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Speaker 1: My boyfriend pranked me in the worst possible way on

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Speaker 1: my birthday?

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Speaker 2: Should I leave him?

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Speaker 1: This is okayop the Home of the Craziest Stories on Earth.

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Speaker 1: I'm Sam and John.

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 3: I have some opinions, but today we are joined by

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Speaker 3: one of the greatest creators in the game, living and

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Speaker 3: breathing today, Jack from redditor Jack, How you doing?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 4: I mean that is some introduction, guys. I've got to say. Wow.

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure if I'd agree with that, but it's

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Speaker 4: a pleasure to be here. Thanks for right, Will, and

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Speaker 4: I'm excited of course.

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Speaker 3: Man. So we have this question in front of us.

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Speaker 3: Apparently there's been a horrendous prank by someone who's supposed

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Speaker 3: to love you on your birthday, Jack, with no context whatsoever?

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Speaker 3: Off rip? Do you think this person should leave the relationship?

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Speaker 4: With no context at all? That's the question you're asking me.

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Speaker 2: Wow, zero content.

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Speaker 3: Now we will be filmed later and then make a true,

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Speaker 3: actual judgment, but with no context whatsoever.

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Speaker 4: What do you think I would say? For now, I'll

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Speaker 4: be lenient. I'll say stick around. Maybe this person.

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Speaker 2: Is just stick around.

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Speaker 4: Got the situation horribly, but we'll see.

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Speaker 3: I'll be I'll be a little contrarian and completely guessed

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Speaker 3: that it was a horrendously terrible prank, knowing how left

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Speaker 3: and terrible these stories can go. So I'm gonna I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna predict as really bad and I'm going to say leave.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's discover. So I twenty seven male, met

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Speaker 1: my probably soon to be ex boyfriend Alex with a

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Speaker 1: K and not an ex twenty nine male, two years

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Speaker 1: ago through a mutual friend of ours.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I already off to a terrible.

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Speaker 4: Terrible, terrible stuff.

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Speaker 1: I never expected he'd be interested in me because when

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Speaker 1: I first met him, he had been with only women.

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Speaker 2: Because both of the people in this story are meant right, Okay.

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Speaker 1: He came out as bisexual to me and our friends

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Speaker 1: not too long after that, and that same night he

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Speaker 1: hinted that he was into me. We got to know

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Speaker 1: each other more and eventually turned into the two of

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Speaker 1: us dating. He's genuinely a sweet and awesome guy, quite introverted,

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Speaker 1: but has a big heart and a real geek about

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Speaker 1: things he likes. I thought he'd be the one I

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Speaker 1: would be marrying and all that, but I'm thinking that

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Speaker 1: that's not likely to happen. Anymore.

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Speaker 2: What I thought the prank would be bad. It looks

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Speaker 2: like it is going to be. But it looks like

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Speaker 2: it's going to be bad. I'm still hope he can't

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Speaker 2: take a joke maybe, but to leave the relationship. I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I think it's gonna be pretty bad.

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Speaker 1: What's a prank ending or a relationship ending prank?

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Speaker 2: Jack, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think I think something involving something involving parents. I

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Speaker 4: think I think maybe where it gets to try to

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Speaker 4: make it something yeah, or maybe something you know, familiar,

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Speaker 4: all and just says, what are you doing involving my

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Speaker 4: parents in this? Something like that. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I got your mond pregnant? Yeah yeah what I was thinking, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I got I got Jack, I got you an Alley

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Speaker 2: hoop on that one.

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Speaker 1: Or maybe the prank was like they get married, they

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Speaker 1: had this beautiful wedding, and then right after he's like.

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Speaker 2: I was straight the whole time.

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Speaker 4: Ha wow, And that's what that would be unbelievable.

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Speaker 3: I mean, seems plausible. Franked oh Man Man.

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Speaker 1: Last Monday was my birthday and I went home early

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Speaker 1: from work, so that Alex with a K and I

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Speaker 2: I told him earlier that day I would go home early.

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Speaker 1: When I opened the door, I was greeted by him

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Speaker 1: He eventually saw me and had a surprise look on

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Speaker 1: The woman also looked like she was about to laugh

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Speaker 1: of the bedroom and kitchen holding gifts, party poppers and

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Speaker 1: a cake. I guess with them shouting it's a prank,

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Speaker 1: happy birthday, well, turning party poppers on, and it stapped

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Speaker 1: me back to reality because after they said that, I

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Speaker 2: Opie went out the door. Wow, how what do you do?

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Speaker 4: That's that's tough. That's just a total misread of the situation. Surely,

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Speaker 4: because as you as you just mentioned like we knew

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Speaker 4: as if you know he's outright gay, and this.

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Speaker 1: Is it's based in reality. It's based in reality. That's

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Speaker 1: what makes it maybe in Opie's fear.

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Speaker 3: Why would you ever like like a thought I was

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Speaker 3: cheating on you a happy birthday?

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Speaker 2: What are we doing like my present to you as

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Speaker 2: a heart attack?

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Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like a good surprise birthday

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Speaker 3: party prank would be taking them somewhere or like doing

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Speaker 3: something that the person would receive is lame. Like maybe

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Speaker 1: The baking dates are great though, if you've never been

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Speaker 1: to I hates cooking. Okay literally it's just my ex

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Speaker 2: Jack's like, yeah, that's love that.

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Speaker 3: If the person hates cooking, you're like, oh, like we're

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Speaker 3: you're playing with me for whatever, and that's like surprise,

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Speaker 3: we got you your favorite cake, We got you your

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Speaker 1: Games, like you have to bake anything. We've already done

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Speaker 3: Here's a delicious cake that's like a good prank where

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Speaker 3: it seems like, oh, like this doesn't seem like that.

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Speaker 1: Expectations are exceeded. But it's just because they were boring,

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Speaker 1: not because they were awful. Like pretty pretty much like, hey,

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Speaker 3: I mean, here's the question, here's the question. Oh, I

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Speaker 2: But yeah, which was worse?

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Speaker 1: Would you rather think your girlfriend was cheating on you

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Speaker 1: for like thirty minutes or would you rather think.

