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Speaker 1: Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On today's episode, we

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Speaker 1: are going to be talking about police who are waiting

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Speaker 1: for a man to poop out evidence of a major crime,

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Speaker 1: a couple who decided to leave their child alone to

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Speaker 1: go on a ride at Disneyland, a super glue prank

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Speaker 1: gone wrong, and homemade sex toys. So let's get started

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Speaker 1: with celebrity news, all right.

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Speaker 2: David Crumbholtz. He is most well known for being in

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Speaker 2: the Santa Claus movies Ten Things They Hate About You,

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Speaker 2: and most recently Oppenheimer Bernard Bernard. So, Bernard is claiming

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Speaker 2: that he almost died after a bad reaction from smoking weed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this is called cannaboid hyper emesis syndrome. Have

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Speaker 1: you ever heard of this?

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Speaker 2: No, And I would never be able to pronounce something

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 1: It just hyper emesis just means like throwing up a lot.

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Speaker 1: It's not okay, it's nothing, it's nothing crazy. So I

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Speaker 1: think I had this once. Honestly, it happens. It happens

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Speaker 1: if you, they say it most commonly happens if you

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Speaker 1: smoke weed a lot. And I had a part of

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Speaker 1: my life that I was smoking with like every day

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Speaker 1: there for a while. Yeah, and so it caught. It's

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Speaker 1: like a really weird phenomenon. And they say it's rare,

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Speaker 1: although I don't think it's as rare as they say

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Speaker 1: it is, because it's happening more and more and more obviously,

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Speaker 1: like the stronger the weed that comes out. But they say,

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Speaker 1: you know, when you smoke weed, you have the THHD

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Speaker 1: molecules buying to your brain and that's what makes you

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Speaker 1: get high. Right, Well, that the effect that that usually

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Speaker 1: has on the brain actually is usually anti nausea. That's

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Speaker 1: why they give weed to people who have cancer and

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Speaker 1: are undergoing chemotherapy because it helps with that. But they're

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Speaker 1: saying in some people who smoke a lot of weed,

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Speaker 1: it just messes up those receptors so bad and the

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Speaker 1: brain may stop working in that respect and it just

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Speaker 1: causes nausea and repeated vomiting. It just it really sounds

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Speaker 1: you're just like okay, whatever, but like no, it's really

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Speaker 1: really bad. It could cause like severe dehydration hospitalization. And

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Speaker 1: do you want to hear the weirdest part of this?

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Speaker 1: What makes you feel better? What is if you take

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Speaker 1: a hot bath and it makes the symptoms go away,

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Speaker 1: or a hot shower. It's really weird. And they don't

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Speaker 1: have an exact test to say like, hey, you're having this,

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Speaker 1: but that's one of the things they say. If you're

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Speaker 1: having this and then you take a hot shower and

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Speaker 1: it makes it go away, then you more than likely

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Speaker 1: have this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And he did say in an interview from a

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Speaker 2: couple of months back that he had been spending He

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Speaker 2: said he spent ten hours at a time in hot

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Speaker 2: baths to relieve the symptoms because that's how bad they were,

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Speaker 2: and he had lost one hundred pounds.

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Speaker 1: I guess he had one hundred pounds to lose. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess. I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't really know. I haven't been following him. I

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Speaker 2: know him as Bernard and then I saw him recently

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Speaker 2: in Oppenheimer. But it seems like this was all going

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Speaker 2: down when he was in the middle of filming that movie.

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Speaker 1: I was just talking to the kids about this this morning,

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Speaker 1: because they were talking about that drink. You know, they

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Speaker 1: watched their YouTube videos and they tell me all this

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Speaker 1: stuff that they think I don't know about this drink.

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Speaker 1: This drink that got banned from Panera. We talked about

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Speaker 1: it on one of our first episodes, the Charged Lemonade,

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Speaker 1: The Charged Lemonade, and I was trying to explain to

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Speaker 1: them how in general, there's caffeine and the tea that

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Speaker 1: in it, right, but it's and coffee, and in general

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Speaker 1: that's usually safe for most people. But then there's these

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Speaker 1: these other products that are coming in which because companies

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Speaker 1: like make it the highest number possible, and that's what

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Speaker 1: they're doing. And then all of these kids we were

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Speaker 2: Are making it like cocaine in a can.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. And the thing is is the same exact

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Speaker 1: person grows it and is smoking it. It's just like

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Speaker 1: as long. I mean, I think that enough information is

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Speaker 1: all weed that's a in the United States right now

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Speaker 1: is safe. It's just completely not correct. You have cases

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Speaker 1: you could in theory die from this from severe dehydration.

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Speaker 1: And really the only cure for this cannaboid hyper emesis

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Speaker 1: syndrome is that you stop smoking weed. And that's a

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Speaker 1: really important thing that people need to know, like, once

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Speaker 1: you stop doing it, it'll stop happening. But we've had

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Speaker 1: cases of people with psychosis underlying psychological conditions that people

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Speaker 1: don't know about getting worse because of using these higher

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Speaker 1: to tell because so many, I mean everyone smokes weed.

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Speaker 1: I smell it all day long everywhere, so which is

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Speaker 1: people are smoking it in their cars because I'm on

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Speaker 1: a highway. Well, I think it's fucking ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: There's just this false sense of security with it, that

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Speaker 2: it's this like ultra safe thing, and it's just, you know,

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Speaker 2: it has dangers, just like alcohol and any other drugs

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Speaker 2: would as well. And I mean, I think it's safe

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Speaker 2: to say that it probably was a more safer thing

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Speaker 2: back in the day and now it's like, okay, it's

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Speaker 2: the same with It's scary too, because I was trying

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Speaker 2: to get one of the drinks that that Lulu likes

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Speaker 2: that Starbucks has, like one of it's one of those

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know what it's just called a refresher.

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Speaker 1: How would I even know it? Yeah, I looked at

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Speaker 1: Now I'm like having to look at the ingredients of

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Speaker 1: word refresher means that there's caffeine in something?

