Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to this episode of Cheeky's and Chill.
Speaker 1: I hope you all are having a wonderful and very
Speaker 1: productive day. Today's a very special day, very special episode,
Speaker 1: you guys, because I have a very special person that
Speaker 1: is going to be on the Pot today. His name
Speaker 1: is Horg Ramos, and if you don't know who he is,
Speaker 1: you guys, go watch univision. He is a journalist, very
Speaker 1: talented journalist, and an author. He has a new book
Speaker 1: called a sie veo Lascosa, so go check it out,
Speaker 1: you guys. And I'm excited to interview him because he's
Speaker 1: always the one interviewing other people, people like Fidor Gastro,
Speaker 1: Donald Trump, Ugo Chaves and so many more, you guys.
Speaker 1: So I'm excited to introduce mister Ramos. Everyone, round of applause, please, Jorge,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for being on. I am so honored,
Speaker 1: you guys. You have no idea. This is royalty, you guys.
Speaker 1: I am a huge.
Speaker 2: Is spoken in the past and we spend a couple
Speaker 2: of hours getting to know each other. It was it
Speaker 2: was a great interview, so of course it is my honor.
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you.
Speaker 2: So you're not supposed to be here. You're supposed to
Speaker 2: be in honeymoon, not here.
Speaker 1: I know, right, that's what they told me. I know,
Speaker 1: you know what, Thank goodness, I have a lot of
Speaker 1: work right now. So I'm like, okay, I'm going to
Speaker 1: work and then we're going to take our honeymoon at
Speaker 1: the end of the year.
Speaker 2: That's great. Bad, But I think this is the best example,
Speaker 2: the perfect example on what happens behind the cameras. No
Speaker 2: people think that that you have and that we have
Speaker 2: such a privileged life, and we do in many many ways.
Speaker 2: But on the other hand, I think we work hard
Speaker 2: to have what we have.
Speaker 1: Absolutely to say, you know what, we have to sometimes
Speaker 1: put certain things first or work first, and you know,
Speaker 1: pleasure later. And I'm okay with it because I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know what, we have work, I should be grateful
Speaker 1: and that's it. So the good thing is him and
Speaker 1: I my husband. Now, oh my god, that's so weird
Speaker 1: to say that my husband, now that we're on the
Speaker 1: same page. But yes, you did. You did come actually
Speaker 1: to my home, and I'm going to tell you guys
Speaker 1: here on the podcast. I don't I decided when I
Speaker 1: moved to this home, I wasn't going to let certain.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to protect my home a little bit more.
Speaker 1: But when they told me that Ramos wanted to interview me,
Speaker 1: I said absolutely, he saw my closet, he was here.
Speaker 1: I was so happy. Yes, it was a beautiful interview.
Speaker 1: So so yes, we have spoken before, and I think
Speaker 1: that's when you know, I've seen you on television and
Speaker 1: I know a lot about you and I admire what
Speaker 1: you do, but then getting to know you as as
Speaker 1: a human being, it was so wonderful. So that's why.
Speaker 1: And you know I wanted to talk to you because
Speaker 1: I know you have a new book out. You said,
Speaker 1: Ya'm a asciveo lascosas, and I want to start off
Speaker 1: with that. I want to before we get into like
Speaker 1: other little details. I know you're short on time, tell
Speaker 1: me more about the book.