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Speaker 2: Your mom's mom's funerals? Definitely? Are you choosing your mom

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have to agree with that.

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Speaker 2: Jack, you joined on a crazy one today. I don't

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Speaker 2: about on the show, just like, wait, this is your show?

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Speaker 4: Goodness?

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Speaker 2: May what intro?

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Speaker 1: While driving, my phone started getting bombarded by text calls

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Speaker 2: When it got too distracting.

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Speaker 1: I just turned off my phone and went to a

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Speaker 1: She probably noticed that something was off because I was

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Speaker 2: So this is a story.

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Speaker 4: There we go, there we go.

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Speaker 1: So it's just how essentially ruined. Yeah, yeah, the boyfriend

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Speaker 1: instances and this guy's like, let's just poke the trauma beehive.

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Speaker 4: That's what makes it funny. The children's what makes it funny. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: going into the boyfriend?

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Speaker 2: Yeah right, is that is true?

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Speaker 1: That's what I've heard, man, I always throw fireworks into

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Speaker 4: Well I found someone else that does that as well. Amazing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just kidding.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I would never do that on record, sure,

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Speaker 1: But at the same time, I can't help but feel

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to face and respond to them

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Speaker 2: And there is a big.

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Speaker 1: Fact juicy update and more juicy updates. But first, what

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Speaker 1: do you think? What do you think about what Opie said?

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Speaker 1: Should they leave the boyfriend? Should they just take time

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Speaker 1: good idea to make OPE think that they were being

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Speaker 3: Full of your friends. Yeah, no one stood up and said, hey,

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Speaker 3: maybe this isn't a good idea. Mob mentality, true, Jack,

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Speaker 3: what are you thinking right now?

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Speaker 2: You're to us.

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Speaker 4: That's what makes it worse, right, as all your friends

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Speaker 4: really funny idea. We know the trauma that he's gone

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Speaker 4: I don't really see how Like there you go.

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Speaker 2: It's rough, it's rough.

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Speaker 1: But do you think like OPE could ever or do

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Speaker 1: you think OPE should talk to the friends right now

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Speaker 1: like like or just like create distance and go you know,

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Speaker 1: in communicado? Like what do you think OP should do

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Speaker 1: to remedy this situation? Or is it just like yes,

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Speaker 1: to wait for all the friends to come and say sorry?

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Speaker 1: Is there anything to do? I guess besides cry.

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Speaker 3: I think that OP should take time away from the

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Speaker 3: like OP could benefit from the space given that there

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Speaker 3: went to their their boss. It sounds like I was like, hey,

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Speaker 3: I need a few days. So I think space from

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Speaker 3: the friends is good for right now. That's a bridge

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Speaker 3: that can be crossed later. And their partner, they need

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Speaker 2: Did you do this? You know, like, what is this?

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Speaker 3: I thought you were here to love and support me.

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Speaker 4: That's a prank.

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Speaker 1: Old school YouTube where it's boyfriend and girlfriend and boyfriend

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Speaker 2: You know what, You're right, Jesse and that other girl

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Speaker 2: Exactly. It seems I like milk your trauma for the earth.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean Jack, You know, all of us here

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Speaker 2: Right. I got home from school.

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Speaker 5: Oh the man he's supposed to have synergy with, right,

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Speaker 1: Do you see what the mom told the dad let

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Speaker 1: So the dad said, get out of here, get out

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I see mom's lying. Mam is lying again.

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Speaker 1: But then I saw my mom looking mad at me

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Speaker 1: Since then, I've decided to fully ignore my mom unless

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Speaker 4: That's terrible. I was literally about to ask, now, wow, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, maybe that's why he was like, you know, always gone.

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Speaker 1: Oh it didn't really work, But I appreciate my dad

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is this is a movie.

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Speaker 4: Right, Surely surely her friends and her sorry, the boyfriend

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Speaker 1: I think maybe not? Maybe think maybe the boyfriend doesn't

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Speaker 2: With those closes.

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Speaker 1: This kind of reminds me of, like, you know, like

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Speaker 1: sudden he is a flashback when he's like nine and

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Speaker 2: It's like it's like this but a thousand times worst. Wow,

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Speaker 2: We're we're getting really cinematic with this. It already felt

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Speaker 3: By the way, like all the alternative storyline for the

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Speaker 3: Jokers village villain?

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Speaker 2: Or I already become a villain after this story? For sure?

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Speaker 1: For sure, we had a pretty nice first start, and

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Speaker 2: Not in the fun way, and turned to destroying his stuff,

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Speaker 4: That's good, that's good, that's good. That's what I want

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Speaker 4: to see that is good. Whoa, that's good revenge, that's justified.

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Speaker 2: Jack is all about the revenge nuclear mode.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I'm about. Give me more of that,

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Speaker 1: I deleted the post just two days after after Jack's like, no,

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Speaker 1: but the damage has already been done and ended up

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Speaker 1: One Facebook post can change someone's life. Yeah, it's like

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Speaker 1: that whole thing about like, you know, donate a penny

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Speaker 3: It's like this is the the on the other side

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Speaker 3: of the spectrum. One Facebook post could ruin someone's life.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy, Like you have so much power, you know.

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Speaker 1: You at this keyboard right now, you can change someone's

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Speaker 2: For only a few keystrokes someone's life.

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Speaker 1: If you could just click a button right now, we could.

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Speaker 1: If everyone who is watching this click to button, we

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Speaker 3: Likes and clicking the links below to check out Jack

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Speaker 3: so he's you know, keep all the boats afloat.

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Speaker 1: Also known as redditor that's right, or as John says,

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Speaker 1: read a tour.

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Speaker 2: Yes, read a tour to make sure I'm saying it correct.

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Speaker 4: Now, which which I want to go? The English accent

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Speaker 2: Different, obviously.

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Speaker 1: I am thoroughly embarrassed and ashamed of what I've done,

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Speaker 1: and I still regret doing all of that. When my

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Speaker 1: And it's not. And I got diagnosed with severe depression.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you that. Yeah. Ope, Like, but who

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Speaker 1: Dude as a freaking ten by ten BIG's cube right there,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would be working on that. It's not working. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Which confused my aunt, but after telling her what happened

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Speaker 2: Op, We're not here with you, but we love you. Glad.

