1 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to this episode of Cheeky's and Chill. 2 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: I hope you all are having a wonderful and very 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: productive day. Today's a very special day, very special episode, 4 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: you guys, because I have a very special person that 5 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 1: is going to be on the Pot today. His name 6 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 1: is Horg Ramos, and if you don't know who he is, 7 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: you guys, go watch univision. He is a journalist, very 8 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: talented journalist, and an author. He has a new book 9 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: called a sie veo Lascosa, so go check it out, 10 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: you guys. And I'm excited to interview him because he's 11 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 1: always the one interviewing other people, people like Fidor Gastro, 12 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 1: Donald Trump, Ugo Chaves and so many more, you guys. 13 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: So I'm excited to introduce mister Ramos. Everyone, round of applause, please, Jorge, 14 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: thank you so much for being on. I am so honored, 15 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: you guys. You have no idea. This is royalty, you guys. 16 00:00:55,960 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: I am a huge. 17 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: Is spoken in the past and we spend a couple 18 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 2: of hours getting to know each other. It was it 19 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 2: was a great interview, so of course it is my honor. 20 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. 21 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 2: So you're not supposed to be here. You're supposed to 22 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 2: be in honeymoon, not here. 23 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: I know, right, that's what they told me. I know, 24 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: you know what, Thank goodness, I have a lot of 25 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: work right now. So I'm like, okay, I'm going to 26 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: work and then we're going to take our honeymoon at 27 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: the end of the year. 28 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 2: That's great. Bad, But I think this is the best example, 29 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:28,320 Speaker 2: the perfect example on what happens behind the cameras. No 30 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 2: people think that that you have and that we have 31 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: such a privileged life, and we do in many many ways. 32 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 2: But on the other hand, I think we work hard 33 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,000 Speaker 2: to have what we have. 34 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: Absolutely to say, you know what, we have to sometimes 35 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 1: put certain things first or work first, and you know, 36 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: pleasure later. And I'm okay with it because I'm like, 37 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: you know what, we have work, I should be grateful 38 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: and that's it. So the good thing is him and 39 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: I my husband. Now, oh my god, that's so weird 40 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: to say that my husband, now that we're on the 41 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: same page. But yes, you did. You did come actually 42 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: to my home, and I'm going to tell you guys 43 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: here on the podcast. I don't I decided when I 44 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,799 Speaker 1: moved to this home, I wasn't going to let certain. 45 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: I just wanted to protect my home a little bit more. 46 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: But when they told me that Ramos wanted to interview me, 47 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: I said absolutely, he saw my closet, he was here. 48 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: I was so happy. Yes, it was a beautiful interview. 49 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,679 Speaker 1: So so yes, we have spoken before, and I think 50 00:02:23,720 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: that's when you know, I've seen you on television and 51 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: I know a lot about you and I admire what 52 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 1: you do, but then getting to know you as as 53 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: a human being, it was so wonderful. So that's why. 54 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: And you know I wanted to talk to you because 55 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:37,639 Speaker 1: I know you have a new book out. You said, 56 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: Ya'm a asciveo lascosas, and I want to start off 57 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: with that. I want to before we get into like 58 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 1: other little details. I know you're short on time, tell 59 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: me more about the book. 60 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 2: Well, you know, I've been doing the newscasts for more 61 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 2: than thirty years and not to share on every sion 62 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 2: and I have the Sunday Morning political show and doing 63 00:02:56,840 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 2: other things Albo Personnel, which we spent more than a 64 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 2: hour're talking. But what happens is that when I'm doing 65 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: the news, or when I'm covering a war, or when 66 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 2: I'm covering a hurricane or an accident. I'm not supposed 67 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: to cry, and I'm not supposed just to give my opinion, 68 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 2: but just report the news. I mean, report the news, 69 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,720 Speaker 2: report reality as it is, not as I wish it 70 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 2: would be. But then once everything's done, and then you 71 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 2: go home or you go to the hotel, there's so 72 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 2: many things that you haven't said how you felt. And 73 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 2: then that's what writing is for me. Every week. I've 74 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: been writing a column every week for more than thirty years, 75 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: and in those columns, I get to tell my part 76 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 2: what I see, how I feel. For