1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: What percentage do you think that you're lucky? And what 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: percentage do you think that you're smart? Out of a 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:11,600 Speaker 1: hundred smart? All right, I like it. I'm not I'm 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 1: not a dumb blong. I'm just very good at pretending 5 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 1: to be one. Hi, Welcome to week two of Just Be. 6 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: I am so blown away and moved and shocked by 7 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 1: the support and feedback that I've gotten from you so far. 8 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: You have rallied. I'm speechless. I mean, so many of 9 00:00:44,479 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 1: you didn't know how to subscribe to podcasts and had 10 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 1: never listened to one before, including myself, and you just 11 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 1: came and you loved it, and you rated it, and 12 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: I read all the comments and I could not be 13 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: more thrilled. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. 14 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: Keep listening, keep rating, keep reviewing, keep subscribing. Today is 15 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: going to be an incredible show. Uh, Dorinda is here. 16 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: It's usually just me talking to you, but sometimes I 17 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 1: just want to have someone come in. If I feel 18 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: that it's something you might want to hear or something 19 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: they might want to have, I might want to say 20 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: during He's got a lot of wisdom, she's funny, she's abroad. 21 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: She just left the Housewives and it's sort of a story. 22 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 1: And no one knew whether she got fired or whether 23 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: she left, except I knew that. And it's just a 24 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: good conversation, just light and bright and funny and stupid. 25 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 1: And I love Dorinda, and I know you're going to 26 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: love everything she has to say today. All right, let's 27 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: get this party started. So Dorinda is here. You may 28 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: think she's funny if you've ever seen her on television, 29 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:47,039 Speaker 1: but they don't really really capture how fucking hilarious she is. 30 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: And for someone like me, who's a comedy snob, to 31 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: say someone's hilarious, it is a big goddamn deal because 32 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: I'm not interested in people who aren't funny as a 33 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: big compliment. It's like an orgasm you need to get. 34 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 1: It's like I need I get off laughing, hysterical, but 35 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: good laugher, because people really enjoy You're a great People 36 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,679 Speaker 1: don't say you're a guttural laugher. I love a guttural 37 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: lab That's what we're gonna call for you, a guttural 38 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,520 Speaker 1: lap Wait, so you were yeah, I think on the 39 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: show they really found me funny. I thought about that 40 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: after the fact, Like people never really laughed, really hard like, 41 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,920 Speaker 1: I'm definitely better and more funny off the show that 42 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm I'm more of a sort of a one line 43 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 1: around the show, but I make people really laugh in 44 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 1: my home and beyond and the audience laughs that you 45 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: even still wasn't portrayed as as funny. But the girls 46 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: on the show don't think you're that funny because they 47 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 1: don't really have a sense of humor. They literally don't 48 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 1: have a sense of humor, which is super important. Um 49 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: So when here we go, you could say, here we go. 50 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,680 Speaker 1: All right, so you left the show. We're gonna get 51 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: a little bit into that. It was said that you 52 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: had a rough season. Listen, I did not have a 53 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,679 Speaker 1: good season this year, so I'm not gonna make excuses 54 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: for that. But I was doing real you know, that's 55 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: where I was at that time. It's you know, it 56 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 1: has been said that, you know, I probably should have 57 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: taken a year off like like you did. You decided 58 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: to do, and I'll be honest with you, I felt very, 59 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 1: very scared going into the season because not only was 60 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: my life very intense with all the things that you know, 61 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: the house, my father broken rib, breaking up with John, 62 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: she broke up with her boyfriend, her father got sick, 63 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: and her house flooded because everyone might not have seen okay, 64 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 1: and then I broke my rib so it was like wow, 65 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: but I think the thing that maybe I'm not putting anyblade. 66 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: But you know, when you left, I was really in 67 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: a mode of coming back and being a powerful couple. 68 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: So then you know, I got the I came back 69 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: and I was sort of a toothpick in an ocean 70 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: and I didn't I wasn't I didn't get my voice 71 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: out correctly exactly. Well that's exactly, and you get into 72 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: over your skis, you drink, something happens, you say something, 73 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: and then you're in your head about what you've just said. 74 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: But show must go on. You're still phoning, they're still cameras. 75 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: So that's what is challenging, and that's I do feel you. 76 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: And listen, everybody always gets their resurrection season. So the 77 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 1: next season, the person is super cautious. They got burned 78 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: everything they did wrong this season before. But we've seen 79 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 1: that the other the other characters. We've seen that in 80 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 1: in our characters on our show. And listen, I had 81 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 1: a rough season, but that's what we do as housewives. 82 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: We have good seasons. We have bad seasons. We we 83 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 1: we come back and we changed it out, and listen, 84 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: I was looking forward to coming back this year. I 85 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: was looking forward to having that woman. I mean, when 86 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: I found out what this thing all went down, I 87 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 1: was just getting off the phone with this woman that 88 00:04:32,160 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: was doing She's doing a Blue Stone manner Ginger bright House, 89 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 1: and I'm thinking it's gonna be great for the show, 90 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: and oh my god, this is gonna be my season. 