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Speaker 4: Somebody, somebody out there. My goodness, right.

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Speaker 1: She felt bad because she wasn't able to do anything

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Speaker 1: Even since then, my aunt has helped me get therapy

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Speaker 1: but we've made amends and are own good terms.

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Speaker 2: Now. That is crazy. Wow, to make amends after that.

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Speaker 4: Why but.

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Speaker 2: Jax like trash that and burn it along with all

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Speaker 2: update on Facebook. I destroyed my mom's life.

443
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,360
Speaker 1: Now that all of this stuff from the past has

444
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,000
Speaker 1: been finally laid out, for those wondering why I did that,

445
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,439
Speaker 1: here's the actual update. Okay, so all that was just

446
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 1: the preamble right now, we're getting into the actual update.

447
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 1: That was just context. Wow, this is why we're actually here,

448
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,879
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. So after I submitted my original post,

449
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 1: I packed my things that night and prepared to go

450
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 1: to my aunt's house, which wasn't that far but still

451
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 1: a bit of a drive. Nonetheless, when I finally got there,

452
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 1: she was incredibly welcoming, and I thanked her for allowing

453
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,200
Speaker 1: me to stay in the house, even for just a while.

454
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,240
Speaker 1: She gave me a tight hug and told me I

455
00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,439
Speaker 1: was always welcome and that you will be there to

456
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: help me when I need her to. She eventually led

457
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,199
Speaker 1: me to the spare bedroom that they have in their

458
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,240
Speaker 1: house and helped me unpack my stuff. She's honestly such

459
00:22:57,280 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: an incredible woman, and I love her so much. She's

460
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,719
Speaker 1: basically the mom I've always wanted.

461
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 2: Wow.

462
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: Once I was done unpacking, I was again confronted by

463
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: the fact that I haven't opened my phone for quite

464
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: some time now, right because last we left Op on

465
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:14,719
Speaker 1: last episode of Okay Op, we left Op crying in

466
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 1: his room, not looking at his phone because all of

467
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 1: his friends betrayed him, and typing that Reddit post on

468
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: the computer.

469
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,880
Speaker 2: In a hotel room far away from everyone he knows.

470
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,280
Speaker 2: I mean, honestly moved to an island. You got is

471
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 2: full send it.

472
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 1: I've avoided it for so long that I didn't think

473
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: I could open it again.

474
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,800
Speaker 2: But I knew, I knew I had to. The Pandora's

475
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 2: box must be opened. The moment my phone booted up,

476
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 2: the moments hundreds upon hundreds of X chats and miss

477
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:52,959
Speaker 2: calls popped up on my screen. I'm just imagining, like

478
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 2: like just like a gatling gun of barrage that messages.

479
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 4: Oh, the anxiety of going forward of those and just

480
00:23:58,280 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 4: wondering what it would be horrible.

481
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, how many unread text messages do you guys?

482
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 1: Have I read?

483
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: I read? I don't how many.

484
00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:08,119
Speaker 4: I'm a reader.

485
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 2: You're at zero?

486
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 4: I mean yeah, normally I go through them all. I

487
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 4: don't like the having like forty five zero.

488
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're forty seven on reads. Wow, it's not so

489
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 2: hold on, I need to put it on my home screen.

490
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 2: I'm at five hundred and seventy eight forty seven. Hang,

491
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 2: you're a great person, Yeah, dude, I need ever.

492
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,959
Speaker 1: Like, there's people that I am friends with that I

493
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 1: haven't responded to since Sunday.

494
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 3: For context, Jack, one of the shows that Sam did

495
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:36,680
Speaker 3: was called one hundred New Friends, where he literally would

496
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 3: go to a city and make one hundred new friends.

497
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 2: So, in Sam's defense, that's small resource.

498
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, JESU, I need to This is reminding me.

499
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 1: Do we need to reach out to all those people

500
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:49,600
Speaker 1: that we met?

501
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: Yeah? Lunch, there we go lunch.

502
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,640
Speaker 1: Even if I was still hesitant, I decided to open

503
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: up my chats and looked at our friend group's group chat. First,

504
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: the chats from the start were all very frantic nature,

505
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: with my friends asking about where I was or what happened.

506
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 1: But after scrolling down a few more times, the chats

507
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: turned into them apologizing that the prank happened.

508
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,680
Speaker 2: At all and that it was not the plan.

509
00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: One of my friends even blamed the girl that was

510
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: on top of Alex, my boyfriend, and thought she was untrustworthy. Finally,

511
00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 1: the chats ended up being them hoping they could contact

512
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,680
Speaker 1: me and wishing I was safe. I guess they knew

513
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: I just read their chat, because as soon as I

514
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 1: was done backgrading, my friends immediately knew I was online

515
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 1: and asked how I was doing and where I was.

516
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,919
Speaker 1: They also started apologizing again for not being able to

517
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 1: stop the prank from happening, and that they didn't know

518
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: that that was going to happen, and they thought the

519
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 1: original prank was going to be something else. Yeah, sure,

520
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: so at least the friends didn't actually betray.

521
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 3: That's what I would say suspicious, because here's what I'm thinking.

522
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:57,160
Speaker 3: They they have to get like, you know, in position

523
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 3: at least what ten twenty thirty seconds before?

524
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 2: So are you not like we were like, what are

525
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 2: we doing? A John doo? Don't worry, it'll be funny.

526
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 2: It'll be funny. It had to be like you're already there.

527
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 1: Though you're already there, even if you were protesting, what

528
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: are you gonna do? Rip the girl off of the guy?

529
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: Even if you were protesting, it would be hard to stop.

530
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 4: What else? What else would the prank have been apart

531
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 4: from like what else? Like, if you're a friend, what

532
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 4: are you imagining the prank is going to be? Apart

533
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 4: from what actually happened. They're just like sitting on the

534
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 4: south forest.

535
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 2: Well, it would just be a regular surprise.

536
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, just like a regular surprise surprise, not like I

537
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,199
Speaker 1: you're geatings, I.

538
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 2: Just impregnated with this girl? Oopsie, just kidding.