instance, I remember 77 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 2: that when I was covering the war in Afghanistan, I 78 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 2: did something incredibly stupid. I asked for vacations and I 79 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 2: went all the way to Pakistan and then crossed the 80 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 2: border to Afghanistan. I had to go to where Osama 81 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 2: bin Laden was supposed to be hiding in the mountains 82 00:04:00,480 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 2: of Toraborda. And I was in a car with three 83 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 2: members of a gorilla that were protecting the area, and 84 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 2: one of them, I think was seventeen or nineteen year old, 85 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 2: he pointed his gun at me and he said, I 86 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 2: am a follower of Osama. I thought I was going 87 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 2: to die. Honestly, I had no idea what to do, 88 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 2: so I remember having a few one dollar bills in 89 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: my pocket. I gave him the money and I told him, 90 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 2: if you take care of me, I'll take care of you. 91 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 2: He understood what I meant, and then when we arrived 92 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 2: at the hotel, he just pushed me with his gun, 93 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 2: with his rifle as a matter of fact, and then 94 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 2: he let me go. So my life at that point 95 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 2: was worth only fifteen dollars. And that's the kind of 96 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 2: stories that I'm telling here in the book. Is not 97 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:46,159 Speaker 2: something that I was able to tell the people. Is 98 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 2: not something that I reported on TV, because it was 99 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 2: not my role just to say, oh, I was about 100 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 2: to die. Now. The important story was what the war 101 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: in Afghanistan and that's it. But on the other hand, 102 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 2: we have very personal stories to tell. I'm sure you 103 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 2: have your stories to tell right before and after the concerts. 104 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. From what I know about you, you're very a 105 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: very private person with your private life. And it's like, yeah, 106 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: you know, I mean Muscle Mentos. You know what it 107 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 1: is with me is I don't know, but you know, 108 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:19,840 Speaker 1: this is not about me, this is about you. But 109 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,600 Speaker 1: but you know what I can respect that. I sometimes 110 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: wish I was a little bit more private. But what 111 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 1: I love about this book in particular, is that people 112 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: are going to get to know you, you know, the person 113 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: behind you know, the person that we see on television, 114 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: which is what I got the honor of meeting you 115 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: on a different level. And it just really just makes 116 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: you feel closer to the person, I guess, and I 117 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: think that that's what I love about this book, and 118 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm glad you wrote it. I definitely want to read 119 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 1: it because I'm that type of person. I want to 120 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: know what are they really like? What is his favorite color? 121 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: What side of the bed does he sleep on? What's 122 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: his favorite food? You know what I mean, Just things 123 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: like that, you know. But I think it's amazing, and 124 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,039 Speaker 1: I congratulate you for this for this book. How many 125 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:02,320 Speaker 1: books have you written? 126 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 2: This is number fourteen? I think, yeah, but no, but 127 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 2: it's like music for you, it is writing for me. 128 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 2: It's something that I have to do. If I don't 129 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 2: do it, I would explode internally. I need to do 130 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: something just to make sure that I can relieve the 131 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 2: stress and make sure that I have a completely mentally 132 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 2: healthy life. That's important and that's what writing is for me. 133 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 2: I'm sure that's what music is for you. 134 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 1: It's like an outlet. I always say music is like 135 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,080 Speaker 1: a therapy. So I think writing for you is like, 136 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: this is my form of releasing. 137 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 2: Just imagine what life would be for you, life without music, 138 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: for instance. 139 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh no. 140 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 2: It's impossible. It's simply impossible. 141 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: So it is. 142 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 2: You know, one of the stories that I tell in 143 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 2: the book, when my father died, I was about twenty 144 00:06:56,480 --> 00:06:59,159 Speaker 2: years ago. I was about to go on there to 145 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 2: do the newscast, and then I remember my mom calling 146 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 2: me and telling me, you know, your dad couldn't make it. 147 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 2: And you know what I did is something incredibly stupid. 