Speaker 2: Well, you know, I've been doing the newscasts for more
Speaker 2: than thirty years and not to share on every sion
Speaker 2: and I have the Sunday Morning political show and doing
Speaker 2: other things Albo Personnel, which we spent more than a
Speaker 2: hour're talking. But what happens is that when I'm doing
Speaker 2: the news, or when I'm covering a war, or when
Speaker 2: I'm covering a hurricane or an accident. I'm not supposed
Speaker 2: to cry, and I'm not supposed just to give my opinion,
Speaker 2: but just report the news. I mean, report the news,
Speaker 2: report reality as it is, not as I wish it
Speaker 2: would be. But then once everything's done, and then you
Speaker 2: go home or you go to the hotel, there's so
Speaker 2: many things that you haven't said how you felt. And
Speaker 2: then that's what writing is for me. Every week. I've
Speaker 2: been writing a column every week for more than thirty years,
Speaker 2: and in those columns, I get to tell my part
Speaker 2: what I see, how I feel. For instance, I remember
Speaker 2: that when I was covering the war in Afghanistan, I
Speaker 2: did something incredibly stupid. I asked for vacations and I
Speaker 2: went all the way to Pakistan and then crossed the
Speaker 2: border to Afghanistan. I had to go to where Osama
Speaker 2: bin Laden was supposed to be hiding in the mountains
Speaker 2: of Toraborda. And I was in a car with three
Speaker 2: members of a gorilla that were protecting the area, and
Speaker 2: one of them, I think was seventeen or nineteen year old,
Speaker 2: he pointed his gun at me and he said, I
Speaker 2: am a follower of Osama. I thought I was going
Speaker 2: to die. Honestly, I had no idea what to do,
Speaker 2: so I remember having a few one dollar bills in
Speaker 2: my pocket. I gave him the money and I told him,
Speaker 2: if you take care of me, I'll take care of you.
Speaker 2: He understood what I meant, and then when we arrived
Speaker 2: at the hotel, he just pushed me with his gun,
Speaker 2: with his rifle as a matter of fact, and then
Speaker 2: he let me go. So my life at that point
Speaker 2: was worth only fifteen dollars. And that's the kind of
Speaker 2: stories that I'm telling here in the book. Is not
Speaker 2: something that I was able to tell the people. Is
Speaker 2: not something that I reported on TV, because it was
Speaker 2: not my role just to say, oh, I was about
Speaker 2: to die. Now. The important story was what the war
Speaker 2: in Afghanistan and that's it. But on the other hand,
Speaker 2: we have very personal stories to tell. I'm sure you
Speaker 2: have your stories to tell right before and after the concerts.
Speaker 1: Yeah. From what I know about you, you're very a
Speaker 1: very private person with your private life. And it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I mean Muscle Mentos. You know what it
Speaker 1: is with me is I don't know, but you know,
Speaker 1: this is not about me, this is about you. But
Speaker 1: but you know what I can respect that. I sometimes
Speaker 1: wish I was a little bit more private. But what
Speaker 1: I love about this book in particular, is that people
Speaker 1: are going to get to know you, you know, the person
Speaker 1: behind you know, the person that we see on television,
Speaker 1: which is what I got the honor of meeting you
Speaker 1: on a different level. And it just really just makes
Speaker 1: you feel closer to the person, I guess, and I
Speaker 1: think that that's what I love about this book, and
Speaker 1: I'm glad you wrote it. I definitely want to read
Speaker 1: it because I'm that type of person. I want to
Speaker 1: know what are they really like? What is his favorite color?
Speaker 1: What side of the bed does he sleep on? What's
Speaker 1: his favorite food? You know what I mean, Just things
Speaker 1: like that, you know. But I think it's amazing, and
Speaker 1: I congratulate you for this for this book. How many
Speaker 1: books have you written?
Speaker 2: This is number fourteen? I think, yeah, but no, but
Speaker 2: it's like music for you, it is writing for me.
Speaker 2: It's something that I have to do. If I don't
Speaker 2: do it, I would explode internally. I need to do
Speaker 2: something just to make sure that I can relieve the
Speaker 2: stress and make sure that I have a completely mentally
Speaker 2: healthy life. That's important and that's what writing is for me.
Speaker 2: I'm sure that's what music is for you.
Speaker 1: It's like an outlet. I always say music is like
Speaker 1: a therapy. So I think writing for you is like,
Speaker 1: this is my form of releasing.
Speaker 2: Just imagine what life would be for you, life without music,
Speaker 2: for instance.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh no.
Speaker 2: It's impossible. It's simply impossible.
Speaker 1: So it is.
Speaker 2: You know, one of the stories that I tell in
Speaker 2: the book, when my father died, I was about twenty
Speaker 2: years ago. I was about to go on there to
Speaker 2: do the newscast, and then I remember my mom calling
Speaker 2: me and telling me, you know, your dad couldn't make it.
Speaker 2: And you know what I did is something incredibly stupid.