539
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 4: I mean they well, I don't know at this point.

540
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 4: I reckon they I think I need.

541
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:43,239
Speaker 2: I buy it, I buy it, I buy it. I'm

542
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 2: kind of a jack off. This one.

543
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: At this point, I was thoroughly confused because they seemed

544
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 1: happy enough to be there during that night, but I

545
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: knew I had to apologize to them first for ghosting

546
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 1: them and asking their side of the story first before

547
00:26:56,040 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 1: speaking about what happened. So, oh, he's going to fluth mode. Okay,

548
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: detective work sherlock home was over here. Essentially, they were

549
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:08,119
Speaker 1: simply planning a surprise birthday party for me with Alex

550
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,679
Speaker 1: in a group chat that didn't include me. Then my

551
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 1: boyfriend added a few more people into the chat, saying

552
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 1: that they were college friends of his and he wanted

553
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,720
Speaker 1: them to be a part of the surprise too, since

554
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: they also wanted to meet and get to know me better.

555
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: As a suggestion, one of my boyfriend's college friends pitched

556
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 1: the idea of them pranking me. The plan was, my

557
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: boyfriend is going to be on the couch with a

558
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: serial killer holding a bloody knife and fake stabbing my

559
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 1: boyfriend while the killer was on top of him, and

560
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: while my boyfriend is bleeding everywhere?

561
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,679
Speaker 4: What that would be better? With it?

562
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 2: Well, not only is she fucking him, if she's killing

563
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 2: them too. God.

564
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,439
Speaker 1: My boyfriend's college friends thought it would be funny to

565
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 1: see my reaction. Although my friends were initially skeptical, they

566
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 1: reassured them that it would be a harm us fun

567
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,120
Speaker 1: and that once my boyfriend and the friend who will

568
00:28:03,160 --> 00:28:05,919
Speaker 1: be acting as the killer got their desire to reaction

569
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 1: on camera or the prank channel, oh wow, so they

570
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: can tell me that it was all a prank and

571
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 1: my friends and my boyfriend's other college friends would come

572
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: out and surprise me with their gifts and stuff. My

573
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 1: friends eventually agreed, so as long as they don't drag

574
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 1: out the prank and immediately reveal everything once they captured

575
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: my reaction on camera, do we buy it?

576
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 2: Do we buy it? So they were originally going to

577
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 2: do a murder prank and film it.

578
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 1: Yes, they're going to do a murder, a bloody murder prank.

579
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: We actually had a story like that was similar to this,

580
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 1: about a guy who did like a Halloween prank and

581
00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: pretended that he was like bleeding from the head.

582
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 2: And the call nine one one, yeah, whole bit.

583
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, and his and his wife was like traumatized and

584
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: like broke his ribs trying to resuscitate him.

585
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

586
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. It was still to take those pranks too far.

587
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 3: It's insane. But Jack, what do you think? Do you

588
00:28:59,760 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 3: do you think that's what they were actually? So did

589
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: they do that and they downgraded to the like cheating?

590
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 3: Was that the setup?

591
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? They downgraded, Jack, what are you thinking?

592
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 4: I mean, first of all, I don't know if it's

593
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 4: much of a downgrade really, I mean, yeah, it's a

594
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 4: downgrade because cheating isn't murder. But surely Opie's boyfriend knew

595
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 4: a little bit about the like I don't know how

596
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 4: long they've been together. I've forgotten if OPI mentioned it earlier,

597
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 4: but surely he knew a little bit about the trauma

598
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,480
Speaker 4: that the Opie's gone through in their life with cheating

599
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,640
Speaker 4: in general, I would have known this would have been

600
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 4: a terrible, terrible thing to do, if not just a

601
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 4: terrible boyfriend. Anyway, If you knew all about this and

602
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 4: we're like, oh, yeah, let's just do it's going to

603
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 4: be fun. But yeah, I don't know. I don't buy

604
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 4: that many people, that many friends being involved in something

605
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 4: and then all of a sudden they're just like, oh,

606
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 4: we didn't expect this. It just changed, as you said,

607
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 4: in like those thirty seconds. No one could have told.

608
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 2: Let's see where it goes.

609
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: I don't know, because the day of my birthday comes

610
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 1: and eventually they've planned everything and it seems to be

611
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 1: going smoothly with them waiting for me. My boyfriend's college

612
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: friends ushered everyone to hide while they set up the prank,

613
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: and when it was done, they would hide two. When

614
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: they finally heard my boyfriend say they can come out,

615
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: they thought that prank was success because I look absolutely mortified,

616
00:30:14,920 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 1: but they knew something was up. Even after the prank

617
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: was revealed, I was still looking shocked and almost teary

618
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: eyed until I finally turned around and left. They were

619
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 1: understandably shook and confused, thinking the serial killer prank was

620
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: too much, but knowing me, I wouldn't have minded at

621
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: all because I love scary movies and am an avid

622
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 1: horror enjoyer. That was when they realized that my boyfriend's

623
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 1: female college friend was on top of my boyfriend, not

624
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 1: wearing any serial killer costume and not.

625
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 2: Holding any fake bloody knife. It was the boyfriend's college

626
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 2: friend college.

627
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. They then saw my boyfriend pushing his female college

628
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: friend away from him and chasing after me. Some of

629
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: them also tried to follow me while some were asking

630
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: what happened to the original plan. Even my boyfriend's other

631
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:05,959
Speaker 1: college friends were wondering why their female friend wasn't in costume,

632
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: but she was just silent. After a few minutes, my

633
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,479
Speaker 1: boyfriend came back to our apartment looking distraw and crying.

634
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: He then tells everyone that they should all go and

635
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,480
Speaker 1: proceeds to go to our bedroom. They wanted to ask

636
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,160
Speaker 1: him what happened, but he shut the door before they could.

637
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: His female college friend then followed him inside, which really

638
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 1: weirded them out. But after a while they hear my

639
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend shouting at her, telling her to fuck off. Then

640
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: she goes out the door on the verge of tears

641
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,720
Speaker 1: and leaves the apartment. They said everything happened so fast

642
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: they didn't know how to pross it it all and

643
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: as it all happened. Not too long after that, though,

644
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: they realized that I was missing and started calling and

645
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: texting me, but I didn't respond any of them. Eventually

646
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: I was unreachable. I turned off my phone and decided

647
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: they should just go home and wait for me to respond.