148 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 2: I told the news director, I'm fine, I'm fine, I 149 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 2: can do the newscast. Let me do it. Fortunately Chikis 150 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 2: she said, no, you're not going to do that. You 151 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: go home, buy the ticket, go to Mexico City. But 152 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 2: I wanted to do the news. I just I just 153 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 2: didn't want to accept reality. And you know, sometimes when 154 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 2: we go through things like this, we reacting in very 155 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 2: rational ways. I guess, without writing, without being able to 156 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 2: express my feelings in a book, in this case, on 157 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: a screen in a computer, it would be very difficult 158 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 2: for me to do my job. 159 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, absolutely. And going to that, I was going 160 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: to ask you, does it feel awkward for you being 161 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 1: interviewed because you're so used to interviewing people. Does it 162 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: feel does it feel different? 163 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 2: You know? It is difficult now because here's the power shifting. 164 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 2: When I was when I was asking the questions a 165 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: few months ago, when I when I met you, I 166 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 2: was in control. Right, I'm the one asking the questions, 167 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 2: and somehow I can direct the conversation towards whatever I'm 168 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 2: interested in. In this case, it's you. You're in control. 169 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 2: And something something funny happened to me before the interview. 170 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 2: I was doing my homework, just checking the latest social 171 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 2: media on you and the video and everything, and I 172 00:08:30,920 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 2: was thinking the opposite way. I was thinking, what am 173 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 2: I going to ask? Cheekies? And then I realized, no, no, no, 174 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 2: you cannot ask him about the ask her about the wedding, 175 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 2: or ask her about like Astralia. No, no, no, you 176 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 2: have to behave and then answer the questions. Yes, it's 177 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 2: a matter of power. Somehow asking the question puts you 178 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 2: in a position of power. There's an Italian writer Rina Falacci. 179 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 2: She died a few years ago, and she she used 180 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 2: to say that sometimes the interviews become war, and sometimes 181 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 2: the interviewer wins, and sometimes the interviewee wins. And I'm 182 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: sure it happens to you all the time. I'm sure 183 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 2: you have. You have had pretty aggressive interviews. And then 184 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 2: you come out and you say, I did it. I 185 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 2: answer exactly what I wanted, and I want that interview, 186 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 2: and sometimes you exactly and sometimes it's the opposite. Sometimes 187 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 2: you feel vulnerable and then you say, can I cannot 188 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 2: be haste to parget exactly. So in every interview it happens. 189 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 2: There are questions that that you do not ask, and 190 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 2: sometimes when you are on the other side, there are 191 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:46,120 Speaker 2: answers that you go home and say, I wish I 192 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 2: could have said that. 193 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 1: Absolutely happens to me a lot. Actually it does. It does. 194 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 2: Those who who win the interviews with me, they're the 195 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 2: ones who have a message, and it doesn't matter what 196 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 2: you do. They a message and they have a complete 197 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 2: control of their own narrative. In other words, just what 198 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 2: you did with me, you told me your story, and 199 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 2: you were in complete control of your narrative. You knew 200 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:13,640 Speaker 2: exactly what you wanted to say, you had a message 201 00:10:13,679 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 2: and it came across. But if you were not prepared 202 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 2: with that message, with that story, your own personal story, 203 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 2: that's the moment when the interviews go wrong. 204 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 1: I agree, And that's what changed for me if you 205 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: would have asked me this, I don't know ten years ago. 206 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: In the interviews, I felt very vulnerable. I felt like, 207 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, there, very scared. And until I found 208 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: my purpose and I realized, Okay, I have control. I 209 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about, I know what I want 210 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:42,440 Speaker 1: to say, I know what I want to share, I 211 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 1: know what I don't want to share. It changed completely 212 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 1: for me. And that just happened recently. I think maybe 213 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: a little bit before you interviewed me, where this new 214 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:55,960 Speaker 1: found I was Joe, take it or leave it, and 215 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: it just completely changed for me. 216 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 2: And that's so important. Yeah, you have to own your 217 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 2: own story, yes you. I mean, I've seen stories go 218 00:11:05,320 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 2: completely wrong when when the artists or the writer, or 219 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: the journalists or the politician allows others to dictate their story. 220 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 2: But when you own your own story, even if it's difficult, 221 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:22,439 Speaker 2: because we all have vulnerabilities and we all have weaknesses, 222 00:11:22,520 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 2: and even if it's difficult, but you own your own story, 223 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 2: and when you're in control, then that's a completely different story. 