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Speaker 1: Come buck.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they talk better than the excited tell me.

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Speaker 3: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so it's like writing in our diaries, except we say

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Speaker 3: them aloud. Pauline, I need to hear this one, yes

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Speaker 3: from you. But if you've got a second I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to give it away, but I would

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Speaker 3: love to. We have to come back to it. We'll

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Speaker 3: have a lot of time. But eight five five five

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Speaker 3: three five. What did you have to teach your husband

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Speaker 3: or boyfriend have to do or how to do? What

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Speaker 3: did you have to teach them how to do? Because

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Speaker 3: that's that's what your blog is about, and I want

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Speaker 3: to hear about it. But if anyone's got one on

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Speaker 3: the top of their head, you had to teach your

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Speaker 3: significant other in this case, your husband or boyfriend how

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Speaker 3: to do this for you? What was it?

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Speaker 4: So your blog for us? For me at the Old

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Speaker 4: Godina's House. You guys know that I love a spraytan.

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Speaker 4: I also know how to spray tan. I'm very good

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Speaker 4: at spraytanning. Okay, very small business, I do.

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Speaker 1: I kind of pause because I had a baby.

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Speaker 4: And I was I had like a little storefront and

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Speaker 4: everything in my neighborhood, but I couldn't go back because

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Speaker 4: I had a baby and we bought a house. Is

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Speaker 4: a lot going on in my world, so I'm trying

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Speaker 4: to get back into it. But I do have a

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Speaker 4: small base, three towels for the business.

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Speaker 3: Because she has three towels, a little tanse and little

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Speaker 3: spray gun.

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Speaker 4: I'm a badass spray tanner, like people have told me.

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Speaker 1: Then it's really happy and I love being tan as well.

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Speaker 1: Just I'm a whole different person.

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Speaker 4: I'm okay when you spray tan to we are different

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Speaker 4: people when we are tanned.

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Speaker 1: I look at myself sometimes and I'm like, oh, you're

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Speaker 1: not so bad. When I have a spray tan, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm so hot.

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Speaker 3: Tan will definitely slim things up a little bit.

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Speaker 1: When you're naked. You're just like, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Yeah right. I've really never felt that way about myself.

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Speaker 3: But I've never stood in front of the mirror.

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Speaker 4: Okay, only when I'm tan. Yes, when we spray tan

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Speaker 4: you and you'll be like feeling yourself.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 4: So I was like, well, I really don't know a

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Speaker 4: lot of girls who do it or do it well.

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Speaker 4: So I'm like, well, what do I do right, I

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Speaker 4: want to be tan to. I can't really do it

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Speaker 4: to myself. I have a friend that actually knows how

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Speaker 4: to do it to herself.

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Speaker 3: I can't.

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Speaker 1: I'll be blotchyts the whole thing.

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Speaker 4: So I was like, what if I asked happy my

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Speaker 4: husband if he would.

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Speaker 3: Learn to spray me?

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Speaker 4: And he his first question was like, is it like

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Speaker 4: spraying when you have like paint, like like when you're

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Speaker 4: painting something. I said, yes, sir, yes, we're right kind of,

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Speaker 4: we're on the right track. And he said he was down.

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Speaker 4: So I'm really excited. And I was like, because I'm

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Speaker 4: trying to, like, you know, save money too, So I

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Speaker 4: asked him, would you would you do it for me?

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Speaker 3: He said yeah, So you're going to teach him how

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Speaker 3: to spray to you.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna spray tan me. He might take over the business.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you know, man, that is a good man. His

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Speaker 3: naked wife's standing in front of him. That's kind of cool.

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Speaker 3: Except the problem is once he's done spraying, and you

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Speaker 3: can't do anything for what a day?

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Speaker 4: Like that night, I would eight hour I wouldn't. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: for eight hours, I wouldn't. There'd be no sexy time,

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Speaker 4: no nothing time.

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Speaker 3: But then I would be like, now I know how

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Speaker 3: to do it, so never mind sexy time, I'll spray

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Speaker 3: it again.

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, he knows. I got to bake a

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Speaker 1: little bit in it.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 4: I got to sleep with my with my black robe

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Speaker 4: because I don't want to get my sheets dirty.

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Speaker 1: It's a process.

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Speaker 3: Is there anything else that you've had to teach him

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Speaker 3: how to do to you that you would trust him

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Speaker 3: to do, or anything you've considered like, would you lend

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Speaker 3: him shave your legs?

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Speaker 1: I would love that. I don't think he'd be down.

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Speaker 1: Remember when I was pregnant? Yeah, I needed help in

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Speaker 1: other areas.

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Speaker 3: Right, I do somehow, I do remember. I remember the

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Speaker 3: fact that I know that about you. It just it

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Speaker 3: speaks to the kind of relationship that we all have here. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I couldn't see, couldn't see did he do it? He

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Speaker 3: didn't do it because I didn't ask him.