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Speaker 2: Their refreshers have always had caffeine. Though that's not surprising to.

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Speaker 1: Me, I know, but like that like I don't get

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Speaker 1: them though I don't I don't know, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, Like, I don't it just to me, like

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Speaker 2: But I guess you're getting it at an establishment where

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Speaker 2: all of the other drinks are caffeinated. So that's probably

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Speaker 2: why you should look into it. Because Wama has drinks

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Speaker 2: too that aren't called coffee or tea or obvious caffeinated things,

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Speaker 2: but they have coffee. Like the lemonade at Panera was

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Speaker 2: called charge lemonade. Would you assume the charge means it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I guess that's the thing, because even

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Speaker 1: in it, Like if my kid had Macha, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be crazy about that, but if it's three times the amount,

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Speaker 2: So, but you could argue that Macha has just as

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Speaker 2: much caffeine as coffee, like you think that, like black

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Speaker 2: tea has just as much caffeine as coffee, and I

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Speaker 2: just I just do not think. So I do not

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Speaker 2: feel the effects the same way. I think it's proven

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Speaker 2: that it's not as much, but you feel the effects

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Speaker 1: Well, there are certain teas that have just as much

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Speaker 1: it's and like we're running off topic. It's weed whatever.

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Speaker 1: It's still just you just have to be careful and

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Speaker 1: just don't assume like that that's going away. Finally, because

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Speaker 1: there was like this hardcore movement of like it's safe,

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Speaker 1: it's safe, and now all this shit's coming out obviously,

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Speaker 1: so thank god for that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, thank god he was filming Oppenheimer because he

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Speaker 2: said it was like his dream role and this was

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Speaker 2: all going down during that and it almost prevented him

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Speaker 2: from being in the movie. So it just like finally

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Speaker 2: pushed him to quit. So at least that's good, you know.

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Speaker 2: And he was pretty good in that movie. So I

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Speaker 2: didn't even say it yet. It's really good. You should

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Speaker 2: watch it, okay, I will, all right.

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Speaker 1: True Crime. This is a doozy in Florida.

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Speaker 2: This guy goes to Tiffany's and acts like he's shopping

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Speaker 2: for this Orlando magic player. So they bring him to

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Speaker 2: this room probably with their finest selection of jewels, and

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Speaker 2: of course, the second he sees them, he steals two

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Speaker 2: pair of earrings.

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Speaker 1: It runs out the door.

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Speaker 2: So the earrings are worth approximately seven hundred and sixty

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Speaker 2: nine thousand dollars. Cops pull him over later down the road.

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Speaker 2: They can't find the ear rings anywhere because he swallowed them. Well,

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Speaker 2: this is really the best part of the story. The

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Speaker 2: cops couldn't find the ear rings and they were able

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Speaker 2: to arrest him because he was trying to run away

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Speaker 2: from an officer, but they weren't able to charge him

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Speaker 2: for theft because they didn't have the jewels. This fucking

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Speaker 2: moron goes into jail and says to one of the

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Speaker 2: staff members, what am I gonna get charged with? What's

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Speaker 2: in my stomach?

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Speaker 1: What does that? First of a well a moron.

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Speaker 2: First of all, he only got booked for resisting arrests,

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Speaker 2: so I'm pretty sure like they couldn't arrest him for

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Speaker 2: the theft, so moron, So if he just shut his legs,

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Speaker 2: So then they're like, what did you just say? And

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Speaker 2: they give him a scan and then they see the

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Speaker 2: foreign objects in the scan.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Like then he he's overheard by a trooper saying

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Speaker 1: I should have just throwing them out the window. No, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you should have, Like you could have went through your

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Speaker 1: own shit and got rid of them. Nobody nobody's checking

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Speaker 1: your shit when you're in prison, right, They're not like

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Speaker 1: going through your turns in the toilet, So, like, what

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Speaker 1: a fucking moron? He is really stupid.

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Speaker 2: But then again, when you you know, see his rap,

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Speaker 2: Shady is forty eight outstanding warrants in Colorado. He was

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Speaker 2: charged with another robbery at a different Tiffany's in Texas

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Speaker 2: a couple of years ago.

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Speaker 1: What is this guy doing? I don't know, but he's

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Speaker 1: not good at it.

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Speaker 2: Well, he's not good at it, and they're like, now

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Speaker 2: we have to wait for you to poop them out.

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Speaker 1: I guess he would have. So if he got arrested,

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Speaker 1: I guess he would have. They would have eventually seen

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Speaker 1: that he's had these warrants and they would have been

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Speaker 1: able to keep them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but he probably still could have kept his mouth shut,

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Speaker 2: shpit him out.

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Speaker 1: And then sold them. Well if he shot him out

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Speaker 1: in jow though, what was he gonna do with them?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, So I'm saying like he I mean

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Speaker 1: really like he might as well just flushed them down

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Speaker 1: the toilet at least, but at least, I mean, he

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have had them, but at least he wouldn't have

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Speaker 1: got charged with grand theft and like, like, let's go

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Speaker 1: Know, right, I'm like, when you go in Gucci, they're like,

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Speaker 1: The weirdest part is is that Disney has a policy

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Speaker 2: You know how they said with DUIs like somebody probably

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Speaker 1: Let me say this though, Guardian of the Galaxy is

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Speaker 1: it's a really fun game that we play every week,

437
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Speaker 1: and it's fun when people anticipate and hilarious at some

438
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Speaker 1: of the things that people guess as their answer. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Head over to the grossroom dot com for more info

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441
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:15,680
Speaker 2: all right. A couple of months ago, this couple gave

442
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,360
Speaker 2: birth to their son. So throughout the pregnancy they were

443
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 2: told that everything was normal. But after the sun was delivered,

444
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,080
Speaker 2: they were really shocked when the baby did not have

445
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 2: a right eye and his ear was on his right cheek.

