Speaker 1: Welcome back to the Overcover podcast. I am your hosst Jennica.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for choosing to watch and
Speaker 1: listen to this episode today. I am excited because we're
Speaker 1: going to have a cute little girl chat with Miss
Speaker 1: s speech Halls. If you guys don't know who she is,
Speaker 1: I've found her and been obsessed with her on TikTok
Speaker 1: and all her social media because she just gets me.
Speaker 1: She asks the questions that plus sized women need to
Speaker 1: ask or like that just want to know. And there
Speaker 1: was just this one. There's been a couple of tiktoks, which,
Speaker 1: by the way, thank you so much for joining now.
Speaker 1: I think so happy, so grateful. I'm grateful. I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk to you because I love what you do
Speaker 1: on your platform and I want to be able to
Speaker 1: put more light to it because I do feel like
Speaker 1: a lot of plus sized girls. As someone who's been
Speaker 1: plus sized her whole life, I don't care how much
Speaker 1: weight I lose or whatever. I'm I'm a plus sized
Speaker 1: girlly at heart. I've been trugging my whole life, so
Speaker 1: dating was always an issue right right, And I love
Speaker 1: that you put light and you're so unashamed like to
Speaker 1: go ahead and ask these guys because I wouldn't be
Speaker 1: able to do it, Like it's crazy. She'll go on
Speaker 1: TikTok or show make videos likes her content, like would
Speaker 1: you ever date a plus size girl?
Speaker 2: Why?
Speaker 1: Or why not? What made you start doing that?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, first I want to say thank you so
Speaker 2: much for having me, and I'm so happy to hear
Speaker 2: that you enjoy the content and like it's something that
Speaker 2: like you saw on your for you page and you
Speaker 2: were so interested in, like intrigued to check out. But yeah,
Speaker 2: that's literally the exact reason why I started doing that
Speaker 2: type of content, because I really am a true, firm
Speaker 2: believer that the most value comes from like the most
Speaker 2: uncomfortable conversations. I agree, and especially when it comes to
Speaker 2: like plus sized dating or being kind of like a
Speaker 2: voice for curby girls. Like I feel like a lot
Speaker 2: of girls, especially girls that look like me and you
Speaker 2: and stuff growing up, they think or they don't put
Speaker 2: them out there to start dating because they have the
Speaker 2: assumption of like, oh, what if he thinks that I'm
Speaker 2: bigger in person and he doesn't like me, I'm ashamed
Speaker 2: because of X Y and Z or I'm nervous to
Speaker 2: like go out and meet guys because it's like where
Speaker 2: would I find the confidence and stuff. But the primary
Speaker 2: reason why I started the videos is to show girls
Speaker 2: that like it doesn't matter, like there is a lot
Speaker 2: of guys out there that are one hundred percent just
Speaker 2: don't care you know what size you are, But also
Speaker 2: not to sugarcoat that there is still very much plus
Speaker 2: size discrimination that does absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 1: I feel like even in a fashion and a lot
Speaker 1: of things, like no matter how much we talk about it,
Speaker 1: I feel like it's still not inclusive. And it makes
Speaker 1: me sad because I do remember like having those feelings
Speaker 1: like growing up and even to this day, Like you know,
Speaker 1: I've always had body dysmorphia. I've always had I've always struggled,
Speaker 1: like damn, like and my two am I too thick
Speaker 1: for a guy to like get with me? Because I
Speaker 1: was I've been single for a very long time, you know,
Speaker 1: So it messes with your head obviously, like with time
Speaker 1: and therapy and like it gets better and like, you know,
Speaker 1: I know who I am and I'm very confident and
Speaker 1: I love myself. I love my body. But growing up,
Speaker 1: it was a bitch, Like it was like even to
Speaker 1: this day, and I know like how hard it is,
Speaker 1: even like in fitting rooms. Like I was with a
Speaker 1: friend the other day and I was just like, dude,
Speaker 1: like I hated going to the mall. Yeah, hated shopping.
Speaker 1: I hated going with my friends, like knowing that I
Speaker 1: know I wasn't gonna find anything there. Did you have
Speaker 1: any similar experiences like that?
Speaker 2: No, one thousand percent. I'm so glad that you brought
Speaker 2: it up, because it's like going to the mall ever
Speaker 2: since I was a little girl. I don't know how
Speaker 2: it was for you, but it was never necessarily a
Speaker 2: fun experience. But I remember wanting to have those fun
Speaker 2: experiences with like friends, girlfriends, even maybe like if you're
Speaker 2: on a date with the guy, like I always.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's like okay, sorry to cut you out because
Speaker 1: I had a thought. But it's like I always thought
Speaker 1: about like am I gonna fit like in his hoodies? Yeah,
Speaker 1: like I would never be able to get one of
Speaker 1: his hoodies because like what if I don't fit like whatever?
Speaker 1: Like so it's like little things like that, and I
Speaker 1: don't think people really take that into consideration.
Speaker 2: No, they don't. And I've had those experiences where I'm
Speaker 2: on a date with a guy and it's chilly, and
Speaker 2: I don't necessarily have like the warness of jacket, and
Speaker 2: he's like, hey, like, do you want to borrow my
Speaker 2: flanne or do you want to borrow my jacket? And
Speaker 2: I want to, but I'm always like should I embarrass
Speaker 2: myself right now? Or should I not? Like what if
Speaker 2: it doesn't fit? But luckily I did squeeze into it.
Speaker 2: It was a little tight.
Speaker 1: But I did it. No, but it's even then, it's
Speaker 1: still cute. You want to have like those experiences and stuff.
Speaker 1: Exactly how is dating for you now? Like, let's say
Speaker 1: we're in twenty twenty four, like it gets it's a
Speaker 1: little how old are you, by the way, twenty four?
