1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,560 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on iHeartRadio. 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 1: So we're talking with the Mandy ben wal lead and 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: with Jeremy Cohen. You'll find out more about them at 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: our website Coast to Coast am dot com and link 5 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: up to talk death. So, Okay, I like to think 6 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: that there are innovations, and I think i'd like to 7 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: think we're past the point of bearing people with really 8 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: expensive stuff Like it always breaks my heart when I 9 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: see somebody with like a sixty two Corvette and they're 10 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: bearing the dad and the behind the wheel corp. What 11 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: what Dad would have wanted? And I think, Okay, well, 12 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 1: premate Dad, put him in the put him in the 13 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 1: glove box, let's seal it up, and I'll drive him 14 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: around for the rest of forever. You know, I don't 15 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: want to waste their car like that. So what are 16 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: some of the innovations that are coming and will they 17 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: bring a reduced cost at a time when people are 18 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: emotionally vulnerable. Well, I think that what you said before 19 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 1: the last break was really interesting about how important rituals 20 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: are and about how important gathering is, and you know, 21 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: it made me think of something that that came up, 22 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 1: you know, really during the lockdown period was actually virtual 23 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: funeral started happening, right, and so this is when you 24 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 1: don't So there's actually different types. There's totally virtual where 25 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 1: everyone is online, and then there's also hybrid and that's 26 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: something that we're seeing a lot more now, where you 27 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: have people in person. Then you have people who maybe 28 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: just can't travel right, maybe they can't afford to, maybe 29 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: they don't maybe they don't have the health to be 30 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: able to travel. And we're seeing that a lot now. 31 00:01:52,520 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: And what's really interesting with this is that they actually 32 00:01:56,160 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: these services are so much more personalized, more beautiful. I 33 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: worked with a company called Keeper and we we do 34 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 1: this for families and it actually started because I had 35 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: to do a service from my grandmother who died from 36 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: COVID right at the beginning of it. And it was honestly, like, 37 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: I didn't think that getting together on Zoom with my 38 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: family for like a memorial service would be anything special, 39 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: and it was more. It was more meaningful than any 40 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 1: funeral we had gone to for our family. It was 41 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: very interesting. And that's just one small change that we saw, 42 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: you know, within the last two years, and it's so 43 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: much more affordable and it's so much more personalized. And 44 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 1: so that's just one like a first example that came 45 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 1: to mind. How about you, Jeremy, Well, there's also an 46 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:48,360 Speaker 1: increasing interest in green and natural burial. Yeah, you know, 47 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 1: this isn't necessarily a disruption in the sense of saving money, 48 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 1: but in terms of the environment and in terms of 49 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: you know, disrupting the industry itself, we're seeing a lot 50 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 1: of interest. So you know, fifty five percent of people 51 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: that have been pulled have been expressed interest in having 52 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: a green burial. And this is you know, a burial 53 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 1: that occurs either at a cemetery dedicated to this or 54 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 1: within a space at a regular cemetery where you are 55 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: buried with either you know, no casket, just in a 56 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: shroud or in a wicker casket. Um, there are no 57 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: embombing fluids that are used, ideally no cement vault. Either. 58 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: You are returned to the ground in as naturalist state 59 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: as is possible. And I think that this is something 60 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 1: that we're going to see more and more and more. 61 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: I've officiate memorial services or funerals a couple of times, 62 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: and sometimes, you know, this is so sad, and you 63 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: really work very hard to bring the meaning out so 64 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 1: that it becomes a cathartic experience and people feel like 65 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: they had a chance to express themselves. And other times, though, 66 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: it's really interesting to hear, as you said, Mandy, people 67 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: who are just well, I mean, they really personalized it, 68 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 1: and they're not waiting for permission from some officiate at 69 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: you know, from a church or something to tell them 70 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: it's okay to personalize it. They're going to whether you 71 