Speaker 2: I told the news director, I'm fine, I'm fine, I
Speaker 2: can do the newscast. Let me do it. Fortunately Chikis
Speaker 2: she said, no, you're not going to do that. You
Speaker 2: go home, buy the ticket, go to Mexico City. But
Speaker 2: I wanted to do the news. I just I just
Speaker 2: didn't want to accept reality. And you know, sometimes when
Speaker 2: we go through things like this, we reacting in very
Speaker 2: rational ways. I guess, without writing, without being able to
Speaker 2: express my feelings in a book, in this case, on
Speaker 2: a screen in a computer, it would be very difficult
Speaker 2: for me to do my job.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, absolutely. And going to that, I was going
Speaker 1: to ask you, does it feel awkward for you being
Speaker 1: interviewed because you're so used to interviewing people. Does it
Speaker 1: feel does it feel different?
Speaker 2: You know? It is difficult now because here's the power shifting.
Speaker 2: When I was when I was asking the questions a
Speaker 2: few months ago, when I when I met you, I
Speaker 2: was in control. Right, I'm the one asking the questions,
Speaker 2: and somehow I can direct the conversation towards whatever I'm
Speaker 2: interested in. In this case, it's you. You're in control.
Speaker 2: And something something funny happened to me before the interview.
Speaker 2: I was doing my homework, just checking the latest social
Speaker 2: media on you and the video and everything, and I
Speaker 2: was thinking the opposite way. I was thinking, what am
Speaker 2: I going to ask? Cheekies? And then I realized, no, no, no,
Speaker 2: you cannot ask him about the ask her about the wedding,
Speaker 2: or ask her about like Astralia. No, no, no, you
Speaker 2: have to behave and then answer the questions. Yes, it's
Speaker 2: a matter of power. Somehow asking the question puts you
Speaker 2: in a position of power. There's an Italian writer Rina Falacci.
Speaker 2: She died a few years ago, and she she used
Speaker 2: to say that sometimes the interviews become war, and sometimes
Speaker 2: the interviewer wins, and sometimes the interviewee wins. And I'm
Speaker 2: sure it happens to you all the time. I'm sure
Speaker 2: you have. You have had pretty aggressive interviews. And then
Speaker 2: you come out and you say, I did it. I
Speaker 2: answer exactly what I wanted, and I want that interview,
Speaker 2: and sometimes you exactly and sometimes it's the opposite. Sometimes
Speaker 2: you feel vulnerable and then you say, can I cannot
Speaker 2: be haste to parget exactly. So in every interview it happens.
Speaker 2: There are questions that that you do not ask, and
Speaker 2: sometimes when you are on the other side, there are
Speaker 2: answers that you go home and say, I wish I
Speaker 2: could have said that.
Speaker 1: Absolutely happens to me a lot. Actually it does. It does.
Speaker 2: Those who who win the interviews with me, they're the
Speaker 2: ones who have a message, and it doesn't matter what
Speaker 2: you do. They a message and they have a complete
Speaker 2: control of their own narrative. In other words, just what
Speaker 2: you did with me, you told me your story, and
Speaker 2: you were in complete control of your narrative. You knew
Speaker 2: exactly what you wanted to say, you had a message
Speaker 2: and it came across. But if you were not prepared
Speaker 2: with that message, with that story, your own personal story,
Speaker 2: that's the moment when the interviews go wrong.
Speaker 1: I agree, And that's what changed for me if you
Speaker 1: would have asked me this, I don't know ten years ago.
Speaker 1: In the interviews, I felt very vulnerable. I felt like,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, there, very scared. And until I found
Speaker 1: my purpose and I realized, Okay, I have control. I
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about, I know what I want
Speaker 1: to say, I know what I want to share, I
Speaker 1: know what I don't want to share. It changed completely
Speaker 1: for me. And that just happened recently. I think maybe
Speaker 1: a little bit before you interviewed me, where this new
Speaker 1: found I was Joe, take it or leave it, and
Speaker 1: it just completely changed for me.
Speaker 2: And that's so important. Yeah, you have to own your
Speaker 2: own story, yes you. I mean, I've seen stories go
Speaker 2: completely wrong when when the artists or the writer, or
Speaker 2: the journalists or the politician allows others to dictate their story.
Speaker 2: But when you own your own story, even if it's difficult,
Speaker 2: because we all have vulnerabilities and we all have weaknesses,
Speaker 2: and even if it's difficult, but you own your own story,
Speaker 2: and when you're in control, then that's a completely different story.