Speaker 1: Twenty four? Okay, twenty seven a little right there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you know, guys our age are just.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, okay, So I'm twenty four and to
Speaker 2: be completely transparent, I don't know about you, but I've
Speaker 2: never really been in a serious long term relationship. I've been,
Speaker 2: of course, I've been dating guys, but like not enough
Speaker 2: where I feel like I could constantly say like, yes,
Speaker 2: this was my this is my boyfriend, you know what
Speaker 2: I mean? So I wouldn't necessarily say that I have
Speaker 2: an ex because I don't feel like none of them
Speaker 2: have been worthy of that title. There you go, but yes,
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. Just like you, I feel like still
Speaker 2: to this day, it is pretty difficult, and I feel
Speaker 2: like dating in this generation is hard enough as it
Speaker 2: is no matter what body size you are. But as
Speaker 2: a curby girl, yeah, as a curby girl, it could
Speaker 2: be sometimes ten times or harder. But that doesn't mean
Speaker 2: that it's necessarily so much because of your size. Sometimes
Speaker 2: it could be like an US issue where I know,
Speaker 2: for me still to this day, you mentioned like having
Speaker 2: or struggling with a little bit of body dysmorphia. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I totally relate to that. Like some days I look
Speaker 2: in the mirror and I feel like I look ten
Speaker 2: times bigger than I actually am, or sometimes look in
Speaker 2: the mirror and I feel like for some reason I'm
Speaker 2: smaller it on a specific day. I don't know if
Speaker 2: you've ever felt, yes, and then.
Speaker 1: You on that specific day you're like, I just ate
Speaker 1: like pretty bad, Like do I look like you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like you question everything which is and
Speaker 1: I'm being very fully transparent and honest because these are
Speaker 1: thoughts that happen every day, and it's like, I feel
Speaker 1: like you have to have a good, confident man who
Speaker 1: can also make you feel beautiful exactly like you already
Speaker 1: feel beautiful, right, But it's like I want you to
Speaker 1: like love me, like you know, like I'm I'm I'm
Speaker 1: I'm a prize. We're prizes at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: And it's like even when we have those thoughts or
Speaker 1: have those moments of doubt and just like it's like
Speaker 1: I remind me and it's and I'm not saying I'm
Speaker 1: saying dating specifically, and it doesn't have to be a
Speaker 1: guy that does that, like for you, you know, but
Speaker 1: we're talking about dating and it's like this is what
Speaker 1: I would love, I would love like you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I've only to be honest, I've only been in one,
Speaker 1: seri one one very serious. I know. I'm like, do
Speaker 1: they get the title or not exactly no, but I've
Speaker 1: only been in one very serious relationship too, and it
Speaker 1: was with the girl only and that and that's it.
Speaker 1: And now I'm like dating guys or whatever. But even then,
Speaker 1: it's like it gets complicated, it's too complicated. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: I'm not even talking about you know, sizes or whatever.
Speaker 1: But it is like today's world, I feel like the
Speaker 1: guys are so whack. Yeah, like the communication, the maturity,
Speaker 1: and it's like if like I feel like us women
Speaker 1: have a lot of way more emotional maturity this right, yes, intelligence.
Speaker 2: And to kind of to kind of go on to
Speaker 2: what to kind of go on, Like on the topic
Speaker 2: of the body dysmorpha, I feel like sometimes because when
Speaker 2: I have those days and I'm struggling and stuff, sometimes
Speaker 2: that could bleed into our relationships with others because maybe
Speaker 2: our relationship with ourselves aren't isn't the best, and it's
Speaker 2: like it's I don't know about you, but it's like
Speaker 2: a constant rollercoaster where some days or some weeks or
Speaker 2: months like I'm super com amazing, but then I have like,
Speaker 2: of course, like those months where it's just like you
Speaker 2: have to make sure you have a positive relationship with
Speaker 2: yourself in order to have one with someone.
Speaker 1: It all starts with you. Absolutely, I feel like it
Speaker 1: all starts within your heart. And you know, baby girl,
Speaker 1: if you plus size, we're we're getting men Like it's
Speaker 1: we're absolutely we're the prize. I don't want it to
Speaker 1: be any discouragement. I feel like, again it starts within
Speaker 1: and how you feel. I don't know, I've I know
Speaker 1: you have your podcasts and stuff. What are some tips
Speaker 1: that you can give or that you have given for
Speaker 1: plus sized dating or just girls in general.
Speaker 2: I know I feel like dating, like I said, is
Speaker 2: so hard nowadays. But I feel like, like I just mentioned,
Speaker 2: making sure to work on yourself every single day self
Speaker 2: reflect journal, because the more you work on yourself, the
Speaker 2: more that you you know, kind of do the absolute
Speaker 2: best you can to be the best version of yourself possible.
Speaker 2: That's of course going to like spread onto your partner.
Speaker 2: And I truly do believe that you are what you attract.
Speaker 2: So I don't know if you're into like manifestation or spirituality,
Speaker 2: but as someone that like grew up the believer of
Speaker 2: like the law of attraction, for example, I think that
Speaker 2: does that does like reflect a lot within like your relationship.
Speaker 2: So as long as you're someone that's working on yourself.
Speaker 2: And I don't mean working on yourself in terms of
Speaker 2: like your body or looking your best physically, but I
Speaker 2: mean like truly inner like work that I feel like
Speaker 2: is super important, and I.
Speaker 1: Think all the rest falls or goes along with it
Speaker 1: as the time goes, you know, like taking care of
Speaker 1: our bodies. You could go to the gym the moment
Speaker 1: I get out, okay, okay, good. I always not. I
Speaker 1: always go by this quote you never regret your workout
Speaker 1: because it's true, and it's for some people and some not.
Speaker 1: For me, for my mental health and for my routine,
Speaker 1: I like going. It makes me feel better about myself
Speaker 1: and it helps my confidence. Yeah, so there's like little things.
Speaker 1: It's like, yes, you gotta take the time. I wake
Speaker 1: up in the morning, I pray, and I look at
Speaker 1: myself and I do my affirmation like look, you're a
Speaker 1: bad bitch today, like be a bad bitch, Like no,
Speaker 1: but like you're beautiful, you're kind like and it's really
Speaker 1: how you speak to yourself. You're you're.
Speaker 2: Your mouth.
Speaker 1: Your tongue has so much power. And what you say literally,
Speaker 1: what you say out loud is like you have to
Speaker 1: be very mindful like filter filter. You have to think
Speaker 1: positive and just speak good things to yourself, you know.
Speaker 2: And if you're someone that's listening and you find yourself
Speaker 2: with those like inner negative talk, or you say something
Speaker 2: out loud and you're just like you know, you catch
Speaker 2: yourself not really treating yourself as your own best friend,
Speaker 2: like really try to stop yourself, rewire your brain, rewire
Speaker 2: your language, and like completely flip it. Like if you
Speaker 2: if you're saying something negative, just do the episode best
Speaker 2: you can to like, okay, I retract that and then
Speaker 2: just tell yourself something positive to replace it, because, like
Speaker 2: you said exactly, like word has power. My mom tells
Speaker 2: me that all the time. And it's just like the
Speaker 2: way you talk to yourself is gonna reflect and.
