: celebrate a partnership that I hope is for life. But 949 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:12,399 Speaker 1: the second, like a document is needing signing, is where 950 00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, you keep what you have. I'll keep 951 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:17,120 Speaker 1: what I have, and like, if this doesn't work out, 952 00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:20,640 Speaker 1: like we part ways and you move along and I'll. 953 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:21,000 Speaker 2: Do the same. 954 00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: Like the marriage certificate is not important to me. Especially. 955 00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,560 Speaker 1: I said something to Mom last night. I like walked 956 00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 1: in feeling like I had just come up with the 957 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,160 Speaker 1: most profound thing in the world. I was like, Mom, 958 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 1: I'm about relations not relationships, because once you cross into that, 959 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 1: it turns into relationship. And she was like, how long 960 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,000 Speaker 1: have you been thinking about that? 961 00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,359 Speaker 2: I was like a while, a while on her way 962 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,000 Speaker 2: down to Palm and on our way back, I'm like. 963 00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,719 Speaker 1: Which a really good thing to shade it down? Count No, 964 00:48:53,960 --> 00:48:56,359 Speaker 1: but if you think about it, think about it. Kyle 965 00:48:56,440 --> 00:49:00,880 Speaker 1: and Mauricio what's the hot guy's name? And Sophia Viagara 966 00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:06,279 Speaker 1: and did Jason Momoa ended it with his long time Yes? 967 00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:08,040 Speaker 1: These people were all married. 968 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 2: What about Corey? And who's Corey Gamble? 969 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: And Chris they're not married and they're going strong. They're 970 00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:19,440 Speaker 1: not married. Actually, you know, Goldie Han and Kurt Russell 971 00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:26,800 Speaker 1: not married. Freaking right. Don't ruin a good thing for me. 972 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,839 Speaker 1: Give me a nice, cute little ring. Don't even care 973 00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:37,520 Speaker 1: what it looks like commitment without like the paperwork. I mean, 974 00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:40,440 Speaker 1: I've had paperwork from someone in the legal system, and 975 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 1: it's not that much. I don't dig it that much. 976 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 1: And I think more people are seeing it that way now. 977 00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,880 Speaker 3: I know a lot more people now who are like no, 978 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 3: I know who are in healthy, long term relationships and 979 00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:53,880 Speaker 3: they're like no, I never want to get married. And 980 00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:55,719 Speaker 3: not even to bring it back to the dating app, 981 00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,359 Speaker 3: but it made me think that's another thing you can 982 00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:03,279 Speaker 3: cover before you go out with someone. Hey, not only 983 00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 3: am I sober Number one? Number two, I'm never I'm 984 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:06,920 Speaker 3: not a marriage person. 985 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:08,400 Speaker 1: So if you are, I'm not the one for you. 986 00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:10,800 Speaker 1: And you can just say you don't have to waste 987 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,719 Speaker 1: a date out. And I was just thinking about that. 988 00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:17,279 Speaker 1: That's like, yeah, I think I'll find someone like later 989 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,680 Speaker 1: on in life, when I have what I want in business, 990 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,480 Speaker 1: when I have what I want with my two kids, 991 00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,880 Speaker 1: and then then we'll decide to like go out and 992 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 1: find a partner. Right now, I'm feeling very. 993 00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:33,960 Speaker 2: Happy love that you're not going to get married. 994 00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,560 Speaker 1: No, he said, I think that's where we are there anymore. 995 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:39,160 Speaker 1: We have one more? 996 00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:40,200 Speaker 2: Do you want more? Let's do it. 997 00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,440 Speaker 3: This is just so bride again. Sobriety and how you 998 00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 3: stay sober with being social. 999 00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:48,400 Speaker 1: That was never a problem for me. I feel like 1000 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,320 Speaker 1: when I woke up on October twenty second, I just knew, 1001 00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,080 Speaker 1: like I will never touch alcohol again. And I'm standing 1002 00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,279 Speaker 1: firm on this because it just like felt dark, Like 1003 00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,680 Speaker 1: I knew, it felt like an elephant lifted off of 1004 00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:01,960 Speaker 1: my chin when I said I wasn't drinking anymore. I 1005 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:04,279 Speaker 1: loved that feeling. I liked knowing there was a light 1006 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,120 Speaker 1: at the end of the tunnel and I didn't want 1007 00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:09,320 Speaker 1: to go back. So it kind of goes back to 1008 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:12,080 Speaker 1: the dating thing. If you're feeling triggered by going out 1009 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,880 Speaker 1: and being social and you want to drink, like you 1010 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,400 Speaker 1: have to stay home. Yeah, that's just the way. If 1011 00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 1: you have a drinking problem and going out triggers you, 1012 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,480 Speaker 1: and you have to drink when you're out. You have 1013 00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,759 Speaker 1: to choose you and your health and know that like 1014 00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:29,839 Speaker 1: bad things can happen when when you drink too much 1015 00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:33,160 Speaker 1: and it's not worth it. Also coming up with like 1016 00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:36,719 Speaker 1: a little drink, that's kind of what you know. It's 1017 00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,799 Speaker 1: like your social lubricant, which for me, I'd have all 1018 00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:43,080 Speaker 1: of the things that I drink depending on where I'm going, 1019 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,480 Speaker 1: if I'm going to a