446
00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:30,400
Speaker 1: What is this condition? It's called golden horror syndrome. I've

447
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 1: never heard of it actually, so it's pretty rare. It's

448
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,199
Speaker 1: an abnormal development of the eye, ear, and spine, and

449
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:39,880
Speaker 1: it generally only impacts one side of the body. It can, however,

450
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 1: affect the kidney's, lungs and nervous system as well. So

451
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 1: they were completely unaware of this. I'm not sure where

452
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:51,280
Speaker 1: what did this happen in America? I wasn't really sure

453
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 1: if this happened and they had the traditional prenatal scans

454
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 1: and the anatomy scan and everything, because I feel and

455
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Speaker 1: I'm not really sure this is something an ultrasound tech

456
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 1: might have to tell us with a routine ultrasound at

457
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 1: twenty to twenty four weeks for an anatomy scan, can

458
00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 1: you see defects of the eye and ears. I feel

459
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: like it's pretty significant that something should look abnormal. We

460
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 1: had this discussion actually in the grosser room a couple

461
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 1: of weeks ago. I did a post about three D

462
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: ultrasounds and we were talking about a patient that had

463
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Speaker 1: a three D and a forty ultrasound and had a

464
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Speaker 1: cleft palette diagnosed with their baby. And really, on one hand,

465
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 1: you say, well, what's the point, Like they can't really

466
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: do anything about it. The kid's gonna come out and whatever.

467
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:42,320
Speaker 1: But some of the reasoning behind these scans is not

468
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Speaker 1: because they can really do anything for the parents. If

469
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Speaker 1: they can't do anything in utero. They can sometimes, but

470
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Speaker 1: for certain conditions, including this one, I don't think that

471
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Speaker 1: they would do any kind of surgery in utero. But

472
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Speaker 1: it is helpful for parents because they could be mentally

473
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Speaker 1: prepared for this happening. This was this parent's first time

474
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Speaker 1: having a kid, and they just thought everything was going

475
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 1: to be normal, and it wasn't, and it was kind

476
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 1: of very shocking and upsetting. And it's not even the

477
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 1: kid's appearance that looks unusual, but it's also the kid

478
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:21,360
Speaker 1: needed surgery right away as soon as he was born,

479
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 1: multiple other surgeries, has a tracheotomy, we'll have to get

480
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 1: surgery to move his ear. We'll have to get prosthetic

481
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: eyes for the rest of his life. And if you

482
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Speaker 1: find this out when you're, you know, six months into pregnancy,

483
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: it makes it a little bit easier to process over

484
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,199
Speaker 1: three months and get prepared for how your life is

485
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 1: going to change. Instead of just one second it's fine,

486
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:49,200
Speaker 1: in the next second it's not fine. Yeah, I mean,

487
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Speaker 1: it just sucks.

488
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Speaker 2: I am curious too if it's detected on normal ultrasound.

489
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Speaker 1: He said something that was weird in the In the post,

490
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Speaker 1: the dad said that he was so overwhelmed that he

491
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:05,240
Speaker 1: went to the toilet, oh to pray, And I thought

492
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: that was a weird terminology. That doesn't seem like someone

493
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Speaker 1: that lives in America would say. Maybe you would say

494
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom. You don't usually say I went

495
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,600
Speaker 1: to the toilet, Not that it couldn't be said here.

496
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Speaker 1: I'm just curious and listen like this might be a possibility,

497
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Speaker 1: Like one of our listeners who does ultrasound might be

498
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,239
Speaker 1: might say, like, we can't see everything. I just think

499
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:31,160
Speaker 1: it's kind of if you can't see that there's there's

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Speaker 1: an eye missing and that the ear is at a

501
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Speaker 1: different location. I feel like the ultrasounds sensitive enough to

502
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Speaker 1: pick up certain things like that, so I don't I

503
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Speaker 1: don't know there. I mean, let's say, for example, when

504
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Speaker 1: I was pregnant with you, like, I had an ultrasound

505
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Speaker 1: very early on, and that was it because there was

506
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Speaker 1: no such thing as three D and forty ultrasounds. But

507
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 1: now I think they do anatomy scans. It's just more

508
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: common nowadays. And I don't know if that's something that's

509
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 1: done everywhere.

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00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, like when you're pregnant, you have to get all

511
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 2: those scans or they just recommend it because what if

512
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 2: they did it to go to the doctor wants If

513
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 2: you don't want to, you don't have to.

514
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,880
Speaker 1: They're not gonna nobody can make you, but you should. Yeah,

515
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: I mean, that's they There's definitely studies done that all

516
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: of these complications that happen, and including fetal death, is

517
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 1: because of people not having proper prenatal care. So the

518
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: best thing is is for both the mom to walk

519
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: in and know what's going to happen and the doctor

520
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: also knows what's going to happen, because the doctor seemed

521
00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: to be shocked too when this baby was born, and

522
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: it was like this scramble of oh my god, like

523
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,920
Speaker 1: we got to get this kid in surgery right now.

524
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:50,959
Speaker 1: And there's a certain part of having children that you

525
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: just can't predict everything. There's always going to be something

526
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: that the kid comes out and you're like, oh, surprise

527
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:01,160
Speaker 1: or whatever. But we have ten achnowlogy now to pick

528
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: up a lot of this stuff. So it's kind of

529
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Speaker 1: curious about it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, So this guy was at a family barbecue.

531
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Speaker 2: He said that he got drunk and fell asleep on

532
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 2: a hammock and he didn't have a shirt on. So

533
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: while he was asleep, his wife's brother bent over him

534
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 2: and put super glue in his belly button.

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Speaker 1: This is like kind of a funny story. Honestly, it

536
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 1: sounds like something like it sounds like a dude's joke,

537
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 1: Like you would you just hear people doing dumb shit

538
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 1: like this? Yeah, I mean it.

539
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 2: Definitely is like like what I am curious, Like, I

540
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:42,359
Speaker 2: mean listen, like it's like, why would you do something

541
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 2: like that?

542
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: But you see that all the time, like kids. It's

543
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: it's it's just an immature joke. Kids putting a sharpie

544
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 1: on someone's face while they're sleeping, or whip cream all

545
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: over their hands so they wipe it on their eyes

546
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 1: when they're sleeping. Like this is just people do this stuff.