Speaker 1: No, but I did want to ask you, how did
Speaker 1: you get into this field? What is it? Is it
Speaker 1: something since you were young? Is it like? When did
Speaker 1: this like love or passion grow in you.
Speaker 2: I grew up in a house with tres armanos in Normana,
Speaker 2: and many times it was very difficult. I remember my
Speaker 2: friends going on vacation and we stayed home most of
Speaker 2: the time. And I don't think chick is that. I
Speaker 2: that I traveled on a plane until I was probably
Speaker 2: eleven or twelve, So my world was incredibly limited. And
Speaker 2: I remember I'm sixty six right now. So I grew
Speaker 2: up in a Mexico that was not a democracy. It
Speaker 2: was really authoritarian, very repressive, and I wanted to be
Speaker 2: a journalist, and I just didn't want to be a
Speaker 2: sensor journalist in Mexico. I remember I had a small car,
Speaker 2: Lumbo Chito, a Volkswagen, and I sold it for just
Speaker 2: a few hundred dollars, and with that money, I came
Speaker 2: to the United States as a student. Fortunately, as a student,
Speaker 2: I studied for about a year and then I started
Speaker 2: working with Univision in Los Angeles, Canalter in the Couadron
Speaker 2: in Los Angeles. And then when I realized that as
Speaker 2: a journalist, I didn't have the opportunity like many actors
Speaker 2: and actresses have to live many lives through your roles.
Speaker 2: But I was able as a journalist to live one
Speaker 2: very intense life ass a journalist. And that's when I
Speaker 2: loved it. When I realized that I could get to
Speaker 2: know the people that that changed the world and being
Speaker 2: the cases where history is being made. Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Speaker 2: the ciak pus Mundo, and I think he was absolutely right,
Speaker 2: because I have been able for the last four years
Speaker 2: just to be whatever history is being made and getting
Speaker 2: to know people that you might like or not, but
Speaker 2: that are actually making history. So I got to know
Speaker 2: what Chavis in Venezuela and Nicolas Maduro. I was arrested
Speaker 2: in the Palace in Venezuela just for asking questions. I
Speaker 2: can remember I confronted Donald Trump in a few years
Speaker 2: ago when he said that Mexican immigrants were criminals and rapists,
Speaker 2: and I wanted to tell him to his face that
Speaker 2: he was lying, that that that is not true, that
Speaker 2: I'm a Mexican immigrant and that we're not like that.
Speaker 2: So it happened with him, and I talked to Joe
Speaker 2: Biden and to other presidents. You don't have to like them,
Speaker 2: but you get to know them. And that's that's why
Speaker 2: i've journalism.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, and you're great, absolutely amazing at it, because
Speaker 1: that's one of the things that I admire, that you
Speaker 1: speak your truth, you speak your mind, you speak with facts.
Speaker 1: And Keevisto and I'm just like, dude, he has and
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say it because it's but you
Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about. He has some.
Speaker 2: You know, you said something about facts. And nowadays in
Speaker 2: social media, it's so easy just to get lost because
Speaker 2: you use your phone and then you have no idea
Speaker 2: if what you're reading is the truth or not. And
Speaker 2: we as journalists, I think we have our strength, our
Speaker 2: power comes from from facts. And I remember, I tell
Speaker 2: the story in the book, but I went to five Manianetas.
Speaker 2: Now Las Manianetas in Mexico City are the press conferences
Speaker 2: by by the president and there is Manuel Pez and
Speaker 2: they call it Las Maniana simply because he does it
Speaker 2: that seven in the morning. Just imagine waking up every
Speaker 2: day for five years just to have a press conference.
Speaker 2: And I remember going to La Maa Nanetta once with
Speaker 2: the President of Mexico and telling him that his government
Speaker 2: was incredibly violent. More than one hundred and seventy thousand
Speaker 2: people have been killed for the last five years. And
Speaker 2: I was telling him, these are the facts. Said no, no, no,
Speaker 2: you can go to rosatos. I have other facts. Said no,
Speaker 2: mister president, you cannot have other facts. These facts I
Speaker 2: got them from your own government and stear. He was
Speaker 2: saying no, no, no, I have other facts and said no,
Speaker 2: that is not possible. No, no, senor, no, it positively.