224 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: No, but I did want to ask you, how did 225 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: you get into this field? What is it? Is it 226 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:41,040 Speaker 1: something since you were young? Is it like? When did 227 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:44,640 Speaker 1: this like love or passion grow in you. 228 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 2: I grew up in a house with tres armanos in Normana, 229 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:54,199 Speaker 2: and many times it was very difficult. I remember my 230 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 2: friends going on vacation and we stayed home most of 231 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: the time. And I don't think chick is that. I 232 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 2: that I traveled on a plane until I was probably 233 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 2: eleven or twelve, So my world was incredibly limited. And 234 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 2: I remember I'm sixty six right now. So I grew 235 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:13,160 Speaker 2: up in a Mexico that was not a democracy. It 236 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 2: was really authoritarian, very repressive, and I wanted to be 237 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 2: a journalist, and I just didn't want to be a 238 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 2: sensor journalist in Mexico. I remember I had a small car, 239 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 2: Lumbo Chito, a Volkswagen, and I sold it for just 240 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 2: a few hundred dollars, and with that money, I came 241 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 2: to the United States as a student. Fortunately, as a student, 242 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 2: I studied for about a year and then I started 243 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 2: working with Univision in Los Angeles, Canalter in the Couadron 244 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 2: in Los Angeles. And then when I realized that as 245 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 2: a journalist, I didn't have the opportunity like many actors 246 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 2: and actresses have to live many lives through your roles. 247 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 2: But I was able as a journalist to live one 248 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 2: very intense life ass a journalist. And that's when I 249 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 2: loved it. When I realized that I could get to 250 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 2: know the people that that changed the world and being 251 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 2: the cases where history is being made. Gabriel Garcia Marquez 252 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 2: the ciak pus Mundo, and I think he was absolutely right, 253 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 2: because I have been able for the last four years 254 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 2: just to be whatever history is being made and getting 255 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 2: to know people that you might like or not, but 256 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 2: that are actually making history. So I got to know 257 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 2: what Chavis in Venezuela and Nicolas Maduro. I was arrested 258 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 2: in the Palace in Venezuela just for asking questions. I 259 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 2: can remember I confronted Donald Trump in a few years 260 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 2: ago when he said that Mexican immigrants were criminals and rapists, 261 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 2: and I wanted to tell him to his face that 262 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 2: he was lying, that that that is not true, that 263 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 2: I'm a Mexican immigrant and that we're not like that. 264 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 2: So it happened with him, and I talked to Joe 265 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 2: Biden and to other presidents. You don't have to like them, 266 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:59,679 Speaker 2: but you get to know them. And that's that's why 267 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 2: i've journalism. 268 00:14:01,000 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 1: Yeah no, and you're great, absolutely amazing at it, because 269 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,880 Speaker 1: that's one of the things that I admire, that you 270 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 1: speak your truth, you speak your mind, you speak with facts. 271 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: And Keevisto and I'm just like, dude, he has and 272 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: I'm not going to say it because it's but you 273 00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about. He has some. 274 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 2: You know, you said something about facts. And nowadays in 275 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 2: social media, it's so easy just to get lost because 276 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:36,080 Speaker 2: you use your phone and then you have no idea 277 00:14:36,160 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 2: if what you're reading is the truth or not. And 278 00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 2: we as journalists, I think we have our strength, our 279 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 2: power comes from from facts. And I remember, I tell 280 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 2: the story in the book, but I went to five Manianetas. 281 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 2: Now Las Manianetas in Mexico City are the press conferences 282 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 2: by by the president and there is Manuel Pez and 283 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 2: they call it Las Maniana simply because he does it 284 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 2: that seven in the morning. Just imagine waking up every 285 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 2: day for five years just to have a press conference. 286 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: And I remember going to La Maa Nanetta once with 287 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 2: the President of Mexico and telling him that his government 288 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 2: was incredibly violent. More than one hundred and seventy thousand 289 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,800 Speaker 2: people have been killed for the last five years. And 290 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: I was telling him, these are the facts. Said no, no, no, 291 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 2: you can go to rosatos. I have other facts. Said no, 292 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 2: mister president, you cannot have other facts. These facts I 293 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: got them from your own government and stear. He was 294 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 2: saying no, no, no, I have other facts and said no, 295 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 2: that is not possible. No, no, senor, no, it positively. 