Speaker 1: The way you talk to people too, like speak good,
Speaker 1: good would come to you. Yeah, just be kind and
Speaker 1: you know we're gonna go on a quick break and
Speaker 1: we'll be right back with SB. Welcome back you guys.
Speaker 1: I was scrolling unto my little homework and stuff. I
Speaker 1: saw some of your podcast episodes and I saw one
Speaker 1: that was super interesting about sex. Okay, and I love that,
Speaker 1: and I I didn't listen to it on purpose because
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you about it in person
Speaker 1: because I wanted I want to know, like, Okay, what
Speaker 1: are we talking about? Like I saw the positions I saw.
Speaker 1: I what was it best sex positions for plus size
Speaker 1: or something like that. Yes, I love that you did
Speaker 1: that though.
Speaker 2: Yes, I love how niche and like, I'm not afraid
Speaker 2: to get as vulnerable as possible. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: But I had a conversation with the young woman. Her
Speaker 2: name was Kayla, and she did such an excellent job
Speaker 2: leading the conversation. But we really got down to like
Speaker 2: the nitty gritty of like sex positions, what works best,
Speaker 2: what's like most comfortable for you in a plus sized body,
Speaker 2: because you know, it's such a range, like we have
Speaker 2: like apple shape, hair of shape, yeah, of someone you know, Yeah,
Speaker 2: So we really get down to specifics of it. Maybe
Speaker 2: a little bit was really inappropriate, but it was a
Speaker 2: really constructive conversation. I got a lot of good feedback.
Speaker 1: No, but I think it's important to talk about those
Speaker 1: things because one, I feel like guys don't know what
Speaker 1: they're doing sometimes half of the time, at least in
Speaker 1: the bedroom. We're gonna be very very honest right here.
Speaker 1: They don't. Yeah, some don't. Some do, And especially if
Speaker 1: you're plus sized, yes, it gets extra complicated.
Speaker 2: Or if it's their first time being in with someone.
Speaker 1: Plus exactly, which then it causes like some type of
Speaker 1: because you don't know, you're not gonna. I don't know,
Speaker 1: have you asked have you ever asked, like, have you
Speaker 1: ever been with like a thick girl, like with the
Speaker 1: with the person that you're dating, yeaes and like usually
Speaker 1: most of the time they're pretty honest.
Speaker 2: But something I want to say is that, like if
Speaker 2: you're a woman, it's totally okay to guide them, like
Speaker 2: when you're having intimacy, when you're doing something as simple
Speaker 2: as making out, when you're being like touchy, like.
Speaker 1: Okay, But the time, like one is too when do
Speaker 1: you start saying like what you want, what you like
Speaker 1: in the.
Speaker 2: Beginning, I mean in terms of like intimacy, is that
Speaker 2: what you mean intimacy?
Speaker 1: Like how far when dating are we in? Like I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about my life right now.
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, it's okay.
Speaker 1: I'm like okay, I think now at this point in
Speaker 1: dating with the specific somebody, I gotta start telling them, like,
Speaker 1: you know, there's certain things and I feel like that
Speaker 1: is important as a woman to express your needs. Yes,
Speaker 1: And I think I need to start I'm gonna start
Speaker 1: doing you started learning to do that, but you know
Speaker 1: it is important because they can't guess it's not it's
Speaker 1: like a you know, you gotta you gotta lead to
Speaker 1: these guys.
Speaker 2: Exactly, especially if you're like in the beginning stages of
Speaker 2: relationships and like let's say your your knees aren't exactly
Speaker 2: being met and you haven't exactly been telling them or
Speaker 2: communicating like what you want or let's say what you
Speaker 2: don't want. Maybe they're doing something that you're like, I
Speaker 2: don't know about that. Like it's okay, Like I said,
Speaker 2: it's okay to have those uncomfortable conversations because that's when
Speaker 2: like the absolute best relationships can like fourish and like
Speaker 2: be magical.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, And I think even I'm gonna take it back
Speaker 1: to being plus size in a bedroom. I do feel
Speaker 1: that a little scary. It is it is a little scary,
Speaker 1: but it is also like I need you to make
Speaker 1: me feel beautiful. Yes, you know, I want to feel
Speaker 1: like like you want me and I and I don't
Speaker 1: ever want a woman to feel like they can't because
Speaker 1: of their size exact, know what I mean. And I
Speaker 1: feel like it's so important, crucial again, like for someone
Speaker 1: to find a specific somebody that's gonna do all those
Speaker 1: things for you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and a conversation that I feel like a lot
Speaker 2: of a lot of people talk about are like love languages,
Speaker 2: and that's so important and specific for anyone in any relationship.
Speaker 2: But I've realized and like with talking to plus size
Speaker 2: girls or girls that look like a like a huge
Speaker 2: one for a lot of us is like reassurance, like
Speaker 2: oh yes.
Speaker 1: That honestly, words of affirmation, Yeah, yeah, there you go.
Speaker 1: That's it. What's yours? What's your love language?
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. There's like five of them. I
Speaker 2: think all of them are like up there for me?
Speaker 2: Really okay, number one?
Speaker 1: Okay, how do you? How do you love? What?
Speaker 2: Okay? My giving?
Speaker 1: What's your giving?
Speaker 2: I love honestly when if we get further enough or
Speaker 2: we're not like beginning stages. I love action like I
Speaker 2: love to just do like things for them to be honest,
Speaker 2: what what what were they again?
Speaker 1: It was? It's acts of service, service, physical touch, touch,
Speaker 1: words of affirmation, yes, words of affirmation.
Speaker 2: I forget, but I think it was for me. My
Speaker 2: top one is probably acts of service.
Speaker 1: I love.
Speaker 2: I loved giving. I love to surprise, like, yes, maybe
Speaker 2: gift giving is in there for me, but I love
Speaker 2: to like surprise, And okay, what's the top one for you?
Speaker 1: The way you receive it. I know you said all five,
Speaker 1: but there's gotta be one that I just I think,
Speaker 1: I agree.
Speaker 2: I think words of affirmation for me because we could
Speaker 2: get into I guess a little topic of anxiety. But
Speaker 2: with anxiety, words of affirmation is like super super important.
Speaker 1: Yes, I think someone that is definitely mine. I think
Speaker 1: the way I give it is physical and access service
Speaker 1: physical touch and access. Like I'm just very like I
Speaker 1: need to like, yeah, I just want to feel you.