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: like it or not. And I remember one service that 72 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: was nominally Christian when I was a seminarian, and I 73 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 1: could hear as I was reading the prayers, I could 74 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: hear the sounds of beer cans opening, and it was weird, 75 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: and you heard the and I could. I looked out 76 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: and there were people who were drinking at the funeral, 77 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: and I think, well, that's interesting because that sort of 78 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: hearkens back to the idea of the wake, when people 79 00:04:50,640 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: used to keep around the dead for a period of 80 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 1: time to make sure they really were dead, and they 81 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 1: would and they would tell stories, and they would be 82 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:04,799 Speaker 1: with the body before they put it in the ground. 83 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 1: And I think, well, that was kind of very organic. 84 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: I thought, reach back to what might have been a 85 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: family tradition of drinking at a funeral. One of the 86 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: best parties I've ever been to was a funeral and 87 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: it was the exact same situation. There was a live band, 88 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: there was a buffet, and it was an opportunity for 89 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: everyone to get to know each other, get to hear 90 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: stories of the decease. And you know, given that we 91 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: are living in an increasingly secularized world, we are searching 92 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 1: for these new types of rituals, in these new ways 93 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: of not only connecting with the living, but also connecting 94 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: with the dead. And I think that people are going 95 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 1: to search these things out and are searching these things out. 96 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: And it exists now too, like we have essentially event 97 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: planners for funerals now where it doesn't necess really matter 98 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: what the means the final disposition is. Oftentimes we voted 99 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 1: that it's with cremation, but it'll be at you know, 100 00:06:08,200 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: I've done funerals at art galleries, at parks, at golf courses, right, 101 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be this traditional stuffy church or parlor. Right. Yeah. 102 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,679 Speaker 1: In fact, stuffy is something which I think is weird. 103 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: And when my godmother, who is Jewish, died, her wish 104 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 1: was to have me stand there in front of her 105 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 1: casket at the Jewish Cemetery in Skokie, Illinois, and to 106 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: tell everybody who gathered that day that she had converted 107 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: on her deathbed to Christianity. And she did it as goodness. Yeah, 108 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: one final joke. One And they came up at some people, 109 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:58,600 Speaker 1: some of the mourners came up, but they were mad 110 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,360 Speaker 1: because she had died in a She was the president 111 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: of her of her of her congregation, and I mean 112 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: she was and and my I was like I really 113 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: had to hold myself because I could just feel people 114 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: just angry. And I stood up there and I said, well, 115 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: I just want to let you know Lois asherman Um 116 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: had converted on her death Christianity. And and then and 117 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: I would said, you know, we had somebody there. We 118 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,200 Speaker 1: had a canter there to sing the kadish because I 119 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: couldn't do it but Um. But before I we did that, 120 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: I said, by the way, psych and I said, Lois 121 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:40,000 Speaker 1: got you one last time. And it was such a relief, 122 00:07:40,120 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: and they felt so connected to Lois again because they 123 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: know that's just what my godmother would do. It's just 124 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 1: a typical joke that she would play on her friends 125 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: and I love that. It's a little hard to formalize 126 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:56,240 Speaker 1: that in a ritual, however, I wish I would have 127 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: met her. She sounds awesome. That's so great. I love it. 128 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,960 Speaker 1: She's all right. So what are some of the other 129 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:04,840 Speaker 1: ways that people are doing. What do you think that 130 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: when you mentioned the organic I've heard about this. This 131 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: is where, you know, you put people out into an 132 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: area that's marked off for burial and they become part 133 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:22,119 Speaker 1: of the soil and whatever. But that's not everywhere, is it, Jeremy, No, 134 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 1: it's not. It's you know, the right now, only about 135 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: six percent of dispositions are green or natural burial, although 136 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: it is something that is legal everywhere. You can have 137 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: a green burial anywhere in North America, but you have 138 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 1: to search for it. There's around three hundred and fifty 139 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: cemeteries that offer green burial, either within a designated area 140 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:56,000 Speaker 1: or are actually green burial sites, and