547
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: I think what happened afterwards is what's a little crazy.

548
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, so it was an immature joke. But when he

549
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 2: woke up and noticed it was in there, he couldn't

550
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 2: get it out.

551
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: He had to go to the er.

552
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 2: He had over two thousand dollars in medical bills because

553
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 2: of it, and then you know, the guy was pretty

554
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 2: pissed about it. He asked his brother in law to

555
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 2: pay for the medical bills since he did the prank,

556
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 2: and then the brother in law said no, so he

557
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 2: took him to small claim score. And now there's like

558
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 2: a giant riff in the family.

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00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I think like, if you wake up

560
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: and you don't know it and you have glue in

561
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: your belly button, you're gonna be pissed. And the guy,

562
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: but the guy kind of created I mean, after this happened,

563
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: and I know this wouldn't have happened without the brother

564
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 1: in law doing this. But like he kind of created

565
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: his own medical problems. This is not a hospital visit.

566
00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: In my opinion, the super glue in your eye is

567
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: a hospital visit. Super glue in your belly button is

568
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:01,680
Speaker 1: like no. So he he tried to take it out

569
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 1: of himself, and he was ripping his skin and couldn't

570
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: get it out, and then that's when he went to

571
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: the hospital. But when he went to the hospital, they

572
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 1: said they used solve it and ointment which is acid tone,

573
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: which cost a dollar and a and d ointment which

574
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: cost four dollars, and they left with a medical bill

575
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 1: of two two hundred and fifty three dollars. I feel

576
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 1: this is somebody he could have done himself. I could

577
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: have so.

578
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 2: Easily googled exactly way how to get it out.

579
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. But then yeah, so I'm like, you

580
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: don't have a wife that knows that. Now, Paula's remover,

581
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 1: like will melt this. I just think like if you

582
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: just pour acid, lay down, pour acetone right on top

583
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: of it, within five minutes, it's gonna get all goooy

584
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: and just get a paper towel and wipe it out

585
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: and then end a story. He wasn't even a needed

586
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 1: ointment because the skin only broke because he was trying

587
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: to rip it off. Yeah, and his wife's family thinks

588
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: he's like completely overreacting, taking the brother in law the

589
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: small claims court and he won.

590
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 2: He did win, by the way, in small claims court,

591
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 2: but the brother in law.

592
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 1: Is still not paid him. It's just so idiotically the

593
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,640
Speaker 1: whole thing, like the whole thing is messed up. Like

594
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: I but I'm just kind of like he was playing.

595
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,320
Speaker 1: He was playing a joke. I don't know. I don't

596
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 1: think he was intentionally like trying to do it, but

597
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 1: I guess you could say at the same time, well,

598
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: why should he have to pay for it if he

599
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: was just sleeping?

600
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 2: No, I think that I do think that the brother

601
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,000
Speaker 2: in law should have to pay for it, or at

602
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 2: least give him some money towards it, because he put

603
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 2: him in that situation.

604
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: But I just think, yeah, I partied him halfway and

605
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: say like, I'll give you half because I did it,

606
00:30:39,960 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 1: But you're a fucking moron for going to the emergency

607
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: room for this.

608
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Like both parties are wrong.

609
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: So I don't know.

610
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 2: I think it's ridiculous, and I would argue that this

611
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 2: might lead to divorce, because how do you get over

612
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 2: as a wife, how do you get over your husband

613
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 2: taking your brother to a small claims court? What if

614
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 2: Gabe took Louie to small claimscore over something like this.

615
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: Gabe was actually telling me some stuff about some people

616
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: that he's friends with that there's like all this craziness

617
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: in their family like that, and he's like, yeah, their

618
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: Christmas dinners must be real fun. And I'm like Jesus,

619
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: like we're pretty lucky in that way that there's like

620
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: relatively low drama in the family like that. Yeah, but yeah,

621
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Speaker 1: I mean it's just I don't know, like it would

622
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: just suck. I'm just thankful that my husband and my

623
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: brother are friends exactly.

624
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 2: All Right, this forty five year old woman had a

625
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 2: hysterectomy and not long after the surgery had a serious complication.

626
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 2: So can you get into more detail about what went on?

627
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: All right, So she had they didn't say why she

628
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:42,959
Speaker 1: had a hysterectomy, but she had a laparoscopic hysterectomy. So

629
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 1: they go into your belly with cameras and then some

630
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: tools to cut and they kind of snip snip snip

631
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: around your uterus and then pull it out of your vagina.

632
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 1: So the top of your vagina has a huge hole

633
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: in it and they need to sew it up in

634
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 1: order to close it off. And when you get that

635
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 1: surgery done, they say that you're supposed to wait eight

636
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: to twelve weeks before having sex. I think we had

637
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 1: a story in here, it was either in here or

638
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: in the grocer room recently, of a woman that was

639
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: in a car accident and her intestines came through that opening.

640
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: Do you remember that, Yeah, I think that would. I

641
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 1: know I definitely posted it in the grocerroom, but I

642
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: also think we spoke about it. It talked about it here.

643
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 1: So this woman, I'm not sure exactly what happened, but

644
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: she had this hysterectomy. And so when this this incision

645
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: that gets sewn up the hole at the top of

646
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:40,719
Speaker 1: the vagina, that's now called the vaginal cuff. And when

647
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: that opens up, because because it's not healed correctly, because

648
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: the sutures have somehow ripped apart and the tissue hasn't healed,

649
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: it's called vaginalion de hissiance, vaginal cuff to hissiance. So

650
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: when that opened up, she went So that just opened

651
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 1: up and they didn't really say why it opened up,

652
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 1: what happened that caused it to open up. But she

653
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 1: went to the hospital and she got it fixed within

654
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 1: a week. Now again, once it's fixed, you got to

655
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: go back to that eight to twelve weeks. You can't

656
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: have sex because anything pushing against that. Just think about

657
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: if you had a wound on your knee that was futured.