Speaker 1: But anyways, but yes, anxiety and words of affirmation. I
Speaker 1: feel like as someone that struggles with anxiety, it is
Speaker 1: very important that reassurance. And because I get in my head,
Speaker 1: I am a huge overthinker, are you no?
Speaker 2: One hundred percent? Like ever since I was a kid,
Speaker 2: my struggle now not so much, but like as a kid,
Speaker 2: my struggle started with like a really bad, severe social anxiety.
Speaker 2: But now that I'm growing up, like and I'm older,
Speaker 2: my anxiety is not so much social, but it kind
Speaker 2: of manifested, like if I'm alone in my room and
Speaker 2: I'm just like right in my thought, like I feel.
Speaker 1: Like it switched.
Speaker 2: But how is your mine?
Speaker 1: I grew up with a lot of social anxiety too,
Speaker 1: but that's also the way that I grew up. And
Speaker 1: I feel like I have a little bit of a
Speaker 1: like a little bit of middle child syndrome where I'm
Speaker 1: just like, you know, my little circle I've always been.
Speaker 1: But I agree, like now starting the podcast, and I
Speaker 1: love that you mentioned that you struggled with social anxiety
Speaker 1: because you can't tell it all, Like I love that
Speaker 1: and knowing that you go to college for was the
Speaker 1: communications and the pr and all that, like that is
Speaker 1: so so good, Like it really helped, Yes, help me,
Speaker 1: I could tell and you present yourself so well anyways,
Speaker 1: but yes, like I struggled a lot, like even to
Speaker 1: this day, it manifests because maybe because I haven't dated
Speaker 1: in a long time, where it's like you don't know
Speaker 1: how to talk or to you know, what's the right
Speaker 1: thing to say? Am I doing too much? And then
Speaker 1: it goes into like getting in your head and whatever,
Speaker 1: and that's where the words of affirmation comes. But it
Speaker 1: is something I feel like there's specific people in specific yeah,
Speaker 1: specific people that are meant for your lives that are
Speaker 1: gonna satisfy all those areas and give you what you
Speaker 1: need because it is they're important. They're important things and
Speaker 1: for it's not easy to understand.
Speaker 2: No, definitely not. And I'm so glad that you like
Speaker 2: covered and you we brought up the topic of anxiety
Speaker 2: because my anxiety was like so bad to the point
Speaker 2: when I was younger that I had to become homeschooled.
Speaker 2: Like I know, a lot of people grow up homeschooled, yeah,
Speaker 2: and then they get a social anxiety. But like I
Speaker 2: was in public school, and when I was in there,
Speaker 2: I had such a horrible experience with like bullying from
Speaker 2: other people, horrible like family experiences with like a lot
Speaker 2: of trauma within my family where it's like it I
Speaker 2: developed a very bad social anxiety where I became homeschooled.
Speaker 2: But I realized that that was kind of like cuippling.
Speaker 1: Me a little bit.
Speaker 2: A little bit didn't much, So it didn't help, And
Speaker 2: so I really pushed myself and did the work growing up.
Speaker 2: And I was like, you know what, mom, I'm ready
Speaker 2: to go to public school, Like let's do it, because
Speaker 2: it's like I know, if I don't make the job now,
Speaker 2: it's just gonna get even worse. So I did it,
Speaker 2: and I did a lot of like self help reading,
Speaker 2: like a lot of work, and I was able to
Speaker 2: kind of get out of that rut. But I'm not
Speaker 2: gonna lie though I still have my very dark days.
Speaker 2: I'm in my room and.
Speaker 1: I feel like they're normal. I think it is normal,
Speaker 1: and you have to normalize those days. You know, it's
Speaker 1: it's a part I don't I don't like to say
Speaker 1: that it's a part of you, because I don't like that.
Speaker 1: You know, that negative connotation of anxiety. But it is
Speaker 1: something we grow with. You know, like you're gonna just
Speaker 1: be here in my little pocket. You're not going anywhere,
Speaker 1: you know, like we're going to keep you. I know
Speaker 1: you're here, but I'm gonna handle the situation like we're
Speaker 1: in control. And I feel like that's the most important part,
Speaker 1: especially with people with anxiety or even depression. You have
Speaker 1: to take that control back. You have to take the
Speaker 1: whatever it is. It could be social anxiety, it could
Speaker 1: be just anxiety in general. Like it is, it is
Speaker 1: so dark, and you have to know, like, okay, you
Speaker 1: have to recognize the cues too, Like you have to know,
Speaker 1: this is my anxiety speaking for me and you can't
Speaker 1: let it. You know, what are some things that you
Speaker 1: do for your anxiety.
Speaker 2: I love that you asked, because I still to this
Speaker 2: day tell me if you have these experiences. But I
Speaker 2: have like a bad panic disorder where sometimes I get
Speaker 2: like really bad panic attacks, whether that's in public or
Speaker 2: in class, still to this day, and exactly what you said,
Speaker 2: I really really have to be mindful and present and
Speaker 2: be worry of like my emotions when it's coming up,
Speaker 2: and I kind of just have to kind of talk
Speaker 2: to myself and instead of like being scared of my
Speaker 2: anxiety be like, oh no, it's coming, like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: here it is, like it's and I feel my body
Speaker 2: heating up and I feel.
Speaker 1: My throat closed.
Speaker 2: Instead, I tell myself in my head like Okay, there
Speaker 2: it is. It's anxiety again, because it's like we see
Speaker 2: such a negative thing. But I was kind of told
Speaker 2: in therapy like you got to kind of treat anxiety
Speaker 2: as your friend and kind of like welcome it, exact
Speaker 2: it with it.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, keep it in the pocket, Like
Speaker 1: I know you're here, but you're not controlling, You're not me,
Speaker 1: You're not gonna it's a part of me, but you're
Speaker 1: not me. Yes, And I think that's the that's important
Speaker 1: first to recognize too if anybody. If you don't, if
Speaker 1: you've never experienced anxiety or if you've never had any,
Speaker 1: but if you're resonating with what we're talking about, listen
Speaker 1: to yourself, Listen to what your mind is telling you. Like,
Speaker 1: I think people need to learn how to become a
Speaker 1: little bit more self aware, you know. And I think
Speaker 1: that it is self awareness takes you so much farther,
Speaker 1: Like you start noticing things, and you start noticing it
Speaker 1: and other people as well. You're like, oh, I could
Speaker 1: see that, And you know how to manage or work
Speaker 1: with people, or how to communicate with people, you know,
Speaker 1: And I think communication is like such a huge thing
Speaker 1: that I've had to learn because of my social anxiety.