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Speaker 1: I got too shy.

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Speaker 4: So I was just walking around looking the way.

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Speaker 3: Someone said, closed the toilet seats, someone said had to

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Speaker 3: make the bed cleaning and financial literacy. Yes, Mike's still

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Speaker 3: trying that on me. Have you ever had to do

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Speaker 3: anything to him or have you ever asked him to

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Speaker 3: do something that was like slightly on the I don't know,

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Speaker 3: personal level. He has me cut his hair.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Okay, he gives himself home haircuts, and

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Speaker 2: so I trim up like the back of his neck.

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Speaker 3: I've never done that before. Okay, you know barber class

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Speaker 3: to do that for not a ton of money professionals

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Speaker 3: that you know have been trained financial literacy. What do

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Speaker 3: you mean, Tim, what do you make big Tim? Do

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Speaker 3: you ever had him look at anything or do anything or.

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Speaker 5: You know, and every time I try, it just doesn't

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Speaker 5: go well. So like he's just not my elite employee

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Speaker 5: and he refuses to be my employee any type of way,

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Speaker 5: shape or fashion. I asked this man last night because

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Speaker 5: I was watching a TikTok of this lady and she

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Speaker 5: was saying that my husband watches my hair and so

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Speaker 5: there was a video of them, you know, him washing

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Speaker 5: her hair and everything, and so I said, hey, if

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Speaker 5: I ever needed you to, would you wash my hair?

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Speaker 5: And he was like, I could help you if you

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Speaker 5: need help, but like, why would I wash your hair?

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Speaker 5: I almost thought about breaking up. So it me, you know, like.

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Speaker 3: Of all the people though in the room, Kitlin, I

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Speaker 3: would think you'd be the one who would have because

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Speaker 3: you you just seem to most like in touch with yourself,

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Speaker 3: the least bashful in some ways. I could see you

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Speaker 3: and Shane worships you. So I mean the guy would

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Speaker 3: do like absolutely anything you asked him to do. So,

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Speaker 3: h have you had to yet in your in your

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Speaker 3: I've spent about a year, hasn't it.

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Speaker 1: In a couple of months, it will be. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: At first I thought we were talking about life skills,

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Speaker 6: which I've taught him a lot of though is but

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Speaker 6: I did ask him if he could learn how to

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Speaker 6: French braid because I can't and he is working on that.

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Speaker 6: I was just it's really he's not good yet, but

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Speaker 6: he watches youtubes and because I can't do it on myself.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's a good man's sweet.

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Speaker 6: But I mean guys sometimes, like my dad when I

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Speaker 6: was a little used to paint my nails, and because

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Speaker 6: he's kind of OCD, he was very good at it.

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Speaker 1: He would tell me I wasn't allowed to tell anyone

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Speaker 1: he was doing that. But I feel like some guys

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Speaker 1: like to do good at that. Yeah, I think he.

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Speaker 3: Would be really like misticulo OCD. I'd be yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: the problem is if I made a mistake, we'd have

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Speaker 3: to start over and it would be a whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's why you'd be good too, because they'd

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Speaker 1: be a good set of nails.

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Speaker 3: But I think someday I would be a good partner

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Speaker 3: to somebody. I've been single basically my whole life. But

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Speaker 3: there's certain things I just I would hope I would

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Speaker 3: never be asked to do.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you have all these sisters in here, so

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Speaker 1: I feel like you.

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Speaker 3: Got a sister. I have two nieces and I have

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Speaker 3: three of you, so well four really, and then I

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Speaker 3: am kind of in touch, but like it's just it's

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Speaker 3: it's the whole preserve the sexy thing, Like please don't

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Speaker 3: ask me to look and see if you have like

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Speaker 3: a hemorrhoid or something, you know what. You never I

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Speaker 3: thought somebody in this room had said that they had

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Speaker 3: they had a partner look or they had to look

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Speaker 3: for someone else to see what was going on down there.

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Speaker 1: I've never looked for my friend. I'm not looking.

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Speaker 3: I mean I would because I feel like I feel

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Speaker 3: like couples are the boundaries are different than they would

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Speaker 3: be for me. And again, it's nothing like I I

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Speaker 3: would be ashamed of you or like you should be embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: It's just that I am not not in touch with myself.

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Speaker 3: So please don't ask me do that, to do that

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Speaker 3: for you, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, No, I've asked him, Like you said, you know,

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Speaker 2: something's going on, like you, I'm gonna look he's like.

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Speaker 4: No, or like popping a ZiT or something like that.

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Speaker 4: I'm you know, I love it all day. Black heads

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Speaker 4: are my favorite. Nice and firm like it. But no,

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Speaker 4: I know you hate this, but I do it. Handle

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Speaker 4: your business man, That is my business. Handle you know

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Speaker 4: you're I'm telling to handle your own business.

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