91 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna come back because everything's done, I'm in 92 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: a good place. So it really was sort of you know, 93 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 1: no one likes rejection, right, Well, no, if you go 94 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 1: out with a guy and you feel like you did 95 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: something stupid or had bad breath or had spinach and 96 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: your teeth and you find it out when you get home, 97 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: you want to go out. You hope the guy calls 98 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: and then you get to go again to just like 99 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: make it make it nice. You wanted to make it nice. 100 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: That's the truth. Listen, Truthfully is this I didn't talk 101 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: because I didn't want to talk. I was ready to 102 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 1: go back. I was excited about going back. I was 103 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,600 Speaker 1: planning on going back, and I thought I would have 104 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: a great year. I wasn't given that option. That's a 105 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: great way to say your option was not exercised. Yeah, 106 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 1: the option was not exercised in my mind. You know, 107 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: they're calling it a pose, which I don't really For me, 108 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 1: I'm an old fashioned girl. If you're not waitressed in 109 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 1: getting paid, you're not waitressing. Okay, so you know what 110 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So at the end of the day, was 111 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:37,960 Speaker 1: a mutual no. This is pretty much the first time 112 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 1: I've spoken as honestly outside of you and I talking 113 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: that I've done and you can you can attest to that, 114 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: and you've been respectful even here today. You we've talked 115 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 1: about it a lot. My advice to you was, it's 116 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: gonna be tempting to say something. Let the dust settle 117 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: and relax and just let it breathe because you wanted 118 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: to go out, and I would, And it's released me 119 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:02,279 Speaker 1: to do other things. You know, It's it's put me 120 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: in a really much saner place because you can become 121 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: because of my personality, no matter what I do, it 122 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: is everything to me. It could be cooking, it could 123 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: be motherhood, it could be doing this damn blue Stone manner. 124 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:18,239 Speaker 1: You know, I'm all in I'm like you, there's really 125 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: no gray in my life. It's either so you know 126 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: when I you know. So it takes a while to 127 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: get away from that. But then when you get away 128 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 1: from it and you start to have all these other opportunities. Look, 129 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 1: and I get to be here today, this would have happened, 130 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 1: and you can develop your friendships in a different way. 131 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 1: My friend had occurs there who I love what I 132 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,280 Speaker 1: called her up? She said to me because she's moving 133 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: to New York. She said to me, Oh my god, 134 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 1: I'm so happy you're not going back this year. Now 135 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 1: you can be with your your friends again, because you've 136 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: been ignoring us for six years. You never want to 137 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: just be Derinda anymore. And in a weird way, that 138 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: was one of the best things anyone could have said 139 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: to me, because it's kind of true. It's kind of true, 140 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: and because birthday parties aren't real. They're bright and lit, 141 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 1: and you're conversations aren't real, and you think that the 142 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: world understands the show or cares about it, and most 143 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: people don't even know what it is. But what I 144 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: want to say is, you do like thriving, but you 145 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 1: like surviving something too. You're a great underdog. You like 146 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: fighting back from something. You're a warrior. So I feel 147 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: like this is good because you are upset and I 148 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: was worried about you, and but I also was like 149 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: excited for you because you know what, it made a 150 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 1: decision for you, It created a path for you. You You 151 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: left on the best possible terms. So like just quickly, 152 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:27,960 Speaker 1: nine nine percent of housewives that leave the housewives were fired, 153 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: and ninety nine point nine percent of that ninety nine 154 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: point nine percent say that it was mutual or that 155 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: it was their idea, and it's not. It's just the 156 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 1: money is too good for being this kind of high 157 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: class prostitute, and people just don't leave unless they are 158 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: financially sound. In other ways, you're in it. You're in it, 159 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: and you just it becomes part of your lifestyle and 160 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: then they pay you well and you don't have a 161 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: reason not to be. You're chasing the dragon. Yeah, propersonally, 162 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: financially all these ways, like I can't go I can't 163 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 1: go on a trip in October and filming right, you know, 164 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: So that's how you think you're in it kind of 165 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: coltish a little way, and you know, I kind of 166 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: decided during that when it happened to just go silent. 