Speaker 2: And then he got famous for using that trade day
Speaker 2: ten go rosatos, which is beautiful because when somebody tells
Speaker 2: you this is the truth and you said no, no, you
Speaker 2: can go rosatos. There's really nothing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we'll talking about that. Does in facts. I
Speaker 1: have a question, a little bit of a personal question,
Speaker 1: and it is something that you've talked about, but I
Speaker 1: kind of want to know a little bit what exactly
Speaker 1: does agnostic mean? Because I know what atheists mean, but
Speaker 1: what is agnostic.
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you asked me about that. I grew
Speaker 2: up in a Catholic family in a Catholic country, and
Speaker 2: I went to Catholic school when I was very young,
Speaker 2: elevel for elementary school and for middle school. But then
Speaker 2: the priests in this school they were really abusive with us,
Speaker 2: physically abusive. They would hit us in the hands, they
Speaker 2: would hit us in the body, and they would instill
Speaker 2: this fear of hell constantly. I mean, if we were
Speaker 2: to sin or lie or misbehave, they would they would
Speaker 2: tell us, kids, children, You're going to go to hell.
Speaker 2: So I grew up with this really horrible idea about
Speaker 2: religion and what religion meant, okay, And so what happened
Speaker 2: is that since I was very very young, I was
Speaker 2: very dissillusioned with official legion and I lost my faith.
Speaker 2: I lost my faith. To you, I'm sure you believe
Speaker 2: that when you die, you might go to heaven and
Speaker 2: meet again all the people that that you lost and
Speaker 2: that we lost. But I don't have that confidence. I
Speaker 2: don't have that trust that it is going to happen.
Speaker 2: So I'm not atheist. In other words, I cannot say
Speaker 2: that God doesn't exist. But I am agnostic, which means
Speaker 2: that I don't know. Okay, It is simply the lack
Speaker 2: of knowledge, and I, you know, I it would be
Speaker 2: beautiful for me to believe that that something is going
Speaker 2: to happen after I die, and that I'm going to
Speaker 2: meet my brother that I lost about a year ago,
Speaker 2: and my dad in Mihatalola, in my peral soonset, and
Speaker 2: that life is going to be eternal and beautiful. But
Speaker 2: I don't have that trust. I don't I don't have
Speaker 2: that faith. What do you believe when you die? What happens?
Speaker 1: I have a similar story to you. I respect religions,
Speaker 1: but for me, organized religion isn't my cup of tea.
Speaker 1: It's not for me because I was raised in a
Speaker 1: very Christian home and went to church Wednesday's, Fridays and Sundays.
Speaker 1: So I was in church a lot and a lot
Speaker 1: of things happen in that church can may and I
Speaker 1: was just very like the sea, and it just changed
Speaker 1: for me. But I am I do believe in a
Speaker 1: higher power. I believe in there's something bigger and greater
Speaker 1: than I am, so I bow to it, and I
Speaker 1: just I don't know what it is. I don't know
Speaker 1: if it's a female energy or male energy. I just
Speaker 1: know it's something more. So I consider myself a woman
Speaker 1: of faith. Mass is spiritual, so the leon and you know,
Speaker 1: I get that, but you know, I just I wanted
Speaker 1: to ask because I really did not know.
Speaker 2: That's beautiful to have faith. I wish I could have
Speaker 2: your faith. I mean, I honestly wish I could wake
Speaker 2: up and believe that that things happen for a reason,
Speaker 2: that there's a superior power and that he or she
Speaker 2: is directing our lives in certain ways, that there's a destiny.
Speaker 2: But I simply don't believe in that. So I have
Speaker 2: to use my own, my own facts and be true
Speaker 2: to myself. When I've been doing these readings all around
Speaker 2: the country in Mexico, and I always say, thank you
Speaker 2: so much for trying to save my soul. There's this
Speaker 2: collective effort to save my soul, and I really appreciate it.
Speaker 2: When when people pray for you, it's incredibly powerful and
Speaker 2: I absolutely really really appreciate it. But I and I
Speaker 2: respect that it doesn't happen.