648
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 1: My boyfriend's college friends apologized profusely to what has happened

649
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 1: and didn't mean for any of this to happen, but

650
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: they basically just ignored them. Then they followed their retelling

651
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: of their side with videos that they've recorded proving their accounts.

652
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: So all of Op's friends are like, here's a video, here,

653
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: here's what actually happens.

654
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 2: If they were planning on recording.

655
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: It yep, along with an apology and wishing that I

656
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: was doing well. After my friends told me what happened

657
00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: on their point of view, I felt really terrible and

658
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: apologized again for ghosting them and telling them that everything

659
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,479
Speaker 1: that happened was none of their faults. I told them

660
00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: that I would make it up to them soon, but

661
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: they reassured me that they accept my apology and are

662
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: just happy that I'm alive and well. They also pitched

663
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 1: to have a late birthday celebration with me this weekend,

664
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend and his friends aren't included this time.

665
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 1: I of course happily agreed and thanked them for being

666
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: such great friends and that I couldn't thank them enough

667
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: for being such an awesome bunch of people. And there

668
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:49,479
Speaker 1: is some major tea coming up. Oh goodness, gracious major

669
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 1: ta wow. But actually, all right, well, now, all right,

670
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: before we jump into the tea. Now that we have

671
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: this information and the videos, do we forgive the friends?

672
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 4: No, I said, I don't understand. Maybe maybe I'm too cynical.

673
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 4: How how is this possible?

674
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:06,239
Speaker 2: Right?

675
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 4: So all the friends apparently are hidden away waiting. They

676
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 4: don't see the girl in costume at all. They don't

677
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 4: see any fake blood, right, So what they're just hidden

678
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,560
Speaker 4: away while she's supposed to be getting ready and changed

679
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 4: and stuff that I don't know.

680
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: I do need a lot, like a long time to

681
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: put blood on and like get costume on stuff.

682
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, so they were like they should have been like wait,

683
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 3: why why weren't you like getting ready exactly.

684
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 2: That's a good point. That's a good point. Wow.

685
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 4: I want to know what's in the videos as well,

686
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 4: because like what if they're just videoing themselves behind the door,

687
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,240
Speaker 4: it doesn't prove that they didn't know what was going

688
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 4: to happen. What was happening? I don't know.

689
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: Jack is a forensic detector right here. It's like, I

690
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 2: want receipts. I want that video list. This is why

691
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 2: we had to bring them on the show.

692
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 4: I'll see what happens.

693
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:56,240
Speaker 1: Well, let's get into this major tea. So the morning

694
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 1: of the next day, my aunt knocks on my door

695
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: and wakes me up, telling me that I have a

696
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: visitor downstairs. She looked a bit mad, so I can

697
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: already tell who it was. It was my boyfriend Alex

698
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 1: with a k caring this beautiful bouquet of flowers and

699
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: my favorite chocolates with him. Even if he looked amazing,

700
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 1: his face was the complete opposite, because he looked like

701
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: he was crying for days. I asked him how he

702
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 1: found out about where I was and told me that

703
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 1: once I turned on my phone again, an app on

704
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 1: my phone that we both have notified him of my whereabouts.

705
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 1: It's basically an app that allows you and your trusted

706
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: friends to share your locations in real time as long

707
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: as you have an Internet connection and your location is on.

708
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: It's like find my Friends, Right, Riley has my location?

709
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, he does. He stalks me every single day.

710
00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 1: I love it. I was a bit frustrated that he

711
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 1: actually came here to my aunt's house, but nevertheless, he

712
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 1: was already there, so might as well hear him out

713
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: on what he had to say. He basically reiterated what

714
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: my friends told me, but he added in some more

715
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 1: details that my friends didn't know about. Apparently, his old

716
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 1: college friends reconnected with him after he lost touch with

717
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: them after they graduated. They found his Facebook account and

718
00:35:08,080 --> 00:35:11,239
Speaker 1: through some searching and wanted to ask him about his

719
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: life after all of these years. They were especially happy

720
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,800
Speaker 1: when he told them that he currently has a boyfriend,

721
00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: because they secretly knew he was bisexual but didn't want

722
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 1: to make assumptions or make him feel weird about it.

723
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: Alex eventually tells them about me, and he mentions that

724
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 1: him and our friends are planning a secret surprise birthday

725
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 1: for me, and they immediately wanted to be a part

726
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,319
Speaker 1: of it. After they were added to the group chat,

727
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: they started suggesting ideas on how to make the surprise

728
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: much more fun until their female friend will call her.

729
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: Anna suggests that they do a prank to surprise me.

730
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: Alex's college friends were immediately on board because they saw

731
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 1: tiktoks of it and they thought it was really funny,

732
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: but my friends were obviously skeptical. Eventually, they agreed what

733
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 1: the prank is going to be and that the prank

734
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't take too long. Anna volunteered to be the serial

735
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: killer quote unquote, since it was her idea and they

736
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: all went and did their parts of the surprise so

737
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 1: that everything would be ready when my birthday comes. The

738
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 1: day of the surprise party comes and everyone prepares for

739
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 1: my arrival. When Anna and Alex went into their assigned

740
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 1: positions for the prank, he wondered why she still was

741
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:21,840
Speaker 1: an inner costume and why why, oh why her props

742
00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: were missing, But all she could.

743
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,919
Speaker 2: Do was reply that she forgot. I don't know where

744
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,279
Speaker 2: is it forgot.

745
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: Alex offers to find the costume and props, but Anna

746
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: insists that there's no more time and that I was

747
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: going to arrive soon. Alex at this point was extremely

748
00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 1: uncomfortable and wanted to get out of their position, but

749
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 1: before he could do it, I've already opened the door

750
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: and saw them. He admits that he effed up by

751
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 1: laughing a bit at my reaction because it was exactly

752
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,799
Speaker 1: the reaction he thought I was going to make, but

753
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: immediately realized what it looked like and called everyone to

754
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: come out to save himself from the embarrassment and give

755
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,919
Speaker 1: context to what I was seeing. What he really that

756
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 1: that didn't work. He forcefully pushed on a way to

757
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: change after me, but he wasn't able to keep up

758
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: once I got into the car piece fast as fuck.