167 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: You know, all these housewives handle it different ways. They 168 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: put out curate statements, They work with Bravo this, they 169 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: go on talk shows, podcasts, they try to get their 170 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: word out. The day it happened, I literally put down 171 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: the phone. I think I called you, I called my mom, 172 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: I called Hannah, And in a weird way, the hardest 173 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: call for me was kind of a cry about was 174 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: my mother because it wasn't so much about the the 175 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,760 Speaker 1: the going back or not going back. I was just 176 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: so afraid she was gonna You know, I've never failed 177 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: in anything, you know, And I think the last time 178 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:41,199 Speaker 1: I cried to my mother was when Richard died. Because 179 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: I don't cry. I get through it. And I said, 180 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:48,000 Speaker 1: I feel like I'll let you down, you know now, 181 00:08:48,240 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: She said, I think this is the healthiest thing for you. 182 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 1: You've been running like a maniac since your husband died, 183 00:08:53,960 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: and now let's see where who during is. You don't 184 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: have to do motherhood, you don't have to be a wife. 185 00:08:57,920 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: You should just spend time some time and be during 186 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: find who that person is again. And also too, I 187 00:09:03,120 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 1: forgot that I didn't get created on the house rise 188 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: already came a fully baked cake. I just gave him 189 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:10,440 Speaker 1: a piece of it. So it wasn't hard for me 190 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: to transition back. I pretty much doing what I would 191 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: do anyway. Well, but what I mentioned last time, it's 192 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: not that easy for a woman in her fifties to 193 00:09:18,800 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: start a new career and make an income like that. 194 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: That's what holds the people in because it's not twenty 195 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: three year olds don't forget, and it's not you know, 196 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:28,000 Speaker 1: it's fifty something is the average age. So that's like 197 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:29,559 Speaker 1: where also that where you gonna go. You're gonna go 198 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: work at IBM, incorporate and make that you know, well, 199 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 1: that's that's a thing. And also too, I'm too ambitious, 200 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: too curious, too alive to do nothing. So that that's 201 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 1: where where it got tricky for me, wasn't you know? 202 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:45,079 Speaker 1: Was that that? You know, fear sets in. Fear sets in, 203 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: and you've got to really fight that because if you 204 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 1: just let it breathe, you realize that, Like you know, 205 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 1: I think you even said after three or four days, 206 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: you just sound so different, you sound happy, because the 207 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: first couple of days I was panicked. No, I know, 208 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: you sometimes just have to jump to fly now. Dorinda 209 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 1: was maybe pushed out of the plane, but she chose 210 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 1: to fly. And the thing I think is that it 211 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 1: made you a little more relevant and interesting. For some reason. 212 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: You were clumped in with a group just like me 213 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 1: in a way, and somehow the way you left for 214 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,880 Speaker 1: you more than anyone. Because everybody, and this is for 215 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 1: people who get broken up with by the way, people 216 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 1: who get let go, there's something nice about being honest, 217 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 1: like it's liberating and you there's nothing to hide behind. 218 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:28,199 Speaker 1: And so many people in the same experience that you've 219 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: gone through, with similar popularity, have tried to be like, 220 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: you know, no, it was mutual. I broke up with them, 221 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Have spent so much time about that, 222 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,560 Speaker 1: and it hasn't seemed genuine. The message doesn't come across, 223 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 1: and it doesn't seem confident. Like something about the way 224 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 1: you've left seems very confident. It seems very liberated, It 225 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:48,600 Speaker 1: seems honest, and it seems empowering, and it honestly seems 226 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: like you're more relevant. I don't know why, but it 227 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:54,000 Speaker 1: just came out, Kay, came out good. I was really 228 00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 1: surprised and pleased how the audience spoke for me exactly 229 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,680 Speaker 1: like I was really like, Wow, I was loved because 230 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 1: you forget that I didn't even realize how beloved you are. 231 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: It makes sense that you are because you're such so 232 00:11:07,280 --> 00:11:09,559 Speaker 1: iconic and a broad and funny and honest, and you're 233 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: like someone's fun like aunt in a good way. But 234 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 1: I want to have you back. I think you're amazing 235 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: and I would love for you to be my Robin 236 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: anytime you want to do it. This is amazing. I 237 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: think talking to healing, and you explore yourself as well 238 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: as you know, just opening up its healing. So I 239 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,840 Speaker 1: love it all. You know me, I mentioned it all. 240 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 1: Stay with me because I'll be talking to Paris Hilton 241 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: when we come back after the break. Well, today's discussion 242 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:47,720 Speaker 1: with Paris takes me full circle. I'm going to be 243 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: talking to Paris Hilton, who I used to babysit and 244 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: nanny before she was the incredible boss businesswoman that she 245 00:11:56,240 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: is now. So she now has nineteen product brands in fragrances, skincare, fashion, makeup, 246 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,720 Speaker 1: and more. She is a DJ who performs around the world, 247 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 1: and most recently, she was the subject of a documentary 248 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 1: on YouTube called This Is Paris. This is Paris is unbelievable. 249 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: She is just unfiltered, raw, she goes there, she lets 250 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 1: you see really the other side. So basically this interview 251 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 1: is just real Paris, and we've never heard her like 252 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: this before. And I'm just honored and grateful that I 253 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 1: got to have this opportunity to talk to her. So 254 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:38,960 Speaker 1: let's get into it. How are you good? How are 255 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 1: you baby? I'm good. I have to tell you that 256 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: I finished the documentary last night and I didn't really sleep. 