Speaker 1: It's like I'm only gonna how am I gonna not
Speaker 1: get my way? But how are people gonna understand me
Speaker 1: if I'm not really saying what I'm feeling? Right?
Speaker 2: And can I ask?
Speaker 1: Go? Yes? Go go? I love it. Where do you feel.
Speaker 2: Like your social anxiety manifested or stem from? Because I
Speaker 2: know we're minded personally, but like, how how earlier? How
Speaker 2: young were you when it came about? Oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: And did it start as like social anxiety or was it.
Speaker 1: I feel like the first time I've ever sparent anxiety
Speaker 1: in general.
Speaker 2: I know it's so for me, it's so early on.
Speaker 1: It is like it's so hard to pinpoint because I
Speaker 1: feel like I've been through like a lot in my life.
Speaker 1: Like I just it is hard. I feel like maybe
Speaker 1: after my dad passed away, that's when like my eating disorder,
Speaker 1: well that's when I started like getting more weight and
Speaker 1: like I didn't want to be home. I mean I
Speaker 1: wanted to stay home because I didn't want to be
Speaker 1: at school, you know, and obviously the same thing bullying.
Speaker 1: And then a couple of years later, my mom passed away,
Speaker 1: and then because of who she is or was, I
Speaker 1: started getting that anxiety because everybody would stare at me.
Speaker 1: So then it's like, yes, so and you were I
Speaker 1: was in public school. Yeah, I went to a public
Speaker 1: school for like a year. And then when she passed away,
Speaker 1: the first day back, like after winter breaks something like that,
Speaker 1: I did, I got anxiety. I panicked. I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: no I can't. And it was more was like are
Speaker 1: they looking at me because I'm fat? Or are they
Speaker 1: looking at me because they feel pity for me? It's
Speaker 1: like so then it's like the thoughts start coming in.
Speaker 1: They're like, oh, the poor fact girl, her mom passed away,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? All the emotions, yes, all everything,
Speaker 1: everything everything. So how old were you? I was fifty?
Speaker 2: Okay, that's like such a crucial it is as it
Speaker 2: is as at fifteen, we're so awkward and we're like, yes,
Speaker 2: we're alreadiguring out parenting emotions and added adding that yes, crazy, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, don't be. I I appreciate like where
Speaker 1: it's brought me, you know, And and I'm always going
Speaker 1: to say that, like about anything, I don't take any
Speaker 1: bad moment, Like I feel like it's led me to
Speaker 1: where I'm at now, and I really really appreciate appreciate it,
Speaker 1: even if people think that it sounds a little bit bad,
Speaker 1: but I do love that, Like I've learned to be
Speaker 1: able to communicate. And because of this podcast too, like
Speaker 1: I forced myself to get out of my comfort zone.
Speaker 1: That's the whole point of Overcomfort podcast, like to be
Speaker 1: able again. A thousand percent agree. I feel like true
Speaker 1: growth happens when you get out of your comfort zone.
Speaker 1: And I really had to push myself because you know,
Speaker 1: I have siblings, but they also have emotions and they
Speaker 1: went through their own grieving experience and I had to
Speaker 1: be the one like okay, like I'm gonna worry about me,
Speaker 1: still caring about them and everything, but it's also like
Speaker 1: who's going to take care of me and who's going
Speaker 1: to guide me? And you know, at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, like I'm the only one that's going to
Speaker 1: understand what I'm feeling or how to you know again
Speaker 1: process and be a better person like I wasn't. I
Speaker 1: didn't want to. I don't want to live with the
Speaker 1: idea of that just this little chunky girl that you know,
Speaker 1: didn't think that she was ever gonna make it. And
Speaker 1: now that I'm here, I'm like, okay, like I'm proud
Speaker 1: of myself and there's and I want to be able
Speaker 1: to be that light an example the same way that
Speaker 1: you are as well for people with whatever your content
Speaker 1: and what you're doing, Like I think it is so
Speaker 1: beautiful and so genuine and a lot of they need
Speaker 1: more of that. I feel like it's like the community
Speaker 1: plus I mean or dating in general. I like you're
Speaker 1: bringing such a light And I really really loved that
Speaker 1: because that is exactly what I probably needed when I
Speaker 1: was younger, you know what I mean, Like you get me.
Speaker 1: It's like I want to be You're being who I
Speaker 1: needed when I was younger, and I want to be
Speaker 1: able to do that for people as well, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like just be a light. It's just
Speaker 1: a light. And I really appreciate you. Know, you're just
Speaker 1: doing good things and I like it. And I know
Speaker 1: we don't know each other very well, but I am
Speaker 1: I'm telling you. I'm like, my best friend is upstairs.
Speaker 1: She's like, you're you're getting her. I'm like, yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: like why. She's like, she's like she asked me. She's like, oh,
Speaker 1: who are you interviewing? And I'm like, oh, as content creator,
Speaker 1: she came up with me for you and she interviews
Speaker 1: the guys and she asked if they ever dated thick
Speaker 1: girls or whatever. She's like, WHOA way, She's like, I'm
Speaker 1: such a fan and whatever. So know that you are
Speaker 1: making a difference. You're making a difference, and I'm you know,
Speaker 1: I'm happy and I'm proud of you.
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much for sharing that, especially coming
Speaker 2: for you, and like, thank you so much for being
Speaker 2: vulnerable and like sharing with me us like a little
Speaker 2: bit of your story. And I know you say that,
Speaker 2: like I don't feel like we know each other much,
Speaker 2: but so far I feel like I kind of the same,
Speaker 2: you know what though.
Speaker 1: Like it's just tunky girls, get it exactly, you get
Speaker 1: what I mean, get it no, like you just know
Speaker 1: when you understand. And I love that I was able
Speaker 1: to connect, and you know, I love the way things happen, Yeah,
Speaker 1: the way things happen in the you know, spontaneously and
Speaker 1: for some reason you know you're in the position you're in,
Speaker 1: and then we're here now and it works out. Yes,
Speaker 1: we're gonna go on a quick break and we'll be
Speaker 1: right back with SB. Welcome back you guys.
Speaker 2: I wanted to ask, Yeah, I forget. So when you
Speaker 2: said you were fifteen and you were homeschooled, was that
Speaker 2: middle school or freshman? Okay?