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you're I think it's beautiful that you're honest,
Speaker 1: that you are. This is who I am, and I
Speaker 1: respect it, you know what I mean? And I get
Speaker 1: it because you're a very man of facts, and it's
Speaker 1: kind of like see it to believe it sort of thing.
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know verty while so that I think
Speaker 1: you're wonderful.
Speaker 2: Atheist and agnostic atheists, they can they can tell you know,
Speaker 2: God does not exist. I'm not there. I cannot, I
Speaker 2: cannot say that. I'm just still simply telling you I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 1: So now that I'm married, misters in your second gratulations, grass, yes,
Speaker 1: it's the you have been married for how long?
Speaker 2: How long I've been with with with Cheeky.
Speaker 1: With cheeky who I love? She's so beautiful, you guys,
Speaker 1: if you don't know who cheeky, She's amazing and only
Speaker 1: physically Dane Linda. Every time I've seen her, she's been
Speaker 1: so sweet.
Speaker 2: So and it's funny because some people call her Cheeky's.
Speaker 1: No, yeah, and they call me cheeky sometimes.
Speaker 2: Yeah. It's Maria chi Yallo. We've been together for fourteen
Speaker 2: years now and some you know, something beautiful that that
Speaker 2: happened is that when I met her, I already had
Speaker 2: Nicolas who's twenty six, and Paula who's thirty seven already
Speaker 2: and Cheeky has Marie Lena and Carolota, who's fourteen right now.
Speaker 2: So what we did was this incredible expressment of bringing
Speaker 2: together two different families, and that has been the most
Speaker 2: beautiful experience of my whole life. And now because Carota
Speaker 2: she's fourteen, I'm a swift tea of course, and we've been,
Speaker 2: we've been twice to see Taylor Swift and she's coming
Speaker 2: to She's coming to Miami in a couple of months,
Speaker 2: so I'm going to be there dancing again.
Speaker 1: My gosh, I love it. I'm a swifty too, by
Speaker 1: the way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she's just fantastic. I mean, I'm sure
Speaker 2: you've seen concerts all over the world, but I think
Speaker 2: she has the most powerful, most complete show in the
Speaker 2: world at this moment. I mean, I've never seen I
Speaker 2: haven't seen artists three hours and a half constantly without
Speaker 2: without stopping.
Speaker 1: I agree, she's She's a powerful force, for sure.
Speaker 2: But anyway, I was talking about Taylor Swift. But I'm
Speaker 2: also UNTI I'm I'm a follower of Bad Bonnie and
Speaker 2: I know, I love it. I know, and oh and
Speaker 2: this is so cool, Cassar and all those simply because
Speaker 2: Carlotta is also a follower of Bad Bonnie. I saw
Speaker 2: Bad Bonnie in Mexico City. Have youI seka chickies.
Speaker 1: I have not know?
Speaker 2: Is incredible. Of course it's for soccer. But I saw
Speaker 2: Bad Bonnie here in Miami too. But I saw him
Speaker 2: in front of eighty thousand people in Stadiusteca, and it
Speaker 2: is impressive what he does, how he controls the audience.
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, you know what it is to
Speaker 2: seem to to tens of thousands of people. I have
Speaker 2: no idea how it feels, but when you see it,
Speaker 2: it is incredible. It is amazing, and I'm amazed not
Speaker 2: only with his talent, but with his possess. The silences
Speaker 2: during his concerts. Taylor Swift is a continuous show. But
Speaker 2: then Bad Bonnie stops. He puts a towel in his head,
Speaker 2: and then I don't know what happens. He goes into meditation.
Speaker 2: He truly stops the concert for two or three minutes,
Speaker 2: and then he's back. Those silences. That yeah, those silences
Speaker 2: are incredible. I saw him in Miami stopping breathing. I
Speaker 2: do yoga, so I sort of know about the breeding process.
Speaker 2: And he stops and he starts breathing as if he's
Speaker 2: just making sure that he realizes what's happening all around him. Maybe,
Speaker 2: and you do your your own thing too, I mean,
Speaker 2: you have your own rituals when you get nervous. I mean, first,
Speaker 2: do you get nervous when you when you sing too
Speaker 2: from thousands.
Speaker 1: Of people when it's not my audience on the SOOM festival.