257 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: I was. It really was spectacular, Like I can't believe 258 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: how good it was. I mean literally, I texted your mom, 259 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:57,320 Speaker 1: I texted Nikki. I couldn't believe how good it was. 260 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:59,680 Speaker 1: I was actually moved, and I just it was so 261 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 1: real and so courageous and just so not forced. Yeah. 262 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,959 Speaker 1: I think it's definitely the first time I've actually been 263 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:12,079 Speaker 1: my true self and I was just so open and honest, 264 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 1: and they're really just put it all out there in 265 00:13:15,679 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: ways that I never have in my life. Do you 266 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,959 Speaker 1: feel free a little more? Just like liberated? Lighter? How 267 00:13:21,960 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: do you feel? Definitely? I feel, which is like a 268 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 1: way has been lifted off my shoulders. Just something that 269 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: you know, I've been holding in for so long, you know, 270 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: and just to kind of release that from me. And 271 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: now I've seen the film so many times, just watching 272 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 1: it and also just seeing how how different I was 273 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 1: even last year, because when you're living that life and 274 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,720 Speaker 1: you're traveling constantly, you don't really realize it. But after 275 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 1: literally just watching myself and just seeing just how stressed 276 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,800 Speaker 1: out I was, how lonely I was, just how I 277 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 1: was going through so much, and now today to be 278 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,959 Speaker 1: in such a different mindset and it just it may 279 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,760 Speaker 1: makes me feel I'm just really happy and also really 280 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: proud of just the woman I am and what I've 281 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: been through and how strong I am. I think it's amazing. 282 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:09,960 Speaker 1: And I also like that you refer to yourself as 283 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: a woman, because I mean, you look so young and 284 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 1: just watch you know, you're always sort of like flitting 285 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:17,720 Speaker 1: through life and it seems so effortless and carefree, and 286 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: you're a serious businesswoman, And I want to know do 287 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 1: you think of yourself like that? Do you think of 288 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 1: yourself as a serious businesswoman? Yes, definitely. I also always 289 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: going to be a kid at heart, That's just how 290 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:32,080 Speaker 1: I am. But I and I now I'm like a 291 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 1: full grown up Yes, do you absolutely are? And I 292 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:42,200 Speaker 1: don't think most people know that I met your I 293 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: met your aunt Kyle at Loscalo where you used to 294 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 1: go with your whole family, um for chop salads, and 295 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 1: I was the hostess, and um, your mom needed a 296 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: someone to help her at the staircase, which I saw 297 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:57,040 Speaker 1: for a second in the documentary, and I was wrapping gifts. 298 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 1: She had this store with all these ornaments and like 299 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: all this chop skis, which I am like least two. 300 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: I don't have a single extra thing. And then part 301 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: of the job became coming to in my forward probe 302 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 1: to get you and Nikki from Lisa from this sort 303 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: of like fancy French school. And I remember we'd go 304 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 1: with Kyle like to the like mobile mar to the 305 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: gas station after and I would take you guys ice skating, 306 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:23,240 Speaker 1: and I can't remember do you remember that because you 307 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: were young? Do you you do? So? I would take 308 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:30,240 Speaker 1: you to go get ferrets at the pet store at 309 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: Century City, and Nicky would want to go to Rampage, 310 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 1: which was sort of like, I don't know, it's like 311 00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: what is what was? What is ramp Do you remember Rampage? 312 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: That story Rampage is like the forever one of today. Right, Okay, 313 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 1: that's exactly I could gets exactly the way, exactly what 314 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: it was. That's so funny just to remember all of that, 315 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 1: and it's so cute that we've known each other for 316 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: so long and look how far you've come, Boss Bit 317 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 1: and now Nanny the Paris Talker and now killing it. 318 00:15:59,360 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: It's it's crazy. And yeah, I mean I see watching 319 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: the documentary, I see a lot of similarities in our lives. 320 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: I mean I've had a definitely unsavory aspects of my 321 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: childhood and I relate to you. Um, I relate to 322 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 1: you not sleeping and that being like a mania, like 323 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: something that's maddening inside. I mean, yes, you had specific 324 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: reasons for that, as do I, but just like you 325 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 1: not being able to turn your mind off because you're 326 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:28,400 Speaker 1: always activated, always working. You know, I want to know 327 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 1: how you view like old school hard work and how 328 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 1: hard do you actually work and what does that mean? 329 00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 1: Like how do how do you apply that? Um? Well, 330 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 1: I feel very blessed to have grown up in a 331 00:16:40,320 --> 00:16:45,239 Speaker 1: family that is full of entrepreneurs and you know, businessmen, 332 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,200 Speaker 1: and just looking up to my great grandfather, my grandfather 333 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: and my father. They were always my mentors growing up 334 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 1: and I always wanted to make them proud, and it 335 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: was always a lot to live up to. Just with 336 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:01,080 Speaker 1: the Hilton name. What I went through, you definitely gave 337 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 1: me that drive to want to become independent and to 338 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 1: want to not just be known as the Hilton Hotel granddaughter. 