296 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:41,000 Speaker 2: And then he got famous for using that trade day 297 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 2: ten go rosatos, which is beautiful because when somebody tells 298 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 2: you this is the truth and you said no, no, you 299 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 2: can go rosatos. There's really nothing. 300 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we'll talking about that. Does in facts. I 301 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: have a question, a little bit of a personal question, 302 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 1: and it is something that you've talked about, but I 303 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 1: kind of want to know a little bit what exactly 304 00:16:01,120 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: does agnostic mean? Because I know what atheists mean, but 305 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: what is agnostic. 306 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 2: I'm glad that you asked me about that. I grew 307 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 2: up in a Catholic family in a Catholic country, and 308 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 2: I went to Catholic school when I was very young, 309 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 2: elevel for elementary school and for middle school. But then 310 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: the priests in this school they were really abusive with us, 311 00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: physically abusive. They would hit us in the hands, they 312 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 2: would hit us in the body, and they would instill 313 00:16:31,040 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 2: this fear of hell constantly. I mean, if we were 314 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 2: to sin or lie or misbehave, they would they would 315 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 2: tell us, kids, children, You're going to go to hell. 316 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 2: So I grew up with this really horrible idea about 317 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 2: religion and what religion meant, okay, And so what happened 318 00:16:54,440 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 2: is that since I was very very young, I was 319 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 2: very dissillusioned with official legion and I lost my faith. 320 00:17:02,320 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 2: I lost my faith. To you, I'm sure you believe 321 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,679 Speaker 2: that when you die, you might go to heaven and 322 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:09,919 Speaker 2: meet again all the people that that you lost and 323 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 2: that we lost. But I don't have that confidence. I 324 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 2: don't have that trust that it is going to happen. 325 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 2: So I'm not atheist. In other words, I cannot say 326 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 2: that God doesn't exist. But I am agnostic, which means 327 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,440 Speaker 2: that I don't know. Okay, It is simply the lack 328 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 2: of knowledge, and I, you know, I it would be 329 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 2: beautiful for me to believe that that something is going 330 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 2: to happen after I die, and that I'm going to 331 00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 2: meet my brother that I lost about a year ago, 332 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 2: and my dad in Mihatalola, in my peral soonset, and 333 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 2: that life is going to be eternal and beautiful. But 334 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 2: I don't have that trust. I don't I don't have 335 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: that faith. What do you believe when you die? What happens? 336 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 1: I have a similar story to you. I respect religions, 337 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 1: but for me, organized religion isn't my cup of tea. 338 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: It's not for me because I was raised in a 339 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:11,480 Speaker 1: very Christian home and went to church Wednesday's, Fridays and Sundays. 340 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:13,880 Speaker 1: So I was in church a lot and a lot 341 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 1: of things happen in that church can may and I 342 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: was just very like the sea, and it just changed 343 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:22,680 Speaker 1: for me. But I am I do believe in a 344 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 1: higher power. I believe in there's something bigger and greater 345 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: than I am, so I bow to it, and I 346 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: just I don't know what it is. I don't know 347 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 1: if it's a female energy or male energy. I just 348 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 1: know it's something more. So I consider myself a woman 349 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 1: of faith. Mass is spiritual, so the leon and you know, 350 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,640 Speaker 1: I get that, but you know, I just I wanted 351 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: to ask because I really did not know. 352 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 2: That's beautiful to have faith. I wish I could have 353 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 2: your faith. I mean, I honestly wish I could wake 354 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:55,199 Speaker 2: up and believe that that things happen for a reason, 355 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 2: that there's a superior power and that he or she 356 00:18:59,359 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 2: is directing our lives in certain ways, that there's a destiny. 357 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 2: But I simply don't believe in that. So I have 358 00:19:07,600 --> 00:19:11,639 Speaker 2: to use my own, my own facts and be true 359 00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:15,359 Speaker 2: to myself. When I've been doing these readings all around 360 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:19,320 Speaker 2: the country in Mexico, and I always say, thank you 361 00:19:19,359 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 2: so much for trying to save my soul. There's this 362 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 2: collective effort to save my soul, and I really appreciate it. 363 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 2: When when people pray for you, it's incredibly powerful and 364 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:34,679 Speaker 2: I absolutely really really appreciate it. But I and I 365 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 2: respect that it doesn't happen. 366 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:39,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you're I think it's beautiful that you're honest, 367 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 1: that you are. This is who I am, and I 368 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 1: respect it, you know what I mean? And I get 369 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: it because you're a very man of facts, and it's 370 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 1: kind of like see it to believe it sort of thing. 