658
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: If you touch it and you don't let it grow together,

659
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: it's going to constantly be weak and rip apart. So

660
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:26,640
Speaker 1: she had sex within one week of having this surgery done.

661
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: Not only did it bust open the sutures again, but

662
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,800
Speaker 1: to make matters worse, the guy that she was having

663
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: sex with was wearing a condom and the condom was missing. Okay,

664
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: nobody knows where it's at. They're looking frantically for it,

665
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 1: can't find it. She goes to the emergency room and

666
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 1: they do a CT scan and they say that she's

667
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: got fluid in her pelvis. So they didn't ask for

668
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: it to try to get out the fluid and nothing

669
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: came out, and they're like, you know what, We're just

670
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: going to do a laparoscopy again just to make sure.

671
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: So they're going to stick a camera and again and

672
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 1: just look around to see what's going going on. So

673
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 1: essentially what happened was this guy busted through the top

674
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 1: of a regina with his penis and opened up that incision,

675
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 1: and then the condom came off inside of that opening,

676
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: and it was inside of herpelvis. So what looked like

677
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: it might have been an infection on a ct scam

678
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 1: was actually the condom with some infectious fluid around it.

679
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 2: This is just my opinion, but I almost feel like

680
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 2: it had to be an assault or something because as

681
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 2: a woman, how would you in just getting this major procedure,

682
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: how would you possibly even be in the mood to

683
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 2: have sex.

684
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,240
Speaker 1: Now, I don't think it's a sexual assault at all. Listen.

685
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,840
Speaker 1: So this is the beauty of the gross room. So

686
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: in the gross room, I post. I usually put a

687
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: question at the end, just to spark some conversation with

688
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: the members, And I said, is there anyone here that

689
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 1: or anyone you know or yourself that has had sex

690
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,720
Speaker 1: when right after either having surgery down there or having

691
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,240
Speaker 1: child giving child birth, Because the same goes for childbirth,

692
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: it's not as long I think you're supposed to wait

693
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 1: six weeks after having childbirth, and within an hour of

694
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 1: posting that we had four comments, So that's what we

695
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 1: have as of as of recording this. And one of

696
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: the members said that she had sex the day she

697
00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: came home after having a c section with her first

698
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 1: baby because she had so many emotions and she didn't

699
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: really know what was happening and she just wanted to

700
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: do something that felt normal, and she said she immediately

701
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: regretted it. There were other people that said they had

702
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: sex right after having something like this done too, So

703
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: you would think, like, oh my god, I just feel

704
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 1: like I got beat up and like the last thing

705
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,800
Speaker 1: I feel like doing is that. But there's plenty of people.

706
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: That's how people have these like Irish twins that end

707
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,799
Speaker 1: up being like a couple weeks apart, yeah, you know,

708
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 1: or like not not even a year, a couple weeks apart,

709
00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: but well like less weeks between pregnancy intervals. I should say, so, yeah,

710
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:01,320
Speaker 1: that's how that happens, because it happens all the time.

711
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: I'm sure the one that happened previous to that was

712
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 1: probably because of sex too. And it is like a

713
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,320
Speaker 1: long time to say to wait eight to twelve weeks.

714
00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 1: It's it's a long time for some people, you know,

715
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 1: they just don't want to wait, and especially.

716
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:20,759
Speaker 2: If you're sex and other weight, like, yeah, isn't it

717
00:36:20,880 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 2: just not having intercourse like you could have oral or yeah, yeah,

718
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 2: you can't exactly, like just exactly, it just is worth it.

719
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 2: Even one of the members in the gross room was

720
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 2: saying that she did wait the amount of time that

721
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 2: she should have, and then she said that her partner

722
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 2: felt the sutures like with the head of his penis still.

723
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 2: This was after having a hysterectomy.

724
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:44,160
Speaker 1: Oh wow, So she said overtime because you know, the

725
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: sutures disintegrate after a while, so she said, overtime it

726
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 1: went away. But even then she said she was very

727
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: scared because she's like, if he could still feel it,

728
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 1: maybe it's not closed all the way yet. And like

729
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 1: the case that we talked to a few weeks ago

730
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: was the woman she didn't hers it and open up

731
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: from sex. It opened up because she was in a

732
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:10,720
Speaker 1: car accident, which is that's that's one of the reasons

733
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: that they tell you that, you know, maybe you shouldn't

734
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: drive after surgery. Obviously anesthesia complications too, but you don't

735
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 1: want to like pop your your sutures open if you

736
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: get in a car accident. So it's just it's just

737
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,799
Speaker 1: really interesting. But could you imagine like how terrible that

738
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 1: was now so she had to get it done again,

739
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:33,359
Speaker 1: and and now it's like it keeps ripping open, and

740
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 1: it's you're just making it like more likely to keep

741
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 1: happening because it's not healing, right, you know. Yeah, all right, let's.

742
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 2: Up with this Women's Health article about they're calling homemade

743
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,359
Speaker 2: sex toys, but it's really just finding objects around your

744
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 2: house to get off on.

745
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: This is a very thorough article. It's just like any

746
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 1: person has at least one of these things in their house.

747
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, So they're basically saying it's a great option for

748
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 2: people who are wanting to try new ways of getting

749
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 2: off and they want to experiment with objects, and it's

750
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 2: cheaper than buying designated sex toys. But I think if

751
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 2: you've ever listened to this show before, you can know

752
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 2: the danger the dangerous territory people can get into when

753
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 2: they start using objects that are not necessarily designated for

754
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 2: sex play. But what they're offering and.

755
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:30,879
Speaker 1: They're giving ideas, they do actually make mention in this

756
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 1: article because it would be completely irresponsible to be like,

757
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: this is stuff that you should put on your penis

758
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 1: or in your vagina, Do not put it in your

759
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: anus because you need special sex toys designed with flair

760
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: bases so you don't have a problem. However, I think

761
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: you're giving people ideas to use things that they might

762
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: not even have ever thought of, and people will definitely

763
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: be sticking it in their.