339 00:17:09,040 --> 00:17:11,400 Speaker 1: I always have this drive to be known as Paris 340 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: and build my own brand separate from my family. So 341 00:17:16,119 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 1: it's it's obvious it's taken a lot of work. Ever 342 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 1: since I was a teenager, I've been working NonStop with 343 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 1: all my traveling and just constantly every single day. It's 344 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:30,679 Speaker 1: it's something different because I have nineteen product lines. I 345 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 1: do music, I d J, I am a businesswoman, I 346 00:17:34,000 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: am a brand, I'm an artist. It's just NonStop every 347 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 1: single day. It's very very intense and it's activating. It's 348 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 1: like absolutely you're you're just on all the time. It's 349 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: time or money more valuable to you. Now. I know 350 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 1: money is important and I know that you're working hard, 351 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 1: but for me, for example, doing something has to be 352 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 1: so worth it. My life has just been so NonStop, 353 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: so I never really had a second to just think 354 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: about it. It's all been about my business and my work. 355 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:07,199 Speaker 1: And now I you know, I obviously I still have 356 00:18:07,320 --> 00:18:10,639 Speaker 1: that drive. I love to work, but I also value 357 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:13,680 Speaker 1: my time a lot more. I'm really more focused on 358 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 1: things that are more important in my life, like my relationship, 359 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: moving on to the next phase of my life, and 360 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:24,399 Speaker 1: continuing to be that businesswoman, but not you know, to 361 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 1: be everywhere and going to a visa and like you know, 362 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: living out there and touring and just this really hectic 363 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 1: schedule where I really couldn't focus on myself. I really 364 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:37,520 Speaker 1: just want to be happy with what I've created and 365 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:41,479 Speaker 1: and not focus so much on you know, like the 366 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: monetary aspect of it. Well, it's funny because I think 367 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:46,479 Speaker 1: of it as buckets, where I say, I'd rather have 368 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:51,479 Speaker 1: six buckets really full, then twenty buckets, you know, just 369 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:54,040 Speaker 1: like half full, meaning like the really like if your 370 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,879 Speaker 1: relationship is one bucket, it's something quality you can invest in. 371 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 1: If this other business opportunity isn't such a time stuff, 372 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 1: but it really has a big return on your investment, 373 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: then that's a good bucket to fill. Are you capable 374 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: of being present and being in the moment, meaning without stimulation, 375 00:19:09,280 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: without the phone, without calling someone, without just being present. 376 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:15,719 Speaker 1: Um Now I am more than ever. I think before 377 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,479 Speaker 1: I was just so addicted to being on the phone 378 00:19:18,680 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: and on social media, and like you said, like getting 379 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: stuck in these rabbit holes where you're like on Instagram 380 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,439 Speaker 1: or looking in you know, all the online shops and 381 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 1: just kind of getting distracted in that way. Um. So 382 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:34,119 Speaker 1: now I take time where I just put my phone away. 383 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,719 Speaker 1: And that's like a rule that my boyfriend and I have, 384 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: like we always want to be there and have that 385 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 1: time together. So during dinners or when we'rever together, we 386 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:45,239 Speaker 1: both don't even take our phones out because we're just 387 00:19:45,840 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 1: really talking at each other. And I've never been that 388 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:50,560 Speaker 1: way before, Like I've always need time i've been at 389 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: dinner or anything, I've literally been on the phone maybe 390 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: eighty percent of the time. Um. But now I'm just 391 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,919 Speaker 1: in such a great place and I really enjoy my 392 00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,880 Speaker 1: conversations with my boy friends. So I don't really care 393 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 1: to look at my phone like I used to, which 394 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 1: is interesting because if you're just looking at your phone, 395 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: you're like in your own head, in your own life. 396 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,680 Speaker 1: If you're talking to somebody else, you're learning from them, 397 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:13,199 Speaker 1: you're growing. It's sort of like you're not just in 398 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: your hole with yourself, which I think is is a 399 00:20:15,320 --> 00:20:19,359 Speaker 1: great note for people too. And for sure, Well, have 400 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 1: you noticed the difference in your business and the way 401 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: that you're working. Are you working you know, smarter in 402 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: being more present in that way? Definitely? I used to 403 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 1: have nightmares every single night, and now my nightmares have 404 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: went away. I think from the film just talking about 405 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 1: my experiences and everything I've went through that really helped. 406 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 1: And I'm just so happy. It's hard to describe. That's amazing. 407 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 1: Never thought I could feel this way. That's a beautiful thing. 408 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: Everyone deserves to be happy. And it might just be 409 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,199 Speaker 1: your transition in your time, you know, you might just 410 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 1: be finally blossoming. And this is like a good chapter. Yes, 411 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 1: all right, So you started out on the Simple Life 412 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:10,360 Speaker 1: when you were sixteen and you now have a major 413 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 1: empire with multiple product lines and businesses, and I want 414 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 1: to understand how you went from what could easily have 415 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: been a superficial, passing socialite moment to who you are today. Well, 416 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: when I was on the Simple Life, I you know, 417 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: before I made that decision, I reality TV was so new, 418 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 1: there was nothing out There was basically the first of 419 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: its kind, so I didn't know what I was getting 420 00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 1: myself into, but I went for it. And then when 421 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: the show aired and had thirteen million viewers and was 422 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: you know, such a huge success. At that moment, I 423 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 1: realized this is my platform to help me build my 424 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 1: business and my brand. And while I was, you know, 425 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 1: just doing the show and doing everything, I started really 426 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 1: thinking about what my next steps were. And that's when 427 00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: I went and met with all the Fragrance companies and 428 00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 1: did my first deal with car Lux, and now today 429 00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:09,400 Speaker 1: I have just released my twenty seven Fragrance UM So yeah, 430 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 1: I think The Simple Life was definitely that turning point 431 00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: in my life where I knew with this platform, I 432 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,960 Speaker 1: could build a huge business. So that's interesting for people 433 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 1: that are listening that aren't on TV, that may not 434 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,679 Speaker 1: be on Instagram, that you is. We have the same thing. 