371 00:19:49,359 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know verty while so that I think 372 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 1: you're wonderful. 373 00:19:53,480 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 2: Atheist and agnostic atheists, they can they can tell you know, 374 00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:00,560 Speaker 2: God does not exist. I'm not there. I cannot, I 375 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 2: cannot say that. I'm just still simply telling you I 376 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:03,919 Speaker 2: don't know. 377 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:14,200 Speaker 1: So now that I'm married, misters in your second gratulations, grass, yes, 378 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,880 Speaker 1: it's the you have been married for how long? 379 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 2: How long I've been with with with Cheeky. 380 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: With cheeky who I love? She's so beautiful, you guys, 381 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 1: if you don't know who cheeky, She's amazing and only 382 00:20:26,320 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: physically Dane Linda. Every time I've seen her, she's been 383 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 1: so sweet. 384 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 2: So and it's funny because some people call her Cheeky's. 385 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 1: No, yeah, and they call me cheeky sometimes. 386 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:41,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. It's Maria chi Yallo. We've been together for fourteen 387 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:44,199 Speaker 2: years now and some you know, something beautiful that that 388 00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 2: happened is that when I met her, I already had 389 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 2: Nicolas who's twenty six, and Paula who's thirty seven already 390 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 2: and Cheeky has Marie Lena and Carolota, who's fourteen right now. 391 00:20:56,320 --> 00:21:01,400 Speaker 2: So what we did was this incredible expressment of bringing 392 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 2: together two different families, and that has been the most 393 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:09,880 Speaker 2: beautiful experience of my whole life. And now because Carota 394 00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:14,880 Speaker 2: she's fourteen, I'm a swift tea of course, and we've been, 395 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 2: we've been twice to see Taylor Swift and she's coming 396 00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:21,879 Speaker 2: to She's coming to Miami in a couple of months, 397 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,639 Speaker 2: so I'm going to be there dancing again. 398 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:26,239 Speaker 1: My gosh, I love it. I'm a swifty too, by 399 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:26,720 Speaker 1: the way. 400 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she's just fantastic. I mean, I'm sure 401 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 2: you've seen concerts all over the world, but I think 402 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 2: she has the most powerful, most complete show in the 403 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,199 Speaker 2: world at this moment. I mean, I've never seen I 404 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:42,439 Speaker 2: haven't seen artists three hours and a half constantly without 405 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 2: without stopping. 406 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 1: I agree, she's She's a powerful force, for sure. 407 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,639 Speaker 2: But anyway, I was talking about Taylor Swift. But I'm 408 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:53,199 Speaker 2: also UNTI I'm I'm a follower of Bad Bonnie and 409 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 2: I know, I love it. I know, and oh and 410 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 2: this is so cool, Cassar and all those simply because 411 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 2: Carlotta is also a follower of Bad Bonnie. I saw 412 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 2: Bad Bonnie in Mexico City. Have youI seka chickies. 413 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: I have not know? 414 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:19,440 Speaker 2: Is incredible. Of course it's for soccer. But I saw 415 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 2: Bad Bonnie here in Miami too. But I saw him 416 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 2: in front of eighty thousand people in Stadiusteca, and it 417 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 2: is impressive what he does, how he controls the audience. 418 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 2: I mean, you know, you know what it is to 419 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 2: seem to to tens of thousands of people. I have 420 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 2: no idea how it feels, but when you see it, 421 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,919 Speaker 2: it is incredible. It is amazing, and I'm amazed not 422 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: only with his talent, but with his possess. The silences 423 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 2: during his concerts. Taylor Swift is a continuous show. But 424 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:58,359 Speaker 2: then Bad Bonnie stops. He puts a towel in his head, 425 00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 2: and then I don't know what happens. He goes into meditation. 426 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,919 Speaker 2: He truly stops the concert for two or three minutes, 427 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 2: and then he's back. Those silences. That yeah, those silences 428 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 2: are incredible. I saw him in Miami stopping breathing. I 429 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 2: do yoga, so I sort of know about the breeding process. 430 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 2: And he stops and he starts breathing as if he's 431 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 2: just making sure that he realizes what's happening all around him. Maybe, 432 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 2: and you do your your own thing too, I mean, 433 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 2: you have your own rituals when you get nervous. I mean, first, 434 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,040 Speaker 2: do you get nervous when you when you sing too 435 00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:48,840 Speaker 2: from thousands. 436 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 1: Of people when it's not my audience on the SOOM festival. 437 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 1: I get more nervous. When it's it's my concert and 438 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: I know people paid to see me. I feel a 439 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,000 Speaker 1: little bit more confident, but the nerves are always there. 