Speaker 1: No, so I did public school. I went to private school. Okay,
Speaker 1: I went to private school middle for like the middle
Speaker 1: school time and then for high school is like, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be in private school anymore, like
Speaker 1: I want to be able to go to public school.
Speaker 1: I started high school, did my freshman and then sophomore
Speaker 1: year I went to a private homeschooling one on one
Speaker 1: type thing.
Speaker 2: Okay, got it. See for me, when I was when
Speaker 2: I experienced like really bad trouble with like my dad
Speaker 2: and stuff. It was in the sixth grade and I
Speaker 2: was dealing with a bunch of bullying and everything kind
Speaker 2: of flirted up at once, and I told my mom, like,
Speaker 2: I cannot do this anymore. I have to be homeschooled.
Speaker 2: So all of my middle school I was homeschooled. But
Speaker 2: then when it's like every day I'm in my house
Speaker 2: and it's the game so bad, I was like, okay, Mom,
Speaker 2: I have to I took initiative. I was like, Mom,
Speaker 2: I have to get out of the s rut. So
Speaker 2: then with high school, I as well went to a
Speaker 2: public's high school. But like in elementary school, I did
Speaker 2: go to like a private Catholic school.
Speaker 1: Yes, I've been to private Catholic school really.
Speaker 2: For elementary school at like yeah yeah, yeah, elementary middle
Speaker 2: school yeah yeah. So I was like, I don't know
Speaker 2: about private school anymore, mom, but like I want to
Speaker 2: go to public.
Speaker 1: School, yeah, And I really wanted to have the experience
Speaker 1: in it, and I like I wanted to have that
Speaker 1: high school and be able to be like a normal girl.
Speaker 1: Obviously I wasn't able to do that, and again, things
Speaker 1: happen for a reason. But it's like I feel like nowadays,
Speaker 1: like in this generation, and if you guys have kids,
Speaker 1: raised kids, or know anybody, just be kind. I feel
Speaker 1: like there's no problem with being kind. And I don't
Speaker 1: think people take it serious. How much bullying happens like that,
Speaker 1: and that it is so detrimental to like someone a
Speaker 1: young person's growth. Yeah, it is like you know that
Speaker 1: shit literally sticks with you for the rest of your
Speaker 1: life till this day. And I'm sure that you have
Speaker 1: those stuck moments stuck in your head as well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and you know, obviously there's there's bullying has led to,
Speaker 1: you know, very very dark things. And I feel like
Speaker 1: if you have kids, or if you're in this position,
Speaker 1: or if you have or you can help in any way,
Speaker 1: I feel like being kind and to one another or
Speaker 1: telling your kids to just be kind. Yes, like you know,
Speaker 1: it's the way you raise your kids. Guys. It also
Speaker 1: is a reflection of who the parent is exactly. And Butter,
Speaker 1: I just wanted to say that because I'm like, I'm
Speaker 1: tired of people getting bullied. Like even my nieces, like
Speaker 1: they'll call me and they're like, oh, someone was mean.
Speaker 1: I'm like people are still being mean like to this day,
Speaker 1: like kids are just so whatever. But it's again, raise
Speaker 1: your kids, right, be kind. That's it. Just be kind
Speaker 1: and be kind to people, no matter the size, the color,
Speaker 1: the way that they look anything. I feel like, it
Speaker 1: doesn't kill you. It doesn't kill you. It's like we're
Speaker 1: all here with the purpose where we come with love,
Speaker 1: we come with peace. Just love and accept everybody. And
Speaker 1: that's it.
Speaker 2: No, totally, And I'm so happy too that you brought
Speaker 2: up like trying to have like that positive support system
Speaker 2: around you, because I feel like that is so important too,
Speaker 2: and especially if you're someone that's in position of being bullied.
Speaker 2: I know, for me, I was kind of lucky enough
Speaker 2: where I felt I felt okay enough to like open
Speaker 2: up and tell my mom about it. But I know
Speaker 2: that not everyone watching this has that privilege or has
Speaker 2: that opportunity. I guess you could say, so, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel like it's so important to like find someone
Speaker 2: or find a support system, even if it's like someone
Speaker 2: at school necessarily like a counselor and stuff. Like it's
Speaker 2: okay to talk about it and like, don't be afraid
Speaker 2: to speak up about it. But I know you mentioned
Speaker 2: like siblings, Like for me when it comes to my siblings,
Speaker 2: I have two sisters, two brothers, But I not at
Speaker 2: all on.
Speaker 1: The like you're lying. Yeah, I have two sisters, two brothers.
Speaker 2: And you said you're in the middle child.
Speaker 1: I'm like the second to the last dish, Like we
Speaker 1: have it like a weird Yeah, I'm the youngest.
Speaker 2: Okay, Like my siblings are old enough to be like
Speaker 2: my parents.
Speaker 1: Yet Okay, no, my sister, my sister's like forty.
Speaker 2: My sister's forty. I have a sister that's I have
Speaker 2: a sister and brother that's forty, and then I have
Speaker 2: a brother that's in his thirties. And then my my
Speaker 2: my other sister is like twenty seven. Oh cool, Yeah,
Speaker 2: so you get it.
Speaker 1: We're becoming best these guys to get it. I get it.
Speaker 1: And it's a lot of a lot of energy and
Speaker 1: a lot of attitude.
Speaker 2: But in all my siblings, we all grew up Gorritos
Speaker 2: plus side, so everybody gets it.
Speaker 1: We get it.
Speaker 2: But like like I said, with my siblings, I don't
Speaker 2: think i'm as vulnerable enough to like talk to them
Speaker 2: about it, you know what I mean. I don't know
Speaker 2: how it was for you, like growing up and experiencing
Speaker 2: that bullying, Like were you comfortable enough to ask them
Speaker 2: or like tell them about it.
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing. And it's probably gonna sound bad
Speaker 1: on my mom's part, but my mom also I don't
Speaker 1: blame her because my mom my grandpa was very rough
Speaker 1: on my mom's weight as well. So my mom, you know,
Speaker 1: didn't want her daughters to struggle, so she was very
Speaker 1: She implemented a lot of like it's a healthy lifestyle eating,
Speaker 1: you know whatever. I've been to that camp. I was,
Speaker 1: my sister has too. How old were you I was?
Speaker 1: I was, I want to say thirteen.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I left and I literally cried myself to sleep.