759
00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 4: YEP.

760
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 1: It then sunk in to him that he aft up

761
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: big time and that when I drove away, that's when

762
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,919
Speaker 1: he remembered my trauma about cheating, which made him cry.

763
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: While returning to our apartment, he tells everyone to leave

764
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 1: and retreats to our bedroom, not really knowing what to do.

765
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: To his shock, Anna comes inside our room unannounced and

766
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 2: starts comforting Alex. He repeatedly tells her to leave and

767
00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,359
Speaker 2: that he'll be fine, But what really sets him off

768
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 2: was Anna asking him, so, does this mean you're single? Now?

769
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,240
Speaker 4: Yeah? WHOA?

770
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 2: Anna was trying to get it in on it.

771
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:50,560
Speaker 1: That's when he realized she did everything on purpose right.

772
00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,560
Speaker 1: Alex then shouts at her and angrily asked her to leave,

773
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: which she then complies to after looking like she just

774
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 1: embarrassed herself. Alex is in tears at this point. He

775
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 1: tells me that he wishes he just didn't agree with

776
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: the prank. He's cut off contact with his college friends

777
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: for now and is incredibly sorry about what happened. He

778
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: then starts hugging me really tightly and says that he

779
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 1: loves me so much and that he's scared of losing me.

780
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: His words alone also made me cry, because even after everything,

781
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: I still love him deeply and I do believe everything

782
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: he said. After a minute or two of us hugging

783
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: and crying, he lets go of me and tells me

784
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,600
Speaker 1: that we should be back together at our apartment, but

785
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:30,240
Speaker 1: that if I still need time and space, he'll gladly

786
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: give it to me. I gave him a kiss and

787
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: respond to him with me asking him to help me

788
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: pack my stuff. I gave my aunt the warmest of

789
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: hugs and told her how much I appreached to her

790
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,200
Speaker 1: for helping me. She was happy things got resolved, but

791
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: also jokingly threatened my boyfriend that if he did something

792
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: stupid or hurtful to me again, she will personally whisk

793
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: me away to safety and away from him. My boyfriend laughed,

794
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: but I think he was just hiding his nervousness. Now

795
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: I'm back in our apartment and Alex even offered to

796
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 1: throw away the couch that was to use for the prank,

797
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 1: but I declined since it's a pretty nice couch and

798
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 1: everything that has happened was something no one wanted aside

799
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: from honor. Probably I've already made amends with my boyfriend

800
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: and we've forgiven each other, and my friends are happy

801
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 1: that things work out in the end. Alex is probably

802
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,200
Speaker 1: now invited to the weekend party, but I've yet to

803
00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: ask them.

804
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 3: Ha ha.

805
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 2: Don't worry.

806
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 1: I'm also going to get in touch with my therapist

807
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: soon and booked new appointments with her per the suggestion

808
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: of my aunt. This has all taken a toll on me,

809
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: but I'm glad to have the support of my boyfriend,

810
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 1: my friends, and everyone who has read my posts and

811
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: shared their support with me. And I also realize that

812
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: this update is probably not what most of you wanted.

813
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 1: And as much as I was close to just giving

814
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: it all up breaking up with the boyfriend, I guess

815
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: I never had a reason too in the end, and

816
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm glad I got to hear their sides out before

817
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: making any huge decisions that I might regret later. And

818
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: I do trust my boyfriend and my friends since they

819
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: all sounded sincere and they did have proof to back

820
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 1: it up. I think this is going to be my

821
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: last update since everything seems to have been resolved wow,

822
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: But I'll try to make an update if something else

823
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 1: happens and you thought you guys thought everything was as

824
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 1: much all. But there's a new update that came out

825
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 1: yesterday how and it gets dark.

826
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 4: Wow.

827
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: But knowing now that there is an update, are there

828
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:24,240
Speaker 1: any red flags that you have seen in this story

829
00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 1: that maybe don't make sense? Jack, I want to I

830
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: want you to put on your your your detective hat,

831
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 1: your Sherlock Holmes magnifying glass and uh uh, let me know,

832
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: do you see anything?

833
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 2: Is it? Like?

834
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 4: I'm back on board now with Alex with a K.

835
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 4: I feel like that was a very good response.

836
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 2: I was.

837
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 4: I was happy with that update. I felt like it

838
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 4: was all pretty legitimate and everything made sense. Like if

839
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,919
Speaker 4: you know if Anna was was trying to get with him,

840
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 4: then you know that that whole story checks out for me.

841
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 4: So I'm kind of I'm disappointed to hear that as

842
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,520
Speaker 4: an update. And then there's more. There's more tea to come,

843
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,919
Speaker 4: because clearly you know some things I missed once again.

844
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 4: But I'm back on bull with Alex. I don't know

845
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 4: what's going to happen next.

846
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: The tea is not done. There is still some tea

847
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: and water in the old teapot. There's more to poor

848
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 1: and I'm going to pour it right directly into your mouths.

849
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 4: Oh boy, I am ready. This is some story. By

850
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 4: the way, I've got to say, this is a unbelievable.

851
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 1: There we go, big protea and giving us the biggest stories.

852
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 1: So this it's definitely my last update about this mess

853
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: because quite frankly, I am tired of all of it.

854
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: I can imagine, Yeah, we're I'm not tired. I'm like,

855
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm interested.

856
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: I like it. I like it. I'm sorry that that

857
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 2: your your your pain is our enjoyment for yourself. I

858
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 2: don't know.

859
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: You're laughing a lot, John, You're having a pretty good

860
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 1: time laughter.

861
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 2: For pain, so and so op.

862
00:42:03,719 --> 00:42:08,839
Speaker 1: I guess if you're watching this, you are healed. Don't

863
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:12,640
Speaker 1: go to that therapist. I guess yeah, by John's law,

864
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: don't go to therapy.

865
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 2: Watch our podcast and reditor so.