435 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,320 Speaker 1: So what I'm finding is through interviewing really successful people 436 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,439 Speaker 1: that there are just similar things that I have in 437 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,400 Speaker 1: common or that we all have in common that are 438 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 1: just coming out and I want to know, how are 439 00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 1: you the talent and also the CEO. Well, since the 440 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 1: beginning of my career, I've that's how it's always been 441 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:41,640 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm like kind of like this walking 442 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 1: live billboard brand for my business and my brand. So 443 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 1: I've always had to be the CEO and being in 444 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 1: charge of my business because it's such, you know, a 445 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:54,760 Speaker 1: like massive empire that I've built, and I feel that 446 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: if you really want things to get done in the 447 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 1: correct way, you need to do them yourself. So I 448 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm there for all of it's It's it's 449 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: a lot that goes into it, especially when you have 450 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,159 Speaker 1: to be that public person and you have to be 451 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 1: on all the time and and and really putting yourself 452 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,720 Speaker 1: out there, and then also being in the boardroom doing 453 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: all my business with all my different brands and all 454 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 1: the companies I work with. Right, And it's funny that 455 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,080 Speaker 1: you say that, because there's one thing I took away 456 00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 1: there is that you do have to do it yourself like, 457 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:25,199 Speaker 1: but there are other people around you in business that 458 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: you could trust, if I mean from like a creative 459 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: understanding your brand. Are there those people? Yeah, of course, 460 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 1: I'm there for everything I do, but I also have 461 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:38,200 Speaker 1: amazing people helping you, you know, behind the scenes, supporting 462 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 1: me and helping make everything happen. Because you know, you know, 463 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 1: that's a really important part of being a businesswoman is 464 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 1: really putting together that team of people. If you don't 465 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 1: have the right team, it's it's just makes it so 466 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 1: much more difficult. And how hard is it to find 467 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 1: that it doesn't It take years and you have people 468 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,160 Speaker 1: you can't trust and people that are morons, and how 469 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: long does it take to get your dream tame? Years 470 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 1: and years? It's it's really I've went through so many 471 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: different people, and I've been burned so many times, and 472 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 1: I've had people take advantage of me and steal from 473 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: me and lie to me and use my name as 474 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,479 Speaker 1: It's just I've been through hell and back in that 475 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,679 Speaker 1: area of my life, because it's it's really hard to 476 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:25,040 Speaker 1: get someone that either understands you or that doesn't become 477 00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 1: greedy and start trying to do these side deals without 478 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: telling you. It's just there's so much that goes into it, 479 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:33,359 Speaker 1: and when before, when I was constantly traveling, it's hard 480 00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 1: to really even know what they're doing behind the scenes 481 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: and what they're getting away with until everything always comes 482 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 1: to light. Though I feel that I always find out 483 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: when something is happening, I might not find out right away. 484 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: But you know, the truth always comes out agreed. And 485 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: it seems like you used to be much more open 486 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:55,080 Speaker 1: and I was the same way. I trusted everybody, and 487 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:57,719 Speaker 1: you've got to be you have to be a gangster 488 00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,440 Speaker 1: about it. You know, you can smell it. You can 489 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 1: smell it. You could just you know, when something feels wrong. 490 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:05,199 Speaker 1: It could be off the littlest thing, the littlest charge, 491 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 1: the littlest weird thing. And then if that's one thing, 492 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,479 Speaker 1: it's like if there's one rat, there's a hundred of them. 493 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:11,960 Speaker 1: So then you're like, oh no, no, I gotta look 494 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,960 Speaker 1: down this thing because this is and then I'm just 495 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,360 Speaker 1: Once that happens, I'm done with the person. I can't 496 00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: trust them, and that's when I just I can't have 497 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: them in my life or my circle. How decisive are you? So? 498 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: Sometimes for me, like I could take a long time 499 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,439 Speaker 1: to order a pasta, but I could decide about my 500 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: business or buying a house in two seconds. So how 501 00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 1: decisive are you? In business? I really just go with 502 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,280 Speaker 1: my gut feeling. And even sometimes my team will be like, 503 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 1: I don't think you should do this, and I will 504 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: think of it because I'm always thinking of long term, 505 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: and I feel that a lot of people always think 506 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 1: short term because all they care about is the commission 507 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,879 Speaker 1: on that one deal right away. And I don't know. 508 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 1: I've always been the type of person who thinks into 509 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 1: the future and thinks ten steps ahead. You're a big 510 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,879 Speaker 1: picture thinker. If you could say, they're playing checkers in 511 00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: your playing chess exactly. I love all your analogies. I'm 512 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 1: gonna some things. You can steal them. That's why I'm 513 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 1: giving them, so you can steal them. So you talk 514 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,280 Speaker 1: about family and children, can you think about a relationship 515 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,919 Speaker 1: partnership like the way that you invest in business, and 516 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: that specifically your business. I just mean with the same 517 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 1: sort of passion and intensity and capability as you as 518 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,159 Speaker 1: you have in business in relationships. Because I asked myself 519 00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 1: this question