440 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: It's when I've gone to like you know, in Mexico 441 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,639 Speaker 1: and it's it's just in festival and I'm like, oh 442 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,520 Speaker 1: my gosh, I get even more nervous. But then after 443 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 1: thirty seconds it goes away. 444 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:13,480 Speaker 2: Oh interesting, Yeah, thirty seconds and goes away. And when 445 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,480 Speaker 2: I do when I have important interviews with presidents, or 446 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 2: when you have to participate in a debate with political 447 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 2: candidates and so on, the first question is the difficult 448 00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 2: for me. And once I get through the first question 449 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 2: that I practice a thousand times, then it feels a 450 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:30,440 Speaker 2: little better. 451 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, And I think nerves are good because we're 452 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: passionate about what we're doing. That's how I see it. Personally, 453 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,280 Speaker 1: but you have. I love to know that you have 454 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 1: great taste, you're swifty and you and you're a bad buddy. 455 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 1: I love it. Now, what's your favorite color? I just 456 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 1: now that we're talking about these things. 457 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,679 Speaker 2: But do you have you always were blue? 458 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:49,760 Speaker 1: Ah? 459 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,960 Speaker 2: Okay, yes for some reason. I mean, if you see 460 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:56,280 Speaker 2: my thank you so much for allowing me to get 461 00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 2: into your closet. I saw mine is so boring because 462 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 2: it's just like the same way you're seeing me right now, 463 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 2: with a with a blue jacket and a dark blue 464 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 2: jacket and a blue shirt. That's that's how it is 465 00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 2: and the beauty about it. I understand that Mark Sockerberg 466 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 2: in Black Obama and others they do the same. They don't. 467 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,359 Speaker 2: They basically don't change how they dress. That way, you 468 00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 2: can spend time thinking about other things. So yes, so 469 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 2: I like that you cannot do that, right. 470 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 1: No, I love stuff, that's the thing as you as 471 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 1: you saw in my closet. I just love stuff in Gusta. 472 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:41,439 Speaker 2: But are you worried that if you repeat something that 473 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 2: you wore for one concert that people are gonna complain 474 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:45,879 Speaker 2: or are gonna say, oh, she used it. 475 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 1: Yes, a little bit. I'm not gonna lie. I do 476 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:54,520 Speaker 1: feel sometimes that I I don't like to wear things 477 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: twice on television. I'll wear it in real life, but 478 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 1: for television, I'm like, okay, I'll just change it up 479 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 1: and then I donate. I love donating my clothes. But 480 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 1: I learned now I'm starting to rent stuff because I'm like, 481 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 1: that's just you know, so now I rent it. Yeah, yeah, yes, 482 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: I know. I have only a few more minutes with you, 483 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,679 Speaker 1: but I just wanted to. I wanted to say thank you. 484 00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,640 Speaker 1: I know you're very busy man, and if you could 485 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,639 Speaker 1: just give me a bit of advice on marriage, like 486 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: what is what's the secret? Just a little one, just 487 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: something small. 488 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 2: No, I don't think i'm the one. I'm not the 489 00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,199 Speaker 2: right person for that. I'm not the right person for that. 490 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 2: But I really wish you you know something. As I 491 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 2: told you, I was doing my homework before doing the 492 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 2: interview with you, and I and I just love all 493 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 2: the It was so beautiful, happy for you. Yeah, and 494 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 2: what I love about it is that you did it 495 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 2: in your own terms, exactly as you wanted. 496 00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: Thank you. 497 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 2: That's so beautiful. 498 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I appreciate it. I did get 499 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,120 Speaker 1: a lot of love and it was just very peaceful 500 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: and very intimate and and I appreciate that. So check 501 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 1: your smile Monday. 502 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,440 Speaker 2: Check check your smile. And in the pictures, oh yes, 503 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,440 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you have that. It's the perfect smile. 504 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 2: It's it's someone who is at peace and in love 505 00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:24,200 Speaker 2: and that's what you want, right. 506 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:30,120 Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, thank you. That means a lot to me. Yes, 507 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 1: thank you so much, and I appreciate you guys. Everyone 508 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 1: that's listening, please go outespol a Liberal las Cosas. They'll 509 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 1: signormos you guys and anyways, you guys. I hope you 510 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode. I definitely did. It was nice to 511 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 1: hear from from you on a different level. And again, 512 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: thank you so much for being on my podcast. 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