866
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:25,000
Speaker 1: A few days after my previous update, Alex, my now

867
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend, came up to me while sobbing and confessed

868
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 1: he hasn't told me the complete truth. I was suspicious

869
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: about Anna. Apparently him and Anna were a couple back then.

870
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: She was his first girlfriend and he did a lot

871
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:47,160
Speaker 1: of his first with her. First kiss, first date, first sex.

872
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:51,839
Speaker 1: First blowjob, first over the pants blowjob, first hand job,

873
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: first belly button rub, first book cocky, oh wow, okay, okay,

874
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 1: that's very everything else. I icedly got the cake once they.

875
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 2: You know what a bukki is? Right? Is that where

876
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 2: you take a duchie on somebody? I forgot my? Did

877
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 2: you ever have urban dictionary? Yeah? I've I've had it? Rightly?

878
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 2: Is bukkaki? Oh boy? Oh boy? The Japanese thing a

879
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 2: k i? You know how to spell it? Do you

880
00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 2: jack now?

881
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:43,560
Speaker 4: Better or less?

882
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 2: For better or for worse? Language of origin? Don't show

883
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 2: us pictures? Okay?

884
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: Includes one sperm recipient and at least three more sperm donors.

885
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: The recipient kneels down and sits on a couch as

886
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:05,239
Speaker 1: the men climax upon her face and body of the recipient.

887
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 1: The end is usually a glazed lady's.

888
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 2: Least favorite word.

889
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:15,439
Speaker 1: Once they graduated, Anna broke things off with him because

890
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 1: she couldn't handle a long distance relationship and didn't want

891
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: to be tied down yet, but maybe save that for later.

892
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: Anna breaking up with them caused him to go into

893
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 1: a spiral and develop severe depression along with self harming tendencies.

894
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: Something he still goes to therapy for took a lot

895
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 1: of work for him to get out of that hole

896
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:36,320
Speaker 1: and be a functioning human adult again, but things apparently

897
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 1: didn't completely change for the better for him until he

898
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: met me. As I quote, I was the light at

899
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 1: the end of the tunnel that he desperately wanted to

900
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: get out. But I guess goes from the past have

901
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: their way of coming back to haunt you.

902
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 2: Poetic.

903
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 1: A few weeks before my birthday, Alex's college friends found

904
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 1: his Facebook and contacted him to reconnect. Things went well

905
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 1: for them until he was added into their group chat

906
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: that had Anna in it. As well as what he said,

907
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: it definitely reignited some old feelings that he had and

908
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 1: it also didn't help like Anna was acting like nothing

909
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 1: bad had happened between the two of them. They agreed

910
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,399
Speaker 1: to meet up and catch up, and one thing led

911
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 1: to another until that one thing ended up being them

912
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 1: having sex.

913
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:24,280
Speaker 2: Every day up until my birthday. Surprise. Oh my god,

914
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 2: every day, every day, every day, bro, every day, bro,

915
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 2: it's every day bro. Yeah. God.

916
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 3: And for someone who has the city of England to

917
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 3: witness this.

918
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, how does it? How does it? What's that?

919
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,839
Speaker 1: It only really hit him how much he've left up

920
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 1: and realized that he was doing something incredibly shitty when

921
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,959
Speaker 1: he saw my devastated face after seeing Anna on top

922
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,800
Speaker 1: of him for a prank that they said proposedly planned

923
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: for me. Oh, it only hits you, then, it only

924
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: hits you. Then Oh wow, Oh I realized I fed up.

925
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 1: But the twenty times that we were hooking up before

926
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 1: that was completely coc.

927
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:14,720
Speaker 3: It's all good. Hey, I didn't see his face react

928
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 3: to it. How would I know that he would have

929
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 3: a negative reaction?

930
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 2: Exactly. You don't know. You try. You don't know until

931
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 2: you try. It's like I don't know if I'm gonna

932
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 2: like eating anchovies until I stuff them down my throat,

933
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 2: you know. And some things were stuffed down some throats,

934
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 2: some things. A lot of first in this at, a

935
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 2: lot of fun, a lot of very descriptive firsts.

936
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: According to him, he was trying to bring back those

937
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 1: strong feelings and emotions that he once felt back when

938
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 1: he was an Anna, and so he tried and tried

939
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:46,680
Speaker 1: again and again, I guess to bone Anna until he

940
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,480
Speaker 1: felt those feelings. But seeing me look ruined and distraught

941
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: made him realize that what he had with me was

942
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 1: incomparable to what him and Anna had, So I guess

943
00:46:57,120 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 1: that's what led him to confess and be all remor

944
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: because Babe, I didn't realize how much I loved you

945
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: until I cheated, So really we should thank.

946
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 2: Her just wow.

947
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:10,439
Speaker 4: So what I can say cheating.

948
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 1: Made the relationship stronger, That made it love stronger.

949
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:19,240
Speaker 3: I never knew what I had until I went back

950
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:22,359
Speaker 3: to the person that I had a lengthy relationship with.

951
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:26,800
Speaker 2: As if, as if that entire relationship was not proof enough,

952
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 2: that wasn't gonna work.

953
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 1: What broken bones heel stronger than they were originally.

954
00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 3: So let's break all of our bones. Let's have a

955
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 3: broken body and heel together.

956
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 2: What.

957
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 1: Of course, I had to hear him apologize and cry

958
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: in front of me, and I did cry too, but

959
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,799
Speaker 1: I couldn't bear being around him anymore. After hearing all

960
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 1: of that, I then calmly told him that I don't

961
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 1: want to be here with him anymore and that i'd

962
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,640
Speaker 1: be leaving the apartment and sort things out once we're

963
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:57,719
Speaker 1: both in clear estates of mind. He didn't like that

964
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 1: one bit and started sobbing like crazy and even went

965
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:04,840
Speaker 1: as far as hugging me incredibly tightly, just so I

966
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't go. It was a struggle, but I eventually got

967
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: out of his clutches by pushing him.