764
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 2: Ass, yeah, because a couple of things they had. So

765
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 2: the first thing I mentioned was a massage which I

766
00:39:01,080 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 2: guess it melts into a massage oil.

767
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: But I feel like, how's it not burn you? It

768
00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: says it's designed to not get that hot, but like

769
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 1: how I don't know?

770
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 2: So I'm like immediately like this is I'm gonna be

771
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:17,280
Speaker 2: like total negative Nancy on this, Like I'm like burns.

772
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:23,399
Speaker 2: The next one is a shower head that's like I guess, yeah,

773
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 2: I mean that's fine. I guess a handheld fan.

774
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: How that just sounds like a glitterius amputation waiting to happen,

775
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

776
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 2: Electric toothbrush, I'm like that one is fucking gross because

777
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 2: like people live, I have electric three electric toothbrushes in

778
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,279
Speaker 2: my one bathroom that we all share.

779
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to think about anybody sticking them anywhere

780
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: on their body because somebody's gonna use somebody else's, right.

781
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 2: Obviously you're not gonna use your own and then put

782
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:53,919
Speaker 2: it in your mouth.

783
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 1: It's just it's just like there should be a clear

784
00:39:57,440 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 1: distinct line between things you brush your teeth with and

785
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: things that you put on your generals.

786
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 2: Then there's ice that that could do sorotic. The most

787
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 2: ridiculous to me is sofas or armchairs, like dry like

788
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 2: sofa arm chair.

789
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I like how they I like

790
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: how they had socks and they were like, fill the

791
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 1: sock with lotion, so it could be very experienceable, uh,

792
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: pleasurable for a man with a penis like, like you're

793
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 1: so you're telling this guy to just fill a lotion

794
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 1: with lotion up in a sock and jerk off with it.

795
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: Like it. Well.

796
00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:38,800
Speaker 2: They also said wooden spoons and silicones.

797
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 1: For spanking, and I'm like, or you could just use

798
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: your hands like that. I guess, like this is what

799
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 1: I'm getting at. You want to get a little edgy

800
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,800
Speaker 1: or use the silicon spatula because it has harder edges.

801
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:52,840
Speaker 2: I think the edgiest uh of suggestions is a the

802
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 2: handheld fan and dry humping.

803
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: Your chair in your living room.

804
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 2: I don't know that whatever, Like people could do whatever

805
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 2: they want. But I just feel like they explained everything,

806
00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 2: like item by item what you should do and the

807
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 2: precautions and everything. But I feel like what you're saying

808
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: is you're giving people ideas they wouldn't have had before,

809
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 2: and they are safe fools designated for this.

810
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: They have this whole section on using a cucumber and

811
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: again they advise not to use that in the anus,

812
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: although I've received several of them working in the laboratory

813
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: from the anus. But they're saying that you should always

814
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,200
Speaker 1: put a condom over top of any kind of produce

815
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: because it could break. It's just I just don't think

816
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,760
Speaker 1: lacking them. I think they're lacking in like writing material

817
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 1: or something. Just like imagine these people having a meeting,

818
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: their their corporate meeting, Like, Okay, we're gonna write this article.

819
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 1: Let's like talk about this. Let's walk around the house

820
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:49,920
Speaker 1: and see what we could use as as an item.

821
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 2: I understand maybe everybody doesn't have money to buy a

822
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 2: sex toy, but like, you also have hands, so like,

823
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 2: we don't have to be sticking undesignated items in areas

824
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 2: where they maybe were designed to go, because you're just

825
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 2: asking for problems.

826
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: The fan's weird because it's just like, oh, it just

827
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 1: gives you like a breeze, like an erotic breeze, Like

828
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: so does an air conditioning bent. I don't know. It

829
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: was just get this article is a little bit of

830
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,759
Speaker 1: a stretch. I'm pretty sure everybody. But one of them

831
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 1: was really weird, the one with a silk tie, like, oh,

832
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: you want to play around with bondage. And then one

833
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: of them was a pearl necklace and they link. This

834
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: is the funniest part. They link all of these items

835
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: that you could buy, even though they're supposed to be

836
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: laying around your house. So if you're going to link

837
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 1: an item to buy, why wouldn't you just link a dildo? Okay, whatever,

838
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: but you're put they put fresh water sterling silver pearl necklace.

839
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that that's going to cost, like an

840
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: actual real pearl necklace is going to cost way more

841
00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:54,319
Speaker 1: money than a sex toy. You could get a sex

842
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: toy on like fucking Timu for five bucks. Probably Also,

843
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,120
Speaker 1: like they're not homemade.

844
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 2: So when we first when I first pap on this article,

845
00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 2: I'm thinking it's gonna like teach you how to like

846
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 2: take a ceramics class on how to sculpt your own

847
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:07,720
Speaker 2: bildough right.

848
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: Like it's like those those five minute craft videos.

849
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, don't even get me in a way.

850
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 2: That's my favorite page ever, but it's so infuriating.

851
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 1: When they like the one that I saw recently was

852
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: like this girl holding like this big sausage, but I

853
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,880
Speaker 1: think it was supposed to be like a cell phone holder.

854
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: That's what she ended up putting. You know, she used

855
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: like the gypsum stuff and made her hands around this sausage,

856
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: but she was like making it look like it was

857
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,439
Speaker 1: going in her throat, like she was like sucking dick, right,

858
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 1: And then all of a sudden, like she takes the

859
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: sausage out, and she's like, no, like your cell phone

860
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 1: could or your curling iron could fit in there, and

861
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: that wasn't supposed to look like that.

862
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 2: My favorite is when they're like, no earrings. Just take

863
00:43:49,040 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 2: these tampons and cut it in half and then use

864
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:52,760
Speaker 2: the string as the hook.

865
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: And you like would walk around with tampons hanging out

866
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,760
Speaker 1: like what about the people that have like platform shoes

867
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:01,879
Speaker 1: that cut like a little door into them and they

868
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,319
Speaker 1: put like money in them, or I think they put

869
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: tampons in it once, like oh, can't carry a purse

870
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: when you're going out for the night. Stick your tampon

871
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 1: in the platform of your shoe.