it's up to 141 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 1: the cemetery itself to decide whether or not they want 142 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: to offer green burial or you know, create a green 143 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:08,479 Speaker 1: burial section. But yeah, it is, it's growing in popularity, 144 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: but it is still it is still not the most 145 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 1: popular option out there. But what I think is important 146 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: to really understand is that regardless of the cemetery you 147 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:26,199 Speaker 1: go to, there are still greener options you can select 148 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: which will also reduce the cost. Right, So embombing is 149 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: absolutely not is not You do not have to do it, 150 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: and you can have a simple pine box. Also, there 151 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: is something that a lot of consumers are not aware 152 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 1: of that by law, it is called the funeral rule 153 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 1: by the FTC that a funeral provider may not refuse 154 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:53,680 Speaker 1: or charge a fee to handle a casket that you 155 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: purchased from elsewhere. You want to buy a simple pine 156 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: box from a little cabinet, may down the street and 157 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: go really simpler by a wicker one, so super simple 158 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 1: and green and inexpensive. They are not allowed to refuse 159 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: you by law anywhere in the US. There are ways 160 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 1: that you can reduce your cost and go more green 161 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 1: if that's something that you care about. It's just people 162 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: in those moments they're at the funeral home someone close 163 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: to them just died. They don't know what they can 164 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,720 Speaker 1: and cannot do, and the funeral directors are often not 165 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: very transparent. Why don't we make it a law that 166 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 1: they have to be Why don't we make it a 167 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 1: truth like lending law. Why don't we make it like 168 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: calories on the side of a you know, Stoffer's mac 169 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: and cheese or something, that they have to put a 170 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: sign up on the what the legality is, what people 171 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 1: are entitled to, so that they don't You can't that way, 172 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: the funeral director doesn't have to say anything, to simply 173 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 1: point to it, say here, sign here, initial here that 174 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: you have read this as options. Yeah, well, so there 175 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 1: is the funeral rule. Also part of the FTC that 176 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: that same rule when that came out, and this is 177 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: still true today, is that funeral homes are required to 178 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: provide a general price list for the funeral arrangement, and 179 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 1: that consumers have the rights to choose which goods and 180 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: services they want. There are some exceptions, but you are correct. 181 00:11:32,640 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 1: They don't have a sign saying embombing is not required 182 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:39,080 Speaker 1: by law. No, they don't have that. They're trying, the 183 00:11:39,160 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: FEC is trying to make it more transparent. They've gotten 184 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 1: a certain way, but I think that it can definitely 185 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: go further. Okay, Jeremy, your thought on the future of 186 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: funereal technology. Oh, I think one of the most interesting, 187 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:59,839 Speaker 1: one of the most interesting technologies right now is aquamation 188 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:04,839 Speaker 1: or alkaline hydrolysis. I love this already. I don't even 189 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: know what it is, but I think that sounds so cool. 190 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:13,320 Speaker 1: It's essentially water creamation, and so you are put into 191 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 1: a heated vat um that is filled with a water 192 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: Lie solution and that that is or that water Lie 193 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:29,360 Speaker 1: solution is heated and essentially your flesh and muscles dissolved 194 00:12:29,760 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 1: and all that is left are your bones and then 195 00:12:32,840 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 1: that is you know, your bones are are crushed and 196 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: those are the creamains that are left. And then the um, 197 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:44,839 Speaker 1: the water Lie solution with your dissolved remains, gets put 198 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: down the drain, right and it's totally safe and um, 199 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: there's no like it's it's basically a base solution and 200 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: it's actually very safe. There's just the regulations around it 201 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 1: have been challenged because it's new, but it is legal 202 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:08,840 Speaker 1: in eighteen US states and five provinces right now. And 203 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 1: it's also is a greener option as well, in that 204 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: it takes up so much less energy and has no 205 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: emission when you compare it to cremation, and so like 206 00:13:21,160 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 1: a nice way to put it is like it's cremation 207 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,160 Speaker 1: in like a wom bath right is a nice way 208 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:28,200 Speaker 1: to put it, but when you read it in the media, 209 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: they're like people