968
00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 2: Hard enough away. I ran as fast as I could,

969
00:48:12,520 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 2: ironic to get to the car and immediately headed to

970
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,760
Speaker 2: my aunt's house. When I got there, I just sobbed

971
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 2: in my aunt's arms and felt incredibly weak. She probably

972
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,880
Speaker 2: understood why I was crying so much without asking me why,

973
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 2: so she started consoling me until I was too tired

974
00:48:26,400 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 2: to cry and slept.

975
00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: Yesterday, I got a call I'm a friend of Alex

976
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:35,240
Speaker 1: that he's in the hospital after being found unresponsive because

977
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: of self harm.

978
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't want to go this.

979
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:41,239
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, I'm gonna pause right here, Jack, do you

980
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 1: go to the hospital?

981
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 4: That's like a fifty to fifty Honestly, I don't know,

982
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 4: coin flip, probably not. But then sometimes you just think, Okay,

983
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 4: this guy is in such a bad place, I'm just

984
00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 4: gonna go one time.

985
00:48:55,120 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, like if I can be the thing that saves

986
00:48:57,840 --> 00:48:58,440
Speaker 2: a life, like.

987
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, yeah, yeah, I'd probably just I'd probably go.

988
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 2: Riley where you go? I would probably go, you have

989
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 2: to go?

990
00:49:05,560 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 4: You WoT?

991
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

992
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,719
Speaker 1: I thinking, yeah, yeah, but I'm thinking of like, if

993
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: that happened to any of my ex girlfriends, that would

994
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: probably go yeah, yeah fuck. I didn't want to go

995
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 1: because I'm obviously still hurt about everything, but Alex doesn't

996
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 1: have any family anywhere near him, and I'm the only

997
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 1: one who knows about his medical history and details and

998
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,880
Speaker 1: technically his closest family, so I had to. When I

999
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: got there, his arms were full advantages and his face

1000
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 1: looked all puffy and red. Right now, I'm outside his

1001
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 1: hospital room waiting for his doctors to give me an

1002
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: update or tell me anything or something that I should do.

1003
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: He also hasn't woken up yet, so I'm embracing myself

1004
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:44,759
Speaker 1: for when he does. Truthfully, I do still love him

1005
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: very much, but what he did just made it clear

1006
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: for me that were just not meant to be together.

1007
00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'll do moving forward after all

1008
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 1: of this, but I'll just let the universe take the

1009
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 1: wheel for me. At this point, I just wish things

1010
00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: didn't end up this way, and as for me, I'm

1011
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 1: doing mostly all right. I didn't want to stay in

1012
00:50:00,760 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: the hospital for long, so once I got to give

1013
00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 1: the doctors the necessary info and stuff, I left immediately.

1014
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 1: My aunt then helped me get all of my stuff

1015
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: from our apartment and also called our landlord about our

1016
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 1: shared lease. Our apartment was full of liquor bottles and

1017
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,759
Speaker 1: it was just an overall mess, so it took a

1018
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 1: while for us to get my stuff, and I also

1019
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: did some clean up before I left. It was sort

1020
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,799
Speaker 1: of like my final goodbye to that place. Even if

1021
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 1: my relationship basically ended there, I also had a ton

1022
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:27,359
Speaker 1: of fun, happy memories there and I'll definitely miss it.

1023
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm living with my aunt for the meantime

1024
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 1: while I look for a new apartment. My friends still

1025
00:50:31,920 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 1: don't know what happened, and I think I'll tell them soon,

1026
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 1: but definitely not now. I just want to rest and

1027
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: sleep and hopefully wake up to a better day once again.

1028
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:42,720
Speaker 2: Thank you all.

1029
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, this feels like a impossible scenario. It's like,

1030
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 3: like you like without having gone through something like that,

1031
00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 3: like what can you say?

1032
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 2: What would you do?

1033
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:58,280
Speaker 1: It's it's I mean, definitely don't get back with Alex.

1034
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's one thing I mean. And I'm

1035
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:04,720
Speaker 1: like but I'm like, but I'm like, like I'm serious

1036
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,240
Speaker 1: about that, because like the emotional connection is obviously strong.

1037
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: Alex is obviously, you know, hurting a lot, and you

1038
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:14,759
Speaker 1: might be emotionally inclined to be like, oh, I have

1039
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 1: to be there for my ex, but like that's that's

1040
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: not something I think it would be good for either

1041
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 1: Alex or Op.

1042
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's it's it's just one of those things

1043
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:29,879
Speaker 3: that's just like impossible to imagine not having gone through

1044
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 3: just a god an insane scenario to.

1045
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 2: Have to have.

1046
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:36,360
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1047
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's just like op was so traumatized by

1048
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 1: what Alex did, and now instead of like Alex or

1049
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: one of his friends taking care of Op, Op now

1050
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,760
Speaker 1: had to like take care of your Like, where where's

1051
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 1: the time for OPI to take care of himself? I mean,

1052
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: I guess this is probably a form of therapy writing

1053
00:51:58,239 --> 00:51:58,799
Speaker 1: all this out.

1054
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I know Opie deserves all of the self

1055
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 3: care and pouring back into his own cup. I know,

1056
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 3: in the world, in the universe, space time continuing.

1057
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 1: I don't know how he has any stuff in his

1058
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 1: cup to go over and help Alex.

1059
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 2: He does, he's a good person, did so, I mean

1060
00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:17,919
Speaker 2: truly shout out to Op.

1061
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,359
Speaker 1: Shout out to Op this Well, not many people could

1062
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:23,880
Speaker 1: go through what you went through and come out on

1063
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:24,439
Speaker 1: the other side.

1064
00:52:24,520 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 3: Okay, truly, I think that's That's what I'm feeling, is

1065
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 3: a conclusion is like op really like stoked, did the

1066
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 3: right thing and when it was impossibly hard to do

1067
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 3: the right thing.

1068
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:38,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1069
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, And that's like the real test of someone's character,

1070
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 1: doing the right thing even when it's hearts easy to

1071
00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 1: do the right thing in sunshine and rainbows. Harder to

1072
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: do it when you're being pranked and thinking that everyone.

1073
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:55,959
Speaker 2: Is cheating on you. My goodness, grace, Wow, but what

1074
00:52:56,880 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 2: do you have a story for me? You know what

1075
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 2: we do