872
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:13,960
Speaker 2: Wait, there's another one they do that's my favorite. That

873
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,839
Speaker 2: like it's like are your shoes too small? So they'll

874
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 2: purposely make the person put their like small toe. Then

875
00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: they'll like take a marker and color their toe to

876
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 2: match the high ye Like so stupid it is.

877
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: But like we keep watching it. It's just like the

878
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:34,840
Speaker 1: see there are the meetings I want to be involved

879
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:36,840
Speaker 1: in because I think at first they were doing like

880
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: actual crafts where you were like, oh, cool, you could

881
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 1: do that in five minutes, And then they were like

882
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: wait a second, Like now they sit around and they're like,

883
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:46,719
Speaker 1: what's the most outrageous shit we can do. It's just

884
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 1: it's like kind of creative and really great, and you

885
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: just watch it. It's a nice distraction from all the

886
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:53,280
Speaker 1: craziness that goes on in the world.

887
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 2: You know, they must make so much money. I think

888
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 2: when they were doing their legitimate crafts. It was outraging

889
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 2: people just because they we're stupid. So then they were like,

890
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 2: we're just gonna fully lean into this.

891
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 1: And I just I just saw a similar video today

892
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: where there was this guy that was teaching like a

893
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: pottery class, just regular people, and he had this piece

894
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 1: of clay that was just the size of like a

895
00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: human penis, like to scale, and he was like stroking

896
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 1: it and pulling it and all they kept zeroing in

897
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: on the people in the audience that were like, what

898
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 1: is happening right now? This looks like a giant dick.

899
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: This guy's like jerking right now in front of us,

900
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 1: and he did all this stuff with it, and it

901
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 1: ended up being like a handle of a coffee mug,

902
00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 1: which looked completely normal. But at the end everybody was like, oh, okay,

903
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 1: I get it. But there was like a portion of

904
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: time that this it was just very sexual. He was

905
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 1: like holding it up to his mouth and like chugging it.

906
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 1: It was so ridiculous.

907
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 2: No, there's this guy that makes these like crazy chocolate

908
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 2: sculptures in Vegas. I don't know if you've ever seen

909
00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,920
Speaker 2: his stuff before, but he did one recently where he

910
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 2: was making a heart but he did the have separate

911
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 2: and it was like bubbled out in a way that

912
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 2: when he put them together and took like liquid chocolate

913
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 2: to seal them, it looked like he was like smearing.

914
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 1: Poop in a butt crack. It's like weird. Oh, I

915
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: know who that guy is. I think I know who

916
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 1: that guy is. All right, well, let's move on to

917
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 1: the questions of the day.

918
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Speaker 2: Every Friday at that mother Knows Death Instagram account, you

919
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 2: guys could head over to our story and ask us

920
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 2: whatever question you want. First, what is the real reason

921
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 2: piercings are not allowed at the hospital?

922
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's a real reason. I think

923
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: that a lot of it is just like they don't

924
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: like the way that it looks. They think it's not professional.

925
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if this person means for like

926
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Speaker 2: employees or for patients. Because for a lot of procedures

927
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 2: you have to take them out.

928
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 1: Oh, for a procedure, then there's one hundred percent a

929
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: reason because and this actually happened with me because when

930
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,920
Speaker 1: I had Lillian at the hospital, I have this piercing

931
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Speaker 1: I have in my face right now, and after I

932
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: had heard so, they made me take it out and

933
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: of course I don't want to take it out because

934
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Speaker 1: because I'm thinking, like, after I have a baby, the

935
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 1: last thing I'm going to be thinking about is putting

936
00:47:05,840 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 1: a piercing back in, and like, you can't keep it

937
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 1: out that longer it'll close up. So I just was like,

938
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 1: I don't want to take it out. The thing is

939
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,600
Speaker 1: is that if you have to get an emergency procedure,

940
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 1: if you have to get intubated. For me, I had

941
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: some really really bad headache after I had the baby

942
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: and I had to get an emergency MRI, which you

943
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 1: can't have metal in your face. They just want it

944
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: to be like, especially when you have a baby, like

945
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: shit could go bed, they might have to intubate you

946
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: or something, and they want your face to be clear

947
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 1: and make sure you're ready to go for surgery on

948
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: the rare chance that you need it. So for procedures.

949
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Speaker 1: That's why as far as working there, it's just I mean,

950
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:50,520
Speaker 1: if you have a piercing on your face, that's it's

951
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:53,839
Speaker 1: essentially the same as having your ears pierced. And I

952
00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:57,520
Speaker 1: don't think they make you take out your earrings. I

953
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 1: had a piercing on my face working in the hospital.

954
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,719
Speaker 1: They never gave me shit about that, because, believe me,

955
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 1: they gave me so much shit about my tattoos, so

956
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:08,560
Speaker 1: they've noticed. I don't know, I feel like on the floor.

957
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: If they don't want you having a piercing, it's for appearances,

958
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: it's not for hygiene, all right.

959
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 2: If somebody has a late term spontaneous abortion, will they

960
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 2: automatically do a fetal autopsy?

961
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 1: No. If the anytime a fetal autopsy is done, it's

962
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: when well, most times, unless there's some kind of trauma

963
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:30,319
Speaker 1: involved or violence, if it's a natural cause, the only

964
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,399
Speaker 1: way an autopsy is getting done is if the mom

965
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: wants it. I personally, I don't know. I go back

966
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: and forth like what I would do in that situation.