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, no, I'm not gonna be here,
Speaker 1: you know. And it's had. But I understand my mom
Speaker 1: and I know I I can confidently tell her like
Speaker 1: I was if I was able to comedy, tell her
Speaker 1: in the face like okay, I get it, like it's fine,
Speaker 1: you know. But there were moments where it just it
Speaker 1: did mess me up. And that's where like my body
Speaker 1: dysmorphia and like always worrying about my way and all that.
Speaker 1: So anyways, but yeah, I I've with my siblings, we've
Speaker 1: always we've struggled. So you know, we've been We're all
Speaker 1: on the same page, like eating better and like all
Speaker 1: that stuff. And it sucks because sometimes it stuck in
Speaker 1: our heads. Like we talk about it in our group
Speaker 1: all the time. We're just like you know, whoa like
Speaker 1: the trauma and you know, we we address it like
Speaker 1: we know what, we recognize it. But it was it
Speaker 1: was tough, Like it was tough growing up because you know,
Speaker 1: both of them, both of my parents passed away. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and then like I've gotten surgeries and I've gotten I've
Speaker 1: got taken to camp. So it's like, you know, I've
Speaker 1: I've it's been a it's been a roller coaster. But
Speaker 1: I love and appreciate who I am now and I
Speaker 1: can be very confident in my own skin and whatever.
Speaker 1: But yeah, having a lot of siblings and it is
Speaker 1: a lot and like having that identity too. Have you
Speaker 1: ever like struggled because not with your identity, but like
Speaker 1: being different.
Speaker 2: From them my siblings? Yeah, yes, because so my two
Speaker 2: oldest brothers and my oldest sister, they have a different dad,
Speaker 2: and then me and my sister, the one that's twenty seven,
Speaker 2: we have a different dad. And I feel like having
Speaker 2: that like different that's literally my.
Speaker 1: Life, really, I swear.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, if my brothers are watching this, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: But sometimes growing up, I always felt like because we
Speaker 2: came from different dads, they kind of treated me different. Okay,
Speaker 2: but like, I know they love me. I know you
Speaker 2: love me, but because I don't know if it's because
Speaker 2: like the different last name or whatever. Sometimes they use
Speaker 2: like language and the family group chat of like we're
Speaker 2: Rodriguez and I'm not a Rodriguez. I'm like a Chavis.
Speaker 2: So I don't know. Sometimes I feel that separation. I
Speaker 2: wish I didn't feel that way, but they treat me
Speaker 2: like a sister. I wish I was more closer to
Speaker 2: them because because you know, they're married with kids with
Speaker 2: families in their own lives, which I get. But sometimes
Speaker 2: I do wish that I had a better relationship with
Speaker 2: my brothers because to go back and what you were saying,
Speaker 2: like for me, my eating disorder growing up totally was
Speaker 2: manifested from trauma. I grew up in a very abusive
Speaker 2: demesi sick violence household when I was younger as a
Speaker 2: kid from my dad, and he left when I was
Speaker 2: really really young, when I was like twoka. But it
Speaker 2: was like always a constant in and out, in and
Speaker 2: out my mom attempting to make it work because she
Speaker 2: didn't want me and my sisters to grow up without
Speaker 2: a father figure. But again, it wasn't at all anything
Speaker 2: that became successful, obviously, But I don't at all shamer
Speaker 2: for it, because like she wanted to make it work
Speaker 2: because she loved him, she wanted us to have a dad,
Speaker 2: but it just he.
Speaker 1: Was a mom at the end of the day.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I was raised by single one my whole life,
Speaker 2: and I think eating for me was definitely just like
Speaker 2: a comfort and something that I work in therapy every
Speaker 2: week till this day. Is like realizing why I have
Speaker 2: such a up and down relationship with food is because
Speaker 2: it's been the only thing consistent in my life, my
Speaker 2: whole life, the.
Speaker 1: Only thing power. Yes, yeah, literally what you just said,
Speaker 1: it's like it is it's good to eat food but
Speaker 1: bad at the same time. Yeah, Like it's like back
Speaker 1: and forth, back and forth, and it's like, yes, it's
Speaker 1: the only thing that was consistent.
Speaker 2: It's and the thing.
Speaker 1: Yes, we were I went to it when I was
Speaker 1: when my dad passed away. I went to him when
Speaker 1: my mom passed away. When I'm depressed, like I go
Speaker 1: to food, and I think anybody else, you know, there's
Speaker 1: some people that don't, but there's I feel like people
Speaker 1: run to food and it's like it's there and it's
Speaker 1: and it's an unhealthy relationship and I've worked through it
Speaker 1: through therapy as well. Like it is the toughest relationship
Speaker 1: that you'll probably in. But again, it doesn't have control. No,
Speaker 1: it doesn't have control.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's never it's literally never easy. It's never
Speaker 2: walk in the park.
Speaker 1: No.
Speaker 2: I still like, like it's funny because when I go
Speaker 2: to therapy once a week, he's like, Okay, how's it going,
Speaker 2: you know, And I was like, Okay, this week, doctor Jordan,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I wish I had a better
Speaker 2: answer for you. But it's been hard with food this day. Yes,
Speaker 2: it's been really hard. But then I have my week
Speaker 2: where I'm like, actually, I've been doing pretty good. I've
Speaker 2: been doing good. But for me, like my manifestation with
Speaker 2: like all that trauma was definitely like a binge.
Speaker 1: Eating Yeah, for sure, I agree with me. It wasn't.
Speaker 1: It's like and it's not easy. And I'm you know,
Speaker 1: I'm happy that you're doing the work, and I think,
Speaker 1: you know it. It's not easy. I get you. I'm
Speaker 1: I'm reading your mind right now, like I.
Speaker 2: Really, I'm just I get it, like I get it.
Speaker 1: So but yeah, and I think acknowledging it and actually
Speaker 1: doing the work, you know, And I think that is important.
Speaker 1: I think people forget how important therapy is as well. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and actually talking to someone about it. I feel like
Speaker 1: you can't. If again, if this is something that you
Speaker 1: guys are going through, please seek some help. Just please
Speaker 1: call a friend, you know, find something, find a safe,
Speaker 1: safe space to confide in and to go ahead. And
Speaker 1: because you have to, you can't bottle in and you
Speaker 1: have to. You're not meant to live in this world
Speaker 1: alone either, and you're meant to be special and taken
Speaker 1: care of, you know, take care of yourself, love yourself,
Speaker 1: and again, be kind to yourself. You have to be gentle,
Speaker 1: have a lot of grace. I think grace is a
Speaker 1: huge thing, especially the way that you grew up and
Speaker 1: the way that I grew up. You have to be.