nightclub or filming late It's 1020 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,880 Speaker 1: like I have a diet Cocher or Red Bull if 1021 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,200 Speaker 1: it's like a pool day where people are having rose. 1022 00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:54,080 Speaker 1: I have an Arnold palmer. Everything else is like, let's 1023 00:51:54,120 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 1: have my sparkling water. So I think once you kind 1024 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 1: of train your mind the placebo effect of like when 1025 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:01,279 Speaker 1: I have this, it put me in this mood, I 1026 00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:02,160 Speaker 1: would start doing that. 1027 00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1028 00:52:04,040 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 1: I also love a stemmed glass. We love a stem 1029 00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:12,640 Speaker 1: feel like you make it feel like you're drinking. Yes, Nancy, Nancy, Yes, 1030 00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:16,279 Speaker 1: I love that. Before we sign off, what is We'll 1031 00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,000 Speaker 1: start with you, t T what is your ache of 1032 00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:18,359 Speaker 1: the day. 1033 00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,920 Speaker 2: I have a stye in my eye. I think I 1034 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 2: got it in palm springs from the wind, So that's great. 1035 00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:27,600 Speaker 2: And now I've been crying because the cat. So now 1036 00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:30,000 Speaker 2: it's just been a whole nightmare. So that's the egg 1037 00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:31,560 Speaker 2: of the week because I don't see this going away 1038 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,040 Speaker 2: anytime soon. And then my relief of the week is 1039 00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:36,520 Speaker 2: I get it clean. I gotta do this. 1040 00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,799 Speaker 1: Oh that is a nice distraction after the night you had. 1041 00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 2: And then I get to go home and hang out 1042 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:47,760 Speaker 2: with Obo. Oh oboe, my little little stinker. 1043 00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:48,400 Speaker 1: I love it. 1044 00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:49,360 Speaker 2: So that's my relief. 1045 00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:52,120 Speaker 1: Good, that's a good relief. What about you, Jess? Love it? 1046 00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,680 Speaker 3: My ache of the week is probably I'm dealing with 1047 00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:57,520 Speaker 3: We wear headphones now if you're watching the. 1048 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 1: Video, and it's hard to hear my voice so close 1049 00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:04,680 Speaker 1: to my ears. 1050 00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:10,279 Speaker 3: It's like a bit like nails on a chalkboard to me, 1051 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:14,520 Speaker 3: to me and to some listeners, as we know, Okay, 1052 00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:16,520 Speaker 3: it's good for me though, because I'm. 1053 00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:19,400 Speaker 1: Dealing with patience. It's just so close. 1054 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:22,279 Speaker 3: And you know, some listeners used to DM me and 1055 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:25,040 Speaker 3: be like, your voice is like nails on a chalkboard, 1056 00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:27,800 Speaker 3: and I would say, no, it's not really, But Mike's 1057 00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:29,759 Speaker 3: don't lie, and headphones don't lie. 1058 00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:35,040 Speaker 1: Like it's good for you to have them on. Yeah, yeah, patience, patience, 1059 00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:41,080 Speaker 1: Maybe learn how to talk different, maybe deep in those voice. 1060 00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:43,480 Speaker 1: I'm totally kidding. I feel like our voice is sound 1061 00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:45,760 Speaker 1: the same I've always if you had an annoying voice, 1062 00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to spend as much time with 1063 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,439 Speaker 1: you as I do. So anyone who's pointing that out, 1064 00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:53,600 Speaker 1: tell them to kick rocks and kick and like, get 1065 00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,600 Speaker 1: a life, because there's so much going on in the 1066 00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 1: world that like the last thing I would hone in 1067 00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,240 Speaker 1: on is someone's voice on a podcast. 1068 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,239 Speaker 3: And to the lovely people because I've said this before, 1069 00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,239 Speaker 3: I don't I love you so much. I don't need 1070 00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:05,040 Speaker 3: the dms that are. 1071 00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,400 Speaker 1: Like those people are rude. You have the best voice. 1072 00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:09,839 Speaker 1: Thank you, I love you. But it is I'm getting 1073 00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:12,279 Speaker 1: used to. So that's my ache. But I'll work on it. 1074 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:18,399 Speaker 1: I'll work on it. And my relief is I think 1075 00:54:19,239 --> 00:54:22,160 Speaker 1: just I mean it is coming in today and being 1076 00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:26,319 Speaker 1: with you guys. Yeah, that's my relief. This podcast, Yes, 1077 00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:32,200 Speaker 1: my fam I love this. That's amazing. I would say 1078 00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,560 Speaker 1: the ache of the week for me was probably the 1079 00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:43,880 Speaker 1: Tahoe trip. It was completely emotionally depleting, and my relief 1080 00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:46,000 Speaker 1: was going to the desert, even though it was one 1081 00:54:46,080 --> 00:54:48,800 Speaker 1: hundred and twenty too hot to even get into a pool. 1082 00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:55,000 Speaker 1: Just being in that house is so amazing. And I 1083 00:54:55,239 --> 00:55:02,279 Speaker 1: slept in until ten am. Yes, Bravo, bravo. It was 1084 00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:06,120 Speaker 1: much dessert freaking awesome and we get to hang out 1085 00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: with oh and the podcast. After a really like dark 1086 00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 1: and heavy night, we get to do the podcast. So 1087 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:17,080 Speaker 1: there's a lot of relief that came after some dark moments. 1088 00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,520 Speaker 1: And I appreciate you all, you guys. I want to 1089 00:55:19,560 --> 00:55:21,640 Speaker 1: thank you for listening to another episode up the give 1090 00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:24,359 Speaker 1: them a LA podcast. I hope you enjoyed. I love 1091 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,919 Speaker 1: you all, Happy hump Day, and we'll catch you next week.