before, No, like before, I was only focused 520 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 1: on my work, and I think just the relationship part 521 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,920 Speaker 1: of it was more me always pretending, like portraying like, oh, 522 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 1: this is the perfect life, have the perfect boyfriend, all 523 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 1: of that. But I was never truly happy because I 524 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: was just traveling. I was working so hard, so I 525 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: didn't really have time to invest into my relationship. It 526 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 1: was just all about my business, and you know now, 527 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 1: I I think that your relationship is the most important part, 528 00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: and now, especially during this pandemic, to have so much 529 00:26:56,600 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 1: time together, I feel like the especially my boyfriend and I, 530 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,240 Speaker 1: we have lived like what most couples would experience, like 531 00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 1: in five years, in these past nine months together. So 532 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 1: it's broughten us so close. And I think your relationship 533 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 1: has to do with everything, your happiness, how you feel 534 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: the future of your family and your life. So I'm 535 00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,960 Speaker 1: investing more into my relationship now than I do into 536 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 1: my businesses because that's more important to me. Well, that's 537 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,680 Speaker 1: an interesting gift from the pandemic. You had this intense 538 00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: exploration that if you were distracted running everywhere, I might 539 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: not have gotten so deep in this time. Yes, definitely, 540 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,640 Speaker 1: So that's a gift. Um, So explain your different path 541 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,159 Speaker 1: from Nikki's, because you guys used to be one identity. 542 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,960 Speaker 1: You were Paris and Nicki, Paris and Nicki, and you 543 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:49,840 Speaker 1: really took different paths. And um, you know you're she's 544 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,640 Speaker 1: portrayed even in the and it's not portrayed, it's maybe true. 545 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 1: I mean I know you both, and she's very calm. 546 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: I would say call her to silent assassin. She's very 547 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,640 Speaker 1: calm and you know, but she's tough, Like I don't 548 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: think people realize how tough she is. Um and you 549 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 1: both have a lot of your mom and you and 550 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,199 Speaker 1: your grandmother because you don't forget I knew your grandmother too. 551 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: You talk about her in the documentary. I remember her 552 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,600 Speaker 1: hiding all her jewelry and the Manni's jar and like 553 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:18,119 Speaker 1: she she was totally nuts and fun and like abroad 554 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,560 Speaker 1: she was abroad, and I you know, I loved that 555 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 1: about her. How did that path separate? Had that path diverge? Yeah? 556 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 1: We started our career together as teenagers and we went 557 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 1: to Tokyo and that's when we started the brand of 558 00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 1: the Hilton Sisters. And then as we grew up then 559 00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: Nikki Nikki was always I think definitely when people see 560 00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 1: the film, they're gonna see see what you decaid that 561 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: she's just such a boss, so strong, and she's always 562 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,080 Speaker 1: even though she's my little sister, I've always looked up 563 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 1: to her like my big sister. She's always been the 564 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: one who just tells me how it is. And I 565 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,560 Speaker 1: don't really have a lot of people in my life 566 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: who were like that. It's so true. And I think 567 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: she seems she comes off as hold, she's really thoughtful, 568 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 1: like I had, I had a loss, I lost my 569 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 1: fiance passed away, and you know, she really I could 570 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 1: tell she really felt it, like she felt really you 571 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: know bad. She really does care, and she also seems 572 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 1: like she cares about the people she cares about, and 573 00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 1: then the rest she doesn't really you know, you have 574 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 1: that whole thing, you keep your circle tight, definitely, And 575 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: I think she also became that way because seeing me 576 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,600 Speaker 1: go through so much and seeing me get burned by 577 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,760 Speaker 1: people or just things that have happened to me, I 578 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:30,880 Speaker 1: think have really affected her. And yeah, she does come 579 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:35,400 Speaker 1: off like cold and stern, but actually she's just super 580 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:39,200 Speaker 1: sensitive about things and it's just the way she is. 581 00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 1: She's just such just a strong person. And I don't 582 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: know what I would do without her. One superficial question 583 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,880 Speaker 1: about stuff, I feel like you need a c s oh, 584 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:52,400 Speaker 1: a chief stuff officer. I could do that if I retire. 585 00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:54,640 Speaker 1: If she really all goes to ship with this podcast, 586 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 1: I could be a chief stuff officer. I would run 587 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,160 Speaker 1: that ship like a tight ship. You have no idea 588 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 1: like I'd be this comes in that goes out this 589 00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 1: goes here? Do you really give a shit about the 590 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: stuff of it? What are your three or a few 591 00:30:07,160 --> 00:30:09,560 Speaker 1: prize possessions that are not you know, not your pets, 592 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: not people like material objects? What would you? What are 593 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: your prize possessions? Um? My things I love. I love 594 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 1: my Slive mobile, which is my my BMW I, which 595 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 1: I had wrapped in like holographic. It looks like Unicorn 596 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: mermaid skin. It's like amazing. Okay, I love that. And 597 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:35,720 Speaker 1: I love my twenty one birthday dress as something that 598 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: I love and cherish because I think it's just such 599 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 1: an iconic piece of fashion and like history. Okay, and 600 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:48,480 Speaker 1: then what else do I love? I love my doggy mansion. 