are dissolving bodies like in the Manfia 210 00:13:32,600 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 1: in these vats. But it's a really interesting technology that 211 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 1: I think is going to become way more popular. Yeah, 212 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: you get more remains as well, you get more creamines 213 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:46,839 Speaker 1: using aquamation or outline hydrolysis than you do with traditional 214 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: fire cremation. When I learned the word cremaines and how 215 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:54,400 Speaker 1: we had moved away from ashes, which is not accurate anyway, 216 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: and we were saying cremines, I've had a problem anytime 217 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 1: I was in an office that had cream aura. After that, 218 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: I cannot stop the association with UM. Well, why not burial, 219 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 1: Let's see what's our what's our standard on that? Now 220 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 1: the I'm kind of nostalgic for something like that. Why 221 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: not that baril at sea UM does still exist and 222 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: you can still have it. There are still people in 223 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 1: the military that are able to have it, and UM 224 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:33,440 Speaker 1: it is I don't know exactly, it's definitely legal in 225 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: many parts of the States. I think you just need 226 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: to find a funeral director and a captain that will 227 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: take you out to do it. But typically the challenges 228 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: is having a captain that that will take you out 229 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 1: to do it. But what I've learned, yeah, but yeah, Baril, 230 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: let's see, is still totally possible. And if you do, 231 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: if you would prefer cremation um, a lot of people 232 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: will scatter at sea. Or there's even these really cool 233 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: that are actually made out of like like a peppy 234 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 1: machet and it actually would be shaped in like a 235 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 1: little boat or a turtle, and so you put the 236 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: cremator remains inside and then you let it go in 237 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: the water and it floats and then it slowly dissolves 238 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: and it's really beautiful as well. There's also companies that 239 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: are um where you can they're creating reef where you 240 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: can take cremated remains um and they are brought down 241 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 1: to the bottom of the ocean and they become part 242 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:30,440 Speaker 1: of that ecosystem. I mean, that's cool. And I like 243 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 1: how a little French girl over there said papier mache 244 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 1: about all right, So I'm we're going to get to 245 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: people's questions coming up in just a moment and probably 246 00:15:42,480 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: won't have a lot of time to deal with this, 247 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: but connected very closely to the other side of the 248 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 1: funeral industry is the prolonging of life industry. Um, and 249 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: that's another thing that we may have to wait for 250 00:15:56,600 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: another show to do someday, but that was that was 251 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: durbing process. This amount of you know, the effort that's 252 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 1: put into extending life also seems to be sort of 253 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 1: anti funereal in a way, which is or even jeremy 254 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: as you're talking about this belief somehow in immortality that 255 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 1: if we give, if we put into chemicals in a person, 256 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: we put it, we run ont of electricity through them, 257 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 1: that we can keep them alive for longer. There their 258 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 1: quality of life is very poor or low or non existent, 259 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 1: but for some reason we take solace and that and 260 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 1: I see those two things as being kind of vaguely connected. 261 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: What about you, Yeah, absolutely, I mean there is that 262 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 1: you know, medicalization where we are trying to prolong life 263 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 1: at all costs, and medicine sees death as being you know, 264 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: the ultimate failure, and you really do want to keep 265 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 1: people alive as long as possible. And then yeah, the 266 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: other side of that is the you know, transhumanism or 267 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: more the list the people who are trying it at 268 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:05,200 Speaker 1: all costs to live forever or the people who are 269 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 1: using cryonics, you know, they are When they die, their 270 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: bodies are cryogenically frozen in the hopes that one day 271 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 1: they will be able to be revived and live again 272 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,719 Speaker 1: in the future. Yeah. I think those two things are 273 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:23,119 Speaker 1: absolutely connected, although you know obviously that the goal for 274 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:25,959 Speaker 1: immortalists and for people who want to live forever is 275 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:29,199 Speaker 1: to also have healthy aging outcomes as well, or to 276 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 1: reverse aging completely. Listen to more Coast to Coast AM 277 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 1: every weeknight at one am Eastern and go to Coast 278 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:38,920 Speaker 1: to Coast am dot com for more