967
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 1: I never want anybody that I love to ever get

968
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:47,400
Speaker 1: an autopsy because it's so invasive and gruesome. But at

969
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: the same time, if you're a mom that's trying to

970
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,319
Speaker 1: have babies and then you have this terrible thing that

971
00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 1: happens during the pregnancy, you might want to find out

972
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 1: why because there's a chance that it could happen again,

973
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: because obviously, if you have a born, there's a higher

974
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: chance of you having a stillborn. So in that case,

975
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 1: I might want to further investigate there. There are a

976
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: lot of things that could be done genetics and things

977
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: that they don't have to physically do very much of

978
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 1: an invasive procedure, I would say most of the time

979
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 1: in those cases, if everything was fine to the very end,

980
00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:24,880
Speaker 1: it's usually a placental issue. So sometimes we could just

981
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: look at the placent it and be like, yeah, that's

982
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: what happened. That's why the baby died. So there are

983
00:49:31,040 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 1: things that we could do if the parent the parents

984
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:37,240
Speaker 1: aren't comfortable with it, but that's totally up to the parents.

985
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 1: All right.

986
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 2: Last question, what is my favorite novel or author?

987
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 1: And do I have a Good Reads?

988
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 2: I do have a good Reads, but it is on

989
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:51,239
Speaker 2: private because I'm embarrassed by my reading selection most of

990
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:51,760
Speaker 2: the time.

991
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 1: I see. I don't think you should be embarrassed because

992
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: I think our listeners like, like, what do you want

993
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: to You just want to have like of mice and men,

994
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: like you have to have all these intellectual I don't

995
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: want nobody's seeing all the smut books I read and

996
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: judging for my selection. We're already judging you. I know

997
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:15,399
Speaker 1: you are, but yeah, I'm gonna be embarrassed. I think

998
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:18,919
Speaker 1: I think our listeners would wanna just do it. You're

999
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: gonna cause there's this whole there's this whole entire thing

1000
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 1: that you have to act like you're this you're this

1001
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: well educated reader all the time, and just like you

1002
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:31,760
Speaker 1: could break the stereotype or by making your good reads public.

1003
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not gonna make it public yet. Maybe it's

1004
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 2: something I can mentally work towards. But I'll tell you

1005
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:40,000
Speaker 2: some books I read lately that I like. While that's

1006
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 2: loading up, an author I really like right now of

1007
00:50:44,239 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 2: the smut variety is Stephanie Archer. I just think her

1008
00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 2: books are easy to read and they're like non conflict,

1009
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:53,359
Speaker 2: which sometimes I just want, like, you know, to read

1010
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 2: a Hallmark movie.

1011
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 1: Level type of thing.

1012
00:50:56,880 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 2: Books I really like that I would consider in my favorites.

1013
00:51:00,160 --> 00:51:02,720
Speaker 2: I really liked this book my English teacher in twelfth

1014
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:04,760
Speaker 2: grade made us read called Swimming.

1015
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: I thought that was a really good book.

1016
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 2: It's kind of like about family betrayal, and I thought

1017
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 2: I had really good just a lot of drama, but

1018
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 2: it's like really makes you think a lot about family

1019
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:18,440
Speaker 2: dynamic and then not to be a basic book bitch,

1020
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 2: but like I really liked where the Crawdads Sing. But

1021
00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 2: like everybody likes that book. It was on the New

1022
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 2: York Times bestseller list for a really long time. Right now,

1023
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 2: I'm reading a book called Nora Goes Off Script that

1024
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:33,839
Speaker 2: I don't really like that much.

1025
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 1: It's fine.

1026
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 2: I don't think it's like the best book I've ever read,

1027
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 2: but I think it's just an easy read.

1028
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: What other books?

1029
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 2: Oh, I just finished for my book club this book

1030
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 2: called First Time Caller, and that was just on the

1031
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 2: New York Times bestseller list. It just came out a

1032
00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,600
Speaker 2: couple weeks ago, and I thought that book was really great,

1033
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,080
Speaker 2: So I'd recommend that right now.

1034
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 1: What was it about.

1035
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 2: It was about this guy that worked at a radio

1036
00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 2: station and he had a show that was a romance hotline,

1037
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 2: and then this woman's daughter calls in, and it was

1038
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 2: kind of it reminded me of us in a way

1039
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 2: because it was this twenty nine year old girl that

1040
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,640
Speaker 2: had a twelve year old daughter, and her daughter called

1041
00:52:12,640 --> 00:52:16,239
Speaker 2: into the romance hotline and was like, help my mom out.

1042
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 2: She's never had a boyfriend and I'm worried about her.

1043
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god. This is the plot for Sleepless in

1044
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: Seattle basically, but it was. I liked it.

1045
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,960
Speaker 2: It was very easy to read, and it was cute,

1046
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 2: and that's what I would recommend right now.

1047
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: But I don't know.

1048
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll work my way into making my public my

1049
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 2: record's public, but for now, I don't want everybody seeing

1050
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:40,840
Speaker 2: the weird shit I choose to read because I go

1051
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 2: between like romance books, horrible murder novels, finance guides, like,

1052
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 2: nobody really is gonna care what I read.

1053
00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:52,440
Speaker 1: You know, they obviously care if they're asking you.

1054
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 2: Maybe I was surprised this question came in, honestly, But

1055
00:52:57,120 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 2: maybe once in a while I'll give you guys some

1056
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 2: updates and my sos on what I'm reading, and then

1057
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 2: we could go from there, and then I'll see if

1058
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 2: I'm getting good feedback. At that point, maybe I'll release

1059
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:07,880
Speaker 2: the tapes.

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00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to Mother Knows Death. As a reminder,

1061
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: my training is as a pathologist's assistant. I have a

1062
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 1: master's level education and specialize in anatomy and pathology education.

1063
00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 1: I am not a doctor, and I have not diagnosed

1064
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 1: or treated anyone dead or alive without the assistance of

1065
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 1: a licensed medical doctor. This show, my website, and social

1066
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 1: media accounts are designed to educate and inform people based

1067
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:43,319
Speaker 1: on my experience working in pathology, so they can make

1068
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 1: healthier decisions regarding their life and well being. Always remember

1069
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,320
Speaker 1: that science is changing every day and the opinions expressed

1070
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 1: in this episode are based on my knowledge of those

1071
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 1: subjects at the time of publication. If you are having

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