601 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 1: You have a dogy mansion. I love it because when 602 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,400 Speaker 1: I was little, I just springs back so many memories. Um, 603 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:57,479 Speaker 1: when we used to live at Stradella and bell Air, 604 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:01,120 Speaker 1: we had this dollhouse that my parents had for us, 605 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 1: and I said, one day, when I have kids, I'm 606 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 1: going to build them a dollhouse like this. And because 607 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: I don't have kids yet, I built this house for 608 00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:12,600 Speaker 1: my for babies, my little dogs, and it's just it's 609 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: so cute because it's like a miniature version of my house. 610 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: It looks like exactly the same on the outside and 611 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: has like furniture and like really cute wallpaper and the 612 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 1: chandelier and it's just it's so cute. Oh, I love it. 613 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,200 Speaker 1: And it's in l A. Yes, is that the house 614 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 1: that that Jacqueline Smith used to live in? That was 615 00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:32,760 Speaker 1: like the biggest thing that I could ever even imagine 616 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 1: back then. Yes, exactly. Oh my god. I'm so happy 617 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,760 Speaker 1: for you, and I really know how much time this 618 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 1: means to you, and I just want people to really 619 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: understand how hard you have to work day and day 620 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 1: out to make it happen, which is also how people 621 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,120 Speaker 1: decide whether to do it or not, because you've got 622 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 1: to be up first, their last, keep your eye on 623 00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: the prize at all times. You know, you have your 624 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: eye on the prize, and that's why you're you know 625 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 1: where you are. Hard work is very important, but also 626 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,640 Speaker 1: just being a good person, because I feel that a 627 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,320 Speaker 1: lot of people when they do come in this industry, 628 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 1: they forget where they came from and they turn into 629 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 1: this different person and they end up thinking they're better 630 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: than people. And my mom always instilled that on me. 631 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 1: The night before the simple life airage. She said, when 632 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: this air is on Fox tomorrow, your life is going 633 00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,719 Speaker 1: to change forever. And I want you to remain and 634 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: stay the same, sweet, down to earth Paris that I 635 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 1: love and know and and not never let this get 636 00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: to your head. And that's a piece of advice I 637 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:33,000 Speaker 1: always used and always we'll use for the rest of 638 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: my life. And I'm so lucky to have that support 639 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 1: system of my family to give me that advice, because 640 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,720 Speaker 1: I think a lot of kids in Hollywood they don't 641 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 1: have that support system with their family. And that's what 642 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 1: you'll that's the kind of parent you'll be, and you'll 643 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,960 Speaker 1: just pay it forward and the cycle will continue like 644 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: it did with your grandmother passing all this wisdom onto you, 645 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 1: and you'll pass it on to your kids and so on. 646 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 1: So I thank you so much. Just I'm glad you 647 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: trusted me today because I you know, I just wanted 648 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 1: to know that the stuff that's really importan and that 649 00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 1: really makes you you. So I appreciate it very much. 650 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: Thank you. It's so much fun talking with you. I 651 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 1: miss you, I love you. I love you too, Thank you, Paris. 652 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 1: I was going to see maybe Niki later, so she 653 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: asked me for a margarita recipe the other day, so 654 00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: I guess she's not living on planet Earth, because I 655 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,320 Speaker 1: don't know who doesn't know how to make a margharita. 656 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 1: But um, I will talk to her and tell her 657 00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 1: how great it was, and I love you too, and 658 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 1: the best of success, and try to sleep same time 659 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:27,400 Speaker 1: bed every night if you can when you can, because 660 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 1: I have the same issues. But we'll talk about that offline, 661 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: all right, excecause yes, bye the bye. I am so 662 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 1: happy about that interview. I just feel that people are misunderstood. 663 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,840 Speaker 1: And you just see you can't judge a book by 664 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 1: its cover, you know. I mean you just have seen 665 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 1: Paris like a rhinestone shining and just being sort of 666 00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 1: the original icon on and Paris Hilton talks no differently 667 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:06,600 Speaker 1: and thinks no differently about business than Mark Cuban does. 668 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:09,759 Speaker 1: And the the average person would not think you're putting 669 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,520 Speaker 1: Mark Cuban and Paras Ulton in the same sentence. But 670 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 1: the truth of the matter is I had Paras Hilton 671 00:34:13,640 --> 00:34:17,640 Speaker 1: on the show because she is a business person. The 672 00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:21,879 Speaker 1: bottom line is there a certain tenants that everyone has, 673 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:23,759 Speaker 1: which is like, if you want to do something right, 674 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:25,799 Speaker 1: you have to do with yourself. It's that you have 675 00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 1: to be working harder than anyone else. It's that you 676 00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,359 Speaker 1: can't really trust everybody. All these things. We're hearing these 677 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: from anyone, from Dana White, who's the head of the UFC, 678 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 1: to Bosama st John who is the head of marketing 679 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 1: at Netflix, to Paris Hilton. And that's what's fascinating to me. 680 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: So I'm loving it, and we're getting deeper and deeper, 681 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,680 Speaker 1: and I'm really grateful. So thanks for listening. Remember to 682 00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:52,560 Speaker 1: come back next week and remember to rate, review, and subscribe. 683 00:34:53,320 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: And that's all I got. They kissed to you. Yeah. 684 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,240 Speaker 1: Just Be is hosted an executive produced by me Bethany Frankel, 685 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:12,160 Speaker 1: Brail Productions and Endeavor Content. Our executive producer is Samantha 686 00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: Allison and our producer is Caroline Hamilton's Corry Proventer is 687 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,759 Speaker 1: our consulting producer, with the ever faithful Sarah Katanac as 688 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,399 Speaker 1: our assistant producer. 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