Speaker 1: I get more nervous. When it's it's my concert and
Speaker 1: I know people paid to see me. I feel a
Speaker 1: little bit more confident, but the nerves are always there.
Speaker 1: It's when I've gone to like you know, in Mexico
Speaker 1: and it's it's just in festival and I'm like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, I get even more nervous. But then after
Speaker 1: thirty seconds it goes away.
Speaker 2: Oh interesting, Yeah, thirty seconds and goes away. And when
Speaker 2: I do when I have important interviews with presidents, or
Speaker 2: when you have to participate in a debate with political
Speaker 2: candidates and so on, the first question is the difficult
Speaker 2: for me. And once I get through the first question
Speaker 2: that I practice a thousand times, then it feels a
Speaker 2: little better.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, And I think nerves are good because we're
Speaker 1: passionate about what we're doing. That's how I see it. Personally,
Speaker 1: but you have. I love to know that you have
Speaker 1: great taste, you're swifty and you and you're a bad buddy.
Speaker 1: I love it. Now, what's your favorite color? I just
Speaker 1: now that we're talking about these things.
Speaker 2: But do you have you always were blue?
Speaker 1: Ah?
Speaker 2: Okay, yes for some reason. I mean, if you see
Speaker 2: my thank you so much for allowing me to get
Speaker 2: into your closet. I saw mine is so boring because
Speaker 2: it's just like the same way you're seeing me right now,
Speaker 2: with a with a blue jacket and a dark blue
Speaker 2: jacket and a blue shirt. That's that's how it is
Speaker 2: and the beauty about it. I understand that Mark Sockerberg
Speaker 2: in Black Obama and others they do the same. They don't.
Speaker 2: They basically don't change how they dress. That way, you
Speaker 2: can spend time thinking about other things. So yes, so
Speaker 2: I like that you cannot do that, right.
Speaker 1: No, I love stuff, that's the thing as you as
Speaker 1: you saw in my closet. I just love stuff in Gusta.
Speaker 2: But are you worried that if you repeat something that
Speaker 2: you wore for one concert that people are gonna complain
Speaker 2: or are gonna say, oh, she used it.
Speaker 1: Yes, a little bit. I'm not gonna lie. I do
Speaker 1: feel sometimes that I I don't like to wear things
Speaker 1: twice on television. I'll wear it in real life, but
Speaker 1: for television, I'm like, okay, I'll just change it up
Speaker 1: and then I donate. I love donating my clothes. But
Speaker 1: I learned now I'm starting to rent stuff because I'm like,
Speaker 1: that's just you know, so now I rent it. Yeah, yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: I know. I have only a few more minutes with you,
Speaker 1: but I just wanted to. I wanted to say thank you.
Speaker 1: I know you're very busy man, and if you could
Speaker 1: just give me a bit of advice on marriage, like
Speaker 1: what is what's the secret? Just a little one, just
Speaker 1: something small.
Speaker 2: No, I don't think i'm the one. I'm not the
Speaker 2: right person for that. I'm not the right person for that.
Speaker 2: But I really wish you you know something. As I
Speaker 2: told you, I was doing my homework before doing the
Speaker 2: interview with you, and I and I just love all
Speaker 2: the It was so beautiful, happy for you. Yeah, and
Speaker 2: what I love about it is that you did it
Speaker 2: in your own terms, exactly as you wanted.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: That's so beautiful.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I appreciate it. I did get
Speaker 1: a lot of love and it was just very peaceful
Speaker 1: and very intimate and and I appreciate that. So check
Speaker 1: your smile Monday.
Speaker 2: Check check your smile. And in the pictures, oh yes,
Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you have that. It's the perfect smile.
Speaker 2: It's it's someone who is at peace and in love
Speaker 2: and that's what you want, right.
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, thank you. That means a lot to me. Yes,
Speaker 1: thank you so much, and I appreciate you guys. Everyone
Speaker 1: that's listening, please go outespol a Liberal las Cosas. They'll
Speaker 1: signormos you guys and anyways, you guys. I hope you
Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode. I definitely did. It was nice to
Speaker 1: hear from from you on a different level. And again,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for being on my podcast. I
Speaker 1: really appreciate it. You do you need advice on love, relationships,
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