Speaker 1: I'm learning again this year to be nicer to me, yes,
Speaker 1: you know, and like because I've been through so much
Speaker 1: and again for you as well, You've been through so much,
Speaker 1: and I am like amazed with this person that I'm
Speaker 1: meeting to be honest, and I'm like, I wish you
Speaker 1: nothing but the but the world loving success because you
Speaker 1: deserve it, you know, just like everybody else as well.
Speaker 1: And I deserve it too. You deserve to be truly
Speaker 1: happy and have the best relationship and anything. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: And I just love and appreciate you. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much for just joining me and having such a vulnerable
Speaker 1: and honest conversation and making it feel okay and yeah.
Speaker 2: No, one thousand percent. And I just want to say
Speaker 2: I completely feel the same way about you, Like I
Speaker 2: didn't realize how much we were going to relate and stuff,
Speaker 2: and I wish you nothing but the best, because I
Speaker 2: just want to say, it's not easy at all to
Speaker 2: be super vulnerable and open about like a story, right
Speaker 2: because everyone has a story, but it's not at all
Speaker 2: easy to talk about. And it's so beautiful how comfortable
Speaker 2: you are sharing that with like your viewers and your audience,
Speaker 2: because it's really what truly resonates with people and what
Speaker 2: connects with people, like the same way, I'm sitting on
Speaker 2: this couch with you and I'm relating to you so
Speaker 2: much on so many different levels, like people that are
Speaker 2: watching feel the same exact way. And it's like You've
Speaker 2: come a long way with your mom and her story too.
Speaker 2: I'm not at all super familiar with it, but like
Speaker 2: my mom has shared me a lot in the past,
Speaker 2: a very surface level of things, and she has always
Speaker 2: told me to growing up like I always feel like
Speaker 2: with your mom. My mom has said that she's feel
Speaker 2: like she's lived the same life as your mom at.
Speaker 1: This point probably, which is great, and it's true. My
Speaker 1: mom went through domestic violence too, like my mom. My
Speaker 1: mom was a single mom like my parents. You know,
Speaker 1: she has two baby daddies too.
Speaker 2: Like see, I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: My three older siblings have a different dad. Me and
Speaker 1: my little brother have a different well okay, well this
Speaker 1: is a whole other thing and we're not gonna get
Speaker 1: into it on the top on the podcast, but yeeah,
Speaker 1: my three other my three other my three older siblings
Speaker 1: have a dad and then me and my little brother
Speaker 1: had the same dad, grew up with the same dad,
Speaker 1: but I have a different biological dad.
Speaker 2: Okay, so it's there. I see what she's saying. But
Speaker 2: my mom meant like growing up, yes, because she always
Speaker 2: looked up to your mom so much, like so much.
Speaker 2: I just want to put that out.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: So the little that I do know, and like it's
Speaker 2: so weird because, like I mean, my mom feels like
Speaker 2: she lived the same life as your mom, but like
Speaker 2: I feel like I.
Speaker 1: Live the exactly. So make sure when you go back
Speaker 1: home tell your mom it's true, the life is true.
Speaker 1: You're right, mom, You're right. No, but honestly, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Speaker 1: I had such an amazing conversation with you. Please share
Speaker 1: your socials with everybody so that they can find you.
Speaker 1: If you guys loved her as much as I did,
Speaker 1: Please support her and all her dreams and her content.
Speaker 1: It is so organic and authentic, and please don't change.
Speaker 1: Just please keep it and keep it where you're Obviously
Speaker 1: you know girl, it'll be better. But like I like
Speaker 1: the authenticity and the organic Ya is that a word?
Speaker 1: But you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. I feel like this conversation was
Speaker 2: so beautiful, so constructive, and I truly felt really comfortable.
Speaker 1: Talking to you.
Speaker 2: So thank you.
Speaker 1: Good. You're welcome anytime. But please share your socials so
Speaker 1: that they can find you.
Speaker 2: Yeah. So my social media is basically at eleven s
Speaker 2: B one one, eSPI across all platforms. I've recently just
Speaker 2: started a streaming endeavor over on Twitter, so I live
Speaker 2: stream every single night. It's at eleven s B underscore.
Speaker 2: But what do you stream?
Speaker 1: I stream like a.
Speaker 2: Lot of video games?
Speaker 1: Okay, what video game?
Speaker 2: Right now? At the moment, it's been like Call of
Speaker 2: Duty's on be Silent Hill Okay. But I also do
Speaker 2: like a lot of irl stuff where I put like
Speaker 2: people on dates, like plus sized girls on dates. But
Speaker 2: it's like via online. But hopefully one day it's in
Speaker 2: personal dude.
Speaker 1: That is so cool. Honestly, I you can host an event.
Speaker 1: I think you should host an event for plus sized girls.
Speaker 1: It'd be like a speed dating Yeah you know what
Speaker 1: I mean that we're gonna come up with it anyway,
Speaker 1: but yes, support her. Thank you guys.
Speaker 2: So on your podcast too, right, Yeah, so I have
Speaker 2: a podcast. I want to come out with season two
Speaker 2: very very soon. It's called the Thick Skin Podcast with
Speaker 2: s B. Hopefully we have Jennica on it next because
Speaker 2: I love to like dig on your your please, like
Speaker 2: I didn't know that you also dated girls. I love that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was it was some very emotional because yeah,
Speaker 1: because we'll let me touch it really quick. But when
Speaker 1: I got with her when my mom had just passed away, okay,
Speaker 1: so it was like I needed that trauma bond, ad
Speaker 1: a trauma bond and it was like very very emotional,
Speaker 1: and it was you know, it was an experience and
Speaker 1: I loved it. And then just for me now it's
Speaker 1: like I'm I'm good. You know, I'm happy with what
Speaker 1: with what I had, and it was I never don't
Speaker 1: work at any of it. But yeah, anyways, but it
Speaker 1: was emotional. But yes, I would love to go on
Speaker 1: your podcast and talk about it whatever you want to
Speaker 1: talk about. And I do definitely think the speed dating
Speaker 1: is a good idea. But all right, thank you guys
Speaker 1: so much for watching and listening to this episode makes
Speaker 1: you guys like comment, subscribe, let me know who you
Speaker 1: guys want to see next, and I will see you
Speaker 1: next Tuesday. By bye. Overcome for Podcasts is a production
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